ALPHA MALE EYE CONTACT | SIGNS YOUR EYE CONTACT IS BETA

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  • Опубликовано: 2 авг 2024
  • Check out how the Alpha Male handles eye contact and see if you show the signs of beta eye contact.
    As you begin to master eye contact, you can let a girl know you like her with your eyes.
    Learn how The Alpha handles eye contact in:
    1-on-1 conversations
    groups
    and defensive situations
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  • @mcsuchnsuch
    @mcsuchnsuch 6 лет назад +994

    I’ve became so good at this “staring at hot chicks” thing, I’m now immune to pepper spray.

    • @fernandocastro4107
      @fernandocastro4107 4 года назад +20

      Steve Miller true that....the hotter they are the truer it is....

    • @madushanka7859
      @madushanka7859 4 года назад +13

      An underrated comment..

    • @Snake-qm7ut
      @Snake-qm7ut 4 года назад +9

      Hahaha

    • @Th4nJon4
      @Th4nJon4 4 года назад +9

      OMG!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @sravat1234
      @sravat1234 4 года назад +3

      😂😂

  • @mjai23
    @mjai23 7 лет назад +2619

    So I'm Asian i tried this and people thought i was sleeping.🤦🏻‍♂️

    • @carbonr6r410
      @carbonr6r410 7 лет назад +49

      bafoonkaiser omfg lol

    • @younginng3661
      @younginng3661 7 лет назад +39

      I had that issue .. you gotta learn how to do "The Rock" eye brows.

    • @mjai23
      @mjai23 7 лет назад +17

      YoungInn G than that would be Asian Forrest Whitaker Eye.😳🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @bradshaw4221
      @bradshaw4221 6 лет назад +21

      Some cultures/personality types emphasize a deferred gaze, to not have direct eye contact out of respect, manners, or some other criteria and not out of subservience.

    • @jaggeriscoughmedicine
      @jaggeriscoughmedicine 5 лет назад +1

      Hahahahah

  • @TRDogukan61
    @TRDogukan61 6 лет назад +489

    When a guy looks me in the eyes for a few seconds I feel pretty uncomfortable and look away but not because I think he is stronger than me, it just feels gay.

  • @Seven-oi8hx
    @Seven-oi8hx 6 лет назад +305

    When you're a alpha in your life, all this comes natural.

    • @mr.universe1907
      @mr.universe1907 4 года назад +16

      Yeah it's hard to fake, lol I've tried

    • @namename2297
      @namename2297 4 года назад +44

      Legend's aren't always born ,and usually they are made.

    • @BibleNutter
      @BibleNutter 4 года назад +10

      I'm only an alpha when I'm serious or preaching or giving instructions.

    • @josephstalin9357
      @josephstalin9357 3 года назад +11

      Most ppl arnt pure alpha or beta but somewhere in between

    • @Seven-oi8hx
      @Seven-oi8hx 3 года назад +5

      @@josephstalin9357 true. You could see the pain in will smith's eyes in that entanglement video. He wasn't at his peak in that moment.

  • @batfink274
    @batfink274 7 лет назад +1052

    As someone's who's gone from a Beta to an alpha I can say that it's pointless using these techniques before you're actually an alpha, there's no way to fake good eye contact before you're comfortable with yourself. Being an alpha doesn't come by accident, it's not a natural state, humans are by nature very unsure of themselves, so don't think that by trying a few techniques you'll be able to fool the world into believing you have your shit together, it takes a lot of work. The work is getting to know yourself, working out why you're so unsure of yourself, working out why you're so co dependant, why pretty girls scare you so much, why you're so fearful among a lot of other things. Then once you've found the source of your fears you need to workout how to overcome them. Once you've conquered your self esteem, self worth, self confidence issues you'll be able to maintain eye contact without even thinking about it and you'll attract attention wherever you go.

    • @juniorberani9035
      @juniorberani9035 6 лет назад +100

      Bat Fink facts I'm so much more confident now that I have my shot together , fuck smoking weed, fuck being around usless people, I learn quicker now , I look better, I live life by the traits I've structured. I feel limitless now

    • @bobbyhill4118
      @bobbyhill4118 5 лет назад +33

      Bat Fink I don’t care about my social stature anymore. If I look someone in the eye during class and they awkwardly look back, I no longer care nor do I look away.

    • @DavidDragonstar123
      @DavidDragonstar123 5 лет назад +7

      What about if you know that you're better than everyone in the room but are afraid of being impolite or disrespectful?

    • @memyselfandi4581
      @memyselfandi4581 5 лет назад +6

      This is very true . Best comment !

    • @bobsquare2043
      @bobsquare2043 5 лет назад +26

      Don’t think your Alfa, such a beta statement

  • @jaydavee
    @jaydavee 7 лет назад +2344

    I dominated my entire city by staring at them.

    • @Marcossilva_1997
      @Marcossilva_1997 7 лет назад +79

      jaydavee Alright, so now it's time for you to dominate your fingers

    • @codypatrula13
      @codypatrula13 7 лет назад +10

      jaydavee 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @DonPipirulando
      @DonPipirulando 7 лет назад +89

      I beat myself up ..for starring in the mirror too long~

    • @TheMrGazoline
      @TheMrGazoline 6 лет назад +21

      Now you have to defend your city territory against other contenders, who want to dominate it

    • @minnesotanice369
      @minnesotanice369 6 лет назад

      jaydavee lol

  • @DowningJesterApparelCoLLC
    @DowningJesterApparelCoLLC 6 лет назад +285

    "I am THE Alpha and Omega.' - God

    • @YesDaddyTDPop
      @YesDaddyTDPop 5 лет назад +8

      Downing Jester Apparel Co. LLC that means all humans are betas, males and females.

    • @davidnguyen4353
      @davidnguyen4353 4 года назад +10

      Bro you need more likes for this comment

    • @joel5611
      @joel5611 4 года назад +22

      The beginning and the end...

    • @jasonuttii7575
      @jasonuttii7575 4 года назад +15

      The First and The Last, saith The Lord.

    • @mariusleroy8895
      @mariusleroy8895 4 года назад +5

      Deathtrap 400 Not at all. It means god can take any position in the hierarchy LAD.

  • @sumtasing2659
    @sumtasing2659 5 лет назад +99

    The last time i made eye contact with a woman she called the cops on me because i was staring into her eyes thru her bathroom window.

  • @hausmeisterengineering5952
    @hausmeisterengineering5952 7 лет назад +471

    Guys, hold eye contact until someone wants to start beef with you. That's how you know you are doing it right.

    • @JfaJosephR9
      @JfaJosephR9 7 лет назад +46

      Viktor Dimitrovski lol happened to me when I was 16 some guy was giving me a dirty look while I was in a convenience store shoppingg I saw him starring while he was outside so on my way out I starred him down and him and his boys wanted to start beef

    • @hewhogreetswithfire4372
      @hewhogreetswithfire4372 6 лет назад +2

      +TWDX 2x6 lol

    • @Elit3ist
      @Elit3ist 6 лет назад

      Literal lol.

    • @Trpmanne
      @Trpmanne 6 лет назад +24

      I look back if I’m looked at, I turn then check if he’s still looking. If he is then I keep staring like “what the fuck are you looking at” look. If I’m busy at work etc etc I got no time for silly starring games. I’m at work and have other shit to do...

    • @billclark5055
      @billclark5055 6 лет назад +3

      Then break the tension with a smile

  • @rosettastoned5002
    @rosettastoned5002 7 лет назад +534

    "Hop into the silverback gorilla enclosure and go face to face with the alpha" yea some 3 year old kid in cincinnati did that. didn't turn out so well...

  • @alexanderealley9992
    @alexanderealley9992 3 года назад +18

    They pretty much teach this to every US Marine. We use eye contact for receiving information and to distribute information to others. I practiced this during urinalysis examinations where another Marine of the same sex observes you perform the urinalysis. Maintaining eye contact with the other person during your “moment of vulnerability” asserts your dominance over the other person. It’s primal but effective.

  • @kaiori.n9232
    @kaiori.n9232 5 лет назад +46

    Finally, I can unlock my Shraingan!

  • @vibewithmeyoutube
    @vibewithmeyoutube 7 лет назад +482

    I keep thinking the drawing of the eye is a damn Pokeball...

    • @slicktrillarreal1829
      @slicktrillarreal1829 6 лет назад +1

      Ethan Simmons lmfao same

    • @In_Pain
      @In_Pain 6 лет назад +1

      Ethan Simmons I was thinking death star

    • @slicktrillarreal1829
      @slicktrillarreal1829 6 лет назад +3

      Master poke ball to catch even the most exotic of bitches 100%

    • @bradenrichmond2148
      @bradenrichmond2148 6 лет назад

      Fucking same

    • @kingchris9167
      @kingchris9167 6 лет назад

      That 1 Highlight unfortunately for you. You will have a hard time with the females.

  • @503NastyNate
    @503NastyNate 7 лет назад +300

    I'm the type of Alpha to put myself down as a reference on a job application.

    • @SDCB754
      @SDCB754 6 лет назад +2

      Nate Valentino I want your self confidence 😁.

    • @web7014
      @web7014 6 лет назад +1

      Nate Valentino thug life👊

    • @ayyub9855
      @ayyub9855 5 лет назад

      i remember this one

  • @callmeishmael3031
    @callmeishmael3031 5 лет назад +353

    This guy's voice is so totally beta.

  • @eliaspittman
    @eliaspittman 4 года назад +18

    I look everyone I speak with in the eyes always, I've even had people complement me about this many times in life but I've always done this because it shows sincerity but that's just me.

  • @MrFlargas
    @MrFlargas 7 лет назад +460

    I always win! The lazy eye gets them every time boys.

    • @FarFromAverage
      @FarFromAverage  7 лет назад +45

      haha yeah that works too! ;)

    • @DanielFlores-fo1ee
      @DanielFlores-fo1ee 6 лет назад +2

      Nut Busterson
      😂😂😏😥💦😌🤓

    • @trevaughnstewart2083
      @trevaughnstewart2083 6 лет назад +2

      Nut Busterson American Tail lol

    • @kokumalamoi3421
      @kokumalamoi3421 6 лет назад +5

      "Busterson. Nut Busterson."
      'Nough said.

    • @cooliobob1274
      @cooliobob1274 6 лет назад +11

      Lucky you, all I get is "Are you looking at me or them?" Then I like to reply with "Both. That's the power of the lazy eye."

  • @TheSpeechless17
    @TheSpeechless17 7 лет назад +635

    interesting.
    no wonder 2 gangstas in my neighborhood been in an eye staring contest for too long now.

    • @berin99
      @berin99 7 лет назад +84

      Either that, or they're gonna start making out.

    • @jonaspete
      @jonaspete 7 лет назад +40

      Do they intimidate each other by dancing?

    • @weilunkang
      @weilunkang 7 лет назад +1

      TheSpeechless17. Are they Latinos or Blacks ?

    • @AboutTreyFifty
      @AboutTreyFifty 7 лет назад +4

      TheSpeechless17 you should try and play matchmaker and hook them up

    • @mustang4636
      @mustang4636 7 лет назад +38

      *They start making out*
      *plot twist*

  • @cmm9360
    @cmm9360 6 лет назад +73

    When you talk to someone, stare at them directly in the eyes. Be bold. Remember though, the quietest in the room is the strongest.

    • @Shadenium1
      @Shadenium1 2 года назад +1

      > the quietest in the room is the strongest
      Good luck continuing believing that.

    • @adamrandall5163
      @adamrandall5163 Год назад

      I also recommend sniffing your finger during eye contact.

  • @aquietdarkness
    @aquietdarkness 6 лет назад +18

    Wow. Yep confidence is all in the use of the eyes. I didn't realise how beta I was coming across with my avoidant eye contact. Brb will practice, thanks!

  • @1ong1337
    @1ong1337 7 лет назад +84

    Basically Alpha eye contact means unlocking the Mangekyou Sharingan

  • @PrimericanIdol
    @PrimericanIdol 7 лет назад +1191

    Does this apply to blind people?

    • @Maffu79
      @Maffu79 7 лет назад +141

      Yes, except for the eye contact thing.

    • @sr33nathx83
      @sr33nathx83 7 лет назад +15

      El'Brohamsillot wow bro u r awesome

    • @robins5314
      @robins5314 7 лет назад +5

      TheLance3185 She looks similar to Maite Perroni.

    • @Kerveros1904
      @Kerveros1904 7 лет назад +4

      El'Brohamsillot For blind people, experts suggest to them, to WATCH the movie 'scent of a woman' and study al pacino in order to grab some p÷€/^$_y. eeeer...neever mind!

    • @roach2566
      @roach2566 7 лет назад +8

      El'Brohamsillot you gotta make ear contact

  • @JITCompilation
    @JITCompilation 6 лет назад +13

    Wow, the Beta's eye contact describes me PERFECTLY. I guess I have to work on that. I had no idea.

  • @matthewgower
    @matthewgower 6 лет назад +10

    My eye contact during conversations is really good, I've even had girls tell me that. But my eye contact outside of conversations is so beta it's embarrassing. Thank you for helping me realize this. This will come in handy since I've noticed quite a few girls looking at me recently.

  • @mrmoe110
    @mrmoe110 7 лет назад +225

    I never saw anyone that's a real alpha call themselves alpha. you don't have to try because it comes from within. this video is more about how to make someone THINK you're an alpha

    • @ZymixProductions
      @ZymixProductions 6 лет назад

      Mr Solo Dolo True!

    • @constantinosschinas4503
      @constantinosschinas4503 6 лет назад +18

      supposingly behaving lika an alpha gradually makes you an alpha. this is psychology talk.

    • @ayyub9855
      @ayyub9855 5 лет назад

      its the same result so it doesnt matter

    • @negan4089
      @negan4089 5 лет назад

      I'd take money over alpha status every day (guy with money > alpha)

    • @Nat3ThaGreat
      @Nat3ThaGreat 5 лет назад +1

      It doesn't say how to be alpha it says how to pick up girls with tha alpha gaze

  • @Knowledgia
    @Knowledgia 7 лет назад +352

    The moment when you are like an Encyclopedia and you have to post daily because you have a lot of information in your head. Awesome video like always ! ;)

    • @Maffu79
      @Maffu79 7 лет назад +13

      He has developed the ability to draw really quickly, while speaking at a normal pace, dropping knowledge bombs, the whole time...
      For the fans.

    • @FarFromAverage
      @FarFromAverage  7 лет назад +64

      Each video takes about 8 hours between writing the script, creating the audio, editing the audio, animating and syncing the audio, choosing the thumbnail ect, so not every day, but I do it for you guys! ;)

    • @samuelmakambala4432
      @samuelmakambala4432 7 лет назад +2

      FarFromAverage please can you do a video on why people make fun of you and how to stop that please

    • @jamesbudvrhyyytttya
      @jamesbudvrhyyytttya 6 лет назад

      Hi Samueĺa MakambalalaallALA ;) just don't worry! 1 day you will be grown 👨 man. .. and hopefully a good person just you need to eat a lot of spinach! !! OK! And then all is going to come naturally...OK! Just no rush and don't forget to eat a lot of spinach!OK! Good 👨 man MakambalalaallALA.
      P.S.
      In 10 years let me know how it goes, if you don't forget of course!
      Good luck 🍀 and don't forget to eat what? A lot of. . ; )

    • @rayzarms7831
      @rayzarms7831 6 лет назад

      jamesbudvrhyyytttya You do really sound like an idiot, but I guess you know that right ? The Guy is obviously insecure and getting bullied and again here You are also trying to make fun of him. Grow up already, like You tell him to do. Ronald McDonald the clown looking ass

  • @PhilMante
    @PhilMante 5 лет назад +1

    FFA, your channel has been a godsend.
    I always thought i'd never be anyone because I was diagnosed with aspergers and it made me feel like i'd never have a chance. Your channel changed that. For an aspie, the dating game is a grey area, amongst a black & white understanding of things. Your videos translate the grey areas to black and white almost perfectly for an aspie like me to understand.
    Most aspies are beta by nature. It's almost as if they're programmed by nature to be ultimately unattractive. Their biggest flaw is that they find it VERY difficult to make eye contact. I've overcome that. Today I was out for a walk with my best friend, and I practiced the alpha techniques I've learned watching your channel. Just by changing my game up....I not only stared down a few other males, I noticed a woman checking me out.
    Your videos are opening up a whole new world to me. Thank you for sharing your knowledge.

  • @EternityGray
    @EternityGray 6 лет назад +5

    The tips in these videos are super helpful. Somehow I intuitively know that they are right but I just didn't take the time to think about them before

  • @ShinAkuma
    @ShinAkuma 7 лет назад +43

    I used to be extremely bad at eye contact. I spent like 20 years of my life looking down while talking, walking or during any other activity where other people were involved and never talked much.
    I had problem looking people in the eye so I started by gazing not in their eyes but focusing at the center of their eyes, this way I wasnt making eye contact and they thought I was and even had a girl ask me out because I must've done something right there. After practicing it enough with lots of strangers I got no more problems with eye contact or talking with strangers or hot girls.

    • @SoldierOfGodKJV
      @SoldierOfGodKJV 4 года назад +3

      So, if I start looking at girls in between their eyes instead of directly in them, it will increase my ability to speak with people?

    • @murphsviews
      @murphsviews 4 года назад +4

      Paul Wise there's one way to find out!

    • @lordroyaltee
      @lordroyaltee 2 года назад +4

      Have most of your fears become a reality. Thats what fixed me. Break into a million pieces and rebuild your foundation.

    • @steppininmaaf1s236
      @steppininmaaf1s236 2 года назад

      Thanks man will try

    • @shadowsdawn83
      @shadowsdawn83 Год назад

      @@lordroyaltee your comment alone is the best here

  • @eduardolandart8354
    @eduardolandart8354 7 лет назад +640

    RIP Harambe

    • @_________5015
      @_________5015 6 лет назад +3

      Eduardo Landart omg bro

    • @djjinerson
      @djjinerson 6 лет назад +5

      Eduardo Landart mines out

    • @bastosperineum8171
      @bastosperineum8171 6 лет назад +2

      Eduardo Landart pour out some liqour

    • @eddycolon1986
      @eddycolon1986 6 лет назад +10

      Eduardo Landart he was kill cz he was an alpha and the humans knew it. Hahahaha

    • @Philocyb1n
      @Philocyb1n 6 лет назад +4

      rip, his time was too soon

  • @knockknock9502
    @knockknock9502 6 лет назад +2

    Except for looking at shyness as a negative feature, this presentation is amazingly on point!

  • @brokeneyes6615
    @brokeneyes6615 6 лет назад +7

    Eye contact helps call out the liar/manipulator/cycle path as well. A person who is trying to deceive isn’t going to look away but rather is going to have an intense stare to see if your buying it.
    Their eyes are not going to have an ounce of genuine feeling for what their saying and it can actually be quite disturbing to see someone act like a victim one second only to lock eyes with you and you see nothing but a blank stare studying you the next.

  • @jeroenroyen6077
    @jeroenroyen6077 7 лет назад +248

    This type of forced and fake confidence is what makes people look so damned ridiculously fake.

    • @halcioncocaine2096
      @halcioncocaine2096 5 лет назад +1

      I got my confidence from the wicked dancehall.

    • @cayden2744
      @cayden2744 5 лет назад +9

      So have a true confidence

    • @kristiann4346
      @kristiann4346 4 года назад +29

      Jeroen Royen maintaining eye contact doesn’t mean you have fake confidence. Those who aren’t fake just do it naturally.

    • @RaulRodriguez-dl8hd
      @RaulRodriguez-dl8hd 4 года назад +14

      Fake it till you make it mentality

    • @Lightnings
      @Lightnings 4 года назад +2

      Spot on.

  • @dontlosetodoubttm709
    @dontlosetodoubttm709 7 лет назад +795

    This reminds me of the Mayweather and McGregor staredown, both trying to be the dominant one.

    • @eddy4117
      @eddy4117 7 лет назад +44

      DontLoseToDoubt TM Most fighters make intense eye contact during stare downs.

    • @chadwilliams9141
      @chadwilliams9141 7 лет назад +6

      Have you ever seen a guy by the name of Tim Elliot during a face off dude looks down.

    • @eddy4117
      @eddy4117 7 лет назад +28

      Chad Williams Yeah. There are guys that don't make eye contact at all and look at their opponents chest or the ground.

    • @Bleach420
      @Bleach420 7 лет назад +13

      DontLoseToDoubt TM 50-0

    • @javierherrera8782
      @javierherrera8782 6 лет назад +5

      *MIRKO VS SILVA STAREDOWN*

  • @batman66ism
    @batman66ism 5 лет назад +1

    Thank you this is right on time especially with the BAT SYMBOL

  • @rahulmate7264
    @rahulmate7264 7 лет назад +225

    Lol I don't care if someone looks at me like a weak beta because the truth is I know who I am. I don't waste my time trying to show that I'm strong.

    • @bright.light.sights933
      @bright.light.sights933 6 лет назад +9

      zeta

    • @robgrass756
      @robgrass756 6 лет назад +2

      facts

    • @PerposterusGossamerPossum
      @PerposterusGossamerPossum 6 лет назад +6

      Rahul Mate 100 agreed this dude never trained any combative sport. Also it's wrong if you give people the murder gaze you scare people, I grill people people way too hard because of martial arts and it fucks my interactions.

    • @robertrivera8270
      @robertrivera8270 6 лет назад +24

      Rahul mate,word why can’t people mind their own business and go about their day instead of trying to intimidate others.

    • @PerposterusGossamerPossum
      @PerposterusGossamerPossum 6 лет назад +7

      Robert Rivera They live in a place where intimidating people works. No one is packing and no one is that dangerous. So when a shirtless guy on a bus acts crazy everybody cowers. They think that's how an alpha acts because he made a scene.

  • @oisin5349
    @oisin5349 7 лет назад +75

    I hardly wear my glasses so half the time idek if I'm making eye-contact

    • @Maffu79
      @Maffu79 7 лет назад +20

      Yoda,
      You need eye contacts.
      _Zing_

    • @sergior8667
      @sergior8667 6 лет назад +2

      michael Ramos They’re the eyes to her soul. 😂

    • @Monkeysarentcool
      @Monkeysarentcool 6 лет назад

      Yoda has bad vision? Is that part of the lore?

    • @DavidDragonstar123
      @DavidDragonstar123 5 лет назад +1

      @@Monkeysarentcool He sees with the force

  • @jimmythegent8929
    @jimmythegent8929 7 лет назад +144

    Yessssss self proclaimed alpha males unite!

    • @kevinseveneleven
      @kevinseveneleven 6 лет назад +4

      Jimmy The Gent lmaooooo

    • @bmac4393
      @bmac4393 6 лет назад

      Fuck you

    • @skullj2872
      @skullj2872 5 лет назад +1

      I'm not just an alpha male, *_I'M AN APEX ALPHA MALE._*

    • @negan4089
      @negan4089 5 лет назад +1

      @@skullj2872 I think you may be gay

    • @skullj2872
      @skullj2872 5 лет назад

      @@negan4089 Listen, just because you're gay doesn't mean you have to assume everyone else is gay just so you can feel better about yourself.

  • @SuperGuanine
    @SuperGuanine 3 года назад +3

    This is GREAT. Thank you for helping me learn how to progress from a WIMP to almost an ALPHA. i.e. I need more work b/cuz I often get scared to make eye contact with an Alpha.

  • @smileyface3107
    @smileyface3107 6 лет назад +9

    my "alpha" stares comes and goes depending how I'm feeling :( sometimes I can barley hold eye contact then other days I feel invincible.

  • @fafaffu2
    @fafaffu2 7 лет назад +8

    when I'm talking my eyes go all over the place, not because I'm scared of eye-contact but because it's like I search for ideas in my brain

  • @stonalisa3729
    @stonalisa3729 7 лет назад +132

    I will no longer be a fish...
    ...I Am CHEWABOCKA

    • @gravepatch
      @gravepatch 7 лет назад +2

      SomeGuyOnRUclips You will always be a fish.

    • @YoonTae98
      @YoonTae98 5 лет назад

      😂😂😂😂

    • @MrAlpinab7
      @MrAlpinab7 5 лет назад +1

      change it with : I am Groot !

    • @z-z-z-z
      @z-z-z-z 5 лет назад

      i like to chew a lil' bacca myself (copenhagen).

    • @kmarks7194
      @kmarks7194 3 года назад

      🥴

  • @egyptianking4726
    @egyptianking4726 6 лет назад +2

    This is your best video imo because your vids tend to get a little repetitive although they are still great but this video is stuff that I've never heard before and now that I think about it, the reason it's so easy to distinguish alphas and betas through eye contact, and it seems pretty easy to have alpha eye contact if you have any confidence. For sure going to use these tips, cheers mate keep up the great videos

  • @mihailolazovic9236
    @mihailolazovic9236 6 лет назад +2

    Thank you becouse of this video i gainde respect and in my class evrybody is asking me before they do something, and girls love me, an when i walk with friends i am always center of group.

  • @DeathlyDiJ
    @DeathlyDiJ 7 лет назад +125

    im over 3 minutes in and i havent learned anything new for 3 minutes

  • @jacquesnicolay9221
    @jacquesnicolay9221 7 лет назад +6

    Been waiting for an Eye contact video. I like the simplicity of it and I can attest that it really is just a constant repetition of the things you just said over and over again in a conversation. I have the habit of looking away right before I respond to someone, and then I come back to the gaze and yea it's a push pull after that with nods and squints to show my interest in their company, I notice some other men do the same thing, usually more physical, sexual men. It's little things like that that I would love to have heard explained in the video but I think it was informative nonetheless. Thanks

  • @jongarcia1198
    @jongarcia1198 5 лет назад +12

    Tried it and everyone thought I was high af

  • @QuartuvLarry
    @QuartuvLarry 6 лет назад +1

    I've had to re-learn this stuff. Escaping into my head (headphones help, initially) helps power up the Death Star gaze. I surprised myself getting her to return a smoldering look

  • @solidspirit2365
    @solidspirit2365 6 лет назад +29

    You are looking at what people are feeling inside at the moment that you are interacting with them. Nothing to do with a "personality" Bad information.
    People have good days/bad days, confident days, self doubt days..."Personality" is a static construct, not at all accurate in assessing eye contact situations, in fact may lead to gross misjudgment.

    • @pits7035
      @pits7035 3 года назад

      Half ryt half wrong just lyk tis video

  • @The_Bjorn
    @The_Bjorn 6 лет назад +77

    so avoiding eye contact makes you beta
    and staring too long makes you a beta?
    WHAT? how did i even get here

    • @rositaspigeons1148
      @rositaspigeons1148 4 года назад +8

      The Bjorn I think staring too long and then looking away when they look at you.

    • @kevinrose1368
      @kevinrose1368 4 года назад +6

      Yeah he did not really explain it well but indeed I think he means like staring at a girl for a minute and then when she finally locks eyes with you , you look down.

    • @firstandlastswagman269
      @firstandlastswagman269 4 года назад

      Make it better
      Hey jude

    • @jamiemohan2049
      @jamiemohan2049 3 года назад

      Lol. Most of us avoid eye contact cause we just don't want an interaction. I don't think this stuff makes any sense.

    • @Alex-zd9tx
      @Alex-zd9tx Год назад

      He definitely doesn’t know what he talking about I usually dont lock eyes with a female unless I know she wants to talk to me. Staring at a female is a ego boost for her be careful guys

  • @michaelroditis1952
    @michaelroditis1952 6 лет назад

    I love the fact that you talk only about one thing and say so much good information about it!

  • @matiasdelapantera9739
    @matiasdelapantera9739 6 лет назад +1

    I'm not sure why i'm seeing so many comments on the supposed uneffectiveness of eye contact and this video and I'm like what? Eye contact has been the deciding factor in wether a girl is attracted to me and treats me nicely and a girl treating me as if I didn't exist. The power of eye contact is real, you've conveyed it expertly here and everyone talking smack is just salty that they don't have the emotional strength and confidence necessary for effective eye contact.

  • @TaxEvasi0n
    @TaxEvasi0n 7 лет назад +4

    Eye contact felt alien to me. I've been practicing it for the last couple weeks, and I definitely feel more comfortable. I still have some way to go, sometimes I can get distracted with the whole "do they think I'm alpha yet?" and hear nothing they're saying. But I'm getting passed that. I'm still getting a feel for it, but I've noticed improvements/changes.

  • @frankstein497
    @frankstein497 6 лет назад +16

    I like to just throw my shit at people that I don't like. THAT is a true alpha move.

  • @T3HL393nd
    @T3HL393nd 3 года назад +2

    I'm so good at looking people in the eyes, everyone is under my genjutsu now

  • @goosegutz
    @goosegutz 5 лет назад +2

    love how he always finishes with: "with that said", keep thinking there's going to be another piece of advice, but with that said its all over!

  • @uwotm8
    @uwotm8 7 лет назад +21

    I used to not like to make eye contact. Been a barman for a year. Now it doesn't feel right to not make eye contact.

    • @uwotm8
      @uwotm8 6 лет назад +2

      Mor Fakten in the eyes of the one you find most attractive. Make sure to check thier arse out as they walk past 😉.

    • @mariusleroy8895
      @mariusleroy8895 4 года назад

      Zeon Hydro even girls look at guys buttcheeks

  • @putty93010
    @putty93010 6 лет назад +48

    Try not to ascribe too much to this "Alpha" dogma, it's somewhere between an oversimplification and total B.S. Sure it applies to K-9s or a pack social structure. Human interaction and social structures are far more complex.

    • @anonymouslee2083
      @anonymouslee2083 4 года назад +7

      True. There are people who will avoid conflict if they can, but will ventilate your skull if you go looking for trouble.

    • @albertoflores970
      @albertoflores970 4 года назад +1

      I strongly agree with you.

    • @ArjunaKunti
      @ArjunaKunti 3 года назад

      Indeed. But we have to work models which are simple enough to handle them but complex enough to make them useful.

  • @kaizenborntowin
    @kaizenborntowin Год назад

    Thank you! I really enjoy your old stuff.

  • @zachryder3150
    @zachryder3150 6 лет назад +11

    Who else won a stareing contest against a poster, thanks to this video

  • @GabrielS94
    @GabrielS94 7 лет назад +126

    The whole alpha, and beta thing is just an opinion of an overactive girl's imagination, the ego of an overconfident guy etc.

    • @Jacktibby2011
      @Jacktibby2011 6 лет назад +37

      yeah its generally nonsense but eye contact is important and can gain more power when it is used.

    • @eliudguerra2952
      @eliudguerra2952 6 лет назад +28

      Gabriel271294
      Spoken like a true beta

    • @jacobtokarz2889
      @jacobtokarz2889 6 лет назад

      Yeah ikr this shit is truly something else

    • @defpixel
      @defpixel 6 лет назад +6

      I dunno I was at work trying to look inside this trailer that was dark inside and the guy next to thought I was staring at him. Now every time I see him at work he runs away, I never even talked to him before

    • @vrendo9810
      @vrendo9810 6 лет назад +1

      defpixel lol thats really funny, have you tried talking to him now to clear it up

  • @regiejr.leonora9621
    @regiejr.leonora9621 7 лет назад +220

    i dont need this. im batman

    • @_________5015
      @_________5015 6 лет назад +2

      Regie Leonora, Jr. Lol wut

    • @subliminal9144
      @subliminal9144 6 лет назад

      You are describing yourself mate

    • @RAGHU5380
      @RAGHU5380 5 лет назад

      Hey , you are Pod from Game of Thrones

    • @DonWestmorelandUSA
      @DonWestmorelandUSA 5 лет назад

      @KRYMauL That would be known as a Sigma male, just as dominant as an alpha but doesn't put up with other alphas shit. They may make fun of you, but they never have the balls to step to you.

    • @ohav3893
      @ohav3893 5 лет назад

      Guys he was joking and you all just insulted him out of nowhere lmao.

  • @sosrasputin107
    @sosrasputin107 6 лет назад

    Dude you are a legend you are helping me extremly with those videos since i am extremly shy and social akward. Thank you.

  • @gerardogonzalez6110
    @gerardogonzalez6110 5 лет назад +2

    I've been watching your videos, but this one in particular made me love your channel and I just subscribe. Good job!👈👈👊👊

  • @biglakebulliesadamg.8715
    @biglakebulliesadamg.8715 5 лет назад +11

    Silverback enclosure here I come. Staring contest time!!

  • @brucewayne3069
    @brucewayne3069 4 года назад +5

    I once tried the eye contact thing with a Silverback Gorilla and it kneeled before me.

  • @gilbertolendi6331
    @gilbertolendi6331 5 лет назад +1

    Thank you so much!
    I take it !

  • @mlucky952
    @mlucky952 6 лет назад

    Thank you FFA your videos are greatly helpful

  • @collindawson2626
    @collindawson2626 4 года назад +5

    Does anyone else keep getting this ad that’s says “ HI IM SCOTT”

    • @legendarypussydestroyer6943
      @legendarypussydestroyer6943 4 года назад

      HULLO SCOTT MANLEY HERE AND TODAY WE'RE GOING TO LAUNCH JEBEDIAH KERMAN TO THE MUN WITH DECOUPLERS

  • @nickp3949
    @nickp3949 7 лет назад +8

    So...this is my mentality.
    If I stare at someone, that's creepy as fuck, and not only that, even if it's not creepy, I really don't want to make people uncomfortable. I don't know, call me a beta for it if you will, I don't care, but I like it when people are comfortable around me. An intense eye stare that may intimidate them doesn't make me feel good because I feel like I'm making them uncomfortable. I enjoy it when I give people the impression that they are equal to me, because someone doing that to me makes me respect this person and want to get to know them. I feel like if you walk around showing off your dominance, even if its not cocky at all, you're never going to get to really know people because they may be afraid that you will judge them.

    • @mariusleroy8895
      @mariusleroy8895 4 года назад

      Aww your’e so Nice! Let’s be friends!

    • @mariusleroy8895
      @mariusleroy8895 4 года назад

      Jk, but really though charisma is what makes people comfortable around you, you should only have this gaze when youre really interested or something like that, move the eyebrows to not look like a robot etc...

  • @vjm3
    @vjm3 6 лет назад +2

    There's a trick if you think you're staring at someone for too long. Utilize the "face triangle." The face triangle consists of both eyes, and the mouth/nose. While listening or having a conversation, look in to one eye for about three to four seconds, then switch your gaze to the other eye for three to four seconds. Finally, switch it down to the mouth or nose for a few seconds, then back up to the eye.
    What this does is it create an illusion of interest and paying attention, while also causing changes in where your eye is looking just enough to convince the other person you're not staring for too long at one spot.

  • @r011ing_thunder6
    @r011ing_thunder6 6 лет назад

    This is the shit nobody wants to talk to anybody about. Thank you for making this video man!

  • @frankrambo506
    @frankrambo506 7 лет назад +95

    lol so look at a girl in the eyes for one second then down at her legs and back to the yes for one second ? That just shows you checking her out

    • @12NiBer12
      @12NiBer12 7 лет назад +94

      That's kind of the point.

    • @kvash1039
      @kvash1039 7 лет назад +34

      frank Rambo it's ballsy to do it, and if you do it fearlessly it demonstrates confidence and quality

    • @Methos_
      @Methos_ 7 лет назад +32

      It demonstrates that you're a creep who doesn't mind making others uncomfortable to "assert your dominance"

    • @HellGod67
      @HellGod67 6 лет назад +32

      Scrotie Wantubsis It still works, it's not like girls search for a perfect innocent guy who just stares at her eyeballs

    • @TheChemistGaming
      @TheChemistGaming 6 лет назад +15

      Scrotie Wantubsis
      If the girl is attracted or interested in you however it will get her excited. The basis of attracting women is confidence and taking the lead. It won't always be welcome from every woman but that doesn't mean you shouldn't do it. If it makes them uncomfortable then move on. Otherwise she will love the boldness in going after what you want.

  • @Fuga1899
    @Fuga1899 5 лет назад +7

    "let the beta know he's out of line" lmao

  • @speedomars
    @speedomars 3 года назад +1

    You can't fake it. The eyes are a window into your soul, your personality, your confidence and demeanor. If you are weak inside, you will show it.

  • @toodyhoo2622
    @toodyhoo2622 6 лет назад +1

    This video gave me a good chuckle. Thanks! I can see the correlation you're trying to make here, but we are an evolved species. We do still hold some traits from the old days, however it's not so black and white like you are attempting to explain. I hold confidence in myself, but I will never have a starring match with some girl or guy to show my dominance or interest. Why? because it's rude. I have always had very good looking women in my life and it wasn't due to eye contact. I have been stared down by men thinking they are the "alpha", start a fight, and they get their ass kicked. I have always been humble and never had to do the things presented in this video. For all the guys watching this, don't stare at women. Have a quick peek to see if they are your type and then go up and see if they're single and if so, start a conversation. Don't fucking stare like most of the men out there. It's disgusting. This also apply's to men staring at other guys who won't look away like it's some sort of pissing contest. You're an asshole if you do this and don't be surprised if some humble guy knocks your ass out for being one. Don't stare, plain and simple. This whole video is telling others to be rude assholes.

    • @murphsviews
      @murphsviews 4 года назад

      lol, not once did he say to "stare" at females!
      There's a ridiculously big difference between staring at a girl (like from across a room) and making strong eye contact with her when you're conversing/interacting with her.
      The latter being Something that so many men fail to do- especially if she's hot. Which conveys weakness to her.

  • @user-yo8wv4cw2d
    @user-yo8wv4cw2d 5 лет назад +8

    If someone starring at me i have to laugh for some reasons

  • @GabrielSouza-sr6jr
    @GabrielSouza-sr6jr 7 лет назад +95

    Why do fishes show up when he's talking about beta behaviors?

    • @eshansingh6737
      @eshansingh6737 7 лет назад +10

      bcos fish eyes are wide open in fear or half open dizzy ..

    • @givetheymeantake
      @givetheymeantake 7 лет назад +12

      Gabriel Faria cuz magicarp is a bitch

    • @sloebone7399
      @sloebone7399 7 лет назад +1

      Fish are naturally beta, everyone knows that. Act like a fish and you'll never get laid. Stupid fish!

    • @steezyJMX
      @steezyJMX 7 лет назад +8

      Magikarp

    • @straycatlover
      @straycatlover 7 лет назад +2

      Gabriel Faria beta fish!

  • @edwinrodriguez3057
    @edwinrodriguez3057 4 года назад +1

    This explains why a lot of guys tend to want to stand up to me when they see me around the office. I was taught an early age to make eye contact didn't help growing up in Inglewood either now as an adult I feel disrespected when someone does not look me in the eye (drives me nuts) when they speak to me.

  • @BankBidnizz
    @BankBidnizz 3 года назад +1

    My aura forces them to hire me before the interview.

  • @thelostking1025
    @thelostking1025 5 лет назад +3

    Hold eye contact 100% when speaking and 70%when listening

  • @Jess-zm5xt
    @Jess-zm5xt 5 лет назад +79

    This guy is *obsessed* with “Alpha/Beta”

    • @MrBUGS713
      @MrBUGS713 4 года назад +6

      So are women

    • @fidgetyrock4420
      @fidgetyrock4420 4 года назад +6

      @@MrBUGS713 no they are not

    • @lilcoke4069
      @lilcoke4069 4 года назад +2

      Chad already has this embodied in him from positive reinforcement cause he's good looking. If you're good looking you don't even need to think about this. Everything is all in your favor to mate.

    • @kevinrose1368
      @kevinrose1368 4 года назад +1

      @@lilcoke4069 Good looks sure give you an advantage and you really have to screw it up not to end up with a hot girl. However, one time a girl picked me over a guy that later became one of the hottest guys in my country. I'm sure that gave him a boost of confidence and no girl would pick me over him anymore but that's not to say it's not possible to have a nice girl.

    • @lilcoke4069
      @lilcoke4069 4 года назад +3

      @@kevinrose1368 Yeah as a good looking guy if you want to keep a girl it's basically all up to you provided you're not a complete asshole. But when you're good looking guess what? You have loads of options and most good looking alpha guys take those options just to fuck basically if they want a relationship they can settle down later when they choose to cause they're always desired. It sucks that women only find the top 10%-20% guys objectively attractive and go after those guys first. 1 or 2 heartbreaks and a woman is basically done. Full of bitterness and resentment over her ex's and takes that into the less desirable guys naive relationship. I'm not saying it's impossible to find a good pure girl that chooses you first, they're out there but the odds aren't in your favor. Better get them young and try and get them to pair bond to you first. But the less attractive you are the more chance you'll be saved for their last option when they 'hit the wall'. Make sure they're sucking up to you more it shows they desire you. If you suck up you're basically giving them all the power and you don't want to be in that role. It's not your role. Good luck, man. Haha

  • @davonphillips8048
    @davonphillips8048 3 года назад

    Thank you, now it’s time to incorporate this into my life

  • @Adrian-yp7nb
    @Adrian-yp7nb 5 лет назад

    So true. I've either stopped talking or said "am I boring you"?.... It works well, puts people in their place. However, in a group I'm not a bully and move on to other people, ignoring them completely.... Women do pick up on this too, many times their eyes/pupils enlarge...

  • @patrickjma4616
    @patrickjma4616 5 лет назад +4

    People think my eye contact is intimidating!😆😆 but its fun at the same time cause then I laugh about it with my buddies😁😁

  • @stupisam1194
    @stupisam1194 7 лет назад +23

    damn this is what I needed to learn all along. I ll go practice at the bar tonight😎. you are the best, man. Great job👍

    • @hdz3363
      @hdz3363 7 лет назад +3

      looool

    • @arthipex8512
      @arthipex8512 7 лет назад +1

      totally the same here. gonna try it out too!

    • @Marcossilva_1997
      @Marcossilva_1997 7 лет назад +1

      Philthy McNasty It's probably because u act like a gay or were dressed like one. Do not blame the trick

    • @Marcossilva_1997
      @Marcossilva_1997 7 лет назад

      Philthy McNasty You also write like a gay, point proven.

  • @darklordbob2125
    @darklordbob2125 4 года назад +1

    Thanks man. I like this girl and we keep making eye contact and now I know what to do

    • @murphsviews
      @murphsviews 4 года назад

      Did you look down at her legs and then back up again?

  • @SsjGssjGogeta
    @SsjGssjGogeta 3 года назад

    Thanks greta video again! I def need to work on my Eye Contact! My parents would force me to stare at them in the face when they would scold me a s a kid even if i was crying.. and that shit made me so uncomfortable.. and what do a know.. Caused me to be even less confident as an already stuggling adolescent child

  • @MrDraxz
    @MrDraxz 6 лет назад +6

    Can only train this, reality is unless you figure out how to master yourself, you'll always be beta.

  • @user-il8yw5jb3p
    @user-il8yw5jb3p 4 года назад +4

    This I really hard not because I'm anxious or weak but because my ADD won't let me focus. Oh well keep trying and keep improving I guess 👀🤟

  • @zerazara
    @zerazara 6 лет назад +1

    One important mention missing..The eye contact should feel natural and not forced. If it feels unnatural, people will notice.

  • @infinitelystoned5812
    @infinitelystoned5812 5 лет назад +1

    Gotta have charisma and a personality as well. Being a leader, stand in the face of tough situations. Eye contact is key when in confrontation, people can tell your not fucking around.

  • @luigi386541971
    @luigi386541971 7 лет назад +3

    wow! u gotta be accurate with that eye contact!

  • @devennorris961
    @devennorris961 7 лет назад +10

    I don't know all women are different but I guess you just have to find a comfort zone because if you think about all the alpha male crap you will look weird and act weird

  • @marcthompson647
    @marcthompson647 5 лет назад

    This is like the one thing that I'm naturally good at however when I moved schools the first thing I realised is that nearly none of my friends hold eye contact with anyone except other friends, especially with teachers. Whenever they ask a question they frequently look down or away and it's so awkward for the teacher, the friend and me if I'm sitting near them so please hold eye contact when asking questions

  • @litpk4580
    @litpk4580 3 года назад

    I started practicing eye contact just today am not gonna do the complicated stuff rn but I will when I feel comfortable to hold an eye contact

  • @holleringsmith3837
    @holleringsmith3837 3 года назад +7

    It’s real simple fellas. Workout, eat better, attempt to be more outgoing and friendly, and hope for the best. You CANNOT CONTROL WHETHER SOMEONE LIKES YOU OR NOT. I don’t care what anybody says. Put forth the best version of yourself that YOU can, and if it’s not good enough, then accept it and move on. All these alpha beta tips and “hacks” are horseshit.

  • @Kirbythediver
    @Kirbythediver 7 лет назад +50

    I'm digging the constant flow of videos. I'm Alpha AF but the man who stops learning is like the shark who quite swimming. Good video my dude

    • @geminix365
      @geminix365 7 лет назад +19

      Nah, that's what you want to believe, you are an insecure beta with a facade

    • @NTGNatural
      @NTGNatural 7 лет назад +16

      LMAO @ "forever alone profile pic"

    • @NTGNatural
      @NTGNatural 7 лет назад +26

      Most "Alphas" dont go around saying they are "Alphas". The ones that do are annoying af though...

    • @FinnyC
      @FinnyC 7 лет назад +3

      The man who stops learning is the man who can't spell.

    • @danermanerkider
      @danermanerkider 7 лет назад +10

      "I'm alpha AF"
      Uhh, sure thing man.

  • @bobbyhill4118
    @bobbyhill4118 5 лет назад +2

    Looking into the eyes of other people is simply awkward unless you’re talking to them.

  • @WreckinStreetsDaily
    @WreckinStreetsDaily 5 лет назад +2

    New sub at 843k! I really enjoy these detailed videos. Keep up the knowledge!