5 HUGE Mistakes Men Make When A Girl "Pulls Away" (Do These & Lose Her FOREVER)
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In this video Marni reveals 5 major mistakes men make when a girl pulls away and her 2-step strategy to re-attract the girl into your life! So many men make these silly mistakes and lose the girl of their dreams. After watching this video, you will NEVER be one of those guys again.
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I love how women have all these weird character tests that they themselves would absolutely fail if someone did it to them
Well fuck me, is she serious, so if a man shows emotions he is weak, if he doesn’t show he has no heart, what the fuck do women want?
@@overcomeego3893 everything
I guess intrinsically if girls stop being like that then i feel like where is the fun. All these crazy things girls do is the things that ultimately tether us to this world. If it was not the case than we would be extinct a long time ago :)
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Very well said.. I wish we cud show them the mirror..
She pulled away, I let her go. A year later I get “the call”, she says she thinks about me all the time. My response: “I wish I could say the same thing”
Oh ! Thats the SWEETEST revenge my man ! F'n nice!! High - five !🤣
@@dwade6322 exactly right
You use to work at gambro?
🤯🤯SWEEET REVENGE FEELS GOOOOOOOOOD😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈
Nice
Saved you 15 minutes: Do nothing and be happy, never chase someone who's only looking for validation. Love is not a test and if it turns into one it's not love.
Facts
You're right Sir
Thanks Dude, that's a good comment!
@@MysterySeeker-xs8xdtiming is everything though
The TESTS are Subconsciously done, they don't have any idea they're even doing it, or any control like when you walk, drive or habits, get it, its not intentional.
Games. At 58, there is no way I am going to play along with this silliness.
I used to be the chaser, confesser, overly wordy psychoanalyst. Total waste of time.
If a girl wants to be with you she will. If she doesn’t, she won’t. Accept that quickly and move on. If she comes back, check for authenticity, go from there.
Authenticity is the key word. Without it there's nothing, and it seems many women avoid authenticity while testing you for yours. And you're over here being 100% straight up and open... and that's a bad thing? Fuck those types.. avoid and go for the better (though seemingly smaller) selection of actual women who don't play games.
If she pulls away, say "goodbye."
You don't want to be with anyone that plays these stupid games.
Hahaha
@RCHobbyGuy92 hahaha
The age of playing games are over. Women who want to men to play their games can thank the feminists who took the #Metoo movement and turned it from something good to trust all women no matter what. When you have enough false rape allegations and enough women treating men like shit. Of course things are gonna change. We don't know if a woman pulling away means she really wants you to come after her or if she's really pulling away. Unlike before where a man can try a couple of times before he gets the hint that she's really not interested. You can't really try more then once unless you wanna be branded a stalker or something worse.
Playing games with Women is risky. If they aren't into you then best to leave
I find it very stupid that women feel like they can just pull away or do whatever they want with men and we are just suppose to take it and wait until she decides she wants to talk to us again. I find it very stupid that we men are expected to put up with their bullshit. We are in the era where men and woman are treated equality 50/50. I am no woman ass kisser, if she pulls away i do just the same.
Haven't you watch the video?
No backbone?
This video has taught me how much women overrate themselves.
Def !
Very astute observation Man!! Especially when the truth is that the majority of them are ridiculously basic.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@zatiticherry3421 😅😅😅
@@samuelt.kisaame7787 I love women though; I just don't let them walk all over Me. 😎
@@zatiticherry3421 Same here.
1) Don’t simp 2) Don’t confess in desperation 3) Don’t get angry just ignore her, be calm and collected 4) Don’t be apologetic 5) Don’t question your self worth if she pulls away for no apparent reason, you aren’t the problem…she is.
Okay so what if im just now seeing this and kind of messed up already you got any tips on how i could maybe fix things? She blocked me on everything
It’s done bro. The best chance to turn it around is move on. Move on for you. Not them.
@@snowlmaoo if you can still meet her in person and talk to her face to face that would be the solution, otherwise it’s probably over
And you wonder why i feel sick when i like a girl lolololo be a fake and play like you don't have feels and she'll come back to you - ugh evolve already please!
100%
Studying and understanding a woman is like a rocket science these days. But as soon as you drive your super car , they are most simple and predictable creatures..
😂
If a girl pulls away when you're showing her the best version of yourself you can guarantee she'll turn away later on down the line when you have a moment of weakness. A relationship with a girl who is measuring you for consistent hyper-masculinity leaves no room for the reality of the struggles off life. You will undoubtedly falter at some point and she won't be there to support you.
A women should think how she can support his men in difficult times and these stupid bitch@s busy in playing games❤❤
prob another girl who likes to get beat or treated like crap.....
Idk if I should not text her but should I still talk to her inperson ?
seriously great words brother
@@Tbvnks_clipssss even I not sure but give it a try
Love how she says woman are repulsed at a man being fake when this whole video is about a woman being fake towards a man.
This
But, it's not about being fake because women do not do this stuff intentionally.
that true wot u say brother
Exactly 😂😂
😂😂😂 refreshing take
There's TOO MANY ways a man can turn a woman off. It feels as though you're not allowed to be human, show vulnerability, or even share how you feel because the moment you do, she'll view you as weak and pull away. They then have the audacity to question why Chad doesn't care about them; it feels like a circus to watch this pattern unfold time and time again.
Don't shut up bro. That was golden. 👍 We guys aren't all walking erections, some of us have what used to be called hearts.
Who is chad ?
Well said!
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Yep, I totally agree
Be a choice my brothers. Not an option, do not chase. Be humble and accept whatever happens
Making a choice comes from having options though.
@@13lood13ath be a choice out of self respect
If a woman pulls away from you, forget her and move on. There will always be someone else who values you and won't play games.
So tru
Facts. If you have to try and “win” someone over then you’ve already lost. Healthy relationships whether they’re romantic or platonic should always be effortless.
Word
Exactly...
This.
Fuck this bullshit.
I like how we’re not allowed to love or feel or be ourselves at all.
I hate dealing with women.
If U're a shitty person with no joy in life, brainwashed by stupid media, maybe it is fine that U're not allowed to be yourself.
Still you're allowed to be the best version of yourself and constantly get better at everything. ;)
Sick of their bllsht
it shows why the woman is the problem in the first place
One Lawrence to another I concur. A wise man once told me that your woman should be in your Top 5 but they should rarely be your top priority. In other words, women are the spice, not the meal.
Women don’t love men. Don’t expect it. It is unrealistic. Also, put “right now” on the end of anything she says.
Women don't appreciate real love and romantic affection. It's sad.
Nice guys can do romantic stuff,
Mostly when they're narcissist 😢
It's all boils down to this truth. Complicated and insincere. Poor men who may be straightforward and sincere are in real trouble.
I know men who worked hard all their life to earn a living and to provide a lavish home for his wife and children only to hear at the end. " What have you given us
, nothing!. Sometimes, it's the mouth used as a weapon to break hearts.
Is it love if you’re only doing it to get laid?
I'm a passport bro living in the Philippines! After many hours of viewing such videos I've come to the conclusion that it's too much damn trouble to meet a girl and have a healthy relationship. I'll stick with my dogs, cats and stuffed animals who never give me grief, always glad to see me and they never play silly games! In other words, it's too much trouble to find a decent woman! Cheers all!
Wait bro, there are many many women in the Philippines that know how to love and support their man. Super easy to meet and genuinely sweet and loving. The pi is the land of perfect partners. No way you can't know that.
....unless you don't really want a woman? Which is cool too, but just sayin you know?
I've joined a website, flirt with women while out and recently met, Cassy! I see a lot of potential! We'll see...!
Why would you want a women thats not evem like you culture wise or looks wise. Ive done the same thing and honestly it shows you are low value. Just return home and be happy alone.
Stuffed animals bro? Hahaha no wonder u single😅
Ohhhhh,HOW I WISH I could mash that "thumbs-up" to this a MILLION times!
My friend was calm and collected after his gf stopped talking for no reason and its been 3 years and he is still calm and collected. 😂
Haha crazy. 😢
Good for him; the man knows his purpose and value.
But does he know why she stopped talking?
@@azmike3572 2 possible reasons. She is not in love anymore or someone else showed up.
Not to mention the money hes saved
She’s not testing you. She’s doing Tyrone or Chad in accounting and she has you as a back up. Move on and don’t take her back.
My friend here is a fan of strong successful male I see
You know what R.Vazquez,..hate to say, you are probably right! ha ha,..
Real shit 😌
Not Tyrone!?
acc. to many women's lit. 50% have friends as back ups, one should always be most dominant man in a girl's life, women are to be monogamous. this is why "backup guy" has an affair or another girl he is no. 1 in many times due to her seeing him as dominant which hit her hard due to a shock factor now but by then man shes her as less feminine and used and not attractive.
Why would anyone want to stay with someone who is emotionally manipulative? Calling it "biological behavior" is a poor attempt at justifying manipulation.
I agree.
@@mrxram2866 me too. I WAS going with a girl like that.she turned out to be a psychopath. Lies ,manipulating and cheating...
A grown man who know the game can’t be manipulated, she’ll just end up playing herself
@@actsofabundance9079 I did not mean me being manipulated. I meant that I will not manipulate women to get what I want.
No, it's biological.
Okay, slightly. It has a biological basis, but has been fine tuned by our advancement in socialization and verbal communication. So it's acted out socially, but triggered by a biological basis.
Just step back, control emotions, and reduce contact. Introspect in silence, hold your dignity, avoid self-blame, be observant, and be respectful, patient and calm as much as possible - for your own health.
If she pulls away, move on and find a better girl.
That's what I usually do. I don't play games.
@@TV-Tony exactly.
If a better can find
Why do you think they are still called girls.....
They have the mind of a child, some a vicious narcissist.
Her loss,...
If a girl pulls away just move on with your life. Chase your dreams, goals, work on yourself, you will find someone who truly loves you and doesn't "pulls" away just because is bored. Trust in your gut and be with the people that make you feel wanted!
You definitely should move on
Yes the reason she's going cold is because it isn't a good match. That's the core issue.
Pulling away is tacitly asserting she does NOT fear losing you. She wants to TOY with you and suck you into the mind-game toilet swirl. It's just basically disrespect. I would ghost them if I had that happen.
truth @@iamsobeautifulomg
This actually just happened to me and it backfired on her. If a female is really interested in you there’s little to no resistance. Fellas if she pulls back FALL BACK! Never ever show her that you care. Make her chase your validation. Do not compliment her show her very little to no interest. Don’t allow anyone to play with your emotions.
Happend to me around the beginning of the year. Mind you this is a coworker. And then like 4 or 5 months later she, out of nowhere, on multiple occasions, wants my opinion on her bf's actions asking me if I think its weird. I told her her relationship is non of my concern. Basically a nice way of saying I don't care.
Facts
Ye this is what I did, I was going out with a girl for about 4 months and suddenly she gets well cold on me and then eventually says she wants some space so I just said okay no problem and didn't bother with her anymore, 1 month later she tries getting back with me and I say no, then she starts spreading rumours about me to my colleagues saying I'm abusive ect but luckily they all knew me well enough to know it was bullshit
Exactly ✅✅✅
@@toriquethefreak68 She was trying to get you interested again, for whatever reason.
" if you doing this out of the anger , you'll lose her for ever" , losing wrong person forever is much better than carrying on with her forever
Fax
Right on!
preach brotha
Exactly, honorable men do not play this toxic game to earn a toxic woman as a prize😂
I’ve done all the “right” moves with several girls that were playing these kind of games. You don’t ever win them over. They just continue to play games and it’s a never ending nightmare. Girls that behave like this should be avoided at all costs. Trust me I’m speaking from experience. Don’t ever take dating advice from women.
i fking agree with u, man
Yes brother, these kind of selfish girls use their pussies as bait so yes experience teaches us to avoid this thwats
EXACTLY
True
You're absolutely right.
Mistakes Women make : playing childish mind games, it tells men you're manipulative
Perfect💯👍👍👍💯💯💯💯💯 🥰
not really... you are to play games w the girl as well... girls love it when two can play
Both sides can play mind games . I'd prefer people to be straight forward
I agree.
I agree too
What truly sucks is when you know a break up is your fault. I let my drinking destroy the 2 year relationship I had with the most beautiful soul I’ve known. She was right to leave me. I’ve gotten sober and made changes in my life, but when someone doesn’t really care that you’ve made those changes… there’s absolutely nothing that you can do to get that love back
I'm in a similar situation. Hopefully we can get to be better.
As a person who has been in that situation and recovered. By the grace of God i have six years of sobriety, don’t worry there’s another woman for you down the pike.
Self pity is not a good route to take my friend.
Got
Sometimes a woman is the reason a man starts drinking.
As a woman....I don’t know if I agree with all these reasons. I don’t think like that nor my girlfriends. But guys if the girl is pulling away to test you then she is definitely not worth your time and vice verse. I appreciate an honest and direct conversation. I don’t have time to test and play an emotional game. We aren’t in high school or college. 🤷🏽♀️
You have wisdom
When was a woman ever honest?
Never
Suspicious
Love the way you think
Sounds good on paper.
@@stu3775 this
She pulls away, I walk away. She ain't the only one in the world. Abundance mindset, remember?
These dudes forget to realize that it’s female nature and pretty much all females are gonna play games. You can either learn about the red pill from people like AMS, StephisCold, or keep complaining about female nature and waiting for “the one that’s tired of the games”
If you many to prevent yourself from not chatting on her again what to do pls
With all due respect and sincere gratitude towards Marni for her honest and enlightening insights, it seems like most (if not all) women are naturally toxic, even if they are not consciously trying to be.
Something I learnt recently: men should attract, not pursue
Facts.
Preach
I had my girl being toxic to me yesterday. Its like...they evolved to start shit so that they can test you. same like she says. They want to know they have a guy that don't take shit when it's BIG trouble and they will lay down the law...but also test if the guy is getting upset about small issues she created or not.
I'm a violent man...I WILL fuck her up if she starts shit. But they stay...even if you fuck them up good. I'm talking blood nose and concussion here...but they stay. Why? Because "if he fucks me up, he is a no shit guy that will fuck someone up protecting me...and he cares enough to get violent with me, so he will care enough to get violent with a saber tooth tiger if one attacks be by the cave". On the flip side, the little things she starts shit with, she wants to know that I don't get upset about them. So like...yesterday she tried to challange my authority, and I just said (jokingly) "shit the fuck up bitch...Im the boss here and I will smash your pussy into an old roast beef sandwich if you carry on".
And she laughed and the problem was gone. We supposed to not take their tests seriously and then when something serious DOES happen, we supposed to unleash the beast...or at least show her that we can when needed.
Absolutely perfect
Women have the inwardly drawing energy of attraction. Women are the attractors. Do you see females pursuing males in nature? They only call for the male to pursue her, but they never hunt for male mates. It’s the man’s job to do the hunting.
show your feelings=weakness; wow, didn't see that one coming
Be authentic. Tell your feelings. But don't be needy or attached.
@@kumarlaxman400 so don't say anything that has emotion. LOL look how contradicting that sounds, do u even hear yourself? i mean do women or this woman even hear herself? they contradict themselves ALL the time. it looks so stupid like we talk about room temperature IQs
feelings are emotions, they have desires, attachment/neediness is a feeling, an emotion a NEED. you can't remove it because if u do YOU lie to yourself and you are not authentic self. all humans desire,need and attach to things/humans/living beings , so what are we planting here? are we breeding the next stage of alien civilisation where no feelings attached and we won't even distinguish right or wrong or good from evil ? cuz that's how you breed an emotionless civilisation, with humans who don't give a f.
Basically women justify other women behave badly and we as men are watching a woman telling us to accept this bad behavior so we are being conditioned to think it's okay and we should just deal with it. My girl did the same thing recently and has been acting strange. I told her I'm not going to chase her and she needs to be a better communicator. Men are logical and like to solve problems but we don't need a puzzle for a partner either.
The world is already a freaking puzzle for me already, don't need more than I can chew...if this is what relationships today have turned to, then I am FUCKING not interested...absolute crap
@@stan4288 The Latin Mass has less complicated women.
If she does this, it's because of her attachment type and how she was socialized while growing up. It's possible she has an avoidant attachment type and perhaps even an avoidant personality disorder. It may feel like a puzzle to you, and while I applaud you for the self-respect and for putting up a barrier and standing up for yourself, this may come off to her as you not being supportive of her and, while I mean no offense, does seem to me like it might come from a place of neediness and even frustration/vengeance. "You're ignoring me? I'm punishing you by making you feel bad."
Though I will admit it's hard to get a read on your intention through the Internet - I don't know you nor do I fully grasp the context behind your relationship, but this is the "vibe" I'm getting from your comment, as well as quite a few others here. Lots of pent up frustration from men who don't understand that their date/girlfriend/fiance/wife is pulling away because of past trauma that socialized her to act in this manner and that she may feel stuck and unable to deal with the issue. She might not even understand why she's doing it or what's happening until after the fact, and be stuck with regret and blame herself for it - which in turn, could lead her to develop depression and even borderline personality disorder.
But I will also admit, when "coaches" like Marni make it out to be some sort of unchangeable "biological drive" or "biological imperative" all women have, it doesn't make it better for the dating scene - rather, it makes it much worse for everyone, because it shuts off any analysis of the situation and does not contribute to understanding "why" this happens in the first place. It makes it into a taboo subject. "Stop trying to read too much into it because you're XYZ, women are just like that biologically" is what I hear, rather. This is why I dislike psychopopulists like Jordan Peterson, who should, in fact, know better, simply because they have a PhD or Master's in that field. Rather, I wonder if they're plainly unaware or unwilling to accept the facts due to their own personal trauma that's tied to relationships (and perhaps the inability to accept said facts, perhaps because it brings back something traumatic that they've tried to compartmentalize or hide away/forget), or simply because they're making too much money off of the platitudes they offer to people on social media and RUclips subscribers. Just a little food for thought there.
P.S. - Yeah, I get it, Marni does this because she ultimately means well, and some of her advice is helpful and even brilliant and positive, but she is human, too, and I find that this belief that some things are just "biological impulses" in women and that they are exclusive to women, is her Achilles's Heel. Marni, if you ever read this - Nothing personal, keep doing what you want to do. I just wanted to give my honest 2 cents on this.
@@gofishglobal7919 yup
Perfect
Sorry, im not into game playing females....If they go cold, I move on to the next best. I've learned from my 20's, that I'm not to be tested.
Likewise Charles J! Sometimes you never know what to expect.
@Charles J. Well said, brother.
I wish this info was available years ago, but better late than never. It would have saved me alot of heartache.
If that’s true no woman truly knows you.
100% agree. If a woman does this, I'm just going to move on to the next women who actually wants to be in a relationship
we got a badass over here
No, I don't lose her, she loses me! If a girl tests me, I walk away, if she can't treat any man with respect she doesn't deserve a decent guy. I have the emotional strength to get away from a toxic girl. If she wants to play games, I'll give her a deck of cards.
Big Brain 🧠
Woman test you as an instinct,most times they dont even know they are doing it....you have to be whole with self love....then you will not only pass their tests without even trying,but it might even show them you are was above her tests.
It means You too smart for this shit lol
Or play chess with her. Doubt she's even smart enough to play it.
Chill man!!
if someone pulls away that means you were in a narcissistic & toxic relationship. Better delete that person from your life forever and let them have their own measurable life.
One thing I’ve learned from this video is not to take a relationship too seriously. Just go with the flow. If she wants to contact you again after some time it’s fine, but if she doesn’t then that’s ok too. 😂
But then she thinks you don’t care about her because you don’t contact her that much
@@abolisher just chose not to care. A man doesn’t need to feel desperate for contact. Should be the other way around
@@RedemptionInChrist. same here
@@abolisher Hey Bro!! She initiated it in the first place, right? She went cold so you mirror her behaviour. Never trust any girl who plays these mind games. Not worth your sanity or peace of mind.
@@Paulanthony01 I un added her I have no time for girls who want to play games the funny thing is now she asks her friends why I don’t talk to her anymore.
If she pulls away and you've tried once unsuccessfully to make things work. Just move on and forget about her
Best option since you've tried, to show your love just move on, lot of girls out there that wants you.
WOMEN: want a man to be sensitive, strong, non needy/ desperate, reliable, not too attached, successful, a friend, a confidant, a lover, a shoulder to cry on, a handyman, a tough guy, empathetic, a mind reader....
MEN: want her to show up :) done
Man this is so trueeeeee! So good man! Good job...
This is so fking sad. I wish I was a gay. Would save me so much of this BS drama.
You forgot to add: not jealous, and with a good economic situation, a couple of vehicles and properties...
@@manurobertsdrummer I’ve got all that thankfully. No problem there.
@@1nsaneme973 The only drawback is the taking it up the ass part.
Love this, great message. She goes cold, you go cold, when she comes back - you stay cold, then she "gets desperate, needy, wants to hang out"? Amazing coaching. Now, why would a guy do anything but pump and dump this woman when she comes back?
You know what happens to most normal guys while some girl "goes cold" they meet another girl and when first girl comes back around the guy is now "dating someone else".
To any normal man or woman, someone you are dating disappearing for weeks out of nowhere and pulling back is a giant red flag. It is not a test or normal behavior: it communicates lack of interest and commitment and non-existent communication skills.
Let's imagine an equally toxic male behavior and phrase it as author does: "when you only texts you every other week to come over and fuck, it is his way of testing your emotional commitment as a woman. He wants to see that you will not complain and provide him with sex and sex only when he wants. You refusing sex would signify to him that you will be a difficult and nagging woman, so whatever you do - do not complain, text him, talk about dating, show that him treating you like a blow up doll bothers you. If you do, you will lose this guy forever!"
FUCKIN AYE!!!!!
UNO REVERSE explanation, but they ain't ready to talk about that...
As a woman, even this sounds exhausting to me listening to it. Guys just move on if she goes cold. Try dating someone you share common interests and values with. Lay you cards out from the beginning. If she gets weirded out, just maybe it wasn't meant to be. Trying to build a solid relationship without communication makes no sense.
Well put
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Sounds great, but that doesn’t really work with most women unfortunately. Most women need to be gamed to fall for you. Sad, but true.
Correct title: 5 ways women make hasty assumptions about and apply double standards to men who feel comfortable talking about emotions.
Uh-huh, Clint E., why don't you, as a superior, rational man, tell us about the last purchase or decision you made, which was not based on hasty (faulty) assumptions, double standards, and clever marketing? .... Hey, there are times & places to let out your emotions, but one of them is certainly not to force a woman to fall in love with you (as in: "I've been thinking about something a lot. Why can't you see how much I love you? Why don't you love me back in the same way?! We could be sooooo good together.").
@@glitteringsunshine4306 I bought a gallon of milk most recently. Men and women need each other and no one is superior because of their gender. If a girl stops talking to a guy, and he wants to share his feelings with her before moving on, I certainly don't think he is "forcing" her to do anything. If he has a lot of expectations attached to the sharing that could be a problem for him, but the sharing is just a chance for her to have some class and give a definite yes or no to him so his mind can be clear. Ignoring people is cruel and it is ok for men to hope that they are not surrounded by cruel women.
key wording "double standard" , women who play these games are not worth having your feelings and emotions to f@ck with.
If they don't act right; calmly send them packing...
This is a fact. Head games
1. Over contacting
2. Confessing your feelings
3. Letting anger to takeover
4. Apologetic behavior
5. Questioning your self worth
Wow I did all of these things thousands of times lmao.
What to do step 1 give her space, step 2 spike her emotions when she returns and don’t escalate to quickly. What to do is to spike her emotions when contacting you but without asking her out.
Everything I’m going through now told me she needs space i put her before me and now I’m heartless and cold i was needy clingy and insecure because i let my emotions show never again that shit doesn’t matter
i did the number 2 fuck.ig im doomed.
Thank you.
Just walk away bro. Don't respond to her first two texts if she starts to text you back. Then be cold and distant in your texts for a while. This will drive them crazy and they will try to win you back. Tease her like a fish, reel her in, score, then toss her back and catch a better fish.
I jumped straight to questioning my sepf worth, because it seems lile i attract some damaged women. I'm not a throwaway dude, i work out constantly and also have my stuff together but sometimes i get kicked in the balls.
Im a woman and i hate games..you come correct or not at all. Same goes for me i don't like playing mind games with people..thats some immature bullshit right there.
You may not know this Marni, but men also filter out women who waste their time and who can't handle talking honestly about emotions. Sometimes this is best achieved by treating them the way we would like to be treated by sharing our feelings about the situation and seeing if she is capable of a mature response. You do not necessarily have to give in to your biological tenancy to prejudge men just because they do something a little bit different than you do. It does not make a man terribly weak or desperate to desire clarity before giving up on a girl and allowing himself to pursue someone else.
THIS. Marni's take on how all this should be interpreted or what is or is not a positive quality in a man's character is just wrong....if a girl is this shallow and simple forget her.
@@trepidity23 Couldn't agree more, but to be fair, she isn't the only (woman) dating coach teaching this.
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I totally agree with you. And men should be filtering out good and bad women for them.
The advice in this video was for men who tend to lose sight of this as soon as a woman pulls away.
@@trepidity23 totally agree. Get rid of girls that are no good for you
I disagree man. I’ve known plenty of people who get extremely insecure when they don’t get the attention they crave. I’m sort of one of them. So I cannot refute what Marni is advising. I’ve had a very recent experience & I’m super thrilled I received this vid in my inbox so I can work on myself & become a better person. Truth might hurt and sting (although I couldn’t help but laugh while watching this because of how deathly accurate the pointers are), but at the end of the day, truth is truth. We don’t have to like it but it is what it is. Gotta swallow that pill they call pride.
Men go through ups & downs in life (job/health/children/family). If a woman leaves you when you were at your lowest state physically & emotionally and it was obvious you were temporarily NOT yourself, then don’t ever let them come back after they see you back & better than ever... You’ve dodged a bullet.
That is a fact
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Wise words👑
And this is why it's hard for women to find "a good man."
Truer words haven't been spoken.
Maybe someday... they might get it.
They don’t deserve one if they do any of these things. Period.
Good sum up!
@@clayformations1638Foolish thinking. They will never get it... they do not utilize logic in even the most rudimentary sense.
After some time watching all these videos about the games people play with each other; it feels like men and women would do well to start from scratch and just talk to each other about their feelings honestly, like genuine human beings. I'm just going to go with that, there's got to be a girl out there who feels the same way.
Alternatively, when a woman plays games like this, just move on and find someone who is better suited for you. "Losing her forever" is a good thing when they're the wrong person. And, if they're playing games with you, testing you, sending you mixed signals, etc., there is a great chance they're the wrong person.
Also, someone who's into (this kind of) testing you is stupid. Because a non-stupid person would at least ponder what if the opposite side did this to her - would she like that?
@@georgecarlin2656thats a capacity a lot women dont have....i myself have experienced it.
She went cold on me, and then I realized she's been married the whole time and never told me the truth.
😂😩 daaamn I can relate
dang some of us could write books about that
🤕UCH!
I dated a married women for 7 years she stated going cold saying she felt guilty for cheating on her husband I caught feelings for her now she saying she wants to fix things with him
😂😂😂 oh man the comments are the real show. OMG 😂😂😂
If she pulls away, I just get on with my own life. That way it shows her that I can move on or do things without her. Dating should be hassle and drama free to be honest. One day I'll meet someone who's tired of the petty games too
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GOOD LUCK!!
thank You,bra.🥂
Only if it's a man.
Number 5 hit me a lot. It’s hard to trust another woman when you’ve opened yourself up to them and then pull away without clarity
It really does hurt the self esteem
Trust people who think like psychopaths
My dad once told me flee from that which flees from you. This nugget of wisdom has served me well...I found my queen 17 years ago and she didn't play no head games.
I got rid of my ex because she used to play head games. I'd wake up in the morning and spend half an hour washing off the tic tac toe attempts she'd scribed on my cranium with permanent ink.
Very wise man
Defiantly bro
Mine didn't either. She basically found me in the trash and loved me anyway. And not just 'give him a chance' relationship. She wants nobody but me. Every man should honestly have this, but it feels about as rare as a shark with feet.
Play 'any' head games.
I’ll stay single thank you very much for this priceless educational life lesson. I feel like becoming a millionaire is now possible. Amen
That plan works. You will become a multi-millionaire.
I have stayed single and I’m now a millionaire. Do it.
You don’t need a relationship to be happy
Focus! A woman will just distract you from your path! I hope you gonna make it!
How do you make a small fortune in life ? You start with a big one, get a girlfriend, get married and divorce. Amen.
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Pure comedic gold at min 5:00 "Putting pressure on the girl makes her feel uncomfortable, and if she feels uncomfortable dealing with you do you think she wants to be with you?"
Yet the WHOLE video is about men learning to want to be uncomfortable to a woman's pressures :)))). There are women that do this crazy stuff, and women that just choose not to.
It is as simple as it gets, whether you are a man or a woman, the moment you choose to not take the other person's best interests as your own, you don't want to and you won't love that person.
The total OPPOSITE of love is putting pressure on your partner or testing them or wanting them to be uncomfortable.
So do reevaluate your love game, because just wanting to play games is not only NOT love, it is the opposite of love.
It is making someone hurt by your addiction to the negative, just because you choose to.
Accepting games as a part of love will attract people that play games too, so don't be shocked when you get played.
Women "pulling away" is absolutely a code phrase for "bad manners and unable to communicate." It is not something they do unconsciously, they know that it will cause the man to stress out. It speaks to low integrity and disregard to someone else's feelings. Men may begin to exhibit weak behavior solely because of this "strategy." If you need space, just say so - any reasonable man will understand and give you space.
1. Personally as a guy with abandonment issues, I will never waste a second with a women laying the pull-away game (you admit it as a "test/game")
2. No man I know puts up with pull-away
3. Not sure you even know biology and science either
I'm probably a bad example for what a man does. If a woman pulls away from me I figure she doesn't want to have much to do with me, so I move on. No fanfare, no big speech. I just walk away. What usually happened after that is the woman would call me and be like, "Where'd you go? You stopped calling." Then I would tell them that I thought that you weren't into me so I was just letting you go. Then a litany of excuses would follow with some "let's try again" bullshit, which would turn me off.
The bottom line with me is this: I was never dating just to date. I wanted to get married and have a family. If you play games, I don't want you. If you're too busy for me, I don't want you. If you're flaky and can't remember to call, I don't want you. The woman I marry will be my family and the center of my world. If I'm not that to her, then she's not the one for me. You don't have to be "crazy-in-love" or obsessed with me, but if I'm not important to you now, I won't be important to you later.
Women should learn this lesson too. Trust me, men would stop playing games with you if you did.
You are a king man
HOLY SHIT!!! A LESSON WE ALL, I REPEAT, ALL SHOULD LEARN!!! I’M GETTING TO OLD FOR THE BULLSHIT THIS LIFE HAS TO OFFER!!
Pick a mate the same way you would choose a new puppy. If they run to you , lick your face, and park it on your lap with a big smile take them home. If they run to you, lick your face, then take after their toys pick another.
Seems like women as a rule are wired emotionally back to front to what us men are....but definitely if they start playing emotional games...back of
.. remember you are valuable irreplaceable and non repeatable on this planet... always remember this and walk away with head up high ...plenty more women out there.... dont play ball with someone who's constantly sulking and threatening to take her ball indoors...😉
My significant other claims menopause has destroyed her libido
So tired of the "women are biologically hard-wired to treat men poorly" bs. A woman doesn't have the self-awareness to realize how they're treating another human being because "they can't help it"? So men are supposed to have all this confidence and emotional strength (I believe the repeated phrase was) but women can't have the confidence and emotional strength to just deal with another human in an upfront, honest, and open way? Where does this come from?
A non religious society, who does not value masculinity and its opposite femininity.
Well as men we need to have the strength to look past this side of women. And they may be self aware about whatever situation they’re in with a guy. Sometimes they go a bit too far with their cruelty though and that’s when I dip out.
@@raczyk umm no treating others well has nothing to do with that lol,
Also careful with the logic if you assert this behavior is the opposite of femininity it implies its masculine. Which would mean being masculine is to treat others poorly which i know is not what you mean.
@@LetsGetHighOnMorris its not a side of women thats "hard wired" its a learned behavior he is saying " hard wired" is just another excuse to justify bad behavior its a form of white knighting. It removes the work it takes to hold them accountable for bad behavior.
I do get what you mean tho
Smaller brain, smaller soul?
Divorced twice. 46 years old. Tired of investing in people who walk away.
This lady is not an expert, but speaks for a class of women like her; I’d rather be single... then ever waste my time again with! I’d argue she could possibly be a narcissist
I agree , I already have 2 exes whom remind me of Marni. I watch for the reassurance that I this is not what I want in life...I think I may start everyday looking in the mirror and telling myself " i will run from "Marni's" like they are Satan , only lies and deceit" (repeat 10 times then pray for the Lord to give you legs like a f@cking Ostrich)
@@markdejong2456 absolutely! People like us are empathetic and people like, her.... see our light and try and steal it. They are of the world! And it also seems like, so many women are doing porn through sites like “only fans”! Some of the women are so narcissistic and full of themselves; they think people should pay 35 dollars a month to see them in there bikinis! Lol 😂
its typical narcissistic woman loop nothing to do with testing,
Dont waste our time just to please u with ur games. Dont blame the men if u r not insecurie..they call it "periods'...we have our own commitments on others too..
exactly Nick ... they call it "discarding" when narc's do that. I just lived through it ..... sadly most people don't realize that they're dating a narcissist until the relationship is over ..... and that's a good thing because she would have ended up stuffed in a shoe box under my bed had I know sooner .
If a girl “pulls away” then that’s fine. But when/if she texts me back I “go cold on her.” When a girl plays those sort of games that’s fine but I lose interest....fast. I want a woman who’s strong and decisive. If she’s that unsure of me, then I already know how I feel about her. I’m totally okay being single and possibly forever.
Amen brother, you sound exactly like me
This woman is full of s*** and she's making money off of men who've been dumped and are insecure. Any of this craziness is part of some natural selection excuse the no wonder the divorce rates are so high
Good way to go Kevin, truth to Power.
I loose interest and respect. The respect is a biggie!
Biggest takeaway for me is "living your life". Whether she pulls away, stays, or whatever -- The most important thing for us guys is to continue doing what's good for us. Thanks Marni, this was insightful. For me, that would be 1) Self-improvement and 2) Our passions.
Sound like you'll never supposed marry these wo-man at all...Just enjoy your life and take care of yourself
@@aryehyohan1056 To an extreme end, sure. But whoever it is -- man or woman -- the best relationships, at least for me, and idealistically-rationally speaking, are those where the partners are in full support of one another's goals, dreams, ambitions, and passions. So, no, not to say one won't get married if they know their passions and do their thing. Find someone where you're both on the same page. Or don't, it's whatever, life ain't perfect.
@@lmoral222 your talking to someone that witnessed how evil a woman can be like my mother took advantage of my father every day and act like she was the perfect human being, on the day of my father funeral my mother invited this estrange man at our father funeral and not even a week gone by this same estranged man was coming over to our house as if my father was nothing to my mother.. smh story of life. Goodbye!
@@aryehyohan1056 Sorry to hear that, man. Some people can be really messed up. Take care
I think it’s a lot more nuanced than just these simple 5 “mistakes”. These mistakes are indicative of anxious attachment. Also, she could be avoidant, so regardless of what you do she’s ✌️out. I’m in nc for 45 days and traveling the world and living my best life.
If she starts ghosting you time to move on my friend...no point flogging a dead horse, move on son.
Yup. Fuck 'em.
@@dwade6322 Not literally though.
She acts like a monster, but it's you that makes "mistakes"
Lol my friend said the same shit after she said she got “raped” last year by some Arab guy yet she wanted to sleep with him and it didn’t go well or whatever because of his forcefulness and then I told her that she always likes everyone BUT ME even though he wasn’t shit and she replied with “I’m such a Monster huh GABE 😂” and in reality, YEAH, she’s depressed asf, no job, no car, no nothing.
Waste of time, manipulative bs.
Just do your own thing.
Well put Elvin!
@@GabrielXDrumsyou can't have No nothing.
Wish people would think about this.
I have developed a mindset of "doing my own thing" that includes getting a girl "my way". Call it pride, but I'm tired of conforming to society's "games" in everything. Sure I've tweaked a lot on how I pursue girls, but I've learned to be authentic to myself. When a girl rejects me by doing "my thing" it just shows we're not compatible, simple
When a hound chases a bear or mountain lion what happens?
The bear or lion tries to outdistanced the dog.
Women love to be chased and the more you chase them the farther they run.
If you tree them like the hound them there will be a fight for sure.
Let them run away it's not worth the effort or your time plus it feeds their ego .😂
Exactly.
Respect..exactly right 👊🏽 fff what they like 😂
I like how this lady just acts like women are totally ok ghosting men or being dishonest and we should just be ok with it.
bias is a hell of a thing brother,
women are biased to each other, they are so emotional and this shows why you can't talk logic to their words.
just go do it as a test, find some woman and make jokes and see how she reacts so positively, start a serious conversation about something really serious and see how fast she becomes either bored, or too friendly non sexual to you.
then ask yourself, are you dealing with a logical being? or irrational chaotic sea of emotions just like you deal with kids.
women are conditioned to be in this era, children with adult bodies. period!
She "pulls away", because she's cheating on you. About Face. Forward March. Go find a woman that you can Trust. It's not a contest between you and her newest guy... Just Walk.
This. Two nights after spending the night with her she goes cold and I don’t even get a Happy New Year text. Turns out it was spent at another dudes house.
@@Bamboosh00ts women...
@@Bamboosh00ts It’s a dilemma... bc the girls who f@ck the best, well, they had to learn it someplace!
Agreed
5 Huge Mistakes
1. Over contacting when her validation goes away.
2. Confessing your feelings.
3. Letting Anger take over, do not get angry. It usually makes you too needy.
4. Apologetic behavior. You do not have to be attached to her approval.
5. * most dangerous of all: Experience Regret; where you start blaming yourself; don't do it - it can and will lower yourself worth.
Now what you should do 2 step Strategy:
1. Let her have her space, let her pull away; and you focus on having your own life, and let her have hers. Let her see you are not needy.
2. Spike her emotions when you return.
Good
I done all these and every ex came back. Don't listen to me though every situation is different. But this list is true they'll run back faster when you don't care. Women work in reverse.
she pulls away and doesn't want to spend time with should i ask her that if she really loved me?
@@themadrapper101 what will it look like when she comes back? How do you not fuck it up when she gives another chance?
Probably good advice. But when she pulls away, it's time for a new woman. I usually don't contact her anymore. And when she tries to contact me I will be very hard to find and when she does find me, be very friendly but brief and curt. Tell her that you're really busy. If it's been over 10 days , tell her that you are seeing someone else. She will either run to you. Or not, of not it was over anyway.
Not going to lie, this video only makes me want women less...
Test test test ha ha you failed
Gotta agree with you man.
Yup same here ...its like why even bother
I feel the same way like women think they so smart but really what they’re attracting bu doing this is guys that will break there hearts like straight up. So the strong guys they chose are like super bad for them and their whole thinking is so dumb and wasting everyone’s time
You are making other men easy
I will never Go out of my way for a nother woman again. Peace 💯🙃
I did that to someone I was suppose to get married to. She started being distant and was doing even worse couple months before tge wedding. I just got sick of it. I went cold turkey. No calls or texts and dropped her and actually found peace in it. I agree dont be afraid to lose a person who was never yours to begin with. I was so afraid for the longest time of losing her then all of a sudden I became fearless from within and realized I deserve better. Her ego was so huge she made her mother reach out to me and I had to tell her its better we dont communicate after this. Smh and I was suppose to get married to this girl....remember my fellow brothers we are ALL WORTHY of the love we deserve. We really are....keep your heart in the right place, shoulders back, chin up. Chest out. Walk like tge King that you are and God will send you the person you need in your life.
💯%Agreed
She's 100 percent right on this. I let the time pass as I'm getting frustrated, then eventually chime in as if there's no problem. It worked and things heated up again. It wasn't easy keeping my cool but I felt it was worth it. If it wouldn't have worked I would have gladly moved on.
How long does it take before she texted you again?
You are setting yourself up to get played.
@@larghedoggo9607I think he meant he made contact again. But did it cool.
@@ohcrikey9560 I guess he edited it and it seems he nailed it.
They all pulled away, so I went my own way. Never been more content in all my life, I get to enjoy the best of everything in my life and answer to no one. I don't have to share or consider the other person's feelings while having my own ignored. I give equal and fair treatment. I once was lost, but now I am found and free to live at peace.
There's more valuable information in the comment section than in the video. Funny how "ladies" don't exist anymore, but "knights" are supposed to just materialize out of nothing. Men have never met a unicorn, seen one, touched one- and women who gave it away for free last month expect us to believe that they are the unicorn.
Here's an analogy, fellas- she goes to the store and buys a skirt for $100.
She gets home and finds out that last week it was free.
What does she do?
She returns it and wants her money back.
If she does it with you, she did it with them. If she did it with them, you aren't special. If you aren't special, NEITHER IS SHE.
This video validated why I'd rather be single. I'm repelled at the fact that you think you know men.
Fellas... this also could mean her returning after going cold could be because the other guy she was giving her attention to didn't work out and she thinks you've been on the back burner like a tea kettle waiting for her.
I say a woman knows what she wants immediately and if she go cold on you then keep it moving as if she never existed and live your life. But when she returns...be kind and respectful but don't engage. That's how you mess their heads up because then your body language is screaming you're perfectly fine without her and it's her loss for playing games. 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💯
Facts
A man's superpower with women is;
1. Being able to walk away.
2. Being indifferent.
Awesome advise.
0:26 As a guy the solution is simple just move on with your life and spend your time with someone who actually wants to be with you. No anger no deletion just move on.
From experience....its just not that simple. Marni is right: I've passed up dozens of solid opportunities and I'm glad she brought this up.
@@jebiniv remember i don't mean to be an ass, i don't mean be angry or to intentionaly ignore her any of that just dont worry about it just move to other things if she is interested the ball would be in her court to show interest and put effort.
There comes a point were both sides have to make an effort to participate in a relationship. It cannot be one sided.
Imo you didn't miss opportunities you dodged bullets, at what point do these "tests" stop?
@ Jebi Nivens - you might think that Marni had a point here to make and that you’ve learnt something valuable from her, but the truth is, you haven’t, the next time when the same situation plays up again, you will react the same way as we men are wired to do.
( these scenarios occur to make you feel bad about your situation, doesn’t help you fix your innate behavior, ever )
FYI - ladies, this is how we men are , if she decides to pull back, then she might as well never come back , coz we would have moved on by then , and trust me I’m speaking for every man here, coz we all have and we always do )
@@xMckingwill you guys are completely missing the point here, and not really trying to hear her out. This is the mfing truth. I've experienced this first hand dozens of times, success but also failure in this regard. Women do not look at this stuff so straightforward like we do. You cannot be so blind to the inner workings of a woman's mind when it comes to attraction. Just saying..
@@xMckingwill At the end of the video, it has been mentioned by @marni that there are two steps for going to the next phase. Personally I would suggest adding more toppings depending on the type of girl you are approaching. Different girls give you different types of puzzles, you just have to figure it out bro and solve it. The next initiative or phase which is an actual-practical date or maybe going out. This whole process might take a week or two if you move forward precisely. Better not approach before she signals or hints for physical contact. Girls are mysterious and in this generation (2021), tbh its even hard to find whales in the deep ocean 🌊
Marni, I've mentioned this before: You have such a dynamic range, going loud and soft, and your rate of speaking changes so much, that it's impossible for me to listen for the details of what you're saying! This particular video has no closed captioning, so I can't even read that for understanding. Invariably, you'll say something loud and relatively slowly, then soften up and speed your words to the point that I can't hear them, even after repeatedly rewinding and relistening. I had to quit after two minutes, but I did want to hear what you had to say.
If you show no interest they often come back begging - and I do mean begging - but why take back some crazy woman who is into playing mind games? You are just setting yourself up for daily dramas.
Possibly.. depends on the woman, I guess. But usually once she respects you the "games" stop or lessen.
Real talk
This nice lady is giving women too much grace with this whole thing
You are so right. She talked for quite a while and said very little that applies to a good relationship. Don t be a sucker and believe me there are many out there.
Yes you do plan it out Marni and you know it, this type of character tests usually fail for both parties. The women who don't get exactly what they wanted as a reaction from the men get upset and ghost and the men are left sitting there trying to figure out if he did anything wrong or said something... Games only hurt people and serve nothing but the ego
Yes in deed!
Dont be a weak man. Be confident in who you are. Understand you are a Man. The walking heir of eons of Men that tamed a whole planet. You are valuable. Know your self-worth, and love yourself. If you have issues with your self-worth then improve those things about you that are giving you issues. Do this by doing what all the men before your did..Hard work. Do these things and you will find yourself. Be that authentic person (YOU) all the time. With no fucks given. And when you master that, you will meet a Woman that will not want to leave you for any reason. She will be attracted to you at your core. God Bless Brothers.
If she wants a merry-go-round and roller-coaster experience, just drop off at an amusement park.
That's why most of girls end up with careless guys and missing on caring guys. Girls and guys live in 2 completely different worlds. Girls figure it out later in the relationship when the so call emotionally strong guy starts cheating and playing them. Most caring guys will react as you described it. Not because they are emotionally broken when you pull away, but because they don't understand this particular reaction of girls as you explain it. So, the logical part of them tells them they might have done something wrong or you girls might have being cheating on them(if they don't trust you enough).
I just moved on
yep😞😓
@@jokeyboy1450 yep
exactly.... and later all those 35+ manipulating females are on TikTok complaining about being single bcoz they can't meet decent guys
So sad, but so true to this
Best way to control your emotions is to not give 100% until they’ve earned it in the relationship over time. Best way to do that is to be open to/ or see other women. It gives you the mindset to not be upset when they pull back.
Note: if you are married or living together it’s a whole other story. You have to figure out what is going on and figure out if you should stay together. Many times they’ve already made up their minds about leaving by that point. Lol.
"we can't really help it - it's in our biology"
Thanks for the perfect excuse to do whatever I want as a man, and never attempt to consider what YOU want :)
Yes by her logic,lets just screw around lol we are programmed for that.
A men
SUCH a great point... My biology made me do it... and by it...I mean that other chick while your biology made you pretend to not give a shit about me.
Always love the line about it being "natural" or "biology" yet turning around and using phrases like a "real man" or other such bs. This is funny garbage. Decide the game you want to play or choose love.
@@theairevolution2430 Yup. The messed up thing is... the more I read, the more choices/free will are nonsense. Between the book Thinking Fast and Thinking Slow by Daniel Kahneman and the work of Robert Sapolski from Stanford... it all is just out of our control nearly all of the time.
It depends on the phase guys I think if you're in early relationship and she starts pulling away then do this. but if you're like already in 1 year and she regularly does this although you've communicated well that you dont like being ignored its time to hit the road guys ghost her all the way. Its on her not you
A man and his mission comes first, never forget that fellas!
Facts
Facts
5 Mistakes
1. Over Contacting Her
2. Confessing Your Feelings
3. Letting Anger Take Over
4. Apologetic Behaviour
5. Questioning Your Self Worth
Should Do
1. Give Her Space
2. Spike Her Emotions
How do you spike her emotions if you're giving her space
#3, date other girls while she is playing bs, then you have options and now can compare, she is no longer in your driver seat and she never should have been in it.
When a girl pulls away you go out with a hotter girl and make sure the COLD FISH sees this. The COLD FISH will start calling like her life depends on it.
I agree with that.
Works every time.
Lol yeah I talked to another girl she just stood there watching 😂
lol
Totally true, but if you're still depending on someone else (hotter) to give you self-worth you're missing the point entirely.
Simplified method:
1) if she pushes you away you have two options:
-never respond to her attempts to contact you again
-respond by giving the number of an analyst, explaining that you are really sorry to lose someone like that but that she needs to grow.
Obviously the latter only if you are willing to waste time.
Time is the only real resource we have, it is limited, we do not know the amount, we cannot waste it.
Assess your time well, there is nothing organic about these attitudes, they are congnitive biases and traumas that some people carry around, they are burdens that slow down the possibility of spending the little time we have in our lives in a pleasant way.
Ah, remember to test women, it is something men must learn to do, for their own survival.
Or you will find yourself years later with someone you do not want in your life.
The #1 mistake men make when a woman pulls away is they don't let her go. Move on and find a woman that treats you right.
I moved on all the time ⏲️
Yup
Plenty of fish in the sea
right but you gotta drink coffee though
This is why it is always good to have a rotation of women.
Women always pull away sometimes... so do men who are focused on themselves, actually. It doesn't mean she's 'testing' you. It is usually a matter of seeing a bit too much of each other.. texting too much.. talking to much.. interaction saturation leads to attraction drop. Male/female interactions need room to breathe, to miss, etc. It's not even remotely a big deal so don't make it into one. As soon as she begins to pull away -- you pull away and do your thing. She'll almost always come back around -- when she's ready. If she does -- or doesn't -- it's a win.
Need your advice man. I pulled my gym crush, we had the most successful date I've ever had. Instant connection. She was touching all over me the entire time, sat cattycorner to me during our date (not across from me), laughed with and at my jokes, even began to talk indirectly about sex by mentioning handcuffs, she likes it both rough and sensual and after taking her baxk to my house to get her car, we made out with heavy lust and passion off the rip then she said she had to go (even though I could tell she was fighting the urge to stay and have sex). Great first date. So when I asked her to come over make hot chocolate and lay underneath the blankets (since it was cold out) she hit me with the she didn't know me and wanted to take it slow line but said I'm very attractive, charming and cool (her way as a woman saying she likes me)? I agreed with her to take it slow. But I'm confused because we talked about sex and she even engaged. But now she wants to get to know me and take it slow. I'm so confused. Did I fuck up? How should I move now, bc I feel she pulled back after this just a lil bit? I would move on but my ex was heavily into me just the same and too refused sex on our 2nd outing but later became the best girlfriend I had...was 100% loyal, took care of me, family loved me, liked me more than I liked her, etc. We dated 5 years. Because of this, part of me wants to give this new woman the benefit of the doubt instead of just cutting her off. Then there was this other chick who was friends with a chick my boy was talking too. She was fine bruh. And she WANTED me, literally. She wanted my number, sent me an unsolicited full nude snd i smashed that nite after work at 3am (she waited up for me). She let me hit it raw and everything. There was no "taking it slow". I was deep inside them guts, no date no nothing. Help me out bro idk how to go about this as ive had both ends of the argument go completely good for me.
"This kind of inauthentic behavior is extremely repulsive to women..."- are you even listening to yourself? After10 minutes of demonstrating inauthentic behaior that women are hard-wired for? Seriously?
It’s a woman’s world right now, they have the say over men. To them you gotta jump through all their hoops, then you are in “highest consideration” to them. You gotta have some kind of lack of self respect to be a simp and wait around for this. Just be yourself and don’t chase this mediocre tail
@@asdawgs6870 .....It will never be a womans world. They only think so. Women make horrible men or they wouldn't need us for everything. I'd rather be alone then play childish girly games.
Indeed, and vice versa. 3.5 billion women on this planet. Kindly do not waste our time, we didn't waste yours either.
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About two months ago,I opened up to my best friend for nearly a decade that I thought we knew each other well enough and asked if she was willing to see if we could go the next level and she agreed,even said she had been thinking about it for awhile as well. Here we are two months later and she seems to be backing way off,not just a little mind you,quite the opposite of two people that are supposed to be moving to that next level. I’m not exactly sure what to think about this,she just says that she’s still interested,but won’t say anything else. I’m to the point now where I think she’s having second thoughts and just won’t admit it. She’s waiting for me to grow tired of it and tell her I’m done trying so she can blame me for the failed attempt. I completely understand that sometimes life does get in the way,but when life doesn’t,we should be focused on us and a future together. I’m just too damned old to play mind games anymore…that’s why with me you’re either in or out…no in between
Whatever happened to just simply loving someone. Damn. They way she explains this shit, is the reason why people make love so difficult 🤦🏽♂️
Yep .silly shit
@@johnmshaw49 yes it is
When she pulls this, she failed my test. I'm out. Don't call me.
same.
I agree brother. No need for bullshit games.
It’s hilarious how she thinks she can get into the guys mind in these situation. It’s a woman’s perspective of what the man is thinking in relation to her games. If a girl pulls away she’s not the right one. Do you want the yo yo girl? The good news is there are more women out there, no need to worry about her.
5) Don't assume that you're the problem. She is. Say 'good bye' if you think you did not do anything wrong.