actually, ‘going to jail for staring at an under aged 21 year old’ is such a perfect representation of how people these days are desperate to manipulate a situation to fit their narrative
@@KfcOwner until you meet that woman who runs on all fours like some kind of native American skin walker. If you don't know what I am talking about just Google girl runs like a horse
@@KfcOwner I wish I could just watch and kick ALL the drama queens and ones dressing like sluts or videoing out of the gym STRAIGHT UP. ANY shenanigans of female drama, your photo is taken, you're put on a blacklist and booted from ALL GYMS the have men. If they're serious they can go to the female only gyms. But MOST are going because they ARE CHASING MALE ATTENTION and looking for a man. They literally have videos about it on tiktok. Men avoid their usual spots so they dress in leggings and a bikini to attract a man.
Not just Tiktok itself, but this entire "tiktoker" era has let so many terrible people get undeserved attention. We live in an age where narcissism isn't just accepted, it's borderline encouraged. It's nice that a few people get called out on their shit, but this happens way too damn much.
The people in the gym either do things to purposely get attention like slam weights, scream, stunts, or wear extremely tight clothing, or are literally doing nothing at all, staring at their phones. How hard is it to leave your phone in the car, go to the gym with a written plan, execute the plan, and leave within an hour and a half? America is so obese, and its people's attitudes that are having the biggest impact on health and fitness in general.
I'm gonna sound crazy but as far as I know I'm speaking the truth and even have evidence for my claims if it's needed by anyone to look it up and see for themselves, but that's because tiktok is a literal Chinese info weapon used to make the west's youth dumber and less effective adults 😅 In China, their tiktok shows science, art, and just overall just learning and creative stuff, but we are shown that you can be "famous" for being a bad person who wastes food, hurts others, ect. and they don't even make any real money from it all. They are taught to be assholes for moneyless clout by tiktok. Tiktok really needs to go the way of vine asap.
I saw one record herself on the side of a British road doing jumping Jack's and squats and getting angry that a man in a van driving past glanced at her for like a second trying to make out his a creep going on about how this is something women have to put up with... Ignoring the fact that when driving a vehicle on the road... You HAVE to be aware of your surroundings as it's called spacial awerness. Most people called her out and of course, she made her profile private. Men... Checking their surroundings when driving a dangerous moving vechile and observing pedestrians so he doesn't end up hurting one... Yep.. Defo creep 🙄🤦 If I was driving and saw someone doing jumping Jack's near the road I'm driving past. I'd probably be aware of them because they could fall over on the road.
I usually get scared when someone stares at me, I'm not happy with people looking at me with anything other than a friendly expression and a meaning for a good chat about video games and stories
TikTok has officially destroyed our social skills to the point where people make videos like this thinking that they are being harassed when, in fact, they are experiencing the absolute bare minimum of human interaction, if you can even call it interaction.
This happened to me once at the gym when I was still a newbie. A very old male was looking at me as I was using some equipment, and ofc I was weirded out. After about 5 minutes of occasionally watching me work out, he came over and told me “you’re doing it wrong” and showed me the proper technique. I was grateful because I didn’t get hurt from using the equipment wrong. Seriously, sometimes men just want to help out.
@Anthony Fernandez Mansplaining is where men automatically assume a woman doesn’t know something without any evidence to support that assumption and proceeds to explain in detail often in a condescending manner without bothering to ask if they want/need said explanation. The OP in this case did show that they didn’t know what they were doing therefore the man going over to correct it is not mansplaining. You actually have to be pretty obnoxious in order to qualify for the mansplaining category.
@@MissCaraMint see the difference is that YOU understand that term and use it correctly while others don’t. So he’s actually right in this case. Just look at all the other terms that get used now where ppl don’t even know the real meaning behind them but blatantly uses them lol
I feel embarrassed even when I have my camera faced toward me for a Snapchat response .. I don’t get how people are able to just openly film other people .. they are the gym creeps for doing that.
I agree with you on the feeling of getting someone filmed just because they happen to be there, but at the end of the day a gym is a common area, depends on the rules of each gym you can record there. On the other hand the "social media gym culture" has derived from what it actually is
Agree with the weird feeling. The only time I have felt using a camera is fine is your bud like filming a pr or something for form. Usually it’s toward the rack with no one else in the shot or with no focus of anyone else. It’s a weird fad that has come up now.
3:09 yeah this makes me so uncomfortable in the gym, im 16 and have only recently started. And every time i even look at someone i feel wrong just because of what the internet had programmed into me... Inbetween sets i end up just staring at walls, or the floor, or my phone... Honestly, it should be normal to be able to look around, especially if someone is going to hurt themselves, i would 100% want someone to look over in my direction if i was about to hurt myself. Its just people caring.... Honestly, no wonder people dont want to enter the gym
ma homie, dont feel scared or ashamed, if some chick is recording herself in the gym, and makes you look like a creep, you have every right to call her out about it
Ah yes, the Starbucks addict in the Target yoga pants with a tripod that sets up sting operations in order to entrap males and publicly humiliate them for personal gain. I know the type.
They're gonna have to create 2 sides of the gym. The one side that turns it into a TV set with all the Tik Toks & pictures and videos and the other side that actually just wants to exercise and get tf outta there.
@HannibalKing-e7e bro why are u so triggered🤣 Ur probably built like a twig (also living in ur mom's basment), plus he said he keeps himself lean which means he chooses to look like that, plus he is actually pretty well built.
@HannibalKing-e7e you plateau so quickly in gyms bud, unless you aren't natural/have crazy genetics/eat like crazy and work out like crazy for two hours a day......
I hate how Tik Tok trends turn polite and genuine people into creeps, and the whole mess discourages people from interacting with someone for fear of being ridiculed or accused of harassment. this is a whole new level of bullying and I REALLY hate it
The Kingdom of God is at Hand John 3:16 King James Version 16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
This be why us guys gotta be super duper extra careful these days. One woman lies or falsely accuses us and we’re done for. These days nobody waits for due process like with Johnny Depp and just assume guilt because you’re a man.
The term "snowflake" gets thrown around so much to the point it's lost most of its meaning, but it sure as fucking hell applies real nicely to this bitch
I’ve seen people joking online for a while claiming to be adult age minors so at first I thought she’s joking and maybe she is but sometimes it’s easy to forget some people do think like this. Like those jokes started for a reason. I knew a guy who claimed just because he was 25 didn’t mean he was an adult Edit: for the folks saying he was right, unless you’re in the sort of transition point between teenager and adult you can’t pretend you’re not actually an adult just because you don’t feel like one. I know it’s devastating but it’s true
Another thing both Joey and Charlie haven’t brought up is that these people might have whole ass stands, lights, duffel bags, and some may even have cameras instead of a phone. Having a whole ass movie set for your lifts is going to bring attention to you.
@@nymade4130 This. These types of people act like people simply looking in their general direction is a crime, yet seem to go out of their way to be the biggest attention grabber in a 100-mile radius. Clothes are never an excuse for actually bad behavior, but if you're wearing the bare minimum with a full-on movie setup around you in a public place, people are gonna look in your general direction from time to time, and that's not a crime.
Another thing i don't get is why they need to wear the tightest cloth possible. Like DUH a guy might glance at you. Those women shouldn't be allowed to wear that to a gym. Imagine a guy wearing such tight shorts . Guys also just want to focus without having visual distraction right in front of them.
The real creepy part is the fact that these people likely spent hours analyzing every behavior of these random people that they’ve secretly recorded. This should honestly be a crime
Fun fact.. if you're not participating in Social Media you will never know they do that. It's like a conversation they have in their head. It doesn't matter, lol.
I even heard about a blind guy that was accused of staring at a gym. After he told her and the one of the staff members that he wasn't staring because he was blind they were still outraged.
The Blind Surfer Pete Gustin? He recounted a story like this, said he even presented them with proof he's blind (some sort of ID card IIRC), and the manager said something like "well you still can't make people uncomfortable by staring at them". When he literally cannot even tell if he's staring at someone.
@@vibescake2175 "I think you could use even more 'em broccoli, kid... I mean sweetie. 😊 Mommy's gotta do another appology video before dinner, so that most people will forgive her sooner or later."
Stuff like this pisses me off because real harassment is still a thing. Some gyms will inevitably have creepy people. Setting up fake scenarios for clout does nothing but laugh in the face of people's actual experiences.
Yeah, it’s this horrid trend we’ve reached of people online essentially fantasising about being SA/SH victims and making up these wildly exaggerated situations in their head, but also POSTING THEM ONLINE? Like how braindead and insulting can you be?
i agree. i have tourettes and i feel the same for those shitty petty clout chasers faking having tourettes making it a funny matter when its not. it made my life hell as a kid in school i always got fucked with. and for people to fake it and laugh on camera for fame and attention just realy makes my blood boil
this happened to a friend of mine, some girl approached him and asked him to stop being a creep when he literally just had his headphones in and was getting through his workout as normal. he's a regular at that gym and is there 4-5 times a week, there was literally nothing special about this person that had him doing anything but his usual 50-min routine. honestly some people really need to work on themselves rather than focus on being the center of their own universe
yea social media, mainly tiktok imo, has made so many people feel so entitled. ur right like just focus on yourself and stop craving attention my goodness
@Robert Joseph Most likely. I’m so disgusted with my generation. I feel so distant from people as is. I would apologise on behalf of Gen Z, but I don’t give enough damns about Gen Z to even want to associate myself with it more than I have to. Fuck the way this society is going…and people said Millennials were too much…
6:17 hilarious how she says she feels uncomfortable because she was looked at in the gym, and then she proceeds to upload a video of her doing an exercise with the camera aimed DIRECTLY AT HER ASS
As someone with social anxiety, this is the kind of stuff I think always goes through people's heads if I ever acknowledge their existence with a glance. Knowing that there are people out there like this makes it worse for me
I'm with you on that! Worries me everytime I make eye contact with someone! "Do they think I was staring at them when I just glanced over? Do they think I'm a creep now cause of that?!"
same, i might have a problem as i do it so much i unknowingly avoid looking people in the eyes when i talk to them. or is that normal?, i dont know anymore.
I used to be like that, i kind of still am, but in the end overthinking stuff like this is just gonna drive you insane. In the end you can't control what people think of you, you don't know how their head works, so why bother? Look people in the eyes Smile when you greet them Speak clearly so they can hear It's perfectly normal, in fact it's the bare minnimum. And if someone has a problem with it it's their fault.
@@bobthespam I am sort of like that. Not when someone is talking to me or me them, because I've always been in the belief that eye contact comes with talking. But otherwise I avoid looking at people.
And many of them don't seem to aware what they doing is bad/wrong, and post it to mass. Which is somewhat a good thing, public notice it fast and call them.
It’s more weird that she’s talking to herself. He was probably wondering who she was talking to or if she was talking to him. Plus some of the stuff she was whispering like “feral, feral, feral, f*cking feral” absolutely would garner some attention from anyone within hearing distance. Not to mention that but anyone filming kinda gets your attention anyway because you wonder what they’re doing, if you’re in the shot, etc.
Honestly the guy getting called out for being new and not knowing how to act is a source of my own anxiety. I've only ever done workouts at home because I'm afraid I'll step on toes or come across as the new weirdo just for wandering around. I'm glad to see the behaviour is being called out and hopefully addressed in the community
Don't be fooled to think this behavior is new, rampant and accepted in the gym. Many of the swole guys who show empathy and compassion at the gym have the best attitude because they too understand how it is to be that new small/skinny person at the gym. Also at this point many of us who are respectful at the gym are just going to put on our headphones and mind our own business unless something major comes up.
No one actually acts like this, that’s why these videos blow up whenever someone acts like a gym Karen. Because it’s not normal. And even if you were to step on somebody’s toes, most people wouldn’t mind. There’s no time limit, if you have to wait an extra minute because someone took your weight or is in your way, most people wouldn’t care enough to tell you off.
I once was staring cause I needed a spot and I wanted to ask but I was getting weird vibes just for doing that so I asked the dude on my right who helped me in two seconds and the interaction was done. I think these people are so self centered and used to social media attention that they think everyone wants them.
Dude Charlie where have you been this is liberal country now baby and I can explain to you what is happening in the world but I can’t understand it for you bud. This could be a product of the girl hating men cause all she sees on the internet is the bashing of men which comes from the left profusely also rape culture (not real) she could be thinking of that I mean I couldn’t even imagine being a little girl growing up in the world today
Well considering he looked at her a couple of times while she was constantly looking at him without a break to catch him looking.Wasn't she the one staring then?
This is part of the reason the gym I go to has a very strict "No filming or recording" clause with their membership. If you're caught filming for any reason, you can be banned, and I have actually seen this happen. it sucks to see this happen at the gym, a place where people are going to literally better themselves and they can't even do that without this kind of shit happening.
As someone who zones out a lot and accidentally stares people down, this scares me. I’m already terrified of being filmed without my consent and now we have tiktoker who believe that breathing in your direction is creepy.
I’ve always had a problem with spacing out and staring. It sucks cause people ALWAYS call me out for it and tell me I’m a freak and shit. It sucks lol but what can you do 🤣
3:50 I think he was actually looking over her way because he saw her tripod setup and he wanted to see if he was in the frame. I do that too. I know people film in the gym and I don't necessarily think it should be outlawed, but it is distracting to me and my workout when I know I am in someone's shot. He probably sees that he is in the background and she's acting weird so he's not looking at HER, he is observing what she is doing for his own protection.
Well I think that taking photos in the gym while you pose is a good thing so that you can track your progress and gives you more self esteem, of course always with respect of others
@Jackson Miller it is scary though. You can't even have your own opinion online without risk of people trying to cancel you. Imagine you're out with friends just messing around and one of you makes a joke that with no other context seems extremely offensive or in poor taste, that gets recorded and spread around. I've seen people lose thier job over less.
As a woman who likes to go to the gym from time to time, these women are doing nothing but making it harder for us. Now I have to be afraid that I may need help, and the men around me would be too afraid, because I might call them creeps afterwards.
Some people really believe 'creep until proven otherwise'. Tbf when ya got stalkers, catcallers gropers and worse you have to look out for its understandable but man. I just wanna be left alone, please don't lump me in with those assholes.
@@BigCarris_53_64 she's not, u misunderstood the comment. she's not saying that she's going to call them a creep, she's saying that the women who post these kinds of videos make the men in her gym feel as if she would say that when just being friendly/helping.
@@hmkily hey, I get that. As a man myself, what Jacob Yerkes did just make other men look BAD! It’s ridiculous! I misunderstood it just a little! Women can be creeps, too! Not just only men!
it really doesn't tho,all its doing is pointing out the chronically online women that want attention. how would someone that's actualy a creep get taken less seriously
The thing I find mind boggling in these situations is that the people say they are uncomfortable with being observed, yet the majority have a camera pointed directly at their behind.
Yeah, specially with the weird way ppl are online, between the fake stories, the way they tell you you have to be, the black or white way of seeing the world...Then they go outside and everything is a shock, or weird, or creepy, etc
All these years of being a lonely loser paid off.. 2 years? Try being on year 8! I think the people you’re talking about are extremely stupid to begin with
11:03 he totally could also just be worried she'll think he's weird if he uses the machine right behind her while she's squatted like that, and is making her aware that he wants to use it so she can face a different direction or something.
After working at a gym for 13 years, these people have always existed. They’re just able to film it to an audience now. The “I want all the attention, but I don’t want people looking at me” people. Lol
@@adrianc6534 What do you think is the more likely possibility: Literally half of the human race is genetically inclined towards this behaviour or Youve had a few bad experiences with women and are bitter and resentful and so extrapolate those experiences onto billions?
As usual. Just like calling everything racism, nazism, abuse, ADHD, OCD or Autism. People overuse it, and then when you actually suffer these things, people don't take it serious.
@@Rocket_Man. She's staring at and filming him, but he glances in her direction and is in the wrong. What the fk? Some people need some serious mental help.
No he is actually shredded hard to guess his body fat % but it’s definitely at the leaner end ripped means lean which means low body fat % how you gonna say not really ripped I wonder how ripped you are Mauricio
this is why i'm usually afraid to generally look around me, because people make a scene of it so I just end up staring at a wall or what i'm doing unfortunately
I also want to kinda point something out as someone who’s seen filming in gyms. The people filming aren’t covertly doing it they often have a tripod rig set up for stability. So sometimes you might look at the rig and see it’s filming a person and subconsciously because of that you tend to look at what the person is doing. The gender Doesn’t matter
Not to mention most of the clips had the girls' ass displayed loud and proud for the camera. Not to say there's anything wrong with that but if you're talking about how much you hate people "looking at you" yet you post clips to the internet with your ass as the main focal point. I can promise you're going to get 10x the sexual harassment you thought you were getting in the gym on the internet. I'm not trying to debate whether that's right or wrong I just have a hard time believing someone in this instance. This sucks because I'm sure sexual harassment has happened with the girl in a provocative position like that. However the more of these I see the more I tend to lean towards it's just the trendy new thing to do VS that guy is fucked up and needs to be kicked out.
Also i kinda get when people just glance over ur chilling working out suddenly u notice a tripod and camera pointing ur way last thing u wanna do is get all nervous and mess up thinking it can go online (prolly just me I have social anxiety and get nervous when cameras are pointing at me)
That was exactly what I was thinking when I was watching his gaze. He was probably just curious and maybe thought she was a streamer or maybe recording her form.
When the gym is even moderately busy, it's almost impossible NOT to look like you're staring at people. Unless you stare at the ceiling or the floor, you're going to be looking at someone.
I'm also just tired of people equating looking at someone to harassment or sexual misconduct. More often than not, people using this line of thinking are full of shit. I'd say someone looking at you is only harassment in very specific contexts.
oh and don't forget how some gyms have mirrors everywhere so no matter where you look you will definitely be looking at someone 🤣 some females need to stay at home 🤷🏻♀️
@@G0DH4ND why would we or ANYONE want to stare at the floor especially when most times I just disassociate in between sets so there is no specific thought going on, and even still I’ve looked at plenty of people simply curious as to how they do their workout or how much weight they just did on a lat pull-down we are inherently curious creatures in no way is that creepy unless taken to an extreme
Pro tip: Once you turn 50, don't go near any public beach unless you keep a bag over your head the whole time. And keep your phone in your pocket wherever you are. I'm sporting a titanium shoulder and elbow for nothing more than carrying a phone in the open at a flea market.
“This is why I don’t want kids.” “Natural selection better take the weirdos out!” She’s already playing her part by not bringing more of her kind into the world.
They need to enact a no recording policy at gyms. Would love to see how many people are still “passionate” about working out when they can’t film it to make weird content like this for their social media
Most gyms do, you just gotta say something because they aren’t paying attention. If you bring up privacy concern and possibly threaten civil/legal action they will enforce it.
Can we all just acknowledge the irony of being "creeped out" by some guy at the gym, while simultaneously sharing your entire life online to who knows how many creepers
@@vlisto3712 No it's not, Its even worse. She literally sells her body, how is that different? She over here concerned about the "male gaze" yet she post pics for exactly that.
As a bigger guy who already feels ashamed to actually GO to the gym, this only makes it worse. It already takes a load of confidence to take those steps into the gym and keep up the routine, now people are going out of their way to attack just normal people in the gym
Fr I’m introverted af I go at like 3 am there’s normally only one other guy there we both wear our headphones and don’t even acknowledge each other’s existence it’s perfect. And no offense but the gym is the best place for bigger guys to be. U should feel ashamed about waiting in a fast food line or something not going to the gym. Who cares what those ppl think anyway there not your friends u never have to talk with them or interact with them if u don’t want to. I’ll never understand why ppl get self conscious because some random person they will prob never see again is judging them idk I’m just wired different I guess.
Trust me it's worth it,I used to be quite the big guy myself being about 290 pounds but after going to the gym for a few years I lost the weight and it is one of the best decisions I ever made
Don’t be afraid or ashamed, many started like you. Real ones will recognise you for it. The more positive you are, the better the responses you will get 🙏
I also am nervous to goto gyms, so I bought adjustable dumbbells, a bench and a pull-up bar to use at home. Don't usually comment, but just wanted to let you know that you're not alone with those feelings. Good luck dude🤘
The fact that she says "He should go to jail for staring at an underaged 21-year-old" makes less sense when you consider that even if she was 16 or 17, nothing he does is inherently creepy either in that case. He is not asking for her age, asking her out, or even staring. He is just treating her like a normal patron at a gym indiscriminate of age/gender.
I honestly think its soo weird when people film themselves in changing rooms, like even if im done changing i still don't wanna end up on a random persons tiktok, the girls in my class constantly film in the changing rooms and get mad when smb confronts them
@@apokkalyps6 i think the joke is he's saying he's underage at 40 which means he's more than wrong which means by approving the apology he says the girl is dumb
A girl actually did this in my local fitness world. And everyone and I MEAN EVERYONE looked at her with the faces of disgust. My friend who works there and is a guy, asked her if she could stop filming. And she responded with like a very offended and loud "WHY?" People in the gym just responded with all sorts of remarks, like you're being annoying, you're just a poser, that sorta stuff. Until she sorta... Cried back to the locker room and went home a few minutes later. I felt both great and awkward over the situation.
@@kylem1112 Too much worry of upseting people! I was taught as a child that "Sticks and stones can break my bones but words should never hurt me" or something along those lines and it stuck.
yha probably cause they seen videos like this one and know these girls just wants attention but good for you're gym though as most will probably do the opposite and kick your friend out.
Filming in a gym is just disgusting creepy. A lot of people already have to "force" themselves, fearing of being judged and whatnot, we don't need people filming in there. Just gtfo The only phone thing allowed in my gym is, changing your music or whatever and then you put it back into your pocket.
This is why I am glad my brother built us a gym in our garage. Both of us were janitors at different gyms for most of a year and the shit people would get up to was mind boggling.
Yeah my dad and I have put together a nice setup in his garage and it is sooo much better. I sometimes go to the gym with my buddies every once in a while but yeah home gym > public every time
I always planned to have a home gym in the future, but about 2 years ago I started compiling equipment because I just couldn’t stand public gyms anymore. I miss the gym camaraderie between the 95% of people who are good people just getting their workout in. It’s that new 5% who’ve absolutely poisoned everything
The scariest part of this is that they've filmed it so that people could recognize the guys irl, and didn't even consider blocking out the faces for their privacy. Just think, anyone could film you in any location (even a locker room/bathroom) at any time without even caring about your consent, and your face could be plastered all over Tiktok and the rest of the internet without your knowledge.
That’s sadly very common. There was one years ago of kids who filmed a fast food worker and claimed she was being rude to them. This poor girl (who was only 2 or 3 years older than the teens) was mocked for a while till someone told her about it and she made her own tiktok claiming the kids were being disrespectful and with proof. If no one had told her she might have continued being mocked. Or people found out who she was and went to make fun of her. That’s just one of the first I remember happening
What else are you supposed to do at a gym, they’re also looking around watching other people and ACTIVELY JUDGING THEM. Also some of these people bring ring lights to record so like obviously you’re gonna stare in confusion. Another thing I’ve learned from people talking about delivering presentations is that people can look over a crowd and it will look like they’re looking into it at the people when in reality they’re staring at the back wall
As an extremely shy gym bro, I have always been terrified of someone even thinking I'm looking at them while there. To think I could be considered a creep by everyone at the gym I go to all the time for getting a towel to wipe my machine is awful af
Ah well ngl you just have to stop caring about what others do think. It’s that simple. Whatever your gym goal , all the other eyes in the gym can be watching but at the end of the day , do what you came to do , which is get in shape. Take whatever anxiety you have and use it as fuel, if they want to watch fine, let their states be the thing that turn you into a Greek god in front of them
dont worry bro, most people dont care about you in the GYM because they are focused with their goals. to be considered a creep you would need to be caught staring like 5+ times the same person
As a very small 17 year old girl myself, it totally makes sense to feel a little intimidated by bigger grown men who you don't know. It is not their fault that they LOOK intimidating to you though. They did nothing to deserve being accused of harassment for simply being in the same room as you. If you are uncomfortable, you leave. Go somewhere else. It was weird how these girls didn't just get up and leave. These men are not "feral", "weirdos", and they don't deserve to get their "pp ripped out" for simply existing. If you are uncomfortable going to a place that is usually full of strong men, don't go. Buy your own workout equipment to use at home.
Agree completely. Or you know what? Instead of stewing in that weird social anxiety and trying to read super deep into the kinesics of guys you haven’t even shared a sentence with, try to clear the air and say something to relieve that stress. People these days are so entitled to think they don’t need to start social engagement. You’re the one dealing with all of this anxiety around people. Deal with it yourself and don’t stew in hate and think you’re at odds with someone constantly. Those people don’t CARE about you enough to even formulate an opinion of you. As many things these days, this video points out how social media has boosted narcissism in people. This lady is off her rocker. And maybe it would have happened regardless if she didn’t have a little audience for her to constantly reaffirm her misguided warped view of the world, but it definitely didn’t make it any better.
As a 16 year old girl, I feel so anxious around adult men 😭 I know not every stranger adult guy is a weirdo but still they’re so intimidating. But yeah I don’t accuse people of being pedophiles for looking at me. Instead I just go to ‘women only’ gyms and avoid unneeded interaction
In every sport I've been practicing, boxing, judo, free diving everyone has been very welcoming and helpful to new people who wants to try it out. I've only been to a gym a couple of times and the staff has been like that. The people who goes to gyms are more reserved but very polite and helpful if I talked to someone. I think the difference is that you get to know everyone in your sports club quite fast but at the gym they don't have that club thing. When you don't know the people you workout with I guess it becomes natural to throw glances at the big or beautiful men and women rather than talk to them as colleagues.
@@hi-il7ug are you joking. No one cares what you do. It’s actually quite self centred and touching on narcissistic to think every man wants to stare at you.
You are a clearly a very intelligent young lady 👍. Sometimes I worry about the next generation but its refreshing to see that there are still young people not afraid to think for themselves. 👍
I don't think enough credit goes toward joey and the effort he puts in trying to debunk these videos and trying to keep the Gym a Gym friendly place. He is a saint
He's a very positive influence on anyone trying to get in better shape. He also equally focuses on the positive and negative and is transparent about his own stuff. Need more such influencers.
I’m so glad you shouted out Joey Swoll. That guy is one of the kindest, most genuine content creators out there. Just an all around great representative for the community
@@teamleaf8837 Research what, exactly? He's taking vids directly from Joey Swoll, removing Joey's commentary, and inserting his own commentary which is basically saying the exact same thing.
She also was about to lose a "major" upcoming sponsorship. (Who wants to sponsor someone like that and what for anyway?!). She is completely and utterly dishonest.Garbage human being.
I mean you can’t get any more honest than that. If she said anything else it would clearly be a lie as she had no fuckin clue before. So I liked her apology
I have anxiety too. I feel as if I look like a maniac to people. Always looking around in order to not make eye contact with anybody and when I walk next to somebody (especially next to female) I am literally suffocating. Scared of even breath 😂 feels bad man
As a male who goes to the gym 5 days a week, it almost feels like I'm forced to play a game of not looking at anyone. I'm just there to go to the gym work out and go home I'm so sick of this social media generation always taking vids in public spaces. I feel like its destroying my social skills and giving me anxiety.
Seriously man it’s awful like especially at the gym where it’s a place where everyone is accepted as there is a common goal. Its not a place to take pictures or post videos to publicly shame someone just so you can get a few likes.
Do whatever you want. If anyone got a problem with you just looking like a normal human being, just tell them to fuck off and do not disturb you. Better yet just train at a proper gym, a powerlifting/strongman/oldschool bb one
@@knagen In general I agree but another huuuge problem this doesn't address is that these are posted online publicly, often leading to them being harassed- both online and irl, and/or even 'just' being labelled as perverts/sex offenders etc.
They know. This is a pretend game. These chicks and dudes, all look in the mirror before even going to the gym. They know other humans do not typically wear clothing so tight and revealing out of modesty. They also know they want everyone to see their body, that's why they spend their time squatting. Everyone looks at everyone, that's how we don't bump into each other.
they're in the wrong...but its called consent they want the camera to see their butt (or maybe they just dont care if the camera sees their butt) but a random stranger looks at their butt and is staring at it then its weird
@@vanillauwu1844 I'm going to help you out with a huge lesson in life. No one needs consent to look at another human. That's what your eyes are for, looking. If you think another human has to request consent to look at any of part of your body in public, you're not operating in reality. Here's the test, how would you ask for consent to look at them without looking at them already? Have you ever asked for consent to look at another human in your life?
It absolutely blows my mind how these people film themselves specifically to be seen and watched by millions of strangers, yet they pretend to be absolutely disgusted when a stranger even glances towards their general direction irl lmao...
Agreed! I know there are men and women who creep on folks at the gym. Both of these women are wrong. I’m sorry, I also don’t wear tiny outfits or nude shorts to draw extra attention. And the dude in the locker room, I’d have kicked some butt. Go take your pics NOT in the locker room.
@@kaycep6819 the blaming it on the clothes was so unnecessary and pick-me lmao, you were fine until you started trying to make the point that people shouldnt be showing skin in an environment where they're gonna sweat and feel hot a lot
@@kaycep6819 so someone wearing a sports bra, shorts or tights means that they are doing it for attention and not for the sake of their own well-being? People seriously dont know what a real individual person is like and should get an ounce of respect for others lmfao
As someone with social anxiety, I already worried about being accused of acting odd before when people minded their own business. Now that they're looking for people to accuse of "weird" behaviour, it does not make me feel good.
Yeah in high school I was terrified and hyper aware of where I was looking so no one thought I was staring. I got over it when I realized nobody actually looks at me that closely or cares. But in these videos we find out some weirdos do...
I have social anxiety too and sometimes I don't know how to behave with other people. It doesn't help when now everyone has become an expert at "body language" and just go out their way to say people like me are just weirdos. Like no Susan, I have no social skills whatsoever but I was trying to be friendly and kind.
Reason why I quit the gym. Had the feeling that people were judging me constantly which fed the social anxiety to new levels. Now I just stay inside and use weights I bought online.
I have really shitty social anxiety and social skills - but seeing narcissists filming others without their knowledge in public places with the intent to post them on the internet makes me figure I'm not doing too bad.
Fun fact, we recently had a similar case here in my area. A girl started recording a guy 'staring' at her like a perv. She even went on to say she feels uncomfortable, objectified, and wants him banned from the gym. But jokes on her, his friends stood up for him and said he is not a perv and a serious gym bro. He was actually watching the TV that is just behind her between his sets, and she thought he was staring at her. LOL After the big backlash, she immediately took down the video without even issuing an apology or taking responsibility. She even went on to say she's being 'cyberbullied' and harassed. What a joke.
Hope this shows to men that women do not f*ck around when they say they don't feel safe around certain places. This is exactly the type of crap they have to deal with (of course not justifying her actions, just pointing out the obvious).
@@vorza2988 what? Not hard to get. What she did there to that guy happens x10000 to women around public places, especially bathrooms. I don’t want to hear dudes saying they exaggerate because one lady on this video decided to do something extremely stupid.
Im always super worried about coming off as a weirdo creep, and this certainly doesnt help. The prospect of being branded online as a creep for glancing in someones direction makes going to the gym a very unpleasant idea
@@honestsoul7575 women from gen z think a lot of stuff is “creepy” that I don’t understand. I’ve saw women scream “I’ve got a bf 😱” when a man was just simply asking some innocuous question like directions.
@@honestsoul7575 I'll get reamed for this, but the majority of gen z internet users are chronically online [often self-diagnosed] autistic losers who wouldn't know the first thing about normal human interactions since they're by default unable to grasp social cues and norms.
As someone who chronically zones out of my head space, these tik toks give me so much anxiety. Now I'm going to be worried about someone flaming me for awkwardly staring into space and someone just happens to be in that general direction.
As someone who takes my glasses off at the gym (because they will blast themselves off my face if I just move a little too fast) I think about this too sometimes. I was once zoning out, looking at some blur. Then the blur moved and I realized it was a person. Whoops.
Lmao yeah same my face permanently looks like im kinda pissed off and my worst fear is zoning out and having someone think im giving them the stink eye
@@bloop6111 The first time I did shrooms I was on a public bus when they kicked in. I was just staring off at the visuals starting to show and not really paying attention to where I was looking. I realized I had been staring in the direction of this dude with face tattoos and I suddenly focused in on his face and he seemed like pissed or something, gave me a "head up" type nod as if he was saying "got a problem?" I quickly turned my head and looked out the window lol
This honestly makes me more nervous about starting to go to a gym because I don't want to be bullied for my weight and inexperience, or accused of being creepy.
I can promise you 99% of the time people at a gym are focused on themselves or whoever they're working out with if they're in a pair or group. This doesn't help us lot who have social anxiety but I can assure you these tiktok people are the minority
Anyone who would bully someone at a gym, a place where people are there TO gain experience and better their physical and mental health, is a fucking loser. It helps to take it a little bit at a time! Even just *going* to the gym is something. Go and familiarize yourself with the layout, watch how the machines work, have a plan, etc. Everyone there started from knowing absolutely nothing about what they were doing!
As a 32 year old woman who has been a gym member since I was a teenager, you know what the best way to get ignored by other people in the gym is? Ignoring everyone yourself, and putting your attention 100% on your workout. Sometimes I notice people looking but it's none of my business if they are. If someone tries to talk to me, I answer politely but keep my headphones in and quickly go back to my workout and 99% of people will understand I'm not interested in being social. I'm certainly not going to try and "catch" people looking at me, cause that will only invite more attention.
I say 80% of people in the gym go there just to get their workout in and get out. They have a life outside that they want to get back to. You can't help but look in someone's general direction when you're at the gym. It full of people , it's unavoidable you're gonna look at someone, at least in their general direction. People are gonna look but many just give a quick glance and get back to whatever they are doing.
Lol problem is you’re female and you’d be lying if you say you didn’t go looking some type was to show “I look good” otherwise I equally doubt you’d be hitting the gym Now it’s pretty obvs which females want to be seen. I have seen some with CRAZY sweet bodies and they wear loose sweat pants and big shirts. No, they’re not fat or skinny. They just don’t want or need the attention on their body, you know they know they look good and don’t need to flaunt it. Then you have the other group who looks half naked or like they want see someone to pick them up at the gym (like these females complaining and filming themselves) and then wonder why people staring at them - 2 reasons, to check you out or to think “wow it’s a gym not a hookup bar” Clearly no female can act like “it’s just clothes” because then we wouldn’t have 2 groups behaving differently and treated differently. I mean those girls type to walk outside coochie and tatas hanging out and expect no one to bat an eye 😅😂
I go to the gym with my dad, luckily I haven't seen anyone recording at the gym we go to. But I've caught a few girls probably in their late teens early twenties mean mugging my dad, or just generally looking at the two of us like he's a creep. It's something that's honestly making it hard to go to the gym because of, my dad isn't a creep, he goes to the gym with me because I have an anxiety disorder and it gives me a lot of confidence and accountability to go with him. We both need to work out anyways, I'm post a serious knee surgery, and my dad had surgery on both shoulders. I don't understand why people can't just mind their own business anymore. The majority of people go to the gym for themselves. If I ever caught someone filming in the direction of me and my dad, I don't think I'd be able to stop myself from confronting them verbally. It's just not cool, it's not respectful, and the gym I go to has a no filming policy because it makes people uncomfortable.
She deleted her first apology and and posted a new one because her first one did not take accountability.
"Fake it till you make it"
there is only bots in these replies lmao
Join the Discord motherfūcker!!!! Hahaha love your vids dude!
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Tf are these replies
actually, ‘going to jail for staring at an under aged 21 year old’ is such a perfect representation of how people these days are desperate to manipulate a situation to fit their narrative
Ngl sometimes when i see videos like this i contemplate running on all fours to jumpscare women in the night that should be terrifying enough
@@KfcOwner until you meet that woman who runs on all fours like some kind of native American skin walker.
If you don't know what I am talking about just Google girl runs like a horse
@@KfcOwner I wish I could just watch and kick ALL the drama queens and ones dressing like sluts or videoing out of the gym STRAIGHT UP. ANY shenanigans of female drama, your photo is taken, you're put on a blacklist and booted from ALL GYMS the have men. If they're serious they can go to the female only gyms. But MOST are going because they ARE CHASING MALE ATTENTION and looking for a man. They literally have videos about it on tiktok. Men avoid their usual spots so they dress in leggings and a bikini to attract a man.
@Hating for no reason ngl if you did that and then just gave them like a coupon before leaving would really stick in their mind
@@KfcOwnernormalize just running at random women at night like ✋👹🤚GGAAAHHHHH
Not just Tiktok itself, but this entire "tiktoker" era has let so many terrible people get undeserved attention. We live in an age where narcissism isn't just accepted, it's borderline encouraged. It's nice that a few people get called out on their shit, but this happens way too damn much.
I'm a zoomer, so as I usually get caught in the middle of these stupid trends, I 100% agree with your assessment. Social media is a wild drug
The people in the gym either do things to purposely get attention like slam weights, scream, stunts, or wear extremely tight clothing, or are literally doing nothing at all, staring at their phones. How hard is it to leave your phone in the car, go to the gym with a written plan, execute the plan, and leave within an hour and a half? America is so obese, and its people's attitudes that are having the biggest impact on health and fitness in general.
You said it perfectly
I'm gonna sound crazy but as far as I know I'm speaking the truth and even have evidence for my claims if it's needed by anyone to look it up and see for themselves, but that's because tiktok is a literal Chinese info weapon used to make the west's youth dumber and less effective adults 😅 In China, their tiktok shows science, art, and just overall just learning and creative stuff, but we are shown that you can be "famous" for being a bad person who wastes food, hurts others, ect. and they don't even make any real money from it all. They are taught to be assholes for moneyless clout by tiktok. Tiktok really needs to go the way of vine asap.
he's the ultimate sleeper build
Its so arrogant too. "They must be staring at me and pretending to be on their phone im sodamn beautiful.what else could they be looking at "
idk. the giant camera setup you have?
Narcissistic and self absorbed would be better synonyms.
Arrogance can apply mostly when other people aren't given a second thought.
I saw one record herself on the side of a British road doing jumping Jack's and squats and getting angry that a man in a van driving past glanced at her for like a second trying to make out his a creep going on about how this is something women have to put up with...
Ignoring the fact that when driving a vehicle on the road... You HAVE to be aware of your surroundings as it's called spacial awerness. Most people called her out and of course, she made her profile private.
Men... Checking their surroundings when driving a dangerous moving vechile and observing pedestrians so he doesn't end up hurting one... Yep.. Defo creep 🙄🤦
If I was driving and saw someone doing jumping Jack's near the road I'm driving past. I'd probably be aware of them because they could fall over on the road.
I usually get scared when someone stares at me, I'm not happy with people looking at me with anything other than a friendly expression and a meaning for a good chat about video games and stories
This reminds me of that blind guy who got fired from a gym for staring at a girl and making her feel uncomfortable.
TikTok has officially destroyed our social skills to the point where people make videos like this thinking that they are being harassed when, in fact, they are experiencing the absolute bare minimum of human interaction, if you can even call it interaction.
This whole time, I thought I was the only one thinking this way. Thank you, stranger, a small piece of hope just came back to me. 🫶
in 2023, you give yourself autism for fun
To a TikToker, human interaction does not even exist...
Which really sucks because it leads to actual harrassment not being taken seriously anymore.
They know full well they're not being harrassed. They just pretend anyway to get fame and clicks. They're scum.
This happened to me once at the gym when I was still a newbie. A very old male was looking at me as I was using some equipment, and ofc I was weirded out. After about 5 minutes of occasionally watching me work out, he came over and told me “you’re doing it wrong” and showed me the proper technique. I was grateful because I didn’t get hurt from using the equipment wrong. Seriously, sometimes men just want to help out.
That's called "mansplaining" it this day and age. Let them get hurt instead 💀
@Anthony Fernandez Mansplaining is where men automatically assume a woman doesn’t know something without any evidence to support that assumption and proceeds to explain in detail often in a condescending manner without bothering to ask if they want/need said explanation. The OP in this case did show that they didn’t know what they were doing therefore the man going over to correct it is not mansplaining. You actually have to be pretty obnoxious in order to qualify for the mansplaining category.
@@MissCaraMint I'll have take your word on that
@@MissCaraMint see the difference is that YOU understand that term and use it correctly while others don’t. So he’s actually right in this case. Just look at all the other terms that get used now where ppl don’t even know the real meaning behind them but blatantly uses them lol
@@plutos7 well the first reply just did
I feel embarrassed even when I have my camera faced toward me for a Snapchat response .. I don’t get how people are able to just openly film other people .. they are the gym creeps for doing that.
i sniff the farticile particles off of charlies steamwackler once a year yet YEAT's the problem???
I agree with you on the feeling of getting someone filmed just because they happen to be there, but at the end of the day a gym is a common area, depends on the rules of each gym you can record there.
On the other hand the "social media gym culture" has derived from what it actually is
not only that but if what they don't like is being looked at.. why do they film themselves and send it on the internet ?
Agree with the weird feeling. The only time I have felt using a camera is fine is your bud like filming a pr or something for form. Usually it’s toward the rack with no one else in the shot or with no focus of anyone else. It’s a weird fad that has come up now.
@@k0lpA Yeah, and if that's what they are concerned about. Just get the equipment you need and set it up on your garage and that's it
3:09 yeah this makes me so uncomfortable in the gym, im 16 and have only recently started. And every time i even look at someone i feel wrong just because of what the internet had programmed into me... Inbetween sets i end up just staring at walls, or the floor, or my phone... Honestly, it should be normal to be able to look around, especially if someone is going to hurt themselves, i would 100% want someone to look over in my direction if i was about to hurt myself. Its just people caring.... Honestly, no wonder people dont want to enter the gym
I just to pull ups at home but I respect the grind!
ma homie, dont feel scared or ashamed, if some chick is recording herself in the gym, and makes you look like a creep, you have every right to call her out about it
She did the equivalent of making up and winning an argument in the shower.
@Dont Read Profile Picture I’m gonna put some dirt in your eye
Fuck this bots dude fr
holy shit the bots
at this point i think we should have a gym for separated genders,so they can stay far away from us
@@toniotrussardi8126 segregation ftw
"Normal human interaction has become outlawed " epic quote by the man himself
Its why i rarely approach women in public spaces anymore
Social media is breaking people’s brains it’s like people don’t know how social interaction works anymore
@@SolidSnake240 bruh what. This stuff is rare
Jesus man speaking facts as usual
@@ryanjung4416 right.
She's unironically the kind of person that makes me feel uncomfortable for going to the gym
Exactly... Tired of going to gym because of these tiny little brains.. dedicating to calisthenics at home anyways
Ah yes, the Starbucks addict in the Target yoga pants with a tripod that sets up sting operations in order to entrap males and publicly humiliate them for personal gain. I know the type.
@@dawid_1021 gym tok ruined the gym
These chicks know nobody is watching them for their work-outs.
They're gonna have to create 2 sides of the gym. The one side that turns it into a TV set with all the Tik Toks & pictures and videos and the other side that actually just wants to exercise and get tf outta there.
0:19 that is the most insane sleeper build I have seen
@HannibalKing-e7e ok hannibal king whatever you say
@HannibalKing-e7e bro why are u so triggered🤣
Ur probably built like a twig (also living in ur mom's basment), plus he said he keeps himself lean which means he chooses to look like that, plus he is actually pretty well built.
@HannibalKing-e7e you plateau so quickly in gyms bud, unless you aren't natural/have crazy genetics/eat like crazy and work out like crazy for two hours a day......
I hate how Tik Tok trends turn polite and genuine people into creeps, and the whole mess discourages people from interacting with someone for fear of being ridiculed or accused of harassment. this is a whole new level of bullying and I REALLY hate it
Really brings the highschool out of the highschool, as if anyone needed that.
The Kingdom of God is at Hand
John 3:16
King James Version
16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
@@DHunter_47 Your murderous cult is dying at the hands of its own followers, cope
This be why us guys gotta be super duper extra careful these days. One woman lies or falsely accuses us and we’re done for. These days nobody waits for due process like with Johnny Depp and just assume guilt because you’re a man.
It doesn't though. It just makes the douche filming look really awkward. Who the fuck overthinks "hey, are you using that equipment ?" lmao
The fact she thinks 21 is ‘underaged’ shows how sheltered she is
Agreed
The term "snowflake" gets thrown around so much to the point it's lost most of its meaning, but it sure as fucking hell applies real nicely to this bitch
She hates being sexualized yet has an onlyfans and post thirst traps on IG 😂
@@void6573REALLY
I’ve seen people joking online for a while claiming to be adult age minors so at first I thought she’s joking and maybe she is but sometimes it’s easy to forget some people do think like this. Like those jokes started for a reason. I knew a guy who claimed just because he was 25 didn’t mean he was an adult
Edit: for the folks saying he was right, unless you’re in the sort of transition point between teenager and adult you can’t pretend you’re not actually an adult just because you don’t feel like one. I know it’s devastating but it’s true
Charlie flexing his bicep was the closest real-life thing I’ve seen to a Popeyes cartoon
He got that sleeper build fr 😭
And here i thought i was more ripped than Charlie
@@coldestbeer no one can beat him, not even me. im a little rock to this mf god
@@coldestbeer you probably are bro he’s small no offence to him
@@weirdchamp4601 ong he’s overrated
He is jesus
Gyms should have a no filming policy. Simple as that. These TikTokers are ridiculous.
Another thing both Joey and Charlie haven’t brought up is that these people might have whole ass stands, lights, duffel bags, and some may even have cameras instead of a phone. Having a whole ass movie set for your lifts is going to bring attention to you.
Exactly if you have a whole ass setup people will be curious to know why and oh no, might glance in your general direction to find out
Literal onlyfans models shooting promo in the tightest of clothes with an entire setup complaining about slight glances. I hate it here.
@@nymade4130 literally their mentality is “ I can’t be a fucking slutty whore in my public gym without someone looking🙄”
@@nymade4130 This. These types of people act like people simply looking in their general direction is a crime, yet seem to go out of their way to be the biggest attention grabber in a 100-mile radius. Clothes are never an excuse for actually bad behavior, but if you're wearing the bare minimum with a full-on movie setup around you in a public place, people are gonna look in your general direction from time to time, and that's not a crime.
Another thing i don't get is why they need to wear the tightest cloth possible. Like DUH a guy might glance at you. Those women shouldn't be allowed to wear that to a gym. Imagine a guy wearing such tight shorts . Guys also just want to focus without having visual distraction right in front of them.
As someone with pretty bad social anxiety, she is precisely the type of person I’m afraid of encountering
ture!!! the girl that said that she should rip his dick off,HOW is that NOT SEXUAL HARASSMENT
Same.
Why u just give em the finger
@@enclavelieutenant8614 where do you put the finger?
Saaame
5:00 wtf is an underage 21 year old? You can literally drink and smoke and drive, you’re multiple years above the legal adult age??
The real creepy part is the fact that these people likely spent hours analyzing every behavior of these random people that they’ve secretly recorded. This should honestly be a crime
lol I didnt even think about the people making these videos would have to actively be watching everyone and creeping on them XD
It is in the EU :)
@@bobobobobbbbo Even worse. A gym is not in fact a public space. Most gyms are private owned.
The gym isn't a public place. It is illegal in most places
Fun fact.. if you're not participating in Social Media you will never know they do that. It's like a conversation they have in their head. It doesn't matter, lol.
I even heard about a blind guy that was accused of staring at a gym. After he told her and the one of the staff members that he wasn't staring because he was blind they were still outraged.
I love blind surfer pete
sounds like a fake story, but maybe NA is just built different 🤷♂
The Blind Surfer Pete Gustin? He recounted a story like this, said he even presented them with proof he's blind (some sort of ID card IIRC), and the manager said something like "well you still can't make people uncomfortable by staring at them". When he literally cannot even tell if he's staring at someone.
@@yungzyonTV we don't care
@@nalinea18 average west gym
“This is why I don’t want kids” honestly good, because god knows how bad of a mother she would be
Atleast she's not ruining an innocent child's life for being a shit mother so that's good
"mom can u stop arguing with people online and eat dinner with us"
true..
@@vibescake2175 HAHAHAAH
@@vibescake2175 "I think you could use even more 'em broccoli, kid... I mean sweetie. 😊 Mommy's gotta do another appology video before dinner, so that most people will forgive her sooner or later."
that flex at the beginning made my eye pop out of my head
"don't want kids"
"natural selection better take the weirdos out"
This is amazing, just *chefs kiss*
Sometimes the jokes write themselves
Bahaha didn't even catch that. Amazing
@@jeanpitre5789 lol
Well she has an OF so nobody wants that anyway.
The best one was "underage 21 year old" how u underage and 21
Stuff like this pisses me off because real harassment is still a thing. Some gyms will inevitably have creepy people. Setting up fake scenarios for clout does nothing but laugh in the face of people's actual experiences.
The world will get more crazier man. I’m glad that I train at home
Yeah, it’s this horrid trend we’ve reached of people online essentially fantasising about being SA/SH victims and making up these wildly exaggerated situations in their head, but also POSTING THEM ONLINE? Like how braindead and insulting can you be?
Key word: people! Tired of people acting like women don’t harass men or even other women because it happens frequently!
It’s also just fucked up for the innocent people being posted online and portrayed as creeps for thousands to see
i agree. i have tourettes and i feel the same for those shitty petty clout chasers faking having tourettes making it a funny matter when its not. it made my life hell as a kid in school i always got fucked with. and for people to fake it and laugh on camera for fame and attention just realy makes my blood boil
this happened to a friend of mine, some girl approached him and asked him to stop being a creep when he literally just had his headphones in and was getting through his workout as normal. he's a regular at that gym and is there 4-5 times a week, there was literally nothing special about this person that had him doing anything but his usual 50-min routine. honestly some people really need to work on themselves rather than focus on being the center of their own universe
yea social media, mainly tiktok imo, has made so many people feel so entitled. ur right like just focus on yourself and stop craving attention my goodness
Let me guess, girl was a generation z?
At least she is honest and direct. Now a honest reaction and we have decent interaction going
@Robert Joseph Most likely. I’m so disgusted with my generation. I feel so distant from people as is. I would apologise on behalf of Gen Z, but I don’t give enough damns about Gen Z to even want to associate myself with it more than I have to. Fuck the way this society is going…and people said Millennials were too much…
Well, what did your friend say in response?
6:17 hilarious how she says she feels uncomfortable because she was looked at in the gym, and then she proceeds to upload a video of her doing an exercise with the camera aimed DIRECTLY AT HER ASS
As someone with social anxiety, this is the kind of stuff I think always goes through people's heads if I ever acknowledge their existence with a glance. Knowing that there are people out there like this makes it worse for me
The first one has a only fans
I'm with you on that! Worries me everytime I make eye contact with someone! "Do they think I was staring at them when I just glanced over? Do they think I'm a creep now cause of that?!"
same, i might have a problem as i do it so much i unknowingly avoid looking people in the eyes when i talk to them. or is that normal?, i dont know anymore.
I used to be like that, i kind of still am, but in the end overthinking stuff like this is just gonna drive you insane. In the end you can't control what people think of you, you don't know how their head works, so why bother?
Look people in the eyes
Smile when you greet them
Speak clearly so they can hear
It's perfectly normal, in fact it's the bare minnimum. And if someone has a problem with it it's their fault.
@@bobthespam I am sort of like that. Not when someone is talking to me or me them, because I've always been in the belief that eye contact comes with talking. But otherwise I avoid looking at people.
Well said Charlie. People are so narcissistic these days it’s truly terrifying.
So many bots 😭
Honestly I think nowadays it’s just being recorded there isn’t any more of it
@Red Star 🅥 it’s trash tho
Yea
And many of them don't seem to aware what they doing is bad/wrong, and post it to mass. Which is somewhat a good thing, public notice it fast and call them.
0:21 The fact he had to photoshop it to look smaller for our sanity really shows how much of a legend Charlie is
He knew we couldn’t handle his manly muscles
I'm still shocked over that sleeper build 😂
He's pretty cut actually. Never would have guessed.
did he actually? wow
you mean videoshopped
0:35 would love that
Lmao
Woah there
Ayo
He’s every guys dream
👁️👁️
3:28 he’s actually doing a pretty good job of not constantly staring at a person un-subtly muttering weird insults
Very true
It’s more weird that she’s talking to herself. He was probably wondering who she was talking to or if she was talking to him. Plus some of the stuff she was whispering like “feral, feral, feral, f*cking feral” absolutely would garner some attention from anyone within hearing distance. Not to mention that but anyone filming kinda gets your attention anyway because you wonder what they’re doing, if you’re in the shot, etc.
@@oceangravy799 ikr, dude would rather stare at the phone recording him
@@oceangravy799 yes, exactly what I was thinking. If you are talking to yourself I'm probably going to keep an eye on you !
Yeah, that would get an eyebrow raised glance from me. I can only assume she has a few screws loose and could attack someone unprovoked.
He was probably wondering how she hadn’t managed a rep of 50 Kg in 15 minutes, or the fact she was intensely talking to herself.
i would have walked up and asked if she was OK. since it's really strange behavior. then again i guess those are the types of people you should avoid.
@@JewTube001 you would be labelled as a creep by her if u walked up 😅😂
@@ashwinabraham2 if you have eyes you are a creep
Very strange woman.
💯
Honestly the guy getting called out for being new and not knowing how to act is a source of my own anxiety. I've only ever done workouts at home because I'm afraid I'll step on toes or come across as the new weirdo just for wandering around. I'm glad to see the behaviour is being called out and hopefully addressed in the community
Don't be fooled to think this behavior is new, rampant and accepted in the gym. Many of the swole guys who show empathy and compassion at the gym have the best attitude because they too understand how it is to be that new small/skinny person at the gym. Also at this point many of us who are respectful at the gym are just going to put on our headphones and mind our own business unless something major comes up.
No one actually acts like this, that’s why these videos blow up whenever someone acts like a gym Karen. Because it’s not normal. And even if you were to step on somebody’s toes, most people wouldn’t mind. There’s no time limit, if you have to wait an extra minute because someone took your weight or is in your way, most people wouldn’t care enough to tell you off.
Usually people at the gym who are real big and swole are some of the friendliest and are even eager to help you out
@@discipleofdagon8195 True gigachads help others
I once was staring cause I needed a spot and I wanted to ask but I was getting weird vibes just for doing that so I asked the dude on my right who helped me in two seconds and the interaction was done.
I think these people are so self centered and used to social media attention that they think everyone wants them.
8:59 me after a wizard curses me to whenever i say "reality" a cat appears on the nearest cat tree
This just goes to show how weird social media has made people.
Not only that, but allowing weird people to have a place to frame "Weird people"
people have alwaus been this weird. social media gave them a way to self snitch.
Woman not people just woman
Dude Charlie where have you been this is liberal country now baby and I can explain to you what is happening in the world but I can’t understand it for you bud. This could be a product of the girl hating men cause all she sees on the internet is the bashing of men which comes from the left profusely also rape culture (not real) she could be thinking of that I mean I couldn’t even imagine being a little girl growing up in the world today
Well considering he looked at her a couple of times while she was constantly looking at him without a break to catch him looking.Wasn't she the one staring then?
@@DoDo-lf2gw no no that makes too much sense
This is part of the reason the gym I go to has a very strict "No filming or recording" clause with their membership. If you're caught filming for any reason, you can be banned, and I have actually seen this happen. it sucks to see this happen at the gym, a place where people are going to literally better themselves and they can't even do that without this kind of shit happening.
I mean, you can just take pictures or videos outside the gym
@@christophermoore6110 how do I review my form outside the gym?
@@bouclechocolat You ever heard of things called friends? no? ah my bad.
@@Long-Horse that was a bad argument....
@@Long-Horse spoken like a true weakling. many athletes need to record their sets to send to their coaches/trainers.
As someone who zones out a lot and accidentally stares people down, this scares me. I’m already terrified of being filmed without my consent and now we have tiktoker who believe that breathing in your direction is creepy.
at this point i dont care anymore i just stare at the wall
"If he has eyes, he's a creep"
Basically.
You just keep on spacing out! You ain't doing nothing wrong
I’ve always had a problem with spacing out and staring. It sucks cause people ALWAYS call me out for it and tell me I’m a freak and shit. It sucks lol but what can you do 🤣
“If a man looks in my direction, he’s checking me out and therefore he is a creep”
3:50 I think he was actually looking over her way because he saw her tripod setup and he wanted to see if he was in the frame. I do that too. I know people film in the gym and I don't necessarily think it should be outlawed, but it is distracting to me and my workout when I know I am in someone's shot. He probably sees that he is in the background and she's acting weird so he's not looking at HER, he is observing what she is doing for his own protection.
We honestly need more gyms to enforce a no filming/pictures rule
Absolutely! Who wants to be filmed at the gym?
The fact this hasn’t been policy already is mind blowing...
Well I think that taking photos in the gym while you pose is a good thing so that you can track your progress and gives you more self esteem, of course always with respect of others
No I don’t even ever take pictures in the gym but it’s important to some people so why take that from them
@@federic06g67 just wait til you get home
The fact that filming people in public without their consent has nearly become the norm is fucking horrifying
In public it is legal to do so. On private property it is not legal.
@@dpurdyciv4417 norm = morality, not legality.
Horrifying? Seriously? It’s just weird, not horrifying. What are you even doing in public that you would be horrified if filmed 😂? Stop overreacting.
@@jacksonmiller7745 somebody is coping
@Jackson Miller it is scary though. You can't even have your own opinion online without risk of people trying to cancel you. Imagine you're out with friends just messing around and one of you makes a joke that with no other context seems extremely offensive or in poor taste, that gets recorded and spread around. I've seen people lose thier job over less.
As a woman who likes to go to the gym from time to time, these women are doing nothing but making it harder for us. Now I have to be afraid that I may need help, and the men around me would be too afraid, because I might call them creeps afterwards.
Some people really believe 'creep until proven otherwise'. Tbf when ya got stalkers, catcallers gropers and worse you have to look out for its understandable but man. I just wanna be left alone, please don't lump me in with those assholes.
Unless if a man’s not doing anything out of the ordinary. Never apologize for something you did not do.
@@BigCarris_53_64 she's not, u misunderstood the comment. she's not saying that she's going to call them a creep, she's saying that the women who post these kinds of videos make the men in her gym feel as if she would say that when just being friendly/helping.
100% I wouldn’t help you unless on the verge of losing your life. You can thank these women for it. Good luck and don’t over lift.
@@hmkily hey, I get that. As a man myself, what Jacob Yerkes did just make other men look BAD! It’s ridiculous! I misunderstood it just a little! Women can be creeps, too! Not just only men!
Most replayed @0:14: Charlie flexes
the worst part of this "trend" is that its making the actual problem of getting harassed at the gym be taken less seriously
it really doesn't tho,all its doing is pointing out the chronically online women that want attention. how would someone that's actualy a creep get taken less seriously
Not the worst in any way. The worst is that these people could actively cause harm to people they're accusing of false harrassment.
Man gets falsely accused. Women most affected.
@@1Plebeian ok buddy if you say so
@@vanniisvain not my words
The thing I find mind boggling in these situations is that the people say they are uncomfortable with being observed, yet the majority have a camera pointed directly at their behind.
Right? Like your okay with ppl seeing your full ass on camera but get scared when someone looks in your direction..?
Thats what brings the most views :) It has to be Skin tight....
I’ve never seen women do anything else at the gym besides hip thrusts
Goes to gym wearing paint job. Gets offended when the wrong people look
then you‘re obviously not a gym goer and just watch tiktoks about it lol @yinggamer7
I think the two years of being locked indoors has really done a number on people knowing how to behave socially
Fr
The past two years has been the biggest social experiment ever.
It really has.
Yeah, specially with the weird way ppl are online, between the fake stories, the way they tell you you have to be, the black or white way of seeing the world...Then they go outside and everything is a shock, or weird, or creepy, etc
All these years of being a lonely loser paid off.. 2 years? Try being on year 8! I think the people you’re talking about are extremely stupid to begin with
11:03 he totally could also just be worried she'll think he's weird if he uses the machine right behind her while she's squatted like that, and is making her aware that he wants to use it so she can face a different direction or something.
I like how she’s the “victim” for being glanced at, yet she’s filming him.
Women™
Isn't she just filming herself though?
@@tamagogohann not if I can see him in the background
She was only filming because he was staring
@@influenzzza please stop coping on behalf of obvious attention whores
After working at a gym for 13 years, these people have always existed. They’re just able to film it to an audience now. The “I want all the attention, but I don’t want people looking at me” people. Lol
I think they’re called women
The girl of the "outfit" is basically saying to herself "look how i look hot in this outfit"...
@@adrianc6534 no need to generalize a large group of people and show your insecurity through misogyny Adrian🤍
@@sk8aintstr813 well said
@@adrianc6534 What do you think is the more likely possibility:
Literally half of the human race is genetically inclined towards this behaviour
or
Youve had a few bad experiences with women and are bitter and resentful and so extrapolate those experiences onto billions?
As a straight dude, I find myself staring at the ripped guys in the gym rather than the girls cause I'm like "one day I'll be like that"
Hah, Gayyyyyy!
As an anti-social sociopath I only stare at the machines, thinking, "I need to finish this soon so I can move away from people."
@@Helicidae Wanting to become a painter and observing painters doesn't make you paintersexual, in the same way, this doesn't make him gay.
@@Helicidae wow you're so hilarious, i cant believe it!!!! That joke had me rolling on the floor screaming for 2 hours!!! Except not
@@Helicidae are you coming out?
maybe we dont ask what Sigmund Freud was thinking about this...
These people probably think that the “weirdos” can see cancer in someone. I MEAN ITS JUST A GLANCE
What makes this really suck is that it can make things harder for people that have actually been harassed at the gym…it creates a stigma.
yeah or just harassed in general
As usual.
Just like calling everything racism, nazism, abuse, ADHD, OCD or Autism.
People overuse it, and then when you actually suffer these things, people don't take it serious.
If anything she is the one starring at him
@@Rocket_Man. She's staring at and filming him, but he glances in her direction and is in the wrong. What the fk? Some people need some serious mental help.
@@solitarysage6848 aye, the lad was probably thinking TF is she filming
As soon as Charlie flexed his muscles I trembled in fear
Bro scared the shit outta me
bro got 5 replies and 4 of them are bots tf is youtube doing 💀💀
😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@PUNKISTCHUY RUclips doesn't care about comments. To be honest, it's more people to serve ads too 😉
he wasn't kidding about that jumpscare my jaw dropped
The bicep flex was not only a jump scare, but also a new discovery telling me just how ripped this guy is.
Not really ripped, but he is is lean and has some actual solid muscle in contrary to most streamers
@@mauriciomeyer627 no homo but I’m tryna see those abs
No he is actually shredded hard to guess his body fat % but it’s definitely at the leaner end ripped means lean which means low body fat % how you gonna say not really ripped I wonder how ripped you are Mauricio
He's more buff than ripped. Though he's still in better shape than I am.
@@MrREAPERsz he’s definitely not buff, I’d say toned is more suitable
this is why i'm usually afraid to generally look around me, because people make a scene of it so I just end up staring at a wall or what i'm doing unfortunately
her: "natural selection better take the wierdos OUT"
also: her: *disappears*
Literally my thought too when I saw that sentence XD
Just like Marty Mcfly from Back to the Future 😂
The irony
@@bothermenone you don't know what natural selection is?
her: "natural selection better take the wierdos OUT"
"friendly fire will not be tolorated"
I also want to kinda point something out as someone who’s seen filming in gyms. The people filming aren’t covertly doing it they often have a tripod rig set up for stability. So sometimes you might look at the rig and see it’s filming a person and subconsciously because of that you tend to look at what the person is doing. The gender Doesn’t matter
yes exactly, its hard not to notice the full stabilizer and lighting setup some of these oddballs have.
Not to mention most of the clips had the girls' ass displayed loud and proud for the camera. Not to say there's anything wrong with that but if you're talking about how much you hate people "looking at you" yet you post clips to the internet with your ass as the main focal point. I can promise you're going to get 10x the sexual harassment you thought you were getting in the gym on the internet. I'm not trying to debate whether that's right or wrong I just have a hard time believing someone in this instance. This sucks because I'm sure sexual harassment has happened with the girl in a provocative position like that. However the more of these I see the more I tend to lean towards it's just the trendy new thing to do VS that guy is fucked up and needs to be kicked out.
Also i kinda get when people just glance over ur chilling working out suddenly u notice a tripod and camera pointing ur way last thing u wanna do is get all nervous and mess up thinking it can go online (prolly just me I have social anxiety and get nervous when cameras are pointing at me)
That was exactly what I was thinking when I was watching his gaze. He was probably just curious and maybe thought she was a streamer or maybe recording her form.
When the gym is even moderately busy, it's almost impossible NOT to look like you're staring at people. Unless you stare at the ceiling or the floor, you're going to be looking at someone.
I'm also just tired of people equating looking at someone to harassment or sexual misconduct. More often than not, people using this line of thinking are full of shit. I'd say someone looking at you is only harassment in very specific contexts.
oh and don't forget how some gyms have mirrors everywhere so no matter where you look you will definitely be looking at someone 🤣 some females need to stay at home 🤷🏻♀️
Look at floor, look at the machine you're going to use next while walking to it and look at yourself in the mirror. Everyone else is irrelevant
@anakatana5943 I believe these people are asking for burkhas at the moment.
@@G0DH4ND why would we or ANYONE want to stare at the floor especially when most times I just disassociate in between sets so there is no specific thought going on, and even still I’ve looked at plenty of people simply curious as to how they do their workout or how much weight they just did on a lat pull-down we are inherently curious creatures in no way is that creepy unless taken to an extreme
Pro tip: Once you turn 50, don't go near any public beach unless you keep a bag over your head the whole time.
And keep your phone in your pocket wherever you are. I'm sporting a titanium shoulder and elbow for nothing more than carrying a phone in the open at a flea market.
“This is why I don’t want kids.”
“Natural selection better take the weirdos out!”
She’s already playing her part by not bringing more of her kind into the world.
"Congratulations, you played yourself"
Mostly they say "weirdo" when men are not goodlooking which is really mean.
Hate to break it to her but that guy is probably the last person being taken out by natural selection.
taking herself out of the gene pool early
She said she was an underage 21 year old. 😂
They need to enact a no recording policy at gyms. Would love to see how many people are still “passionate” about working out when they can’t film it to make weird content like this for their social media
Most gyms do, you just gotta say something because they aren’t paying attention. If you bring up privacy concern and possibly threaten civil/legal action they will enforce it.
Having a friend or another gym goer film your set is a great way to spot and correct mistakes in form though
I live in Australia and gyms are often packed and I have never seen someone filming in a gym, I guess it’s a uniquely American thing
This.
@@dergons Agreed, but these influencers are the reason why we can't have nice things.
Can we all just acknowledge the irony of being "creeped out" by some guy at the gym, while simultaneously sharing your entire life online to who knows how many creepers
Amazing analogy
Most creeps would be much more comfortable doing creepy stuff behind a screen.
She also has OnlyFans. Let that sink in.
@@perheriita2723 What she did here is wrong, but onlyfans is irrelevant. Different scenarios.
@@vlisto3712 No it's not, Its even worse. She literally sells her body, how is that different? She over here concerned about the "male gaze" yet she post pics for exactly that.
Filming yourself for thousands of people (probably many actual perverts) then complaining about one random person glancing is mind blowing
That's what I was thinking lmao, especially the angle that they film from, the hypocrisy 😂
Yea they’re E-thots what else do you expect.
People are so weirdly detatched from their content if they get attention / numbers / money from it on the web .. it's wild.
It gets even way worse when you realize she has an Onlyfans
YES!!!!
I like how they act like people are creeps just glancing in their direction, while filming their whole dumpy the entire time…
As a bigger guy who already feels ashamed to actually GO to the gym, this only makes it worse. It already takes a load of confidence to take those steps into the gym and keep up the routine, now people are going out of their way to attack just normal people in the gym
Just keep going my dude. And don't feel ashamed. You are there for a reason. As long as you train hard and with a good form. People will respect that.
Fr I’m introverted af I go at like 3 am there’s normally only one other guy there we both wear our headphones and don’t even acknowledge each other’s existence it’s perfect. And no offense but the gym is the best place for bigger guys to be. U should feel ashamed about waiting in a fast food line or something not going to the gym. Who cares what those ppl think anyway there not your friends u never have to talk with them or interact with them if u don’t want to. I’ll never understand why ppl get self conscious because some random person they will prob never see again is judging them idk I’m just wired different I guess.
Trust me it's worth it,I used to be quite the big guy myself being about 290 pounds but after going to the gym for a few years I lost the weight and it is one of the best decisions I ever made
Don’t be afraid or ashamed, many started like you. Real ones will recognise you for it. The more positive you are, the better the responses you will get 🙏
I also am nervous to goto gyms, so I bought adjustable dumbbells, a bench and a pull-up bar to use at home. Don't usually comment, but just wanted to let you know that you're not alone with those feelings. Good luck dude🤘
The fact that charlie just flexing his arm jumpscared me goes to show how unbelievably underestimated charlie is.
Exactly, got me shook.
Sleeper build
sleeper build
@@kuipt5672 honestly. Could be a meta build tbh
You people are pretty sad
The fact that she says "He should go to jail for staring at an underaged 21-year-old" makes less sense when you consider that even if she was 16 or 17, nothing he does is inherently creepy either in that case.
He is not asking for her age, asking her out, or even staring. He is just treating her like a normal patron at a gym indiscriminate of age/gender.
She should be grateful that she has never encountered a real creep like some of us have..
@@lilyluhtwizzy for real, that is actually unsettling
i think the “underage 21 year old” was a joke though i feel like i’ve heard that before on tiktok. still agree with you tho
@@alliekhani7873 i hope so lmao
you know what’s funny? she has an OnlyFans 😂
I honestly think its soo weird when people film themselves in changing rooms, like even if im done changing i still don't wanna end up on a random persons tiktok, the girls in my class constantly film in the changing rooms and get mad when smb confronts them
As an underage 40 year old man I approve her apology
take my like sir
Is it sarcasm or a gramatically english correct sentence? How can you be underage and 40 at the same time?
@@apokkalyps6 watch the video and you will understand, before commenting..
@@apokkalyps6 i think the joke is he's saying he's underage at 40 which means he's more than wrong which means by approving the apology he says the girl is dumb
A girl actually did this in my local fitness world. And everyone and I MEAN EVERYONE looked at her with the faces of disgust. My friend who works there and is a guy, asked her if she could stop filming. And she responded with like a very offended and loud "WHY?"
People in the gym just responded with all sorts of remarks, like you're being annoying, you're just a poser, that sorta stuff. Until she sorta... Cried back to the locker room and went home a few minutes later.
I felt both great and awkward over the situation.
There needs to be more of that. They need to learn a lesson.
@@kylem1112 Too much worry of upseting people! I was taught as a child that "Sticks and stones can break my bones but words should never hurt me" or something along those lines and it stuck.
yha probably cause they seen videos like this one and know these girls just wants attention but good for you're gym though as most will probably do the opposite and kick your friend out.
That's why I love my gym , rule : "No cell phones allowed" in our gym.
Filming in a gym is just disgusting creepy. A lot of people already have to "force" themselves, fearing of being judged and whatnot, we don't need people filming in there. Just gtfo
The only phone thing allowed in my gym is, changing your music or whatever and then you put it back into your pocket.
This is why I am glad my brother built us a gym in our garage. Both of us were janitors at different gyms for most of a year and the shit people would get up to was mind boggling.
I'd love to hear more
Got any stories to share? I'd love to hear them
Story time
Yeah my dad and I have put together a nice setup in his garage and it is sooo much better. I sometimes go to the gym with my buddies every once in a while but yeah home gym > public every time
I actually dated this girl… I posted some insider info
I always planned to have a home gym in the future, but about 2 years ago I started compiling equipment because I just couldn’t stand public gyms anymore. I miss the gym camaraderie between the 95% of people who are good people just getting their workout in. It’s that new 5% who’ve absolutely poisoned everything
4:19 "underage 21 yo"
but the golden part is where she has "natural selection better take the weirdos out" right beside "this is why i dont want kids"
If she doesn’t want kids it’s because she still thinks like one
At least she doesn't want kids, can you imagine how absolute vile and horrific her parenting skills are?
somehow I think after this video , I don't think she is in danger of having kids anytime soon.
@@Tinyoak2 thankfully
She didn't even spell "weirdos" correctly 😂😂😂
The scariest part of this is that they've filmed it so that people could recognize the guys irl, and didn't even consider blocking out the faces for their privacy. Just think, anyone could film you in any location (even a locker room/bathroom) at any time without even caring about your consent, and your face could be plastered all over Tiktok and the rest of the internet without your knowledge.
That’s sadly very common. There was one years ago of kids who filmed a fast food worker and claimed she was being rude to them. This poor girl (who was only 2 or 3 years older than the teens) was mocked for a while till someone told her about it and she made her own tiktok claiming the kids were being disrespectful and with proof. If no one had told her she might have continued being mocked. Or people found out who she was and went to make fun of her. That’s just one of the first I remember happening
Depends on the laws of your country. In Many places that would be illegal.
that's just the dangers of being in public.
Horrors of our times
Clearly the don't give one f*** about anyone else's safety or privacy, they only care about making viral content...
I'm so happy that Joey got the shout out and recognition he deserves in this video. The dude is doing some great stuff to making a better gym culture
Joey is the dude.
He calls stuff like this out, calls out people bullying new people at the gym and wants to encourage a welcoming culture.
@@yungzyonTV 🤡
What else are you supposed to do at a gym, they’re also looking around watching other people and ACTIVELY JUDGING THEM. Also some of these people bring ring lights to record so like obviously you’re gonna stare in confusion. Another thing I’ve learned from people talking about delivering presentations is that people can look over a crowd and it will look like they’re looking into it at the people when in reality they’re staring at the back wall
Holy shit. Charlie is the living embodiment of that anime character that looks frail until he flexes and his clothes all tear off. Damn.
He's the real life Ned Flanders
He could be the real world Saitama, except instead of being bald, Charlie has his glorious mane.
the Dumbell's anime ?
I thought he was joking till he flexed his arm and I nearly spat out my coffee
roshi mode
As an extremely shy gym bro, I have always been terrified of someone even thinking I'm looking at them while there. To think I could be considered a creep by everyone at the gym I go to all the time for getting a towel to wipe my machine is awful af
Ah well ngl you just have to stop caring about what others do think. It’s that simple. Whatever your gym goal , all the other eyes in the gym can be watching but at the end of the day , do what you came to do , which is get in shape. Take whatever anxiety you have and use it as fuel, if they want to watch fine, let their states be the thing that turn you into a Greek god in front of them
dont worry bro, most people dont care about you in the GYM because they are focused with their goals. to be considered a creep you would need to be caught staring like 5+ times the same person
What i remind myself is only i know what my intentions are. So whatever false judgements people may make, i realize that i am above them
You should stop worrying about what women think, man
You are allowed to look at me huffing and puffing trying to get my hunt away
As a very small 17 year old girl myself, it totally makes sense to feel a little intimidated by bigger grown men who you don't know. It is not their fault that they LOOK intimidating to you though. They did nothing to deserve being accused of harassment for simply being in the same room as you. If you are uncomfortable, you leave. Go somewhere else. It was weird how these girls didn't just get up and leave. These men are not "feral", "weirdos", and they don't deserve to get their "pp ripped out" for simply existing. If you are uncomfortable going to a place that is usually full of strong men, don't go. Buy your own workout equipment to use at home.
Agree completely. Or you know what? Instead of stewing in that weird social anxiety and trying to read super deep into the kinesics of guys you haven’t even shared a sentence with, try to clear the air and say something to relieve that stress. People these days are so entitled to think they don’t need to start social engagement. You’re the one dealing with all of this anxiety around people. Deal with it yourself and don’t stew in hate and think you’re at odds with someone constantly. Those people don’t CARE about you enough to even formulate an opinion of you.
As many things these days, this video points out how social media has boosted narcissism in people. This lady is off her rocker. And maybe it would have happened regardless if she didn’t have a little audience for her to constantly reaffirm her misguided warped view of the world, but it definitely didn’t make it any better.
As a 16 year old girl, I feel so anxious around adult men 😭 I know not every stranger adult guy is a weirdo but still they’re so intimidating. But yeah I don’t accuse people of being pedophiles for looking at me. Instead I just go to ‘women only’ gyms and avoid unneeded interaction
In every sport I've been practicing, boxing, judo, free diving everyone has been very welcoming and helpful to new people who wants to try it out. I've only been to a gym a couple of times and the staff has been like that. The people who goes to gyms are more reserved but very polite and helpful if I talked to someone. I think the difference is that you get to know everyone in your sports club quite fast but at the gym they don't have that club thing. When you don't know the people you workout with I guess it becomes natural to throw glances at the big or beautiful men and women rather than talk to them as colleagues.
@@hi-il7ug are you joking. No one cares what you do. It’s actually quite self centred and touching on narcissistic to think every man wants to stare at you.
You are a clearly a very intelligent young lady 👍. Sometimes I worry about the next generation but its refreshing to see that there are still young people not afraid to think for themselves. 👍
Terrible if you're new to a gym and just being polite and asking if a machine is free gets you on tik tok
I don't think enough credit goes toward joey and the effort he puts in trying to debunk these videos and trying to keep the Gym a Gym friendly place.
He is a saint
He's a total dawg. Bros singlehandedly keeping gym etiquette alive
@Patrick39 ok
I really love his positivity stuff, but he's also a big crypto guy who got a lot of people into it before it crashed...
Hear, hear! 🙌
He's a very positive influence on anyone trying to get in better shape. He also equally focuses on the positive and negative and is transparent about his own stuff. Need more such influencers.
I’m so glad you shouted out Joey Swoll. That guy is one of the kindest, most genuine content creators out there. Just an all around great representative for the community
Least he could do is should him out. Basically copying Joey's content and doing a worse version of it.
@@alugificator do a little more research, bud
@@alugificator Of all the things to get up in arms for and you choose to get mad at charlie? Not these idiot gym people? weird as hell
@@teamleaf8837 Research what, exactly? He's taking vids directly from Joey Swoll, removing Joey's commentary, and inserting his own commentary which is basically saying the exact same thing.
@@GravityTurn No one's mad, but I think it's worth pointing out when someone is profiting off recycling someone else's content.
Her apology is even more despicable and all to avoid being canceled. She only did it because so many people called her out.
☕️
typical
She also was about to lose a "major" upcoming sponsorship. (Who wants to sponsor someone like that and what for anyway?!). She is completely and utterly dishonest.Garbage human being.
I mean you can’t get any more honest than that. If she said anything else it would clearly be a lie as she had no fuckin clue before. So I liked her apology
Yes, and the ‘underage 21-yo’ thing is an ‘inside joke’, she later said. I’m not in the TikTok incrowd I’d guess 😂
I love how you point out these dumb things and you are genuine and funny at the same time. And also beautiful cat
That truly was a jump scare, Charlie. thank you. only more fuel for my own Body Improvement
This shocked the fuck out of me. Why is no one else talking about this?
@@ProtonFission cause we've known
@@ProtonFission right? Would not have guessed Charlie had guns
Dude really is in stealth mode
@OnSmashMedia aw shit you're right man self improvement is so cringe isn't it
I screamed so loud my neighbor came knocking on my door.
As someone with social anxiety, a fear of these exact kinds of situations is why I've spent thousands setting up a gym in my apartment.
I can understand that. These TikTok videos though I don’t
Yup. Same here.
GO FIGURE DOOT FINGUS
I have straight up just closed my eyes at the gym at times because I do not want to see these people
I have anxiety too. I feel as if I look like a maniac to people. Always looking around in order to not make eye contact with anybody and when I walk next to somebody (especially next to female) I am literally suffocating. Scared of even breath 😂 feels bad man
As a male who goes to the gym 5 days a week, it almost feels like I'm forced to play a game of not looking at anyone. I'm just there to go to the gym work out and go home I'm so sick of this social media generation always taking vids in public spaces. I feel like its destroying my social skills and giving me anxiety.
Seriously man it’s awful like especially at the gym where it’s a place where everyone is accepted as there is a common goal. Its not a place to take pictures or post videos to publicly shame someone just so you can get a few likes.
Once you find your chick, you can do you and screw the rest! Fuck what they think they don’t pay your bills
Do whatever you want. If anyone got a problem with you just looking like a normal human being, just tell them to fuck off and do not disturb you. Better yet just train at a proper gym, a powerlifting/strongman/oldschool bb one
Try to find a male only gym but they are very rare and are often under religious banner.
@@knagen In general I agree but another huuuge problem this doesn't address is that these are posted online publicly, often leading to them being harassed- both online and irl, and/or even 'just' being labelled as perverts/sex offenders etc.
its ironic how they call them creeps for looking at them, while they put their buts in the camera that take up 50% of the whole thing
They know. This is a pretend game. These chicks and dudes, all look in the mirror before even going to the gym. They know other humans do not typically wear clothing so tight and revealing out of modesty. They also know they want everyone to see their body, that's why they spend their time squatting. Everyone looks at everyone, that's how we don't bump into each other.
they're in the wrong...but its called consent they want the camera to see their butt (or maybe they just dont care if the camera sees their butt) but a random stranger looks at their butt and is staring at it then its weird
@@vanillauwu1844 I'm going to help you out with a huge lesson in life. No one needs consent to look at another human. That's what your eyes are for, looking. If you think another human has to request consent to look at any of part of your body in public, you're not operating in reality. Here's the test, how would you ask for consent to look at them without looking at them already? Have you ever asked for consent to look at another human in your life?
@@Unedited43795 you know what I mean??? you know it's weird to stare at a stranger's butt in public right?
@@vanillauwu1844 yea its obviously weird if someone stares, but they're filming themselves in that area
It absolutely blows my mind how these people film themselves specifically to be seen and watched by millions of strangers, yet they pretend to be absolutely disgusted when a stranger even glances towards their general direction irl lmao...
Good point
My exact thought
It might be because making videos like these gets them attention, which is the goal. Just a thought.
It's like how a compliment could be harassment based on attractiveness
These *women
What's annoying is this stuff does happen. But people lying makes actual cases of creeps and weirdos harassing people harder to confirm
Agreed! I know there are men and women who creep on folks at the gym. Both of these women are wrong. I’m sorry, I also don’t wear tiny outfits or nude shorts to draw extra attention. And the dude in the locker room, I’d have kicked some butt. Go take your pics NOT in the locker room.
@@kaycep6819 the third sentence of that comment was weird and unnecessary.
@@kaycep6819 the blaming it on the clothes was so unnecessary and pick-me lmao, you were fine until you started trying to make the point that people shouldnt be showing skin in an environment where they're gonna sweat and feel hot a lot
@@kaycep6819 so someone wearing a sports bra, shorts or tights means that they are doing it for attention and not for the sake of their own well-being? People seriously dont know what a real individual person is like and should get an ounce of respect for others lmfao
right, it undermines actual harassment
As someone with social anxiety, I already worried about being accused of acting odd before when people minded their own business. Now that they're looking for people to accuse of "weird" behaviour, it does not make me feel good.
Yeah in high school I was terrified and hyper aware of where I was looking so no one thought I was staring. I got over it when I realized nobody actually looks at me that closely or cares. But in these videos we find out some weirdos do...
Exactly bro, these trends aren't helping
I have social anxiety too and sometimes I don't know how to behave with other people. It doesn't help when now everyone has become an expert at "body language" and just go out their way to say people like me are just weirdos. Like no Susan, I have no social skills whatsoever but I was trying to be friendly and kind.
Reason why I quit the gym. Had the feeling that people were judging me constantly which fed the social anxiety to new levels. Now I just stay inside and use weights I bought online.
I have really shitty social anxiety and social skills - but seeing narcissists filming others without their knowledge in public places with the intent to post them on the internet makes me figure I'm not doing too bad.
Fun fact, we recently had a similar case here in my area. A girl started recording a guy 'staring' at her like a perv. She even went on to say she feels uncomfortable, objectified, and wants him banned from the gym.
But jokes on her, his friends stood up for him and said he is not a perv and a serious gym bro. He was actually watching the TV that is just behind her between his sets, and she thought he was staring at her. LOL
After the big backlash, she immediately took down the video without even issuing an apology or taking responsibility. She even went on to say she's being 'cyberbullied' and harassed. What a joke.
Tiktok might genuinely be the worst thing that ever happened to mankind.
Thanks for sharing this story btw
Ironically, Jessica has made the rest of us more uncomfortable in the gym than she was
@@j.c4924 oh good
Hope this shows to men that women do not f*ck around when they say they don't feel safe around certain places. This is exactly the type of crap they have to deal with (of course not justifying her actions, just pointing out the obvious).
@🌸 J.c 🌸 W
@@al112v4 ?
@@vorza2988 what? Not hard to get. What she did there to that guy happens x10000 to women around public places, especially bathrooms. I don’t want to hear dudes saying they exaggerate because one lady on this video decided to do something extremely stupid.
Im always super worried about coming off as a weirdo creep, and this certainly doesnt help.
The prospect of being branded online as a creep for glancing in someones direction makes going to the gym a very unpleasant idea
Honestly. Like 90% of normal human behavior these days is considered "creep vibes" by the internet hivemind.
@@honestsoul7575 women from gen z think a lot of stuff is “creepy” that I don’t understand. I’ve saw women scream “I’ve got a bf 😱” when a man was just simply asking some innocuous question like directions.
@@honestsoul7575 Kinda makes you think how people used to date or even know each other before the internet. Really scary stuff.
@@honestsoul7575 I'll get reamed for this, but the majority of gen z internet users are chronically online [often self-diagnosed] autistic losers who wouldn't know the first thing about normal human interactions since they're by default unable to grasp social cues and norms.
From now on if I see a woman struggling under weights at the gym, I’m keepin it moving baby. “If she dies, she dies” Ivan Drago style.
As someone who chronically zones out of my head space, these tik toks give me so much anxiety. Now I'm going to be worried about someone flaming me for awkwardly staring into space and someone just happens to be in that general direction.
As someone who takes my glasses off at the gym (because they will blast themselves off my face if I just move a little too fast) I think about this too sometimes. I was once zoning out, looking at some blur. Then the blur moved and I realized it was a person. Whoops.
Lmao yeah same my face permanently looks like im kinda pissed off and my worst fear is zoning out and having someone think im giving them the stink eye
most normal people would just ask you to stop staring or leave if it made them uncomfortable, only crazys fishing for drama escalate it like that
I once did that but in school and made a girl fall in love with me lmao 🥶🤑💯💯💯
@@bloop6111 The first time I did shrooms I was on a public bus when they kicked in. I was just staring off at the visuals starting to show and not really paying attention to where I was looking. I realized I had been staring in the direction of this dude with face tattoos and I suddenly focused in on his face and he seemed like pissed or something, gave me a "head up" type nod as if he was saying "got a problem?" I quickly turned my head and looked out the window lol
Penguinz0: *flexes his massive muscle*
Me: *surprised pikachu face*
This honestly makes me more nervous about starting to go to a gym because I don't want to be bullied for my weight and inexperience, or accused of being creepy.
I can promise you 99% of the time people at a gym are focused on themselves or whoever they're working out with if they're in a pair or group. This doesn't help us lot who have social anxiety but I can assure you these tiktok people are the minority
@@AmazinglyAwkward Thank you
Anyone who would bully someone at a gym, a place where people are there TO gain experience and better their physical and mental health, is a fucking loser. It helps to take it a little bit at a time! Even just *going* to the gym is something. Go and familiarize yourself with the layout, watch how the machines work, have a plan, etc. Everyone there started from knowing absolutely nothing about what they were doing!
@@chriscornell777 Thank you
dont fkn worry mate, just get in there and do what needs to be done. the average gym goer is really supportive
As a 32 year old woman who has been a gym member since I was a teenager, you know what the best way to get ignored by other people in the gym is? Ignoring everyone yourself, and putting your attention 100% on your workout. Sometimes I notice people looking but it's none of my business if they are. If someone tries to talk to me, I answer politely but keep my headphones in and quickly go back to my workout and 99% of people will understand I'm not interested in being social. I'm certainly not going to try and "catch" people looking at me, cause that will only invite more attention.
I say 80% of people in the gym go there just to get their workout in and get out. They have a life outside that they want to get back to. You can't help but look in someone's general direction when you're at the gym. It full of people , it's unavoidable you're gonna look at someone, at least in their general direction. People are gonna look but many just give a quick glance and get back to whatever they are doing.
Underaged 32 year old.*
Lol problem is you’re female and you’d be lying if you say you didn’t go looking some type was to show “I look good” otherwise I equally doubt you’d be hitting the gym
Now it’s pretty obvs which females want to be seen. I have seen some with CRAZY sweet bodies and they wear loose sweat pants and big shirts. No, they’re not fat or skinny. They just don’t want or need the attention on their body, you know they know they look good and don’t need to flaunt it.
Then you have the other group who looks half naked or like they want see someone to pick them up at the gym (like these females complaining and filming themselves) and then wonder why people staring at them - 2 reasons, to check you out or to think “wow it’s a gym not a hookup bar”
Clearly no female can act like “it’s just clothes” because then we wouldn’t have 2 groups behaving differently and treated differently.
I mean those girls type to walk outside coochie and tatas hanging out and expect no one to bat an eye 😅😂
@@romancedoll
Stay home. Don't need your negativity
You’re inviting attention with this long ass paragraph 😅
I go to the gym with my dad, luckily I haven't seen anyone recording at the gym we go to. But I've caught a few girls probably in their late teens early twenties mean mugging my dad, or just generally looking at the two of us like he's a creep. It's something that's honestly making it hard to go to the gym because of, my dad isn't a creep, he goes to the gym with me because I have an anxiety disorder and it gives me a lot of confidence and accountability to go with him. We both need to work out anyways, I'm post a serious knee surgery, and my dad had surgery on both shoulders. I don't understand why people can't just mind their own business anymore. The majority of people go to the gym for themselves. If I ever caught someone filming in the direction of me and my dad, I don't think I'd be able to stop myself from confronting them verbally. It's just not cool, it's not respectful, and the gym I go to has a no filming policy because it makes people uncomfortable.
w dad
Your dad is awesome these people are just desperate to have someone to talk about and recognize their existence it’s just sad
Not readin allat
They’re just jealous their dads are still out buying milk
u and ur dad rock!! 💪
Every day I find a new reason to not go outside or be around people
Luckily, I can go outside to NOT be around people. Plus, where I live, there are darn few people anyway, which is good cuz they all suck.