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  • Опубликовано: 12 июл 2017
  • Find out if your game is weak and decode the mystery of what 'game' really is.
    Also see what you need to start doing to master your social game and take over the world.
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  • @jdssurf
    @jdssurf 6 лет назад +588

    To show alpha I usually just walk around the bar peeing on everything.

    • @petaboii-drums7551
      @petaboii-drums7551 5 лет назад +21

      Very cool! I thought I was the only one...

    • @yondalethomas
      @yondalethomas 5 лет назад +10

      That's what Animal Planet said. Thus it must be true. You can visibly see the Alpha getting whatever he wants. So it must work. I'm gonna start doing it.

    • @johncaccioppo1142
      @johncaccioppo1142 4 года назад +12

      You have to mark their stuff though if you want them to respect you. Start by peeing in their purses when they aren't looking. They won't be able to get you out of their minds!

    • @sonny4577
      @sonny4577 3 года назад

      Fr fr 😼😈🥵

    • @pcadamtaylor4262
      @pcadamtaylor4262 3 года назад

      I would arrest you and be the dominate one

  • @Righteous1ist
    @Righteous1ist 6 лет назад +379

    TIP: READING a lot of books you like will increase your FOCUS. And FOCUS will decrease your anxiety and nervousness. Then and work on yourself. Finally, practice game on people and girls.

    • @ElonMusksIntern
      @ElonMusksIntern 4 года назад +4

      you know any good book? i simply don't know what to read

    • @YG-sd1jp
      @YG-sd1jp 4 года назад +13

      That’s a great comment bro. I like how you said people and girls. Many time people will get good a using game on girls and then still act Beta at work or in other environments

    • @HansBern1001
      @HansBern1001 4 года назад +2

      @@YG-sd1jp he was totally focused while commenting

    • @aj_chapo
      @aj_chapo 2 года назад +1

      People AND girls?😂 I don't think it was a joke, but good one anyway. Made me smile without even knowing it haha

    • @aj_chapo
      @aj_chapo 2 года назад

      @@HansBern1001 🤣🤣ikr

  • @CorDaroW23
    @CorDaroW23 7 лет назад +194

    I worked as a bouncer for like two years and after that job I just couldn't miss if I tried. You don't even have to really be a conversationalist, ppl especially women love talking about themselves. Getting them to talk about themselves and teasing along the way had chics seeking me out for conversation. Idk worked for me

  • @edthewicked
    @edthewicked 6 лет назад +64

    My main weakness is overthinking in almost every situation I find myself in, fortunately, I have learned how to break out of it at times. I brought this on myself by way of WAY TOO MUCH social isolation & regressed to my painfully awkward teenage mindset. At times I snap out of it & actually impress my bad self, but too often I freeze up around strangers & even have panic attacks in crowded places. Usually when I don't sleep enough due to stress. "It's a long, hard road out of Hell"

    • @tejasgaikwad5253
      @tejasgaikwad5253 2 года назад +2

      How are you now?.
      Would like to know how to beat it.

    • @dommaz04
      @dommaz04 2 года назад +1

      Same bro same

    • @Enigm3
      @Enigm3 2 года назад +1

      Good luck bro on your journey, maybe meditation and journaling may help !

    • @mashinjunior9580
      @mashinjunior9580 Год назад

      You are not alone

    • @yechiyahyisrael4552
      @yechiyahyisrael4552 Год назад

      You're weird

  • @pengi6055
    @pengi6055 7 лет назад +532

    confidence is key. That is all

    • @ballintothemax8241
      @ballintothemax8241 5 лет назад +17

      Jasper Jones what about looks? Like how girls always say they like a guy with nice eyes

    • @MrFarai489
      @MrFarai489 5 лет назад +37

      Ball into theMax we can't all have the same eyes
      Embrace everything you have and just go for it
      Women will embrace you when you embrace yourself
      You're an awesome guy with all of your physical feats, believe it

    • @mtinfinity7845
      @mtinfinity7845 5 лет назад +6

      True, it all comes down to confidence. Look up BigDawsTV, the man tries to pretend to be pathetic but since he's super confident he always gets girls numbers...

    • @cherrytv4572
      @cherrytv4572 4 года назад

      Ball into theMax not true I have green eyes with long curly eyelashes but still haven’t had pussy since freshman year and I’m a JR

    • @datjittrey_2336
      @datjittrey_2336 4 года назад +1

      @@cherrytv4572 Nigga so what you got time im a senior and i just turned 17. Just get it when u ready 💯💯

  • @TNT_12
    @TNT_12 6 лет назад +245

    With the amount of work that men have to do in order to get women, or to just be successful in life, it's no wonder that we live in a man's world. We have to put so much effort into developing 'game', becoming 'alpha males', and we still, for the most part, have to be the main providers for our families (although women have become more independent). We have every right, as men, to make this world suit us more than it suits women, because our workload and effort has to be 10x more.

    • @lonergal4326
      @lonergal4326 4 года назад +10

      Weird asf

    • @TH3N3W3RA
      @TH3N3W3RA 3 года назад +19

      Say it again for the people in the back!

    • @BlueGuise9
      @BlueGuise9 3 года назад +3

      Hopefully this whole 'game' thing is just a passing fashion.

    • @deklares1
      @deklares1 3 года назад +7

      @@BlueGuise9 no chance while women have all the choice

    • @RoyaltyGotHits
      @RoyaltyGotHits 3 года назад +13

      This us FACTS. But these days men are getting much weaker and are being seduced by women. I see so many men being extremely feminine these days because they’re listening to women all the time. But they don’t understand that by listening to women, you’ll turn into the very guy that they show no attention to, and complain about.

  • @rgf5432
    @rgf5432 7 лет назад +643

    Or just use tiege hanley
    No not in this video?
    okay

  • @Knowledgia
    @Knowledgia 7 лет назад +561

    I want to congratulate you FarFromAverage because you post often. Very Often. I know the hard work behind every video. The hours you spent. I see you post a lot of videos in short amount of days. Hats off to you sir. I wish I could have the motivation to work as hard as you. :) And I will develop it don't worry ! :D Nice video!

    • @seanbenson6943
      @seanbenson6943 7 лет назад +6

      Knowledgia He definitely outsources these animations.

    • @Yank-brain
      @Yank-brain 7 лет назад +2

      Knowledgia Can anyone please tell me the name of the girl in the thumbnail

    • @aghastur8667
      @aghastur8667 7 лет назад

      Miranda Kerr

    • @emil7088
      @emil7088 6 лет назад +5

      Bruh you won't ever develope that motivation, FarFromAverage won't either, DISCIPLINE is what you need

    • @emil7088
      @emil7088 6 лет назад +3

      Start NoFap too

  • @movingforwardman3186
    @movingforwardman3186 5 лет назад +37

    Wife of 10 years decided she wanted a different life, so it is time for me to enter the game again. Probably my weakness would be social cues.

  • @hyrule1476
    @hyrule1476 7 лет назад +83

    but that's just a theory, A GAME THEORY, thanks for watching

    • @pengi6055
      @pengi6055 7 лет назад +2

      ahhh fuck. I just commented this

  • @Chicodon008
    @Chicodon008 3 года назад +14

    I used to have extremely weak game in back in school. It makes me crazy nowadays on how many chances I missed because of weak game.

  • @Timotheus157
    @Timotheus157 4 года назад +36

    I make it a point to strike up conversations with others by focusing on them. I look for things to talk about that are interesting to them. It is a developed trait that was strengthened over the years. The trick is not to get too personal. Keep it general and keep it going. Men are linear meaning one topic at a time. Women are non-linear meaning quickly moving from one topic to another.

  • @fabrilezcano43
    @fabrilezcano43 7 лет назад +107

    and remember this is not just a theory its a game theory!! thanks for watching

    • @mrwondo
      @mrwondo 7 лет назад +15

      Aaaand Cut!

    • @maxok3525
      @maxok3525 2 года назад +1

      😂😂😂

  • @elishavermeer6767
    @elishavermeer6767 7 лет назад +38

    As a girl, I can promise the same rules apply to us. Plus, well, I had zero social intelligence but since I started having summer jobs at retail, both my social intelligence and my self confidence started growing up.

  • @dontlosetodoubttm709
    @dontlosetodoubttm709 7 лет назад +200

    nice vid, I'm working on my game, I must say though I get people laughing without trying so I guess I mastered that area.

    • @unkowncoollookingrobot6174
      @unkowncoollookingrobot6174 7 лет назад +54

      DontLoseToDoubt TM Or maybe they're just laughing at your weak game.

    • @Maffu79
      @Maffu79 7 лет назад +4

      DontLoseToDoubt TM,
      They are laughing _at_ you.
      Beaten, like a slow typist...

    • @ashelpeabody7800
      @ashelpeabody7800 6 лет назад +9

      DontLoseToDoubt TM I dig it bro. also, fuck those two shit talkers.

    • @andylupo2061
      @andylupo2061 6 лет назад +16

      Don`t worry about these two trolls. They can`t even post their real names, just some made up over embellished bullshit. Good job & keep talking , just don`t make a fool of yourself. Make people laugh, but don`t become a fool for them. That is only a part of the plan. Social interaction & being confident is the key. Shut up, losers.

    • @eminem13001
      @eminem13001 6 лет назад

      I’m trying to work on my game

  • @jimmythegent8929
    @jimmythegent8929 7 лет назад +412

    Anybody who calls themselves "alpha" is cringey, wears a fedora, and has already lost.

    • @brassarmadillo2818
      @brassarmadillo2818 7 лет назад +9

      Jimmy The Gent you takin about yourself fed boyy?

    • @jyosiefus6773
      @jyosiefus6773 7 лет назад +92

      Jimmy The Gent Exactly. An alpha male doesn't actually call himself one. He doesn't need to, as his actions speak louder than words.

    • @TheOrangVegetal
      @TheOrangVegetal 6 лет назад +1

      m'lady

    • @orinwing5442
      @orinwing5442 6 лет назад +1

      Jimmy The Gent hahahahahha a fedora. Omg classic

    • @jesseray6978
      @jesseray6978 6 лет назад +3

      Then he's not the alpha, or you're the beta and hate it.

  • @JohnnyWalkerBlack142
    @JohnnyWalkerBlack142 4 года назад +14

    Attitude, appeal, and social intelligence are all things I need to work on. I’m in college and last night I went out with my friend to a party. I had no intention of getting drunk, but I ended up getting smashed. Like the video said, I generally can only make some conversation with girls when I’m drunk. So before I got hammered I wanted to talk to some girls, but I literally just aimlessly walked around not doing anything. Once I got drunk I made some small approaches, but the girls didn’t seem super interested. I was confused because my friend who I consider to be a lot less attractive than me was scoring more than I was. Not only was I dressed better than him, but I literally had a girl come up to me and tell me I was super cute, but I still couldn’t even make good conversation with the girl that said that. There was one girl that I was very attracted to, and I talked to her for a good while, she even grinded on me, but after a little while she just lost interest in me and started talking to my friend. My friend was making her laugh and she was smiling, and I was so confused and jealous in that moment. My friend is actually kind of a player and has a lot of girls he’s talking to or “tings” as he calls them. It wasn’t until the next day that I realized that his attitude was much more confident than mine and other aspects of his game were much stronger than mine. He could easily talk to any girl while sober, but when I’m sober I can barely strike up a conversation. This was why he had that girl hooked, and I didn’t. The thing is that people think looks are enough, but they only get you so far. Game is what allows you to get any female. So practice as much as you can and you’ll become superior to any guy with women. And practice sober!

  • @DonRamiro1
    @DonRamiro1 7 лет назад +157

    these videos are the bomb, man. great stuff and I really enjoy them. they are helping.

  • @samione
    @samione 7 лет назад +14

    I think now I am confident around girls and don't feel awkward like I used to be when I was younger. But the problem is I still have absolutely no idea what to talk about with girls. Thanks for the video.

    • @vsatonthebeat4101
      @vsatonthebeat4101 4 года назад

      Yeah right why you cant talk with her like with a bro. I think the key is just to play with them and dont take them seriously. But idk no experience yet

    • @user-bu6nq1ve6m
      @user-bu6nq1ve6m 3 года назад

      Same problem

  • @PersonalPower
    @PersonalPower 7 лет назад +209

    May the spirit of the alpha gorilla be with you!
    *videos like this*
    *sub goal: 300*

    • @FarFromAverage
      @FarFromAverage  7 лет назад +7

      lol!

    • @jacobcarter5923
      @jacobcarter5923 7 лет назад +17

      Personal Power Harambe?

    • @ethansmith8813
      @ethansmith8813 4 года назад

      @@FarFromAverage a video series idea. Go in depth about how to work on these skills and what resources guys can use to do so. It can be difficult to find the starting point as alot of guys who watch this content like having a set goal to focus on and where they have to begin to get there. Keep up the great work man😎🤘

  • @lewie2967
    @lewie2967 7 лет назад

    I love it how a lot of his vids mention girls in the thumbnail or title but in the end they're all life lessons to carry on. You've gained my sub lad

  • @Boodsoboy
    @Boodsoboy 2 года назад +1

    Talking with 10 strangers per day is the most valuable thing I took from this video

  • @voiceovernoob
    @voiceovernoob 7 лет назад +57

    But...I'm a Game Designer

  • @classisformenz6599
    @classisformenz6599 7 лет назад +3

    Valuable info here it's a must listen
    For it will start a change

  • @jesseray6978
    @jesseray6978 6 лет назад +3

    Great job, you're articulate, interesting, and know exactly what you're talking about and who you're talking it to. You've help me, and I thank you.

  • @micomelendrez9330
    @micomelendrez9330 6 лет назад +1

    hi, im so happy I was able to come across these ideas and keep on searching/watching almost all of your videos and it helps me boost my confidence, its kinda liberating too....thank you very much

  • @aymanebouchibti
    @aymanebouchibti 7 лет назад +6

    Keep posting man ! This is accurate and very helpful ! I like it :)

  • @TheSpeechless17
    @TheSpeechless17 7 лет назад +490

    i hate this game

    • @19ars92
      @19ars92 7 лет назад +19

      get a life punk ! ... oh wait you already have 10 on minecraft

    • @ResinRat2
      @ResinRat2 7 лет назад +27

      You just have to LEARN how to play the game. Just like any other game, you learn how to follow the rules that give you good results. Once you learn, the game is actually fun and you start wanting to try it on EVERY female you meet.

    • @alb12345672
      @alb12345672 7 лет назад +11

      Game is a reflection of maturity. Women aren't attracted to xbox addicted 14 yo guys.

    • @TheSpeechless17
      @TheSpeechless17 7 лет назад +26

      I must learn how to be a player

    • @mrtyrant1680
      @mrtyrant1680 7 лет назад +16

      TheSpeechless17 me too
      it's boring,long and very unrewarding and unsatisfying

  • @chakralife5348
    @chakralife5348 7 лет назад +4

    I love your channel so much!! I hope you keep growing and growing :) ❤

  • @evanvancamp2781
    @evanvancamp2781 7 лет назад +10

    awesome video thanks

  • @alexasofronea4945
    @alexasofronea4945 7 лет назад +4

    keep up the good work! love watching ur vids are so realxing

  • @krishantaneja8316
    @krishantaneja8316 4 года назад +10

    I’m too serious... I need to learn how to smile more :)

  • @OpenPhoenix
    @OpenPhoenix 4 года назад +3

    seeing that ive never been a confident guy, these tips could at least move me in the right direction.

  • @jonjon11882
    @jonjon11882 7 лет назад +3

    Awesome summary of game.

  • @CommandoMaster
    @CommandoMaster 6 лет назад +18

    To develop game, you have to practise (ie. talk to 10 new girls everyday). Make sure you have the courage, confidence, and know you're valuable to others.

  • @Righteous1ist
    @Righteous1ist 5 лет назад +3

    Very good video that gives very valuable advice. One of your best videos.

  • @xTiMeWii
    @xTiMeWii 7 лет назад +2

    Thanks for the posts, Ive been learning a lot.

  • @lunaticmickful
    @lunaticmickful 5 лет назад +1

    A simpel ABC explanation of how to be better with women. Simple points to know what you do wrong. Good job

  • @nickolaslogalbo
    @nickolaslogalbo 5 лет назад +4

    My biggest problem is social intelligence, like picking up on social ques. I have actually responded to someone when they were talking to someone else on a phone. Luckily I am pretty confident, interesting and funny. And I can talk around girls, I just say the wrong thing at the wrong time sometimes.

  • @wired6251
    @wired6251 7 лет назад +30

    Lol, subscribed like 4 hours ago and just got a new video. You seem to be rl active dude xD.

  • @xxxheavyhitter11
    @xxxheavyhitter11 6 лет назад

    Wow ! This video really describe me, as if he was in my head! Amazing and so true..... Definitely need to work on being more social. Tully appreciate it.

  • @kukulkan4861
    @kukulkan4861 3 года назад +1

    I live in India and had no game but now I have a good job a good car and a inherited property . No now I m getting girls not that much but getting in average 2 in a year may be more . Now with red pill knowledge . I m getting more and more confidence .

  • @benjames863
    @benjames863 7 лет назад

    This video was amazing! It has all the important lessons from about 20 other videos i have seen!

  • @robbieacosta4273
    @robbieacosta4273 5 лет назад +1

    I like that last information tip at the very end thanks.

  • @crispanm
    @crispanm 6 лет назад +4

    i need that confidence on how not to be that guy who is awkward and doesn't know what to say because he is putting the girl on a pedestal . need to stop being shy

    •  6 лет назад +1

      Spend a lot of time in the gym. It'll change you, for the better, in ways you won't even be aware of. Guys who're physically strong have more confidence and more testosterone.

  • @TooOverrated
    @TooOverrated 7 лет назад

    Whoa so much awesome and relevant content the past few days! Keep it up!
    I personally need to work on my both my Social intelligence and My weakest being my storytelling. I personally believe I live a pretty badass life, which makes me interesting but I know i would be more interesting if My storytelling is better.
    Storytelling is something that I have been trying on working on the past few weeks. So you have any advice on it please let me know I would love to use the advice!

  • @furyano1251
    @furyano1251 3 года назад +6

    I’m not bad at all once I engage in conversation, my timing seems to be sufficient but what I think I lack in is first moment eye contact. My look I’ve been told can look intimidating. I’ve seen this actually work in my favor but doesn’t attract the kinda woman I want. I’m working on that first moment eye contact. This is difficult for me because, in my culture it can be disrespectful to give to much eye contact. I seem to lack in having the right kind of eye contact needed to have that woman send come chase me signals. For me being natural it’s 50/50 but the 50% I attract are the 50% I don’t find as relationship material, some not even friend material.

  • @romellgibson7313
    @romellgibson7313 3 года назад

    Real Helpful, one of my favorites on the channel

  • @tonyjlorns1727
    @tonyjlorns1727 6 лет назад +1

    Excellent advice great videos keep up the good work !

  • @terrancemaulana4058
    @terrancemaulana4058 2 года назад

    this is soooo on point...thank u bro and it really shows u kno what u speak of...salute and mad props to u bruv

  • @chiranjibkundu2611
    @chiranjibkundu2611 4 года назад +1

    I know it is difficult to be a man but I made myself one with ur channel's guidance,thanks.

  • @tjsmoove83
    @tjsmoove83 7 лет назад +1

    great video you should make more like this hitting on different faucets of your game

  • @SoulsOfWisdom
    @SoulsOfWisdom 3 года назад +2

    "Trust me, you don't want to be the guy who dies with zero game" Life goals! lol

  • @NeoN-PeoN
    @NeoN-PeoN 7 лет назад +8

    What I hate about the word "game", and the BIGGEST disconnect between two men when they are talking about it is that to nearly every man the word "game" allows for a different amount of lying or truth-stretching. Me, personally, have known for years that the BEST game comes from speaking wholly HONESTLY. However, if you are not comfortable with who you are, honesty could be impossible when talking about certain topics. Monk mode yourself until you feel like you have very REAL value. From there, you must be able to feel like any little poke at a weak spot in your frame makes you feel like, "haha, nice try, babe." That's when you have developed effortless game, which, to me, is the only truly valuable game. It's the only game where you can very easily and consistently turn mistakes into a positive. For most men, especially blue collar guys like me, this game makes it almost impossible to date women of the "upper crust", but worry not; cause they will still fuck you when their friends aren't around.

    • @illcryst
      @illcryst 4 года назад

      Also part of having good game is knowing what type of women you attract most and when a woman is out of your league

  • @johntrae1580
    @johntrae1580 4 года назад +2

    My biggest issue is cold approaching girls any and everywhere especially in a daytime public scene. Night scenes it’s a tad easier but still my game is not on point. I want to succeed at both the night and day scenes anywhere no matter the setting. My biggest struggles I’ve seen have been w/ females and finances. The finances are coming up but the girl struggles are still not where I desire them to be and truly need to improve in connecting w/girls to point where I get a stable of very sexy attractive ones and that’s all I attract is beautiful quality females. This is one of my major goals.

  • @itjustis4009
    @itjustis4009 7 лет назад

    This is cool! I like your content, you'll go far with this channel my friend!

  • @evanbrown7698
    @evanbrown7698 6 лет назад +3

    A normal distribution curve would be a more accurate way of determining how many people "have game." The Pareto Principle is more often applied to inputs and outputs, usually in business. For example, 20% of your inputs are responsible for 80% of your outputs.

  • @chadgiggs
    @chadgiggs 5 лет назад +8

    JUST TELL ME HOW. I KNOW YOU KNOW HOW, JUST TELL ME. i'VE BEEN FOLLOWING YOUR VIDS FROM THE BEGINNING AND YOU NEVER TELL US HOW. TELL US HOW, I'LL BUY YOUR GODDAM PRUDUCT REEEE

  • @skinnygunsmith7565
    @skinnygunsmith7565 7 лет назад +11

    I am boring , and my timing is up to shit

  • @thestranger5564
    @thestranger5564 5 лет назад +4

    The way you said it “Dumb as a rock"😂😂🤣

  • @Justinfinite333
    @Justinfinite333 7 лет назад +80

    REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS

  • @yohan-electwordofguardthem9173
    @yohan-electwordofguardthem9173 7 лет назад +3

    You are really far from average great info bro♋

  • @pallireynisson8605
    @pallireynisson8605 6 лет назад

    you have earned my respect , thank you.

  • @jonoc3295
    @jonoc3295 6 лет назад +2

    I've always had a natural game, but I went to a Catholic school in the 7th grade and I was taught that pre-marital sex was bad. This moral issue really messed my head up, I am a high sex drive heterosexual alpha male. This inner moral dilemma might have been the cause of my acne, yes I was a virgin until I was 20. By my senior year I was the first semester Unit Commander of the NJROTC unit at my high school. I know my game was at its lowest point because, though I had many crushes I did not have a girl friend. In my senior year I did met a girl and we did have a strange relationship, I know I caused her a great deal of frustration. I did go through most of my life with poor game. My game did improve immensely after 2000 when I resolved the inner conflict of my high sex drive and the moral issue of sex, I was already 44 by then. But also know permanent change does not happen over night. I think that confidence is a key component in so much that we deal with in life. Up until 2015 I was going to Las Vegas at least 3 times a year, the EDM/dance clubs are target rich. Fortunately for me I don't sound or look my age. Though now I mainly game women at the grocery store(healthy food stores are the best), or where ever I am out and about. Always with respect, the quality of a society is based on the respect its citizens have for one another. Thank you for your videos, too bad the internet did not exist when I could have used it the most.

  • @briancrizaldo7640
    @briancrizaldo7640 6 лет назад +1

    I just need to learn how to keep conversations going and what to talk about during awkward silences

  • @peterm6737
    @peterm6737 7 лет назад +1

    Clash Royale is my game, I mastered Chip Cycle XD
    Good video as always :)

  • @rayeli4045
    @rayeli4045 6 лет назад +6

    "RIP captain no game" had me dead asf

  • @fulahno
    @fulahno 2 года назад +5

    I am an handsome introvert. A few years back I switched my gamer life for work in restaurants and bars. Started hitting the gym and caring more about my looks, started developing my social skills and experience plus my already deep knowledge and understanding of people mashed into the final result of being restaurant manager banging girls from all around the world.
    Still to this day, I have many inner challenges and confidence swings, but it's exactly like it's mentioned: there are no mistakes, only lessons. And knowing more people means you can learn from their lessons as well

  • @JoeJ-8282
    @JoeJ-8282 4 года назад +6

    I have Aspergers so unfortunately I have never and most likely will never be able to "read" "social cues" from *anyone* around me, girls or guys. This has been a problem my whole life so far even though I really consciously try to change it and understand people I interact with every single day, but it never *ever* works, because my brain just doesn't make those types of connections, so I'll most likely end up remaining single my whole life because I always end up totally unknowingly and *unintentionally* "pissing people off" or "turning people off", (both guys and girls alike), (until it's too late and it has to be pointed out to me), because I just can't "relate" to them, (or vise-versa), and even though I can definitely carry on very deep, intellectual conversations with someone else who happens to be interested in the same things I am, I just don't have the same kinds of interests as most "neurotypical" people, so everyone tends to think that I'm just "weird"... Even though I am the friendliest and most *wanting* to interact with others as anyone can be, and I have a really good heart and soul, and I *know* I have a LOT of good to offer into any interaction, if people would only take the time to get to know me, it just seems like no-one ever cares or even *notices* any of that purity, honesty and goodness about me in the first place!... Partially because I don't pick up on *unspoken* social cues, especially, so people just view me as weird to be around... But since that's just the way my brain works, (or rather *doesn't* work), I can't *ever* seem to make ANY social connections or friends with anyone, guys or girls... Even though I really try my hardest to just "get" people, I just don't... It has been this way my whole life, ever since I was a kid, and I'm now 46 years old, never having had a girlfriend or any kind of "social circle" of friends, even though I *REALLY* want to have one SO much, just like everyone else does, but obviously for me, and in that respect, "practice" really *doesn't* make "perfect", (or even marginally acceptable), but instead it just ends in *continuous frustration and disappointment* for me! :(...

  • @alpu2563
    @alpu2563 4 года назад +8

    So, what I'm getting from this is you have to be a perfectly calculated socially intelligent anime character that knows the outcome of any situation

  • @javiervalera9566
    @javiervalera9566 4 года назад

    When I'm feeling comfortable words flow thru me like water but when I feel out of my comfort zone I freeze like a deer in head lights

  • @gregorysmith5134
    @gregorysmith5134 7 лет назад +2

    I must state truth on the "use it Or lose it thing" , I used to be able to do the thing that makes girls like you when I got out of college but when my dad was in the hospital sick all year last year I lost all interest in trying to play the game. now i struggle every day to figure something out. I'm just not good with people in general anymore, game doesn't just apply to picking up girls. also I am disgusted in society because of the way women force men to prove things and force a game to even be played in the first place. I don't understand that at all, however I do understand that it is nature and cannot be changed. this is why I will never find someone in this society is because every time I force myself to "approach a girl with game" I feel disgusted in myself now a days. it's ridiculous because I have a nice car a nice job and I live on my own so it's not like I wouldn't be able to provide for someone. I don't know what's wrong with me anymore though because I seem to be the only one thinking like this in the entire world.

  • @jasonlee148
    @jasonlee148 7 лет назад +1

    I literally thought he was gonna write "Captain America" on the grave stone for having no game.

  • @jaumetdepalma5347
    @jaumetdepalma5347 6 лет назад

    just discovered your channel. great and smart videos ! congratulations from Mallorca, Spain

  • @pentameteriamb6196
    @pentameteriamb6196 5 лет назад +1

    I agree with Mr. Don Ramiro!!

  • @prashanttiwari3871
    @prashanttiwari3871 7 лет назад

    Could you suggest some books on humor and the art of story telling? I'd love to read a few. I looked up a few myself, but I don't know which one's to go for. Keep up the good work! You've led me to try and become better.

  • @tto9706
    @tto9706 7 лет назад +1

    can you please make a video on affects and limits of subliminal audios? Love ye channel by the way

  • @christiansaldana4200
    @christiansaldana4200 6 лет назад

    I think i have decent game. Once im talking to them its easy. I do have trouble approaching strangers tho. My handshakes suck and i do rely a little on alcohol. Spot on video. This was a lot of stuff i kinda figured out on my own. Listen to this dude

  •  7 лет назад

    Kudos for the WOW reference!!! :D

  • @ryanmathis8286
    @ryanmathis8286 4 года назад +3

    @3:50 I have found that the girls who are more intelligent fights their instinct better and they are easier.

  • @brianj7204
    @brianj7204 3 года назад

    I always tought that i had a little bit of game. Now that you pointed out the friends part i now know thats far from the truth

  • @JAtherton50
    @JAtherton50 4 года назад

    Wow I had no idea it was so difficult for guys to talk to me... makes a lot more sense now

  • @mr.mafia2477
    @mr.mafia2477 7 лет назад +6

    Fickin social intelligence is hard to master,appeal is okay and attitude is the easiest thing to improve upon

  • @Earth2alx
    @Earth2alx 5 лет назад

    I need more practice at being decisive, Im always torn between what I want and what someone else wants. It might just be summer break isolation, but I do think I can just tell people off better now, though I haven't put it into action yet

  • @lifecinematicswithantlee5111
    @lifecinematicswithantlee5111 4 года назад

    Very true you must work on your game every day!

    • @YuhhFeelMe
      @YuhhFeelMe Год назад

      ion have game nor do i need it

  • @NintendoNerdo
    @NintendoNerdo 7 лет назад +6

    I'm working on my game right now. I've been told that I'm too direct when talking to girls and need to moderate that.

    • @Cortesevasive
      @Cortesevasive 7 лет назад +1

      don't frame it as GAME , and you will be fine

    • @fcggames3990
      @fcggames3990 7 лет назад

      Andre Thornton what do you mean by "too direct"

    • @zayk4760
      @zayk4760 5 лет назад +2

      @@fcggames3990 he probably means he expresses what he feels for her too early or too fast

  • @nefarious520
    @nefarious520 6 лет назад

    The thing tht gets me is tht it seems 100 percent like the guys job to keep the convo goin whn its really the female tht aint saying shit, thn thy have the nerve to say tht you were the one who couldnt keep the conversation going.

  • @synergyrevolution2332
    @synergyrevolution2332 7 лет назад +9

    Am I the only nerd here that clicked on this because the thumbnail had "Game Theory" on it?

  • @alexlovato5210
    @alexlovato5210 2 года назад

    Wow this use to be me to 1000% but when I started regular conversation with people at gas stations or grocery stores or where ever it makes it easy to spark a conversation with pretty girls it really does take practice but you have to full commit to not feel awkward but don’t feel down when it backfires nothing lost nothing learned and nothing ventured nothing learned

  • @marios-7622
    @marios-7622 6 лет назад +1

    Good to khow that I had a game since I was 14 XD

  • @okthen3397
    @okthen3397 4 года назад +1

    every time I go for a girl, for some reason her best friend always ends up crushing on me. Here’s the thing, my story telling is decent and I can have very deep conversation and My confidence isn’t bad but it’s misplaced sometimes. I have Humor down to a T but people know me as that funny guy so no one takes me too seriously and that’s why I think they don’t think I can’t take relationships seriously

  • @ciaraboyle30
    @ciaraboyle30 5 лет назад +2

    My game with a guy has become weak. I think in way I need a brain booster filled with knowledge !!!

  • @tigerx36
    @tigerx36 6 лет назад

    Okay, I think maybe my game has gone down over the years. In my teen years, I could talk to certain people and had my fair share of girls, but never got past the point of 'just friends'. I have great confidence, but being asocial is what's keeping me from succeeding in landing a girl. As for appeal, I do have style and I'm strong. I do feel I need to start in small spaces to rebuild my social game, but the other two factors are still good. I guess any advice would help at this point, whether it's a guy or a girl who answers.

  • @jossell911
    @jossell911 3 года назад

    Great vid💯

  • @kennethporst4359
    @kennethporst4359 6 лет назад +1

    Thanks man, so I have social inelegance-ik when shes testing me and I have a topic what to say , but I suck at holding a conversation I suck at making her laugh unless we have something in common or same attitude

  • @zahriarhyne5967
    @zahriarhyne5967 7 лет назад +1

    "And some guys go to their grave with no game" .... lol I'm dying.

  • @tevadevere895
    @tevadevere895 7 лет назад +20

    All of your signs don't seem to really apply to me though I really feel like I have pretty awful game.

    • @demetriuscolburn252
      @demetriuscolburn252 7 лет назад +2

      Attitude needs adjusting. Don't be so hard on ya self...

    • @illcryst
      @illcryst 4 года назад

      The #1 game killer is when a woman senses the slightest bit of insecurity or lack of confidence. Keep trying

  • @petermaina7111
    @petermaina7111 5 лет назад +4

    am weak in all parts of the game especially having interesting conversations both verbal and texting, poor confidence and don't know how to give starters or you say breaking ice, am poor in expressing myself in a great way,am also socially non intelligent..can i be helped? i appreciate your video

  • @markhenrykoh8495
    @markhenrykoh8495 6 лет назад +2

    i can interact freely with other person in group, but when i am alone with one on one conversation, i felt so nervous

  • @russellringland1399
    @russellringland1399 7 лет назад

    Nice. Smile. Stand up straight. Yay. Nothing to do with Game Theory, bless his heart.