It turns them on (triggers them) because you're exploiting their childhood trauma of abandonment and since most people in this world have this kind of trauma, it works on apx. 80% of the women. This is manipulation at it's finest. A fine woman who has no trauma will let it go if you leave, she values herself independent of whether she has a man or not.
If you're not used to doing this, a good time to walk away is the MINUTE you feel yourself slipping, getting too invested, getting too into feelings instead of goals, or making her a main focus. Stick that arm out and get busy with your real purpose, get your head straight. Prevents you from losing your self-respect. She'll just want you more when you're back in the right place.
I just walked away finally from my ex-wife who did nothing but play " Head Games & Lies " even after the divorce! She kept going back and forth on loving and caring for me then making plans with other men. I'm Done!!!!!
I'm on my purpose for sure. I've been blessed with 3 legacies under my belt. It hurts when you love a woman and it doesn't work out and you have to part, but I will walk away from disrespect in a second.
This is an extremely solid video,I have been here doing all the things to please her,giving her all my time and focus,but at the end of the day...we are no longer together. Your channel and this topic is spot on my Matt. Thanks again for your time and experience
Hi Reno I need advice if can help me out... My gf broke up with me twice reason she said because I mentally stress her but we got back together again twice.... but 2 weeks ago we had a quarrel again which she cause her mental trauma again..the next day she said she cant take the mental torture anymore and told me she will text me when she miss me.. Today is Day 13 of No Contact...what should I do ?
@@fj4731 hey man, I am not qualified to give you advice, however I can make some suggestions. It seems like she cares about you, because today's women have so many options, the fact that she is hanging around waiting on you is not necessarily a guarantee for a future together, however it shows you have some qualities in you that attracts her to you. Before you run her away completely,invest in yourself, seek some help from a professional,I had to do this,in order to sort out some stuff. My mistake was I did it for the relationship and not for me, we as men who came from broken beginnings have to do some self investment,not for anybody but yourself FIRST! In order to do this,you first have to be honest with yourself, sometimes our greatest enemy is us my brother. I don't know if you are a spiritual person, but there is KINGDOM amount us that has all the answers for you and I and everyone who needs it. You are close to your solution because you are seeking assistance to become the individual that you know that you can be. So,this is not about your friend right now,it is about you investing in you, bringing out a person you were created to be. Seek this KINGDOM,and I promise you WILL find all the answers,however,see soul searching is required,only you can do this. Don't put too much pressure on the young woman to understand what you are going through even though she must be held accountable for her actions as well, period. I hope that this helps my brother, you can do this,but it must be for you and your future
@@renostubbs8504Thank you brother for your advice on Self improvement ... I was looking at RUclips video on Redpill Alpha Musculine man ..Power of Ignoring Women and Man must Walk away to get our ex back , play Mind control become Stoic , unaffected and Dont Care too much even if Women temper tantrums....men need to get Respect by being Dominant and Masculine Polarise Women , willing to say No and dont always be available and be unresponsive, do Ghosting , cancel plan on them do Dreaded Game , be a Bad boys they cant have ..Never be Nice to women? I gave my love my time on my gf but she prefer to No contact me...she said she will contact me if she miss me...she said she love me but why she break up with me ??? What should I do ? be Kind to her and forgive her and let her go ? But if she come back 3rd time after breaking up with me...should I treat her better and forget how she broke up with me..I am confuse should I take her back and love her more? My on and off Gf couldnt sleep at night , and affecting her mental health….should I pull away or show my love or care by initiating contact? She didn’t text me for 6days She also having problem with Neck Degeneration and back pain..she is in her Menopause age… Should I be more caring like a Beta or I should Dont care like Alpha to just respond only when she reach out She want to do her own thing and I wonder whether am I the part time bf or she only need me when she want to ? I tried to arrange appointment with Doctors…she rather go on her own but medicine or gynae or chiropractic couldnt help her …she blame me is the source of her Mental Stress by me wanting her to put more effort on our relationship she feel pressure till she break down telling me she need rest..i told her she need Love but she said she want peace and to heal on her own.. How to save the relationship with a gf having Menopause and Medical and Mental health ?
@@fj4731 To be honest, I was in a similar situation with my wife, I made her my everything,but only GOD wants that bro, you have to pull back a bit and focus on your mental state before your body and mind collide, you have to decide what is more important, someone who claims you are the problem for their illness or you being healthy. At the end of the day bro, you work on yourself,and if this woman supposed to be in your life,she will... however,that back and forth business is a no no in my book. I am not telling you what to do because I don't know the situation and I definitely don't know who you are,there is three sides to every story...your side,her side and then the truth of the matter. Do your best not to talk about her to everyone you meet, people will start avoiding you,trust me on this. Do you,best the necessary help that you may need, focus on your spiritual power and you will see change,it won't come over night,trust me, I am still finding myself talking to people about my situation but I have gotten a bit getting with time and distance. I don't know if she lives in your community,but it helps not seeing the person and working on you Let me ask you a question, would you say that this relationship is worth saving or are you feeling sorry for her and trying to save her from hurt?? When you find the answer to this question,you will know what to do. However, all this stuff on the internet is important and useful to an extent, but don't allow it to blind side you and make you become bitter against women,it started to bring Out the bad side in me,but GOD spoke to my heart,every wan is not the same,but remember this.. however you start a relationship with any female,you would have to stay in that frame For example if you are a nice guy,then continue to be a nice guy and don't allow anything to change that,but if you want a stable relationship,you have to bring balance to the relationship. You call her once in a while,don't become too needy, don't text every second,allow her to pay for some meals,don't compliment every single thing should does etc What I am saying is,just match her energy,if she is thoughtful then you do the same,of she genuinely nice,then be yourself and don't pretend to be nobody, especially these dudes on the internet. I am not saying they are fake,what I am saying is that it took them a lot of heart ache and pain to reach where they are today,you and I and everyone else have to experience life differently for ourselves They are there letting us know not to make the mistakes they made in the past. So, be careful of what you listen too,and be who you are, educate yourself and don't be anybody's door mate. Only GOD deserve your entire heart,give women your love only if they are willing to give you the respect that is expected in return but be honest from the beginning and stop being shy and too nice
GAWD, I remember being in elementary school having crushes on all the girls; and some of the teachers young female teachers (2-3 years out of college) would say “oh well, what’re you gonna do to make her like you back, or you had better try this”. HORRIBLE advice that’s making masculinity disappear right before our eyes. The right advice would be “oh acknowledge her, be direct and stay focused on your purpose. When she comes running, get intimate asap then repeat “🤷🏼♂️
So, I got dumped via video chat. I never gave her a reaction. My response to her was simply 'I respect your decision'. A few minutes later, I got a nasty text from her insulting me. From my bathroom to my entire life! My response to her text was 'alright, noted 😅'.
I had a similar experience. At one time a GF fired me. I calmly said - if this is what you want, then thanks for the memories. Good bye. Soon after she rehired me.
Sounds passive aggressive with the wrong woman. A man shouldn’t settle for someone they have to passively manipulate to take care of herself. Set your sites on a better woman. Good luck guys !
It’s necessary in some situations when you’re being stone walled but other than that you could trigger an abandonment issue and she splits on you and is unable to maintain a stable image of you in her head!
When I was single and a guy walked away, honestly, that never turned me on. If anything, I thanked God for cutting that unworthy person out of my life and I thank God every day for that dignity and wisdom. I now have met a man who doesn’t behave that badly and he is now my husband. My husband is such a gift from the Lord, and he was well worth waiting for.
I had a woman that was locking me down, me trying to persue my dream. She got really insecure, and started disrespecting me in all kinds of stupid ways.. I had to leave that !
Currently going through this myself. It was going fine up until she started with the disrespect. I've cut off all contact with her from now on and only time will tell if 1) She tries to come back. Or, 2) change her ways because she knows I don't tolerate them games. If she doesn't follow, she knows that I'll just move on and do what I do.
When your a triple virgo, walking away is so easy. Nothing much to learn, you'll see it easily unfolding anyway. The 'I'll get your attention' is so easy to notice. Just sit back, let it play out to their games. When your done and getting board, just walk away. That really messes them up!
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It aint no game. If you walk away, theres no turning back. Thats not how a male works. You walk away, you keep on walking. With or without her, expecially if she dumped you
Unfortunately, this wont work for the married women, they are chosing rather to stay in bad marriage screwing her hubby with "high valued men" whom they swore manipulatevly in a lifetime love.. than to chase such a high value man for a truth relationship! Luckily, the high value guy understood her manipulation, made a u-turn, and walked away! Still, did not work...she got angry by a fact she cannot manipulate him...that was the only outcome, but opportunistically she stayed in her voilent and abusive marriage. Sad fact...So walking away doesnt work in all cases - women are very oportunistically tricky.
My ex wanted “peace” three weeks ago and wanted no contact. I said ‘are you sure, as I’m certain about us’ (just to put my cards on the table so she can’t come back in the future saying I didn’t communicate) and then cut all the ‘babe’ and emojis. She text me saying she could smell me and she was going to sleep with my stuff to remind her of me and how heart broken she is that SHE broke up with me. NO REPLY from my part. From there on. Enjoy your single life girl 😉
Both sexes are guilty if doing this shit . There are many men who will not commit. That is nothing new . Also once you walk away you Should stay away. If you take a man back after he has shown negative behavior, he will actually become Worse if you go back. It's like you have agreed to their bullshit.
That only works on some women. Because when he walked away, I left him in the past, he decided seven years later he wanted to come back. Then I walked away, so your claim is subjective.
@@alanperez7657 Lol, actually the dude in question is a high calibre man who attracts stunning women with his confidence like flies to shit; he always has options, so you are entitled to your assumptions. The reality is he realised too late what we had was irreplaceable, that's why some men don't settle for any woman, they wait for the woman for them so he tried to find me in other women as he trotted around the globe and realised he couldn't. The moral of the story ignoring women especially when she has options will get you forgotten and replaced. Let that sink in.
@Distinctive Elegance when i ignore a woman Im done though, i wouldve never come back. He wasnt in love with you, it was his ego. Women have options cuz dudes are simps, and vagina runs their life. thats nothing a man should worry about. He should have balls and continue don his journey. I cant even remember women from 2 years ago.
@@alanperez7657 Irrespective of the reason for his return, I know I walked away and never returned; he lost all access to me, so my actions spoke louder than words ever have. Label it how you want to, because I never said I loved him or if he loved me; we cared deeply for each other without labels. Our chemistry was organic and not confusing, with no pressure. That's why he came back his words, "because we accidentally found something we both were not looking for at the time". Now, if you haven't met a woman who challenges your thought process to help you become the better version of yourself while she also gives you genuine validation without expecting anything in return, then you need to broaden your horizon, there are some people you may only meet once, but their first impression left a lasting one. So you remember them for a long time.
Men should just stay single and date multiple women. I made the mistake of getting tied down to a woman for almost 3 years and she did a lot of these same things. Lied, cheated, stopped going to the gym, stopped looking hot for me etc. She broke up with me for another guy so I just disappeared and never messaged or called her again. Pretty much rebooted my life and started approaching numerous other women.
LOL, well he walked away and I found me a better guy......fast. He came running back after 6 weeks but it was too late. This does not work on a certain type of woman, believe me.
@@JuzTroublez Fake alphas don't. Real ones can recognize when they've messed up and try to fix things, if it's a worthy woman, BUT he won't allow that to become a source of power for her. That's the difference. These guys don't understand most women at all. They just teach you how to manipulate the bottom of the barrel women.
The advice in this video is good if you want to keep playing a silly game with a woman (or anyone) who is highly unstable and will not add any value to your life. Mentally balanced and healthy partners will not be "turned on" if you leave them. If you are both good partners, if one saw major problem, they tried to work out those problems. So the only options are that you walkd away from someone who ignored your valid concerns (good- leave them) or that you are a manipulator who wants someone to read your mind or that you are bipolar.
What if both of us start being lazy together? And loving it? And talking openly about how funny we are and how we probably have aspergers (SP?) Maybe we are both unicorns? The men in my life (family, friends etc.) who haven't committed to a woman, are pretty darn lonely in my opinion. I hope everyone reading who is lonely, finds their person. If they want commitment and a healthy long term loving relationship, I hope they get it. If they want to be single and have lots of people of the opposite sex chasing after them, then I hope they get that as well. My boyfriend puts me first and I have never loved a man as much as I love him. I honestly didn't think it was possible to love a man this much. Saying that women aren't attracted to men who put them first is simply not true. And I think as a woman, I am qualified to make that statement.
Yes but you might be one of the only women a man can put first in a relationship because your loyal , trustworthy, appreciate your partner e.t.c. Majority of women out there don't like to be put first , i know this from doing it with women in past experiences, it disgust's them and that made me behave like a simp. I'm never putting a woman first again because it makes us men look thirsty like we have no other options and haven't got an abundance mindset. You can NOT put a women on a pedestal and keep her there because she isn't going to want to stick around , she will be f***ing some other tom , dick and harry in the next town, city or up the road. That is why when us men have been too needy and available by putting you on a pedestal and making you the centre of the attention/ constantly giving you validation you seek we have to walk away whether you come back to us or not and however the relationship ended, if necessary walk away for good , never look back so you women regret everything. Sorry i have to say this as i have done the same as your partner in the past, put you women first as number one priorty and unfortunately he sounds like a simp / beta. When us men put you women first , it makes us look like a chump with no other options, no life , no dream, goals, ambitions and desires to chase after. My recent relationship wity my female (coworker) crush as gone wrong and we are not talking at work or outside of work and a lot of it had to do with me validating her , putting her on a pedestal, making her number one over my dreams , goals, ambitions and desires in my life , NOT anymore. My dreams, goals ,ambitions and desires mean more to me and my life that she ever will again and i am walking away for my sake and so she regrets it in the future when she can't find a guy like me ever again. It was both our fault's the relationship went the way it did , but i was a simp / beta male with her , NO MORE though I'm done for good with that 💩 as it made me look and feel weak and not a real masculine , confident leader of a man.
@@WillS.TheSuperReds. I am very sorry to hear about your past relationship :( I have been learning a lot about feminine and masculine energy and I can assure you, my boyfriend is definitely not beta. But I agree, you still need to have goals and ambitions and dreams. An ideal partner will support you through all of that. Man wasn't created to be alone. Everyone on this earth just wants to love and be loved. I hope you find your perfect person. She is out there you just have to look. :)
@@ashleyleahy5859 Thank you for your consideration and kind words. As horrible as it sounds , myself and a few work colleagues today's at work were talking about how short life is and what you can expect with death especially as it waits for no one. That got me thinking that despite the mistakes i have made in mine and my female (coworker) crush relationship , i want to be a real man and make amends with her because life is too short to be holding grudges against other people and i admit i said something ridiculous through tect that was out of order and rude/ disrespectful, but i have come to the realisation i was wrong to say what i said and take full responsibility for my inappropriate behaviour. I don't expect anything from her , especially not forgiveness , but if she decides to forgive me and still wants to communicate in the (near) future, I'm hoping we might be able to build on a more trustworthy, respectable, happy, fun , social relationship together in the (near) future. I like to think of myself as a mature man that admits when he is wrong even though i can be very stubborn at times especially when i believe I'm right about something. I think that's the leo 🦁 inside of me that knows when not to back down lol.
@@WillS.TheSuperReds. hahah my best friend is a leo and boy oh boy do i know what you're talking about!! You taking full responsibility for your behavior shows maturity and compassion....maybe she will come around :)
Dude i used to workout everyday my mind was on gym, i still had awful experience with chicks and people, i was raised with single mother no one helping me out, i had to be around prostitues and toxic people even when the only guy who worked out still end up getting treated like a low value.._ i guess i was born to be choosen to be something else.._
@@blackpillaudrius3015 The INNER workout is better but yes of course stick to what you love and what's good for YOU... NO MORE living for ANYBODY outside of you.. This practice makes it WAY easier to love EVERYBODY... Some of those you love will be close but MOST others will be from a distance
This is brokeness and it only works on broken women with low self esteem. I will leave as soon as o realize he's not committed to me. You need to relax and enjoy the relationship. No need to walk on eggshells and tip toeing around your man
MOST modern women ESPECIALLY black are ALREADY broken with low self esteem because feminism tricked them into believing her femininity is a weakness when it's ACTUALLY her STRENGTH so now when this TOTALLY off balance broken creature comes across a man of substance she's immediately intimidated so she picks and pokes at that man's self esteem and or masculinity until either she finally breaks his spirit and in which case she LOVES because she feeds on the pain of men hurting OR this man of substance will call her on her bullshyt and if he doesn't see corrective behavior he BOUNCES...
3:15 yeah I noticed it //my lady started trying to purposely get hemorrhoids ☝️ passing gas and dutch oven Clam baking 💨she also forgot how to use a toothbrush
@@9525joe it's cool though//I got use to it 😏 we both just completely gave up on trying to be attractive so we both smell 24-7 have bad breath we actually have fart wars now //see who can stink the most /catch 22 /it drew us closer together /our house is a pig stye in our eyes covered in zits //basically true love
There is nothing wrong with women not wearing make up , so long they are well groomed . After having children your body shape changes . Diet and exercise will help improve her figure but her body will be a bit fuller When I was single ,I was growing all my layers out of my hair in order to change my hair style and my boyfriend dumped me because my hair looked messy . Lol
Listen to the content of this guy’s message. Apparently “SOME” but “NOT ALL” gym rats have a one track mind. Nothing matters in a relationship other than how you look physically. My friend get a clue, if all you can do is lift to get and keep a women. You have some essential issues you are missing.
I just walked away from a highly entitled woman who's 29. She had all these demands, e.g. wanted me to buy her things before we're even in a relationship. She doesn't realize that before she nows it, she'll wake up being 33 and single. Life isn't fun for women after hitting the wall.
You are extremely write everything about her change and when I talk to her about it it’s become a problem and she make it seems like I am the problem and not her I decided to walk away
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 LMFAO this is so ridiculous lol and really sick by the way 😂 just make her your queen and carry her on your hands and keep her SATISFIED try to KNOW her and not see silly stereotypes. this is so funny "don't commit to have a happy relationship"😂😂😂 .... really bad advice
if I'm not the focus of his life i m better alone😂😂 playing games???😂 that's so immature, really. one is hotter than the other? it's that pure narc shit? or what is that??🙏😂😂 anyway really funny. por guys who believe that😂
From a strong womans point of view..that has a healthy mindset..we don't like games, we see through it..so when a man walks away..its actually a blessing...we look at it as dodging a bullet..we actually feel relieved..so guys unless ur 100% sure ur ok with loosing a woman u really like..I suggests u don't play games..because trust me she will walk away especially when a real man comes along that is really into her..to be honest man...this only works on weak women which are a dime a dozen..but a real woman that can benefit a man in a healthy way...will hold a door for a man that act like this..
Well that's going to be a problem when a real man and a real woman meet because they are going to have a power struggle over who gets to hold open the door for the other.....
Hahahah why is a women telling us men on how men must behave and what are games and what are not games... Dont you have a platform to explain to women when is their ovulation week... We got some serious nuting to do
So basically if she dumped me I’m supposed to sit around like a little doggy and be her friend? Hell no I’m out, you want my affection and time then you commit, life’s too short to be playing stupid games.
@@thegreatid3595 If she dumped you, no. Don't be ridiculous. She's talking about the fake alphas that use this tactic as a power play to get what he wants from her and then adds the 'goalpost' moving tactics that usually accompany moves like this. There are groups teaching leveraging skills to leverage a person's psyche against them and it's breaking people. What a great way to create insecure attachments and trauma bonds. ☠💕
@@user-dy6xx6tw9w Oh yeah for sure I know there’s a lot of fake alphas on RUclips that preach how redpilled they are, they’re mainly just narcissistic people, trying to get what they want, and use manipulation to get it.
This is why you don't listen to what women say. No woman is going to desire a guy that sits around and waits for her. That's not high value and he has no standard for himself.
If men think an attractive girl/woman stays with you in this respect yr wrong. If you walk away by design just to play her (?) its a big turn off and you allready lost her. 😂
Even if she doesn't follow at least you get your dignity and life back
And Respect too
You said it all
The biggest mistakes I have made in my life were because I couldn’t walk away. Walk the fuck away it might not feel like it but it’s a win win.
Fuck yeah.!!
Walking Away is not to get her or him back.... but it's to Moving forward and forget her or him..
Oh how much I love this! Don't ever make any woman the focus of your life. Don't ever! Chase your dreams and she will chase you. Thanks bro
Walking away has always been easy for me. Knowing your power helps you maintain that power.
It turns them on (triggers them) because you're exploiting their childhood trauma of abandonment and since most people in this world have this kind of trauma, it works on apx. 80% of the women. This is manipulation at it's finest. A fine woman who has no trauma will let it go if you leave, she values herself independent of whether she has a man or not.
Bang on comment ! Think more people need to understand this dynamic 👌
Stunning and brave lol🤣
Exiting interactions with a woman who disrespected or underappreciated you is manipulation? Projection at its finest.
I tend to agree.
Just walked away from a gf today. Gave her back all the gifts she gave me.
Happy for you bro!
Oooh grift returnage way to tune the tables I’m about to ask for the one gift back. After walking
If you're not used to doing this, a good time to walk away is the MINUTE you feel yourself slipping, getting too invested, getting too into feelings instead of goals, or making her a main focus.
Stick that arm out and get busy with your real purpose, get your head straight.
Prevents you from losing your self-respect.
She'll just want you more when you're back in the right place.
I'll admit I'm not experienced with women, but I've heard this before.
I just walked away finally from my ex-wife who did nothing but play " Head Games & Lies " even after the divorce! She kept going back and forth on loving and caring for me then making plans with other men. I'm Done!!!!!
I'm on my purpose for sure. I've been blessed with 3 legacies under my belt. It hurts when you love a woman and it doesn't work out and you have to part, but I will walk away from disrespect in a second.
Brother you’re on point with this great advice.
This is an extremely solid video,I have been here doing all the things to please her,giving her all my time and focus,but at the end of the day...we are no longer together.
Your channel and this topic is spot on my Matt.
Thanks again for your time and experience
Hi Reno I need advice if can help me out...
My gf broke up with me twice reason she said because I mentally stress her but we got back together again twice.... but 2 weeks ago we had a quarrel again which she cause her mental trauma again..the next day she said she cant take the mental torture anymore and told me she will text me when she miss me.. Today is Day 13 of No Contact...what should I do ?
@@fj4731 hey man, I am not qualified to give you advice, however I can make some suggestions. It seems like she cares about you, because today's women have so many options, the fact that she is hanging around waiting on you is not necessarily a guarantee for a future together, however it shows you have some qualities in you that attracts her to you.
Before you run her away completely,invest in yourself, seek some help from a professional,I had to do this,in order to sort out some stuff. My mistake was I did it for the relationship and not for me, we as men who came from broken beginnings have to do some self investment,not for anybody but yourself FIRST!
In order to do this,you first have to be honest with yourself, sometimes our greatest enemy is us my brother.
I don't know if you are a spiritual person, but there is KINGDOM amount us that has all the answers for you and I and everyone who needs it.
You are close to your solution because you are seeking assistance to become the individual that you know that you can be.
So,this is not about your friend right now,it is about you investing in you, bringing out a person you were created to be.
Seek this KINGDOM,and I promise you WILL find all the answers,however,see soul searching is required,only you can do this. Don't put too much pressure on the young woman to understand what you are going through even though she must be held accountable for her actions as well, period.
I hope that this helps my brother, you can do this,but it must be for you and your future
@@renostubbs8504Thank you brother for your advice on Self improvement ...
I was looking at RUclips video on Redpill Alpha Musculine man ..Power of Ignoring Women and Man must Walk away to get our ex back , play Mind control become Stoic , unaffected and Dont Care too much even if Women temper tantrums....men need to get Respect by being Dominant and Masculine Polarise Women , willing to say No and dont always be available and be unresponsive, do Ghosting , cancel plan on them do Dreaded Game , be a Bad boys they cant have ..Never be Nice to women?
I gave my love my time on my gf but she prefer to No contact me...she said she will contact me if she miss me...she said she love me but why she break up with me ???
What should I do ? be Kind to her and forgive her and let her go ?
But if she come back 3rd time after breaking up with me...should I treat her better and forget how she broke up with me..I am confuse should I take her back and love her more?
My on and off Gf couldnt sleep at night , and affecting her mental health….should I pull away or show my love or care by initiating contact? She didn’t text me for 6days
She also having problem with Neck Degeneration and back pain..she is in her Menopause age…
Should I be more caring like a Beta or I should Dont care like Alpha to just respond only when she reach out
She want to do her own thing and I wonder whether am I the part time bf or she only need me when she want to ?
I tried to arrange appointment with Doctors…she rather go on her own but medicine or gynae or chiropractic couldnt help her …she blame me is the source of her Mental Stress by me wanting her to put more effort on our relationship she feel pressure till she break down telling me she need rest..i told her she need Love but she said she want peace and to heal on her own..
How to save the relationship with a gf having Menopause and Medical and Mental health ?
@@fj4731 To be honest, I was in a similar situation with my wife, I made her my everything,but only GOD wants that bro, you have to pull back a bit and focus on your mental state before your body and mind collide, you have to decide what is more important, someone who claims you are the problem for their illness or you being healthy.
At the end of the day bro, you work on yourself,and if this woman supposed to be in your life,she will... however,that back and forth business is a no no in my book. I am not telling you what to do because I don't know the situation and I definitely don't know who you are,there is three sides to every story...your side,her side and then the truth of the matter.
Do your best not to talk about her to everyone you meet, people will start avoiding you,trust me on this.
Do you,best the necessary help that you may need, focus on your spiritual power and you will see change,it won't come over night,trust me, I am still finding myself talking to people about my situation but I have gotten a bit getting with time and distance.
I don't know if she lives in your community,but it helps not seeing the person and working on you
Let me ask you a question, would you say that this relationship is worth saving or are you feeling sorry for her and trying to save her from hurt??
When you find the answer to this question,you will know what to do.
However, all this stuff on the internet is important and useful to an extent, but don't allow it to blind side you and make you become bitter against women,it started to bring Out the bad side in me,but GOD spoke to my heart,every wan is not the same,but remember this.. however you start a relationship with any female,you would have to stay in that frame
For example if you are a nice guy,then continue to be a nice guy and don't allow anything to change that,but if you want a stable relationship,you have to bring balance to the relationship.
You call her once in a while,don't become too needy, don't text every second,allow her to pay for some meals,don't compliment every single thing should does etc
What I am saying is,just match her energy,if she is thoughtful then you do the same,of she genuinely nice,then be yourself and don't pretend to be nobody, especially these dudes on the internet. I am not saying they are fake,what I am saying is that it took them a lot of heart ache and pain to reach where they are today,you and I and everyone else have to experience life differently for ourselves
They are there letting us know not to make the mistakes they made in the past.
So, be careful of what you listen too,and be who you are, educate yourself and don't be anybody's door mate.
Only GOD deserve your entire heart,give women your love only if they are willing to give you the respect that is expected in return but be honest from the beginning and stop being shy and too nice
GAWD, I remember being in elementary school having crushes on all the girls; and some of the teachers young female teachers (2-3 years out of college) would say “oh well, what’re you gonna do to make her like you back, or you had better try this”. HORRIBLE advice that’s making masculinity disappear right before our eyes. The right advice would be “oh acknowledge her, be direct and stay focused on your purpose. When she comes running, get intimate asap then repeat “🤷🏼♂️
So, I got dumped via video chat. I never gave her a reaction. My response to her was simply 'I respect your decision'. A few minutes later, I got a nasty text from her insulting me. From my bathroom to my entire life! My response to her text was 'alright, noted 😅'.
I had a similar experience. At one time a GF fired me. I calmly said - if this is what you want, then thanks for the memories. Good bye.
Soon after she rehired me.
Walked away from 2 girls in 1week. Hot and cold & manipulative
I just did the same thing, it felt good 👍
Two words: Fucken legendary.
Yes I have a girl and I love her
I stick to my passion not drama
Keep your women always thirsty
Sounds passive aggressive with the wrong woman. A man shouldn’t settle for someone they have to passively manipulate to take care of herself. Set your sites on a better woman. Good luck guys !
Bye..
ANY man setting his sites on a better woman is a FOOL
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It sucks we have to treat them like that but that's what they want if you don't they will leave you even for a complete looser
Thank you bro, you sound like if you were my old brother. Great advice!!!
It’s necessary in some situations when you’re being stone walled but other than that you could trigger an abandonment issue and she splits on you and is unable to maintain a stable image of you in her head!
I put this in fast mode and I got a little scared with how all of a sudden it became so agressive haha 😂
Very nice, friend.
Keep on posting!
I will man, be sure to also tune on every Tuesday and Saturday for the Livestreams (9:00am U.S. central time on both days)
YES!!!!!!
I’ve definitely noticed the same similarities in every women I dated
When I was single and a guy walked away, honestly, that never turned me on. If anything, I thanked God for cutting that unworthy person out of my life and I thank God every day for that dignity and wisdom. I now have met a man who doesn’t behave that badly and he is now my husband. My husband is such a gift from the Lord, and he was well worth waiting for.
Great video! Stay focused brothers! 🤝
I had a woman that was locking me down, me trying to persue my dream. She got really insecure, and started disrespecting me in all kinds of stupid ways.. I had to leave that !
Going through the same I feel like a simp but my respect comes first .
Currently going through this myself. It was going fine up until she started with the disrespect. I've cut off all contact with her from now on and only time will tell if 1) She tries to come back. Or, 2) change her ways because she knows I don't tolerate them games. If she doesn't follow, she knows that I'll just move on and do what I do.
She wont come back but thats the point.
Then she never like u
Boy are you right again it goes back to primal times I've been on both side of the tracks
Whenever a guy says “it’s that’s simple” I get concerned.
When your a triple virgo, walking away is so easy. Nothing much to learn, you'll see it easily unfolding anyway. The 'I'll get your attention' is so easy to notice. Just sit back, let it play out to their games. When your done and getting board, just walk away. That really messes them up!
Eh virgos are trash tho. At least the broads. My two best frieNds are virgos tho😂😂
@@alanperez7657 Virgo's are extremely intelligent and can walk away from the attention seekers!
Your zodiac has nothing to do with your personality....nothing
@@JT-gm4fk HAS almost EVERYTHING to do with your personality
@@NeilNZ Thats because we will ALWAYS be our favorite company anyway
Thank you bro for this!
Facts 100 percent
Your on point...thank u man
Funny thing is, women are just as deep as the cover page too, i want relationships for more than just the right reasons
The Alpha Male is back and better then ever. It's your boy AJ, running test, modafinil and mk677 and feeling better then ever! Was worried this channel was dead, but clearly I spoke to soon.
Good to hear from you AJ, don't worry, I'm just getting started...
Sometimes, women confuse me.
I was married once and done I like my freedom 👍🏾👍🏾😁
Great video you speak the truth
man you are 100% right pure facts thank you for the knowledge.
Thank you for knowledge 🙏🏼💯
It aint no game. If you walk away, theres no turning back. Thats not how a male works. You walk away, you keep on walking. With or without her, expecially if she dumped you
So the prefect answer is stay free 👍🏾😁
Thanks for the advice I’m going to sub hopefully u post more content soon 🤝🏽
Unfortunately, this wont work for the married women, they are chosing rather to stay in bad marriage screwing her hubby with "high valued men" whom they swore manipulatevly in a lifetime love.. than to chase such a high value man for a truth relationship! Luckily, the high value guy understood her manipulation, made a u-turn, and walked away! Still, did not work...she got angry by a fact she cannot manipulate him...that was the only outcome, but opportunistically she stayed in her voilent and abusive marriage. Sad fact...So walking away doesnt work in all cases - women are very oportunistically tricky.
My ex wanted “peace” three weeks ago and wanted no contact. I said ‘are you sure, as I’m certain about us’ (just to put my cards on the table so she can’t come back in the future saying I didn’t communicate) and then cut all the ‘babe’ and emojis.
She text me saying she could smell me and she was going to sleep with my stuff to remind her of me and how heart broken she is that SHE broke up with me.
NO REPLY from my part. From there on. Enjoy your single life girl 😉
Both sexes are guilty if doing this shit . There are many men who will not commit. That is nothing new . Also once you walk away you Should stay away. If you take a man back after he has shown negative behavior, he will actually become Worse if you go back. It's like you have agreed to their bullshit.
This goes both ways
@@ricardoprakash5932 they dont care
Men don’t commit because it’s the most one sided contract on earth where the women gets paid to break it.. men are getting wise to women’s bs..
That only works on some women. Because when he walked away, I left him in the past, he decided seven years later he wanted to come back. Then I walked away, so your claim is subjective.
Who the fuck would come back after 7 years lol dude didnt have options. I think your case is extreme.
@@alanperez7657 Lol, actually the dude in question is a high calibre man who attracts stunning women with his confidence like flies to shit; he always has options, so you are entitled to your assumptions.
The reality is he realised too late what we had was irreplaceable, that's why some men don't settle for any woman, they wait for the woman for them so he tried to find me in other women as he trotted around the globe and realised he couldn't.
The moral of the story ignoring women especially when she has options will get you forgotten and replaced. Let that sink in.
@Distinctive Elegance when i ignore a woman
Im done though, i wouldve never come back. He wasnt in love with you, it was his ego. Women have options cuz dudes are simps, and vagina runs their life. thats nothing a man should worry about. He should have balls and continue don his journey. I cant even remember women from 2 years ago.
@@alanperez7657 Irrespective of the reason for his return, I know I walked away and never returned; he lost all access to me, so my actions spoke louder than words ever have.
Label it how you want to, because I never said I loved him or if he loved me; we cared deeply for each other without labels. Our chemistry was organic and not confusing, with no pressure. That's why he came back his words, "because we accidentally found something we both were not looking for at the time".
Now, if you haven't met a woman who challenges your thought process to help you become the better version of yourself while she also gives you genuine validation without expecting anything in return, then you need to broaden your horizon, there are some people you may only meet once, but their first impression left a lasting one. So you remember them for a long time.
😂😂😂😂😁😁😁🙌🏼17 years later still crying for me😂😂😆
Men should just stay single and date multiple women. I made the mistake of getting tied down to a woman for almost 3 years and she did a lot of these same things. Lied, cheated, stopped going to the gym, stopped looking hot for me etc. She broke up with me for another guy so I just disappeared and never messaged or called her again. Pretty much rebooted my life and started approaching numerous other women.
Walking away for me didn't help at all. She just decided not to want me back.
It DID work.. You don't have a disrespectful cunt in your life anymore bro
LOL, well he walked away and I found me a better guy......fast. He came running back after 6 weeks but it was too late.
This does not work on a certain type of woman, believe me.
If he came back to you, he's not an alpha. The alpha doesn't come back. lol
@@JuzTroublez Fake alphas don't. Real ones can recognize when they've messed up and try to fix things, if it's a worthy woman, BUT he won't allow that to become a source of power for her. That's the difference. These guys don't understand most women at all. They just teach you how to manipulate the bottom of the barrel women.
🙏🙏😂😂😂 yeah. then they cry like babies for YEARS!!!😂😂😂😂😂 i won't take them back lol😂😂😂 "she doesn't have to love you"😂😂😂 lmao 😆😆
The advice in this video is good if you want to keep playing a silly game with a woman (or anyone) who is highly unstable and will not add any value to your life. Mentally balanced and healthy partners will not be "turned on" if you leave them. If you are both good partners, if one saw major problem, they tried to work out those problems. So the only options are that you walkd away from someone who ignored your valid concerns (good- leave them) or that you are a manipulator who wants someone to read your mind or that you are bipolar.
Point on..Thank you...
Men stop too doing things for us women.
What if both of us start being lazy together? And loving it? And talking openly about how funny we are and how we probably have aspergers (SP?) Maybe we are both unicorns? The men in my life (family, friends etc.) who haven't committed to a woman, are pretty darn lonely in my opinion. I hope everyone reading who is lonely, finds their person. If they want commitment and a healthy long term loving relationship, I hope they get it. If they want to be single and have lots of people of the opposite sex chasing after them, then I hope they get that as well. My boyfriend puts me first and I have never loved a man as much as I love him. I honestly didn't think it was possible to love a man this much. Saying that women aren't attracted to men who put them first is simply not true. And I think as a woman, I am qualified to make that statement.
Yes but you might be one of the only women a man can put first in a relationship because your loyal , trustworthy, appreciate your partner e.t.c.
Majority of women out there don't like to be put first , i know this from doing it with women in past experiences, it disgust's them and that made me behave like a simp. I'm never putting a woman first again because it makes us men look thirsty like we have no other options and haven't got an abundance mindset.
You can NOT put a women on a pedestal and keep her there because she isn't going to want to stick around , she will be f***ing some other tom , dick and harry in the next town, city or up the road. That is why when us men have been too needy and available by putting you on a pedestal and making you the centre of the attention/ constantly giving you validation you seek we have to walk away whether you come back to us or not and however the relationship ended, if necessary walk away for good , never look back so you women regret everything.
Sorry i have to say this as i have done the same as your partner in the past, put you women first as number one priorty and unfortunately he sounds like a simp / beta. When us men put you women first , it makes us look like a chump with no other options, no life , no dream, goals, ambitions and desires to chase after.
My recent relationship wity my female (coworker) crush as gone wrong and we are not talking at work or outside of work and a lot of it had to do with me validating her , putting her on a pedestal, making her number one over my dreams , goals, ambitions and desires in my life , NOT anymore. My dreams, goals ,ambitions and desires mean more to me and my life that she ever will again and i am walking away for my sake and so she regrets it in the future when she can't find a guy like me ever again. It was both our fault's the relationship went the way it did , but i was a simp / beta male with her , NO MORE though I'm done for good with that 💩 as it made me look and feel weak and not a real masculine , confident leader of a man.
@@WillS.TheSuperReds. I am very sorry to hear about your past relationship :( I have been learning a lot about feminine and masculine energy and I can assure you, my boyfriend is definitely not beta. But I agree, you still need to have goals and ambitions and dreams. An ideal partner will support you through all of that. Man wasn't created to be alone. Everyone on this earth just wants to love and be loved. I hope you find your perfect person. She is out there you just have to look. :)
@@ashleyleahy5859 Thank you for your consideration and kind words. As horrible as it sounds , myself and a few work colleagues today's at work were talking about how short life is and what you can expect with death especially as it waits for no one. That got me thinking that despite the mistakes i have made in mine and my female (coworker) crush relationship , i want to be a real man and make amends with her because life is too short to be holding grudges against other people and i admit i said something ridiculous through tect that was out of order and rude/ disrespectful, but i have come to the realisation i was wrong to say what i said and take full responsibility for my inappropriate behaviour. I don't expect anything from her , especially not forgiveness , but if she decides to forgive me and still wants to communicate in the (near) future, I'm hoping we might be able to build on a more trustworthy, respectable, happy, fun , social relationship together in the (near) future.
I like to think of myself as a mature man that admits when he is wrong even though i can be very stubborn at times especially when i believe I'm right about something. I think that's the leo 🦁 inside of me that knows when not to back down lol.
@@WillS.TheSuperReds. hahah my best friend is a leo and boy oh boy do i know what you're talking about!! You taking full responsibility for your behavior shows maturity and compassion....maybe she will come around :)
@@ashleyleahy5859 thank you and take care of yourself and all your loved ones. I have subscribed to your channel
The truth
Great video
Dude i used to workout everyday my mind was on gym, i still had awful experience with chicks and people, i was raised with single mother no one helping me out, i had to be around prostitues and toxic people even when the only guy who worked out still end up getting treated like a low value.._ i guess i was born to be choosen to be something else.._
Make the choice and just BE then bro
@@alanduff1054 just workout right
@@blackpillaudrius3015 The INNER workout is better but yes of course stick to what you love and what's good for YOU... NO MORE living for ANYBODY outside of you.. This practice makes it WAY easier to love EVERYBODY... Some of those you love will be close but MOST others will be from a distance
Good video
REAL 💩
This is brokeness and it only works on broken women with low self esteem. I will leave as soon as o realize he's not committed to me. You need to relax and enjoy the relationship. No need to walk on eggshells and tip toeing around your man
good answer
MOST modern women ESPECIALLY black are ALREADY broken with low self esteem because feminism tricked them into believing her femininity is a weakness when it's ACTUALLY her STRENGTH so now when this TOTALLY off balance broken creature comes across a man of substance she's immediately intimidated so she picks and pokes at that man's self esteem and or masculinity until either she finally breaks his spirit and in which case she LOVES because she feeds on the pain of men hurting OR this man of substance will call her on her bullshyt and if he doesn't see corrective behavior he BOUNCES...
3:15 yeah I noticed it //my lady started trying to purposely get hemorrhoids ☝️ passing gas and dutch oven Clam baking 💨she also forgot how to use a toothbrush
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@@9525joe it's cool though//I got use to it 😏 we both just completely gave up on trying to be attractive so we both smell 24-7 have bad breath we actually have fart wars now //see who can stink the most /catch 22 /it drew us closer together /our house is a pig stye in our eyes covered in zits //basically true love
When walking away do you say so or just ghost?
"You tell them but not much it is like ghosting but really not"
It goes back to primal times
Yep we got a mortgage in a week we broke up havimg to sell now
Does walking away have no power after a girl is vindictive?
Yes , it does it shows them that you’re unbothered, and no longer putting up with their shit
My hero
U are good🙂👍
There is nothing wrong with women not wearing make up , so long they are well groomed . After having children your body shape changes . Diet and exercise will help improve her figure but her body will be a bit fuller When I was single ,I was growing all my layers out of my hair in order to change my hair style and my boyfriend dumped me because my hair looked messy . Lol
Listen to the content of this guy’s message. Apparently “SOME” but “NOT ALL” gym rats have a one track mind. Nothing matters in a relationship other than how you look physically. My friend get a clue, if all you can do is lift to get and keep a women. You have some essential issues you are missing.
Louder for the fake alphas in the back! 🙌
I just walked away from a highly entitled woman who's 29. She had all these demands, e.g. wanted me to buy her things before we're even in a relationship. She doesn't realize that before she nows it, she'll wake up being 33 and single. Life isn't fun for women after hitting the wall.
You are extremely write everything about her change and when I talk to her about it it’s become a problem and she make it seems like I am the problem and not her I decided to walk away
Bro you gotta calm down with how many things you got in your room
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Bro do mean if your in the friend zone cause I told a girl I like to f da friend zone an she got mad what's your advice
Tell her you like her more then a friend then walk away
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 LMFAO this is so ridiculous lol
and really sick by the way 😂
just make her your queen and carry her on your hands and keep her SATISFIED
try to KNOW her and not see silly stereotypes.
this is so funny
"don't commit to have a happy relationship"😂😂😂
.... really bad advice
Treat her like a "Queen", Satisfy her, try to Know her when Will women treat him like a "king", Satisfy him, Try to Know him?
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if I'm not the focus of his life i m better alone😂😂
playing games???😂 that's so immature, really. one is hotter than the other? it's that pure narc shit? or what is that??🙏😂😂 anyway really funny. por guys who believe that😂
Women do that all the time.
From a strong womans point of view..that has a healthy mindset..we don't like games, we see through it..so when a man walks away..its actually a blessing...we look at it as dodging a bullet..we actually feel relieved..so guys unless ur 100% sure ur ok with loosing a woman u really like..I suggests u don't play games..because trust me she will walk away especially when a real man comes along that is really into her..to be honest man...this only works on weak women which are a dime a dozen..but a real woman that can benefit a man in a healthy way...will hold a door for a man that act like this..
Well that's going to be a problem when a real man and a real woman meet because they are going to have a power struggle over who gets to hold open the door for the other.....
@@nightmaster6381 you're right!!!!
You´re wrong, this is not a kind of game, it´s about self respect. To be a real man, no the one who is pleasent.
A strong woman hahahaha
Hahahah why is a women telling us men on how men must behave and what are games and what are not games... Dont you have a platform to explain to women when is their ovulation week... We got some serious nuting to do
Take it from a woman who is TURNED OFF by stuff like this. It doesn’t work.
Lol even when the woman finished with you? Youd like it if the man kept chasing?
So basically if she dumped me I’m supposed to sit around like a little doggy and be her friend? Hell no I’m out, you want my affection and time then you commit, life’s too short to be playing stupid games.
@@thegreatid3595 If she dumped you, no. Don't be ridiculous. She's talking about the fake alphas that use this tactic as a power play to get what he wants from her and then adds the 'goalpost' moving tactics that usually accompany moves like this. There are groups teaching leveraging skills to leverage a person's psyche against them and it's breaking people. What a great way to create insecure attachments and trauma bonds. ☠💕
@@user-dy6xx6tw9w Oh yeah for sure I know there’s a lot of fake alphas on RUclips that preach how redpilled they are, they’re mainly just narcissistic people, trying to get what they want, and use manipulation to get it.
This is why you don't listen to what women say. No woman is going to desire a guy that sits around and waits for her. That's not high value and he has no standard for himself.
If men think an attractive girl/woman stays with you in this respect yr wrong. If you walk away by design just to play her (?) its a big turn off and you allready lost her. 😂
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