Modern WOMEN AREN'T the issue - MALE PASSIVENESS IS (MASCULINE TRAITS your FATHER didn't teach you)
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I really want to agree with Casey on this one but the thing is I’m not just going to give my attention and time away so easily a woman will have to earn it from me. I lose interest fast and disqualify women easily. Woman have been trained to just expect this shit and not work for it. I don’t have time for low interest women, women that don’t do want I want, women that disobey me, or women that fail my tests.
Uncle C, I appreciate this content but I have an honest question. I agree that male passiveness is a significant issue, how is one to navigate this is a post “me too” society in which women seem to “get off” on rejecting men under the guise of sexual harassment.
Yup, just as I thought. You're selling a grift.
How about you reached out but they did not respond? There is no point to give attention to people who dont care. Isnt that being man as well?
@@leealex24 no shit
Dark Casey is back - when there is no whiteboard you know shit‘s about to get real.
For real haha
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When he says “any way, shape, or form” you know some shits going down
Audible lol
Bro took the 😈 for real
Casey greetings my man. Today I was in the store on two different occasions and and encountered two women that I simply said hello and asked how the day was going and 15 minutes later as I walked away from the two of them I had their number as well as them validating and confirming if I'm going to call. But this video is confirmation that what you're saying is dead on! In both encounters they spoke 80% of the conversation because of their desire to talk to someone. I am 50 years old and you have a way better understanding of these women than I do and I salute you young man.
Praise Be to God
I never had a father. The older I get the more I realize how profound that loss actually was.
Thank you. I can't even really put into words with this video meant to me, but thank you.
Also on the other hand, no Father is better than a bad father
Same bro same…..
Same here bro, but here's the kicker:
You don't actually NEED one. Stay focused on being a real man and believe in yourself. And be true to what feels right.
Definitely don't focus on what you don't have.
@@DirtyJamesUK
I partially agree with you. My entire life I was basically unaware of the impact that not having a father had on me. As a matter of fact I never even really thought about it until I was in my 20s. To this day I have no urge to have a father figure whatsoever, I just understand what the ramifications of that roles absence were
But as I got older and actually became a man I realized how profound the loss of having a male role model to shape your perception of what it means to be a man in this world. Especially when I didn't even have any male role models whatsoever. No coaches, Uncles, nothing.
I agree with you I shouldn't focus on what I know I don't have. But I need to ascertain what elements of manhood I was never made aware of in order to integrate those into who I am.
@@StrengthScholar0 you sound so much like me it's crazy. But in many ways I've always been more of a man than most men that I've known. I just didn't listen to myself quite enough to become the best man I could have become. But there's still time...
You’re exactly right. Here’s another way of looking at it. My ten year relationship to a bossy, pushy overweight single mother just ended because I decided to quit being passive and start being masculine and assertive. Women like her that can’t otherwise get a man want a man that’s a pushover they can browbeat and control. Thank god I finally made the switch. My community and my church would have had me stay with that miserable obese woman until I died from misery. Fellas it isn’t always easy to get out but it’s a relief when you can.
Same here, brother. Crazy how similar actually. Loved seeing this, AND GOOD FOR YOU.
Same here man. Welcome to the rest of your (happy) life.
Same, 13 yrs w a obese single mom. I was 25 she was 27. Ended 2.5 yrs agom when i was 37 and she was 40. Their kid grew up age 20 and now they want to make up for lost time bc she got pregnant at age 20 by a guy she said she didnt really like. She used him to try and get over a guy she really liked and wanted but he had a woman already. Hed visit her and sleep with her then go back to his life w his gf. He ended up moving away and her ex wanted to date her. She said he was annoying and she just said yes so he'll stop and to get over that other guy.
She slept with him raw and hed just pull out. Then was drunk and i guess wasnt fasr enough. She got pregnant he left and she stayed single 8 yrs then met me.
Reading ur comment help me understand how lucky i got. Was super down and out but thank god i never married her or had babies w her. Now i FINALLY feel lucky. Was hard to feel lucky
Just left my bm bossy assm..she wants a pushover and I'm not it
@@CiluhStyle1 they all want a pushover until they get one . Pushovers are emotionally SAFE. she can control him and his money. Chicks live and date in survival mode. Anything to secure herself and herself only. They don't feel bad about draining you and ur money and disappearing. It your fault u let her right ? 🙄 If u say no, ur controlling, if u say yes ur a doormat. This is the situation u put urself in when u get with chicks who don't really like u
Dude's got skills. Should've been a salesman . . . Oh wait
I was about to pass on the gym today. I'm so f*cking motivated now. I will go and I will CRUSH IT.
Update: Crushed it :)
Gym should be part of your life
45 minutes to 1 hour
Is a must 3 4 times a week
Yes, men are passive. Your message in general is very true, but.........Men are passive today because everything, including laws, is in favor of women, man can get blasted by a woman even if he looks at her and she could interpret this into awkward stalker situation and literally destroy that mans life. For example at the workout at gym there's a guy who glances at her for 1 second, it would be enough to blast them, that's what guys are scared of and these guys are not even doing anything wrong. Sometimes they're not even looking at their direction making it a social component now where people are terrified to get exposed on social media. The social stigma is so incredibly harsh it leaves no room for self expression for men. In the current social climate most men have been absolutely bullied out of having any sort of preference, standard or boundary. Men constantly get shamed for articulating or even having anything that can be viewed as "controlling" or "insecure". This is the destruction of men's impulse to be protectors in the relationship and protecting relationships from attack essentially. Men are disposable, women are not. Men just don't want that sh1t on their shoulders anymore, enough of games, enough of playing around. Modern women do not follow our lead, they don't follow anyone's lead, they only follow their emotions which goes like a roller-coaster up and down on any given moment.
Haha it’s Sunday bro. I tried my best.
@@CaseyZanderI love how the MBT is basically all your videos combined in your channel :)
@@CaseyZander No it's alright, it's very true. I'm also passive. I can't find a way to get around it coz my last one ended 5 years ago with absolute destruction of my life. I'm glad you made this video,, it's refreshing knocking on my head like a german hammer. Thank you
@@CaseyZanderLoL
Exactly right, MGTOW and prostitution is the way forward, modern women are intolerable!
It’s the women too. I’m okay with talking with attractive women, but a lot of them are boring to talk to.
If she's "boring" ~maybe you didn't ask an interesting question. Ask her about her.
Casey is missing one big issue. There are very few quality women worth my time investment
I’m going nuts living in a female desert. Most women in this area weigh more than I do and have deeper voices than mine.
he knows. I actually think he is depressed himself because of it.
@Involent I live in New Zealand where a lot of women have buttons larger than the moon. I feel sick
This reply is liquid gold
We are all flawed men in some way, so do the women, there is no need to be so hush on them, just get back of the “field” and have some fun
What's the correct adjective for this guy's principles? Some suggestions: (1) Caserian (2) Zanderan (3) Zanderian: I'm voting for option 3: Zanderian.
I’ve asked 3 girls out In last 3 months!First one my gym
crush said sorry she has a boyfriend 2nd one met me for a coffee but she was not for me and 3rd one was attractive worked in cafe and at university and said she didn’t have time. All 3 were a lot younger than me so probably explains why the other two said no basically, but leased I tried
Never began if you are not a shredded 23 yo Chad
Dude, these are your best speeches. I think most of us men are really depressed, low test… Besides that, we were not taught how to be active and move things forward regardless of external validation. It lacks that “i want this and i dont give a f” fiercing energy. That doesnt mean to disrepect others, but going for what we want and facing the rejection.
I don't think rejection is the issue; I could care less about a woman's validation because I know more often than not it's shallow and fleeting. Are men more passive today in areas other than dating? Yes, I'd agree but when it comes to dating it makes sense. I know I'm going to get rejected thats not giving up its being realistic. It's disheartening but its honestly easier to avoid any attempts at an emotional relationship with a woman and just pay for services if you want sex. Focus on building a career, having hobbies, and male friends and your set because more often than not the relationship of growing old with one woman is simply not going to happen.
This is close to how I feel. At least for the moment, I’m not thinking about women or wanting a partner. I just got out of a shitty marriage and am rediscovering myself. Until I sort things out on my own I am not even bothering. Maybe once I feel like things are more settled, it might be worth pursuing something.
If “your future wife” didn’t give you ANY choosing signals, then no, you didn’t miss out on anything by not doing cold approach. You’d just be inflating a random woman’s ego and possibly getting some psycho rejection.
I hear tiny violins playing sad music in the background when I read comments like these hahaha
@@EobardFergusonAll you can do is taunt yet provided ZERO counterargument to this true comment.
@@paulcosta8297 Nah. It’s a simp argument. Dudes with that mentality give women all the power. Idgaf if my talking to a chick inflates her ego or not. Rejection of every sort is just part of life- why are you crying about it and blaming other people for your failure? Get over yourself, bro.
@@EobardFerguson You ignoramus. Modern women have been overvalidated, lack accountability, and shame and humiliate innocent men. YOU are enabling these behaviors if you kiss the ass of random girls who deserve most likely to be shamed. Start having some self-respect.
In my opinion, if she didn't give you choosing signals and you somehow get her into a relationship with you, she would always feel like she could still choose better and that she settled for you. Your lack of attraction to her will manifest in her being very passive in the relationship, lack of intimacy, always wanting expensive treatment, etc. Rjevans is right. Not acknowledging a woman's right to participate in choosing her mate by giving choosing signals always results in a very low quality outcome for the man. In fact, negotiating desire by insisting when she's clearly not interested is an indication of a lack of self-worth. Gentlemen, go where you're wanted.
Bro just what I needed to hear. I'm in the shape of my life and earning good money but this... shyness and delusion of social awkwardness is definitely something I need to work on.
Fuck it they say no she ain’t the one for you! High interest women only and you can’t get played
I really do not want to talk to them though. I just get bored shortly after, mentally. I am a serious loner.
You can't say they are not the issue. I was not passive,i could get women i wanted,i'm jacked, successful. But after being betrayed and disappointed constantly,i just don't want them anymore.
Bro. Getting a hot girl and keeping her are two different things. Lower your standard for gfs.
You need to fix something within YOURSELF then because after some time of talking to a woman
They tend to look at you from the inside out (internal value excluding external value)
@@Xandontlikeme I think I've done it. 5 years single,bettering myself. I do have my fun,but I don't date,yet. I would like to have children,but not to get married or something.
Women absolutely need to take accountability for their horrendous attitudes now, in the UK 🇬🇧 if you criticise or suggest a better way of doing something you will catch a grape/assault charge. Unless you are mega rich then you will get away with it for a little while
Women only have power because weak men stand behind them. Weak beta men are always the problem
Just a note, it’s not worth it at place of work.
Yeah cause you have to deal with seeing her with your buddy after she dumps you
@@bad.chickie66lol
This only applies if you're just an average guy Joe Schmoe and below average.
Handsome men dont need to pursue and chase modern women because they're already attracted to him.
I rather risk rejection than not taking a chance and later wonder what could have been if i had taken that chance, it doesn't hurt to try, plain and simple
He is right its never their fault...they are like fish, they just do things. Its our fault for letting our pimp hands weaken.
Always be a gentleman when approaching women, but you are correct fear IS the masculine killer
My thing is that Im not fearful of rejection as much as Im fearful of her saying yeah and then realizing the real me is more nerdy, nice, awkward and expressive. I literally act stoic and strong silent type BS that gets the girl to like me but when Im myself they all immediately want to look elsewhere. Its been the same story for 30 years. I hate putting on this masculine front all the time just to get girls. Its not my normal behavior. I know what it is that women respond to. I also know how to "play it cool" say charismatic things be witty anf funny and charming but its an act. I hate that thats the only thing that keeps good lookong girls around. Sure I can pull 1s 2s and 3s all day and theyll stick around. Hell theyll get attached to any guy very quickly. Im not attracted to them at all. Im actually disgusted for the most part. But I know exactly what the 6s thru 10s want and its all an act for me. Thats my issue. Be the fake me that speaks and channels my inner kobe bryant true G mamba mentality of the game when Im really robin williams or sort of goofball. Thats the part for me that sucks. Im sure many guys can relate. Theres only one way that good looking women respond to and stay around and thats the highly masculine highly assertive, goes after what he wants always charming amd witty knows exactly how to play it cool while seeming interestedly disnterested. That aint me at all. Ive learned to put on that hat but hate eveey minute of it.
This is exactly me. I can play their game and play it well but their game is fucking bullshit. What most women want out of men is disgusting, dehumanizing, and offensive. But I like sex with women. So I play their game when I get urges, just for the sex, but always resent myself for playing their game at all. I definitely don't have to try to be disinterested, though, I lost interest in them as anything more than playthings a long time ago due to their behavior and the way they view men.
You will hate to be Entropy, it´s normal. It´s the Natural Human form of being. Despise what can corrupt it.
Eh, not your best take. Approaching a woman *who hasn’t given you signals* will IMMEDIATELY lower you in her eyes. It is pointless if you aren’t out on the town trying to play the numbers game. No girl you pursue is going to truly have burning desire for you. Sorry.
There is truth in what you say, but we don’t score on 100% of the shots we don’t take.
@@mkeuphoriaAnd not taking a shot is better than getting impaled by ricochet
Maybe "most" men were rejected enough
Isn't it fascinating though when men do decide to step up they are gaslighted and or canceled to oblivion?
Today 8th of January 2024
I made eye contact with a girl 8-9 in a metro(train) but i wasn't sure that if she wants me to initiate verbal contact or it was a just a fluke, she proceeds to give me slight side eye and i kinda knew that she wanted me to say hi but still not 100℅ sure but after some time when i gathered enough courage to talk to her then immediately i started getting thoughts like" What if she slaps me in front of these people, what if she publicaly humiliates me, what if i creep tf out her, why would such a pretty girl would even talk to me anyways " Cut short i just looked her one last time and again had a eye contact and straight up went home without saying a word.......
After 5mins i felt like crying and knew that i should have given her the opportunity to reject me instead of rejecting myself........
Men have to catch up to the changes of modern women. it is because we have not been taught how to adapt to this dysfunctional society because it was never meant for us to have to so now we must take our power back by not tolerating bad behavior from them nor accepting sexual offering and marketing from them. We have to work as man and woman but it's more so for the man to be in charge of themselves and not trying to control women
is the juice even worth the squeeze anymore?
@@gnarlytothemaxif you go no porn and no fap, you will quickly realize that a hole isnt even that good. Our emotions trick us, making average shi special
Passport
Trust me, Having a wife is not the goal, Having a companion who brings you further peace is great but Women don’t like prolong peace so you have rinse and replace, Enjoy life and enjoy their company knowing that it’s fleeting, Don’t take life to seriously and honestly don’t cold approach without any choosing signals.
The bible already said it. Woman was made FOR the man. They are here for our pleasure, to serve us, nothing more
I find that giving multiple women micro slices of my time works the best for me...they know they can't control me, are always hoping I give them a bit more of my time and attention, and this keeps things fresh where they will probably stay in my life and crave me sexually far longer than if I were to try to just focus on one and officially make her my exclusive girlfriend or wife...
@@JesseC620facts! Doing this now.
I can’t get down with marriage in this day and age. I would rather just ride the carousel like women rather than be tied down.
for any relationship to work correctly chick has to think you are better than her (for whatever reason) so she will pursue you and act correctly, if she doesnt send you any sort of choosing signals at the beginning then it means she doesnt think of you as better and even if somehow you're gonna sell yourself with your words after you approach cold, dynamic gonna be fcked because you're the pursuer and she's the prize - rather than going after chicks YOU WANT improve what you put out (posture, eye contact, how much space you take up, being overly mean/smiley looking, pep in your step, muscle - it's what chicks would "vibe") so more chicks will send you signals (chick exerting any sort of energy towards a guy where she doesn have to is a choosing signal )and you have more to chose from
dealing with a chick is pretty much like adopting a child, which child gonna act correct more often, then one that chosen the family (and wants to be picked) or the one that was chosen by the family?
This will be the video I watch every morning.
Being older and direct? I have been direct since i was young, but women and even men find it offensive and unpolite.
😂
Okay..men don't even try..but mysteriously they seem all to have a boyfriend...interesting
Adam.and Eve were conquered with bite of an apple, North America is conquered with same,look at the back of your phone.
Dude's give me a tip! How to talk with woman who is with headphones.
This applies to all aspects of your life as a man.Imagine all the missed possibilities and opportunities you never took.Thanks Casey.
Glad am not the only one who sees it this way too
This dude trying to get every guy with sexual harrasment charges
No. This video is about 7-10 years too late. Men dont give a shit about women. It's not worth the effort. The stock being offered is too low quality and you have to be rich today to get a a pretty mid woman. Dude it's over. One video on the internet isn't going to stop a 20 year statistic. The risk is not worth it. Nor is the financial loss.
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Chase and pursue womans are simping and feminine behavior nothing maculine about!
Maculine mens chase and pursue Purpose and goals!
Completaly agreed with you're comment too.
Bro !!! You said woman are not urgent !!!!! Now you want us to have urgency ??? To talk to them
BS..passed 50 times..maybe your regular non approaching viewer..but 50 times and much more rejected..that's true..eventually she passed her love of her life
i’m not passive, i’m not shy: i just don’t like giving random women the opportunity to shit on me. i’m overtly handsome & have been so my entire life dating back to grammar school ‘03. i’m a huge target to women to try to use for an ego boost. from the days i did cold approach consistently, i learned women’s mo. let women approach you. be patient. letting women choose you results in the best interactions.
That is passiveness
@@MarcusGreen-y7gur wrong they use men for attention if they want they have to open their mouths cuz they want the bragging rights to reject men
Same with me bro most of them just attention hoes ..It’s a fact the most women u approach based on choosing signals r nothing but for attention
@@MarcusGreen-y7g it’s not. it’s strategic. it’s only passive if i don’t get women. i get more women than average + i receive groupie energy from women in person & online. my approach & outlook is different because i’ve learned what’s best for me over the years of positive interactions i’ve received… you wouldn’t expect drake to be in every woman’s face: only the ones he truly desires. others have to approach him. not passive. strategic. knowing how to play a winning hand.
You know it's serious business when Casey ditches the whiteboard.
Wait, wait, wait... Approaching the girl and she's with a group of her friends. Other guys are there in the perimeter, watching.. you go for it anyway, get shot down...... Now, if she'd been alone, it wouldn't be that bad, but now, all her friends (that are secretly jealous of her) really amp up the situation. The other guys watching get a good laugh, too. So aggressiveness can backfire and when it does, it's much harder to overcome!! You still have to be smart enough to pick the right situation, too.
Just don't give a shit. It will make you look even more confident lol
I'm passive because I'm let down by womens behaviour these days..they disgust me..but I still need to find a mate..so sifting through the muck I go
Yeah sure, and then you are just validating them by talking to them, congrats. What a load of bullshit. You should be talking to EVERYONE and not just the potentially interested women, or you just come out as desperate. Of course women will know why you talk to them out of the blue, and if you're good enough at it they will entertain themselves with you, but THAT'S ALL.
Not your best one by a long shot.
One of your best was a few days ago.
The first half of your conventional masculinity video has the gold in it.
Double and triple down on the combo of nfg identity, frame, purpose and mission.
Do nothing "for" women.
Pursue a purpose guided life for yourself.
Women will show up.
Only allow a woman who enhances your life and supports you in your mission- into your life.
Recently ive decided to go after what i want, and who i want. Which was to break the fear of rejection. ive been rejected 3 times in the past 3 months and have never felt better
. Got only 1 number out of them all. However, i told myself i rather do it and get rejected, than not do it and feel the regret.
*edit* : brothers, if your reading this... believe me you feel empowered and stronger in rejection. if you get a no, u know that u did what u could do
remember, that just because she said no doesnt make u the reason. sometimes she can be the reason for rejecting u. stay focused brothers.
Ah the road not taken!
Facts...I used to always have women comin to me...I got rejected only 3 times in my life out of 100 women. After a divorce, being a lil rusty I was rejected but it felt great after some hours of tryna process wtf just happened. Gotta get out more. Know you the man.
Hard pill to swallow, but straight Facts!!
Ya stay strong and maybe hoeflation will go down
Straight Gems in this one sir. Thank you so much for your work
I'm glad men are passive. I can stand out easily. Less pressure for me.
I put this mindset into motion just after listening to the vid while on patrol (I work security). There was this debris in the gutter that I have to swerve around every time I drive around this parking lot's perimeter. For months, I thought, _"Someone should clean that up but, it's not my department."_ This time, I thought, *_"You know what? F-CK IT! I'm going to be the change I want to see in the world!"_* Just tossed it in a dumpster and am feeling good. Now I just have to keep that up and not slide back into passivity.
Thanks for the video man; you're right.
Im in here just to see how many guys were just on a PUA site and are now regurgitating if theyre alpha or sigma 😂😂😂😂 wearing a “i am the wolf” tee from some rifle dork site
Bro took the 😈 emoji for real
I really want to agree with Casey on this one but the thing is I’m not just going to give my attention and time away so easily a woman will have to earn it from me. I lose interest fast and disqualify women easily. Most women have done NOTHING to earn my time and attention. Woman have been trained to just expect this shit and not work for it.
A good virtuous feminine woman has been taught to take care of herself and her loved ones, guard herself from harm by taking time to get to know a man with her legs crossed, and trust her father’s discernment and discretion of the men in her life. If you can’t step up to that than you are not a man worthy of a virtuous woman.
Umm yeah that Is an issue but the root cause is because modern women definitely 100% are the issue
Bunch of BS!
Look at Brad pitt and jhonny depp. They are as Mr. Perfect as one can be. Even them couldn't maintain their relationships! Women will always want more. The stakes for men are ridiculously high.
hes wearing a cross and yet talking about having sex with women 🤣😂
That’s basically every Christian though
You when you find out with sex humans reproduce: 🫨🫨🫨
Many Old Testament Kings had multiple wives and children from them...took sex to do that.
Your point doesn’t make sense.
yes@@user-uc7qb1su4e
All what you said sounds good on paper or is quite logical how you often mention from a man's perspective but this is not how things work..I approached countless very good looking women over a long period of time and nothing happend..they seemed all to have a boyfriend..and I don't think they meet each other through approaching..sometimes I wonder how you meet women..eventually also not through approaching..probably you get dm's on ig because of your status on social media because you for sure don't look better or speak better than me and many guys all together
Great talk but you speak for yourself when you say you can't live forever.
Casey I 100% agree with you from a perspective of living in United states.
Its not the women emasculating men its the state sponsored women out there ready to break your back , finances and frame.
The same women would think 1000 times to do these kind of adventures where governments are not backing or supporting their bullshit or bad behaviour.
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@@brandonguzman2757 FO
I'm very outgoing. Sometimes I wish I would have passed on my ex wife when I met her at a bar and introduced myself.
you are not alone honey child!
@@ameliaannhouck2670gtfoh with your emasculating bs 304
@@ameliaannhouck2670 I hear you.
U passed 50 times a nightmare waiting to unfold possibly .... and 1 in chance its a decent ride and thats with applying masculins traits , its just soo damn risky to lose not just your assets but your heart soul and everthing else , i think thats how men are accesng it , at least the the smart ones that aernt full on passive , u gotta be aware of the enviroment we are in
why would a woman crave attention from me? what makes is valuable when she can get it from other men?
Me at Walmart passed many women not say hello going for the goal
Casey’s stuffs legit. Indifference.. when I watch others stuff about holding frame by showing a woman a good time and having connection my relationship goes haywire.. when I follow Casey’s advice on hypergamy and indifference everything goes smooth.. just saying..
What exactly do you mean by haywire and smooth?
@@user-uc7qb1su4e smooth is her in my frame, following my lead, doing things for me, makes life better, these happen by utilizing the psychology Casey talks about regarding hypergamy and just kickin back indifferent. When I try to follow other advice from some channels about catering to the woman to show her a good time for connection and setting relationship boundaries she breaks out of my frame, brings up both our past, brings drama and makes my life worse. Haywire. Chaos. Casey’s advice works is all I’m saying. Trying to set boundaries, she sees as intent and it’s seems to lower my smv in her eyes.
@@Dman-jz1knnot to pry but what kinds of boundaries were you setting? Because I think it depends on what type of boundary you set, some increase attraction and some don’t. Casey himself has talked about setting boundaries.
@@user-uc7qb1su4e stuff that should be set if she wants more commitment. You ain’t talking to any exs or guy friends so called that you have ever been with. Things that make sense in commitment. Ima just dial it back with her to pretty much casual, fresh start and keep other options open as well. That keeps that competition anxiety anyways
@@user-uc7qb1su4eBy "haywire", he probably means that the women become bitchy and start expecting too much..."smooth" means they appreciate whatever limited amount of time and attention they get from him, and they are either afraid to get bitchy because they think they might possibly lose him, or they have no reason to get that way because there is not enough friction from too much interaction to ever make them act that way...
the problem is in the looks, woman like face and height
Not true..so far I see beautiful woman go for average guy and handsome man with average woman
@@hengonghuat9876 the average guys are all beta bucks
The issue is that the bounds which kept female hypergamy at bay in the past have been destroyed. Good luck trying to put the genie back in the bottle
Good point.
I don't want a wife right now. I just want to study there nature
Yes me too😅
I totally endorse this message 1000% 😅
It’s never advisable to approach a woman when she’s with company, there are 100 reasons and ways why it’ll go wrong. Save yourself the embarrassment pls, I get the message though. Even if she didn’t have an attitude she’ll develop one just to impress her company.
I understand. The point I'm trying to make is that there will always be a reason someone can come up with in their head not to do something. Courage wins.
@@CaseyZander”Courage is the greatest virtue for it guarantees all the others.”~ Aristotle
@@CaseyZander yea you’re right of course, we most times talk ourselves out of good opportunities with beautiful women n I’m guilty of doing this just last week. 8 times out of 10 I take the initiative n make the approach tho n it works 6 out of 10 times.
@@CaseyZander Casey, you as an extrovert dont understand that introverts dont function like that. This channel is missing Jungs personality types and how they affect our behaviour. Its not courage, extroverts will naturally go at it.
@@CaseyZander Also not all chicks are passive, waiting, chicks can be extroverted too, so the opposite will be an introverted male
I'm a 58 year old man, listening to this. If that doesn't tell you that these issues with women never ends........
12/20/23
9:05am
Hey now, I want to take this present moment to thank you for this outstanding and authentic mature adults only conversation. We the viewer's are fortunate to have access to your insight and understanding.👍🥇🎯
Deep inside of his heart he knows they belong to the street
Doesnt matter .. in that case it would be up to a man to decide whether he wants them or not .. without any feeling of regret from all the wasted opportunities
@@Richwiking318 it doesn't matter to you. Bye bye
@@Richwiking318beta vs alpha mentality
@@avidr3ader635 bros coming back every week to comment 🤣 true alpha
@@Richwiking318 you are coming back every day to hate on other for improving themselves lol?!
Keep these videos up love the content new to the channel but I listen to other influential people about this type of topic and you are spot on dont stop doing this its what men need to know and hear def will be back and I'm subscribing
"one day, or day one." the rock
Im going to listen to this everyday and put it into action
Wonder how you've got hammered by women, coz the knowledge you drliver is: either you has a Sigma Father teaching You all of what You talk (i've said Sigma dad coz, the knowledge you shows it's more than being an alpha).
Or got crushed by women a millon times.
Either way both are okay if we learn. But if we have a father that spread "first hand" this info would be better than ever!
I do with My 14YrO.
Keep up the good work C,
Love your work brother. GF is already more respectful and playful after I stopped talking so much and introduced some tension.
just make 7 figures bro
How ya doing, mah brutha from anutha mutha. I recently subbed after stumbling across your channel. I like the way you think. I agree. I do have a question or two though. The first thing that got my attention was the 'stat' you gave stating that the average guy passed over his potential wife 50 times in the last year. Where did that figure come from and how did they figure that out? I'm curious as to how "they" would even do that survey - IF that's what it was. I assume so. As you see, communication is NOT a problem be verbally or text. The fear most men have, I think, is the possible legalities involved. That kinda started about 25 years back when they started cracking down on us construction workers hangin' off the sides of buildings giving "cat calls" down to the skirts walking by at lunch everyday. They passed a law making it a punishable offense. What I'm not sure of is...was it an early form of "me too" slowly coming to fruition? Who else could lobby for those laws? So, I'm not sure I agree with the whole title. I still think that feminism/modern women ARE a large part of this. I'm a gen X'er and meeting women face to face is the only way I've ever known to meet them. I don't care for new technology. I'm old school and men have been doing it that way since the dawn of time...until they invented laws. 😁 I have NO problem approaching women and I'm actually a vocalist with broadcast experience so I'm used to "drawing attention" by nature and my voice is deep. Women actually like that most because they compliment it. I recently escaped from a 2 year long ordeal with a "malignant narc" back in July of 23. Ever since, I've had problems approaching women with attitudes or they look at me like I'm Ted Bundy. My friend called it "stranger danger" - a 'new phenomenon' that recently appeared. Whatever it is, it wasn't there before. I dunno. Any ideas? I dig the channel. You have some good tips here. I'm 56 and I'm ALWAYS learning cuz it's always changing...especially with the advent of the internet. THAT'S what did it! It's all about "me" now.. Everyone wants to be "famous" but ends up infamous instead..
Another RUclipsr who has no idea what he's talking about. Nevermind the fact that "modern women" post videos about how independent they are and don't need men, only to complain when no men offer to help them move heavy stuff. Or how men should leave them alone... Except when it the woman. Talk to enough men, and you'll find a number of them have been called creeps - or actually accused of harassment - for simply asking a woman out in a polite manner. Some women have posted videos saying if a man doesn't make six figures, he's worthless. Check it out sometime... Maybe you'll learn the truth.
nobody can read that board anyways...
evolution of cz channel..
keep up the good work :)
Casey is awesome. Men need to stop being passive. Good women like a strong man that they can respect. Immature/selfish/narcissist girls like a simp who will grovel, fetch and carry for her. Don't be the simp.
My mother always tells me that my dad was the baddest dude out there he wasn't shy at all, if he wanted something he went for it, I'm the opposite but after this vid I'm conditioning myself to go out there and get what I want.
Nah Casey it’s her fault she should just be perfect and I should be able to play video games and smoke weed everyday after work, she should just love me for me..
Eh, combination of both. I’m certainly not passive. Westernized modern women are primarily the problem.
Headman put the key in my back made me text my crush
This is facts, exactly why I don’t text. Only talk otp, FaceTime, send voice messages or communicate in person💯
I'm a 3. In looks. I highly doubt anu women I. Passed. Though I was attractive
Dawg why was I watching porn and I’m pretty sure I came across young casey Zander.. same voice. 😂😂😂 it was hetero porn before yall start with the bs 😂
Best of luck for you brother but i unsubscribe. Your every every video is the same pattern clickbait with no new message. Some of it may be hindering your way depending on what kind of man you want to be. Some of it may be helpful.
If acquiring a wife or girlfriend is your goal in life you need to do some deep introspective analysis on yourself. It's way overrated. Pick up a goal like financial Independence it'll be much more fulfilling bro.
BUT I DON'T WANT THE MODERN 304S
Do negative thought energies of other come into play
This guy may be actually convincing me. That's weird.
This is exactly my problem ,, except for I have this passiveness only towards women .. in other spheres of my life Iam able to break the ice
Thanks casey for reminding to be a better man
EXCUSING 304 promiscuity.
somehow i feel that developing more healthy dating habits would be resolved by overthrowing the goverment to put in new laws that create a better work life balance and also make housing more afordable, but thats just me
When you go to bed tonight act like its your last day on earth. Ask yourself are you happy with what you did today? Are you good with what you have done with your time? If you are firtunate enough to eake up tomorrow keep that in mind.