8 Alpha Mindsets That Make You Irresistible To Women! (ATTRACT WOMEN)
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Mindsets that attract women! The biggest thing women are attracted to is a man with clarity and dignity. Someone who does not want to settle for anything less. A man that wants a woman on her purpose and that will bring him up in life and the same vice versa. Alpha male mindsets mean you are not addicted or seeking validation and attached to an outcome right away. The way you look at yourself in life projects on to other people. When you put pressure on yourself to be someone else then you are coming from a place of lack instead of abundance and abundance is showing yourself and others around you that you are happy with where you are in life. This is attraction for women since this shows a sense of emotional security. What women want is for a man to also be unapologetically honest and have his own opinion. This is critical to men today since so many think the opposite. Whenever I talk to women I ask them what attracted them in the first place. They always say the way he was always honest and had a difference of opinion and was not passive.
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Apollonia Ponti
When it comes to dealing with women, you have to train your mind to be stronger than your emotions or else you will lose yourself everytime.
mrwhosethe boss this is a great advice
The trick is to be able to lose yourself a bit and have it not be a problem. All about balance...and courage, lol. Besides interpersonal transformation in relationship requires a bit of losing yourself , so you can become a better self. I think sometimes that when things are "out of control", unplanned, etc., that's when you really find out what you're made of.
FACTS
True. As soon as you show emotion they lose interest and see you as weak. Been there done that
Brilliant advice
1) Don't have to prove yourself.
2) Not attracted to an outcome.
3) What value can I offer?
4) Being unapologetically honest.
5) You value your time.
6) You show up powerfully, knowing yourself.
7) Being companionate.
8) You embrace failures
G K thank you so much dude. You saved me 8 minutes. Appreciate it
All that for what? Some of you better think about sacrificing your personality to becoming a mindless automaton for 8 weeks of trash sex and a lifetime of misery. Ask yourself honestly, have you ever seen a video of women learning to improve your lifestyle? Didnt think so. This is a whore fantasy and as hard as you try, you will never msintain it. Bottomline is this- use women for the one thing they have that you dont. Lie, cheat, steal, as they would.
She's showing how to have confidence and be a generative man. Attraction naturally follows this as a survival mechanism.
This temporary natural physical, 'eat or be eaten' world, is fleeting. Accept Jesus as your Savior and turn from sin, to escape what's coming.
Yup.....that sums it up....Good job! Just want to change one thing....embrace SELF compassion....then the rest falls into place...
numbers 3/7 are beta mindsets lol. Guys you are listening to a woman lol.
Big one for me is #1: I don't have to prove myself to anyone. Now I'm feeling attraction for myself!
really..... if u love someone u need to prove ur self with her or him... Unless u won't get her or him
That's how it's supposed to be
That's right Peter Hoatson,
I agree
Not being attached to an outcome is actually a very liberating experience in every situation.
As a man, you must know that if you are low on funds, that does not reflect your value! You must know that if a woman judges you based upon your not being able to meet her superficial wants, she is simply not the one for you! Move on and search for the one who values you internally not externally!
@Robert Drake you nailed right bro on point but sadly in Nigeria my country No Money No Honey... we have issues here with the mentality of the ladies we have.
My Dad taught me early that most {not all} want a Man’s wallet and/or his “angry rooster”🐓 ~ So, don’t let Women “henpeck”! 😉 🦉 Be an Eagle 🦅 & NOT a turkey 🦃!!!
J R - But if you WERE her "alpha-male", you would know yourself, know what you want. . .and have a LOT of money . . . .
Good point dude, What to do to someone you love so much she aske you money sometimes but she has a Boyfrind..
Could mean that you started the relation in that way as a provide and that one almost every woman will do when sense weakness talk with you head up and direct, look her in the eye and don't be afraid to say no thats what she wants.
When women give advice about what makes the ideal man, I generally roll my eyes. Because they usually describe that quintessential “nice guy “ beta that they typically ignore for the Alpha Guy.
This was the first ideal man video created by a female that I’ve watched and agreed with. You described a rational and high functioning man that all men should strive to be. Well done.
She still protects women's interests. Note how the onus is on the men. She is like a gatekeeper even if her info is accurate her intentions are self serving at the end of the day.
@@BC-pl3df The purpose of this video is to give advice to MEN who are seeking to attract women. This is video is not about what women need to do to attract men. There is plenty of content on youtube that discusses that. If you are a man listening to this video to get advice, then the onus would OBVIOUSLY be on YOU.
1. Don't have to prove yourself to anyone. Don't be hung up. Hold your power, know who you are. You don't have to say things, or do things to get people to like you.
2. Not attracted to an outcome. If it doesn't work out, you will be ok. Don't seek to validate yourself with the other person. You're ok if it works out, you're ok if it doesn't work out. Don't put pressure bc pressure shows neediness, insecurity, attachment.
3. What value can I offer someone without expectations. Tit for tat mindset is small minded and insecure. Being gracious about what you can offer is attractive
4. Unapologetically honest. It's attractive to being honest and open about opinion. Don't be agreeable. Women test this all the time. Show that you are you and not trying to impress her.
5. You value your time. Is she worth it? You take your time with her to see if she is worth it for you. Don't fall into just the visuals but take time to get to know the person emotionally and what their worth is in the relationship. You evaluate and act.
6. Show up powerfully in your own skin. You walk in and exude confidence and internal well-being. Women can sense this. Be powerful in who you are. You need to be focused on something that is thriving in your life.
7. Be compassionate and patient. Don't be too defensive, easily offended and angered. Getting offended easily and being quick to anger bc you think you have to be defensive kills attraction. Know how to breath and just open things up to discussion.
8. Embrace Failures with Strength and Confidence. Don't react to your life mistakes by getting down on yourself and harping on negativity. Acknowledge you messed up and find out how you're going to fix it and deal with it.
Andrew Lee well done, thank you!
Thank you.
It’s unbelievable that you have to master all of these psychological traits just to get a woman 😮 college exams doesn’t require this much
@@Dmoney1980 - Now get these all down correctly, or you shall be punished. . . .
D Money911 fuck man, why are woman so complicated, maybe not even them, why am i so complicated
Being confident in who you are. Being compassionate. Adding value to her.
I like that you went straight to the point and didn't ramble on and on..The last tip is my favourite
I am glad to see you back with this great video again ! Best part of this are you and your pure wisdom !
Like your comment regarding being passionate but also be patient. You always share great wisdom.
Everytime i watch your video i start believing that nothing is better than having compassion to others and being confident in one self..din ever think that these actually drive attention. Thanks Apollonia..ur wonderful ❤
An abundance mindset. Not just with women but with life. You have honed your skills to the point where someone would be a fool to pass you up. Whether that's in relationships, work, or whatever. You are so confident that nothing can touch you. If a woman wants to leave, just shrug on be on your way to someone younger, thinner, and hotter.
Massimo thinner dont mean better
@@hoodfellah sure it does unless u have a fetish for bigger
Well said Massimo.
Massimo sure
But many women are fools. They are not collectively nearly as smart as men when it comes to relationships. Now there are some smart women out there, but they are married. There is usually a reason why these women are single, and usually it is because they are foolish. Most women have not a single clue as to how to attract decent men into their lives -- all of the ghosting, dissing nice guys, and all of that. Is that attractive behavior to any of us men? Do any men anywhere think that is attractive? Heck no, but women do it anyway because they have no clue as to how to attract quality men. So we men need tools so that we can "trick" women into wonderful relationships -- because if we rely on women nothing will ever happen.
I’ve watched your videos. You have evolved and developed a talent for what it is your choosing to do here. I’m interested in seeing where this road takes you. Good luck on your journey.
I can’t stress enough how much your videos have helped me in my life. I thought I knew everything and I was very wrong. There is so much that I was doing that was wrong and my mentality and my purpose were wrong. Thank you for helping me stay focused and positive and on my purpose. Even if this relationship doesn’t get back to where it once was I’ll be fine... I know that now. Thank you Apollonia
I really liked that the best respond to someone who said sth rude or some sort of thing, just say “you had a bad day” such a powerful few words
Biggest thing for me to take away was; how you pick yourself up when your in the dump.
Thank you Apollonia Ponti.
This video literally saved my life . I mean it kinda like reminded me to rearrange my life in a completely different dimention
I love Appolonia’s videos. I watch them over again...they make so much sense to me.
Just got on you today and you help out beyondddddd 💯 watched 6 videos straight and all of them boost me and help me on this new journey.
This video rocks I need to hear this keep up the good work
I'm so greatful there's someone like you who's willing to take the time and help men like me who clearly needs to work on himself, much love
Good info the best results that ive ever had was with the Partner Reboot Recipe (i found it on google) - without a doubt the most helpful idea that I've followed.
Show up powerfully and knowing yourself. This has been an area in my life I have not been able to lockdown. Being comfortable in ones own skin sounds blissful and that’s what I’m going to strive for moving forward. Thank you.
I love this video. Thanks for great content. I agree with all you said and how you explained it 👍🏼. Spot on!
Great Apollonia.
You develop me always
Once again you are on point... just make so much sense.. I love your videos
Not letting anything get to me is the greatest mindset there is nothing better than having full control of your own emotion in life alone not just relationships
Thanks for sharing so much of free content for men and directing us, lots of love!❤️
I love the mindset of ‘I embrace my mistakes with strength and confidence’. I think this means that the person acknowledges where they might have mistaken somewhere and owns it with the intention to correct themselves and grow from it. Versus sweeping it under the rug.
it took me a while to cultivate this mindset,but it worked,and it makes a difference,i was a nice guy once,we all know how that works out,or doesnt
Your insight for #7 hit the bullseye! Thanks so much for your perspective. Sometimes I lose sight of the big picture and allow my emotions to drive my decisions. Awesome advice, girl! 👍
Thank you so much for this I have been watching this over the last month and feel so much more confident in myself. Thank you and Happy New Year!
I need to work on not being attached to a outcome and knowing that I don't have to prove myself to a woman. I also need to work on showing up powerful in my own skin. Thanks as always for your help.
Excellent video.lots to think about and implement.Thanks again.
Thank you for the info
I have been watching your videos for the past week and thank you so much for posting them!! Discovering them about a month ago would've been better but aye. I'm loving what you're saying n taking notes. You're my go to right now because people give bad advice n what you say make sense. Thank 😊
Thank you so much Apollonia , you've helped me so much I've watched everyone if your videos, I've kept notes memorized what to do/ what the steps are to each situation and it's helped me so much. I've found an amazing woman then did the steps!!!!!
Once you understand the concept of self-validation in life, you take your power back from anybody who thought to control you.
well said
Good thoughts
This not only applies to women but to co-workers, family, and life in general as well. Great job
Thank you Apollonia. You are amazing! Thanks for the words of wisdom. It was very helpful. Love ya
Well stated & excellent advice! I shared your videos with my son. Thank you!
1. You don't have to prove yourself to anyone
2. You don't have to get attracted to any outcome
3. What value can I offer someone without expectations?
4. Being unapologetically honest about your opinion
5. You value your time (check if she's worth it for you)
6. Show up powerfully in your own skin
7. Being compassionate (scenarios when he felt offensive and so staying defensive) and patient. Don't let anybody control your emotions
8. You embrace failures with strength and confidence. Don't get down of yourself. Take proactive notions.
Note to Ponti: would've been better if you end your description with the mindset title text as a reiteration and list all 8 points in a final shot as a summary of points.
Well said, love it.
Great comment on controlling yourself and not letting someone get to you. I have done better over the years but, still praying to God always to help me in this area. Enjoyed the video and great points you made.
Thank you so much!!! I love coming to you and taking your advise it has helped me out so much and I’m making a breakthrough!!!
Thank you for reminding us about being ourselves - being respectful while maintaining our character and our personality.
I find this video very interesting and educational. It works I think.
Very good conclusions, Appollonia. Just love it.Thanks a lot.
Your videos are so deep and good u gotta watch them more than twice so it can marinate and really get in there
Thumbs 👍🏼 “ thanks Apollonia Ponti 🌹
Thank you again beautiful did it again 😘
What I like most is the fact that you mentioned "finding your purpose " . Thank you
Hi Apollina, you are the bomb and made my year 10min ago. I'm super impressed the way you say it and so perfectly described. Thank you.
Being able to hold your own and keep your emotions in check.
Thanks ma. Good Advice
Thanks for the video.... just reconfirmed exactly what I’m doing in my life until the next relationship. Looking forward to all of your lessons and insight. Thank you !
Some really good points there! I’m guilty of a few of them, taken on board some of the advice to be better for my girl!
Going through a separation right now, this video has helped me especially the last one to embrace the failures. We'll be separated for three months and I'm going to use that time to focus on myself and work on me. I've joined a gym, I'm going to counseling to get some help with this process... After three months maybe I'll have a clearer head and I can bring more to the table when we meet again. It's not hopeful that this will work out and we'll get back together, she's pretty much done and wants the divorce. But I'm not ready to give up yet. Thanks Apollonia
I know it’s not easy , but don’t love the outcome like she said . You have to make yourself ok with being alone .
Moral of the story to get anyone. Love your self to the fullest and never doubt yourself ever, when you do (cause everyone does at times) fight through it and stay loving yourself. If that's done and you find yourself as a socially awkward person work on that by putting yourself in moral social situations and if you have the first mindset it'll come easy.
Apollonia, this is great information. I've always learned not to force anything and be sincere. Te ves hermosisima 😍.
I've heard all of these ideas before, but I cannot tell you how much this means coming from a woman. Thank you 💯
The one thing that irritates me about women, is that if you show them that your love is secured for her. This is unatractive to them. Once she is sure you love them they lose interest. So you have to keep them unsure about how much you love them.
Dr. Wayne Dyer would of be been proud of you if he had heard you preach this speech, today!! I know I am!! Anyway, I love the video and your passion!! It saids a lot about your wisdom and who you are as a person. Also, you make falling in love, FUN!! lol ;-)
Great reminder to be authentic and also taking your time!!
Number 7 definitely hit me I was laughing at the rest cause I already do them but it makes so much sense thank you
I always believe that a man should value himself enough irrespective of others validation
Oh my God, Apo. 😍 Thanks for everything. You are the smartest woman. ❤
Women aren't smart in the true sense of the word ♿🚹💋
You are killing it on this stuff, nice job please keep this up more men in this world need to hear about knowing themselves. One take away that I have seen in my young life is my patience, it isn't the best and I caught myself losing it when my ex boke up with me but as more situations got to me I would look at it more in depth and say "Am I really going to have a bad day because of this and that when they aren't my normal eustress or normal stress?" So, I would calm down and just ignore it.
A Great mindset of me iz 2 continue watchin' & listenin' 2 Uuu. Thanks!
You have a very nice sisterly way and tone. Friendly and demanding at the same time.
I kinda like HER! HEY GIRL!
Kinda’ like a coiled up rattlesnake.
Simp!!!
because of your motivation, i'm much more me now, and happy 😎
This woman is honest and a great advicer no bias. Just subscribed 🔥. Great tips
Apollonia ponti@: thank you so much
Sometime my mind asking this quistions now clear your video through
Lot off thanks
Honestly, I’ve never seen one of your videos and this popped up as a recommendation. My first thought was “oh great, another feminist trying to tell men how to be men!” But after watching, I was pleasantly surprised. You were spot on and I think many men in our culture today need to hear this. Especially young men cuz they seem to suffer from much of what you discussed like being easily offended, getting down on themselves for failing and not being motivated to drive on! Not being confident in who they are and continuously trying to conform. Good stuff!👍🏾
Men with PSYCHOPATHIC traits seem to have an easier time attracting women, according to a new study...
Psychopathic researchers found that psychopaths often have these common traits:
Lack of empathy, guilt, conscience or remorse
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Shallow experiences of feelings or emotions.
Impulsivity and a weak ability to defer gratification and control behavior
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Superficial charm and glibness
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Irresponsibility and a failure to accept responsibility for their actions
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A grandiose sense of their own worth.
great one, AP !!
loved hearing you talk, this was a good refresher for me. thank u very much
Its funny how u can meet people in ur life, And a complete stranger can Uplift u With their Words of kindness, Love u As A Friend!
2kissyousaxyou
I think most of these points can be replaced with 2 words: Confidence and Stoicism.
True!
FYI I'm a Leo so I talk to women all the time and I mean just talk in a way that they have no idea ur laying the ground work.A very experienced Lady once told me "Ron it's all about the swagg"!!my tip that I even tell them is this...prove to them that your stronger then the Kitty Kat!!The quiet confidence kills them!!Fellas we make the rules not them!!And if they dare say oh I gotta whole list of 5minute men!!is that u??laugh n tell them I'm not worried about me I'm concerned about u!!! Then shut up n watch what happens!!But u gotta back it up😁my opinion fellas👍Have fun with that shit!!!
@@roncassudy2200 Being a Leo means nothing you absoulte wet wipe
@@cornishmick5597 you're the type of insecure man she just described lol
@@leviathandiabolo6296 pl
Hello. I really like your video. I have been listening to a lot of other individuals that help men and women with confidence. A few years ago when I started listening . I gave it a try and without any effort. I got a few positive reactions. Please to keep puting out videos like this. I hope that your viewers can take and use what you have poited out here.
Been watching your videos these last couple of days after keeping my distance on someone. I feel like my mindset has changed so much already. Thank you .
Be assertive. Be aware of where your emotions come from: Past experiences? And can you let it go or do you need therapy to break unhealthy patterns? Respond instead of react to other People’s emotions.
More of these videos are 🙏🏿 gospel
i'm in love with the way you do and present all your topic so far
Thank you, Apollonia!
"Be you do you can't nobody judge you but you and the man upstairs" that's the mind set I try to keep
Puttung lot of energy in and making lot of it out through workouts can really make a man strong..
The best time to tell her you are happy being single is on the first date. She will chase you and want you more.
Hey Apollonia you are awesome, fantabulous, you are the best. Keep up the good work👏👍👌
Loved this !!!!
Know I'm worthy shouldn't have to prove anything .
I appreciated your advise but what about guys on they 35-40 sometimes we feel that we are to old to find love again specially when we have low income .
Fredy Quispe you are way younger than you think. Worry about that when you hit 66.
Actually if you’re not a jerk 35-40 is in demand...
You’re so awesome thank you for that advice👍🏼🙏🏼😎
Good morning Apollonia and Happy Monday. Great topic on Inner Self Confidence. I believe that staying CCC Cool Calm and Collective within your self as a man. People will feel and sense your energy. Thus they will calm down.
Confidence confidence confidence, why you so obsess with this word?
Man don't need confidence more than they need knowledge, please.
Confidence is a feeling, and that most men don't use daily.
Women do need confidence because they are driven by their feelings daily, but men do need knowledge, vision and determination or focus.
Stop telling men to be more like you American feminist women.
King2 Amani What Men really Need is COMPETENCE - looks and sounds and spelled like confidence, but there is a world of difference between the 2😎 ...
even boys can exude (False) confidence. A smart woman knows she needs a man whose confidence is based on competencies in several key areas:
1. Self awareness skills
2. Relational skills
3. Financial skills
4. Career skills
5. Social skills
6. Spiritual skills
7. Sexual skills
8. Parenting skills
Otherwise, all the confidence in the world only leads to disappointment & dissatisfaction😲🤭
King2 Amani that's true
I love this woman, I don't know why
Lie down x, I will help with that. You like this woman because she is gorgeous, smart, and the best relationship coach online. She is just beautiful....the truth....the real deal...
Apollonia gets dressed up for us and speaks the truth. That’s a great combination.
@@sundayaito4366 yea😋😋😁
@@joemancini2988 Effectively
I’m no fan yet but get good vibes from her personality
Great as always! Keep up the good work!
Very informative video that contains actionable steps. Side note, I am fascinated with how well you communicate with your hands.Thanks for providing this helpful vidro.
The way she's talking is as if men have thousands of women to choose from
actualy they have billions lol
What do you do when you've been with somebody for 8 years and they leave you for a Pimp
You look at yourself, and try to discern what you did or did not do to make her leave you.
Let her go! She was only there for what she could take and not give to you or create with you
@@Ace.0.0.0. why should it have to be his fault? Maybe she is just a shity person.
Thank you Apollonia! 😃🙏💯🏞
Very clear and concise with high sense of teaching awareness and accountability .Thank You