Signs a WOMAN KNOWS you're catching FEELINGS for her (biggest turn off men display)
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Do you have a video that gives advice for the married men? I see a lot of married guys at my church who seem to be relying on their wives to be "good submissive women" of their faith and give them authority without recognizing they need to do their part as men.
@@AmbuBadgerA woman having strong family values is a major plus, but still women have that "internal hardwiring" Casey speaks of that will run contrary to those values. Everything Casey speaks of still holds true, speaking from personal experience.
@@jaymorse1417 Oh, I get all that, but I don't see how a married man is going to tell a woman "there's the door" when she's deciding to disrespect him. Fortunately I don't have these issues, but I'm not so foolish as to believe it can't happen to me, so I've been going through his content.
I agree with you 💯 percent.but I got a question. Now my girlfriend lives with me and we’re getting married. So you think it’s wrong for me to be lovey with her ? I’m a high value man , muscular took bodybuilding competitions. , have 2 houses one of them is a mini mansion, real masculine
GOOD POINT MARRIED MEN I DON'T SEE THIS CHANNEL HAS SOME INFO FOR MARRIED OR GUYS IN LONG RELATIONSHIPS
If you show high interest (not by being clingy) and she is turned off, she failed the test, not you. Things will only get worse with marriage. I would encourage you to show high interest to see what she is truly like. If she gets turned off, dump her and move on. Trust me, there are women out there who will reciprocate.
If she shows high interest first and you reciprocate and she leaves, she also failed the test because she prompted your response. If you were only taking her seriously cuz she was willing to give you something, then that isn’t a win for her despite how she will try to frame it
These are my exact thoughts too... although I don't know if my thoughts are correct.
There is a crazy amount of toxic women (and men) in the world right now. So what seems 'normal' may (or not) be actually normal.
My question is, is every woman like this or is it just the toxic ones?
@@GOD.WINS.777 Westernized+ Feminized women = TOXIC!
They are all like this until you learn differently! Meaning that you have to assume that they are and act accordingly. The main thing that you should look out for is interest level. Her interest level must be high, much higher than yours. Only date women with very high interest levels. As soon as you find otherwise abort mission and move on to the next.
If you made a mistake, then move analyze what you did wrong and simply move on to the next one!
I think society mess up everyone is damaged basically & these lack of intimacy & care only work on damaged not wifey women. Early on I think some this should be followed but if build something she should follow not go feelings only.
What's the time frame? You must show interest initially, since it's the guys who initiate, but after she reciprocates, you have to dial it back down.
Show your interest implicitly through your actions. This means she knows you are interested if you are spending time with her, but anything more than that becomes clingy.
This is absolutely true. The times I’ve told myself “she’s different, she’s special…” are when I’ve broke frame and failed.
The hardest thing to accept is the fact that you can either love a woman or have her loving you, but you can’t have both
You can have both. It'd called a healthy relationship.
@@carlosT3000those don’t exist in 2023
@@carlosT3000keep dreaming bud
@@user-uc7qb1su4e They do, it's rare but they do
You can choose to love her. Just don't fall in love with her. That's when she'll run.
I’m 45 years old and have seen a lot of teachers come and go over the years, but this man breaks female nature down in a way that I’ve never seen before. Of course it depends on the particular woman that you’re dealing with, but everything I’ve heard this man say in his videos is true.
AWALT
Same here. One ignores Casey's advice at their own peril.
I'm 44 and trust me, i been saying he GOT IT recently. I been getting there, but he now totally got it about women.
He ,hoe_math and psychhacks are the only one whose every word is true and can be realised.
Me 44 years old and yes everything is true
RED ALERT RED ALERT ‼️ 🚨 🔔 No guy will last with any girl or woman these days unless she’s an old fashioned home loving caring cooking cleaning and bringing up the children kind of girl. FACT.
Based🙏
anywhere but western countrys (west europe/ north amerika)
If our feelings is a turn off for them,then all of you have to know that they are psychopaths or have thief mentality.Society is sick beyond limits.
No, there just women programed that way to filter out the weak minded
Less feelings than her
🤦♂️No wonder AI girlfriends are a thing.
Where? asking for a friend...@@aw-2130
Washing my hands clean of this sociopathic generation. Y’all deserve each other 😎
Exactly👊
it's always been this way
True. Female nature has always existed. But there was always a big possibility that a man would get a love interest. But in this time it has become even worse. @@dead-river
@@dead-river no it hasn't.
Civilizations birth and die in cycles. Read Strauss & Howe's 'THE FOURTH TURNiNG'.
It may have always been this way in the "decline" phase of civilization(s)... that doesn't mean it's consistently always been this way for every year of every era of human history.
She feels better about you when she believes that you really don't care that much for her..... This dynamic causes her to want to receive your seed.
Indifference is the greatest strategy
Exactly
Indifference is irresistible to woman.
@@DavesQualityAutoService Yeah... For some reason they seem to like you more when they believe you don't really care that much about them....
This is so not true.
some women are so vain she will think you are obsessed with them, even if you are interested but not desperate for her
I can explain that. You pursued too much and it turned her off. A decent person blows you off. A shitty person is looking for validation from other people and lies and twists you just pursuing her into you're "obsessed" with her.
Wow, you are actually describing exactly my 2 past relations.The thing is that this new girl I am dating knows that I can walk away in a heartbeat (I told her I did that with my last relationship), she initiates contact, is submissive and crazy after me. Thank you Casey, you really are a hero !
lol you’re gonna have to walk the walk tho. Just act the opposite of how you think you want to act (if you’re really into her). Never act in the moment, always reflect on what you’re about to do or say, especially over text. Use reverse psychology
Is she initiating s3x?
It's crazy, but it's true ,it seems ass backwards but if you closely pay attention, they are doing there shit test 24,7.
She will chsnge anyways
It’s not as cut and dry as what these dating advice RUclipsrs come across. Use their advice with a grain of salt. Use them as guidelines. My next advice is, just get a dog. They are more loyal
Let her know you love her and you’ll regret it guaranteed
😂😂😂😂 so true this happen to me a few months ago.
Haha so fucking true!
Every time i forget about it the next woman I meet and unconciously start catching feelings for her makes me regret it later. All women I dont give a fuck about somehow chase me like freaks. Life is fucked up.
I was always deemed a nice guy but in 2019 I felt like I was transforming into hank from me myself and Irene after years of being stepped on.
I actually got fed up with people where I was no longer being friendly with anyone anymore no matter who and where I worked a few months in this girl there my age Approached me privately and said she's got a huge crush on me , I asked her rudely why she's bloody coming to me with this now while I was mid working and she replied ' because I think you're an asshole'
I told her there's no chance because I've become an asshole only due to you all beings assholes and now want to be left alone.
People are fucking idiots
@@dorkbrandon4422Relatable
Why deal with all these games. It is better to be alone.
in this dying age sadly yes
He's basically educating us on the psychology of a modern female perspective
It's not modern female perspective, it's universal timeless female perspective. Modern society giving women waaaayyy too many freedoms than they can deal with has simply exposed the true core nature of woman throughout all of time
Just find the healthy ones. However, you have to be healthy too.
Its just sad but its good to be sure (after repeated failures) that women, in fact, dont feel the same about us as we feel about them.
“Women are a planet mysterious to themselves, and men float in space to explore them.”
Depends on the woman you’re dealing with, but in general it’s true.
Men love idealistically, women love opportunistically.
It’s finally good to know it’s not just YOU, and knowing is half the battle.
@reddune6185 It's crazy how many years I blamed myself and tried to find ways I wasn't perfect enough for them, when really I was too perfect. It's fucking wild I have to give less of a shit for her to stick around. Being a good person in this world sucks
She was playing those bs tests and even escalate if i called it out, so i said we should brake up, she called bluff, but apologized, and next day super sweet and feminine....it was the last day she saw me.
Should have make her begging
You did a man's work. Hard to leave sometimes but for the best.
Either you act like you can do better than her or she will believe there is better than you
Expert explanation, as always.
I just went through this. Failed so many tests.
Men, you have to be strong and fucking cold. No ground to give.
The video discusses how women can tell when a man is developing feelings for her and explains why this often turns women off. It emphasizes that when men treat a woman as though she's irreplaceable or put her on a pedestal, it can lead to the dissolution of the relationship. This is attributed to three main reasons: 1) It suggests to the woman that she is the best the man can do, which might make her feel too good for him and unsatisfied with the relationship. 2) It signals to her that the man might be emotionally weak and, therefore, unable to protect or provide stability. 3) It implies that other women aren't interested in the man, suggesting a lack of abundance and desirability.
The video outlines signs that a man is catching feelings, such as desiring intimacy more than the woman, checking in on her frequently, and being affected by days without communication. These behaviors are seen as reducing the man's perceived value and status, making him appear less attractive. The video argues that relationships are a dynamic between power and value and that men should strive to maintain leverage and not show overt interest to avoid losing a woman's attraction. It concludes by stressing the importance of being able to walk away from the relationship, as a man's ability to leave is linked to a woman's respect and attraction for him. The overarching message is that men should focus on their own lives and maintain a sense of independence and strength to be more attractive and effective in relationships.
Beautifully summarized!
Brilliant and useful summary
This reads like a chatGPT response
Is this AI generated summary? Pretty good!
It is indeed gpt 4. Thought I'd save you guys half an hour
Show affection they love it, don’t be a rock! always allow other women around you, they love competition, we don’t.. some women simply want to get you to fall in love just to then reject you and move on to the next man, some women don’t seek ltr.. enjoy the experience, there’s plenty of women out there, being able to read her body language is essential, women communicate covertly.
Body language is the biggest joke I have ever heard. You guys would literally disregard someone’s entire message just to nitpick their body language. That’s how pathetic most people in this generation are. They make incorrect assumptions based off stuff that doesn’t matter or mean anything
@marcusmcgraw3519 women constantly say one thing and do another. Or they are often too polite or insecure to say what they really feel. Body language is a massive tool to interpret streams of communications with people, especially women. It's foolish to outright disregard it. You might end up in trouble.
Best of luck.
I wish I paid more attention to body language when I was younger instead of believing what she says and ignoring the body language that was giving the opposite message. It would have saved me a lot of trouble
@@vegasknights4103 body language is not the tool to use in these situations. Just don’t take her serious from the start. You’ll never have to worry about body language or what it means, cuz it’s pretty meaningless on its own
@@markrobertson2052 body language helps with almost nothing. Listen to the message and see how it relates to the facts at hand. Nobody in this generation knows how to think for themselves. Everyone just gets fooled by stuff that means very little in itself
I hate how right this is. And I hate how I know this is true by learning it the hard way.
Signs that a man knows a woman is catching feelings for him:
- double texts
- good morning texts
- special forms of attention that show how much you’re on her mind
- tolerating a lesser view of herself in your eyes
If she's interested in you,she might have a hidden agenda.
@@RedEyeification eh, your point isn’t incorrect in itself, but we need to make sure that we call this what it is. I don’t like when men pretend women’s interest isn’t interest. Women would only try that if men let them get away with it. Unfortunately, most men put themselves into a world controlled by female validation and attempt to do just that to try to get into her pants anyways
@@RedEyeification💯
I think all women have a hidden agenda, unfortunately. @@RedEyeification
And then they ghost you
All this stuff is bullshit guys. When you are a real alpha male you don’t have to play any silly games she will like you as you are.
Exactly.
Screw all the tests and manipulation. Who gives a fat rats ass whether she thinks she's better than you. She can grow up and behave well, or phuk off !!
Normalised loveless world 💔🌎
Wrong. Maintaining your male frame is like being professional at work. Learn to be unflappable and strive to be content. Eliminate the distractions, drama, and keep moving forward. Keep your eyes on the prize. It's just business.
Facts but I say stay single and enjoy life. The only reward you get from a woman is sex. If you can live without sex YOU GOT IT MADE.
Which is why if they are christian girls they have more to offer than the avg but then be prudes thus making you feel bad for not getting it or feel like they would just be eventually for another dude so you might as well just be alone or smashing the usuals
If sex is all there is for you, do us a favor and stay single. Just don't show up in your forties looking for a nurse and a purse.
@@briskettacosok
U don't only get sex from a girl lol a girl can cook,clean,buy or even get u a job lol ur mind is too sexualized
They say "love you" to see if you'll confess. They don't mean it. They just want to find out and try to take advantage of you.
Exactly..if you fall for it, they will have you on hook and huge upper hand...
That's called love bombing, something narcissist/covert narcissist do.
I don't agree when a woman says I love you, she pays rent through emotional manipulation
So how should you respond if she says I love you?
I said, "Love u" to a girl that dated just a month. She was shocked and asked me if I was meant after I drove back home.
Then I said no, I don't mean it after that she changed totally and she said at she felt insecure and can't trust me. We just ended the date after I said those words. Tbh, i liked her so much and can't forget her 😢
14:54 yes guys, it doesn't seem logical to you, but this is exactly why women date men with a lot of women, be with and dont leave men with a lot of women or cheaters. again, it is not logical but women are not made logical, so get over it, LIVE A LIFE OF ABUNDANCE AND NEVER, I DO MEAN NEVER FALL IN LOVE WITH A WOMAN. Love her, NEVER FALL IN LOVE, always keep YOURSELF ABOVE HER. This is the only thing they understand, that is what they attracted to, that is what THEY CHASE.
Straight up phycosis. What a depressing society we are in. 😢
What's depressing is how fucking weak men have gotten. Are you listening to yourself? Sad emojis and all. No wonder women are acting the way that they are. Jesus bro, I say this because I actually care and want to see you succeed and happy, bro grow a pair and annihilate the world.
First, everything he describes in the first minute or so is the harsh truth. Don’t ever for one moment think that you’re dealing with some unique snowflake that’s not like the rest. She has the potential to turn on you on a dime, and any love or relationship equity you may have had won’t mean a thing, and that will be proven in how cold and distant she can turn towards you. It will feel like you’re dealing with a completely different person.
Secondly, isn’t it odd how female nature processes things. As a logical man you would think that you becoming emotionally invested in her was her plan all along, so that you would become her provider and protector! That you would forsake all others to be her security for survival. It’s still so difficult to compute that in her hind brain that emotional attachment signals a liability for her. It doesn’t make sense. You would think it would be the other way around. But there’s too much information out there that leads us to believe we need to do the complete opposite of what our instincts are telling us.
It all makes more sense when we consider that they are instinct creatures. Their brains never evolved beyond the stone age where instinct was key to survival for women. In those tribal patriarchal times the most ruthless unemotional men were the best survivors hence they lusted after these men. It seems their brains has still not had time to adapt to rapid advancement of womens rights and current gynocentric western values in the last 100 years.
You’re correct! That’s exactly the programming that’s going on in the background for them. Unfortunately, without women having the knowledge that’s what’s going on (or more so, the acceptance to admit that’s what’s going on!) and developing practical ways to circumvent these hindrances, we’re all always going to be running into the usual problems. But I don’t see it changing in our lifetimes. We as enlightened men are the ones with this knowledge and we can only do so much to work around it.
In other Words, Women are built to be narcistic heart eaters
14:12
"The only way that a woman will consistently respect you is if she knows that you will leave---that's it."
THIS is why marriage usually cannot work. Marriage, under this current wicked government, stops a man from being able to leave without being financially wrecked and losing his children.
You dont know how right you are man. 100% Truth. This is why governments use gynocentric laws to disempower men. This is why chaotic feminine energy rules the western world
Exactly why if you get married you are a loser
You have to do 2 things to counter this. First #1 is always sign a prenup and/or make sure she is equally invested financially. And #2 you have to be a man and be willing to have to walk away entirely from children if you are not given 50/50 custody until they come back to you even if you have to wait until they are 18. If you were a good father they will always come back to you eventually. Meanwhile, you are a man which means you have the ability to create more children with a better mother if you want to well into your old age and that is your God given advantage over women so embrace it and use it. Sounds harsh but such is life and the only cards you have to play under this system. Any grown man that emotionally needs a child is a simp and highly vulnerable to blackmail and other evil schemes of this world. If you can't handle that possible scenario then just don't have children. The strength to walk away is a universal masculine concept. It applies to women, children, clients in your business, job, etc. The only thing that stays rock solid for a truly masculine man is his faith in God and himself. Be like Job.
100% true!. That's how a gynocentric society operates
I walked away from a relationship, she tried to get revenge by getting married but then again she still calls and texts me non stop, I had to blacklist her number. Her husband doesn't know any better. Women will always punish men who go weak for them.
Tell her husband
@@carlosT3000 Was going to say that also. The new husband is a tool, in more then one way...
Tell her husband. Don't let her destroy another man's life.
She married another man just to make you jealous? The lengths these modern women go through!
You lucked out brother, she's a physco.
I agree with everything you say. For example, there’s a woman that I really like and she’s hot and cold with me, she’s not sold on me so I stopped talking to her for months. I called her up and we went out to eat after about six months and she became very attached and seemed extra interested. The moment I showed interest back, even more than she did she pulled away again so I’m back at square one. It’s a psychological game, it sucks but it’s true…
Well she showed interest so she’s at fault for forcing you to reciprocate. Sounds like she’s the problem. Why do you guys fail to hold women accountable for their own behavior?
@@marcusmcgraw3519 relax lady killer she’s a woman it’s easier to solve a rubix cube with your eyes closed.
women don't force you to do anything. Everything is on your terms
Leave she’s chasing newness at beginning makes sense but too long what’s so special she kind, smart, wifey I know she pretty ask what you want if she can provide it.
Just act like life is more interesting than she could ever be (trust me it is you just don't know that yet) pursue that think of her in phases that's it and if you get to smash p.n.c. kicks in. Always act like you have something better to do
I am 20, never been in a relationship ,but knowing these things makes me feel like I know all the cheat codes
These really are the cheat codes. I’m 25 and wish I knew this shit when I was 15.
@@wakefield747 yup man , looks like you been through some shit 😄😄😅, god has other plan for me
19 here i feel the same 😂
I’m 45 and RUclips wasn’t even around when I was your age. I and thousands of other men went through a lot of pain deciphering these females. Consider yourself blessed.
@@djeanpierre yup absolutely
Intimacy, “into me see.” It’s you seeing her for who she is and her seeing you for who you are.
That's something a woman would say don't say that again dude
spot on brother, when you let your guard down and try to be "supportive" and "positive" for them, they start sliding away and next thing you know they are getting tapped by chad.
Welcome to the sexual revolution
I was with the same woman for 3 years, during the last 6-8 months I became a lot more caring and she slowly started acting like she owned me more and more, ending in an absolutely disastrous break up when I slowly reverted back to my old 'wolf dog' self after spending some time as a Golden Retriever lol. And it was actually thanks to Casey Zanders videos that i FINALLY took the courage to break free and put my foot down.
I was with a girl for 4 years , and we were engaged , i was so strong top of her but last 6 months i showed her love and kept buying her gifts and giving her money and loving her as queen , guess what happed ?) she breakup with me overnight and replaced me
I went through a big depression i just couldn’t beleive how fast they change once they see you having strong feelings for them
@@حكايةابي yeah I can totally relate bro, I broke things up with mine first because I kinda knew she was going to leave anyways so at least I saved my own pride and dignity. It's called finding your masculinity again
Respect
You are completly right, im doim this too in a ten eyer relationship, in this time im become a coward, needy for her, but im changing this.
She is testing you from day 1
Trying to find 1 thing to disqualify you
7:00 again, like you said, women only see things from their perspective / lens. She is kissing you because she is seeking validation. She is not going to think that you are kissing her because you want to kiss her. See views it as a sign of weakness. And stop thinking, saying, etc that women are backwards etc. They are simply opposite of men, and never forget that opposites attract. They did not make themselves that way nor did men make themselves the way they are, it is just NATURE.
Men are largely rational creatures, women mostly instinctual. They have always needed men to survive through most of history except in the last 70 years or so. They still havent adapted to this new comfortable reality that gynocentric West has provided them.
It is a very dangerous game! You are right, but also consider this: - THINK CHAD!!! Chad kisses. Chad loves kissing - but he doesn't care. Do you see? Chad doesn't give a damn either way, because Chad gets what he wants - when he wants, as he can walk away!!! - REMEMBER THIS!
Man I scored a solid solid 10 and ten years younger (I’m 41) and far out it’s hard not to display the high interest… so hard. But I can see every time I show any lovey shit, she reals lol. I’ve got to stay strong, pray for me bros 😅
You’re gonna fumble at some point. 😂
Yeah he’s gonna fumble.. lol.
You can show love just don’t act to happy when your doing
It😂
At least you're smart enough to go learning. When I was younger I should've focused a bit more on learning these things and I wouldn't have blew it with some 10s in the past. I met a 10 that was exactly my type and felt that she knew I was also her type. But my inexperience and wisdom was lacking so it didn't work out.
@@Righteous1ist not really your fault hard too get your experience when
Coach want let you in the game.
More fine work, Casey. Smart and open-minded men will listen, many men, unfortunately for them, won't. These views run counter to the nonstop programming men are bombarded with since birth. It often takes time for these lessons to sink it - it definitely took time for me.
Spitting truth bombs 💣
I am guilty of this and lost my family with 3x kids, veing nice gets you know where lads, nice guys finish last
This video came at the perfect time. I have been dating a girl for nearly 2 months and have been very bold and open in my pursuit. She is shy but has always reciprocated my interest and encouraged my pursuit. However, in the relationship it is clear that I am the one pursuing and the one that is more into her. I didn't mind this dynamic because I appear very high-value to everyone around me and I wanted to make her comfortable around me since she is shy. She is now comfortable around me but I can feel her being slow with replies and not chasing me like other girls usually do.
I'd love to hear some of your guys opinions on this. Should I pull back a bit (to get her to pursue me for once) or continue pursuing openly (since she always reciprocates when I message, ask her out, etc).
Find a balance. Be present in the moment and give her your full attention when you are together but be cold and distant when you are not together.
@@ashinthewind2759 yeah I should probably pull back on the texting, thank you
Create some drama, pull back and make her be without your attention for a while.
Pull back, make her work, even if it means losing her, improve your self esteem, you don’t want a long term relationship with someone you doubt is as invested as you are. Women infact are best suited to initiate all forms of intimacy. Romance and sex is the realm of the feminine. Your job as a guy is to just be awesome and create opportunity for fun and intimacy. Can this shy girl really serve you appropriately if she’s not even trying right off the bat? Shy girls should be freaky, pull back, let that shyness flourish, only tease her, no more initiating.
By not chasing you and you tolerating it you are essentially lowering your status. Remember even if you are high value that doesn’t matter because you fail her interest test so she no longer FEELS as secure in your masculinity and the more you fail and she notices your emotions and subtle desperation then you ruin it for yourself. Women do this subconsciously as well. They have to know they can be secure in your masculinity. In particular they need to FEEL secure in your masculinity. You’re failing so you’re investing more. But that’s the male logic brain, we are honourable creatures. A survivalist creature needs to test you first before FEELING safe in your frame. Women are as such.
shits just sad man
This made me think that 40 years ago dating wasn’t like this, this is an example of culture collapsing and is not getting any better. We are doomed as a human race.
What, in movies?
Those are actors, not real relationships.
Observe or ask real people
it's always been like this for thousand years
Bro thinks dating is like in the movies lol
Often enough its been told on this channel that a woman wouldn't trust a man's masculinity if he falls in love with her. In such a case the man wouldn't be able to protect the woman. This statement makes only halfway sense to me. If a man doesn't fall in love, the woman is a nobody to him, so why would he even consider to protect her. The man needs this feeling of possession and infatuation to sacrifice anything for her and without any love the woman had indeed reason to feel unsafe. I would assume there has to be a middle ground. The woman should expect the man falling in love but not that much that he is not able to think clearly.
The moment a man shows interest to a modern day woman, she thinks she has him in the pocket and so will go for unconquered territory.
It's become second nature to them, it's therefore preferred to keep the woman in an uncertain state. Take care of her, reward her and all, but don't ever let her know she's the only one.
Forgettaboutit it's her problem now.
As always... terrifyingly accurate.
I will say from this video this is pretty spot on in my experience of dating for last 10 years (29 yo now). The strongest relationships were when I was dating a girl where I wasn't afraid if it went south and actually was kinda distant most of the time. The dates where I have gone on with absolute babes always fizzled out or ghosted me after the first few dates because they could obviously tell I was too emotionally invested in her beauty. It's crazy hard to raise the standards and keep a strong frame but realizing this is very helpful. Thanks casey.
Thanks!
Bro I Dont understand why the life is like this,I’m 26 y.o and all my relationships was like;the girls coming to me they try to flirt and talk with me,the shows emotions,they care about me,even they cryied and said they like me so much and not wanna lose me,BRO EVERY FUCKİNG TİME,WHEN I START TO THİNK LİKE,OKAY THİS GİRL İS NİCE TO ME MAKE FEEL GOOD SHE TRUST ME,BEGGİNG ME TO SPEND TİME TOGETHER SO I’m THİNKİNG OKAY SHE İS THE RİGHT ONE FOR ME…NO İT’S NOT SUDDENLY THEY LOSİNG İNTEREST,THEY STARTİNG TO KİSS ME DİFFERENT WAY TALK ME DİFFERENT,AND THEY ACT LİKE I’M CHASİNG THEM AND CANT DO WİTHOUT THEM? I DON’t REALLY KNOW WHAT TO DO HOW TO ACT WHEN YOU REALLY LİKE SOMEBODY,SHALL I JUST HİDE ME FEELİNGS OR ACT LİKE DON’T CARE THAT MUCH ? BRO I CAN’t HOLD MY FEELİNGS PERMANENTLY
Long story short, I actually started hanging out with this girl almost everyday ,
She ended up saying she loves me as a friend 😢
I said ok
The next day was her birthday, and I was supposed to give her a ride to pick up a cake .
On the way home, I was like wtf is wrong with me.
I texted her . I feel like you want to play games with me, I really don't want to waste my time. I'm looking for a girl that really likes me, I won't be available for you tomorrow.
Good bye
That was great do something else anything to improve or have fun post it. Go ghost some life to short to be just friends with some one uses & manipulates your love. I was too blind pushed fast she reject me hard friends stuff even though they know you like them. Two things will happen she forgets you & find someone or if you we’re big in her life she miss you don’t crack. Let her initiate in person or text if it’s “Hey”… same low effort stuff. A few days gone but if you gone long. But take time reflect year what you did & if she even deserves it men put effort is she worth it really think about it.
And what she says?
"Just when you think you got 'em, you're dead, because you didn't."
(Masaaki Hatsumi)
You know the is probably a lot of truth to why my most recent relationship ended but it’s crazy because the two previous girls where definitely better looking and I walked away from these girls because they crossed red lines and I was the one who messed things up because I was in love with who she was and yes she left me and I wished her the best but i find it funny she might have thought it was because she was the prettiest I’ve met 😂😂😂 but I still miss her but I’m not going to chase her because I will find a new girl that I vibe with and find attractive but best believe I won’t make the same mistakes but rn I’m done with dating for at least 6 months before I go out there again.
There is a difference between having feelings (being vulnerable) and being desperate (being weak)
At least someone in the comment section that gets it. Too many guys in the comments have zero nuance and think that you can’t let a chick know that you love her. There is no problem with letting her know (if she has earned that privilege). That’s the first hurdle most men today fail at. They give their love and affection freely to any cheap floozy that hasn’t earned the privilege of being love and protected.
The problem is also that too many dudes confuse letting a chick know that they love her with acting like a weak ass simp that is desperate for the girls approval. THAT’S what turns girls off!
There is nothing wrong with loving your girl but you still HAVE to behave like the leader. A captain can care deeply for his crew, that doesn’t mean he is going to let insubordination fly or allow mutiny to gain a foot hold amongst his ranks.
Anyone that doesn’t want to follow the captains orders can get off the damn ship, it’s that simple. THAT’S how a man is supposed to treat women in general!
As far as I can tell Casey’s a RUclips thinker he’s not a philosopher thing so I wouldn’t expect him to be good at these kinds of nuances. Obviously expressing feelings and vulnerability is fine and works great, depends on the type of women you’re dealing with.
4:00 just tonight a girl (one been blowing up my phone) bring it that she wants to be with me. so i brought the whole men without options thing, wont get in to why that came up. She goes, she is not like that, she doesnt want a man that other women want. In my head I am laughing crazy, when obviously she got to this point because she went through my socials, she not seeing girls but she seeing me out, dinners etc and she told me she assumes i am with a girl... LOL. I told her about an encounter just YESTERDAY between me, my assistant & accountant (both females)... she pulled back a bit but went forward harder, now today brings being together, LOL!! Plus day after boxing day I "disappeared" and she kept asking who i went out with on boxing day, if it was a girl why i disappeared the day after, LOL!!
9:30 - 9:50 Is a mind blowing thing to ponder on. Wow. Spot on
She already knows I have feelings for her,that’s how I got her but I know shit could change any moment
She must feel you have some level of feelings for her but the moment she suspects you are unable to leave her she will start the mind games, b.s. and wickedness. This is why its important to be able to go AWOL every now and then.
@@rhuiden4086 we kinda already went through that.She acted up ,I left her alone,she came back more aggreeable.
what do you mean by AWOL? @@rhuiden4086
9:55 girl i talking about, she been saying i should call her more, that i have never called her. I dont and she still calls!! They do that because they dont want to seem like they putting in more effort, which she is, she is the one interested, but they will always try to switch the dynamic but by female nature that is not what they want. Once they interest is very high, they will continue to contact you and that you do not fall to what they say. She keeps saying I am this or that, yet here she comes proposing being together. How she did it, she started out couple weeks ago that we should work together, now today she comes with we should WORK TOGETHER, so I am like, aint that we doing, but what she really meant PASSIVELY is, WORK TOGETHER AS IN BEING TOGETHER IN A RELATIONSHIP and work together at the same time.
I actually use these techniques in Reverse when I want to get rid of a woman no false accusations no drama they think you're a loser
Outstanding video! I’m 69. Learned these lessons the hard way. Ha! Ha! Now I’m a better person for it. ‼️
Men can do what we want, but we're not allowed to want what we want.
We can love many things but females aren't it they will never love of anything but we provide (a need for attention/validation and or money
You aren't a man. Your mind works differently.
Men can want what they want but key thing is to never reveal feelings for those things or get obsessed with keeping those things
Whoever needs the other person less is in Power
Can you do a Video on what to do when you fucked it up (showing more interest, intimacy etc.) To re attract
I'll pass, it's too complicated .
Hey man, I'm old enough to be your father and I know a lot of the stuff you speak of, but I do pick up a lot of good pointers. You have a lot of good insight, especially for a young man, and men would be smart to listen to you.
Bro, you are absolutely correct on every single point you make. You are precise and concise and have a deep understanding of the principles you espouse. You are the guy. Better than Kevin Samuels. Better than any other guy right now. You are the guy. This feels like redpill 2014. You have the source code. Your source material is the one. Respect human. ✊
From my personal experience, this is spot on. Told her how i felt about her & the relationship, regretted it right after.
This is all true, but it really stinks. That's why I bought 3 AI highly tech walking talking sex dolls in my house. I don't need woman for anything, not even sex. It means I don't have to play, or bother with shit test, or reinsurance shit test, or bullshìt hypergamy. I let them go easily. I'm not here to play their game, I play my game. There will always be a better quality young woman...
3AI HIGHLY TECH SEX DOLLS?
This is all very bad advice. I can’t even begin to describe or where to start with this. This will make guys who already have a hard time finding women, even harder. All this calculating will just turn everyone off and becomes math rather than life through experience. Low value high value, I’m very sorry for people who listen to this stuff, but there’s money to be made saying it all
What I find the most fucked up is how you can't ever be yourself when you're in the dating market. You gotta put on a mask and play some exhausting mind games in order to keep the interest going. Well, there's some guys who has such an explosive personality who can maybe get away with it. Maybe it's the majority of guys who find this whole situation exciting, kinda like a hunt game, but it's not for me.
But women nowadays have too many options no matter what you do. But, yeah, I understand the things you're saying
I feel you on this. Nothing works consistently with these women, especially in America. It’s best to get a passport and try elsewhere. Female nature is still the same, but dating in the USA a nightmare.
@@djeanpierre Good statement...nothing works consistently with these women
@@djeanpierre
Behave and act maculine instead of feminine who alone is sign that their ability to think its cleary damaged '
Goes for any straight womans not lespians '
Same goes for all womans who believes men care about their resources ability's when reality is that since the beginning of time no men gives a shit about womans resources ability's.
@@djeanpierrei did that and it was the best decision I ever made.
This is all true and makes relationships hard. I wish 2 people could just love each other with no battle over "value." But it all boils down to survivability for the woman and are you happy with yourself if she pulls away.
Exactly. This dynamic is ingrained into human nature. We spent thousands of years of civilization training ourselves out of these patterns, and it all falls apart in 60-odd years.
The sexual revolution and its consequences have been a disaster for the human race.
Prioritizing self above all things naturally enhances your understanding of game. Independence is the most important trait of a masculine man.
15:30 congrats Casey, yet another video you have not said anything about building muscle in the gym. YOU HAVE GOTTEN IT. INTERNAL STRENGTH is what matters to women, and like I have said, outer strength is not as important in this AGE OF AQUARIUS. We are no longer Flintstones, women do not NEED a man's muscles to do anything, now they need his mind, inner strength to lead her in this new age, because she is mentally & emotionally weak. Yes, build you body if you want to, and yes, it does help to attract her, but she will not be with you if you do not have inner strength to back that up, plus she gonna think you insecure for building muscle is you not a competitive body builder or need muscles to do your job. Machines are replacing muscles, your mind & inner strength is what will be needed for family survival much more than muscles. Women have adapted, men, do not get left behind.
You're braindead. Most modern people are still slaves to feel good chemicals and addicted to things like social media because of how our brain works. Our brains have not changed. There will never be a day where a smart man is valued over a strong man. We are animals
Excersize for your health, inner strength does not work for it!
Like what do u want, a woman knows you’re catching feelings for her, good if she likes u she will catch feelings too, if she doesn’t like you, she’s not for you. Choosing to be ignorant of this fact isn’t gonna help you. Stop going for the most attractive women that first r insecure and secondly u don’t have a real connection with. Go for women that u r attracted to but actually like u for who u r. That u don’t have to play games to keep them. You will never have a long term relationship with these people because it’s not a real connection. It’s u acting in a way that she likes in order to attract her. If this is you, you are not ready for a relationship. Figure out who you are and stay true to who you are. Game is acting, it’s not authentic, it’s performing, it’s trying to impress its not showing her who u really are. Someone will like you for who you are. If you are still reading this, go to therapy. Your welcome
If only I discovered u in my 20’s bro.. love all great work you’re doing 🤙🏼
14:05 yup, though it was business related, when i said no it is against my morals and she asked if i am team xyz... i should do whatever anyway, i said NO. That said to her, this guy is willing to walk away ON HIS MORALS, ON WHAT HE STANDS FOR. I dont know if it was a test, I really did not care, what she wanted to do I wasn't with it. Now she is like yeah, what I am seeing about him is the real deal, this guy has INNER STRENGTH, yea THIS IS THE GUY I WANT.
Who’d want to be with someone you can’t be yourself with lol
Playing hard to get doesn't do shit. I test the situation early to see if she's keen. Let her play her silly tests. Older women are way better. No games. If so then, NEXT.
More importantly, if she thinks 'I'm the best he can do' then why would that be an issue? Why wouldn't you want to prioritize around her. On the flipside if she sees you're too casual with interest and/or are playing the field then she'd probably conclude that you're a player..
Can't do this, don't do that....just stay single - get a labrador.
You deserve a nobel prize and dubai citizenship
Make yourself available vulnerable to her and it's over .
Dang bro your videos are always perfect timing in my life I’m noticing . Bless ya bro 🙏
Another masterclass in female nature. You are HIM. You are THAT guy.
Is indeed spot on based on personal experience. Feels so crazy to hear this and replay moments with my ex wife and watch it unfold. Then the feeling of being so stupid sinks in
We've all been there, don't be too harsh on yourself
Wats all this toxic shiz? A real woman dnt play games n respects a genuine connection. Ur talking about girls not women
A question that arises for me is this: what is the point of ANY relationship if you NEED to despise it in order to maintain it?
Because to act with such detachment, you really and legitimately need to nurture the worst indifference towards the person you are with, or else you'll just be inflicting gigantic self-imposed torture.
But if that's the case, why be with anyone in the first place?
If the mechanism for maintaining female interest is unavoidably as described in the video, frankly I can only think of it as a really fucked evolutionary mechanism responsible for eliminating our generation so that a more functional model of society can take our place, where marriages happen in adolescence due to family arrangements and people have a lot of children; where relationships do not follow market rules and cannot be described with the vocabulary of a game. Kind of what the whole of humanity was like before about 50 years ago. That's it!
Our culture is doomed.
I know a woman that loves a man like it is a ONEITIS. But from a woman, for a man. Is this a particular type of woman, or a low % of woman that can do this? How do you confirm 100%?
Fuck modern society 😊 I'm going back to 300 bc
Man this is so complicated I’m out of here who the hell shall get this correct
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If I don’t touch my wife, she won’t touch me. She responds positively to my intimacy initiatives -holding hands, kissing, hugs, etc; but she hardly ever initiates it. 🤔
This has been going on for over 15 years…
Oh, crap…
I see is not enough empathis on how these points are connected. Especially point 1 and 2 are joint together.
So if you just take 2:35 point on its own, it is BS. Women do not think that if you feel something for them, then you are weak. BUT based on point 1, it can lead to that. Also... thinking "she is the best you can do" is not the same as she feels that "she is the best for you" (this is not to the video man, but younger commenters). Lastly, if she gets the impression she is the best you can get, then it must mean you chose her for your lack of skills/value/ambition and it sends a message that she is less worthy but also that you yourself are not as a good of a deal as it seemed.
You're the best I have ever seen so far on You Tube. Brilliant life learning lesson.
5:45 better way is to tell her to come to you and kiss you. Do not be the one going/leaning towards her to kiss her either, she must most times if not all the time, preferably all the time be the one leaning towards you. Here is a secret about social status... the one leaning towards the other in a photo or social setting is the one most likely the lesser/lower value. Women look at these things both in social settings and in photos, so dont be the one leaning towards a friend taking a photo, and surely NOT a female, if she is a friend or anything, make sure she is leaning towards you in the photo posing or whatever.
This so so true…. I’ve been the guy doing the things you speak of, and it made me less attractive in the long run to the women I have dated.
I really wanna see how u act around women with all that wisdom
I believe this guy’s game is to flaunt himself and hope that nobody questions him or pushes back. He has some valid points but I don’t think he’s the player a lot of people in here try to make him into
@@marcusmcgraw3519 then look up his course theres tons of proof that hes a player at the same time he says tho to not sleep around
Ppl love to hate just say y'all jealous lol
🤦🏽 CZ spittin facts!!! I have been guilty of this
Same dawg smh 🤦🏾♂️
don't block dude, if you block her she'll know that she moved you, you're acting emotional, what u gotta do is leaving her on read and then delete the chat and FORGET about her @@yefrincalderon7744
@@yefrincalderon7744 broooo that was my part too not letting it be known how stuff was Gonna be ..”falling for her beauty”smh
@@yefrincalderon7744body language means very little in itself. It cannot be used as a sole determining factor in making evaluations. Let’s not make assumptions without facts. That girl was just trying to flaunt her “worth”
@@marcusmcgraw3519 that’s not what I meant, what I meant is that I would kiss her first or look her deeply in her eyes blah blah, we only hung out for a month.
She would always tell me she wanted to get laid but I never did bc like Casey said that’s the ultimate way of validation but I did other stuff with her.
I think this might be a good reason why Christ needs to be the center of the relationship. If a woman truly puts Jesus first, she will know her value in Him, instead of associating her value with the man she is with. God also changes who we are gradually. I cant imagine trying to have a proper relationship long term without God. It transformed my marriage. Still need to hold my frame, but we both put God first instead of each other. I would love to know your thoughts
Exactly. It's a miracle any relationship survives without Christ at the centre. Must be some kind of common grace that God gives to some.
Can you do a video explaining a situation of a man threatening to leave because he isn't getting the sex and intimacy he knows he deserves
After she refuses, just say something like this isn’t going to work. And be firm, not arguementative. let her question it, It’s about being in the frame that you can and will leave if she doesn’t fit what you want it a woman.
Forgot to mention you also have to be unemotional when you say this or it does the opposite, she will leave.
You have to say something like 'this isnt working for me" as a subtle warning and make this about your needs (remember you have to be selfish as women actually find this attractive and view it as masculine). Never threaten them verbally as this is feminine tactic and it will instantly trigger her to initiate an argument with you. If she doesnt respect your needs and your warning you will have to follow through and go AWOL until she submits.
How can you determine if you are over-investing or under-investing?
I mean there are contradictive things that if you dont do, shes out
And there are things that if you do, shes out
I mean their usually eliminate de overpursuers and chase the underpursuers but eventually thei exit cu they dont feel 'loved' so.. what the middle ground? Nice vid
Be present in the moment when you are together and give her your full attention. When you are not together be distant and cold. Like 2 totally different people.
@@ashinthewind2759 actually that is gold, is a good rules of thumb
Man, that’s brilliant. It just instantly feels right.
To sum it up, give women cat energy. Not dog energy.
Well done video. I think the real root of the issue is men just don’t have a lot of options at all. So all this turn off behavior will naturally happen. Basically this video is training yourself how to not let bad behavior happen even if she really is your only option.
The problem is that from an early age, we've been taught by the movies and tv shows, that when i guy does a cut little trick to reveal his love for a girl, that works.
You see this when you've been red pilled, and re watch all the shows from your childhood and then, you realize the blue-pill level is off the roof :D
Gotta be able to walk away. Absolutely!