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I once tried fake crying as an experiment with my first serious girlfriend to learn her reaction to it. She was immediately disgusted and started mocking me. The path of emotional empathy from a woman to a man is very short, but she expects it to be an endless highway when it's leading to her.
I can remember once a past girlfriend attempted to comfort me when she thought I was crying and even that was only one time. The reason I remember it is because I found it hilarious, I was sitting next to her in bed as I usually did until she fell asleep(i was working night shifts then) and watching something funny on my laptop so while trying to hold in my laughter she woke up and seemed to go full mother mode and i spent the next couple minutes laughing at the situation as she pouted.
years ago I cried when my ex told me she was raped by her uncle because I truly cared about her and couldn't imagine someone doing that to her....a week later she wanted an open relationship 😂...I said good luck with that and left
Well said ,we man need to wake up to the reality that most women are just heartless, .and we need to understand women first before loving them .
My ex spent 2 years “having a bad day” every single day. And if I ever complained about my day she would say “you think THAT’S bad??” and try to one-up me with how bad her day was. And if I asked her to try to be more positive and not trauma dump every tiny thing on me then I wasn’t being supportive lol
the reason women get so mad at you for crying is because women know that crying is a cheap manipulation tactic. they know this because they have been doing it since they were 6
My sister was a hardcore feminist and even tried batting for the other team for a bit. After all the crap she said about men, it was very satisfying to hear her say how awful her experience with dating women was 😂
I used to know a couples therapist, she said working with lesbians was the worst, in a heterosexual couple only one of them expected the other to be a mind reader.
Woman on woman have a harder time cause statistically, woman feel more negative feelings, so if you have 2 of them. You have more often of those situations 😅
@@drgdieselfrenzy7707data shows that lesbian couples are now driving up divorce and domestic violence rates, and in fact, shows that lesbian abusers are often far worse than hetero male abusers.
Never forget that lesbians have the highest rates of domestic violence.
Their's a resion two men in a relationship are called gay ..
And "gay" is another world for happy ...
Honestly most of not all men would in theory be happier if they were gay .. me too .. now what is that saying
😅😂
Men have to communicate logically because if we let our emotions run wild it’ll end in violence. Imagine taking the food off another man’s plate, even a friend, after he’s told you not to.
There would be a fork that wasn’t mine sticking out of my hand.
Not necessarily. Moreover it leads to nowhere and fix nothing
Just like a woman
@@unlimited971it leads to a hierarchy being more clearly established, which is universally useful and necessary.
@@housegothahahahahah. Women are completely unaware of hierarcies!
I'm not going to lie some of you guys that talk about violence being the be all and end all of male interaction is cringe as hell and reeks of people who have never been in a real fight.
You really going to risk your life over someone taking food of your plate? Leave your family without you because you wanted to show who's the bigger man? It's dumb af.
If its a complete stranger than sure I could understand you getting upset, but if your friends nabbing food from you it is what it is.
she doesn't want food. she has food and she can always order more food. She wants control
EXACTLY!!! That was a dominance display.
"I don't take no for an answer" ... That is a MASSIVE red flag. End the conversation right then and LEAVE. She doesn't respect boundaries. She doesn't respect *your* boundaries. She doesn't respect *you.* And you're not going to be able to correct or fix that there, in that place, at that time. And more over, that spells serious concerns for other aspects of the relationship. Up to and including not taking "no" for an answer in the bedroom. (Yes, fellas, you CAN say no. No is a complete sentence, regardless. No means no, regardless.)
She could also offer to trade a few bites if she wanted to try his.
I do NOT agree about the "FOOD PART".
That´s a thing that MANY GIRLS DO, and, generally, it has nothing to do with DOMINANCE. She does that to check your capacity to SHARE & to "MIX" or "MINGLE" with her. Personally, I love when a girl i like does that (same as I do when she takes, or accepts, one of my SHIRTS or PULLOVERS if she´s feeling cold).
@@zeik27But that's not what she wants.
How narcissistic is it to expect men to just understand women. However, women are not expected to so the same.
don't try to understand women, women understand women and they hate each other
Narcissism means thinking that you're the center of the universe, to surrender to your emotions is the same exact thing, women are more emotional and tend to do that more, so it doesn't seem far fetched to think that women are generally more likely to behave in a narcissistic way, than men.
One of my degrees is in Statistics and when having a discussion with my sister, she will say something like, "well I don't think that's true because I know someone that . . . " and then I end up having to try to explain how statistics works. Every time! Her degree is in Art History so . . . you know what I mean?
I have such a problem with this. im really big on facts and stats it's so important to use this type of data because it should be used to put an end to feelings or opinions on the matter. but I find women don't care about facts, I personally don't think we should have any women high up in power for our countries as i don't think the majority of them can look past their feelings
Yes, I know. She can explain what a brush stroke is supposed to mean but can't read a bar chart.
Maybe WRITING IT UP on a simple page and then SHOWING HER THE PAGE can cut that argument short? As an "art historian" she might be able to associate things with "a painting" (which the page with graphs and text would be).
Yeah, if she herself has not seen or heard it does not exist.
Women like to use the exception to disprove the rule. Nothing is absolute, there are always exceptions. So by pointing out the exception, she can feel validated in her position.
It's sad to see the comments from all the guys whose girlfriends' left them soon after they cried in front of them. My boyfriend cried infront of me before many years ago and he's no longer my boyfriend. He's my husband and we are expecting our 3rd child. Sure I've done most of the crying in the relationship but on the rare occasions my husband is in need I certainly don't cringe.
Rare AF and based
Wishing you blessings and happiness
Men get no empathy now, just contempt most of the time, it's why we should never help or approach now. IF none of you speak up, you are teaching us you are the same. SPEAK UP.
Men are allowed to have a short cry once in front of their girl only under 2 circumstances. Someone close or your dog dies. And it’s once short cry per instance. That’s IT.
But still, one cry and make it SHORT and quiet. Don’t blubber. Hold that shit in until your alone. Women ask “why aren’t guys emotional?!?!” Yeah we are, but women just TAUGHT us not to show it around you.
He's lucky. Most of yall aren't woman enough.
Well the sad truth is if men do cry or appear weak to there women they will inevitable use it again im in a heated conversation its to easy for women to use it because in that momen all a women whants is to be right and win and well emotion is there back bone and not facts and logic, maby ur not this case and if ur not buy a lottery ticket because chance is against u
Woman asks her friend if she looks fat. Female friend says, oh goodness honey, you look terrific!
Man asks his friend if he looks fat. Freind says I know five fat people. And you're four of them.
And then the guys laugh because it is funny.
@@michaelsteven5558 Fat guy here, that is frickin hilarious!
It's impossible to acknowledge their emotions when 30sec later, they'll be completely different.
True, and her emotions dictate what she wants, and what she wants is changing all the time with her emotions.
Hence why when a woman talks about marriage and mentions "love" and "happiness" its an instant concern for me. Both the feelings of love and happiness can come and go and if they are basing their loyalty to the relationship on those feelings, and not duty and commitment, you can see why the divorce rate is so high.
Emotions change from minute to minute. Facts don't
that is why you never care about how they feel or what they say....never get manipulated by their feelings it is all they have tell them to suck it up and you keep moving forward with or without them
@@What11235 "I used to be indecisive....but now, I'm not so sure"
The woman trying to grab off the plate was doing a power play. She was trying to establish her dominance. He made his boundaries and she wanted him to know she didn’t care and she was above him.
Laughing at her was the perfect response
@@docsavage8640 I’m a dad so someone picking off my plate is no big deal. But her saying she always gets her way is a power play. In that case I’d be like nope.
She didn't want a second date so was behaving badly.
I'm happy to share anytime, any day. Try to take something from my plate without asking, you might get your hand pinned to the table with a fork
I agree but she was really saying I am good looking and if you want to sleep with me you have to play by my rules. This means I get to decide how you treat me at all times. The answer is eat your food and move on.
Nothings soothes a woman quicker than telling her to calm down.
😆 🤣 😂
Next time try to say:
Cow down, cow down...
It’s a trap.
We should try encouraging them to be even more irrational and see what happens.
You might as well go with the double nuclear bomb: “You need to calm down. You’re acting like your mother!”
Then flee the area for approximately 3-5 business days. And make sure you have a clear path to an exit and no sharp objects are within her reach before saying this. 😂
The lady at the beginning is so right. Women, don’t ask a question unless you really want the answer. “Does this dress make me look fat?” No, your body makes you look fat, but the dress isn’t helping.
Thank you, this was my intense laught for the morning on my way to loose my life and soul under a dumb female supervisor that has nothing in her head but emotional resentment.
While visiting some friends for dinner, his wife asked me if I thought she was pretty enough to be a model. Without thinking about it, I honestly answered, "Yes, if you lose about 20 pounds." The temperature in the room immediately fell 20 degrees, but it wasn't until I was back home that I realized that was probably not the best answer I could have given.
@@willmartin7293 Probably not!🤣🤣🤣
Her adipose tissue is making her look fat
@willmartin7293 it's what she needed to hear, not what she wanted to hear. Are you single? If so, it was totally out of line for her to ask you that question (especially since her husband was presumably there), and she needed to be put in her place.
My sister realized this when going on Bumble BFF. Apparently women are just as insane being a friend as they are to date. She gave up because they were flaky, emotionally draining, and just a pain in the ass.
My ex and a few friends all said that it's damn near impossible to find a good female friend.
Did she try taking a shower and be confident?
@@maxstrike3022 lmao!!!!!!!
@Infernal_Crusader
women give fake compliments while men give fake insults
Nope, men are more constructive, more honest, and more lighthearted in their criticisms.
You cannot reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into.
I can't believe I hadn't heard that line before, but it's usually true (With the possible exception of if they assumed their way into that position)
Took ages for me to realise bro was wearing a brown hoodie and brown t shirt and not a medieval peasant outfit
Lmao me too 😂😂
Yeah, it is hard to take seriously anyone wearing a hoodie.
@@b.calvinsaul1909what? Why?
Now I can’t unsee this peasant outfit…..which I didn’t see before
Me too I thought he was Shad's little brother
We are living in the aftermath of a female society. It wants to be lied to. It can't face reality and it wants everyone to simultaneously submit to their delusion and solve their problems but give them the credit.
Egalitarianism, feminism and progressivism have been an unmitigated disaster.
@@ReformedSooner24Egalitarianism is a good idea.
My young wife 50 years ago told me " I dont know why I think you are wrong I just "feel" you are. She is much more stable now.😊
The food stealer? It's not about emotions. It's a contest of power...of wills. She is determined to bully her date into lettting her have her way.
I suspect it's not really about dominance, at least not in the sense of displaying or contesting position in a social hierarchy like it probably would be if it was an interaction between two guys, it is actually about the her feeling provided for.
Back in the days, there would have been many times when resources were scarce and famine walked the land, for a woman it would be favorable to be with a man that would not just hoard all the food for himself, but rather let her(and her offspring) have some.
So, I expect the reason women seem to feel the food they take like this is better is due to their brain detecting them being allowed to do this as an indicator of the guy being a good provider, of course, while it's entirely rational that human history and evolutionary pressures would favor this sort of thing, she probably wouldn't be able to explain it like this, as feelings are kind of a black box thing, the way our evolutionary history manipulates our consciousnesses.
Any explanation provided will probably be about the feelings, perhaps something like his food tasting better(even if they have the same food), or some excuse like not being hungry(ie only snacking), being on a diet or some such.
Ngl it also seemed like she had a touch of the ‘tisim
No. That's a masculine impulse. What she wants is to be told "no". She tests the boundary to see if it's real... and if this man can be bullied by a sweet little thing like her then how could he possibly protect her from the monsters outside?
@@trequorDumbest thought process I have heard to date.
@@hainleysimpson1507 Pay attention next time you see it and you'll know what I mean.
It's WILD how women always accuse men of gaslighting or lying relentlessly, but women will gaslight the absolute crap out of you with their emotions even if you have hard, and even physical, evidence to support what you're saying. You're not supposed to lie to women, but you're also punished for being honest with women, and somehow men are still "the problem"...
And not all women are guilty, obviously, but we DEFINITELY need more women who are willing to call other women out on their BS (aka this lovely channel here).
Breaking stuff is really bad. I am a woman, and if another woman told me, "I get my way every time", I'm sorry, I would get up, ask for the check and walk away.
I'm a guy and I would have walk away
I have had a couple tears run down my cheek at my brothers funeral and my cousin who had been have tears flowing freely gave me crap about it. WTF!!
Another XX here, and I would have left also. Maybe this is why I am only friends with guys.
Was a show. paid for. Better to not get up, stay, and disappear her later with no explanation, that way she can never learn to pretend to be human.
@@BonnieDoon84he didn t leave cause he was hungry, and really wanted that meat.
“Women can’t handle the truth.”
They have an emotions based CPU.
And gpu. They are more like quantum physics.
You don’t know exactly if she’s mad or sad or happy but one thing is sure you change the result by measure it
Cubix
I read this comment in Jack Nicholson's voice 😂
The emotions of schrodinger?
There is no CPU. At best they have a garbled line repeater that gets all its inputs from other garbled line repeaters, media, celebrities, etc.
Maturity means ... TO CONTROL EMOTIONS !!!
Women use emotions to control men, though
Women mature faster than men... except emotionally
I feel like maturity would be to still have your emotions, but to not act on them impulsively. To be able to respond to a situation rather than react. Emotions tend to just happen to you, it's what you do when they arise that counts.
that's why women were classified as adult children for the entirety of human history until recently.
@@WanderingSage113 What you described is literally emotional control.
I cried in front of my then girlfriend and within two weeks the relationship was over. A few months pass when we sat down and discussed why the relationship ended, she told me seeing me cry made her feel disgusted and she couldn't look at me the same way after that.
This is very common. Do not show women your vulnerabilities.
On the bright side he dates dudes now
Wow
Well, you learned something. It is what it is. All women are like this. They like strength.
@@docsavage8640 No, he doesn't. He either dates not at all, or has found a high value female. Your fantasies are your own, please do not project them.
The problem is education.
Women make up the majority of primary school teachers
As they're training kids to validate emotions over logic kids (male and female) are being raised to be narcisists
Too bad this comment will be buried due to the lack of likes.
You just hit the nail in the head.
Correction, overwhelming majority. It's the ratio is 4:1... that's an insane gap.
The Age of Reason has ended. We now live in The Age of Feelings.
I don’t know what it’s like now. When I went to school in the 50s and 60s I had a lot of male teachers. Some were veterans of WW2. Elementary school was all women but from junior high to high school a lot were men.
@@davidkeller6156 I'm the Australian equivalent. I'll assume you didn't know the political leanings of your teachers. Today, in the Western World, teacher training is riddled with Feminist ideology. Children are now indoctrinated rather than taught basics. 🇦🇺
Did you know that currently 78% of credit card defaults are held by women?
That's why banks were very hesitant to give them their own credit cards.
No, I did not know that. Astounding. Any idea why?
And did you know that 88% of men are not surpriced to hear this?😅
Because in the US women account for 85% of all consumer spending.
😂@@rasmusharboe3654
I cried silently in front of my ex wife when a friend of mine who was a teacher got shot down at Sandy Hook. She got absolutely livid. Many women don't have or understand compassion or empathy
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She hates and is disgusted by the emotional parts of her. That's why she related to you in that way.
Really glad you said ex. That's horrifying to treat someone like that.
They have no empathy for men and our suffering and in return I will not have empathy for what's coming for them. Good luck.
Handmaid’s Tale is coming for them 😮
So, men need to be all things, all the time but, at the same time, none of the things... got it.
Exactly!
Just like how men need to pursue the woman, but actually *trying* to pursue them chases them off... and how *not* trying is being passive.
My husband was the first person in my life who could navigate my emotions. He refused to be baited by them. Somehow he always manages to get his point across and I have many times had to admit I'm wrong. He could teach a master class.
That would make an interesting article/vid/book. My other half is an emotional volcano. The only thing to do when she’s erupting is to keep a safe distance. Complete waste of time talking to her at those moments.
@sirrathersplendid4825 he does the same, actually. But he never raises his voice and always assures me that he will come back to it and then follow through. So situations are never left unresolved. I am able to think for a bit and come calmer. It was a panic for me at first because my ex would just gaslight me so I was in the habit of pushing things because I knew they would be dismissed and later he would act like there was never a problem, that I was just being emotional. Oof, there is so much more to my fear response, but hard to explain everything in a youtube comment 🤣🤣 he also reasures me constantly that he trusts me and knows that I'm really smart and that we can work through it. It causes me to want to be logical. Of course I can be logical. And that he loves me and doesn't like to see me upset. Basically he never treats me as an annoyance that he is just trying to dismiss. He proved to me that my health and sanity are a priority. But I am able to set my emotions aside once I realize my feelings are understood.
@@Chantilly907 - You’re a lucky lady having someone with such patience. What always astounds me is how my own partner is a volcano one moment and then a tranquil lake just 20 minutes later. It’s like the volcano moment never happened and all the flowing lava has vanished.
imagine having to be a master just to exist in a relationship with an adult who can't navigate her own emotions. this is why men lost all interest in relationships. We don't want a dependent.
@tomryan9827 He doesn't 'HAVE' to be anything, but I appreciate him for his steady nature and ability to meet me where I am. I have the ability to meet him where he is as well. That is what human relationship looks like. We support each other in our strengths and weaknesses. I navigate my own emotions just fine. Also be independent if you like, but having someone to depend on is much better, imo and is natural for humankind.
‘If someone doesn't value logic, what logical argument could you provide to show the importance of logic?’ SH
Omg it’s happened, I’m watching a reaction of a reaction.
Jesus Christ what have I become?
She’s not even talking
You forgot a "of a reaction"... #Reactception
i'm commenting on a comment to a reaction of a reaction to a video
As I got older I realized that sex isn't worth dealing with all the neuroticism, materialism, narcissism/selfishness, & emotional drama that women tend to bring with them. I would rather be at peace, doing my own thing - and yes, hanging out with my awesome rescue cats as a cat-dad.
💯
Ever since I found the sauce of the gods it definitely changed the game
And is the Trojan horse for men winning and conquering the gender war one female at a time 😂🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Yes, as I like to say I’d rather have peace of mind over a piece of
p😾y…that being said I’d rather have both but one is definitely better than the other
Your text was really good until you call yourself a "cat-dad". Come on man... liking animals is ok, but THEY ARE NOT YOUR CHILDREN.
@@wellingtonribeiro847 And you were good until you chose to judge him. Your opinion of how he sees himself is irrelevant.
@@wellingtonribeiro847the hell they’re not!😡
The more I learn about women, the less I want anything to do with them. I’ll become the curmudgeonly hermit who hates everyone I guess lol
There's a lot of us out here like that now.
yep, someone once said, you can either like women or understand them, not both... rings more true every day
Well said ,we man need to wake up to the reality that most women are just heartless, .and we need to understand women first before love them .
Western women. I traveled a lot in 2023, women outside of the US for the most part do a great job of being rational and reasonable despite thier emotions. It shows greatly in how they treat men, it's one of the bigger culture shocks you'll get in some countries. Go to the Philippines and it will blow your mind how respectful the women are to men. It genuinely put me in a constant state of "where is the camera" for liek 3 days until I got use to it, it's that big of a difference how measured, reasonable, and respectful they are. Not to mention when you se how thoughtful and considerate they are of others you'll literally never look at an American woman the same.
I don't think like although I could understand why someone would.
What bothers me most are lies; I despise lying so much especially when there's no real temptation or lost if you don't.
Most women will never admit those things about female nature, like not liking emotional men.
I really don't hate female nature, why I hate is when they deny it.
In my opinion women love emotional men. However, this is with a caveat. They love men with many positive emotions and often allowing for some anger. What they don't like is men showing any emotions that signal weakness, insecurity, sadness, being unsure or the like. They see those as feminine emotions.
Positive emotions for men come from ACHIEVEMENTS (winning the Superbowl or scoring a bunch of 3-pointers) ... and women love that SUCCESS, not the emotion, in men.
@@Muck006 they can come from those things but if you are simply positive and cheerful they view it as if you must have those other things.
You literally dehumanizing men in order to make some lame point my friend 🤔
If u can't feel sad in front of your woman maybe u need to stop doing the " women like n dislike this " bs
Any negative emotions you open up about can and will be used against you.
Not quite. Women love THEIR emotions to be VALIDATED by men, they do NOT like emotional men at all.
He rightly states that women who abandon rationality also abandon the sense of right of wrong becoming amoral in all matters. It's the Dionysian model resulting in a nation of maenads given over to passions of the moment. Telling that Dionysus was the god of wine making, fertility, festivity, insanity, theater and ritual madness. The Secret Dionysian Rites where drunken wives followed the music ecstatically abandoning husbands and children to indulge in the revels became such a problem in ancient Greece that they were banned....and here we are.
Excellent example.
Leads right into the rapid increase in women's body counts vs men's. And women BRAGGING about having a count over 25. It is that exact same thing. She wants it, so it must be okay. What other people get hurt along the way don't matter, because she wants.
I grew up as the only man in a house with five women -- this is so very, very true.
The woman in the restaurant video is not an "emotional woman" she's a full-on entitled child. That man has the patience of a saint compared to me.
Arguing with women is never a good idea since they’re emotionally based. Just hear her out. As long as she’s a good communicator, things will be fine. If she’s a bad communicator and combative, then that’s a huge red flag.
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Yeah arguing with emotions is very stupid. No need to waste time with them! Bringing a knife to a gun fight.
Yup. In almost ten years my wife and I have never fought
@@trequor, good job dude.
That's why men need to play all the games in dating to get with women. If a guy was honest, he would get nowhere with women.
Exactly why I’m single. I don’t take shit and don’t let a woman manipulate me.
Which results in their self-sabotage. Now that all men must have a deck, they think all of us are players. Even worse that now they’re even more vulnerable to truly narcissistic men. Shooting themselves in the foot…
Nobody likes the game, but if you want the prizes, you gotta play the game. And despite the saying being hijacked to excuse toxic behavior, it's very relevant when people say don't hate the player, hate the game
If I wanna play games, I got a Gaming PC. That's what I told my girlfriend a long time ago, and now that we are married we still live by this principle. We don't play this kind of games. We have fun, but we don't play these games.
“I want it, give it to me, I’m going to take it anyway!”
Apparently this mentality is okay for women, but not okay for men.
As someone who has been successfully married since 2008, here is just a part of what I've learned:
The second they actually communicate, it is already too late to take action. If you try to fix things, then you get blamed for only doing it to shut them up, and your effort is not appreciated in that moment. No matter what you do right then is a loss. Just walk away and let her cool down. At that point, you have to wait long enough to make it look organic to them (when you decide to put in the effort to correct things). Never let them think you are doing it because it's what they wanted. It doesn't make sense, but if you give her what she wants; when she wants it, they lose respect for you. As Long as she thinks it's your idea, then they respect you for doing it.
On the flip-side, I refuse to change myself to make her happy. When my wife doesn't agree with my view and she expects an apology (as she cries), I just stare at her then go about my business. At first it pisses her off, but I maintain my ground and she still respects me for not caving in. To this day, she refers to me as a "stubborn mule" who won't budge for anything. Oddly enough, that very thing that gets under her skin is also what keeps her attracted to me (after all these years). I did the whole "white knight" thing as a young guy. I was the friend of hot girls and I learned from those mistakes. Those lessons made me into an immovable object, who has the devotion and reciprocated love and affection of a genuine, beautiful woman. She recently joked how we still sneak around like naughty teenagers to have our fun LOL. If it weren't for my own experience and hearing other success stories, I would have assumed that all hope is lost. I just wanted to put up a positive experience in the midst of all the darness we see. Apply all the knowledge from these types of channels and you can still come out on top. The possibility still exists.
I think Alexander is misinterpreting the woman who tries to take her date's food. I think it is a power play disguised as an "aren't I adorable?!?" quirk.
@teramedia7333 BEING powerful would make her FEEL happy.
As a man with breathtaking anger management issues I can confirm that men can get emotional. The difference is that when I get angry I become the Credible Hulk. I focus to a laser sharpness and my logic becomes fully painful to whoever is on the other side.
💯😭 same bro
I legit become the devil himself
Pure evil 😂😂😂😂
Good that you only become "credible" hulk
Destroy them with credible facts
@cookieman9623 I become vengeance incarnate 😂
Are you by chance a Lord of Spite?
She needs to react to Bill Burr, There's no reason to hit a woman.
Bill Burr is a phony Leftist simp, though
Seriously one of the best and most brutally honest bits of all time (save 90% of George Carlin who batted like .950)
@@numskulltheory7133 I was lucky enough to see Carlin live twice. Carlin is a legend.
Well… I mean… I wouldn’t do it…
I absolutely loved that bit. Along with “the hardest job in the world.” Chasing toddlers and putting in DVDs vs roofing as a red head in July. 😂😂😂
I have found that women who behave that way define respect as "Do as I say. all of the time, without question. If you don't, then you are disrespecting me as a woman."
I always come back to this quote by Robert A. Heinlein:
“When you vote, you are exercising political authority, you're using force. And force, my friends, is violence. The supreme authority from which all other authorities are derived.”
Heinlein was specifically talking about political philosophy, but it ultimately can be applied to nearly everything. What is true will always be true regardless, whether we believe it to be true or not and if we don't hold the truth as important then everything breaks down and then force becomes the final authority.
Because the FACTS do not care about your FEELINGS. Facts are always facts no matter how anyone feels about them.
At roughly 7:25 , Christine said "cluster B type personality disorders are on the rise in modern women" and her delivery, with the side look, was very Jim carrey. Brilliant and keep up the good work 👏
Made me crack 😂😂😂
Fathers teach mental and emotional discipline, not emotional suppression. Most of the greatest expressions of emotion are by men.
Sometimes lol lots of men have greatest expressions of ego too. Generally speaking though I do think we are more regenerative.
@@TallGlass-fh8qfWhat do you mean by "regenerative" ...?
As for ego, any individual can have a more aggressive ego than another. Definitely there are women with aggressive egos.
Sometimes they teach suppression. (My dad) Although I think it was unintentional. A lot of fathers don't know what important lessons to teach their kids. They just live.
@@tonyhormiga5242It's a general statement, and kids often misunderstand what they're being taught.
The point I was trying to make is that fathers and mothers raise their kids differently, IN GENERAL. You can dispute it all you want, but you're crazy if you do.
@@SG-js2qn Well im going to respond to your first comment. It's up to the parents to articulate and make sure a kid who hasn't been on earth that long doesn't misunderstand what they are being taught. Being the parent and all.
This makes me very sad, I remarried two years ago. What do I get now? Any time I critisise her the reply is that "You don't respect me, you don't tell me your emotions" Well I was bought up to know that RESPECT is earn't, not dictated, men don't cry, they don't talk about emotions, they get up in the morning, I'm an engineer, I build stuff, earn money, fix the cars, rebuild the house, tell us how much is in the bank, what we can and can't afford to do. You have convinced me, Divorce is what is needed, I WILL be better off on my own.
Why did you remarry? Are you a slow learner? How many times did you need to touch the fire to learn it would hurt?
I can understand making the mistake of marriage once, but twice?
Congratulations. Tough realisation. Not sarcasm, so many of us have been lied to.
REmarry? Are you REstarted? 🤣
It seems to me like you just told her your emotions.
Why didn't you use your engineering skills to find a better wife? It's not terribly difficult to use logic in mate selection. I did it as a teenager
Accountability is a woman's kryptonite
Women don't care about a man's struggles, they'll just go to the finish line and wait for the winners.
That's 100% true, a man IS ONLY what he can provide at any given moment. If he can no longer perform when called upon, he's useless. I think that's why ex pro athletes have such a hard time with depression and suicide, I don't mean household names, I mean the guy who is halfway down the depth chart. He goes from being coveted (for his status and ability) and he THINKS people actually care about HIM. The same thing happens with musicians/actors, people fall in love with the SONGS/Films, and the artists think they are in love with THEM. And then start acting like absolute maniacs, or end up at the end of their rope..
That's not exclusive to women, my dad is a prime example
@@tesladrew2608 And here comes the sistahood. Thanks for proving me right. What you're really trying to do is deflect blame elsewhere and not hold women accountable. Essentially you're just trying to justify YOUR lack of accountability by saying "well, men do it too". I bet you even blame your dad for ALL your poor decisions in life.
Are there men out here who lack accountability? Absolutely. Is it the majority? Absolutely not. Men are not born into privilege, like women. We are not just given things for simply existing and as a result become entitled. We have to earn what we have. Female entitlement results in lack of accountability. Does it apply to ALL women? Absolutely not. But it definitely applies to the MAJORITY, including you.
Just from your simple response, I can already tell that you are the epitome of lacking accountability.
Accountability is a woman's kryptonite.
@@tesladrew2608
women are more likely to do it
@@tesladrew2608your dad is a rare case. The majority of time its women
13 years single and happier than i have ever been in my life..!! 😂
I was raised in the era of Die Hard. I was also subjected to extreme amounts of violence and abuse as a child. I can shrug off injuries and threats easily now. But I still involuntarily cry when one of my dogs die. I’m unable to control that. So I guess I’m a bit of both.
nothing hurts more than losing a loyal friend, those are tears worth crying for
I believe that’s called, being human, and it’s a good thing. Losing a friend/pet that you loved is hard, especially knowing how much they loved you. And you miss that. My ex-wife on the other hand, I’ve missed with every shot so far, but my aim is improving 😁
Emotion is bad when it's unwarranted, looks like it's not the case here.
men are just as emotional as women. we're just forced to convert it all into anger to fit expectations. being unable to acknowledge unacceptable emotions is what most men do, because they're weak
I was cold and emotionless my whole life until my dog died a few weeks ago now I just cry randomly when I'm at home
Telling a hysterical woman to ‘calm down’ always works…😂
This guy knows his stuff.
I’m trying to find a link to his channel
@@jacobgeorge8677 He's Alexander Grace.
They need to know: Their emotions are valid, BUT they are also accountable for how they act.
I don't empathise, there's little point. Male empathy for women is instinctual and they abused it and continue to abuse it. Dispense with it, if a vulnerability leaves you open to an attack, it is a weakness.
You’re interacting with the wrong women if you know ones that abuse the empathy given to them.
@@andrebaxter4023 Not really.
Even a female that is Not a potential sexual Partner of yours, Mother, Aunt, sister ect, Will, Without hesitations, USE what you just told them, Against you...
@@andrebaxter4023 Some are family members or coworkers... you cant outrun the fact the some women have a disgusting level of entitlement and always expect to get their way...
@@andrebaxter4023"You're interacting with the wrong women"
Observe, gentlemen! Gaslighting! In its purest form!
@@andrebaxter4023 99.999% of women are the wrong women then
This is exactly why all men need alone time at least once in a while and more people should respect that time.
Advice I recently heard from psychoactive. Any statement from a woman should automatically start with "i feel" and end with "right now". this will make sense out of 80%+ of woman. I.e "I feel" --- that you are not listening " right now" . Or ""I feel"--- I love you---" right now"....
I think the best explanation I ever heard regarding this subject was that, on average, with all the acknowledged exceptions that confirm the rule, women first need to process their emotions before they can solve that problem and men need to solve the problem before taking time to handle emotions.
I think that one summarises the entire essence of the issue.
Why would i want to understand a defective human? They need to understand they're defective and work to fix it.
An women dont realize the reason some men become violent is because we not allowed to function like humans an express ourselves! Women are called our other half for a reason because you are emotional an "should" be able to understand. So when we are stressing you can help us calm down an we can feel at ease. Then we back tot he grind!
I have trained in non violent communication, Some women appreciate that arguments do not escalate. Another GF had a different opinion. she said," I don't know why we are arguing, you are just going to win" I said I did not know we are in a fight. To be fair, she was being treated for hormone imblance.
Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus, by John Gray. Good book. Talks about this exact thing.
The 2nd book he wrote is titled: "Women are from Venus....Men are...wrong"
I've read that book. He doesn't go into why this is the way it is. Not being forced to take accountability is the reason why women grow up to be emotional.
Being emotional over logical simply means you were not forced to grow out of the childhood emotional phase of life. But that author deliberately doesn't go into it. I wonder why
a book that my whole family read except me cause I was a child...
@@davestuddert4392 what the fuck... what happen to the second book?
But these women aren't trying to care about anybody's emotions but their own. If they were open to all the emotions around them, then their emotional intelligence would be worth something. Modern women lost the ability to protect their cave while men went out to hunt. They can't manage the running of the family while the men are away. They have lost that which made women valuable.
This is why no women should be in a position of power in government
Or just voting, in general.
Nah, we need to deconstruct these crazy gender norms instead
Margaret Thatcher?
"they're always going to live in the delusion of their feelings rather than seeing reality."
Brilliantly stated
If emotions are enough to justify any action then crime wouldn’t exist because everything would be allowed. Crimes of passion are no longer crimes because you felt like doing it
She doesn't respect herself or others. Said by a psychologist. Amen Christine- you got it! A guy w feelings triggers a woman's shadow or repressed issues.
this man is so wise, I wonder what did he go through
Both narrators are correct. When women bring emotions into the conversation everyone loses. At that point, I'm not even going to bother with her. What is the point? She won't consider any other thoughts or changes. It's either her way or the highway. At that point, I am gone. I'm not going to waste my energy on a woman who won't listen.
It's simple. Men think logically, women think off of feelings. Logic is based on facts and truth.. Feelings are subjective. That's why we can't have calm rational conversations over subjects we disagree on. The woman gets emotional and starts thinking you are attacking her or not respecting her as a person.
i am recently duvorced after hitting a bad time in life. while i was at my lowest it was all about what i could not do for her. at the same time i could not even do for my self. you (and pearl) have really helped me to understand female behaviour. so i want to thank you for your videos that lets me know i am not a complete failure.
thank you
Think about all you've gained ;)
Sometimes she wants to get validation by raging all over you - about you! You should let her attack you like a wild dog, but don’t lose your cool. She’ll lose respect for you and it will be over.
Let this happen once, then when the storm is gone tell her you’re leaving.
Please believe me.
If you're leaving anyway... what do you care if she loses any more respect for you. You obviously didn't have all of it anyway or she wouldn't have done that.
I think a big problem is confusing healthy displays of emotion with unhealthy ones. The woman who needed to take someone else's food despite having her own was only using emotions as a manipulation tactic. The food thing is just a dominance display.
Amazing. So, Frenchman here. Imagine we had a Minister of Interior (equivalent of the Department of State) in 2020 who said "Emotion supersedes laws". In the middle of lockdown, a certain protest of thousands of people by a certain group, took place despite large gatherings being forbidden at the time... and he basically simped to pander to their hysteria. Which included rioting, burning down businesses, infrastructure, etc. The Left was stoked on its power trip.
Not women, but Alexander Grace's analysis - and yours - fits LIKE A GLOVE.
Wouldn't that explain a lot about the hijacking of the Olympics last week (I'm so embarassed.)
Cheers.
Also, you're gorgeous, fascinatingly wise, and charming. 🌹
Men: Logic & Reason. Justice-based morality.
Women: feelings & emotions. Care-based morality.
feelings and emotions are not morality.. they have no moral value.. morality comes from observing moral values through reason and grace. both things need a complete conscience to be able to practice morality.. emotions do not even fit in the same system..
If I ever was remarried I would never kick my children out if my step wife tell me to my children is my life
I had a stepmother like this, and she was abusive. She sees the daughter as a threat. And if the father had any sense, he would get rid of her.
@@Nylon_riot Anyone worth respecting does not come between a parent and a child.
My mother used to freak out like this and start throwing sh!t. One time she was breaking dishes over my dad's head and we had to physically pin her against the wall until she calmed down. This was all because he disagreed with her.
Women perspective is actually great sometimes.
As a guy it's sometimes very healthy and enlightening to get in touch with my feelings.
Yes, but there is a time and place for that.
It's not "great", it's selfish.
As you said, when you are the one letting go of rationality and caring only about your wants, you're happier. It's not enlightenment, it's just the dopamine release from being finally free of accountability and responsibility.
That's basically resorting to default animalistic wiring, which is something not wanted if you want a trustworthy society.
For women, in general, emotions trump facts.
There is this great thing called the bubble of perception of reality. It stops people from seeing things past the me point of view. It goes i am more important then everyone else because i am the main character.
It's amazing to me that 30 years or so ago it was commonly accepted that we are fundamentally wired differently to varying degrees. BUT fundamentally different and that was ACCEPTED and the goal was to work within that framework and get along better. The breakdowns started in earnest by promoting unrealistic notions above reality. Nothing wrong with pushing boundaries. But totally ignoring them IS ultimately destructive!
Either by nature or nurture men are taught to be stoic. It's not emotionless.
Honestly though, the clip with the woman who insisted on eating off the man's plate had less to do with emotions and more to do with the fact that she's a spoiled brat.
Being bratty is using emotion to get one's way.
What do you think emotions are about? Emotions are about YOU and YOUR NEEDS. Empathy is only logical.
@@Specoups Not to her, obviously.
And don't confuse wants with needs.
@@CyberChrist To someone like her, that would be the same. But fair enough.
trying to understand women is like trying to understand what the colour of #7 smells like 😮
What the F+×k! lol Sounds about right.
Women seem to think that it’s ok for them to be wrong and not change
I will say, that as long as you can balance emotions with conscious thought, they are beautiful experiences to be shared and appreciated. Emotions in Men and Women are valid, human, and a big part of the mental equation; not to be ignored or stigmatized against
if YOUNG men were not "thirsty", they would not put up with the above irrationality.
It's evolutionary biology.
@@toddjohnson271It's BS biology. Evolution is not a proven fact of life. Plus in India, in rural areas women are accountable in the same way as men. What happened to thier biology then?
Chemical imbalance is there, indeed. But if men were not so much thirsty as to let women get away with having no accountability and falling for thier BS, women would suddenly grow the ability to be accountable.
on a first date dont do that once she said we are going to share i would have been like ok strike 1, once she mentioned shes gunna pick off my plate strike 2, once she says i like to buy expensive outfits strike 3 ya done son
The girl in the dating one, that's actually logical from her side; she's just an abusive and controlling person.
That's their first date and what she's doing is instructing the man that his needs are secondary and that he must submit himself to her at every turn. That's not normative behaviour, even within this conversation of emotion to logic. Especially with something as primal as his access to food. This isn't a "I would like to try some of that too"; it's a "what's yours is mine and what's mine is mine" and she went with that from the outset. She didn't break him and continued pushing while attempting other manipulations in order to get him to submit.
It wasn't that she was navigating the world emotionally and it was rubbing against his logic; it's that she was engaging in controlling and manipulative behaviour. It's not about the food (just as her comments about liking to buy nice outfits wasn't about HER buying nice outfits), it's a foot in the door to a long and abusive process of controlling her partner. That was her first time meeting the guy during a blind dating show. She knows right from wrong; she's simply aware of the risk to reward and believes that she deserves her partner to submit to her (which she'll likely attempt to excuse it because she's pretty).
He talks about how men and women had to learn to survive and how that effects how we all interact with the world. For men, who have been socialised as the providers, access to food is access to personal power as without fuel his ability to provide (and therefor, psychologically, his ability to be a man) is greatly reduced. This wasn't truely about emotionality vs logic, but rather posturing for power within the relationship; she was attempting to make him submit to her.
I've seen the full clip of her and she tries this multiple times with the guy. Physically leaning over to get to his food and gesturing to take it without actually aiming to take it. After this doesn't work several times she then attempts to offer him some of hers in return. She never actually attempted to steal the food; she was pushing for him to submit his food to her, as in, it had to be his choice to submit.
If it was simply her being overly emotional then she would've become heated or just stolen it; her response was controlled, though unusual.
A well articulated video on why women shouldn't vote, hold government office, leadership positions, or any position requiring sound logic.
The guys video she is using is Alexander Grace, and he is very spot on with his videos. Top notch content.
So catch #22.
- Be too emotionally attuned, you're wrong.
- Be emotionally barren, you're also wrong.
That tracks with my lifetime of experience. I wonder why so many men are opting out? The burden is always on us to be everything.
Which means they want to be fathered, but choose not to respect “daddy.” But the whole time we’re okay with being mothered and respecting “mami.” I know that was cringe asf but I just had to lol
@@TallGlass-fh8qf but you're not wrong.
Funny thing is they dissmiss your emotions when they don't agree with your logic
"I was feeling [insert emotion here], no one should judge me for living in my feelings and acting on them."
What happens when that feeling is "murderous", "vengeful", "malicious", etc?
so pretty much... they're imature lol
Yes, and he's trying to give them a pass.
Also where is the link to the original video. You shouldn't react to video and not credit it.
Here’s the thing. When dealing with anyone you should always tell the truth. If they cannot handle the truth then you should not be around them anymore. If you have to watch what you say to people because they are easily offended then they are not good for your life and will always betray you.
It should go both ways for men and women. If a women is having an emotion block to logic, men try and empathize with her emotions then lead into your perspective of logic. Women: If a man is having a logical block to emotion, women try and understand his logic then lead into your perspective emotionally. This shows both parties that they are trying to listen and understand each other.