Neil Strauss Picks Up Jessica Alba on the Jimmy Kimmel show PROVES The Game works!

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  • @davidshillito
    @davidshillito 4 года назад +1183

    "Give me 10 minutes to talk away my ugly face & I will bed the Queen of France" ~ Voltaire

    • @sanctuaryism
      @sanctuaryism 3 года назад +1

      or for queen and country...

    • @LAZLOUFORIA1379
      @LAZLOUFORIA1379 3 года назад +7

      Lmao I love that guy

    • @tritile
      @tritile 4 месяца назад +2

      hahahahahaha I will write this one down for later

    • @michaelmichaelagnew8503
      @michaelmichaelagnew8503 4 месяца назад +7

      Was Voltaire beheaded by the Queen of France? Or by her husband for trying?

    • @davidshillito
      @davidshillito 4 месяца назад +5

      @@michaelmichaelagnew8503 ~ No idea but it matters not, given you missed the point

  • @arthurwatts1680
    @arthurwatts1680 5 лет назад +7755

    Why does 2006 suddenly feel more like 1996 ?

    • @jeremyw.5729
      @jeremyw.5729 5 лет назад +312

      Because 2009 became 2019.

    • @arthurwatts1680
      @arthurwatts1680 5 лет назад +9

      OK - o is next to i on a qwerty keyboard, but I hear ya. @.

    • @djcaron5202
      @djcaron5202 5 лет назад +63

      Yea it does have the nostalgic feeling

    • @Ghouse666
      @Ghouse666 5 лет назад +8

      Wishful thinking...that's why

    • @ciarandevaney385
      @ciarandevaney385 5 лет назад +131

      2006 was still in the 1990's in many ways

  • @xeno126
    @xeno126 10 лет назад +4478

    The fact that the world's greatest PUA isn't hot in anyway and is actually a nerd is the biggest evidence that attraction is one of the most misunderstood things in society.

    • @MrXavier0899
      @MrXavier0899 9 лет назад +39

      EXACTLY. haha

    • @jacobmufasa
      @jacobmufasa 9 лет назад +14

      Xeno wat do you mean misunderstood? can attraction be recreate?

    • @freddyr0
      @freddyr0 9 лет назад +94

      jacobmufasa don't ask here, ask a Psychologist and you'll run to the bookstore all excited. Attraction CAN be recreated, and when it fails it doesn't mean you can't, it means you did it wrong.

    • @jacobmufasa
      @jacobmufasa 9 лет назад +9

      Freddy Rivero I cant create it :[

    • @freddyr0
      @freddyr0 9 лет назад +4

      jacobmufasa Friend zoned? What's the problem? Maybe I could tell you what I think..

  • @Parodypeeeps
    @Parodypeeeps 9 лет назад +2401

    lol he was doing his technique of ignoring her while talking to jimmy, not looking back at her

    • @JaIch9999
      @JaIch9999 6 лет назад +134

      Parodypeeeps
      Yeah, and every woman over 14 knows the trick. This game is for dumb and imature people.

    • @davethedm
      @davethedm 5 лет назад +43

      Parodypeeeps it’s a PUA “trick” to make them bring attention to themselves

    • @MegaGliders
      @MegaGliders 5 лет назад +103

      Ja Ich no it’s for people who’ve grown up and saw the world for what it is.

    • @MiguelGonzalez-yl5vf
      @MiguelGonzalez-yl5vf 5 лет назад +172

      Doesn't every guest do the same exact thing when sitting in that chair

    • @sebastiantrudel3084
      @sebastiantrudel3084 5 лет назад

      mira bien gil

  • @gusti1021
    @gusti1021 5 лет назад +1278

    "I'm in a two-set trying to neg the target but I get IOIs from the obstacle". He's describing the exact situation he's in.

    • @jamesmarsh5288
      @jamesmarsh5288 5 лет назад +22

      I got that too but I don't understand what IOS is?

    • @gusti1021
      @gusti1021 5 лет назад +97

      @@jamesmarsh5288 Indicators Of Interest. Verbal and non-verbal signals that someone sends to show that they are interested in you.

    • @jamesmarsh5288
      @jamesmarsh5288 5 лет назад +20

      @@gusti1021 Cheers mate. I just learnt something :)

    • @AthletismeQc
      @AthletismeQc 4 года назад +15

      lmao, i just realized this

    • @yole7390
      @yole7390 4 года назад +62

      It shows Neil was acting in a very conscious way.

  • @Jack-xl5eq
    @Jack-xl5eq 3 года назад +299

    I fucking died when Neil zinged Jimmy at the end with the "Big cheesy guy" line.

    • @RuiZavier
      @RuiZavier Год назад +36

      What's funnier, he drew Jimmy into that one but it was Jimmy that punched himself. Priceless.

    • @sirus312
      @sirus312 3 месяца назад +7

      One could say he…won… the…game!

    • @southamcaballero
      @southamcaballero 27 дней назад

      No, the guy seemed very defensive, instead of laughing at himself, which shows his insecurity

    • @jimclaus1576
      @jimclaus1576 23 дня назад

      Obviously Jimmy hurt his little feelings with the bald joke. Lol

  • @bladeios6380
    @bladeios6380 Год назад +1122

    Andrew tate before he hit gym

    • @FrenchComprehensibleInput
      @FrenchComprehensibleInput 10 месяцев назад +13

      hahhahahaah good one

    • @tamratchala6497
      @tamratchala6497 6 месяцев назад +10

      This is funny😂

    • @BWater-yq3jx
      @BWater-yq3jx 4 месяца назад +18

      Yeah I mentioned somewhere else over a year ago that Tate got his look from this guy.

    • @K-aR-Oh
      @K-aR-Oh 4 месяца назад +20

      Back then when he was Top Geek, then he took the "eek" off to become Top G

    • @Overlorddz
      @Overlorddz 3 месяца назад

      And when he had manners and social skills instead of anabolic brains

  • @yunghung5388
    @yunghung5388 10 лет назад +1577

    It just goes to show, you can be bald, skinny, and have the most ridiculous laugh on the planet and you can still have game.

    • @teriyaki_chicken
      @teriyaki_chicken 5 лет назад +27

      Yung Hung with the way he dressed too

    • @senecanicholson1090
      @senecanicholson1090 5 лет назад +20

      It's not clothes or necessarily "looks". It's based on how she feels and the probability of mutual attraction...

    • @poopydoggy
      @poopydoggy 4 года назад +66

      He didn't demonstrate any game that I saw. Jessica Alba was constantly leaning away from him and subtly mocking what he said. I'm not saying that such a "game" doesn't exist, but he sure didn't pull it off.

    • @reljasaurus
      @reljasaurus 4 года назад +3

      yeah, cause fat guys with hair get all the girls

    • @Earthad23
      @Earthad23 4 года назад

      Yung Hung yes and for some people it’s actually genuine

  • @Daladun
    @Daladun 14 лет назад +410

    If you've read the Game you know EXACTLY what he's doing, it's awesome. He says he isn't going to pick her up but he was doing it from the beginning of the video. Making her qualify herself.

    • @AEO21Productions
      @AEO21Productions 2 года назад +8

      @@pashadyne I'm so sorry to inform you.. Daladium passed away last year.. He never procreated and thus has no lineage of DNA so neither him nor any descendants will ever answer that question for you :/ Also, thankfully he didn't die alone.. he had his whole community.. all of them single and also without children.. at his side (online in his computer) til his last day *tear*

    • @AEO21Productions
      @AEO21Productions 2 года назад +6

      @@pashadyne lol, if they did then i pray to God their children have more a soul than they do.. they go about engaging with potential mates like if its a chess game.. the potential for true love and connection is squandered with this type of manipulation and scheming.. life doesn’t flow when these types of human behaviors are involved. I hope you see this for yourself.. if not yet, maybe check out true spiritual teachers like Alan Watts and Ram Dass.. they know the true powerful ways of living.. not chasing tail like a 7th grader in the school yard.. wanna be infantile?? Go for it.. want to be a God in the truest sense.. then find your inner Divinity

    • @AndyTomlins
      @AndyTomlins 2 года назад +6

      @@pashadyne Daladun probably left college. Got a job. Started having to talk to women on an equal level. Started to respect them. Made female friends. Then one day met a woman through a friend that he had a spark with that didn't require an ulterior motive.

    • @rafomic4210
      @rafomic4210 Год назад

      ​@@AEO21ProductionsWho is daladium ?

    • @inorite4553
      @inorite4553 Год назад +5

      Jessica was absolutely interested in hearing more about Neil and The Game as can be seen that she felt compelled enough to ask him a direct question.

  • @caddencadden
    @caddencadden 5 лет назад +394

    Neil did really well in this interview and dealt with Jessica and dealt with the host who tried to make fun out of Neil multiple times. The best thing he could have done was laugh at any piss take and that is exactly what he did

    • @EmmettXIV
      @EmmettXIV 2 года назад +29

      yes, like the underhanded comment about his looks and that he should put his ugly mug on the book. oh a shot to Neil's self esteem but taken like a champ.

    • @Ikaros23
      @Ikaros23 2 года назад +42

      @@EmmettXIV Exactly. He was " amoging" him. When you read the comments you see alot of narcissists who are shaming him, and people who are desperat to get " likes". But most are to self obsessed to notice that he is actually playing with them right in this scene. The game is playing out all the time on both a consious and unconsious level. The game for attraction, and the need for attension. You can see the host trying to assert himself as the dominant male. But Neil outsmarts him by beeing realy humble instead of the narcissistic asshole they think he is ( But that he became in that period, but later worked hard to get out of).
      The sad part that most people dismissed, is that Neil whole point in the book was a confession of his struggle for self acceptance and that was the driving force to learn pickup. The hatred in society is 100 times worse today against men who want to learn to socialise and to be better with females. Culture has changed, technology has changed ( from calling,texting to dating apps). But the game is still the same. That is human nature is the same as it has always been.

    • @jaylucas8352
      @jaylucas8352 11 месяцев назад

      Jimmy was savage

  • @BuzzKirill3D
    @BuzzKirill3D 2 года назад +644

    What's amazing about Neil here is that he manages to really "sell" the game to a somewhat conservative audience once again. He picks just the right words and examples to make the game seem like a gentle and noble art, rather than psychological manipulation. So that's a double layer of mastery right there.

    • @spencerantoniomarlen-starr3069
      @spencerantoniomarlen-starr3069 2 года назад +53

      Most of the fundamental social dynamics PUAs train men in they learned from carefully observing how gorgeous women behave to men.
      For instance, "negging" is something they learned from hot chicks, girls neg guys all the time. You want to talk manipulative behavior?? Look no further than unusually attractive women in their 20s, the only difference is that qthey do these things innately. That and it is socially unacceptable to critique women for how to they flirt

    • @spencerantoniomarlen-starr3069
      @spencerantoniomarlen-starr3069 2 года назад +16

      @@NEbluefire okay, absolutely nothing you claimed and assumed about me personally in your reply can actually be found anywhere in my comment you replied to.
      Do you think it's either reliable, or even okay to make sweeping assumptions and generalizations about someone you've never met? Who says I adhere to pickup guru's advice for getting women?? I certainly didn't!

    • @Curiousonic
      @Curiousonic 2 года назад +3

      @@NEbluefire Beauty is relative! Some are attracted to physical looks -- fit, average or chubby, pretty or ordinary, and others look for inner beauty.
      Also the words you use to describe pua's contempt for women actually describe your own contempt for pua's, which makes you equal. Fact is, all pua's are different. You are right, some of them use the pua techniques to get many women, but others, who have never dated before, use it only once to get the love of their life. I know one who did. And accusing him for hating women (???) is just unfair, like he is not worthy of love because he didn't know how to approach a girl. Most men are unprepared when they go out to chat up a girl. Their agenda is the same as a pua, except they don't know how to make a honourable representation of themselves. It is like going unprepared to a job interview. You can't do that. The pua techniques is a guide for men who doesn't know how to approach a girl -- where they get a chance to present the best of them before being rejected at face value. Everyone deserves love. Have some empathy.

    • @PCProphecy
      @PCProphecy Год назад +5

      @@spencerantoniomarlen-starr3069 Yes, agreed. I don't know what the other guy or girl is rambling on about; they literally proved your point about "socially unacceptable to critique women" as they proceed to immediately jump the gun and claim "you hate women" accusations for female critique, all sorts of negative assumptions with a couple of psychological manipulative tactics while pointing the finger.

    • @ImAgentK
      @ImAgentK Год назад +4

      @@NEbluefire Doing whatever it takes to win doesn’t mean you hate women. If you’re being mean to women in order to win in the dating market then you’re simply doing what it takes to win. You’re just saying they have contempt for women because you don’t like the fact that púas actually win with women and you’d rather see men just lose. Have you ever thought maybe men do these things because they feel like they have no choice?

  • @bitternCE
    @bitternCE Месяц назад +20

    "That's the future of dating." Alba predicts
    Tinder!

  • @fifaztreet9571
    @fifaztreet9571 5 лет назад +225

    He laughs like Janice from friends

  • @casualgerm
    @casualgerm 4 года назад +533

    The book "The Game" opened my eyes to a world i never knew existed 10yrs ago. I don't like scripted pickup lines as they're not authentic and creepy to use. but learning how to effectively communicate with people on a deeper level is what i really learned from the PUA community. That's something most self-help business seminars/classes fail to teach.

    • @MonotoniTV
      @MonotoniTV 2 года назад +9

      Yeah stuff is really awesome. I also like that now it's more about being then doing. Because you can learn all the techniques and in the end feel like a fraud or you just learn how to be a great guy and are successful with girls or people in general

    • @onizuka2307
      @onizuka2307 2 года назад

      @@MonotoniTV Facts

    • @MonotoniTV
      @MonotoniTV 2 года назад +6

      @Zurg Game should be complementary to your character. It shouldn't be who you are. Game is a tool.
      So you should fix yourself while you learn game

    • @MonotoniTV
      @MonotoniTV 2 года назад

      @Zurg and then get fucked over in your 30s or 40s, marrying a woman who divorces you and takes half your shit, after taking your soul

    • @MonotoniTV
      @MonotoniTV 2 года назад +4

      @Zurg it's Better to have the skills. You know, warrior in a garden and stuff
      It's ok to be mgtow for a while, but someday some girl will probably sweep you of your feet, better to be prepared

  • @billmeisters6444
    @billmeisters6444 10 лет назад +414

    The chilled walk - Style's magic (under the rader)
    The ignorance towards Alba in the beginning - Mystery's magic (don't go straight for the target)
    The hand movement during talk - Ross Jeffery's stuff
    The qualifying questions - Style's magic (make her work for it)
    The neg before questions - Mystery's magic
    The compliment after questions - De Angelo's stuff
    The comeback line towards Jimmy in the end - A classic Style-mogging
    Style = the most flexible PUA ever

    • @mohitadlakha982
      @mohitadlakha982 4 года назад +4

      Damn right

    • @s.sterling6685
      @s.sterling6685 4 года назад +43

      holy fuck this is so sad. just get a girlfriend dude.

    • @Sasasala386
      @Sasasala386 3 года назад +61

      @@s.sterling6685 well man..there are people that don't have enough interaction with others or never had the opportunity to learn this things naturally as they should! don't judge so much, that's not your plac

    • @DarthFurie
      @DarthFurie 3 года назад +7

      This comment is really weird and cringeworthy... I like the internet as much as the next girl, but some people need to get off of it and go live their lives

    • @wilmeralbert2908
      @wilmeralbert2908 3 года назад +4

      @@DarthFurie no man
      This man talk truth

  • @mrcookie97
    @mrcookie97 5 лет назад +262

    Jessica Alba is right. That's what confident and successful men naturally and subconsciously do with people around them. I feel like those pick up guys ran like a bunch of science tests and hypothesis while seducing women, and simply adapted by doing a lot of the stuff that stimulates positive responses from people, and less of the stuff that makes people not like you. That's what you get when you release nerds off their computers and let them go in the real world lmao they just become good at another game

    • @BeyondTheMind007
      @BeyondTheMind007 2 года назад +20

      you feel? lol thats literally how they study the science of things to get a desired result

    • @A1RyRy
      @A1RyRy 2 года назад +4

      I was thinking same. You feel. Lol. Try reading a fckin book lol

    • @NallahBrown
      @NallahBrown Год назад

      Lmao bye 😂😅

    • @litjellyfish
      @litjellyfish Год назад +17

      Yes and? This is exactly what it is. Making people with no social skill better at social interactions.

    • @davidback2144
      @davidback2144 Год назад

      They did. The book talks about precisely that. In fact, Neil describes them all (himself included) as nerds.

  • @cjh3062
    @cjh3062 10 лет назад +812

    Shit is cool. Notice how Alba is subconsciously moving closer to him, and testing him, while Kimmel is insulting him (making it look to JA like he's trying too hard). Interesting stuff.

    • @hondaissace
      @hondaissace 10 лет назад +201

      Kimmel is the beta male hater in this scenario

    • @derekbeal7829
      @derekbeal7829 10 лет назад +2

      sure it's cool, but probably it only works for those who already know the game and want to increase their chance to get laid.
      @Ruben for starter, i recommend *"Rapid women seducer"* guide. they teach you step by step how to subconsciously seduce and attract women. It's pretty epic guide if you're a shy guy like me. I managed to overcome my fear on approaching women little by little.

    • @philosophersstone2482
      @philosophersstone2482 5 лет назад +37

      She wasn’t attracted to him though. Men need to understand women put you into a friend or future date category seconds after meeting you, sometimes even laying eyes on you. If you’re in the friend zone, move elsewhere because attraction isn’t forced.

    • @VanielDeeform
      @VanielDeeform 5 лет назад +28

      No she wasn't fooled. She was laughing that him and his guys, when they aren't on the internet looking at Jenna jameson, they're in huddled in chatrooms. It didn't work on her at all.

    • @MrKrushgutz
      @MrKrushgutz 5 лет назад +10

      VanielDeeform You sound like a hater because you hate guys that get the women that reject you.

  • @supremeape2549
    @supremeape2549 11 месяцев назад +72

    "it doesn't last for ever"
    16 years later and she is hotter than ever

    • @SGrosch
      @SGrosch  11 месяцев назад +9

      I’ve thought this too. But her and other top level chicks= age as we do. So I think our taste also ages a little at the same time. Until they crash!

    • @melvinost8272
      @melvinost8272 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@SGrosch that's an interesting point. Although I would hazard a guess young bucks find her attractive in that awful film trigger warning. Film is a 2/10, she's still a 10/10

    • @louio
      @louio 29 дней назад +1

      ​@melvinost8272 meh, she's just there now. So many younger and attractive women now days

    • @melvinost8272
      @melvinost8272 29 дней назад +1

      @@louio oh man I thought she looked incredible in that film. but each to their own!

  • @Malthizar
    @Malthizar 10 лет назад +649

    All I'm going to say is, look at Jessica's arms at these times:
    00:40
    2:44
    6:00

    • @ХристоБояджиев-л4и
      @ХристоБояджиев-л4и 6 лет назад +32

      Quite perceptive

    • @Suchapill
      @Suchapill 6 лет назад +21

      Hook Line and Sinker.

    • @beastmasterbg
      @beastmasterbg 5 лет назад +73

      I've noticed he made her say what else she has other than looks making her believe hes interested in her not her looks
      I think that got her

    • @neotheftm
      @neotheftm 5 лет назад +101

      @@beastmasterbg he was making her validate herself to him.

    • @jackbrady9738
      @jackbrady9738 5 лет назад +5

      Exactly well perceived

  • @ChrisBlackTV
    @ChrisBlackTV 9 лет назад +490

    "What kind of girls does this work on?". That was an obvious congruence test, he clearly got her hooked.

    • @Nickholast
      @Nickholast 7 лет назад +41

      And biting her nails before that too.

    • @hypergamyusa1376
      @hypergamyusa1376 5 лет назад +89

      No it was a backhanded question. She was implying that she can see through his act and his "game" would never work on her

    • @FamousIsComical
      @FamousIsComical 5 лет назад +97

      @@hypergamyusa1376 that's what they all say lmao

    • @hernandayolearyallda
      @hernandayolearyallda 5 лет назад +59

      @@hypergamyusa1376 That is what a congruence test is basically, a shit tests.
      Think about it, when a girl says "what KINDA girl would that work on". We know women communicate through more indirect subtle language. So what is she trying to say here, what kind of girls on the sunset strip does this really work on? The implication here is it would not work on a high value movie star woman like me, maybe some low down bar ho. But she can't just come out and say it that way, so "What Kinda girl would that work on is a congruence test.
      Also trying to suss out if Neil will back down like a Beta and say it didn't work on pretty women or confident women, so she doesn't want to admit it is working on her if it works on mostly low value women.

    • @Earthad23
      @Earthad23 4 года назад +2

      Kai yea she dated him and they fucked 1000 times right ?

  • @YuzuruA
    @YuzuruA 10 лет назад +420

    He is veeeery quick. In one second that he received the challenge, he instantly (and very subtly) diminished her (so you got lucky in the gene pool so what?) and defy her to be not "just beautiful", and to talk about herself.

    • @iiDeaGLex
      @iiDeaGLex 5 лет назад +45

      tommy cane115 you seem very insecure about yourself commenting on everybodys posts shitting on the guy in the video. What this guys doing is basic psychology no need for the hate

    • @redstealth9683
      @redstealth9683 4 года назад +1

      @tommy cane115 what's funny is what your comment says about you more than anyone else 😎

    • @nathanx.675
      @nathanx.675 4 года назад

      Yuzuru A he is. I was skeptical at first but after watching this video I was sold

    • @l1348
      @l1348 4 года назад

      LitErALLy

    • @maxiscrubian4722
      @maxiscrubian4722 3 года назад

      Like intelligence isn't just luck in the gene pool...

  • @deeznuts4910
    @deeznuts4910 4 года назад +13

    2006 Jimmy Kimmel seems way more chill than 2020

  • @stevet6665
    @stevet6665 5 лет назад +220

    4:02 - He's making her qualify herself to him. Expert move, lmao.

    • @mattis1307
      @mattis1307 3 года назад

      ??

    • @yqrose
      @yqrose 3 года назад

      @@mattis1307 ¿¿

    • @yqrose
      @yqrose 3 года назад +11

      @@mattis1307 he’s making her tell him why he should try to get her😉.

  • @monogameplay3
    @monogameplay3 5 лет назад +222

    Every bad quality you can find in Strauss makes his feats even more amazing.

  • @Zeaiclies
    @Zeaiclies 19 дней назад +2

    It's all body language, psychology and confidence and a guy can really get any girl.

  • @ansgaar
    @ansgaar 11 лет назад +166

    His laugh is priceless.

  • @Kali23Yuga
    @Kali23Yuga 10 лет назад +509

    6:50 biting her nails, doesn't even know she's been jackpotted.

    • @juliozz59
      @juliozz59 6 лет назад +25

      IOI

    • @hernandayolearyallda
      @hernandayolearyallda 5 лет назад +57

      Look how her body language changes between 0:37 and 6:05 she has her elbow on Neil's chair and her hand under her leg, leaning into Neil; 6:14 her hand touches Neil's leg by "accident" 6:51, biting her nail sexually while give Neil the I want to fuck you look and rubs her hands up her own legs

    • @reyyanyildiz
      @reyyanyildiz 5 лет назад +41

      @@hernandayolearyallda wtf is wrong with you? The words you use to articulate yourself, you literally talk like a horny middle schooler...

    • @SonTran-fq9nm
      @SonTran-fq9nm 5 лет назад +8

      @@reyyanyildiz lmao, he probably watched too much porn

    • @thegorn
      @thegorn 5 лет назад +15

      hernandayolearyallda absolutely right - you are SPOT ON!

  • @acook213
    @acook213 Месяц назад +4

    6:10 “All guys when they’re frustrated, they go to the internet.” 😬

  • @jazznutz
    @jazznutz 19 дней назад +2

    Kimmel has to lower the bar.

  • @tpzlol
    @tpzlol 10 лет назад +391

    it's fun to see how much the game has evolved since then.

    • @IafetCoto
      @IafetCoto 7 лет назад +19

      Pray, do elaborate. I'd be really interested in it.
      Please?

    • @DirtBlockGames
      @DirtBlockGames 6 лет назад +35

      Luke Liu just read the book "The Game" by Neil Strauss, then look at videos from RSD. Hard to describe the changes, but it is def interesting

    • @Frederick0220
      @Frederick0220 6 лет назад +34

      RSD has moved completely towards inner game, essentially ditching outer game. It's too limited. Both are massively important.

    • @josuastangl7140
      @josuastangl7140 6 лет назад +18

      Frederick0220 Todd is fucking back!!!

    • @Frederick0220
      @Frederick0220 6 лет назад +18

      You can’t kill a God, mah man! The Toddfather runs the game!

  • @seadog2969
    @seadog2969 4 года назад +90

    This never gets old. Look at how much Jessica begins to physically cross over into his space.

    • @EloquentlyEse
      @EloquentlyEse 4 года назад +6

      She was leaning in before he even started speaking @0:53...

    • @Phoenix1664
      @Phoenix1664 Год назад +25

      At no point at all did she fancy him. She's on a talk show it's not like she had any choice. I think she enjoyed the subject and being part of it. I even think she enjoyed his company, in the same way she enjoyed Kimmels company. Could he have picked her up? No.

    • @gailainsley6939
      @gailainsley6939 Год назад +15

      Omg. You guys read too much into things. That doesn’t mean anything 😂

    • @miamijefe7793
      @miamijefe7793 Год назад +1

      @@EloquentlyEse But she didn't make contact with him until she really got into it

    • @acason4
      @acason4 Год назад +4

      😂
      She did that long before he ever came onstage. It’s called: leaning towards the center of the conversation. It’s a natural reaction to three people taking where the middle person is the main speaker. Jessica Alba had zero interest. 🤦🏼‍♂️

  • @fabioalexandrino2244
    @fabioalexandrino2244 8 лет назад +168

    4:20
    look how style deals with interruptions. He just talks louder and louder, and when everyone is paying attention again, he turns the volume down.

  • @riotpoliceTRELL
    @riotpoliceTRELL 5 лет назад +11

    Not gonna lie, jimmy has aged really well. I totally forgot he used to look like this 😂

  • @ChrisBlackTV
    @ChrisBlackTV 8 лет назад +49

    6:50 priceless reaction

  • @dan4jc
    @dan4jc 13 лет назад +7

    yeh me too i love strauss. He's a legend and it frustrates me when they try and get him to do some on set stage with impossible variables. His story is incredible and one for everyone to read.

  • @ItsxAxLiger
    @ItsxAxLiger 9 лет назад +330

    3:58 I think he just negged her.

    • @bright.light.sights933
      @bright.light.sights933 8 лет назад +62

      She starts breathing very deeply after it too

    • @MrAlcmj
      @MrAlcmj 8 лет назад +30

      +ItsxAxLiger perfectly after giving her no attention

    • @shukailu6731
      @shukailu6731 8 лет назад +29

      He just did that Qualify yourself routine!! Haha

    • @dankearrape1939
      @dankearrape1939 7 лет назад +35

      7:41 an indirect neg.

    • @UltraMegaFail
      @UltraMegaFail 7 лет назад +26

      "That's awesome maybe we can hang out. Nah I'm joking" she heard that and nobody else really did.

  • @Enigmaprince
    @Enigmaprince 2 месяца назад +32

    Take notes guys. This is the actual top G

  • @MellorDesign
    @MellorDesign 12 лет назад +12

    This is probably one of the best books i've ever read, Completely mind blowing.

  • @fallingleaveskungfu
    @fallingleaveskungfu 3 месяца назад +3

    Oh, I love how he clapped back at loser Jimmy Kimmel at the end. FAFO Jimbo! 🤣

  • @zig8925
    @zig8925 2 месяца назад +2

    I didn't realise what he did to Jessica Alba the first time I Watched this. But he literally ran game.
    First of all, he talked to Jimmy Kimmel mostly, cause he's the host obviously. And then he asks he the "Beauty is common, what traits do you have other than that?" Question.
    And the fact that she answers is an indicator of interest

    • @zig8925
      @zig8925 2 месяца назад +2

      Also just noticed that Neil moves his arm over the armrests after he says it her her and gets close, then he pull away.
      And afterwards, Jessica is putting her arms across the armrests facing Neil more

  • @patwaddington
    @patwaddington 6 лет назад +21

    I remember reading his book when I was about 20. I found it funny that all the guys who were experts at PUA were all computer nerds.

  • @Catfishchristian
    @Catfishchristian 10 месяцев назад +2

    Coming back to watch this in 2023 because Neil Strauss is the Goat!

  • @tjmac7
    @tjmac7 11 лет назад +4

    what boosted him was perseverance. Confidence comes from experience and experience comes from practice, practice takes time, perseverance and a whole lot of fuck ups.Eventually he managed to change his perspective and attitude.

  • @johnwayne2103
    @johnwayne2103 9 лет назад +45

    There is a whole oneline world to this game and by game I mean the art of talking to women, it's teaching you to be self confident and how to be comfortable in social situations. These are softskills that good looking people master because they learn this naturally and others stay frustrated because they never figured out why the good looking dude treats the best looking girl in school like crap.
    These skills give you the options of having options unlike a lot of people I meet who meet one person in their entire lifetime and marry them only to divorce 10 years later with 2 kids.
    Buy the book ( I wish I got a kickback on it) heck read it at one of the books stores that will let you sit down if you don't think it's worth the money.
    You owe it to yourself to get the courage to speak to that beautiful knockout of a girl who you should've would've talked to and she married a man who treats her badly.
    Do your own research and decide if you want to learn the secret to talking to women.
    Unlike some of the below posters who like to write in all caps to convince you that you should be a vampire and sparkle in front of women.

    • @harmhoeks5996
      @harmhoeks5996 Год назад

      1 guy 1 girl keeps societies stable.

  • @chaseadams347
    @chaseadams347 Месяц назад +1

    This old video is still coming up in feeds. Always relevant.

  • @nicholasheltzel1087
    @nicholasheltzel1087 12 лет назад +17

    Kino, subtle neg, and conversation control. This guy is a beast

  • @Wheelio
    @Wheelio 11 лет назад +5

    Which is why if you DO happen to stumble across these books - it's best to take many of these "rules" half-heartedly. I think some of the tips these guys offer can be used in all sorts of social situations, not just dating. But it's the ones that take everything as gospel and become robotic that are hopeless.

  • @thugg4lif
    @thugg4lif 23 дня назад +1

    You should see the next 60 seconds Neil picks up jimmy

    • @SGrosch
      @SGrosch  23 дня назад

      @@thugg4lif lol

  • @djcaron5202
    @djcaron5202 5 лет назад +11

    "Neeehhahahahah" his laugh is to funny

  • @Feralgater
    @Feralgater 10 лет назад +329

    HYEH HYAH HYUGH

  • @willhum9162
    @willhum9162 29 дней назад

    The tee over collared shirt really seals it

  • @winsomehax
    @winsomehax 2 года назад +6

    The first half of that book is riveting stuff. The second half doesn't rise to that level. Overall: even if it is slightly fictionalised... it's still worth reading. It's called The Game for a reason... guys like games and like working out the rules. They turn the social interactions into a game. Like it or not, it was extremely influential and effective.

  • @AnitaHannjob
    @AnitaHannjob 5 лет назад +12

    Why was this in my suggested? 10/2019 here!

    • @toysvintage807
      @toysvintage807 5 лет назад +3

      To start the trend of wearing tshirts over a dress shirt.

  • @nikasr1007
    @nikasr1007 24 дня назад

    She said about the internet: “that’s the future of dating.” Damn Jessica Alba the businesswoman!

  • @danield1047
    @danield1047 5 лет назад +7

    the virgin “HA HA HA” vs the chad “HYUH HYUH HYUH”

  • @brendagarcia9289
    @brendagarcia9289 8 лет назад +111

    they are kinda bullying him ...they ask him a question and then don't let him finish giving his answer and they ask the next question :/

    • @magicdudegary
      @magicdudegary 8 лет назад +20

      +Brenda Garcia That's Jimmy FatButt for ya...he's an idiot who can't shutup enough to let his guests talk. He does it all the time and he is the most unentertaining person on TV. Jimmy Fallon on the other hand is a real people person with a real passion for what he does. This Kimmel idiot is a disgrace to "entertainment".

    • @kfk4441
      @kfk4441 6 лет назад +2

      We call that disqualifying, pay attention how he tries to show he is better than style while he licks Style's balls at the same time.
      You are either better than them or they are worse. You pick, that's social dynamics

    • @strongarm8937
      @strongarm8937 5 лет назад +1

      but it doesn't work on hil

  • @diontyler2880
    @diontyler2880 3 месяца назад +2

    Never heard of dude and didn’t even kno what he’s about but I realized everything he was doing and noticed how it made her try to get his attention and lean into him and talk more body language is always a give away

  • @antonboludo8886
    @antonboludo8886 3 года назад +15

    I took the Mystery Method workshop in the early 2000s. Neil and Mystery were the instructors. The method works. It took me a long time to improve because I had more crap in my head than even I was aware of.
    The war is in your head, guys.

  • @EriPages
    @EriPages 25 дней назад +2

    Wow. I didnt know this is what he looked like or sounded like.
    And the way he maintained throughout this passive aggressive interview whilst ALSO having a pitying Jessica Alba next to him is TOP TIER.
    Neil Strauss has won me over. I'll get his book afterall.

    • @SGrosch
      @SGrosch  24 дня назад +1

      @@EriPages just remember. Don’t treat it like a bible. Just because it looks like one.
      Some good tips. Great story. But the “cautionary tale” part is way built up.

    • @EriPages
      @EriPages 24 дня назад +2

      @@SGrosch What's wrong with the cautionary tale portion?

    • @SGrosch
      @SGrosch  24 дня назад

      @@EriPages it’s coming from a guy who was the biggest Dirtbag/cheater/liar in the book. Neil’s follow up book. The Truth covers it. I was around for some of that and know the people in it.

  • @MKeehl23
    @MKeehl23 24 дня назад

    He even dribbled Jimmy's sociopath envying arrogant insults. He's the guy!

  • @danielstratton1670
    @danielstratton1670 8 лет назад +4

    This absolutely works, it works so well you won't believe what you did the first time you do it right to a woman you USED to view as unattainable, those elusive 10's. They'll be so mesmerized, JUST LIKE JESSICA ALBA, and if she weren't on national tv she'd had went home with then and there... Look at her IOI's! It's a PERFECT example of how to get "those" women, he had her! Watch how she looks at him, leans in, talks with a little sense of insecurity now, impressing him with her insight, slam dunk! I did this n a woman I NEVER in a million years would have hit on had I known who she was, TWICE, and I close both of them! Two tens, separate occasions. MOST IMPORTANT! When they start showing you their modeling photos, which they would after a successful opener and a new or two, THATS WHEN YOU SAY NOTHNG! Do NOT COMPLIMENT THEM, tell them anything but how pretty or impressed you are, say, "ugh, I've dated women like you and I vowed never to do it again." She'll continue qualifying and bam

  • @davidlloren
    @davidlloren 17 дней назад

    Any guy with that on his face has confidence

  • @Meme-go9ts
    @Meme-go9ts 2 года назад +3

    Neil Strauss did not pick up Jessica's interest, only dudes that sadly think they know how to get women (sorry to tell you). Jessica Alba only listened because he mentioned having met Britney, to be honest.
    Now please stop creepy comments

  • @suzophizer9175
    @suzophizer9175 7 лет назад +16

    It would be nice to be talked to by someone with these skills

    • @Popdoc21
      @Popdoc21 2 года назад

      What makes you worth talking to? Your wish is granted

  • @feeshac1974
    @feeshac1974 3 года назад +5

    Love how jessica alba defended britney spears. She’s always has thoughtful things to say in interviews too like about her business on Colbert. Love jessica alba!

  • @CliftonLee33
    @CliftonLee33 3 месяца назад +1

    All you need to know about game is this:
    I was at a bachelor party, the group split off into smaller groups, my cousin and I walked up to the bar, there were a couple seats. There was a group of 5-6 girls sitting there, I asked the one on the end, closest to us, if the seats were taken. She said “you can sit there, but you’re not gonna spit any game to me” with an extremely strong attitude and cockiness about herself.
    I very calmly smirked and responded “you’re ugly, I wasn’t planning on trying to pick you up”
    I was balls deep a short while later.
    Yes, it really is that easy.
    99% of the time, their egos are more fragile than porcelain, and the more attractive they are, the more fragile their fake confidence becomes.

  • @johnwayne2103
    @johnwayne2103 9 лет назад +5

    I read this book several years ago and you honestly cannot make this stuff up. The book is hilarious and at the same time serious about finding that woman of your dreams. It comes down to breaking down the mysterious world of how women view men and how a man can win a woman over.
    In the end people are just trying to be happy. We all are looking for that one love, hopefully you find yourselves to be compatible and can have a happy life together.

  • @YanoshDanosh
    @YanoshDanosh 16 дней назад

    4:14 that guy yelling “hot” 😂😂😂

  • @bukelobeats3109
    @bukelobeats3109 Год назад +3

    What an honor, seeing my coach in action

  • @davidmalindy6178
    @davidmalindy6178 2 года назад +3

    I came here to hate, I stayed because all three were cool and seemed like good people

  • @cnote2774
    @cnote2774 16 дней назад

    He gamed her by making her feel sorry for his situation. Then bringing down to his level by making her looks not be as much as a deal breaker

  • @cismale-uf1uy
    @cismale-uf1uy 4 месяца назад +4

    I worked on this show and Jessica told me this guy was a “nobody” 😂 In fact, she told him off air that he’s full of it.

    • @chanceklein
      @chanceklein 4 месяца назад +2

      You really think JA would actually admit that his game works? Her body language during the interview is self explanatory.

    • @user-yz5mn2go2d
      @user-yz5mn2go2d 3 месяца назад +2

      Nelson from the Simpsons: "Hah-haaaah!"

  • @AlitaBeyay
    @AlitaBeyay Год назад +1

    I’ve had Neil‘s book for years and even took some of his online suggestions. He’s already working the game by not paying any attention to Jessica Alba at the beginning. Then just give her a little bit. You can see she’s already looking fascinated and giving him full attention, but he’s not looking at her at all. Then he gives her a little, but then jumps back to Jimmy. Now later, after getting the demo, her arm is crossing into his chair space. Neil is he’s got a shaved head. He’s only about 5’6” tall but he was the king. I’ll pick up artists in his day. Even more than the guy mystery who was the former king of pick up artists. Surprised if he had made some time with Jessica afterwards. Not that they would’ve gone home, but it is interesting how he was doing with her. When I knew ‘game’ I was surprised at how prevalent it was everywhere. I became very comfortable talking with beautiful women and they would tell me about encounters, and I would hear them repeating lines straight out of Neil’s book or out of pick up artist books. It was pretty shocking that I was so unaware of this before I became aware of it. And the only reason I got interested in it is I was interested in a girl at work and I just hoped to have a successful date with her. Interestingly enough, I sort of became a better man out of it. Took better care of myself, and knew how to present myself better. Bemoaning that I was a nice guy and my friends were nice guys but girls weren’t interested in nice guys. They seemed interested in guys and didn’t treat them well. But the most important thing I got out of it was I had past relationships with male and female friends and I couldn’t get over why they didn’t want to be around me anymore. It always tormented me, for I didn’t even say decades. But accidentally, I learned that when someone doesn’t pay any attention to you, it’s a powerful things. One of the most powerful things. And once I realized it was just a human mechanism. I was able to let it go and stop trying to figure out how I could get them interested in me again. I’ve had peace of mind ever cents.

  • @Kenazzle
    @Kenazzle 10 лет назад +17

    Neil's laugh could curdle milk. Love it.

  • @Bansenshukai9
    @Bansenshukai9 10 лет назад +26

    Kimmel is trying to demonstrate authority through aggressive body language and dismissive tonality, but all he's succeeding in doing is diminishing his value and raising Style's value.

  • @justin.johnson
    @justin.johnson Месяц назад +1

    Same Alba I crushed on since then. Rare breed of woman to this day.

  • @SkylineVilla
    @SkylineVilla 10 лет назад +7

    He's not at all what I thought he would look like

  • @C.minax90
    @C.minax90 3 месяца назад +2

    The best way to get someone is to pretend you don't want him..all the women who behaved like this with me are now in the garbage...
    And by the way..they're all single and alone at 40.. and living with cats

  • @severath19
    @severath19 10 лет назад +14

    Im actually reading that book right now. It's some amazing shit!

    • @patwaddington
      @patwaddington 4 года назад +1

      Yeah it’s definitely a good read

    • @broly1746
      @broly1746 3 года назад +1

      @@patwaddington exactly.

  • @Billeh556
    @Billeh556 3 месяца назад +1

    Jimmy Kimmel was always such an inauthentic slime ball and he’s even worse now!

  • @skeetermcswagger0U812
    @skeetermcswagger0U812 3 месяца назад +1

    What's funny is thinking about what he said and about what works, is I've actually gotten tired of trying to pick up girls for a little while so instead of trying to impress them I reverted to telling them that I don't have hardly any money, I can barely pay for gas sometimes, I didn't live in a nice house, and my work doesn't pay that much, and I got more numbers and dates that way.......no joke...it works almost every time with really attractive women...I don't know why. 🤷‍♂️

    • @SGrosch
      @SGrosch  3 месяца назад +1

      We proved this when Rules of The Game came out. Hidden camera series for MySpace (when it was cool). Talk good looking guy saying and acting rich. No numbers.
      Short guy saying he’s a garbage man- tons of numbers.

  • @ryanorr5755
    @ryanorr5755 Год назад +11

    The best part about this video is it exposes jimmy as a douche

    • @JohnKittner
      @JohnKittner 3 месяца назад +1

      Don’t think it takes much to do that….

    • @georgeprochnow7330
      @georgeprochnow7330 3 месяца назад

      Jimmy exposes Jimmy as a douche. Every damn night.

  • @amyasseektruth8246
    @amyasseektruth8246 4 года назад +4

    don't let PUA consume your life. Time flies

  • @void3793
    @void3793 2 месяца назад +4

    damn i never noticed how much jimmy kimmel sucks

    • @SGrosch
      @SGrosch  2 месяца назад +2

      @@void3793 even worse now than ever!

  • @privateconfidential4775
    @privateconfidential4775 25 дней назад +1

    Free speech: Chrome dome

  • @Thrawns_Office
    @Thrawns_Office 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank god I was born handsome. This crap sounds exhausting

  • @OtherJesus
    @OtherJesus 10 лет назад +15

    Style is the master of social dynamics.

  • @drizzal83
    @drizzal83 12 лет назад +6

    It's actually an amazingly interesting book. I really enjoyed it and tried some of the stuff they talk about...and it works if you do it correctly. That was all just in fun though. If you wanna meet women just go through life with confidence and you'll be fine.

  • @pathfinder011
    @pathfinder011 Год назад +2

    1:01 "The best way to get someone is to pretend that you don't want it"
    I'm going to engrave that in my mind otherwise regret it for the rest of my life.

  • @jeredjamesaz
    @jeredjamesaz 3 месяца назад +3

    Literally here years later. Having read the book, I thought the whole "pick up artist" thing was desperate, and insufferable. However, my male brain, desperate to attract and mate with the most alpha female available, absorbed every lesson with abandon. Not going to comment on why these techniques actually work on women, because the 100% do. What really matters to women are confidence, personality, and character. You may be able to fool some gullible some of the time, these approaches do not lead to meaningful relationships. Apparently, this beta male acquiesced to the LGB Liberal nazis and wrote another book admitting he's actually a huge dork.

    • @SGrosch
      @SGrosch  3 месяца назад +1

      Excellent excellent comment. Yes his second book was garbage, I read it only because I was around and knew the people involved in all that, but totally pathetic and weak because he wanted to be accepted by liberals and the woke.

  • @petermanjapan2125
    @petermanjapan2125 4 года назад +3

    ‘What kinda girl would it work on?’ BUSTED

  • @martinchan168
    @martinchan168 12 дней назад

    Jessica was smart thought about Online Dating 🎉

  • @creamofthecrop5868
    @creamofthecrop5868 5 лет назад +6

    “Gawhgahwhgawhh. agghghaghg!”

  • @theone9288
    @theone9288 2 месяца назад +1

    with the way he laughs...and he gets the girls....he's on to something

  • @gsau3000
    @gsau3000 10 месяцев назад +2

    Dude dresses in the wrong order.

  • @farmersjt
    @farmersjt 3 месяца назад +1

    TV talk shows: if it doesn't get a laugh every 30 seconds, the host will blurt out some platitude.

  • @oftengone
    @oftengone 2 года назад +1

    Brilliant. Appreciate the upload

  • @n29grimmdesign
    @n29grimmdesign 10 лет назад +7

    Notice how Jessica kept trying to get his attention and keep the conversation going with HER by constantly asking questions that, normally, she probably wouldn't even bother to ask during a talk show (of all places), yet Style never gave her back his full attention? Jimmy is the interviewer but Style asked her one of the best questions you could ask a woman of Jessica's caliber...He didn't think about it and he was confident the whole time. I bet that 99.9% of the men that approach Jessica never bothers to ask questions or engage in conversation that have nothing to do with her looks or celebrity status.

  • @RobAlfieInostrozaLindley
    @RobAlfieInostrozaLindley 3 месяца назад

    This was fun in the good ol days. You are playing 'the game'...but then at some point you realize if you want something REAL it just happens because of who YOU are (not to say you can't learn some things from this.. like posture, self confidence, how to carry a conversation etc, but you get it) . Just be you, because you won't be able to play the game for your entire life :)

  • @Gretsch0997
    @Gretsch0997 4 месяца назад +1

    The next guess was going to be Brad Paisley, who would likely also be the master at pick up