Cx in the chat only the Avatar who mastered the Four Element conversations, could stop the Dead Silence, but when the world needed him most, he vanished.
Thank you for exposing this cheap advice with a simple logical conclusion. To be honest though, this can be very useful because some of us don't extend or initiate conversations at all, so as long as we don't take the advice too literally we will have gains.
@T J Chutia idk for you but i feel physically exhausted like i was in a gym and cant recover to the next day, i bet extrovert reading this will think this is a bullsheat but it is real
About what you said 10:40, I had to like your video. No pain, no gain. This is the virtue for all humans--if you don't go down the tree of possibilities, then you cannot explore the nature of making conversation. It's just like evolution, if there were no organisms that were mutating (whether good or bad) then humans would never have existed. Civilization didn't get to where it stands today by playing it safe.
We did not evolve or come from fish or Monkeys ! God created this World & everything in it & God made man from the dust of the Earth ! Read your King James Version Holy Bible starting in Genesis & read to Revelation ! U will find out who God is Cuz all Scripture was given by inspiration of God & they wrote as they were moved on by the Holy Ghost !
I've been watching your videos, and some of these concepts I knew but I was missing a few key things. Now, I've been putting this into practice everywhere I go, making conversations like it's a game, and it's ridiculous how many girls respond positively, giving signals for more. Everything you say is spot on! Keep up the good work, my friend!
master the art of asking questions and you will master talking to girls. just let the girl talk most of the time, listen to her and throw in some jokes/banter. That's all it takes 90% of the time. as he said in the video getting started is the hardest. worked for me, works for the guys I know and it will work for you! personal development videos sub goal 230/300
To an extent. I know a writer, really smart. Interviews everyone he meets. After a while it can be annoying. He asks questions, just for the sake of avoiding dead air, and it's obvious. He doesn't really seem to care about the replies, and sometimes even cuts the person off before allowing them to finish. He'll try to joke by implying certain stereotypes or placing the person into a category, which makes them rebel. He doesn't have much luck with women except the super self centered ones that just talk about themselves all day, and never want to hear about you. So learn to LISTEN as well.
@@Sigma3095 yep it will feel like an interview. But listening to her opinion and thoughts will make her like a man for sure. Make her feel you are intrested in her personality, dreams and goals. Acknowledge her personality and she will open up mentally to begin with. I'm a woman and speaking for myself this will make me like a man. Plus teasing in a gentle way. Flirting and serious stuff all together.
Hey, you know what? Thank you. In fact, I don't think I could thank you enough. I think you've just changed my life. Only God could possibly repay to you the debt I owe you for this short, free, RUclips video. Keep going! You're gonna change many lives out there for the better and inspire millions, or even billions of people! I just know it, as if I can see it with my own eyes! May God bless you mightily and use you. I don't care if you're a Christian or not. You've got something real special going for you. I'm sure I do too, but here you are, putting yourself out there, putting all your talents to good use, inspiring quiet people like me to believe that I can too, and can actually become a supremely valuable member of society and especially, in the life of my dream girl, whom I know in person and am working up my confidence to speak to on her 18 th birthday next year as we speak! Wish me luck, my friend! I'll need all the blessings I can get for this grand endeavour!
Just go for it now, a year is a long time from now and anything can happen in that time, life's too short to not take chances, just don't make a move too early, that's a huge mistake
Confidence grows naturally the more that one does something. The first time I jumped off of a five meter diving board when I was in the second grade, I was scared because the water looked so far away. I had to gather the courage to finally jump off (which took a full 5 minutes of re-assuring myself everything would be alright), before I finally made the jump. But when I landed, something amazing happened. I realised that all of my fears had been made up in my head, and that the jump wasn't nearly as long as it looked from above. I climbed straight back up the latter to the board, and this time it only took me a few seconds to re-assure myself that all would be ok. I jumped, and none of my fears came true. The fear kept growning less and less the more I did it, and now I can run off of the five meter board without even thinking about it. I can imagine social situations are similar. Sorry for bad English.
Nah this one is undeniably your top 5 videos... and it ain’t 2-5 ! This is a video that answers so many questions about not only communication but life overall. If someone was struggling with social anxiety, depression, or feeling like at a stop, literally they just have to watch this video every single day
The video is not about talking to girls, it is more about talking to strangers without having sexual intentions There are some core principles for talking to girls, which will make them crave you: 1.) Push/Pull: Make them feel insecure by insulting them a bit and mix it up with compliments 2.) Give them emotions: Add drama and passion. You can also give them negative emtions by telling inadequate things 3.) Always seem confident and risky: If the conversation sounds like a daily conversation you will seem boring and needy. Girls hate nediness and boredom, it must come off as if they are just another girl and not important. If it seems as if you said something wrong and she gets upset don't search for excuses it will come off as unmanly, just start a new topic quickly, she will forget it because she cannot think about two things at once 4.) Eye contact: they will shittest you by looking in your eyes for a long time, you have to hold the eye contact It will not work so easily in the beginning I would start talking to girls and trying to apply the things. It will maybe come off as unnatural but if you automatize the core principles you will manage to internalise it. Don't be bothered by rejections, do not give up, keep going and you will have success quickly. I talked to 20 girls in one evening 2 weeks ago and at the beginning it was hard. However I improved quickly and this weekend I had lots of success (6 kissed, 1 ONS)
Most people would give out politically correct answers like "be a gentleman" and shit. Girls will think you they want someone who's loving, caring, thoughtful and shit. But none of that is true. What's this guy says is the absolute truth. I'm not nerdy or shy, I do most of the things the video talks about yet I'm single. But my friends who do what the comment suggests, are very successful. So much so, most are two-timing and even the girls are ok with it.
Years ago I could sit and talk to a girl that without admitting it was there to find out my marital status. I was always locked in a corner and had no choice but to sit and chat. This could go on for an hour or longer and after a time of going through this got the hang of how to never end on the very topic she came to get. First and pretty much the answer was to talk about her. Second, before getting to the big question she would always go silent then look at you and ask, so where do you live? I’d answer and ask her the same. That never failed to derail her start the conversation going in another direction. Then, depending on her answer follow that up with another question and another and another and so on. Not fast, just a nice follow up question on or related to the last one. There’s no such thing as a women who doesn’t want to talk and talk and talk about herself or her family or where she lives or how big or small her home is etc. And when she realizes she better get back to work she’ll stand up, look at you and consider asking you that question she came to ask. When you see that look, tell her how great it must be to live where she does or drive such a great car or something that you covered. Ask about her Mom “LOL” or husband/boyfriend and quickly mention an old flame but keep talking. But stay away from the topic of her mate, husband near the end as she may use that as an opener. By mentioning an old girlfriend you throw the topic in a direction she will chat with her friends about and absolutely go off in another wrong direction with it. It’s amazing how long you can keep her occupied with nothing but chatting about her and her life. It wasn’t that I needed to lie about it, it was the fact you could tell what she came there for and it became a game to see how long I could delay the question. If I ever was asked I’d answer “You mean my significant other” That once again caused things to go in another direction and the game continues. Fun way to amuse yourself and an interesting way to observe human nature. Especially the female kind.
Me : Did you know why chillies are hot ? She : Not interested . Me : So what do you do for a living She : Not Interested. Me : So what are your passions She : Not Interested. Me : *throws a 100 dollar bill on her face* She : Wow , you are soo funny !! , Wanna hang out ?? Why God , why ??
Those aren't the girls you want anyways... If you do decide to throw the $100 bill on her, before you walk off pick it back up. You will need it for the LADY you will meet in the future... Patience is a virtue and we are not always ready for what we ask for. Just make sure you are ready... Everything else will fall into place... Happy Life to You...
I am an introvert when it comes to talking to the girls. I am as scared as hell to start a conversation. Your video is a real motivation to improve in this area of my life.
A game I am going to start playing when I do cold approaches is to see if the girl crosses her legs or plays with her hair. Another thing to look for is, as you maintain eye contact, look for pupil dilation. if any/all or a combination of those happen, game on.
I dont know if you see this. But this channel actually elevated my love to stranger talks. I'm still kinda discomforted or speechless with some people (depending how the time went), but you really showed me how life can be put up. Kinda a game, kinda serious (because choices REALLY MAKE THE ENDING THO) and based on companionship and creativity. Thank you for this.
I’m a girl and I’m just gonna say that I just want a guy that will talk to me and not give up or get board because I usually give short answers now to questions since whenever I try to keep the conversation going by talking about something and asking them question, the guy or other person seems uninterested and reply’s quickly with short answers to my questions. Then the person just leaves and says something like bye gotta go. Like they started the conversation but they couldn’t even listen to when I talk or keep it long. Aaaaggghhhh And this is directed to guys and girls.
Mix things up a little. Aks questions and give "short" answers, this way you indicate that you are interested, but do not talk too much. Keep in mind 99% of the guys not interested in girl's own agenda at first. Mostly cares about how she looks and what does it takes to make them in the horisontal position by default. After that if everything is fine than he can become interested in everything else about you.
"when you realise their are no mistakes in the universe you become sane." Alan watts. I approach girls and usually the best mode of conversation is their work. Because nobody does something for money if they don't enjoy it. So that reservoir of passion is infinite.
Turning life into a game works at work as well. I started a job where the supervisor was rude and treated asking my co-workers how to better operate my machine as wasting their time and I should figure it out for myself. When I stopped worrying whether today would be my last day every day and treated my task not as a crisis, but as a game challenge I didn't stress over it and just did my best. It took awhile, but 7 years later I'm the best at my job and when we got a general manager that liked my approach my supervisor had to lighten up.
My main issue (aside from being introvert) is the not so great experiences I had in the past (school years) with girls, especially when I tried to ask out a girl and she just exploded with hatred in her voice, something that wasn't there the past 2 years I've known her (we were in the same class and since she was so far the only one that even talked to me like a normal person I thought I try my luck). I knew rejection was in the deck but the disgust caught me off guard and insult to injury she was into a friend of mine, something that had no prior sign of it. And everytime I think of dating her words keep echoing in my head "How dare I think anything could be between us."
The best revenge is success. Become your absolute best self so that the next time she sees you (high school reunion maybe) she'll regret the day she rejected you.
Honestly, I watch these vids to improve myself to practice/perform the great work. Girls/Women aren't the prize. I must say, this is some great info. Keep it up, my brotha.
Very true I have gotten a lot better at my conversation skills since I started working and have to interact with a lot of people but still have to force myself sometimes to want to continue an conversation.
Thanks for the info, today I already had a few nice encounters with people, I clicked the video to see what I could learn from it and use it next time. New for me was the passion convo, I will use it on the girl I like, I am curious what here passion is.
hit on her friend send her a message through mind, im not hungry wolf i wont eat her, she's safe with ......... do this u might get both of them cuz that worked for me once
Just scored a big hit with the method that you're describing; just this morning this beautiful girl that I always wave to and say hello to asked me "how are you doing?" Instead of me saying fine or okay I said "great! How are you doing how was your weekend?" This turned into a 15-minute conversation with a really hot girl that I have a crush on. It also boosted my confidence
Find out the other person's passion, then ask follow up questions about it. Grocery stores: ask random people casual things at first, then move deeper.
You guys are awesome! Thank you so much! :D I got the social part down but everything else was hard until you guys showed I can be confident and know what to do. You guys are a social lifesaver.
Hopefully by seeing this video, it will give me inspiration and the confidence that I need to break the ice so to speak. It's not easy for me to approach anyone, let alone females for that matter
After watching the video from FarfromAverage you have gained 100 exp in conversation skill. You have gained the quest of improving the conversation skill in your life.
A quick addition to your awesome list: Be present in the moment! When you talk to girls don't be distracted by your thoughts, your mobile phone, by other hot chicks - be 100% present in the conversation!
I actually noticed that when I talk to some girls, they just keep on talking and talking nonstop. To the point I don't know what they're talking about but they just tell me anyway.
Always working conversation topic U are going to join the army. Trust me. It works more often as u think (sure not 100%). They often wanna know why u are going to join, what we wanna do, how we think our daily life is changing... Sure works for every othe job, but the military is somehow special
max. gend well if you are starting out its easier to start with the less attractive. start with them and you will improve with the better looking ones too!
1 thing that i notice during conversation starters with girl is, not so much what you ask her or say to her but HOW you say that to her. Always have some gentle smile on your face, they will react much softer to your questions-compliments.
I went up to my crush and started a conversation I then said a conversation killer, facepalmed and mumbled omg you are the worst with conversations #NailedIt
kenterminatedbygoogle sorry dude, that's just how it is. I remember realizing the same thing a few years ago: "I'm supposed to be myself, but also not be super introverted. So how the fuck does that work?"
John Meda, no, it's just stupid that a guy has to be outgoing just for women to fall into him. It's like u have to be someone else for women to like u, it's BULLSHIT!!!
i was jus tthinking this shit over recently. notice how they say to be rea but then say to do be more interesting and outgoing basically saying how we are not isnt god enough
I got it, when making a conversation with girls all you have to do is to build upon a simple question like what's up? Example: what's up? The girl say this nothing much ... you can say this, Really ! Nothing much but something must be going on? Even ask her a question about herself
Best video! Thank u this was wonderful can use it to overcome any fear. Rly one of the best video I've seen to help anyone improve their life! Thank u again for sharing.
So if a girl is not beautiful enough, she can't get any men? What is she then, a trash bin? It's so shallow to say that only with good looks you can get to a guy's heart...
You somehow interpreted beautiful girls being able to get any man with unattractive girls not being able to get any men. There's no possible way you can logically reach that conclusion nor think that others think they are trash bins. So again, you make no sense. Only good looks can 'win a guy's heart' in most cases. That's just reality. No one is saying you can't win them over with personality as well but that is less important evolutionarily so guys whining about personality being the main thing are deluding themselves of their biological wiring despite personality being important for healthy relationships.
No, that's not what I think, but that is what the guy from the video said. He said that it's harder for guys to get a girl, because their attitude matters to most women and that for girls it's easier, because they only need to be good looking. I consider that to be very shallow, because I know guys who were attracted to hot women, but when they tried to get to know them better, they proved to be not so nice. That made them look ugly in their eyes.
The fact that you said the guys were attracted to the hot women in the first place before knowing them just proves his point. They didn't see them as ugly because they weren't nice. How do you know they aren't rationalising rejection or the girl being uninterested in them or they don't subconsciously deserve the girl? If those same hot girls asked them out they'd say yes in a heartbeat in hope that it will work out anyway. They just haven't had that opportunity. We're all shallow. No need to act morally superior and shun others for being more shallow than you are and choosing to follow their biological wiring to being visually attracted to girls so they can produce successful offspring
its depressing that its literally a game you have to go into with a strategy and “cracking the code” to make a girl like you. its just ridiculous. it shouldnt be that hard
Improve your body language and start looking for signals girls make to you. after a short time you will know which girl is interested in you by default. You will have easier time to learn things with girls who likes your moves in the first place.
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"Treat life as a game", interesting... I have a huge crush to a girl and it feels like Im facing the final boss.. LOL
Lmao
Plot twist, you're just fighting the tutorial boss for the first time after gaining a few abilities ;)
@@nathangirard23 that's a nice way to put it
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Did you get her bro?
What I lack in conversational skills, I make up in my COD kill/death ratio
DiiceForeveroO same
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What I lack in COD KD is Halo KD.
Legend has it; the conversation is still going.
Cx in the chat only the Avatar who mastered the Four Element conversations, could stop the Dead Silence, but when the world needed him most, he vanished.
Let the conversation force flow. And the enlightenment of the Jedi you become. 👉🍹
Thank you for exposing this cheap advice with a simple logical conclusion. To be honest though, this can be very useful because some of us don't extend or initiate conversations at all, so as long as we don't take the advice too literally we will have gains.
"And they were Roommates"
Cx
I heard this quote and I love it so much because it is so true. "Your comfort zone is a beautiful place where nothing ever grows."
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let me save you 11 mins of your life
7:40- 7:44 thats all you need to know, seriously it worked for me.
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Your legend bro thankyou
Truth
Very very very very true
“If you are especially shy or introverted, you have to force yourself to maintain a conversation.”
Well, looks like I’m screwed
@T J Chutia idk for you but i feel physically exhausted like i was in a gym and cant recover to the next day, i bet extrovert reading this will think this is a bullsheat but it is real
@T J Chutia you can build up your ability talking to strangers by talking to people your somewhat familiar.
I ain’t gone lie 😂 after this video I went and tried to talk to people and tried to keep a good conversation going it work out pretty good
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About what you said 10:40, I had to like your video. No pain, no gain. This is the virtue for all humans--if you don't go down the tree of possibilities, then you cannot explore the nature of making conversation. It's just like evolution, if there were no organisms that were mutating (whether good or bad) then humans would never have existed.
Civilization didn't get to where it stands today by playing it safe.
Tesseract A True.
This is fuckin amazing
Truth!
We did not evolve or come from fish or Monkeys ! God created this World & everything in it & God made man from the dust of the Earth ! Read your King James Version Holy Bible starting in Genesis & read to Revelation ! U will find out who God is Cuz all Scripture was given by inspiration of God & they wrote as they were moved on by the Holy Ghost !
I've been watching your videos, and some of these concepts I knew but I was missing a few key things. Now, I've been putting this into practice everywhere I go, making conversations like it's a game, and it's ridiculous how many girls respond positively, giving signals for more. Everything you say is spot on! Keep up the good work, my friend!
Just be authentic, add value, be fun, and push & pull. And most importantly, be confident with high value in yourself.
Summed up, be physically attractive. Looks matter, face is everything.
1Mare1 that is an excuse foe ugly bums.
It's scientifically proven. You cannot be confident if the other person is psychologically preventing you from that. Look up HALO effect.
King Ja'voni nah man I did that and I failed.
you say it like it's easy. That stuff ain't easy. It is not that easy.
master the art of asking questions and you will master talking to girls.
just let the girl talk most of the time, listen to her and throw in some jokes/banter. That's all it takes 90% of the time. as he said in the video getting started is the hardest. worked for me, works for the guys I know and it will work for you!
personal development videos sub goal 230/300
kuk röv your welcome. feel free to. check out my channel :)
To an extent. I know a writer, really smart. Interviews everyone he meets. After a while it can be annoying. He asks questions, just for the sake of avoiding dead air, and it's obvious. He doesn't really seem to care about the replies, and sometimes even cuts the person off before allowing them to finish. He'll try to joke by implying certain stereotypes or placing the person into a category, which makes them rebel. He doesn't have much luck with women except the super self centered ones that just talk about themselves all day, and never want to hear about you. So learn to LISTEN as well.
But asking too many questioms annoys them too wont it?
Questions where they can waffle on about the only thing they care about "themselves" will not bore them.
@@Sigma3095 yep it will feel like an interview. But listening to her opinion and thoughts will make her like a man for sure.
Make her feel you are intrested in her personality, dreams and goals.
Acknowledge her personality and she will open up mentally to begin with.
I'm a woman and speaking for myself this will make me like a man. Plus teasing in a gentle way.
Flirting and serious stuff all together.
Hey, you know what? Thank you. In fact, I don't think I could thank you enough. I think you've just changed my life. Only God could possibly repay to you the debt I owe you for this short, free, RUclips video. Keep going! You're gonna change many lives out there for the better and inspire millions, or even billions of people! I just know it, as if I can see it with my own eyes! May God bless you mightily and use you. I don't care if you're a Christian or not. You've got something real special going for you. I'm sure I do too, but here you are, putting yourself out there, putting all your talents to good use, inspiring quiet people like me to believe that I can too, and can actually become a supremely valuable member of society and especially, in the life of my dream girl, whom I know in person and am working up my confidence to speak to on her 18 th birthday next year as we speak! Wish me luck, my friend! I'll need all the blessings I can get for this grand endeavour!
How did you do that, @FarFromAverage? I could only ever like or dislike a comment, not fancy things like love or whatever else!
Only the uploader can leave a love heart or pin a comment
Just go for it now, a year is a long time from now and anything can happen in that time, life's too short to not take chances, just don't make a move too early, that's a huge mistake
how did it go?
Update?
Confidence grows naturally the more that one does something. The first time I jumped off of a five meter diving board when I was in the second grade, I was scared because the water looked so far away. I had to gather the courage to finally jump off (which took a full 5 minutes of re-assuring myself everything would be alright), before I finally made the jump. But when I landed, something amazing happened. I realised that all of my fears had been made up in my head, and that the jump wasn't nearly as long as it looked from above. I climbed straight back up the latter to the board, and this time it only took me a few seconds to re-assure myself that all would be ok. I jumped, and none of my fears came true. The fear kept growning less and less the more I did it, and now I can run off of the five meter board without even thinking about it. I can imagine social situations are similar. Sorry for bad English.
Nah this one is undeniably your top 5 videos... and it ain’t 2-5 ! This is a video that answers so many questions about not only communication but life overall. If someone was struggling with social anxiety, depression, or feeling like at a stop, literally they just have to watch this video every single day
The video is not about talking to girls, it is more about talking to strangers without having sexual intentions
There are some core principles for talking to girls, which will make them crave you:
1.) Push/Pull: Make them feel insecure by insulting them a bit and mix it up with compliments
2.) Give them emotions: Add drama and passion. You can also give them negative emtions by telling inadequate things
3.) Always seem confident and risky: If the conversation sounds like a daily conversation you will seem boring and needy. Girls hate nediness and boredom, it must come off as if they are just another girl and not important. If it seems as if you said something wrong and she gets upset don't search for excuses it will come off as unmanly, just start a new topic quickly, she will forget it because she cannot think about two things at once
4.) Eye contact: they will shittest you by looking in your eyes for a long time, you have to hold the eye contact
It will not work so easily in the beginning I would start talking to girls and trying to apply the things. It will maybe come off as unnatural but if you automatize the core principles you will manage to internalise it. Don't be bothered by rejections, do not give up, keep going and you will have success quickly.
I talked to 20 girls in one evening 2 weeks ago and at the beginning it was hard. However I improved quickly and this weekend I had lots of success (6 kissed, 1 ONS)
he won't pin this but he should.
Good tips
Most people would give out politically correct answers like "be a gentleman" and shit. Girls will think you they want someone who's loving, caring, thoughtful and shit.
But none of that is true. What's this guy says is the absolute truth. I'm not nerdy or shy, I do most of the things the video talks about yet I'm single.
But my friends who do what the comment suggests, are very successful. So much so, most are two-timing and even the girls are ok with it.
Lmao! Nigga what?! Just called chief, he said this ain’t it
Thank you man this is what i need to know.
I use cheat codes; It's alcohol..
youngin oneverything LOL
As a Bill Cosby fan, I approve this comment string.
lol
Shame on you
So you take advantage of girls that are indulging in substances yea that's really good
Years ago I could sit and talk to a girl that without admitting it was there to find out my marital status. I was always locked in a corner and had no choice but to sit and chat. This could go on for an hour or longer and after a time of going through this got the hang of how to never end on the very topic she came to get. First and pretty much the answer was to talk about her. Second, before getting to the big question she would always go silent then look at you and ask, so where do you live? I’d answer and ask her the same. That never failed to derail her start the conversation going in another direction. Then, depending on her answer follow that up with another question and another and another and so on. Not fast, just a nice follow up question on or related to the last one. There’s no such thing as a women who doesn’t want to talk and talk and talk about herself or her family or where she lives or how big or small her home is etc. And when she realizes she better get back to work she’ll stand up, look at you and consider asking you that question she came to ask. When you see that look, tell her how great it must be to live where she does or drive such a great car or something that you covered. Ask about her Mom “LOL” or husband/boyfriend and quickly mention an old flame but keep talking. But stay away from the topic of her mate, husband near the end as she may use that as an opener. By mentioning an old girlfriend you throw the topic in a direction she will chat with her friends about and absolutely go off in another wrong direction with it. It’s amazing how long you can keep her occupied with nothing but chatting about her and her life. It wasn’t that I needed to lie about it, it was the fact you could tell what she came there for and it became a game to see how long I could delay the question. If I ever was asked I’d answer “You mean my significant other” That once again caused things to go in another direction and the game continues. Fun way to amuse yourself and an interesting way to observe human nature. Especially the female kind.
Me : Did you know why chillies are hot ?
She : Not interested .
Me : So what do you do for a living
She : Not Interested.
Me : So what are your passions
She : Not Interested.
Me : *throws a
100 dollar bill on her face*
She : Wow , you are soo funny !! , Wanna hang out ??
Why God , why ??
And they call us boys "Dogs" geez such Kitties...
CARVALIUS JoeR *pussies
she dont care bout you thts why
Those aren't the girls you want anyways... If you do decide to throw the $100 bill on her, before you walk off pick it back up. You will need it for the LADY you will meet in the future... Patience is a virtue and we are not always ready for what we ask for. Just make sure you are ready... Everything else will fall into place... Happy Life to You...
Ha
I am an introvert when it comes to talking to the girls. I am as scared as hell to start a conversation. Your video is a real motivation to improve in this area of my life.
Your theories go to the fundamental structure of the fear of speaking to girls. But some people ain't sacred they just don't know what to say.
@gbmpyzochwfdisurjklvanetxq With what does it then?Looks?Vibe?
A game I am going to start playing when I do cold approaches is to see if the girl crosses her legs or plays with her hair. Another thing to look for is, as you maintain eye contact, look for pupil dilation. if any/all or a combination of those happen, game on.
I dont know if you see this. But this channel actually elevated my love to stranger talks. I'm still kinda discomforted or speechless with some people (depending how the time went), but you really showed me how life can be put up.
Kinda a game, kinda serious (because choices REALLY MAKE THE ENDING THO) and based on companionship and creativity. Thank you for this.
Just make her laugh and keep the conversation light and fluffy and things should be smooth sailing.
No shit Sherlock.
Here comes shrek fan: HOW DO I MAKE HER LAUGH?!?!?
No fucking shit that’s why I’m here 🤦🏽♂️
@@filiptalimdzioski7281 😂 damn this is me right now....so hilarious
@@yawjay how do I make her laugh doe
What I lack in conversational skills, I make up in...
Ah fuck, I've got nothing.
Well, I make up by using The 5th Watches.
Great in 🛏bed,,, some guy are great looking, or got a nice job, new 🚗 car,,
The code to a girls heart is your credit card pin XD
If she's like that she definitely won't stay with you for long🤷♀
- verity Big facts
Innit
Naw being a fun person will
I’m a girl and I’m just gonna say that I just want a guy that will talk to me and not give up or get board because I usually give short answers now to questions since whenever I try to keep the conversation going by talking about something and asking them question, the guy or other person seems uninterested and reply’s quickly with short answers to my questions. Then the person just leaves and says something like bye gotta go.
Like they started the conversation but they couldn’t even listen to when I talk or keep it long.
Aaaaggghhhh
And this is directed to guys and girls.
Mix things up a little. Aks questions and give "short" answers, this way you indicate that you are interested, but do not talk too much.
Keep in mind 99% of the guys not interested in girl's own agenda at first. Mostly cares about how she looks and what does it takes to make them in the horisontal position by default. After that if everything is fine than he can become interested in everything else about you.
When a Girl asks a guy, So What Do You do?
Respond with, are you shaved
for some reason i always thought that by asking a girl too many question i would come of as a needy or nosy person
My crush is the conversation killer LMAO. I need to master making her talk a lot
leave her bro.she is not interested
if you lack social skills, simply eat some tiege hanley and you are good to go!
person development videos sub goal 230/300
Wrong channel lmao
Highlander loleksdee there is no such thing as a wrong channel for tiege hanley. it works everywhere.
And the 5th watches
Highlander loleksdee now we are talking!
Bro you got me straight dying 😂😂😂😂
"when you realise their are no mistakes in the universe you become sane." Alan watts.
I approach girls and usually the best mode of conversation is their work. Because nobody does something for money if they don't enjoy it. So that reservoir of passion is infinite.
Turning life into a game works at work as well. I started a job where the supervisor was rude and treated asking my co-workers how to better operate my machine as wasting their time and I should figure it out for myself. When I stopped worrying whether today would be my last day every day and treated my task not as a crisis, but as a game challenge I didn't stress over it and just did my best. It took awhile, but 7 years later I'm the best at my job and when we got a general manager that liked my approach my supervisor had to lighten up.
My main issue (aside from being introvert) is the not so great experiences I had in the past (school years) with girls, especially when I tried to ask out a girl and she just exploded with hatred in her voice, something that wasn't there the past 2 years I've known her (we were in the same class and since she was so far the only one that even talked to me like a normal person I thought I try my luck). I knew rejection was in the deck but the disgust caught me off guard and insult to injury she was into a friend of mine, something that had no prior sign of it. And everytime I think of dating her words keep echoing in my head "How dare I think anything could be between us."
Dude that sucks. Move on from that bitch. Work on yourself, and talk to chicks.
The best revenge is success. Become your absolute best self so that the next time she sees you (high school reunion maybe) she'll regret the day she rejected you.
Your current self is better, more experience and mature than your high school self so just keep on going man
Honestly, I watch these vids to improve myself to practice/perform the great work. Girls/Women aren't the prize. I must say, this is some great info. Keep it up, my brotha.
Manny people don't relise it but this information what you just said is pure gold!
Very true I have gotten a lot better at my conversation skills since I started working and have to interact with a lot of people but still have to force myself sometimes to want to continue an conversation.
Lift weights get big and become a bouncer at a strip club that'll help you out too
Thanks for the info, today I already had a few nice encounters with people, I clicked the video to see what I could learn from it and use it next time. New for me was the passion convo, I will use it on the girl I like, I am curious what here passion is.
100% Luck
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100% Speech
100% Intelligence
One of the best insight video
On How to build conversation and how it could change your life as you want ! Amazing
"Oh your truck is lifted, what kind of kit did you put on it?" Shows a semi truck
~DOT has entered the chaT~
0:31
LIES!
I cracked the code, then their friend locked the safe again! YOU DIDN'T WARN ME
BookTardis394 did she change the code? Cause if not just put it in again.
Remove them from their friend
Just dont do anything creepy or illegal trust me i am an experienced 13 year old
Friends always blocking their girlfriends it's nothing new. Probably mad because you are not trying to crack their code.
hit on her friend send her a message through mind, im not hungry wolf i wont eat her, she's safe with ......... do this u might get both of them
cuz that worked for me once
Keeping a conversation going isn't hard for me it's getting one started...
Wait that sounds weird, literally anything can be a conversation starter though
Just scored a big hit with the method that you're describing; just this morning this beautiful girl that I always wave to and say hello to asked me "how are you doing?" Instead of me saying fine or okay I said "great! How are you doing how was your weekend?" This turned into a 15-minute conversation with a really hot girl that I have a crush on. It also boosted my confidence
Find out the other person's passion, then ask follow up questions about it. Grocery stores: ask random people casual things at first, then move deeper.
Everything you want is owned by someone else. The key to success is mastering conversational skills.
How does one find out what the lady is passionate about?
Just ask her what she likes to do for fun. Or what she would be doing if money wasn't an issue.
Thanks. I have a hard time remembering those questions :-(
"Whats your zodiac sign?" that was one of my big openers . . . . guess that was a fail lol
Not if the person is into astrology. They will want to talk more about it.
Lmao
Dude beautiful videos, you've helped me so much I've been making relationships like no other... Huge thanks!
Losing insecurities is easy. Able to talk eloquently to anybody, is a rare ability.
Great 👍 video help me l lots super excellent
You guys are awesome! Thank you so much! :D I got the social part down but everything else was hard until you guys showed I can be confident and know what to do. You guys are a social lifesaver.
I've not learned anything new, but got confused.
New people may like it.
Thank-you
The Way Beta.
Same
Comparing selling yaself to people period,not jus females is the truth.Good stuff!!Blessup yaself!!!!
Hopefully by seeing this video, it will give me inspiration and the confidence that I need to break the ice so to speak. It's not easy for me to approach anyone, let alone females for that matter
yess, i love your videos,.....it feels like forever since you uploaded your
last one
glad you enjoy them, kittyhome!
Keeping the conversation and the guts is my weak, i am a solid 8,5, good posture can hold eye contact pretty easy. But...
After watching the video from FarfromAverage you have gained 100 exp in conversation skill. You have gained the quest of improving the conversation skill in your life.
You are dropping knowledge bombs of gold my friend.
A quick addition to your awesome list: Be present in the moment! When you talk to girls don't be distracted by your thoughts, your mobile phone, by other hot chicks - be 100% present in the conversation!
I actually noticed that when I talk to some girls, they just keep on talking and talking nonstop. To the point I don't know what they're talking about but they just tell me anyway.
Always working conversation topic
U are going to join the army.
Trust me. It works more often as u think (sure not 100%).
They often wanna know why u are going to join, what we wanna do, how we think our daily life is changing...
Sure works for every othe job, but the military is somehow special
Neo always was the One...he just needed to fully realize that and his True Power. Same for people.
This dude referenced runescape at 3:32 you aren't slick
Swagmoney Yolo lmfao gottiii
Swagmoney Yolo I looked for this comment.
it probably was
because the levels in runescape are shown as X/99 in your skills bar...
The problems is we go in interview mode.... It's not good right.
How to fix that...?
Arbind Sharma try to taking the pressure off her and put in on yourself she’ll like you more
I’m 13 and I have pretty much mastered my social skills my dad has basically taught me very thing in this video and more
Truly awesome video! I like the way you talked and explained it
“Imagine a girl is like a locked safe” so I should just break in without asking
I have No name raaaaape
Yep that's how it is
Yes, socially if you ask you will look like a creep. It has to happen smoothly and naturaly
Sure go for it
Yes u alright.. but what if girls around me are ugly,, they don't even excite me!?
how can i gain such experience ?
max. gend well if you are starting out its easier to start with the less attractive. start with them and you will improve with the better looking ones too!
Move to California.
max. gend you might be gay
Personal Power
I'll try that , thanks
Arcade Party
Lol, It's my dream , fuckin bitches everywhere there.
outstanding teaching here. All of it so true
1 thing that i notice during conversation starters with girl is, not so much what you ask her or say to her but HOW you say that to her. Always have some gentle smile on your face, they will react much softer to your questions-compliments.
The most important thing is money then comes confidence
Man in Motion Everyday facts
Wouldnt it be way more efficient for girls to always crack the guys safe? Its so much hssle the other way round.... :)
Love Far from Average, The guy talks Sense, Just Brilliant
I went up to my crush and started a conversation I then said a conversation killer, facepalmed and mumbled omg you are the worst with conversations #NailedIt
what's kinda funny in this video as that 2 girls this week texted me while they were seein some dude saying the dude keeps asking too many questions
No dude this is not fair I be nice I be good hell even go the distance and I still get nothing
Turn every thing into escape runes hahaha(i mean into game). This tip just fliped my whole life of improvement.....
WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN ALL MY LIFE??? These videos are awesome and very thought provoking! :D
This is bascailly telling us: If u are shy or introverted, u will LOSE in getting laid. So BEING YOURSELF is such a BS cliche.
not sure what you're talking about
kenterminatedbygoogle sorry dude, that's just how it is. I remember realizing the same thing a few years ago: "I'm supposed to be myself, but also not be super introverted. So how the fuck does that work?"
John Meda, no, it's just stupid that a guy has to be outgoing just for women to fall into him. It's like u have to be someone else for women to like u, it's BULLSHIT!!!
Koolaa, it is but that's why I pointed out that being yourself is such a bs cliche.
i was jus tthinking this shit over recently. notice how they say to be rea but then say to do be more interesting and outgoing basically saying how we are not isnt god enough
Do you think this girl likes me if she talk quite to me but always is trying to get close to me
Totall Insanity yeh she like you
I have king shocks, 3 inch lift, and total chaos uca's. So true, i can talk a while about off roading and lifted trucks.
Thanks dude, this video was soo useful and helpful. Totally appreciate your content.
I am good at killing conversation because I am introverted
Smashadow 250 same I start using answering a question with another question to keep the conversation going lol
i always freeze when a girl is talking to me lmao
Even if that girl is a teacher or boss?
I talked to an old man today who was sitting on the bench and we had a fun conversation for real
Really good video
So, do you have a girlfriend right now?
Im the 1000 like 😅
SREENATH BABU M no ur not
amz617 How fo you know anyway🤔
I'm 15000 like
I got it, when making a conversation with girls all you have to do is to build upon a simple question like what's up? Example: what's up? The girl say this nothing much ... you can say this, Really ! Nothing much but something must be going on? Even ask her a question about herself
Great channel you've built, lots of wisdom here! You've got a new subscriber; keep up the good work!!
I just want it to say Miranda is hot..
How to keep a conversation? Simple.
Stop Using "K" In a Conversation.
love All of your videos, keep up the amazing work, your topics and info are top notch!!
3:35“ when you out there in the trenches” hahaha that’s what every rapper say when they from the hood
Lol
3:10 No Game No Life
1 internet point to whoever gets that reference
😁
Best video! Thank u this was wonderful can use it to overcome any fear. Rly one of the best video I've seen to help anyone improve their life! Thank u again for sharing.
Very helpful video, thanks for this amazing vid!
So if a girl is not beautiful enough, she can't get any men? What is she then, a trash bin? It's so shallow to say that only with good looks you can get to a guy's heart...
Shut up, you make no sense
Grey Alien You know, you could've asked me what I mean instead of telling me to shut up.
You somehow interpreted beautiful girls being able to get any man with unattractive girls not being able to get any men. There's no possible way you can logically reach that conclusion nor think that others think they are trash bins. So again, you make no sense. Only good looks can 'win a guy's heart' in most cases. That's just reality. No one is saying you can't win them over with personality as well but that is less important evolutionarily so guys whining about personality being the main thing are deluding themselves of their biological wiring despite personality being important for healthy relationships.
No, that's not what I think, but that is what the guy from the video said. He said that it's harder for guys to get a girl, because their attitude matters to most women and that for girls it's easier, because they only need to be good looking. I consider that to be very shallow, because I know guys who were attracted to hot women, but when they tried to get to know them better, they proved to be not so nice. That made them look ugly in their eyes.
The fact that you said the guys were attracted to the hot women in the first place before knowing them just proves his point. They didn't see them as ugly because they weren't nice. How do you know they aren't rationalising rejection or the girl being uninterested in them or they don't subconsciously deserve the girl? If those same hot girls asked them out they'd say yes in a heartbeat in hope that it will work out anyway. They just haven't had that opportunity. We're all shallow. No need to act morally superior and shun others for being more shallow than you are and choosing to follow their biological wiring to being visually attracted to girls so they can produce successful offspring
its depressing that its literally a game you have to go into with a strategy and “cracking the code” to make a girl like you. its just ridiculous. it shouldnt be that hard
Improve your body language and start looking for signals girls make to you. after a short time you will know which girl is interested in you by default. You will have easier time to learn things with girls who likes your moves in the first place.
Good advice for everyone.
I liked this video. I dig(lol) the fear acting as a root analogy. I'll watch this video again and again and begin to apply the concepts
Me: so uhh... What's your password?
Her: what?