How to SPEAK UP with Confidence 7 TIPS
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- Опубликовано: 3 июн 2024
- How Can I Speak Up with Confidence! These 7 concrete tips will make you instantly look and sound more confident especially in group meetings. Free download to the 5 Essentials Communication Skills for Professionals: www.alexanderlyon.com/
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Thanks for your amazing tips. I've requested this guide several times and I still don't get it in my email.
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English is not my first language, so i am often nervous talking in group settings. This video helped me.
All the 7 seven tips are important to know and as you say self confidence is highly important , eye contact , don’t look down , do not ask for permission , lean in , thank for sharing !
I'm glad they are helpful to you, Alejandro.
Sir,
I am perplexed with the art public of speaking. It is quite natural as rain comes from heavens. By going through such stuff it makes me worried. What is to be focused and what not to be focused. The human beings are blessed with power of speech. It is the greatest gift and this makes us most intelligent. Why do we make simple things complicated by giving lables such as verbal, nonverbal, kinesthetic, auditory, visual, the more we give priority to these things the core will be missing.
How does he speaks whether he is leaning, standing towards 45° or 60°. It is the listener's choice what he wants to listen ,he listens to it. He also understands what is not being spoken. It is the absolute choice of speaker/ listener.
Do we learn typewriting by reading the mannual? Do we learn swimming by reading a book? Did we listened to our parents after completing the certificate courses?
It is just natural. In this vast world, everything is ready except man.
It is not intended to hurt or criticise anyone's sentiments. I just thought of write something.
When we understand the history, we can come to know the natural and latent abilities of the greatest speakers the world such as Swami Vivekananda, Martin Luther King, Winston Churchill, Hitler, etc.,
Did they possess any master degrees from reputed universities?
No, the need is the drive. It makes all the difference.
I once again thank you very much everyone who pays their valuable time to read.
Thank you.
D. Rama Murthy
Telangana
India
I thank you very much for your videos.
Valuable advice! I think this summary of the "when to speak up and how to deal with hecklers"-part might be helpful for/worth sharing with other viewers:
It's all about smart timing:
1. Anticipate current speaker's pause (hint: they wind down)
2. Meanwhile as they wind down: Signal you'll speak next: Lean in, visibly breathe in via mouth, and slightly raise index finger
3. As they hit their pause, you just start speaking
4. If you get interrupted make friendly eye contact with interruptor
5. Unless urgent, let them courteously go first (if they don't offer to let you go first) and keep signaling you go next (see 2)
Thank you for this video! I am naturally shy and have always found meetings so difficult. Like SO difficult because of all the things you mentioned. I wait and wait and wait because I never know the right place to speak up, and when I do, I’ve rehearsed the thing so much that I feel like it explodes out of me.
Truly appreciate your clear articulation of the problems and the clear solutions. I’m going to implement these immediately. Thank you!
Thanks so much. You are the best communication coach on YT. I have learned a lot from your videos and can concretely see progress in my oral communication and my confidence. You are clear, concrete and to the point. Great work!
I'm so encouraged by your comment, Florisse. Thank you!
Yes! Wow, definitely must double or triple this on point such gr8 comment of yours, the best from the rest 👍 content creator/speaker/you tuber/communicator & last not least SUCH AN ARTIST IN HIS TRUEST BLEND,( AS A EYE-OPENING EDUCATOR! ) Such a lovely comment and YES I HAVE to AGREE! ... the best I've found to date, too. (⁰ú⁰)
Can you do another video on communication tips over Zoom or video conference?
It's a good idea and a lot of people have asked but I probably won't do videos about Zoom. There are so many out there on that from other channels right now and I don't have an anything special to say about it at this point. If I come up with something a little unique to say, I might reconsider.
Thanks for the concrete suggestions!
I found all these useful, thank you very much. I am an introvert so when I have to speak up in a meeting, all I can think of at that moment is that everybody's eyes are on me and then I turn red in the face. I need to work on my confidence and tell myself that what I have to say is important and of value.
I appreciate all of your clips and look forward to seeing you more. Thank you 🙏
Very helpful! Thank you!
Thanks for sharing this useful content!
Thanks Sir
Thank you!
Thank u so much 😊
Doc your material is 🔥🔥
Very helpful.
I really need these tips at work. Thank you so much!
All the tips are great, so far.
In my role I am required to give presentations daily in a high stakes sales environment.
I constantly look to improve not just how to communicate more effectively but also efficiently.
Everything you have suggested is dead on, my only additional suggestion is to incorporate these tips with a STRONG VOICE.
Yes, add it to the list. Thank you.
Thank you. This is very helpful
excellent tips!
Very useful tips. Thank you
Love the nonverbal tips! Thanks!
I love the way you coach. Tip #5 is my favorite.
Thank you for sharing this video!
Awesome!
Great tips! You are a great example of confidence speaker!
Thank you sir! Much love ❤
All these tips are helpful! 🙂
Thanku, this help me alot.
This was excellent! Thank you! Wonder how to translate some of these when in virtual meetings!
you are great, greetings from EGYPT
bro thanks for bringing the geniune content
Excellent presentation! Very helpful
ótimo muito bom ! Thank you!
Thank you Alexander this was helpful.
Some great tips you shared here. Valuable suggestion and I just need to implement these tips in my virtual meeting and in person meeting. I am glad I found your channel.
good...thanks
Oh, thank you Alex for the advice. Great points and thoughtfully presented.
Love this!!
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New subscriber here. Your channel is really informative. I'm not necessarily in the public speaking eye but these tips sound useful in everyday conversation and I would love to feel more confident while having small talk with a stranger. Thanks for the content 😊
Those are helpful communication skills 👏🏾
I like the way you teach us thank you so much😊
These are some fantastic tips, thank you SO much!!!
Fantastic, thank you very much....i subscribed immediately
WoW just what I need to work on.
Many of us are out of social practice!
Your work is helping me in my communication.
I often wait too long and I burst!
Great video
Nice tips sir! Watching from the Ph.
Powerful and booster...
Just discovered your channel, great video! Thank you!
Thanks for watching, Andy.
It is all so helpful!!!! P.x
As always, Thank you Alex!
My pleasure, Krishna K.
Excellent, thanks
You are welcome!
Thank you so much for precious advice!
You are so welcome!
You are a good teacher
Thank you!
Super helpful Alex! Thank you!
Glad you liked it, Erik. Thank you.
Thank you for this, it's a big help!
Thanks, Gustavo. Happy to help.
Huge thank you! Such a powerful video to watch!
Glad it was helpful. Thank you for your encouragement.
Thanks Alex, this is helpful. I always have a lot to say but everything disappears while in the meeting.
Very concise and helpful. Thank you.
Glad it was helpful!
Excellent presentation!
Glad you liked it, Arthur.
you have helped me very much! I always wait for an audible pause but waiting for the wind down and audibly breathing in (giving a cue) also gives the other speaker an opportunity to give a cue as to whether they are done or not (yes or no right after I cue) works flawlessly with the finger if you need to cut them there to respond
What an amazing content! Thankyou Sir.. I do many of the tips u shared naturally.. But learnt many more. Thankyou a tonn🥰
Thank you so much... Very helpful...
You are welcome, Talents Time. Glad it was helpful.
Thank you Alex for this wonderful video. 🙏
Glad you enjoyed it!
Very helpful Alex😊✌️
Glad you think so. Thank you.
Thanks for the very valuable video info you shared Alex...!
My pleasure, Lucy. I'm encouraged that you found it to be valuable.
Very good.
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Outstanding. Thank you very much sir.
Thank you for the positive feedback. I appreciate it.
I loved this, I enjoyed the way you added those actions behind for emphasis. It helps understand when you actually see the gesture of what you are being taught or what not to do or do. Excellent and thank you.
Glad you enjoyed it, Pauline.
Thank you for this video, I sometimes get a little unsettled whenever I speak in a new group.
Came here through Lisa, love your channel, wonderful!
Welcome, Cindy. Happy to have you here. Lisa is great.
Excellent and powerful tools here, Alex. Thank you for sharing. Q: What's your take on some of the "alpha posturing" that's usually stressed in context of tips like these? I have mixed thoughts about it.
Alex you are just amazing thank you Lisa for recommending me to Alex's channel
Hey, thank you. Nice to meet you!
I am thrilled that I discovered your channel💗
Welcome!!
Thank you
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Thanks so much for the tips - all so useful & effective. Now that many of us work from home & meet virtually by webex over the phone, is it possible for you to provide tips specific to such arrangement? Also, very often there are people who talk forever non-stop in the meeting, are there any tips to deal with it? Thanks a million!
Thanks a lot it’s very helpful!
I found out about your channels through accurate English.
Glad to hear that, Princess!
Thanks You so much.
I have learned about you from Lisa; my best teacher.
The seven tips are very useful; I will use them and I don't sit back.
Merci beaucoup.
you have best content on y t do you still have any new content very well done thanks for your great insight
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Thank you, Hanah. :-)
Wow! This just came across my radar!! These vids are fantastic! I have a speakers bureau and I can’t wait to share these with my speakers!! Amazing!! These are fantastic for non-speakers also!! Thank you for doing these for the world!
Glad you like them, peggi. Thanks for you encouragement. I appreciate it.
Awesome
Thanks, DC.
Thankyou great tips, most valuable to me was the last one. Recent knowledge also states start with the positive follow with the don't so I wonder if your written tips would have more impact if they were written 1. lean in, don't lean back.
Followed you from AccurateEnglish with Lisa, Thanks for the tips.
Welcome! Lisa is great.
It helps to be genuine.
Thanks for a valuable input. What is your thought on dealing with people that steal ideas in meetings and make it their own, especially those that are senior.
As a student whose currently studying communication skills this channel is a big help. I usually use your videos to help me when I'm presenting.
Thank you
That's great to hear, The Eternal. Thanks for mentioning that. I appreciate it.
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Im borat and i approve..very nice. Success👍🏽
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Wow, this is really refreshing and actually helpful. You don’t waste words or time. I hate to overuse the word “crisp” but your videos capture this perfectly.
I'm glad you think so, Moki. My personal rule when speaking is to make sure each sentence adds value. I do my best not to simply repeat what I've already said. I'm glad you noticed!
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Thank you
Great advice I like the point where you say STAY LOOKING AT THE NEXT SPEAKER ...ie hold your own.I usually squirm and put my head down back to shyness being glad its over but leaving a defeated impression.
Thanks 😊
Thanks for sharing, Dorothy. I hear you. I've seen many communicators look down like that after they speak. It's a challenge and takes practice like anything else.
Eye contact is hard...short precise..I will have to work on this...
I'm beyond grateful for making or creating such an amazing video content 😀 I'm really benefiting a lot from them, I must admit though, i was that kind of person who made all the donts before I came across your lovely channel, I learnt a lot from you and still learning actually , thank very much again 🙂
Wonderful! Great to have you aboard, Sabrina.
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Wow!
i think the first one is very helpful i always sit back to avoid eye contact with leaders
I saw your interview with teacher lisa and liked it . It was amazing, so I come here to learn more about communication and improve my skills about it.i did it , thanks this video was useful.
Glad it was helpful! Thanks for coming and watching this one, Hanon.