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Having an argument with a smart person is hard, arguing with a dumb person is so much harder
The saying "never argue with an idiot they will only bring you down to their level and beat you with experience" springs to mind
I would even go so far as to say you don't inherently have arguments with a fellow human being. But rather a discussion. But a dumb person will always make anything into an argument.
To argue with a dumb person is to prove you are one
I'm stealing that .
Not really. If you put up the argument correct for a dumb person, they will accept you know better than them and are probably correct.
But try to argue with a smart person, that is convinced of something.
Every argument you make, they will think of a excuse for be wrong.
The flat earth people, are not on average stupid.
They are delusional, thinking what they observe is not true,
but that happens when they discover they could not trust what they see.
Same with feminists, they are not stupid, they are just convinced what they see is not the whole truth.
It is easier to convince a dumb person. And if you cant you will only meet "I think you are wrong" as counter.
If you try that with a smart person, they will tell you thier is a giant conspiracy that made you believe in the moon landing.
as I heard it:
"Don't try to logic someone out of an opinion they didn't logic themselves into..."
If what a person believes is illogical, no amount of logic or facts will work with them. Their belief system is emotional, not based in reason.
@user-rw3ob9os7f let's test this.
Can you use logic to believe in God?
Respectfully, Yes. The Bible is very logical and proves God's existence and his purpose for the earth. Humans have take the Bible and it's scripture and twisted it with pomp and circumstance and this has shrouded the truth. God's word spells out quite plainly the origin of the Universe, the terraforming and populating of earth. What went wrong because of rebellion in the heavens and Eden. Gen 3:15 spells out what was to take place over centuries, the coming of the Messiah to right the ship, and finally the Great Tribulation and Armageddon, where the Almighty crushes the governments of the earth. Only the ones who wish to live in peace with their fellow man will survive. God can read the heart, thus he knows who is real and whom is not. It's really quite logical, has been accomplished so far step by step and will do so until the conclusion of this system of things. Also those who are allowed to live according to God's insight and love will be rewarded with everlasting life. Life eternal. It's no mystery. Quite forthright and logical.
You're paraphrasing the 17th century satirist Jonathan Swift.
He is regarded by the Encyclopædia Britannica as the foremost prose satirist in the English language.
His exact quote -
“You cannot reason a person out of a position he did not reason himself into in the first place.”
Stop trying to change their mind. It's wasted effort. You're beating a dead horse!
When I was dating my now husband I was making more money than he was, had my own apartment (he had 2 roommates) and was 10 years older. All my friends thought I was crazy when we got engaged. But I saw things in him that other women didn’t. Women accuse men of being superficial and just looking at the physical but women are no better. Many women look only at material considerations when judging men. I picked my husband based on his character and kindness and have been happy with my choice for over 25 years.
Oh, BTW my husband now makes over 180k and encouraged me to quit my job a year ago. So I did and retired early.
Met my husband at church BTW.
Any children?
@@kirdref9431
We weren’t blessed with children of our own. I ended up having 2 miscarriages. But we do have 2 unofficial daughters in Uganda and 1 granddaughter. We met them about 8 years ago on our first trip to Africa. We’ve supported 1 through law school and the other through midwife certification and we take care of our granddaughter’s school fees. We don’t get to see them very often but that’s what WhatsApp is for.
Well played, Paula. Well played.
You’re a fortunate woman, I wish a can do the same for my wife one day.
I actually find women to maybe be even More superficial since they do not only ofc as men do look the opposite sex'es looks, but they also a lot of times go on and on about other women too. Literally seen grown women going thru a magazine and picking apart the women in it with what are the flaws and what are the high points. You would never see men do that about men in a magazine.. (in general ofc, talking about hetero males and that not being like a Crazy example of stuff that women do).
On several occasions I have warned my female friends about the guys they were interested in/sleeping with/dating because I can see exactly what kind of guys they are and my friends ALWAYS get defensive and sour, but then when I end up being right they basically pretend like I never warned them. I have spent most of my life watching the girls/women around me make poor choice after poor choice (including relatives) and then blaming all men, and it has destroyed my trust in women.
Dude. Your female friends all knew exactly what they were doing. They didn't need or care about your warnings.
They completely intend to boink the "bad boys," it's a notch on their headboard to f a guy that so many other girls want to f, also.
Their delusional part is when they think they can tie Chad or Tyrone down. Some of the girls strictly are in it for a fling, the dumber ones think they are so magical that Pookie will reform, Marty her, and she can shape him into a star.
Don't think for a second the girls are so naive that they need your advice. They know exactly what they're doing.
The last thing emotions will do is admitting that they were wrong. Meaning the feeling was incorrect or out of place. Especially with women you will encounter some that identify to such an extent with their feelings that if you tell them their feeling is wrong you are basically telling them their existence (as a person) is wrong. There's just no difference for them, they are what they feel. Make it make sense...
It doesn't make sense.
I was in a toxic 2 year relationship with a women just like these to the point that she once said "yes you have shown me all the proof that you didn't do something, but my feelings are valid and i feel like you still did it." There is no reasoning with these women it will drive you insane and once you finally snap you are the monster for popping off.
Completely this, you can empathise with men who have that one incident of aggression which is not a pattern, yet gets utterly exploited as "domestic violence". Everyone has a breaking point, everyone.
That's the whole point. To get you to snap, so they can argue about you snapping on them instead of arguing about the topic in witch she was losing to you about.
And they'll use anything to do it.
Bring up something that the both of you decided to put in the past. Or accuse you of cheating just because she feels like you did. Ect ...
Narcissist woman…
Feelings and emotions = selfishness
I aint snapping i'm not dealing with any of that BS
F**k your feelings
If someone had told them the scars had been completely removed, they'd have blamed it on sexism instead.
Feminism is the art of looking at random things and finding ways to argue how they oppress women
- Karen Straughan
@@MrArantonFeminism is emotion based bollox!!!
Feminism is either a societal proxy war against nations/population, or a societal sh1ttest. Either way it s never what women think it is, it defines itself nor looks like
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Avoiding accountability by being a victim is a wonderful way to avoid changing. I was a paralyzed, homeless, drug addict who spent multiple years in prison and until I took responsibility for my actions and changed my priorities nothing changed. Now I've learned to walk, got clean, bought a home and got married. I'm certainly no victim.
Well having a criminal record is a plus in modern women's book, thugs are more appreciated than decent dudes. Good that you decided to testify.
it's nice to see where you went from before changing, you can be proud of you, it's not easy to get out of the streets and clean of drugs
@@lusio1579 thank you. I had a lot of help from above so I can only take partial credit.
To a Narcissist, emotions are 100% reality. Thts why u never argue with a Narcissist.
Just say most modern women it is most simpler
It's actually more than that - to a Narcissist, there is only the Narcissist. Everything and everyone else is only there for the Narcissist's amusement. It is not necessarily emotion, but the solid mindset that only the Narcissist is important - everything else is secondary and only has value if the Narcissist holds that it does. This includes human life.
@@WebShaman01 well said.
The victim and superior at the same time. Pure delusion.
Crybullies. They hit you and cry out in pain.
is that possible?
@@mustangmikep51 feminism 101
@@mustangmikep51no
Romans 1:22
It's like an overgrown child. "I want that one! Now I want that one!"
His response should have finished with 'you're mentally ill,get out of my car NOW!!
That’s because they are just overgrown children … 😂
Most people are. ive seen enough to believe no one ever matures, they just get older. if they had learned manners or common sense they wouldnt be karens and the such as adults.
I think this clip is staged
@@attentionalimpactI don’t think so. I have seen comparable situations.
I was in college, and i had a friend that had a series of bad relationships. I asked her if she prefered bad boys or good guys. She said she preferred bad boys. I told her, "Welcome to your life of disappointment and STDs." She was stunned and I left her sitting there, silent.
Truth and Honor is met with the tital of insensitivity 😮 💕
I had a friend I college like this, it got to the point that I could predict how long any given relationship would last to within a week....and then how long it would be before she found then next guy
Yeah my EX wife made it in her head that she did everything, and I did NOTHING. There was ZERO convincing her otherwise.
Did you try switching roles with her for a day? You can figure out who does everything then.
@@rondasoutherland6882I offered an ex, to go to work and I'll stay at home to look after the kids ( 3 were hers). Then she tries to tell me that it would be easier to work than stay at home. I also pointed out that the house we were currently in was part of my work benefits so we'd have to find a new place.
@drsiigabb9935 that is not a flex. Why not let her go to work and you pay for child care and maid service instead?
@@rondasoutherland6882why doesn't she go to work and pay for it herself? She probably won't even be expected to pay half the bills because she won't earn enough
@patrickday4206 women do go to work and pay for it themselves. I do. This conversation is why I'm single. I can't stand being controlled by a man and told how I have to live or else. You just said the house is free with the job...... so what's the problem with her going to work if she wants?
One of the forgotten roles of the father was to test the men their daughters brought home to make sure he was of good moral character.
And in modern times I don’t think this test should just be for the boys.
It would have been a wonderful moment if my parents straight up told me “Sure she looks fine son, but that woman has some problems.”
Another forgotten role of the father: POP those delusional bubbles that daughters might have.
We cannot appreciate enough those quality women raised by strong fathers.
Because women can’t do it for themselves. They choose with their emotions instead of choosing with reality. I’m not being sarcastic.
Another contributor is the fact that most homes no longer have a father TO test the boys. Its not forgotten; its been removed by the mothers...
As a 30 years old married man we need many more women like You and Peal and a few other fighting against this feminist Dogma !
Beatincheeks always in the whatever soon chat
There insane
lol need in one hand and poop in the other, see which one fills up first
@@user-jh4tv9zq7k what good men's don't want 304 lie r , what society will not collapse?
@@treehouse8501 u mean wish in 1 hand shit in the other see which one u get 1st thats the way the saying goes
I noticed something recently when talking to my grandmother - who is a very critical old lady - She hardly ever criticize based on gender. She's likely to write issues up to someone's race mind you, but never gender. My other grandmother was very much the same.
But, then when we get to my mother's generation - you start hearing a lot more negativity towards boys and men. Like "boys fail in school because they are lazy" etc. "Women = good, men = bad."
And then it dawns on my - my mother's generation is the kids who were growing up during the late 60s and 70s when all the social movements were happening. That's really when the "men VS women" narratives began.
Women who were born before WW2 - they weren't raised to hate men, and they seem to generally speak rather warmly of men.
And... feminists get angry when men's activists point out that "hey, maybe the feminist movement has had a negative effect on men?" Because how dare we point out that one of the biggest social movements in HISTORY isn't perfect.
"You'll never be able to do enough."😮
That one sentence just described my marriage.
“What are women better at then men?”
“We have periods!” 😅
So, more bleeding, eh!? 🤨
Trans men beat women at that too.
Based on how much they bitch about it, not sure I'd call it "better".
Yeah. Anything you can do in a coma, isn't something to brag about.
Periods of insanity?
lol I don’t understand the complaining about men not helping out with housework or being messy. I work 4 days a week, 3 of them from home, and he goes to a job 5 days a week making three times as much as me. I can wash the dishes. He can chill on the couch. It makes sense.
Your husband is a very lucky man for being able to snag a gem like you =)
I hope he also treats you well, as you deserve it
Coz it just selfishness in the end. Also those women alway forget the part men usuaally end up doing the more labor intensive part of maintaining a house too like mowing the lawn, house repair, tree trimming and such.
You're a queen....blessed you🙏
Those little girls claiming they've been cat called, not a chance in the world.
i dont believe cat calling exists
@@kingmasterlord I mean it does just not for them.
If it happened they would have it on video.
“Someone masculine looked in my general direction....I felt uncomfortable....thus I was attacked” probably a modern woman
That's prison time, I don't think they would especially given that as a result. Or anyone would.
You never win an arguement with a woman. You only delay and increase a loss. Most will retreat when given truth, step back and feel resentment, and then come back twice as angry. Truth.
Yeah they find ways to get you back. Probably used to before all of this feminist society crap
If what a person believes is illogical, no amount of logic or facts will work with them. Their belief system is emotional, not based in reason.
The one problem with the delusion calculator is that people keep saying that it gives their chance of finding their ideal man, but thats not the case. It just gives the percentage of people who meet those ideals and standards. Factoring in the probability of even meeting that person greatly drops that number. Lol
Exactly, the chances of you neeting them, being attracted to them, them being attracted to you etc. The actual chances of ending up with a person like that are significantly smaller!
it doesn't even take into account if you both have similar hobbies and interests, political views, religious backgrounds, etc.@@garykidson4489
Yes, thanks for mentioning this. Those people are in a world these mid 304s have absolutely no access to.
is there one for men yet?
@remrem-gx3ml we don't need one. Men don't assume much these days and most aren't deluded enough to think that these women are sincere about anything but hooking up with random hot guys and bilking them out of their hard earned time, money, and attention.
Confirmation bias affects all of us. We seek information that confirms what we want or believe. Overcoming confirmation bias takes a conscious effort.
Wizards First Rule: People are stupid. They will believe a thing because they either wish it to be true or fear that it is.
You know what else they dont get is that the women married to the successful men for the last 20 to 25 years actually got with that man before he was successful and they supported him and they built what they have together. Things that make you go hmmm.
13:59 Norah Vincent, the radical feminist journalist that did some ACTUAL journalism and went undercover as a man for 18 months to prove that men live life on easy mode. She had originally planned for 2 years but couldn’t finish because she was too depressed living life as a man… She did the doctor assisted self deletion BECAUSE of her depression from only a YEAR AND A HALF living as a man in her 53 year life. Someone seriously needs to make a movie about this woman, Daily Wire?
God rest her soul.
God Bless her .. made me sad
When I heard about her story
Norah Vincent was put into a depression due to her experience portraying herself as a man. However, she took her life over two decades later, which is typically ignored by folks telling her story. Her suicide was likely unrelated.
Her assisted suicide was unrelated to the experiment. She has other health issues that made her choose that option. But, the conclusion of her experiment is clear: men don't have it easier.
Wife can't stand how I do dishes, cook, clean, make a bed. She needs to control those things. She has complained about me not helping out... I mentioned her not allowing me to help, the argument heightens, but then I ask her what area of Her Kingdom she is willing to give up to me? I walk away and await her response ..she comes back to reality and will ask for help, for a while...
Also the classic "I know it doesn't make sense, but that's how I feel" You're done, you've nowhere to go.
The only way to win an argument with an irrational person is to not interact with them to begin with
When I feel alone & feel bad that I’m alone I watch videos of women being dumb then I’m glad I’m single.
Single nearly 9 yrs. Have dated a couple of times. But they usually have messy homes and can't cook from scratch.
Amen bro!
No one is cat calling her she's trying to feel better about her self in my opinion
the point about arguments is classic. My SIL is "off her meds" so to speak and has dreamed up an entire drama movie in her mind. Of course, my wife is concerned and asked me what I thought. I just listened to her and asked her "do you want to participate in her delusional drama?"....no, she did not. "Well, my position is that her drama is hers and we don't need it. Let her figure it out". We stayed out of the movie she was directing and although it seems to be one of those 5 part mini-series now, my wife told me she is "so happy I stayed out of it". Of course you are. Life has enough turmoil without participating in someone else's.
I am 63 years young, and still the conflict between living in reality vs fantasy, FANTASY keeps destroying reality! If you believe your FANTASY is truth you are screwed.
You are amazing!
She wanted whichever part of the sandwich she couldn't have:
a) Just because she couldn't have it.
b) She was bored and wanted to manufacture some drama.
c) Both.
Fax😊
A Christina x Alexander Grace collaboration is needed.
It's time for men to go it alone. No crying, no stress, no arguing, just go it alone!!
Yup, its called MGTOW. Men Going There Own Way. And last i checked, its has spread to spain now. Lots of loney women with cats in there future. lol
Kudos to you. A woman that is willing to listen to this at all is rare. You are a gem.
Using logic and reasoning with some women is like planting and hoeing seeds in a minefield.
. . . or in a lava flow. The seeds are incinerated before they can take root.
7:40. I know exactly why he gave her that half first. It's the hand closest to her. We can go farther that he didn't want to reach across himself. Guarantee that's how superficial his thought process was.
i keep both when people do this.
Exactly. Imagine if he went out of his way to cross his hands in a big show of giving her a specific half. That would probably tick her off even more!
What she wanted was for him to defer to her first, offer both and let her pick which one to take. She wants that power in the relationship and for herself to get what she wants and he can have what’s left. When she asks him about his decision process, it isn’t to understand how he thinks, it’s just to dig in and make him commit to a decision tree, so she can find fault with it and make him the bad guy in the relationship that is ‘lucky’ she puts up with his male brain shenanigans
@@seanthompson9163 so she's four.
@@kingmasterlordno need to insult four year olds.
I've seen a lot of comments on TikTok lately where people say that we need to understand it's impact over intent, or something along those lines. "Words hurt" and whatnot.
But it's not. The impact of something that someone says to you, or that reality has on you, is something you create yourself. You allow yourself to feel like a victim, when you're not
modern feminism:
men = women
also modern feminism:
men < women
Let me make algorithm for it:
If (men>women)
{
return "men = women";
}
else return "men < women";
Christine, you're awesome. Living proof that not every woman out there is that delusional
We don't like to be right about this and don't want to be right about this we hate that this is the reality.
We just want nice feminine woman who we can love and care for.
As a man, I always feel exploited in my relationships with women.
If an engineer consulted his emotions while building a bridge, he'd be an architect
With all due respect 99% of any debate or argument I’ve ever seen between a man and a woman, the man is right 90% of the time.
Don’t get me wrong I’m not a misogynist, but men are problem solvers, and we think things through, rather than feeling things through, so we are naturally able to get to the root of the problem, and logically see how to fix it.
Whereas it seems like women focus on many different things relative to the problem, and express how they FEEL about it.
I had a breakup last week due to this. We had a debate, turned argument. I was correct, and I knew it. She walked away to win.
I let her keep waking because no way will I let that be the pattern.
Single again and I'm ok with it.
@@MrAerospecial80 good for you 💪
Best breakdown of today's thinking process of women, hands down. 👏👏👏👏👏
They want reality to bow down to them!
”You can avoid reality, but you cannot avoid the consequences of avoiding reality.” - Ayn Rand
Its so refreshing to hear a beautiful women that lives in reality. You're a gem in a sea of nonsense. Please keep doing your thing. Most men don't know women like you exist
Women is plural …
Don't simp. She is on a grift. She's just like all the women in this video.
@@ma3stro681 non native English speakers exist.
@@ma3stro681 Yes and your point is? The comment was correctly phrased since it was referring to the one female AND other females (which would indicate plurality).
"main character energy" is meant to suggest they read. Just not enough to know the word "protagonist"
We are all the protagonist of our lives, the issue is when someone lacks the self awareness to know that in context (reality) this can't possibly hold true with regards to interactions with the wider world.
@@xavierayayaell546 you missed the point of my joke
@@xavierayayaell546whoooosh
"I used to think it was awful that life was so unfair. Then I thought, 'wouldn't it be much worse if life *were* fair, and all the terrible things that happen to us come because we actually deserve them?" Marcus Cole - Babylon 5
When I was younger I would "argue your facts for the virtue of my feelings" I grew up.
Christine, you're awesome - I have daughters your age and thank God they think like you!
OMG, ditch the woman who complained about the sandwich. As children we do go through that... in my house, the person dividing/dishing up/etc had to allow the other to pick the serving they wanted. But WE WERE CHILDREN and we learned better.
When it comes to faith based relationships sometimes the fear of divine retribution plays a bigger factor in the longevity of the relationship than actual compatibility.
I agree partially because this kind of relationship support can indeed happen with a few couples. To those couples in which it didn't occur, divine retribution doesn't weigh in the relationship. But other benefits religion can bring to the connection between the couple, sometimes do weigh on it.
And about compatibility, it's a factor that complements and strengthen the faith based relationship, just like a normal one. It also guarantees that one of the sides of it, will not initiate savage beast mode and proceed to pull all kind of damaging and bizarre deeds to the partner and the connection between the parts of it.
The faith based relationship traits guarantee that.
As Ben Shapiro would say 'facts don't care about your feelings'.
Except when it comes to Israel.
@@fronttowardenemy9994 You mean Judea, right?
Except he doesn't know much about facts.
"Its complicated". Most underrated channel on RUclips. Glad you highlight this channel.
Dated a woman with BPD once which is the DEFINITION of not living in reality
Well, it's good to know there are still sensible people on the internet.
It's a shame we don't talk about cognitive dissonance more. Too many people wave their credentials about or IQ, ignoring the simple fact that two perfectly intelligent people can read all the same material and reach conflicting conclusions, thanks to such things as anchoring and confirmation bias.
You have to admit majority of conservative women aren't like this.
LOL, they get down for chad and tyrone just as fast as all the rest of them.
@@kiwia8271 not the ones I've known but there's always a chance of a Rino. But no Conservative women aren't nearly as bad as 304s from the Left that are Feminists pro abortion, pro societal and moral corruption.
You're a fool if you believe this imo.
Are you sure about that? Some of these "conservative" women have been exposed as anything BUT conservative.
Lol wtf are you talking about? Both Liberals and Conservatives are right wing and worship money and individualism over people and their communities. They're the same at the end of the day and pretending They're not is not grounded in reality.
When you FEEL like you’re right, even when you’re wrong you’re still right cause you FEEL it.
This certainly highlights why violence is always considered a women's issue. The only time you hear about violence is in the context of ending violence against women, it is never against men.
Even though men are far more often the victims of violence, even though a man alone at night is far more likely to be attacked than a woman...she FEELS less safe, and so it is utterly irrelevant that the man is in fact less safe, she still has it worse.
Life -Debates and argue's isn't about being wrong or right it is about being objective and rational based to what truth and lies!
Blinders.... horses wear blinders.
Blinkers.
@@craigsmith2755 Not necessery. They may translated foreign word literally to blinders.
Adam was not tempted, he gave in..
Einstein said it well. When two parties fight for an extended period of time, both parties are wrong.
Your thoughts and emotions do create your reality. The problem is MOST people use this in a negative way.
Because it is only part of the equation, take the rest out of it and you created doom for yourself and your soundings.
Thats where critical thinking comes in, forcing you to fact check those feelings.
I wouldn't say emotions create your reality. I'd say it's your body's response to said reality.
Therefore they can be wrong, same as with your conscious thoughts. Which is why the skill I think would be great at school is :
Analyzing your emotions. Let them work as your dials. Tell kids that there is part of them that tries to take care of them, and does it behind the curtains, so all we *feel* are results of him trying to care for us. Let them ask "Why would part of me want me to be angry and violent in that situation?" or "Why did part of me want to be happy that moment and laugh" especially where there is something rational that tells them not to listen to it.
Paired with previous examples : "Yes, he broke your toy, but he's toddler. You can't hurt him" and "He's being laughed at. Everyone is picking on him. You should be better".
Emotions in my experience are like this. They orchestrate the neurochemistry so that they can manipulate response of the otherwise rational brain.
In order to "defeat" the emotions you don't want you must first understand as much about your emotions as you can. Because fighting them with brute force is difficult battle that'll leave you without very important tools.
And to understand them, well in my case it's a dialogue not so distant to core gameplay of Disco Elysium. Only I have to guess what my emotions are telling me and watch out for physiological response (I think why is this getting me mad? Is it this, or this or this about it? Once I feel the anger rising up out of the tempo of those thoughts, you have an answer).
The thing is I don't believe we treat are emotions right. We either ignore them, trying to live with rationale alone, and then they hurt us and we grow cold in response.
Or we don't treat them as indicators of our subconscious but as US. Since I want this, therefore I will have it. Impulsivity goes this route. We become the slaves of our emotions.
And the most broad category : We treat them with huge bias. What makes us happy is just part of us. Nothing wrong. Sometimes goes too far, but you can guess when that is with experience. The bad ones? Like anger or sadness? Those we tend to supress, without caring about why those emotions strike, or why so strongly.
Result is we don't know ourselves as much as we'd like, and what's worse, less we could.
Just try it. If you felt strongly about something, sit down and think for a while why it happened the way it happened. Why would your subconscious want your attention right there?
Was it something you could prevent/repeat? Is it something you want to encourage? If not, how to deal with it? It's likely tied to one of many needs, that doesn't go away just because you treated it's symptom.
Thank you for reading all of this,
This is the end of my wall of text TedTalk
Delululand is getting crowded.
When I was 6 years old and asked my Dad why my Mom acted a certain way at certain times, he said that women think with their emotions and that makes them all crazy. That was in 1986, and I've seen it so many times in women from the USA and even Western Europe, but not in most women from Asia. Women from countries where life is hard can't be self-deluded and survive.
My mother unknowingly taught me one life lesson that I live by, no woman can be trusted, they are always sneaking around looking for something better.
See if they did the scar thing with me, I'd probably say something like I'm surprised I expected them to really discriminate against me based off the scar it's almost like they didn't even notice it
Faith in something can be good as long as it isn’t blind faith. Blind faith breeds fanaticism and delusion.
Yes, having the right amount of faith brings hope.
In that case I would use the word "trust".
Faith is an interesting thing. In the religious arena, faith is seen as harmful and deluded. In another arena, say transgender, if you don't totally buy into everything or have "faith" you are the problem.
Have to agree with @WayneMcKenzie over there. Faith is by definition blind trust.
You believe in something despite having anything tangible to support that believe.
If you're sceptic enough you could even argue that faith is trust in the bishop/religious relatives.
If you take a loan and someone you already trusts tells you "I trust him", you'll be more inclined to trust the loan person.
Emotions don't help you understand reality, they help you cope with it.
Cheers Christine
It is called "immaturity".
After 2 horrible long term relationships with narcissistic women who were never happy with anything and would argue with me over absolutely everything and run me down no matter how good i was to them , i finally found a good woman. It's absolutely refreshing , we can talk about absolutely anything and just keep it grounded. So weird to actually be validated and heard in a relationship. Good women are still out there guys , they're a rare gem but they're out there. The appreciation for the little things is such a welcome change , the joy it brings her when i take 2 minutes to send a good morning beautiful , i love you and i hope you have a great day message or when she's genuinely excited and appreciative of me bringing her home her favorite chips or whatever just because... find the woman who genuinely appreciates the little things
44 year old male here. I gave up on relationships 10 years ago. And a lot of it has to do with crap like this. Just easier being alone .
I've worked as a bartender on and off for 20+ years. A woman with absolutely ZERO experience will get a job ahead of me in many situations. Mainly in regular bars, as opposed to a restaurant/hotel bar. Where knowledge of liquors, proper mixing, and service with focus matters more. I just accept it, because I know men will come back to a bar over and over if they're attracted to a bartender, no matter the service.
Because women don’t just offer skill but attraction, the more she attracts a man to the bar the more likely he would buy from the bar.
My point is a woman can have no experience and be unskilled and get chosen for the job first. The why is obvious
Chad fodder is not relationship material.
I hear the streets are pretty cold this time of year though. Perhaps we ought to sell blankets 🤔
"I want it!" mentality accounts for many women living alone.
I can't agree more.
I'm a software engineer and i was reported to HR by a female colleague.
I was under fire while she couldn't execute her assignments.
Ok in the end. Involved in a trouble isn't the first time.
Brother got accused of made up sexual harrasment by someone to save their job, then him and the only other male got pushed out by his boss.
The schools today are telling people what to think, when the only job they were ever supposed to do was teach people how to think. He is correct about emotion being broken in today's society. Truth is that emotions used to be there to warn us of danger, to tell us when something is not right, and most importantly to bridge the gap between individuals. Emotions help us build connections, but these women and children today are being brainwashed by feminists, educators, and socialists who have been taught in college or university that your feelings are all that matter. Feelings are important, but they have to be combined with rational critical thinking. Parents and educators need to teach people how to think for themselves, and stop telling them what to think.
True. But the people behind it all don't want it to stop. 😥
They spend millions to keep it that way.
Hahaha this video is fun. Your facial expressions and nodding are in sync with mine as I watch it.
God bless you Christine!
I found you today and have watched several of your videos. You are really quite impressive and God bless you, your family, your friends, and your future!
You are a rising star, and with your faith in God-your future is endless.
It still makes sense to marry your childhood sweetheart or college girlfriend but beyond that you have to be increasingly delusional.
Why? So you can invest even more years in someone who will leave you because "muh feelings" and wreck your life? Gents, dodge this bullet too, it's the first hurdle.
That's not at all who you should marry imo. My highschool sweet heart is the most toxic woman I've been in a relationship with.
Horse Blinders or Blinkers.
“Hahaha! Main character energy?” Ick is the proper response
Older people used to marry by proximity ... there were way fewer "options" available, and the families would usually know each-other, so wronging your spouse would have consequences.
Now we meet on apps and have access to the world. Our families remain strangers sometimes up until the marriage which can cause tension ... etc.
I'm 35 now, and have accepted the fact that I'll most likely never find someone who will be my peace and warmth.
I was taught to keep my distance from girls, I grew up and keep my distance from women.
my life is full of peace and lacks drama. which increases my peace because women see that as boring.
I win and have no baggage to deal with.
you are a human being. We were not made to be lonely.
@@klaushipp1207 Not once did he say he's lonely..
Damn, he could be party animal, having bbq party every saturday.
@@miroslavstefka5013 and still be lonely, cause he lacks a partner to share everything with.
@@klaushipp1207 this is projection. You can't live alone, you can't cope with this fact, you project this feeling to another person so that you feel less lonely in your misery.
@@dreadd90 Maybe you are projecting here, buddy. Its normal to not be alone and share happiness with a partner, your family and friends. If you are miserable, you maybe chose the wrong partner.
About the kitchen, I actually enjoy cooking so no woman will ever be able to say I do nothing in the kitchen.
The kitchen is my domain.
I taught my wife how to cook a simple meal because het mother felt that modern women should never need to cook.
I cook big in the weekend and put it in the freezer.
On weekdays my wife manages to heat it up without burning, usually.
Going back to our origin story, a young woman basically married the first man to provide healthy food for her.
Sounds like absolutely not independent, at all.
As an adherent to reality I have found that I am apparently the enemy to everyone.
I wish someone would ask these same women. What was there relationship with their fathers?
I love my grilfriend. We will listen to each other express our frustrations and talk through our feelings.
Typically, after listening the response is always the same: "Awwwwwwwww wahh".
8:20 Yes! Faith is the reasonable response to a person. It has to be, otherwise you would never have any friend, or spouse, etc. because you would never have absolute evidence that this "relationship" (I hate this word) will work out or lead to happiness etc. Atheists are fish who do not believe in water.
Atheists can't conceive the idea Christianity believes in the reality of how the universe and world works
We Christians are taught to live and understand the world just as much not to lose God's morals and values
@@DmanLucky_98 Amen. Well said.
You're correct in assuming that relationship requires faith.
But faith in something that can be proven wrong while you're still alive.
If you think you can imagine how it feels to betray that faith in relationship with someone, how much worse would you feel if it turns out even the faith about your soul was badly given?
And lastly : If morals and values we given to you by Christian God, what values and morals have muslims, jews, hindu, buddhists, Shinto, or Aztec deities? What about Greek or Norse pantheons?
My personal problem with God is : Which one? There are too many religions, many claiming that their answer is the correct one.
There can be only one if their claim is correct. So what are the others?
From my point of view, all of them are equally likely to be true. Just as "Shit happened randomly" or "there is universe for every possibility, so the fact we are in one of the working ones is a given".
@@miroslavstefka5013 Yes a rival conceptions of God. ruclips.net/video/yaGwF7A79_w/видео.htmlsi=1oW5KsPCQRe5scvg
@@miroslavstefka5013 Type "The Rival Conceptions of God by C.S. Lewis Doodle " in the RUclips search and you will get a good answer. The fact is that even the strangest beliefs have "some hint of Truth" (CS Lewis). Atheists are fish who do not believe in water.
I used to have a friend that was so delusional that he complained about his job every single time I (or anyone else) talked to him. He described his job as if it were worse than slavery, worse than living in a warzone and being shot at regularly, worse than anything anyone else had ever endured. Here's his job: he sat in a parking booth smoking weed and playing video games and 1-2 times a day had to give someone directions to a nearby building.
That's the funny bit. Now here's the sad bit: 95% of the women I've met in my life are just like him, but he's the only man I've ever met like that out of hundreds.
My ex wife would say I wasn't paying her any attention or she felt ignored. And when I proved her wrong she'd end up mad because "Now you're just trying to make me look stupid. Don't talk to me like I'm dumb." So I would get quiet to keep from saying something I can't take back and I'd get "HELLO!? I'M TALKING TO YOU!? ARE WE NOT HAVING A CONVERSATION!?" To which i would reply "You seem to have all the answers so talk it out with yourself and let me know what I decided because you aren't talking to me. I can't combat how you feel when i showing you what you're saying is wrong"
When the word faith was mentioned, I realized that it will bring up religious views. I don't believe in faith because it's stories written by men and a lot of them aren't based in reality but are very fictional.
For me, I believe in fate. I make my decisions and deal with the consequences of those decisions. I dictate what I do and don't do. God isn't doing this for me. Religion for me is a form of control over the masses to control people and their lives.
Although I 100% agree with ur outlook on religion. Problem is u contradict urself. Fate is a predetermined force that sets ur path & well ur fate from day one. You say you make ur choice & let fate decide but that's not how fate works. U have zero say or choice in fate as it is a higher power that decides from day one & u get no say in it. It's almost worse then but very similar to religious views, u follow a path & do what ur told or not told, either way, whatever u do has consequences & in the end you'll only go to one place that's decided by whatever supposed higher power. Fate decides for you just like other people's supposed gods. In the end, ur religious & u just refuse to admit it to urself & others.
You're inconsistent. You don't believe in religion but you think you dictate your own life but you ALSO believe in fate which means you think everything is preordained.
Men were right?
Yeah, for about the last 200,000 years.
my life isn't a story. its a struggle. its a struggle against the delusion of other people. its a struggle against debt. but mostly its a struggle against depression. i know there's a light at the end of the tunnel. but i rarely see it. but i keep working and stay hopeful. i was married for 18y, and my wife walked out without even giving me a reason. and i think my experience is a common one.