You could tell she purposely inserted that she goes there all the time in fear that he would prey on her even harder if she said she was new to the area
@@haileys7038 Yep, it's a common trick. Whenever someone asks if you're new to an area (specifically in situations like these) you always have to say you're familiar with the area or have family/friends living nearby. Saying you're new to an area is a recipe for disaster, it's so bad they made a freaking movie about it. I think it's called "taken".
@@joys8634 it really is that deep... But ok dude. Getting approached by a random creepy dude that's recording you is very unsettling and he as far as I can tell picks out women who are alone. Not an ideal situation. Women get hurt and harassed every day. Be kind ❤️
@@joys8634 what a disgusting thing to say. Middle aged and even elderly women are raped and even worse ALL. THE. TIME. You think we’re worried about being hit on? Think again, it’s all the possible dark motivations that could be behind the “flirting”. The kind of predators were afraid of take opportunities as they see them. If you, as a man, had ever been forced to do things against your will be a man or woman bigger and stronger than you, you wouldn’t be saying ridiculous middle-school boy mentality statements like that.
@@megczaban6814 samee there’s a couple episodes that are exactly about this. and the fact that stuff like this have happened in real life creeps me out
The girl in the white hoodie adjusting her clothes, crossing her arms, and moving away. All these women are giving so many “I’m uncomfortable, please go away” signals, it’s almost like an entry level body language class.
Seriously!!! It's so creepy that he just continues on when they're literally the most obviously uncomfortable women I've ever seen. He's either stupid or just thinks it's funny to bother women (notice how he never talks to them at social functions either, like at a bar or something, it's always at their work, or when they're shopping, or doing something like that when they're out minding their own business and want to be left alone.) A lot more creepy than it seems.
@@CML-rl1rx OMG I didn't even notice that until you pointed out! 😮 that just adds a whole new level of creepy! He's purposefully approaching women who are alone and want to be left alone running errands. It is 100% because he can't approach a woman in a social situation because all of her friends will immediately shut him down and tell him he's a creep to his face. A woman alone has to pretend to be nice to him in case he has a weapon and freaks out. Let's all face it, a creepy guy wearing a hat with a teddy bear approaching you out of the blue when you are clearly signaling you want to be left alone is EXACTLY the type of person to carry a weapon and attack a woman who rejects him. He walks the line too. As the police once told me "Being creepy isn't a crime, call us when a real crime has been committed." he's purposefully staying just a half step away from a harassment charge. Ugh. I hope he dies alone
@@WhitneyDahlin right??? Even if he's just doing it to be a weirdo, best case scenario unfortunately, it's still so wrong. Even the women saying they were taken, saying no, PREGNANT, wasn't enough to deter this creepy mf.
@@CML-rl1rx Yes it's on purpose, not for humor but for power. Men like this feel powerful forcing fearful women to be around them and talk to them. They know women are both socially conditioned to be open and friendly (especially with men) and naturally fearful of strange men engaging with them, and so they can get an easy power trip out of knowingly terrifying strange women, especially the ones they know they wouldn't have the change to speak to at all were it not for this intimidation.
@@CML-rl1rx these kinds of videos are always men ambushing women who are just trying to go about their day. Half the time when you point that out they go “oh, so we just can’t talk to women? 😤” time and place, read the room, accept no.
can I add that that poor girl is COMPLETELY ALONE in the MOUNTAINS with a CREEP? The thoughts that run through your head on instinct In that kind of situation are terrifying
@@tonyisnotdead because nothing fits the description of "not scary" like running for your life from a man with a teddy bear camera on his head, in isolation. the fact that you are essentially dismissing any concern so long as she will physically survive is really jarring and lacking empathy! lovely
This got me too. I can't imagine her internal dialogue... This guy is clearly mentally not all there, and approaching her with nobody around. Good for her for not freaking out.
I kinda hoped the guy who was standing there watching the girl gets hit on would try to save her or argue with that guy honestly i was disappointed, also i wish one day he would get his ass kicked from a girl's partner that he was hitting on cuz he needs it.
Like really, I can’t imagine at all what it must be like to go through life with such a COMPLETE lack of self awareness. Not a zilch. Nada. How the f-k is that even possible
I thought about that, but if that's case, why did he tell the grocery woman that the chicken nuggets was not good for her? That makes me think that he's actually not playing a character and is like this irl.
@@mariamabdullah6192 Fucking hell. I'm a dude with anxiety and bad when comes to interacting with people whenever my mood is shit. I can't imagine how scary it must be for women in general to go through these scenarios, to force yourself to have a pleasant attitude when you 've had a crap day out of fear of something really bad happening to you if you behaved otherwise. Hope this made any sense lol.
This kind of behavior is so unbelievably creepy. If he’s comfortable violating people’s privacy by filming them talking without consent and posting it, I don’t want to know what else he does.
And some idiot will say stuffs like "oh it's probably because he's not handsome and rich that's why the women didn't like him" really shows how guys don't react well to rejection (and here he is in the comment section named "faze Mac" see I told you so)
@@Alien_From_Another_Universe maybe don't make up a fake person to say something for you to be mad about? you say someone "will" but they haven't i've seen nobody do that
@@Dr.BDover well I've seen it too much on the internet. And we'll in a few moments it's bound to happen.its not fake bro. I've even seen some of those comments on the Greg douccete reacting to the girl in the gas station video
I feel like some men don’t really understand that a lot of women are afraid of them . Like if she clearly doesn’t want to be approached or continue the conversation it’s going to be hard for her to feel safe exiting the conversation, not fearing the dude will become angry at being rejected or follow her home. I know most men have good intentions but a lot don’t, and women always have to take extra care to avoid confrontation. Just putting that out there
YES!!! So many dudes misinterpret politeness (including polite smiles) as reciprocated interest. When really it's because 1) at best we don't want to come off as rude and 2) we are literally afraid of getting hurt or stalked or assaulted or even murdered if we say a straight up no
EXACTLY. We feel like we have to express our disinterest as politely as possible to avoid a potential confrontation. Men fear being rejected, women fear being murdered.
honestly like one strong enough push that catches her off guard and she’s off the side of the trail. women really gotta think about that kind of thing all the time.
ah yes the “be polite as possible and dont show any signs of rudeness or this strange man might hurt me” response. a staple for women unfortunately. and i think a lot of pickup artists interpret it as successfully engaging them in a conversation despite them showing every sign of wanting to leave
@@lonelyrooster Yes!! Setting boundaries doesnt work with people like this. It makes them pursue harder or get angry. Just walking away would only make more problems. It sucks that appeasement is the best option.
EXACTLY. My knee jerk reaction is to reject someone bothering me hard and just leave. But I don't. Because I worry that he'll get angry and my safety will be endangered.
@@lonelyrooster I mean you could just say you're in a relationship or just got out of one and aren't looking for anything atm. Or even just give him your number then block him when you're "safe". Because you act like every guy you reject is gonna become a serial killer and that's not the case. Its humiliating for them to get rejected, let alone in public, so why would the stick around? It does suck that it happens though
@@MoyosoreLemboye you have to act like every snake could kill you(and keep your distance) even if you don’t know which ones are poisonous. (Example) not everyone has bad intentions, but enough do to make a woman fear for her life.
I can feel the women’s fear in these videos. I’ve been in this situation so many times and it’s just so awful. I can’t imagine how embarrassed I’d be if one of those guys was literally recording me. These poor women :(
@@justarandomdude6910 what? Absolutely not. And every woman in here has been saying they hate it regardless of if he's attractive. There are correct ways to approach and flirt with women. This is not it, regardless of looks. That being said I know MANY traditionally ugly men who can pull any woman they want cause they are considerate, kind, friendly, trust worthy, and know how to properly flirt without making women feel unsafe, or disgusted.
@@justarandomdude6910 Just shows how insecure you are. If an extremely hot guy said any of these things I’d still not give him my number because the lines are off putting. Any woman with a sense of preservation would be put off. Will some women treat this dude differently if he was hot, sure. But not the majority and certainly not if they are sober.
@@justarandomdude6910 Say you have a hard time getting dates and are mad about it without saying you have a hard time getting dates and are mad about it.
Props on the man who 3rd partied. Even just entering a conversation is a lifesaver. The man on the camera probably isn't a threat but you just never know
I just saw this late lol but omg the line "you're my target crush" to a stranger can be interpreted in so many ways. It almost sounds like a stalker just coming out and saying "you're my new target". Not to mention the "things can turn bad" comment about her husband right after.
Lmao these kinds of guys are the LEAST of your worries. You should be worried about tall, handsome psychopaths like Ted Bundy. Cause you know if a tall handsome white man with money approached you you would NOT mind going alone to be picked up by that kind of man
@@fazemac5824 I personally would mind. I don't trust any men I don't know for this exact reason 😂 if I don't know you, I'm not going anywhere with you. Especially if you're hitting on me out of nowhere while I'm just minding my own business 😂
Everyone always says "oh, if he was cute, I bet it would be different." No, I can 100% promise I would feel uncomfortable at any man approaching me in a somewhat secluded area. Just let people live, stop walking up to random people to start conversations lol
The scary thing about the girl hiking especially is that realization that he could kill you and hide your body and it might not be found for days....it seems irrational, but when you get approached by guys who are creeps, it just makes you paranoid.
100%. One of the main reasons why women tend to act friendly when approached by creeps is because they're afraid of getting attacked if they outright reject the guy.
my mom has always told me "just because you're paranoid, doesn't mean they aren't out to get you." which was her way of telling me to always trust my instincts. if someone seems like a creep, they are.
Really creepy are the guys who follow up a “I have a boyfriend” with a “what’s his name?” (Or this one time: “can I see his picture?”) - I mean, either a girl has a boyfriend and she is not interested in you or she says she has a boyfriend and is still not interested in you. Why check? You questioning her just makes it a whole lot worse… -.-
What if I'm like walking my dog and I ask a woman if she knows any good parks, and she hits me with the "I have a boyfriend" - Can I ask her then if her boyfriend knows a good park?
@@hondacota4rt only if you really weren’t trying to hit on her, and only if you actually are just asking. If that’s true then that’s a funny lighthearted way to course correct the conversation. But it’s not her fault for thinking that something else was going on! :)
Cody on behalf of all women thank you for your thoughtful critique of this creepy weirdo! Just that you have the awareness to understand how uncomfortable this kind of thing can make a person feel is so nice and rare!
nice virtue signaling, but you realize he told the kid to keep on doing it in the end right....... at least you made sure to tell some people that you are on the 'right' side
If he was good looking you wouldnt care. Ive never had a problem talking with women. When one of my "not so good looking" friends tries it for some reason women all of a sudden dont like it 😂 f outta here. We arent dumb
@@tyrellleach1846Yeah pretty much. Part of me feels bad because dude is just trying his best and (probably) has no ill intent, just not great with words. Like you said, if he was physically attractive with no rizz he wouldn’t be considered a creep, just a little awkward. But because he is a average/below average dude he must be a predator.
@@xXnostalgicXx exactly. Put it this way. Most guys are a little nicer and will let em down easy but if a 10 out of 10 girl started talking to you trying to pick you up you would probably be all for it. If it was an overweight ugly girl all of a sudden you probably arent interested. Works both ways lol women just try and use the "creep card" so they dont seem like shallow b****s
Ok, but women don’t ask guys out. This means guys have to ask women out. If guys have to ask women out then this shit will happen. This guy isn’t being mean. He is just weird. He also leaves and doesn’t harass these women once rejected.
Yeah, while watchingt this video, I think some people would watch the women's interactions and think "why not just walk away" like the one girl in the mall did, but I'm pretty sure even she would have had a different reaction had she been in a less public area like the hiker... The hiker clip was so terrifying when thinking about how long it would take for someone to even find her body (or save her if she was just badly injured) if he was a violent psycho... I would've been scared to death in her shoes.
I always got a fake name ready to go for situations where people ask my name and I don’t feel comfortable giving it. This has come in especially handy when dealing with rude customers at my customer service job
@@theghost00 You can film people in public without their consent. But they usually have power to remove the video or ask for it to be blurred on youtube and other social media platforms.
Just a friendly reminder, we’re not polite to guys doing this because we care about their feelings. It’s because we are terrified that they will react poorly or violently if we are too blunt. Most of us women have learned that the hard way.
@@asmbeats5369 anyone can react badly, but i'm guessing that women dont often attack or murder men who reject their romantic advances in public lol. It's very different circumstances.
@@asmbeats5369 when has a man ever been assaulted for rejecting a woman? I'm pretty sure their first thought isn't, "How can I get out of this safely so I don't get hurt?"
I just kept thinking about the girl in the white who visible cowered. The way she tucked her jacket and crossed her arms... Clearly there is a real trama there that he just triggered. What makes him think he has the right to do that to someone.
Just a tip...im a woman and I wld suggest not trying to hit on a woman when shes exercising! Idc if its in a gym, or out hiking, swimming laps, biking, running, but you get the point. Also if they have ear pods in or ear phones on, yeah....NO
If you aren’t gonna buy my groceries, then don’t even try to talk to me. Same with gas stations. If you’re gonna try to come up to me at a gas station, you better be paying for and pumping my goddam gas.
Here's the thing...I've rarely approached many women in my life but I actually met my fiance by conversing with her in the grocery store. (Granted, she wasn't on the phone.) The thing is, the guy in the video clearly has autism and generally it's that type of person who ends up approaching women as opposed to someone who is somewhat well adjusted.
if i was ever spoken to like that in public i would shake for the rest of the time i was there. quite literally. it really sucks that women should be expected to engage with people who wanna hit on them in public and disrespect their boundaries, especially by FILMING THEM without their consent
@@wiswc that was obviously an exaggeration but she probably couldn't sit still or stay still out of anxiety and nervousness. No worries deserves to be approached like this especially after making it clear they are not interested. Feel second hand embarrassment
@@justarandomdude6910 If an attractive guy had the same delivery as this weirdo he'd get the same results. It's not about looks, it's about not being creepy and knowing what is appropriate when and in what contexts.
If I told a guy I was married and he proceeded to tell me “well sometimes they don’t work out”, all bets are off and I’m responding with something mean as hell.
I always do this. This is why wearing headphones/earbuds is a must, makes it more believable you didn't hear anything. it's pretty foolproof in deterring weirdos in my experience
Reminds me of a time when this man wouldn’t leave me alone coming off the train, then proceeded to walk straight into a dense metal pillar and tried to pretend it didn’t hurt. I was scared but it was also fucking priceless karma
I'm teaching my daughter to keep walking, kick hard, punch in the throat, and scream as loud as she can. I'm considering having her carry a knife when she's 16.
As a woman this is sadly a common occurrence. Being hit on while you're just trying to go home for example. Worst part is having to act nice eventhough you really don't even want to be talking to them, while at the same time being scared (sometimes terrified)of the risk of pissing them of/what they might do. Most dudes are harmless but you never know and that's the terrifying part. There's a time and place for it, randomly approaching a girl on the street isn't it. Also sometimes having to lie and say you have a boyfriend because that's the only thing they'll respect and leave you alone for. Already being "claimed".🙁
Honestly I don't get it anymore, guys are supposed to make the first move but if they did and they're not attractive or they misjudged the right moment to approch then they're a creep and a bad person even tho they had no bad intentions
i’m pretty sure that a few weeks ago someone tried to do this to me. the guy came up to me and talked exactly in the same way that these guys typically do, saying “excuse me i just had to tell you you’re beautiful” and then trying to start a conversation, and talking in that rushed way. i really hope i don’t end up on tiktok xd
@Nonaya Bidness he’s got an entire channel devoted to harassing women just going about their lives like that’s not a dude looking for a date, that’s a dude looking for clout/views - it’s a joke to him
In general unless you’re asking for directions and they’re the only person around NEVER stop somebody with earbuds in cause you know they probably have earbuds in to not be bothered by random strangers…if i got earbuds in i for sure am not looking to be “picked up” by someone as confident as Courage the cowardly dog
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Cody and the rest of you let the joke fly completely over your heads reacting like this guy was serious. He's obviously trolling. Y'all stoopid for believing it lolololol
It’s weird how this guy goes up to any female he sees, and then just immediately starts asking pointless or stupid questions. “Are you hiking?” Oh no haha I’m actually swimming right now.
@@zammymynakersnackstbmoth i don’t think their choice of the word “female” is the right hill to die on, can i ask why it’s so offensive to some people? i don’t understand that one
@@fvckaskeleton it’s just degrading. The term female is usually used when knowing the gender of animals. Women don’t go around calling guys “males” so I don’t understand where the whole calling them females thing came from
@@bottomtextmafia5733 idk i’ve personally heard many women refer to men as “males” i’m not saying you shouldn’t be offended but i don’t think many people mean it in an offensive way it’s just a term for a gender
This actually makes my skin crawl. Ive experienced this and its kinda dreadful when you are approached out of no where by some man, whom you do not know, and hes giving off EXTREMELY creepy vibes like that. Its scary when you dont know whether to ignore them or keep talking, because you never know what someones intentions are. So just LEAVE US TF ALONE PLEASE.
I don't think men understand how annoying or even scary it is to be a woman in public. I want to go out and do things without random men approaching me and demanding my attention. And the audacity he has to record and post these encounters with random women who don't want anything to do with him? I hate pickup artists. They just add to some dudes entitlement for women's attention.
It's only annoying and scary, when he isn't handsome . But once a good looking guy approaches women, that's considered as cute. Edit; wtf!! everyone is having a mental breakdown down there😂😂 please take serious safety precautions, cuz apparently you can't share your opinions on social media without being ridiculed "especially if you are a man".
@@justarandomdude6910 No it's not dude. I don't want any man ever approaching me when I'm alone in public or just in public in general. Leave me the fuck alone, I don't care what you look like. Ted Bundy was VERY attractive. 😒
@@Wambario I'm not implying that all men harass women in public. Most do not. What I am saying is that men cannot understand what it is like to be a woman in public. It is exhausting having some random men catcall you, try to touch you, and continue to bother you when you tell them to leave you alone repeatedly. This is not an experience that most men relate to but an experience that a ton of women relate to.
I can say from experience that 90% of these women, immediately following this experience, text their best friends about how some creepy guy bothered them in public today
YES Something like this happened to me recently and I immediately told 2 of my friends cause I felt uncomfortable and just wanted to talk to someone. And I guess I was looking for confirmation that this situation was weird and that I was not mean by simply walking away. Kinda sucks to feel this need to justify my own behaviour at all times... 🙃
@@snr9077 Had the exact same experience, told my whole family and both of my best friends immediately after, my brother was like 10 mins late from getting to him before he harassed me or while he was harassing me I needed confirmation I wasn’t to blame too, especially after being blamed by my SISTER of all people…
like the whole rest of her hike she was probably looking over her shoulder to see if she was being followed. these women aren’t just being polite because they’re uneasy, they’re genuinely worried for their own safety
Do guys not understand how scary it is for them to walk up to a woman and expect literally anything from us? We never know what they’re going to do especially when they hang around like this guy and especially when they get rejected. Guys like this are scary and sometimes dangerous I wish this whole thing would stop this is why I’m so scared of men
Yeah, and then the thick-headed dudes disagreeing in the comments are just bitchy because they can’t handle the idea of being responsible for their actions. What a bunch of children!
It’s so messed up. If I’m leaving the house to go into the city alone or taking public transit, I can’t even wear the clothes I wanna wear because the harassment got so bad. I now wear a huge hoodie/baggy pants/ a mask/headphones even on a hot day to try and deter the creeps, and the messed up part is that doesn’t even always work
It's only annoying and scary, when he isn't handsome . But once a good looking guy approaches women, that's considered as cute. Edit:: You see Karens started attacking me for speaking the truth🤪
Learned this after moving to a city and started dealing with this sh!t every week or so. Nah, ain't gonna waste my effort on some random ass men when I know what they want from me
Yeah the thing is too for women (not even to mention women of color, lgbt+ folks, etc) you have to calculate in your mind how bad the situation can get if you’re “mean” to these guys. And being “mean” can be as simple as kindly saying you’re not interested. You just never know if it’s someone that’s innocently trying to get to know you or if it’s a warning sign for someone that could hurt you. These videos encourage other guys like this to walk up to people they don’t know and record them, hit on them, make them uncomfortable, etc.
Yeah, while watchingt this video, I think some people would watch the women's interactions and think "why not just walk away" like the one girl in the mall did, but I'm pretty sure even she would have had a different reaction had she been in a less public area like the hiker... The hiker clip was so terrifying when thinking about how long it would take for someone to even find her body (or save her if she was just badly injured) if he was a violent psycho... I would've been scared to death in her shoes.
I wish I could say "go away please" to those who approach me like this, but then I would be scared they will pull me away when I'm not looking and do something awful to me. So everytime I have to be polite and I hate it.
The worst part is that the comments on his page have multiple people defending him and telling him he's got game. People say things like "At least he is trying" or "All the haters are just jealous you're actually trying and they aren't". It annoys me to no end to see people just support or defend this behavior, that 95% of the time is creepy or weird.
That's like saying somebody running into traffic and getting splattered is admirable because other people didn't even try. Bro, other people waited for the appropriate time and place, like a green light at a crosswalk maybe?
First Rule of Public Filming: If you gonna film a person, ask for permission. So that is already a thing he doesn't follow First Rule of Conversation: Signs of discomfort, stop what you do, but he apparently so confident he is also blind. First Rule of being a decent Human: Don't do this
I think it’s important to point out that that’s not women acting nice to spare his feelings, that is what anxiety and discomfort looks like in another human being. When they keep responding and are nervously weaving, trying to walk away or continuing to do what they were doing while speaking in a monotone voice like that? They’re afraid. They’re trying to appease you so you don’t blow up and start yelling or start following them or otherwise become violent or scary. There’s no coming back from that, you’re not going to change their mind. Just leave them alone.
Seriously, he’s trying to pick up women on a hiking trail of all places? With that level of self-awareness, he might as well try and pick up women during a funeral service next. Seems about just as appropriate of a time and place to do it lol. 😆
I literally never stop or acknowledge when a random person in public tries to talk to me. "Excuse me can I ask you a question?" from any adult man tells me to stare straight ahead and keep walking. It is freeing to realize you don't owe random ass people your attention or even a glance in their direction.
Sounds to me like you are just an asshole tbh. Not everyone is out to get you and someone could be asking you any number of questions. If they harass you then be as mean as you want, Iv told many people to fuck off, but don't judge an interaction before it even happens.
What's pretty interesting is that he seems to be following *exactly* what these online pickup artists teach. The forced confidence, the "teasing", the "high value" mindset, everything. He's just doing it in such a bizarre way that the connection isn't apparent immediately.
A guy started talking to me while I had headphones in on the train. I was polite but said no when he asked for my Facebook. He found me on Facebook using my first name only 2 months later to tell me he thought I was fat and ugly lmaoo
when I was a teenager, an adult man followed me in a Target and cornered me at one end of the store to engage me in a conversation very similar to this guy in the video. I felt so unsafe and creeped out, and this guy just reminds me of what that was like. it really doesn’t get any less uncomfortable as an adult.
Watching these videos makes my heart rate go up because I swear these guys don’t realise the sickening feeling you get in your stomach when you realise some weirdo has got you in his sights. All of your senses are on high alert and you have your polite poker face ready to go (because angering the creep can make things worse) and the main objective is to get away as soon as you can. It honestly ruins the whole day because you’re trying to shake the feeling that the guy is still following you or has info about you. It makes you feel gross. And then you just have a replay of every single news headline, statistic and true crime podcast that talks about the amount of women who are stalked/murdered/raped by some pervert nobody just playing on repeat in your head. Fucking hate this guy for doing this shit for sport.
No ones going to talk about how the black guy tried to save that one girl and she didn’t pick up on it? He totally tried to be her way out and she was so thrown off by this creep. Guys like him are the real MVP, thanks for trying lol
This is the Fucking worst. There’s some people who will openly not care if you are backing away, say you have a significant other, or even say no. They just keep trying to hit on you or follow you around and it feels so uncomfortable
It all comes down to the right time to flirt because without that it’ll turn an already awkward situation worse. You can flirt at a bar and it’ll look normal, however flirting in a place like an empty parking lot or in the middle of nowhere, while someone’s working out and especially THE BATHROOM is really creepy. That’s why everyone calls flirting creepy now, because of the location, it may be also from the overall vibe form the person. Beware of that too.
And please for the love of God if they turn you down or say they have a boyfriend LEAVE THEM ALONE. It's one thing for a guy to hit on you, but it turns incredibly scary if they persist after you've shot them down. That's a red flag for someone who doesn't mind scaring or hurting you.
its scary that cody said there are multiple people making this content. being approached like this in public leaves me shaking and nauseous. i can see the anxiety and fear in their faces and i know he ruined their days. this is literal harassment. everyone better be going and reporting his account because he shouldnt be allowed to make this type of content.
"Pick-up artistry" like this is a huge thing in some pockets of the internet. It's a whole ecosystem of predation, with men at the top preying on the insecurities of their impressionable male audience so they can sell more pick-up artist books and videos, and then at the bottom you have the aspiring pick-up artists basically being taught to harass women.
I've seen many comments stating that this kind of interactions leave women terrified and I'm seriously curious as to why. I mean, I get it if the dude approaches you in the middle of the night but at target? idk maybe it's because I'm Spanish and catcalling and pick up culture are not as prevalent here.
@@brittaistheworst7523 there have been endless occasions where we hear women get murdered or kidnapped after rejecting a guy. as a woman, i have to constantly live in fear even when men don't approach me, because 99% of r*pe cases are by men. i have friends and family that have been in these horror stories you may claim will never happen to me. if you ask any woman, they'll say the same, so it's not a one-off claim. we ALL have had assault happen to us or have a close friend or family that it has happened to. it's terrifying that we are constantly hoping we don't run out of luck every time this type of interaction occurs, so yeah. hope this gives u a bit of an insight. you can always learn more by listening to the women around you when they talk about things like this, because it's real and it's happening in front of your eyes. for whatever reason, you may just have not noticed it.
@@brittaistheworst7523 because there are alot of men unfortunely who will literally follow women around or even to their cars afterwards when not paying attention...its just uncomfy because you don't know what to expect next and there a high percentage in harassment, SA, etc.
I love this video because you’re actually highlighting just how fucking psychotic “pick up artists” are, and the same about catcalling in general. You have to be a straight up degenerate to act this way in public, like holy shit…
Nothing gets women like telling them their groceries are unhealthy.
Fucking dick move... I hate ppl lol
He's doin the ol' Napoleon Dynamite "you know, you could drink 2% if you want to" line, he just managed to make it even worse somehow lol
Nothing gets women like asking them if they are a child.
Yess gotta love sounding like the human embodiment of an eating disorder
Just telling them their marriage might fail and go bad
That girl hiking was being nice because she didn't want to get fucking murdered on a mountain
Yeah like she was halfway leaving and trying go see if he would follow or have a bad reaction
@@BlueTurn a lot of us know this all too well lol
The girl is afraid he's gonna harm her and the guy is afraid she's gonna reject him, it's a mess
You could tell she purposely inserted that she goes there all the time in fear that he would prey on her even harder if she said she was new to the area
@@haileys7038 Yep, it's a common trick. Whenever someone asks if you're new to an area (specifically in situations like these) you always have to say you're familiar with the area or have family/friends living nearby. Saying you're new to an area is a recipe for disaster, it's so bad they made a freaking movie about it. I think it's called "taken".
Let's face it. The only thing Chris is picking up is a charge for harassment.
This is such an underrated comment lol
*sitcom laughter*
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@@irubberyouglueonethousand5384 true
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the IMMEDIATE regret on these girls faces for responding even for a second is too relatable
It's really not that deep. You look 30+
@@joys8634 it really is that deep... But ok dude. Getting approached by a random creepy dude that's recording you is very unsettling and he as far as I can tell picks out women who are alone. Not an ideal situation. Women get hurt and harassed every day. Be kind ❤️
@@lexigifford6792 Exactly! And a woman doesn’t have to be a 10 or young, happens to me daily at work.
@@joys8634 what a disgusting thing to say. Middle aged and even elderly women are raped and even worse ALL. THE. TIME. You think we’re worried about being hit on? Think again, it’s all the possible dark motivations that could be behind the “flirting”. The kind of predators were afraid of take opportunities as they see them. If you, as a man, had ever been forced to do things against your will be a man or woman bigger and stronger than you, you wouldn’t be saying ridiculous middle-school boy mentality statements like that.
@@joys8634 also, Kennedy is hot so idk what you’re even talking about in the first place 😂 serious incel behavior
If this random guy stopped me out in the middle of a hiking trail with no one around like that i'd just assume i'm gonna get murdered
right like I’d be running by now
dude i've watched too many episodes of criminal minds to be stopping to talk to that fucking guy
@@megczaban6814 samee there’s a couple episodes that are exactly about this. and the fact that stuff like this have happened in real life creeps me out
Patterrz watches cody? Sweet!
Also yeah so much cringe in one video
that’s probably why that woman was being so kind. she didn’t wanna upset him and have him get angry at her.
Chris is pretty confident when it comes to judging what people are eating
😆 TRU
Chris doesn't eat, he feeds off rejection
The most confident Chris was during the entire video was saying that those groceries were kid's food
that is a good point.
The girl in the white hoodie adjusting her clothes, crossing her arms, and moving away. All these women are giving so many “I’m uncomfortable, please go away” signals, it’s almost like an entry level body language class.
Seriously!!! It's so creepy that he just continues on when they're literally the most obviously uncomfortable women I've ever seen. He's either stupid or just thinks it's funny to bother women (notice how he never talks to them at social functions either, like at a bar or something, it's always at their work, or when they're shopping, or doing something like that when they're out minding their own business and want to be left alone.) A lot more creepy than it seems.
@@CML-rl1rx OMG I didn't even notice that until you pointed out! 😮 that just adds a whole new level of creepy! He's purposefully approaching women who are alone and want to be left alone running errands. It is 100% because he can't approach a woman in a social situation because all of her friends will immediately shut him down and tell him he's a creep to his face. A woman alone has to pretend to be nice to him in case he has a weapon and freaks out. Let's all face it, a creepy guy wearing a hat with a teddy bear approaching you out of the blue when you are clearly signaling you want to be left alone is EXACTLY the type of person to carry a weapon and attack a woman who rejects him. He walks the line too. As the police once told me "Being creepy isn't a crime, call us when a real crime has been committed." he's purposefully staying just a half step away from a harassment charge. Ugh. I hope he dies alone
@@WhitneyDahlin right??? Even if he's just doing it to be a weirdo, best case scenario unfortunately, it's still so wrong. Even the women saying they were taken, saying no, PREGNANT, wasn't enough to deter this creepy mf.
@@CML-rl1rx Yes it's on purpose, not for humor but for power. Men like this feel powerful forcing fearful women to be around them and talk to them. They know women are both socially conditioned to be open and friendly (especially with men) and naturally fearful of strange men engaging with them, and so they can get an easy power trip out of knowingly terrifying strange women, especially the ones they know they wouldn't have the change to speak to at all were it not for this intimidation.
@@CML-rl1rx these kinds of videos are always men ambushing women who are just trying to go about their day. Half the time when you point that out they go “oh, so we just can’t talk to women? 😤” time and place, read the room, accept no.
can I add that that poor girl is COMPLETELY ALONE in the MOUNTAINS with a CREEP? The thoughts that run through your head on instinct In that kind of situation are terrifying
he had a camera on his head, and she was a runner. she could easily outrun him
@@tonyisnotdead it’s still scary. why are you trying to find ways to discredit that?
@@tonyisnotdead because nothing fits the description of "not scary" like running for your life from a man with a teddy bear camera on his head, in isolation. the fact that you are essentially dismissing any concern so long as she will physically survive is really jarring and lacking empathy! lovely
That’s why you CONCEAL CARRY A PEW PEW
This got me too. I can't imagine her internal dialogue... This guy is clearly mentally not all there, and approaching her with nobody around. Good for her for not freaking out.
Getting approached like this is annoying at best and terrifying at worst
I feel horrible for women, I imagine this cringey type of approach is not even the worst that happen to them..
Happened to me a few months ago. Guy started following me around, it’s scary as fuck.
@@sonjahills5788 Went through something similar and I couldn't agree more.
It happens too often at grocery stores 😫 even with earbuds and a strong RBF
@leftism is for slave owners bro what were you there 💀
i feel bad for anyone who ever had any kind of interaction with that guy
yea for real
I feel bad for anyone who ever had any kind of interaction with a guy
He just walks up with the camera in her face too ewww
I kinda hoped the guy who was standing there watching the girl gets hit on would try to save her or argue with that guy honestly i was disappointed, also i wish one day he would get his ass kicked from a girl's partner that he was hitting on cuz he needs it.
@@mariamsaleh2939 i would like to see that ngl
This guy must have a humiliation fetish. It’s the only way I can rationalize these sad attempts.
LOL
Like really, I can’t imagine at all what it must be like to go through life with such a COMPLETE lack of self awareness. Not a zilch. Nada. How the f-k is that even possible
I thought about that, but if that's case, why did he tell the grocery woman that the chicken nuggets was not good for her? That makes me think that he's actually not playing a character and is like this irl.
@@mariamabdullah6192 Fucking hell. I'm a dude with anxiety and bad when comes to interacting with people whenever my mood is shit. I can't imagine how scary it must be for women in general to go through these scenarios, to force yourself to have a pleasant attitude when you 've had a crap day out of fear of something really bad happening to you if you behaved otherwise. Hope this made any sense lol.
@@mariamabdullah6192 Thanks, best of luck to you as well.
This kind of behavior is so unbelievably creepy. If he’s comfortable violating people’s privacy by filming them talking without consent and posting it, I don’t want to know what else he does.
I feel awful for these women getting approached by random men ruining their time and creeping them out 💀
Yu gi oh was never gay to begin with. *stop.*
I can't imagine how awful it is and how they'll ever recover and move on with their lives...
And some idiot will say stuffs like "oh it's probably because he's not handsome and rich that's why the women didn't like him" really shows how guys don't react well to rejection (and here he is in the comment section named "faze Mac" see I told you so)
@@Alien_From_Another_Universe maybe don't make up a fake person to say something for you to be mad about? you say someone "will" but they haven't i've seen nobody do that
@@Dr.BDover well I've seen it too much on the internet. And we'll in a few moments it's bound to happen.its not fake bro. I've even seen some of those comments on the Greg douccete reacting to the girl in the gas station video
I feel like some men don’t really understand that a lot of women are afraid of them . Like if she clearly doesn’t want to be approached or continue the conversation it’s going to be hard for her to feel safe exiting the conversation, not fearing the dude will become angry at being rejected or follow her home. I know most men have good intentions but a lot don’t, and women always have to take extra care to avoid confrontation. Just putting that out there
Bingo.
YES!!! So many dudes misinterpret politeness (including polite smiles) as reciprocated interest. When really it's because 1) at best we don't want to come off as rude and 2) we are literally afraid of getting hurt or stalked or assaulted or even murdered if we say a straight up no
EXACTLY. We feel like we have to express our disinterest as politely as possible to avoid a potential confrontation. Men fear being rejected, women fear being murdered.
There are a lot of creeps out there
honestly like one strong enough push that catches her off guard and she’s off the side of the trail. women really gotta think about that kind of thing all the time.
ah yes the “be polite as possible and dont show any signs of rudeness or this strange man might hurt me” response. a staple for women unfortunately. and i think a lot of pickup artists interpret it as successfully engaging them in a conversation despite them showing every sign of wanting to leave
I hate seeing people talk about how these woman should walk away. Like no? If they walk away he will follow and that's so fucking scary.
@@lonelyrooster Yes!! Setting boundaries doesnt work with people like this. It makes them pursue harder or get angry. Just walking away would only make more problems. It sucks that appeasement is the best option.
EXACTLY. My knee jerk reaction is to reject someone bothering me hard and just leave. But I don't. Because I worry that he'll get angry and my safety will be endangered.
@@lonelyrooster I mean you could just say you're in a relationship or just got out of one and aren't looking for anything atm. Or even just give him your number then block him when you're "safe". Because you act like every guy you reject is gonna become a serial killer and that's not the case. Its humiliating for them to get rejected, let alone in public, so why would the stick around? It does suck that it happens though
@@MoyosoreLemboye you have to act like every snake could kill you(and keep your distance) even if you don’t know which ones are poisonous. (Example) not everyone has bad intentions, but enough do to make a woman fear for her life.
That pterodactyl tear you a new asshole line was so god damned funny. Actually laughed out loud
I can feel the women’s fear in these videos. I’ve been in this situation so many times and it’s just so awful. I can’t imagine how embarrassed I’d be if one of those guys was literally recording me. These poor women :(
It's only annoying and scary, when he isn't handsome . But once a good looking guy approaches women, that's considered as cute.
Stop being a hypocrite
@@justarandomdude6910 what? Absolutely not. And every woman in here has been saying they hate it regardless of if he's attractive. There are correct ways to approach and flirt with women. This is not it, regardless of looks. That being said I know MANY traditionally ugly men who can pull any woman they want cause they are considerate, kind, friendly, trust worthy, and know how to properly flirt without making women feel unsafe, or disgusted.
@@justarandomdude6910 you must be a child if you think that’s how it works for everyone
@@justarandomdude6910 Just shows how insecure you are. If an extremely hot guy said any of these things I’d still not give him my number because the lines are off putting. Any woman with a sense of preservation would be put off. Will some women treat this dude differently if he was hot, sure. But not the majority and certainly not if they are sober.
@@justarandomdude6910 Say you have a hard time getting dates and are mad about it without saying you have a hard time getting dates and are mad about it.
Props on the man who 3rd partied. Even just entering a conversation is a lifesaver. The man on the camera probably isn't a threat but you just never know
right
that dude collabs with him lmao, not a third party
@@moman4563 are u seriousl
@@moman4563 that’s so disgusting
@@moman4563 ugh.... I’m sad now😭
Whoever edited Cody's tooth falling out at 5:33 is undeniably a comedic genius
HAHAHHAHHAHAHHAAH
I had to go back to make sure I saw it right😭😭😭
fr I replayed it so many times 😭😭😭
When I say I died laughing I mean I died laughing. shit was so unexpected. comedy gold for sure
@@kozmik4848 same here i was lol 😂
I just saw this late lol but omg the line "you're my target crush" to a stranger can be interpreted in so many ways. It almost sounds like a stalker just coming out and saying "you're my new target". Not to mention the "things can turn bad" comment about her husband right after.
let's all give a round of applause for cody for being brave to watch these terrible videos for us
fr bc i could never 👏🏾
i keep skipping ten seconds to watch his reaction
cringe
i read that as a round of apple sauce laugh out loud
fuck that I blame him for sharing these clips so we have to see them too
Dangerous for her. This is how women get abducted and murdered in parks. Chris is creepy af.
Also in a hiking area? Hell no, I would be running away.
I was thinking the same thing. She was only being nice because she was in survival mode
@@jessicayoung3656 The first thing I did was look on the video to see if there were other people in the area, cause I was kinda worried for her.
@@haileys7038 Yup, my thought the whole time.
Women should be able to visit places alone.
This man is literally THE REASON women feel uncomfortable going places alone
That’s a troll account above me btw
@leftism is for slave owners are you a pick up artist
@leftism is for slave owners your mom’s not a problem for me 🤪
Lmao these kinds of guys are the LEAST of your worries. You should be worried about tall, handsome psychopaths like Ted Bundy. Cause you know if a tall handsome white man with money approached you you would NOT mind going alone to be picked up by that kind of man
@@fazemac5824 I personally would mind. I don't trust any men I don't know for this exact reason 😂 if I don't know you, I'm not going anywhere with you. Especially if you're hitting on me out of nowhere while I'm just minding my own business 😂
Everyone always says "oh, if he was cute, I bet it would be different." No, I can 100% promise I would feel uncomfortable at any man approaching me in a somewhat secluded area. Just let people live, stop walking up to random people to start conversations lol
The scary thing about the girl hiking especially is that realization that he could kill you and hide your body and it might not be found for days....it seems irrational, but when you get approached by guys who are creeps, it just makes you paranoid.
bro WHOA
100%. One of the main reasons why women tend to act friendly when approached by creeps is because they're afraid of getting attacked if they outright reject the guy.
it's not irrational since it happens so much
my mom has always told me "just because you're paranoid, doesn't mean they aren't out to get you." which was her way of telling me to always trust my instincts. if someone seems like a creep, they are.
Yeah she definitely went home immediately after that encounter and never came back
for a "confident" guy he oozes insecurity. Major Michael Scott vibes.
Hey, don’t do Michael Scott like that
I would happily pick Michael over this guy any day
Woah wait a second. Don’t insult Michael like that
despite his name he’s one of the least confident people i’ve ever seen. he’s confusing confidence with no shame and a need for likes.
don't do my mans like that
Really creepy are the guys who follow up a “I have a boyfriend” with a “what’s his name?” (Or this one time: “can I see his picture?”) - I mean, either a girl has a boyfriend and she is not interested in you or she says she has a boyfriend and is still not interested in you. Why check? You questioning her just makes it a whole lot worse… -.-
it’s like they think that if they catch a girl in a lie she’ll be like “aww you got me!” and then go out with him
yea that's weird anytime I've been in that situation I just tell her "OK have a great day" and keep it moving, like it ain't that serious.
What if I'm like walking my dog and I ask a woman if she knows any good parks, and she hits me with the "I have a boyfriend" - Can I ask her then if her boyfriend knows a good park?
@@hondacota4rt only if you really weren’t trying to hit on her, and only if you actually are just asking. If that’s true then that’s a funny lighthearted way to course correct the conversation. But it’s not her fault for thinking that something else was going on! :)
Whaddya mean I can't debate women into liking me? If I catch her in a lie she's bound to concede the segs.
Cody on behalf of all women thank you for your thoughtful critique of this creepy weirdo! Just that you have the awareness to understand how uncomfortable this kind of thing can make a person feel is so nice and rare!
nice virtue signaling, but you realize he told the kid to keep on doing it in the end right....... at least you made sure to tell some people that you are on the 'right' side
@@sarmstrong7014 pretty sure that was a joke..
If he was good looking you wouldnt care. Ive never had a problem talking with women. When one of my "not so good looking" friends tries it for some reason women all of a sudden dont like it 😂 f outta here. We arent dumb
@@tyrellleach1846Yeah pretty much. Part of me feels bad because dude is just trying his best and (probably) has no ill intent, just not great with words. Like you said, if he was physically attractive with no rizz he wouldn’t be considered a creep, just a little awkward. But because he is a average/below average dude he must be a predator.
@@xXnostalgicXx exactly. Put it this way. Most guys are a little nicer and will let em down easy but if a 10 out of 10 girl started talking to you trying to pick you up you would probably be all for it. If it was an overweight ugly girl all of a sudden you probably arent interested. Works both ways lol women just try and use the "creep card" so they dont seem like shallow b****s
As a woman, this gives me the woooorrsst feeling, both secondhand and firsthand. Like leave me alone, I literally just want to exist.
As a woman, I totally agree
@@LesGrossman69dietcoke Wtf is your username???
@@shiannafoxx it’s simply the best, that’s all you need to know queen
GO WATCH *GLOW*
Ok, but women don’t ask guys out. This means guys have to ask women out. If guys have to ask women out then this shit will happen.
This guy isn’t being mean. He is just weird. He also leaves and doesn’t harass these women once rejected.
You can tell a girl is into you when they seem unsure about telling you their first name
Username checks out
These women look like they wanna run but are scared he'll attack them if they do
Yeah, while watchingt this video, I think some people would watch the women's interactions and think "why not just walk away" like the one girl in the mall did, but I'm pretty sure even she would have had a different reaction had she been in a less public area like the hiker... The hiker clip was so terrifying when thinking about how long it would take for someone to even find her body (or save her if she was just badly injured) if he was a violent psycho... I would've been scared to death in her shoes.
I always got a fake name ready to go for situations where people ask my name and I don’t feel comfortable giving it. This has come in especially handy when dealing with rude customers at my customer service job
is no one talking about how he's just recording them without their consent? if someone did this to me AND POSTED IT i would feel so violated
This is just ridiculous
This ain’t legal, right? Those people should be able to demand that the videos of them are taken down because it infringes their rights.
@@theghost00 You can film people in public without their consent. But they usually have power to remove the video or ask for it to be blurred on youtube and other social media platforms.
It’s not illegal to film someone if it’s in public
then dont go in public ig
Just a friendly reminder, we’re not polite to guys doing this because we care about their feelings. It’s because we are terrified that they will react poorly or violently if we are too blunt. Most of us women have learned that the hard way.
both men and women act nice because people have a tendency to react poorly to rejection, it's not just a woman thing.
@@asmbeats5369 anyone can react badly, but i'm guessing that women dont often attack or murder men who reject their romantic advances in public lol. It's very different circumstances.
@@Goat.Cheese Women are as likely to initiate violence just as men are.
@ASM Beats well mostly women have to deal with shit like this so mostly they have to act like that in such cases
@@asmbeats5369 when has a man ever been assaulted for rejecting a woman? I'm pretty sure their first thought isn't, "How can I get out of this safely so I don't get hurt?"
imagine having a whole tiktok dedicated to making women worry they're gonna get kidnapped today
I just kept thinking about the girl in the white who visible cowered. The way she tucked her jacket and crossed her arms... Clearly there is a real trama there that he just triggered. What makes him think he has the right to do that to someone.
It’s not that big of a deal he’s just some weird dude he’s harmless
@@MrGFloyd assuming someone is harmless is how we end up dead. So no.
@@brattyandie9689 he’s a little Mexican kid nerd with a teddy bear on his head… come on now
@@MrGFloyd yeah you're right, people never use innocent imagery to put people at ease but go on
Just a tip...im a woman and I wld suggest not trying to hit on a woman when shes exercising! Idc if its in a gym, or out hiking, swimming laps, biking, running, but you get the point. Also if they have ear pods in or ear phones on, yeah....NO
“this guys idea of flirting is telling this woman her marriage might fail”
spat out my coffee
He knows he’s bad at it he posts it cuz it’s funny lol read any of the comments on his tik toks
no because he picks the worst places to talk to women. like its 5pm and im trying to get my groceries. please leave me alone.
Exactly! Like she’s on the phone, leave her alone!!!!
in the FROZEN FOOD aisle like ?? she only has so much time before those need to be in another freezer
If I'm picking up groceries I do not want to make conversations with not a damn person
If you aren’t gonna buy my groceries, then don’t even try to talk to me. Same with gas stations. If you’re gonna try to come up to me at a gas station, you better be paying for and pumping my goddam gas.
Here's the thing...I've rarely approached many women in my life but I actually met my fiance by conversing with her in the grocery store. (Granted, she wasn't on the phone.) The thing is, the guy in the video clearly has autism and generally it's that type of person who ends up approaching women as opposed to someone who is somewhat well adjusted.
if i was ever spoken to like that in public i would shake for the rest of the time i was there. quite literally. it really sucks that women should be expected to engage with people who wanna hit on them in public and disrespect their boundaries, especially by FILMING THEM without their consent
You would shake because a guy hit on you... That's not normal
@@wiswc hitting on random women in the middle of nowhere is the thing that isn't normal my guy
@@wiswc that was obviously an exaggeration but she probably couldn't sit still or stay still out of anxiety and nervousness. No worries deserves to be approached like this especially after making it clear they are not interested. Feel second hand embarrassment
It's only annoying and scary, when he isn't handsome . But once a good looking guy approaches women, that's considered as cute.
@@justarandomdude6910 If an attractive guy had the same delivery as this weirdo he'd get the same results. It's not about looks, it's about not being creepy and knowing what is appropriate when and in what contexts.
I'm surprised so many people stop and actually talk to him. I'd defo pretend I hadn't heard or seen him
If I told a guy I was married and he proceeded to tell me “well sometimes they don’t work out”, all bets are off and I’m responding with something mean as hell.
rude
I always do this. This is why wearing headphones/earbuds is a must, makes it more believable you didn't hear anything. it's pretty foolproof in deterring weirdos in my experience
people probably did that and he just posts the good ones
@Nonaya Bidness pretending you don't hear someone and ignoring them is rude
He's a pick up artist. When he gets shot down, he picks himself up.
this is too fucking underrated
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He should stay down
These bots have gotten so bad on youtube
🎵Pissin' the night away 🎵
„You ever been told you look like…, you ever been told…Hi“ so awfully uncomfortable 😖
It's not even not understanding social cues, it's a complete lack of empathy and understanding
I'm autistic and even I can read the first girls body language.
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I am as well and I couldn’t. But, I wouldn’t do this in a million years.
Seriously, lol. You have a good sense of humor too.
yeah exactly same
“As smooth as sandpaper” is my new favorite way to describe these creeps
"You like hiking?"
No, she's there because she doesn't like hiking
Reminds me of a time when this man wouldn’t leave me alone coming off the train, then proceeded to walk straight into a dense metal pillar and tried to pretend it didn’t hurt. I was scared but it was also fucking priceless karma
another day in being a woman and having to be nice to some random creep because you dont wanna get hurt
as a fellow woman, i disagree. i would never be nice to a creep like this. i’m like 120lbs. and i’d beat his ass 😂
I'm teaching my daughter to keep walking, kick hard, punch in the throat, and scream as loud as she can. I'm considering having her carry a knife when she's 16.
@@DBSG1976 yes 🙌🏼
@@DBSG1976 wtf
@@datura_boof wym wtf? you scared she gonna attack you one day bozo?
As a woman this is sadly a common occurrence. Being hit on while you're just trying to go home for example. Worst part is having to act nice eventhough you really don't even want to be talking to them, while at the same time being scared (sometimes terrified)of the risk of pissing them of/what they might do. Most dudes are harmless but you never know and that's the terrifying part. There's a time and place for it, randomly approaching a girl on the street isn't it.
Also sometimes having to lie and say you have a boyfriend because that's the only thing they'll respect and leave you alone for. Already being "claimed".🙁
exactly. since middle school i’ve been hit on on occasion, especially when it was clearly visible i was a minor
@@liajones6098 I'm so sorry to hear that 😥. It's just not ok how it feels like all they care about at that point is their own urges.
Honestly I don't get it anymore, guys are supposed to make the first move but if they did and they're not attractive or they misjudged the right moment to approch then they're a creep and a bad person even tho they had no bad intentions
They don’t always even respect you being “claimed” that’s what sucks
@@wiswc Facts mate, this comment section is really exposing some weirdo women in here who literally shake when a guy interacts with them.
So much of this is women being socialized into being polite or face violence from men. These men prey on it
i’m pretty sure that a few weeks ago someone tried to do this to me. the guy came up to me and talked exactly in the same way that these guys typically do, saying “excuse me i just had to tell you you’re beautiful” and then trying to start a conversation, and talking in that rushed way. i really hope i don’t end up on tiktok xd
Dude just likes making women uncomfortable - its harassment for his “content” 🤮
@Nonaya Bidness he’s got an entire channel devoted to harassing women just going about their lives like that’s not a dude looking for a date, that’s a dude looking for clout/views - it’s a joke to him
@@CMLink shut up snowflakes!! Have you seen other tiktoks of feminists saying awful things about men. What about that??
You don't speak for all women
@@johnmaris1582 you’re late to the party & your copy/paste comment makes no sense but have a nice day ✌🏼
In general unless you’re asking for directions and they’re the only person around NEVER stop somebody with earbuds in cause you know they probably have earbuds in to not be bothered by random strangers…if i got earbuds in i for sure am not looking to be “picked up” by someone as confident as Courage the cowardly dog
hey don’t do my boy courage like that. He might be a scared little dog but he’ll do anything for Muriel and that’s what matters.✌️
"Your like my target, girl"
Chris is an assassin confirmed. Kills with cringe.
I would never return to that store after that
I think he said “you’re my target crush”
0:35 Hiking, weird guy, alone...
Dude its the start of a horror story man XD
5:34 - the tooth flying out caught me way off guard. 10/10 editing. Didn’t need to do it but it’s fucking sending me 🤣
i was searching for a comment about this😂😂
I could find no comments about this and started to convince myself I was hallucinating until I finally found this comment. Thank you for your service.
Finally after 12 minutes I found this comment. I was about to comment this, but I wanted to not steal. I'm so glad I found this comment, what a life saver. This comment is pretty good. Ummm. It has an emoji. Hyphen after the time stamp is a nice touch. The f word was not needed. It makes this comment only appropriate to certain ages. The grammar could be better. The composition of the last sentence isn't correct because it doesn't have a subject. The first sentence isn't capitalized. "10/10 editing." isn't a proper sentence. I still love this comment it's so chill it could be a text sent to a comrade. I hope you see my comment. XOXO pregnant emoji.
Was starting to think I was the only one that cought that lmao 😅
THANK YOU. I watched it over and over again, like wtf was that?! You can see if fly out. I was so confused 😂🤣
Chris should take some pointers from Cody: "Excuse me?" "Yeah?" "Nevermind"
That's the way to do it, leave those poor girls alone 👍🏻
Cody and the rest of you let the joke fly completely over your heads reacting like this guy was serious. He's obviously trolling. Y'all stoopid for believing it lolololol
I can’t believe the ‘have you ever had a dream’ kid grew up and became a sleepy tiktoker
Don't do him like that 😭
I also doubt these women knew they were being filmed, let alone having their faces uploaded to TikTok. So many levels of uncomfortable
It’s weird how this guy goes up to any female he sees, and then just immediately starts asking pointless or stupid questions. “Are you hiking?” Oh no haha I’m actually swimming right now.
"Females"???🙄🙄🗑🗑🗑
@@zammymynakersnackstbmoth I was thinking the same thing lmaooo
@@zammymynakersnackstbmoth i don’t think their choice of the word “female” is the right hill to die on, can i ask why it’s so offensive to some people? i don’t understand that one
@@fvckaskeleton it’s just degrading. The term female is usually used when knowing the gender of animals. Women don’t go around calling guys “males” so I don’t understand where the whole calling them females thing came from
@@bottomtextmafia5733 idk i’ve personally heard many women refer to men as “males” i’m not saying you shouldn’t be offended but i don’t think many people mean it in an offensive way it’s just a term for a gender
This actually makes my skin crawl. Ive experienced this and its kinda dreadful when you are approached out of no where by some man, whom you do not know, and hes giving off EXTREMELY creepy vibes like that. Its scary when you dont know whether to ignore them or keep talking, because you never know what someones intentions are. So just LEAVE US TF ALONE PLEASE.
I don't think men understand how annoying or even scary it is to be a woman in public. I want to go out and do things without random men approaching me and demanding my attention. And the audacity he has to record and post these encounters with random women who don't want anything to do with him? I hate pickup artists. They just add to some dudes entitlement for women's attention.
It's only annoying and scary, when he isn't handsome . But once a good looking guy approaches women, that's considered as cute.
Edit; wtf!! everyone is having a mental breakdown down there😂😂 please take serious safety precautions, cuz apparently you can't share your opinions on social media without being ridiculed "especially if you are a man".
@@justarandomdude6910 No it's not dude. I don't want any man ever approaching me when I'm alone in public or just in public in general. Leave me the fuck alone, I don't care what you look like. Ted Bundy was VERY attractive. 😒
@@justarandomdude6910 Hope you're having fun posting cringe comments, my guy.
I always find it really scary
@@Wambario I'm not implying that all men harass women in public. Most do not. What I am saying is that men cannot understand what it is like to be a woman in public. It is exhausting having some random men catcall you, try to touch you, and continue to bother you when you tell them to leave you alone repeatedly. This is not an experience that most men relate to but an experience that a ton of women relate to.
This is so dangerous. This guy should not put people on the internet without their permission. :/
I can say from experience that 90% of these women, immediately following this experience, text their best friends about how some creepy guy bothered them in public today
I was just gonna say the same thing haha
YES
Something like this happened to me recently and I immediately told 2 of my friends cause I felt uncomfortable and just wanted to talk to someone.
And I guess I was looking for confirmation that this situation was weird and that I was not mean by simply walking away. Kinda sucks to feel this need to justify my own behaviour at all times... 🙃
he's creepy cause he wasn't chad
@@snr9077 Had the exact same experience, told my whole family and both of my best friends immediately after, my brother was like 10 mins late from getting to him before he harassed me or while he was harassing me
I needed confirmation I wasn’t to blame too, especially after being blamed by my SISTER of all people…
approaching and hitting on women alone on a hike like this..
totally not gross and creepy
like the whole rest of her hike she was probably looking over her shoulder to see if she was being followed.
these women aren’t just being polite because they’re uneasy, they’re genuinely worried for their own safety
Sierra B i couldn't have said it better myself
No serial killer vibes at all nope
Do guys not understand how scary it is for them to walk up to a woman and expect literally anything from us? We never know what they’re going to do especially when they hang around like this guy and especially when they get rejected. Guys like this are scary and sometimes dangerous I wish this whole thing would stop this is why I’m so scared of men
This is why I will never ever approach anyone in public 😭
Yeah, and then the thick-headed dudes disagreeing in the comments are just bitchy because they can’t handle the idea of being responsible for their actions. What a bunch of children!
It’s so messed up. If I’m leaving the house to go into the city alone or taking public transit, I can’t even wear the clothes I wanna wear because the harassment got so bad. I now wear a huge hoodie/baggy pants/ a mask/headphones even on a hot day to try and deter the creeps, and the messed up part is that doesn’t even always work
It's only annoying and scary, when he isn't handsome . But once a good looking guy approaches women, that's considered as cute.
Edit:: You see Karens started attacking me for speaking the truth🤪
@@justarandomdude6910 I'm still scared if a good looking guy approaches me in public, it's just weird. also that comment has massive incel energy.
What an absolute stud. I am learning so much! What am I supposed to do after I get the harassment charges? Apreesh what you do, chris!
Had a guy do this to me this morning, and I no longer feel guilty for completely ignoring/speed-walking past them now. It’s not cute, it’s creepy.
Learned this after moving to a city and started dealing with this sh!t every week or so. Nah, ain't gonna waste my effort on some random ass men when I know what they want from me
Straight up terrifying. Especially when there are no other people or girls around. Just run away
Yeah the thing is too for women (not even to mention women of color, lgbt+ folks, etc) you have to calculate in your mind how bad the situation can get if you’re “mean” to these guys. And being “mean” can be as simple as kindly saying you’re not interested.
You just never know if it’s someone that’s innocently trying to get to know you or if it’s a warning sign for someone that could hurt you.
These videos encourage other guys like this to walk up to people they don’t know and record them, hit on them, make them uncomfortable, etc.
Yeah, while watchingt this video, I think some people would watch the women's interactions and think "why not just walk away" like the one girl in the mall did, but I'm pretty sure even she would have had a different reaction had she been in a less public area like the hiker... The hiker clip was so terrifying when thinking about how long it would take for someone to even find her body (or save her if she was just badly injured) if he was a violent psycho... I would've been scared to death in her shoes.
The tooth flying out threw me so off guard 💀
I like how you can see the light leave Cody's eyes as he goes through every stage of grief
I wish I could say "go away please" to those who approach me like this, but then I would be scared they will pull me away when I'm not looking and do something awful to me. So everytime I have to be polite and I hate it.
Ngl the tooth flying off made me jump
literally lmfao
Ok I’m glad somebody else noticed it too
I wasn’t seeing any comment about and I thought I was going crazy
Wtf was that? How does that happen
@@HunnnieKay i came here to look for this comment too lmao i thought i was missing an inside joke or something
The worst part is that the comments on his page have multiple people defending him and telling him he's got game. People say things like "At least he is trying" or "All the haters are just jealous you're actually trying and they aren't". It annoys me to no end to see people just support or defend this behavior, that 95% of the time is creepy or weird.
That's like saying somebody running into traffic and getting splattered is admirable because other people didn't even try. Bro, other people waited for the appropriate time and place, like a green light at a crosswalk maybe?
What comments are you reading because every one I've read was the same "L" type comments
First Rule of Public Filming: If you gonna film a person, ask for permission. So that is already a thing he doesn't follow
First Rule of Conversation: Signs of discomfort, stop what you do, but he apparently so confident he is also blind.
First Rule of being a decent Human: Don't do this
These poor women are trying to get away while still being nice because we know if we’re mean it could end badly for us.
When Cody said, "Let's watch this again" I accidentally yelled out: "Nooo!!!" Sorry to my cats, who I woke up with my yelling.
I think it’s important to point out that that’s not women acting nice to spare his feelings, that is what anxiety and discomfort looks like in another human being. When they keep responding and are nervously weaving, trying to walk away or continuing to do what they were doing while speaking in a monotone voice like that? They’re afraid. They’re trying to appease you so you don’t blow up and start yelling or start following them or otherwise become violent or scary. There’s no coming back from that, you’re not going to change their mind. Just leave them alone.
Seriously, he’s trying to pick up women on a hiking trail of all places? With that level of self-awareness, he might as well try and pick up women during a funeral service next. Seems about just as appropriate of a time and place to do it lol. 😆
MAAAAA!!!!! THE MEATLOAF!!!!!
He should definitely try his hand on the cemetery
Some people are just that horny that any situation is considered an opportunity to "pick up"!
I literally never stop or acknowledge when a random person in public tries to talk to me. "Excuse me can I ask you a question?" from any adult man tells me to stare straight ahead and keep walking. It is freeing to realize you don't owe random ass people your attention or even a glance in their direction.
it is absolutely I agree, but sometimes it’s scary to think that men would take offense to it and start harassing you
@@nat7611 you literally cannot win with men, and it's horrifying
literally? never? lol yea man
Sounds to me like you are just an asshole tbh. Not everyone is out to get you and someone could be asking you any number of questions. If they harass you then be as mean as you want, Iv told many people to fuck off, but don't judge an interaction before it even happens.
Same. I'm a Virgo, I have shit to do.
What's pretty interesting is that he seems to be following *exactly* what these online pickup artists teach.
The forced confidence, the "teasing", the "high value" mindset, everything.
He's just doing it in such a bizarre way that the connection isn't apparent immediately.
This is actually so triggering I could not watch this without Cody’s commentary lmao, thanks Cody ❤️❤️
why'd cody's tooth go FLYING like that😭😭😭
LMFAOOOO
I THOUGHT NO ONE ELSE NOTICED
HFJSJGJ FR 😭 I HAD TO REWIND LMAO
I was looking for this comment I’m so confused 😭🤣🤣
facts it just pieces out at @5:35
A guy started talking to me while I had headphones in on the train. I was polite but said no when he asked for my Facebook. He found me on Facebook using my first name only 2 months later to tell me he thought I was fat and ugly lmaoo
Lmao. He was so mad he scoured facebook 2 while months later just to insult somebody he hit on
Jesus 🤦♂️
The ego on that man 😭
Should have told him your name is Yaf
He sure got you! Obsessing with some stranger to the point of stalking her Facebook and sending her hateful messages, sounds like a real champion
“I’m married” should be his queue to leave the poor woman alone. But I guess.. not.
*cue
@@doeeyes2 my bad 😳
when I was a teenager, an adult man followed me in a Target and cornered me at one end of the store to engage me in a conversation very similar to this guy in the video. I felt so unsafe and creeped out, and this guy just reminds me of what that was like. it really doesn’t get any less uncomfortable as an adult.
Shout out to every man who isn’t like this! The ones that step in when they can tell we’re uncomfortable! Thank you for having our backs!
Exactly! Shoutout to those kings :))
that's the bare minimum.
@@brittanyshaw3156 bare minimum for what?
@@blast2686 for not creeping on women....it's like shoutout to those girls who don't falsely accuse. That's the bare minimum.
As a guy if I saw this I would definitely say something. I hate this kinda dudes
Watching these videos makes my heart rate go up because I swear these guys don’t realise the sickening feeling you get in your stomach when you realise some weirdo has got you in his sights. All of your senses are on high alert and you have your polite poker face ready to go (because angering the creep can make things worse) and the main objective is to get away as soon as you can. It honestly ruins the whole day because you’re trying to shake the feeling that the guy is still following you or has info about you. It makes you feel gross. And then you just have a replay of every single news headline, statistic and true crime podcast that talks about the amount of women who are stalked/murdered/raped by some pervert nobody just playing on repeat in your head. Fucking hate this guy for doing this shit for sport.
No ones going to talk about how the black guy tried to save that one girl and she didn’t pick up on it? He totally tried to be her way out and she was so thrown off by this creep. Guys like him are the real MVP, thanks for trying lol
Yess lol he tried oh well
That guy is actually his friend lol you women are assuming too much
@@fazemac5824 why would he have a much better looking friend friend help him hit on a girl? lol
proof?
@@dollybites He’s apparently in some of his other videos
That black guy knows Chris, he is a tiktoker as well lol
This is the Fucking worst. There’s some people who will openly not care if you are backing away, say you have a significant other, or even say no. They just keep trying to hit on you or follow you around and it feels so uncomfortable
It all comes down to the right time to flirt because without that it’ll turn an already awkward situation worse. You can flirt at a bar and it’ll look normal, however flirting in a place like an empty parking lot or in the middle of nowhere, while someone’s working out and especially THE BATHROOM is really creepy. That’s why everyone calls flirting creepy now, because of the location, it may be also from the overall vibe form the person. Beware of that too.
Yeah exactly as a woman I don’t mind being approached at a club or party or bar. But not on a hiking trail please that’s scary lol
And please for the love of God if they turn you down or say they have a boyfriend LEAVE THEM ALONE. It's one thing for a guy to hit on you, but it turns incredibly scary if they persist after you've shot them down. That's a red flag for someone who doesn't mind scaring or hurting you.
Did you see his video with the girl in the change room ? Dude is begging to get arrested
I'm gonna unironically say that social media has ruined people because just because you can film someone, doesn't mean you should ❤️
"let's watch this again and analyze" I'm sorry I'm gonna have to sit this one out. Love ya bud see you in the next one. 😆
Literally couldn’t sit through the video 💀
I think he's confident in posting his disastrous failures at picking up girls
its scary that cody said there are multiple people making this content. being approached like this in public leaves me shaking and nauseous. i can see the anxiety and fear in their faces and i know he ruined their days. this is literal harassment. everyone better be going and reporting his account because he shouldnt be allowed to make this type of content.
"Pick-up artistry" like this is a huge thing in some pockets of the internet. It's a whole ecosystem of predation, with men at the top preying on the insecurities of their impressionable male audience so they can sell more pick-up artist books and videos, and then at the bottom you have the aspiring pick-up artists basically being taught to harass women.
I've seen many comments stating that this kind of interactions leave women terrified and I'm seriously curious as to why. I mean, I get it if the dude approaches you in the middle of the night but at target? idk maybe it's because I'm Spanish and catcalling and pick up culture are not as prevalent here.
@@brittaistheworst7523 there have been endless occasions where we hear women get murdered or kidnapped after rejecting a guy. as a woman, i have to constantly live in fear even when men don't approach me, because 99% of r*pe cases are by men. i have friends and family that have been in these horror stories you may claim will never happen to me. if you ask any woman, they'll say the same, so it's not a one-off claim. we ALL have had assault happen to us or have a close friend or family that it has happened to. it's terrifying that we are constantly hoping we don't run out of luck every time this type of interaction occurs, so yeah. hope this gives u a bit of an insight. you can always learn more by listening to the women around you when they talk about things like this, because it's real and it's happening in front of your eyes. for whatever reason, you may just have not noticed it.
@@brittaistheworst7523 because there are alot of men unfortunely who will literally follow women around or even to their cars afterwards when not paying attention...its just uncomfy because you don't know what to expect next and there a high percentage in harassment, SA, etc.
@@aishatrbl Im a woman tho
I love this video because you’re actually highlighting just how fucking psychotic “pick up artists” are, and the same about catcalling in general. You have to be a straight up degenerate to act this way in public, like holy shit…
Respect to the girl who just walked away.
"What if he develops a severe drinking problem" had me in tears
Ooof, first clip and I am already cringing. This might be a rough video to get through. You are a saint for brining us such content Cody!
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Cody reacting to tik toks adds at least 3 years to my life span.