NEVER TRY to PLEASE A WOMAN - her biggest turn off (downfall of masculine men)

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  • Опубликовано: 10 дек 2024

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  • @CaseyZander
    @CaseyZander  Год назад +47

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    • @miguelwillbanks3344
      @miguelwillbanks3344 Год назад +1

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    • @localmobileguru
      @localmobileguru Год назад

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      @bonginkosiselepe Год назад

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    • @cmatt7512
      @cmatt7512 Год назад

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    • @vincentjames2202
      @vincentjames2202 Год назад

      Hey man. Do you answer your emails or comments here? Purchased your MBT program under your special. Then I tried to purchase the $997 add on for the relationship mastery.
      For some reason when I purchased the $997 add-on for the relationship mastery your server or whatever reversed my transaction. When I called the bank, they said it was approved through my bank but for some reason it was reversed on your end.
      I would like to purchase the add-on, but how am I supposed to do that if I can’t get a hold of nobody ?!

  • @jcnlaw
    @jcnlaw Год назад +2323

    Experienced divorce lawyer here. I recently had a case where the husband earned over $500k annually, has male model looks, gives wife the car of her choice (in this case a 911 S), a beautiful house in the suburbs and a house on the beach. He was faithful and super kind and generous. Still, she was not happy with herself, her life, and she made everyone around her miserable. She unnecessarily dragged out the divorce over two years. He was so happy when he was finally free from someone who did not appreciate him, did not love him, and did not appreciate the life he gave her. He was so happy to begin his post-divorce life.

    • @jamesward5721
      @jamesward5721 Год назад

      Whereby the dumbazz remarries.. and she cleans him out again too. :-) Rinse, repeat...

    • @strzala88
      @strzala88 Год назад +163

      we need more stories from you, I've seen your comment under another of Casey's video and I see huge value in your experiences!

    • @everettwalker2258
      @everettwalker2258 Год назад

      I always appreciate your contributions to the Manosphere & stories/reports from the field @jcnlaw💯💯

    • @jcnlaw
      @jcnlaw Год назад +171

      @@strzala88 Thanks. I have my own RUclips channel as well and have collaborated with other popular content creators. Maybe I’ll reach out to Casey and schedule a collaboration with him on his channel. I think I can bring some value through the lens of an experienced divorce lawyer (who also dates beautiful women).

    • @Bibliophile_singh
      @Bibliophile_singh Год назад

      ​@@jcnlawsubscribed

  • @A.nasierkhan
    @A.nasierkhan Год назад +496

    1- always be ready to leave her.
    2- if she behaves badly and doesnt appreciate and respect your time return to step 1.

    • @khamiahsimmons957
      @khamiahsimmons957 Год назад +6

      💯💯

    • @ElFrak
      @ElFrak Год назад +15

      That one foot out the door 🚪 mentality 🔥🔥🔥

    • @A.nasierkhan
      @A.nasierkhan Год назад +18

      @@ElFrak exactly the perfect mindset. Always put yourself at first.

    • @USARealityCheck
      @USARealityCheck Год назад +14

      Yes, this is the mindset. You must believe it, you must breathe it, you must live your life in accordance with it.

    • @grassyfieldz4578
      @grassyfieldz4578 Год назад

      True, but most men are so desperate they can't bare the thought of not having a woman, and think they are incredibly lucky to have a woman at all so turn into servant simps!

  • @TheLyricsGuy
    @TheLyricsGuy Год назад +1269

    Women want two things:
    1. More
    2. Something else

  • @theharshtruth8563
    @theharshtruth8563 Год назад +214

    I was engaged at 28 with a woman who was never satisfied.
    She ended up cheating on me while we were engaged.
    Even after we went our separate ways, she still attempted to
    have a relationship with my family because she wanted them
    to help pay off her student loan. Only after they declined her,
    she felt destroyed. That was back in the late 1990's.
    Now she is in her 50's, she is still working at a grocery store,
    still has a student loan to pay off, still has no kids, still is single
    and still pays rent.
    I finished paying off my mortgage in 2015, I run a successful
    business, no kids, no wife and saved up enough to take things
    a little easier.
    Life improved mainly because I stopped chasing the approval
    of women. I chased financial stability and peace of mind instead.
    No regrets.

    • @timothyn4699
      @timothyn4699 8 месяцев назад +5

      actions have consequences, you put in the work so your success went up
      she was ungrateful, entitled, not loyal, and she paid the price, and is still reaping the consequences

  • @LoQueYoDigoVaAMisa
    @LoQueYoDigoVaAMisa Год назад +338

    Never ever put any woman before you, ever.

    • @davidpark2509
      @davidpark2509 Год назад +44

      Women are literally big children

    • @BIanka0200
      @BIanka0200 Год назад

      @@davidpark2509women stop aging mentally after they get their first period. Naturally she is fully developed at the age of 13 or 14, whenever she gets her first period, since a woman wasnt created to be intelligent (thats the mans job)

    • @NikolaTesla-nb5nm
      @NikolaTesla-nb5nm Год назад +9

      ​@@davidpark2509 i read "big chicken" 😂😂😂

    • @damascus6480
      @damascus6480 Год назад +3

      @@NikolaTesla-nb5nmthat’s what I thought he said at first glance too lol

    • @hamza-kn7lk
      @hamza-kn7lk 11 месяцев назад +1

      Yes i v heard that from some youtubers women . Never put woman preority .

  • @mminniear984
    @mminniear984 Год назад +268

    Something I’ve learned is if a woman breaks up with you or you to her and she says “you’re controlling”. You probably had good boundaries and she didn’t want to deal with being held to account on her bad behavior.

    • @akuma1921
      @akuma1921 Год назад +16

      The real right here.

    • @Final_Turn
      @Final_Turn 11 месяцев назад +7

      That seems right !

  • @DigeiFrunza
    @DigeiFrunza Год назад +274

    "You can't make a woman happy. It's impossible! I've never met a happy woman in my life! Woman always complaining about something!"
    - Chris Rock -

    • @HeathenDance
      @HeathenDance Год назад

      In my extended family, there's literally a couple of exceptions, but the majority of women are absolutely unbearable. I genuinely don't know how my grandfather didn't kill my grandmother and my aunt (his daughter) with his bare hands. I guess that's why he died before reaching 70. Bitches are pure walking toxic negativity. And I'm speaking about my family lol.

    • @nanakwesinyantakyi9408
      @nanakwesinyantakyi9408 Год назад +2

      Based

    • @hoedemakerbart
      @hoedemakerbart Год назад

      ​@colerainswaggify6387just breed 😂. That's what they did before woman had rights bro

    • @hoedemakerbart
      @hoedemakerbart Год назад

      @colerainswaggify6387 if you watch the latest Napoleon movie, you will see what i mean

    • @nanakwesinyantakyi9408
      @nanakwesinyantakyi9408 Год назад +8

      @colerainswaggify6387 They are overrated, just know that.

  • @millermanhal
    @millermanhal Год назад +455

    I'm 41 Casey. Once I learned your knowledge....my wife tries now to get my attention. She has transformed herself at 33 and lost weight, got hotter than when we met. Even after 4kids, sex is better,marriage is stronger than ever. I been learning and listening to your tips and changed my life. Now doubled my income at work and even have girls 20years younger wanting me. These traits work in all aspects of life. Masculine men are attractive to all. No joke. Thanks for teaching an old dog some new tricks. Men learn this young and you will too.

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 Год назад +10

      Which were the more important concepts for your transformation?

    • @Majorhavoktv
      @Majorhavoktv Год назад +16

      Never stop dating your wife.

    • @luker1hutcher315
      @luker1hutcher315 Год назад +9

      Great comment! You aint no old dog though dude, cmon! And yes act like a MAN and you will get women 20 years younger interested, at almost any age, especially if you take care of yourself and workout etc.

    • @kunal_k_
      @kunal_k_ Год назад

      @@dennisrobinson8008 he's taken all the help, but doesn't wanna contribute helping others struggling.. Better look elsewhere than a shallow sometime coming off only to show off here, half of which sounds much fabricated here. This ain't real but a show I'm telling you!

    • @UnrealTournament420
      @UnrealTournament420 Год назад +5

      Get out while things are good bro, she will rinse you!!!!

  • @n300zx931
    @n300zx931 Год назад +534

    Just discussed this topic with one of my friends. You can not please a women by doing what she says she wants. Her happiness is developed by believing that she’s with a man who is better than her.

    • @Imae08I
      @Imae08I Год назад +55

      Agree, and the fear of losing you.
      I truly belive "love" for women is truly "uncertainty"...because it is the only way to satisfy hypergamy

    • @n300zx931
      @n300zx931 Год назад +33

      @@Imae08I yes. As a man you must focus on you and your happiness. A woman can be happy but it’s only through her happy man who she feels lucky to have.

    • @gobbledeegouup6578
      @gobbledeegouup6578 Год назад +5

      It's true and the funny thing is with me personally that puts me off women completely. I just do me and I love me I don't care about being with a woman now that ship sailed along time.ago. I Don't want to get with a woman who thinks I'm above her because if thats truly what she thinks she don't deserve me thars how I see it. I also want the best of the best for my self which let's be real I probably won't find in a woman. When your out of the matrix and not programed on porn you have zero care for pus pus. What she offering if she's below you? If your providing more to your life then what she has to offer you then what is the point. Yea it attracts even the best looking women to you and they constantly wondering why your not interested but then they become.bunny boilers just by you giving them one tiny bit of attention every couple months and that is a real put off believe me.

    • @n300zx931
      @n300zx931 Год назад +5

      @@gobbledeegouup6578 sounds like you’re reading way too much into it. The actual facts have nothing to do with this. She could be 10x better than you. None of it matters. All that matters in a woman’s eyes are her emotions. She just needs to “feel” that you’re better than her. It’s your job as a man to give that feeling to her regardless of where you actually stack up to her.

    • @gobbledeegouup6578
      @gobbledeegouup6578 Год назад

      @@n300zx931 My job is to do what makes me happy and that includes staying away from women who are mental yes. They are so run by there emotions that it is crazy. I only deal with evolved women who don't need attachment. Thars only a very few. The majority ain't having me. I have women on a weekly basis messaging me and I show I'm not interested I give one little bit of kindness to or something they want and they get hooked and bunny boil me. I've had to get out 3 restraining orders in my time km only 36. I swear to god bro but believe what you want. So me being just me without trying any tactic or cognitively thinking how to be i got women falling at my feet and I don't even want it or like it. Why? Bexuase I'm happy within my self and I love my self if yiu need a woman you'll like them all over you.
      It also proves when I've had some women ask me innpast don't you like all this female attention what the the hell? I say NOPE. That makes thst indivual woman more attracted as she wonders why. "Can I be the first one to change that?" she's thinking.

  • @theBSisreal
    @theBSisreal Год назад +63

    They use to say back in the day, "A woman can have 100 problems, you can solve 99 and she'll still complain about the 1 you didn't solve". Don't try to please them.

  • @Coyote_boa
    @Coyote_boa Год назад +461

    This 100% applies to most women. I’d say 99% of women. There are a few of them out there who are wholesome but that number dwindles more and more as society and our culture continues to decay.

    • @CiluhStyle1
      @CiluhStyle1 Год назад +8

      Facts

    • @alexleggett6270
      @alexleggett6270 Год назад +50

      Trying to find a decent women takes a shit load of time too. Most women can behave well the first 3 months to a year before the true colors show. Then you have to start over again.

    • @CiluhStyle1
      @CiluhStyle1 Год назад +30

      @@alexleggett6270 a damn fact. The bait and switch is real. Soon after I married her she became a devil.

    • @harshyadav1224
      @harshyadav1224 Год назад +15

      ​@@CiluhStyle1Bro make it 110%. There is no such women in this planet

    • @TheRickfire
      @TheRickfire Год назад +1

      So hilarious ! Yup

  • @808BJJ_Black_Belt
    @808BJJ_Black_Belt Год назад +155

    My ex wife was exactly that way focusing on what she didn’t have. I provided a home, car, food, love, everything but she always found a way to be ungrateful. After the divorce I’m finally happy without her nagging sad negative vibes holding me back

    • @lookupthereupinthetrees9860
      @lookupthereupinthetrees9860 Год назад +3

      Join the club mate 👍 Have been there.

    • @BL2197
      @BL2197 Год назад

      Yep...., it happens.

    • @comet6740
      @comet6740 Год назад +3

      Not judging you but you giving her everything that is materialistic like money, cars and home are not every thing. Your love is the most important thing and if you tried your best to fulfil her needs then you have nothing to worry about.

    • @hamza-kn7lk
      @hamza-kn7lk 11 месяцев назад

      same as me

  • @flameelorm
    @flameelorm Год назад +265

    This message goes to everyone in life. Dont try to please anyone, Especially with women, be a little tough on them.

    • @HighSpeedNoDrag
      @HighSpeedNoDrag Год назад +7

      This video makes Zero sense. Not ALL Women are the same period. Let's go back to Cave Man Days.

    • @TSMPimpDaddyPain
      @TSMPimpDaddyPain Год назад +11

      @@HighSpeedNoDrag What didn't make sense?

    • @halawishes
      @halawishes Год назад

      Garden Party

    • @BounceBackBlaze
      @BounceBackBlaze Год назад +7

      ​@@HighSpeedNoDragthe sad truth is most women do act like this. And they are in fact wired lile this weather you want to believe your girl is or not. Sorry pal.

    • @litjellyfish
      @litjellyfish Год назад +1

      @brismeltocwell problem is that most that take this advice is coming from the stance of betas or Simping. So they really don’t understand (again) just following advice that can work and can also not work

  • @katadromeasgr
    @katadromeasgr 5 месяцев назад +5

    Painfully correct. The more we grow up, the clearer it gets.

  • @educ8te
    @educ8te Год назад +317

    Remember the story of the Garden of Eden?Eve still wasn't satisfied with having everything.

    • @deathismyfate5677
      @deathismyfate5677 Год назад +3

      Her name was Eden lmao

    • @rinbaee
      @rinbaee Год назад

      shouldn’t truth be so irrespective of religion?

    • @reggiesmith131
      @reggiesmith131 Год назад +44

      Also Adam asked God why and in Genesis 3:17 “because you listened to that woman”.

    • @abuDA-bt6ei
      @abuDA-bt6ei Год назад +17

      "The Bible describes shame as the core and consequence of Adam’s fall. In Hebrew, Adam is equivalent to mankind. Adam symbolizes all human beings. The Bible suggests that Adam was not satisfied with his own being. He wanted to be more than he was. He wanted to be more than human. He failed to accept his essential limitations. He lost his healthy shame. The Bible suggests that the origin of human bondage (original sin) is the desire to be other than who we are . . . to be more than human. In his toxic shame (pride), Adam wanted a false self. The false self led to his destruction."
      "Shame is internalized when one is abandoned. Abandonment is the precise term to describe how one loses one’s authentic self and ceases to exist psychologically. Children cannot know who they are without reflective mirrors. Mirroring is done by one’s primary caregivers and is crucial in the first years of life. Abandonment includes the loss of mirroring. Parents who are shut down emotionally (all shame-based parents) cannot mirror and affirm their children’s emotions."
      Healing the Shame That Binds You - John Bradshaw

    • @oscargonza2748
      @oscargonza2748 Год назад +13

      Her name is Eve, Eden is where Adam and Eve resided, bruh

  • @buentaste
    @buentaste Год назад +61

    Bro at my 55 five year old I could certify that if not all almost all you have said is TRUE! Most woman can not be pleased.. I have been with many and proved myself... Glad you are helping the new generation....

    • @lemat579
      @lemat579 Год назад +2

      Neither convinced...? How about convincing women about anything? 😂😂😂 (starting from mother ending at grandma, and a whole lot of them in between)

  • @eNv3n0mX
    @eNv3n0mX Год назад +270

    This is so true. Casey, your examples of woman's permanent dissatisfaction is on point.

    • @Row2nd
      @Row2nd Год назад

      to add to this; a woman never wants to change ever - she expects to be accepted how she is so don't think you can change it, theyre super stubborn.

    • @simeoncumberbatch4150
      @simeoncumberbatch4150 Год назад

      ❤❤❤

    • @luker1hutcher315
      @luker1hutcher315 Год назад +1

      that's dissatisfaction, there is no 'un' version . sorry to be a pedantic prick !

    • @paulchenpanther602
      @paulchenpanther602 Год назад

      Absolutely the truth 💔

  • @Lady.Luck.
    @Lady.Luck. Год назад +22

    The key is don't be part of the extreme. Don't be extremely passive, don't be extremely dominating. The fun is in the middle

    • @Zachary_333
      @Zachary_333 2 месяца назад

      Yes, middle road. Not to high not too low = good to go

  • @alexleggett6270
    @alexleggett6270 Год назад +153

    We've stumbled into a dystopic sexual environment because men don't have any boundaries or standard for women anymore and its about as nightmarish of a scenario one can imagine.

    • @alexl.4362
      @alexl.4362 Год назад +1

      True. Women are running wild all over men right now.

    • @litjellyfish
      @litjellyfish Год назад +4

      Exactly. It’s nothing wrong with pleasing a woman. Problem is that no boundaries as set

    • @raizen21ss56
      @raizen21ss56 Год назад +2

      I disagree, many of us do have boundaries we just give a damn about so little. Just think about the requirements a man has for a woman and vise versa. Who's more demanding?

    • @litjellyfish
      @litjellyfish Год назад

      @@raizen21ss56 I think it depends on scenario and the man. Still yeah for sure it’s been shift on expectations male to girl. Girl to man the last 100 years in the western world

    • @DelroyHenderson-tl8pi
      @DelroyHenderson-tl8pi 11 месяцев назад

      Never place don't matter what you do to.them not even
      Hod can not please them hi really knows that okay hi
      Love when see
      Love but other they never get me today

  • @JTDyer21
    @JTDyer21 Год назад +22

    Trying to please a woman is similar to chasing your shadow. The harder you try the faster they run. However when you turn around and don't care your shadow follows you.

    • @meh252
      @meh252 11 месяцев назад

      Good analogy, ty.

    • @Rob-nl5ge
      @Rob-nl5ge 9 месяцев назад +2

      Yep, they’re like cats

  • @roberttocci6085
    @roberttocci6085 Год назад +70

    Ok … so I’m 58 years old … and this EXACT same thing happened to me …. My second marriage… gave her everything I thought she could want… and took care of her son like he was my own …and one evening after dinner she said she wasn’t “happy “ but couldn’t explain why … insane !! …. My logical mind just couldn’t understand this !! …and she hated me for doing everything for her !! … thankfully her son stayed with me …. And left me one dog 🐶 … oh , and she just posted a TikTok video of her partying in Paris France 🇫🇷….welcome to the truth…

    • @conscientiousdefector
      @conscientiousdefector Год назад +7

      Damn. I’m sorry bro. I guess you got a son out of the deal. Sort of a roundabout adoption. 😊

    • @roberttocci6085
      @roberttocci6085 Год назад +4

      Yes !! … it worked out well in the end !! … 😁👍

    • @Joeyb33f
      @Joeyb33f Год назад +6

      Youre 58 so it is what it is but she won. Left you with the responsibility (another mans kid) while she gets to sleep with random men

    • @ricklong3218
      @ricklong3218 Год назад +4

      It's not her kid if she left! A FATHER makes a baby, a DAD takes care of them! It's not just a kid, it's a "friend" and someone to pass information through and teach how to be a proper man, which his FATHER failed to do! Most of us know the difference 😊

  • @ramonsaucedarealtor
    @ramonsaucedarealtor Год назад +60

    Im 62 years old dealing with my 6th long term relationship breakdown I wish I would’ve seen this video when I was 27 it would’ve saved me so much aggravation and pain!!

    • @jimjones2287
      @jimjones2287 Год назад +3

      What would you do different?

    • @ramonsaucedarealtor
      @ramonsaucedarealtor Год назад

      @@jimjones2287 I invested a lot of my time, energy, money and emotions in women hoping for a mutual exchange but I never received the same value and I wasn't willing to walk away in time!! Its okay to give but you have to be willing to walk away as soon as you realize that the woman is not investing as much or more that you.

    • @puppyupper4565
      @puppyupper4565 Год назад +5

      @@jimjones2287 set boundaries at the start and walk away if they break them.

    • @hamza-kn7lk
      @hamza-kn7lk 11 месяцев назад +2

      I agree same happend to me

    • @jamesokeeffe3216
      @jamesokeeffe3216 11 месяцев назад +1

      You’re alive ☘️❤️🙏

  • @nige_moves
    @nige_moves Год назад +150

    Alot of guys cant handle this info, the fact is all of us need to hear it. Brings up past memories of things going south , YOU DISSECT IT in a way that hits home so we can learn . Thank you casey never stop doing this , it is a service to all men

    • @rejectwokeness1314
      @rejectwokeness1314 Год назад +7

      Exactly, it's something I never understood but once I started to adopt red pill and think about my previous relationships and dates, I realised these guys are absolutely right. Men absolutely have to care less, so women actually think about how to please you. If you keep thinking about how to please her, she thinks about what u can do more and she thinks she's the more important component of the relationship.

    • @millermanhal
      @millermanhal Год назад +6

      Truth. Wish we heard this as young men. Would have made my life alot easier.

  • @busterfrank1818
    @busterfrank1818 Год назад +62

    Here is a bit of advice from me to all who read this: if you meet a woman and you both really like each other are considering having a relationship with each other, try asking the woman this before things go any further: how to you plan on keeping me satisfied?.... because if you dont keep me happy, give me a hard time, act up etc ill get rid of you I promise... see what she has to say about that. Have her submit to you from the start or say goodbye and keep it that way

    • @jeroenvermunt3372
      @jeroenvermunt3372 Год назад +10

      That sounds toxic man

    • @sxed4vid
      @sxed4vid Год назад +1

      @@jeroenvermunt3372 True, i wouldnt use this wording because it *sounds* toxic. Stay on your path but word it differently, women are all about apparences.

    • @Reaper-ml6ly
      @Reaper-ml6ly Год назад

      @@jeroenvermunt3372 Modern dating is toxic

    • @ridhamatri9447
      @ridhamatri9447 Год назад +2

      More than 70% divorces are initiated by women bro. In reality men usually cope😂

    • @tonic1667
      @tonic1667 Год назад +3

      Sounds like manipulation. Please each other but if it’s a one way street it won’t work.

  • @CiluhStyle1
    @CiluhStyle1 Год назад +50

    That's why we treat them the way we do. It's no point in be truthful, honest, and caring with them. Especially long term.

    • @thickseed
      @thickseed Год назад +1

      🎯

    • @puppyupper4565
      @puppyupper4565 Год назад +1

      you can be truthful and honest and caring. You just have to set firm boundaries.

  • @terra.anguis7326
    @terra.anguis7326 10 месяцев назад +1

    I'm 34...Casey is wise beyond his age. Everything he is saying, I have experienced as a man raised in a feminine society. Men, we must regain our masculine souls.

  • @emmw7794
    @emmw7794 Год назад +137

    100% I'm glad you made this video. I have the same beliefs but when I tell men that I know, they laugh and brush it off. My Ex's friends thought I was controlling, Ex accused me of being jealous. They are gaslighting you. As a man you a right to determinr what behavior you will accept from your Girlfriend. If she doesn't like it, she can leave. That's the attitude we need, men. Set your boundaries and don't backtrack on them.

    • @CharlesCowart-x2w
      @CharlesCowart-x2w Год назад +6

      Yep. Gotta set boundaries in the beginning. I told my current girl back when we were dating (and i say this to any girl i am datng to weed them out), when she brought up the idea of relationships, i told her "listen to me good because i will tell you one time: if you ever expect to go serious with me, then I am not cool with you being friends with guys you used to date. if you do, i will walk away". nip that in the bud early on.

    • @emmw7794
      @emmw7794 Год назад

      @@CharlesCowart-x2w I should have done that. My ex cheated on me with her ex that she hadn’t even seen in 5 years

    • @averycolnite3561
      @averycolnite3561 Год назад +2

      Exactly. And not just girlfriends.
      Anyone.

    • @klopossa2
      @klopossa2 Год назад +1

      ​@@averycolnite3561Absolutely, we've had that discussion..I ask her all the time. Who are you texting? She is usually says sister or female friends. If she hesitate I'll ask to see it. I offer her the same. I don't cheat..Don't want one.

    • @leealex24
      @leealex24 Год назад +1

      Time for men to reverse the tide

  • @finance1man
    @finance1man Год назад +51

    When a man learns he will never please a woman by trying to please her, he will be better off.

    • @marguskiis7711
      @marguskiis7711 Год назад

      Wanking alone is your choice. Go on. Who cares.

  • @LRS11B
    @LRS11B Год назад +102

    Casey, I'm 56 years old, my wife is 5 years older and we've been married for 32 years. She has just confirmed to me that you are spot on on every single thing you've said. Basically, a husband doesn't OWN hus wife,....It's his turn. Should he screw that up, then it's somebody else's turn.

    • @alanmoss2882
      @alanmoss2882 Год назад +23

      it's only your turn? Half the expression sir. The rest is: "There are many, many more women awaiting their turn with you. Ask me!

    • @marguskiis7711
      @marguskiis7711 Год назад

      ​@@alanmoss2882 yep, many desperate crappy women

    • @mvanliere100
      @mvanliere100 Год назад +8

      Yeah if it’s your turn with her then you’re just going to be pleasing her until it’s someone else’s turn to please her.

    • @kom072692
      @kom072692 Год назад +10

      Thats a weak beta way to put it… so does she own you?

    • @thomass6809
      @thomass6809 Год назад +4

      Nawr, that's red pill. If it's just "your turn" you're implying she owns you -->beta!!!

  • @ashtonfrett2536
    @ashtonfrett2536 Год назад +85

    Straight facts!
    I'd rather be alone than be with a woman that causes me problems.
    I've become addicted to the peace and learned the art of giving myself all the attention and validation. For some reason women can't keep away from me now. I can't complain

    • @ElFrak
      @ElFrak Год назад +1

      example of the validation you give yourself? curious on how other people do it

    • @DANGER10101
      @DANGER10101 Год назад

      ​@@ElFrak "oh yeah am the shit" "I got that big d!ck energy" "I beat a gorilla and a grizzly in hand to hand fight" probably

  • @CHRISTIVN.OFFICIAL
    @CHRISTIVN.OFFICIAL Год назад +68

    Literally one of the best videos Casey’s ever put out. The Adam and Eve analogy is narrowed down to the T. Fellas, stop trying to please women. Be indifferent about it all. You’re just fine with or without them, so relax and live and grow as a man. Be you, to your deepest core and don’t compromise your values, morals and what you deserve to appease her. Women want more, more and more than that. Never satisfied. Walk your own kingly path as a man and live.

  • @tripleprotectionservices8156
    @tripleprotectionservices8156 9 месяцев назад +15

    If you've watched this video but still comes back to rewatch, like this comment...

  • @aliMohamed-ev3wr
    @aliMohamed-ev3wr Год назад +32

    They were born to please us & take orders... no mercy!

  • @Northman1963
    @Northman1963 Год назад +17

    There was no info like this for men when I was a young guy. I had no father, no role model, no one to show me the ropes and give me advice. But somehow I managed to navigate thru the nonsense of dating, sex and relationships to a healthy 60 yrs never having been married or being a father. My money was always my own. My time was always my own. No divorce court, no alimony. I'm with a woman now but I have boundaries and if she violates them I let her know. Don't ever let a woman emasculate you. Keep your own bank account. Don't be manipulated. The podcast host is correct. I can tell you from experience most women cannot be satisfied. Don't ever be a simp for a woman, it will end badly.

  • @mannysworld7679
    @mannysworld7679 Год назад +127

    Casey is the big brother that millions of Men needed in their lives growing up 🙏🏼

    • @raginald7mars408
      @raginald7mars408 Год назад

      Men????
      kids
      kin der gar den

    • @BIanka0200
      @BIanka0200 Год назад

      @@raginald7mars408cry

    • @lemat579
      @lemat579 Год назад +1

      Well. Possibly kids

    • @luker1hutcher315
      @luker1hutcher315 Год назад +1

      He's like 2 decades younger, but he's still my big bro man!

    • @BlindfoldSniper
      @BlindfoldSniper Год назад

      Perhaps better than nothing but given the choice between him and my actual role models there isn't actually any comparison.

  • @wheatcandle
    @wheatcandle Год назад +8

    This conversation literally changed my year.

  • @nosotrosloslobosestamosreg4115
    @nosotrosloslobosestamosreg4115 Год назад +35

    It's not a new mindset... it was the mindset our forefathers had to deal with women.

    • @Jo-oc3dx
      @Jo-oc3dx Год назад

      The mindset has been long forgotten but now it needs a comeback

  • @matthewh8573
    @matthewh8573 Год назад +11

    I used to think this was bs, but it’s true. I absolutely adored two of my past loves, did everything I could to show to them. They were two different types of women, yet same results. They both cheated because they had no respect for me. I’m married now with a different mindset for women. I perform my husband obligations, but I’m not basically worshipping my wife and she absolutely loves me. I don’t do anywhere near the things for her as I did the other two and we’re 10 years strong. It sucks that we have to fight the urge to love our women the way we really want to. That’s what feminism did to the dating world.

  • @brianfank4634
    @brianfank4634 Год назад +34

    Being single is the real way to go, no dumb drama 🎉

  • @cuts240
    @cuts240 27 дней назад +1

    Great insights . And a world of knowledge and truth… I see the “light” as well

  • @kaalidasacharya7543
    @kaalidasacharya7543 Год назад +31

    Casey you are a true motivator. As you rightly mentioned 99% of men today have lost their masculinity. Your guidance is helping us to gain what we are supposed to have. Hats off to you Bro!

    • @CaydenJLuther
      @CaydenJLuther Год назад +1

      I'm 20 years old and I personally never had much interactions with girls whatsoever because I caught onto divorce rates skyrocketing, false accusations being thrown, and I seen no relationship besides my grandparents relationship ever work so I kind of don't think it is worth it personally but for others if they can get a wife and kids and their loyal I'll be happy for them as much as I am for my grandparents relationship of 53 years

  • @genrichyagoda715
    @genrichyagoda715 Год назад +12

    I’m Somali & an aunt told me once a woman likes hot & cold toxicity some days be loving & caring and some days be assertive and cold & that you got to switch it up. Never be that guys thats always tending to her needs and is always available emotionally otherwise shes going to ruin you. Its sad but its the way they are hard wired. Be indifferent if you want your relationship to last.

  • @trillmix0652
    @trillmix0652 Год назад +46

    You telling the truth. I even noticed this with my own mother. She has a nice house, and nothing's wrong with it. She talking about painting the walls a different color. 6 months later, she'll want another color.

    • @ak-up8fg
      @ak-up8fg Год назад

      And also blaming everyone for her fault. I love my mom but we all should agree female are the worst mentally messed up creature. My dad work all day 3 job and she doesn't stop complaining. now i understand my dad more and love him he was our sacrificed underrated man. I wish him nothing but heaven because i know he is not going to rest cuz mom won't shut her mouth when he stay home

    • @PremiumFuelOnly
      @PremiumFuelOnly Год назад +1

      Your mom too??

    • @trillmix0652
      @trillmix0652 Год назад

      @@PremiumFuelOnly pretty much

  • @danielwilson3313
    @danielwilson3313 Год назад +48

    This is absolutely true. My wife leaving is proof of this. Its painful how true it is.

    • @davidpark2509
      @davidpark2509 Год назад +17

      Women are literally big children

    • @user-lz2mt5nc9e
      @user-lz2mt5nc9e Год назад

      @@davidpark2509 and if you can't even control a child what can you control?

    • @notsure8879
      @notsure8879 Год назад +1

      Stay strong brother

  • @eyesonphilly
    @eyesonphilly Год назад +31

    You had sub 30k subscribers when I first came across you a few years back. I’m not surprised in the least you’re now over 400k. You earned it, Casey. You have a gift of observation and to teach. Wise well beyond your years. Keep up the good work. Respect ✊

  • @AndrewGrinchak
    @AndrewGrinchak Год назад +2

    Boy, did i need to hear this sermon on the mount... you got some gift, bro. Keep it shining.

  • @SeleccioneUnNombre
    @SeleccioneUnNombre Год назад +6

    CASEY, THIS IS absolutely your BEST VIDEO BY FAR.

  • @mikemike4697
    @mikemike4697 Год назад +5

    However big your platform is, it needs to be one million times bigger. This message is 100% accurate and the delivery is much more palatable for the sensitive ear than other influencers who push this scientifically factual message. Keep preaching, all young men need to hear this.

  • @chunknorris6299
    @chunknorris6299 Год назад +15

    Hey man I really respect you and your videos. This was probably one of the best because it gets to the root of the problem. Having game only does so much but how you actually are as a person will dictate almost everything in your life.

  • @Jeremie.Estrada.
    @Jeremie.Estrada. Год назад +7

    This video was indeed impactful and wise & true asf! you basically setting yourself up for failure if you try to please women

  • @GreggBoe
    @GreggBoe Год назад +8

    Casey I picked up your MBT course for $20 well worth the 20 thanks big dawg! Already seeing better results after 3 weeks or so!

  • @Amando_1017
    @Amando_1017 Год назад +2

    Boss man, this video just really cleared the smoke and made things with women a whole lot clearer. Thank you. It’s going to be in my mind for the whole week as an attractive young man who earns good money, takes care of himself and his family, smart etc. I appreciate men like you in this world spread this message too hundreds of thousands.

  • @JayBoogie137
    @JayBoogie137 Год назад +20

    Learned this a long time ago. Some of the best advice ever.

  • @michaelreed9805
    @michaelreed9805 Год назад +2

    Exactly, I call it the invasion of SIMPS and how they shaped women's mindset

  • @apshappysobriety5414
    @apshappysobriety5414 Год назад +42

    You are a Star🌟I‘ve been dumped recently! And i think it was for the behavior you‘re been talking about! You live,you learn….or listen to your videos and know about what might be going to happen without fear! Thank you,Casey for the intense work and clarityof your advices🙏🏼

  • @realSpook
    @realSpook Год назад +15

    I really hate how spineless I was before realizing this

    • @streetkombat6088
      @streetkombat6088 Год назад

      I learned this along time ago

    • @bearbeitungwo-xw6gs
      @bearbeitungwo-xw6gs 16 дней назад

      same and that transces to all women no matter the age and status..
      I got b*tched by my female Chief financial officer in my company. I needed a job but she esentially talked sh*t towards me and my personality.
      I had enough after watching this video here and seemingly got her respect after I stood up and said my opinion about her.

  • @pratik6342
    @pratik6342 Год назад +11

    Women focus on what they don't have and then they fantasize about it. If you give yourself completely to her, it's over.

  • @GBU61
    @GBU61 Год назад +7

    This is why a man should maintain an attitude of indifference with any woman he sees as worthy. If she thinks she has any leverage, she will use it. Best move is to maintain your own home and see her when convenient. Any man who gets married is playing a losing game.

  • @gregpettis1113
    @gregpettis1113 Год назад +22

    You have to put her on a emotional roller coaster

  • @jayservices9692
    @jayservices9692 Год назад +2

    Man this video is a god send. This is probably the most realest thing I’ve ever heard in my life I swear. I always had this thought in the back in my mind but never said it because people would call me misogynistic or whatever. But I always knew deep down pleasing should be both ways if not more towards the man. Thank you so much for making this.

  • @ffirmezza9010
    @ffirmezza9010 Год назад +25

    Keep spreading the message Zander! It’s never too much to hear you… people think your content is repetitive but they are so naive! Reaching the essence of God it’s never a finish work and I really feel the path you are forging about seeking the primordial essence of life

    • @DiggingDeepVlog
      @DiggingDeepVlog Год назад

      There’s only so many videos one can make before getting repetitive. Truth is his content says most of the same things. One should take his advice but you must also apply it in real life.

    • @zKaRiisMa
      @zKaRiisMa Год назад

      I agree

  • @techiegz
    @techiegz Год назад +8

    Facts! You can't make them happy and once you listen to them and give them what they think they want is doomed. Treat them all like the one you don't want to be with.

  • @HisPerfectpeace
    @HisPerfectpeace Год назад +10

    Wowwww your 27 yrs old!? Your a genius bro! I’m 43 and now getting this gheezzzz

    • @briandam8126
      @briandam8126 Год назад +3

      I’m 58. There was no internet back in the day with content like this. All we had was TV and movies (bs propaganda).
      It’s never too late

    • @mrtannguyen1122
      @mrtannguyen1122 Год назад

      You guys are simps. It is never too late😊

  • @KK-sg5gl
    @KK-sg5gl Год назад +6

    If I want to please a woman and she disrespects me or leaves me for that, then she’ll never get a second chance with me.
    I’ll do exactly what I want to do. I won’t walk on eggshells of what any “expert” has to say about manipulating women.

    • @TigerPaint92
      @TigerPaint92 7 месяцев назад

      Another way to go about it. I don't blame you.

  • @mrbabyhugh
    @mrbabyhugh Год назад +11

    9:13 OMG CORRECT!!! I been saying, it matters not if you believe the story or if it's true it not.... IT IS A TEACHING, the whole ESSENCE. I been saying also, once you understand the story of Eve and the apple, you will understand women AND LIFE. Young, my mother encouraged me to read the Bible, HOWEVER, she said most importantly, not everything in it is literal, try to look at it from different perspectives.

  • @SB-wj6dw
    @SB-wj6dw Год назад +9

    This is some distilled good shit. Thankyou bro, it feels like im shaking out of a haze of societal and parental emasculation and shame, and i literally feel like im "allowed" to be a male. I can feel suppressed energy being allowed to surface and be acceptable to utilise, which i can feel is masculine energy. I can't believe how shunned my masculinity has been since i was a boy. This is new. It's freeing, and i feel strong

  • @educ8te
    @educ8te Год назад +19

    Thanks for all the material Casey.hope younger guys get this info in time.

  • @PD-km2jm
    @PD-km2jm Год назад +3

    This video is the summary of your entire video contents of your RUclips channel. This is the utter truth you are speaking. This is the god of all your videos.
    Thanks.

  • @andrewcrossman2165
    @andrewcrossman2165 Год назад +14

    This is truth, this exact thing happened to me with two girls i was seeing at the same time

    • @debsaye3360
      @debsaye3360 Год назад +1

      Goodjob brother, they do the same

  • @AsiabakaIzuchukwu
    @AsiabakaIzuchukwu Год назад +5

    The fact that u use biblical stories is fantastic love u man 💯

  • @BackSlidBacktoGod
    @BackSlidBacktoGod Год назад +4

    You are God sent, God bless you brother

  • @rvoykin
    @rvoykin Год назад +6

    This is the most true video I’ve ever seen the harder I try in a relationship the worse it gets the relationships where I’m very aloof and not super into it. I get treated the best every time.
    Once I finally decide, I’m actually into a chick and step my game up. She treats me worse directly correlated to how much better I treat her.

  • @CiluhStyle1
    @CiluhStyle1 Год назад +10

    Absolute truth. Ita not in mans nature to please a woman. But we learn through them. It's their job to please us because they are made to help us and they are beneficiaries of us.

  • @smokeynewport1591
    @smokeynewport1591 Год назад +1

    Dude is on point. Wish I’d learned this lesson long ago without all of the real world experience to know this is straight truth.

  • @Luis-ik8vu
    @Luis-ik8vu Год назад +8

    Dude that Adam and Eve analogy was on point. We need to take back control boys. We can make it together.

  • @CDRFINANCE
    @CDRFINANCE Год назад +2

    Listening to this Im so chuffed I’m rolling solo, everyday just gets better and if a woman wants in on it, she will need to earn it, erry single day, or there’s the door as soon as this caper is pulled.

  • @beardog6569
    @beardog6569 Год назад +23

    I think these concepts apply to all women, but extra hard on messed up women.
    I’ve been very lucky with women. Good women who appreciate me and show respect. I’ve broken up with all of them except for one.
    Recently, I started dating again after a couple years in my own.
    Dude, the level of entitled messed up is insane. Right now it’s wet season. Honestly, eight girls trying to get me (it’s not always like this).
    So this one girl keeps inviting me for coffee, dinner at her house. We get along and sleep together. And then after 5 days goes 180 on me. “Things happened too fast. I’ve got school (uni). I don’t want to be serious. I don’t want to be casual. I’m leaving the country in a couple of years…”
    Cool. I pointed out that her reasons and her actions didn’t add up. I asked her to think about why she even bothered pursuing me.
    Then…all hell breaks loose.
    Like, the anger of her past and all her issues aimed at me.
    And I promise you I was slow, fun, we partied all night until morning, she was screaming into a pillow.
    And basically, I think she got scared she was developing feelings for me. Told me 5 reasons why we’re not a good match. I’m not a millionaire. I’m not whatever. So I back off, and she’s texting me calling baby, wanting to hang out, upset that I’m busy.
    That’s when I asked her my questions and she fucking lost it. Like, I’m an actual good guy and not a bitch and she is arguing with her own clothes.
    No thanks

    • @davidpark2509
      @davidpark2509 Год назад +13

      The higher the body count a woman has the more psychologically damaged she is. Soul ties are a real thing.

    • @beardog6569
      @beardog6569 Год назад +8

      Update; today she said she’s sorry if I’m confused or hurt or both. Let’s talk it through or just be friends. I told her I’m neither hurt or confused. Her words and actions don’t align. I don’t want a relationship, need a hug, want commitment. That was probably too much talking already. She got pissed and told me to meet her after class. I told her I don’t know who she’s arguing with, but I’m not the guy. Let’s just leave it alone. There’s no need to talk…and she’s “No, you and I are talking face to face tomorrow. I’ve got some things to get off my chest.”
      Ummmm I’m not your enemy, your punching bag or your past.
      It’s pretty intense how she chooses the opposite of me. If I say yes, she’ll say no. She wants space and I give it to her, she’s mad I’m not giving her attention.
      I swear, I know she’s good underneath this dysfunction but I don’t need this in my life and she can’t believe I’m walking away.
      Yeah…do you not remember your own words?
      Anyhow, no more updates. This isn’t Reddit.
      Just thought I’d let you know.
      Yes, she’s strong and independent and is trying to deal with her childhood trauma…except that I don’t tolerate crazy and she wasn’t expecting that because she’s used to being in control.
      I don’t want that, so bye Felicia

    • @alexanderhamilton8585
      @alexanderhamilton8585 Год назад +3

      I’ve had a couple of crazy chicks recently. One was literally crying, saying “I LOVE you!” As she was literally squirting over and over
      The next day:
      “We’re not a good match”
      Ok.
      Another I had to block cause she just wouldn’t stop texting me.

    • @beardog6569
      @beardog6569 Год назад +4

      @@alexanderhamilton8585 💦 F’ing crazy bro. Mine squirted too, but tried to hold it in. No “I love you”. What I don’t get is what’s wrong with these women? Could have been good instead of this darkness. Wth?

    • @Usman.akuban
      @Usman.akuban Год назад

      Damn, beard you been thru the mad ...🥶

  • @TheNissandd
    @TheNissandd 11 месяцев назад +1

    dammmmmn man a big like for this video, a lot of women see me as a freak because i have this same mindset of not pleasing no dmn woman. and eeeeeeverything you said here is just spot on. i subscribed

  • @blaydepenza1531
    @blaydepenza1531 Год назад +4

    Never dawned on me to say it this way, but soooo true!

  • @maxgilreath0813
    @maxgilreath0813 Год назад +2

    A 67-year-old man, "Be a Man" Over the many years of following content creators, Casey's message hit the core of the male-female problem. A message for the ages!

  • @supersonicslashx4741
    @supersonicslashx4741 Год назад +10

    Facts 💯 The rising divorce rate only proves this

  • @everettwells3812
    @everettwells3812 Год назад +1

    Thnx broskie! Just started incorporating this into my daily life and within 48hrs, the change is massive. Luv from canada 🇨🇦...just jumped aboard the subscribe train.

  • @oscargonza2748
    @oscargonza2748 Год назад +5

    Be stoic and practice indifference when dealing with these chicks the more you try to please them the more they despise you and play foolish games

  • @lemat579
    @lemat579 Год назад +1

    "they can't be pleased. This is impossible" - now, you have convinced me.

  • @danielwilson3313
    @danielwilson3313 Год назад +20

    Our society breeds narcissistic women. I care and she still wants to leave. Leading the family everything but still not enough. And she definitely did not care about pleasing me.

  • @jacobgitonga4160
    @jacobgitonga4160 11 месяцев назад

    I'm now 60yrs of age and I have witnessed exactly this as the plain truth. I again salute you sir.

  • @Keviekev115
    @Keviekev115 Год назад +3

    “ they will lead you to the gates of hell” never heard truer words

  • @notsure8879
    @notsure8879 Год назад +2

    Gentleman these are facts , he's speaks the truth , The more you give her , the less you get !

  • @justinsugay1149
    @justinsugay1149 Год назад +8

    When I was younger all I cared about was getting the girl. But I never stopped to think about how I would obtain her and now that I'm older I realize it's far more important how you get her vs just getting her by any means because the price you pay if you do not set things up right is way too much and what I mean by that is if she doesn't respect you with the way you go get her, you don't really have her. And that defeats the whole thing, but if she respects you, you'll be a lot happier, which is the whole point, so be careful. Make good choices best.

    • @mikeoms
      @mikeoms Год назад +1

      That is 100% spot on. I can vouch for that experience in my life. Women judge and put a label on you the moment they meet you. If you meet her in some club, Tinder or even walking up to her on the street simping, she will never respect you in her heart from that moment. She has to show interest in you from the beginning and earn your attention.

  • @derricklizana4065
    @derricklizana4065 Год назад +2

    This is the best video you have ever made. I watched it several times so it would really sink in

  • @johnkariuki6413
    @johnkariuki6413 Год назад +4

    Very true and straight to the point 👌

  • @fareedingram4626
    @fareedingram4626 Год назад +1

    @ C.Zander !! You are already ahead of the game 🎯!! I Wish, I was put on game instead of a trial and error ⚠️ @ My younger times in Life !! .. We was put here to LEAD!! They are the help & we follow!!! ..

  • @brentc78
    @brentc78 Год назад +3

    Great video Casey! I’ve come to the conclusion that if you give her everything. She won’t have a role or fulfillment for you. You need to create a void for her to emotionally fill or else she will find somebody else to fill it for.
    Give her a role to fulfill and serve just as you are there to serve as a protector and a provider. If you don't, it will be somebody else turn. You truly never have “her”. You cannot possess her.

  • @politicomania5692
    @politicomania5692 11 месяцев назад +1

    Plain and simple, right on point...

  • @marlanoronha4065
    @marlanoronha4065 Год назад +6

    This is brillant. This is why we love the man who doesn't give a f*ck to us, so we focus on him, since is the missing piece. Actually, nowadays, in the Instagram times, everybody is unsatisfied. Men are always looking for something too.

  • @bryangibbs8605
    @bryangibbs8605 8 месяцев назад

    Brother... You are truly a gift. Thank you for everything that you do. May God bless everything that you do. Again... Thank you. The conviction and truth behind your words are unmatched. You couldn't pretend to lie about this if you tried to, and all of us men know that what you say is truth via experience... Because no matter what we did, how hard we tried, we lost to ourselves not them. Knowledge is truly power.

  • @stephensams709
    @stephensams709 Год назад +5

    I'm "68" and I wish that I had known this stuff 50 years ago : }

  • @ngonz79
    @ngonz79 6 месяцев назад

    Well said

  • @gnarlytothemax
    @gnarlytothemax Год назад +6

    you're a legend