Charlie still remembering that compliment those two guys gave him in college was so sweet, and also goes to show that you never know what simple compliment might make someone’s day, or their life!!!
Exactly, i remember nice things people said to me from when i was really little, it still makes me smile to this day. It is nice to hear others who also remember, because that means that someone probably remembers the good things you said, too!, although we may not know it.
mmm it depends There's people who don't like compliments of any kind at all so you may come as rude or scary to them, in that case it's safer to not say anything imo. I say this mostly because Im one of those people, I don't like compliments or talking to strangers, much less receiving compliments from a stranger haha no but really it gives me anxiety and sometimes panic attacks...
I had to call in sick once when I was an intern; when I came back two of my coworkers chimed in asking where I'd been and they missed seeing me. Beet red. My boss walked by and made a comment about it before physically dragging me by the arm back to the kitchen - this made me even redder. Compliments can be overwhelming but holy f do you remember them if you don't get them often. (granted that wasnt a direct compliment but it conveyed someone had a positive view of me and missed my presence, so it caught me off-guard and made me feel nice)
Honestly, about the girl who replied “yes” when he asked “is it because I’m ugly” I can guarantee you she only said that because she understood he was trying guilt trip her with the question. I’ve noticed a lot of times that it’s only the creeps who use that phrase to guilt trip after being rejected, so often so, that women will straight up say “yes” because they understand what they’re trying to do and are insulting them in retaliation for even trying it, and I don’t blame her, it’s a shitty move to begin with.
maybe he really is ugly. Is it really hard for people (like you, charlie and many others) to accept that women (and men) do reject people based on their looks? Charlie didn't say it outright, but him immediately trying to find some other reason behind why she called him ugly alluded to this belief. And you too are cooking up all kinds of other reasons instead of the simplest one.
Definitely true! Sadly some younger male viewers might not understand she ONLY said yes as an “escape strategy” to get out of the far too common aggressive arguments started by men who can’t accept no for an answer. His accusation of implying she was vain was designed to trap her by forcing her to stay and start defending herself. He basically turned her right to say no to him into a ‘moral flaw’ to guilt trip her over. So by not indulging him and just saying yes (ending both the conversation and any chance of him trying to make her walk back her rejection to disprove the accusation) she was able to get out of that uncomfortable situation quicker. It genuinely didn’t matter if he accused her rejection of being based on his looks, race, age, how he smelt, etc, a woman will just say yes in order to disengage and get the hell out of there.
@@Dipj01 Eh, If I'm not physically attracted to someone I just say that they aren't my type. Alternative theory, could also be that he got rejected because he walked up to a stranger and asked for their number, and then had the gall to ask if it's because he's ugly to garner sympathy? Who's to say, really 🤷
@@eri020 op and charlie did (indirectly). Op's comment and even Charlie immediately trying to give reasons for why she called him ugly, gave that feeling. They didn't need to come up with explanations for such a simple thing. Sometimes, people are just ugly, and do get rejected for that without any deeper reason.
As a woman, if I heard a guy asking for every womans number around me, i would not feel special and picked out and would definitely say no. It's a massive red flag, sign of a player. The one woman who says yes is gonna be desperate
Oh my god that cashier saying we got this thanks is such a legend. I'm glad people like that exist to help people who are in uncomfortable situations, I'd want somebody to do that for me.
He actually holds the rejection world record in the straight% category, almost broke the rules there and went for a bi% in this footage but still an impressive run nonetheless
No Albert Ellis holds that record. He would make him self talk to women and was rejected hundreds of times. This helped him create REBT therapy. Because the internet and posting didn't exist, it's almost like it never happened, I guess.
Working retail there are endless opportunities to give and receive those in passing comments, and it’s one of the only things that keeps me in the industry. It’s so nice seeing people light up when you compliment their blouse, or their haircut if it’s a regular. Just as it’s nice to receive them. I remember every single one I’ve ever gotten. I recently had a customer walk past me, and she did a double take and she goes “oh my god you are so pretty.” I rang her up and felt the need to thank her and pay her a compliment of my own! Retail shows the best and worst of people, but the best is always so bright 😭😭
That was what kept me going as well. I’d only give compliments when I meant them, but that doesn’t mean it was rare. And a lot of times you can tell they appreciate a genuine compliment with no weird follow-up, and give one back in return. “I like your eyeshadow, it’s giving flames” was the one that I received and liked most that’s coming to mind.
what people don't understand is that he knows he's bad at picking up girls, he just does it to get more 'famous', more views etc. And clearly it worked. In order to get easy clout online is to make people upset so that they talk more about him/her. It's so stupid it has gotten this far but people will never realise or learn to not make stupid people famous.
@@pancake1751 On the contrary. Stupid people have always been famous. Ever since the dawn of mankind. However, these people obviously only got mockery and disrespect, deservedly so, by their audience. Having clout for being a clown isn't an achievement, and some people somehow think it is. People will laugh at them and go on with their lives, while the clown's fame will die out in a week.
Every time I think I've seen the peak of secondhand embarrassment, charlie finds a new summit. This video is like a masterclass in what NOT to do. The gym pickup line had me facepalming so hard I almost hit a new PR.
@@byeyaveanicetime6520 "I know the gym isn't to, you know, meet somebody, but, uhhh, we can just tell our parents we met on Tindr or something" wanted to die when hearing that lol
His downfall began when he abandoned Noel. They had the perfect bromance and made great videos and music together. Then he ran off to date that girl half his age. All they did was react to dumb romance videos together and their chemistry was worse. Then the Tana Mongoose thing happened. Which she herself didn't even think was bad, that's the funny part. People are mad on her behalf.
It's amazing how "i have a boyfriend" is still the strongest card you can play to stop creeps from harassing you. Like they respect the man they've never seen more than they respect the woman right in front of them 🤯
So by your logic he shouldn’t even have approached her? Regardless of how the woman rejected the man, he immediately turned around. Just because women use it so frequently because they are afraid to be honest and reject man normally it doesn’t mean what you are saying is true. Typical female, do what you know best (cook and clean) and let the men talk.
Doesn't stop the Evolved creep, which unfortunately does not take damage from the "I have a boyfriend" card. You may need to equip the "Pepper spray" item
I don’t go out anymore, but I used to literally wear a fake ring and it’s amazing how well it worked 😂 Guys would glance at it and stop without me having to say a word.
@jazzabighits4473 No by itself should be a good enough answer. Women only lie about boyfriends because its the only reason that other weirdo men think is good enough.
@stmsin Well no shit but the dude would have to be a literal lobotomite if it wasnt satire. He went through them despite seeing rejection after rejection and even laughs when they straight up tell him hes ugly so he knows hes not getting results.
@stmsin Yes, but it doesn't involve self-awareness. It DOES involve him being in similar circumstances and chooses to be exaggerative in action to fully point to the mistakes and errors in ones actions
@@Deathmare235 I think it would be like having two friends that you act differently around or that have different personalities getting into one group together
Something about how charlie remembered not only what he was doing but what he was wearing as well but just a single compliment he got years ago is very wholesome those passing compliments do go a long way
@thatrandomcrit5823 ive heard so many guys have this experience. that they dont neccessarily get often comments so the few or the one they got they cherished it and it just stuck in their memory. generally girls get more compliments often and it gets harder to remember them separately or specificly
@@helixxia9320Yeah, I know, that´s why I´m saying, it´s not wholesome that we can remember it, it´s sad that it´s so rare that we can count on one hand the ammount of compliments in years
Honestly, I actually used to do that to girls that looked fine in my night club days. "Excuse me, just wanted to say you look fantastic" and then walk away. 99% of the time I could hear the "Aw thank you 🥰" behind me or see their face light up once they realised it wasn't a "routine". Felt like a nice thing to do once in a while 😅
i knew a guy in university that tried pickup artist tactics. He became known as the can i get your number guy after a while. Lots of girls ended up avoiding him. its definitely not a good tactic
They owe no explanation to this creep, and its probably for the best that he knows as little information about them as possible. He clearly refused to take no for an answer, there is no reason to be honest with him when a simple ‘no’ should have ended the conversation.
On the other hand, Charlie took that cringe to your doorstep. Without his involvement you'd be spared the cringe you just endured. Charlie is the ominious man who both, gives and takes.
Not only did the girls see that he's asking every female in sight for their numbers, he's doing it so thoughtlessly that he almost accidentally asked a group of guys, *and* he's pointing a camera in their faces as he does so. I may not be very experienced with this sort of thing but I can't imagine that sort of behavior would instill them with faith in the quality of your character.
Exactly this. Asking someone for a number after a small talk while acting as a decent human being at the same time is totally fine. But this here is just cringe.
I gotta say, in regards to complimenting strangers - I try to do that whenever I see someone in the street who I think looks cool. Just a quick "hey, you're rocking that look." People really light up. Spread kindness, folks. :)
I also do this a lot! But it is funny catching people off guard with a genuine compliment sometimes, because you can really tell who isn’t used to it, and at first the person will almost look offended like “what’s wrong with my shoes man?!” And then realize I actually just told him “hey bro those shoes are dope!” Etc. And watching them go from WTF to 😊 is always cool
It's awesome to compliment people, I love seeing their faces light up. Old folks have really cute reactions usually lol. I have a harder time complimenting men my age because they always think I'm trying to flirt with them 😅
@@Cyphonit’s a common pick up tactic. If he had paid for the shoes then suddenly he’s “owed” her number and that could get hostile very quick. And the fact that she had already paid for the shoes but he decided to stay there meant he needed to be pushed away from the situation.
@@sotch2271 uh oh, someone's cranky that women aren't caving to social pressure and are instead telling losers to get lost! Maybe you'll feel better after a lil nap, champ ☺️
@@Zenith_Star69 Talk all the shit you want, I bet he gets laid more than everyone here in the comments. At least he's out there trying. Making fun of him is like making fun of fat people in the gym, even if they're hopeless and just at the start of their journey there's no need to make fun of them or their efforts.
Oh yeah, giving random strangers genuine compliments without expecting something in return is very wholesome. It also makes the other person's day, and it makes me happy that I made them smile. I think everyone should do it once in awhile.
7:39 it's nice to know even guys like Charlie feel this way about random compliments. Guys get complimented so infrequently that it can completely throw you off guard, and be something you remember for YEARS just cause someone said something nice about you. I can count on one hand the amount of times I've been complimented by a stranger... And I remember each and every one, specifically.
@@0TheJigsawKiller0 haha hell no I certainly won't be like that! And while I have a bad memory and can't say specifically when, I know it's within the last week or so! I try to make a habit of doling out at least one compliment every time I leave the house - but I never force it. I simply tell myself to say what I'm thinking when it's something nice! And so the last compliment I remember giving to a guy was a dude with some nice, straight long hair at a gas station after I got off work. I remember, because he said thanks and, as he was passing me, he said "Oh hey, and you, too!" Since I have a ponytail just like him (but his hair was far nicer than mine) XD
@@0TheJigsawKiller0 Personally, I am very much an introvert. Like extremely so. If I even speak to a stranger, they should go buy themselves a lottery ticket. You would have to be the very embodiment of beauty itself to ever wrench a compliment out of me as a stranger. Even then, I'd likely be too nervous to say it out loud so I'd stick to thinking it.
@@BSPancake I consider myself an introvert, too! I wouldn't say it's as strong for me as it is in your description, but the way that helped me with my "make a compliment a day" thing was that I really like making people happy/smile/laugh so I just think of it how it'd affect me. If someone said the kinds of things I try to compliment, it'd make my day and I'd be thinking of it till I went to bed and probably into the next day! So I just wanna do that for other people :] Dunno if that'll help you or not, but maybe you'll resonate with it!
Complimenting people is one of those things that I've just learnt to be frank about, I work as a cashier in a museum. Sometimes we get a person, foreign or local, who has the nicest hair or the coolest shirt, so I just tell em. Never see them again after, and I'm happy with that. It makes them happy, and it makes me happy to just be open when I see something cool. Don't need to be socially good bout it either, just say what you feel when you feel it. Edit: My best tip is just to be genuine and straight forward about it. Had a redditor once try and compliment my portal 2 bag by trying to be funny and just throwing random lines from the game at me, I didn't get it so he just came across as a weird redditor, but like an "Oh shit, I like your portal bag" will always make me smile.
Idk why but Charlie saying the creepy dude could’ve befriended the group of guys and formed a basketball team was adorable. Guys just going around making friends to form little sports teams would be fun to watch
Honestly, shout out to that cashier, who looks at the friend you see him mouth 'do you know him', the camera slightly pans to her friend and you see the confused look and the cashier says hey man we're all good, you good? Very happy to see men stepping in and getting bad men away from people, it makes us all look better and reminds me people can still be good!
I don't wanna assume anyone's sexuality but he seemed kinda fruity and if he is, he not only has had to deal with creepy men just by being around them but also from dating them. Love the support regardless!
Because men are monsters. We are seen as a danger and exclusively so. Instead of kindness, retaliation is a frequent experience. I’ve understood it though. Truly. I’d have it no other way.
About passing compliments, I try to give most strangers I interact with, especially minimum wage workers compliments but typically on things that aren’t about their body but like their outfit or how they did their hair. Tho I do remember a guy in my class that I told he had really pretty eyes. I made it clear I wasn’t hitting on him, as I’m a gay and taken woman, but that they were genuinely very pretty. He told me that he recently had eye surgery he had just recovered from so he really liked hearing that. I just honestly hope I make someone’s day a little bit better
I totally agree about random passing-by compliments and their effect. This was almost ten years ago and I still remember because it was so sweet. I was just walking to the coffee shop from work and these two girls stopped me and said, “ excuse me, just want to tell you, you’re very beautiful.” And I said thank you, they said you’re welcome and that was it! We kept walking. And I still remember it! Lmao
I get that and I like it when I make someone happy, but giving a complement to someone who I will never see again will not get them as a girlfriend. It annoys me how people always act like it is "creepy" for a guy to ask a girl out. How am I even supposed to get a girlfriend if it's "creepy" to even ask them out? I just don't know how I'm even supposed to start a conversation with a girl.
@@loz5001-dl1ym yea its creepy to be approaching any randos u dont know for the sole purpose of trying to pick them up?? stop worrying and do smth else with ur life first
@@loz5001-dl1ym No, we're simply saying that it's awkward for ANYONE to walk up to a stranger with unilateral (obvious) intent to sleep with them/date them. In my opinion, that IS creepy because it reeks of desperation; it's also disrespectful because you're not looking at them as human beings, you're just looking at them as products/prizes to acquire. It's important to remember that there's a line between being assertive and being sleazy. Sleaziness is when you start to disrespect them. Assertiveness IS one of the focal points of masculinity, yes. However, one of the focal points of (sexually) successfully connecting with a girl is that you have to recognize you're own worth just as much as hers. By that, I mean that you have to acknowledge you're own intrinsic value as a human being. It's irrelevant as to how much wealth, status, or good looks that you possess; you HAVE to believe that you're good enough as a human being. Knowing that you're good enough is the kind of mentality that facilitates true confidence. Also, healthy masculinity is when a man respects a woman just as much as he respects his own masculine frame. You have to have confidence in yourself; women can smell your confidence (or lack thereof). That's also why they "test" you. They want to make sure that you're a man that they can feel safe with. If a man doesn't have genuine confidence, he might end up being controlling, obsessive, dangerous, etc., and this would not be good for the woman. Anyway, hope this helps. Cheers!
Story time: When I was like 17 for prom. I stopped by a gas station before meeting up with friends at Red Lobster. I got out and went inside to pay for gas and an older black gentleman sitting inside "ooooooo weeeeeee, you lookin sharper than a tack my friend'. I thank him and carried on but that shit made my night lol. I'm 22 now and I don't think I'll ever forget that.
that was the most cringe moment of the entire video Imagine wanting to be an independent woman and strong but also wanting some random stranger to butt in because you're too scared to say no to somebody in a public place
@@RenixGames That's what makes it even worse. Somebody else being nosey thinking they're helping by White Knighting for somebody they don't even know and who might not even want that.
I’m a firm believer in the Josh method where you compliment them and then carrying on with your day. Works with guys and girls. Either they try and continue the conversation or they don’t and at least at the end of the day you had a positive interaction with someone instead of an awkward rejection.
You'll likely never read this Charlie, but seeing you talk about your basketball group and friends overall at every opportunity has gotten me to start reaching out to people I lost contact with after isolating myself. (Edit: everyone here has been awesome, thanks folks!)
It's hard, but I'm proud of you too. I go through periods where I isolate myself for one reason or another as well; eating relatively healthy, getting sunlight, going out and about can help immensely to get your head out of that mindspace. (bonus points if you get some gym time in, helps keep your mood up, but its not a requirement)
Remember fellas, the best way to compliment anyone, is to do so without expectation and with something to genuinely compliment them for. You can even compliment looks without being sexual about about it.
Held a door for a lady at the gas station and she said thanks, you're really handsome. I looked around like who was she saying that to? Then I realized, oh hey she was talking to me. I responded: WHAT? oh... yeah you too. Lol am I smooth or what? I STILL GOT IT BABY
I was barely holding it together but at 8:56 I just had to pause the video because of sheer embarrasment. Like imagine just minding your own business at a gym and then some dude you have never laid your eyes upon in your life with a gopro strapped to his forehead approaches you with the most violently forwards pickup line.
The cringe IS his content. That's the whole point, as I'm certain he's more self-aware than to ask someone on a date for Big Macs and washing cars. He keeps you watching because you, the audience, think he's actually trying to have someone say yes. Once you get the schtick, there's nothing to see.
I do think that the key to a genuine compliment is the walk-away. You drop it, smile, and make your exit, that's it. You expected nothing in return and you made someone's day!
Another thing i want to talk about is that most of the women said "I have a boyfriend" as a response and i believe that not all of them didn't have a boyfriend. Not because they're ugly or something but we as women are programmed to say that to a guy who automatically gives us the creeps bc of "no." We can't just say no because no is something some men can't simply accept. Ive heard plenty of news from women rejecting men and they get assaulted or killed because of it. So instead of flat out rejecting, we are programmed to use a fake boyfriend bc some men respect men more than the simple consent of a woman.
I don't think it's respecting men so much as most guys don't want the hassle of dealing with the potential "her boyfriend may want to kick my ass just for asking her out" granted there are guys out there that are stupid enough to want to fight a girls boyfriend, I guess to "prove" they're better than the guy the girl is with. It's still pretty stupid all the same.
@metalteuffel2484 I think it's more of a "oh she's already taken" mentality. So yeah its more like, we think it's harder for men to accept we are not interested in them for whatever reason because that might hurt their feelings. And well, men are not very well known for dealing adequately with their emotions. So the best reason to give is "it's not you, I'm just already taken"
@@1Peasantit depends, not everyone will protect you if you get attacked. I've seen lots of car accidents where the people around didn't even bother calling an ambulance and just continued to walk away.
@@amberspaulding I do have a slow motion firtly movie scene running in my mind, the getting soapy in swimsuits, followed by the usual flirtation's sequences you would see in a video or movie, sexy dancing, pouring the dirty bucket water on youself, to some hair metal like your my cherry pie.
Told an older dude working at the airport he has lovely eyes once. He looked a bit happy to get a random compliment but I still felt a little embarrassed. It's beyond comprehension to go around doing this
@xahst i understand you are a small tiny little gen alpha who isn't versed enough in the ways of the internet but that's called a troll, nobody of sound mind can come to those conclusions
@@kurgans I said a girl's hair was nice once (that was it, no other connotations behind it) to which she responded that I was disgusting. She was right, I'm not a good looking guy lmao but responses like these and the sexual harassment claims are very common. Trying to insult someone for being a gen alpha or their size when they bring these instances to light is arguably pretty narrow minded. Is the experiences of others invalid because of their age or because you've never seen these scenarios yourself?
@@nissancubesdashboardpubes8026 she didn't call it sexual harassment, she just thought you were gross. if your point is that less attractive persons get maligned by society that's true but it doesn't apply to me because i'm attractive
That guy has some crazy, unique power. Whenever he enters a room, all of the women there suddenly have boyfriends, even the ones who are single and/or lesbian.
Just invest in your passions and find someone who shares those :) you enjoying yourself and life in general is the best thing you can do! Good luck and goof vibes coming your way
Just found your videos and been binge watching. I have my own pick up lines. I just go to a supermarket and let it out to ladies more my age that I do laundry, wash dishes, and clean floors. It really gets them when I let them know I'm very handy around the house. Oh yea, I'm 68, retired, and a widower. No little kids. Had one lady tell me as soon as she dumps her husband she'll give me a call! Her husband just laughed and told me he'd pay me to take her with no give backs. Found out they have been married for 35 years. My type of people. Just having fun and being goofy with our significant others.
Oh, we get it, Charlie. We always get it, even the weirdest pick up lines. But making them repeat it, or even explain it, thus sounding dumber, makes it so much better.
not gonna lie, I think those first two women were probably just non-native English speakers judging by their accents. So while it's true women just pretend to not get it, I like the think it was just a language barrier issue haha
No offense but this is just a**hole behaviour distinguished as playful then. Also not every girl is as dirty minded as you so I doubt you speak for all here.
It's sad that people have to say they have a boyfriend, or they are a lesbian instead of just being honest about the actual question. Even if they were hetero or single they would never give their number. The most direct response would be 'no' regardless. The art of being a gentleman is what is important. Thanks for explaining it for those who don't get just how dysfunctional this is, never mind how disrespectful, unsafe, and opportunistic it is.
Women don't have to use a euphemism for rejecting a guy. Most women use these euphemisms in order to show some respect. Whether that "respect" is genuine or a defense mechanism is irrelevant. Being respectful to a stranger is just generally good advice. You never know what will set off a lunatic.
Make sure you don’t settle for less! Being single was the best time ever after being in toxic relationship because I didn’t know how to be alone or happy by myself.
I have a feeling that the guy in the video was doing this more for the 1/100 thing than trying to genuinely pick up girls. Unfortunately and somewhat realistically, in order for this much lack in effort to work, you have to be REALLY good looking.
@@sosmooth13 nah my dude he's chasing the three C's: content, clout and cash. none of these PUA jokers have really anything significantly better to offer.
I remember years ago when I was actually in shape, I was at the gym working out n these 2 guys came walking by me and the one guy said to the other “I wanna look like that guy” as he pointed to me. Even though it was like 15 years ago n just a seemingly insignificant moment… I can still remember how it made me feel. The fact I can still remember that comment all these years later says a lot. Sometimes in life, the little things matter the most.
I believe that even without his phone on their faces he would have never get a phone number, why would anyone give their phone number to random strangers on the streets?! It makes no sense to believe that this is how you meet people.
@@Devi_Seona It does happen, if he goes out to the nightclub and truly tries without a camera, I bet he could get a couple girls numbers (drunk girls don't count, I mean ones in lines for clubs like in video)
Back in 2010/2011, I was in an online forum for high school guys looking to build confidence/pick up girls. The biggest point driven home by everyone was finding stuff you enjoy and learning to be passionate about them, learning how to feel confident, and then yeah. Talk to a crap ton of girls and ask for numbers. Never intended to REALLY work, it was to get over the fear of rejection and social awkwardness. It was always pointed out that you don’t just badger people. So many guys need to learn how to read a room, which can only come after you learn to break the ice. There were good groups out there helping young guys. Majority were shit though.
As a normal looking guy who never got any action in high school just because I had no confidence, I can confirm that confidence is the most important thing when talking to girls. HOWEVER, even a confident guy can be cringe, so second step is to learn how to actually interact with girls and treat them like the human beings they are and not like some aliens that like to wash their cars 👽
Don’t worry about me today, 14 years later I know exactly how to do it. Having our first kid soon. Never give up hope you awkward, non confident, guys. You’ll learn.
@@N800-q1bnah, it’s sincerity and humor. Take it from a broke balding guy. Best advice I ever got was compliment their choices not their looks (ie their hairdo, a particular bangle or piece of clothing, makeup).
The "Can we get a Big Mac" comment sent me through the fucking stratosphere. His opener was flawed, but the fact that he was like "Okay, thanks, have a good day!" at the end was kind of endearing.
I have a friend who told me once that he used a pick-up line that actually worked. In a club he told a girl he was dancing with..."I'm not Fred Flintstone, but I can make your Bedrock" I laughed for days.
Honestly if bro had just said "can we get lunch" the interaction would've been the even more normal than it already was. The big mac comment was what ruined that. Even if she had said no to lunch, he probably would've had a better chance at a good interaction.
The one thing I’m glad is seeing that none of the girls said sorry for saying no, they just said no which makes these videos so much better, he’s so creepy they don’t even wanna make him feel better by saying sorry
@@mirjinou7999Your parents are making a terrible financial decision. Although I know a Nigerian prince who has millions frozen who just needs 10k to unlock it. He’ll give your parents a million if they would be so generous.
There's nothing more flattering than somebody going around asking for you and all your friends numbers one by one. I'm sure those girls really felt special.
I just wanted to say, if you want to complement a girl do it on her style. That's something she can control and pick. We get objectifying comments all the time followed by "I want to take you out" which makes a lot of women uncomfortable
THIS! It is so refreshing and exciting to hear that kind of compliment from men. But the funny thing is that women do this so naturally and frequently to each other that I never take it as attraction/interest in me. So as a bi woman, my flirting advice for men is to turn down the initial objectifying comments and compliment style instead. And my advice for women is to be more forward than "omg I love your [hair/boots/tattoo]!" Like, don't be creepy, but it's okay to objectify me just a little so I get the hint 😂
honestly if someone walked up to me and said "youre perfect" i would be terrified. thats the creepiest compliment you could give someone. but if he walked up and said "hi i think you're pretty do you wanna get a big mac or something" i would find it nice
Yeah the first part depends on how attractive the other person is so stop lying like every other cxnt. Its weird and meaningless but still if a super hot guy said that it wouldnt matter what the compliment was. Also the 2nd part is just rubbish.
The cashier asking the shoe girl's friend "Do you know him?" before stepping in to tell the guy politely to leave isn't just a kind gesture, in worst case scenarios it can be a life-saving one. The main reason women don't tell men like this to "just fuck off" (genuinely awful advice that I've heard too many times) is cause you never really know what somebody is capable of. I'm sure everyone's heard stories of innocent women being assaulted and even murdered simply for rejecting romantic/sexual advances. Unfortunate as it is men (on average) respect other men more than they do women, which is why "I have a boyfriend" is the go-to response for most of us trying to navigate our way out of these sort of situations; especially if they keep pushing after we've already said no. That cashier probably didn't think what he did was a big deal but to us, small things like that really mean a lot. EDITS: spelling & grammar
it's not respect, it's fear men like that don't care about the boyfriend at all, they're just worried about what he might do to them. if they thought they could get away with it they'd do it without a single care
I told a drunk stranger jokingly, "Fuck nah," when he was stammering out an invitation for us to come to his house as we were passing by on the street. Dude followed us for almost a block yelling death threats. They just flat cant take rejection man.
Nice feminist propaganda. Firstly, you're much more likely to be murdered by somebody you know (a relative, acquaintance, coworker, etc) than by a stranger, unless you're in a war zone. Secondly, more men get killed by strangers than women, statistically speaking. Nobody likes a snob who thinks they've assessed a "bad" situation, and nobody likes somebody who butts in to others' conversations thinking they're helping somebody. It's honestly pathetic. Of course this guy wasn't getting any, but it's like making fun of a fat person at the gym. They're trying and maybe one day they'll be fit and healthy. Don't make fun of somebody for going out there and trying to do something with their lives, even if they fail at it. If you truly believe that woman was in danger in a public place in a shoe store because some idiot was talking to her, you're delusional and shouldn't go outside if the world is that scary to you.
My friend had once gotten into a similar situation as the last girl who was buying shoes. She was buying groceries and a desperate idiot tried the same shit on her and forcefully paid for her groceries*** My friend didn't even speak one sentence and she got out with free groceries, leaving the guy with the consequences of his stupid actions.
wow.... you're telling the story like you think thats a good thing. Bloke tried hitting on her in a generous, albeit weird way and you're patting your friend on the back for taking advantage and being rude about it? Its also potentially dangerous.... absolute moron move by your friend. So did she end up going out with him or just steal from him by not adhering to her part of the bargain? A simple "no thank-you" is an infinitely better way to handle these things. You're really not making the point you think you are.
@beezle1976 nah. Admittedly op doesn't recount the story very vell, but I would bet money that this guy was using buying her groceries as a power move. It's unlikely that it was simply a kind gesture.
@@beezle1976 how in tf can you twist that around to her “stealing” and “not adhering to her part of the bargain”? Where exactly was this “bargain” that they made? It’s not “stealing” when someone offers something, you absolute nonce. If he did have an expectation for his “generous” offer then it would be a transaction and he was treating this stranger just trying to buy her groceries like a sex worker. He’s the one that was rude. Maybe he learned a lesson. You can’t treat people like that. It’s not just “weird” but it’s insulting and demeaning. Your whole comment is a parade of red flags. The only thing I agree with is yes that was absolutely dangerous and with how common it is for men to become aggressive she could have been harmed.
@@beezle1976 dear friend, guilt tripping people to date you is bad. It's so sad that this has to be said. "Her part of the bargain" lmfao! What bargain, you absolute idiot?!?!
There’s no “rule” on where to meet someone but just cold approaching someone with headphones in trying to workout is next level special needs behavior. I’ve met girls from the gym before but it’s usually we work out around the same times each day multiple times and maybe smile, say hello as we pass by one another then eventually strike up a conversation after some time.
@@ScottieWallaceIts the exact same thing bro what. Have you ever been to the gym before? Trying to interrupt someone during their set is like the number one annoying thing there.
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This guy's the human version of zubat. He flies around confusing everyone who runs into him, and you have to drink an antidote once you run away.
Or Juan’s kindra who just raised his evasiveness to evade his own self awareness
@@ACastillo0702*The entirety of Emerald’s Battle Frontier
True, and since he's everywhere you have to keep running away.
I thought the repel was a spray on rather than something you drink
@@lunamiku4166 Its not talking about a repel, he literally says antidote. You know, for poison, which Zubat can inflict.
There’s nothing more attractive than watching a man ask a bunch of girls for their number, get rejected, before he gets to you.
It’s over for non chads
And they all have boyfriends, including the lesbian 🥰
I don’t understand why the guy thinks he’s gonna get a number before even having a 5 minute conversation with the girl. It baffles me
He’s been taking his lessons from Boomhauer.
@@v875-r6ehe treats women like they aren't people. People like this are so confused why they fail while they act like this
This guy would make a great cold caller. Straight to the point, handles rejection well, and does not care about social norms at all
It borders on sociopathic. Like he's checking boxes instead of talking to women.
@kamikazesopp I mean, what else what he do to talk to women?
@@billywashere6965 dating app not approaching totally strangers like a creep LOL
Thats where the whole pickup thing comes from, its from sales guys who applied that philosophy to dating
@kamikazesopp YES. That's exactly what he's doing. He knows the basic goal he wants to achieve but only the most rudimentary way of getting it.
7:04 If a dude told me "you're perfect" the way this guy did, I'd be afraid he wanted to wear my skin as a suit. 😂
No one ever talks about Ed Gein's dating life. It's nice that somebody brought it up.😅
It puts the lotion on its skin or it gets the hose again....
I exposed penguinz0
@@Cameronthepeckerwoodno one cares bruh
😂
Charlie still remembering that compliment those two guys gave him in college was so sweet, and also goes to show that you never know what simple compliment might make someone’s day, or their life!!!
Exactly, i remember nice things people said to me from when i was really little, it still makes me smile to this day.
It is nice to hear others who also remember, because that means that someone probably remembers the good things you said, too!, although we may not know it.
wow someone's happy as fuck, yeeesg
mmm it depends
There's people who don't like compliments of any kind at all so you may come as rude or scary to them, in that case it's safer to not say anything imo.
I say this mostly because Im one of those people, I don't like compliments or talking to strangers, much less receiving compliments from a stranger haha no but really it gives me anxiety and sometimes panic attacks...
@@cotinukikiki maybe work on that -_-
I had to call in sick once when I was an intern; when I came back two of my coworkers chimed in asking where I'd been and they missed seeing me.
Beet red.
My boss walked by and made a comment about it before physically dragging me by the arm back to the kitchen - this made me even redder.
Compliments can be overwhelming but holy f do you remember them if you don't get them often.
(granted that wasnt a direct compliment but it conveyed someone had a positive view of me and missed my presence, so it caught me off-guard and made me feel nice)
She hit him with the level 12 "I'm a lesbian" critical damage
I was disappointed that the next girl didn't finish it with the "I'm her girlfriend" combo.
@@asheronwindspear552 I heard the other girl say "she's my girlfriend".
KLMAOOOOOO@@asheronwindspear552
I'd still want it.
@@asheronwindspear552that would have actually killed me lmmfao
Honestly, about the girl who replied “yes” when he asked “is it because I’m ugly” I can guarantee you she only said that because she understood he was trying guilt trip her with the question. I’ve noticed a lot of times that it’s only the creeps who use that phrase to guilt trip after being rejected, so often so, that women will straight up say “yes” because they understand what they’re trying to do and are insulting them in retaliation for even trying it, and I don’t blame her, it’s a shitty move to begin with.
maybe he really is ugly. Is it really hard for people (like you, charlie and many others) to accept that women (and men) do reject people based on their looks? Charlie didn't say it outright, but him immediately trying to find some other reason behind why she called him ugly alluded to this belief. And you too are cooking up all kinds of other reasons instead of the simplest one.
Definitely true! Sadly some younger male viewers might not understand she ONLY said yes as an “escape strategy” to get out of the far too common aggressive arguments started by men who can’t accept no for an answer.
His accusation of implying she was vain was designed to trap her by forcing her to stay and start defending herself. He basically turned her right to say no to him into a ‘moral flaw’ to guilt trip her over. So by not indulging him and just saying yes (ending both the conversation and any chance of him trying to make her walk back her rejection to disprove the accusation) she was able to get out of that uncomfortable situation quicker.
It genuinely didn’t matter if he accused her rejection of being based on his looks, race, age, how he smelt, etc, a woman will just say yes in order to disengage and get the hell out of there.
@@Dipj01who the hell even said that
@@Dipj01 Eh, If I'm not physically attracted to someone I just say that they aren't my type.
Alternative theory, could also be that he got rejected because he walked up to a stranger and asked for their number, and then had the gall to ask if it's because he's ugly to garner sympathy? Who's to say, really 🤷
@@eri020 op and charlie did (indirectly). Op's comment and even Charlie immediately trying to give reasons for why she called him ugly, gave that feeling. They didn't need to come up with explanations for such a simple thing. Sometimes, people are just ugly, and do get rejected for that without any deeper reason.
As a woman, if I heard a guy asking for every womans number around me, i would not feel special and picked out and would definitely say no. It's a massive red flag, sign of a player. The one woman who says yes is gonna be desperate
Yes, totally true! I still feel bad for guys who can't find a girlfriend and vice versa!
That's the one you want for a good root every weekend
Picked out? You mean like a… PICK ME?! HEY EVERYONE, SHES A PICK ME! SHES A BIG PICK ME! THIS GIRLS A PICK ME!
@chazbono5991
Sir I don’t think you know what a pick me is 😅
I exposed penguinz0
Oh my god that cashier saying we got this thanks is such a legend. I'm glad people like that exist to help people who are in uncomfortable situations, I'd want somebody to do that for me.
Working with the public is undoubtedly a heroic deed.
@@h9ry he actually is next time you’re in trouble you’ll see
@@h9rybet you never helped anyone in your life
@@h9ryif he’s not, all the bad guys are monsters then
Are you a human being? Don’t harass other human beings, it’s easy
Hell yeah was thinking the same thing. He handled himself like a champ
He actually holds the rejection world record in the straight% category, almost broke the rules there and went for a bi% in this footage but still an impressive run nonetheless
This made me lightly chuckle
Curious to see if there any other NA players that up on the leaderboard since most of them got disqualified and are now in prison.
😂
No Albert Ellis holds that record. He would make him self talk to women and was rejected hundreds of times. This helped him create REBT therapy. Because the internet and posting didn't exist, it's almost like it never happened, I guess.
I read this like it was shoutcasted
His pickup lines are about as natural as Zuckerberg’s social interactions
Zuck is in hospital
"I'm the meat chef."
"What?"
"I'm the meat chef." 🙂
...?
"Would you like to smoke some meats?" 🙂
@@mh2120 I'll bring some sweet baby ray's
nooo not mr zucky :( @@pastuh
@@pastuh Not for the right reasons.
Working retail there are endless opportunities to give and receive those in passing comments, and it’s one of the only things that keeps me in the industry. It’s so nice seeing people light up when you compliment their blouse, or their haircut if it’s a regular. Just as it’s nice to receive them. I remember every single one I’ve ever gotten. I recently had a customer walk past me, and she did a double take and she goes “oh my god you are so pretty.” I rang her up and felt the need to thank her and pay her a compliment of my own! Retail shows the best and worst of people, but the best is always so bright 😭😭
That was what kept me going as well. I’d only give compliments when I meant them, but that doesn’t mean it was rare. And a lot of times you can tell they appreciate a genuine compliment with no weird follow-up, and give one back in return. “I like your eyeshadow, it’s giving flames” was the one that I received and liked most that’s coming to mind.
This man is honestly amazing. I've never seen someone consistently roll 1's on speech checks like this
"the worst thing she can say is no"
It's cause he is using it bad. He is only asking for the question, thus being locked to a d4 dice when the minimum is 18
@@blulikefriendlyhit1213naturally nerfing himself 💀
what people don't understand is that he knows he's bad at picking up girls, he just does it to get more 'famous', more views etc. And clearly it worked.
In order to get easy clout online is to make people upset so that they talk more about him/her. It's so stupid it has gotten this far but people will never realise or learn to not make stupid people famous.
@@pancake1751 On the contrary. Stupid people have always been famous. Ever since the dawn of mankind. However, these people obviously only got mockery and disrespect, deservedly so, by their audience.
Having clout for being a clown isn't an achievement, and some people somehow think it is. People will laugh at them and go on with their lives, while the clown's fame will die out in a week.
Pick-up artists deserve an entire documentary at this point.
they need to be in prison first
Millennial Incel jea los Charlie and Codyko are just obsessed with our gen TikTokers.
They are species that are becoming extremely widespread
@CrewmateComplexXPsure you are. among us pfp.
Nah being insufferable and extreme immaturity isnt anything new or interesting
Every time I think I've seen the peak of secondhand embarrassment, charlie finds a new summit. This video is like a masterclass in what NOT to do. The gym pickup line had me facepalming so hard I almost hit a new PR.
@@p-__ That's impressive, maybe you should go professional.
Millennial Incel jea los Charlie and Codyko are just obsessed with our gen TikTokers.
Penguinz0 inspires me... My parents said if i get 50k followers they'd buy me a professional camera for recording begging u guys.
what did he even say then? i couldn't hear him
@@byeyaveanicetime6520 "I know the gym isn't to, you know, meet somebody, but, uhhh, we can just tell our parents we met on Tindr or something"
wanted to die when hearing that lol
1:50 a pity kody ko turn as he is now
He was always sucky guy
so true
His downfall began when he abandoned Noel. They had the perfect bromance and made great videos and music together. Then he ran off to date that girl half his age. All they did was react to dumb romance videos together and their chemistry was worse. Then the Tana Mongoose thing happened. Which she herself didn't even think was bad, that's the funny part. People are mad on her behalf.
It's amazing how "i have a boyfriend" is still the strongest card you can play to stop creeps from harassing you. Like they respect the man they've never seen more than they respect the woman right in front of them 🤯
Right?!
So by your logic he shouldn’t even have approached her? Regardless of how the woman rejected the man, he immediately turned around. Just because women use it so frequently because they are afraid to be honest and reject man normally it doesn’t mean what you are saying is true. Typical female, do what you know best (cook and clean) and let the men talk.
Doesn't stop the Evolved creep, which unfortunately does not take damage from the "I have a boyfriend" card. You may need to equip the "Pepper spray" item
I don’t go out anymore, but I used to literally wear a fake ring and it’s amazing how well it worked 😂 Guys would glance at it and stop without me having to say a word.
As someone who absolutely doesn’t respect women that’s the only way I’ll stand down
2:14 "Actually we all have boyfriends"
Oof,I felt that. Especially after one said she was lesbian they really wanted him gone.
confirmed liars
@@jazzabighits4473confirmed fire(blaze8491)
@@jazzabighits4473you're not supposed to be honest with weirdos who ask complete strangers for their number
@jazzabighits4473 No by itself should be a good enough answer. Women only lie about boyfriends because its the only reason that other weirdo men think is good enough.
@@jazzabighits4473 or a polite way to say, get the fuck away from us
I gotta hand it to that guy, he's given all those who are insecure about being single a huge confidence spike.
His first video is clearly satire. It was a bit draining watching Charlie fall for it.
@@ChrrolloDIwhat is he satirizing?
Penguinz0 inspires me... My parents said if i get 50k followers they'd buy me a professional camera for recording begging u guys.
@stmsin Well no shit but the dude would have to be a literal lobotomite if it wasnt satire. He went through them despite seeing rejection after rejection and even laughs when they straight up tell him hes ugly so he knows hes not getting results.
@stmsin Yes, but it doesn't involve self-awareness. It DOES involve him being in similar circumstances and chooses to be exaggerative in action to fully point to the mistakes and errors in ones actions
The eye contact between the cashier and the friends spoke, like an entire paragraph in just 1 second
Charlie shouting out Cody is like having 2 different friends in a group project
Ikr
Wouldn’t it be 2 friends in 2 different group projects
@@Deathmare235 I think it would be like having two friends that you act differently around or that have different personalities getting into one group together
Am I the only one that doesn’t get this joke? 😅
and Schlatt
He’s into public humiliation and derives pleasure from pain but he has not yet totally figured that out. 😂
Maybe after another 1000 no's he'll figure out that it's his kink
I will not be surprised if that is legit the case
Something about how charlie remembered not only what he was doing but what he was wearing as well but just a single compliment he got years ago is very wholesome those passing compliments do go a long way
the avg perspective of a male
That's not wholesome, that's just sad
A few years back some random girl called me cutie and it made my day. I still remember it like it happened yesterday.
@thatrandomcrit5823 ive heard so many guys have this experience. that they dont neccessarily get often comments so the few or the one they got they cherished it and it just stuck in their memory. generally girls get more compliments often and it gets harder to remember them separately or specificly
@@helixxia9320Yeah, I know, that´s why I´m saying, it´s not wholesome that we can remember it, it´s sad that it´s so rare that we can count on one hand the ammount of compliments in years
Bro there's so much joy in tossing out a banger ass compliment to a stranger
Ass compliment
Honestly, I actually used to do that to girls that looked fine in my night club days. "Excuse me, just wanted to say you look fantastic" and then walk away.
99% of the time I could hear the "Aw thank you 🥰" behind me or see their face light up once they realised it wasn't a "routine". Felt like a nice thing to do once in a while 😅
@@paulpesci1 yy
No fr!!! N then just leave :,)
@@sail4170 :,) there's hope for us sometimes
He isn’t fumbling, he never had the ball
HARD
@@Takokujin07no I am
@@duckyy5855proof?
And he never will.
He dropped the ball but his didn't
Nothing turns a girl on more than asking someone for their number then instantly hopping to the next one like they’re cattle 😂😂😂this guys a menace
facts! LOOOL
Can you imagine the chaos if just one gave her number then decides to walk off with him? ☄🔥
i knew a guy in university that tried pickup artist tactics. He became known as the can i get your number guy after a while. Lots of girls ended up avoiding him. its definitely not a good tactic
These dudes need an entire course to tell them what just being friends with girls / making yourself as attractive as possible will get you naturally
It's pretty much how women treat dating... but yea I couldn't agree more.
I love how the one girl said “I’m lesbian” and the other girl said “we all have boyfriends actually” 😂
@@Andrew0506 its not that deep lol. he is just pointing out how they will say anything to make this guy go away
I was thinking even the lesbian huh?😂
No fucks given lmao
They owe no explanation to this creep, and its probably for the best that he knows as little information about them as possible. He clearly refused to take no for an answer, there is no reason to be honest with him when a simple ‘no’ should have ended the conversation.
why didnt they just say no 💀
1:42 oh… that aged well
Literally just thinking that when i saw ur comment 😂😂
I'm out of the loop, can anyone explain?
Anyone else wanna help me understand this
@@SovietReunionYT Cody Ko had intercourse with a -16-17 year old girl some years back. And he knew it.
@@SovietReunionYTdude had sex when a 17 year old when he was 25 or 26
Thank you for always holding our hand through the most unbearable cringe. I don't think I could take it.
On the other hand, Charlie took that cringe to your doorstep. Without his involvement you'd be spared the cringe you just endured.
Charlie is the ominious man who both, gives and takes.
"You're perfect."
"For what?"
She should have told him she didn't want to join the army 😂😂
Lol😂
I guarantee this guy isn't a 6 foot white guy
@@hansolo631I'm over 6 foot and white...what's that get me?
I exposed penguinz0
@@CameronthepeckerwoodWhat an out of context comment. Exposed him for what?
This is insanely hard to watch. Credit to Charlie for being immune to cringe. That's a damn talent💀
Jajaja hes not inmmune, he is cringe! Thats why it doesn’t affect him!
Not hating, he seems like a swell dude
be quiet and go back to quiet reading@@toritopihuas
then what are u trying to say@@toritopihuas
These poor girls are so exasperated because they probably go through it every day.
😂
Not only is he doing what he is, he also has a camera with him.
yeah fr. No one would want to give their number out to some creep shoving a camera in their face
@@spectre9340You know the guy would immediately dox her for "being a slut" or something. Fuckin a. I hate humans.
I think it's glasses with a hidden camera for POV's, but who knows, maybe he does have his phone out recording.
he is doing it for views
That’s how u know it’s for entertainment
"Maybe we can wash our cars or something?" dude has -2 charisma
Not only did the girls see that he's asking every female in sight for their numbers, he's doing it so thoughtlessly that he almost accidentally asked a group of guys, *and* he's pointing a camera in their faces as he does so. I may not be very experienced with this sort of thing but I can't imagine that sort of behavior would instill them with faith in the quality of your character.
Exactly this. Asking someone for a number after a small talk while acting as a decent human being at the same time is totally fine. But this here is just cringe.
Didn’t need this long analysis to get that
@@PresidentFlipjust moist critical’s braindead commenters nothing new
He doesn't even introduce himself, just records them and points at them like animals while asking for mumbers
I gotta say, in regards to complimenting strangers - I try to do that whenever I see someone in the street who I think looks cool. Just a quick "hey, you're rocking that look." People really light up. Spread kindness, folks. :)
I also do this a lot! But it is funny catching people off guard with a genuine compliment sometimes, because you can really tell who isn’t used to it, and at first the person will almost look offended like “what’s wrong with my shoes man?!” And then realize I actually just told him “hey bro those shoes are dope!” Etc. And watching them go from WTF to 😊 is always cool
It's awesome to compliment people, I love seeing their faces light up. Old folks have really cute reactions usually lol. I have a harder time complimenting men my age because they always think I'm trying to flirt with them 😅
@4everhumbl36 lol it would throw me off for sure.
Yeah once a guy on a street told me my shoes were dope I was flabbergasted like "huh me ???"
Yea i do that too, just because they just actually look cool
The cashier was acting quick and i hope there are more people out there who look out for people
The cashier is a king
Yup! That’s what we do at customer service. Dismiss the clowns as quick as possible. It’s imperative they not be entertained.
cashier saved him
@@Xamry so if somebody wants to do a nice gesture by paying for someone else's shit, that makes them a clown?
@@Cyphonit’s a common pick up tactic. If he had paid for the shoes then suddenly he’s “owed” her number and that could get hostile very quick. And the fact that she had already paid for the shoes but he decided to stay there meant he needed to be pushed away from the situation.
lol love it when he tries to guilt trip her by asking "is it bc I'm ugly?" and she shuts it down with a "yes :)". Queen shit, Best part of the video
@russelsprout2155 yes, queen! :)
@EmoTheElephant that is some 12 year old vocabulary, but ok
@@sotch2271 uh oh, someone's cranky that women aren't caving to social pressure and are instead telling losers to get lost! Maybe you'll feel better after a lil nap, champ ☺️
@@EmoTheElephantsotch2271 is the guy in the video lmfao
Queen of beta males
The one at 8:47 was like watching about 3 wrecks in slow motion at the same time.
I’m not even gonna lie, pick up line videos are a bittersweet guilty pleasure of mine. It both entertaining and emotionally draining simultaneously.
Millennial Incel jea los Charlie and Codyko are just obsessed with our gen TikTokers.
@@MrUssy101 The fact you think pick lines arent made for incels lmao
@@Zenith_Star69 Talk all the shit you want, I bet he gets laid more than everyone here in the comments. At least he's out there trying. Making fun of him is like making fun of fat people in the gym, even if they're hopeless and just at the start of their journey there's no need to make fun of them or their efforts.
I heard a lady share a pretty good comeback to catcalling: "sorry, I don't have any spare change!"
I still like the classic response to 'What's your number?':
"911"
It could come off the wrong way if the guy is non-white, though. Being accidentally racist still makes you racist, even if just a little bit.
@@JediMasterBaiter That's almost as cringe as this dudes pick up lines...
@@BlackMetal0189His pickup line is just what’s your number
Nothing cringe about a line of intent, in this case a serious threat of calling the police on you@@BlackMetal0189
dude the cashier was so real for that
A real g
The true superhero.
Lmao you know you’re cooked when the gay cashier has to shut you down
that guy probably spend 1500 bucks on one of those workshops to become a pick up artist, and is now in denial that it was a total waste of money
Oh yeah, giving random strangers genuine compliments without expecting something in return is very wholesome. It also makes the other person's day, and it makes me happy that I made them smile. I think everyone should do it once in awhile.
I do that at every chance as I got nokone
Sometimes ya gotta make one persons day better
Ye i do that. If someones dressed well i always tell them. They put in the extra effort, they deserve to feel good too
I always do this ❤
He said “Can I take you for a Big Mac or something?”
Lord have mercy 😂
I’m not even a woman, and I still felt that level and cringe and would’ve dipped the f out and not even entertain the conversation further
@@INFP-Turd yea seriously you’re not wrong🤣
@INFP-Turd I could go for a big mac right about now
Dude I’m not even joking his first two lines weren’t even that bad, but when he said that I completely lost it 😂
9:00 guy: “Ik the gym isn’t really the right place to meet somebody”. Girl: 👁️👁️
no shit we watched the video
@@fromjxeldick
@@fromjxel ok? Didn’t have to be a d1ck about it lol
He forgot to be handsome before approaching her. What an idiot
That made me cringe so damn hard I thought I was having a seizure
Oof that Cody ko statement aged like milk😂😂
Fr
I was thinking the same thing😭
Ong😭
was lookin for this comment
I was looking for this comment lmfao
7:39 it's nice to know even guys like Charlie feel this way about random compliments. Guys get complimented so infrequently that it can completely throw you off guard, and be something you remember for YEARS just cause someone said something nice about you. I can count on one hand the amount of times I've been complimented by a stranger... And I remember each and every one, specifically.
when is the last time you complimented a guy? i don't want to sound corny but the change starts with you. just don't be like this guy 😂
@@0TheJigsawKiller0 haha hell no I certainly won't be like that! And while I have a bad memory and can't say specifically when, I know it's within the last week or so! I try to make a habit of doling out at least one compliment every time I leave the house - but I never force it. I simply tell myself to say what I'm thinking when it's something nice!
And so the last compliment I remember giving to a guy was a dude with some nice, straight long hair at a gas station after I got off work. I remember, because he said thanks and, as he was passing me, he said "Oh hey, and you, too!" Since I have a ponytail just like him (but his hair was far nicer than mine) XD
@@0TheJigsawKiller0 Personally, I am very much an introvert. Like extremely so. If I even speak to a stranger, they should go buy themselves a lottery ticket. You would have to be the very embodiment of beauty itself to ever wrench a compliment out of me as a stranger. Even then, I'd likely be too nervous to say it out loud so I'd stick to thinking it.
@@BSPancake I consider myself an introvert, too! I wouldn't say it's as strong for me as it is in your description, but the way that helped me with my "make a compliment a day" thing was that I really like making people happy/smile/laugh so I just think of it how it'd affect me. If someone said the kinds of things I try to compliment, it'd make my day and I'd be thinking of it till I went to bed and probably into the next day! So I just wanna do that for other people :]
Dunno if that'll help you or not, but maybe you'll resonate with it!
Complimenting people is one of those things that I've just learnt to be frank about, I work as a cashier in a museum. Sometimes we get a person, foreign or local, who has the nicest hair or the coolest shirt, so I just tell em. Never see them again after, and I'm happy with that.
It makes them happy, and it makes me happy to just be open when I see something cool. Don't need to be socially good bout it either, just say what you feel when you feel it.
Edit: My best tip is just to be genuine and straight forward about it. Had a redditor once try and compliment my portal 2 bag by trying to be funny and just throwing random lines from the game at me, I didn't get it so he just came across as a weird redditor, but like an "Oh shit, I like your portal bag" will always make me smile.
Idk why but Charlie saying the creepy dude could’ve befriended the group of guys and formed a basketball team was adorable. Guys just going around making friends to form little sports teams would be fun to watch
It works tho back in my 20s budy would say wana fuck and it worked 1 out of 20
Such an anime plot
@@zogwort1522 No 💕
Uncle drew
He doesn't fear social anxiety, social anxiety fears him
I can't get over the cashier's look of existential horror just watching that unfold.
Honestly, shout out to that cashier, who looks at the friend you see him mouth 'do you know him', the camera slightly pans to her friend and you see the confused look and the cashier says hey man we're all good, you good?
Very happy to see men stepping in and getting bad men away from people, it makes us all look better and reminds me people can still be good!
I don't wanna assume anyone's sexuality but he seemed kinda fruity and if he is, he not only has had to deal with creepy men just by being around them but also from dating them. Love the support regardless!
@@spectre9340yeah he’s a come from behind kinda guy, but it’s good to see people not afraid to possibly step in
Because men are monsters. We are seen as a danger and exclusively so. Instead of kindness, retaliation is a frequent experience.
I’ve understood it though. Truly. I’d have it no other way.
@@grayv-horse3443what a weird take.
@@grayv-horse3443 it's also due to high crime statistics against women g.
that gym one was PAINFUL 💀
I forced myself to watch it. I hate cringey moments.
He even has to repeat his cringy shitty line cause she didn't hear him the first time. Holy hell!
wanna wash our cars together
LOLLLLLLLLL@@pufferfancyfish
"What did you say?"
I can see the ocean in Charlies piercing blue eyes, Truly magnificent
@CrewmateComplexXPdid you really waste the time to spamn this in all the replies no ones going to watch your among us channle
Millennial Incel jea los Charlie just obsessed with us TikTokers.
bots go crazy
The damn bots 😭
@@aname2340It's a bot
About passing compliments, I try to give most strangers I interact with, especially minimum wage workers compliments but typically on things that aren’t about their body but like their outfit or how they did their hair. Tho I do remember a guy in my class that I told he had really pretty eyes. I made it clear I wasn’t hitting on him, as I’m a gay and taken woman, but that they were genuinely very pretty. He told me that he recently had eye surgery he had just recovered from so he really liked hearing that. I just honestly hope I make someone’s day a little bit better
I totally agree about random passing-by compliments and their effect. This was almost ten years ago and I still remember because it was so sweet. I was just walking to the coffee shop from work and these two girls stopped me and said, “ excuse me, just want to tell you, you’re very beautiful.” And I said thank you, they said you’re welcome and that was it! We kept walking. And I still remember it! Lmao
Lmao so funny hahahaha!
I get that and I like it when I make someone happy, but giving a complement to someone who I will never see again will not get them as a girlfriend. It annoys me how people always act like it is "creepy" for a guy to ask a girl out. How am I even supposed to get a girlfriend if it's "creepy" to even ask them out? I just don't know how I'm even supposed to start a conversation with a girl.
@@loz5001-dl1ym yea its creepy to be approaching any randos u dont know for the sole purpose of trying to pick them up?? stop worrying and do smth else with ur life first
@@zeddy2284 so basically you're saying I should never try to get a girlfriend.
@@loz5001-dl1ym No, we're simply saying that it's awkward for ANYONE to walk up to a stranger with unilateral (obvious) intent to sleep with them/date them. In my opinion, that IS creepy because it reeks of desperation; it's also disrespectful because you're not looking at them as human beings, you're just looking at them as products/prizes to acquire. It's important to remember that there's a line between being assertive and being sleazy. Sleaziness is when you start to disrespect them.
Assertiveness IS one of the focal points of masculinity, yes. However, one of the focal points of (sexually) successfully connecting with a girl is that you have to recognize you're own worth just as much as hers. By that, I mean that you have to acknowledge you're own intrinsic value as a human being. It's irrelevant as to how much wealth, status, or good looks that you possess; you HAVE to believe that you're good enough as a human being. Knowing that you're good enough is the kind of mentality that facilitates true confidence. Also, healthy masculinity is when a man respects a woman just as much as he respects his own masculine frame.
You have to have confidence in yourself; women can smell your confidence (or lack thereof). That's also why they "test" you. They want to make sure that you're a man that they can feel safe with. If a man doesn't have genuine confidence, he might end up being controlling, obsessive, dangerous, etc., and this would not be good for the woman.
Anyway, hope this helps. Cheers!
Story time: When I was like 17 for prom. I stopped by a gas station before meeting up with friends at Red Lobster. I got out and went inside to pay for gas and an older black gentleman sitting inside "ooooooo weeeeeee, you lookin sharper than a tack my friend'. I thank him and carried on but that shit made my night lol. I'm 22 now and I don't think I'll ever forget that.
I got one comment on my style at Joe’s Crab Shack and I’ve been riding that high for three years
11:08 Shout out to that guy who tried to shoo away the creep! You can even see him whispering something to the other woman before speaking up.
that was the most cringe moment of the entire video
Imagine wanting to be an independent woman and strong but also wanting some random stranger to butt in because you're too scared to say no to somebody in a public place
@@jazzabighits4473Standing up for people getting harassed in public? Is that a bad thing?
@@jazzabighits4473the fuck? Neither of them asked for his help he just offered it
@@RenixGames That's what makes it even worse. Somebody else being nosey thinking they're helping by White Knighting for somebody they don't even know and who might not even want that.
@@jazzabighits4473 With a PFP like that I have no idea why you are so bitter and chomping at the bit to share your delulu opinions on women.
I’m a firm believer in the Josh method where you compliment them and then carrying on with your day. Works with guys and girls. Either they try and continue the conversation or they don’t and at least at the end of the day you had a positive interaction with someone instead of an awkward rejection.
Wow I didn’t know they named a method after me
@@gtfobuddy21 it’s how Josh won a bet against Drake over who could get more girls. From Drake and Josh
I was at the mall recently, and a gal walked by, and she had the coolest hair. I told her so. She smiled, said thank you, and I went on my way
@@ferox965 make being kind to others a normal part of your life and the right people will find their way to you
You'll likely never read this Charlie, but seeing you talk about your basketball group and friends overall at every opportunity has gotten me to start reaching out to people I lost contact with after isolating myself.
(Edit: everyone here has been awesome, thanks folks!)
he aint reading this but i did and this pretty cool
@@liamryan6177 I agree, pretty cool
That’s great!!! I love that. You deserve warmth & connection
i ain't charlie but i'm super happy to hear that man keep up the good work
It's hard, but I'm proud of you too.
I go through periods where I isolate myself for one reason or another as well; eating relatively healthy, getting sunlight, going out and about can help immensely to get your head out of that mindspace.
(bonus points if you get some gym time in, helps keep your mood up, but its not a requirement)
Remember fellas, the best way to compliment anyone, is to do so without expectation and with something to genuinely compliment them for. You can even compliment looks without being sexual about about it.
It’s so true though, a genuine compliment goes so much further than a generic pickup line. Compliment their choices not their looks.
Held a door for a lady at the gas station and she said thanks, you're really handsome. I looked around like who was she saying that to? Then I realized, oh hey she was talking to me. I responded: WHAT? oh... yeah you too. Lol am I smooth or what? I STILL GOT IT BABY
thank you.
A tip I learned is to compliment a woman on something she has control over. So her hairstyle, her outfit, the way she did her makeup.
@@artificialraspberifyyeah bc then you're complimenting her as a person and not just making a sexual remark
First one shook her head like "that's not even worth word energy"
Then they will go show up and take 1k to do a pron
Then they will show up to an ad for 1k for a hubclip audition
I was barely holding it together but at 8:56 I just had to pause the video because of sheer embarrasment. Like imagine just minding your own business at a gym and then some dude you have never laid your eyes upon in your life with a gopro strapped to his forehead approaches you with the most violently forwards pickup line.
Watching this guy's rejection speedrun, I'm not sure if I should be impressed or start a GoFundMe for his self-esteem.
Penguinz0 inspires me... My parents said if i get 50k followers they'd buy me a professional camera for recording begging u guys.
Not even joking. It takes a different level of confidence to open yourself up to that level of rejection.
Hes got enough self esteem to share with all of use. 3 rejections in a row is rough.
@@myhandlewastakenandIgaveup Or just pure levels of not giving two Fs. 😂
The cringe IS his content. That's the whole point, as I'm certain he's more self-aware than to ask someone on a date for Big Macs and washing cars. He keeps you watching because you, the audience, think he's actually trying to have someone say yes. Once you get the schtick, there's nothing to see.
Charlie always seeing an opportunity to make a basketball team is heart warming
Also, let's be honest. If you are asking a girl out, try not to be filming her while doing it...
@Nyanx4i absolutely love the different excuses you came up with 😂😂
But it puts pressure on them to say yes!!!!
It’S RoMaNtIc 💘 ThOuGh!
That’s a crazy comment considering here you are watching it
@Nyanx4 never let them predict the outcome
When I see a beautiful or really kind person, I try to always tell them. Compliment them. It makes them smile and makes me happy insude
I do think that the key to a genuine compliment is the walk-away. You drop it, smile, and make your exit, that's it. You expected nothing in return and you made someone's day!
Those people don't want to "make someone's day" they just want views and to bang girls that fall for those retarded pickup lines
You forgot the part where you ask a entire group for their number.(you have a rotary phone)
I'm autistic, this isnt for friends or coworkers and just random girls on the street right?
yeah but what if you are trying to rizz up
I wish I could do this but I’m too nervous all the time that I would just get embarrassed and mess up or not say it right…
Another thing i want to talk about is that most of the women said "I have a boyfriend" as a response and i believe that not all of them didn't have a boyfriend. Not because they're ugly or something but we as women are programmed to say that to a guy who automatically gives us the creeps bc of "no."
We can't just say no because no is something some men can't simply accept. Ive heard plenty of news from women rejecting men and they get assaulted or killed because of it. So instead of flat out rejecting, we are programmed to use a fake boyfriend bc some men respect men more than the simple consent of a woman.
That's sad.
I don't think it's respecting men so much as most guys don't want the hassle of dealing with the potential "her boyfriend may want to kick my ass just for asking her out" granted there are guys out there that are stupid enough to want to fight a girls boyfriend, I guess to "prove" they're better than the guy the girl is with. It's still pretty stupid all the same.
@metalteuffel2484 I think it's more of a "oh she's already taken" mentality. So yeah its more like, we think it's harder for men to accept we are not interested in them for whatever reason because that might hurt their feelings. And well, men are not very well known for dealing adequately with their emotions. So the best reason to give is "it's not you, I'm just already taken"
But you are safe in public, in a line like that
@@1Peasantit depends, not everyone will protect you if you get attacked. I've seen lots of car accidents where the people around didn't even bother calling an ambulance and just continued to walk away.
The perfect pick-up line sure to work every time... "You wanna go wash our cars together?"
I find it very exciting, personally.
@@amberspaulding I do have a slow motion firtly movie scene running in my mind, the getting soapy in swimsuits, followed by the usual flirtation's sequences you would see in a video or movie, sexy dancing, pouring the dirty bucket water on youself, to some hair metal like your my cherry pie.
Ah yes, Cody Ko. Those compliments did not age well
Lmaoooo was just about to comment this
It really didn't,it aged like milk left out on the hottest summer at the equator
@@OniJoker9 wanna make a bet on whose gonna be next? I’ll be $50 that Sneako is the next RUclipsr to get exposed
@@TheChosen1-x8h dudes already exposed himself several times, he likes the movie "cuties"
@@TheChosen1-x8h so him being an assaulter wouldn't be surprising
Told an older dude working at the airport he has lovely eyes once. He looked a bit happy to get a random compliment but I still felt a little embarrassed. It's beyond comprehension to go around doing this
Thats sexual harassment
@@pyramidion5911 the ultrafeminist you are trying to parody does not exist
@xahst i understand you are a small tiny little gen alpha who isn't versed enough in the ways of the internet but that's called a troll, nobody of sound mind can come to those conclusions
@@kurgans I said a girl's hair was nice once (that was it, no other connotations behind it) to which she responded that I was disgusting. She was right, I'm not a good looking guy lmao but responses like these and the sexual harassment claims are very common.
Trying to insult someone for being a gen alpha or their size when they bring these instances to light is arguably pretty narrow minded. Is the experiences of others invalid because of their age or because you've never seen these scenarios yourself?
@@nissancubesdashboardpubes8026 she didn't call it sexual harassment, she just thought you were gross. if your point is that less attractive persons get maligned by society that's true but it doesn't apply to me because i'm attractive
That guy has some crazy, unique power. Whenever he enters a room, all of the women there suddenly have boyfriends, even the ones who are single and/or lesbian.
I guide others to a treasure I cannot possess.
I've fumbled so many times, but this makes me feel so much better I was never as bad as any of these guys
Just invest in your passions and find someone who shares those :) you enjoying yourself and life in general is the best thing you can do! Good luck and goof vibes coming your way
My life's a fumble but it is a small win to know you aren't this bad
Woah your strong
@@B3noud huh?
@@DPowered2same
Just found your videos and been binge watching. I have my own pick up lines. I just go to a supermarket and let it out to ladies more my age that I do laundry, wash dishes, and clean floors. It really gets them when I let them know I'm very handy around the house. Oh yea, I'm 68, retired, and a widower. No little kids. Had one lady tell me as soon as she dumps her husband she'll give me a call! Her husband just laughed and told me he'd pay me to take her with no give backs. Found out they have been married for 35 years. My type of people. Just having fun and being goofy with our significant others.
Oh, we get it, Charlie. We always get it, even the weirdest pick up lines. But making them repeat it, or even explain it, thus sounding dumber, makes it so much better.
EXACTLY😂😂
not gonna lie, I think those first two women were probably just non-native English speakers judging by their accents. So while it's true women just pretend to not get it, I like the think it was just a language barrier issue haha
lmao Basically if You aren't getting laid already, you ain't getting any right?
No offense but this is just a**hole behaviour distinguished as playful then. Also not every girl is as dirty minded as you so I doubt you speak for all here.
The girl at the gym legitimately had no idea what he was talking about and just found him really annoying like a fly buzzing around.
"Is it because I'm ugly?" "Yeah." I love her. What an icon.
I thought that was a bit mean, especially after he just told her that she's beautiful.
@Olly241 he should've have tried guilt tripping her after the rejection
@@Olly241 Yeah so? 💀 He knows what he was doing
I can't tell if I'm extremely tired, or if Charlie is gaslighting me into thinking he has blue eyes
He always had blue eyes.
Does his skin not look a little blue to yall?
Maybe I'm missing something
Nah he's always had blue eyes idk what you're talking about
Maybe it's the lighting?
It's sad that people have to say they have a boyfriend, or they are a lesbian instead of just being honest about the actual question. Even if they were hetero or single they would never give their number. The most direct response would be 'no' regardless. The art of being a gentleman is what is important. Thanks for explaining it for those who don't get just how dysfunctional this is, never mind how disrespectful, unsafe, and opportunistic it is.
Women don't have to use a euphemism for rejecting a guy. Most women use these euphemisms in order to show some respect. Whether that "respect" is genuine or a defense mechanism is irrelevant.
Being respectful to a stranger is just generally good advice. You never know what will set off a lunatic.
As a guy out here in the dating pool, this was hard to watch but weirdly made me feel allot better about myself. Thanks Charlie!
Make sure you don’t settle for less! Being single was the best time ever after being in toxic relationship because I didn’t know how to be alone or happy by myself.
I have a feeling that the guy in the video was doing this more for the 1/100 thing than trying to genuinely pick up girls. Unfortunately and somewhat realistically, in order for this much lack in effort to work, you have to be REALLY good looking.
@@sosmooth13 nah my dude he's chasing the three C's: content, clout and cash. none of these PUA jokers have really anything significantly better to offer.
@@sosmooth13incel detected, opinion rejected.
I remember years ago when I was actually in shape, I was at the gym working out n these 2 guys came walking by me and the one guy said to the other “I wanna look like that guy” as he pointed to me. Even though it was like 15 years ago n just a seemingly insignificant moment… I can still remember how it made me feel. The fact I can still remember that comment all these years later says a lot. Sometimes in life, the little things matter the most.
yurp
Seems that you're not handsome
How is this relevant?
You know what's a big contributor to all these Nos? Recording every single interaction and having his phone pointed directly at their faces 😂
And pointing his bony fingers
its a camera inside of a pair of glasses, but still equally as bad even tho its hidden
I believe that even without his phone on their faces he would have never get a phone number, why would anyone give their phone number to random strangers on the streets?! It makes no sense to believe that this is how you meet people.
@@galaxytoaster9679 Fuck, I feel called out 😅
@@Devi_Seona It does happen, if he goes out to the nightclub and truly tries without a camera, I bet he could get a couple girls numbers (drunk girls don't count, I mean ones in lines for clubs like in video)
It's physically painful watching those pickup attempts.
Back in 2010/2011, I was in an online forum for high school guys looking to build confidence/pick up girls. The biggest point driven home by everyone was finding stuff you enjoy and learning to be passionate about them, learning how to feel confident, and then yeah. Talk to a crap ton of girls and ask for numbers. Never intended to REALLY work, it was to get over the fear of rejection and social awkwardness. It was always pointed out that you don’t just badger people. So many guys need to learn how to read a room, which can only come after you learn to break the ice. There were good groups out there helping young guys. Majority were shit though.
As a normal looking guy who never got any action in high school just because I had no confidence, I can confirm that confidence is the most important thing when talking to girls. HOWEVER, even a confident guy can be cringe, so second step is to learn how to actually interact with girls and treat them like the human beings they are and not like some aliens that like to wash their cars 👽
Don’t worry about me today, 14 years later I know exactly how to do it. Having our first kid soon. Never give up hope you awkward, non confident, guys. You’ll learn.
it's mainly looks and money
@@N800-q1bnah, it’s sincerity and humor. Take it from a broke balding guy. Best advice I ever got was compliment their choices not their looks (ie their hairdo, a particular bangle or piece of clothing, makeup).
@@N800-q1bMaybe start by changing ur profile pic, it’s pretty clear what bubble you live in lol
Getting a camera shoved in your face, and the guy on the other side of it asking for your number seems like a new level of red flag
The "Can we get a Big Mac" comment sent me through the fucking stratosphere. His opener was flawed, but the fact that he was like "Okay, thanks, have a good day!" at the end was kind of endearing.
When man's got other women to harass, it's easy to let them go.
I have a friend who told me once that he used a pick-up line that actually worked. In a club he told a girl he was dancing with..."I'm not Fred Flintstone, but I can make your Bedrock"
I laughed for days.
@@TemulonIt most likely worked bc it happened in a club, not in some random public space. And ofc, bc it's quite funny.
Honestly if bro had just said "can we get lunch" the interaction would've been the even more normal than it already was. The big mac comment was what ruined that. Even if she had said no to lunch, he probably would've had a better chance at a good interaction.
Favorite reply : " No, I'm lesbian. I have a boyfriend "
She was thinking of ANY excuse
There's a lot of reasons why stuff like this fails miserably but tbh I think the biggest reason is they're putting cameras in these girls faces lol
fuckin facts. THAT'S THE BIGGEST WEIRD THING TO DO
Asking strangers for their phone numbers on the streets is the reason he got rejected.
Everything he does is enough reason to reject him. But he does all of them at once so it’s like quadruple rejection
well yeah, the point is to get rejected by being weird af lol. he's a content creator and this is his schtick.
@@Devi_SeonaIt works for a lot of people. As long as you aren’t ugly af and awkward, it is going to work somewhat well
The one thing I’m glad is seeing that none of the girls said sorry for saying no, they just said no which makes these videos so much better, he’s so creepy they don’t even wanna make him feel better by saying sorry
Hearing Charlie say “my favorite flavor is tiddy milk” will never get old 😂
I tried out the packets and t*tty milk was def the best flavor
Penguinz0 inspires me... My parents said if i get 50k followers they'd buy me a professional camera for recording begging u guys.
Gamer fart
@@mirjinou7999Your parents are making a terrible financial decision. Although I know a Nigerian prince who has millions frozen who just needs 10k to unlock it. He’ll give your parents a million if they would be so generous.
There's nothing more flattering than somebody going around asking for you and all your friends numbers one by one. I'm sure those girls really felt special.
I just wanted to say, if you want to complement a girl do it on her style. That's something she can control and pick. We get objectifying comments all the time followed by "I want to take you out" which makes a lot of women uncomfortable
Can I get your number?
Great advice. This always works
THIS! It is so refreshing and exciting to hear that kind of compliment from men. But the funny thing is that women do this so naturally and frequently to each other that I never take it as attraction/interest in me. So as a bi woman, my flirting advice for men is to turn down the initial objectifying comments and compliment style instead. And my advice for women is to be more forward than "omg I love your [hair/boots/tattoo]!" Like, don't be creepy, but it's okay to objectify me just a little so I get the hint 😂
Basically be disingenuous from the start.
6:54 Bro really asked if he could take her out for a Big Mac 💀
Why not
It's a start.
honestly if someone walked up to me and said "youre perfect" i would be terrified. thats the creepiest compliment you could give someone. but if he walked up and said "hi i think you're pretty do you wanna get a big mac or something" i would find it nice
Even when he mentions Big Mac? Come on, tell me that wasn't a huge demerit entirely on its own
I feel like only a sweet little old lady could drop "you're perfect" unprovoked and land right.
Lol nobody would say that to you. The Big Mac comment tells me what you look like
You’d feel honored if they were good looking. Trust me.
Yeah the first part depends on how attractive the other person is so stop lying like every other cxnt. Its weird and meaningless but still if a super hot guy said that it wouldnt matter what the compliment was.
Also the 2nd part is just rubbish.
he doesn't even show interest in them, he looks at them for a second, no intros, immediately asks for the number then leaves.
The cashier asking the shoe girl's friend "Do you know him?" before stepping in to tell the guy politely to leave isn't just a kind gesture, in worst case scenarios it can be a life-saving one. The main reason women don't tell men like this to "just fuck off" (genuinely awful advice that I've heard too many times) is cause you never really know what somebody is capable of. I'm sure everyone's heard stories of innocent women being assaulted and even murdered simply for rejecting romantic/sexual advances.
Unfortunate as it is men (on average) respect other men more than they do women, which is why "I have a boyfriend" is the go-to response for most of us trying to navigate our way out of these sort of situations; especially if they keep pushing after we've already said no. That cashier probably didn't think what he did was a big deal but to us, small things like that really mean a lot.
EDITS: spelling & grammar
Not all men. Trans men don’t do this, just cis
@@konradcurze8176 reeks of misandry
it's not respect, it's fear
men like that don't care about the boyfriend at all, they're just worried about what he might do to them. if they thought they could get away with it they'd do it without a single care
I told a drunk stranger jokingly, "Fuck nah," when he was stammering out an invitation for us to come to his house as we were passing by on the street. Dude followed us for almost a block yelling death threats. They just flat cant take rejection man.
Nice feminist propaganda. Firstly, you're much more likely to be murdered by somebody you know (a relative, acquaintance, coworker, etc) than by a stranger, unless you're in a war zone. Secondly, more men get killed by strangers than women, statistically speaking.
Nobody likes a snob who thinks they've assessed a "bad" situation, and nobody likes somebody who butts in to others' conversations thinking they're helping somebody. It's honestly pathetic.
Of course this guy wasn't getting any, but it's like making fun of a fat person at the gym. They're trying and maybe one day they'll be fit and healthy. Don't make fun of somebody for going out there and trying to do something with their lives, even if they fail at it.
If you truly believe that woman was in danger in a public place in a shoe store because some idiot was talking to her, you're delusional and shouldn't go outside if the world is that scary to you.
My friend had once gotten into a similar situation as the last girl who was buying shoes. She was buying groceries and a desperate idiot tried the same shit on her and forcefully paid for her groceries*** My friend didn't even speak one sentence and she got out with free groceries, leaving the guy with the consequences of his stupid actions.
wow.... you're telling the story like you think thats a good thing.
Bloke tried hitting on her in a generous, albeit weird way and you're patting your friend on the back for taking advantage and being rude about it? Its also potentially dangerous.... absolute moron move by your friend. So did she end up going out with him or just steal from him by not adhering to her part of the bargain?
A simple "no thank-you" is an infinitely better way to handle these things.
You're really not making the point you think you are.
@beezle1976 nah. Admittedly op doesn't recount the story very vell, but I would bet money that this guy was using buying her groceries as a power move. It's unlikely that it was simply a kind gesture.
@@beezle1976 how in tf can you twist that around to her “stealing” and “not adhering to her part of the bargain”? Where exactly was this “bargain” that they made? It’s not “stealing” when someone offers something, you absolute nonce. If he did have an expectation for his “generous” offer then it would be a transaction and he was treating this stranger just trying to buy her groceries like a sex worker. He’s the one that was rude. Maybe he learned a lesson. You can’t treat people like that. It’s not just “weird” but it’s insulting and demeaning. Your whole comment is a parade of red flags. The only thing I agree with is yes that was absolutely dangerous and with how common it is for men to become aggressive she could have been harmed.
@@pinkiepie7823 well obviously, but its still kind of a dick thing to do to just take advantage of him like that, even if its "creepy" in your eyes
@@beezle1976 dear friend, guilt tripping people to date you is bad. It's so sad that this has to be said.
"Her part of the bargain" lmfao! What bargain, you absolute idiot?!?!
11:16 can we jus appreciate that cashier who was like ya no go away
Do NOT approach people when they are working out. If you are out a bar, fine. But not at the gym!! What are you doing?? That’s so desperate!!!
Strong rule, Linda.
Yet if the guy was attractive and wearing expensive things I guarantee your answer would be Hella different!!
There’s no “rule” on where to meet someone but just cold approaching someone with headphones in trying to workout is next level special needs behavior. I’ve met girls from the gym before but it’s usually we work out around the same times each day multiple times and maybe smile, say hello as we pass by one another then eventually strike up a conversation after some time.
@@ScottieWallaceIts the exact same thing bro what. Have you ever been to the gym before? Trying to interrupt someone during their set is like the number one annoying thing there.
@@raulsauceda7392 yep