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  • Опубликовано: 19 окт 2022
  • How clear are you on your goals???
    One of the most common reasons why people fail to reach their goals is a lack of clarity.
    People with clear goals accomplish far more in a shorter period of time than those without them could ever imagine.
    Three Steps to help you clarify your goals:
    STEP 1:
    Be clear on your ‘WHY’.
    -How will you contribute?
    -What legacy do you wish to leave behind?
    STEP 2:
    Create a compelling vision based on your purpose.
    -Who will you be?
    -Why do you want that?
    See it clearly in your mind.
    STEP 3:
    Set what’s called your ‘super-ordinate goal’, which is based on your vision.
    -Why is this important to you?
    -Who will it benefit?
    -When will you start?
    If you’re serious about gaining clarity it does take time and require reflection, so to start you can consider allocating 10 minutes per evening to reflect on these things until you start to feel more certain about what you want, why you want it and how you’ll get it.
    Share with me in the comments what your goals are!
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  • @Belief_Before_Glory
    @Belief_Before_Glory Год назад +156

    "When you know what you want, and want it bad enough, you’ll find a way to get it."
    -Jim Rohn

    • @BIGGELATO
      @BIGGELATO Год назад +3

      Also works the opposite which most do; if you don’t want it, you’ll find every excuse not to do it.

    • @Belief_Before_Glory
      @Belief_Before_Glory Год назад +5

      @@BIGGELATO Hi Griselda, I hope I've understood you correctly. Naturally, if you don't want it, then you clearly don't want it bad enough, so obviously, you wouldn't pursue it. Why would someone pursue something they don't want; sounds somewhat counterintuitive.
      Unless you're referring to things that we may need to do, but sometimes don't feel like doing, like exercising, chores & work etc. But the aphorism seems to be alluding to dreams/passions.
      "First say to yourself what you would be; and then do what you have to do." -Epictetus
      I wish you the best!✨

    • @thesuperiorhunt2768
      @thesuperiorhunt2768 Год назад +1

      Definitely 🙌🙌

  • @hudyatkhan9610
    @hudyatkhan9610 Год назад +31

    Whatever you decide to do practice it daily and have faith.

  • @shekhargupta6718
    @shekhargupta6718 Год назад +26

    Wow, what an amazing way to explain complex issues in such a simple way. You are God gifted and possess enormous knowledge

  • @jgdotnet
    @jgdotnet Год назад

    Thanks!

  • @neelapraveen2002
    @neelapraveen2002 Год назад +6

    Exactly, this something never taught in education system. Your videos gives real life education

  • @akhiltej5904
    @akhiltej5904 Год назад +4

    Nice ℹ️nsights on G🅰️INING CL🅰️RITY ✅☑️

  • @elmernavas8902
    @elmernavas8902 Год назад

    Te ves como quieres y gracias x tan good message

  • @gavinlocke5980
    @gavinlocke5980 5 месяцев назад

    Awesome yes be on your mission

  • @emc2507
    @emc2507 Год назад

    LOVE ❤️❤️❤️

  • @randyscheller1119
    @randyscheller1119 9 месяцев назад

    Agreed. Thank you

  • @mohammedghufranahmedkhan3143
    @mohammedghufranahmedkhan3143 Год назад

    Thank you

  • @rejivr5552
    @rejivr5552 Год назад

    Thank you!

  • @krupavaram9418
    @krupavaram9418 Год назад

    Thank you, very much!

  • @smehta747
    @smehta747 Год назад +1

    Very useful video.

  • @gladstoneb879
    @gladstoneb879 4 месяца назад

    Clarity....important...😊❤

  • @TheLeoPoint
    @TheLeoPoint Год назад

    🧡 clarity is save lots of time n energy✌️

  • @riteshyadav5731
    @riteshyadav5731 Год назад

    Wowwww....Short but most effective

  • @T54321
    @T54321 Год назад

    Excellent advice

  • @akadirnilavane2861
    @akadirnilavane2861 Год назад

    Excellent advice!

  • @sharathkumar2176
    @sharathkumar2176 Год назад

    i hope this will help me to solve my passion problem!

  • @sundaydavid2628
    @sundaydavid2628 Год назад +1

    I have learned a lot form you again. I know how to program my future now . Thanks 🙏. God bless you ma’am

  • @snehapatel7241
    @snehapatel7241 6 месяцев назад

    Mam You are really one of the best personality developer guide❤❤❤ I have been improved a lot!

  • @motivsweet1734
    @motivsweet1734 Год назад +3

    You are an Angel !!!!

  • @deepthipriya9836
    @deepthipriya9836 5 месяцев назад

    OMG! I LOVE THE PEN! ❤

  • @mahmadi2473
    @mahmadi2473 Год назад

    thank you
    as always fantastic

  • @dhavalradadiya656
    @dhavalradadiya656 Год назад

    💯

  • @harshalmali5227
    @harshalmali5227 Год назад

    Thanks

  • @richcovers2994
    @richcovers2994 Год назад

    This is the most helpful thing I have seen in a while

  • @eempowerhub
    @eempowerhub 4 месяца назад

  • @creativeartbyluvensky
    @creativeartbyluvensky Год назад

    Great advices. Keep doing what you do best Zahrai!

  • @davidhennon3322
    @davidhennon3322 Год назад

    Like the handwriting.

  • @user-lw2tk7bz8o
    @user-lw2tk7bz8o 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you very much l like your video very much you have opened my head and l'm beginning to see where l'm heading with my life.

  • @spongebobsquarepants3718
    @spongebobsquarepants3718 Год назад

    Awesome

  • @harshitraj8844
    @harshitraj8844 Год назад +3

    And The best you can do is remind your why to you again and again unless until it's in your breath .

  • @mr.unique4974
    @mr.unique4974 Год назад

    Your name must be Charisma 🔥

  • @prakruthin7588
    @prakruthin7588 Год назад +7

    You have a very great accent!
    Pragmatic info💫

  • @lionroaring7021
    @lionroaring7021 8 месяцев назад

    Useful

  • @urbanjunglesystemsev
    @urbanjunglesystemsev Год назад

    Blessed 🙏

  • @coders111
    @coders111 Год назад

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  • @AdhishMBA84
    @AdhishMBA84 Год назад

    Very precise and clearly articulated

  • @alaaalazzam4013
    @alaaalazzam4013 Год назад

    Great

  • @StephenLinsley
    @StephenLinsley Год назад

    I’m currently at a pivot point, where I am now wondering what’s next? The “WHAT”.
    Then I will (very quickly) be moving to my “why”. For me at the moment, the Why, the Vision and the Goals is the easy part.

  • @vincentdang9451
    @vincentdang9451 Год назад

    Thank you.

  • @jame397
    @jame397 Год назад

    she is the next wonder woman!!

  • @supernoahsark1
    @supernoahsark1 Год назад

    Smooth like Sade

  • @somnathruidas1651
    @somnathruidas1651 Год назад

    Thank you 💕

  • @vinodinismily7506
    @vinodinismily7506 Год назад +2

    Thank you for this...u made me to see my vision clearly...im gonna work for it all my heart now cos now I know hw deeply I want it

  • @kaavyasurianarayanan8247
    @kaavyasurianarayanan8247 Год назад

    Woooww

  • @aruntripathi7669
    @aruntripathi7669 Год назад

    Way u present yourself is catchy fresh pleasant

  • @TVDIASPORA509
    @TVDIASPORA509 Год назад

    Thank you very much for this marvellous lesson ,Shadé !! That means a lot to me ,Shadé !! Take care , Shadé !!

  • @RohitMishraBrand
    @RohitMishraBrand Год назад

    Now it's Clear ❤️😂

  • @Summerebella
    @Summerebella Год назад

    thank you!!!

  • @marusahil8599
    @marusahil8599 Год назад

    This writting is same as mine ☺️

  • @LongTermEquity-xw1tf
    @LongTermEquity-xw1tf 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you. Ill try this

  • @neeraj_music_01
    @neeraj_music_01 Год назад

    Thank you so much for this amazing video. It will help me a lot. 😊

  • @Chris-pj7jg
    @Chris-pj7jg Год назад

    Wow thanks so much!
    I see the points you are making.

  • @siddharthaiyappa5583
    @siddharthaiyappa5583 Год назад

    One thing i am clear about...the handwriting is aesthetic, doodly yet charismatic!! Kindly convey my wishes to that hand!!!

  • @simpleprofessoroflife9337
    @simpleprofessoroflife9337 Год назад

    This is an excellent, practical video. I’ll use this today. Thanks for taking the time to make it.

  • @mohammadsanad4441
    @mohammadsanad4441 Год назад

    🤩👍.

  • @transparence75
    @transparence75 Год назад

    I really enjoy your contents. They are clear, precise and relevant 🙏

  • @damindadineshimaduwagamage9044
    @damindadineshimaduwagamage9044 5 месяцев назад

    My lack of clarity stems from uncertainty of the path I go. I am not sure if I am in the right path. This lack of confidence in what I do for my future leads to setting unclear goals. Help me

  • @nemonobody9063
    @nemonobody9063 Год назад +1

    🖤🖤

  • @vinodt8335
    @vinodt8335 Год назад

    This is the first time that I have subscribed a short. Your shorts very helpful...👍

  • @cawknee
    @cawknee Год назад

    Just subscribed! I want to see my feed full of positive and productive content and especially from women and iso glad I found your channel! Thank you for sharing your perspectives ❤

  • @deutschmitpurple2918
    @deutschmitpurple2918 Год назад

    I really love your all videos Shade. You always inspire myself. I hope I can be succesful in my life like you

  • @weewee1518
    @weewee1518 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you very much for your tips!

    • @ShadeZahrai
      @ShadeZahrai  5 месяцев назад +1

      My pleasure!

    • @weewee1518
      @weewee1518 4 месяца назад

      ​​@@ShadeZahrai
      Hi Ms Zahrai, I run through your video a few times. The transcripts and notes are useful. However, would it too much to ask you to grant us a live example spreading through all the 3 categories? Perhaps a follow-up on "Gaining Clarity"? Thank you all the same 😊.

  • @remusgherman4602
    @remusgherman4602 Год назад

    I have lack of clarity when there women's around me, and smiling at me.. ☺️

  • @guzmansaul4626
    @guzmansaul4626 Год назад

    Your awesome

  • @fuadal9869
    @fuadal9869 Год назад

    ❤️ from 🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩

  • @AR7-TheCarEnthusiast-3M
    @AR7-TheCarEnthusiast-3M Год назад

    Big fan! attractive voice with effect knowledge. God gives you abilities and you use them positively. perfect

  • @saeiddelaram5833
    @saeiddelaram5833 Год назад

    ,،نمیدونم چطور بگم چقدر مهمه این حرفات
    I don't know how to say that ur so important in my life

  • @jbl2270
    @jbl2270 Год назад

    Dear Shadé, for a while now I've been on treatment for depression and feel fine. I just don't care about life anymore in the sense that I cannot find anything to live for: no passion, no motivation, no legacy I want to leave behind. Sadly,I'm much ashamed to say that I'm just using up oxygen.

  • @vasu_makes_lives_better
    @vasu_makes_lives_better Год назад

    Thank you so much

  • @leobeaupre858
    @leobeaupre858 Год назад +1

    A 👨 MAN OF GOD .. & TO HEAR JESUS SAY WELL DONE 👏 THOU GOOD & FAITHFUL SERVANT 👏 👌 🙌 👍

  • @Bill0102
    @Bill0102 3 месяца назад

    I'm enamored with this. I had the pleasure of reading something similar, and I was truly enamored. "The Art of Saying No: Mastering Boundaries for a Fulfilling Life" by Samuel Dawn

  • @hifzalafasy
    @hifzalafasy 8 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤ Thanks mam
    Love your content and excellent unique and appealing way of presentation.
    An angel in human form devoted to serve mankind 🎉🎉🎉
    Thanks again for your sincere efforts 😊😊😊

  • @chiragupanddown
    @chiragupanddown Год назад +16

    while asking this to me i got depression and overthinking

    • @Mushroom321-
      @Mushroom321- Год назад +2

      relateable!, list definitely helps..

    • @devanshgupta4107
      @devanshgupta4107 Год назад +1

      Truth 🤕

    • @nousername8947
      @nousername8947 Год назад +4

      Well that simply means ur life is just happening without any control of urs.

    • @tredfxman
      @tredfxman Год назад +1

      ​@@nousername8947True. And maby a bit of imagination. You cant write a vision without it. But inspiration is all around us. If we havent seen it, we havent searched hard enough.

  • @krishant
    @krishant Год назад

    🌼🦋

  • @layan6960
    @layan6960 Год назад

    👏👏

  • @RadanovicDanijel
    @RadanovicDanijel 5 месяцев назад

    What about bringing clarity to complete smaller goals?

  • @yokoso2386
    @yokoso2386 3 месяца назад

    1. Why
    Passion: not discoverd
    Contributiion
    Legacy
    2. vision
    Be
    do
    Want
    3. goal based on vision
    why is important
    who will benefit
    when i start

  • @STARTW1THEMILY
    @STARTW1THEMILY 4 месяца назад

    Love the top, where is it from? ❤

  • @sameerqureshi-kh7cc
    @sameerqureshi-kh7cc Год назад +6

    Sometimes it becomes very difficult to decide that should I listen to your valuable advice or should just look you?

  • @LA-MJ
    @LA-MJ Год назад +1

    Bookmark

  • @kenharvey8946
    @kenharvey8946 Год назад

    First in life is becoming you.
    Most like 99.9% of people are not remembered.
    So do what will make you happy.
    Be kind.

  • @smilemka3342
    @smilemka3342 11 месяцев назад

    How can I ask everything to myself only? Many times our expectations and realities are completely different from the reality of actual world

  • @Live_love_pray.
    @Live_love_pray. Год назад

    You are so beautiful and intelligent young lady 😊✌️

  • @stevebnd6116
    @stevebnd6116 Год назад +1

    Be a member , u will b re _ membered 🤓

  • @sirajahmad4661
    @sirajahmad4661 Год назад

    Great content - I think all this is from book “Sense of Purpose ?

  • @rahulbalasubramanian5964
    @rahulbalasubramanian5964 Год назад

    Awesome body language...I became your fan

  • @masongilani
    @masongilani Год назад

    How soon should we start this can we do this for a 9 year old boy?

  • @mehdimojtabai6149
    @mehdimojtabai6149 Год назад

    Shade! Where are you from originally?

  • @devanshmehta5405
    @devanshmehta5405 Год назад +1

    Your are a goddess ✨

  • @khan-fp1re
    @khan-fp1re Год назад

    THANKS

  • @ianbowe001
    @ianbowe001 Год назад

    I like u

  • @sangamchaudhary5468
    @sangamchaudhary5468 Год назад

    First question is do we have clarity to get clarity.😄

  • @laseel5200
    @laseel5200 10 месяцев назад

    Hi...Shade...🏵🌼🌻🕊🎈
    Hope u are fine there🐤🦋🌪😊
    Cooking for single person is difficult process....🏵🎉🌺🐦
    To cut and wash vegetables everyday...🌼🎈🌺🎁✨
    To clean the plates and bowls everyday...
    For some days,I cooked food...
    Now I eat food from relatives house...🏵🌼🎈🎉🌺💃
    I buy some fresh vegetables for them everyday ...🏵👑😊🌪🏵🌼🌻🎈🦋

  • @nani8701
    @nani8701 Год назад +3

    Tbh legacy doesn't matter no one will remember you after few hundreds of years so it's a waste of time

    • @nani8701
      @nani8701 Год назад +1

      Also when you're dead you don’t know who will remember you and talk about you so it's better to focus on doing things you love and not worry about legacy

    • @farhanahmad7715
      @farhanahmad7715 Год назад

      When you do things Passionately and start contributing... Legacy is automatically created. So, Focus on the first two, and forget the rest. Thanks

    • @IslamThePeace1
      @IslamThePeace1 Год назад

      Love your voice 💓 I'm watching you for a lot of time. This one is for me. I'm confused because I have two years only to achieve my passion but that's not easy and another side is my Ph.D. Which one to choose? So hard to decide.

  • @remusgherman4602
    @remusgherman4602 Год назад

    Don't go shopping with a woman... My entire day will be ruined...and I came back home whit a headache...

  • @theinceptiontommy111
    @theinceptiontommy111 Год назад

    Zahari is the most attractive and very Good taste of clothes.