You Cringe you Lose: Pick-Up Artist Masterclass

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  • Опубликовано: 15 ноя 2024

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  • @jello4835
    @jello4835 6 месяцев назад +7771

    That first woman is awesome. Like "Yes I am being paid to be here, but I am NOT being paid to be nice."

    • @veronicab15
      @veronicab15 6 месяцев назад +253

      I think a lot more women would actually speak their mind if they had her kickboxing skills and the degree of safety that comes with them 😅

    • @shannonceleste5557
      @shannonceleste5557 6 месяцев назад +185

      @veronicab15 they're in a controlled environment. That fact changes everything.

    • @HouseCoatClub
      @HouseCoatClub 6 месяцев назад

      I think if all men were hit on at least once the way these guys hit on women this shit would stop pretty quickly or at least lessen.

    • @spencer9939
      @spencer9939 6 месяцев назад +12

      That was so sad for real. Blind leading the blind.

    • @marcusellby
      @marcusellby 6 месяцев назад +12

      I can't imagine being an female actor and just stand there and listen to this crap

  • @casrrole
    @casrrole 6 месяцев назад +12461

    ”but shes smiling” my brother in Christ that’s what you do when you’re uncomfortable

    • @panicathogwarts
      @panicathogwarts 6 месяцев назад +591

      And so you're slightly less likely to get murdered 🫠

    • @kjadan101
      @kjadan101 6 месяцев назад +133

      Yes, rictus is NOT encouragement, my dude.

    • @lulu_Lm
      @lulu_Lm 6 месяцев назад +171

      @@panicathogwarts it's a defense mechanism.

    • @vomvale_yt
      @vomvale_yt 6 месяцев назад +66

      Or because you got the front seat at a circus...

    • @Kelsey1994
      @Kelsey1994 6 месяцев назад +78

      But it’s OKAY if she’s uncomfortable remember?!

  • @devilsadvocate2861
    @devilsadvocate2861 6 месяцев назад +1639

    She's smiling because she's living the dream. Absolutely roasting the fuck out of this guy in front of a room of men he's trying to impress 🤣

    • @StMartin7
      @StMartin7 6 месяцев назад +78

      And got paid to do it

    • @StMartin7
      @StMartin7 6 месяцев назад +45

      I guarantee they paid her before hand that’s why she didn’t gaf

  • @lanceelliott2504
    @lanceelliott2504 6 месяцев назад +3379

    "because youre a psycho, probably in more ways than I know right now"
    Woman in the first clip got his ass.

    • @nathangaspacio6128
      @nathangaspacio6128 6 месяцев назад +90

      shout out to her for roasting him for that dreadful attempt. Feel so bad for the ones that just gotta stand there.

    • @astromigui
      @astromigui 6 месяцев назад +73

      Kuddos to her, she was right to trust her instinct obviously. This guy was a creep and she was laughing to the fact that he was obnixious about it

    • @Random-sk6hm
      @Random-sk6hm 6 месяцев назад +23

      Cooked him then took his money too 😂

  • @bellamymonroe
    @bellamymonroe 6 месяцев назад +10675

    "you think i'm a sexual pervert?" uh! actually yeah now that you mention it?!!???

    • @MsPiinkFllamingo
      @MsPiinkFllamingo 6 месяцев назад +228

      He gets that a lot obviously. 😬

    • @juni4626
      @juni4626 6 месяцев назад +55

      thought exactly the same 🫣

    • @mausebaer69
      @mausebaer69 6 месяцев назад +97

      fr like that wasn't what i was trying to say but if the shoe fits, sure...🤷🏽‍♀

    • @inanimatemist8610
      @inanimatemist8610 6 месяцев назад +59

      Yeah, aint nobody asking that unless they guilty 😂

    • @phillipshoemakr
      @phillipshoemakr 6 месяцев назад +31

      That guy was the worst by far. Every single thing he said was wrong.

  • @dannieon
    @dannieon 6 месяцев назад +755

    " Is it okay if she's not comfortable? yes." OK, so what I'm hearing is that you CAN tell when women are uncomfortable and you're choosing to ignore it.

  • @blakeharrison3972
    @blakeharrison3972 6 месяцев назад +5100

    Every guy’s worst nightmare is being called a creepy psycho or a sexual pervert except this dude who’s arrogantly both

    • @JonahNelson7
      @JonahNelson7 6 месяцев назад +199

      Yeah Cody’s pretty weird

    • @grey_f98
      @grey_f98 6 месяцев назад +60

      out of context, Cody gets a lot crazy messages on his comments sections

    • @BeansFreak
      @BeansFreak 6 месяцев назад +27

      ​@@JonahNelson7LMAOOO

    • @vomvale_yt
      @vomvale_yt 6 месяцев назад +2

      Agreed.

    • @rebekahkatter1432
      @rebekahkatter1432 6 месяцев назад +40

      But which would he RATHER be

  • @eviekiernan7613
    @eviekiernan7613 6 месяцев назад +4241

    "Is it okay if she's not completely comfortable? Yes" crazy that these neckbeards are out in the wild

    • @vomvale_yt
      @vomvale_yt 6 месяцев назад +95

      I think they are mixing being uncomfortable and flirty embarrassed. They need to read a room honestly.

    • @milkbread5036
      @milkbread5036 6 месяцев назад

      @@vomvale_yt A lot of them severely lack emotional intelligence to be able to read the room.

    • @thejosh3866
      @thejosh3866 6 месяцев назад +98

      For real. The first lesson in his course is probably how to build your tolerance to pepper spray

    • @dismantledbrain5910
      @dismantledbrain5910 6 месяцев назад +17

      He said "absolutely", which is even worse

    • @carlpanzram7081
      @carlpanzram7081 6 месяцев назад +5

      Honestly I think this was more of an exercise. Be really weird and disagreeable to build like tolerance and understanding of rejection?
      I can't believe anyone would think that his barrage was anything but repulsion.

  • @sol3a918
    @sol3a918 6 месяцев назад +490

    The fact that these so called coaches have paid women to be there and 100% of them missed the opportunity to ask HER how she would like to be approached and what would work on them is beyond me, theyre assuming they know what women want better than ACTUAL women, how delusional can one be bruv

    • @johnsonjunior547
      @johnsonjunior547 5 месяцев назад

      Well... hate to break it to you but women are terrible at knowing what they want and how they want to be approached.

    • @abbiereynolds8016
      @abbiereynolds8016 5 месяцев назад +8

      They basically just hire them as props. If they were serious about giving advice they would ask her for her input.

  • @farquharanna7550
    @farquharanna7550 6 месяцев назад +2410

    "This is what girls say, that they are paid to sit with me." Is the funniest accidental confession I've ever heard.

    • @MissSeedy
      @MissSeedy 6 месяцев назад +29

      "...right" 😂

  • @SareeseTheFirst
    @SareeseTheFirst 6 месяцев назад +2186

    Women sometimes smile as a defense mechanism bc their instincts are saying “you’re in danger, lower the threat level - smile and maybe the situation will ease up.” I neeeeeeed men to recognize a genuine smile vs a fawn response.

    • @vola700
      @vola700 6 месяцев назад +27

      Oop there it is! 100 correct

    • @Anna-ik8nn
      @Anna-ik8nn 6 месяцев назад

      Lots of men actually aren't idiots and DO notice, they just don't care because if they know you're going to reject them, they want to make you scared so that they can at least still feel powerful. It's sickening

    • @Random-sk6hm
      @Random-sk6hm 6 месяцев назад +41

      Exactly do these guys not understand what a polite smile is

    • @masochistic_art
      @masochistic_art 6 месяцев назад +28

      was literally going to say that, this was just fawn responses stitched together and that's why it's so unbarable to witness, their bodies are literally having a fawn response to perceived danger!!

    • @nicolascage2259
      @nicolascage2259 6 месяцев назад +12

      lol you guys act like only women do this, when this is a natural response to every single human being in this situation

  • @likelyllek
    @likelyllek 6 месяцев назад +419

    The way Cody knows exactly what the fck I'm feeling after every clip- "TAZER" "TAZER"

  • @rawkrXbabee
    @rawkrXbabee 6 месяцев назад +3913

    idk why but I wish Kelsey was here for this one, her reactions would've been so good

    • @Spitflies
      @Spitflies 6 месяцев назад +250

      Definitely think another roundup of these videos with Kelsey is needed 😂

    • @jobellywelly7025
      @jobellywelly7025 6 месяцев назад +54

      I'm dying just thinking about it. We need this 😂

    • @impolitepinecone2328
      @impolitepinecone2328 6 месяцев назад +16

      This is such a great idea omg

    • @pinkblink0211
      @pinkblink0211 6 месяцев назад +7

      omg absolutely

    • @downheartted
      @downheartted 6 месяцев назад +8

      kelsey is the only thing that makes his videos funny tbh😭😭 I love her

  • @Lenape_Lady
    @Lenape_Lady 6 месяцев назад +6817

    Guy: asking “are you scared” MULTIPLE times while trying to start a conversation with a strange woman.
    Also Guy: Why is this woman creeped out and scared by me?

    • @drinas2783
      @drinas2783 6 месяцев назад +197

      I just barely started this video but asking "are you scared" is CRAZY

    • @yamothaisaverynizlady
      @yamothaisaverynizlady 6 месяцев назад +79

      It's honestly probably good that they get a warning, like when a frog has a bright color so you know they're poisonous. He just shouldn't be talking to women at all though that's the better option.

    • @kaciedurso
      @kaciedurso 6 месяцев назад +83

      “I can’t understand why they choose the bear”

    • @_letstartariot
      @_letstartariot 6 месяцев назад +37

      If a guy said that to me, I would immediately wonder if I should be scared, and then I would be scared, and then I would find the exit. But ‘bam, sex!’ apparently.

    • @sunnyandthechlo
      @sunnyandthechlo 6 месяцев назад +34

      A guy in a bar told me that I looked really nervous and freaked out, because I kept looking around for my friends. His response was "don't worry, I won't kidnap you...unless you want me to." I was just trying to be a responsible friend and drive them home safely man, I didn't sign up for this.

  • @wubbyamazon111
    @wubbyamazon111 6 месяцев назад +341

    If a man told me he trashed my outfit because I intimidated him and he didn’t know how else to approach I would literally be the meanest I could ever be. That is absolutely lame.

    • @pbee.njayay444
      @pbee.njayay444 5 месяцев назад +13

      Absolutely, that’s such pathetic behavior I wouldn’t hold back either the audacity and disrespect esp if I wasn’t in a good mood it’s a wrap

  • @coralee1577
    @coralee1577 6 месяцев назад +2562

    The first guy is actually 'call the cops' worthy. Especially after he whipped that camera out, and couldn't decipher her smiling was out of discomfort because he basically referred to himself as a sexual pervert. 😭

    • @RoseAllDayyy
      @RoseAllDayyy 6 месяцев назад +86

      Some of these guys get off on the discomfort and pretend not to be aware of it.

    • @coralee1577
      @coralee1577 6 месяцев назад +18

      @@RoseAllDayyy that's even worse !!

    • @bartsimba4
      @bartsimba4 6 месяцев назад +12

      He was so socially inept compared to her, you love to see it 😂

    • @coralee1577
      @coralee1577 6 месяцев назад

      @@bartsimba4 right 😭😂

    • @shannonceleste5557
      @shannonceleste5557 6 месяцев назад +11

      @bartsimba4 nsh, I _don't_ love to see it
      No one enjoys feeling stuck in a conversation wherein the other person is completely unaware about how to act appropriately

  • @MamaSwole
    @MamaSwole 6 месяцев назад +14681

    “I think you’re a creep”💀💀💀

    • @nicc6
      @nicc6 6 месяцев назад +814

      She's so real for saying that lmao

    • @R2d2..
      @R2d2.. 6 месяцев назад +31

      💀

    • @garou9914
      @garou9914 6 месяцев назад +220

      she's just being honest

    • @carolinatorres7575
      @carolinatorres7575 6 месяцев назад +223

      wish I had the courage to tell some people that 😭

    • @izzy9451
      @izzy9451 6 месяцев назад +437

      then followed up with the "yeah im being paid to" like oh my god COOKED

  • @mardefondo1774
    @mardefondo1774 6 месяцев назад +263

    they seem to think theyre like taming wild animals or something omg

  • @rm_antic
    @rm_antic 6 месяцев назад +1969

    Your opening pick up line being "what disability would you prefer to have?" is beyond my comprehension.

    • @dolomedestenebrosus9564
      @dolomedestenebrosus9564 6 месяцев назад +143

      Confusingly mashed together with the completely different question of "do you have these disabilities" and "you seem like you maybe do" lol WHAT

    • @rm_antic
      @rm_antic 6 месяцев назад +73

      @@dolomedestenebrosus9564 like he definitely sees adhd as a cute quirky manic pixie dream girl character trait someone would be charmed to hear him relate to them, and not a disability. His clips were especially hard to watch out of everyone in this video 🤮

    • @Adam25826
      @Adam25826 6 месяцев назад +5

      @@dolomedestenebrosus9564he was very obviously nervous in that interaction and was just saying anything that came to mind to save the convo cuz he knew it completely derailed. On top of that he was also obviously creepy about it and everyone could feel it.

    • @coolbabbit639
      @coolbabbit639 6 месяцев назад +42

      He was trying to insult/neg her. She shut him down though. Good for her, she made him look like the fool he is.

    • @rm_antic
      @rm_antic 6 месяцев назад +32

      @@Adam25826 he didn't come across as obviously nervous to me, he came across as arrogant and ignorant, which is a winning combo if I've ever seen one 😂

  • @SkyLivi
    @SkyLivi 6 месяцев назад +1179

    "She's probably used to just turning and walking away when she doesn't like your approach" yeah that's called getting rejected, captin body language.

  • @keeganmiller3029
    @keeganmiller3029 6 месяцев назад +469

    The blueberry eye rizz is insane. Especially considering the soul patch he's rocking. INSANE. 😂

    • @karolinitortellini
      @karolinitortellini 6 месяцев назад +36

      My whole body shriveled up, turned into dust and I think even disintegrated.

    • @keeganmiller3029
      @keeganmiller3029 6 месяцев назад +5

      @@karolinitortellini guys are so freaking creepy

    • @mathiasnkristensen
      @mathiasnkristensen 6 месяцев назад +21

      It's wild how some men think it's perfectly fine to enter someone's personal space like that and use "flirting" as an excuse. Acting as if you want to peel out a woman's eyes is just horribly creepy. Don't even start moving closer to a person's face without their permission. How can somebody not understand boundaries? You can easily flirt at a regular distance.

    • @keeganmiller3029
      @keeganmiller3029 6 месяцев назад +2

      @@mathiasnkristensen Totally agree, like maybe just try being normal and keep compliments normal and not creepy and see how that works out lmao. Geez, too many creepers out there

    • @DrBacalex
      @DrBacalex 5 месяцев назад +3

      The haircut is criminal as well

  • @arnimellner3357
    @arnimellner3357 6 месяцев назад +7542

    "are you guys learning anything?" 💀

    • @carolinatorres7575
      @carolinatorres7575 6 месяцев назад +273

      they're learning what NOT to do 😂

    • @gkb_wildlife
      @gkb_wildlife 6 месяцев назад +471

      someone in the audience saying "no" 😂

    • @nathangaspacio6128
      @nathangaspacio6128 6 месяцев назад +107

      @@gkb_wildlife that gives me hope at least, it's hopefully just a bunch of dudes with social anxiety that took a course because they didn't know where to start taking steps toward putting themselves out there, but still have enough awareness not to practice this shit.

    • @vogelvrouw
      @vogelvrouw 6 месяцев назад +35

      Imagine being paid to be hit on in front of a class, and that train wreck happens.

    • @johanrojassoderman5590
      @johanrojassoderman5590 6 месяцев назад +31

      ​@@gkb_wildlife I feel like that's part of why she burst out laughing too. He answered that in a split second with no hesitation xD

  • @professionalgiraffe
    @professionalgiraffe 6 месяцев назад +857

    It's SO OBVIOUS with these guys that they have absolutely no interest in the woman or even in recognizing her as a human being. They look at women like they are a piece of meat. The guys who can talk to women like they talk to their own friends (i.e. regular people), and can read uninterested signals and leave them alone, are the ones that don't seem like creeps.

    • @christinepoppy3277
      @christinepoppy3277 6 месяцев назад +62

      Yes! Guys like this don’t consider understanding consent and treating women like human beings as prerequisites for dating. And they probably explain it away by insisting women are different from men, but being fearful of people who don’t respect your safety or autonomy is a natural human characteristic and being a woman doesn’t mean you can override those fears.

    • @Goldlucky13
      @Goldlucky13 6 месяцев назад +15

      they're such weirdos. like obviously social cues don't come easy for everyone, and i can empathise with being lonely. but treating the entire "getting laid" scenario like a game/secret that they're unlocking is so uncomfortable, and i do not envy women who are the targets of such behaviour. you're so right, they aren't recognising the women as people, just like.. achievements

    • @Woo_Woo_Woman
      @Woo_Woo_Woman 5 месяцев назад

      Typical of promiscuous people.

  • @godofgods9432
    @godofgods9432 6 месяцев назад +394

    One of my biggest fears is making women uncomfortable and there’s classes teaching men how to

    • @carlpanzram7081
      @carlpanzram7081 6 месяцев назад +2

      I belive that was actually an sensitivity exercise. These type of guys often have insane social anxiety, so it might be useful to be weird and uncomfortable on purpose, in order to build confidence and comfort.

    • @mathiasnkristensen
      @mathiasnkristensen 6 месяцев назад +66

      ​​@@carlpanzram7081not an excuse to bother women like this. You can have social anxiety and still look at people like humans instead of sex toys. These courses literally teach objectification.

    • @Khaegch-favh
      @Khaegch-favh 5 месяцев назад +7

      I wish there were more men who DONT want to make us uncomfortable!

    • @sunitagupta-is5ku
      @sunitagupta-is5ku Месяц назад

      ​@@Khaegch-favhwe need more women who are not victimizing themselves

  • @FrumiousMing8
    @FrumiousMing8 6 месяцев назад +772

    "Those natural human feelings start to come out"
    Yeah, fight or flight...

    • @beetrickson602
      @beetrickson602 6 месяцев назад +9

      Yeah, fight the urge to make out or flight straight back to their house obviously

    • @alecroy78
      @alecroy78 6 месяцев назад +6

      This comment needs more love

  • @uwulils
    @uwulils 6 месяцев назад +4067

    The main issue with these guys is they interpret a woman "laughing and smiling" as always good. As a woman, I can tell these women were laughing and smiling because they were extremely uncomfortable

    • @noelleirina5628
      @noelleirina5628 6 месяцев назад +171

      and also because the whole thing was ridiculous.

    • @Ninjustin
      @Ninjustin 6 месяцев назад +126

      As a man who isnt a psychopath it seemed pretty clear. These creeps do not represent all, or even very many, men. The dudes in this video are actual predators. I think they're preying on young and insecure men/boys.

    • @Paintballman251
      @Paintballman251 6 месяцев назад +135

      I feel like some of them know what the woman is feeling but try and play ignorant to it on purpose and try and hide behind the “she was smiling and laughing”. Which is more terrifying.

    • @semicolon.advocate
      @semicolon.advocate 6 месяцев назад +49

      @@Paintballman251 Yeah I think this is actually more likely, they know but they don't care

    • @iainwmacintosh
      @iainwmacintosh 6 месяцев назад +49

      As a guy my natural instinct in uncomfortable situations like this is to smile and chuckle slightly at anything said, these guys are either purposefully not caring or cannot read any social cues

  • @abaeterno
    @abaeterno 6 месяцев назад +70

    Sometimes I think I’m bad at flirting and constantly worry about coming off as creepy. Then I remember guys like this exist. And I feel a lot better about myself. Thank you Cody.

    • @sarakotevska5089
      @sarakotevska5089 6 месяцев назад +4

      Bro if that’s you in the pfp, you’re majestic af

    • @jayjaytetley9289
      @jayjaytetley9289 4 месяца назад

      You're good looking enough to not need to worry too much about that.

  • @asleepeep
    @asleepeep 6 месяцев назад +696

    It is wild that when they do demonstrations they never ask the actresses for their thoughts or opinions. They just state so matter-of-factly that she is surely into it while she just stands there like "😐"

    • @brittanycrowe-howell4806
      @brittanycrowe-howell4806 6 месяцев назад +16

      Yes! I came to say the same thing!!

    • @Cashhhhew
      @Cashhhhew 6 месяцев назад +14

      That’s the same for all of these redpill bro podcasts lol

    • @taylaprichard8314
      @taylaprichard8314 6 месяцев назад +1

      Haha I was thinking the same thing while watching this

    • @avavavaa
      @avavavaa 6 месяцев назад +9

      They treat the women like a prop literally 😭

  • @kaijukebox
    @kaijukebox 6 месяцев назад +1224

    Hey Editor, I appreciated you taking the time to remove the soul patch from that guy for 3 frames just for the bit. Your effort is noticed.

    • @GoofyJuice
      @GoofyJuice 6 месяцев назад +166

      lmao glad you enjoyed it, thanks!

    • @aimeewank7859
      @aimeewank7859 6 месяцев назад +35

      Agreed! I was slightly less skeeved out for a few seconds! Good job 👏🏼👏🏼😂

    • @leebubbles
      @leebubbles 6 месяцев назад +11

      Time stamp pls😭😭

    • @gnat4999
      @gnat4999 6 месяцев назад +36

      ​@@leebubbles12:02

    • @leebubbles
      @leebubbles 6 месяцев назад +8

      @@gnat4999 thank you so much beautiful human

  • @yellowdeli
    @yellowdeli 6 месяцев назад +472

    My favorite pickup line is “Wow, you have some… beautiful skin.. mind if I wear it?”

    • @mathiasnkristensen
      @mathiasnkristensen 6 месяцев назад +51

      Remember to smile though. Otherwise it can be interpreted as something weird.

    • @runningriot6399
      @runningriot6399 6 месяцев назад +21

      @@mathiasnkristensenalso your gonna want to lean in as close as you can to her before saying that. Works every time.

    • @josiahbaumgartner7643
      @josiahbaumgartner7643 5 месяцев назад +6

      @@mathiasnkristensen make sure you smile really big too

    • @mathiasnkristensen
      @mathiasnkristensen 5 месяцев назад

      @@josiahbaumgartner7643 If you're really good at flirting, you may even want to use the "grab and smile" method. Physical touch is key in a potential relationship, so make sure to show them what you can offer. A good, tight hug is always irresistable. Or just squeeze their skin (arms, legs, face etc.) if you're up for some casual flirting.

    • @leeguetraining
      @leeguetraining 3 месяца назад

      😂😂😂😂 omggggg

  • @demJem09
    @demJem09 6 месяцев назад +979

    Bro the "are u guys learning anything from this?" and the "no" audience response 😂

    • @ErikaCartet
      @ErikaCartet 6 месяцев назад +40

      that was so fucking funny

  • @Lenape_Lady
    @Lenape_Lady 6 месяцев назад +2903

    This man has no idea what a nervous or awkward laugh is. Women will nervous laugh to try and lessen the stress or blow of rejection to try and make you not mad and unalive her. Pls try and pick up on this and DONT push her. She’s just trying to “be nice” and not make you mad. Cause strange men who get mad can be dangerous.

    • @blazeparabellum7325
      @blazeparabellum7325 6 месяцев назад +78

      1000% this!

    • @cevan5042
      @cevan5042 6 месяцев назад +2

      😊😊

    • @molly.matilda
      @molly.matilda 6 месяцев назад +6

      yep exactly!!

    • @AyDeeAichDee
      @AyDeeAichDee 6 месяцев назад +86

      110%, it’s so infuriating that some people just cannot read basic body language or understand basic social cues like this (I’m not talking about people with autism, I’m just talking about low EQ men). It’s so easy to distinguish between a genuine laugh and a “I’m laughing so he doesn’t literally m8rder me” laugh.
      It’s shocking that actual people out there lack this much social intelligence, and it’s even more shocking that THEY are the ones who try and make a job out of teaching social interaction. The irony is remarkable.

    • @y2kangelie
      @y2kangelie 6 месяцев назад +53

      This exactly. We aren’t interested we are SCARED.

  • @lizzfrmhon
    @lizzfrmhon 6 месяцев назад +30

    18:22 she’s thinking:
    Omg why did I take this gig. Did I tell anyone I was coming here? I need to text somebody just in case.

  • @IanWilken
    @IanWilken 6 месяцев назад +949

    " you seem kind of wacky, do you have OCD or would you rather have ADD because it seems like you may possible have both of them"
    WHAT WAS THAT

    • @ErikaCartet
      @ErikaCartet 6 месяцев назад

      “Nice ass, sorry about the mental illness”

    • @sunnyandthechlo
      @sunnyandthechlo 6 месяцев назад

      Girls love being told they have disorders

    • @petertingle4890
      @petertingle4890 6 месяцев назад +74

      the mental gymnastics it takes to even think that could be perceived as a compliment is crazy😭😭

    • @Lando_Calzonian_MK8
      @Lando_Calzonian_MK8 6 месяцев назад

      That was a smooth ass pick up line mother fucker (/j)

    • @kalpic11
      @kalpic11 6 месяцев назад +20

      probably negging (🙄)

  • @kirstycoo97
    @kirstycoo97 6 месяцев назад +876

    The fact that the first thing that came to his head was "do you think I am a sexual pervert" when she said your psycho just proves he knows that thats EXACTLY what he is and he's scared of people finding that out about him because he genuinely believes that he's hiding it well when he's doing g these "pick up" courses.

    • @kirstycoo97
      @kirstycoo97 6 месяцев назад +68

      Also love how they didn't actually ask the women herself if this style of picking someone up would work in anyway. Just dudes talking to other dudes about how a woman felt. Surprise surprise 😮

    • @djentlover
      @djentlover 6 месяцев назад

      It radiates to miles away that he has sick thoughts inside his dumb head.

    • @globalphenomena6979
      @globalphenomena6979 6 месяцев назад

      Omg yes I was gagging like he’s a total perv

  • @tristahernandez
    @tristahernandez 6 месяцев назад +121

    i’m dying laughing at zade editing the soul patch hair being ripped off omg, was not expecting that

  • @BloodOcean666
    @BloodOcean666 6 месяцев назад +536

    I love how all of those women were nervous lughing because hurting ego of these type of man can end poorly and all of 'coaches' took it as them having fun.

    • @KreeZafi
      @KreeZafi 6 месяцев назад +42

      I really think that's the case in a lot of situations where men don't realize they need to eff off. The woman they're approaching laughs nervously and they see it as a positive response

  • @ephemism
    @ephemism 6 месяцев назад +1548

    as a woman i have never had to pause a video THIS many times to just suppress the sheer discomfort i feel, even cody as a wingman was not helping this time... by far the hardest watch on this channel 😭😭

    • @christinepoppy3277
      @christinepoppy3277 6 месяцев назад +126

      I actually leaned back from the screen a few times like these men were actually near me🤢

    • @rm_antic
      @rm_antic 6 месяцев назад +80

      Literally had to stop every few minutes and go "can I actually make it through this video?" 😭

    • @ephemism
      @ephemism 6 месяцев назад +12

      @@christinepoppy3277 U GET IT LMFAOO- i was genuinely so scared for my life 😭

    • @ephemism
      @ephemism 6 месяцев назад +18

      @@rm_antic RIGHT??? no bc its been 3 hours since i commented... i have only JUST finished the video it was THAT bad for me 😭

    • @rm_antic
      @rm_antic 6 месяцев назад +11

      @@ephemism I had to take a break after I left this reply, I'll come back to finish the other half later lmao

  • @louloulouthoughts
    @louloulouthoughts 6 месяцев назад +111

    Asking a woman "are you scared"..."are you scared of me" multiple times in one conversation...that's exactly how you do it. That'll *definitely* work.
    Jesus.

    • @kaileymo
      @kaileymo 5 месяцев назад +5

      So at some level he understands that what he’s doing is threatening

    • @alex_is_out
      @alex_is_out 5 месяцев назад +2

      REAL. He said it like 3 times within 20 seconds. Totally calming

    • @Geagra
      @Geagra 5 месяцев назад +2

      “BE NOT AFRAID” works better for me as my conversation starter.

  • @kristjanveski
    @kristjanveski 6 месяцев назад +765

    This is the clearest example I've ever see of "those who can't do, teach."

    • @kyram123
      @kyram123 6 месяцев назад +7

      That was in my head when Cody asked what makes these guys think they can teach! 😂

    • @jesshigginbottom3866
      @jesshigginbottom3866 6 месяцев назад +2

      ONE THOUSAND PERCENT

    • @AyDeeAichDee
      @AyDeeAichDee 6 месяцев назад +5

      The irony is that the phrase TECHNICALLY doesn’t apply here but it’s the best use of this phrase

    • @ngweso
      @ngweso 6 месяцев назад +11

      I feel like that phrase hints some ability in understanding the task i.e basketball coaches can’t play but understand the game of basketball at a high level. This man has none LOL

    • @mrconfusion87
      @mrconfusion87 3 месяца назад

      It's like asking a Catholic priest for advice on marriage! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Purplemacaroon333
    @Purplemacaroon333 6 месяцев назад +368

    The fact that not even CODY could get through the last clip shows how uncomfortable it truly was. I could physically feel her discomfort… every time he got closer my stomach would turn. That was absolutely brutal, thank god for Cody’s commentary.

    • @RoniBliss
      @RoniBliss 6 месяцев назад +10

      The last clip literally was THE most uncomfortable I have ever felt watching RUclips!

    • @Timman57
      @Timman57 6 месяцев назад

      Dude's name makes sense with that last name "sparks" because he's gonna ride the lightning when she zaps his ass with a taser lol

  • @Giles0333
    @Giles0333 6 месяцев назад +59

    "was she comfortable" "no" is that okay "yes" holy fuck. this is a hard one to sit though cody.

  • @Kingbimmy
    @Kingbimmy 6 месяцев назад +1363

    “No, I’d rather not *choose* which neurodivergence to have in this weird hypothetical you’ve created”
    “She’s so mean”
    BOI WHAT? 💀

    • @harlomints7727
      @harlomints7727 6 месяцев назад +51

      @@MimiUsagichanyeah thats what both adhd and ocd fall under 💀

    • @blue.berry.
      @blue.berry. 6 месяцев назад +4

      If you don't pick one, I am going to tell my mom!!

  • @SeventhSilhouette
    @SeventhSilhouette 6 месяцев назад +611

    the guy getting closer to that woman had to be the most horrifying thing i've ever seen.

    • @ajeenius7437
      @ajeenius7437 6 месяцев назад +36

      I was physically cringing throughout the whole thing. Made my skin crawl.

    • @honey.blossom456
      @honey.blossom456 6 месяцев назад +22

      No cuz the way I audibly gasped SO loudly when it happened, and the girl looked so uncomfortable 😭😭

    • @SeventhSilhouette
      @SeventhSilhouette 6 месяцев назад +3

      @@ajeenius7437 i felt ill i couldn’t look at the screen

    • @SeventhSilhouette
      @SeventhSilhouette 6 месяцев назад +3

      @@honey.blossom456 i can’t believe i didn’t have nightmares about it

    • @globalphenomena6979
      @globalphenomena6979 6 месяцев назад +4

      Bro 25:00 when he said “they can’t hear you” her whole demeanor change u could tell she’s like omg this guy is a r word.

  • @delaneythompson1161
    @delaneythompson1161 6 месяцев назад +151

    i had a guy tell me he liked my eyes so much he wanted to put them in a petri dish and carry them around! great convo not awkward at all

    • @lauwenrodriguez
      @lauwenrodriguez 6 месяцев назад +8

      i'm so sorry WHAT

    • @mathiasnkristensen
      @mathiasnkristensen 6 месяцев назад +5

      That's.... Horrific. Psychopath behavior.

    • @aidandurkan15
      @aidandurkan15 6 месяцев назад +4

      That's so bad. Just be like I like your skin mind if I get a sample to grow in the lab to make a replica of you ? Lmao.

    • @iz2333
      @iz2333 5 месяцев назад

      You have nice hands, mind if I take them off, put them in a pot and eat them?

    • @brickwhale272
      @brickwhale272 5 месяцев назад

      😰

  • @Shakithedingo
    @Shakithedingo 6 месяцев назад +337

    The fact that they think a girl laughing & smiling automatically means the conversation is going well is very telling - these people are completely void of emotional intelligence & situational awareness, which are the fundamental aspects of charisma. Also explains why they think they're capable of teaching other men how to get women. I feel bad for the guys who actually paid for this crap.

    • @chlorine0935
      @chlorine0935 6 месяцев назад +12

      I feel bad for any women they tried to use the pick up moves on 😭

    • @Blakoss
      @Blakoss 6 месяцев назад +7

      Dudes gotta be at least slightly sociopathic. He has no understanding of human emotions

  • @thevelveetarabbit
    @thevelveetarabbit 6 месяцев назад +728

    That first video is actually one of the worst things I’ve ever seen. The fact that they think because she’s smiling (obviously from discomfort and in shock at what she’s experiencing) that she’s actually into it, is so alarming! And for them to outright say it’s okay to make a woman uncomfortable is horrifying. This is why we choose the bear.

    • @sunnyandthechlo
      @sunnyandthechlo 6 месяцев назад +44

      Guys like this are the reason we have to carry pepper spray or tasers. They don't think that 'no' is an answer we're allowed to give.

    • @johnsmith7298
      @johnsmith7298 6 месяцев назад +1

      You choose the bear because you're assigning the traits of this small percentage of weird ass men to all men, and completely ignoring what the average bear would do to you. It's sexism plain and simple.

    • @beepbeeplettuce5890
      @beepbeeplettuce5890 6 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@sunnyandthechlo iirc, that guy is like a comedian or something and he was doing a bit, idk for sure but I remember seeing that somewhere

    • @anima6035
      @anima6035 6 месяцев назад

      What's the bear?

    • @de3072
      @de3072 6 месяцев назад

      @@anima6035 a trend where you ask a woman if she would rather be alone in the forest with a man or a bear and they usually say a bear. The worst a bear can do is kill you... it’s viral online because men don’t usually realize how dangerous women view them as.

  • @miksmella
    @miksmella 6 месяцев назад +111

    “Two sheeps and a wheat?” IM DEAD Catan truly gets that serious 😭

  • @elixorvideos
    @elixorvideos 6 месяцев назад +319

    The issue with PUA is that it talks AT women rather than talking TO women. It also creates a weird shorthand where women = sex, so men are being taught to steer all interactions towards sex, almost as if they're going through a dialogue tree, which they are.

    • @christinepoppy3277
      @christinepoppy3277 6 месяцев назад +69

      And it teaches them that there is no reality where someone is just purely not attracted to them, so if they keep pushing the other person will break down and “sex will just happen” on the spot

    • @laurenbarber8579
      @laurenbarber8579 6 месяцев назад +5

      So true

    • @ajeenius7437
      @ajeenius7437 6 месяцев назад +31

      I was thinking the same thing. These creeps would have a higher chance of success if they actually talked to women as human beings instead of an item they want. I doubt they're capable of that though...

    • @JaraelMoonsilver
      @JaraelMoonsilver 6 месяцев назад +26

      No you don’t get it, women are arcade machines, you put in tokens and hit the correct buttons and sex will come out! I’ve definitely had tons of success with this method and have never been pepper sprayed or arrested for stalking

    • @derekwhite4312
      @derekwhite4312 6 месяцев назад

      Well technically an overwhelming majority of the time men talk to women with sex in mind… its biological. Men would rarely interact with women if sex wasn’t in the equation. It is what it is

  • @anumrose3762
    @anumrose3762 6 месяцев назад +1355

    Imagine how scary it would be for a stranger to say you have blueberry eyes and then attempt to eat them...
    As soon as those fingers come that close to your eyes it's fight or flight.

    • @realleon2328
      @realleon2328 6 месяцев назад +63

      someone comes pinching for my eyes and it's their own fault they're getting slapped

    • @christinepoppy3277
      @christinepoppy3277 6 месяцев назад +49

      I recoiled away from the screen when he did that🤮

    • @Elriuhilu
      @Elriuhilu 6 месяцев назад +4

      I mean, it could be fine if you do it at a good moment after the woman has become comfortable with you, but not as an unprovoked jumpscare.

    • @realleon2328
      @realleon2328 6 месяцев назад +20

      @Elriuhilu I'm not sure if there Can be a good moment for this line

    • @virtualcoholic
      @virtualcoholic 6 месяцев назад

      Exactly wtf. 😭 Like "blueberry eyes" is stupid but it's memorable/dorky or whatever but to follow up with "kinda hungry right now, kind if i just pick and eat them?" is wilddd.

  • @MoonflowerWitch
    @MoonflowerWitch 6 месяцев назад +32

    Dude the guy that 'wants to get closer' is a serial killer FOR SURE!

  • @casvd01
    @casvd01 6 месяцев назад +565

    I love that woman in the first clip. Good on her for putting that creepy clown in his place lol.

  • @Enfjscrolling
    @Enfjscrolling 6 месяцев назад +368

    The whole "saying HI what's your name doesn't convey the message" thing is hilarious to me because as a woman, yes it does. If a man approaches me and asks what my name is I immediately know what he's after and things get more uncomfortable from there

    • @oriannaisabella7041
      @oriannaisabella7041 6 месяцев назад +14

      I was thinking the same thing!!

    • @uglygeguri
      @uglygeguri 6 месяцев назад +1

      Exactly. I’ve had normal men come up to me and it’s usually bc they recognize a pin I have or they like my style but they just walk off after a chat. Normal human interaction. If they walk up to me to ask my name I’m immediately like wtf why

  • @alideees
    @alideees 6 месяцев назад +125

    This is why women are choosing bears. I get it now.

  • @Beeperoni
    @Beeperoni 6 месяцев назад +1450

    I feel like all of their advice comes from very closely studying the dialogue part of porn

    • @ShayiArnett
      @ShayiArnett 6 месяцев назад +193

      Honestly I feel if men stopped watching so much porn, we wouldn’t have problems like this

    • @avalectra1
      @avalectra1 6 месяцев назад +8

      ​@ShayiArnett I have on mute so I am good.

    • @Beeperoni
      @Beeperoni 6 месяцев назад +57

      @@ShayiArnett I don’t think they need to stop watching it, they just need to understand it’s not real.

    • @BenvolioZF
      @BenvolioZF 6 месяцев назад +36

      Why are you saying that like it’s a bad thing? Wait… those aren’t documentaries? Aw fiddlesticks, am I red in the face.

    • @Beeperoni
      @Beeperoni 6 месяцев назад +11

      @@BenvolioZF LOL STOP THAT

  • @AlexanderBrando
    @AlexanderBrando 6 месяцев назад +264

    “You just have this magnetic pull towards each other.”
    Girl: *flinches and steps back*

    • @christinepoppy3277
      @christinepoppy3277 6 месяцев назад +24

      I think she was probably having to try really hard to override her natural instinct to step back😅

    • @Silvercanth
      @Silvercanth 6 месяцев назад +7

      @@christinepoppy3277 More like her natural instinct to run away, lol.

    • @globalphenomena6979
      @globalphenomena6979 6 месяцев назад +2

      Bro I think he was scanning her body for fear and like getting off on it

  • @dannyg.4421
    @dannyg.4421 6 месяцев назад +83

    my theory is the blueberry guy was just a broke theater kid that replied to this website gig for extra cash on the side. all his pick up moves were improv tips. lol
    they use to have websites that would try to make instructional videos for everything, the less educational based ones would sometimes just hire random people to be the "professionals" like this. another famous one was the freestyle dance teacher. on another a "how to be cool at a house party" video instructor suggested pressing your face against the window to make goofy faces to the people inside when you arrive. lol she even gave examples of goofy face techniques.

    • @llnoche
      @llnoche 5 месяцев назад +3

      Lol i wanna see that video

    • @InvalidUsername480
      @InvalidUsername480 5 месяцев назад

      He was on Tosh.0

    • @dannyg.4421
      @dannyg.4421 5 месяцев назад

      @@InvalidUsername480 really?? was i right?

    • @InvalidUsername480
      @InvalidUsername480 5 месяцев назад

      @dannyg.4421 he said he was helping out a friend so I don't know if he got paid but you were right about the instructional videos.

  • @vola700
    @vola700 6 месяцев назад +180

    Honestly I want to see Jennifer teach a class on how to destroy a creep without raising your blood pressure OR your voice, she’s INCREDIBLE ❤

    • @alicethemadrabbit1842
      @alicethemadrabbit1842 6 месяцев назад +8

      Seriously! She was quick!

    • @aurea.
      @aurea. 5 месяцев назад +2

      Hope Jennifer's out there thriving

  • @Scott-ir5eg
    @Scott-ir5eg 6 месяцев назад +317

    I think part of the reason of why this is so creepy is you’re being open and blatant about trying to subconsciously manipulate people into being attracted to you. Rather than developing an attraction based on your natural self, and attraction towards their natural self.

    • @phishcatt
      @phishcatt 6 месяцев назад

      That requires you see them as human, and these guys certainly don't see women as human. Just a set of boobs.

    • @Subsistence69
      @Subsistence69 6 месяцев назад +4

      That’s exactly it

    • @cptntwinkletoes
      @cptntwinkletoes 6 месяцев назад

      Absolutely this. If you have to manipulate someone into liking you, they don't like you. Also how they clearly think so little of women's intelligence that they think they would be fooled by cheap pseudo-psychology and wouldn't completely see through this.

    • @megapiglatin2574
      @megapiglatin2574 6 месяцев назад +4

      @@PondScummer I actually am willing to bet that, for a large percentage of men who act this way, the reason they don’t act “themselves” is because of DEEP insecurity and/or a lack of connection to themselves. Or, they potentially have some kind of impaired empathy; to be clear, I am not saying they are psychopathic, but rather that something in any given dude like this’s past has stunted their ability to connect/empathize with others.
      It doesn’t make the behavior and treatment of the recipient (/ victim, yeesh) OK, but I think the only real way to *solve* the problem on a larger scale is by extending compassion, and doing so starts with being a bit more compassionate in our assumptions of others. ❤

    • @shannonceleste5557
      @shannonceleste5557 6 месяцев назад +7

      @megapiglatin2574 yes, that's exactly why they do it.
      And No, I'm not going to coddle a grown man who doesn't care to treat me like a human being.
      They need professional help. I'm _not_ going out of my way to show compassion towards a man who clearly doesn't respect my time, space, or autonomy.

  • @chaeyoungsstrawberryfarm3327
    @chaeyoungsstrawberryfarm3327 5 месяцев назад +9

    The first woman is a total icon omg. The way he jumps towards her every time he ask a question, trying to be assertive. She cuts right through his bullshit because he’s not doing anything other than make you feel unsafe. I love her and I want to know what she’s up to now, I like wanna thank her somehow😭

  • @Camjidi
    @Camjidi 6 месяцев назад +217

    im so glad the first girl went in on him like that, i don't think ive cringed that much ever

  • @Paintballman251
    @Paintballman251 6 месяцев назад +259

    Some of these dudes advice feels like it’s just “intimidate women to have sex with you out of fear that you’ll hurt them”, and that is terrifying and also something else

    • @lakshitadidwania2251
      @lakshitadidwania2251 6 месяцев назад +9

      RIGHT ITS TERIFYING THESE PPL R REAL

    • @globalphenomena6979
      @globalphenomena6979 6 месяцев назад +3

      THANK YOU I’m like reading between the lines and I’m like put them on an island

  • @Spo1led_M1lk93
    @Spo1led_M1lk93 6 месяцев назад +51

    That smile edit on Cody’s face after “your eyes are like blueberries.” 😀- horrifying and perfect😂

    • @zeexox5339
      @zeexox5339 6 месяцев назад +3

      The way I SCREAMED lol

  • @amygrimes6438
    @amygrimes6438 6 месяцев назад +551

    "What? You think I'm a sexual pervert?"
    NOW I DO

  • @MM-eq4nl
    @MM-eq4nl 6 месяцев назад +494

    That last guy really thought if he just stared even harder she'd fully crumble, I can see her formulating the story she's going to tell her friends about this underpaid gig

  • @ErickJiuJitsu
    @ErickJiuJitsu 6 месяцев назад +27

    "youre not gonna shake my hand?" didnt even give her a fraction of a second to react to him putting out his hand lmao

  • @kpbebop
    @kpbebop 6 месяцев назад +268

    the way these all triggered my fight or flight within like a second of them opening their mouth

    • @cooki3monstrrr
      @cooki3monstrrr 6 месяцев назад +9

      Literally. The first & last guy really sent me 😅🏃🏽

    • @molly.matilda
      @molly.matilda 6 месяцев назад +5

      no literally

  • @komal146
    @komal146 6 месяцев назад +533

    mann...that Blueberry was awkward but okay. Those two middle aged guys are legit scary. And you know they aren't trying to date in their age range.

    • @Random-sk6hm
      @Random-sk6hm 6 месяцев назад +18

      Fr, you can tell they'd go after 18 year olds

    • @Lasofivec
      @Lasofivec 6 месяцев назад +3

      OG incels

    • @rrosie.posiie
      @rrosie.posiie 6 месяцев назад +2

      I bet they say they go for younger women because they “haven’t learned how to be mean to men yet”

    • @ytkenny5
      @ytkenny5 5 месяцев назад +1

      "awkward but okay" is quite the understatement for someone implying he wants to eat a woman's eyeballs. But yeah somehow the 2 old dudes make him seem relatively harmless

  • @reagan1316
    @reagan1316 6 месяцев назад +60

    These guys fail to realize that women can smile and laugh because they're uncomfortable (or because they feel bad for you), not because they like you or find you funny. It's kind of insulting that dudes like the blueberry guy think we have the same humor as kids

  • @dumbpupbz
    @dumbpupbz 6 месяцев назад +997

    kody is becoming a huge comfort idk why

    • @bradleymartinez185
      @bradleymartinez185 6 месяцев назад +148

      It's because you know it's gonna be a relaxing, wholesome 20 minutes with a guy that loves his life. A little escape for me personally :)

    • @bengilliland1281
      @bengilliland1281 6 месяцев назад +8

      Ikr????

    • @laneyhanson2390
      @laneyhanson2390 6 месяцев назад +3

      Fr this

    • @chelsealandino3035
      @chelsealandino3035 6 месяцев назад +25

      maybe the dad vibes

    • @SikeNawh
      @SikeNawh 6 месяцев назад +29

      I’ve felt that since vine and I’ve never, NEVER, been dissatisfied by Cody. Hope he outlives me. 😅

  • @emilyr-s1070
    @emilyr-s1070 6 месяцев назад +196

    I adore that woman. Also omg that guy is actually insane. She smiles while saying he’s a fucking creep and he still somehow thinks she’s flirting?? She came back at him so hard. Amazing

  • @enwyll
    @enwyll 6 месяцев назад +7

    watching these guys through cody's channel always gives me such a sense of distance and protection from these guys. if i watched them alone i would probably be so angry and/or sad but cody takes all the bullets for us and fires them back. what a true ally

  • @h2o2630
    @h2o2630 6 месяцев назад +299

    13:33 "You're eyes would be a lovely addition to my trophy case"- ass vibes 💀

    • @christinepoppy3277
      @christinepoppy3277 6 месяцев назад +8

      That would be the most disgusting thing I’ve heard if it wasn’t for the rest of this video

    • @cooliostarstache5474
      @cooliostarstache5474 6 месяцев назад

      Dennis Reynolds

  • @fudgemerchant
    @fudgemerchant 6 месяцев назад +157

    That poor womans eyes on the one where he was saying to get closer and closer... You can literally hear her internal screams, and how badly she just wanted to say something but was holding it back. No one should ever have to deal with creeps like this, this is awful...

    • @tahliyajayde
      @tahliyajayde 6 месяцев назад +1

      all that’s going through her mind is “this wasn’t worth the paycheck” 😭😭 i feel so bad for her, i think my automatic reaction would force me to push him away

  • @VoodooRanja
    @VoodooRanja 6 месяцев назад +3

    I have dealt with bouts of depression throughout my entire adolescence and early adulthood. Cody never fails to help me forget about my mental state and provide high quality entertainment. What you do is very much appreciated and it really makes an impact. Thank you man.

  • @patgriffith9176
    @patgriffith9176 6 месяцев назад +434

    I get the feeling that the "closer and closer" guy did the whole class just so he could stand next to that woman. The whole class was the pick up. Genius!Props to her for being so professional.

    • @williamkluck9001
      @williamkluck9001 6 месяцев назад +28

      I was thinking that too, maybe the teachers do the class so they can attempt to look competent to women.
      It’s just like any other masterclass on how to get rich. The teachers are trying to get rich.

    • @shelso1300
      @shelso1300 6 месяцев назад +27

      Agreed! Skin crawling the entire time and I was relieved when Cody echoed that feeling.

    • @Frindle_Babbin
      @Frindle_Babbin 6 месяцев назад +8

      Wouldn’t expect anything less from the 21 Convention

    • @TheJordanK
      @TheJordanK 6 месяцев назад +4

      LMAO he just has another video giving a tutorial on how to use classes to pick up girls. Imagine. Hahaha.

  • @dkrodegeb
    @dkrodegeb 6 месяцев назад +600

    8:00 watching a straight man basically have the experience of logging onto Grindr is SO FUNNY

    • @dkrodegeb
      @dkrodegeb 6 месяцев назад +33

      24:43 THE DEFINITION OF AN ICK

    • @julie-qb8cp
      @julie-qb8cp 6 месяцев назад +2

      whatt

    • @ThatSharkGirl
      @ThatSharkGirl 6 месяцев назад +1

      Wait, why are straight men using Grindr?

    • @lovezozo13
      @lovezozo13 6 месяцев назад +21

      ​@@ThatSharkGirlthey mean that the straight guy (to the right) in the video is having an experience similar to what it's like being on grindr

    • @ThatSharkGirl
      @ThatSharkGirl 6 месяцев назад +2

      @@lovezozo13 That doesn’t really make sense, the (assumed) straight man in the video wouldn’t be interested for obvious reasons, but Grindr is a more aggressive version of Tinder, but with the sole purpose for gay hookups.

  • @christiansmalley4977
    @christiansmalley4977 6 месяцев назад +27

    I’m glad I can tell the difference between nervous laughter and genuine laughter. I’m not a rizz master, but I’ve never had a bad date. Maintaining the relationship is the hard part.

    • @mrconfusion87
      @mrconfusion87 3 месяца назад

      One lady friend with first hand experience dealing with these types told me this about PUAs/"love gurus" - Their shit only works on women who are already somewhat intoxicated and eager to fuck! But their advice is useless beyond that (especially the maintaining an interest beyond the first sexual encounter part)... 🤣🤣🤣

  • @clairakaufman0725
    @clairakaufman0725 6 месяцев назад +115

    24:02 she looks absolutely terrified. Like fight, flight or freeze kicked in.

    • @Random-sk6hm
      @Random-sk6hm 6 месяцев назад +8

      Fr she's frozen in fear

    • @liv-bv3pl
      @liv-bv3pl 6 месяцев назад +7

      I felt so uncomfortable for her it was almost impossible to watch

  • @zemespiral
    @zemespiral 6 месяцев назад +230

    The dude getting closer and closer... she looks terrified, keeps leaning back and away from him, eyes wide and not blinking like she's afraid of this guy.

    • @ArchIVEDCinema
      @ArchIVEDCinema 6 месяцев назад +13

      Yeah watching that before bed was a bad idea. I'm not sleeping tonight

    • @shiquandequan6819
      @shiquandequan6819 6 месяцев назад +10

      I agree with Cody.. That was one of the most uncomfortable clips I’ve ever seen

  • @paigeknickerbocker8335
    @paigeknickerbocker8335 6 месяцев назад +17

    Lmao I had a guy outright say “you know I’m trying to hit on you right” and I just said “yeah” and walked away can confirm it does not work

  • @owoimsad
    @owoimsad 6 месяцев назад +161

    every single one of these dudes need to be in jail tbh, i dont trust a guy who tries to interpret a woman laughing uncomfortably and calling him a creep to his face as her actually being secretly attracted to him to have any consensual interaction with a woman

    • @MFnMelaroni
      @MFnMelaroni 6 месяцев назад +6

      Right?!! When they said "is it okay that she was a little uncomfortable? Yes!" ....I lost it.

  • @oup6009
    @oup6009 6 месяцев назад +618

    Me: nervously laughs through my whole life because I'm uncomfortable and constantly suffering
    God: Oh she seems like she's having fun and that's why I want to press on the incongruity.

    • @drinas2783
      @drinas2783 6 месяцев назад +6

      Maybe that's why i have the struggles i do 😂😂😂

    • @mya12328
      @mya12328 6 месяцев назад

      I saw somewhere that when rejecting men it's safer not to smile or laugh bc some men are actually this dense and will think you're being coy, or worse, they will egg it on bc they have a humiliation fetish 🤦

    • @KreeZafi
      @KreeZafi 6 месяцев назад +11

      On a serious note though, I really do think this is a MAJOR source of "miscommunication" for socially awkward men. A lot of women will smile and laugh when they're uncomfortable, and many socially unaware men will probably interpret that as a positive sign when really it means the complete opposite

    • @noraeable
      @noraeable 6 месяцев назад +4

      Omg yes. Not every smile and laugh is a good one. She was very much laughing at him, not with him.

    • @mya12328
      @mya12328 6 месяцев назад +8

      I used to do this, until I realized that it prolonged unwanted advances. I read somewhere that it's safer to reject men with a straight face w/o smiling or laughing so they don't think you're playing coy, or worse, egg it on bc they have a h-miliation f-tish. Stay safe ❤️

  • @adoreyeol
    @adoreyeol 6 месяцев назад +20

    i genuinely feel like this is cody’s hardest watch yet i feel ILL

  • @emergencyasmr
    @emergencyasmr 6 месяцев назад +87

    I would love to see a part 2 to this with Kelsey if or whenever she’s available. Both their commentary and reactions together would be everything

    • @citizenx2369
      @citizenx2369 6 месяцев назад +5

      Seconded. Kelsey opinion necessary.

  • @SirrCommander
    @SirrCommander 6 месяцев назад +165

    5:19 “cause your a psycho” 😂😂 my god why would he ever post this and I’m sure the ppl paying for the class did not go back to him as well 😂 this is so early 00’s , late 90s prime pick up artist crap.

  • @guthriebarrager9304
    @guthriebarrager9304 6 месяцев назад +26

    Love Cody's random but knowledgeable rant about Catan

  • @firefox7957
    @firefox7957 6 месяцев назад +195

    I know these guys. They go up to quiet, shy people and we laugh because we don't want to be mean and they think that they're cute and funny but we're really just uncomfortable.

    • @Silly1336
      @Silly1336 6 месяцев назад +3

      Yeah it’s kind of horrific how they go after women they know won’t immediately punch them in the throat. These guys subconsciously know how creepy they are

  • @Anna-xj6vf
    @Anna-xj6vf 6 месяцев назад +199

    "is she completely comfortable?" "no"
    "is that okay?" "yes!"
    these videos are why women choose the bear

    • @johnsmith7298
      @johnsmith7298 6 месяцев назад +1

      And for the small percentage of gold digging women out there, men should choose "get eaten by a lion" instead of getting married? You're just going to insult all men because of the small percentage of weirdos out there? Maybe check some videos or photos of bear maulings, it might snap you back to reality.

    • @crappyaccount
      @crappyaccount 6 месяцев назад +1

      broooo wtf is the bear, i am so confused. furthermore, neither of them seem like good options?? like these specific guys are horrible but that's not enough reason to just turn to bestiality💀💀

    • @biancaluv9754
      @biancaluv9754 6 месяцев назад

      @@crappyaccount💀

    • @globalphenomena6979
      @globalphenomena6979 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@crappyaccountoh it’s like if u were in the woods with this man and a bear who would u choose

    • @tikki2340
      @tikki2340 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@crappyaccount it’s a thought experiment similar to the trolley problem. It specifically asks women: “would you rather be stranded in the middle of the woods with a random bear, or a random man?” The consensus on the internet was the bear, and the reason appears to be that men are more unpredictable than bears. And the chances of a bear bothering you unprompted are less than the chances of a man doing the same thing, even if the bear is technically the most capable of violent harm.

  • @vivianeborkholder2268
    @vivianeborkholder2268 6 месяцев назад +21

    25:18 those natural feelings.... do you mean the fight or flight response??

  • @juliagraham2582
    @juliagraham2582 6 месяцев назад +165

    something i’ve had to explain to several men: i’m not laughing because i’m having a good time, i’m laughing because i’m trying to keep myself calm and not injure a man’s fragile ego for my own safety.
    i don’t like being angry and i don’t like being around angry people so i laugh to keep the peace, but i am about one more “no” away from letting you find out what your b4lls feel like in your chest cavity

  • @cookinitupwithty5999
    @cookinitupwithty5999 6 месяцев назад +137

    “Why is his hobby swearing at women” is hands down the funniest thing cody has ever said

  • @oliviadehart8061
    @oliviadehart8061 6 месяцев назад +8

    24:26 this is exactly what the random people who try to dance against you in clubs watch

  • @ttiedloww
    @ttiedloww 6 месяцев назад +64

    22:40 "...sooo what's up?" "ALRIGHT UR DONE 🗣🔥" 🚶‍♂

  • @shelbyprudencio1172
    @shelbyprudencio1172 6 месяцев назад +82

    “The natural feelings come out” sir the feelings are FEAR 💀

    • @vogelvrouw
      @vogelvrouw 6 месяцев назад +2

      The most natural feeling of all... the fight or flight response

  • @timhanrahan6177
    @timhanrahan6177 6 месяцев назад +62

    My friend asked me to wing man him once and I, a gay man, would just walk up to girls in the club and say "I can I ask you a personal question?" "Sure" "Are you into guys?" "Yes" and every time I did this the girl would be looking up at me with this big puppy eye smile and it would instantly fade when I'd say "My friend thinks you're really pretty". It's amazing how treating women like people and asking permission will instantly make them attracted to you. Lacking confidence instantly wont.

    • @mathiasnkristensen
      @mathiasnkristensen 6 месяцев назад +8

      Did you remember to move veeery close to them like the last guy?

  • @gabbidoodles
    @gabbidoodles 6 месяцев назад +813

    The first guy was 100% mad that we would choose the bear

    • @lakshitadidwania2251
      @lakshitadidwania2251 6 месяцев назад +19

      LMAO and we do tht cz ppl like him exist😭😭

    • @lakshitadidwania2251
      @lakshitadidwania2251 6 месяцев назад +20

      wompwomp@@Braingore-de-Rais

    • @lakshitadidwania2251
      @lakshitadidwania2251 6 месяцев назад +14

      r u okay😭 @@Braingore-de-Rais

    • @Olivia-kt9gr
      @Olivia-kt9gr 6 месяцев назад +45

      @@lakshitadidwania2251 hes fine he just thinks being edgy makes up for having no personality

    • @Olivia-kt9gr
      @Olivia-kt9gr 6 месяцев назад +24

      @InternetVigilante then why are you trying so hard

  • @thoseponyvibes
    @thoseponyvibes 6 месяцев назад +63

    Just having the word "artist" attached to what they do makes me roll my eyes both literally and figuratively.

    • @izzyyt1
      @izzyyt1 6 месяцев назад +3

      Yeah I mean flirting can be an art, but this shit is not even on the same planet as that.

  • @Demi_P
    @Demi_P 6 месяцев назад +9

    OMG THE BLUEBERRY LINE!! Courtney from Smosh mentioned how she watched that back in the day and couldn’t remember where it was from 🤣

  • @heyhey439
    @heyhey439 6 месяцев назад +71

    Wish they put this much thought and effort into being a decent person and making their mothers proud.