Those flowers you gave Fuhad and Bella are well deserved. The pain of breaking up a friendship because of a romantic relationship is real! Keeping those friendship relationships are important.
@@reinaguerrera333yea me too when I first started watching but if you look at the pod where she was with them you can tell that they’ve got a great platonic relationship.
Imagine your own MUM tried to send you to jail... take away your kids... rinsed you of £1500... and then came to your house like everything was Gucci. At that point, I've changed my surname, lost her number, and forgotten her face.
The fact that he was already on parole and was breaking the terms of it by leaving the country and having drugs makes me think his mum was looking out for her grandkids more than her son and daughter-in-law who ontop of everything, had a firearm in the house. Am I the only one who thinks the mum did right by the innocent kids in the house. Stealing the money was a bit much though 😂😂
Finding a friend like Fuhad is hard. I'm glad to have one like that but it took years to learn to stop being the one to keep relationships/friendships going and let them drop out.
With the child dilemma, I was with my ex- husband for 5 years and he had a daughter from his first marriage. We were together from the age she was 3-8. When we got divorced I took her out to dinner and told her that she had a mom and a dad that loved her a lot and that she did nothing wrong but we wouldn't be hanging out anymore. It broke my heart because she was my baby. But at the end of the day, she had a mom and a dad. She had people who loved her. It hurt, but was best.
Real shit! I got with my now husband when my son was 2 months old, my son is 3 now and my husband has raised him like his own although my child's father has been in his life the whole time. We have all been very mature about the situation. My child's father has a GF that he's been with for years and a son that's about a year older than my son and we exchange our child every Monday keeping him a week at a time. It might not be ideal for the guy in the dilemma but all he can do is move on, let go and let God and I promise he will see the situation for what it is and move accordingly 😊😊 much love to all cult babies ❤
As a woman with a child, it's up to the mother to set boundaries with the kid and the man to understand: this is the man mommy is in a relationship with, this is not your father, but he does have the male role in this household. Its sounds more complicated than it actually is. It's a simple matter of RESPECT. Plus I take a LONG time before a man meets my child. My child has only met my boyfriend after we dated for a year. Being a RESPONSIBLE single mom can make dating very difficult on both parties. My child has never seen a man in my life other than her dad and my boyfriend but I have DATED. It is what it is.
That friendship bit is so true! One of my closest male friends cut me off last December because his girlfriend wasn’t comfortable with our friendship; we weren’t living in the same country for years, nor had we seen each other in years. I was hurt. Recently, he messaged me because they’re over.
Ayo. There too many people out here buying lobster, steak, and all sorts of special dishes on EBT. If someone is thrifty enough to extend their dollar, then they have the wherewithal to stretch dollars in other places. It is a known fact that the rich-rich are the most thrifty, cunning and stingy in life.
@@anonymousdonoryou’re exactly right. Back in the day (2013-14), my husband and I needed food stamps. We were newly married with 2 children and my special needs sister. I used coupons with the food stamps. Cashiers would try to tell me I couldn’t use them because I was getting my food “free” anyway. Fast forward to 2023. We now have 6 children, our house is paid off and our 3 cars are paid off as well. We have savings and money in the bank. So I definitely get what you’re saying. If you’re looking at food stamps as just “free money”, you’ll be more likely to stay broke.
Omg hearing guys hearing about having your opposite sex friends and being actually friends and working makes all the fights I’ve had with guys I’ve dated actually worth it. If you’re my friend you’re my friend idgf what anybody says.
@@cotneighxdon't worry that happens to guys too. Girlfriends can be quite controlling when it comes to friends no matter the gender, in my experience cause I'm no gay or bi and either are my male friends
@@cotneighx ugh same and if I didn’t it I had to let her get to know me. If I wanted his big headed ass I would but I’ve seen him say too many stupid stuff for one and there just isn’t anything there except friendship it’s already hard for me to have female friends in general and the stuff I like tends to get me more guy friends than girls.
I can, did and wish I didn’t imagine it For someone whose always tryna put himself other people’s shoes, it seemed like a thoughtless way to say what we all knew he ment💀
James I appreciate your openness and vulnerability re: being dropped as a friend; and Fuhad, I appreciate you letting James have the space to air his feelings. So beautiful to see ❤
I like the growth. A while back when doing red flags the boys said a girl having a male best/close friend would be a red flag. Im glad to see them realise opposite sex friendships are possible and not everything between a man and woman has to revolve around sex
This is my favorite episode so far ngl. That conversation about friends cutting off their friend for a relationship resonates with me and I agree fuhad, Bella and Chloe deserve those flowers for sticking with their friends ❤💐
I feel like you guys don’t understand this guy’s dilema because you aren’t parents. Not in a judgy way, but when you have a kid or take one as yours (so you can be invested enough to do a decent job at raising them) it is ROUGH to let them go. This is why fostering is so unbelievable hard and people that do it are my heroes 🙌🏼
When they talked about having a girl who has a problem with a female friend I honestly related to it because I'm going through this right now and hearing their opinions on the matter actually made me realise that it shouldn't be a big thing if you know for a fact that nothing is going on and that there should Abe a good level of trust between partners to avoid said situations. Thank you guys for all the help ❤
I literally did the same thing as James ! Put my bag in the trunk closed it and went to get in and my doors was locked . The trunk locked too 🤦🏽♀️. Luckily I was at home and the spare was inside the house
I don’t mess with people who act like their friends don’t exist once they get into a romantic relationship. They have no respect for me or my feelings. And then come crawling back when their relationship doesn’t work out. You deserve to be alone.
Had to drop my best friend over that, I seemed to not even matter enough to even check on with a quick text every time she was in a relationship. Yet I was always there for her when they ended.
My mate used to do that all the time when he was younger, luckily for him we were all pretty chill about it and opened back up as soon as he was done. Although I definitely had a word with him after the second or third time and he changed to be fair to him, ironically with the one he ended up marrying and who actively pushes him to make time for us.
I was in a relationship where I was made to cut off my friends and I ruined a lot of friendships that way. Now, I tell my partner that I have male friends right out the gate and if they don’t like it they can leave. Props to Chloe and Bella for never doing that to you guys!
I got my wife onto you guys since I found you on tik tok. She’s obsessed and I love watching it with her but now she won’t stop calling her “strap” her “tool” 💀😂.
Dumbest take ever. Just because it worked in their situation, doesn’t mean it works all the time. We’ve seen a million examples of men and women being just friends and that turning into love or friends with benefits later on. So knowing that, why would anyone risk it? No one with half a brain is gonna risk that happening, so if you’re hung up on having friends of the opposite sex over a potential marriage, then you got your priorities messed up.
@@veryfitting It’s not an insecurity, it’s risk assessment and respect. I made that very clear. I already have a high value wife, stop projecting your tunnel vision upon others.
As much as I love James when he is being super funny, I admire the vulnerability he shows during the podcast. It's refreshing to see a man being so vulnerable and open.
no relationship that requires you to cut people out of your life is a healthy one bc if someone wants to cheat on you they’re gonna do it whether they have friends of the opposite sex or not so there’s really nothing to worry about and if you don’t trust ur partner that much that they need to drop their friends y’all don’t need to be together
James' face superimposed on Forrest Gump's running body..😂 had me screaming with laughter 😂😂😂😂😂 My neighbors probably think I've lost my flipping mind 😂😂😂😭😭🤣🤣 and I don't care 😂😂😂
Once again thank you for another great episode 🥳 Edit: The last dilemma, that mother in law would never step foot in my house 🤞🏾. You can't play with someone's kids and think all is well, nope! I'd tell him to go stay with his Mom cause woooooow
James, that story was by far the best story I've ever heard...I was dying the entire time, but when u realized you drove and didn't even need the taxi and Fuhad's reaction to that, took me all the way out... great story rotflmao 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I really liked the friendship part it made me see more clearly about trusting others and their truth. I definitely use to have insecurities but there really doesn’t need to be a limit on friendships especially ones you can truly cherish
That last dilemma...that mother would have to stay away from my family! I left you to babysit my kids...NOT SEARCH MY HOUSE!!! She didn't even wait till they got back to talk to her son about it if she was concerned...she called the cops!
I was hanging out with a couple of guys one night in my last year of high school after having had a few beers and me and one of the boys wanted to go for a walk just the two of us so I opened the trunk to grab a hoodie. Being a girl, my pants had no pockets so I set the keys, wallet and cellphone down in the trunk and the boy closed it as I pulled the hoodie over my head. Needless to say, it killed the mood.
You cant just pick and choose your kids dads ffs its not a sweet shop, if that child has only known one dad its cruel to be like nah bye im over it 🙄 get it together, you'd kids deserve better
Thank you so much for talking about plutonic relationships. I’ve been thru this so many times and it breaks my heart when my partners ask me to cut off my male friends or when my male friends are in relationships and they stop talking to me
Top 5 I got cheetah AND Ostrich only because in year 8 my mates family had an ostrich farm and they made jerky from it.... not gonna lie.... it was BOMB! 😂😂😂
The story about trying to step up and raise kids that weren't his hit different. I was in a relationship with a girl that had 2 kids when we got together. One was 3 and the other one was 2 months. Me and her never had a kid together but long story short me and her ended up breaking up after 3 years because she secretly was talking to another guy behind my back. Her reasoning was that i worked too much and was showing her enough attention. The hardest thing i had to do was tell the then 6 year old that i wasnt going to be staying there anymore. Listening to her cry broke my heart. She was so attached to my hip that whenever she got out of school she would be under my wing until it was time for her to go to bed. The crazy thing is the kids used to call me dad and i never told them to. I just helped provide for them. It was the hardest thing in my life to deal with. Big ups to him though.
@blur_x1 No, sir. I wish, but she probably doesn't remember me. On her birthday, I always tell her mom to say happy birthday to me, but I'm not sure if she ever does. When we first ended things, about 4 months later she would let me Skype her, but that slowly faded once I moved out of state.
@@RodDawg52 😔 it’s a evil world we live in, and you were there for her core years, where she interacts and understands more. so she probably does remember you
@blur_x1 you're right about that brother. Smh. The beginning of this year was her birthday and she turned 13. I was there when she was 3. Tough times. 7 years of not talking I highly doubt it man.
I’m SURE she remembers you. Maybe the memories have fated a bit, but you were there. You are an amazing man for stepping up and I’m sorry this happened to you. Maybe you can write her a letter? Not even to try to get back in contact, but to just tell her how special she was to you. For girl hitting puberty that must be a great thing to hear! I doubt the mom would keep something special like that from her (but ofcourse I don’t know your situation).
Yaaay. Guys! I honestly didn’t even remember you guys were dropping today, today is my birthday at that notification popping up made my morning! I already know today is going to be great!!! 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤
I feel like it depends on the situation because my dad did that. He took on three kids that were not his own two of which were almost teenagers there was initially a bit of drama with my biological father but my dad simply pointed out that my bio was garbage who had traumatized us and walked out of our lives like a thief in the night didn’t care about us when that was happening so why does he care who is raising his children? Then my bio left again and I haven’t heard from him since and that was 19 years ago.
“The concept of pum outside..” had me🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The number of stories James has is unbelievable 😂
He is living a colorful live tbh 🤣
@@PersonWithStupid37 wild fr😄
@@PersonWithStupid37yooooo
He's fulla 💩
thought the same thing
Whenever James says “I remember when” I get gassed!!!!🤣😭you know it’s a juicy story !
Also James face on the dilemma got me wheezing 😭😂🤣🤣
And the story always gass 🤣😭
James’s story went from basement to medieval dungeon 🤣🤣🤣🤣
mid evil??? lmao medieval, man
James stories always get dramatically worse. 😂 he needs to write a book called diary of a PT
@@OppositeofHATE7that's what he said
@@eggstien_plays9643comment was edited
I keep coming back just to hear him retell that story 😂
Fuhad's reaction to James having to run to work...THE BEST!!
He pushed the Mike, cried and said thank you 😂
The advice Fuhad gives is so unbelievably levelled, emotionally mature and very rational. Kinda made me fall in love with him
It’s That Nigerian Genes In Him😊
I would F and marry both of them 😂
I think that is why James always says “Fuhad is a real man.”
@@enduranceholdon4932exactlyyyy. is he yoruba?
The way I almost spat out my overnight oats during James's story 😅😅😅 the stories this man has... just unbelievable 😂😂
Lol this is extra funny because he called you out last week with the overnight oats 😂
@@entropy3615 😆 🤣 facts...shank and a twist
@@Inksweet Damn I should have waited a few more minutes, he came for overnight oats again in this episode lmao 🤣
Robbing your girlfriend’s house while she’s at her dad’s funeral is CRAZZYYYYY
I started laughing before the guys did. Felt terrible afterwards...
Evil! 💀
My uncle robbed my aunt's (his wife's) house on valentine's day.
@@stevendalloesingh why tho, are you the bf?
It's love
James proper used Elis' laugh to let his out 😂
Not James trying to make Fuhad notice his individual eyebrow raising🤣🤣🤣
😂😂 He was really trying to get a reaction from him,you could tell he was on bad behaviour that day just from that start bit 🤣
Not me wondering "HOW TF 'DADDY' DOOO THAAAT"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🥴🥴😭😭
...because HOW TF DID HE DO THAT SHYT, I CAN BARELY DO THE ONE🤣😭🤣😭🤣😭🤣😭
Probably practiced for weeks
@@nicolawhitby91exactly! We know what type of time he’s on when James is like this at the start 😂😂😂
@@Real_KyngJesterYou just train the muscle haha. I taught myself when I was like 14 🤣
Those flowers you gave Fuhad and Bella are well deserved. The pain of breaking up a friendship because of a romantic relationship is real! Keeping those friendship relationships are important.
I always thought Bella was his girl.
Definitely can suck but people make their choices and it is what it is.
@@reinaguerrera333yea me too when I first started watching but if you look at the pod where she was with them you can tell that they’ve got a great platonic relationship.
@@olayerzdo you know which ep this is?? :)
@@mollieevans5857 hey! Episode 63 on RUclips and I believe there’s an early Patreon episode she joins in on too ☺️
The way they know each other’s stories and are both CACKLING before the story’s are done ✊🏾🤣✊🏾 the bromance is TOO real and I adore it
Same❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I missed top 5 and James being so competitive the way he screamed when he won 😭💀
Same!!! Top 5 is actually so dope!!! So good to have Rem back! 😅😅😂
I was screaming ostrich Kevin Hart thank you 😂😂
me too
@@lanaboobana LMFAOOO so glad im not the only one who said ostrich because of Kevin Hart
Seeing the numbers climb closer to that 1 million is so cool 😊
Love from South Africa
I also did a quick numbers check!! We heading for that 1 Milly!!! Lets Goooo!!
Yhvx hb😅😢y
‘I had to run to work’ 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 James’ story telling is elite and Fuads laugh………..
Another Monday, another episode trying to see what shoes Fuhad has on from the fridge reflection. 😂 #SnGMondays
😂😂😂😂😂I thought I was alone
😅😅😂
Air Force 1 😂
Air Force 1 low grey blue incase you're interested😅
@@KingChaddi this MF hahahahahahah
Imagine your own MUM tried to send you to jail... take away your kids... rinsed you of £1500... and then came to your house like everything was Gucci. At that point, I've changed my surname, lost her number, and forgotten her face.
That's crazy af.
basically just men in black mind wipe yourself of thier existence XD
The fact that he was already on parole and was breaking the terms of it by leaving the country and having drugs makes me think his mum was looking out for her grandkids more than her son and daughter-in-law who ontop of everything, had a firearm in the house. Am I the only one who thinks the mum did right by the innocent kids in the house. Stealing the money was a bit much though 😂😂
Finding a friend like Fuhad is hard. I'm glad to have one like that but it took years to learn to stop being the one to keep relationships/friendships going and let them drop out.
Same I realized only called me to go out with them
With the child dilemma, I was with my ex- husband for 5 years and he had a daughter from his first marriage. We were together from the age she was 3-8. When we got divorced I took her out to dinner and told her that she had a mom and a dad that loved her a lot and that she did nothing wrong but we wouldn't be hanging out anymore. It broke my heart because she was my baby. But at the end of the day, she had a mom and a dad. She had people who loved her. It hurt, but was best.
Real shit! I got with my now husband when my son was 2 months old, my son is 3 now and my husband has raised him like his own although my child's father has been in his life the whole time. We have all been very mature about the situation. My child's father has a GF that he's been with for years and a son that's about a year older than my son and we exchange our child every Monday keeping him a week at a time. It might not be ideal for the guy in the dilemma but all he can do is move on, let go and let God and I promise he will see the situation for what it is and move accordingly 😊😊 much love to all cult babies ❤
As a woman with a child, it's up to the mother to set boundaries with the kid and the man to understand: this is the man mommy is in a relationship with, this is not your father, but he does have the male role in this household. Its sounds more complicated than it actually is. It's a simple matter of RESPECT. Plus I take a LONG time before a man meets my child. My child has only met my boyfriend after we dated for a year. Being a RESPONSIBLE single mom can make dating very difficult on both parties. My child has never seen a man in my life other than her dad and my boyfriend but I have DATED. It is what it is.
You’re so much smarter than most. Protecting your child is important. Partners come and go. Children are forever.
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That friendship bit is so true! One of my closest male friends cut me off last December because his girlfriend wasn’t comfortable with our friendship; we weren’t living in the same country for years, nor had we seen each other in years. I was hurt. Recently, he messaged me because they’re over.
Madness
Do not take him back. I know it sounds harsh but he did not fight for your friendship.
Ouch!
when James refers to himself and Fuhad as our "daddies" I want to laugh and melt at the same time! it tickles me and I dont know why 😂
I'm crying real laughter tears from James running to work. 😂😂😂😂😂
Respect to the food stamper using coupons. That's how millionaires are made!
No
Yeah, no. 😂
Ayo. There too many people out here buying lobster, steak, and all sorts of special dishes on EBT. If someone is thrifty enough to extend their dollar, then they have the wherewithal to stretch dollars in other places.
It is a known fact that the rich-rich are the most thrifty, cunning and stingy in life.
Facts. I hope they take all their opportunities and become profitable.
@@anonymousdonoryou’re exactly right. Back in the day (2013-14), my husband and I needed food stamps. We were newly married with 2 children and my special needs sister. I used coupons with the food stamps. Cashiers would try to tell me I couldn’t use them because I was getting my food “free” anyway. Fast forward to 2023. We now have 6 children, our house is paid off and our 3 cars are paid off as well. We have savings and money in the bank. So I definitely get what you’re saying. If you’re looking at food stamps as just “free money”, you’ll be more likely to stay broke.
James has a story for everything 😂😂😂
he's such a grandparent 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Not James calling out Ellis laughing so he could laugh himself😂
Nah that one night stand overnight oats story has FINISHED me. I'm in tears
I laughed so loud
Omg hearing guys hearing about having your opposite sex friends and being actually friends and working makes all the fights I’ve had with guys I’ve dated actually worth it. If you’re my friend you’re my friend idgf what anybody says.
I've lost so many of my guy friends when they got in relationships.
@@cotneighxdon't worry that happens to guys too. Girlfriends can be quite controlling when it comes to friends no matter the gender, in my experience cause I'm no gay or bi and either are my male friends
@@cotneighx ugh same and if I didn’t it I had to let her get to know me. If I wanted his big headed ass I would but I’ve seen him say too many stupid stuff for one and there just isn’t anything there except friendship it’s already hard for me to have female friends in general and the stuff I like tends to get me more guy friends than girls.
Can you imagine being James' winter girl hearing it was trash and 3/10! Real tears
I can, did and wish I didn’t imagine it
For someone whose always tryna put himself other people’s shoes, it seemed like a thoughtless way to say what we all knew he ment💀
If she were on a bridge she would have jumped smh
@@tretizzle facts!
Oh well
Not everyone is a 10/10 might suck to hear but there's always things you can do to improve yourself.
James I appreciate your openness and vulnerability re: being dropped as a friend; and Fuhad, I appreciate you letting James have the space to air his feelings. So beautiful to see ❤
I like the growth. A while back when doing red flags the boys said a girl having a male best/close friend would be a red flag. Im glad to see them realise opposite sex friendships are possible and not everything between a man and woman has to revolve around sex
ShxtsnGigs is the typa channel you slap on when you have a meal right in front of you but man, this is like the 3rd time I've choked😂🤦🏾♂
Omg
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Their excitement is so pure and sublime🤌🏽!! I love it! I love them so much
James clapping cold cheeks, hung over, ran to work in shorts in winter...and the client said he stank....sweet baby Jesus😢. #Murphy'sLaw.
I wanted that win for Ellis so bad. He was so close
Bro me too
Glad Rem is back. Hope he’s doing better!
We missed you Rem 😊😊
When I say I chocked on my coffee!!! James' rock bottom story was one of the funniest stories! 🤣🤣
It just got worse and worse!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This is my favorite episode so far ngl. That conversation about friends cutting off their friend for a relationship resonates with me and I agree fuhad, Bella and Chloe deserve those flowers for sticking with their friends ❤💐
Fuhad rolling his eyes turning top 5 when they were throwing shade was sexy af 😂
I could do multiple top 5’s per week, per episode even!
Fuhad is definitely Zaddy. I’d cook for him 😂
@@empresscookie7170oh he'd love that shit 😂
I feel like you guys don’t understand this guy’s dilema because you aren’t parents. Not in a judgy way, but when you have a kid or take one as yours (so you can be invested enough to do a decent job at raising them) it is ROUGH to let them go. This is why fostering is so unbelievable hard and people that do it are my heroes 🙌🏼
When they talked about having a girl who has a problem with a female friend I honestly related to it because I'm going through this right now and hearing their opinions on the matter actually made me realise that it shouldn't be a big thing if you know for a fact that nothing is going on and that there should Abe a good level of trust between partners to avoid said situations. Thank you guys for all the help ❤
I literally did the same thing as James ! Put my bag in the trunk closed it and went to get in and my doors was locked . The trunk locked too 🤦🏽♀️. Luckily I was at home and the spare was inside the house
No. I'm sick of it. I can't keep imagining how Ellis and Rem look like from those voices❤..SHOW ME!!!! Just SHOW ME ALREADY.
WELCOME BACKKK REMMMM 😎
I don’t mess with people who act like their friends don’t exist once they get into a romantic relationship. They have no respect for me or my feelings. And then come crawling back when their relationship doesn’t work out. You deserve to be alone.
My ex friend did it to our friend group, twice. Both, her ex husband and new man, treats her like a dog.
I've done that but I learned my lesson and luckily my friends accepted me with open arms I will never do that again
Had to drop my best friend over that, I seemed to not even matter enough to even check on with a quick text every time she was in a relationship. Yet I was always there for her when they ended.
My mate used to do that all the time when he was younger, luckily for him we were all pretty chill about it and opened back up as soon as he was done. Although I definitely had a word with him after the second or third time and he changed to be fair to him, ironically with the one he ended up marrying and who actively pushes him to make time for us.
Absolutely not, they'd be dropped like a hot rock from a volcano!!!
Already at 29K in 21 hours . never underestimate yourselves again ❤ 27:46
It's become a tradition to watch this every Monday, even if the wifi tripping, I'll find a way to watch it before the day is over 😅😅
At&T?
I was in a relationship where I was made to cut off my friends and I ruined a lot of friendships that way. Now, I tell my partner that I have male friends right out the gate and if they don’t like it they can leave. Props to Chloe and Bella for never doing that to you guys!
The way james used ellis as a scapegoat to laugh has me spinning
Totally love this friendship and dynamic they have❤❤❤❤❤fuhad and james are fkn awesome and funny asf😂😂😂😂thanks guys
I got my wife onto you guys since I found you on tik tok. She’s obsessed and I love watching it with her but now she won’t stop calling her “strap” her “tool” 💀😂.
James rock bottom story did it for me. Love it. It made me think about my rock bottom to the basement…. Love this episode
I really hope they get to 1M + subscribers. They’re so funny and fun they definitely deserve every win!🎉
The reaction I had to James's eyebrow raises at the start of this episode was not okay 😂😂😂... unlocked something
"Just F off and cry" had me SCREAMING
Props to the boys for being the anti fresh and fit when talking about Bella and platonic opposite sex friendships
I'll agree true opposite sex friendships can exist but the majority of them atleast one person wants to fuck
Dumbest take ever. Just because it worked in their situation, doesn’t mean it works all the time. We’ve seen a million examples of men and women being just friends and that turning into love or friends with benefits later on. So knowing that, why would anyone risk it? No one with half a brain is gonna risk that happening, so if you’re hung up on having friends of the opposite sex over a potential marriage, then you got your priorities messed up.
@@turanx0 you're revealing an insecurity. Work on yourself and you'll attract a worthy partner of higher value.
@@veryfitting It’s not an insecurity, it’s risk assessment and respect. I made that very clear. I already have a high value wife, stop projecting your tunnel vision upon others.
@@turanx0 so does your wife have any male friends at all? Is she allowed them?
As much as I love James when he is being super funny, I admire the vulnerability he shows during the podcast. It's refreshing to see a man being so vulnerable and open.
James stories are juicy 😂😂😂 when he says i remember
You know its about to go down 😂😂😂😂😂
no relationship that requires you to cut people out of your life is a healthy one bc if someone wants to cheat on you they’re gonna do it whether they have friends of the opposite sex or not so there’s really nothing to worry about and if you don’t trust ur partner that much that they need to drop their friends y’all don’t need to be together
Took 10 mins to get past 1:47 - James: “Ellis is laughing” 😂 Rems: “Ellis is going to hell!” …. I replayed that part for ages 🤣🤣
Yesssss we love to see Rem back 😝✨
James' face superimposed on Forrest Gump's running body..😂 had me screaming with laughter 😂😂😂😂😂 My neighbors probably think I've lost my flipping mind 😂😂😂😭😭🤣🤣 and I don't care 😂😂😂
Plot twist: Rem left to return to all the baddies hollering his name in the comments
That "I had to run to work" killed me 😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣James legit is funny asf with his story time honestly.
The dilemma's were cooking today. Loved it 😂😂😂
the stella artois bit had me GIGGLING
AND THE BIT ABOUT THE ONE NUGHT STAND?! JOKESSSSS 😂
Once again thank you for another great episode 🥳
Edit: The last dilemma, that mother in law would never step foot in my house 🤞🏾. You can't play with someone's kids and think all is well, nope! I'd tell him to go stay with his Mom cause woooooow
James, that story was by far the best story I've ever heard...I was dying the entire time, but when u realized you drove and didn't even need the taxi and Fuhad's reaction to that, took me all the way out... great story rotflmao 🤣🤣🤣🤣
51:40 James’ facial expressions are killing me😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Bombastic side eyee😅😅
@@Str8TalkNoCh8r criminal offensive side eye 😂😂
Yes! I have 3 male friends like my brothers. We met in college and been locked in ever since. I’ll never abandon them. They’re my boys fr
I love hearing Fuhad read out the dilemma's but I am so here for James's own version of the situation! 😍
James rock bottom story has me on the floor😂😂😂😂 Also I got ostrich because of Kevin harts story
Same here Lool 😂
Already subbed to it. It's on 31k. Fuhad wanted 25k and got 6k more lol. Want these guys to win so much. They provide so many laughs.
Here for the first time today but all I can say is I’m in love with this 2 already 😍😍😍
Much love from Alabama! I literally just got done subscribing... with ALL my email accounts. 🤣 We're hitting that 1M before the month is over.
Smart and supportive!
I really liked the friendship part it made me see more clearly about trusting others and their truth. I definitely use to have insecurities but there really doesn’t need to be a limit on friendships especially ones you can truly cherish
That pause was soo hilarious….. Ellis is my kinda friend 🤣🤣🤣
That last dilemma...that mother would have to stay away from my family! I left you to babysit my kids...NOT SEARCH MY HOUSE!!! She didn't even wait till they got back to talk to her son about it if she was concerned...she called the cops!
I was hanging out with a couple of guys one night in my last year of high school after having had a few beers and me and one of the boys wanted to go for a walk just the two of us so I opened the trunk to grab a hoodie. Being a girl, my pants had no pockets so I set the keys, wallet and cellphone down in the trunk and the boy closed it as I pulled the hoodie over my head. Needless to say, it killed the mood.
Na he snaked it 🤣😂🤣
‘Are you my mother or not?!’ to the second dilemma 😂😂😂😂
THIS !!!!
You cant just pick and choose your kids dads ffs its not a sweet shop, if that child has only known one dad its cruel to be like nah bye im over it 🙄 get it together, you'd kids deserve better
Only discovered these guys on the fellas podcast, not going to lie they have me in tears every episode 😂
Thank you so much for talking about plutonic relationships. I’ve been thru this so many times and it breaks my heart when my partners ask me to cut off my male friends or when my male friends are in relationships and they stop talking to me
Top 5 I got cheetah AND Ostrich only because in year 8 my mates family had an ostrich farm and they made jerky from it.... not gonna lie.... it was BOMB! 😂😂😂
Hold on. I am EXCITED for the reactions channel, already subbed🥳🫶🏽
I can’t find it 🤦🏽♀️😭 help!
@@leanneali5594 shxtsngigs reacts type that up and see
The story about trying to step up and raise kids that weren't his hit different. I was in a relationship with a girl that had 2 kids when we got together. One was 3 and the other one was 2 months. Me and her never had a kid together but long story short me and her ended up breaking up after 3 years because she secretly was talking to another guy behind my back. Her reasoning was that i worked too much and was showing her enough attention. The hardest thing i had to do was tell the then 6 year old that i wasnt going to be staying there anymore. Listening to her cry broke my heart. She was so attached to my hip that whenever she got out of school she would be under my wing until it was time for her to go to bed. The crazy thing is the kids used to call me dad and i never told them to. I just helped provide for them. It was the hardest thing in my life to deal with. Big ups to him though.
do you still talk to the baby girl?
@blur_x1 No, sir. I wish, but she probably doesn't remember me. On her birthday, I always tell her mom to say happy birthday to me, but I'm not sure if she ever does. When we first ended things, about 4 months later she would let me Skype her, but that slowly faded once I moved out of state.
@@RodDawg52 😔 it’s a evil world we live in, and you were there for her core years, where she interacts and understands more. so she probably does remember you
@blur_x1 you're right about that brother. Smh. The beginning of this year was her birthday and she turned 13. I was there when she was 3. Tough times. 7 years of not talking I highly doubt it man.
I’m SURE she remembers you. Maybe the memories have fated a bit, but you were there.
You are an amazing man for stepping up and I’m sorry this happened to you. Maybe you can write her a letter? Not even to try to get back in contact, but to just tell her how special she was to you. For girl hitting puberty that must be a great thing to hear!
I doubt the mom would keep something special like that from her (but ofcourse I don’t know your situation).
Yaaay. Guys! I honestly didn’t even remember you guys were dropping today, today is my birthday at that notification popping up made my morning! I already know today is going to be great!!! 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤
Happy birthday 🎁🎈🎂 🥳
Happy birthday🎉🎉🎉🎉
Happy birthday 🎂 🥳
I’m in America and you guys are hilarious. I first saw reels of FB and it lead me to RUclips and I’m so glad it did. One of my favorite podcast!
Already over 10k, congrats guys ❤️ you deserve it!
Fuhad still hot about his mom saying he work in the kitchen that’s why he going to look in her Nigerian closet 🤣🤣
I just know the reaction channel is going to be so funny 😭
James is the BEST oracle. I listened to the rock bottom story twice and scream laughed
Never have I planned to become a cult baby..but here we are, I have run the P to SNG😅👑👑
Aww I really have missed Top 5, welcome back Rem.
I feel like it depends on the situation because my dad did that. He took on three kids that were not his own two of which were almost teenagers there was initially a bit of drama with my biological father but my dad simply pointed out that my bio was garbage who had traumatized us and walked out of our lives like a thief in the night didn’t care about us when that was happening so why does he care who is raising his children? Then my bio left again and I haven’t heard from him since and that was 19 years ago.
Not them being on 40k subs on the reaction channel in only one day and these men a talking about 10k, 25k😂😂😂😂❤❤❤
James's story has me DYING at work lmao.😂😂
Regarding the Dilemma: Man has to lawyer up if he doesn‘t want his kid gone