When I told my mom that I was Pansexual, I first asked her if she was homophobic. She was like "No, Of course not" than I was just going to leave then she kept asking me why I asked her that question then I told her. At first, she didn't know what it meant but when I explained she was okay with it. I still didn't tell my step dad because he is a judgmental, rude, person but one day I will. Thank you Kevin, you will forever be my inspiration. ~Poetic P.S. You eyebrows are on fleek and you must show me your makeup routine ;-)
I came out to my parents when I was 13 years old. I'm from Belgium and there used to be a programme called "out of the closet" which I often watched with my sister. My parents were like, if you've got anything to say, you can always tell us, so they were kind of pushing me to come out. A few months later I came out and they told me that it dodn't come as a surprise. My mom told me that she was lucky because she said gay guys are often cute as hell so she has something nice to look at as well if I would bring home my boyfriend. Later she asked me if I wanted to wear make up since one of her colleagues has a son who's gay as well and he wears make up and another one has a transfender daughter. I told her I didn't feel like wearing make up. I was 14 and I came out completely on New Year and I haven't got any negative reactions so I gues I'm a lucky person. Love your channel, greetjngs from Belgium 🇧🇪💅💜
Elizabeth B your parents are wrong im bisexual and its okay to be as long as it makes you happy you need to be you and if you like girls and boys thats okay just know in your heart there are people like you who are bisexual and are afraid
(Sorry for late reply, been HELLA busy with school) Well, of course it started with "Don't you mean boyfriend" and "That's not funny, Diamond." So once they realized I was serious they demanded to know who (I have since broken up with said person) and at the time it was my best friend. They said I was to have nothing else to do with her and that it was her fault I'm "This way." She and I continued to date for about a year and a half afterwards
When I was young I wasn’t obsessed with Disney but I did dress as a girl a lot and play with dolls ( monster high of course ) and I still do and I’m gay, I came out to my mom and dad about s month ago with a song and they supported me and then I came out to my friend who I had a crush on and he said he was also gay and liked me too so now we are dating! I know nobody really cares I’m just sharing my experience 🙂
.......my parnets don't know I'm lesbian....but me and my mom were talking about gay rights and said i would be a disappointed if i was lesbian. same with my dad...
I've came out to my friend dakota and he was really excepting most f my friends are either bi and i have one 100%gay friend i came out to him and he was amazing and said if i told him url he would look at me and hug me. cause he knows how un accepting my parents are tysm.
KatysMySmile who cares what they think, if it's what you want then, it's what you need, and if they can't accept it, then they can go fuck themselves backwards.
i just had a sudden urge to come out but then I realized that im straight and cis so I just yelled "IM STRAIGHT" and its like midnight so i think my family is now annoyed at me
Spitefulll _ I feel the same. I came out to a few of my close friends but my real struggle is going to be my parents. They're both homophonic AF and I'm terrified that if I tell them they're gonna disown me or never talk to me again
My mom's really nice and my dad probably won't care but I hate speaking up, at P.E. my friend had to tell the teacher I had a twisted ankle because I'm really scared of rejection as in I can't explain how scared I am and nobody knows I have depression and I'm pansexual and the cause of that will lower self-esteem even more than it already is and the only friend that knows I'm pan and have depression is my BFF that lives in a state I used to live in and we were friends since 2nd or 3rd grade and my sister knows I'm pan and have depression and I'm scared my mom will react that way and she's very religious and some people on the bus knows I'm pan and I'm scared and I have anxiety, my life is a big mess over all and I'm pretty sure my mom thinks I'm straight
I was afraid to tell my mom that I was demisexual, because she expressed that she didn't really support gays. Then I had a girl ask me out, now I'm only fifteen and I don't feel comfortable dating yet. But I was freaking out because this girl that asked me out was dating one of my close friends, my mom heard me freaking out and she asked if I was okay. I told her what happened and she just looked at me and said, "you aren't dating a girl." I responded saying that I could date a girl if I had a connection with them emotionally. She left the room I was in and I cried. Then later she called me in to her room and we talked, she said that she'd love me and support me with everything I do.
I know that this is late to comment on but I loved this video, I remember when I was coming out to my parents; i was fairly young but old enough to have my identity. I was struggling with what identity i go with, how i feel, all that jazz, my mom was the most supportive human being I have ever had in my life. Unofortunately I lost that huge light in my life but my dad is a little more conservative however - he has been my support after a while. Time does get better, especially when they have questions - you can help them understand about it a little more.
I'm afraid to tell my church I'm bisexual even tho they accept g@y marriage I just think all my friends that are girls well I think their parents are gonna... make then avoid me ;-; and I already told my mom and dad and i'm just so worried I dunno what to do please help me kevin! @FlawlessKevin +FlawlessKevin
No matter what Kevin, we'll always love you. I'm still not sure with myself yet but you're letting me know that, I am who I am and whatever I actually am that I'm okay and I'm not broken. Thank you so much 😊
I love how positive you are even after what you went through with your Mother. Not everyone can stay as strong as you. Thanks for your support to everyone no matter what they identify as.
Thank you for sharing your story. I just came out as an adult. It was super stressful, but it went much better than I thought it would. Thanks for being your flawless self and being an encouragement and inspiration to others.
I came out of the closet yesterday because you as a RUclipsr supported me and after watching a lot of your videos, I closed my computer and told my parents that I'm Bisexual and you helped my along the way through this journey and you will help me through it more. Thank you so much for everything
This is a nice story, not for how his mom reacted, but by the fact that this story is about overcoming fears and embracing one's self in the search of happiness
Kevin, you are such a beautiful person - from inside and out! I'm a 20-year-old girl with Asperger's and I sometimes feel I haven't quite yet discovered myself even at this age, but whatever life brings to me I feel a lot more confident and positive about it after watching this video of yours. So THANK YOU! You really are an inspiration!
Kev, I'm glad I found your RUclips. I love your confidence. I think you are honestly adorable, and you seem like you would be an amazing and fun friend to have tbh.
Awww.... Kevin, I can feel ur struggle in those young days and I wish I could give you a hug. But look at u now, u have turned into a beautiful human being.LOVE U 😍😍😍😍😍
its so touching to see you so confident of who you are and you are amazing. Even if your own mom was against it, you fought through and you made it. You are who you really are in the inside and you dont let that stop you and you're here now being flawless with many fans being inspired by you and i think you're really amazing keep being flawless girl work it☆♡
Kevin, I have just started watching your videos and I think you are amazing. You are now one of my idols and I recently told some of my friends I'm genderfluid and they told me it was obvious! They were really supportive! I am also bi and they support mr with that as well! In still trying to somehow tell my mum but your video has really helped me. You are definitely flawless! Lots of Love,Sapphire xx
watching this made me tear up, it's so great for you to have stayed true to yourself even though it was hard. Worth it though because just look how flawless you are girl❤️ inside & out!
Awww, your parents are awesome. Props to your dad for being so cool from the get-go. Dads usually aren't that cool. You've got a treasure.... and so do they. :)
Omg, the moment you talked about ur mom taking away your makeup kit made me cry, like i can totally relate. My mom won't even let me buy the clothes I wanna wear, like rainbow clothes and stuff like that. I hope that one day my mom will accept me and love me for being who I am. This was really helpful, thank you so much😭
Kevin thank you so much for sharing your story! You are so amazing! I can relate to your story! I'm so glad everything got better for you! Love you always Joshy!
i wanna say one thing: you are incredibly strong. I've had people not quite accept me, though my mom was the honestly the most accepting. I'm pansexual, a girl, but also very masculine and i wear a lot of guy things. I applaud you for rocking your own life and look. I adore your personality and your youtube. keep doin you, boo.
Oh my god, I totally relate to the part about your parents being clueless. Literally so many people knew I was a lesbian and I didn’t even tell them, yet still my parents were somehow clueless. I wear masculine clothing, I have a short haircut, I always used “future spouse” instead of husband, I always purposely showed more interest in girls when around my parents, and I even openly shared how I don’t want to marry a man! Yet still, when I came out a few days ago they were shocked. Luckily they’re accepting, so it’s all good.
Love your personality! Glad your parents came around to accept you! :) What about your sister? Did she always know? My brother is gay and when we were growing up I suspected it, but he didn't tell me until we were in high school. And TBH, it hurt that he confided in other people before me.
I was more “Boyish” then both my brothers and hated most “girly” things. My friends genders were pretty even but I was friends with only boys for three years. Whenever we were forced to dress up I explained over and over how much I HATED dresses and would much rather wear a suit like my brothers. And I never really smiled for pictures because I was uncomfortable with what I was being forced to wear. Although when I “came out” as non-binary my mom said “You couldn’t even give us a hint before hand?” I was also told that it was probably a phase and that I wasn’t allowed to tell my siblings because “they’re too young”. That’s one thing I really don’t understand, I mean I should be able to them because it’s part of who I am. Eventually I told my siblings anyway and they all made fun of me and purposely shoved she/her pronouns at me and tubed it in my face afterwards. My siblings finally started accepting me and they all started using they then pronouns like I asked them to. My parents still aren’t accepting even though my mom claims to be trying. When I cut my hair I was screamed at for over an hour because “it looked bad” and “it will look weird when you try to grow it back out” and all that crap. But this is the longest two year “phase” I’ve even had. Then again I’m not really sure what I was expecting to get as a reaction because I was confused being called out for every tiny little flaw. And I guess that’s how I got my self esteem issues... Anyway I have no idea where I was going with this. But it’s getting late so I should probably start trying to go to sleep. I might actually get to sleep before 3am tonight. A teacher actually e-mailed my mom and I never even told the specific teacher. Have a great day! Did you really read all this? Why are you still reading? Just scroll down to the next comment. I can promise you it’s more interesting than this. Are you still reading? Really? Your still here? Fine I’m ending this. HA. You can’t read anymore.
+FlawlessKevin my brother is gay and my whole family are really supportive of him it makes me really happy to see him being who he really is I'm glad that it worked out for you ❤️
I just started to wear girl Things and at first I was scared that I would be judge but thanks to you I'm completely comfortable with who I am and you have change my life so much in a matter of days thank you so much
This is literally me.. Im glad you shared because this is so... Me! I went through the same things with liking boys I were friends with.... And forcing myself to try and like girls..thank you so much for sharing even tho im four years late..
I’m glad your family mostly excepted you! Also storytime: so my friend who lives across the street went to my house and asked if I wanted to go out and play basketball or somethin so I asked my mom if I could come out and every one looked at me like they were expecting something. My mom was all like uhhhh...you mean outside??? I just said yes but...one day
I love this video, im trying to figure a way to come out. Im still pretty young so im gonna wait. Thank you for your videos and helping me on what to do.
No I think parents want their children to be straight. I wonder if my mom has suspicions though... When I was in middle school, my mom used to talk about how hot guy's butts and bodies were. But for me I never understood what was so good about it. Or any of it TBH. Ive never really wanted to date boys. But I tried because I thought that's what I had to do. Update: I believe some parents don't want their children to deal with hate towards the LGBT community or genuinely don't want them to come out. Regardless it's a shitty thing to do. When your child comes to confide in you, be respectful of their thoughts and opinions because they're people too.
I love your videos. I just came out to my friends last night. They we're very nice and I plan on telling my parents soon. I love your videos still and you give me hope. 😊
I completely love this video, I just favorited it, it's just the kind of things that gives me hope for when I come out, I also think that they're kicking me out 😂😂 besides I don't even know what I'm gonna say, I can't say I don't know what I really am, they'll think I'm just confused. Buuut if you say things get better, I'll believe you. I love you, stay flawless as always! 💕🌈
Gurl i love you! This video is making me sad and happy at the same time! You are so like me with the way you talk and all and i love it. You are a wonderful person and i love the way you dress and do your make-up! Gurl those eyebrows are on fleek x
I feel like whenever I had a crush on a guy it creeped up on me. The only two instances when I had crushes on girls, they were my friends and it literally jumped me from behind my back like I was hit by a truck XD I’m also kinda scared of this one possibility of if I ever get with a girl my parents might be fine with it but idk if my older relatives would hate my parents because they did something wrong. It’s not my parents fault I like guys and girls sometimes, if you have a problem with it you gotta go through me first! XP
so I'm pan, and I came out. My mom doesn't believe me and my entire family is vv Homophobic. luckily they didn't kick me out but my brother said if he ever saw I had a gf he would hurt me and her
Late on this video as well, ahah I’m having a binge of your videos cus I love you Kevin haha. Just wanted to say, please keep being you, your really an amazing person, and thank you for this video!
my coming out story was a little like this: when i came out my mother, she did’nt believe me and said it was just a phase and it felt like i was’nt free for a long time. I was 12 at that time and that was one of the worst times of my life, not feeling free.
Everyone in my household kind of knew but just didn't want to believe it, and I didn't know they thought of me that way until I came out. I came out a long while ago but I'm pretty sure they've forgotten all about it by now or at least like to act as if it was just a "phase" and I'd get over it? I just can't find the right person yet,, who needs a relationship when you have a cat anyways. 😻
I teared up when you told about your dad when he just accepted you i feel like my dad would do the same but idk i still feel like my parents would be ashamed to have a daughter that's bisexual
So happy for you Kevin ! I'm in a kind of same situations now, I told my mom that I was gay and liked heels and makeup in October last year and the following days were reeeally awkward. She also said about the same things as your mom - that it's weird and that I should be boy-like etc. Now she kinda acts like she doesn't now, and it doesn't bother me much because I know she knows. I also know exactly what I want to do when I move out (heels and makeup duhh), so she simply has to accept it then (because now she forbids me buying heels etc., she apparently excepts me to magically become straight or something lol). And because I know that, I can wait until I move out
I’m obsessed with hair and the little mermaid was my thang when I was a kid so I’m coming out to folks at school but only my sister no one else in my family so I just wanted to tell you that stay flawless 😝
Amazing video, I haven't came out to my mother yet cause I'm scared she's very religious and I can't imagine her saying how God will "punish" me and how she'll hate. I dated this girl for almost a year and I had to go behind her back and told her she was my Bestfriend so we can spend more time together. Maybe some day I'll tell her who knows. But thank you for this video you're amazing and so strong. Love you!!
I’m so glad that I have parents who would love me no matter what. I am straight, but if I wasn’t they would love me and treat me the same as they did before. My coming out Story would literally be me sitting down with my parents and telling them I’m gay, and my Mom would be like what would you like for dinner tonight?! My brother might ask questions. He has a friend who is gay, so I don’t really think he would care too much. I know most people wouldn’t have the same results, but I do hope that you find happiness and safety no matter what the results are.
"Yolo let's cover it up"
that's my makeup routine life motto
same
Same
Same
I'm a lesbian in middle school, I came out to 2 people and my family. It's is HARD. The bullies, man.... the bullies.
Haha thanks I will! 🌈🌈
Sofia N. same ^^'
It's weird, everyone is accepting, way too accepting, I made a bunch of girlfriends, and now I'm way happier than I ever was as a closeted gay kid.
Sofia N. same... *single tear rolls down my face*
Just another mcr fan YOUR NAME AND PROFILE PIC ARE GOALS
When I told my mom that I was Pansexual, I first asked her if she was homophobic. She was like "No, Of course not" than I was just going to leave then she kept asking me why I asked her that question then I told her. At first, she didn't know what it meant but when I explained she was okay with it. I still didn't tell my step dad because he is a judgmental, rude, person but one day I will. Thank you Kevin, you will forever be my inspiration.
~Poetic
P.S. You eyebrows are on fleek and you must show me your makeup routine ;-)
+Justice Finest Stay you and stay flawless
3 years later. What's up?
4 years later update?
yo man, 6 years later?
i love watching other people's coming out stories :) it helps so many people and progresses the improvement of the LGBT community :)
+PSrecording Yay! :)
:D! YAY indeed xD
PSrecording really??????????????????????????????????????????
same
So true
Aw Kevin this was great! I'm so happy your mom became more accepting and how your dad was from when he first found out.
Love you AJ :)
Love you too!!
I came out to my parents when I was 13 years old. I'm from Belgium and there used to be a programme called "out of the closet" which I often watched with my sister. My parents were like, if you've got anything to say, you can always tell us, so they were kind of pushing me to come out. A few months later I came out and they told me that it dodn't come as a surprise. My mom told me that she was lucky because she said gay guys are often cute as hell so she has something nice to look at as well if I would bring home my boyfriend. Later she asked me if I wanted to wear make up since one of her colleagues has a son who's gay as well and he wears make up and another one has a transfender daughter. I told her I didn't feel like wearing make up. I was 14 and I came out completely on New Year and I haven't got any negative reactions so I gues I'm a lucky person. Love your channel, greetjngs from Belgium 🇧🇪💅💜
Jarne Van Buggenhout awwww 💖
HA your mum is me 'gay guys are cute as hell' 😂
I like your mom lol
So accepting!
Empowering story!
My parents don't think bisexuality exists. 😕...
Thank you! And I'm sorry to hear that :( I'll be here if you need anything :)
Elizabeth B your parents are wrong im bisexual and its okay to be as long as it makes you happy you need to be you and if you like girls and boys thats okay just know in your heart there are people like you who are bisexual and are afraid
Same
I'm bi and I have a flag the funny thing is, is that I have the flag and it's in my room and my parents don't know what it means
Elizabeth B I ambisexual, I don’t exist...
Being gay isn't a lifestyle it is a life with style.
Yep.So true.God made us this way.We didn't choose this life with style ;^) God did
George Bach yes
I walked into my living room and yelled I HAVE A GIRLFRIEND.... Didn't go as well as I wanted it to ;-;
Queen Diamond What happened if you dont mind me asking ?
(Sorry for late reply, been HELLA busy with school) Well, of course it started with "Don't you mean boyfriend" and "That's not funny, Diamond." So once they realized I was serious they demanded to know who (I have since broken up with said person) and at the time it was my best friend. They said I was to have nothing else to do with her and that it was her fault I'm "This way." She and I continued to date for about a year and a half afterwards
King Daniel hi5
Wow that's why I'm afraid of telling anybody even my bff
King Daniel what the fuck
You get hUgS-
When I was young I wasn’t obsessed with Disney but I did dress as a girl a lot and play with dolls ( monster high of course ) and I still do and I’m gay, I came out to my mom and dad about s month ago with a song and they supported me and then I came out to my friend who I had a crush on and he said he was also gay and liked me too so now we are dating! I know nobody really cares I’m just sharing my experience 🙂
You're lucky lol. I wish I could do that with the friend I have a crush on. That's so nice knowing someone can have an experience that way.
Guns&GasMasks2006 I care!
Aw that's great ;)
thats amazing. Im so happy for u
I cArE-
But seriously that’s awesome
I'm pansexual with a higher preferance towards girls
Abby is trash Same
Abby is trash same
I'm omnisexual (I pork everyone, regardless of skin colour, attractiveness, gender, fat, skinny, E V E R Y O N E)
S A M E
Same
I'm happier with my gf than I have ever been with a male
.......my parnets don't know I'm lesbian....but me and my mom were talking about gay rights and said i would be a disappointed if i was lesbian. same with my dad...
I've came out to my friend dakota and he was really excepting most f my friends are either bi and i have one 100%gay friend i came out to him and he was amazing and said if i told him url he would look at me and hug me. cause he knows how un accepting my parents are tysm.
KatysMySmile as long as you’re not disappointed in your self you can be a lesbian
Ive had the same conversation with both my parents im still in the closet tho
KatysMySmile who cares what they think, if it's what you want then, it's what you need, and if they can't accept it, then they can go fuck themselves backwards.
Stefany Robles SAME
In the future, im gonna be that hip gay aunt 🙂
Crocs 90% off WOOOOO me too😉😉😉
Crocs 90% off SAME :3 :)🍕😺😸🍕😺😸🍕😺😸🍕😺😸🍕😺😸🍕🙂🙃🙂🙃🙂🙃🙂🙃🙂🙃🙂🙃🙂🙃🙂🙃🙂🙃🙂🙃👽🍕👻💀🦄🦄🦄🦄🦄🦄
YASS QUEEEEEEEEN
Saaame gurl, except I don´t have any siblings buhu
Yeaaa!!! Me too!
i just had a sudden urge to come out but then I realized that im straight and cis so I just yelled "IM STRAIGHT" and its like midnight so i think my family is now annoyed at me
Lol
Pizza Queen Thank you for this 😁
lol whats this then
Spitefulll _ I feel the same. I came out to a few of my close friends but my real struggle is going to be my parents. They're both homophonic AF and I'm terrified that if I tell them they're gonna disown me or never talk to me again
I feel you Spitefulll_ I have a date planned so everything is perfect. I hope your goes well
I wish I was brave and was able to tell my mom
Just do it, before you regret it later. Good luck.
+wicked mhmmmm I learned that the hard way :/
Same. I'll do it when my mom moves out. I don't think she'll kick me out but she has that option. I don't want to risk that and being homeless
My mom's really nice and my dad probably won't care but I hate speaking up, at P.E. my friend had to tell the teacher I had a twisted ankle because I'm really scared of rejection as in I can't explain how scared I am and nobody knows I have depression and I'm pansexual and the cause of that will lower self-esteem even more than it already is and the only friend that knows I'm pan and have depression is my BFF that lives in a state I used to live in and we were friends since 2nd or 3rd grade and my sister knows I'm pan and have depression and I'm scared my mom will react that way and she's very religious and some people on the bus knows I'm pan and I'm scared and I have anxiety, my life is a big mess over all and I'm pretty sure my mom thinks I'm straight
I wish I was brave to but
NOPE
Thank you so much! Imma go tell 'em right away! Man, I've waited for this day.. MOM DAD I"M A LESBIAN!
Good luck 😊
+Mary Greally good luck girl
It went well, I'm out to pretty much everyone now and they're totally fine with it. Thanks for asking :)
Lucky. mine didnt go out well ;-;
Zelda Hyrule What happened?
hahaha "speak of the devil it's my mom" haha your "hello" to your mom was cute
Love you gurl
I was afraid to tell my mom that I was demisexual, because she expressed that she didn't really support gays. Then I had a girl ask me out, now I'm only fifteen and I don't feel comfortable dating yet. But I was freaking out because this girl that asked me out was dating one of my close friends, my mom heard me freaking out and she asked if I was okay. I told her what happened and she just looked at me and said, "you aren't dating a girl." I responded saying that I could date a girl if I had a connection with them emotionally. She left the room I was in and I cried. Then later she called me in to her room and we talked, she said that she'd love me and support me with everything I do.
What's demisexual??
@@tessaelmore8819 I'm super late! But demisexual is someone who can't feel sexual attraction unless they have a deep emotional connection with someone
@@justafreak8790 Oh yeah, I know now
@@tessaelmore8819 oh okie!
When I told my grandmother she looked at me and said "you can't bring boys over and don't tell your dad."
You can or you can't?
cant lol
+will morales Hahahah😂😂😂😂😂 She's a boss😂💪
+Just ADreamer she's a bitch 😂😂😂
+will morales Omg don't say that! if my grandma knew that I'm gay she will rape me with her old finger...😂💪
COMING OUT ANNIVERSARYYYY
THIS NEEDS TO BE A THING
I know that this is late to comment on but I loved this video, I remember when I was coming out to my parents; i was fairly young but old enough to have my identity. I was struggling with what identity i go with, how i feel, all that jazz, my mom was the most supportive human being I have ever had in my life. Unofortunately I lost that huge light in my life but my dad is a little more conservative however - he has been my support after a while. Time does get better, especially when they have questions - you can help them understand about it a little more.
While I was watching this video, my mom called just a few seconds after Kevin's mom called in the video. Woah.
Kevin: I was obbesed with Power Puff Girls
me: YAAAAS Ô MY GAWS YAAASSSS!!!!
Same here
Lol YAS.
Laine Farris yes bubbles is my fav lol
I'm afraid to tell my church I'm bisexual even tho they accept g@y marriage I just think all my friends that are girls well I think their parents are gonna... make then avoid me ;-; and I already told my mom and dad and i'm just so worried I dunno what to do please help me kevin! @FlawlessKevin +FlawlessKevin
+MunchingShadowAj You don't have to tell anyone if you don't want to! It is your own business :)
thxs kevin ^-^
😭 didn't come out yet
MunchingShadowAj same
Ashara Holland it's ok take ur time
No matter what Kevin, we'll always love you. I'm still not sure with myself yet but you're letting me know that, I am who I am and whatever I actually am that I'm okay and I'm not broken. Thank you so much 😊
💕💕❤❤❤
I love how positive you are even after what you went through with your Mother. Not everyone can stay as strong as you. Thanks for your support to everyone no matter what they identify as.
Thank you for sharing your story. I just came out as an adult. It was super stressful, but it went much better than I thought it would. Thanks for being your flawless self and being an encouragement and inspiration to others.
I came out of the closet yesterday because you as a RUclipsr supported me and after watching a lot of your videos, I closed my computer and told my parents that I'm Bisexual and you helped my along the way through this journey and you will help me through it more. Thank you so much for everything
WHAT ON EARTH, I WAS OBSESSED WITH POWERPUFF GIRLS AND I HAD AN ARIEL BIRTHDAY TOO
This is a nice story, not for how his mom reacted, but by the fact that this story is about overcoming fears and embracing one's self in the search of happiness
Kevin, you are such a beautiful person - from inside and out! I'm a 20-year-old girl with Asperger's and I sometimes feel I haven't quite yet discovered myself even at this age, but whatever life brings to me I feel a lot more confident and positive about it after watching this video of yours. So THANK YOU! You really are an inspiration!
Thank you! It really means a lot!
Man you’re so right...it gets better. I love your videos!
Kev, I'm glad I found your RUclips. I love your confidence. I think you are honestly adorable, and you seem like you would be an amazing and fun friend to have tbh.
Awww.... Kevin, I can feel ur struggle in those young days and I wish I could give you a hug. But look at u now, u have turned into a beautiful human being.LOVE U 😍😍😍😍😍
its so touching to see you so confident of who you are and you are amazing. Even if your own mom was against it, you fought through and you made it. You are who you really are in the inside and you dont let that stop you and you're here now being flawless with many fans being inspired by you and i think you're really amazing keep being flawless girl work it☆♡
naomi love Aw you just made my day! Love you
Your story moved me...I don't know why, I find to be so....beautiful.
Thumbs up to confidence, and being who you are.😇
Kevin, I have just started watching your videos and I think you are amazing. You are now one of my idols and I recently told some of my friends I'm genderfluid and they told me it was obvious! They were really supportive! I am also bi and they support mr with that as well! In still trying to somehow tell my mum but your video has really helped me. You are definitely flawless! Lots of Love,Sapphire xx
watching this made me tear up, it's so great for you to have stayed true to yourself even though it was hard. Worth it though because just look how flawless you are girl❤️ inside & out!
Stay flawless and thanks for the support gurl
Awww, your parents are awesome. Props to your dad for being so cool from the get-go. Dads usually aren't that cool. You've got a treasure.... and so do they. :)
I'm so sorry for ruining the 666 likes, but... yeah, i had to like.
What an amazing come out story. It's good that you brought up how you really feel to your mom.
You are beautiful and amazing Kevin, don't you ever change, be always who you truly are.
Omg, the moment you talked about ur mom taking away your makeup kit made me cry, like i can totally relate. My mom won't even let me buy the clothes I wanna wear, like rainbow clothes and stuff like that. I hope that one day my mom will accept me and love me for being who I am. This was really helpful, thank you so much😭
Kevin thank you so much for sharing your story! You are so amazing! I can relate to your story! I'm so glad everything got better for you! Love you always Joshy!
i wanna say one thing: you are incredibly strong. I've had people not quite accept me, though my mom was the honestly the most accepting. I'm pansexual, a girl, but also very masculine and i wear a lot of guy things. I applaud you for rocking your own life and look. I adore your personality and your youtube. keep doin you, boo.
Omg i stan you soo hard thank you for existing your videos helped me come out 💛
You are such a beautiful soul. I know that this video is going to help so many people!
Thank you for being you! You are a beautiful person! Thank you for sharing your story!
Good story. Sounds like your parents were in denial. I'm a parent so I can see how that might happen. So glad it's better. God bless you.
Kevin I came out to my dad in April and cliche as it sounds but it feels amazing just being myself. your videos helped me out.
I'm don't know my sexuality yet.....should I just wait to find out or should I like take the quizzes online and go with that.Please help
Milca Girma thanks 😊
FireWolf _Ex_Gaming me too
FireWolf _Ex_Gaming trust me I know for a fact that quizzes don't work, you will figure it out on your own eventually
Micah Manabat my friends were just pressuring me
FireWolf _Ex_Gaming wait. quizzes never work. but when your have a crush are they a guy or girl?
This is so good, it is nice to hear others stories, it comforts tons of people!
So proud love this!!! BTW your eyebrows are perfect in this video 💜❤️
Oh my god, I totally relate to the part about your parents being clueless. Literally so many people knew I was a lesbian and I didn’t even tell them, yet still my parents were somehow clueless.
I wear masculine clothing, I have a short haircut, I always used “future spouse” instead of husband, I always purposely showed more interest in girls when around my parents, and I even openly shared how I don’t want to marry a man! Yet still, when I came out a few days ago they were shocked. Luckily they’re accepting, so it’s all good.
Love your personality! Glad your parents came around to accept you! :)
What about your sister? Did she always know? My brother is gay and when we were growing up I suspected it, but he didn't tell me until we were in high school. And TBH, it hurt that he confided in other people before me.
Thank you! My sister always knew and she didn't care! :)
I love GOD and I'm BI you are so COOL
I was more “Boyish” then both my brothers and hated most “girly” things. My friends genders were pretty even but I was friends with only boys for three years. Whenever we were forced to dress up I explained over and over how much I HATED dresses and would much rather wear a suit like my brothers. And I never really smiled for pictures because I was uncomfortable with what I was being forced to wear. Although when I “came out” as non-binary my mom said “You couldn’t even give us a hint before hand?” I was also told that it was probably a phase and that I wasn’t allowed to tell my siblings because “they’re too young”. That’s one thing I really don’t understand, I mean I should be able to them because it’s part of who I am. Eventually I told my siblings anyway and they all made fun of me and purposely shoved she/her pronouns at me and tubed it in my face afterwards. My siblings finally started accepting me and they all started using they then pronouns like I asked them to. My parents still aren’t accepting even though my mom claims to be trying. When I cut my hair I was screamed at for over an hour because “it looked bad” and “it will look weird when you try to grow it back out” and all that crap. But this is the longest two year “phase” I’ve even had. Then again I’m not really sure what I was expecting to get as a reaction because I was confused being called out for every tiny little flaw. And I guess that’s how I got my self esteem issues... Anyway I have no idea where I was going with this. But it’s getting late so I should probably start trying to go to sleep. I might actually get to sleep before 3am tonight.
A teacher actually e-mailed my mom and I never even told the specific teacher.
Have a great day!
Did you really read all this?
Why are you still reading? Just scroll down to the next comment. I can promise you it’s more interesting than this. Are you still reading?
Really?
Your still here?
Fine I’m ending this.
HA. You can’t read anymore.
You do your makeup better than some beauty gurus Kevin 😂
Haha really?! Thanks! :)
+FlawlessKevin my brother is gay and my whole family are really supportive of him it makes me really happy to see him being who he really is I'm glad that it worked out for you ❤️
I just started to wear girl Things and at first I was scared that I would be judge but thanks to you I'm completely comfortable with who I am and you have change my life so much in a matter of days thank you so much
This was the first video that I watched of yours! I love your personality so much you are absolutely flawless and fabulous!
This is such a great video. Thanks for sharing this with us Kevin!
Kevin, you are the cutestttt. I hope that you can live your life the way you want now😊✨
This is literally me.. Im glad you shared because this is so... Me! I went through the same things with liking boys I were friends with.... And forcing myself to try and like girls..thank you so much for sharing even tho im four years late..
I’m glad your family mostly excepted you! Also storytime: so my friend who lives across the street went to my house and asked if I wanted to go out and play basketball or somethin so I asked my mom if I could come out and every one looked at me like they were expecting something. My mom was all like uhhhh...you mean outside??? I just said yes but...one day
I love this video, im trying to figure a way to come out. Im still pretty young so im gonna wait. Thank you for your videos and helping me on what to do.
OMG! You are so brave girl! Like, you are the reason I came out to my mum xx
i just don't really get why your mom didn't expect this, do parents not have a gay-dar ?.-.
No I think parents want their children to be straight. I wonder if my mom has suspicions though...
When I was in middle school, my mom used to talk about how hot guy's butts and bodies were. But for me I never understood what was so good about it. Or any of it TBH. Ive never really wanted to date boys. But I tried because I thought that's what I had to do.
Update: I believe some parents don't want their children to deal with hate towards the LGBT community or genuinely don't want them to come out. Regardless it's a shitty thing to do. When your child comes to confide in you, be respectful of their thoughts and opinions because they're people too.
right? i know!
Bethany Francia Same
princess.john mine do 😂😂
YES!
I came out to my mum and she said "well you were either gay or trans, OBVIOUSLY"
I love your videos. I just came out to my friends last night. They we're very nice and I plan on telling my parents soon. I love your videos still and you give me hope. 😊
I completely love this video, I just favorited it, it's just the kind of things that gives me hope for when I come out, I also think that they're kicking me out 😂😂 besides I don't even know what I'm gonna say, I can't say I don't know what I really am, they'll think I'm just confused. Buuut if you say things get better, I'll believe you. I love you, stay flawless as always! 💕🌈
love this story ❤
+Casssandra Solar Love you :)
Gurl i love you! This video is making me sad and happy at the same time! You are so like me with the way you talk and all and i love it. You are a wonderful person and i love the way you dress and do your make-up!
Gurl those eyebrows are on fleek x
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I feel like whenever I had a crush on a guy it creeped up on me. The only two instances when I had crushes on girls, they were my friends and it literally jumped me from behind my back like I was hit by a truck XD
I’m also kinda scared of this one possibility of if I ever get with a girl my parents might be fine with it but idk if my older relatives would hate my parents because they did something wrong. It’s not my parents fault I like guys and girls sometimes, if you have a problem with it you gotta go through me first! XP
I am straight and the power puff girls are badass😂😂
So glad you are the person you are today stay strong Kevin 📸😘
Oh my goodness! I came out on March 28th aswell!
so I'm pan, and I came out. My mom doesn't believe me and my entire family is vv Homophobic. luckily they didn't kick me out but my brother said if he ever saw I had a gf he would hurt me and her
Aww, I'm sorry Ariella. Hopefully, soon, they'll be a little more open-minded and accept you for who you are. Don't worry :)
if they kick you out I will pay for you to live with me
not being too creepy but we LGBT people gotta stick together
ON FLEEK yeah
+ON FLEEK yup
Kevin, I love you and you're honestly so inspiring and amazing person!
I LOVE YOU KEVIN ugh i used to watch you when i was like 10 and you are still the best!
***** 13 :P
I LOVE YOU :)
***** cool
Late on this video as well, ahah I’m having a binge of your videos cus I love you Kevin haha. Just wanted to say, please keep being you, your really an amazing person, and thank you for this video!
my coming out story was a little like this: when i came out my mother, she did’nt believe me and said it was just a phase and it felt like i was’nt free for a long time. I was 12 at that time and that was one of the worst times of my life, not feeling free.
Everyone in my household kind of knew but just didn't want to believe it, and I didn't know they thought of me that way until I came out. I came out a long while ago but I'm pretty sure they've forgotten all about it by now or at least like to act as if it was just a "phase" and I'd get over it? I just can't find the right person yet,, who needs a relationship when you have a cat anyways. 😻
I teared up when you told about your dad when he just accepted you i feel like my dad would do the same but idk i still feel like my parents would be ashamed to have a daughter that's bisexual
This inspired me to come out to my mom and she was totally accepting and im so glad 😁
Good for you, Kevin! You're perfect just the way you are!
So happy for you Kevin !
I'm in a kind of same situations now, I told my mom that I was gay and liked heels and makeup in October last year and the following days were reeeally awkward. She also said about the same things as your mom - that it's weird and that I should be boy-like etc. Now she kinda acts like she doesn't now, and it doesn't bother me much because I know she knows.
I also know exactly what I want to do when I move out (heels and makeup duhh), so she simply has to accept it then (because now she forbids me buying heels etc., she apparently excepts me to magically become straight or something lol). And because I know that, I can wait until I move out
i still cry everytime i watch this video, it gets me sooo emotional
I’m obsessed with hair and the little mermaid was my thang when I was a kid so I’m coming out to folks at school but only my sister no one else in my family so I just wanted to tell you that stay flawless 😝
I love you so much! I love how you shared your story!
I'm sorry that your mom didn't exactly approve. I am here for you 110% you are amazing.
This T-Swift ringtone tho. lmao ily❤️❤️
Thank you ❤️
Amazing video, I haven't came out to my mother yet cause I'm scared she's very religious and I can't imagine her saying how God will "punish" me and how she'll hate. I dated this girl for almost a year and I had to go behind her back and told her she was my Bestfriend so we can spend more time together. Maybe some day I'll tell her who knows. But thank you for this video you're amazing and so strong. Love you!!
Aw! It'll take some time! I'll be here for you gurl :)
This helped me come out to my friends. 💙 I am bi and you are amazing!!!! Love ya!
That part where you said " you must be dumb as a doorknob to not know " cracked me up so much 😂 but I support you
love this Kevin! :)
Thank you Albert! :)
Wht types of shoes do u like? I LOVE the Jeffrey Campbell collection(HUGE fan interesting designs)!
Eyebrow goals!! You are so amazing Kevin :)
I’m so glad that I have parents who would love me no matter what. I am straight, but if I wasn’t they would love me and treat me the same as they did before. My coming out Story would literally be me sitting down with my parents and telling them I’m gay, and my Mom would be like what would you like for dinner tonight?!
My brother might ask questions. He has a friend who is gay, so I don’t really think he would care too much.
I know most people wouldn’t have the same results, but I do hope that you find happiness and safety no matter what the results are.
Omg baby I love you so much ✨💘 you're such an inspiration
I’m crying right now.. I’m so sorry you had to go through this.. I’m so scared to come out to my parents..