I'd definitely call that attempted murder! I'm glad to hear the guy was arrested and glad that somebody actually stepped up to help this person and didn't just record on their phone
@@jaklg7905right! That’s why for the LIFE of me, I can NOT understand why ppl complain about filming. I personally have NEVER seen a person in danger, where someone filmed vs getting help. Ironically, EVERY case of someone dying because they didn’t get help, it was due to people thinking ‘not my business’ & walking away. I just don’t understand how people don’t realize that it’s very possible to 1- dial 911 THEN begin filming and 2- film & ask someone else to call 911. I’ve also NEVER seen a video where there was only ONE bystander filming themselves arriving on scene & doing nothing other than filming. These videos usually always begin in the middle of the incident (meaning there was plenty of time for 911 to be called). Also when someone is seriously injured, you can make things WORSE, if ur not medically trained. It’s actually BEST to call 911 and let THEM tell you what to do vs doing it in reverse. Also like u said-filming is beneficial in numerous ways. NUMEROUS
You were wise. It is also unusual for the man in a couple, to be the one to suggest a cruise. I was a Travel Agent for 30 years and it was always the women who suggested a cruise (when it was their first time to cruise), after the first time, yes men often did.
A narcissist will go out of their way to ruin all vacations holidays birthdays etc. …it’s their mission. Never go on a cruise with them it’s just to tempting for them to toss you over. Feel for the ones who have to figure that out that hard way. Prayers for the lady passenger.
Y’all obviously haven’t actually been fully involved with a narcissist parent, spouse or friend I see. Even if not malignant they or dangerous especially to vulnerable people they prey upon. Very happy you haven’t had to go through that hell. Have a blessed day.
@@gingerl2995 no, but Im friends with people who have diagnosed NPD, and it’s heavily misunderstood. Not invalidating what you suffered through, but to characterize every person with a disorder the same way isnt right. I see it done the same with BPD too, and other personality disorders.
@@goobert5485 amazing because I know more narcissists than I care too and not one of them would ever admit they have any issue or need help. Even if you drag them there they wouldn’t stay on treatment plan. I’m sorry but no mental diagnoses can convince me these people aren’t vibrating at the bottom of the scale. They enjoy seeing others suffer period. In my decades of research have never seen one rehabilitated. Not one. I respect your opinions but these people literally all have the exact same playbook even use exact same phrases. There is more to this than a diagnosis. As the old timers would say… these are the wolves in sheeps clothing. And the evil we were warned about but because there is a “mental diagnoses” it’s made them a victim. They are not! I’ve seen and experienced things supernatural with these people. This goes much deeper than people realize.
@@goobert5485allow me to enlighten you as someone who spent years prosecuting DV cases. Most abusers had in common the key traits of narcissism, regardless whether clinically diagnosed yet, with some also falling diagnostically in the category of antisocial personality disorder (sociopathy). You chose to needlessly split hairs over a comment that was never made. The OP didn’t say “all narcissists are abusers” but rather “abusers are narcissists,” which is accurate. Can you understand the difference? I can explain it like I do now as a judge when speaking to a jury but I’ll trust you can grasp this distinction and try to be less sanctimonious and confrontational over nothing in the future
Hubby and I was having problems and took a 7 day in January and it made things so much better. We had never been away from our 5 kids the entire 14 years together (27-12 age range Brady bunch) and all we did was work work work. It was the best 7 days ever. We are going back in February. ❤
As someone who was in an abusive relationship and i wanted to travel and go places and no matter where i went he had to go and always became extra abusive. It was horrible, thankfully i got out of that years ago. My heart breaks for the woman. I already know all the feelings shes going through including victims guilt..we think its our own fault usually..i hope she gets help and away from that evil man..thank you and everyone that helped. I never got help sadly except for my decision to give up and leave. The moments when people show they care always helps the victim
Me as well. When we went away the abuse became worse because of accusations of me being flirtatious or even if someone looked my way. It wasn't happening that way, but there was no way of convincing him - he didn't see it that way. I left that relationship years ago, but when I see this it triggers memories and I can only imagine what that women went through that night. Thanks for bringing this out Jay. It just shows how things can escalate anywhere - even on a cruise.
I use to work front desk in hotels and I can't tell you the amount of men and women being physically assaulted by their S/O its crazy when people are swinging and throwing stuff in front of strangers. I always wondered what is going on at home, its much worse. Its sad on both parts.
That man who stopped the attempted murderer better not get in trouble!! For climbing that railing. She needed help and he is a hero. So are all the others who went for help
I’ve said this before; Cruising brings out all the emotions from excitement to joy, sometimes disappointment or frustration. Alcohol lowers the self control filter and fuels poor decisions into action. Kudos to the brave man to intervene. Thanks Jay, safe travels!
WOW! That is insane! I hope the guy next door that traversed the balcony does not also get in trouble. He technically broke a huge rule, BUT he very possibly saved the woman from serious injury or worse!
Good thing is with the design of the seascape, going over board is unlikely, the woman would've probably landed on the deck if she was pushed off the balcony.
Dang, I don't think this has even hit the news yet. My husband and I bicker every once in a while. That's pretty normal but to want to throw someone overboard? Especially your wife??? thank God the younger guy was there to help her. This is beyond crazy.
This your best vid yet. You hit so many valid points I feel attacked. Arguing with your significant other on a special trip is the worst case scenario, aside from maybe getting arrested or injured.
I understand and agree with you Jay. I have cruised several times with folks that I shouldn't have been with at all from other travel agents to friends that I was sharing a cabin with on the cruise. Exactly why I cruise solo now or have my own cabin even on a business or group cruise. I cannot share my peace and space with anybody that is going to hinder me enjoying myself, doing training or business. Keep doing what you do the best way for you to get it done. Sorry to hear about that situation and glad it was resolved safely.
My husband used to do corporate computer training and traveled internationally three weeks a month. People were always surprised I didn't go with him. After talking to students all day, he definitely didn't want to deal with me. It was work, not pleasure, travel. There's a big difference.
Its crazy you just happen to have been right there! Im so thankful that man risked his own safety to jump across the partition! Hes a true hero! Love your videos, J!
man oh man, that's insane! I had to intervene in a number of situations like that when I was private security guard....I was a contractor and the head of security for the client (I was at the same client most of the time) would tell me I was supposed to observe and report, but San Jose Police would pat me on the back and say I did everything they would have hoped for me to do. Of course, when I was in the Navy, not intervening would be considered dereliction of duty, but I guess in the civilian world some think it's ok to wait 5 minutes for PD to arrive while a guy kidnaps his ex-wife and their infant son. (that's one of the situations I was in as a private security guard! And that head security guy chided me for intervening to keep them apart until PD got there! I was like "dude, by your logic I would have observed and reported a kidnapping. Sometimes a man has to do what a man has to do.") Always nice to meet a fellow Real Man who feels that protective instinct. 🙂
What a helpless feeling. I am so glad you all were able to assist her and that he did not succeed in throwing her off. I am glad he was arrested and hope she is able to stay away from him when she gets home. You made excellent points. People come in all types and bad people sail too. When alcohol is added and with some unlimited drink packages people who normally don’t get that drunk can spell a disaster. Definitely words of wisdom in your post today. Thanks for all your hard work.
My husband and I went on a cruise in May our first ,😥🥱had the worst time with him ever .I did nothing but eat and babysit him for 7 days ,he would start drinking at 10 am until he crawl into bed by the time I came home I was so stress that I got sick for 3 weeks and he have the nerve want to go back in November for 14 day 😃😃😃over my dead body .Just by watching your blog I learn so much and didn’t get to enjoy our 5 grand vacation !
I dont think it was reckless, i think he did what a man should do, glad he was the victor of this struggle cause we know real life aint the movies, the good guy doesnt always win❤️🙏🏾
My Cruisin Cousin, we tease her and call her a "cruise junkie" just got back from a Royal Caribbean cruise and her and her boyfriend said they would never, ever go on another cruise in August because there were too many kids on the ship probably sailing before school starts. My Cousin loves cruising as much as you do Jay. I'm glad they arrested that creep who tried to throw that woman off the balcony - how horrible. Love to you and Lauren.
I’m glad that younger guy came to the lady rescue; also glad you and the other guys was willing to help out incase security didn’t show up in time!!! There’s no excuse for him to behave like that! I agree it’s so important to be selective about who you plan to cruise with. You know what kind of person you’re married to, or dating. If that person gets upset about any little thing, then don’t think he/she will be different on a cruise!!! That situation could have easily ended up in that lady loosing her life…. Thanks for sharing; and for willing to help out; we need more people to be willing to help those that can’t help themselves……
Always a pleasure Jay. I absolutely love my better half and would never bring strangers into our relationship issues. We love cruising and for the most part are always hand in hand when we are out and about. Just being a cruise brings us so much joy and peace. BYW…love the new haircut
God bless that man who was next to the couple’s balcony as well as yourself and those who ran to help. It’s disgusting how some men treat their partners.
This is so disheartening. We must always be aware that things like this can and do occur unfortunately. I pray the women is in a safe place now and she receives the help she needs.
You are absolutely correct. Going with the right people is essential. As well as picking the correct cruise line and destination. Great work. Love your videos!
Not an event expected, but you never know the ulterior motive people may have when planning a cruise. It's a blessing to see other travelers step up and help. My hubby and I had an argument in our stateroom on our recent cruise to Alaska, but we solved the issue in the room. There was never a thought to hurt each other because the things you say and do can have consequences. If there are not any good vibes with people that you are planning on going on a trip with, whether by ship, train, or plane, don't go with them, even with the hope that the interactions will get better. Save yourself and your sanity!!
you are so so right pick the right ppl to cruise with you. i invited a co worker and her daughter to cruise with me and my family boy that was the biggest mistake ever co worker was like someone i never knew and her daughter was nightmare it was like i was in the twilight zone.
Dude don't apologize; you need to be true to yourself, your family and your girlfriend. Your videos are well done, informative and useful. Since this is your business, run it as YOU see fit, ignoring naysayers and haters.
Maybe I'm jaded... but now I'm more interested in the explanation of why you're on that cruise. Also, very good insight on the stress of spending money on vacation.
Totally agree you kept that 💯 and it needed to be said. My sister and I just got back from a cruise this week and we had the time of our life but I would not have been able to enjoy your cruise which is anyone in one room for five days thankfully it was my sister and it was amazing. Thnx I will continue to watch your RUclips channel.
I Agree with you. Be careful who you travel with. The claws come out a lot of times. I’m not a fan of MSC at this time and I cruise often. Amazing guy for saving this lady. Thanks for the great video.
The younger guy had him in a hold that he wasn't going to escape. Thanks for including the dancing man in the tropical shirt. He always puts a smile on my face.
I genuinely hope this lady is able to enjoy the rest of her cruise safely. And my god I pray she doesn’t go back and she finds someone who respects her. Everyone in similar situations deserves better. Also, that gentleman who leaped balcony’s is hero. He may not feel like it, but without him, who knows what her attackr would have done.
@@arleneaugustahair8393 by enjoy, I mean being able to relax a bit knowing that he can’t hurt her. I’m not saying she should party it up or go about the cruise as normal! But rather even just staying in her room and trying to relax as best as she can given the circumstances. Or if she chooses to go out and about, to just get out and walk around. Easier said than done, especially going through such a terrifying situation. It at least gives her time and space to hopefully figure some things out and maybe make a plan. At least, I hope she does. Not sure what happens when they port at the next location but hopefully given the severity, he’s turned over to land authorities.
The Good lord put a hero next door that night. How many would ever really help? So Brave. This man needs recognition. Future cruise credit or something. He risked his life for another. That deserves some reward🙏😀
What’s crazy is how often people take their S/O on cruises to actually “get rid” of them lol . The fact there’s a whole show with a couple of season dedicated to that is outrageous. Thankfully that wasn’t the case this time 🙏🏾 &’d ol boy who jumped balconies to help …. He’s the friggin 🐐
I can attest to the fact that if you have relationship problems in your daily life they WILL follow you on a cruise. You are then stuck with them for the duration of your cruise and both of you will just be miserable. If you are on the outs don’t take a cruise together because you will just be wasting your money.
Hey Jay ! I met you with my son at the port getting on , my husband and I was out there as well when this happened, I heard the screaming and I heard someone ask if you need help I think , I didn’t know you were down there. I didn’t have my contacts in so I wasn’t sure exactly what happened but I told my son I’m sure Jay will . Thank you for the video and I am glad she’s ok . We are actually in this video , love I’m on one of your videos but hate that’s it’s this circumstance. Oh and it was great to meet you . I hope to meet Lauren one day as well
GLAD TO KNOW HE WAS ARRESTED AND HOPEFULLY HE'LL BE CONVICTED!! YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY CORRECT, YOU DO A GREAT JOB OF MAKING IT LOOK EASY AND THAT'S PART OF THE PROFESSIONALISM. AS A TRAVEL ADVISOR, WE KNOW WHAT WE MUST DO AND HOW IT LOOKS EASY AT TIMES, BUT YOU MUST KNOW YOUR WORK TOO; OTHERWISE...BTW, LOVIN THE NEW LOOK JAY! TOO CUTIE! :)
I'm sorry this is unrelated I just watched the video of Alaska with your MOTHER!!!! OHHHHH I LOVED HER! She is so adorable! Great personality low key obviously proud of you and loves you. Easy to please! So refreshing! Thanks so much!
J, in a similar vein: I used to lead wilderness canoe trips. The outfitters printed in their list of do’s and don’ts - do not take this time to try to quit smoking! Yes, it creates stress but it also makes you less aware …. not a good thing in the wilderness!
That is horrifying. Good on you and all passenger's who got help immediately and didn’t just stand by. All of you probably saved this lady's life especially her cabin neighbor. Dude is an MVP.
As I see it, if two people have relationship difficulty together on land, their issues will only magnify in the more confined circumstances of a cruise. No matter how spacious their stateroom, they’re still forced to share its limited space, and can only spread out by a couple of hundred feet at most, even across decks. Kudos to you, security, and other passengers for intervening and the ultimate arrest of the domestic abuser. Without it, the victim might well have met an untimely end. Too, I’d hope the cruiseline would strongly facilitate her with local criminal reporting and then fly her to where she needed to be immediately. She’s in great danger if and when the guy is free.
I'm glad security responded at all. About a year ago my friend was on MSC with her family and she had problems with a group of rowdy passengers, reported it to crew and security and NOTHING was done. The trouble makers acted up the entire 5 day cruise. They were reported several times and NOTHING was done to make the complaining passengers more comfortable.
I just love all of your videos. Your words of wisdom are so on point. Be careful who you travel with is a great message. We get caught up in hanging out as couples we sometimes are willing to overlook annoying habits that people have. Thank you for being a good person that you and others got involved and didn’t pull out a phone first. Big KUDOS to that young man who pinned that beast daw. God has a purpose & blessings for him for sure. 🙏🏽😊
I am thanking God and the woman's next door neighbor that she is safe. This man obviously has some mental issues to even have a thought of throwing his wife, friend or whoever overboard. He needs some serious help and some jail time. You have made some really great points in this video. Thankyou Justin. Love from your #1 fan in Delray Beach. ❤❤❤❤
Hi J! Thank you for sharing this sad story. It’s terrible that people do this kind of thing to someone they are supposed to love and cherish! Thank you for your very accurate description of who you should, and should not cruise with. As a sidenote, what is the difference between an MSC cruise from the US as opposed to one from Europe?
I have a friend (who has since passed) that told me she was on a cruise a few years ago with a bf that beat her senseless. She said no one called security and all they did was yell through the walls to quiet down. She said no one questioned the bruises on her face the next day. She was held captive in that cabin and unfortunately never sought help when she could. Alcohol was the main factor-Its great this neighboring cruiser got involved. He deserves a commendation-
The young man who jumped over his balcony to help the woman is a true hero!!!
And incredibly stupid. You slip & fall to your death.
I'd definitely call that attempted murder! I'm glad to hear the guy was arrested and glad that somebody actually stepped up to help this person and didn't just record on their phone
Maybe, without seeing it, it's hard to say. Justin didn't record that part or didn't post it. The authorities will no doubt get to the bottom of it.
That recording will be crucial in the court case though.
He try to kill her
Exactly how I felt
@@jaklg7905right! That’s why for the LIFE of me, I can NOT understand why ppl complain about filming. I personally have NEVER seen a person in danger, where someone filmed vs getting help. Ironically, EVERY case of someone dying because they didn’t get help, it was due to people thinking ‘not my business’ & walking away.
I just don’t understand how people don’t realize that it’s very possible to 1- dial 911 THEN begin filming and 2- film & ask someone else to call 911. I’ve also NEVER seen a video where there was only ONE bystander filming themselves arriving on scene & doing nothing other than filming. These videos usually always begin in the middle of the incident (meaning there was plenty of time for 911 to be called).
Also when someone is seriously injured, you can make things WORSE, if ur not medically trained. It’s actually BEST to call 911 and let THEM tell you what to do vs doing it in reverse.
Also like u said-filming is beneficial in numerous ways. NUMEROUS
That young man was a hero. Good on him. We need more of these men. Good that you also went to help and alerted security.
And I hope he didn’t get in trouble for climbing over to help.
Talk about a good Man . We need more people like him 💙💖💙💖 he is never going to have a problem getting a girlfriend or a boyfriend 🥰🥰🥰
That’s exactly what I was thinking, I hope the young man did not get in trouble for jumping over the balcony to save the woman
So true
I agree.
Thank God people helped her. My ex-husband wanted to take me on a cruise and I refused because I was abused on land and the idea of going scared me.
You were wise. It is also unusual for the man in a couple, to be the one to suggest a cruise. I was a Travel Agent for 30 years and it was always the women who suggested a cruise (when it was their first time to cruise), after the first time, yes men often did.
Yes sis WISE! He was PROBABLY up to NO GOOD! Whew!
Omg
Oooh good for you!
Good call. Many people "Go missing" on cruise ships... Most times they find out the spouse/partner/lover threw them overboard into the water.
This is awful, glad you and other passengers were there to get help. And big kudos to the guy who jumped the balcony to subdue that disgusting man.
I'm hoping they don't punish him for climbing over the rail.
A narcissist will go out of their way to ruin all vacations holidays birthdays etc. …it’s their mission. Never go on a cruise with them it’s just to tempting for them to toss you over.
Feel for the ones who have to figure that out that hard way. Prayers for the lady passenger.
How do you know he was even a narcissist. Having a narcissistic personality disorder is not inherently dangerous or malicious, theyre people too
Y’all obviously haven’t actually been fully involved with a narcissist parent, spouse or friend I see. Even if not malignant they or dangerous especially to vulnerable people they prey upon.
Very happy you haven’t had to go through that hell.
Have a blessed day.
@@gingerl2995 no, but Im friends with people who have diagnosed NPD, and it’s heavily misunderstood. Not invalidating what you suffered through, but to characterize every person with a disorder the same way isnt right. I see it done the same with BPD too, and other personality disorders.
@@goobert5485 amazing because I know more narcissists than I care too and not one of them would ever admit they have any issue or need help. Even if you drag them there they wouldn’t stay on treatment plan. I’m sorry but no mental diagnoses can convince me these people aren’t vibrating at the bottom of the scale. They enjoy seeing others suffer period.
In my decades of research have never seen one rehabilitated. Not one.
I respect your opinions but these people literally all have the exact same playbook even use exact same phrases. There is more to this than a diagnosis.
As the old timers would say… these are the wolves in sheeps clothing. And the evil we were warned about but because there is a “mental diagnoses” it’s made them a victim. They are not!
I’ve seen and experienced things supernatural with these people. This goes much deeper than people realize.
@@goobert5485allow me to enlighten you as someone who spent years prosecuting DV cases. Most abusers had in common the key traits of narcissism, regardless whether clinically diagnosed yet, with some also falling diagnostically in the category of antisocial personality disorder (sociopathy). You chose to needlessly split hairs over a comment that was never made. The OP didn’t say “all narcissists are abusers” but rather “abusers are narcissists,” which is accurate. Can you understand the difference? I can explain it like I do now as a judge when speaking to a jury but I’ll trust you can grasp this distinction and try to be less sanctimonious and confrontational over nothing in the future
If you're not in good terms with your significant other then just cruise alone. I hope this man gets thrown in jail and charged for attempted murder.
I really thought this was common sense. That's the easiest place to..... you know what I'm saying.
@@Roxannegr1969very sadly yes we do 😞
Yep.. just go solo!!!!
Some abusers will never allow it - which is sad
Hubby and I was having problems and took a 7 day in January and it made things so much better. We had never been away from our 5 kids the entire 14 years together (27-12 age range Brady bunch) and all we did was work work work. It was the best 7 days ever. We are going back in February. ❤
As someone who was in an abusive relationship and i wanted to travel and go places and no matter where i went he had to go and always became extra abusive. It was horrible, thankfully i got out of that years ago. My heart breaks for the woman. I already know all the feelings shes going through including victims guilt..we think its our own fault usually..i hope she gets help and away from that evil man..thank you and everyone that helped. I never got help sadly except for my decision to give up and leave. The moments when people show they care always helps the victim
Me as well. When we went away the abuse became worse because of accusations of me being flirtatious or even if someone looked my way. It wasn't happening that way, but there was no way of convincing him - he didn't see it that way. I left that relationship years ago, but when I see this it triggers memories and I can only imagine what that women went through that night. Thanks for bringing this out Jay. It just shows how things can escalate anywhere - even on a cruise.
glad you are out of that situation
Thank you. I have never heard of victims guilt. I left my ex husband feeling guilty. Now I have a name for it.
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Me too! Glad there was help for her!
I use to work front desk in hotels and I can't tell you the amount of men and women being physically assaulted by their S/O its crazy when people are swinging and throwing stuff in front of strangers. I always wondered what is going on at home, its much worse. Its sad on both parts.
It’s a cry for help.
That's so crazy. Good thing there was someone who wasn't afraid to help. Thanks for the vids, Mr. Shiplife.
They weren’t afraid because no one has a gun
That man who stopped the attempted murderer better not get in trouble!! For climbing that railing. She needed help and he is a hero. So are all the others who went for help
I’ve said this before; Cruising brings out all the emotions from excitement to joy, sometimes disappointment or frustration. Alcohol lowers the self control filter and fuels poor decisions into action. Kudos to the brave man to intervene. Thanks Jay, safe travels!
WOW! That is insane! I hope the guy next door that traversed the balcony does not also get in trouble. He technically broke a huge rule, BUT he very possibly saved the woman from serious injury or worse!
@theshiplife1 so was the young man arrested as well?
@@naughtyginger3530 well if so the ship needs to be put out on front street
I often wonder how many people have left the balcony without their permission 😮
They should give that man who helped a free cruise. If that person had gone overboard it would have been devastating.
Good thing is with the design of the seascape, going over board is unlikely, the woman would've probably landed on the deck if she was pushed off the balcony.
@@brokentilebenchbut she may have hurt herself really badly even if she landed on the deck.
@@ME-js5hd oh definitely, but at least she wouldn't be lost in the middle of the ocean in pitch black darkness.
I'm surprised he wasn't punished for crossing balconies which is forbidden! Cruise ships aren't known to bend to real circumstances.
Yes
Dang, I don't think this has even hit the news yet. My husband and I bicker every once in a while. That's pretty normal but to want to throw someone overboard? Especially your wife??? thank God the younger guy was there to help her. This is beyond crazy.
This your best vid yet. You hit so many valid points I feel attacked. Arguing with your significant other on a special trip is the worst case scenario, aside from maybe getting arrested or injured.
Wow that's sad..hope the guy who jump over to help didn't get in trouble .
That was exactly what I was thinking.
He saved her life. I think the company would understand.
I understand and agree with you Jay. I have cruised several times with folks that I shouldn't have been with at all from other travel agents to friends that I was sharing a cabin with on the cruise. Exactly why I cruise solo now or have my own cabin even on a business or group cruise. I cannot share my peace and space with anybody that is going to hinder me enjoying myself, doing training or business. Keep doing what you do the best way for you to get it done. Sorry to hear about that situation and glad it was resolved safely.
That's a Real Man that he helped and Didn't just jump on his Cellular Device to Record it like everyone else. :)
I continue to watch and support your channel, because of how upfront and honest you represent the your content. Thanks my guy👍
Thank you!
That is so sad and scary!! Thankfully there was someone willing to help. I hope the woman is ok.
Damn you really understand how people feel. You really made me tear up.❤
My husband used to do corporate computer training and traveled internationally three weeks a month. People were always surprised I didn't go with him. After talking to students all day, he definitely didn't want to deal with me. It was work, not pleasure, travel. There's a big difference.
How terrifying, that poor woman. 😢
Its crazy you just happen to have been right there! Im so thankful that man risked his own safety to jump across the partition! Hes a true hero! Love your videos, J!
Hey Jay, we are praying for you and your family in Tampa, with the hurricane coming. Please be safe man.
Awesome video as always❤
man oh man, that's insane! I had to intervene in a number of situations like that when I was private security guard....I was a contractor and the head of security for the client (I was at the same client most of the time) would tell me I was supposed to observe and report, but San Jose Police would pat me on the back and say I did everything they would have hoped for me to do. Of course, when I was in the Navy, not intervening would be considered dereliction of duty, but I guess in the civilian world some think it's ok to wait 5 minutes for PD to arrive while a guy kidnaps his ex-wife and their infant son. (that's one of the situations I was in as a private security guard! And that head security guy chided me for intervening to keep them apart until PD got there! I was like "dude, by your logic I would have observed and reported a kidnapping. Sometimes a man has to do what a man has to do.")
Always nice to meet a fellow Real Man who feels that protective instinct. 🙂
What a helpless feeling. I am so glad you all were able to assist her and that he did not succeed in throwing her off. I am glad he was arrested and hope she is able to stay away from him when she gets home.
You made excellent points. People come in all types and bad people sail too. When alcohol is added and with some unlimited drink packages people who normally don’t get that drunk can spell a disaster. Definitely words of wisdom in your post today. Thanks for all your hard work.
My husband and I went on a cruise in May our first ,😥🥱had the worst time with him ever .I did nothing but eat and babysit him for 7 days ,he would start drinking at 10 am until he crawl into bed by the time I came home I was so stress that I got sick for 3 weeks and he have the nerve want to go back in November for 14 day 😃😃😃over my dead body .Just by watching your blog I learn so much and didn’t get to enjoy our 5 grand vacation !
@theshiplife1 How is that a winner ?🤔
@@valeriewright3681 If he is a good husband otherwise, take cruises without him! If he is still a shithead on land, why are you still with him?
Divorce!
I dont think it was reckless, i think he did what a man should do, glad he was the victor of this struggle cause we know real life aint the movies, the good guy doesnt always win❤️🙏🏾
That’s so right! A change in venue doesn’t make problems just solve themselves or disappear. Wherever you go… there you are!
My Cruisin Cousin, we tease her and call her a "cruise junkie" just got back from a Royal Caribbean cruise and her and her boyfriend said they would never, ever go on another cruise in August because there were too many kids on the ship probably sailing before school starts. My Cousin loves cruising as much as you do Jay. I'm glad they arrested that creep who tried to throw that woman off the balcony - how horrible. Love to you and Lauren.
I’m glad that younger guy came to the lady rescue; also glad you and the other guys was willing to help out incase security didn’t show up in time!!! There’s no excuse for him to behave like that! I agree it’s so important to be selective about who you plan to cruise with. You know what kind of person you’re married to, or dating. If that person gets upset about any little thing, then don’t think he/she will be different on a cruise!!! That situation could have easily ended up in that lady loosing her life…. Thanks for sharing; and for willing to help out; we need more people to be willing to help those that can’t help themselves……
Nice editorial about cruising. Good advice about selecting the 'right' shipmate. Keep sailing.
Always a pleasure Jay. I absolutely love my better half and would never bring strangers into our relationship issues. We love cruising and for the most part are always hand in hand when we are out and about. Just being a cruise brings us so much joy and peace.
BYW…love the new haircut
@theshiplife1 What is this lucky winner?
Glad to hear that the woman was unharmed. Thank goodness for the quick thinking of the man in the adjacent cabin.
Wow…this is why solo cruising is the way to go.
It's really expensive , twice the price .
Do you know how many people get drugged on cruise ships and dumped off?
@@kookietherapy9398 how many ?
@@desertsunset8025 Start w Diane Brimble (AUS.) Look her up.
Any way you cruise as long as you are safe is the way to go
God bless that man who was next to the couple’s balcony as well as yourself and those who ran to help. It’s disgusting how some men treat their partners.
This is sad. That poor woman. Thank God she is ok
Another great episode Jay, not an easy situation to address. Love your channel!
This is so disheartening. We must always be aware that things like this can and do occur unfortunately. I pray the women is in a safe place now and she receives the help she needs.
You are absolutely correct. Going with the right people is essential. As well as picking the correct cruise line and destination. Great work. Love your videos!
Not an event expected, but you never know the ulterior motive people may have when planning a cruise. It's a blessing to see other travelers step up and help. My hubby and I had an argument in our stateroom on our recent cruise to Alaska, but we solved the issue in the room. There was never a thought to hurt each other because the things you say and do can have consequences.
If there are not any good vibes with people that you are planning on going on a trip with, whether by ship, train, or plane, don't go with them, even with the hope that the interactions will get better. Save yourself and your sanity!!
Thank you for all you do. Glad you were there to contact security and the young man who got to the man and held him down. Y'all saved a life.
you are so so right pick the right ppl to cruise with you. i invited a co worker and her daughter to cruise with me and my family boy that was the biggest mistake ever co worker was like someone i never knew and her daughter was nightmare it was like i was in the twilight zone.
Wow! That’s crazy! Makes you wonder about all of these ppl who “jump or disappear”.🤨😳🤔
Dude don't apologize; you need to be true to yourself, your family and your girlfriend. Your videos are well done, informative and useful. Since this is your business, run it as YOU see fit, ignoring naysayers and haters.
Maybe I'm jaded... but now I'm more interested in the explanation of why you're on that cruise. Also, very good insight on the stress of spending money on vacation.
Totally agree you kept that 💯 and it needed to be said. My sister and I just got back from a cruise this week and we had the time of our life but I would not have been able to enjoy your cruise which is anyone in one room for five days thankfully it was my sister and it was amazing. Thnx I will continue to watch your RUclips channel.
I Agree with you. Be careful who you travel with. The claws come out a lot of times. I’m not a fan of MSC at this time and I cruise often. Amazing guy for saving this lady. Thanks for the great video.
The younger guy had him in a hold that he wasn't going to escape. Thanks for including the dancing man in the tropical shirt. He always puts a smile on my face.
I can’t imagine what CRUISE JAIL is like!
Hi there I’m happy that they help👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽 have a great day!
Give that man free cruises for life 👏
I genuinely hope this lady is able to enjoy the rest of her cruise safely. And my god I pray she doesn’t go back and she finds someone who respects her. Everyone in similar situations deserves better.
Also, that gentleman who leaped balcony’s is hero. He may not feel like it, but without him, who knows what her attackr would have done.
How? She almost got killed. She was probably sore and embarrassed. 😢😢😢 I feel bad for her.
@@arleneaugustahair8393 by enjoy, I mean being able to relax a bit knowing that he can’t hurt her. I’m not saying she should party it up or go about the cruise as normal! But rather even just staying in her room and trying to relax as best as she can given the circumstances. Or if she chooses to go out and about, to just get out and walk around. Easier said than done, especially going through such a terrifying situation. It at least gives her time and space to hopefully figure some things out and maybe make a plan. At least, I hope she does. Not sure what happens when they port at the next location but hopefully given the severity, he’s turned over to land authorities.
I'm glad she was able to call attention to what was happening to her and get help or it could have ended badly for her. Great video.
Bonjour! What? You argue? NEVER!!! You're too nice a guy 😊
Another story/chapter for your “What happened on my cruise” Book…you’ve seen so much; gotta right a book, J
What in the MSC is going on here!?
Thank goodness for that young man and everyone that jumped into action
All of your points are 💯. People don't think. You're so on point to differentiate work vs vacation.
The Good lord put a hero next door that night. How many would ever really help? So Brave. This man needs recognition. Future cruise credit or something. He risked his life for another. That deserves some reward🙏😀
Thankfully there were people there to help. I hope she leaves his sorry a** and presses charges against him.
Another really good thing for discussing on a blog! Keep up the important topics in addition to the general ones.👍
Let's create a Go-fundme for this young man, he deserves a free cruise!!
Unbelievable!! 😮.young man risked his life jumping over a balcony to help this lady.
What’s crazy is how often people take their S/O on cruises to actually “get rid” of them lol . The fact there’s a whole show with a couple of season dedicated to that is outrageous. Thankfully that wasn’t the case this time 🙏🏾 &’d ol boy who jumped balconies to help …. He’s the friggin 🐐
What’s the name of the show called?
@@whitneyaskew2080 Cruise Ship Killers lol
I can attest to the fact that if you have relationship problems in your daily life they WILL follow you on a cruise. You are then stuck with them for the duration of your cruise and both of you will just be miserable. If you are on the outs don’t take a cruise together because you will just be wasting your money.
Hey Jay ! I met you with my son at the port getting on , my husband and I was out there as well when this happened, I heard the screaming and I heard someone ask if you need help I think , I didn’t know you were down there. I didn’t have my contacts in so I wasn’t sure exactly what happened but I told my son I’m sure Jay will . Thank you for the video and I am glad she’s ok . We are actually in this video , love I’m on one of your videos but hate that’s it’s this circumstance. Oh and it was great to meet you . I hope to meet Lauren one day as well
J… your videos make me feel like I’m on vacation….. living vicariously thru your camera, love man !
Stuck between 2 "arguing couple cabins" last week...was surprised no one ended up in the ocean!
I know you cruise a lot, but man, you witness some wild stuff on a pretty regular basis. Dem drink packages!
GLAD TO KNOW HE WAS ARRESTED AND HOPEFULLY HE'LL BE CONVICTED!! YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY CORRECT, YOU DO A GREAT JOB OF MAKING IT LOOK EASY AND THAT'S PART OF THE PROFESSIONALISM. AS A TRAVEL ADVISOR, WE KNOW WHAT WE MUST DO AND HOW IT LOOKS EASY AT TIMES, BUT YOU MUST KNOW YOUR WORK TOO; OTHERWISE...BTW, LOVIN THE NEW LOOK JAY! TOO CUTIE! :)
Thank goodness for the intervention!!❤
Thanks for sharing J!
What a scary situation and thanks for getting help. Love the new haircut!
Thank goodness that young dude came to help!!! I hope the woman is okay.
I'm sorry this is unrelated I just watched the video of Alaska with your MOTHER!!!! OHHHHH I LOVED HER! She is so adorable! Great personality low key obviously proud of you and loves you. Easy to please! So refreshing! Thanks so much!
J, in a similar vein: I used to lead wilderness canoe trips. The outfitters printed in their list of do’s and don’ts - do not take this time to try to quit smoking! Yes, it creates stress but it also makes you less aware …. not a good thing in the wilderness!
Last year my ex-wife asked me if I wanted to go on a cruise with her. The thought of this still makes me both chuckle and cringe at the same time.
I don't blame you.
Very nice informative video. So glad this situation did not end up badly.
That is horrifying.
Good on you and all passenger's who got help immediately and didn’t just stand by.
All of you probably saved this lady's life especially her cabin neighbor. Dude is an MVP.
I bet that is what happens to 95% of all the people who supposedly jumped off the ship.
As I see it, if two people have relationship difficulty together on land, their issues will only magnify in the more confined circumstances of a cruise. No matter how spacious their stateroom, they’re still forced to share its limited space, and can only spread out by a couple of hundred feet at most, even across decks. Kudos to you, security, and other passengers for intervening and the ultimate arrest of the domestic abuser. Without it, the victim might well have met an untimely end. Too, I’d hope the cruiseline would strongly facilitate her with local criminal reporting and then fly her to where she needed to be immediately. She’s in great danger if and when the guy is free.
I’m glad he was arrested! Thank you for attempting to help. That young man is a definite hero!! 💜
I just subbed this is my first time hearing about a channel that has cruise content clearing I’ve been living under a rock😊😊
Thanks for the constant reminder about who people should choose to sail with!
Good for that young man for taking action, it could have saved her life!
I'm glad security responded at all. About a year ago my friend was on MSC with her family and she had problems with a group of rowdy passengers, reported it to crew and security and NOTHING was done. The trouble makers acted up the entire 5 day cruise. They were reported several times and NOTHING was done to make the complaining passengers more comfortable.
I think it’s really presumptuous for anyone to try to tell you what you should be doing with your time jeez
I just love all of your videos. Your words of wisdom are so on point. Be careful who you travel with is a great message. We get caught up in hanging out as couples we sometimes are willing to overlook annoying habits that people have. Thank you for being a good person that you and others got involved and didn’t pull out a phone first. Big KUDOS to that young man who pinned that beast daw. God has a purpose & blessings for him for sure. 🙏🏽😊
Wow! That was unbelievable! Like you’ve always said, it’s the people not the ship that’s causes the problems!
That guy is a Hero!!! Side note, it this happened on Carnival, it would have been in your title 😂
I hope that poor lady is doing ok
I am thanking God and the woman's next door neighbor that she is safe. This man obviously has some mental issues to even have a thought of throwing his wife, friend or whoever overboard. He needs some serious help and some jail time. You have made some really great points in this video. Thankyou Justin. Love from your #1 fan in Delray Beach. ❤❤❤❤
Hi J! Thank you for sharing this sad story. It’s terrible that people do this kind of thing to someone they are supposed to love and cherish! Thank you for your very accurate description of who you should, and should not cruise with.
As a sidenote, what is the difference between an MSC cruise from the US as opposed to one from Europe?
Lock him up for a long time. Wicked man.
Great description of how emotions get magnified onboard. Seen it. Been there.
I have a friend (who has since passed) that told me she was on a cruise a few years ago with a bf that beat her senseless. She said no one called security and all they did was yell through the walls to quiet down. She said no one questioned the bruises on her face the next day. She was held captive in that cabin and unfortunately never sought help when she could. Alcohol was the main factor-Its great this neighboring cruiser got involved. He deserves a commendation-