Good advice.. most guys are too shook to face their fears tho. They should just read the books on UnbreakableConfidence, com.. The key is to legitimately not give AF about rejection.
Wow.... My mind is blown. I need to work on my self confidence in general. I've been way too hard on myself let people run over me and just being too nice to everyone. Thanks to your videos... I'm a changed man.
You can't talk to the ones you want because well, you want something from them and it changes your behaviour. Treat them the same, from now on, if you see a girl you like, approach them with a mindset of "hmm, she's cute wonder if there's more to her, I'll just approach her and see where it leads". The other girls like you because you're being yourself and are not trying to get something frome them. good luck buddy!
I have noticed that after watching these videos motivation and confidence kicks in and no matter how many times I watch these videos over and over I still feel as though i'm learning something new every time
for the first time in over a year, just had a conversation with a girl around my age yesterday. (22) so making more friends getting out more would help my social confidence
No it's because the woman would be looking up how to be successful as a woman, not how to be an alpha male. Why would a woman google how to be an alpha male if she doesn't need to? Instead, they're googling how to be more beautiful, and how to be more attractive as a female, eg: make up tutorial
LOVE your diagrams & thorough, descriptive style. Great job. I've had a burning reconsideration on my mind for a week now. I've got a great 'death stare' & when necessary, I use it to great effect. I'm learning well from all these videos to be more alpha w girls, but the other day, when parked, on my lunch break, two big dudes walked by my car & as I nodded 'hi', one of them started fight-me staring. I smoothly acted like I hadn't noticed, cuz I was already late getting back to work. But now I'm mad at myself!! Seeing all your videos shows me that he out-alphaed me & I SUBMITTED! I'm all abt challenging myself & my fears, and though it would've been terrifying, and I had a real-world reason not to, I'm definitely willing to stare down a fucker like that and take my risks ...no matter what. Furthermore, if I had employed my BEST glare, he likely wouldn't have had the heart to test me anyway. WAS THAT BETA, HOW I REACTED?? Cuz now I don't feel responsible and a good employee. Now I just feel like a beta pussy. Thanks in advance.
1. Confidence in yourself 2. Focus on yourself first always, trust me guys if you focus on yourself the girls will come to you. 3. Never prioritize a girl, if you keep wanting to talk to her constantly she will lose interest in you. 4. Just be yourself
Always prioritize yourself! ALWAYS! Don’t be difficult or bad to others, but make yourself number one. Also, do not do this to attract women! Women will come to you if you are a good man, but women are not necessary in your life. If they show up, great. If they don’t show up, great. This about you and your happiness in life.
*Women respect men who can take charge when needed, but who also know how to listen, be empathetic, and offer support. It’s about creating a balance of confidence and care that makes you magnetic.*
@@kishanchali8752 testing is when girls are trying to see if you’re truly alpha. She’s testing your value. For example, you may be having a conversation with a girl and she might say something to try to offend you. In that case, the best thing to do is laugh it off or don’t let it bother you, make a joke back, etc. betas will get offended by it and let it bother them, and she will immediately be turned off. The number one rule when a girl tests you is to not care. By doing that you are subconsciously showing her that you have control of your emotions and that you are high value
This is awesome! I agree with Karam...Get rid of distractions! We ALL have the Alpha, but only those of us that get up off of our asses, go to the gym, study self improvement, pick up the phone and make sales calls to get paid, and take action to get the Lambo, the Jet, the Super Sexy (and intelligent) girl, will ever experience LIFE, as it's really supposed to be...with Perfect Health, Perfect Wealth, Perfect Love! Value yourself...and the world will value YOU! BOOM!
@@LORDMICKEY You need to remember key words like dominant, strong, calm, respectful, confident and always put yourself first. Never forget to smile and laugh mutually.
I love this. The good guy ‘alpha’ is the way to go. Treat people with love and kindness but ALWAYS put your self respect above DISRESPECT. 💯 it’s that balance that’s THE single most important thing. Don’t be horrible, just respect yourself.
Its a mindset that you need to engage, not your behaviors. Its like going to a club and you spot a girl who's unattractive or overweight and try to cover it up with a dress, makeup, or jewelry, you can easily spot them out, Its. the same with behaving like an alpha and not engaging the alpha mindset
NewCanadianTurtle, tryiing too hard to BE something, is a sign of self confidence issues, it makes you needy, and approval seeking.. If you have to try to be something, or act it, then it's not authentically you, and Women will see that a mile off. Get into a Gym workout and get into shape, take up a Martial Art to improve your self confidence. Find a mentor that is a confident Guy as a sound board. those things will serve you better than trying to come across as Billy Badass and "Alpha" my friend
Most of the successful person I met, they always have that intimidating personality, intimidating in a positve way. I think being an alpha, you don't need to be good-looking as long as you have courage, and self-confident, you will have what it takes to draw someone's attention towards you.
3:21 I would say that a very attractive man will still get girls if he is beta or omega. It's the halo effect like you've said before, we correlate physical attractiveness to other good traits. The good looking guy doesn't have to show those traits for people to assume he has the,. I'm not denying that an alpha that's average looking might be more successful, but a very attractive beta or omega will still not have too much trouble.
The only problem with that is… An attractive beta male may get a feminine chick, but he probably Will have a hard time keeping her. And if he does manage to hang on… It’s probably a rocky relationship. Because the feminine woman is always waiting for a masculine man to take the lead in the right direction. But beta men never do; they tend to be insecure, and competitive. Feminine women sometimes mix their behaviors up with being feminine, because she has to take the lead (because of his failure to do so). However, it’s really just insecurity/Low self-esteem, and a beta personality.
Spot on! People think being an Alpha is being an ass hole muscle dude...nope, the guy at Tiananmen square in 89 who stod in front of the tanks, thats an Alpha male!
Only straight facts, no cap over here. U always give good advice. I hope everyone doesn't just watch these videos, but learn from them and become the best version of their self as possible.
Please who the hell are you knowing all the truth about life and personality. Brian Tracy moulded me and you shaped me. The first time a group have taken their time to listen to me from the beginning of a conversation to the end. Wow you are super
HISTRICALLY IT'S BBEEN THINGS LIKE GETTING PAST 1ST &2ND DATES AND BRIDGING THE GAP FROM FREINDSHIP(WITH A WOMAN i'VE SEEN FOR AWHILE) & AN INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP. BUT I WISH TO THANK YOU SENCERELY AND OTHER RUclipsR'S FOR PUTTING OUT THESE VIDEOS FREE OF CHARGE. I LISTEN TO THESE DAILY AND HAVE HAD APROFOUND EFFECT ON MY CONFIDENCE/MASCULINITY! YOU GUYS ROCK!!!
I find it funny how we developed technology for ourselves, to the point we're we can record and save for future generations, the history of our devolution.
That's because in order for concepts to sink in, the vast majority of people need core information and themes repeated over and over and over again. This is long-proven psychological science, not just my conjecture or opinion.
i think u make a good point but i think the real reason has to do with the videos length and how long the viewer watches the vid. He could have made a 2 min vid explaining this but the vid would not get as much exposer or something like that
I used to be very successful with girls but have now the worst year in terms of dating and confidence behind me of my life. Thanks to you i learned why, i was a bad boy alpha that ended up just hurting girls and i really needed and wanted to change so now i am trying to become a good guy alpha and boy its hard
naw it ain't easy being an alpha in this Society.... yeah u get the women but those women also have the ability to destroy your life and u cant do anything about it
This video is amazing. One thing though... Women aren't open about this but they are just as visually attracted to looks as men are. Sure personality is grest but women are more like men in that regard than society believes.
Agreed Nifly Moth. Genuine confidence comes from within, and it shows in your body language, they way you carry yourself, and behave. If a Guy is genuinely self confident, it shows..he don't have to shoot his mouth off talkin about how Badass and "Alpha" he is
they are jealous , perfectionist, uncompassionate, unloving, rude, heatless most of the time.. just because they have some qualities such as spontanity, eyecontact, leader at times , they are mistaken for alpha
I truly believe that my addiction is what keeps me from obtaining true confidence. I want to say I'll try and work on that but honestly, I know how or what steps to take.
The Alpha/Beta theory had been debunked. Men, if you want a relationship, just stop caring about it and work on self-improvement for yourself and not women.
What if u are not interested in being a leader? What if you don't want to be the center of attention? What if you are happy blending in with the crowd.
If a girl acts cold to me, what makes you think I walk away with my "tail between my legs"? I'll walk away, all right, but I won't give her a second thought and I'll move on with my life.
Mostly i over analyze and think too much. This originates from a scar left by high school. I was confident and full of hope and dreams. I once hit on a girl. Once. And i got the reputation of a pervert. Never again.
My biggest area that I feel that I'd want to improve on is competing with other male, as I dislike competition in general. I don't see the need for competition, yet it seems to be a "trigger" for some of my minor insecurities involving girls. Interesting video :)
Not gonna lie, my biggest issue is when I spend enough time with a girl (at work or over seeing each other over a period of weeks), there's not much new to talk about so I struggle to come up with new topics of conversation if we're in an environment we are very familiar with. Because of that, there's a lot of silence. Often they seem comfortable with the silence, but I'm never doing much of the talking or starting of conversations. Anyone else have a similar problem or perhaps know of a quick-fix remedy to the situation?
just relax. Don't stress it too much. You are probably not saying the things in your mind because you think it's too dorky or sounds lame.... SAY IT. Anything is good conversation if said the right way. Silences are normal, and healthy. And don't put so much pressure on yourself. A good trick I like to do is to put the responsibility on the girl to come up with things to say...then I jump in and help her... Otherwise that's it. And be confident as well
Lol alpha is a matter of perspective so stay in your lane. Focus on success in what your good at and fuck what your lacking. Doesn't matter what you can't do cause nobody can do what you can do. Keep moving gentleman and you will find neutral
I've been watching your videos. I agree about 70% with what you are saying which is far more than I'd agree w/ most people on YT! I do think culture and individual personalities as well other factors (such as what experiences you and said person have gone through together, ways in which you connect, values/views you'se have, etc.) makes up the other 30% of what it is that makes someone attracted to someone but I do think most of it is down to the evolutionary aspects!
Competition guys. I have a physically demanding job where all workers are men obviously. There's no boss we all have our separate skills so we hire each other. But there is an alpha, i remember being unaware of this unspoken hierarchy but it's definitely there. I started challenging the top guys and improved my work ethic and began demanding respect, knowing how to react & carry myself. It's a bit tense at times with the guys competing but at the same time more respect for each other than to those who don't & remain passive. It makes your work all the better & improves ethic. Compete against the top guys, hold yourself to a standard
Are you a real man? What would you do if a strong 2 meters guy touches the ass of your women and you are just there ,and you see it? But obviously he doesn't give a damn about that you are here because he knows that you are not a problem for him because he can easily own you. I'd really like to know what you would do in that situation... Specially when the mass of muslims inmigration is coming in Europe and tend to don't respect girls as they desearve... At a moment ,where things get hard and dificult ,there is only one rule who will make you survive or not... And that rule is : ONLY THE STRONG SURVIVES ... In peacefull places and times ,your option is the best I do believe ,but when things get hard... It's not anymore; if you want something for you (something = a girl) because girls are like this... even if they know that thoose kind of guys don't have long relationships ,their instinct is to go for the alpha ,the real man ,and if muslims keep coming as they are doing ,you have to stand up for your rights to also have a girl or even a beautifull girl. Don't you think so? The thing is that they see some beautifull young girls and guys like you ,not alpha ,not dominating ,so they take the place of the alpha and they take your girls because they see us like pussies afraid to fight ,pussies in general ,not dominant ,then they see thoose girls ,so they become alpha to take them with them and to make girls beeing atracted by them... Tell me what you think about what I just said please, I'd like to know your opinion as an non alpha male ,if I can say that in this way xD
You're either a Muslim yourself, or a typical deluded Western liberal moron who thinks Muslims are just a bunch of innocent little angels being "unfairly picked on". Funny thing is - you probably have little or no personal experience with Muslims, Muslim mentality, behavior or society at all. You're just an ignorant idiot living in mental cloud-cuckoo land. And those Muslims who view all uncovered non-Muslim females - and especially good-looking, young, attractively dressed ones - as infidel whores there for the taking, laugh at and despise stupid infidel guys like you who let them near their women. FUCKING TOOL.
Serious Comedian is right. Anyone who desires to be "alpha" or the "best" or the "leader" and desired by hot girls is seeking validation from sources other than himself. You should want to achive your goals and be the best version of yourself-FOR YOURSELF--not to be the "alpha" or to get hot girls or a better paying job etc... Human psychology is amusing sometimes
Im an introverted guy but for some reason i feel more confident around beautiful women than average women. With all that being said im still not very out going around them compared to most guys.
The part about girls testing you is so true. There's countless times where that has happened and I've even failed a couple. But my question is, how do you pass? By showing no emotion or care? That's actually the only time I've passed. by showing the girl that I'm just fine without her. Wether she wants to be there or not, it makes no difference to me. But surely this isn't the nicest way to go about things? Or the most effective. I want to win the girl over without having to be a dick.
A lot of people say I should have had a gf before since I workout and do tons of self improvement but when it comes to being AROHND A TON of girls I just die
Anyone else have trouble because you look to young? I'm 19 but middle schoolers walk up and treat me like one of their own XD ( I look like I'm 15 or 16 from what others say ). Girls usually think I'm lying when I say I'm 19 XD *how it usually goes* Sooo.. how old are you 😐 I'm 19 😎 you?... I'm 12 😂 really 😅 no.. 18 cool ☺ you really 19 😐.. yup ☺ k then...... 😕
Peter Malchuk same here, I'm 20 but look 16 and 12 year olds be coming at me but ain tryna go to jail so I just dip and girls my age don't take me seriously cause I look young but one day there old ass will be trying to look younger and I'll be perfectly set.
Peter Malchuk build a decent amount of muscle and be lean so you look pretty muscular. This will help you not look as young also dress like no 15-16 year old would. Dress very well as if you were going to an interview. This will help a whole lot.
Everett - I actually do a fair amount of exercise ( calisthenics mostly ), although I really should kick it up a bit with summer going on. I usually only get attention doing parkour XD... As for dressing I should step it up a few notches, I usually dress pretty casual, I'm definitely going to work on it today ;) thanks for the advice man :)
Cruz96 Productions Ikr? super awkward with 12 to 15 year olds coming up to you only to realize your to old :/, although you are right, later on they'll wish they looked like us XD
cool28990 and now??? What the fuck does that mean animals have to be dumb and everything what is intelligent Isa human? We are animals, the most intelligent, powerful animals on this world and we behave exactly like them but society gave us norms
Mahfuz Munir Khan PT humans evolved from apes, which is a long lineage of selected traits that proved only the most useful for survival, people without these traits were killed off. If apes nowadays have really similar genomes, does that still make them animals? Or what about the rat looking mammals that existed millions of years before them?
One way to be Alpha, is to set goals and work to achieve them, one goal is to work on yourself. work on your body and especially build your confidence. learn no women is better then you, she is just a woman, and many of them are insecure about themselves because they run on emotion. look them always straight in the eye, speak in direct terms, carry yourself with the sense of authority. if they reject you, smile and show them you don't care, because there are so many women in the world. you must always garner a woman's respect when you have one, or she will not hang around.
exagerate what she said or just agree with her, example, if she said you are a piece of shit, you can exagerate like: "I love to be shit, I just accept myself, btw where are you from?" Agree or exagerate with her, keep calm and spike her with another question about anything, you look calm and confident, she wants to turn off this, just keep on you, calm and confident. Once a girl said that i'm shit, I said that "I love to be shit because the shit can float, another way you drown, now tell me something interesting about you."
Tell them, go fuck yourself. Those who give "shit test" are the ones with twisted personality. They are never really good people and you don't want to know them in the first place. They might have the looks, but there are other nice girls with good looks. I don't understand why people can't just treat each other with respect.
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This video sounds like the other alpha videos tbh. I recommend you make a video on making the move to get to the next level once you've started talking to them. You can be an alpha and still lose attraction when talking to a girl.
These videos are hilarious. Look make eye contact with me too long and I'm gonna laugh, If you're a girl and attractive then I'm going to stare, smile, and approach.
1. Improve yourself
2. Face your fear
Best advice for men.
Matt so facts
Advice nr 3: Don't spend money!
Good advice.. most guys are too shook to face their fears tho.
They should just read the books on UnbreakableConfidence, com..
The key is to legitimately not give AF about rejection.
What if your only fear is the darkness that is inside of you? How do I face it when I live it everyday?
Matt Walking outside every day is enough for any God fearing man
1. Improve yourself.
2. Be kind, but don’t try to please everyone.
3. Be confident.
Why fishes are beta? They have Omega 3
hahahahahaha
Ok
yeah your right good for the heart...
lol
U ddnt just say that😂😂
Wow.... My mind is blown. I need to work on my self confidence in general. I've been way too hard on myself let people run over me and just being too nice to everyone. Thanks to your videos... I'm a changed man.
I'm great around girls and I easily make female friends. I just can't talk to the ones I like.
whether you think you can or think you can't, you're right.
Don Ramiro Thanks ford, I think we all need to be reminded from time to time.
you should treat all women the same! Don't put the attractive ones on a pedestal.
Jikrin Same here lol
You can't talk to the ones you want because well, you want something from them and it changes your behaviour. Treat them the same, from now on, if you see a girl you like, approach them with a mindset of "hmm, she's cute wonder if there's more to her, I'll just approach her and see where it leads". The other girls like you because you're being yourself and are not trying to get something frome them. good luck buddy!
I have noticed that after watching these videos motivation and confidence kicks in and no matter how many times I watch these videos over and over I still feel as though i'm learning something new every time
Preach
for the first time in over a year, just had a conversation with a girl around my age yesterday. (22)
so making more friends getting out more would help my social confidence
RIP HARAMBE
Daniel Alexich-Duran I wasn’t ready for this man, I just wasn’t ready :’(
Daniel Alexich-Duran HE WASN'T READY!
He was an Alpha, why he dead 😔
RIP
RIP HARAMBEEEEEEEEE I LOVE YOU
No female are ever commenting on these videos because they all know deep down themselves, it's true.
girls don't know themselves
girl- how can you know me better than myself?
boy- because I'm a men
Conical no this shit is subconscious asf they probably don't even realize when they're testing the guy their subconscious is making them do it
No it's because the woman would be looking up how to be successful as a woman, not how to be an alpha male. Why would a woman google how to be an alpha male if she doesn't need to? Instead, they're googling how to be more beautiful, and how to be more attractive as a female, eg: make up tutorial
Personally, I think this is pretty stupid. I also know my friends think this whole "alpha" thing is terrible.
This is some real dope advice here like its so honest and real that you get upset with yourself for all the times you didn't step up to be the alpha.😂
Goku is a Good Alpha, Vegeta is the bad boy Alpha
Mrclassic7 goku a livin asspull but still respect dat anime nigga
Who?
Vegeta ain't bad but has anger issues
👍👍😆
Jack Cubitt I was thinking about this too. I think it would have been good for him to wait, but then he would have had to learn to cook for himself
LOVE your diagrams & thorough, descriptive style. Great job. I've had a burning reconsideration on my mind for a week now. I've got a great 'death stare' & when necessary, I use it to great effect. I'm learning well from all these videos to be more alpha w girls, but the other day, when parked, on my lunch break, two big dudes walked by my car & as I nodded 'hi', one of them started fight-me staring. I smoothly acted like I hadn't noticed, cuz I was already late getting back to work. But now I'm mad at myself!! Seeing all your videos shows me that he out-alphaed me & I SUBMITTED! I'm all abt challenging myself & my fears, and though it would've been terrifying, and I had a real-world reason not to, I'm definitely willing to stare down a fucker like that and take my risks ...no matter what. Furthermore, if I had employed my BEST glare, he likely wouldn't have had the heart to test me anyway. WAS THAT BETA, HOW I REACTED?? Cuz now I don't feel responsible and a good employee. Now I just feel like a beta pussy.
Thanks in advance.
1. Confidence in yourself
2. Focus on yourself first always, trust me guys if you focus on yourself the girls will come to you.
3. Never prioritize a girl, if you keep wanting to talk to her constantly she will lose interest in you.
4. Just be yourself
if you dont prioritize a woman at some point you'll never be a father and husband... a role that alphas easily slip into yet love to be.
Always prioritize yourself! ALWAYS! Don’t be difficult or bad to others, but make yourself number one.
Also, do not do this to attract women! Women will come to you if you are a good man, but women are not necessary in your life. If they show up, great. If they don’t show up, great. This about you and your happiness in life.
*Women respect men who can take charge when needed, but who also know how to listen, be empathetic, and offer support. It’s about creating a balance of confidence and care that makes you magnetic.*
Do a video on how girls test men
usually, if girls boss you around, they are testing you.
Lord Doge what should I do then?
Dany Bel
5:14 sums it up
YES!!! How girls test men is a surefire way to get some views!
Not that your channel is struggling!
Some women will also test you passively as well. That’s when you have to be completely aware.
Thank you your an ABSOLUTE CHAD for this bro, alpha for life!
“So I say, walk by the spirit, and you will not gratify the detainees of the flesh” - Galatians 5:16
Amen
Thank u Jesus
The stronger your individual spirit is, the more pussy you will get
If you know about testing, its so much fun!
You just know whats happening and you can read
almost all situations with ease.
Personal Power ikr! fuck I love this guy as soon as he said these things it made so much sense
What's testing and how to deal with it?
@@kishanchali8752 testing is when girls are trying to see if you’re truly alpha. She’s testing your value. For example, you may be having a conversation with a girl and she might say something to try to offend you. In that case, the best thing to do is laugh it off or don’t let it bother you, make a joke back, etc. betas will get offended by it and let it bother them, and she will immediately be turned off. The number one rule when a girl tests you is to not care. By doing that you are subconsciously showing her that you have control of your emotions and that you are high value
This is awesome! I agree with Karam...Get rid of distractions! We ALL have the Alpha, but only those of us that get up off of our asses, go to the gym, study self improvement, pick up the phone and make sales calls to get paid, and take action to get the Lambo, the Jet, the Super Sexy (and intelligent) girl, will ever experience LIFE, as it's really supposed to be...with Perfect Health, Perfect Wealth, Perfect Love! Value yourself...and the world will value YOU! BOOM!
Now that’s confidence,with no questions asked
Self awareness: I need to replace the bad habit of PMO with making socializing and self improvement a priority. Thank you for what you do!
No one is a 100% full on alpha. It's a split trait everyone has
orkosm why brotha i got duh act but around chicks i turn into a bitch i swear to god idk why but yeeeee
@@LORDMICKEY You need to remember key words like dominant, strong, calm, respectful, confident and always put yourself first. Never forget to smile and laugh mutually.
I love this. The good guy ‘alpha’ is the way to go. Treat people with love and kindness but ALWAYS put your self respect above DISRESPECT. 💯 it’s that balance that’s THE single most important thing. Don’t be horrible, just respect yourself.
Can you do a video critiquing a "beta" trying too hard to be an "alpha?" That's the category I fall into
I think thats what he means when referring to the bad boy
pretty much
Its a mindset that you need to engage, not your behaviors. Its like going to a club and you spot a girl who's unattractive or overweight and try to cover it up with a dress, makeup, or jewelry, you can easily spot them out, Its. the same with behaving like an alpha and not engaging the alpha mindset
Wannabe alphas are sooo annoying 😣
NewCanadianTurtle, tryiing too hard to BE something, is a sign of self confidence issues, it makes you needy, and approval seeking.. If you have to try to be something, or act it, then it's not authentically you, and Women will see that a mile off. Get into a Gym workout and get into shape, take up a Martial Art to improve your self confidence. Find a mentor that is a confident Guy as a sound board. those things will serve you better than trying to come across as Billy Badass and "Alpha" my friend
If a women challenges me as an Alpha male I will deny them and move on to the next one.
Dweeb , I did the same but I didn't know she's fuckin testing :p
Good! Me too!
The less of us who play 'animal farm' the better!
I realize I'm between both "Good ALPHA, and Bad Boy ALPHA"
Most of the successful person I met, they always have that intimidating personality, intimidating in a positve way. I think being an alpha, you don't need to be good-looking as long as you have courage, and self-confident, you will have what it takes to draw someone's attention towards you.
3:21 I would say that a very attractive man will still get girls if he is beta or omega. It's the halo effect like you've said before, we correlate physical attractiveness to other good traits. The good looking guy doesn't have to show those traits for people to assume he has the,. I'm not denying that an alpha that's average looking might be more successful, but a very attractive beta or omega will still not have too much trouble.
The only problem with that is… An attractive beta male may get a feminine chick, but he probably Will have a hard time keeping her. And if he does manage to hang on… It’s probably a rocky relationship. Because the feminine woman is always waiting for a masculine man to take the lead in the right direction. But beta men never do; they tend to be insecure, and competitive. Feminine women sometimes mix their behaviors up with being feminine, because she has to take the lead (because of his failure to do so). However, it’s really just insecurity/Low self-esteem, and a beta personality.
*left on delivered for a month*
Neck beards: Oh she’s just testing me I’m fine
Actually one of my favorite comments of all time👍🏻
Cofidence, assertiveness and improving myself.
Spot on! People think being an Alpha is being an ass hole muscle dude...nope, the guy at Tiananmen square in 89 who stod in front of the tanks, thats an Alpha male!
Generaly I don't see average guys with hot girls, usually 1 in 100. cheers
I’m pretty average looking and I pull hot girls
Andrew Levingston how?
@@andrewlevingston6622 How?
@@kishanchali8752 by not replying to how's and why's
@@Aryan-hv3lw 😂
Making me think twice about my future in 2019! Thank you!
"Alpha" to girl- hi what's your name?
Later; Girl- so where do you live?
"Alpha"- with my mom
Girl leaves
Instant Beta
Assuming an Alpha's mother is still alive, it's part of his job to protect her as part of the herd.
@@BlueGuise9 Haha that's nice.
Only straight facts, no cap over here. U always give good advice. I hope everyone doesn't just watch these videos, but learn from them and become the best version of their self as possible.
I need to work on holding a conversation and becoming more of an alpha male
Please who the hell are you knowing all the truth about life and personality. Brian Tracy moulded me and you shaped me. The first time a group have taken their time to listen to me from the beginning of a conversation to the end. Wow you are super
“Maybe the guy has really big ears”
Well women want u to listen and with big ears I know you’re listening to everything👌🏿
Haha! Nice!
HISTRICALLY IT'S BBEEN THINGS LIKE GETTING PAST 1ST &2ND DATES AND BRIDGING THE GAP FROM FREINDSHIP(WITH A WOMAN i'VE SEEN FOR AWHILE) & AN INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP.
BUT I WISH TO THANK YOU SENCERELY AND OTHER RUclipsR'S FOR PUTTING OUT THESE VIDEOS FREE OF CHARGE. I LISTEN TO THESE DAILY AND HAVE HAD APROFOUND EFFECT ON MY CONFIDENCE/MASCULINITY!
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I feel like self help videos are coming out in order i need them to 😀
i am shocked , how much sense this makes . Very mind opening , thank you for this video .
but most hot girls stay with the bad boy alphas...and most beta and omega guys think they are the good boy alphas Loll
That’s the problem. Thinking and being one are two different things. Hope u still around to read this lol
This guy is good. Nigeria therefore salutes you my dearest friend. Thumbs up to you.
I find it funny how we developed technology for ourselves, to the point we're we can record and save
for future generations, the history of our devolution.
I heckin love your videos 🤩🤩
I went to a group interview today out of 13 people and I made all the guys uncomfortable it felt good as hell. And I got the job
How did you make them uncomfortable?
@@malinen1374 man , let that boy live
Be a good alpha with confident period...rewards will be yours forever
I don't want to spread hate, this is just my opinion, but you make video that say the same thing over and over again
That's because in order for concepts to sink in, the vast majority of people need core information and themes repeated over and over and over again. This is long-proven psychological science, not just my conjecture or opinion.
i think u make a good point but i think the real reason has to do with the videos length and how long the viewer watches the vid. He could have made a 2 min vid explaining this but the vid would not get as much exposer or something like that
Its like Bible you got to repeat it over and over again so it sinks in.
Consistancy it makes sense considering this i how things work
Don't listen than lamer
I used to be very successful with girls but have now the worst year in terms of dating and confidence behind me of my life. Thanks to you i learned why, i was a bad boy alpha that ended up just hurting girls and i really needed and wanted to change so now i am trying to become a good guy alpha and boy its hard
naw it ain't easy being an alpha in this Society.... yeah u get the women but those women also have the ability to destroy your life and u cant do anything about it
shamelessDab 12 they so stupid its dangerous they livin proof theres always a mega beta
True💔
Awesome video man! You are one of the reasons i have strong desire to become a true alpha and taking amazing steps towards it. THANK YOU! ❤
neediness is a major problem for guys man
This video is amazing. One thing though... Women aren't open about this but they are just as visually attracted to looks as men are. Sure personality is grest but women are more like men in that regard than society believes.
i cant see that the rude aggressiv "badboy alpha" really is alpha. they're displaying betamale traits and thats what they are.
nah man they're omega
Agreed Nifly Moth. Genuine confidence comes from within, and it shows in your body language, they way you carry yourself, and behave. If a Guy is genuinely self confident, it shows..he don't have to shoot his mouth off talkin about how Badass and "Alpha" he is
they are jealous , perfectionist, uncompassionate, unloving, rude, heatless most of the time.. just because they have some qualities such as spontanity, eyecontact, leader at times , they are mistaken for alpha
Be yourself don’t try to be someone else
Absolutely!
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I want to say I'll try and work on that but honestly, I know how or what steps to take.
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Damn, really needed this video to remind myself about things in life and the best way to act in situations.
The Alpha/Beta theory had been debunked. Men, if you want a relationship, just stop caring about it and work on self-improvement for yourself and not women.
What if u are not interested in being a leader? What if you don't want to be the center of attention? What if you are happy blending in with the crowd.
selfishness is a problem and feeling entitled doesn't help.
If a girl acts cold to me, what makes you think I walk away with my "tail between my legs"? I'll walk away, all right, but I won't give her a second thought and I'll move on with my life.
Whats will all your videos having Tori Vega pictures?
He prolly wanna pipe her 🅱️
prodigy _6ix YOOOOO, that woke me all the way up.
Jikrin deadass that shit dummy woke
on point.... improve and better yourself everyday is key. Love yourself and be confident.
Mostly i over analyze and think too much. This originates from a scar left by high school. I was confident and full of hope and dreams. I once hit on a girl. Once. And i got the reputation of a pervert. Never again.
Have you gotten over this?
gr8 vid bruv! keep up the gr8 work!
If I could just get over the knee-jerk reactions I keep having to sugarcoat some of the things I say to girls when they question me...
My biggest area that I feel that I'd want to improve on is competing with other male, as I dislike competition in general. I don't see the need for competition, yet it seems to be a "trigger" for some of my minor insecurities involving girls. Interesting video :)
Nice guys always finish last don't forget to put your foot down
@@dionysius1321 wym by that?
Not gonna lie, my biggest issue is when I spend enough time with a girl (at work or over seeing each other over a period of weeks), there's not much new to talk about so I struggle to come up with new topics of conversation if we're in an environment we are very familiar with. Because of that, there's a lot of silence. Often they seem comfortable with the silence, but I'm never doing much of the talking or starting of conversations. Anyone else have a similar problem or perhaps know of a quick-fix remedy to the situation?
ThatGuyTex ask them personal (but not too personal) questions if you feel that they are comfortable
just relax. Don't stress it too much. You are probably not saying the things in your mind because you think it's too dorky or sounds lame.... SAY IT. Anything is good conversation if said the right way. Silences are normal, and healthy. And don't put so much pressure on yourself. A good trick I like to do is to put the responsibility on the girl to come up with things to say...then I jump in and help her... Otherwise that's it. And be confident as well
Tell her she got Fat.
That would bring lots to talk about.
bring up her exs i bet that conversation will go on until she leaves her job
then your boring af
Facing my fears n improving myself best of all
Lol alpha is a matter of perspective so stay in your lane. Focus on success in what your good at and fuck what your lacking. Doesn't matter what you can't do cause nobody can do what you can do. Keep moving gentleman and you will find neutral
Yooo I don’t know when started this Channel but get up the good shit I fcking love it thank you I real life needed this
"They might live long enough to face death" ...
I've been watching your videos. I agree about 70% with what you are saying which is far more than I'd agree w/ most people on YT! I do think culture and individual personalities as well other factors (such as what experiences you and said person have gone through together, ways in which you connect, values/views you'se have, etc.) makes up the other 30% of what it is that makes someone attracted to someone but I do think most of it is down to the evolutionary aspects!
Tyler1 is an alpha male
Competition guys. I have a physically demanding job where all workers are men obviously. There's no boss we all have our separate skills so we hire each other. But there is an alpha, i remember being unaware of this unspoken hierarchy but it's definitely there. I started challenging the top guys and improved my work ethic and began demanding respect, knowing how to react & carry myself. It's a bit tense at times with the guys competing but at the same time more respect for each other than to those who don't & remain passive. It makes your work all the better & improves ethic. Compete against the top guys, hold yourself to a standard
i need to work on being more confident and assertive
I appreciate this knowledge. Thanks for making these videos man!
I don't have to be "alpha" around girls. Life is more peaceful if you're not competing with other "alphas/alpha-wannabes" LOL.
Are you a real man? What would you do if a strong 2 meters guy touches the ass of your women and you are just there ,and you see it? But obviously he doesn't give a damn about that you are here because he knows that you are not a problem for him because he can easily own you. I'd really like to know what you would do in that situation...
Specially when the mass of muslims inmigration is coming in Europe and tend to don't respect girls as they desearve... At a moment ,where things get hard and dificult ,there is only one rule who will make you survive or not... And that rule is : ONLY THE STRONG SURVIVES ...
In peacefull places and times ,your option is the best I do believe ,but when things get hard... It's not anymore; if you want something for you (something = a girl) because girls are like this... even if they know that thoose kind of guys don't have long relationships ,their instinct is to go for the alpha ,the real man ,and if muslims keep coming as they are doing ,you have to stand up for your rights to also have a girl or even a beautifull girl. Don't you think so?
The thing is that they see some beautifull young girls and guys like you ,not alpha ,not dominating ,so they take the place of the alpha and they take your girls because they see us like pussies afraid to fight ,pussies in general ,not dominant ,then they see thoose girls ,so they become alpha to take them with them and to make girls beeing atracted by them...
Tell me what you think about what I just said please, I'd like to know your opinion as an non alpha male ,if I can say that in this way xD
Orient Zaton fuck off with your Muslim hate u beta sounding fuck
You're either a Muslim yourself, or a typical deluded Western liberal moron who thinks Muslims are just a bunch of innocent little angels being "unfairly picked on". Funny thing is - you probably have little or no personal experience with Muslims, Muslim mentality, behavior or society at all. You're just an ignorant idiot living in mental cloud-cuckoo land. And those Muslims who view all uncovered non-Muslim females - and especially good-looking, young, attractively dressed ones - as infidel whores there for the taking, laugh at and despise stupid infidel guys like you who let them near their women.
FUCKING TOOL.
Serious Comedian that's why your a beta
Serious Comedian is right. Anyone who desires to be "alpha" or the "best" or the "leader" and desired by hot girls is seeking validation from sources other than himself. You should want to achive your goals and be the best version of yourself-FOR YOURSELF--not to be the "alpha" or to get hot girls or a better paying job etc... Human psychology is amusing sometimes
Im an introverted guy but for some reason i feel more confident around beautiful women than average women. With all that being said im still not very out going around them compared to most guys.
I need to work on my articulation & Pronunciations.
Its a good way to start
All this is great advice for everything in ones life and can be applied for everything! Love your channel very entertaining aswell as inspiring!
The part about girls testing you is so true. There's countless times where that has happened and I've even failed a couple. But my question is, how do you pass? By showing no emotion or care? That's actually the only time I've passed. by showing the girl that I'm just fine without her. Wether she wants to be there or not, it makes no difference to me. But surely this isn't the nicest way to go about things? Or the most effective. I want to win the girl over without having to be a dick.
Show off my personality with a calm vibe
there's a lot of these vids on this channel... I'm lonely
Be more unlonely.
It will help you to be less lonely.
Spongebob Squarepants don't be lonely, be alpha
Yeah don't be lonely u end up with regrets like me
Just say "I'm ready"
One of the greater and well explained video i've ever seen in this topic
Every video is the same.
The Jôkër not at all, this guys a genuis
liquid kahraba genuis lol
But no seriously I know I just watched this video like three times
I wish I could draw as good as that, in every drawing.
I`ll bet all your replys are the same.
A lot of people say I should have had a gf before since I workout and do tons of self improvement but when it comes to being AROHND A TON of girls I just die
Anyone else have trouble because you look to young? I'm 19 but middle schoolers walk up and treat me like one of their own XD ( I look like I'm 15 or 16 from what others say ). Girls usually think I'm lying when I say I'm 19 XD
*how it usually goes*
Sooo.. how old are you 😐
I'm 19 😎 you?...
I'm 12 😂
really 😅
no.. 18
cool ☺
you really 19 😐..
yup ☺
k then...... 😕
Peter Malchuk sammmmeeee
Peter Malchuk same here, I'm 20 but look 16 and 12 year olds be coming at me but ain tryna go to jail so I just dip and girls my age don't take me seriously cause I look young but one day there old ass will be trying to look younger and I'll be perfectly set.
Peter Malchuk build a decent amount of muscle and be lean so you look pretty muscular. This will help you not look as young also dress like no 15-16 year old would. Dress very well as if you were going to an interview. This will help a whole lot.
Everett - I actually do a fair amount of exercise ( calisthenics mostly ), although I really should kick it up a bit with summer going on.
I usually only get attention doing parkour XD... As for dressing I should step it up a few notches, I usually dress pretty casual, I'm definitely going to work on it today ;) thanks for the advice man :)
Cruz96 Productions Ikr? super awkward with 12 to 15 year olds coming up to you only to realize your to old :/, although you are right, later on they'll wish they looked like us XD
Your videos are the best on YT about this whole subject.
we're not animals though
yes we are.
Doğukan Özdemir fck off we r smart then animals.
cool28990 and now??? What the fuck does that mean animals have to be dumb and everything what is intelligent Isa human? We are animals, the most intelligent, powerful animals on this world and we behave exactly like them but society gave us norms
Mahfuz Munir Khan PT humans evolved from apes, which is a long lineage of selected traits that proved only the most useful for survival, people without these traits were killed off. If apes nowadays have really similar genomes, does that still make them animals? Or what about the rat looking mammals that existed millions of years before them?
Yes we are. Humans are a species of animals
One way to be Alpha, is to set goals and work to achieve them, one goal is to work on yourself. work on your body and especially build your confidence. learn no women is better then you, she is just a woman, and many of them are insecure about themselves because they run on emotion. look them always straight in the eye, speak in direct terms, carry yourself with the sense of authority. if they reject you, smile and show them you don't care, because there are so many women in the world. you must always garner a woman's respect when you have one, or she will not hang around.
How to we succeed their 'test'? you never gave the solution, maybe it'll be in another video?
exagerate what she said or just agree with her, example, if she said you are a piece of shit, you can exagerate like:
"I love to be shit, I just accept myself, btw where are you from?"
Agree or exagerate with her, keep calm and spike her with another question about anything, you look calm and confident, she wants to turn off this, just keep on you, calm and confident.
Once a girl said that i'm shit, I said that "I love to be shit because the shit can float, another way you drown, now tell me something interesting about you."
Agreed, so long as you keep calm and don't overreact you'll pretty much pass her tests automatically because you'll listen to your insticts.
Tell them, go fuck yourself.
Those who give "shit test" are the ones with twisted personality. They are never really good people and you don't want to know them in the first place. They might have the looks, but there are other nice girls with good looks. I don't understand why people can't just treat each other with respect.
To succeed the test is simply to not play.
Matt Very well said.
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How to not get nervous
That was pretty much spot on man... Well done
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This video sounds like the other alpha videos tbh. I recommend you make a video on making the move to get to the next level once you've started talking to them. You can be an alpha and still lose attraction when talking to a girl.
I have traits of alpha and beta..
Anthony Funk that's pretty gay
Me too be yourself😇
all your videos really help. we hope your channel will one day grow more and more!
These videos are hilarious. Look make eye contact with me too long and I'm gonna laugh, If you're a girl and attractive then I'm going to stare, smile, and approach.
"Comment the one thing you need to work on to be more confident around girls."
Fucking everything.