Neil Strauss Picks Up Jessica Alba on the Jimmy Kimmel show PROVES The Game works!

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  • @ayylmao8562
    @ayylmao8562 Месяц назад +70

    6:50
    It worked holy fuck it worked

    • @lobotomizedamericans
      @lobotomizedamericans 15 дней назад +1

      No, it didn't. This is staged BS to sell books. They all get a piece of the pie. It's quite grotesque.

  • @arthurwatts1680
    @arthurwatts1680 6 лет назад +8489

    Why does 2006 suddenly feel more like 1996 ?

    • @jeremyw.5729
      @jeremyw.5729 5 лет назад +358

      Because 2009 became 2019.

    • @arthurwatts1680
      @arthurwatts1680 5 лет назад +11

      OK - o is next to i on a qwerty keyboard, but I hear ya. @.

    • @djcaron5202
      @djcaron5202 5 лет назад +68

      Yea it does have the nostalgic feeling

    • @Ghouse666
      @Ghouse666 5 лет назад +8

      Wishful thinking...that's why

    • @ciarandevaney385
      @ciarandevaney385 5 лет назад +147

      2006 was still in the 1990's in many ways

  • @xeno126
    @xeno126 10 лет назад +4849

    The fact that the world's greatest PUA isn't hot in anyway and is actually a nerd is the biggest evidence that attraction is one of the most misunderstood things in society.

    • @MrXavier0899
      @MrXavier0899 9 лет назад +46

      EXACTLY. haha

    • @jacobmufasa
      @jacobmufasa 9 лет назад +14

      Xeno wat do you mean misunderstood? can attraction be recreate?

    • @freddyr0
      @freddyr0 9 лет назад +100

      jacobmufasa don't ask here, ask a Psychologist and you'll run to the bookstore all excited. Attraction CAN be recreated, and when it fails it doesn't mean you can't, it means you did it wrong.

    • @jacobmufasa
      @jacobmufasa 9 лет назад +9

      Freddy Rivero I cant create it :[

    • @freddyr0
      @freddyr0 9 лет назад +4

      jacobmufasa Friend zoned? What's the problem? Maybe I could tell you what I think..

  • @FranTheMan29
    @FranTheMan29 11 лет назад +1518

    notice how they were testing him like the whole interview, he didn't buy into the frame showing he's self assured and non reactive , good job

    • @Esoteric_Athlete
      @Esoteric_Athlete 3 года назад +64

      I know, even the man was giving him shit tests lol

    • @babayagajmw2953
      @babayagajmw2953 3 года назад +81

      They werent tests. Jimmy really wanted to make fun of this guy. Jimmy is like that. He wants to be the better guy. Almost all of the show hosts are that way 😅

    • @ankitnikunj3808
      @ankitnikunj3808 2 года назад +26

      @@babayagajmw2953 thats why joker movie made

    • @Bearforceone
      @Bearforceone 2 года назад +46

      @@babayagajmw2953 Jimmy has always been a prck. He is so arrogant and commonly insults his guests.

    • @bluemystic7501
      @bluemystic7501 8 месяцев назад +26

      @@babayagajmw2953 It's called a shit test and your social status is based on how you handle it.

  • @youngsuit
    @youngsuit 3 года назад +424

    Something important here: he confidently talked about his prior insecurities. The pick up artists back then didn't do a good job about talking about vulnerability but it takes big confidence to do that

    • @Fokas-n8t
      @Fokas-n8t 11 месяцев назад +43

      The professional pick-up artists as well as dedicated amateurs were researching that stuff and they were testing everything and noting it down. They had quickly figured out that sharing insecurities, vulnerabilities as well as self-deprecating humour was N O T conducive to successful flirting. Sharing insecurities and self-deprecating humour were only conducive to becoming more likeable to a general audience only once one has attained considerable status, not when one is a nobody. At that point in 2006 Strauss was a successful journalist and writer and had trained with Mystery to become a pick up artist himself. His acquired notoriety worked for him, hence sharing insecurities or self-deprecating was gaining him likes, not endangering his status.

    • @notexactlyrocketscience
      @notexactlyrocketscience 6 месяцев назад +8

      @@Fokas-n8t he sold a believable coherent narrative and painted a picture of his past. that lent him credibility. i think that's what he was there for.

    • @lotuseater7247
      @lotuseater7247 6 месяцев назад

      @@Fokas-n8t God listen to yourself. What a loser

    • @delcarmat
      @delcarmat 8 дней назад

      are you into models book right?

  • @beeatoms
    @beeatoms 10 лет назад +4066

    he just ran game on her and no one even knew it. strauss nailed it.

    • @beeatoms
      @beeatoms 10 лет назад +170

      diornotwar123 by her reaction she didnt think he was being rude. thats all that matters.

    • @beeatoms
      @beeatoms 10 лет назад +81

      diornotwar123 she was impressed. how was he being rude?

    • @yosharian
      @yosharian 10 лет назад +66

      diornotwar123 Haha. Wow. The delusions run strong in this one.

    • @Iam18
      @Iam18 10 лет назад +113

      He's not trying to pick her up, it's a fucking talk show.

    • @beeatoms
      @beeatoms 10 лет назад +121

      Iam18 he ran pickup lines on her. not with the intention to pick her up duh. it was used as an example. how hard is that to understand :-/

  • @Parodypeeeps
    @Parodypeeeps 9 лет назад +2763

    lol he was doing his technique of ignoring her while talking to jimmy, not looking back at her

    • @JaIch9999
      @JaIch9999 6 лет назад +135

      Parodypeeeps
      Yeah, and every woman over 14 knows the trick. This game is for dumb and imature people.

    • @davethedm
      @davethedm 6 лет назад +51

      Parodypeeeps it’s a PUA “trick” to make them bring attention to themselves

    • @MegaGliders
      @MegaGliders 6 лет назад +113

      Ja Ich no it’s for people who’ve grown up and saw the world for what it is.

    • @MiguelGonzalez-yl5vf
      @MiguelGonzalez-yl5vf 6 лет назад +186

      Doesn't every guest do the same exact thing when sitting in that chair

    • @sebastiantrudel3084
      @sebastiantrudel3084 6 лет назад

      mira bien gil

  • @davidshillito
    @davidshillito 5 лет назад +1592

    "Give me 10 minutes to talk away my ugly face & I will bed the Queen of France" ~ Voltaire

    • @sanctuaryism
      @sanctuaryism 4 года назад +4

      or for queen and country...

    • @LAZLOUFORIA1379
      @LAZLOUFORIA1379 3 года назад +10

      Lmao I love that guy

    • @tritile
      @tritile 9 месяцев назад +3

      hahahahahaha I will write this one down for later

    • @michaelmichaelagnew8503
      @michaelmichaelagnew8503 8 месяцев назад +7

      Was Voltaire beheaded by the Queen of France? Or by her husband for trying?

    • @davidshillito
      @davidshillito 8 месяцев назад +5

      @@michaelmichaelagnew8503 ~ No idea but it matters not, given you missed the point

  • @Jack-xl5eq
    @Jack-xl5eq 3 года назад +473

    I fucking died when Neil zinged Jimmy at the end with the "Big cheesy guy" line.

    • @RuiZavier
      @RuiZavier 2 года назад +55

      What's funnier, he drew Jimmy into that one but it was Jimmy that punched himself. Priceless.

    • @sirus312
      @sirus312 7 месяцев назад +9

      One could say he…won… the…game!

    • @southamcaballero
      @southamcaballero 5 месяцев назад +2

      No, the guy seemed very defensive, instead of laughing at himself, which shows his insecurity

    • @nrspinelli
      @nrspinelli 3 месяца назад +13

      @jimclaus1576 what makes you think that? he just returned the same physical humor to show all fine and fair

    • @dont_trust_any1_even_ur_waifu
      @dont_trust_any1_even_ur_waifu 2 месяца назад +2

      Yes the “nerds” would call this “Amogging”

  • @gusti1021
    @gusti1021 5 лет назад +1485

    "I'm in a two-set trying to neg the target but I get IOIs from the obstacle". He's describing the exact situation he's in.

    • @jamesmarsh5288
      @jamesmarsh5288 5 лет назад +29

      I got that too but I don't understand what IOS is?

    • @gusti1021
      @gusti1021 5 лет назад +127

      @@jamesmarsh5288 Indicators Of Interest. Verbal and non-verbal signals that someone sends to show that they are interested in you.

    • @jamesmarsh5288
      @jamesmarsh5288 5 лет назад +25

      @@gusti1021 Cheers mate. I just learnt something :)

    • @AthletismeQc
      @AthletismeQc 5 лет назад +20

      lmao, i just realized this

    • @yole7390
      @yole7390 4 года назад +83

      It shows Neil was acting in a very conscious way.

  • @yunghung5388
    @yunghung5388 10 лет назад +1744

    It just goes to show, you can be bald, skinny, and have the most ridiculous laugh on the planet and you can still have game.

    • @teriyaki_chicken
      @teriyaki_chicken 6 лет назад +30

      Yung Hung with the way he dressed too

    • @senecanicholson1090
      @senecanicholson1090 5 лет назад +24

      It's not clothes or necessarily "looks". It's based on how she feels and the probability of mutual attraction...

    • @poopydoggy
      @poopydoggy 5 лет назад +66

      He didn't demonstrate any game that I saw. Jessica Alba was constantly leaning away from him and subtly mocking what he said. I'm not saying that such a "game" doesn't exist, but he sure didn't pull it off.

    • @reljasaurus
      @reljasaurus 5 лет назад +3

      yeah, cause fat guys with hair get all the girls

    • @Earthad23
      @Earthad23 5 лет назад

      Yung Hung yes and for some people it’s actually genuine

  • @Daladun
    @Daladun 14 лет назад +544

    If you've read the Game you know EXACTLY what he's doing, it's awesome. He says he isn't going to pick her up but he was doing it from the beginning of the video. Making her qualify herself.

    • @AEO21Productions
      @AEO21Productions 2 года назад +11

      @@pashadyne I'm so sorry to inform you.. Daladium passed away last year.. He never procreated and thus has no lineage of DNA so neither him nor any descendants will ever answer that question for you :/ Also, thankfully he didn't die alone.. he had his whole community.. all of them single and also without children.. at his side (online in his computer) til his last day *tear*

    • @AEO21Productions
      @AEO21Productions 2 года назад +7

      @@pashadyne lol, if they did then i pray to God their children have more a soul than they do.. they go about engaging with potential mates like if its a chess game.. the potential for true love and connection is squandered with this type of manipulation and scheming.. life doesn’t flow when these types of human behaviors are involved. I hope you see this for yourself.. if not yet, maybe check out true spiritual teachers like Alan Watts and Ram Dass.. they know the true powerful ways of living.. not chasing tail like a 7th grader in the school yard.. wanna be infantile?? Go for it.. want to be a God in the truest sense.. then find your inner Divinity

    • @AndyTomlins
      @AndyTomlins 2 года назад +7

      @@pashadyne Daladun probably left college. Got a job. Started having to talk to women on an equal level. Started to respect them. Made female friends. Then one day met a woman through a friend that he had a spark with that didn't require an ulterior motive.

    • @rafomic4210
      @rafomic4210 2 года назад +1

      ​@@AEO21ProductionsWho is daladium ?

    • @inorite4553
      @inorite4553 2 года назад +7

      Jessica was absolutely interested in hearing more about Neil and The Game as can be seen that she felt compelled enough to ask him a direct question.

  • @radar0412
    @radar0412 5 лет назад +343

    That actually works. The other day 5 women showed up at my door and said "Hey, I heard you don't want it!"

    • @infinitydreamzz
      @infinitydreamzz 5 месяцев назад +51

      And then you said "that's right" and closed the door to their faces

    • @cedricwilcox7583
      @cedricwilcox7583 5 месяцев назад +5

      😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭

  • @andreachung396
    @andreachung396 10 лет назад +2573

    Loyal, reliable and hard working.
    She just named characteristics found in a dog!

    • @nickangelo116
      @nickangelo116 9 лет назад +181

      A dog is man's best friend

    • @TheVariableConstant
      @TheVariableConstant 9 лет назад +125

      +Andrea Chung
      You must know a lot of hard working dogs in your life!

    • @roaringrid
      @roaringrid 9 лет назад +42

      +Andrea Chung This is the best neg ever! I'm definitely gonna try this one.

    • @veganhanz7391
      @veganhanz7391 9 лет назад +32

      I dunno, i think most dogs are lazy

    • @DrugzRKoool
      @DrugzRKoool 8 лет назад +11

      If only Neil had actually said that, would have been hilarious

  • @ziyamc4847
    @ziyamc4847 6 лет назад +282

    The first initiative he took was giving a very brief hello & walking past her. He then started with his immediate opener talking about his methods to spark the interest. Then crossed his right leg over his left, creating a barrier to block her out & turned more toward Jimmy. This sparked the need for attention. He kept his head straight & shoulders back. Everything was relaxed. He shows his teeth a lot when smiling & laughing. Used great conversation skills balancing a ratio of listening & talking when he was "given permission" to. He uses hand gestures with his palm up toward the ceiling. This is more inviting than palms down or pointing & looks rather intelligent.

    • @BootyWonka
      @BootyWonka Год назад +7

      Profile picture checks out. Hold this L, creep!

    • @millionairemelly4164
      @millionairemelly4164 Год назад +56

      @@BootyWonka how is he a creep ? Clearly you don’t understand body language and psychology!

    • @supernice_auto
      @supernice_auto Год назад

      @@BootyWonka you have a low iq

    • @serrael-182
      @serrael-182 Год назад

      Still he seems like a creep. Im not a girl but i didnt feel the magic.
      They ran tests in a tc show the good locking pick up artists was as succesfull as the attractive reporter who didnt used any methods. There werr many sluts with boyfriends by the way. They behaved like they lookes. At another time the followed an unattractive pick up artist he failed completly.

    • @youcryilaugh-m5z
      @youcryilaugh-m5z 11 месяцев назад

      you are a nerd

  • @caddencadden
    @caddencadden 5 лет назад +445

    Neil did really well in this interview and dealt with Jessica and dealt with the host who tried to make fun out of Neil multiple times. The best thing he could have done was laugh at any piss take and that is exactly what he did

    • @EmmettXIV
      @EmmettXIV 2 года назад +33

      yes, like the underhanded comment about his looks and that he should put his ugly mug on the book. oh a shot to Neil's self esteem but taken like a champ.

    • @Ikaros23
      @Ikaros23 2 года назад +49

      @@EmmettXIV Exactly. He was " amoging" him. When you read the comments you see alot of narcissists who are shaming him, and people who are desperat to get " likes". But most are to self obsessed to notice that he is actually playing with them right in this scene. The game is playing out all the time on both a consious and unconsious level. The game for attraction, and the need for attension. You can see the host trying to assert himself as the dominant male. But Neil outsmarts him by beeing realy humble instead of the narcissistic asshole they think he is ( But that he became in that period, but later worked hard to get out of).
      The sad part that most people dismissed, is that Neil whole point in the book was a confession of his struggle for self acceptance and that was the driving force to learn pickup. The hatred in society is 100 times worse today against men who want to learn to socialise and to be better with females. Culture has changed, technology has changed ( from calling,texting to dating apps). But the game is still the same. That is human nature is the same as it has always been.

    • @jaylucas8352
      @jaylucas8352 Год назад

      Jimmy was savage

  • @BuzzKirill3D
    @BuzzKirill3D 2 года назад +702

    What's amazing about Neil here is that he manages to really "sell" the game to a somewhat conservative audience once again. He picks just the right words and examples to make the game seem like a gentle and noble art, rather than psychological manipulation. So that's a double layer of mastery right there.

    • @spencerantoniomarlen-starr3069
      @spencerantoniomarlen-starr3069 2 года назад +58

      Most of the fundamental social dynamics PUAs train men in they learned from carefully observing how gorgeous women behave to men.
      For instance, "negging" is something they learned from hot chicks, girls neg guys all the time. You want to talk manipulative behavior?? Look no further than unusually attractive women in their 20s, the only difference is that qthey do these things innately. That and it is socially unacceptable to critique women for how to they flirt

    • @spencerantoniomarlen-starr3069
      @spencerantoniomarlen-starr3069 2 года назад +16

      @@NEbluefire okay, absolutely nothing you claimed and assumed about me personally in your reply can actually be found anywhere in my comment you replied to.
      Do you think it's either reliable, or even okay to make sweeping assumptions and generalizations about someone you've never met? Who says I adhere to pickup guru's advice for getting women?? I certainly didn't!

    • @Curiousonic
      @Curiousonic 2 года назад +3

      @@NEbluefire Beauty is relative! Some are attracted to physical looks -- fit, average or chubby, pretty or ordinary, and others look for inner beauty.
      Also the words you use to describe pua's contempt for women actually describe your own contempt for pua's, which makes you equal. Fact is, all pua's are different. You are right, some of them use the pua techniques to get many women, but others, who have never dated before, use it only once to get the love of their life. I know one who did. And accusing him for hating women (???) is just unfair, like he is not worthy of love because he didn't know how to approach a girl. Most men are unprepared when they go out to chat up a girl. Their agenda is the same as a pua, except they don't know how to make a honourable representation of themselves. It is like going unprepared to a job interview. You can't do that. The pua techniques is a guide for men who doesn't know how to approach a girl -- where they get a chance to present the best of them before being rejected at face value. Everyone deserves love. Have some empathy.

    • @PCProphecy
      @PCProphecy 2 года назад +5

      @@spencerantoniomarlen-starr3069 Yes, agreed. I don't know what the other guy or girl is rambling on about; they literally proved your point about "socially unacceptable to critique women" as they proceed to immediately jump the gun and claim "you hate women" accusations for female critique, all sorts of negative assumptions with a couple of psychological manipulative tactics while pointing the finger.

    • @ImAgentK
      @ImAgentK 2 года назад +4

      @@NEbluefire Doing whatever it takes to win doesn’t mean you hate women. If you’re being mean to women in order to win in the dating market then you’re simply doing what it takes to win. You’re just saying they have contempt for women because you don’t like the fact that púas actually win with women and you’d rather see men just lose. Have you ever thought maybe men do these things because they feel like they have no choice?

  • @CodyShreck
    @CodyShreck 9 лет назад +316

    Clever bastard was running game even as he sat down. The whole "I don't know talkshow game" simply disarmed the audience, jimmy, and especially Jessica for the rest of it.

    • @1495978707
      @1495978707 3 месяца назад +8

      Yep, a very big key to running game is not letting them realize it. It's like sleight of hand in magic tricks. Skilled magicians get people to think they figured you out so they are distracted from the real trick

  • @IafetCoto
    @IafetCoto 7 лет назад +358

    Whether or not you believe in pick up artist stuff, you hace to admit he handled this well considering Jimmy Kimmel had it out for him.

    • @jaylucas8352
      @jaylucas8352 Год назад +17

      He just roasted him a little bit he can take it

    • @booboo4963
      @booboo4963 9 месяцев назад

      Have you never seen a late night comedy tv show?

  • @SacredSnipa
    @SacredSnipa 8 лет назад +1239

    Fucking genius, his game was so under the radar that none of the audience or the target even realised what was going on... Fucking epic and a little scary

    • @Sean-mc4iq
      @Sean-mc4iq 8 лет назад +132

      she is also an actor, and him being on this show is a publicity stunt to sell the book... so remember that.

    • @t2na_
      @t2na_ 8 лет назад +33

      True, but she's not a particularly good one

    • @Sean-mc4iq
      @Sean-mc4iq 8 лет назад +16

      *****
      it's a lot easier to act attracted to someone... She doesn't have to have an amazing range for this type of acting.

    • @christopherg.8591
      @christopherg.8591 7 лет назад +37

      Kapsproductions Yeah, but It's funny people ALWAYS say they must be actresses, he's got a hot girlfriend, OH THAT GIRL MUST BE PAYED TO ACT LIKE ONE, he makes infield videos, OH SHE IS AN ACTRESS, LOOK HOW THEY DON'T SHOW HER FACE, COULD BE ANYONE!, look he's doing it in fron of you in an interview... OH SHE'S AN ACTRESS ALREADY, SHE MUST HAVE BEEN PAID!!
      Always the same story

    • @mayyn77
      @mayyn77 7 лет назад +1

      Kapsproductions you said that like 10 times. What do you gain from this lol? Youre extremely insecure i guess

  • @lorenzoalvarez8867
    @lorenzoalvarez8867 2 года назад +177

    The game helped me get thru a rough breakup with my long time high school girlfriend. After I read it, I was going out with a beautiful girl from a sorority in Orange County. This book made me realize that it’s not the end of the world and you can always find a new love in the most unexpected places

    • @SGrosch
      @SGrosch  2 года назад +14

      similar story, but then I started coaching and helping others, and now remarried and happier than ever!

    • @monkeydog8681
      @monkeydog8681 2 года назад +4

      Well I started with "can't even have eye contact in conversations".
      My UNI days were awesome thanks to this book. I don't consider myself a PUA but goddamn what they demonstrated there are some magical shit that actually work when used correctly.

  • @CorrosiveColin
    @CorrosiveColin 9 лет назад +803

    The shirt over the shirt...
    Dear lord save me from this disaster.

    • @Cittamatra
      @Cittamatra 6 лет назад +144

      Hes making a statement that it just doesn't fucking matter. If you're fearless and fun, it doesn't matter how you wear your shirt.

    • @SuperAdityakaushik
      @SuperAdityakaushik 5 лет назад +33

      He’s peacocking

    • @jsheav3n
      @jsheav3n 5 лет назад +64

      It was dark times for fashion

    • @lionforlambs9167
      @lionforlambs9167 4 года назад +1

      It's now eboy now

    • @artemiauxreigns9971
      @artemiauxreigns9971 4 года назад

      Boss Grade Award goes to...™🔥🐈❤️.
      🥑🧐 AvocadoAvogado ™

  • @alepalacios8908
    @alepalacios8908 Год назад +27

    Im reading his book and is so incredible, Neil is a great writer.

    • @SGrosch
      @SGrosch  Год назад +1

      it really is a great book, much better than the follow up (which I am in)
      if you want to learn how to actually use that stuff you are reading about, hit up my site and learn

    • @DAMfoxygrampa
      @DAMfoxygrampa 8 месяцев назад

      You're in the follow-up book? Which one, the truth? I've read that and it's really interesting

  • @RexJ
    @RexJ 14 лет назад +224

    "As anyone who regularly reads newspapers or true-crime books knows, a significant percentage of violent crime, from kidnappings to shooting sprees, is the result of the frustrated sexual impulses and desires of males. By socializing guys like Sasha, Mystery and I were making the world a safer place."
    - Neil Strauss, The Game
    Simply put. It's a real life Hitch. Hey, it's either acting like this or the Jersey Shore.

    • @5FT6MAN
      @5FT6MAN 2 года назад +7

      this couldnt have aged bettER

    • @michaelregis1015
      @michaelregis1015 2 года назад +7

      *Elliot Rodger has joined the chat*

    • @JediMindG
      @JediMindG 2 года назад +2

      Hitch came out AFTER these guys

    • @fadesola2002
      @fadesola2002 Год назад

      or making money?

    • @pushytub
      @pushytub 7 месяцев назад

      None of these things happen in a Buddhist monastery

  • @casualgerm
    @casualgerm 5 лет назад +574

    The book "The Game" opened my eyes to a world i never knew existed 10yrs ago. I don't like scripted pickup lines as they're not authentic and creepy to use. but learning how to effectively communicate with people on a deeper level is what i really learned from the PUA community. That's something most self-help business seminars/classes fail to teach.

    • @MonotoniTV
      @MonotoniTV 3 года назад +11

      Yeah stuff is really awesome. I also like that now it's more about being then doing. Because you can learn all the techniques and in the end feel like a fraud or you just learn how to be a great guy and are successful with girls or people in general

    • @onizuka2307
      @onizuka2307 3 года назад

      @@MonotoniTV Facts

    • @MonotoniTV
      @MonotoniTV 3 года назад +7

      @Zurg Game should be complementary to your character. It shouldn't be who you are. Game is a tool.
      So you should fix yourself while you learn game

    • @MonotoniTV
      @MonotoniTV 3 года назад

      @Zurg and then get fucked over in your 30s or 40s, marrying a woman who divorces you and takes half your shit, after taking your soul

    • @MonotoniTV
      @MonotoniTV 3 года назад +4

      @Zurg it's Better to have the skills. You know, warrior in a garden and stuff
      It's ok to be mgtow for a while, but someday some girl will probably sweep you of your feet, better to be prepared

  • @LunraStudios
    @LunraStudios 11 лет назад +260

    This man is a motivation for improving yourself.Not only in the pick up stuff but in the other chapters of your life.

    • @g0tst1ngs
      @g0tst1ngs Год назад +4

      Tf you mean he's cringey af 🤣🤣

    • @jaylucas8352
      @jaylucas8352 Год назад +2

      This cringey nerd lol

    • @rejuvenator8966
      @rejuvenator8966 Год назад

      @@g0tst1ngs @jaylucas8352 And you're not? Looks like you just can't handle a "cringey nerd" being successful in life while you're still jacking off and pretending to be superior on a youtube comment section.

  • @rezopolis
    @rezopolis 6 лет назад +52

    wait.... TWELVE YEARS AGO??
    holy moly... this video is literally from the beginning of the PUA phenomena

    • @PaulGaither
      @PaulGaither 5 лет назад +7

      Depends on what you mean. It went down around 2000-2005 before his book in the underground on forums and so forth. I followed David DeAngelo, as opposed to Mystery and the really scummy people. His book is why PUA became a "thing" to the public, as well as his two followup books, "the rules of the game" and "the truth".

    • @Circe-wz3kg
      @Circe-wz3kg 11 дней назад

      ​@@PaulGaither what books/resources do you recommend?

    • @PaulGaither
      @PaulGaither 11 дней назад

      @@Circe-wz3kg - Read The Game. If you need help, read The Rules of the Game, and then The Truth.

  • @billmeisters6444
    @billmeisters6444 10 лет назад +438

    The chilled walk - Style's magic (under the rader)
    The ignorance towards Alba in the beginning - Mystery's magic (don't go straight for the target)
    The hand movement during talk - Ross Jeffery's stuff
    The qualifying questions - Style's magic (make her work for it)
    The neg before questions - Mystery's magic
    The compliment after questions - De Angelo's stuff
    The comeback line towards Jimmy in the end - A classic Style-mogging
    Style = the most flexible PUA ever

    • @mohitadlakha982
      @mohitadlakha982 4 года назад +5

      Damn right

    • @s.sterling6685
      @s.sterling6685 4 года назад +45

      holy fuck this is so sad. just get a girlfriend dude.

    • @MeniscoManeiro
      @MeniscoManeiro 4 года назад +67

      @@s.sterling6685 well man..there are people that don't have enough interaction with others or never had the opportunity to learn this things naturally as they should! don't judge so much, that's not your plac

    • @DarthFurie
      @DarthFurie 4 года назад +7

      This comment is really weird and cringeworthy... I like the internet as much as the next girl, but some people need to get off of it and go live their lives

    • @wilmeralbert2908
      @wilmeralbert2908 4 года назад +6

      @@DarthFurie no man
      This man talk truth

  • @TheBuckMagoo
    @TheBuckMagoo Год назад +135

    I love how effortlessly Neil deals with Jimmy's envy

    • @g0tst1ngs
      @g0tst1ngs Год назад +4

      Hahahaha envy? Over what exactly?

    • @bigoofinthechat5496
      @bigoofinthechat5496 Год назад +12

      I kind of saw it that way at first and it may very well be the case, but we all forget Jimmy is a comedian and his job is to fill the quiet moments. He’s gotta have rapid fire jokes and often times they may come across as personal and mean spirited but he’s really just tryna do his job

    • @Dopaminando97
      @Dopaminando97 Год назад +12

      @@g0tst1ngs envy because Neil is ugly compared to him and even so he is able to pick up 100x more girls than he is, and prettier girls..

    • @jaylucas8352
      @jaylucas8352 Год назад

      Jimmy is way more famous, richer, and good looking but is envious of Neal’s aerodynamic hair style @@g0tst1ngs

    • @jaylucas8352
      @jaylucas8352 Год назад +1

      Lol @@Dopaminando97

  • @mrcookie97
    @mrcookie97 5 лет назад +331

    Jessica Alba is right. That's what confident and successful men naturally and subconsciously do with people around them. I feel like those pick up guys ran like a bunch of science tests and hypothesis while seducing women, and simply adapted by doing a lot of the stuff that stimulates positive responses from people, and less of the stuff that makes people not like you. That's what you get when you release nerds off their computers and let them go in the real world lmao they just become good at another game

    • @BeyondTheMind007
      @BeyondTheMind007 2 года назад +22

      you feel? lol thats literally how they study the science of things to get a desired result

    • @A1RyRy
      @A1RyRy 2 года назад +4

      I was thinking same. You feel. Lol. Try reading a fckin book lol

    • @NallahBrown
      @NallahBrown 2 года назад

      Lmao bye 😂😅

    • @litjellyfish
      @litjellyfish Год назад +19

      Yes and? This is exactly what it is. Making people with no social skill better at social interactions.

    • @dweld2144
      @dweld2144 Год назад

      They did. The book talks about precisely that. In fact, Neil describes them all (himself included) as nerds.

  • @monogameplay3
    @monogameplay3 5 лет назад +234

    Every bad quality you can find in Strauss makes his feats even more amazing.

  • @fifaztreet9571
    @fifaztreet9571 6 лет назад +261

    He laughs like Janice from friends

  • @movie30000
    @movie30000 Год назад +76

    Such a rare thing, to see a girl like Jessica Alba to be so humble

  • @cjh3062
    @cjh3062 11 лет назад +844

    Shit is cool. Notice how Alba is subconsciously moving closer to him, and testing him, while Kimmel is insulting him (making it look to JA like he's trying too hard). Interesting stuff.

    • @hondaissace
      @hondaissace 10 лет назад +201

      Kimmel is the beta male hater in this scenario

    • @derekbeal7829
      @derekbeal7829 10 лет назад +2

      sure it's cool, but probably it only works for those who already know the game and want to increase their chance to get laid.
      @Ruben for starter, i recommend *"Rapid women seducer"* guide. they teach you step by step how to subconsciously seduce and attract women. It's pretty epic guide if you're a shy guy like me. I managed to overcome my fear on approaching women little by little.

    • @philosophersstone2482
      @philosophersstone2482 5 лет назад +43

      She wasn’t attracted to him though. Men need to understand women put you into a friend or future date category seconds after meeting you, sometimes even laying eyes on you. If you’re in the friend zone, move elsewhere because attraction isn’t forced.

    • @VanielDeeform
      @VanielDeeform 5 лет назад +31

      No she wasn't fooled. She was laughing that him and his guys, when they aren't on the internet looking at Jenna jameson, they're in huddled in chatrooms. It didn't work on her at all.

    • @MrKrushgutz
      @MrKrushgutz 5 лет назад +10

      VanielDeeform You sound like a hater because you hate guys that get the women that reject you.

  • @YuzuruA
    @YuzuruA 11 лет назад +448

    He is veeeery quick. In one second that he received the challenge, he instantly (and very subtly) diminished her (so you got lucky in the gene pool so what?) and defy her to be not "just beautiful", and to talk about herself.

    • @iiDeaGLex
      @iiDeaGLex 5 лет назад +45

      tommy cane115 you seem very insecure about yourself commenting on everybodys posts shitting on the guy in the video. What this guys doing is basic psychology no need for the hate

    • @redstealth9683
      @redstealth9683 4 года назад +1

      @tommy cane115 what's funny is what your comment says about you more than anyone else 😎

    • @nathanx.675
      @nathanx.675 4 года назад

      Yuzuru A he is. I was skeptical at first but after watching this video I was sold

    • @l1348
      @l1348 4 года назад

      LitErALLy

    • @maxiscrubian4722
      @maxiscrubian4722 3 года назад

      Like intelligence isn't just luck in the gene pool...

  • @ChrisBlackTV
    @ChrisBlackTV 10 лет назад +503

    "What kind of girls does this work on?". That was an obvious congruence test, he clearly got her hooked.

    • @Nickholast
      @Nickholast 7 лет назад +42

      And biting her nails before that too.

    • @hypergamyusa1376
      @hypergamyusa1376 6 лет назад +93

      No it was a backhanded question. She was implying that she can see through his act and his "game" would never work on her

    • @FamousIsComical
      @FamousIsComical 6 лет назад +104

      @@hypergamyusa1376 that's what they all say lmao

    • @hernandayolearyallda
      @hernandayolearyallda 5 лет назад +62

      @@hypergamyusa1376 That is what a congruence test is basically, a shit tests.
      Think about it, when a girl says "what KINDA girl would that work on". We know women communicate through more indirect subtle language. So what is she trying to say here, what kind of girls on the sunset strip does this really work on? The implication here is it would not work on a high value movie star woman like me, maybe some low down bar ho. But she can't just come out and say it that way, so "What Kinda girl would that work on is a congruence test.
      Also trying to suss out if Neil will back down like a Beta and say it didn't work on pretty women or confident women, so she doesn't want to admit it is working on her if it works on mostly low value women.

    • @Earthad23
      @Earthad23 5 лет назад +2

      Kai yea she dated him and they fucked 1000 times right ?

  • @jessealexander886
    @jessealexander886 4 года назад +89

    I read this book in 2010-2011 and it transformed my life. I need to re read it.

    • @appletechpro4u506
      @appletechpro4u506 3 года назад +3

      How did it change ur life

    • @Lostmusicvideos
      @Lostmusicvideos 3 года назад +4

      Sadly doesn't hold up as much in 2021

    • @Piero0926
      @Piero0926 3 года назад +24

      @@appletechpro4u506 he got an STD

    • @poyaochang3122
      @poyaochang3122 3 года назад +4

      @@Piero0926 Worth it

    • @corey469
      @corey469 2 года назад

      Made my 20s absolutely amazing!! 😱🍆🍆

  • @Pyccan
    @Pyccan 10 лет назад +82

    after reading the book and watching this interview. Everything makes sense.
    Everything style is doing is exactly what he teaches!

  • @stevet6665
    @stevet6665 5 лет назад +245

    4:02 - He's making her qualify herself to him. Expert move, lmao.

    • @mattis1307
      @mattis1307 3 года назад

      ??

    • @yqrose
      @yqrose 3 года назад

      @@mattis1307 ¿¿

    • @yqrose
      @yqrose 3 года назад +12

      @@mattis1307 he’s making her tell him why he should try to get her😉.

  • @theS4V0Y
    @theS4V0Y 5 лет назад +62

    No matter how much game he has... that laugh is brutal.

    • @thyrassword9698
      @thyrassword9698 3 года назад +7

      It could be deliberate.. a strange laugh is often very disarming and humorous.

    • @dude9318
      @dude9318 6 месяцев назад +2

      Lol

    • @DigitalBath306
      @DigitalBath306 4 месяца назад

      he has no game

    • @dude9318
      @dude9318 4 месяца назад

      @@DigitalBath306 well he has a wife so

    • @DigitalBath306
      @DigitalBath306 4 месяца назад

      @@dude9318 so?

  • @seadog2969
    @seadog2969 4 года назад +93

    This never gets old. Look at how much Jessica begins to physically cross over into his space.

    • @EloquentlyEse
      @EloquentlyEse 4 года назад +6

      She was leaning in before he even started speaking @0:53...

    • @Phoenix1664
      @Phoenix1664 Год назад +26

      At no point at all did she fancy him. She's on a talk show it's not like she had any choice. I think she enjoyed the subject and being part of it. I even think she enjoyed his company, in the same way she enjoyed Kimmels company. Could he have picked her up? No.

    • @gailainsley6939
      @gailainsley6939 Год назад +15

      Omg. You guys read too much into things. That doesn’t mean anything 😂

    • @miamijefe7793
      @miamijefe7793 Год назад +1

      @@EloquentlyEse But she didn't make contact with him until she really got into it

    • @acason4
      @acason4 Год назад +5

      😂
      She did that long before he ever came onstage. It’s called: leaning towards the center of the conversation. It’s a natural reaction to three people taking where the middle person is the main speaker. Jessica Alba had zero interest. 🤦🏼‍♂️

  • @corynorell3686
    @corynorell3686 5 лет назад +144

    Oh man, I forgot the t-shirt over the dress shirt was a fashion trend. Those were the days man.

    • @andresloubet
      @andresloubet 5 лет назад +9

      Cory Norell nah man, glad that fashion is long gone

    • @julianc6374
      @julianc6374 4 года назад +8

      And a striped longsleeve under a short sleeve meant you liked music

    • @chris_sndw
      @chris_sndw 3 года назад +1

      I will revive this tomorrow 👍

    • @draconshot928
      @draconshot928 3 года назад +1

      @@chris_sndw so how'd it go

    • @zooyhnahte
      @zooyhnahte 3 года назад +4

      @@draconshot928 They shot him in the streets.

  • @Manu-wb2uv
    @Manu-wb2uv 6 лет назад +155

    You know what I've discovered when I watched the video?! That he is kinda ignoring her!
    Now I'm reading his book and I found this:
    "After approaching the group, he continued, the key is to ignore the
    woman you desire while winning over her friends-"

    • @franciscomaldonado9559
      @franciscomaldonado9559 5 лет назад +12

      NimeniTv you had to read the book? He literally said it in the video.

    • @Manu-wb2uv
      @Manu-wb2uv 4 года назад

      @@franciscomaldonado9559 Ya ur right xD

    • @themarkus6472
      @themarkus6472 4 года назад +2

      But how do you win over her friends

    • @nathanx.675
      @nathanx.675 4 года назад +2

      NimeniTv what if the woman is alone tho?

    • @Тапи-щ7н
      @Тапи-щ7н 4 года назад +5

      @@nathanx.675 you should specifically look for groups and later try to isolate her. Its easier to win her over that way, than to look for girls who are alone. Also never approach a woman from behind. It's creepy.

  • @Chris-T4
    @Chris-T4 6 лет назад +114

    I like how he takes Jimmys shots and turns them in his favour

    • @ketodiet5766
      @ketodiet5766 4 года назад +1

      I was right at part this happens and it’s true

    • @evolutiontail5697
      @evolutiontail5697 2 года назад +4

      It's called agree and amplify.

  • @JoeL-dp1ej
    @JoeL-dp1ej 2 года назад +8

    Can't believe I found this 15 years too late

    • @SGrosch
      @SGrosch  2 года назад

      It is NEVER "too late" i am still coaching new guys every day about this stuff, from 18 year olds, to guys who just got a divorce and are grandparents!

    • @cpilfold420
      @cpilfold420 7 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@SGroschwhat are some bullet points would you say

    • @SGrosch
      @SGrosch  7 месяцев назад

      @@cpilfold420 you don’t even have to just bullet point request. Tons of FREE advice on my site.
      thebravohood.com/blog

  • @duckncover182
    @duckncover182 6 лет назад +44

    Definitely worked. Her eyes were fixed on him the whole time and he only looked at her when he was speaking directly to her

    • @DigitalBath306
      @DigitalBath306 4 месяца назад +3

      dude shes a professional actor on a show

  • @complicated-antihero
    @complicated-antihero 11 лет назад +362

    He did remarkably well under difficult circumstances. I kept waiting for him to slip up and slide into smarmy arrogance or have some kind of stuttering nerd breakdown, but he avoided both extremes and came off as kind of humble and likable, even when Kimmel insulted him a bit at the end. I think most PUA "gurus" would have pushed back, but he just rolled with it.
    Still think he threw away a promising journalism career to become a PUA huckster, but at least he's a competent PUA huckster.

    • @hernandayolearyallda
      @hernandayolearyallda 5 лет назад +20

      Prominent journalism career, he was no Dan Rather, he made more off of PUA huckster in his 10 years than most major news anchors will ever make in their lifetime.

    • @galacticfanatic1912
      @galacticfanatic1912 3 года назад +1

      "Fraudster"

    • @bricklawson9745
      @bricklawson9745 2 года назад

      Didn't you hear what he said his reason was for going into journalism?

  • @supremeape2549
    @supremeape2549 Год назад +84

    "it doesn't last for ever"
    16 years later and she is hotter than ever

    • @SGrosch
      @SGrosch  Год назад +12

      I’ve thought this too. But her and other top level chicks= age as we do. So I think our taste also ages a little at the same time. Until they crash!

    • @melvinost8272
      @melvinost8272 6 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@SGrosch that's an interesting point. Although I would hazard a guess young bucks find her attractive in that awful film trigger warning. Film is a 2/10, she's still a 10/10

    • @louio
      @louio 5 месяцев назад +1

      ​@melvinost8272 meh, she's just there now. So many younger and attractive women now days

    • @melvinost8272
      @melvinost8272 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@louio oh man I thought she looked incredible in that film. but each to their own!

  • @Catfishchristian
    @Catfishchristian Год назад +3

    Coming back to watch this in 2023 because Neil Strauss is the Goat!

  • @tpzlol
    @tpzlol 11 лет назад +399

    it's fun to see how much the game has evolved since then.

    • @IafetCoto
      @IafetCoto 7 лет назад +19

      Pray, do elaborate. I'd be really interested in it.
      Please?

    • @DirtBlockGames
      @DirtBlockGames 7 лет назад +36

      Luke Liu just read the book "The Game" by Neil Strauss, then look at videos from RSD. Hard to describe the changes, but it is def interesting

    • @Frederick0220
      @Frederick0220 7 лет назад +35

      RSD has moved completely towards inner game, essentially ditching outer game. It's too limited. Both are massively important.

    • @josuastangl7140
      @josuastangl7140 7 лет назад +18

      Frederick0220 Todd is fucking back!!!

    • @Frederick0220
      @Frederick0220 7 лет назад +18

      You can’t kill a God, mah man! The Toddfather runs the game!

  • @christianpuga3921
    @christianpuga3921 11 лет назад +34

    the less people read this book, the more valuable the information

  • @deeznuts4910
    @deeznuts4910 4 года назад +18

    2006 Jimmy Kimmel seems way more chill than 2020

    • @SpringfieldHaitian
      @SpringfieldHaitian 2 месяца назад

      He didn’t work for the CIA at this point

    • @VeritatisQ
      @VeritatisQ Месяц назад

      Yeah, pretty convinced that he's some horrible form of controlled infotainment at this point, especially since 2015 onwards. Guy sold his soul.

  • @savingferris9998
    @savingferris9998 2 года назад +10

    After following this journey i have had amazing moments in my life. Met great girls, had great experiences, experienced my first kiss and more, experienced long and short relationships, had many memories and better bonds with people and also experienced devastating heartbreaks while still growing on the journey. It’s been great and i don’t know what else i can say. It’s a different reality and one i’m glad to be in

    • @juanalvares11
      @juanalvares11 2 года назад

      You only read the book ? Or payed online coaching?

  • @dhomme83
    @dhomme83 13 лет назад +35

    The techniques in the pickup community are all about developing your confidence. I used to try a lot of the pickup routines and ultimately I just ended up feeling empty. But it definitely develops your confidence - if you live life being afraid to do anything or go places you'll never do anything or go places, it's as simple as that. If you have the balls to just enjoy life &take new experiences as they happen. Just stop being afraid of what "could be" or "should be" and live in the moment

  • @NattligMelodi
    @NattligMelodi 11 лет назад +456

    Alba is showing all the signs of an interested women...WTF...this guy is good...

    • @DaniMysteryZone
      @DaniMysteryZone 5 лет назад +18

      Notice how her crossed leg is making a barrier. Basic body language that she has mental reservations.

    • @ksum24
      @ksum24 5 лет назад +8

      2019 baby

    • @ChaosSpectator2020
      @ChaosSpectator2020 5 лет назад +22

      @@DaniMysteryZone Funny how in the FBI crossing your arms or legs doesn't always mean they are holding something or shielding themselves because they oppose you. Not every gesture follows the textbook descriptions, human beings just happen to be too complex.

    • @kevincosgrove948
      @kevincosgrove948 5 лет назад +29

      Shes only interested because he was announced as a pick up artist. If he was just some guy she met i guarantee she wouldnt care

    • @chad2208
      @chad2208 5 лет назад

      NattligMelodi cope

  • @fabioalexandrino2244
    @fabioalexandrino2244 9 лет назад +179

    4:20
    look how style deals with interruptions. He just talks louder and louder, and when everyone is paying attention again, he turns the volume down.

  • @openmind06
    @openmind06 2 месяца назад +1

    I had his mp3's and I can say that if you have the confidence everything his says works and it's gold. Great Psycology!

  • @Kali23Yuga
    @Kali23Yuga 10 лет назад +524

    6:50 biting her nails, doesn't even know she's been jackpotted.

    • @juliozz59
      @juliozz59 6 лет назад +28

      IOI

    • @hernandayolearyallda
      @hernandayolearyallda 5 лет назад +58

      Look how her body language changes between 0:37 and 6:05 she has her elbow on Neil's chair and her hand under her leg, leaning into Neil; 6:14 her hand touches Neil's leg by "accident" 6:51, biting her nail sexually while give Neil the I want to fuck you look and rubs her hands up her own legs

    • @reyyanyildiz
      @reyyanyildiz 5 лет назад +41

      @@hernandayolearyallda wtf is wrong with you? The words you use to articulate yourself, you literally talk like a horny middle schooler...

    • @SonTran-fq9nm
      @SonTran-fq9nm 5 лет назад +8

      @@reyyanyildiz lmao, he probably watched too much porn

    • @thegorn
      @thegorn 5 лет назад +15

      hernandayolearyallda absolutely right - you are SPOT ON!

  • @ansgaar
    @ansgaar 11 лет назад +174

    His laugh is priceless.

  • @bladeios6380
    @bladeios6380 2 года назад +1361

    Andrew tate before he hit gym

    • @FrenchComprehensibleInput
      @FrenchComprehensibleInput Год назад +15

      hahhahahaah good one

    • @tamratchala6497
      @tamratchala6497 10 месяцев назад +11

      This is funny😂

    • @BWater-yq3jx
      @BWater-yq3jx 8 месяцев назад +20

      Yeah I mentioned somewhere else over a year ago that Tate got his look from this guy.

    • @K-aR-Oh
      @K-aR-Oh 8 месяцев назад +25

      Back then when he was Top Geek, then he took the "eek" off to become Top G

    • @Overlorddz
      @Overlorddz 7 месяцев назад

      And when he had manners and social skills instead of anabolic brains

  • @michaelmichaelagnew8503
    @michaelmichaelagnew8503 8 месяцев назад +27

    She had a good question "What kind of girls do these tricks work on?" When they said Brittney Spears I almost laughed out loud because its probably true.

    • @brettpilkington9539
      @brettpilkington9539 7 месяцев назад +5

      That was when she was the hottest female singer on the planet though, not knife dancing Britney.

    • @Wingedmagician
      @Wingedmagician 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@brettpilkington9539knife dancing brittney is hilarious

    • @michaeljames6817
      @michaeljames6817 2 месяца назад

      @@brettpilkington9539 It was also when she was getting wasted at the clubs every single night.

  • @Enigmaprince
    @Enigmaprince 7 месяцев назад +39

    Take notes guys. This is the actual top G

  • @mitchharpenau786
    @mitchharpenau786 5 лет назад +37

    When Jessica started talking more and contributing to the conversation and asking questions that's when he had her.

  • @bitternCE
    @bitternCE 5 месяцев назад +24

    "That's the future of dating." Alba predicts
    Tinder!

  • @richardortiz3702
    @richardortiz3702 2 года назад +2

    Damn, that end play. That was funny ass hell! Jimmy didn't know how to respond to that. Lmao

  • @Osjey
    @Osjey 11 лет назад +522

    notice how he is completely ignoring jessica :D

    • @gpapa31
      @gpapa31 6 лет назад +126

      He is not ignoring her, he is just giving her the right attention necessary during a conversation within a group of 3 people when one of them is the interviewer who asks most of the questions and evidently should get most of his focus. When Jessica talks or asks the questions he focuses his attention on her. That's called being normal.

    • @phoenixfaze1
      @phoenixfaze1 5 лет назад +25

      Read his book he is playin her like a fiddle

    • @marcozolo3536
      @marcozolo3536 5 лет назад +16

      If I were there I'd be completely ignoring all 3 of them too.

    • @robi6317
      @robi6317 5 лет назад +10

      please he is being interviewed! he is looking at Jimmy because he is suppose to

    • @painlife6799
      @painlife6799 5 лет назад

      @Mike Roagression shame😛

  • @booksteer7057
    @booksteer7057 5 лет назад +23

    I've read six notable books on success with women. Three were by pick-up artists, one was by a male historian, one was by a female psychiatrist, and one was by three women. It was amazing how much their advice overlapped.

    • @booksteer7057
      @booksteer7057 3 года назад +1

      @@handlewhatever Gladly :-)
      Christopher Curtis
      "Mack Tactics: The Science Of Seduction Meets The Art Of Hostage Negotiation"
      Ron Louis
      "How To Succeed With Women"
      Susan Eno
      "The Truth About What Women Want In Men"
      Robert Greene
      "The Art Of Seduction"
      Pepper Schwartz Ph.D
      Everything You Know About Love And Sex Is Wrong
      Mystery
      "The Mystery Method: How To Get Beautiful Women Into Bed"

    • @user-ty9bq7kn4u
      @user-ty9bq7kn4u 2 года назад +1

      Did it work for you?

    • @antonbromley6447
      @antonbromley6447 Год назад +2

      Book names?

    • @joegambitt7414
      @joegambitt7414 Год назад +2

      Names?

  • @ChattanoogaLife
    @ChattanoogaLife 2 месяца назад +1

    My gosh, this is recommended to me 18 years later. I remember this stuff from 2006

  • @EriPages
    @EriPages 5 месяцев назад +5

    This guy looking like this and SOUNDING that voice actually supports his book

    • @SGrosch
      @SGrosch  5 месяцев назад +1

      @@EriPages that’s why I kept the vid up! When I saw it years ago. It inspired me!
      If THAT guy can do it…

  • @alexgalal5990
    @alexgalal5990 12 лет назад +33

    Neil is obviously a legend at what he does don't get me wrong. But i think what really boosted him a lot is the whole process of "picking up" girls and him being projected as that whole image of being a legend at what he does- this guy will know that whatever he does will actually work because of this- his such high confidence makes him seem invulnerable, at the end of the day he isnt any different from anyone else- just more experienced and positive.

  • @antonboludo8886
    @antonboludo8886 3 года назад +17

    I took the Mystery Method workshop in the early 2000s. Neil and Mystery were the instructors. The method works. It took me a long time to improve because I had more crap in my head than even I was aware of.
    The war is in your head, guys.

  • @fallingleaveskungfu
    @fallingleaveskungfu 8 месяцев назад +4

    Oh, I love how he clapped back at loser Jimmy Kimmel at the end. FAFO Jimbo! 🤣

  • @nonenone-ik3ny
    @nonenone-ik3ny 7 лет назад +6

    The Great One showing his skills with an AFC next to him including the audience who at the end.... Witnessed the truth. Some will deny it, but he is the Father of the Game.

  • @bigslice54
    @bigslice54 3 года назад +14

    My dad didnt teach me much worth knowing, but there were some gems. Such as...."women want what they cant have & what they can have they dont want."
    Other was, "you cannot think 1 way & behave another for very long."

    • @jakemarlow8998
      @jakemarlow8998 8 месяцев назад +2

      Your dad is/was wise. It took me until 50 to finally learn the first lesson you stated.

  • @valerydelinois9850
    @valerydelinois9850 5 лет назад +76

    6:51 resumes it all. If you know what I am saying.

  • @oftengone
    @oftengone 2 года назад +1

    Brilliant. Appreciate the upload

  • @AngeloftheBx
    @AngeloftheBx 13 лет назад +15

    dude that was an amazing breakdown. I am amazed you were able to point these things out. The Game was an awesome book and Im sure to read it again

  • @patwaddington
    @patwaddington 6 лет назад +24

    I remember reading his book when I was about 20. I found it funny that all the guys who were experts at PUA were all computer nerds.

    • @DD-xw6uw
      @DD-xw6uw 3 месяца назад +1

      The likely reason probably being that they never had great looks or natural charm to help them get girls, so they had to learn other ways to make up for it.

  • @ViceKnIghtTA
    @ViceKnIghtTA 7 месяцев назад +54

    Plot twist: this is a show, she's an actor, he's trying to sell his book, and Jimmy is the host.
    You all got played.

    • @vektacular
      @vektacular 6 месяцев назад +3

      Exactly ….my thoughts too, TV is one big commercial

    • @willrichtor
      @willrichtor 6 месяцев назад +7

      When you can't spot the grift, you're the mark.

    • @JC-jr9hw
      @JC-jr9hw 6 месяцев назад

      @@vektacularTV is all about programming your mind to be a good slave.😊

    • @Elvira-k3r
      @Elvira-k3r 6 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@willrichtorexactly 😂

    • @_A_G_1
      @_A_G_1 5 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@willrichtoryess... the mark ass trick 😆

  • @senseisecurityschool9337
    @senseisecurityschool9337 13 дней назад +2

    I'm ugly and scrawny. Like really ugly. The *techniques* in the book absolutely work; you'll get lots of phone numbers. But that only gets you halfway there. WHY are you getting her number? What are you going to do from there? That's where the book can send someone down the wrong road. Bagging a bunch of women doesn't lead to happiness. I know that because I did some of that.
    Using the techniques to meet and get to know an amazing person whom you want to be with forever - that's the big score.

    • @SGrosch
      @SGrosch  13 дней назад +1

      @@senseisecurityschool9337 agreed. And that is where PUAs leave guys hanging and why I teach so much more than just “pick up”

  • @louvretreekay12_
    @louvretreekay12_ 7 месяцев назад +65

    The delusional comments about her suddenly being into him when she’s just having a polite conversation worried me even more than these nerd tactics 😂

    • @zach5381
      @zach5381 6 месяцев назад +16

      Seriously, she's just playing along with the show, people who watch this stuff are in fantasy land.

    • @louvretreekay12_
      @louvretreekay12_ 6 месяцев назад +4

      @@zach5381 agreed. i’m beyond worried for this world

    • @johnpulawski35
      @johnpulawski35 6 месяцев назад

      😭

    • @josejr.garcia2228
      @josejr.garcia2228 5 месяцев назад

      You’re right. They won’t be into you if you tell them what you’re doing.

    • @_A_G_1
      @_A_G_1 5 месяцев назад

      All these comments are delusional 😂😂 talkin bout omg he's the man! 🤣

  • @aboodabulaban2867
    @aboodabulaban2867 6 лет назад +20

    his book "the truth" really changed my perspective on life completely

    • @Тапи-щ7н
      @Тапи-щ7н 4 года назад +4

      What truth is it about and should I read it? I've read the game by him.

  • @acook213
    @acook213 5 месяцев назад +4

    6:10 “All guys when they’re frustrated, they go to the internet.” 😬

  • @GriffinDuyThespian
    @GriffinDuyThespian 6 месяцев назад

    Glad he was super respectful about it. Good on yins fella.

  • @schmolywar
    @schmolywar 5 лет назад +31

    The commenters are reading too much into this. I only see Jessica being friendly as she would be with any guest. There is no sexual tension here whatsoever. Neil has a forced laugh as he has heard most of what Jimmy says before.

    • @canm7157
      @canm7157 2 года назад +1

      @traida111 without tension there is no attraction, but yes Neil has game

  • @acb9896
    @acb9896 2 месяца назад +4

    I tried ignoring for a while..never saw happier women in my life.

  • @t3rr3nc388
    @t3rr3nc388 12 лет назад +7

    He says, "that's awesome maybe we can hang out." It's a perfect example of the game.

  • @TheParadiseParadox
    @TheParadiseParadox 2 месяца назад +1

    It's interesting to see all the complex analysis in the comments
    I don't know what was going on in Style's head at the time, but to the world he just seemed like a calm, charming fellow

  • @dan4jc
    @dan4jc 14 лет назад +7

    yeh me too i love strauss. He's a legend and it frustrates me when they try and get him to do some on set stage with impossible variables. His story is incredible and one for everyone to read.

  • @nicholasheltzel1087
    @nicholasheltzel1087 12 лет назад +18

    Kino, subtle neg, and conversation control. This guy is a beast

  • @sherparoyale
    @sherparoyale 4 года назад +19

    Legend has it that Neil still has Jessica giggling...

  • @akekekec
    @akekekec Месяц назад

    Most cool ppl do this naturally. Some of us just needed the insight… thanks Neil. T

  • @michaelthoele1625
    @michaelthoele1625 Год назад +6

    Used many techniques from this book and all of them have worked. been happily married for 6 yrs now.

  • @r3dp1ll
    @r3dp1ll 11 лет назад +1739

    My god he's so so badly dressed ...

    • @LifestylewithAbby
      @LifestylewithAbby 7 лет назад +129

      I know right! How can he pick up women with the voice and wardrobe of a 15 year old boy. I'm pretty sure his game wouldn't work on me.

    • @papaxota4725
      @papaxota4725 7 лет назад +29

      Abby Banks
      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @lepredator189
      @lepredator189 7 лет назад +445

      Saying "...I'm pretty sure his game wouldn't work on me" is the exact reason why it would work.

    • @pancakesandtea
      @pancakesandtea 6 лет назад +1

      Lol I know right! The flared jeans haha

    • @supaahflyy
      @supaahflyy 6 лет назад +115

      Lifestyle with Abby basically his 'game' is putting princesses like you in their place lmao. This society has made girls believe they are top shit because they look good and guys should run after that. He literally says to a girl I'm sure who's more beautiful than you that he doesn't give a fuck about her looks, what else can you offer and watch Jessica Alba get flustered causes she never had to think of that before as opposed to getting what she wants with her looks.
      Now she's looking at ways to impress him instead of the other way around. At that point you're done.

  • @bhalleck
    @bhalleck 4 месяца назад +7

    His first move; On entrance, he squeezed between Jessica and the table while shaking her hand, rather than taking the more natural path around the table.

  • @rgoodsan
    @rgoodsan Месяц назад +2

    My brother had this book in college. It really messed him up. Changed the way he viewed women.

    • @SGrosch
      @SGrosch  Месяц назад

      @@rgoodsan then he totally missed the lesson of the book

    • @rgoodsan
      @rgoodsan Месяц назад +2

      @ He died in 2009… a virgin. He was obsessed with this book and read it at least 10 times. It was covered in bookmarks and scribbled notes in the margins. He would attempt to go out to socialize and use the techniques from the book. It never worked. My poor little brother was actually taller than me and had a head full of hair. But still he never did get any girls. I on the other hand am short and bald and I have never read the book. However, I am extremely successful with meeting and dating beautiful girls. I never try to act cool. I just treat women like my Mom always taught me. Be yourself. Be genuine. If they don’t like that, it’s ok, they aren’t for you anyway.

    • @SGrosch
      @SGrosch  Месяц назад +1

      @ sounds like the ultimate lessons you get from pick up- what I teach. Too bad he never got past reading and 1st basic step…

    • @MajinFajita
      @MajinFajita Месяц назад +1

      @@SGroschstep 1 how to be alone and never have friends 😂

    • @SGrosch
      @SGrosch  Месяц назад

      @ I got receipts!
      thebravohood.com/testimonials

  • @juandavidtello3406
    @juandavidtello3406 2 года назад +5

    Neil laughs like the "just look at it" guy. 😂😂

  • @ItsxAxLiger
    @ItsxAxLiger 9 лет назад +338

    3:58 I think he just negged her.

    • @bright.light.sights933
      @bright.light.sights933 9 лет назад +63

      She starts breathing very deeply after it too

    • @MrAlcmj
      @MrAlcmj 8 лет назад +32

      +ItsxAxLiger perfectly after giving her no attention

    • @shukailu6731
      @shukailu6731 8 лет назад +31

      He just did that Qualify yourself routine!! Haha

    • @dankearrape1939
      @dankearrape1939 8 лет назад +37

      7:41 an indirect neg.

    • @UltraMegaFail
      @UltraMegaFail 7 лет назад +27

      "That's awesome maybe we can hang out. Nah I'm joking" she heard that and nobody else really did.

  • @taylorespo
    @taylorespo 11 месяцев назад +5

    There's a reason 6:50 is one of the most replayed parts of the video. Who can say why?

  • @SahvonEdwards
    @SahvonEdwards 5 месяцев назад +1

    Literally a question she's NEVER heard lol