Any man is an alpha who treats everybody fair, doesn't lose frame under stress, isn't afraid of giving or uplifting others, and has a healthy way to respond to disrespect.
1. Emotional Maturity - i.e. stoicism: how you handle your emotions & insecurities. Getting emotional in response to someone is letting your insecurities get the better of you. 2. Remain Calm, Collected, and Centered - especially at stressful times. 3. Be Humble; don't get easily embarrassed or defensive, don't let your flaws get you down and be willing to laugh at your mistakes - own it. 4. Balance Alpha/Beta traits. Don't go around insulting others - it doesn't make you look good and it creates discourse. An Alpha never should have to announce themselves as Alpha - to do otherwise is childish. 5. Purpose. Have a Goal and Passion besides Women. Find a skill(s) that you can master and become capable. Have a Life. 6. Don't lie or create a persona. People can pick up on when someone is being dishonest to themselves and those around them. 7. Courage: Don't be a people pleaser. Actions are more true than words - embody your values and priorities for your own sake not for the approval of others. 8. Body Language: You're an adult - have the body language of an adult with purpose. Keep your shoulders back, head raised, and maintain eye contact. 9. Reliable & Dependable: If she can't depend on you then how can you expect to maintain a relationship? Actions are More True than Words. Follow through with what you say.
....while not carelessly trampling over others or stomping through their "parades" like an asshole A gentleman doesnt make enemies when settling conflict
Notes: How She Knows You're An Alpha Man! 7 IRRESISTIBLE Traits! 1. You Have The Emotional Maturity (0:43) 2. Can Remain Calm In Stressful Situations (2:51) 3. You Find Laughter in Your Flaws (3:40) *4. Own Your Flaws (5:00) 5. Beta Vs Alpha Man (5:55) * Your Pursuit In Your Life Is Your Purpose (9:14) 6. He Prioritizes But Also Has Life Goals (9:55) 7. You Are Authentic! (11:55) 8. Has Courage (12:22) 9. Body Language (14:03) 10. Dependability (15:10)
becomeaudible1 fail. A lot of betas can’t hang and just give up acting like they’re too cool for school when in reality dude isn’t alpha enough to handle business
@ NYC uncut I agree with your statement 100%. I will say that alot of men have mastered their representative. The woman is usually invested and unwillingly to lose the investment. Women are realizing this and choosing accepting patterns over potential.
I think women are EXTREMELY intuitive. However, certain traits that women look for and perceive during initial interactions do not ensure the man is a good mate. For instance, a guy may come across confident and together, which may attract a woman, but he may not be a caring or attentive partner at all. The woman may at first just take it as a challenge to maintain his attention, which can draw her to him even more, but eventually she has to face the reality that now she is emotionally invested in a guy that is not good for her.
@@daffydlandegge3843 Depending on the distance. Sadly the longer you are apart the sooner she meets some else. Unless she needs you for a visa or a place to stay. Other wise move on.
no, it's not. it's not about being an alpha but an omega. the first will be the last. don't you people fear god with all this alpha bullshit ? the punishment on deceiving children will be big.
Don't try to please her. Be you. Do your thing. Women will be taking notes. The times where I saw strength in my crush wasn't him pulverizing someone, beating on his chest, or any of those stereotypical demonstrations of supposed strength. It was when he kept his word and wouldn't retreat. It was the amount of responsibility thrown on his shoulders, and he could've relinquished these duties. But no, he persevered. Also, that he can stand up to his woman and not be afraid to displease her. I want a guy who can respectfully call me on ish. And I'm not saying to go act like a fool, or be crazy. I'm not. I'll confront him on his BS, too. But it's those moments where you get mad and need some reasoning. I want a dude who loves me and cares for me, but we are a team. And sometimes, that's what a teammate has to do: be blunt. "Hon, you said you were gonna do this by this date. Where you at?" We are a team. A team means challenging and supporting.
I found this video encouraging! I've never really thought of myself as an alpha male, but as soon as you started listing the traits, I recognized myself in almost all of them! It's nice to know that I can be masculine without having to be loud, arrogant and a show- off.
Women often like men who are both forceful and gentle but forceful in a good way and gentle without being weak. Women love to be passionately overwhelmed by the affectionate caring guy.
People usually think an alpha male is the loudest, the rudest, unapologetic, muscular man in the group. It is actually on the contrary, the quite and subtle. He will maintain eye contact with a woman he finds attractive and will walk up to her with confidence. Remember dogs bark louder when they feel threatened and usually do not act.
what i learned 1. keep my good vibrant positivy 2. more confidence 3. be your self not matter 4. dont try to show ur self 5. listen woman 6. Finance ans Psicology independence thanks Apollonia, you are the best
Amen! wtf is too much Alfa? There’s no such thing. beta is always second to Alfa by the very definition. She just wants to make sure that whatever man is listening to her is still malleable by the manipulative woman. 🤦♂️
I wish it were that simple. Was married the first time 10 years 2nd time 22 years. Being Aloha or Beta is not really about who you are but the way you react to things and present yourself. You don't change who you are just how that you display who you are. For instance if a Beta male hears his lady say she really likes something or wants to do something he rushes out to make sure she gets it or it happens ASAP an Alpha will file that back for a special occasion. Or if its a concert coming before a special occasion he will look at it to first see if he can or the couple can afford it. Then he will talk to her and ask her how much she would like to go then if it means a great deal he may point out a couple of sacrifices they could make to afford it because it woukd blow thrir budget without doing so and he does not feel like he has to do this at all cost. Not tge best analogy but that shows tge difference. A man has to be so much Beta and so much Alpha for balance. If you are to much Alpha to the point you are arrigant and almost abusive they will eventually leave you. If you are to much Beta tgey loose respect for you and see no challenge in you what so ever and leads to other things depending on the woman.
Alpha man sets his own pace and does not allow the outside factors manipulate a situation. He will be able to realise this and know when to avoid it. He is someone in control.
Women want men to be perfect and flawless but they aren't themselves. It's funny how every dating channel on YT always states how men should act in order to get a girl when it should be a two way street.
@@ShakuenC No, he's calling a spade a spade. Fair is fair. I totally agree with him. I hate always seeing these quotes about what a man should do for a woman. If we're advocating for true equality, why is she not creating quotes about what he needs? A part of being a good partner is taking inventory, listing your strengths & weaknesses. How you can correct or enhance them? Also, the destination of your journey in terms of the goals for your love life (or lack there of both a love life and goals for it)? Ie, where do envision yourself in 5, 10, 15 years? Married? Not married? Unsure? How can you become a better partner? Do you need to learn better strategies to resolve conflicts in your life? Are you in a very happy place in life and you're partner loves that fact, because you're a ray of sunshine? And yes, I do this type of self-analysis all the time. I've had to make major self-corrections to get to the woman I am today. And I'm still a WIP.
@@thebookofwages7150 pay no heed to the obvious troll comment. Weak men and scorned women alike love to shame men, because they have nothing to offer. Instead, they try to bring others down to their level.
Tip # 6 sounds like the perfect example of a woman claiming she wants a man who displays beta tendencies but as soon as he does the woman loses respect for him and has an affair with or dumps him for Chad or Tyrone.
Even further, when people use the lion as an analogy they are leaving out a lot out of the environment of a lion. There are three types of men: Lions, the typical alphas. Hyenas, the typical beta. Then there is the Tiger, the sigma. People forget the third option nature itself provides. To extract "alpha" without painting the entire scene is solipsistic to a fault. We are sigmas.
I agree when you're preoccupied with your goals, so much of the BS falls wayward. You get to the point that you refuse to entertain toxicity. I know this personally because I'm a loner. I can be a leader, but nah, too much energy expended. I'd rather focus on my own priorities than manage others. I'm not one to tolerate much BS, either. I'm not typically a follower, but I will follow the right guy when it counts. I recognize we are hierarchical beings, so we all need a lil' bit of mentoring.
being yourself does not mean that you will not make mistakes against women . knowing and learning about how they think and act will be so helpfull to be sucsessfull in this isue
She is the end goal without her we cannot keep making ourselves better. We need a real strong woman not a dumb bitch that wants to run shit by always having to have the last word
As much as I don't like labeling people, if you're someone at their core who lacks self-respect, manipulates and disrespects people, lacks emotional self control, no one will want to be around you at all (the wrong one's will). It has a lot to do with energy and what you have to offer.
Telling the truth, I am watching your videos for a while Appollonia and to me, it was kind of “So, So”. However, this time… you nailed it! I could see lots of work you put before making this video and that makes it very special to me! And that’s why, I ‘ve started to like you! Good job! Well done!
Bottomline is be who you are at all times. And that's true masculinity is all about. This alpha/beta is just that talk. What works for one man doesn't for others. Same with women as well. Thus this is why procreation is happening. Tip here for you is ask yourself this question. If the person I'm interested in reacts to toxic behavior, how would my life end up if I indulge? Then when you answer that question, you find healthier and more prosperous relationships. Peace and love.
figiitivally. the words have only as much meaning as the one that gives and has and translates the message. so being your self is important. if you give a weak sauce beta message youll have weak sauce beta relationships. some hardships need healing and time to repair in a mans heart. people are not immune to some feelings. the world affects us and linage we pass down. even I bare traits of my family and had to leave family to ensure alpha status. but I was dishonored for it and shamed because the neglect made other women think. i was not for family. so some messages get mixed in the wrong way. my family was too reliant with the worlds way of doing things
You may be the best life/dating coach on youtube. I came here wondering why I got ghosted, and I left really understanding what is keeping me from being that awesome person that shines through my insecurities and trauma sometimes.
Hiking on a mountain trail me and my 11 yr old nephew rested after ascending a small cliff. A young woman unexpectedly appeared behind us. Moments later her husband followed. " Ha Ha she beat you to the top of the cliff." My nephew said to the husband. He responded. "Son you will learn one day there are times to let them win."
I use my alpha tendencies with my bosses at work, who get emotional about end of month deadlines. Just like the confrontation you described in the bar, stay centered and get the work done. Thanks for the video! Never stop learning the fundamentals of relationships, works every-time.
Probably true in some cases! But if that happens (her calling someone else), it's cool! Never let this lower your self value. You'll know where you stand and how to treat her (..not talking about disrespect, but maintaining your self respect)!
If the above is true. Then the men who have several baby mothers and didn't take care of their kids are alphas. They have such confidence. No matter the number of children and baby mothers they continue to date and breed. Confidence alone is not the difference. Confidence does play a significant part though.
@@articulatemonster9529 I can understand why you think that, but there are actually a ton of fake alpha males out there. Real alphas aren't afraid of competition and will lift others up, etc. Fake alphas are paranoid of competition, will never lift up anybody, and they are the classic toxic bully type. Fake alphas are like that because they really lack confidence and are just pretending to have it. Real alphas know their true worth so they aren't afraid of competition or lifting up others.
Beautiful advise. Any woman SHOULD be very glad to have any man that exhibits these qualities genuinely. However too many [confused women] would not appreciate such a man. Thanks for the video.
110% true dude. Don't think she knows what she's talkin' about! Well can't really blame her either...I would like to see a master Alpha pass by her, complement her, and see her reaction vs the "Beta" man...And make her eat her words! 😁
kaiwarrior2000 I prefer to listen to men, yes. However a wise man can learn from anybody. She is actually in complete alignment with the most popular dating coaches online.
It's funny to see all these points you made and realizing that I've got all of them, even though I'm not a womanizer. What's even funnier I had like 4 relationships in my life that lasted only couple of months and I've never felt women being attracted to me all that much. I have some friends who know I say what I think(being emotionally stable helps with that a lot, because I don't say outrageous things), I am driven by my work I am present in the moment with almost everyone I talk to, yet I find it hard to women can actually flirt, I get bored on dates. The same goes when walking about interests - I am so passionate by many things and I wish I had more time to explore them, while my dates, like 99% of them don't have anything to say apart this shallow bs. To all people who struggle taking a girl out, don't worry, it's mostly a waste of time. And hey, I'm living in Poland so women here are incredibly conservative, most of them don't have a connection to their sexuality, they live this collective dream that man should provide for the family, while she's still modern and doesn't want family - it creates a weird ecosystem for males.
Today’s dating coaches are not helping relationships with these “beta/alpha contraption”. You recommend a man should be authentic in a world where a woman is naturally manipulative.☹️
@@thebookofwages7150 Once you think you are a God your destruction is assured. For you set yourself against the True Alpha Omega. God- Yahuwah the lord of creation and master over life and death Heaven and Earth. And then there will be satan he loves all those who rebel like him. But he will teach you, you can only be truly God like through him. Then your fate is sealed. Your a created being thinking he can master or be equal his creator. lmao.
I agree with you because that whole scandal of his wife treating him like crap and falsely accusing him of beating her would indicate you are correct lol
So I was very confident and then I developed some acnes and it lowered my self confidence completely but your videos are helping me gain some energy to come back stronger... Good job
I've been single for a while, & recently met a girl (on the internet though) _ & today A pic she posted got ALOT of male likes.....(good key word you mentioned is EMOTIONAL MATURITY) But My GOD My heart is SO Heavy. I havent felt this way on thos level IN A LONG TIME.
Wow never heard that!!! I discovered balance is key in life but balancing being an Alpha and beta is another journey to master but definitely necessary!
@@csfontaine the first will be the last ... because god was the omega he was also in that sense - only in that sense - the alpha, but the alpha bullshit has to stop ...
There’s something in the look of a man. In his walk, if you want something less subtle. Mostly he just doesn’t care what you think of him, if you are not a major part of his life. Not to be confused with your run-of-the-mill sociopath. He actually has people and things he cares about.
You seem to have good intentions, however a man must learn his natural self (masculine) from another male, a woman cannot teach a man to be masculine, it's futile, men go on this journey and find out what you are made of, in the past we had much more male spaces for men to learn but these are all but gone now unfortunately, don't go to your mother, sister, aunt for advice, they will lie to you, you must learn from the warriors who fronted the blows of female mate selection for years, they are the seasoned vets that will steer you to your own natural masculine self which has been largely beaten out of you since your youth in this society..
You are as good as you think you are. Never let anyone destroy your frame, absolutely essential. Never despair. Forget alphas and betas, and stop worrying what women think.
Gosh I've even learned to accept all my flaws and even male jokes about myself . Yet , my woman ain't coming back but I realize more about her everyday . I guess we all learn . It's a difficult process but we do and we win..
I like the way you reach the reasons underneath the push-pull "tricks" we're taught because it helps us understand when to use one and when the other, and why those patterns aren't so crazy after all.
Great channel Apollonia, why do i always see women with boyfriend betas? Do women really want alphas? I see women with men who they can easily control...
Those women that have beta BFs is because they provide emotional and financial. But they are fucking Alphas on the side. Remember, women are hardwired to love/reproduce with the Alpha male.
1.emotional maturity. ✔️ 2.remain calm in stressful situations. ✔️ 3.find laughter in my flaws. ✔️ 4.what happened to tip#4? 5.Alphabeta. ✔️ 6.what happened to tip#6? 7.pursuit of purpose 8.huh? Prioritizing needs? Anyway, these are all semantics. Be yourself, alpha or beta. Just be you.
Most of things she says is appropriate(correct) but, when it comes to auththecity she just talked in air, women can't know if a man is authentic or not, in general. However some intelligent women can know quite easily. Also most women themselves are not authentic and they want a man to be authentic. How shame!!
Well even Alpha's know there is strength and safety in numbers and they are realizing that they two can become prey to feminists. Harvey weisten was a Alpha without a pack. And he got eaten alive.
Going through a divorce right now after 28 yrs together. Having trouble going on date since been with the same person for so long. Your videos has help me a lot through these months.. thanks
Alpha Man is a state of mind.. some of us have it already and know exactly what to do or not to do, when, where and with whom. It is like skills and talent to play instruments, you learn quickly and easily, within few years can become a master
Hello Apollonia. First, admittedly you are singing my most beautiful song. You so succinctly encapsulate all of the perfect words. Thank you. However, I am that enthusiastic person that makes sure my enthusiasm, planning, n'th degree of attention to detail, down to clockwork arrangement of events to create the perfect romantic environment. You get the perfectionist picture. Now here's the difference...What happens when my girlfriend is not everything as you said that the guy should prepare for? How doe one get her to throw her head back in amazement and live this fairy tale of events? Regardless, I still continue with many other arrangements cos I love her that much.
It doesn’t matter if your alpha or not, it only matters if the girl likes you and/or if the girl already likes you I know guys who aren’t alpha that have no game and don’t approach women at all but if the girl likes him, she will find ways to talk to him. He can be a bit nervous and not say the right things or doesn’t know what to say but the girl likes him a lot and she will ignore his flaws or overlook it. I’ve always seen alpha guys approach women with confidence who know how to do things right but they still get rejected. I have a friend who’s just a normal guy that isn’t alpha and isn’t confident that sometimes gets laid. He even told me idk what to say or talk about to a girl but for some reason he ends up sleeping with them.
“Alpha” is not a real thing, FFS. That biological modeling was tanked years ago. Stupid term for narcissists and women who can’t tell the difference between a narcissist and someone with confidence and maturity.
Hi Apollonia, I've just recently found your channel. I also noticed that you said something about you doing coaching classes. How much do you charge for coaching classes?
This is only true and applies to someone who finds that trait attractive. Majority of women are trained to have a reverse standard of virtue. It's funny how men have to jump hoops be defined as Alpha , Stoic...... in order to be worthy. So what does a woman have to be? I'm sure there's a value classification for women also.
I stumbled onto here and I must say you're very sharp and understand how the sexes must embrace their balance as oppose to leaning towards Masculine/Feminine all the time.
The Late Mr John Wayne once remarked"A big mouth don't make a big man !!!!". A fine gentleman, with a manly presence, tough when called for and stern !!!!!!
Alpha is knowing exactly when to walk away. Don’t chase or try to hard. If they’re not for u, own it and walk away.
Building Buildercip damn right
Yups. Walking away is the best.
Alfa is when her 😺 is dripping 💦 for you. Walking away is not necessarily alfa by itself. Results matter. Results prove alfaness
Aren’t you a wise one
An alpha doesn’t care if he’s an alpha.
True
He cares when he is passive, and changes.
Love this!
I sure as fuhk don't
He doesn't because he is.
Any man is an alpha who treats everybody fair, doesn't lose frame under stress, isn't afraid of giving or uplifting others, and has a healthy way to respond to disrespect.
Strongly agree with this comment
I suppose that is when an individual takes kindness for weakness
@@MindShiftAthlete ~ Thank you Mind-Shift Athlete
You just defined a gentleman
when you call women out on their bullshit they call you insecure and bitter
1. Emotional Maturity - i.e. stoicism: how you handle your emotions & insecurities. Getting emotional in response to someone is letting your insecurities get the better of you.
2. Remain Calm, Collected, and Centered - especially at stressful times.
3. Be Humble; don't get easily embarrassed or defensive, don't let your flaws get you down and be willing to laugh at your mistakes - own it.
4. Balance Alpha/Beta traits. Don't go around insulting others - it doesn't make you look good and it creates discourse. An Alpha never should have to announce themselves as Alpha - to do otherwise is childish.
5. Purpose. Have a Goal and Passion besides Women. Find a skill(s) that you can master and become capable. Have a Life.
6. Don't lie or create a persona. People can pick up on when someone is being dishonest to themselves and those around them.
7. Courage: Don't be a people pleaser. Actions are more true than words - embody your values and priorities for your own sake not for the approval of others.
8. Body Language: You're an adult - have the body language of an adult with purpose. Keep your shoulders back, head raised, and maintain eye contact.
9. Reliable & Dependable: If she can't depend on you then how can you expect to maintain a relationship? Actions are More True than Words. Follow through with what you say.
Jacob Odom Thank you .. 💪
Jacob Odom thank you Jacob Odom.
You are right young lady . However I learned from Bruce Lee it’s not Yin and Yang. It’s Yin/Yang. Make some good points. Plus you pretty hair.
Thank you for posting these points.
Yeah one more thing make sure your health is good & that body is in shape (BONUS)
Alpha is accepting oneself and walking to the beat of your own drum. Period
Exactly.
Yes
Well put niqqa
....while not carelessly trampling over others or stomping through their "parades" like an asshole
A gentleman doesnt make enemies when settling conflict
Yups, capable, independent and a strong value system/vision in life
Notes:
How She Knows You're An Alpha Man! 7 IRRESISTIBLE Traits!
1. You Have The Emotional Maturity (0:43)
2. Can Remain Calm In Stressful Situations (2:51)
3. You Find Laughter in Your Flaws (3:40)
*4. Own Your Flaws (5:00)
5. Beta Vs Alpha Man (5:55)
* Your Pursuit In Your Life Is Your Purpose (9:14)
6. He Prioritizes But Also Has Life Goals (9:55)
7. You Are Authentic! (11:55)
8. Has Courage (12:22)
9. Body Language (14:03)
10. Dependability (15:10)
Exactly like Cleveland “The Big Cat” Williams
As a 48 yr old dude, this sums it up
Thanks for the notes. I really appreciate this 🙂
She knows you're an Alpha Male when you walk away and never come back.
thats called ghosting lol. an alpha stares through her like shes a puppy who pee on floor and train her or cut losses
biggest mistake i made
@@kevinalmeida7159 its not gosting when you said why you walked away and stick to it
That is the thing, Alpha Males do not bow to the weaker.
becomeaudible1 fail. A lot of betas can’t hang and just give up acting like they’re too cool for school when in reality dude isn’t alpha enough to handle business
Alpha is; being yourself knowing some will like you and others wont !
totally - i don't give a rats arse what anyone else thinks of me, i am who i am.
Women: we're very intuitive
Also women: I always pick the wrong guys
Me: 🤔
Lmao
Lol
@ NYC uncut I agree with your statement 100%. I will say that alot of men have mastered their representative. The woman is usually invested and unwillingly to lose the investment. Women are realizing this and choosing accepting patterns over potential.
I think women are EXTREMELY intuitive. However, certain traits that women look for and perceive during initial interactions do not ensure the man is a good mate. For instance, a guy may come across confident and together, which may attract a woman, but he may not be a caring or attentive partner at all. The woman may at first just take it as a challenge to maintain his attention, which can draw her to him even more, but eventually she has to face the reality that now she is emotionally invested in a guy that is not good for her.
💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
Pay attention to her actions, not her words
Exactly!
Is that a nice way of saying she's a liar?
True, but how can those in long distance relationships gauge such actions when there is no physical presence? 🤔
@@daffydlandegge3843 Depending on the distance. Sadly the longer you are apart the sooner she meets some else. Unless she needs you for a visa or a place to stay. Other wise move on.
Yup!
Masculinity is all about behavior and mental toughness of a man!
Yesssss
Charles IV and mental toughness dictates behavior a lot of times
Oh yes ! Preach
I dont like spiders.
no, it's not. it's not about being an alpha but an omega. the first will be the last. don't you people fear god with all this alpha bullshit ? the punishment on deceiving children will be big.
7 traits? Blah. Women wants of men are endless, they’ll never be happy.
That's why men need to solely focus on their purpose. When a man is on his A game the women will flock to him like bees to honey
WORD!
Ro- man boom
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It's a black-hole man.
“Calmness is the trademark of those who are mighty” -Escanor
omg seven deadly sins lets go!
Many Calm men aren’t Alpha males. Alpha are Leaders!
When a man learns he will never please a woman by trying to please her, he will be better off.
Spoken like a true alpha.
Golden advice
jamieseiple exactlyyyyyy 👌🏾👌🏾
Don't try to please her. Be you. Do your thing. Women will be taking notes. The times where I saw strength in my crush wasn't him pulverizing someone, beating on his chest, or any of those stereotypical demonstrations of supposed strength. It was when he kept his word and wouldn't retreat. It was the amount of responsibility thrown on his shoulders, and he could've relinquished these duties. But no, he persevered.
Also, that he can stand up to his woman and not be afraid to displease her. I want a guy who can respectfully call me on ish. And I'm not saying to go act like a fool, or be crazy. I'm not. I'll confront him on his BS, too. But it's those moments where you get mad and need some reasoning. I want a dude who loves me and cares for me, but we are a team. And sometimes, that's what a teammate has to do: be blunt. "Hon, you said you were gonna do this by this date. Where you at?" We are a team. A team means challenging and supporting.
Realest shit
I found this video encouraging! I've never really thought of myself as an alpha male, but as soon as you started listing the traits, I recognized myself in almost all of them! It's nice to know that I can be masculine without having to be loud, arrogant and a show- off.
Women often like men who are both forceful and gentle but forceful in a good way and gentle without being weak. Women love to be passionately overwhelmed by the affectionate caring guy.
Russell Wilson
Any man who stands on his principles....case closed!
Well done thou good and faithful servant.
People usually think an alpha male is the loudest, the rudest, unapologetic, muscular man in the group. It is actually on the contrary, the quite and subtle. He will maintain eye contact with a woman he finds attractive and will walk up to her with confidence. Remember dogs bark louder when they feel threatened and usually do not act.
In some cultures eye contact is considered rude - i guess those cultures don't have an alpha by your definition
I admire anyone that keeps cool during confrontations
what i learned
1. keep my good vibrant positivy
2. more confidence
3. be your self not matter
4. dont try to show ur self
5. listen woman
6. Finance ans Psicology independence
thanks Apollonia, you are the best
Guys don't ever take an advice from a woman about this kind of topics period
Ana Lizama 💯😂
Amen! wtf is too much Alfa? There’s no such thing. beta is always second to Alfa by the very definition. She just wants to make sure that whatever man is listening to her is still malleable by the manipulative woman. 🤦♂️
Ana Lizama lol 😂
Right on,
Wonder why you're watching this video then 🤣
Just be yourself and keep your values for the right woman
I wish it were that simple. Was married the first time 10 years 2nd time 22 years. Being Aloha or Beta is not really about who you are but the way you react to things and present yourself. You don't change who you are just how that you display who you are. For instance if a Beta male hears his lady say she really likes something or wants to do something he rushes out to make sure she gets it or it happens ASAP an Alpha will file that back for a special occasion. Or if its a concert coming before a special occasion he will look at it to first see if he can or the couple can afford it. Then he will talk to her and ask her how much she would like to go then if it means a great deal he may point out a couple of sacrifices they could make to afford it because it woukd blow thrir budget without doing so and he does not feel like he has to do this at all cost. Not tge best analogy but that shows tge difference. A man has to be so much Beta and so much Alpha for balance. If you are to much Alpha to the point you are arrigant and almost abusive they will eventually leave you. If you are to much Beta tgey loose respect for you and see no challenge in you what so ever and leads to other things depending on the woman.
Alpha man sets his own pace and does not allow the outside factors manipulate a situation. He will be able to realise this and know when to avoid it. He is someone in control.
Women want men to be perfect and flawless but they aren't themselves. It's funny how every dating channel on YT always states how men should act in order to get a girl when it should be a two way street.
Youre bitter and single arent you Lol
Exactly they always picking at our shit but when we do it we are assholes
@@ShakuenC and you're butthurt because he spoke the truth
@@ShakuenC No, he's calling a spade a spade. Fair is fair. I totally agree with him. I hate always seeing these quotes about what a man should do for a woman. If we're advocating for true equality, why is she not creating quotes about what he needs? A part of being a good partner is taking inventory, listing your strengths & weaknesses. How you can correct or enhance them? Also, the destination of your journey in terms of the goals for your love life (or lack there of both a love life and goals for it)? Ie, where do envision yourself in 5, 10, 15 years? Married? Not married? Unsure? How can you become a better partner? Do you need to learn better strategies to resolve conflicts in your life? Are you in a very happy place in life and you're partner loves that fact, because you're a ray of sunshine? And yes, I do this type of self-analysis all the time. I've had to make major self-corrections to get to the woman I am today. And I'm still a WIP.
@@thebookofwages7150 pay no heed to the obvious troll comment. Weak men and scorned women alike love to shame men, because they have nothing to offer. Instead, they try to bring others down to their level.
Tip # 6 sounds like the perfect example of a woman claiming she wants a man who displays beta tendencies but as soon as he does the woman loses respect for him and has an affair with or dumps him for Chad or Tyrone.
The Alpha always has the strength and courage to lead. And the mercy to show kindness to kids
awww ❤️
I'm not a follower of the alpha or beta.. My Philosophy is just be the best version of yourself .
Christo well said! That’s really it, and being happy with yourself first!
Underratted
Even further, when people use the lion as an analogy they are leaving out a lot out of the environment of a lion. There are three types of men: Lions, the typical alphas. Hyenas, the typical beta. Then there is the Tiger, the sigma. People forget the third option nature itself provides. To extract "alpha" without painting the entire scene is solipsistic to a fault. We are sigmas.
I agree when you're preoccupied with your goals, so much of the BS falls wayward. You get to the point that you refuse to entertain toxicity. I know this personally because I'm a loner. I can be a leader, but nah, too much energy expended. I'd rather focus on my own priorities than manage others. I'm not one to tolerate much BS, either. I'm not typically a follower, but I will follow the right guy when it counts. I recognize we are hierarchical beings, so we all need a lil' bit of mentoring.
being yourself does not mean that you will not make mistakes against women . knowing and learning about how they think and act will be so helpfull to be sucsessfull in this isue
After watching this, my crush asked me out.
That's FUKN AMAZING DUDE. CONGRATS! I rejoice with u
Awesome!!
Congrats! Good luck!!!
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Alpha Male = Being a better man than you were yesterday. #Kaizen.
But why we have to do all of this for a woman as if a woman is the end goal
Because hormones
James Davis don’t
jakemf1 we just need to focus on our goals, women shouldn’t be the end goal
She is the end goal without her we cannot keep making ourselves better. We need a real strong woman not a dumb bitch that wants to run shit by always having to have the last word
Not about her. If you aren't doing these things then it would be helpful for YOU in your life. Best part is once you master it women try and get YOU.
An Alpha Male Does Not Hang With A Crowd Of Men To Prove He's A Lion. He's Self Sufficient And Secure With Who He Is. Straight 💯
As much as I don't like labeling people, if you're someone at their core who lacks self-respect, manipulates and disrespects people, lacks emotional self control, no one will want to be around you at all (the wrong one's will). It has a lot to do with energy and what you have to offer.
Absolutely . You attract what you are.
@@ak-47intelligence75 Touche.
Clean and clear up divine intervention to have any more manners of the magnetic fields
Here's what women really want. A rich man, a slave or a sociopath
facts
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Word!
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Brilliant comment!
I’ve found that when you don’t react. They think your weak and keep escalating it. So many do not see the calm before the storm.
Telling the truth, I am watching your videos for a while Appollonia and to me, it was kind of “So, So”. However, this time… you nailed it! I could see lots of work you put before making this video and that makes it very special to me! And that’s why, I ‘ve started to like you! Good job! Well done!
Alpha is to stick to what you believe makes you happy. If she can't fit in, leave her instantly!
Apollonia your genuine passion and devotion already give us something to learn about. Thank you.
Bottomline is be who you are at all times. And that's true masculinity is all about. This alpha/beta is just that talk. What works for one man doesn't for others. Same with women as well. Thus this is why procreation is happening. Tip here for you is ask yourself this question. If the person I'm interested in reacts to toxic behavior, how would my life end up if I indulge? Then when you answer that question, you find healthier and more prosperous relationships. Peace and love.
Exactly my friend. I'm just myself with women, they are either going to like you, or they are not. If not you move along
figiitivally. the words have only as much meaning as the one that gives and has and translates the message. so being your self is important. if you give a weak sauce beta message youll have weak sauce beta relationships. some hardships need healing and time to repair in a mans heart. people are not immune to some feelings. the world affects us and linage we pass down. even I bare traits of my family and had to leave family to ensure alpha status. but I was dishonored for it and shamed because the neglect made other women think. i was not for family. so some messages get mixed in the wrong way. my family was too reliant with the worlds way of doing things
You may be the best life/dating coach on youtube. I came here wondering why I got ghosted, and I left really understanding what is keeping me from being that awesome person that shines through my insecurities and trauma sometimes.
Guess my shirt that says “Alpha” won’t cut it
Snow Flowset this is why I never wear my shirt that says “beta”
Nice 1 mate. Being gay wont help either bud
Oh damn, can't wear the 'Alphabeta' shirt either.
Cut the sleeves and you’re good
Lol
Am so glad for this video, particularly when you touch upon Alpha/Beta contrasts. I never was comfortable being one or the other. Thank you.
Hiking on a mountain trail me and my 11 yr old nephew rested after ascending a small cliff. A young woman unexpectedly appeared behind us. Moments later her husband followed.
" Ha Ha she beat you to the top of the cliff." My nephew said to the husband.
He responded. "Son you will learn one day there are times to let them win."
I use my alpha tendencies with my bosses at work, who get emotional about end of month deadlines. Just like the confrontation you described in the bar, stay centered and get the work done. Thanks for the video!
Never stop learning the fundamentals of relationships, works every-time.
These days, The moment or one time you say no I can't hun, she calling Chad and Tyrone to fill that void ...and take the meaning of void as you wish
Sad truth
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Probably true in some cases! But if that happens (her calling someone else), it's cool! Never let this lower your self value. You'll know where you stand and how to treat her (..not talking about disrespect, but maintaining your self respect)!
The difference between alphas and betas is one word: confidence
That's not what she said. She mapped it to ying and yang energy, and the need to own and balance both in yourself. Alpha + Beta = Sigma
If the above is true. Then the men who have several baby mothers and didn't take care of their kids are alphas. They have such confidence. No matter the number of children and baby mothers they continue to date and breed. Confidence alone is not the difference. Confidence does play a significant part though.
@@articulatemonster9529 it's very beta to make babies you're not gonna take care of 😕
@@articulatemonster9529 I can understand why you think that, but there are actually a ton of fake alpha males out there. Real alphas aren't afraid of competition and will lift others up, etc. Fake alphas are paranoid of competition, will never lift up anybody, and they are the classic toxic bully type. Fake alphas are like that because they really lack confidence and are just pretending to have it. Real alphas know their true worth so they aren't afraid of competition or lifting up others.
Not at all......example: you can be spoiled,disillusioned brat ( not mattured ) but very confident. Is this alpha male?......NOO
In the words of Chris Rock - “What do women want?” Answer - “Everything”.
I do what I do. To anything and everything...with some level of empathy...but my will and physicality bends what is in front of me to it.
I appreciate the fact you talked about how been A&B male is bad. Great content.
I admire the cool calm road rage guy who doesn’t raise his voice, just says what he feels without getting angry.
this alpha bullshit will not escape from "jesus with the whip"
Beautiful advise. Any woman SHOULD be very glad to have any man that exhibits these qualities genuinely. However too many [confused women] would not appreciate such a man.
Thanks for the video.
Gentlemen and fellow Alphas out there...take it from me...NEVER TAKE DATING ADVICE FROM A WOMAN. EVER. Take dating advice from successful, alpha MEN.
110% true dude. Don't think she knows what she's talkin' about! Well can't really blame her either...I would like to see a master Alpha pass by her, complement her, and see her reaction vs the "Beta" man...And make her eat her words! 😁
kaiwarrior2000 bro, I was going to say the same thing. Sounds exactly like Richard Cooper.
kaiwarrior2000 I prefer to listen to men, yes. However a wise man can learn from anybody. She is actually in complete alignment with the most popular dating coaches online.
You sound like a misogynist.
It's funny to see all these points you made and realizing that I've got all of them, even though I'm not a womanizer. What's even funnier I had like 4 relationships in my life that lasted only couple of months and I've never felt women being attracted to me all that much. I have some friends who know I say what I think(being emotionally stable helps with that a lot, because I don't say outrageous things), I am driven by my work I am present in the moment with almost everyone I talk to, yet I find it hard to women can actually flirt, I get bored on dates. The same goes when walking about interests - I am so passionate by many things and I wish I had more time to explore them, while my dates, like 99% of them don't have anything to say apart this shallow bs. To all people who struggle taking a girl out, don't worry, it's mostly a waste of time. And hey, I'm living in Poland so women here are incredibly conservative, most of them don't have a connection to their sexuality, they live this collective dream that man should provide for the family, while she's still modern and doesn't want family - it creates a weird ecosystem for males.
Today’s dating coaches are not helping relationships with these “beta/alpha contraption”.
You recommend a man should be authentic in a world where a woman is naturally manipulative.☹️
Johnny Deep is an actor. He can interpret a Beta or an Alpha, but deep inside is a Beta
Nice that is an interesting point
alpha beta leads to hell ... it's about being an omega ...
@@thebookofwages7150 Once you think you are a God your destruction is assured. For you set yourself against the True Alpha Omega. God- Yahuwah the lord of creation and master over life and death Heaven and Earth. And then there will be satan he loves all those who rebel like him. But he will teach you, you can only be truly God like through him. Then your fate is sealed. Your a created being thinking he can master or be equal his creator. lmao.
I agree with you because that whole scandal of his wife treating him like crap and falsely accusing him of beating her would indicate you are correct lol
I watched this to find out why I love alpha males so much....was not disappointed.
Mature men don't argue over sports, they argue over cars.
Mature men argue over ideas.
Immature men argue over people and events.
So I was very confident and then I developed some acnes and it lowered my self confidence completely but your videos are helping me gain some energy to come back stronger... Good job
Men don’t ever take dating advice from a woman
Alex Mark fax 📠
Rule 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 , 6 , 7 , 8 . . .
Real men know that women have worth too. Stop being human trash.
Americus DeVille bwaaahahahaha! So accurate
Woman lie.
Women know ur alpha when you treat em like just another option
I've been single for a while, & recently met a girl (on the internet though) _ & today A pic she posted got ALOT of male likes.....(good key word you mentioned is EMOTIONAL MATURITY) But My GOD My heart is SO Heavy. I havent felt this way on thos level IN A LONG TIME.
I don’t care what people think of me, only what I think of myself, nobody knows me but me.
Wow never heard that!!! I discovered balance is key in life but balancing being an Alpha and beta is another journey to master but definitely necessary!
Every dude is an alpha until they get punch in the nose
Balls*
"Face" MIKE TYSON
God is the only Alpha!
@@csfontaine the first will be the last ... because god was the omega he was also in that sense - only in that sense - the alpha, but the alpha bullshit has to stop ...
@@csfontaine And if every man looked to him as an example there would be no such thing as feminism.
Big fan of your program, I agree with like almost everything you say. God bless you.
This is too complicated...I've never heard someone say oh dude you're a beta.
That's probably because your not being a Simp bitch in your relationships.
There’s something in the look of a man. In his walk, if you want something less subtle.
Mostly he just doesn’t care what you think of him, if you are not a major part of his life.
Not to be confused with your run-of-the-mill sociopath. He actually has people and things he cares about.
You seem to have good intentions, however a man must learn his natural self (masculine) from another male, a woman cannot teach a man to be masculine, it's futile, men go on this journey and find out what you are made of, in the past we had much more male spaces for men to learn but these are all but gone now unfortunately, don't go to your mother, sister, aunt for advice, they will lie to you, you must learn from the warriors who fronted the blows of female mate selection for years, they are the seasoned vets that will steer you to your own natural masculine self which has been largely beaten out of you since your youth in this society..
Facts on Facts!
Big ol facts
This is why single moms can’t turn a boy into a man.
Yeah good one. And I've noticed that the uploader hasnt liked your comment but she likes most other comments!
She’s preaching a philosophy to her audience that exudes masculinity. Which is living with a purpose.
You are as good as you think you are. Never let anyone destroy your frame, absolutely essential. Never despair. Forget alphas and betas, and stop worrying what women think.
That blazer compliments your skin beautifully. 🤗
Gosh I've even learned to accept all my flaws and even male jokes about myself . Yet , my woman ain't coming back but I realize more about her everyday . I guess we all learn . It's a difficult process but we do and we win..
Y’all really taking advice on how to be men from a woman? 😂😭
I swearrr
I like the way you reach the reasons underneath the push-pull "tricks" we're taught because it helps us understand when to use one and when the other, and why those patterns aren't so crazy after all.
Apollonia, you're probably too young to remember this but "don't hate me because I'm beautiful". lol
Absolutely awesome video. A+ after watching tons of videos I have to say one of the best !❤
Great channel Apollonia, why do i always see women with boyfriend betas? Do women really want alphas? I see women with men who they can easily control...
Because beta has money that's why
Those beta men have sth the women need like money .....
Miguel s. It's feminism in action, lol...
@@phantomreacts bingo
Those women that have beta BFs is because they provide emotional and financial. But they are fucking Alphas on the side. Remember, women are hardwired to love/reproduce with the Alpha male.
1.emotional maturity. ✔️
2.remain calm in stressful situations. ✔️
3.find laughter in my flaws. ✔️
4.what happened to tip#4?
5.Alphabeta. ✔️
6.what happened to tip#6?
7.pursuit of purpose
8.huh? Prioritizing needs?
Anyway, these are all semantics. Be yourself, alpha or beta. Just be you.
Most of things she says is appropriate(correct) but, when it comes to auththecity she just talked in air, women can't know if a man is authentic or not, in general. However some intelligent women can know quite easily. Also most women themselves are not authentic and they want a man to be authentic. How shame!!
You and your words of wisdom are nothing but beautiful Apollonia!!
Plenty of Alphas looking for reassurance in the comments. Lol.
Well even Alpha's know there is strength and safety in numbers and they are realizing that they two can become prey to feminists. Harvey weisten was a Alpha without a pack. And he got eaten alive.
Going through a divorce right now after 28 yrs together. Having trouble going on date since been with the same person for so long. Your videos has help me a lot through these months.. thanks
Alpha man don't say this:
I'm an Alpha
Alpha Man is a state of mind.. some of us have it already and know exactly what to do or not to do, when, where and with whom. It is like skills and talent to play instruments, you learn quickly and easily, within few years can become a master
Alpha men don’t give a shit don’t have to do shit. We’re the prize
Define why this chaos is unnecessary instead of creating Chaos🔥💎 #Balance
When I want to impress the foxes, I just put on a nice fur coat and hat with a feather. Thanks Apolonia for this helpful fashion tip.
Hello Apollonia. First, admittedly you are singing my most beautiful song. You so succinctly encapsulate all of the perfect words. Thank you. However, I am that enthusiastic person that makes sure my enthusiasm, planning, n'th degree of attention to detail, down to clockwork arrangement of events to create the perfect romantic environment. You get the perfectionist picture. Now here's the difference...What happens when my girlfriend is not everything as you said that the guy should prepare for? How doe one get her to throw her head back in amazement and live this fairy tale of events? Regardless, I still continue with many other arrangements cos I love her that much.
When talking to men’s you need to get to the point faster
Agree. And need " Tip #5" bookmarks on the screen so we can fast forward.
It doesn’t matter if your alpha or not, it only matters if the girl likes you and/or if the girl already likes you
I know guys who aren’t alpha that have no game and don’t approach women at all but if the girl likes him, she will find ways to talk to him. He can be a bit nervous and not say the right things or doesn’t know what to say but the girl likes him a lot and she will ignore his flaws or overlook it.
I’ve always seen alpha guys approach women with confidence who know how to do things right but they still get rejected.
I have a friend who’s just a normal guy that isn’t alpha and isn’t confident that sometimes gets laid. He even told me idk what to say or talk about to a girl but for some reason he ends up sleeping with them.
It’s how Alpha handles reflections. He doesn’t give up the rest of the night
“Alpha” is not a real thing, FFS. That biological modeling was tanked years ago. Stupid term for narcissists and women who can’t tell the difference between a narcissist and someone with confidence and maturity.
confidence will lead to hell ... humble yourself and start to doubt whole society, yourself included ...
Apollonia I've been watching your videos for a couple weeks now... you are the G.O.A.T...keep on being awesome
read 1984 and brave new world ... you're getting duped in a tube
My wife compains that i dont listen to her....at least i think thats what she said.
Thank you, you explain alpha and beta perfectly.
She doesn’t understand women. Alpha Male Strategies is the go to.
Hi Apollonia, I've just recently found your channel. I also noticed that you said something about you doing coaching classes. How much do you charge for coaching classes?
She definitely watches red pill content lol, good honest advice especially being on your purpose
Just recently started listen to Apollonia. Wish had known about her years ago!!!
Pulling out the BS flag on the lisp story.
No, its true. Women love a man with confidence
This is only true and applies to someone who finds that trait attractive. Majority of women are trained to have a reverse standard of virtue. It's funny how men have to jump hoops be defined as Alpha , Stoic...... in order to be worthy. So what does a woman have to be? I'm sure there's a value classification for women also.
I stumbled onto here and I must say you're very sharp and understand how the sexes must embrace their balance as oppose to leaning towards Masculine/Feminine all the time.
@2:04 emasculating the self controlled guy is not emasculating , it’s called disrespect; two different things
The Late Mr John Wayne once remarked"A big mouth don't make a big man !!!!".
A fine gentleman, with a manly presence, tough when called for and stern !!!!!!