We're Raising Our Kids With No Gender | MY EXTRAORDINARY FAMILY

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  • Опубликовано: 12 янв 2025

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  • @KayGrier
    @KayGrier 4 года назад +41405

    For people who don’t care about gender, they are bringing a lot of attention to it

    • @TheHairiestPotter
      @TheHairiestPotter 4 года назад +697

      I think it’s because they’re doing a video on that topic specifically and they’re explaining themselves and they’re beliefs.

    • @KayGrier
      @KayGrier 4 года назад +2019

      @@TheHairiestPotter ya but even by purposely avoiding it in their household it kinda highlights the whole topic in my opinion

    • @rianoncl
      @rianoncl 4 года назад +114

      👏👏👏

    • @blankxo1062
      @blankxo1062 4 года назад +204

      You took the words out of my mouth.

    • @greenzo6036
      @greenzo6036 4 года назад +218

      But how are you gonna get respect from people when they thing you’re a ‘freak’? Prejudice comes from lack of empathy and knowledge. They’re just showing who they are so people can understand that they’re human beings just like everyone else.

  • @burdeo2313
    @burdeo2313 2 года назад +24358

    “We don’t care about gender, it’s not a big deal in our lives” while also simultaneously making it the biggest deal in their lives.

    • @longebane
      @longebane 2 года назад +286

      I know it's fun to laugh at them, but that's clearly not what they meant by not caring. It's more "I don't much care about current gender assignments, so we're doing it our way"

    • @bobbylee6859
      @bobbylee6859 2 года назад +3

      You can identify as whatever you want. No one has to respect it and you are what your genetics made you. Can't change that, you can deny it but a lady man is still a man and a man lady is still a lady.

    • @iohnxxxx
      @iohnxxxx Год назад

      this fruitcake family makes the munsters normal

    • @zeenuf00
      @zeenuf00 Год назад +1

      @@longebane it means they're idiot narcissists with zero self awareness.

    • @cemoihonay
      @cemoihonay Год назад +82

      EXACTLY.

  • @Synaptic_Response
    @Synaptic_Response 4 года назад +27795

    Hiding the like/dislike ratio is a clear sign this is wildly unpopular.

    • @Danderwhitepaw
      @Danderwhitepaw 4 года назад +753

      Agreed 100%

    • @ghostlyvel
      @ghostlyvel 4 года назад +251

      Most of the videos don't show them lol (I actually think they do this to all the videos)

    • @quisp6228
      @quisp6228 4 года назад +590

      @@ghostlyvel nah they only turn off like ratio on the videos that are controversial (like this one)

    • @blacknbougie8021
      @blacknbougie8021 4 года назад +513

      It also gives me hope that most of mankind still has it's scruples and many of us aren't falling for this 🐃💩

    • @killwzve6876
      @killwzve6876 4 года назад +22

      FAXX DOEE

  • @BeerusTVDB
    @BeerusTVDB 29 дней назад +621

    This is the scariest thing I think I've ever seen. As someone who was abused as a child this looks like child abuse to me

    • @EllaNonimato
      @EllaNonimato 16 дней назад

      AT LEAST 100% GROOMING

    • @JustGeorge-S4m
      @JustGeorge-S4m 14 дней назад

      same

    • @CapCutTaylorsVersion
      @CapCutTaylorsVersion 12 дней назад

      Its not abvse, personally I don't agree with it, but it doesn't harm the child

    • @seokjinsblkgf
      @seokjinsblkgf 12 дней назад

      Girl get real

    • @nolo8111
      @nolo8111 11 дней назад

      Somehow nature know how to depopulation human kind.

  • @yellowswagmuffin920
    @yellowswagmuffin920 3 года назад +21079

    Please do a “where are they now” series of all these folks in like 10 years

    • @mattfischertt
      @mattfischertt 3 года назад +2145

      100% sure they'll all have blue hair screaming about how things aren't fair.

    • @yellowswagmuffin920
      @yellowswagmuffin920 3 года назад +944

      @@mattfischertt “I’m not a millionaire, not because I don’t work but because discrimination “

    • @epicman004
      @epicman004 3 года назад +972

      In 10 years they’re gonna end up in 5 D’s. Divorce, drinking, depression, disappointment and despair.

    • @zoexxjane
      @zoexxjane 3 года назад +97

      @@mattfischertt no, 100 percent sure they’ll have a great family and great lives,

    • @heidigone
      @heidigone 3 года назад +27

      @@yellowswagmuffin920 Sorry to hear that. Me too.

  • @69yearsago25
    @69yearsago25 3 года назад +62553

    They are so open minded that their brains fell out.

  • @tylermanuel9423
    @tylermanuel9423 Год назад +11939

    All kids deserve parents, but not all parents deserve kids..

    • @MiracleTurtle
      @MiracleTurtle Год назад +61

      these kids get 3!!

    • @residentpotato6023
      @residentpotato6023 Год назад +166

      The only thing missing here are rubber noses and rainbow wigs.

    • @vladimirackermann6182
      @vladimirackermann6182 Год назад +21

      100%

    • @theharshtruthoutthere
      @theharshtruthoutthere Год назад +43

      @@user-ws9ec9bq1c Jesus is alive, and He is sitting on the right hand of His Father.
      Like every human is 3 part being, so is GOD in 3.
      THE 3 parts OF 1 GOD: (NOT 3 gods)
      FATHER
      SON
      HOLY SPIRIT
      THE 3 parts OF 1 HUMAN
      SPIRIT = me
      SOUL = my consciousness
      BODY = my house or clothing
      THE IMAGE OF GOD = Being created in/with 3 parts.
      Being SPIRIT BEING, (everlasting being)
      having consciousness, being able to understand good and evil.
      and living in a body = human aka complete living soul.
      We worry that among the living is 10 billion souls, therefore it = 10 billion souls, created in the image of GOD.
      10 billion spirits who are conscious and who dwelling in a body, and who are all named ADAM.
      Genesis 1:27 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.
      Genesis 5:2 Male and female created he them; and blessed them, and called their name Adam, in the day when they were created. Don+t forget, BIBLE, which is the WORD OF TRUTH, MUST BE RGHTLY DIVIDED.
      Dividing:
      Male and female created he them; = answering how the body got created, in genders.
      Remember, SPIRIT IS GENERLESS.
      and called their name Adam, in the day when they were created. = letting us know, that we didn?t just get created, we also got named.
      So God created man in his own image, = The SPIRIT MAN got created. (1st part)
      in the image of God created he him; = The conscious SPIRIT MAN got created. (2nd part)
      male and female created he them.= the body got created. (3th part)
      = 1 being with 3 parts.
      How is Spirit genderless? because it is created so. For what a everlasting being does being in gender? gender aka being male or female comes useless.
      Mark 12:25 For when they shall rise from the dead, they neither marry, nor are given in marriage; but are as the angels which are in heaven.
      GOD is genderless (GOD IS SPIRIT)
      Angels are genderless (ANGELS ARE SPIRITS)
      humans are genderless , cause all are SPIRIT BEINGS. (HUMANS ARE SPIRITS)
      Trans movement is a lie, cause we entering either as males or as females into this world , is taken care by GOD.
      There is nothing confusing nor unanswered, if a boy born then boy born,
      if girl born then girl born.
      GOD Himself saying that He is the one who forms our bodies in the womb and then give it to us, to live in that body.
      Jeremiah 1:5 Before I formed thee in the belly I knew thee; and before thou camest forth out of the womb I sanctified thee, and I ordained thee a prophet unto the nations.
      It is GOD who formed us to be either males or females, and it is satan who comes to confuse and saying that it aint so. Thats how we got the trans movement. The confusing and laying parts, satan does.
      Therefore whoever "feels they to be trans" - souls, GOD has given us a power to rebuke all evil. therefore say to satan, GET BEHIND ME, SATAN, NEVER TEMPT ME AGAIN.
      Well what was the temptation here? - souls got and get tempted to go and destroy their temple of GOD, their bodies.
      1 Corinthians 3:16 Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you?
      1 Corinthians 3:17 If any man defile the temple of God, him shall God destroy; for the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are.
      That`s how you learn to understand the bible, through dividing the word of truth.

    • @kristenjensen2589
      @kristenjensen2589 Год назад +75

      Do these people identify as parents? They're making the kids make all the decisions...

  • @MrAppleOrchard
    @MrAppleOrchard 14 дней назад +53

    I literally only clicked on this video to read the comments. It was exactly what i thought lol.

  • @EliasVergsen
    @EliasVergsen 2 года назад +9229

    One of the most dangerous things a parent can do is try to live their life through the children they have.

    • @nerissarowan8119
      @nerissarowan8119 2 года назад +316

      Exactly. So why they use them as little dress up dolls and make them play sports or learn skills they have no interest in is beyond me. Don’t force your child to conform to your ideals. I used to be a little girl smothered in pink - I can’t stand pink now. My brother wanted to play with my dolls, and he’s now a great father. Let kids be kids and turn out based on who they are rather than who you expect them to be. I’m sure these kids will be confident and well-adjusted humans, who ever they turn out to be.

    • @TheAngWel
      @TheAngWel 2 года назад +27

      @@nerissarowan8119 💯 % agree

    • @leightonarnold1976
      @leightonarnold1976 2 года назад +29

      @@nerissarowan8119 trying to make a child comfortable when you were not is not that

    • @e.jenima7263
      @e.jenima7263 2 года назад +15

      Yepvi say the same thing about mothers who put there kids into child padgents ........this is no differint.

    • @morganandgoose2
      @morganandgoose2 2 года назад +41

      I agree with this family. I love that they don't choose there kids gender, and that the kids can decide it them self. I find what they are doing is really meaningful and out right the best thing anyone can do. I am growing up in a homophobic and transphobic household and I am pansexual and non binary, and I can't tell my family that I am non binary without risking me being kicked out of the house. Do you know how many times people have committed suicide because of those reasons, over 70% of suicide is people that identify in the LGBTQ+ community. And I personally know how it feels like having suicidal thoughts, because I get them a lot. If my family excepted who I am I would have no problems.

  • @66fives
    @66fives 4 года назад +12420

    Let’s get an update in 10 years

    • @laurenagetstein2761
      @laurenagetstein2761 4 года назад +751

      Right! Exactly! Let’s see how much their kids resent them!!!

    • @swinter1212
      @swinter1212 4 года назад +225

      @@laurenagetstein2761 yep 100%

    • @ingridbraz4332
      @ingridbraz4332 4 года назад +97

      Yess please!

    • @Wishfull171
      @Wishfull171 4 года назад +153

      100% but a I’m certain they’d decline lol

    • @ncorp2668
      @ncorp2668 4 года назад +323

      Unfortunately for that little baby boy she's *intentionally choosing* to dress feminine, in 10 years he's going to have a complex about his identity and believe he needs to change and mutilate his body to match his personality. It's all downhill from here.

  • @mustleavenyc6907
    @mustleavenyc6907 2 года назад +14380

    They, “don’t care about gender?“ They are literally obsessed with it.

    • @TheOnlyPedroGameplays
      @TheOnlyPedroGameplays 2 года назад +186

      @Philip Kirby yeah this video hurts to watch

    • @fjsjfmskcixkxjfdn
      @fjsjfmskcixkxjfdn 2 года назад +104

      EXACTLY

    • @kutie216
      @kutie216 2 года назад +105

      @Philip Kirby Notice how they turned off the dislikes lol. A lot of people probably disliked this

    • @janebaker4912
      @janebaker4912 2 года назад +18

      YES!!!!!

    • @kyzamarrow
      @kyzamarrow 2 года назад +86

      @@kutie216 You do realize youtube turned off the dislikes to EVERY video on this app right?
      Also these parents aren't deranged or obsessed with gender, their just raising their kids with a different set of beliefs than others. What's so wrong with that?
      You can obviously tell that the oldest child is confident in themselves and that their a happy family. 😊
      Just because they were on a video SPECIFICALLY talking about gender, doesn't mean that that's all they think about. Stop letting your disdain and disagreement with the "Gender Ideology" prevent you from recognizing a happy family.

  • @cierracarrico4718
    @cierracarrico4718 10 дней назад +134

    Would love an update? As someone with 2 kids I find it strange that Hazel asked if she could come down from her back bend. Clearly, she is afraid to make any decision without permission. How confusing this all must be for their kids. In this ever changing, often scary world, the one thing we can always count on is that there is man and there is woman.

    • @Shula_shalom
      @Shula_shalom 8 дней назад

      Thank you for the insight. It's very possible that hidden manipulation is going on because obviously, the kids are not allowed to be normal, such as addressing the guys there as HE and the lady there SHE.

    • @sbaker9289
      @sbaker9289 5 дней назад

      Was with you until the last sentence. Whoever needs that particular reassurance so adamantly to get them through the day is going through something strange themselves. These are man-made definitions, that exclude many legitimate experiences, and just don’t consider the complex biological and physiological spectrum s x and gender do very much exist on. These parents abuse their kids on one end of the spectrum, yet it’s clear a couple of these commenters would let their kids suffer in other damaging ways as long as it meant certain social expectations were met. I don’t think pushing a kid to fit one particular expectation is ever okay.

    • @sbaker9289
      @sbaker9289 5 дней назад +1

      There are definitely people who do not fit one or the other due to endogenous differences, as much as people wish that weren’t the case.

    • @cco5539
      @cco5539 5 дней назад +6

      I was raised as a woman and still think I'm a woman and honestly I must say that gender was the most confusing thing that my family or my parents taught me. This double moral in expectations towards me and my brother. For example im a quite confident and frank person, yet i was taught that i shouldnt be that qay because im a woman. When my brother acted that way it was never commented. That's how I learned that gender and assigned characteristics is really a concept of society and is something everyone should decide for themselves.

    • @cierracarrico4718
      @cierracarrico4718 4 дня назад

      @cco5539 I don't disagree with you at all about societal concepts and expectations we place on men vs women. However, I find it ironic when people are trying so hard to break those gender expectations while putting all their emphasis on gender "norms."

  • @whatiknowis
    @whatiknowis 4 года назад +13091

    we asked the kids if they wanted to go to school they said no. as would any kid in the history of ever.

    • @amalia_89
      @amalia_89 3 года назад +292

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @tuankrab7475
      @tuankrab7475 3 года назад +168

      Brah😂😂

    • @maryshell
      @maryshell 3 года назад +174

      My kids want to go to school. As an educator, I personally prefer unschooling, but I’m letting my kids choose now.

    • @maryshell
      @maryshell 3 года назад +21

      @@tuankrab7475 ???

    • @Fmfcg
      @Fmfcg 3 года назад +485

      Perfect analogy. Sorry but every child wants to be special, and if you present them with this magical concept of gender changing then of course they're going to take it

  • @patriottherapist1360
    @patriottherapist1360 3 года назад +6645

    They are raising their kids the way they wished they themselves would have been raised. The problem is these kids are NOT them. You can't rewrite history with different kids.

    • @mashookie6875
      @mashookie6875 3 года назад +72

      yess

    • @thepeacechannel7083
      @thepeacechannel7083 3 года назад +62

      YESSSSSSSS

    • @joshuagama3241
      @joshuagama3241 3 года назад +47

      Thank you

    • @ayoutiecutie36
      @ayoutiecutie36 3 года назад +137

      I would have loved for my parents to raise me that way
      They aren't forcing their kids to live this way. They are happy with it and they let them choose what they want to be.

    • @a2point083
      @a2point083 3 года назад +37

      What that goes for every parent😭

  • @astonville
    @astonville 3 года назад +6759

    You can still raise a girl or a boy without actually forcing them to follow gender stereotypes. Raise a girl, if she was interested in cars as an example, then let her. You don’t have to change her gender.

    • @slappymcslapster8845
      @slappymcslapster8845 3 года назад +473

      My wife has told me that when she was younger she was quite the tomboy. But that she grew out of it. And if you saw her
      you would admit she is every bit of a woman and very beautiful. What's happening in our society today it is so disturbing and you know what the saddest thing is? We are never going to go backwards. Never. This is only going to get worse.

    • @jessicasedlacek8585
      @jessicasedlacek8585 3 года назад +25

      True

    • @Danny-be1ex
      @Danny-be1ex 3 года назад +157

      I did this as a kid, I ended up gravitating to things like makeup or girls clothes and shoes after a long time, like til I was a teenager. My mom didn’t genderize my toys but I could make my Barbie dolls play with robots cause it was fun. I found it nice to grow up this way, I think it’s actually helped me loads growing this way instead of being pushed into one thing or another.

    • @mariksen
      @mariksen 3 года назад +82

      True!! My mom told me that I was interested in cars and was not interested in dolls... but she did NOT even think that I should change gender! I didn't even knew what Halloween was before I was 8 years old! :D

    • @sh4tteredgl4s38
      @sh4tteredgl4s38 3 года назад +38

      The parents didn't force it the kids told the parents what they feel like when thier ready whats wrong with that? If anything it shows those parents want the best for thier kids and if thier kids feel like they don't fit in they let them know they are valid. I see nothing wrong with thier way of parenting and calling someone stupid just because they do patenting differently is not nice.

  • @Karen_Zambada
    @Karen_Zambada Месяц назад +58

    Kids didn’t have the choice to choose, their parents told them to not have a gender

  • @jenuinelyjenni5237
    @jenuinelyjenni5237 4 года назад +10369

    Why can't kids just be kids.

    • @moonstar845
      @moonstar845 4 года назад +547

      They can't be anymore. It's really a sad thing.

    • @comicallylarge3359
      @comicallylarge3359 4 года назад +424

      forcing kids to conform to traditional gender roles isnt much better lolll

    • @lga7134
      @lga7134 4 года назад +198

      I couldn’t just be a kid when I was experiencing crippling gender dysphoria. I’m much happier now that I’ve transitioned, and I wish I could’ve done it earlier so I could truly just be a kid like all the other who were living as their real genders.

    • @emilygriffith6702
      @emilygriffith6702 4 года назад +411

      @@lga7134 yeah, but they are sort of MAKING these kids transition and not even letting these kids BE a gender

    • @olivierpillot9439
      @olivierpillot9439 4 года назад +184

      @@lga7134 "iving as their real genders." so stop lying to yourself

  • @Salwerth2822
    @Salwerth2822 3 года назад +5544

    In trying not to force a lifestyle on their kids, they force a lifestyle on their kids.

    • @AnaxofRhodes
      @AnaxofRhodes 3 года назад +93

      Parents who refuse to raise their children will allow someone else to do it for them.

    • @kathrynbriley4299
      @kathrynbriley4299 3 года назад +12

      Of course!

    • @DaysAreForgottenBaby
      @DaysAreForgottenBaby 3 года назад +10

      Very clever

    • @aundreafinesse
      @aundreafinesse 3 года назад +15

      Now this i agree with

    • @nuberiffic
      @nuberiffic 3 года назад +12

      true.
      But it's also literally a reaction to other people being forced a lifestyle upon them.
      i mean, they literally address that in this video.
      It's like saying, "Indoctrination is bad, and no one should experience it" - which is essentially a form of indoctrination.

  • @SunkissedPeony
    @SunkissedPeony 4 года назад +4348

    This is a hot mess of confusion. I feel like the older girl wouldn't feel that way if they didn't influence the thought.

    • @ashleyhicks3902
      @ashleyhicks3902 4 года назад +356

      Yeah she seems as if she’s just feminine but because how her parents are she’s like..uhh well I just won’t pick quite yet lol

    • @mashudusimone578
      @mashudusimone578 4 года назад +50

      Thee biggest mess. Wow

    • @Custinavo
      @Custinavo 4 года назад +101

      That part, I was gona say something but I didn’t want anyone to think I was against the LGBTQ community when I’m bisexual myself.

    • @CandyLovesMakeup
      @CandyLovesMakeup 4 года назад +142

      100% influenced by the parents. Sad.

    • @delennamachoo
      @delennamachoo 4 года назад +45

      Eh. At that age, experimentation should be healthy. Hopefully, the atmosphere at home is open enough for the child to feel comfortable enough to say something if they change their mind.

  • @JohnDoe-xg2el
    @JohnDoe-xg2el 11 дней назад +28

    I don't think the two dudes are fooling anyone 😂

    • @BewilderingStudio
      @BewilderingStudio 5 дней назад +1

      I was trying so hard to figure out if the one in the burgundy shirt was male or female 😂

    • @filtomsun
      @filtomsun 4 дня назад

      @@BewilderingStudio I think you might need to have your eyesight tested.

    • @mimi-u4g4w
      @mimi-u4g4w 2 дня назад

      wdym? all of them are both!

  • @RJ-he2ns
    @RJ-he2ns 3 года назад +4519

    So they're labeling their kids in an attempt to not label them?

    • @enzokrikorian5580
      @enzokrikorian5580 3 года назад +123

      @RJ no they don’t label them. Hazel deliberately chose to be non-binary and Sparrow hasn’t decided yet. Labeling them would be telling them they’re a boy or a girl, and that’s not what they’re doing.
      Calling their child (the young one) with non-binary pronouns isn’t labeling them, it’s accepting the ambiguity of gender.

    • @karasoi2660
      @karasoi2660 3 года назад +24

      hazel chose to be non binary

    • @Creepycrawliess
      @Creepycrawliess 3 года назад +8

      @@k.d8671 no The younger one has a chosen yet

    • @bippidyboppidyboo4428
      @bippidyboppidyboo4428 3 года назад +196

      Right!? The older one just said she’s non-binary because she knows the adults would probably shun her for identifying as her biological sex. Welcome to the “stunning” and “brave” family 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @karinano1stan
      @karinano1stan 3 года назад +31

      @@bippidyboppidyboo4428 no? that's quite an assumption. also they know*, them*

  • @isabella-s0
    @isabella-s0 Год назад +433

    i take back every bad thing i’ve ever said about my parents

    • @nowaynottoday
      @nowaynottoday 11 месяцев назад +5

      haha

    • @naturalbeauty4734
      @naturalbeauty4734 10 месяцев назад +4

      For real 😂🤣👏😊

    • @saistrology
      @saistrology 9 месяцев назад +1

      ​​@@mwellh113Any generation not parents prior to 201X

    • @MrRichlisa
      @MrRichlisa 22 дня назад

      Lol.... this stuff is just sick... and I complained about having to mow the grass on Saturdays!!!

  • @kristun216
    @kristun216 4 года назад +5025

    You're just forcing them to be genderless. How's that any different from assigning kids gender at birth?

    • @taufik_sopiyan
      @taufik_sopiyan 4 года назад +110

      true..

    • @harryjames7117
      @harryjames7117 4 года назад +67

      Just like how genders were forced to people, please respect their decisions as parents.

    • @kristun216
      @kristun216 4 года назад +339

      @@harryjames7117 it could be argued that the foundations they are raising their kids upon could lead to much more adversities than the alternative. I only mentioned it because they brought it up as one of their points.
      What if they later disagreed with being raised as genderless then resent their parents for doing as such? Isn't that the same problem? I'm just saying this doesn't solve anything.

    • @Wishfull171
      @Wishfull171 4 года назад +5

      Truth

    • @tiamystic
      @tiamystic 4 года назад +10

      @@harryjames7117 Meanwhile you’ll find the parents of Toddlers and Tiaras worse than the two families.

  • @MyLifeOfAdventures
    @MyLifeOfAdventures 3 дня назад +5

    When the lady kept saying They/Them, I didn't understand if she meant one of the kids, or both of them. It's confusing. It makes life more confusing than it has to be. They and Them are PLURAL pronouns. Meaning for more than one person.

  • @faithmottinger682
    @faithmottinger682 4 года назад +3211

    They are also raising them without a true education, as well. This limits their choices far more than just the gender.

    • @TheHairiestPotter
      @TheHairiestPotter 4 года назад +111

      They said they would integrate them back into public school if the children wanted. Honestly, being born in the U.S. has already limited their education exponentially especially if they go into the regular school system.

    • @Zzz2x
      @Zzz2x 4 года назад +7

      @@TheHairiestPotter I would think a lot of private schools in the US would be limiting in life as well though

    • @Zzz2x
      @Zzz2x 4 года назад +13

      @@TheHairiestPotter like a lot are Christian but more white and I doubt they teach whole world views there

    • @nevermore99x30
      @nevermore99x30 4 года назад +49

      I personally believe that homeschooling isn't limiting children(if don't correctly)

    • @vanessaarnell
      @vanessaarnell 4 года назад +89

      Exactly! I don't see how they allow their kids to make choices on schooling. They are the parents and are supposed to guide them in the correct direction on everything but especially education and social skills. They are horrifying as so called parents.

  • @danielvamu
    @danielvamu 4 года назад +3406

    Why not just raise the children as their "assigned" gender? If they turn out to be transgender, which is very unlikely anyway, they could just transition when the time is right.

    • @purpleembers2229
      @purpleembers2229 4 года назад +145

      I agree

    • @greenzo6036
      @greenzo6036 4 года назад +67

      The little one is intersexual, biologically they have no assigned gender.

    • @ayrenbethancourt9379
      @ayrenbethancourt9379 4 года назад +200

      @@greenzo6036 precisely, biology is the one that provides the gender.🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @artsybella4389
      @artsybella4389 4 года назад +265

      I agree, plus you were born a specific gender. If you choose to change it when you are older then I guess that's your choice... But raising kids gender less is just confusing... But again this world has become confusing in general :/

    • @fishbonesxx
      @fishbonesxx 4 года назад +78

      @@artsybella4389 You don't choose your gender identity.

  • @frazlaz
    @frazlaz 2 года назад +10012

    I just started appreciating my parents a whole lot more

    • @heroicflawzyt3610
      @heroicflawzyt3610 2 года назад +398

      Only two genders in this world 😊

    • @natnatmac
      @natnatmac 2 года назад +34

      @@heroicflawzyt3610 non binary isn't a gender, it literally means they don't have a gender, that doesn't mean mean they don't have a sex (what body parts or chromosomes) just the gender (and social) identity that follows the binary of male/ female, which doesn't even always work genetically cause intersex people exist or people with different chromosome groupings

    • @kokoindisguise8350
      @kokoindisguise8350 2 года назад +200

      @@natnatmac having a sex is literally the same as having a gender

    • @natnatmac
      @natnatmac 2 года назад

      @@kokoindisguise8350 literally look it up (world health organisations) gender is just a construct, yes biological sex absolutely exist no but it's not the same

    • @natnatmac
      @natnatmac 2 года назад +9

      Also if sex only matters what about intersex people and people with different chromosome mixes

  • @bennyl2487
    @bennyl2487 9 дней назад +48

    This is creepy as hell and the fact you know the kids are being bullied because of the decision the parents choose makes them even more putrid. They should be locked up

    • @cco5539
      @cco5539 5 дней назад

      If their kids are being bullied it's because you raise YOUR kid to be a bully (you as their parents' bully)

  • @kiam7904
    @kiam7904 4 года назад +5168

    I feel like they are making their kids life more confusing than what it has to be. This whole video annoyed me

    • @finneganaj81
      @finneganaj81 4 года назад +78

      how is letting them choose, how long their hair is, what they wear, what they go by and so on making their life more confusing in any way? by letting them have more options??

    • @parisinthe30sx
      @parisinthe30sx 4 года назад +332

      @@finneganaj81 are you seriously going to reply the same statement on every comment that doesn't fit with your opinion?

    • @finneganaj81
      @finneganaj81 4 года назад +6

      @@parisinthe30sx I did that 2 times and the second time that I did it I changed it

    • @finneganaj81
      @finneganaj81 4 года назад +9

      @@parisinthe30sx got a problem? I don't see you trying to argue against it so what's your point?

    • @finneganaj81
      @finneganaj81 4 года назад +8

      @@parisinthe30sx if the argument stated applies to something that I already said, then say it again I will until I agree with someone who has taught me otherwise, and nobody has so?

  • @eertyecal
    @eertyecal 3 года назад +2241

    Kids do not choose how much schooling they get. Parents do. That’s why they are called kids and they have parents. They need guidance.

    • @thefnafdetective
      @thefnafdetective 3 года назад +130

      Sadly these insane, woke idiots believe that children are mature enough to make major life decisions before they’re old enough to watch power rangers

    • @elelnchly
      @elelnchly 3 года назад +46

      @@thefnafdetective Yeah like what was that they/them kid, two years old? Like that kid is not old enough to decide that.

    • @pokipineapple5377
      @pokipineapple5377 3 года назад +12

      @@elelnchly exactly.
      And that's why they use gender neutral terms and pronouns.
      Gender expectations and norms exist, and that's why so many LGBTQ+ people are uncomfortable coming out.

    • @elelnchly
      @elelnchly 3 года назад +25

      @@pokipineapple5377 Yeah, I know that. But I don’t think a little kid is mature enough to understand the meaning of genders.

    • @apuapustaja1958
      @apuapustaja1958 3 года назад +24

      @@pokipineapple5377 So because a few people are scared we should normalize abuse of children?
      How long have you been a member of NAMBLA?

  • @horsewithnoname12345
    @horsewithnoname12345 3 года назад +4052

    By “not caring” about gender it is all they care about.

    • @ggpc5156
      @ggpc5156 3 года назад +164

      @@EverybodyLovesSarah imagine how disappointed they’ll be if their kids just ended up a plain boring girl.

    • @kickyourhead1910
      @kickyourhead1910 3 года назад +46

      @@ggpc5156 They just don’t wanna push a gender on them, I’m sure if their kid just turned out to be a regular cis girl they’d be fine.

    • @kickyourhead1910
      @kickyourhead1910 3 года назад +23

      @Book E Because they are. At least, right now, their identity might change sure, but right now yeah they identify as nonbinary and I think we should respect that.

    • @kickyourhead1910
      @kickyourhead1910 3 года назад +19

      @Book E Sir just do your research look into “sex vs. gender”, “the gender spectrum”, and “intersex” because science proves nonbinary identities and frankly I don’t have time to educate you today but there are plenty of scientific studies you can find on it. Happy researching!

    • @akirekory1277
      @akirekory1277 3 года назад +25

      Gender norms are very toxic.

  • @gwynnew317
    @gwynnew317 8 дней назад +16

    It's been 4 years. I wonder how this has worked out. I feel sorry for these children.

  • @filips989
    @filips989 Год назад +5885

    "I want to look and dress like a girl (and am one), but she/her pronouns don't fit me" is 100% not something a 10 year old comes up with on their own.

    • @Jonathan-kv3rn
      @Jonathan-kv3rn Год назад +126

      I agree

    • @pokipineapple5377
      @pokipineapple5377 Год назад +124

      Uhh.. yeah, it absolutely could be? I know multiple trans people, even ones with VERY conservative households who felt dysphoric at a young age. Also hate to break it to you, there will always be influences outside of the home where kids learn things.

    • @meria2082
      @meria2082 Год назад +64

      I’d say it’s not 100%. I know an 11 year old who identifies as a gender that is not the one he was born with. Sure, kids at that age are more likely to mistake something else for dysphoria, but there’s also a chance it’s real. In this case, though, I’m a bit more skeptical because of how they’re being raised

    • @amo2464
      @amo2464 Год назад +255

      @@pokipineapple5377 the way in which she articulates herself makes clear that she is regurgitating phrases and sentiments uttered by her parents. Her way of conceptualising identity is absolutely not what we would expect of a 10 year old who has been left to decipher these ideas alone

    • @crazykindor6439
      @crazykindor6439 Год назад +24

      For contraditory that it may be, those kids may rebel against their caregivers when they reach puberty, and that means that they may turn out to be good christian girls 😁

  • @camfranson1194
    @camfranson1194 2 года назад +6365

    I love how they act like they haven’t indoctrinated their kids into this.

    • @RSTEM
      @RSTEM 2 года назад +80

      They definitely hold daily meetings to brainwash them

    • @camfranson1194
      @camfranson1194 2 года назад +29

      @Morgue VØID well I thought those things were kind of baked into the pie as well when I said indoctrination but yes, you’re correct

    • @blackflag5148
      @blackflag5148 2 года назад +260

      This is child abuse.

    • @lanedropify
      @lanedropify 2 года назад +116

      It’s truly upsetting.

    • @nwesterbeckmaster
      @nwesterbeckmaster 2 года назад +102

      Yeah, somehow they fail to realize that it's not just coincidence that all of their kids conform precisely to how they expect them to be, and how they view the world. Or maybe they do fully realize it, and are doing it on purpose.

  • @sammirolo
    @sammirolo 3 года назад +3405

    When my son was 3, 4 years old he wanted his nails painted. He dressed up in his sisters play clothes. He loved it. It was fun. However, not once did I think - nor did he - that this meant he was actually a female. It was just a kid...being a kid...playing around. Doing things he saw his sister and I do - and wanting to take part. He is now 16, has a girlfriend, plays football and very much identifies as a male. I cannot imagine the extent of the damage thats done to children who are encouraged to transition at such a young age because they showed interest in something that is considered to be a male or female thing.

    • @sovietunion6530
      @sovietunion6530 3 года назад +2

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    • @naomiri3837
      @naomiri3837 3 года назад +248

      sammirolo SAMEEEE im so proud of you!! When i was a little girl i was more into the colours blue, black and green, so when i went shopping with my mum i always loved to buy the boys clothes, bc the clothes for girls has always been pink, yellow, white, i wasnt into that "girly" stuff... And she let me buy without ever telling me that this was for boys and i shouldnt wear it. This is just one example, today im 21 i love pink and i love being a woman, i think it was the best thing of my parents just let me do, so you did a great job with your son i bet hes handsome👍👍👍

    • @blaccoreo3110
      @blaccoreo3110 3 года назад +105

      Wow, a sensible and unbiased comment? Shocking

    • @Simplyarlenealvarez
      @Simplyarlenealvarez 3 года назад +94

      My mom told me that I once tried to pee standing up when I was about 3 years old…she corrected me/taught me that I don’t have the boy part because I am a girl and that I should sit to pee….I had an older brother 1 year older than me…so yeah, I wanted to do the same things he did. Yes, it is sad how kids are influenced to make such a life changing decision at such young age for what is most likely a temporary like or interest or curiosity. In my example, I was a child wanting to copy her sibling and do other stuff like her older brother with whom she spent most her 3 years of life with. As to games and toys, I was never told anything for playing with toy cars, being a bit “rough” lol (I mostly had boy cousins). I was a bit of both lol. Never once heard parents make the distinction of activities…my mom only pointed out the peeing incident because…well…it would have been messy lol. 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @vivekpatil7376
      @vivekpatil7376 3 года назад +4

      True.

  • @MartyHornbeck
    @MartyHornbeck День назад +7

    Ok that’s enough internet for today

  • @юля-ч3у
    @юля-ч3у 4 года назад +4084

    Just because a man is feminine doesn't mean they are all of a sudden a women. Just because a women is more masculine doesn't mean shes male. My problem is is that they mistake they're gender for they're personality and traits. For example, I'm a women and I can be into pretty masculine things sometimes. But sometimes i enjoy a lot of feminine things. This doesn't make me gender fluid though. 🤦‍♀️

    • @midnightfox5684
      @midnightfox5684 4 года назад +65

      Yeah

    • @bossfrog
      @bossfrog 4 года назад +436

      Exactly. It's like they expect men and women to fit into this tiny little box of what you can and can't like, and if you differ from that you're something else entirely. Women can like masculine things and men can like feminine things, but it doesn't mean you're trans, or something "in-between", it just means you're a unique human being.

    • @isabelfabbri1348
      @isabelfabbri1348 4 года назад +200

      I 100% agree with this! No hate, you are biologically born with natural traits. What your character is does not define ur gender.

    • @oneikascott8806
      @oneikascott8806 4 года назад +103

      these ppl are 100% crazy!

    • @nicnica
      @nicnica 4 года назад +149

      I was boyish when I was a kid til I was a teenager, if they were my parents I’d probably have taken hormones to become male lol

  • @karacreswell8437
    @karacreswell8437 3 года назад +3646

    Wow….it must be tiring to be so overwhelmingly obsessed with gender and labels.

    • @itzhope3787
      @itzhope3787 3 года назад +23

      Fr

    • @micahsaldana3625
      @micahsaldana3625 3 года назад +192

      It's become their religion.

    • @SlushynSlurpy
      @SlushynSlurpy 3 года назад +11

      Right

    • @Appleby-rm6bz
      @Appleby-rm6bz 3 года назад +12

      Facts

    • @lisadoyle2284
      @lisadoyle2284 3 года назад +155

      Right? I mean for people who say they don't like labels, they try to label everything. Also, IMO, this is psychological abuse. The children, wanting to please their parents are going to exhibit behavior they know will make their parents happy at the expense of their own feelings.

  • @patch3938
    @patch3938 3 года назад +4087

    No child is going to be thinking about gender unless you constantly talk about it, teach it, debate it, etc. I feel so bad for these kids. Letting a child "take the lead" will lead to nothing but failure. Children need guidance. This does not mean you're controlling, but considering all I wanted to do at 7 was ride my scooter at the park and collect Pokemon cards, i can't say I would have been a good teacher for myself.

    • @veero8130
      @veero8130 3 года назад +46

      Very true 🙏🏼

    • @BlaBla-rx7yl
      @BlaBla-rx7yl 3 года назад +66

      EXACTLY!! These people brainwash and confuse kids

    • @chaoticcollisions5328
      @chaoticcollisions5328 3 года назад +43

      But how will it lead to failure i mean by letting your child choose instead of forcing them to dress girly or boyish based on there gender i think its a great idea. Because they can dress and act how ever they want and be comfortable wearing what ever and thoughts like “ i cant wear this cause im not a boy/girl” doesn’t cross there mind. So they get to experiment with what they like and when the time comes and they choose to officially decide then they kind of get that direction on how to proceed

    • @sukaenacornelius9285
      @sukaenacornelius9285 3 года назад +95

      As mother and homeschool teacher of four boys all ten and under… this is disgusting to me. I hope my children are never around such adults. I hope they grow into men like their father.

    • @sukaenacornelius9285
      @sukaenacornelius9285 3 года назад +44

      @@chaoticcollisions5328 No for one.. the world needs boys to become masculine men, and the world needs women to be actual feminine women. The world doesn’t need confusion and enabling of children to make decisions that could ruin their child hood. As a mother of boys I would never let my children drive, smoke, or drink alcohol if they asked because they aren’t old enough and its not healthy, never mind become a girl or for the rest of their childhood just because their growing brains have an impulse sense of curiosity and imagination which needs guidance not enabling. I’m not gonna let some overly pretentious and self righteous ideology contaminate my children or the children in the rest of my family with confusion, entitlement and risks that far out weigh any plausible benefit. My husband and I are going to raise them as men, because the world needs masculine, intelligent and God fearing men, real women need them too. And If I had a daughter I would raise and teach her to be an intelligent feminine and Christ loving woman who knows to take care of a man and family the right way and pass our values and love for Christ on to the next generation.

  • @tomtom3704
    @tomtom3704 15 дней назад +4

    So if gender roles don’t matter to them; why then are the two grown men wearing what is considered to be feminine attires and the woman wearing more masculine ones.

  • @aimeeh.29
    @aimeeh.29 2 года назад +4663

    Please do a “where are they now” series of all these folks in like 10 years. This would be interesting to see how the kids are as a young adult about age 20 and how their prospection changed (people change as they grow older).

    • @flatearth9140
      @flatearth9140 2 года назад +54

      ONE IS A SERIAL KILLER AND THE OTHER IS THE LEADER OF BLM AND THERES A PRESIDENT TO BE SOON TOO

    • @svietka202
      @svietka202 2 года назад +52

      They r probably sadly will be dead from suicide

    • @shaunnibrown9
      @shaunnibrown9 2 года назад +45

      Literally copied the first half of your comment from someone else.

    • @Littlemouse884
      @Littlemouse884 2 года назад +35

      Ones a librarian the other has a blog on how to make the perfect school lunches and the other one is a carpainter

    • @bmk256
      @bmk256 2 года назад +18

      did u just say prospection

  • @ajarraccoon7660
    @ajarraccoon7660 4 года назад +3546

    Nice way to label your kids while trying to “not label them”

    • @stevendalipis1176
      @stevendalipis1176 3 года назад +16

      @Jan Krynicky I applaud you.... I thought it was a spectrum of gender identities that are not exclusively male or female... trying to understand the confusion....

    • @AllAboutPurple
      @AllAboutPurple 3 года назад +52

      @@stevendalipis1176 that’s still a label 😂😂

    • @stevendalipis1176
      @stevendalipis1176 3 года назад

      @@AllAboutPurple great to know

    • @noriii
      @noriii 3 года назад +1

      @Jan Krynicky ok

    • @The_Primary_Axiom
      @The_Primary_Axiom 3 года назад +67

      @@stevendalipis1176 Non-binary is a label lol. Don't you see? Raising your kids and pretending they don't have a gender it can confuse the brain, hormones and body. It can seriously ruin them or make them into a man that thinks he's a woman or vise versa. It's no different than somebody realizing he's a woman in a man's body. Now he's a man/woman and confused what he is. How can't people not see it? Raising children Non-binary has its own effect that effect is a label called non-binary.

  • @CCLyssCC
    @CCLyssCC 3 года назад +2240

    By doing this, it makes them more obsessed with gender actually. Do they not know, you can let your kids do and play with and however they want and it has nothing to do with gender. Why do they feel the need to confuse them?

    • @pinkgummybear766
      @pinkgummybear766 3 года назад +81

      Satan that’s why

    • @amandanelson4252
      @amandanelson4252 3 года назад +2

      Good question

    • @reafaasa8065
      @reafaasa8065 3 года назад +12

      @hi I think there kids are both girls

    • @RetroLuv_
      @RetroLuv_ 3 года назад +20

      Yea that’s little girl shouldn’t even know these things at her age and I’m sure she never shuts up about it and all the other kids hate her

    • @mommar4858
      @mommar4858 3 года назад +11

      Gender becomes an explicit (aware) focus instead of an implicit (unaware) assumption.

  • @suejune8
    @suejune8 Месяц назад +3

    I feel like your child is either a boy or a girl, but you should teach them that they can still do whatever interests them regardless of their gender. That would be better than this. Example: your daughter wants a monster truck or your son wants a Barbie, you allow it. Why so many people need to make it this complicated is beyond me.

  • @Mina-ti9nh
    @Mina-ti9nh 4 года назад +1676

    I honestly feel like, they are setting their children up for fail. They are self projecting themselves onto their kids which is ironic . The next generation is gonna be very interesting. As for them being poly well that's their business it's not for me. However I hope the children don't feel confused and overwhelmed. I feel like these kids are gonna need serious therapy in the future . Society will pick them apart and I feel like their parents haven't really prepared them for that . I also believe they are putting too much responsibility on their kids. Why can't parents just be in the middle not closeminded but not too liberal.

    • @undeadend
      @undeadend 4 года назад +144

      and when the kids need therapy, the parents are going to blame the rest of the world and take zero responsibility. those kids didnt choose their identity, the parents chose it for them.

    • @danielp7810
      @danielp7810 4 года назад +18

      You’re not wrong.

    • @Mina-ti9nh
      @Mina-ti9nh 4 года назад +44

      @@undeadend I completely agree with you. The children haven't picked anything their parents nudged them in a certain direction. they do not know any better. And are going with what they see . This is damaging and so is forcing your children to be something they don't want to be. But at the end of the day it's set in stone now. I just hope the children will be ok.

    • @cremebrulee419
      @cremebrulee419 4 года назад +35

      @@Mina-ti9nh I agree 100%.
      And as horrible a person I may sound like right now, I really dislike this whole thing. Poly relationship, fine. 3 parents, the more the merrier. The gender fluidity of the parents, whatever makes you happy. But to put that on a child who, as you've mentioned, know no better is really really terrible in my opinion. Those children should absolutely have the right to choose how they live their life, but when the time is right! Why muddle everything for them right from the start? :(

    • @niconeuner207
      @niconeuner207 4 года назад

      Self projecting on kids is what parents do thats the thing children learn from theor parents just because they learn something different what you dont understand makes the kids not needing a therapy. And if they get picked at its not the parents fault its the fault of the other parents teaching theor kids that there is only black and white in this world that boys have do be blue and girls habe to be pink. So nit the parents are doing the wrong thing, yes it is controversial but nothing new. And there is no middle someone always have to say something against sossdndn

  • @nachobusiness8985
    @nachobusiness8985 4 года назад +3678

    I personally just think this type of situation would be confusing for a child of young age

    • @finneganaj81
      @finneganaj81 4 года назад +54

      how is letting them choose, how long their hair is, what they wear, what they go by and so on making their life more confusing in any way? by letting them have more options?? what's confusing about it? oh oh no I don't know if I should wear a dress or pants have mercy!!! I won't know who to play with on the playground because I'll be in a dress and have short hair that I choose myself and wasn't given to me like the other kids OH NO!!

    • @nachobusiness8985
      @nachobusiness8985 4 года назад +211

      @@finneganaj81 calm down keyboard warrior I was referring to the parents situation they have going on in addition to the parenting style it would be a bit much for any child let alone one that’s very young the gender choosing and such should come later when they’re older and have a better understanding of who they are toddlers believe they can fly if you tell them they can so no they really shouldn’t be deciding what gender they are or identify as for all you know they’ll say they’re a cheeseburger

    • @CouchMan88
      @CouchMan88 4 года назад +129

      It’s confusing for me as a grown man because I’m not an insane person.

    • @finneganaj81
      @finneganaj81 4 года назад +10

      @@nachobusiness8985 cheeseburger isn't a gender kids may lack knowledge but they know that it's not possible to be a dead cow on bread cover in ketchup and mustard, and so your saying we should just continue GIVING them a "gender", gender meaning gender expression like how long your hair is what you wear and you name, you know the thing that aren't permanent and are supposed to represent who you are

    • @finneganaj81
      @finneganaj81 4 года назад +13

      @@CouchMan88 of course it would be confusing/unfamiliar to you because you did not grow up around it, it's not insanity to let your kids pick what they want to wear and how long their hair is and what their name is

  • @TheJonkler2024
    @TheJonkler2024 3 года назад +2501

    *hides the like/dislike ratio*
    Comment section: "Fine. I'll do it myself."

    • @fatonyalmitchell3281
      @fatonyalmitchell3281 3 года назад +4

      I don't get the joke 😅🤷

    • @TheJonkler2024
      @TheJonkler2024 3 года назад +50

      @@fatonyalmitchell3281 they disabled the like dislike ratio, so people are commenting instead. They took a half measure

    • @Clarkster55
      @Clarkster55 3 года назад +13

      @@TheJonkler2024 Ahhhh...thanks for telling us that. I was wondering why my dislike button wasn't working. I guess it's kinda like "everyone's a winner. Everyone gets a trophy!" No opposing emoji...sad.

    • @justatransdudett7009
      @justatransdudett7009 3 года назад +3

      @domenique devon the shouldnt 😑

    • @saddlebagssally4692
      @saddlebagssally4692 3 года назад +12

      @@justatransdudett7009 Nothing wrong with being a part of the LGBTQ community...but everything in this video gave me predator vibes. These people are not right in the head. At all. And people are allowed to have an opinion that doesn't match yours.

  • @Heather-g1y8u
    @Heather-g1y8u День назад +2

    This actually scares me. Frightening

  • @Ehlaar
    @Ehlaar 4 года назад +3633

    There will be a documentary years later on families who practiced this and how it affected them years later I hope I am alive to watch it because it’s going to be wild.

    • @jeremywaygay
      @jeremywaygay 3 года назад +97

      yeah really wild!!!!! a bunch of people saying "man im so glad i wasn't enforced to be one thing for all my life, and that my parents gave me autonomy over my identity and who i knew myself to be."

    • @yamakensama7595
      @yamakensama7595 3 года назад +1

      Sie mal

    • @melissateodola1887
      @melissateodola1887 3 года назад +38

      By then the robots will have become the rulers of the world and taken humans into slavery.

    • @jeremywaygay
      @jeremywaygay 3 года назад +31

      @@CapitanNaufrago by your logic a trans kid in a cis household is pressured into being cis....oh wait. That's already a common thing bc of cisnormativity and transphobia lol. But that isn't the case here. This is going AGAINST the notion of forcing a child into a gender they later may not want.

    • @nathanieldelacruz7198
      @nathanieldelacruz7198 3 года назад +82

      @@jeremywaygay not labelling something is a problem, and forcing someone to change their label is problem too. Forcing Twitter Woking to a child is a problem, its obvious that the parent wants them to be unique for letting them be genderless, even humans have natural gender behavior that can transition to a new behavior.

  • @danielbaker4940
    @danielbaker4940 3 месяца назад +918

    Ruin your kids lifes without saying it.

    • @VelvetRose-444P
      @VelvetRose-444P 2 месяца назад

      lol look at the 3 of them 😂 I really can’t wait to see the future for all this sh**. Those kids will loathe them eventually.

    • @Oosama22
      @Oosama22 2 месяца назад +4

      Fr

    • @mic-drop-74
      @mic-drop-74 2 месяца назад +3

      The mindjob these people have gotten is crazy

    • @Zack29810
      @Zack29810 2 месяца назад

      *lives
      I agree with you though.

    • @ninjagirl7424
      @ninjagirl7424 2 месяца назад

      Watching this november 2024 are these people okay 👌

  • @I_am_milan
    @I_am_milan 3 года назад +1589

    You homeschool the kids. They don't interact with the outside world. How will they figure out their own gender identity and get back to you with the info.

    • @phoebewilson6739
      @phoebewilson6739 3 года назад +50

      How do you know they don't interact with the outside world? Plenty of homeschooled children have homeschool groups or have extracurricular activities. Also they don't necessarily need to go outside to find their gender identity sure it would probably be helpful and yes they need to anyway but their gender is something that they have to figure out themselves and the only reason it would be helpful to talk to a bunch of people is to 1 here there experience (easily can be done over the internet) and 2 help them experiment and call them different pronouns (easily could use their families for this) but in any case I can garentee you that they interact with the outside world plenty.

    • @desirecastle-cross9831
      @desirecastle-cross9831 3 года назад +18

      woah they said they arent allowed to know people outside the home? when did they say that? timestamp it for me

    • @DarthLesbian
      @DarthLesbian 3 года назад +118

      @@desirecastle-cross9831 They're probably only allowed to interact with other cult members. Sending them to school would risk them being exposed to ideas the cult doesn't approve of.

    • @desirecastle-cross9831
      @desirecastle-cross9831 3 года назад +10

      @@DarthLesbian lol

    • @I_am_milan
      @I_am_milan 3 года назад +7

      @@DarthLesbian 🤭🤭🤭

  • @esmeraldagems9487
    @esmeraldagems9487 28 дней назад +4

    If they're in a polygamous relationship with her but dress like women. So are these men the biological father of the girls? Or just helping her raise them?
    I'm so confused??

  • @alicet23at
    @alicet23at 4 года назад +3050

    Would have really liked to hear the other two parents talk more

    • @Candicedickinsonllc
      @Candicedickinsonllc 4 года назад +37

      same

    • @haesnuts
      @haesnuts 4 года назад +36

      They did talk though-

    • @morikofki5404
      @morikofki5404 4 года назад +14

      Did you not watch the video?

    • @lyricmoss2090
      @lyricmoss2090 4 года назад +262

      @@haesnuts they only talked one time during the whole vid lmao 😂 that’s what her point was

    • @nataliew1918
      @nataliew1918 4 года назад +12

      They all talked. Ari just did most of the talking.

  • @vtcelt
    @vtcelt 3 года назад +2072

    I’m glad my dad doesn’t have internet. His head would explode watching this

    • @graceburnett7310
      @graceburnett7310 3 года назад +64

      Just showed my dad. His almost did.

    • @vtcelt
      @vtcelt 3 года назад +9

      @Isha 🤣. It’s not 1950 anymore that’s for sure

    • @mai0033
      @mai0033 3 года назад +3

      😅😅😅same lmao

    • @Eddiedoc
      @Eddiedoc 3 года назад +2

      Brilliant pmsl

    • @zh2266
      @zh2266 3 года назад +22

      I don't even have a dad and he'd be livid!!

  • @llisagomez5706
    @llisagomez5706 Год назад +4040

    Notice how they don’t want them schooled publicly because then they will hear other opinions. They want to keep them uneducated so they will be receptive to only what they hear from the parent. This is classic abuse in any relationship. Keep the victim isolated. These kids need rescuing

    • @Karmen2010
      @Karmen2010 Год назад +171

      And the real world is scary. These kids have a rude awakening when they get out in society and this trio won't be able to stop it.

    • @audrasupernova
      @audrasupernova Год назад

      Fundamentalist Catholicism and Christianity is the biggest, most documented child s*x trafficking ring

    • @adrianharrison5208
      @adrianharrison5208 Год назад +36

      You need to go and talk to some people who are home schooling or have been home schooled, I know a few myself and your opinion is way off the mark

    • @skycat1350
      @skycat1350 Год назад +33

      @@audrasupernova that’s different, someone got stoned to death for being a Christian

    • @HeidisHereAndThere
      @HeidisHereAndThere Год назад +12

      ​@@audrasupernova
      🤔 How is that?

  • @AiraSanchez-g5b
    @AiraSanchez-g5b 16 дней назад +5

    That kid doesn’t know what she’s saying they taught her. Lol
    You guys are sick. Poor kids.

  • @hodgelive
    @hodgelive 3 года назад +3123

    For someone who doesn’t believe in gender roles, they sure seem to have distinct clothing choices.

    • @Sarah-fj2sb
      @Sarah-fj2sb 3 года назад +14

      What do you mean?

    • @hodgelive
      @hodgelive 3 года назад +169

      @@Sarah-fj2sb one of the parents is literally wearing a dress.

    • @kevinbumgardner3553
      @kevinbumgardner3553 3 года назад +33

      @@hodgelive im sure they're people who believe clothing doesn't have to do with gender.

    • @sage_leaf2546
      @sage_leaf2546 3 года назад +88

      Clothing doesn’t have a gender 👌

    • @hodgelive
      @hodgelive 3 года назад +207

      @@kevinbumgardner3553 then why would someone who claims to be against/dismiss the socially constructed stereotypes participate in them? I mean obviously they can wear whatever they want but I would think gender neutral clothing would be the best example if you were raising your children to dismiss cultural norms.

  • @harrish619
    @harrish619 2 года назад +3814

    What a strange times we live in. I feel bad for the kids.

    • @mildlycurious8333
      @mildlycurious8333 2 года назад +209

      @traduzyh woke

    • @shangeorge2520
      @shangeorge2520 2 года назад

      We are in endtimes satan trying to deceive many people Jesus is the only way

    • @yanijen9733
      @yanijen9733 2 года назад +196

      @t r y s cringe

    • @obama1620
      @obama1620 2 года назад

      @traduzyhyou make me sick

    • @mattynek2
      @mattynek2 Год назад +117

      @t r y s Cope and seethe

  • @dr4876
    @dr4876 2 года назад +4176

    "If my children don't want to go to school, it's their choice"
    That upset me. Children need guidance. There are just some things children shouldn't be able to choose on their own, as it severely affects their future.
    I hope these kids get out of this madness as quickly as possible. This isn't tolerable in any way.

    • @PatchedThePipe
      @PatchedThePipe 2 года назад +174

      Agreed, I think I'd have probably chosen to not go to school most days and stayed home to be a pirate! Parenting is a role, one of guidance/teacher/protecter/provider... the parent makes choices for the child until they are old enough to understand what they are choosing. These adults can do what they want, I genuinely have no opinion of how they choose to live, I do think they are robbing these kids of a normal childhood mainly due to their own egos & selfish reasons. I think it's clear these kids get love but there's so many worrying red flags in this household but the silent majority are labelled for having an opinion

    • @nemoniewide8899
      @nemoniewide8899 2 года назад +21

      Agree

    • @yogalover2753
      @yogalover2753 2 года назад +65

      Exactly because that's how kids end up becoming homeless when they get older and even if they do get a job, it's most likely going to be working at a restaurant as a server.

    • @nemoniewide8899
      @nemoniewide8899 2 года назад +30

      @@yogalover2753 I know I feel sorry for those kids they should not be raised like that that’s how kids get bullied at school

    • @yogalover2753
      @yogalover2753 2 года назад +22

      @@nemoniewide8899 It's not the fact they're raising their children without a gender because there's nothing wrong with being non binary. I just don't think they should get to choose whether they do school or not because school is very important. Besides that it's not as common to get bullied for something like this as it used to be and even if they do get bullied for it, most people would have stood up for them.

  • @stevenewman6391
    @stevenewman6391 Месяц назад +6

    These "parents" are absolutely vile.

  • @mikedavies4561
    @mikedavies4561 3 года назад +1969

    "How and why did you decide to come out as non binary"
    Because my parents talk about it 24 hours a day and I was easily influencd

    • @thisworldiswonka
      @thisworldiswonka 3 года назад +21

      Yet they just said it's hardly what they talk about. Did you even watch the video

    • @thisworldiswonka
      @thisworldiswonka 3 года назад +11

      And Hazel said themselves they are non binary that's why they came to this way of parenting

    • @guro_gutz
      @guro_gutz 3 года назад +18

      LMAOOOOO FR

    • @Ori--pw5vw
      @Ori--pw5vw 3 года назад +2

      lmao

    • @obamalastname34
      @obamalastname34 3 года назад +2

      Better be influenced to be a men or women.

  • @sea1tie1
    @sea1tie1 3 года назад +1874

    So I'm not straight, but also...this seems just, too extra. Raising your child in an accepting environment should be good enough, but like having your child think about gender at that early of an age? This seems just like for show.

    • @amberrendon8520
      @amberrendon8520 3 года назад +35

      This 👌🏻

    • @jeremywaygay
      @jeremywaygay 3 года назад +36

      but that's the thing,,,trans kids DO often think about gender when they're young.

    • @jeremywaygay
      @jeremywaygay 3 года назад +39

      @@mxraeditz5597 i dont get what harm yall are seeing. the 2 year old doesn't know yet, so they decided to treat them as genderless until they eventually figure themselves out. its not like they're being taken to do surgeries or hormones or smth lol. its just letting kids express themselves without binary/cis-centric barriers.

    • @melissateodola1887
      @melissateodola1887 3 года назад +31

      Way in the past parents didnt differentiate their children by gender until they were older. That's why boys would wear the same clothing as girls. Nowadays, baby clothes are extremely gendered when it's not necessary.

    • @btbente8143
      @btbente8143 3 года назад +16

      Kids know so much more than adults think. Kids can see the difference in a man or woman. And see how people react to that.
      While seeing all the other reactions people are scared to what happens with these children. While over the world nobody has got it right. Every parent screws something up. Just be open for al the different styles of parenting. And give critic/feedback in a respectfull way

  • @memeadil1904
    @memeadil1904 4 года назад +730

    What im more concerned about is that the kids basically are getting no education they said they do less than a HOUR a day.

    • @thelastmoonchild.
      @thelastmoonchild. 4 года назад +52

      And the parents said they follow the kids lead in schooling.... uh.. what?!

    • @leijolie
      @leijolie 4 года назад +6

      "outside of academics" youre selective hearing is so bad

    • @memeadil1904
      @memeadil1904 4 года назад +5

      @@leijolie what are you talking about

    • @leijolie
      @leijolie 4 года назад +4

      @@memeadil1904 why don’t you watch the vid again instead of asking if youre so confused lol

    • @-itschetachi-1159
      @-itschetachi-1159 3 года назад +7

      @@leijolie So hostile...

  • @MilwaukeeMarco
    @MilwaukeeMarco Месяц назад +3

    I'm nowhere near homophobic but y'all need some help real help

  • @squizzyicetea
    @squizzyicetea 3 года назад +2373

    Can't imagine why they turned off the dislikes

    • @Guthix198
      @Guthix198 3 года назад +85

      Child abuse

    • @masinalima
      @masinalima 3 года назад

      nicolai mcolai what is

    • @paulondawula1011
      @paulondawula1011 3 года назад +52

      Shocked that the comments haven't been disabled though.

    • @carlontollette4832
      @carlontollette4832 3 года назад +5

      @@Guthix198 its not child abuse

    • @tacobirb_lover2228
      @tacobirb_lover2228 3 года назад +5

      @@Guthix198 it’s not child abuse it is called being a good parent

  • @Nephridiliel
    @Nephridiliel 3 года назад +2625

    The obsession with gender those people display is psychotic and its amazing how they still manage to enforce the "silent, passive wifey - dominant, outspoken hubby" 50s cliché

    • @ninaorozco2869
      @ninaorozco2869 3 года назад +95

      That is because they only care about asthetics. I am a stay at home,, homeschooling mama. We are quite traditional as well. I feel like they only focus on the outside. I wish they could take some or all of my womanly issues and pain that goes along with it. They may rethink it lols...

    • @cristoferjimenez8126
      @cristoferjimenez8126 3 года назад +5

      You cute but that profile pic 🤣

    • @Nephridiliel
      @Nephridiliel 3 года назад +35

      @@cristoferjimenez8126 Makes me stunning, right? XD

    • @Trump4ever25
      @Trump4ever25 3 года назад +75

      Except now the dudes try to look like women (yikes!) and the woman trys to look like a dude (double yikes!) I don't want to even imagine what intimacy is like with this trio. I seriously can't figure out how in the hell people have become so fu@ked up in this world. It's gotta be the water. Those kids off camera are likely shitting themselves growing up in that mess. Lord have mercy.

    • @carly582
      @carly582 3 года назад +12

      Not trying to be sexist....But is this two transgender women and a lesbian? So there's no husbands

  • @whatsup8992
    @whatsup8992 3 года назад +1726

    You don’t want your children to be labelled but that’s what you’re doing

    • @Wurmss
      @Wurmss 3 года назад +21

      I don't think it's that the don't want them to be labeled more so they don't want a label that isn't correct forced onto them

    • @whatsup8992
      @whatsup8992 3 года назад +17

      @@Wurmss also non-binary is technically a gender

    • @Wurmss
      @Wurmss 3 года назад +7

      @@whatsup8992 I never said it wasn't

    • @whatsup8992
      @whatsup8992 3 года назад +3

      @@Wurmss yeah fair enough

    • @janinebelleestrada7096
      @janinebelleestrada7096 3 года назад +4

      The trannies at the town square salon has more wisdom to give than some modern kid who thinks deleting genders will solve problems.
      They will just simply say that being trans is a choice and not everyone has to do it involuntarily. Its not because of hype or social media but because deep down they know they want to be born as a woman but that didn't cause any problems because like everyone else in my town. Everyone needs to work to live and to eat and some of them were married before transitioning and even had kids.
      Madame Sally the oldest of the stylists, has 5 children and all have graduated college and had kids of their own. They even accumulated almost 2 million dollars to build their father her dream house that they promised. So that she could retire from working in the salon for 40+ years.
      she has been flowery ever since the dawn of time and good natured person but has failed in many of her relationships with men. Until she met Constancia, scratch that XD until Constancia started courting her. Her wife did all the things that a man does when courting women old school style. Until she gave in and dated connie. Sally even said that she has never been that happy to wear a grooms attire because she always wanted to wear the gown but to sal it was worth it. He has never been happier. Had kids and grandkids. Maybe s few family problems here and there but thats just the things that happens in families. Though it was really sad that they closed up shop on 2020 because of the pandemic and the saddest thing is that constancia died of covid 19. This year they opened up the salon but sally would just lay in the wooden bed inside the salon all day and sleep.compared to before where she would catwalk around the square for costumers and talking with friends. Well losing your lifetime partner is one of the most tragic thing that could happen to anyone.

  • @Roderick-xb2zb
    @Roderick-xb2zb 2 дня назад +3

    This popped up when looking for ruby franke.

  • @charlotte-xk9fy
    @charlotte-xk9fy 4 года назад +511

    the fact the likes are off says A LOT

    • @marioluigi9599
      @marioluigi9599 3 года назад +19

      There's not much to like. The taller "parent" in the dress actually gave me nightmares. There's something oddly creepy about him. Disgusting

    • @maeve2718
      @maeve2718 3 года назад +3

      @@marioluigi9599 *her

    • @marioluigi9599
      @marioluigi9599 3 года назад +13

      @@maeve2718 well he doesn't sound like it. Nor has he done much of an effort. He just looks like a man in a dress. He's no Blaire white is he?
      I think that person might actually consider themselves "non-binary" like she does, rather than as a "her"

    • @marioluigi9599
      @marioluigi9599 3 года назад +5

      @@maeve2718 so we're both wrong. He's a them😉

    • @maeve2718
      @maeve2718 3 года назад +2

      @@marioluigi9599 you really just said "he's" a them?

  • @graceliagreen5566
    @graceliagreen5566 3 года назад +4459

    She doesn’t realize that she’s actually OBSESSED with gender.

    • @Bippyboi
      @Bippyboi 3 года назад +227

      Quite literally all they talk or think about in that household I guarantee it

    • @dennisjohnson889
      @dennisjohnson889 3 года назад +30

      Exactly.

    • @gloristef
      @gloristef 3 года назад +67

      They. The parents that spoke most uses they/them pronouns

    • @Ιησου̑ςΧριστςΝικά
      @Ιησου̑ςΧριστςΝικά 2 года назад +171

      @@gloristef who cares what she uses

    • @gabbyblaha4721
      @gabbyblaha4721 2 года назад +27

      @@Ιησου̑ςΧριστςΝικάrespect other people

  • @andreazavala4193
    @andreazavala4193 3 года назад +2485

    I was a tomboy. never played with dolls, only played sports with the boys in school. I'm glad my mom didn't confuse me with nonbinary or not assigning me a gender, I was born biologically a female, so that's how they called me, but never told me this is what boys and girls do. My aunt got worried because I was "acting like a boy" and would give me dolls for Xmas and my mom would go "she knows she is a girl, she just like different things, let her be" I knew I was a girl but when you are young you just want to have fun and be a kid. Around 19 i got interested in dating and buying little make-up, naturally starting going out, dating but still my goofy, tomboy side never left me. I don't know what would have happened if i had parents who refused to tell me my biological gender.

    • @laylah150
      @laylah150 3 года назад +61

      comments like this are so dumb.
      you realise trans isn't something new.
      there are 50, 60 70 80 and dead trans ppl. they weren't forced to be trans, as a matter of fact, they spent most their lives hiding their transness.
      similarly, nobody is forcing cis kids (now) to be trans either
      most tomboys now and uo being masculine women, cos transness isn't performative

    • @charmainej4820
      @charmainej4820 3 года назад +375

      @@laylah150 why are you being emotional. This person didn't attack anyone and you are being defensive.

    • @regakiller7571
      @regakiller7571 3 года назад +298

      @@laylah150 she gave a fairly great point and you are just acting offended because that's something you don't agree with. I do agree with it, stop getting offended over little things.

    • @mightymikeamps9317
      @mightymikeamps9317 3 года назад +163

      @@laylah150 Your comment is extremely dumb and you unwittingly proved her point.

    • @maincharacter2677
      @maincharacter2677 3 года назад +71

      Layla Hassan Shut up. That's all that's needed to be said.

  • @alexisrose1385
    @alexisrose1385 19 дней назад +4

    This is absolutely insane! You cannot live your life through your kids! This is absolutely insane! I feel so bad for these kids!

  • @carmelmcaulay3659
    @carmelmcaulay3659 4 года назад +307

    What irresponsible parents! Home schooling them for 1-2 hours a day....the children are going to be behind on so many things - all because they can’t be bothered which is clearly the case

    • @ayrenbethancourt9379
      @ayrenbethancourt9379 4 года назад +1

      👏👏👏

    • @CADsAnonymous
      @CADsAnonymous 4 года назад +6

      Hazel said she wants to possibly go back to school when the lockdown is lifted, so that could be good.

    • @elenawilliams32
      @elenawilliams32 4 года назад +10

      Yes. The academic disadvantages will follow their careers. The social skills learnt through mixing with peers are invaluable and can't be replaced by parents.

    • @kawaiilette2462
      @kawaiilette2462 4 года назад +6

      the older child will most likely be 2 or 3 grade levels behind when they join the school... I hope they're a fast learner!

    • @altnarrative
      @altnarrative 4 года назад +4

      @@kawaiilette2462 sadly doubtful by looking at her parentage

  • @enily115
    @enily115 2 года назад +2964

    It would be interesting to have a new report with the same family in a few years.

    • @robreadinger5340
      @robreadinger5340 2 года назад +4

      Probably all on meth

    • @jamiejudd7146
      @jamiejudd7146 2 года назад +436

      I bet it'll never happen. They don't want us to see the negative psychological effects this will have on their family/children.

    • @BaysideFL
      @BaysideFL 2 года назад +216

      Doesn’t fit the agenda.

    • @UncleSpicey
      @UncleSpicey 2 года назад +11

      That part

    • @sp-pz8uc
      @sp-pz8uc 2 года назад +10

      I bet their are a lot more now. I don't get why people even care. Children won't do what they don't want to do later anyway.

  • @solideogloria5973
    @solideogloria5973 4 года назад +832

    Children aren't a social experiment. This is their only childhood and rewriting social norms to justify your multiple partner love life is abdicating your parental respond responsibility.

    • @immaleaf4964
      @immaleaf4964 4 года назад +10

      Yup.
      This has been going on for far, far too long, there's a 40+ father that my Nana taught in school how ever many years ago, parents raised him as a girl, took until he was 30 to finally figure things out for himself

    • @wheredidyoucumfrom6588
      @wheredidyoucumfrom6588 4 года назад +15

      should be labelled child abuse

    • @r4ddraven
      @r4ddraven 4 года назад +6

      If ur born a man you are a man... If you're boring and woman you are a woman ..men can't change what God gave you ✝️ Leviticus 18:22

    • @r4ddraven
      @r4ddraven 4 года назад +5

      @Diesel Patches nephew Yes it is but I can't make you believe

    • @JGunit
      @JGunit 4 года назад +5

      @Diesel Patches nephew maybe not, but the lessons are.

  • @skicri008
    @skicri008 20 дней назад +5

    I hope these parents are prosecuted. The children should not be living like they don’t have one, and come to love who they are, because it’s not all about gender. It’s also about self-love. This is just child abuse

  • @lesliecurtis8073
    @lesliecurtis8073 4 года назад +2129

    Whether you say "boy, girl, or nonbinary" the bottom line is they're ALL labels, so saying that you're not assigning a gender doesn't really make sense. Just let them be kids, and instead of creating an issue where there doesn't need to be one, just meet them where they're at if they show signs of struggling with their identity. My point is they're creating an issue where there doesn't need to be one! Also, when it comes to the children's education, or lack thereof they really need to step up their game, because inevitably it will hinder the kids if they choose to go mainstream when they're older.

    • @Cheybot89
      @Cheybot89 4 года назад +106

      Yeah those kids stuck at home listening to only their parents opinions ain’t the healthiest option lol

    • @moneyalways7674
      @moneyalways7674 4 года назад +8

      Leslie Curtis 💯💯💯💯💯

    • @bobbob9364
      @bobbob9364 4 года назад +9

      Yes ,people just raise their kids ,they are the ones that are forcing the issue ,

    • @moby786
      @moby786 4 года назад +4

      100%

    • @Rebecca-tc7mf
      @Rebecca-tc7mf 4 года назад +4

      Amen to that Leslie!

  • @d0r0thy
    @d0r0thy 4 года назад +847

    The irony is that theyre forcing they them pronouns on the children. They're obviously going to get used to it,, hence Hazel being nb. You can raise them with a gender, but you can raise them gender neutral when it comes to items and ideas. And if they come to you and say that their assigned sex does not fit their gender identity then is when you step in. Everyone has a different parenting technique but in the end you think about your children.

    • @LauraAnne95
      @LauraAnne95 4 года назад +14

      💯👏 perfectly worded

    • @brookebixler1040
      @brookebixler1040 4 года назад +4

      Well said! I couldn’t agree more!

    • @amanda-almeida
      @amanda-almeida 4 года назад +11

      Exactly! If anything they’re making the kids’ lives more confusing then they have to be

    • @catapillargirl2021
      @catapillargirl2021 4 года назад +10

      I was trying to write this & I’m too tired. Thanks for doing it justice! Exactly. Kids want to emulate their parents.

    • @gsmith6026
      @gsmith6026 4 года назад +12

      Referring to Hazel as “they” makes it sound like the kid has a mouse in it’s pocket. The child is one person.

  • @walker4322
    @walker4322 3 года назад +1448

    When I was a kid all I cared about was when I could go to my friends house, or get the latest pokemon game, or go to the pool in the summer, I didnt give a thought to "identity"

    • @Pohlmaster
      @Pohlmaster 3 года назад +37

      But others did that.
      There are tons of studies showing that parents treat babies, toddlers and children different depending on the sex of the baby, toddler and children.
      For example:
      Child Gender Influences Paternal Behavior, Language, and Brain Function
      A number of studies argue that parents treat girls and boys differently, and learning theory proposes that parents model and reinforce gender stereotypes in their children (Bandura & Walters,1977; Bussey & Bandura, 1999). For example, some research indicates that mothers talk more (Leaper, Anderson, & Sanders, 1998; MacDonald & Parke, 1984) and are more restrictive of physical risk-taking with daughters (Morrongiello & Hogg, 2004) than with sons. Other research indicates that western fathers and mothers are more elaborative in autobiographical storytelling with girls than boys (Fivush, 2011). Moreover, parents often encourage gender-stereotyped play behavior and household chores and dis- courage gender-atypical behavior (Lytton & Romney, 1991), and both mothers and fathers are more likely to engage in rough and tumble (RTP) play with boys than with girls (McIntyre & Ed- wards, 2009; Paquette & Dumont, 2013; Pellegrini & Smith, 1998). Related lines of research also point to differences in paren- tal behavior related to child social and emotional development. For example, fathers of young children attend more to daughters’ submissive emotional facial expressions (Chaplin, Cole, & Zahn- Waxler, 2005), convey gender stereotypes while discussing emo- tions with their children (van der Pol et al., 2015), and are more likely to express affection and respond to daughters’ pro-social behavior (Hastings, McShane, Parker, & Ladha, 2007).

    • @Pohlmaster
      @Pohlmaster 3 года назад +11

      Or this:
      ‘You'd Be Good at That’: Gender Patterns in Parent-Child Talk about Courses
      Abstract
      This study examined the parent-child dyad as a context in which children's gender-stereotyped course selections are reinforced. Fifty four children from two age groups (Ms = 10.67 and 12.71 years) and their mothers and fathers selected courses for when children reached secondary school. Afterwards, children and parents discussed their decisions. Parents of sons selected fewer foreign language courses than mathematics, language arts or science courses, whereas parents of daughters selected fewer science and foreign language than mathematics or language arts courses. Girls selected fewer science than language arts courses, whereas boys selected fewer foreign language than mathematics or science courses. Although parents' course selections followed gender-stereotyped patterns for language arts and science, their discouraging comments were not confined to cross-gender-stereotyped domains. Instead, parents made more discouraging comments in general to daughters than to sons. Counter to the hypotheses, daughters made more encouraging comments about science courses than did sons while talking to mothers. The findings suggest that parents and children may show gender-differentiated preferences for children before children are old enough to make course decisions.

    • @dinuxplay8003
      @dinuxplay8003 3 года назад +13

      @@Pohlmaster Well, I understand what you are trying to say. There may be obvious parenting differences when it comes to sons and daughters. But how far that comes into effect, is not clearly mentioned in the studies you mentioned. Of course, there was one with the career choices and how parenting affect it. But that is only one variable which comes into play. When in reality, there can be many other factors that lead sons and daughters to have different career choices. This is often innate rather than influenced by the environment. If you take the most equal countries in the world (Scandinavian countries) where they have flattened out gender norms, you can still see a significant amount of men joining the STEM fields rather than men. So to say that, it is because of "parenting" seems like an unfair conclusion rather than logical. Because what it really comes down is to an individual's innate choice. And whatever the angle you look at it, gender-wise there is obviously going to be differences which are not specifically rooted from societal norms. (Leaper, Anderson, & Sanders, 1998; MacDonald & Parke, 1984) - this study you mentioned shows how mothers talk more than the fathers when it comes it to parenting or on general. Then this comes down to how men and women typically behave and it is true that women talk more than men (generally speaking), so is it a societal construct or is it just how the world works? Women are less likely than men to enter professions that are math related. For example, in 1983, women received only 13.2% of all undergraduate degrees in engineering and only 27% of all undergraduate degrees in the physical sciences. In contrast, females received 68% of the undergraduate degrees in psychology and sociology and 75% of the undergraduate degrees in education (Vetter and Babco, 1986). And aslo, IN most of the studies you mentioned, the most effect sizes were found to be nonsignificant and small. That is why these studies often end up with and maybes. But I do have to say that these are credible sources of information that you mentioned. "both mothers and fathers are more likely to engage in rough and tumble (RTP) play with boys than with girls (McIntyre & Ed- wards, 2009; Paquette & Dumont, 2013; Pellegrini & Smith, 1998)"--- the most common reason for is the biological sex differences between boys and girls. Because there are obvious biological differences that might cause a natural tendency to not rumble with little girls. " convey gender stereotypes while discussing emo- tions with their children (van der Pol et al., 2015), and are more likely to express affection and respond to daughters’ pro-social behavior (Hastings, McShane, Parker, & Ladha, 2007)." this has mostly do with the fact the youg girls tend to be more emotional than boys and there is nothing wrong with that, And also I don't understand how it is wrong to attend to your daughter's feelings, plus, if it is actually gonna be of negative effect, how exactly will it be negative for the girl's future?. Because parenting in that situation doesn't seem discriminatory but it does seems do for the boys. the existence of a sex difference in the activation relationship in toddlers: fathers activate their sons more than their daughters.
      Ok I am gonna stop writing for now, because I keep on going. (PS: I don't know, how your comment related to the OPs... lol)

    • @Pohlmaster
      @Pohlmaster 3 года назад +1

      @@dinuxplay8003 „equal country“ doesn’t equal „less gender norms“ big but common mistake

    • @Pohlmaster
      @Pohlmaster 3 года назад +1

      @@dinuxplay8003 Girls are not More emotional than boys. Read the study again.

  • @CindyLeeFortuin
    @CindyLeeFortuin 25 дней назад +4

    Poor kids. I cant even imagine living such a nightmare.

  • @joyoinkenberry8968
    @joyoinkenberry8968 Месяц назад +569

    Why isn’t anyone pointing out the fact that these children are barely educated? They spend less than two hours doing basically whatever they want.

    • @shannenamaya2407
      @shannenamaya2407 Месяц назад +32

      Once they enter society it will be a shock n learning experience....I pray for these children

    • @shmrnt5996
      @shmrnt5996 Месяц назад +19

      Hazel is 100% a girl. I can choose her gender for her.

    • @Near-l6e
      @Near-l6e Месяц назад +8

      They need education so they can actually decide their gender at this point

    • @cutie-44
      @cutie-44 Месяц назад

      ​@@Near-l6eno one decides their gender. GOD THE CREATOR ordained it before we were born. Boy born male, girl born female.

    • @dforgr9257
      @dforgr9257 24 дня назад +4

      One child is a toddler..... They are supposed to play all day long. That is education for them.
      And the older child, who is only 10, is highly articulate and looks like they are actually doing pretty fine, in my opinion. They are still at an age where sitting down for half a day with books and pencils is less effective than learning through other activities and experiences.
      Just because we are used to conventional schools does not mean that alternative teaching methods do not work. On the contrary, childrens' brains develop faster and better with learning through play etc.
      I agree their way of life is amusing. I am not sure what to think of that lifestyle or their choices myself, but at this stages of these kids' lifes, there is no nothing wrong with the educational system they are in.

  • @angelaegan7511
    @angelaegan7511 4 года назад +439

    Fifty years ago I never understood what my parents meant when they constantly said, "what's the world coming to?" Now, after all these years, I get it!

    • @nickabbott319
      @nickabbott319 4 года назад +5

      At least racism isn’t how it used to be all those years ago

    • @nickabbott319
      @nickabbott319 4 года назад +1

      @Purple Strike You feel that way?

    • @nickabbott319
      @nickabbott319 4 года назад +4

      @Purple Strike I get the same racist comments too I get it

    • @fishbonesxx
      @fishbonesxx 4 года назад +12

      @Purple Strike People may be a little racist, but white people are still more privileged and less commonly discriminated against than black people. It isn't okay to be racist, but I think there should be more focus on the race that's actually being oppressed.

    • @fishbonesxx
      @fishbonesxx 4 года назад

      @Purple Strike 🤦‍♂️Oh my God, typo

  • @kitchenmumma7596
    @kitchenmumma7596 3 года назад +1759

    Why can't they just say "OK, you're a girl/boy, but you can dress however you like and have your own interests

    • @avatiede1512
      @avatiede1512 3 года назад +34

      That’s what I thought this was about

    • @peachduck24
      @peachduck24 3 года назад +87

      Exactly obviously let kids dress how they want but stop being over obsessive ab labels

    • @leifashley
      @leifashley 3 года назад +52

      Because people are crazy. So they turn themselves into child psychologists.

    • @ryangrumbles2216
      @ryangrumbles2216 3 года назад +16

      Not part of the radical left narrative.

    • @rat-1567
      @rat-1567 3 года назад +12

      If I ever have kids I will let them be themselves

  • @__-eo9nu
    @__-eo9nu 28 дней назад +4

    I hope cps protects the kids

  • @nfvy8111
    @nfvy8111 4 года назад +608

    It’s actually super ironic that they chose to project and impose their own childhood experiences with dysphoria onto their kids, despite the fact that almost 99% of people are cis. Statistically speaking, their kids would’ve grown up just fine identifying as their sex at birth, but now have to live by a set of arbitrary philosophies that really do nothing but overcomplicate their lives. It’s one thing to shift gears if their kids demonstrated that they had gender dysphoria but to indoctrinate them from birth with this concept of “no gender” is not nearly as progressive as they believe it to be.
    I’m also super curious at how they explained what “feeling like a girl/boy” was like to their kids, as we obviously know that descriptions like “feminine”, “dominate”, “sensitive”, “creative”, etc are obviously not gender-exclusive.

    • @latoyambetshu740
      @latoyambetshu740 4 года назад +35

      Very very very well said and I couldn't agree more

    • @alicehamming4707
      @alicehamming4707 4 года назад +2

      This can only come from someone who never ever had to deal with any of this in real life. You couldn't have been more wrong. Great use of random % too. I'd say that 99% of what you write is born out of ignorance. But it's ok. Judge all you want. One day this will change for all and you will have to accept that gender is only what you teach it to be. Teaching your kids they don't have to fit any box, you call it over complicated, I call it their rights and freedom.
      Don't be scared of this, try to understand and learn. That's all I can ask of you.

    • @thedaileya3786
      @thedaileya3786 4 года назад +37

      @@alicehamming4707 actually gender is not a choice. It's biologically set when the sperm enters the egg. Your chromosomes decide your gender. Xx or xy. And there is no way to change them! Surgery is cosmetic...only. So you can lie to yourself all you want. But science is very clear. Male or female. XX or XY. Simple 4th grade science.

    • @thedaileya3786
      @thedaileya3786 4 года назад +7

      @@emibee3335 gender and sex are the same thing. Anything other than that is confusion. And confusion comes from Satan.

    • @SpoonfulofCinnamon
      @SpoonfulofCinnamon 4 года назад +4

      @@thedaileya3786 wrong. Science shows that there is a lot of variation in gender and sex. People can have external features of one gender and different genetic DNA. As many as 1 in 100 babies is born this way as "intersex." That's millions and millions of people worldwide. We all have different levels if testosterone and estrogen in our bodies.
      That's not to say they will all be transgender, but SCIENCE PROVES THAT NOT EVERYONE IS SIMPLY MALE OR FEMALE.

  • @themetachristian8933
    @themetachristian8933 Год назад +2943

    This is why its really important to meet your kids friends parents

  • @leahgregory889
    @leahgregory889 4 года назад +660

    I feel like the kids don’t feel like it’s okay to just want to be a girl , which is sad !

    • @Snookie222
      @Snookie222 4 года назад

      They have a choice...

    • @BlueBaeChai
      @BlueBaeChai 4 года назад +79

      @@Snookie222 they do.. but their judgment is clouded at the moment being so young, with probably no underlying gender issues, being raised by these people who are self projecting their struggles onto the kids. 🤷🏻‍♀️ who knows.

    • @artepzerimar9916
      @artepzerimar9916 4 года назад +31

      Exactly they're gonna feel like they don't belong anywhere they're just gonna mess them up like them

    • @moneyalways7674
      @moneyalways7674 4 года назад +9

      lee sheckler, also known as child abuse!!!!

    • @libbyhelverson8261
      @libbyhelverson8261 4 года назад +2

      i think y’all shouldn’t have kids if you’re not ready to accept them 🙈

  • @monicakananga1253
    @monicakananga1253 25 дней назад +2

    Im so confused. Im also trying to figure why /who the three people are. Are they like all the parents and they are married? I mean, thats just the beginning of the confusion.

  • @Mandenga100
    @Mandenga100 3 года назад +520

    I am more considered about their education. Not more than two hours a day?

    • @ladyjusticia3438
      @ladyjusticia3438 3 года назад +68

      This!!! They aren’t preparing the children for the world they are going to live in. As if being agender won’t bring them enough bias and issues, simply add illiteracy and lack of social skills to the equation. I don’t know where they live but I think the authorities need to get involved and save those kids from a bunch of confused adults.

    • @HITBnn
      @HITBnn 3 года назад +6

      2 hours isn't enough ?

    • @dethrone_naksam8748
      @dethrone_naksam8748 3 года назад +25

      @PMT schools do better then this family is doing

    • @farmschoolchicks1913
      @farmschoolchicks1913 3 года назад +11

      2 hours is pretty typical for homeschool. Most lessons can be taught in about 15 minutes because it’s one on one teaching. This does not account for time getting “homework” or projects or reports done.
      For example: Saxon math- used in public schools- takes about 5 minutes to teach a daily lesson and then typically the child has it mastered in the next 10-15 minutes of practice and using it.
      History taught through reading literary works, ideas, and projects only takes about 20 minutes to read the story one day and spend 20 minutes per day the rest of the week putting together a presentation on ancient Egypt or whatever.
      Science experiments (like turning an egg into a bouncy ball, slime kits, baking soda and vinegar volcanoes, making play dough, baking, building a fire or going for a nature walk) go much much faster in a one on one setting than they do in a 30 on 1 setting.
      Language arts- 15 minutes reading to yourself, 15 minutes making spelling flash cards, 15 minutes practicing penmanship (when’s the last tome a public school kid actually sat and wrote for 15 minutes straight?), 15 minutes reading out loud while mom does the dishes, etc.
      That’s just the four basic subjects, it leaves a lot of time for additional things like lessons outside the home- sports or music for example- pursuing interests such as creating a business, building computers, learning a foreign language from an early age, and field trips.
      I’m not defending this particular family’s education, because I don’t know what they’re doing, but I will say it’s pretty typical to have 2 hours a day for lessons homeschooling.

    • @big-onions-and-ogres
      @big-onions-and-ogres 3 года назад +4

      That's not uncommon in homeschooling families, learning takes place more efficiently in a one-on-one environment.

  • @EritreanChic
    @EritreanChic 3 года назад +2204

    Can’t wait for a follow up in about 10 years…

    • @den8863
      @den8863 3 года назад +55

      Never in the history of our species has this been done. I sure hope they know what they are doing. I sure hope the kids learn a lot in the 2 hours of homeschooling a day they get. I doubt that is the case.

    • @den8863
      @den8863 3 года назад +63

      I unfortunately have a strong feeling that there will be some suicides happening.

    • @Wertyxl
      @Wertyxl 3 года назад +14

      Everyone slashed themselves and comitted suicide

    • @theuberman7170
      @theuberman7170 3 года назад +45

      Drug addiction, suicide, mental instability

    • @squizzyicetea
      @squizzyicetea 3 года назад +14

      @@den8863 sadly, if someone has genes that make them suceptical to these kinds of hormonal imbalances... do we REALLY NEED them reproducing?!

  • @electroxcolorful
    @electroxcolorful 4 года назад +2279

    The worst thing about this is the name Brynnifer. Idc about the rest.

  • @VillanelleXoX
    @VillanelleXoX 28 дней назад +4

    This video came up when I searched cult? Lol

  • @truh2392
    @truh2392 4 года назад +2220

    A classic example of how parents force their children to be like them

    • @imnotfromthisworld5054
      @imnotfromthisworld5054 4 года назад +13

      No!!

    • @foolishalie
      @foolishalie 4 года назад +80

      You meen like EVERY family Christian family’s race there kids Christian, Muslim families raise ther kids Muslim this family chose to raise ther family there way

    • @TheBarreraLifeStyle
      @TheBarreraLifeStyle 4 года назад +40

      @@imnotfromthisworld5054 yes exactly they say they aren’t forcing their kids but are doing the exact same thing as religions

    • @b.cheese6830
      @b.cheese6830 4 года назад +75

      Don’t bring religion into this bro :|

    • @jadasmith3499
      @jadasmith3499 4 года назад +21

      How they are allowing they’re children to pick which pronouns they wanna go by

  • @HolographicCathawk
    @HolographicCathawk Год назад +1292

    Omg!! Ive met this family! I use to be a waitress at a too jays in orlando. I did my best not to judge them when I saw the man in a dress or when they corrected me for using gendered pronouns for their kids. The thing is....the man in the dress had terrible hygiene....everyone could smell them.
    I really think kids don't have the experience or capacity to make certain choices. I'd be worried about these kids education having some major holes. They need guidance not choices. They should be in school because it doesn't seem like the parents know how to teach properly. I think socialization is also going to be messed up for them staying home with three people who live vastly differently than society. It must be incredibly confusing. These people need therapy.

    • @chrisvaughn5960
      @chrisvaughn5960 Год назад +61

      Amen

    • @flightofthebumblebee9529
      @flightofthebumblebee9529 Год назад +138

      I am queer and male and agree fully. I think certain things should be kept private or at the very least away from children.

    • @michellehaden8003
      @michellehaden8003 Год назад

      AND these "parents" MUST be locked up, their children taken FAR away from them AND each and every one of these achild abusers MUST be placed on a "Child Abuser Registry" just like pedophiles!!! ALSO, these child abusers MUST be sterilized, this way they will never, ever be able to bring a child into this world merely for reasons of abusing them!!! The children MUST have NO interaction, WHATSOEVER with these CHILD ABUSERS!!!IF, the children want to have ANY sort of interaction with these CHILD ABUSERS, then LEGALLY it shouldn't be allowed UNTIL the children are of legal adult age!!! THIS goes for ALL children who are being abused!!! AND for ANYONE who DOSEN'T agree with me, their "feelings" are hurt or they "feel offended", I honestly DON'T CARE!!! THIS IS NOT NOR HAS IT EVER BEEN ABOUT Y O U !!!!! THIS is about ALL of the worlds most innocent and most impressionable people in our world... the children!!!

    • @lindsjg313
      @lindsjg313 Год назад +80

      You got that right. These ppl are insane. They're not doing these kids any favors. Who are the biological parents of these kids? Two of these freak shows? I'm so grossed out

    • @flightofthebumblebee9529
      @flightofthebumblebee9529 Год назад +40

      @@lindsjg313 I'm queer and I kind of agree. This is wrong.

  • @chrisitl
    @chrisitl 3 года назад +757

    No. I'm a mom. Yes i let my child choose toys, clothes that she likes, but I'm not gonna say she is no gender. If anything these people are the ones obsessed over genders lol.

    • @hopper6094
      @hopper6094 3 года назад +5

      Ikr

    • @LilyWohlMezzo-Soprano
      @LilyWohlMezzo-Soprano 3 года назад +16

      Well, all three of them have the shared experience of being forced into the wrong gender identity. There is some breaking of new ground here, but how is it obsessed with gender to NOT prematurely guess your child’s gender and project it onto them? The outside world may be shining a spotlight on them, but I don’t see much focus on gender at home - if anything it’s a de-centering of the false gender binary from their early development.

    • @elliefuller3667
      @elliefuller3667 3 года назад +15

      @@LilyWohlMezzo-Soprano While your comment is very accurate, these people are too closed minded to listen. I wouldn’t waste my breath on those who have a vise grip on outdated binary standards of gender. They will never listen. You gotta talk to the people on the fence, not these folks.

    • @taylorrobert9495
      @taylorrobert9495 3 года назад +6

      Gender is literally made up. No one has gender

    • @hopper6094
      @hopper6094 3 года назад +3

      @@taylorrobert9495 Can you explain please?

  • @walkerbolton2076
    @walkerbolton2076 День назад +1

    It’s horrible if they got death threats but then they read something that wasn’t a threat at all

  • @Cacophony314
    @Cacophony314 2 года назад +4071

    It is heartbreaking to see parents, putting all of their *own fears* into their child.

    • @boombabri
      @boombabri 2 года назад +56

      The most important part is to love and support your child no matter who they are!

    • @user-pt1ok8rg1u
      @user-pt1ok8rg1u 2 года назад +68

      The girl who spoke is clearly a girl or female this pronouns on gender at such a young age is morally wrong in many peoples opinions. Two big dudes in dresses and one woman who dresses and has haircut like average short back and sides man raising a child with love and care is fine no one is disputing that. However they are clearly influcing their children in this behaviour too. That's wrong.

    • @kyzamarrow
      @kyzamarrow 2 года назад +47

      @@user-pt1ok8rg1u Actually those were two trans woman and a Non-Binary Parent. As for the "girl", they're actually Non-Binary as they said in the video.
      Also why do believe their "behavior" to be wrong. Why is raising your kids with gender stereotypes inherently BETTER than without. These parents are just letting their kids grow up in a way that will allow them to be more free with their expression.
      Whether you agree with the idea that you can choose your gender or not is irrelevant to whether these parents are fit to raising kids. They seem pretty good job of it in my opinion. Like I mean I may not agree with religion, but I'm not going to stop parents from raising their kids with it.
      As a society, I think we need to be more open minded to different kinds of parenting approaches and just people all together. I mean because at the end of the day as long as they're not harming their kids and giving as much care and love as possible, isn't that all that really matters?

    • @byrontownsel7274
      @byrontownsel7274 2 года назад

      @@kyzamarrow Non binary is horse crap in adults, but to put that crap on a little child is isanity. Just like taking your kids to drag queens reading is isanity. There was a girl on tik tok saying she was cake-sexual because she has layers. Do you hear how stupid this sounds? Those dudes need to put on some pants, they look like clowns, and whoever the dad I'd needs to raise his daughter without scrambling her brain.

    • @Incognito-ve3re
      @Incognito-ve3re 2 года назад +3

      Fears?????

  • @estelle9738
    @estelle9738 3 года назад +1045

    I read the title and thought it meant that they raised their kids like without traditional gender stereotypes(for example:pink is only for girls) and thought it was nice but then I actually watched the video and I-

  • @pringleswithhair
    @pringleswithhair 4 года назад +843

    I will be back when the comments have done marinating

  • @SerenityNow81
    @SerenityNow81 Месяц назад +2

    How can they push “they/them” pronouns on a 2yr old? It’s not fair to the child