10 quick ways to spot a Narcissist (and to keep them away :P) - Narcissism 1

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  • @l3nu2m
    @l3nu2m Год назад +13

    Yes sir.When they are in trouble they will come to take guidance from you.After taking everything from you ,If you want some empathy from them for your problems they will just ignore and then they will start their own stories.We show our empathy for them.But they will not.Initially we don't understand by looking at their inocent faces.We are again again falling in the same trap.We have to stop this kind of people from entering into our life.God is the only force .He can give the wisdom through genuine people .

  • @lifecoachrimadesai5996
    @lifecoachrimadesai5996 Год назад +5

    Better than any psychologist's video. Broke it down to simple understanding with all important details. 👏🏻 👏🏻 Their self esteem is extremely low & often come from v broken families or difficult upbringing

  • @Hyena96
    @Hyena96 Год назад +5

    In my experience people I found out to be narcs are 3. I will only mention the placements that I think play a vital role for them to become who they are!
    Narc No. 1 - My father
    Cancer Ascendent, and Mars is sitting in Langa, Debilitated.
    Sun in Leo along with Mercury(R) (2nd house)
    Moon in Virgo (3rd house)
    Narc No. 2 - Ex-boyfriend
    Scorpio Ascendent, Moon is sitting in the lagna itself, Debilitated, along with Jupiter(R)
    Narc No. 3 - one of my sister's friends
    Capricorn Ascendent
    Sun in Libra (10th house)
    Debilitated Moon in scorpio conjunct Saturn creating Vish yoga (11th house).
    Mars in Virgo (9th house).
    Also, please take note that in most cases whenever Sun is either exalted or debilitated, there's a chance this to occur depending on other placements.

  • @lifecoachrimadesai5996
    @lifecoachrimadesai5996 Год назад +3

    Try to abandon them & see how quickly they gas light or attempt to WIN you back by being super kind/sweet TEMPORARILY. They are so broken & insecure inside, they will go out of their way to show a PERFECT Life, like they always have it together

  • @changetheglasses
    @changetheglasses Год назад +2

    My ex husband struggles in all areas of relationship. He never apologized. He blamed everyone else. He is extremely envious but hides it well. Can not listen. Lack of empathy.
    Moon, mars, rahu in langna. Mercury ketu in 7th house. Sun and venus in 6th house. Saturn in 4th house. I made excuses for him and thought he would mature. Children involved as well. Had I know astrology 30 years ago...I would have run. He is psychopathic. I also suspected schizophrenia. He has intrusive thoughts. He would tell me I was doing what he was doing. Gaslighting, deflection, rewriting the narrative. Definitely talked about me badly and didn't know what was going on when others would be cold towards me. He struggles at work as well. His employer said that he was not the person they thought they hired. Silent treatments were deployed constantly if I put a boundary in place. He speaks before he thinks and then says he never said what he said. However, he remembers what others say. Insane relationship to say the least.

  • @dipaliacharya14
    @dipaliacharya14 Год назад +4

    Oh my god all the points Are matching with the person i’m sharing chart.This person has all these royal qualities..
    Sagitarius lagna Lagna lord in cancer 8thH
    Sun moon in aries
    Mars Venus mercury in pisces 4thH
    Sat+rahu in leo 9th house
    Can go to any level but will never apologise
    Can’t have normal conversation no patience to listen…
    Will ask you thing won’t care to listen your answer ,don’t have respect for others time…you don’t agree you don’t exist…
    Passing judgement without having any idea about it….
    Pulling your legs for the thing they don’t have…
    Victim card 😬
    They will suddenly love bomb you and then ditch you…
    Demand respect
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  • @ritud5988
    @ritud5988 Год назад +4

    No apology, interrupting and no patience, ask advice for listening what they think is right, their own stories, advise confidently on issues they know nthng abt, subtle sarcastic bullying, never ending entitlement and guilt trapping, only contact ppl with name fame power, bypassing the person in concern, love bomb and ditch later, victim card always ..
    My mother is a narcissist..what is the solution...

    • @ExoticAstrology
      @ExoticAstrology  Год назад +2

      Thanks for sharing! Limit your interaction as much as possible...

  • @AmandaW-vo3pc
    @AmandaW-vo3pc Год назад +1

    The characteristics of not listening and constantly interrupting! Totally spot on. Scorpio ascendant with moon mars conjunction in 10th house and Venus in Virgo conjunct sun in 11th house, and Saturn in Aries are some of their planetary placements.

    • @ExoticAstrology
      @ExoticAstrology  Год назад +1

      Great

    • @shishimanu6097
      @shishimanu6097 Год назад

      Debilitated moon leads to Narcissism

    • @chandrikarao6590
      @chandrikarao6590 Год назад

      Sun venus mercury ketu in 1st house, mars and jupiter in 12th house, saturn in 8th house
      Planets in the first house makes them shiny stars especially self proclaimed

  • @siddhisiddhijha
    @siddhisiddhijha День назад

    Rahu in lagna pisces
    Lagna lord retrograded in 8th house
    Saturn marks(DEBILITATED) in 5th house cancer
    Moon in 12th aquarius
    All divisional charts had rahu in 1st with saturn mars conjunction
    navamsa me lagna lord sun was debilitated too

  • @yarahsiever1482
    @yarahsiever1482 9 месяцев назад

    I noticed the people (family and friends) who were the most narcissistic to the point I questioned my own sanity had very heavy fire signs placements with Sun, Moon, ascendant, and more in fire signs.
    Someone I knew had her Sun Ascendant in Mula with Jupiter and Mercury in 1H Sagittarius as well and her Moon in 5H in Aries (Ashwini). I think her Rahu and Mars conjunct in the 10H virgo also contributedin. This person never apologised for anything, would give me unsolicited advices about my career when she was unemployed for her whole life and use all my weaknesses against me when I was at my lowest and in need of support and she used gaslighting so much that I only could realised what she did when I was completely away from her. She was also always right and did every single thing better than me despite letting me doing everything for her while she never lifted a single finger...

  • @healingresilience
    @healingresilience Год назад +1

    This is so incredibly accurate and insightful. Well done!!

  • @sohhp79
    @sohhp79 Год назад +1

    Encountered all 10 traits that you mentioned. Family, relatives, acquantainces, and colleagues. How would I describe them is an aging adult child with a mindset of a 7 year, that it's ugly to look at or the famous 'Me, Myself & I'

  • @jagrutichasmawala6179
    @jagrutichasmawala6179 29 дней назад

    Mangal in Lagna, rahu+Shani in 6 th house, typically NPDisorder

  • @siri_isha
    @siri_isha Год назад +3

    Please make a video how to deal with narcissistic people esp( ones very close and have to live with them under same roof)!

    • @yeahweburnstuff
      @yeahweburnstuff Год назад +3

      I know many such a one and I have learned that the most important thing is to IGNORE them as much as possible.
      Only interact at a minimal level, this will cause them to seek your attention but you MUST ignore ALL their inflammatory remarks and behaviours. It also helps to think that they are an ADDICT to this behaviour. How do you deal with drug addicted people? Compassion, pray for them, and STAY FAR FROM THEM emotionally and physically as much as you can.
      Blessings to you.

    • @ExoticAstrology
      @ExoticAstrology  Год назад

      sure

  • @chandrikarao6590
    @chandrikarao6590 Год назад +1

    Please check videos of Richard Grannon. He is an authority and also considering the spiritual aspect. He is able to give a very deep breakdown. Based on that we should be able to reverse create a chart. Pleeeeease check Richard Grannon. And collaborate with him. Dr Ramani, Sam Vaknin and Richard Grannon is the best for the astrology angle, in my opinion. Thank you so much for raising the awareness.

  • @ayrashankar794
    @ayrashankar794 2 месяца назад

    Sir, I have experienced narcissistic abuse by 6 people...one out of them is my brother and remaining are my friends. These 2 things were common...in every single person...either they had...Rahu and jupiter conjunctions( guru chandal yog)...or Rahu in 1st house...strong mars(own sign oe exalted)...also rahu sun comjunction....rahu sun jupiter conjunction.

  • @SoulSphere108
    @SoulSphere108 4 месяца назад

    What did a narcissist do in his past life that he would be born as a narcissist in this life? Incapable of giving or recieving love?

  • @Nita36989
    @Nita36989 Год назад +1

    Please continue this series on uncovering narcissism via astrology….food for thought in the last video you stated that the narcissist are jealous/their biggest enemy is god. So would it be safe to say, Narcissist are people with Jupiter retrograde (they are 3x better than guru/jupiter) especially in 6/8/12 and target people who have Jupiter Lagna Lord/ jupiter moon….i have seen these things in 4-5 Narcissistic peoples charts. Please give your feedback. Thank you

  • @aashamenon
    @aashamenon Год назад +2

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  • @madhurig9999
    @madhurig9999 Год назад +3

    One thing you mentioned about narcissists that is not often said is: they will take credit for other ppl's accomplishments. Most other characteristics are well know. I left a 30yr marriage with nothing, no home, no money, no possessions but took my artwork. Astonishingly he complained to others that I took my paintings, they were his, I could only have painted them because I lived with him. This person has a very tight conjunction of Asc, Mars, Ketu .. Sun in 12th H. .. Asc ruler Venus in Ashlesha in 10th H .. Nevertheless this man was a great devotee and devoted his life to his Guru. Just saying that Narcissism doesn't exclude ppl from being great devotees.

  • @jayswaminathan5560
    @jayswaminathan5560 Год назад +3

    Nice explanation... How to starve them in case they're close association..

    • @SumonAdakpbx
      @SumonAdakpbx Год назад

      Please don't validate them explicitly. Be very subtle while you admire but very sharp and explicit in front of their errors.

    • @SumonAdakpbx
      @SumonAdakpbx Год назад

      @@awesomed007 very nice explanation

    • @ExoticAstrology
      @ExoticAstrology  Год назад

      thanks to all for sharing!

  • @lifecoachrimadesai5996
    @lifecoachrimadesai5996 Год назад

    They will often have damaged Sun & Moon in chart & family houses (2nd, 4th, 7th) pretty challenged.

  • @CM-jb9dx
    @CM-jb9dx Год назад

    My ex has Ascendant in 1st house Aries conjunct Jupiter, but their 7th house ruler is in 6th house along with Mercury and Ketu. In Navamsa he has Rahu in 1st house with Mars! A nightmare, everything was about him.

  • @chelseagaya
    @chelseagaya Год назад +8

    There are two types of narcissists
    1. Overt narcs
    2. Covert narcs.
    The overt narcs are very easy to spot.
    The real fun is with the covert narcs. They are very quick to adapt to society and their manipulation is done with such stealth... You'll never know what hit you!
    Their sense of entitlement knows no bounds and they have absolutely no regards for any personal boundaries ...all while appearing sweet and loving.
    The covert ones are my favourite.
    One thing in common is that they are parasites and can only thrive in parasitic relationships. They want nothing to do with you if they can't use you...and always throw a tantrum when held accountable.
    I personally love psychological warfare 🙈. As an empath, you need to learn their game to outsmart them.
    My favourite part is saying no to them and watching them squirm in disbelief and discomfort 😝

    • @ExoticAstrology
      @ExoticAstrology  Год назад +1

      great info! Thanks

    • @theeagle8911
      @theeagle8911 Год назад +2

      Dont play this game .. they can kill u someday.. if u cant help them then stay away from them

  • @sraddhahazarika210
    @sraddhahazarika210 Год назад

    Sir, another way to spot a narcissist according to me is that they show inconsistent behaviour sometimes meaning they would follow one path if its a trend and next time they are into something else!

  • @vsnandhinni7769
    @vsnandhinni7769 Год назад

    My manager at work and my mother in law in family.. They are making my life a hell

  • @zeliacapetao
    @zeliacapetao Год назад

    Aries ascendent, sun, jupiter, Saturn, mars

  • @Pragmatic_human
    @Pragmatic_human Год назад

    Scorpio Lagna
    Ketu mars Saturn in 5th
    Moon mercury sun in 6th(jupiter 5th aspect from 2nd house)

  • @NeelaLochani-oy6yv
    @NeelaLochani-oy6yv 10 месяцев назад

    Unapologetic
    Make u pay bills
    Pull down you
    Not compassionate
    Victim card
    Love bomb
    😅

  • @shruthireddy5108
    @shruthireddy5108 8 месяцев назад

    Hi
    In 6th house having sun moon mercury venus and Pluto also in 5th house having mars and Ketu is a narcissist? Please help me understand

  • @IvanPolyansky
    @IvanPolyansky Год назад

    Thank you Sir 🙏🏻🌙

  • @Shankari1112
    @Shankari1112 21 день назад

    Birth day: 23 April 1985, Birth time: 10.30am please confirm my understanding that he is a narcissist. Very eager to hear from you www.youtube.com/@ExoticAstrology

  • @maggiemaggie2685
    @maggiemaggie2685 Год назад

    Sun in.special position, especially the first house. 🙏

  • @eve_joleen_joli5630
    @eve_joleen_joli5630 Год назад

    Can you also maybe do about psychopaths? I am in a bad scary situation... 😅😂😢

  • @arijitjoshi8968
    @arijitjoshi8968 Год назад +1

    Jupiter in lagna

  • @shishimanu6097
    @shishimanu6097 Год назад

    B.o.d 15 oct 2007
    Birth time 4.16 am
    Location Pune Maharashtra
    This Intel for your research. She is the best love bomber 🤣 i have meet

  • @bharatsuri752
    @bharatsuri752 Год назад +2

    Both my parents are hardcore narcs, they have all these 10 traits and abuse me on a regular basis.
    In my estimate a damaged Jupiter causes this because my dad has guru chandaal yoga in his birth chart and all his divisional charts, you name it and my mom doesn't have a birth chart because she doesn't know her time of birth again indicative of a damaged Jupiter.

  • @ultimatebeast8624
    @ultimatebeast8624 Год назад +1

    Sun rahu in 4th house...i think he's a narcissist

  • @moumitamondal7633
    @moumitamondal7633 Год назад

    Sir I know one person his date of birth 6th December 1966, please help me his birthplace purbamidnapur west bengal

  • @TicTokDance
    @TicTokDance Год назад

    My dad is npd, venus in lagna??

  • @oodo2908
    @oodo2908 Год назад

    December 18th 1953, Libra Ascendant. Pure sociopath.

    • @ExoticAstrology
      @ExoticAstrology  Год назад

      Thanks :)

    • @oodo2908
      @oodo2908 Год назад

      @@ExoticAstrology My father. Even as bad as like you said. Maybe rather commit suicide before saying he is wrong. My sister disowned him, but still 15 years later he will not call and say he's sorry. So he even gave up his grandchildren, just so he can keep his pride! Did some very crazy things to me. This is a good date, trust me!

  • @exoticfarming
    @exoticfarming Год назад

    Moon rahu conjunction in Leo 4th house

  • @ultimatebeast8624
    @ultimatebeast8624 Год назад +1

    Libra moon

    • @selfless-esteem
      @selfless-esteem Год назад

      Seen this twice

    • @ExoticAstrology
      @ExoticAstrology  Год назад +1

      ok

    • @selfless-esteem
      @selfless-esteem Год назад

      Hey I just realized something. 3 of the narcissistic men that I know are cancer sun, two of them have Libra moon. In western that is a square. The other has pisces moon conjunct Mars with Leo Venus

  • @reaper12371
    @reaper12371 Год назад

    Sun moon ketu mars in 1st house libra with venus in 12th house ,is this the combination of a physchopath ?

    • @ExoticAstrology
      @ExoticAstrology  Год назад

      could be

    • @samgogna9411
      @samgogna9411 Год назад

      No

    • @samgogna9411
      @samgogna9411 Год назад

      Moon conjunct saturn and rahu in a trikon or kendra makes a person a successful psychopath and if in dushtana a person becomes a criminal mind finds happiness in others pain.

  • @ayushgupta314
    @ayushgupta314 Год назад

    I could feel here how much narcissist people you have met😂

  • @dayanandn5834
    @dayanandn5834 Год назад

    🙏 Namaste Sir 🌺

  • @anitaharde400
    @anitaharde400 Год назад

    Nice

  • @Hazarika804
    @Hazarika804 Год назад

    "Nao burileu tingor pora naname" 😂😂 hosake dei