Expectations vs Reality: Coming Out!

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  • Опубликовано: 20 ноя 2024

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  • @alisondilaurentisisarequee9467
    @alisondilaurentisisarequee9467 7 лет назад +566

    *scroles down in the comments to hear everyones awesome coming out stories*

  • @riven9179
    @riven9179 6 лет назад +743

    When I came out as Bisexual to my class, I stood up in the middle of piano class in the piano studio after the teacher had left the room and said“Hey, can I have everyone’s attention please? I have an announcement. I’m bisexual. Glad we had this talk.” Then I sat down and continued with the lass like nothing had happened. It was hilarious to see their shocked expressions. I nearly burst out laughing.
    Edit: it’s been two years and people still sometimes comment on this, so I figured I’d mention that I no longer identify as Bi, but rather Queer. The coming out is still awesome, but I have since had to come out to most of these people again.

    • @ParkJimin-by6gz
      @ParkJimin-by6gz 5 лет назад +36

      Ok but I don't think is necessary to come out to your whole class like that's just weird

    • @mia-dm8me
      @mia-dm8me 5 лет назад +32

      Park Jimin eh i would wanna come out to the whole world tbh it’s hard. maybe most of his/her friends were in the class you never know.

    • @thatonemoonboy
      @thatonemoonboy 5 лет назад +8

      It's weird to come out to your class.

    • @emily.4651
      @emily.4651 5 лет назад +30

      @@ParkJimin-by6gz they're allowed to do it however they want lol

    • @rottingsword
      @rottingsword 5 лет назад +19

      Everyone’s saying it’s weird to come out to your class but honestly I felt like they needed to know.

  • @Had3yn
    @Had3yn 8 лет назад +207

    I was watching this right. My guy friend barges in. He says "Why are u watching gay people, your setting the wrong example, what if your brother walked in, huh". I got mad, no one talks about Kevin like that. I said "your mad because a gay boy has bigger balls than you, and what gay people do isn't wrong, gay people make the world go round, so shut up". He grabbed my hand and said "I'm gay, I was testing you, to see if you would accept me". I laughed. "I already knew, your gayer than Kevin, and I caught you wearing my makeup and bra". My Life is weird

  • @semralale1142
    @semralale1142 6 лет назад +181

    How I cam out to my brother (I haven't told my parents because their not as accepting s my bro)
    *my cousin is talking about this girl she likes while we're at my bro's concert thing and he just finished performing.*
    "Hey... Bubby (I call my brother this)" *he looks at me*
    "Yeah?"
    "So, I um, have had a girlfriend before. Actually I'm Bi."
    *Brother looks at me* "really?"
    *I nod, tears start falling. I am now crying like a baby, but silently so I didn't disturb the audience*
    "Oh my goodness, it's okay, I support you. Just don't tell our parents, they'll be less supportive"
    And then he told my cousin (who I was planning to tell soon,) And she completely was fine with it. two family members know now.

  • @marshie4356
    @marshie4356 6 лет назад +385

    I once asked my mom what she thinks of LGBTQ+
    We talked about it a bit and then she told me “If you were anything but straight I would be disappointed in you”
    I’m a lesbian-
    Thanks for lowering my confidence to tell you mom :D

    • @thedragonshadow8406
      @thedragonshadow8406 5 лет назад +32

      I'm gay and same thing happened with my mom. But I still came out and she told me that I'm too young to know *triggered* but that it was okay if I was *less triggered* so yeah... Even if she isn't with it I'm sure (Or just hope) She still loves you and supports you

    • @shadowbirb1368
      @shadowbirb1368 4 года назад +14

      Oh mah- I have the same situation except gender wise .-. (I'm a demigirl)

    • @carlottabreitweg7925
      @carlottabreitweg7925 4 года назад +5

      My mom was okay when I once talked about LGBTQ+ with her but she told me that my dad apparently doesn't really like LGBT people.
      This kinda got me deeper in the closet than I already was.

    • @Berber2007
      @Berber2007 4 года назад +5

      idk_oofs I’m a Demigirl too and my mom was like “no, you’re a girl and they/them isn’t proper English”

    • @cyclone-studio18
      @cyclone-studio18 4 года назад +7

      I asked my parents on their views of the community as well and _my god,_ they were yelling a lot and I’m fucking traumatized o_o I’m trans and pan

  • @wheresmypretzel579
    @wheresmypretzel579 8 лет назад +469

    Jeremy: "I'm gay too!"
    Kevin: "nO WAY LET'S DATE!"
    me af

    • @zeldalinktriforce2898
      @zeldalinktriforce2898 7 лет назад +14

      where's my pretzel that's my girlfriend and me in a nutshell

    • @doddleanddoodle9577
      @doddleanddoodle9577 7 лет назад +10

      where's my pretzel that's basically what happened to me and my gf

  • @ameliarizk2479
    @ameliarizk2479 7 лет назад +1009

    my coming out story:
    me- I'm gay mom
    mom- you thought I didn't know?!

    • @sweetmoon2719
      @sweetmoon2719 6 лет назад +6

      Lol

    • @lazarinatalie8517
      @lazarinatalie8517 6 лет назад +32

      My mom asked me if I was a lesbian and I said yes

    • @ellafriedman2250
      @ellafriedman2250 6 лет назад +13

      Amelia Rizk I’m afraid of this because it kinda obvious I’m gay so I feel like everyone will say dat

    • @laundrymachinee
      @laundrymachinee 6 лет назад

      Amelia Rizk XD

    • @moonswolfpack9461
      @moonswolfpack9461 5 лет назад +6

      I feel like my mom knows somehow and this is what she'll say

  • @koyinsturn2764
    @koyinsturn2764 7 лет назад +204

    The closet is my friend I can't leave my only friend

  • @chloethechocolate563
    @chloethechocolate563 6 лет назад +1029

    How coming out to my mom went:
    *It did not happen*

  • @cloudycandy7365
    @cloudycandy7365 6 лет назад +507

    I only came out to my bff, here's how it went :
    Me : Angelina, I really need to tell you something
    Angelina : Ok, you can trust me!
    Me : I'm bisexual....
    Angelina : OMG SAME!
    Me : WHAT?!? YAAAS QUEEN!
    And then we hugged lmao

    • @latisha-uj4lo
      @latisha-uj4lo 6 лет назад +13

      Cloudy Candy I'm bi and my friend is

    • @ash.1429
      @ash.1429 4 года назад +10

      Me2 YEET

    • @tsuyuasui2334
      @tsuyuasui2334 4 года назад +5

      *h u g g e d*

    • @axobunny8904
      @axobunny8904 4 года назад +18

      When I came out as lesbian to my bffs they just told me how much I sucked at pretending to be straight and that it was super obvious xD

    • @sonofgabby5232
      @sonofgabby5232 4 года назад +14

      Mine went like:
      Me: hey bro did you know I’m gay and trans?
      My best friend: epic
      Me: yep.
      Us: *keeps playing minecraft*

  • @tesselvandijk3632
    @tesselvandijk3632 8 лет назад +357

    I've kinda known I was bi from a very young age but always just denied it until one day I was fantasizing about the cutest girl in class kissing me and just sat there like "wait...so I'm not straight?"

  • @user-vx3io7mz7s
    @user-vx3io7mz7s 7 лет назад +691

    when i told my mom and dad i am Pansexual, my mom told me she is Bisexual..we both came out the same day
    it got funny lol 😂

    • @haunteddreamer1468
      @haunteddreamer1468 6 лет назад +32

      Adorable!!! I'm pansexual too! I won't tell anyone until i'm older tho... i'm only 12😄

    • @yiyi4569
      @yiyi4569 6 лет назад +23

      DAUGHTER AND MOM GOALS. btw that so cute

    • @aristarchos5342
      @aristarchos5342 6 лет назад +9

      Wtf wow!So has she came out to your dad?Is he ok with that?
      I thought that a bi could never have a family,because he/she would want to be with a man,and the other day with a woman(Iam bi thats why iam so curious about the theme) Plz answer.Thanks!^^

    • @SubscribersWithNoVideos-db1fs
      @SubscribersWithNoVideos-db1fs 6 лет назад +3

      Pop Eye biSexuals have the option of the different sex and the same sex and have the choice to have a sexual contact session (Sex)

    • @brookegranado4216
      @brookegranado4216 6 лет назад +3

      MOM AND DAUGHTER GOALS

  • @smallhuman6955
    @smallhuman6955 8 лет назад +1353

    my coming out was like this
    I wrote my mom a coming out letter
    se read it
    and she said: its okay dont put it on any social media, its probably just a phase your going through wright now
    me: *triggered* *-*

    • @yemori
      @yemori 8 лет назад +3

      write lol

    • @kalendgm4144
      @kalendgm4144 8 лет назад +40

      My mom is the same like I feel so annoyed

    • @Jasmine-ei7rg
      @Jasmine-ei7rg 8 лет назад +2

      Helena Ide same!

    • @Ratje..
      @Ratje.. 8 лет назад +36

      I(bi,14) exctualy used a drawing cause I couldn't get the words out if my mouth and her reaction was suporting. I hope your mom wil support you as wel maybe show her some lgbtq+ short films or something similair :) Good luck have hope

    • @Ratje..
      @Ratje.. 7 лет назад +10

      now 15, I noticed the message I had send like a year ago, And just a month ago I came out to also my dad, sister and boyfriend, it went way easier after the first time. They're still supportive, I hope your mom changed her mind too

  • @livyii1485
    @livyii1485 6 лет назад +254

    My coming out story
    Me: hey Mom
    Mom: yeah?
    Me: I’m bisexual
    (Then I started to cry)
    Mom: oh hunny don’t worry, why are you crying?
    (Hugs me)
    Me: I’m just happy I told you
    Mom: I would love you no matter what!
    She then proceeded to tell me her coming out story and that she was bi!! And then told me my brother was too!!! Woooooaaah, this happened two months ago and it made me so happy, only problem is my dad is super conservative so I’m really scared to tell him, I love my dad though 💞

    • @skyisherelol3492
      @skyisherelol3492 4 года назад +11

      That's so sweet!I'm really happy for you!

    • @eurovision4lifee
      @eurovision4lifee 3 года назад

      Wow! Im glad she supports! hopefully ill have the courage to come out to my homophobic parents soon...

    • @SirMrSir-do4dk
      @SirMrSir-do4dk 3 года назад +1

      @@eurovision4lifee Make sure you're safe before coming out.

    • @marcelaxd3919
      @marcelaxd3919 3 года назад

      A prideful family 💖💜💙

  • @biancarees1114
    @biancarees1114 6 лет назад +588

    I wish I could come out....
    But I got lost in Narnia

    • @wackywolf118
      @wackywolf118 5 лет назад +18

      Me too binge watching these vids to find my way out.

    • @creator_toast
      @creator_toast 5 лет назад +10

      I'm like 1/36 out of the closet, I've only told my mom, and my brother. And my family is pretty big

    • @NoName-sc5rn
      @NoName-sc5rn 5 лет назад +5

      Im weak

    • @wladziawasik7842
      @wladziawasik7842 5 лет назад +4

      I died.of laughter same over here

    • @davv6628
      @davv6628 5 лет назад +5

      LETS BAND TOGETHER TO DEFEAT THE SNOW LADY SO THE LION CAN SHOW US HOME!!!
      (I forgot there names, lol)

  • @mika-lw7pd
    @mika-lw7pd 7 лет назад +107

    I came out to my mom yesterday, and as I was about to tell her, she said ' oh, honey, I knew you wanted to be Asian!' And I was like ' uh... no, I'm just gay.'

  • @bray.dentucker
    @bray.dentucker 8 лет назад +228

    I love how confident you are and you really inspire me to just be myself and not care what people think.

  • @honeychuu748
    @honeychuu748 8 лет назад +578

    My coming out story:
    Me: mom, dad, I'm pansexual...
    Dad: you like pans?
    Me: no, I like girls, boys, everything in between.
    Mom: don't worry honey we just need to pray, God will help us.
    Dad: being gay is cool in your generation, it's just a phase.
    (3 months later)
    Me: dad this is my girlfriend.
    Dad: oh...

    • @camyqwack
      @camyqwack 7 лет назад +37

      Shorty Quinn
      Your dad though: You like pans? 😂 But srsly Congrats fem 💕

    • @elizabethbrooks7676
      @elizabethbrooks7676 6 лет назад +6

      Shorty Quinn XD

    • @kaydee2165
      @kaydee2165 6 лет назад +18

      I laughed out loud and I didn't mean to and it was super loud and im pretty sure my brother heard...
      I could see this happen if I ever come out
      Me: hey I need to tell you something
      Them: what?
      Me: I'm.....polysexual
      Them: ......so you're sexuality attracted to polygons?
      Me: . . . .
      Them: . . . .
      Me: sure *walks away*

    • @jaxtherat1284
      @jaxtherat1284 6 лет назад +10

      Shorty Quinn same lol my family would be like
      Me: ummmm...there's something I need to tell you...
      Them:WhAt?
      Me:I'm bisexual
      Them:so you like bikes?
      Me: **slaps face** no, I like boys and girls
      Them:*idk how they would react maybe like this?...* ummmm...ok
      Me:bi✋

    • @mellohi.x
      @mellohi.x 6 лет назад +2

      Shorty Quinn thats gonna b my freinds

  • @29daysAJ
    @29daysAJ 6 лет назад +348

    I’m trying to get myself to come out to my mom soon! Wish me luck!! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

    • @tessakutesa3257
      @tessakutesa3257 6 лет назад +4

      SabrinaPhobic Same here and good luck!

    • @29daysAJ
      @29daysAJ 6 лет назад +13

      Ashley Candy POP I did a few weeks ago it went well

    • @randomlycreative7194
      @randomlycreative7194 6 лет назад +5

      May the power of the rainbow be with you 🌈

    • @spaceheart7513
      @spaceheart7513 6 лет назад +4

      The power of Gay never fails

    • @michaelandrews4323
      @michaelandrews4323 6 лет назад

      SabrinaPhobic I’m so glad it went well! We are all so proud of you!

  • @charlottedoescher3432
    @charlottedoescher3432 6 лет назад +140

    My bff came out as pansexual which inspired me to come out as bisexual and now we are happily in love💙😘

    • @pdaflower
      @pdaflower 5 лет назад +13

      ... WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA #ForeverALONE

    • @tenix3915
      @tenix3915 4 года назад +4

      Aw so cute

    • @DominoX8372_
      @DominoX8372_ 4 года назад +5

      aw :)

    • @ronksx
      @ronksx 3 года назад +2

      omg congrats so happy for u two hope everything is still going well.

    • @yanderelunamidnight1668
      @yanderelunamidnight1668 3 года назад +3

      My friend is bi I’m pan um she has a crush on me I like her back should I ask her out

  • @faypony9479
    @faypony9479 8 лет назад +451

    Kevin; IM GAY!!!!!!!!!!!
    Everyone; no shit

  • @dilynnleidhoff6002
    @dilynnleidhoff6002 7 лет назад +176

    how it went with my mom
    me: mom can we talk...
    mom: sure * akward mum smile *
    me: I think I might be bi...
    mom: * talks about how she knew I was special (in a good way) and that something like this would happen* don't worry I will always love you
    me: what did I just do to myself 😵

  • @casper1754
    @casper1754 7 лет назад +90

    When I came out as bisexual to one of my friends she treated me like a complete weirdo and kept asking if I had a crush on her. I said no because I don’t. A few months later she asked me if I still felt the same about girls, acting disgusted at the idea. I obviously said yes.
    She also looked at me with a face of "Your family is a bunch of creeps" when I told her my brother is trans.
    She denies either of those things bothering her and doesn't ever say the things she clearly means. I just hate how closed-minded she is and how she acts like I'm stupid.

    • @mynineridesshotgun1404
      @mynineridesshotgun1404 7 лет назад +9

      I'm sorry that your friend is such an ignorant bitch. Also KELLIC IS VERY REAL!

    • @castielnovak6063
      @castielnovak6063 7 лет назад +1

      ptvfrnkie SO IS RYDEN

    • @spiderhouse42
      @spiderhouse42 7 лет назад +5

      First of all: Yes Pham
      And second of all: You shouldn't be her friend if she's going to treat you like that. ❤️🏳️‍🌈

    • @kittyawesome3677
      @kittyawesome3677 6 лет назад

      Tilda interesting

    • @kittyawesome3677
      @kittyawesome3677 6 лет назад

      Tilda I

  • @no-dq1vz
    @no-dq1vz 6 лет назад +416

    My story:
    Me: Dad... I'm pansexual
    Dad: Oh no you're not you're too young to know
    Me: **Walks away with a death stare on my face***
    Also me: We're not telling mom right?
    Dad: Absolutely not! Are you crazy?!
    To this day my mom still doesn't know that I'm not straight

    • @humanhuman8616
      @humanhuman8616 4 года назад +30

      Suicidal Muffin I told my mom and stepdad that I was gay but they said I was to young to know and still keep telling me I like guys I’m to scared to tell them again and that it makes me uncomfortable when they tell me I like guys sooo that’s fun

    • @saynata_v
      @saynata_v 4 года назад +12

      yesterday they found out i was in an lgbtq+ group in facebook, but i think they dont know im pan, but stll, they grounded me, and they think im disgusting now.. well, goddamnit

    • @just_another1human61
      @just_another1human61 4 года назад +5

      bluexlatte I’m so sorry ☹️

    • @saynata_v
      @saynata_v 4 года назад +5

      @@just_another1human61 dont worry, ill be okay (i think) :')

    • @saynata_v
      @saynata_v 4 года назад +2

      @a weeb on the internet tysm

  • @toastedjasper
    @toastedjasper 6 лет назад +122

    I told my bff I was bi and this was how it went
    Me: I have to tell you something
    Bff: what?
    Me:um....im bisexual
    Bff: we will still be friends and I support you

  • @graceblanchard5648
    @graceblanchard5648 8 лет назад +126

    I think my mum knows I'm bi... We were talking about sexuality and I was a dumbass and kept on mentioning bisexuality, she looked at me with a look on her face and said "I wouldn't care if any of my kids were bi it wouldn't change them." She said that while keeping eye contact with me looking really seriously...

    • @KatalovesLinkinPark
      @KatalovesLinkinPark 8 лет назад +4

      +bob You don't have to date a gender to identify as your sexuality. It is about who you are attracted to. I identify as bisexual but I never had a boyfriend or a girlfriend. This doesn't mean i'm asexual. Do you understand what I mean?

  • @volatilemolotov667
    @volatilemolotov667 8 лет назад +455

    I really want to do this,
    I wanna call down to my mom right now and scream,
    "Hey mom!"
    "whAT"
    "IM BISEXUAL"

  • @bunnyblancrobloxanddolls5112
    @bunnyblancrobloxanddolls5112 7 лет назад +111

    Okay since I'm afraid to come out to my family I'll come out to you guys...here is my story
    Coming out: I always thought that it was wrong to like boys even though I had crush on them in 5th grade, but I realized I was bisexual cause I had a crush on a girl so I was so confused and scared and I was raised being told I will go to hell cause loving someone is a sin so I was scared and I wanted to die so I started cutting myself and trying to overdoes then I faced bullying and it got even worse then I started middle school and I had a crush a boy and turned out he was gay and he helped me turn from the negative things in life.

    • @thevlogersisters9450
      @thevlogersisters9450 5 лет назад +3

      awww I love that

    • @jiafuller31
      @jiafuller31 5 лет назад +2

      Bunny BlancRobloxandDolls come out to your family. If they truly love and care about you they will accept you for who you are🏳️‍🌈🌈

    • @NoName-sc5rn
      @NoName-sc5rn 5 лет назад +2

      A proper disney movie

    • @log3.141
      @log3.141 4 года назад

      💖💖💖

    • @somewhatuselessstudios6084
      @somewhatuselessstudios6084 4 года назад +2

      Kinda similar to my story also I aint good with this stuff but I feel happy for understanding yourself also take this with a grain of salt cause I’m an atheist but if you like being yourself and not being straight the Bible and anybody who says it’s wrong can suck it it makes you happy you only get one life live it

  • @unstable_anarchist7158
    @unstable_anarchist7158 6 лет назад +506

    *Me coming out to my friends as bisexual*
    Straight friends: you don't like me, do you? Congrats though!
    LGBT+ friends: Congratulations, now I'm going to ship you with all the girls I see you talking to!

    • @kaiplayst.v5523
      @kaiplayst.v5523 5 лет назад +11

      True

    • @thatonemoonboy
      @thatonemoonboy 5 лет назад +15

      Actually, I'm pretty much straight and I ship only LGBT

    • @xexpaguette
      @xexpaguette 4 года назад +10

      *but do you cuff your jeans*

    • @cyb3rl0v333
      @cyb3rl0v333 4 года назад +3

      *i don’t wear jeans*

    • @cyb3rl0v333
      @cyb3rl0v333 4 года назад +2

      *i currently identify as pansexual but it might go to just either asexual or lesbiannn-*

  • @elamethystii
    @elamethystii 6 лет назад +294

    My coming out story:
    Me: Mom, I'm bisexual.
    Mom: Cool.
    Me: Can I play video games?
    Mom: Fine.

  • @evanfurstenburg
    @evanfurstenburg 7 лет назад +454

    mine was funny.
    me and my brother: *cleaning dishes*
    brother: this is gay
    me: well, i'm doing the dishes so yeah it is gay
    dad: *hears* you're gay?
    brother: u didn't know?
    me: i do my eyebrows and wear female jeggings dad
    dad: ik i just wanted to hear it

  • @owen4630
    @owen4630 8 лет назад +575

    My coming out story.
    me: mum, I am gay.
    Mum: hmm, ke.
    me: so, are we going to have this akward talk or are we cool.
    Mum: nah
    me:.. OKEH BYE MUM I AM GOING UPSTAIRS!
    mum: bye

    • @Rafish-fl1iu
      @Rafish-fl1iu 8 лет назад +5

      My story was that my mother read my diary and she told me I was a waste of a man

    • @flowers-xe7vm
      @flowers-xe7vm 8 лет назад +5

      +Rafish Lol OMG, baby, don't listen to her. If you want someone to talk to, I am here ^-^ (kik; GayShipsCaptain)

    • @Rafish-fl1iu
      @Rafish-fl1iu 8 лет назад

      +Death Wish thanks, really.

    • @flowers-xe7vm
      @flowers-xe7vm 8 лет назад +6

      +Rafish Lol There is nothing to thanks for :) .

    • @reneesmith906
      @reneesmith906 7 лет назад +21

      Damn I wish my mom was like that.

  • @vampircs6770
    @vampircs6770 7 лет назад +154

    everyone always used to say that me and my best guy friend were dating or liked eachother and one time in gym this kid kept whispering about us and saying we were dating or liked eachother and i just shouted "im gAy daMNIt" and it was really awkward lmao

    • @dum1314
      @dum1314 6 лет назад +11

      vampircs
      ATLEAST YOU TOLD THEM

    • @fazdad3183
      @fazdad3183 5 лет назад

      Lmao I know someone who would do that
      Also love the profile pic btw👌👌👌we stan revenge era frank👌👌👌

    • @evil_patrick7073
      @evil_patrick7073 5 лет назад +3

      I don’t have confidence to tell anyone that I’ve been questioning my sexuality and that I’m a girl and I had a dream where a girl kissed me and I want it to happen again, except for the internet because they can’t see me so I’m more confident

  • @strangesoups3482
    @strangesoups3482 6 лет назад +59

    i hope my friends dont react badly or avoid me when i tell them wish me luck

    • @rida5199
      @rida5199 5 лет назад +3

      The potato God It’s been a year.. how did it go? (hope it went well

    • @somewhatuselessstudios6084
      @somewhatuselessstudios6084 4 года назад +1

      Me: *gives all the good luck I can*
      Me: . .
      V

  • @p.shaver1294
    @p.shaver1294 6 лет назад +49

    Your makeup is always better than mine. Teach me your ways.

  • @lyrasotaku1573
    @lyrasotaku1573 8 лет назад +882

    How I came out to my parents:
    Me: "Mom, Dad, I'm a lesbian".
    My parents: "Well, no shit sherlock!"
    Me: "Okay, that went well!"
    How I came out to the rest of my family:
    *New year, at the table, I'm talking about school and friends and stuff*
    As soon as I mention the name of one of my bros:
    Family-Friend: "Who's that? Your Boyfriend?"
    Me: "FOR FUCKS SAKE NO I'M NOT INTERESTED IN GUYS GODDAMMIT!"
    *Everyone looks at me with open mouths, everything is quiet*
    Me: "Well, I fucked up".
    The end

  • @graceh.9323
    @graceh.9323 8 лет назад +89

    When I came out I cried for hours even if the person I was coming out to was supportive

    • @abbby6951
      @abbby6951 8 лет назад +17

      I don't cry or anything like that but I feel EXTREMELY uncomfortable I have no clue why

    • @kittyawesome3677
      @kittyawesome3677 6 лет назад +1

      Are you ok

  • @nalaramarr2054
    @nalaramarr2054 8 лет назад +129

    me: Mom I'm Transgender And Pansexual....
    mom: WTF What is that Does that mean your Gay! Or What!!!!
    me: Im a Boy and I don't give a crap about who I date as long as I like them and they're Cute

    • @sofi3543
      @sofi3543 7 лет назад +4

      Average Matt Adventures of matt/nalara
      Transgender girl and pansexual here 😄

    • @MarieLovesCheese
      @MarieLovesCheese 6 лет назад

      Me too!!!

  • @mhadubs4293
    @mhadubs4293 6 лет назад +202

    Me: Hey do u guys have a sec
    Parents: sure, everything going ok?
    Me:...I'm bi
    Parents: what's that?
    Me: -explains-
    ~10 seconds go by~
    Mom: -grabs a bible, about to throw it at me-
    Dad: -holds her back from throwing it at me-
    Me:..I'm just gonna ...go noww.. *runs*
    (Thanks dad xD)

    • @miloscloset3781
      @miloscloset3781 5 лет назад +22

      Please tell me this actually happened
      Because your dad is great

    • @kaedeharukawa5608
      @kaedeharukawa5608 5 лет назад +15

      I'm so sorry, are you okay?

    • @somewhatuselessstudios6084
      @somewhatuselessstudios6084 4 года назад +21

      Dad of the year also good job on coming out 👏
      You might wanna take bible dodging class

    • @plaguedoctorfynn3474
      @plaguedoctorfynn3474 4 года назад +5

      That’s how mine went just my dad questioned me and threw the Bible at me and my mom held him back

  • @lyamber101
    @lyamber101 6 лет назад +74

    Me: *checks out a girl*
    Brother: Dude, are you gay?
    Me: *laughs awkwardly* Pfft. No.
    Brother: *glares*
    Me: I'm bi.
    Brother: Figured.
    Me: How--
    Brother: You checked out (friend's name) last time I saw.
    Me: Don't tell mom and dad.
    Brother: Five dollars
    That's how I came out to my brother.

    • @23V33
      @23V33 3 года назад

      This is amazing.

  • @cymiterium
    @cymiterium 7 лет назад +564

    When i told My bestie i was bi, she only screamed: I KNEW IT!!
    Friendship goals XD

    • @justamisunderstoodkidnamed9928
      @justamisunderstoodkidnamed9928 7 лет назад +8

      Miles is a duck I hope my friend reacts like your friend did when I come out to her. I am surprised to she does not ask me about it. I mean really I showed her a book about a girl finding out she is a lesbian but it was in our school book orders, I guess since I didn't tell her that I order that book. I made her guess which ones that I like to order and she pointed at it and she didn't see my blushing face. I hope she says that she knew it all along. I hope that she at the least is positive and not a saying that I am no longer her friend

    • @serienfreak132
      @serienfreak132 7 лет назад +2

      Same

    • @razbo1466
      @razbo1466 7 лет назад

      That profile pic says it all

    • @allaboutthepranks570
      @allaboutthepranks570 6 лет назад +2

      I came out to my best friend and lesbian and my friend had been sending off those bisexual vibes and then three weeks later she came out as bi and I screamed I KNEW IT AHHHHHHHKKSJDHAVWIQODIGRCWHKANDJCOLQPDICHDVADFQQWWEERTYUQUERROABDGWIOSNSBDOWN

    • @pyperduckworth4092
      @pyperduckworth4092 6 лет назад

      Alexander Wants cereal my friends are anti gay and lesbian 😶😣

  • @funkyoka8764
    @funkyoka8764 7 лет назад +480

    Me coming out:
    My dad: How was school? Did you hang out with your boyfrieeeeeend?
    Me: lol no I actually hung out with my girlfriend
    My dad: k

  • @abbby6951
    @abbby6951 8 лет назад +611

    When I come out to people
    Me: oh I'm... A lesbian...
    People: Awesome!
    Me: great now I feel awkward
    Am I the only one who feels extremely uncomfortable after coming out even if the person accepts it?

    • @manishasamra9418
      @manishasamra9418 8 лет назад +12

      Deadly Rainbows i do, I never know what to say after that XD

    • @lilybell6815
      @lilybell6815 7 лет назад +7

      Deadly Rainbows Yes I'm the same way.

    • @skye-yu1us
      @skye-yu1us 7 лет назад +8

      Deadly Rainbows I am awkward only if they accept it cuz I don't know what to do after

    • @lacroix3931
      @lacroix3931 7 лет назад +6

      Deadly Rainbows I DO HOLY SHIT ALL THE TIME. Mostly because there is only one thing to talk more about and that's out being gay.

    • @twixcake3152
      @twixcake3152 7 лет назад +1

      Deadly Rainbows yas

  • @brookeglisson2523
    @brookeglisson2523 6 лет назад +122

    I love you! I HAVE COME OUT! This is how it went
    *me: Dad I’m gay*
    *dad and mom:ok*
    *me thinking: yes! They aren’t HOMOPHOBIC

  • @phillgustafson1541
    @phillgustafson1541 5 лет назад +121

    My coming to my dad
    Me- takes 10 minutes to spell I'm gay in French fries
    Me -dad I'm gay
    Dad-ok
    Me- relies my dads homophobic

    • @thatonemoonboy
      @thatonemoonboy 5 лет назад +19

      Lucky.
      How am I going to spell
      'Im Biromantic Asexual'
      I'm French Fries?

    • @cyclone-studio18
      @cyclone-studio18 4 года назад +6

      Yuna Gamerz arrange a bunch of fries, or just get a bunch of ketchup and write it in the ketchup or use the ketchup as a glue kinda if the fries don’t stay still

    • @ayinmo520
      @ayinmo520 4 года назад +1

      @@thatonemoonboy omg same- at least I think I am

  • @lightninglifeguard
    @lightninglifeguard 7 лет назад +393

    My Coming out experience:
    *Me and my mom driving to the store*
    Mom: Hey, what's your sexuality?
    *Me; Brain-dead caught off-guard*: Umm..... I'm Pansexual
    Mom: What's that?
    *I explain while I internally facepalm*
    Mom: Oh cool. What do you want for dinner?

    • @FuzBitch
      @FuzBitch 6 лет назад +4

      That's similar to my experience but I was going to the store with her and she asked me if I liked anyone and I had a girlfriend so ummmmmm. I'm pansexual to though

    • @sleepyaugust2182
      @sleepyaugust2182 6 лет назад +3

      I had to explain transgender to my mom when she got curious. (I'm not trans but she know i know more about that stuff.)

    • @abi-gl6ec
      @abi-gl6ec 5 лет назад +3

      Lucky

    • @eijirokirishima372
      @eijirokirishima372 5 лет назад +3

      OMG!!!!! I swear I haven’t come out yet but I know my mom is going to say that.

    • @i_am_a_crow2192
      @i_am_a_crow2192 5 лет назад +2

      This is what happened to me

  • @TaylorxJustinx
    @TaylorxJustinx 8 лет назад +117

    Kevin is so original and deserves more subscribers!

    • @MR-ob4ns
      @MR-ob4ns 8 лет назад

      +Bardi No, You're messed up

  • @aimn9985
    @aimn9985 8 лет назад +92

    TBH I've never been in the closet. I tried 'coming out' to one of my friends and it was super awkward so now....fuck the closet. I think the rest of my school house found out when I barged in going "there are literally NO other gay girls in this school. I am going to be forever alone!"

    • @abbby6951
      @abbby6951 8 лет назад +3

      OMG THE PART ABOUT THE GAY GIRLS IS AO TRUE PLENTY OF GAY GUYS BUT BO FUCKING GAY GIRLS

    • @abbby6951
      @abbby6951 8 лет назад +6

      Oh and then when you find a lesbian you don't know her and your to scared to make a move

    • @cainemicah4848
      @cainemicah4848 7 лет назад +2

      No gay girls at your school? At my school I only knew of three gay guys (all of which I wasn't attracted to) but I was friends with like eleven lesbians (that's right: ELEVEN.)

    • @sky-cf4nk
      @sky-cf4nk 7 лет назад +1

      Gwali Bear omg your profile picture 👅

    • @chloeshomo8141
      @chloeshomo8141 7 лет назад +3

      Gwali Bear I run shouting I'm gay like waving gay flags but I'm the only one. I'm the rainbow in the sea of black and white🏳️‍🌈 (That's also most recently used emoji)

  • @jessicaca1146
    @jessicaca1146 5 лет назад +77

    My coming-out story
    Me:mom I'm bi
    Step mom:ok
    Me:ok
    Me:*walks away
    Me call that was anti-climatic

  • @dellatolentino8038
    @dellatolentino8038 6 лет назад +243

    So my best friend fam hates the LGBT+ and I'm the 'B' so what should I do. Shes like my real best friend! *HELP!*

    • @IATEALLTHECHEESE
      @IATEALLTHECHEESE 5 лет назад +68

      If she doesn't accept you she's not worth it. Or you can try to get her to accept you. If you need help, tell me.

    • @somewhatuselessstudios6084
      @somewhatuselessstudios6084 4 года назад +16

      I also got this problem
      Just wait until you feel the time is right

    • @tenix3915
      @tenix3915 4 года назад +17

      If your friend is not homophobic than you can still be friends with her I guess. My friends family are homophobic so I keep it a secret from them.

    • @rugagagagagagaag149
      @rugagagagagagaag149 4 года назад +12

      Its toxic to soround your self with un postive people i say tell her and if she dosent exept you then she missing out

    • @badboystuff7850
      @badboystuff7850 4 года назад

      Della Tolentino no she is not

  • @narashika2978
    @narashika2978 8 лет назад +283

    when i told my mom i was bi/pan...:
    me: mom.... i need yo tell you something....
    mom: what?
    me: im...
    mom: you are bi
    me: whut???
    mom: you are bi
    me: wait how did you know?
    mom: tell your dad when you are ready...
    me: you are not angry?
    mom: no... why would i be angry?
    me: oh okay.... idk...
    not told my dad tho... xD

    • @montylemon9445
      @montylemon9445 8 лет назад +8

      Nara Shika WHAT THE HELL SON
      THIS is a joke

    • @Person-iw1hm
      @Person-iw1hm 7 лет назад +2

      Nara Shika have you told your dad yet?

    • @haunteddreamer1468
      @haunteddreamer1468 6 лет назад +8

      You are not pansexual if you are bisexual....... sorry about that you just put /pan at the top..... pls don't hate me

  • @lolanaterlin
    @lolanaterlin 8 лет назад +547

    My mom: You know I would still love you if you were a lesbian sweet heart right? Me internally: MOM HOW THE HELL DID YOU KNOW I WAS GAY???!!!!! Me actually: yeah but I'm not soooo......

    • @Kat-fj1rx
      @Kat-fj1rx 8 лет назад +34

      My family aunt and grandma were talking about me and my cousin getting married to men {because they won't leave us alone about it... even if we are still young} and I made a weird disgusted noise and my cousin was all like "or girls if you swing that way" and then my aunt got defensive and my grandma was like "I would love you both no matter what" then my aunt was like "but god" so now I am afraid to come out. ;-;

    • @Ratje..
      @Ratje.. 8 лет назад +10

      +Shy c: I'm also concernd about how my family wil react and they will, so I changed my mindset and was like I am me why could someone's opinion change that if I say it or not it's a fact.

    • @Ratje..
      @Ratje.. 8 лет назад +1

      +Shy c: Hope this helps a bit :)

    • @vivianvdn3260
      @vivianvdn3260 7 лет назад +3

      Lolo Lin same omg but anyway I am too afraid to tell her

    • @KNJ20
      @KNJ20 7 лет назад +3

      Lolo Lin Dude why did you waste an opportunity like that?!?!??

  • @unknownpersom2293
    @unknownpersom2293 8 лет назад +261

    me: havent told a soul

    • @verscont1505
      @verscont1505 8 лет назад +18

      Yet you just told everyone who looks in the comment section XD

    • @nxuvadeceiving9137
      @nxuvadeceiving9137 8 лет назад +5

      madison hopp I told my mom I am a lesbian and found out that she was too 🙄

    • @a.l.b.o.e1401
      @a.l.b.o.e1401 8 лет назад +1

      Nxuva Deceiving Dude that's awesome!

    • @nxuvadeceiving9137
      @nxuvadeceiving9137 8 лет назад +1

      A.L.B.O.E thanks

    • @emarieperkinson4368
      @emarieperkinson4368 7 лет назад

      madison hopp only my friends and sisters know I'm gay

  • @Absisgay
    @Absisgay 6 лет назад +68

    I was sitting outside with my 9 year old sister and it went like this
    Me-Hey, would you be mad if I got a girlfriend
    Her-Lol you crazy

    • @honey--bee4006
      @honey--bee4006 4 года назад +6

      I told my little sister (she like 9) and i said "hey im gay" and she said "really? Me to!"

    • @bionicbella2806
      @bionicbella2806 3 года назад

      @@honey--bee4006 aww I love that

  • @lindalopez8162
    @lindalopez8162 6 лет назад +40

    i support the LGBT 🏳️‍🌈 community and im pansexual

    • @dogocatostudios8719
      @dogocatostudios8719 4 года назад +3

      @@kimberlymadrid8507 bi is liking guys and gals,
      Pan is pretty much liking all the genders, (feel free to add on to this if you have some more input

  • @nicolegarciamiranda1978
    @nicolegarciamiranda1978 8 лет назад +165

    Why the hell did I fangirl when I saw the My Little Pony book

  • @emohobo9966
    @emohobo9966 8 лет назад +170

    My story
    Me: I am Bi
    Dad: sigh okay now clean your room
    Mom: why? How? When? So you haven't chosen
    *2 weeks later*
    Mom: but how???

  • @dannyonsaturn5458
    @dannyonsaturn5458 7 лет назад +112

    I'm pretty sure my parents would be fine but I'm so scared and awkward help

    • @niakennedy9728
      @niakennedy9728 6 лет назад +1

      omg same......

    • @bonepaste_3336
      @bonepaste_3336 6 лет назад +2

      Same my mom is definitely accepting she’s said straight up to me (I was talking about how my friend became president of my schools GSA program lol) but my sister is bi and she wants to come out and I’m not even out as pan to her, and I also want to come out but Not sure what their reaction would be to having two gay kids 😅

    • @emokitten3796
      @emokitten3796 6 лет назад +1

      Just come out when your ready 😁

    • @genner-vincenthodgson5177
      @genner-vincenthodgson5177 6 лет назад +1

      for me personally, there were times when I just didn't care if people knew. That's how I came out to my dad(who I was really more worried about coming out to spiritually). I just sent him a really long text and he sent me a really long text back that said he accepted me and was happy for me. My mom was a little hesitant to let other people know, but I did it anyway. My siblings knew. If they're fine with you being gay they're fine with you not being ready to tell them too

    • @robynnhoud
      @robynnhoud 5 лет назад

      Same

  • @that_witch426
    @that_witch426 5 лет назад +30

    My coming out story :
    I wrote a letter to my mam and dad to tell them that I was bi
    Dad: why are you bi ?Why you can't know if you like girls or boys at your age ?
    Me: But I can
    Dad: no you can't
    I run up stair and cry a lot
    Dad comes into my bedroom
    Dad: I am sorry sweetie I love you and I shouldn't have said that .
    Me : stops crying
    Dad : starts crying
    Me : Dad can we watch some comedy now so that we are not sad
    Dad: yeah

  • @phoenixfirecat7234
    @phoenixfirecat7234 5 лет назад +1

    I live with an over zealous family and had an extremely horrible coming out.
    A couple of months ago my parents went though my phone and found out I was a lesbian, the confrontation ended with me being beat, jumping out of a window and breaking my wrist, running for a mile or so until finding a stranger’s home and calling the police, and being put in foster care.
    For about a month the confrontation after I was in hospital because I became very Suicidal. I told myself the my dad was arrested because of me and that I was a horrible child. Plus I already practiced self-harm because I was being constantly bullied at school for reasons I don’t even know and the constant fear that my parents were going to find out was so suffocating that it hurt at times.
    I’m in a MUCH more accepting, loving, and supporting home now. I’ll still have scars from cutting my wrists and jumping out the living room window but they are just reminders of how strong I am.

  • @averypeterson4953
    @averypeterson4953 8 лет назад +1348

    If I were gay I feel like my coming out would be like this:
    Me: dad, I'm gay. (Oh don't do it)
    Dad: hi gay, I'm dad
    Dad jokes are nothing to joke about.
    Ps: I fully support LGBT+ and SAGA

    • @skye7489
      @skye7489 7 лет назад +84

      Avery Peterson
      Me: Dad, I like girls
      dad: cool... now go set the dinner table

    • @justsomerandomperson8243
      @justsomerandomperson8243 7 лет назад +9

      Avery Peterson xD

    • @justamisunderstoodkidnamed9928
      @justamisunderstoodkidnamed9928 7 лет назад +11

      Avery Peterson my dad would and will do that to me when I come out as bi

    • @Lucyence
      @Lucyence 6 лет назад +108

      Boy 1: dad I like guys.
      Dad: okay I support you.
      Boy 2: dad I'm gay too.
      Dad: really? Well, I will support both of you.
      Boy 3: dad, I'm also gay
      Dad: DOES ANYONE IN THIS HOUSE LIKE GIRLS?
      Girl 1: I do.

    • @alexsayle4082
      @alexsayle4082 6 лет назад +2

      +Abigail haha

  • @kittykar8323
    @kittykar8323 8 лет назад +546

    How coming out to my mom that I'm bi went
    Me: I think I might be, um... bisexual or something?? I don't know??
    Her: Why do you think that?
    Me: I don't know. I've been thining about this for a while now, I just didn't know how to tell you.
    Her: You can tell me anything! We'll love you no matter what *kisses me*

    • @baileyperez4226
      @baileyperez4226 8 лет назад +8

      Kittykar mine was NOTHING like that

    • @mcrsphansatthedisco4470
      @mcrsphansatthedisco4470 8 лет назад +31

      me: mom I uh...I'm.. bisexual..don't be mad
      mom: oh honey......you're not bisexual.. but if you were I'd still love you
      me: uhm. OK....I told you that I'm bi so I'm bi
      mom:*giggles* no...you're not

    • @a.l.b.o.e1401
      @a.l.b.o.e1401 8 лет назад +25

      me: im scared to tell you...
      mom: well you better spit it out
      me: Im bi
      mom: ok, you know for some reason I thought you were gonna say 'im a cyborg'
      *sigh

    • @baileyperez4226
      @baileyperez4226 8 лет назад +11

      A.L.B.O.E why can't I have your mom

    • @kittykar8323
      @kittykar8323 8 лет назад +6

      A.L.B.O.E goals

  • @Avisary
    @Avisary 8 лет назад +573

    Mom: You'll have to find a man who lived cats just as much as you do!
    Me: Why stop at a man?
    Mom: Are you telling me you're gay?
    Me: No.
    Mom: Bi?
    Me: Pan.
    Mom: Whazzat.
    Me: *explains*
    Mom: Does it have to be so adventurous?
    Me: .-.
    Mom: Okay then. Get the dishes.

  • @dokidokiyandere1274
    @dokidokiyandere1274 6 лет назад +47

    Me coming out be like: Me: Mom? Mom: Yes sweetie?
    Me: Im... Pansexual.
    Mom: Oh... You like pans????
    Me: *Explains*
    Mom: oh... its just a phase.
    *A few years later*
    Me: Mom.... This is my girlfriend
    Mom: *ItS JusT A PHasE*

    • @eurovision4lifee
      @eurovision4lifee 3 года назад +1

      oof. im really sorry. its not a phase nor a choise. We love and support u though

  • @xdxuwu7756
    @xdxuwu7756 5 лет назад +21

    My coming out story
    Me- Mom ,Dad (Heavy breathing 4 like 5 mins straight) I'm gay...
    Mom- You cant be
    Dad- (silent)
    Mom- You need Jesus we need to go to church!
    Dad- (still silent)
    Mom- I can't even look at you rn. You disgust me go to your room.
    (The next day)
    Mom- Can we talk.
    Me- Sure
    Mom- Tell me do you know how two men have ...?
    Me- Ofcourse mom.
    Mom- Tell me do you think about boys while mastur......??!
    Me- Mom thats very personal.
    Mom- Im just trying to understand how you could be this way.
    Me-(starts crying) You wouldn't be able to understand.
    Mom- (Gets angry again) Were taking you to therapy your sick I need to help you.
    Me-( bursts out in tears)
    (That night thinking about killing myself already knew how I was gonna do it and already wrote my explanation note. I didn't do it bc I realised that if I could just hang on for 2 more years I could leave my house forever.)
    (Now 3 weeks have passed Im still very depressed I dont speak or look my parents in the eyes. The worst part is my real dad (my mom and dad are divorced) and sister doesn't even know. So Im basically still in the closet but facing the "punishments" of being out of the closet.
    I wrote all this down bc I hope it helps someone who is going threw a hard time. Remember your perfect.

    • @el2512
      @el2512 5 лет назад +2

      TinyGodzilla 321 I’m planning on coming out after I move so I don’t have to deal with that ;-;

    • @xdxuwu7756
      @xdxuwu7756 5 лет назад

      Itzyagirlow Take ure time❤️Dont rush❤️You know who u are and thats all that matters❤️honestly my parents still cant look me in the eyes or have a normal conversation with me ,but I know who I am and Im comfortable with myself❤️Just know that u are perfect and loved❤️ Good luck!❤️

    • @renab.7390
      @renab.7390 4 года назад +1

      Oh god, I feel so bad for you. Push through it, you have every right to be yourself! Noone but you has the right to tell you who you are, how to be or what to do with your life. Hang in there, I know it sounds cliche, but after every down there's an up, alright, you'll find someone who's supportive, a friend, a different family member, someone at school, online, whoever, and that can be your reason to go on just a little longer and get out of there. You can do it!

  • @amelia-wg9yk
    @amelia-wg9yk 7 лет назад +151

    How are your teeth so white

    • @beejface282
      @beejface282 7 лет назад +12

      I love your profile pic. Gerard is the best!!! (I still can't believe he was on Yo Gabba Gabba and I listened to MCR when I was little... 😂)

    • @amelia-wg9yk
      @amelia-wg9yk 7 лет назад +4

      BaconKeeper thank you❤️

    • @castielnovak6063
      @castielnovak6063 7 лет назад +4

      I found the killjoys

  • @celiaarnoux8191
    @celiaarnoux8191 8 лет назад +1513

    My coming out story :
    "Mom : *Watching Ellen Degeneres* YAAAS My favorite lesbiaaaan !
    Me : Oh.. I thought it was me. '-'
    Mom : Nooo Sweetie you're m.... WHAT?
    Me : What?
    I fucked up guys.

    • @leila8404
      @leila8404 8 лет назад +24

      LMAOO

    • @celiaarnoux8191
      @celiaarnoux8191 8 лет назад +8

      Thank you so much girl :'( ♥

    • @celiaarnoux8191
      @celiaarnoux8191 8 лет назад +6

      +Bardi Whaaaat ? Why are you talking bout rape right now? '-'

    • @lyrasotaku1573
      @lyrasotaku1573 8 лет назад +8

      +Celia Arnoux Holy shit that's hilarious X'D

    • @hipsterhippo299
      @hipsterhippo299 8 лет назад +6

      +Celia Arnoux Honestly, that's great.

  • @rebsmith659
    @rebsmith659 7 лет назад +287

    my coming out story
    my stepdad on new years eve: *makes homophobic joke about neil patrick harris being gay*
    me:hey dude you cant say crap like that
    my sister: yeah no its not cool
    my stepdad:why do you care
    me:im gay duh
    my sister: i fucking knew it
    my sister again: but same so
    *everyone looks at my sister*
    my sister:im pansexual
    my mom: oh ok so yall both like girls wow ok

    • @higuerap1975
      @higuerap1975 6 лет назад +1

      Reb Smith

    • @killthislove5782
      @killthislove5782 6 лет назад +10

      Your sister is goals

    • @mia-dm8me
      @mia-dm8me 5 лет назад +4

      LMAO SORRY THE SISTER THING-

    • @luvoruwu7047
      @luvoruwu7047 5 лет назад +1

      SISTER THING XD 👯

    • @DNorwood2007
      @DNorwood2007 5 лет назад

      Too late I got stuck in a mosh pit
      And then got jumped outside by 6 guys

  • @sophie-lu4fs
    @sophie-lu4fs 5 лет назад +14

    How I came out at school:
    *writes on the board "oh yeah hi I'm bi" and hides in the bathroom* it worked all my classmates loved it.

  • @lunaticchild7892
    @lunaticchild7892 5 лет назад +25

    My coming out story✨💀
    Dad: so who is your girl
    Me: I don't have one...
    Dad: OK you should get one
    Me: um... But I'm not really into girls dad
    Mom in the kitchen: ha!!! I told you he's gay
    Dad: OK you were right hun... (to me) well it your happy... I honestly don't care...
    But my granny was high key... "It's not like you to be like this... It's probably those girl friends of yours... Stay away from them... You'll be fine"
    Me💀💀💀

  • @maryistired690
    @maryistired690 7 лет назад +140

    Ahh yes... coming out the closet...
    Never told anyone about my bisexuality... *kill me...*

    • @shalloteek2087
      @shalloteek2087 7 лет назад +8

      evilcupcake 007 you've told me! What a great start!

    • @loserlungs
      @loserlungs 7 лет назад +5

      I never had ... and then I kept dropping hints at my mom, and she finally just sat me down and asked if I thought I was bisexual. and I just laughed, so she was like "I kinda had a feeling". she cried (she was drunk), and told me how upset she was that I felt like i couldn't tell her. And just when I thought things were going good, she told me that she doesn't support it, and it's probably just a phase, but she "isn't gonna disown me or hate me, and I can tell my dad when I'm ready." This happened about ..... 4 months ago. I still haven't told my dad, and I honestly don't think I will, that would just be way too nerve-wracking. So far, the only ones that know I'm bisexual/pansexual (I know it's not the same thing, but I've called myself bi for years, so it just feels weird to switch labels, although I'm technically pan), is my boyfriend, some of my friends, my mom, my dogs, and one of my sisters. I don't know if I'll ever come out to the rest of everyone else, but if I do, I hope it goes okay ..

    • @camyqwack
      @camyqwack 7 лет назад +3

      evilcupcake 007 Hunnie, Quick talk between Bisexuals.
      It's easier if you at least just tell 1 friend.
      I've been bi for 2 years and only told 3 people.
      My sister, And 2 bffs.
      So if you see this and you still didn't come out. Fam do it!
      I BELEAF IN YOU STRANGER!

    • @sophiamitchell6134
      @sophiamitchell6134 6 лет назад +2

      I only told two friends I'm gay O-O planning on reading a news paper and writing I'm gay on the back xD

    • @adeadchannel4916
      @adeadchannel4916 6 лет назад +1

      Me: *think about what to say about that*
      ...pretty much the same as my story.

  • @vesrhal6616
    @vesrhal6616 8 лет назад +213

    My coming out story:
    *Me currently texting my mom*
    Me: Mom... I'm.. I kinda like girls?..
    Mom: Cool
    The end

    • @chloeshomo8141
      @chloeshomo8141 7 лет назад +8

      Hala Vest IM NOT EVEN JOKING SAME. I test my mom and she's like cool.

    • @Katinnity
      @Katinnity 6 лет назад

      SAME XD

    • @kaydee2165
      @kaydee2165 6 лет назад

      I wish my parents were as cool as that

  • @Nicole-mn2qe
    @Nicole-mn2qe 8 лет назад +454

    My parents are homophobic so they don't except me being pansexual 😧

  • @XionXIV407
    @XionXIV407 6 лет назад +36

    Me telling my family and friends:
    ~Mom~
    Me: Mom I think I like girls
    Mom: Ok is that all
    Me: Um yeah?
    Mom: Cool thanks for telling me
    ~Dad~
    Me: Dad I think I like girls
    Dad: Yay now I have someone to talk with about girls
    ~Siblings~
    Me: Alright I think I'm into girls
    Sister#1: It's a surprise but whenever we would say 'ew boys' I feel like for you it was different
    Sister#2: I'm.. my gosh I wasn't prepared (she's young and very dramatic I knew she isn't saying in a bad way 😁)
    ~Friends~
    Me: I have to tell you that I'm into girls
    Friend#1: OH MY GOSH REALLY THAT'S SO COOL OH MY GOD I'M SO PROUD TO HAVE YOU AS A FRIEND
    Me: I like girls
    Friend#2: Okay
    ~Best friend~
    Me: I'm a Lesbian
    Bff: I'm Bisexual
    *I had a crush on one girl but she uh mentally abused me (I'm over her) I have a crush on said best friend*

    • @mattisfilms7052
      @mattisfilms7052 3 года назад +2

      It’s been two years, you have to update us

    • @XionXIV407
      @XionXIV407 3 года назад +1

      @@mattisfilms7052 Oof I dead forgot about this comment lol. Um let's see updates... My family is fine with how I am as is my best friend (I think I'm bisexual I'm still confused on that) For a little while I was with my crush, but soon I disconnected from her abusive (Basically she kept saying that if I left she would feel lonely and crap) vocal ways flashforward before quarantine started I saw one of my friends from middle school and got the girl who I had a crush on number. I texted her for the first time in a long time. She had learnt from her mistakes as I have as well and now we're good friends! (She feels bad about it still but I can forgive her. She also has a girlfriend and I'm single but happy) (My best friend and I are chill and that's all)

    • @mattisfilms7052
      @mattisfilms7052 3 года назад +2

      Xion Is No Longer Forgotten good to hear, cheers

  • @lilhuuman7045
    @lilhuuman7045 5 лет назад +20

    My coming out to mom
    Me: hey mom guess what??
    mom: yeah
    Me: I'm bi...
    Mom: oh sweetie I love u no matter what *makes it emotional enough for me to cry*

  • @galaxywarp1085
    @galaxywarp1085 8 лет назад +75

    Embrace the grace of your sexuality!💑💃🙌👍

    • @tsuyuasui7727
      @tsuyuasui7727 6 лет назад +2

      Galaxy Warp is it just me or did you just quote the Coming Out Song by Ally Hills?

    • @mollykatzen9314
      @mollykatzen9314 6 лет назад +2

      Yup the official coming out song

  • @adriennenye156
    @adriennenye156 8 лет назад +135

    GIVE ME YOUR EYEBROWS KEVIN THEY ARE MORE PERFECT THEN MY LIFEEE!!

  • @davidwilliams5840
    @davidwilliams5840 7 лет назад +148

    I gave my mom a note
    Mom: u don't even know what bi means!
    Me: ummmmmm yeah I do
    Mom: YOU IS TOO YOUNG
    me: no

    • @intravine
      @intravine 6 лет назад +11

      David Williams xD and i apparently "havent hit puberty"

    • @bonepaste_3336
      @bonepaste_3336 6 лет назад +7

      I feel like this would be my dad. My mom would just be like “k love you” and I’d go back into my room to watch yt or something, but my dad thinks that me wanting a snake is weird and doesn’t like that I read the hobbit since it’s a “children’s story” and he argued with my sister over the college she got into that she wanted because he wouldn’t be able to brag like he can with my brother 🙄 tbh my dad is a dick sometimes but usually he’s fine and we get over it (my sister hates him though she cut contact since she moved out to college OOF)

    • @bonepaste_3336
      @bonepaste_3336 6 лет назад +3

      Case and point: my dad would be hesitant or annoyed that I’m pan

    • @ace_love_3891
      @ace_love_3891 5 лет назад

      David Williams dame so I said JUST KIDDING HAHA

    • @al_exists
      @al_exists 5 лет назад

      I did the same and had to explain to her what pan meant. She said I was too young sadly.

  • @kajiapeine
    @kajiapeine 6 лет назад +14

    My coming out story with my 2 bff's
    P.s I just came out today
    Me: I need to tell you guys something
    Friend 1: Ok, spit it out
    Me: *sits there too nervous to come out*
    Friends: JUST SAY IT!
    Me: Wait, I got a better idea
    Me: *Takes out a piece of paper and draws a squiggly line*
    Me: What do me and this line have in common?
    Friend 2: Curly hair?
    Me: No
    Friend 1: It's straight, wait no it's not
    Me: That's the point
    Friend 1: WAIT YOU'RE BI!
    Me: Yeah...
    Friend 2: Know that we will support you no matter what
    Me: K, thanks
    I am really thankful that I have accepting friends like this, because I know it isn't like that for every one. It was very stressful but I had the courage to do it and that is all that matters.💗💜💙

  • @danielamartinez6323
    @danielamartinez6323 5 лет назад +16

    my coming out:
    i didn’t.my parents would disown me.

  • @FluttersweetMLP
    @FluttersweetMLP 8 лет назад +74

    How I Told My Mom I Was Bi
    Me: *gets out my phone and texts my mom* mom I Have Something To Tell You
    Mom: Okay?
    Me: I'm Bisexual
    Mom: . . . .
    Me: . . . .
    Mom: wut
    Me: yeah
    Mom: you're to young tho
    Me: .-.
    Mom: okay then we talk when I get home

    • @jaydynmclaughlin1155
      @jaydynmclaughlin1155 6 лет назад

      CutieCorgi same

    • @theotherme4003
      @theotherme4003 6 лет назад +2

      CutieCorgi “you’re to young though” like,do you need to be a certain age to know??? (That’s a question I’m always asking myself)

    • @randomlycreative7194
      @randomlycreative7194 6 лет назад +1

      Literally my mother

    • @MsShani98
      @MsShani98 6 лет назад

      Bella Cipher My little sis is 13 and still not allowed to have a boyfriend. You can be straight or LGBTQ+, your parents will still like this XD

  • @cringeykk4812
    @cringeykk4812 7 лет назад +50

    Ok idek but im on a lgbt binge watch lately and now im constantly thinking...(now i know im bi but what if im actually a lesbian *large gasp* maybe that why all my boyfriends dont end up well...k now that actually makes sense:*| ,huh😂)

  • @wills5945
    @wills5945 8 лет назад +48

    Expectation: OMG, YOURE GAY? I HAD NO IDEA!!!
    Reality: finally, I've known for years.

    • @avabeanwater3749
      @avabeanwater3749 7 лет назад

      Wizardporn2008 Although for me i'm pretty sure your 'expected' reaction would be mine, i intentionally do a very good job at hiding my sexuality. For all i know half the people i know think i'm ace. I'm gay-leaning bi. Hopefully no one i know reads this comment.

  • @jenniek.6016
    @jenniek.6016 5 лет назад +24

    My plan to come out to my mom will be like
    *JUMPS OUT THE CLOSET AND THROWS SKITTLES*
    “Taste the rainbow mom, I’m one too”

  • @charliesdreaming5903
    @charliesdreaming5903 5 лет назад +20

    My coming in it story’s:
    Me:Year 7 (grade 6): *at school*
    Mum: *reads diary*
    (2months later)
    Me: tells her I’m gay
    Mom: I know *walks away*
    Edit: two years later still very gay :)

    • @paintbox3011
      @paintbox3011 3 года назад

      KJSKXK Omg if my mom read my diary that would happen too-

  • @kitteridgesimpson8144
    @kitteridgesimpson8144 8 лет назад +562

    I came out to my bffs it wont like this
    Me Hey Im a demigirl
    Friend: huh
    Me: nvm
    Friend: explain
    Me: -explains-
    Friend; oh cool youre a tomboy.
    Other: Wait THATS WHAT IT ID

    • @deniseboth7568
      @deniseboth7568 6 лет назад +7

      Kier Simpson same I am also demigirl

    • @bunglebottom
      @bunglebottom 6 лет назад +3

      Im Gay AND PROUD

    • @buckybuu5367
      @buckybuu5367 6 лет назад +2

      Whats a demigirl? Don't think I'm homophobic, I'm abrosexual, people always this I'm a homophobe when I ask questions about LGBTQ+

    • @DRAGONIL100
      @DRAGONIL100 6 лет назад +2

      What’s a demigirl?

    • @pigeontea832
      @pigeontea832 6 лет назад +12

      Kat Kat long live evil
      I'm pretty sure a demigirl is someone who identifies as female but only partially. The other part could be another gender or nothing at all. For example, someone who was born female and identifies as part female, but also part male. (I suggest just looking it up since I'm pretty bad at explaining things.)

  • @rolandocorona3181
    @rolandocorona3181 7 лет назад +14

    My coming out story was not great. When I came out no one wasn't supportive not even my sister. They told me that I should've kept that myself and I shouldn't tell no one. My sister told me that you don't like guys and people are just putting stuff into your head and it's not okay. They said if you're going to come out to the world move to another state or better another country, they don't understand that California is one of the most gayest state in the US. I was so surprise that my sister thins that she's in an older generation, she told me I'm not homophobic to other people I'm just homophobic to you. On the other hand I told my friends about it they said they're fine. I told them the situation with my family and they said that you don't need to be with them if they lost a family member it's because it's their fault for not supporting you in the beginning, if you want to be with them then go ahead but it's a shame if what they say to you. They have my back and I hope I will never loose them, I don't want to be alone. It's been almost a year and they still don't support me if I tell one of my family members or friends they will punish me and if I bring it up then they'll start yelling at me then cry. I feel uncomfortable where I live but I love my family, all I want is them to accept it not support. I don't care what they think if it's a sin cause what I think it's what I need to worry not what other people think.

  • @worlds2ndbestlawyer
    @worlds2ndbestlawyer 8 лет назад +57

    Me: Mom..Im gay..
    Mom: Me two.
    -Illuminati music-
    Me and mom: DUN DUN DUN

    • @trinnobles
      @trinnobles 7 лет назад +3

      Liu Woods too*

    • @yom2408
      @yom2408 6 лет назад +1

      This is 'ur mum gay' on a whole new level.

  • @niakennedy9728
    @niakennedy9728 6 лет назад +15

    "dad, im gay.."
    Dad: hands mom 5 bucks

    • @niakennedy9728
      @niakennedy9728 6 лет назад

      ..........yep

    • @haileymiles4839
      @haileymiles4839 5 лет назад

      me(bi) and one of friends who’s lesbian are thinking my friend is bisexual and hasn’t come out yet. Listen I know it sounds bad but once you hangout with her you start to question she’s very touchy 😂 I love her to death

  • @minimixpuppet9656
    @minimixpuppet9656 5 лет назад +12

    The sibling one was very accurate
    The brother just said “of course you are” and walked away
    Btw I’m bi

  • @rhinodiy6959
    @rhinodiy6959 8 лет назад +18

    I am so happy that people accept you for who you are....... #inspiration

  • @ashton8289
    @ashton8289 8 лет назад +35

    When I told my crush ahhhh.... It didn't go well

  • @taylorh1872
    @taylorh1872 8 лет назад +18

    I just realized I was Bisexual a few months ago and so far in my family I have told two people and in school I'm just open about it and pretty much anyone who has talked to me knows I'm Bisexual and the accept me (some even said they were gay or bisexual too.) as for my two family members aka my Grammy and one of four of my siblings (my younger sister) I got different reactions. Let's start with the good one, my sister who said I should burn in hell when I painted a gay flag on my wrist for gay pride day so I actually thought she was going to act the same but this is how she acted. We were having another deep talk (we have those once and awhile are family isn't in the best condition and we both feel as if we can only talk to each other) Me: Actually before we end this conversation I have something to say. Riley: (my sister) Okay what? Me: I'm Bisexual. Riley: Oh....what does that mean? Me: It means I like boys.....and girls. Riley: oh....okay I'm straight that's just who I am. Me: Yep and I'm Bisexual. (We then talked about other problems and I even told her about coming out to Grammy which happen before this.) So yeah that was okay and I felt relived to talk about it on my own time but Grammy.....It was on accident that I told her because she kind of pushed me into a corner so it was more nervous and me almost crying. Grammy: *Ranting about religion and homosexuals* Me: That's wrong can you please stop? Grammy: What it's my opinion and I think it's wrong. Me: *Feeling sick from her words* Can you please stop.....I feel sick.... Grammy: Why are you gay?!? Me: *Getting angry* No I'm Bisexual there is a difference!! Grammy:.....what? Me: *Realizing what I just said* Please don't tell anyone. Grammy: I....I won't but.....I'm just confused have you had sex? Me: wait what? No!! (I'm 14, I haven't even had my first kiss yet so this suprised me) Grammy: Then how do you know you are Bisexual? Me: I just know!! Grammy: So this is one of you secrets that you have? What else are you not telling me?!? Me: I'm not telling you anything else, leave me alone!! (And the rest of the car ride was in silence) Anyway I have been also thinking of telling my Mom (I don't have a dad anymore) but I'm afraid she will kick me out of the house so I'm waiting till I have my own house (at 18 because I'm moving a few days after my birthday at least that's my plan) and when I'm safe so if things go bad I have a place to hide and protect myself. But if anyone asked if I would change my sexuality I would look them straight in the eye and say "Heck No!!" Because even though I'm hiding it it's only for my own safety. I'm proud to be Bi and I'm glad I am in this happy and nice community known as the LGBT community. (Bi Pride!!)

  • @N0cturn3._.H3li0z
    @N0cturn3._.H3li0z 4 года назад +14

    *me thinking I'm going to be the only gay in the house*
    My mom: I'll change that
    Also my mom: -im bisexual-

  • @nemo1217
    @nemo1217 6 лет назад +5

    I came out to 4 of my friends but I haven’t told the rest yet. My friend came out to me a few days ago and we both came out like 2 days ago at the same time to in of our other friends. It’s really nice to have supportive friends and I’m very grateful for them. I apologize to anyone who’s family/friends aren’t as supportive, because everyone is a person no matter if they like girls, guys, or anything else. I haven’t told my parents yet because my brother came out as gay and transgender and my parents weren’t very supportive. So to anyone out there who is really struggling; you’re not alone. Everyone needs to accept people for who they are and not judge others for their sexual orientation, sexuality, likes, dislikes, opinions, or anything else.
    (Sorry for being so aggressive I’m normally pretty chill (ish))

  • @avandi9382
    @avandi9382 8 лет назад +39

    The mom part reminds me of Brandon Rogers's Helen the Hall Monitor. Anyone else?

    • @sayra9865
      @sayra9865 8 лет назад

      Lily Lawliet
      YESSSS.

    • @makayla8503
      @makayla8503 8 лет назад +1

      Lily Lawliet WHY DONT YOU DO YOUR MATH BEFORE YOU GET PREGNANT XD

    • @paulinacarman4591
      @paulinacarman4591 6 лет назад

      YAAASSSSSSSSS KWEEN

    • @Artistics_edits
      @Artistics_edits 6 лет назад

      YASSSSSSSSSS

    •  6 лет назад

      LOL YES

  • @isabellareavey6976
    @isabellareavey6976 7 лет назад +49

    My coming out story
    Sister:
    *In the car on the way to school
    Her: look at that boy you are so going to be with him
    Me:no I don't want a boyfriend
    Her: are font know how to say this but do you like girls
    Me: yes

    • @isabellareavey6976
      @isabellareavey6976 7 лет назад +5

      Mum:
      *having a conversation about LGBTQ+ community
      Me: mum I think I'm gay
      Mum: it's a phase I liked a girl when I was your age
      Me:no I have always liked girls
      Mum: hahaha
      Me: mum I'm born October 11th
      Mum:what???

    • @007meef6
      @007meef6 7 лет назад +4

      mine was more like
      *me and my sister went to pick up a cake at my brother's house for my nephew's Bday*
      Me: So... I'm gay
      Sister: Well ok. Does dad know?
      Me: nope, only you, mom and some of my friends know.
      Sister: Cool.
      the end

  • @okcool241
    @okcool241 7 лет назад +10

    My friends know I'm pansexual but my parents don't. My mom randomly went through my phone one day and found out I was talking about a really pretty girl and thinking I liked her (which I sort of do). She acted nicely when she told me about it and everything, and calmly explained she found it and I should stop. Last month, I asked her if I could go to pride. She didn't respond that well, she said "What?! No!" And mumbled things as she walked away. I'm trying to hint to more things? To see how she reacts, if it's more chill again I might tell her. Idk just doesn't feel safe telling my family yet
    {EDIT: i think my mom thinks im gay.}

  • @Me-fc9pf
    @Me-fc9pf 6 лет назад +16

    My "coming out story" to my mom:
    Me : Mom, I'm gay
    Mom : everything that makes you happy sweeti, but it is really late so go to sleep already!

  • @whisper-wave-24
    @whisper-wave-24 4 года назад +1

    I’ve never seen a positive expectations/reality video before!! Thanks for making this :’)