She BROKE DOWN When Her Husband INSTANTLY Moved On
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"I dont want to be with you anymore"
"But dont move on too fast because that will hurt my feelings."
You just described my ex. And when I made it known 2 months after she left that I the woman I was dating had become a GF, she lost her shit.
I reminded her she was the one who moved out and walked away from our 18 year marriage and then thanked her for helping me realize how miserable she made me.
Her punishment was the knowledge she drove me to the arms of another woman and by the time she had realized what she was leaving behind she lost it.
6 months after the divorce, 3 years after we separated, that GF I mentioned above became my wife and I couldn't be happier. 😊
@@TheTriumphbsaWhen being candid, they'll admit the friend zone is their reserve for compliments, free meals, and worst-case-scenario for the wall rushing to meet them.
@@thisdyingsoul76my ex decided to play the “race card” against me because I’m black/cuban and my wife is white and apparently my wife not being from the US makes me a “passport bro” as well.
My ex is still good friends with two of my sisters and all 3 of them are bitter misandrist single mothers.
Nowadays they’ll call me “Carlton” and when my clever wife defends herself or me from their rhetoric, she gets called a racist. Fun times.
Now I'm alone, I feel more relaxed, confident, trouble is, I get touched by women inappropriately,
that if the roles were reversed, would result in an offence. Why are the rules different for them?
It's very annoying, because I'm not allowed to touch them, at all (apart from not being safe!).
And your feelings are far more important than truth, or commitments.
Im sorry ladies, drinking isnt a hobby. Getting your nails and hair done isnt a hobby. Hobbies are constructive and productive.
I despise what drink does to people. So glad I gave it up.
@@monkey39128 it only does that to alcoholics. contrary to what AA wants you to believe, the world is full of plenty of people who have 2 or 1 drinks, stop, and are fine afterwards
Most women do NOT have a single hobby. At my age, all they do is dot over their grandkids. Dotting is fine once in awhile, but that is all they do and its gross.
You would be amazed how much the quality of women you meet improves when you just filter out the drinkers.
It seems to be a virtually obligate combo to every other possible form of crazy.
Smoking weed ain't, either. Coffee and gossiping six days a week every morning until Your kid comes out of daycare ain't a hobby, either. Neither is "having" that kid in the first place. The last one being about the most cruel and most damaging misunderstanding - when it comes to the child.
You do not lose a marriage. You voluntarily give up on it.
Nailed it.
I find it ironic, they destroy relationships over nothing, then get upset and act the victim to try and gain sympathy when they realise they are no longer desirable.
Truth , this happened to me twice lol, regrettably I am currently searching for the one to make it a hat trick 😂🤣
Exactly.
youtube mary and jesus in the quran and mohmmad in the bible and the Torah and the scientific miracles of the quran and mohmmad in hindu scripture
The true irony being the fact that she left her man in *_the exact same situation,_* and that's why he went out found someone else
and they post their L's all over the internet without any care that they are making themselves look like dumbasses because they are telling every man how horrible they are. Bo man that actually sees those videos would date them
The common denominator: nose rings.
Well they behave as herd animals so it makes sense
Is the bull ring Chronicles. 💯😂
Don't forget multiple piercings. Red and blue hair too😂
I don't know why women think tats are attractive either, but I'm 51, so maybe I'm too old to understand?
I was thinking the same thing. Always have that ugly ass ring hanging out of their nose.
Women initiate 70% of all divorces so odds are good that most of these women initiated. I'm not sure why they are so sad?
Women, the partnerless, childless (or single-mommy-ing), working corporate women-jobs variety of 'em, in their late thirties, through their forties, and fifties, are the demographic bracket with the by far most fancy overpriced prescription drugs against foul female moods taken.
"Yes, agreed, but what about the men?" Men might drink, or end themselves, statistically more often, or "in significant numbers", after a divorce the (ex-) wife had initiated, and had then subsequently used to get half of what he ever worked for, inherited, and built, to that point of time, plus mercilessly estranging his kids and still keeping half of his future income.
Both developments are a very saddening, direct consequence of fem Inism and its cruel, toxic, misandrist fallout against traditional families and children. Fem Inism is a helluva pestilence.
Because they followed their feelings off a cliff.
It would be interesting to know that statistic by region. Africa vs Asia vs North America vs South America. Western vs Eastern cultures, etc.
if they are college educated that number goes up to 80%
@@kachdragonflywe all know the statistic without even looking them up.
"a whole bunch of things men dont care about" not true. men care about that.
we call it baggage.
My number one tip to younger men NEVER DATE OR MARRY any women with a nose ring
Yup. Major red flag, like blue hair.
and "forearm" tattoos. I know people like tattoos, but I'd be against most. A cute little butterfly on a calf can be overlooked.
@@Recken1 Do you know any MALE people that like tatts on women? I don't...
Never marry in 2024, and so on. It's only going to get worse
@@richardmason1473me either
I'm 52. One good long relationship behind me. She had a couple of hobbies. She died of cancer.
Since then, I've never come across a woman with actual hobbies. It's all social media bull
Condolences. You've made the right decision.
i am so sorry for your loss. friend!
That’s a terrible loss. At 50+ I can’t imagine trying to get remarried (or even date) after a death of your wife.
Sorry man. I really do mean that. I’m 39 and have been with the same girl since 16. What happened to your parter is my nightmare. How did you cope?
You may find someone worth investing your time and attention again, just don't look for her on dating apps or social media (unless she specifically have a social about real hobbies and post mostly her craft or her enjoyment of doing it)
You'd have better luck in a book club, a craft store or any other actual real places than online.
And, truly sorry for your loss.
Being single for a guy isn't that bad really. Aside from being wired up to want intimacy, everything else is generally okay. I cook for myself, do the dishes, laundry, yard work, chores, house repairs, vehicle repairs, etc. I feel that if men weren't wired for intimacy society would probably collapse.
Women are designed to be the supportive part of a team. They aren't built to be single.
Dudes are meant to lead the team, and to lead, u must be able to function in alone at times. We are built to tolerate being alone more than them
As in one old Soviet comedy movie: "There's no husband in the world who wouldn't dream to be a bachelor"
I literally look at women crying about being alone and I'm like damn yeah, please leave me alone! Lmao how do they feel so "alone" all the time while working with others everyday, going to school with others everyday, like when are they alone? Lmao 8 billion people on the planet, I wish I was alone!
Amen. I'm divorced. Been single for four years. I would have to give up A LOT to be in a relationship. And at this point in my life, I don't think anyone can add to it. (Apart from.sex) I enjoy being single.
@@sMASHsound Exactly why you never see men on social media crying about how hard dating is in 2024!! xD
Only "strong, independent women" are crying on Social Media! lmfao.
Their usual mistake is they keep thinking their Happiness is on the 'other side' rather than looking inwards seeking the light of Gratitude .
They let Envy do the thinking for them.
💯 gratitude really is the solution to so many mental health and relationship problems, and it is *so easy* to cultivate.
Single woman life is extremely glamorized...she doesn't mention all the shit show dating, the burden of one income, or the times she's sleeping in a big bed and wishing the man she divorced and swears she hated was right next to her...she will never admit it.
The grass is not always greener on the other side of that fence.
Strong lack of faith = none of the positive values that come with faith = godless unhappy being to be avoided.
@@kevinleewilliams5119 What positive values come with faith that people who lack faith do not also have?
"I WANNA FOCUS ON MYSELF, I WANNA BE HAPY"...ZERO COMMITMENT, THERE IS WHY YOU FAILED YOUR MARRAGE
I'm a 53 year old guy that's been married going on 29 years. I've worked in the tech industry and understand internet and technology but can't stand Instagram or SnapChat or tiktok. Why do those things even exist? They just seem like platforms for professional victims are people trying to push their ideology on everyone else. I can't even count the number of times I've been called racist or a sexist or misogynist because I didn't agree 100% with whatever trash ideology is the current flavor. I'm certain this comment will probably get me labeled as racist.
Stay strong BASED gramps. The pendulum will swing back one day, it may not be in your lifetime, but its already starting to happen with GenZ. Society will arrive at sanity once again.
Same thing as gotcha games and pron they exist because it exploits current culture and generates wealth.
It's an ego trip, nothing more. The 15 minutes of celebrity, everyday. An addictive Dopamine boost for so many people that dont really know how to get their dose in an other way (and with very little actual effort to deserve the dopamine reward)
There is a great mini series of documentaries on Arte (German French TV channel, so may exist in English) called "Dopamine!" if I remember correctly. You should check it out, it's very informative.
Same here, a decade behind you, same BS.
The algos are built to feed you stuff you have a strong reaction to in order to make you react.
Engagement is all that matters these days, and 8 seconds seems to be all the current generation are capable of giving.
We need the based older gens to step up and slap the younger ones into shape.
Too busy complaining about their feelings to get on with life like we do.
Racist! 😂
I'll never understand why so many women get in front of a camera, and record themselves crying about the mistakes they've made, and are taking no responsibility for. When, will people get that life is not about being happy? Marriage is not about "being happy". It's for family, and you take care of each other, the children, make memories to be looked back on, and one day, when you're much older, it all creates something called contentment. "Happy" is for children thinking Santa Claus has visited, or when you watch your child learn something new. "Happy" is a snapshot in time, that lasts minutes.
It's way past time, for us to bring back shame for stupid, or degenerate behavior.
THEY HAD NO FATHER AND A MOTHER THAT DIDNT CARE
@@ragheadand420roll Not necessarily. They may have had both, but "marriage" is a "trap" of the patriarchy for them.
What "mistakes"?? Rememeber, they knowingly and willing choose make the wrong choices, then call it experience they need to heal from. The word heal has become bastardized.
They are pathetically desperate for attention. Good or bad, they just NEED attention
I don't agree.
I don't have kids and I don't want them. I'm single and I don't want to date. I don't have any family, my parents have been dead since I was in my early 20s and I don't have any extended family.
From what you've said, I'm living a non-life, a pointless existence and shouldn't be happy and that what I'm doing with my life is childish.
I'm not really of the opinion that we're here simply to reproduce. A cycle of people, making people, making people. Why procreate, bring a life in the world not to know happiness but to just replicate?
That's YOUR life, and YOUR opinion, and that's fine. Each to their own. But you can't reduce another person's life to a childish, selfish existence because they haven't followed the same path.
I am aware that, once a person has had a child that that's generally the conclusion they come to. One life ends and another begins. But it doesn't make you a more valid person.
I have a career that brings me happiness by way of improving and in some cases saving a person's life. To me, that isn't childish or irrelevant. Would you say that if it was your child or your partner who's cancer I eliminated?
Probably not.
Anyway. I'm not being combative, I just disagree.
I think that's a bit narrow minded.
Maybe her best friend saw how badly her husband was being treated and wanted to show him that he could be loved
This is undoubtedly the #1 reason
Well Said...
My guess is she cheated, the best friend told him that she cheated, and that is why he left.
@@user-xh2yg4uv9qthat would be unusual. Most of the time women will cover for each other’s terrible behavior.
@@adammcgill9844not always.
Women know how to hurt other women if they have incentive to do so. But that's specific just like Op's theory
No amount of money would be worth losing my husband/best friend, putting my children through a divorce, taking away time with their father, and losing his amazing family who really feel like a second family to me.
I can count on the fingers of one hand the women that I know to have hobbies. I mean, real hobbies, not shopping, drinking, travelling or going out for more drinking.
Once I saw the nose piercing on the first woman I could have wrote the script for her. Ladies, when you leave your husband you are saying I don't love you, I don't want you, I don't want to be around you and yet you still want them to stick around to be friends and emotional support for you. Ummmmm NO.
“Will someone think of the children!”
No, the children can live in the woods eating acorns!
The loss of your best friend, who you've just dragged through the divorce courts.
Nose 👃 ring , RUN AWAY
it's so refreshing to hear a woman not telling shit. so pure! greetings from austria! i like your channel christine 🙂
The only ones celebrating being single are MEN! 😂😂😂
No are coping to. Men and women are ment to be pair bond.
I was struggling hard with PTSD. Not taking care of myself, self isolating, barely eating and bathing. My ex wife went to the internet for advice and all but 1 person said girl he ain't worth it just leave and be happy instead, even though she knew who i was before and how i could be. She listened to the masses. I got help on my own, finally turned my life around and am retired basically at 37 all passive income now. I let her stay my friend because I know what she was dealing with with my problems and i get her side, but I could never take her back. She now actively goes onto those sites and tries to personally reach out to other women with the same issues to save them the regret she feels. A rare woman trying to actually help other women.
Most women aren't ride or die, they won't invest time into a man, they want to select 1 that's already at the finish line.
What these women don't realize is that by doing this your man will never develop more than surface level respect for you. You weren't there when he was fighting demons. You're there after he's got the trophy on his shelf, you're easily replaced by the next bitch.
A girl who stayed with him through the hard times? She's different. She loves him.
Bruh you were the one dealing with problems NOT HER. Stop covering for shit women
Once that trust is broken, it can never be the same again, even if you still have feelings for them. It's sad, but the hard lesson for young men out there, most women will NOT stand by you at your lowest. They are only here to enjoy life as long as you provide them everything, and sometimes even that isn't enough.
I really like Christine’s voice and how she said things.
I flipped the script. I moved to a new appt 2 years ago and my landlord says its ok to have Pets. So I adopted 2 bonded cats as they don't judge me , complain(except about not feeding them when they want it) and cost me way less.
My abyssinians have brought me more happiness and companionship than any romantic relationship.
I bet you drink the juice out of tunafish cans when you feed your cats! what the hell is two bonded cats?
@@user-ue1td7yi4f two cats who have lived together and are socially bonded to one another, such that you would want them adopted as a pair. This, as opposed to acquiring two cats who might not get along very well.
@user-ue1td7yi4f bonded animals are usually sibling animals that became very close to the point of sever health problems if you separate them. Basically. So bonded animals are commonly adopted together
Most men don’t like the nose ring. Get rid of it and increase your chances.
The nose rings disgust me as well BUT they can be REASONED out of them and ultimatums can be delivered. TATTS are FOREVER. Tatted women need to go find their own species to mate with...
we need more women like Christine Grace Smith in the world...
Being single as a guy is actually pretty good once you give up on women.
Life is so much easier and much less miserable.
Except you give on legacy. Y'all are no better than feminist.
what if we make a legacy without our bloodline? what if we're remembered for generations to come?@@timesthree5757
@@timesthree5757 incorrect.
@@christiangottsacker6932 all we are is stepping stones to the next gen. You boys are no better than feminist. No legacy and yer ancestry dies with you.
@@timesthree5757the difference is a guy giving up and just not trying to get women will just live for himself without actively trying to make others miserable.
Not to mention that as a man if you do work on yourself you can get successful and you can get women to come your way without you trying.
In high school i chased after 2 girls i liked and neither ever gave me a chance. In college i realized how much of an idiot i was trying to play nice and respectful to them so i actively forced myself in being rude or uncaring. By the time 1st year of college was over i basically slept with over 40 of the year 1 girls that were in the same year with me.
As time passed i realized how shallow and meaningless that whole thing was and stopped giving a fuck about relationships alltogether, if the right person happens to come my way perfect, if not im perfectly happy as i am. Not to mention not having to spend on a woman generally makes you have 3-4 times more expandable money as a man.
The blonde that said she was a nurse. That tells you everything.
I’ve been curious why nurses are considered red flag….thoughts?
Nursing is a highly stressful job. Take that and mix it with her being around high achieving alpha males (doctors and male nurses) for 12 plus hour shifts. She literally spends more time with these people than her actual family. It's not a good combination for a woman who's supposed to be in a committed relationship. Then, add the fact that women are naturally hypergamous. Always looking for a better mate.
@@samalvarado5425 most are highly strung.
@@samalvarado5425 because most are highly strung.
@@samalvarado5425 Nurses rate men in bed, had a mate back in the 70s who went through every nurse at a hospital of over 100 nurses, why, the first one rated him 10+. And that included all the married ones as well.
"Nothing will stop them from being in your life..." Except you.
Pre-nuptial agreement should be normalized to protect both party's financial assets from exploitation when a divorce happens.
judges are completely out of control, they can decide to ignore the prenup if they want to
never forget, a judge is just a lawyer in a robe
"One person's trash is another's treasure"
You divorced your husband and your best friend saw an opportunity to get a good man. You broke the vows and threw him away, don't get mad if someone else makes him happier than you ever did.
I believe the problem is there are so many kids raised by divorced parents that there is no one to teach them how and where the happiness is in marriage. Yeah, there are times that will push you to the limit, but learning good communication skills from a licensed therapist is essential for most people. My wife and I have had very tough times, but never had better times than with each other in our marriage. I would never give up our marriage for anything, absolutely nothing. There is no tropical island or pyramid you can stand in front of taking pics "living your best life" that will ever compare to the fun, laughter, and love I feel sitting around the house doing 'learn to draw' videos or playing cards with my family.
If the woman wants to leave the marriage then they shouldn't get anything unless they can prove without a shadow of a doubt that there was abuse.
That's fucked up man. So she didn't contribute anything at all? She was just there to do stuff for you? She doesn't deserve anything because she's just a woman and therefore not worth anything except for being a hole....
This channel is really messed up. You guys are really going in because you're jealous and are woman haters. This creator is a pick me. Showing how great she is for putting other women down instead of empowering them and showing empathy. What happened to being decent human beings?
Bro I would take the $1000 and then run back up to my gf and go "no I was just kidding, we robbed him" and take the $1000 and still have a gf and scram 😂
Exactly - most of them (divorced women) are not single - they are LONELY.
This makes me glad I was born in 1957, enjoyed my life when things were more sane and not enough life left to have to be a part of the world as it is now.😢
I think a young man would fall in love with you after 1 hour of listening to you. I am 71 so it only took me a quarter of an hour to realize you were a rare gemstone Grace. 😮😊
As an MD I can relate with the med student. I almost dated a girl who hid her OF even after I asked her point blank. She taught it was not a big deal but as a doctor you depend on the connections you make and the respect people have for you, if you don't respect yourself enough to date a of girl, then your patients won't respect you and you're out of business
Every single aspect of the first woman screams red flag - nose ring, hollow eyes, trauma, and spewing emotions on social media.
After 20 + years and divorce get the heck off of TikTok. Stop putting all of your personal life on it. Get your sh*t together.
They are so proud to be functioning adults. They think it’s absolutely amazing
Amen, to Not having TicToc 👌 Edit* the face you made 28:02 Yeah, Thats the Challenges we face 😂😋
dude cracked the code at 2:00.
Those women want validation, not an opinion on their choiced in life.
I think that as 74 year old widower and living alone for the last 27 years, I understand the universal urge to be happy. What I still don't understand is why don't people just choose to be happy. From bitter experience, I learned to stop feeling sorry for my self and honor the wonderful marriage we had by choosing to feel happy. I've owned two thirty six foot sailboats, two Harley's, and had a lot of interesting times. I made jokes with the ambulance attendants while on the way to a trauma hospital after a head on wreck - laughter is the best medicine. I have learned to never hear myself say "I'll be happy if, or I'll be happy when", because that creates the opposite. In fact, I feel so good I'd pay 5 dollars for a headache!
I sometimes can’t tell if you’re crying or if you just having the flue 🤧
"I lost my best friend."
Well apparently not.
I thought you were your best friend. Narcissism breeds contempt for others.
at 4:10 the woman whose best friend ended up with her ex-husband...... I'll bet that this best friend had a detrimental part in their breakup and talked the woman into it. Because she had an eye on her husband........ This woman fell for it hook, line, and sinker.
Yes, by all means, let’s make sweeping statements and broad condemnations of divorced women. It’s such a good look.
Initiating divorce doesn’t mean you can’t have feelings, like sadness, about it. Moving on from a bad relationship or marriage is never easy, even if you’re the one walking away.
She wants to focus on herself. She's done nothing but focus on herself.
Christine, grab a tissue!
Yeah a 33yo trying to date a 19yo is a red flag. That woman is right.
And yet all women 19-25 want to date men that are older than them, because they have the money and resources to "take care of them". They sure as sh*t don't want men their own age, (unless they are the sons of millionaires) because they have nothing yet. The ONLY time it's a "red flag" for a woman, is when they are 35+, when men don't want their run through, saggy, infertile butts with more baggage on board than a 7,000 passenger cruise ship.
The thing that should be taught to EVERYONE is that you should ONLY take advice from people who HAVE WHAT YOU WANT. If you want a marriage that lasts for 19, or 30, or 56 years…. TALK TO PEOPLE WHO HAVE THAT, and DO NOT take advice from people that don’t.
Many call it a nose ring, I've always called it a cow ring.
Finally someone else calls it what it actually is!💯💯💯💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿
How can a woman complain about losing a best friend and a partner when she divorced him? Isn’t if you’re divorcing a spouse, it’s because you no longer feel they’re a partner and a best friend?
My wife left me because she said I needed to work on improving myself. I pondered what she told me and took it to heart. Once I had self improved she wanted to come back. Sadly for her, I could now attract a better woman.
12:21 "Men don't wear seat belts?"
"Men don't do birthday dinners??"
"Men don't eat fish??"
What men don't do those things other than guys who don't care about safety or birthdays? I'm genuinely confused. Who is telling that lady these things? Also, bravo to the guy for getting her a Lyft instead of driving her. I wouldn't want that toxicity, either
Acknowledge & appreciate what you got before you lose & realise who you had✌🏽
Christine you are a breath of fresh air. You are gorgeous inside and out. I'm so lucky to have a wife who like me hates money and neither of us has been on Tiktok or instagram and never will be!
The problem isn't just tiktok, but all social media. There is an old quote that summarizes most of that people "envy is the thief of joy".
Some problems have existed for longer than we would like to admit.
Guys were probably silently suffering for years. Imagine the relief when the woman gives the man an opportunity to break free from his responsibility to be loyal to her
Nothing as strange as people, some ladies can live on their own and prefer to be not attached by choice and be as happy as others.
"Why does everyone run to Tiktok?" -- Well, misery loves company, that's why.
The problem is you don't admit to yourself that you are wrong,that you made a mistake.
To be fair, in the US we don't bother learning what other nation's flags look like - most of us don't know what other state's flags look like.
He's dating a 19 year old for the same reason that if you don't want a bad apple, you don't go to the barrel you go to the tree.
She said, she supported his dreams and aspirations....doesn`t she has dreams and aspirations on her own? Maybe that`s the issue? A LTR or marriage is about supporting each others dreams and goals and not just the goals and dreams of one partner!
Hence divorce ...doesn't mean she can't be upset about it. It still hurts.
This channel is messed up.
Screams co-dependent!
Reminds me of my ex, after we split, i bumped into her once in Wetherspoons, one of the first questions she asked "do you still love me?"i replied "i did for the longest time, but not anymore, you broke my heart" point is i dont think the single life is all she thought it was
I like your channel, Christine, 😁. Some people just don't understand that life is hard and often times painful. . .
The guy who took the $1000 knows that he can just call her from around the corner and take her for a meal and tell her he outsmarted the guy. There was no rule saying he had to leave her for good or couldn;t immediately get back with her.
Women tend to not realize that happiness is a short term feeling
The saying I want to be happy is a you problem and not anyone’s responsibility
What "mistakes"?? Rememeber, they knowingly and willing choose make the wrong choices, then call it experience they need to heal from. The word heal has become bastardized.
"I don't think it's working": what a great line.
Supporting their dreams, their goals, their aspirations.... Don't you mean our dreams, goals and aspirations...
15:45 as far as I'm concerned, if I ever date someone I know turned me down in the past complains about trauma since the trauma they faced since turning me down.
I will simply put it as, "that's none of my concern, if you stuck with me it would never have been an issue in the first place, that's your problem to deal with not mine" in a nutshell "build a bridge and get over it".
I've dated exes and people who've turned me down in the past.
For one, I look down on all my past selves because I'm always improving, I'm a better me than ever before, and I wouldn't want to date the person I was 10 years ago.
That said, I wouldn't have traumatized them thenway some of their exes did, and so I'm not going to pay the penalty by changing who I am to compensate for it.
A past version of myself would've, and trust me, it's not worth it.
You do you, be who you are enjoy what you enjoy, if she wants to be in your life she'll find a way to push past her problems that are holding her back.
I've heard the whole "wearing a seatbelt is icky" thing multiple times now, and I am still as bamboozled as I was the first time. What the actual F@$§?! Following reasonable safety measures to not DIE is totally sassy and un-manly. Yeah...ummm....What?!
If you break up, and the other person is instantly their best self, you were the problem.
Sadly, their personal happiness trumps that of everyone else, 'cos only they matter.
"I initiated a divorce against this man, and now HE is happier than ME! Why does HE suck so much?"
If you're chasing "happiness," you will never BE happy! Happiness comes from MEANING. Try reducing the suffering in the world around you...that gives meaning, and meaning gives happiness.
If the patriarchy were real, divorce laws wouldn't ruin men the way they do.
I've noticed a lot of these channels that hold modern women accountable don't seem to balance things out...that woman talked about her best friend falling in love with her husband....put yourselves in her shoes, does that sound like something you would want to happen in your own personal lives? If my best friend (who is a trusted sister at this point) did that to me I would be devastated too...why does holding women responsible entail scoffing at them even when they go through actual crap????
American guy here hello. High school degree. College degree... I have never had a single class on geography.
I didn't think my life would come to this. I mean... I was married, I had girlfriends, I had a kid. I had a job...Now I'm 43 and lost everything. It feels like I cannot attract a female if my life depended on it. Luckily it doesn't. I'm naval lint to women. BUT I have learned to rejoice for other people's happiness. My friends have lovely wives, money, shit together. How about feeling happy for others instead of looking at your own misery all day? It's worth celebrating. And after all...it will all perish once we leave this planet. Let us celebrate life right now!!! Don't do drugs. Life is the best drug. Letting go of your ego is the best thing you can do if you want to be happy.
In The Netherlands everyone automatically marries on prenups. What's his stays his, what's hers stays hers. Only things you get together, while in the marriage, are common property and have to be split if there's a divorce.
When my ex-wife left me, she moved out and we were separated for about 6 months. I tried multiple times to go to marriage counseling but she refused. I finally asked if there is any chance that we will work things out and she said no. So I filed for divorce. After the divorce was finalized, I started dating again and one of my ex-wifes friends saw me on a date and my exes friend told her that she saw me on a date. My ex called me crying and screaming at me and calling me a POS and that I never cared about her.... blah blah blah. Then she proceeded to tell me that if I get married again, she's going to kill me and burn down my house! So in the meantime, she married a doctor, had a kid with him and he served her divorce papers within a year on her 1st mothers day by the same attorney I used, lol..... joke's on her!!
I now understand the saying “Amazing Grace” 🤣🤣
JK, but you are great, have a nice day.
10:10 That dude is a genius. He asked if he made sure he could take that money _right now,_ then sent her a text saying something along the lines of "Meet me around the corner, we just got $1000."
LOL! It's always the Nurses.
Fellas make sure you tell your GF you will marry her in all ways without the marriage certificate and the gov involved.
I swear this has been my life motto since I read the biography of Douglas Mawson about 15 years ago... Factus non verbus. Deeds, not words!
I try to live my life by walking the walk. I don't even bother talking the talk... I let my actions do the talking for me.
I learnt to like my own company . I dont NEED anyone. However, i have a woman who is the same but we decided to have it together. We never argue, only love. Took me 50 years but i made it
Kinda sounds like hubby CHEATED with the best friend. Nowhere does it say nor does she act like this was her idea.
I'm normally on the side of the guys when it comes to content like this, but everything in her language suggested he wanted to leave, and she decided not to fight.
I also don't get this idea that "What's meant to be, will be no matter what you do or say around those people." That's just straight up cope for responsibility.
People need to think about what it is like if your partner dies. It could happen in 2 years or 40 years or even longer.
Divorce is easy compared to that.
There is usually a reason people get divorced and there is a reason people die. People today need to figure this shit out.
I almost fell for it for like 3 seconds then realized what day it was and that the developers said they’d never release it again and those few that have it have it. It’s why they made the umbral version for the most part.
“I’m a divorced alcoholic woman approaching middle age. Follow me for relationship advice.”
"i want, i want, i don't want, i want..." sounds very egoistic to me
The fake videos are really the absolute worst. Part of the reason dating sucks is because of all the lies on social media
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Christine - You're 45 what do you bring the table...?
Me - Baggage!