Meet Cameron - How He Saved His Marriage From the Brink of Divorce | "She Was So Cold & Indifferent"

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  • Опубликовано: 16 июл 2024
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    INITIAL SITUATION & HOW THINGS ARE LIKE NOW
    00:00 - Intro To Cameron
    00:41 - How Things Started (The DIVORCE BOMB DROPPED)
    06:54 - How I RUINED My Marriage By DESTROYING Emotional Safety
    10:33 - How Things Are Now (Reconciliation, Affection & Closer Than EVER)
    15:47 - How Society Defines “Reconciliation” Is Completely Toxic & BS!
    22:26 - My Relationship w/ My Children is Completely Transformed Too!
    LEARNING LESSONS
    27:30 - #1: The ONE ROOT Of All Relationship Problems: The Lack of Safety
    29:46 - #2: The Key Signs That Safety is Destroyed
    37:23 - #3: The Subtle Ways We Destroy Safety (Why Most Never Realize Until It’s Too Late)
    41:31 - #4: Why Most Men Can Never Truly “Become Better" (Lack of Knowledge + Victim Mindset)
    46:31 - #5: Why Most Remain Stuck in the Victim Mindset & Live Miserable Lives
    55:04 - #6: Playing Victim will DESTROY Your Marriage (Avoid These Common Victim Mindsets)
    59:06 - #7: BEWARE! Victim Mindset Is HIGHLY Contagious!
    01:03:54 - #8: Why You Can’t Fake Your Changes (Changes Must Be Real, Deep & Permanent)
    01:11:40 - #9: What Creating Safety ACTUALLY Looks Like (What It Actually Takes)
    01:18:22 - #10: Why Most Men FAIL MISERABLY in Creating Safety (Allergy to Resistance)
    01:26:23 - #11: Why Your Partner WILL Test You & Why You MUST Pass Before Reconciling
    01:30:08 - #12: Being a High-Value Man - How Most Men Have NO CLUE What This Means
    SHARING HIS EXPERIENCE WITH THE PROGRAM
    01:38:10 - Comparing The RUclips Videos vs. The Program
    01:40:13 - Your Partner Is ALWAYS Watching Your Changes (Even When She Says She's NOT)
    01:43:28 - Geoffrey, What Are Your Credentials? Why Should I Trust You?
    01:48:34 - Want to Apply For The Relationships Revival Program

Комментарии • 39

  • @GeoffreySetiawan
    @GeoffreySetiawan  Год назад +7

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  • @scaliamotorsports6954
    @scaliamotorsports6954 Год назад +10

    Almost 2 hours. I thought what story takes 2 hours. I have to admit this has been the most resonating “Marriage Saved” process interview videos Geoffrey’s done. Well done Cameron 👍🙏

  • @Johnjohn-187
    @Johnjohn-187 2 месяца назад +2

    We need an update interview of Cameron and his wife please

  • @storm5986
    @storm5986 Год назад +8

    This was an amazing interview. It helped me open my eyes more to the situation I am currently in, I loved the reference to the moles because I am currently and slowly going through the moles.

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  Год назад

      Awesome! Glad it was valuable! Besides the mole example, any other major takeaways that you found eye-opening?

    • @storm5986
      @storm5986 Год назад

      @@GeoffreySetiawan another thing I found was the way I used to masculinity was wrong, I believed it was control, mask emotions and having all the answers what I now see it as being there emotionally instead of just existing in the area. I also now see that I used to only focus on the things that benefit myself instead of what benefits both and what helps her.

  • @cheech381
    @cheech381 Год назад +3

    I really loved this interview. Even though I'm not 100% the same as Cameron. The competition, cup, and overflowing message mentioned by Geoff really hit home. That was brilliant.

  • @chitos2132
    @chitos2132 Год назад +2

    Wow the accidently doing something good hit deep down. Immediately wanted to try it out😅 I'm waking up a little more everyday!

  • @pierreamyot8642
    @pierreamyot8642 Год назад +1

    Very very good interview, very helpful, I recognize myself and my situation so much!! Thank you!

  • @jameseric211
    @jameseric211 9 месяцев назад +1

    This is my favorite of the interviews that I've seen

  • @craighovet
    @craighovet 3 месяца назад

    Another insightful, information filled video. Thank you for sharing Cameron and Geoffrey!

  • @brunogoncalves4484
    @brunogoncalves4484 Год назад

    Another great interview!!!
    A lot of precious info 🙏🙏🙏.
    There is so much that people just don't know...
    With Geoffrey is just another level.
    No bullshit.
    Thank you so much 👍💯

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  Год назад +1

      Thanks brother! We try to give our best for every YT video, and pick our superstar clients for every single interview. Let's goo!!

  • @vncntbrn
    @vncntbrn Год назад +6

    I am just starting rhe changes in me. And I do believe that this process takes a LOT of time. As per my partner, she said she is done, she don't love me anymore, she does not want to talk about us. But we do talk everyday. I learned a lot from this video.

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  Год назад +1

      Great you learned tons! What are your biggest takeaways?

  • @fidelcollazo4262
    @fidelcollazo4262 Год назад +1

    This interview give me hope to become a man that can keep a relationship thank you for showing all your experiences. No more excuses I am going to join

    • @aceshi3173
      @aceshi3173 5 месяцев назад

      Did join and what is the outcome

  • @lukeleonardrasmussen3550
    @lukeleonardrasmussen3550 Месяц назад

    18:44..this is important.
    Process, then outcome

  • @5YungFly
    @5YungFly Год назад +1

    I learned so much in this interview

  • @bobathefett1985
    @bobathefett1985 Год назад +1

    I love this video

  • @bilalanwarb3
    @bilalanwarb3 Год назад +1

    This guy is a legend 🙌

  • @mg_kj
    @mg_kj Год назад

    My husband tells me I’m making him complacent and I’m the reason why he cannot grow, on top of that he doesn’t love me anymore.. he wants a divorce because of that, we’ve been married for a year now

  • @bryanlau8218
    @bryanlau8218 3 месяца назад

    I’m curious how Cameron is doing and if he and his wife are still in a good spot

  • @wadesmith9483
    @wadesmith9483 Год назад +5

    We get impatient about the long term work because it’s hard to stay all chill when another guys hands are on your sweet wife. Your wife you know so well and it kills you to know that special thing that only you two were supposed to share is now someone else’s

    • @pierceburke2674
      @pierceburke2674 Год назад

      THIS!!! My wife asked us to be friends, while she is dating another guy. Then she asks for the divorce because I had to inform her family why I was moving stuff out of a house on their property. Logic has failed, so how does one handle this

    • @bigpeezyweezy
      @bigpeezyweezy Год назад

      Same situation guys please update

    • @tb87670
      @tb87670 Год назад +1

      Any update man? I'm grappling with this right now. This is probably the hardest part of going through Geoffrey's advice from these videos. For a while your wife has no consequences, and that is because you want her to feel safe with you. But she gets almost a free pass for at least a short time to do the worst things in the world. This is the part that really stings and it's rarely addressed.
      If you push on this issue, like asking to wait until after divorce, my wife then said she won't wait until after the divorce to see other people. They are testing you and wanting to see how you react. They might even deliberately cause you excessive pain (like my wife and my friend's ex-wife) and you cannot crumple in these moments. If you keep growing the outcome won't matter, if Geoffrey's advice doesn't work for that particular relationship you will at least rid yourself of an abusive partner and bring your improvements to the next relationship.

  • @erickrosario3380
    @erickrosario3380 Год назад

    Hello, I am going through something similar, my relationship is 20 years old and 2 weeks ago my wife left me alone and if I understand and accept all my mistakes, but she tells me that she does not want to or does not care if I change or not, that I am no longer there chanses and I really want to get my wife back. I have class tomorrow and I'm super excited because I really want to make changes in my life

    • @noneofyourbuizness
      @noneofyourbuizness Год назад

      I hope everything will work for you.
      It is still fresh, give her some time and focus on yourself and becoming a better person for now

  • @sirgridlock310
    @sirgridlock310 Год назад +1

    How can I join the program? I'm married for 29 years. My wife doesn't want to work at the marriage. She's cold towards me. She has a separate bank account now. My wife plans on moving out as soon as possible. I did all the wrong things, Crying, Begging, Pleading, Compromising. Nothing worked. Now i'm trying to give her space by not texting or contacting her. I say hi when I see her or ask if she needs anything. I tried telling her i'm working on myself so I can be a better husband, But she does not care. Is there anything I can do? Please help.

    • @sweetbeep
      @sweetbeep 7 месяцев назад

      Can I ask how things are going?

  • @horiapantea4240
    @horiapantea4240 Год назад

    Hello goeffrey and everyone, will be seeing my ex in a couple of weeks planting the right seeds we had a really nice convo a couple of days ago and before 2 sessions of questions in which i feel like she gave out everything that bothered her. It will probably be a long talk when we see each other f2f. I have 2 questions , one should i bring up the fact that i would like to start over slow and ease into a relationship or should this come from her since she initiated the split and 2 should i show her this resourceful channel and watch a video or 2 together?

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  Год назад +3

      1) This all depends on the depth and quality of your growth. But if she is not initiating coming back, that's a tell tale sign that your growth was either not in the correct direction, not consistent enough, not deep enough, or not FELT by your partner enough. (Note - allowing your partner to FEEL your changes is not done by you TELLING her about it, but through the subtle creation of safety). Don't fall for the paradox of logic - Look my my video on this.
      2) We should always be the one to lead the healing process. If you try to start the healing process simply by showing my videos, you're not creating safety directly with her, but with me. That does not work. It's the same pitfall that a lot of my clients fall into when trying couples therapy. Look up my video on this as well!

    • @horiapantea4240
      @horiapantea4240 Год назад

      @@GeoffreySetiawan thank you so much ! Really appreciate your response . Another question how important is besides your changes , the willingness of the partner to come back ?

  • @piotrekmajkowski5422
    @piotrekmajkowski5422 Год назад

    What is it about? What has happened?

  • @victoriaoshea4865
    @victoriaoshea4865 8 месяцев назад +1

    50:53

  • @mickey7664696
    @mickey7664696 11 месяцев назад

    Pretty much in the same boat as homeboy. And it sucks fucking bad