Where is Sex Before Marriage CLEARLY a sin in the Bible?

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  • Is sex before marriage really a sin? I mean, I know it probably isn't the best thing to do, but where exactly does the Bible say that sex before marriage is a "sin?" In this video I share a clear biblical theology of sex before marriage.
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Комментарии • 4,1 тыс.

  • @fastfastfire3858
    @fastfastfire3858 4 года назад +3992

    If the bible calls it a sin, your opinion doesn't matter.

    • @mariahwisel1381
      @mariahwisel1381 4 года назад +111

      fast fast fire facts

    • @whitneyallman8365
      @whitneyallman8365 4 года назад +54

      Amen 🙏

    • @rock123456777
      @rock123456777 4 года назад +27

      💯

    • @andreidibre2289
      @andreidibre2289 4 года назад +17

      @ruff diamond yes, someone who understands it

    • @sidepot
      @sidepot 4 года назад +33

      fast fast fire
      A woman could be stoned to death for not being a virgin? No requirement of the husband to be a virgin? If he falsely accuses her then he just pays a fine? Killed at her parents’ house? Fuck you and your bible.

  • @alexisf22
    @alexisf22 4 года назад +1377

    I completely agree. God has set these laws in place to protect us from disease, heartbreak, and giving our bodies away to unworthy people.

    • @whitneyallman8365
      @whitneyallman8365 4 года назад +16

      Amen

    • @mica913
      @mica913 4 года назад +31

      Totally agree it's for our protection

    • @marysikulu
      @marysikulu 4 года назад +53

      All of which can happen in marriage as well.

    • @solascripturaPR1517
      @solascripturaPR1517 4 года назад +25

      You are correct,
      @@marysikulu ;
      which is why "sexual immorality" and "keep your bed undefiled" is highly important.... "for your sanctification".

    • @abigailmarughu3403
      @abigailmarughu3403 4 года назад +1

      What if you know they're not unworthy? Idk does that still count or something

  • @princenkansah5966
    @princenkansah5966 4 года назад +1947

    All my Virgin brothers and sisters, like to represent 🙋🏾‍♂️

  • @bosszonke7390
    @bosszonke7390 4 года назад +202

    When I stopped practising sexual immorality, my life changed . I began to understand God's words and power

    • @idiotslife8508
      @idiotslife8508 3 года назад

      m.ruclips.net/video/8gfvuzGsfEI/видео.html

    • @Narcos-wb4yq
      @Narcos-wb4yq Год назад +5

      Easy for you you're a woman its
      Hard and I feel so ashamed I want stop having sex with random women but its hard I wish never started when I want sex its like can't escape the feeling but after I feel disgusted by my own reflection. Pray for me please am begging pray for my soul

    • @tajumarymagdalene3350
      @tajumarymagdalene3350 Год назад

      Very trur

    • @sweepthedust6936
      @sweepthedust6936 Год назад

      @@Narcos-wb4yq poor you

    • @Vee64917
      @Vee64917 Месяц назад +1

      @@Narcos-wb4yq 1 year later, how are you holding up brother?
      I hope God helped you change your ways, if you ever get to see this even after 5 years, please tell us how you are. It might not be me reading it but someone else, for I do not know tomorrow myself

  • @KiwiRainberry
    @KiwiRainberry 4 года назад +2110

    I take Jesus Christ’s Word seriously. My boyfriend and I repented for our sins and stopped practicing sexual immorality and we’re waiting till marriage

    • @Makai77
      @Makai77 4 года назад +31

      So you're not living together either, correct?

    • @xcross8537
      @xcross8537 4 года назад +57

      You had it already 🤔 😆

    • @patrickm1092
      @patrickm1092 4 года назад +312

      Christopher Kebenei you sound very judgemental, they are doing a great thing 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 God be with you

    • @mariog1490
      @mariog1490 4 года назад +17

      R u telling me none of u if ur adults have never gotten drunk.

    • @mariog1490
      @mariog1490 4 года назад +28

      R u telling me you’ve never been angry or jealous either?

  • @kody9543
    @kody9543 4 года назад +1072

    Pray for the people who came here hoping for you to say it’s okay

    • @c30ful
      @c30ful 4 года назад +7

      Kody InmyCup exactly! Lbvs

    • @repent4christ541
      @repent4christ541 4 года назад +4

      this guy thinks its okay

    • @poldariser8686
      @poldariser8686 4 года назад +48

      I truly dont think anyone would come here thinking it's okay. If so, that's really sad, especially for a Christian.

    • @repent4christ541
      @repent4christ541 4 года назад +7

      @@poldariser8686 amen

    • @seekinghimdaily92
      @seekinghimdaily92 4 года назад +13

      SMH, we know they are out there - empty hearted and lost 😔 💐

  • @johannareese2318
    @johannareese2318 3 года назад +109

    I struggled with this topic. I dated a Christian guy for like 10 years. We were young, the wait seemed very long compared to biblical times. We were so sure we were going to get married. We were finishing school and preparing to be financially secured etc. I at times didn't see the point of waiting if we were so sure. It ended up not working out. Now I can't tell you how grateful I am that I waited until I met my now husband at 29. To say he's been the only one. God is simply trying to protect us.

    • @kbanghart
      @kbanghart 2 года назад +2

      I had sex before marriage, and then I married someone else and we have been together for almost 30 years. It's been wonderful.

    • @simply_sophia
      @simply_sophia 2 года назад

      @@kbanghart did you wait to have sex until marriage? With the person you ended up marrying I mean

    • @kbanghart
      @kbanghart 2 года назад

      @@simply_sophia no. Wanted to, but didn't work out.

    • @simply_sophia
      @simply_sophia 2 года назад

      @@kbanghart thanks for sharing, it’s a struggle

  • @htownguy7240
    @htownguy7240 3 года назад +67

    I’m not a virgin but I’ve recently decided to not have sex with another woman until I find a wife that I spend the rest of my life with. Great video and I appreciate you making all these for us!

  • @DavidWesley
    @DavidWesley 4 года назад +1720

    Everyone is looking for a way to rationalize sin rather than seeking to live like Christ... Great job as always.

    • @devfern2270
      @devfern2270 4 года назад +9

      Fyi
      The hidden danger from a biological perspective & religious.
      Bioligical / Science Perspective:
      Do read the Book "The Health in your Hands" by Dr. Devendra Vora. Just excerpts listed below:
      "1)For Prevention of Hereditary Diseases: if the semen is preserved by the husband till marriage etc.. & protection of the body for a lifetime...
      2) 40 kgs of food=1litre of blood=few drops of semen in 49days, in a series of 7 steps of 1) Liquid 2) Blood 3) Fat 4) Muscles 5) Bones 6) Bone marrow 7) Semen. ....After sperms are created, it takes another 2.5 months to get them redoubled. Due to excessive abuse of sex, the semen goes down.....& a reverse process of damage/ slow down happens right back to the 2nd step of Blood. I.e. leading to insufficient red cells and antibodies,= body is weakened =overworked endocrine glands= disease.
      So do be aware of what masturbation can do to you.
      2.Religious Perspective:
      A Lesser known truth religious preachers never cover, Dangers of a blood Covenant by Dr. Myles Monroe.
      ruclips.net/video/FHvpJ3xHqhQ/видео.html
      Additional read:
      Train your mind by hearing religious videos that help overcome sexual sin (outside of marriage), and understand in which context sex is not a sin. One video
      ruclips.net/video/TAHiPA1fpK4/видео.html
      For those who have fallen due to wrong judgement, your past is your past, but your future and your present you can change. Do not condemn yourself anymore, but be wise, smart in future. For the devil thru thoughts and people comes to steal, kill and destroy your happiness. God loves a repentant sinner & forgiveness is His way of showing love. Do say Repentance prayers . Prayers have a way of making one stronger, feel good and delivered. A new clean slate
      Prevention:
      Do pray this prayer to ask for Intercession along with yours. Say this once and see the difference for at least 1 month. Take the assistance of "Big People" who knew how to keep themselves pure and strong- the Blessed VIRGIN Mary.
      The Prayer to our Lady of Perpetual Succour” for her help. It covers bad books, companions, films. Google for the above prayer, Ive attached the link
      Till point No. 8 is good enough to read: ourladyofperpetualhelp.blogspot.com/2007/05/perpetual-novena-of-our-lady-of.html.
      The above comes with my prayer for anyone of youll, seeking assistance to move speedily up the path of healing and growth. All the best.
      All the best

    • @bsaw00
      @bsaw00 3 года назад

      Amen brother

    • @ronjustaguy3999
      @ronjustaguy3999 3 года назад +2

      This guy Parr is a joke but not a funny one.

    • @mizmera
      @mizmera 3 года назад

      Exactly. Problem with that... Try and rationilize before God....

    • @wisdomproverb9196
      @wisdomproverb9196 3 года назад +1

      💯✔

  • @abn3r507
    @abn3r507 4 года назад +2338

    This ain't no coincidence, last night I almost got into sexual relations but deep down I knew it was wrong and so I didn't do it, and this morning I randomly decided to go onto youtube and this video was the first on my feed.....Woah..God truly is looking out for me🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @seekinghimdaily92
      @seekinghimdaily92 4 года назад +82

      FLEE, FLEE! 🏃

    • @hannahg159
      @hannahg159 4 года назад +49

      Amen! Good for you. Praise God. 🕊

    • @ramblingrob14
      @ramblingrob14 4 года назад +17

      Abner Translater I think it was God to

    • @KeithBlade
      @KeithBlade 4 года назад +70

      Yes. And once you have this realization and stick with it, it gets easier. God rewards faithfulness, stick with it and trust in God and see how He will fulfill His promises to you.

    • @pessimistprime6318
      @pessimistprime6318 4 года назад +22

      Good on you! Stay with God, and keep making wise decisions!

  • @nolanskinner2342
    @nolanskinner2342 4 года назад +45

    It’s so hard rn to not be tempted or feel tempted. I’m 16 trying to fight these urges. Ima pray and it would be my pleasure to invite you into prayer.

    • @chadlandsbugz4759
      @chadlandsbugz4759 4 года назад +2

      Same here, bless u 🙏🏻

    • @nolanskinner2342
      @nolanskinner2342 4 года назад +4

      Jesus loves you

    • @chadlandsbugz4759
      @chadlandsbugz4759 4 года назад +1

      Nolan Skinner He loves you too brother

    • @nathanstafford8412
      @nathanstafford8412 2 месяца назад

      Being tempted isn't at all a sin. Giving in to those temptations is what is sinful. It's a really good thing if you can be tempted but fight those urges.

  • @charlespennie3621
    @charlespennie3621 4 года назад +29

    Fornication leads to: STDs, abortion(murder), emotional issues, violence, teen pregnancy which ruins lives, comprised relationships, fatherless children, and of course, HELL

    • @uhitsethan
      @uhitsethan 3 года назад +2

      So if those are the reasons, that means that the sex isn't the sin, it means that all those results are the sin. You can have one without the other, its just hard. You have to commit. You don't go to hell for having sex before marriage.

    • @nadinecastello8425
      @nadinecastello8425 4 месяца назад

      You can marry and still get stds and all these things so what does marriage prevent

    • @charlespennie3621
      @charlespennie3621 4 месяца назад

      @@nadinecastello8425 the Apostle Paul said it is better to marry than to burn

    • @charlespennie3621
      @charlespennie3621 4 месяца назад

      @@nadinecastello8425 also, I have personally seen how fornication has caused friends and loved ones serious consequences

    • @Dominic7449
      @Dominic7449 3 месяца назад

      Were STDs a thing during the writing of the Bible?

  • @divinelyblessedkb
    @divinelyblessedkb 4 года назад +1262

    People are trying to find a way to justify their wrongs.🤦 You better PREACH!!! 🙌✨

    • @thebeatagp
      @thebeatagp  4 года назад +66

      Amen to that Queen Kee B! I agree. Thanks for sharing that. God bless!

    • @okwuchukwuarinze5285
      @okwuchukwuarinze5285 4 года назад +1

      Queen Kee B John 12:47_48

    • @kierstencreates958
      @kierstencreates958 4 года назад +25

      I'm sure for some. But I'm also sure some people would genuinely just like to know. Not everyone has been raised in Church, & obviously not everyone is a Christian. I don't think it's fair to assume everyone's motives to be shameful. Either way I feel our job as believers is to speak the truth about sin in love and point people to Christ. Not to put down or look down on anyone. Sexual immorality IS sin. But I feel to share the truth with others in condemnation of them is useless. Jesus picked up the prostitute & said "sin no more," but he didn't join the crowd or cast the stones. I'm not meaning to be mean or argumentative. I just feel alot of people are super turned off because of how they are sometimes treated when they have questions or look for answers. How can we help people if we can't even get passed judging their questions

    • @divinelyblessedkb
      @divinelyblessedkb 4 года назад +19

      @@kierstencreates958
      I truly apologise , if you felt that my comment was insensitive or judging.... it wasn't. It was a quick and short, to the point comment about THOSE that DO NOT and don't INTEND to try to put an effort in living right but instead they put MORE effort in JUSTIFYING their wrongs, instead of working on being RIGHT. That's it. I'm not going to get any deeper.
      Again I genuinely apologise, because I never want to give off that impression.
      Blessings to you and keep trusting in HIM! 🙋🙌✝️♥️

    • @kierstencreates958
      @kierstencreates958 4 года назад +10

      @@divinelyblessedkb awe thank you for clarifying. I'm also sorry if I misunderstood your intention. You are right that sadly there are people out there who are abusing God's grace as well. We will have to stand in prayer together for them. Much love.♡

  • @BTCministries7
    @BTCministries7 4 года назад +595

    Flee from fornication, there is no way around this ... no justification for sin.. dont learn the hard way ..

    • @IAMTAJJAE
      @IAMTAJJAE 4 года назад +8

      What's the hard way??

    • @seekinghimdaily92
      @seekinghimdaily92 4 года назад +28

      Black Screen: The consequences of sin - spiritual bondage and destruction (in many forms) in this life and eternal separation from the Lord in the latter 💯

    • @love_reka_777
      @love_reka_777 4 года назад +26

      Soul ties.

    • @KeianaMonique
      @KeianaMonique 4 года назад +20

      Torment ! I’m only speaking from experience. Never again ✌🏾🙏🏾

    • @kenturo_
      @kenturo_ 4 года назад +4

      @@KeianaMonique amen

  • @TheOfficialB-3
    @TheOfficialB-3 3 года назад +1

    I appreciate your direct, clear, non biased content...perfect teacher for a believer and non believer alike....don’t stop making content!!!

  • @jolvera97
    @jolvera97 4 года назад +1

    Just got introduce to this site. Had to subscribe. Love how he backs up what he's saying with scripture and backs up that scripture with another scripture. Keep it real my brother 👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽

  • @brandih1195
    @brandih1195 4 года назад +655

    i just recently dedicated myself to waiting until marriage. i was already celibate for a while, but the Holy Spirit has been really changing me. now i want to only do what God wants. thanks for this video because this just solidifies my decision. 🙏🏼😊

    • @junkbondtrader645
      @junkbondtrader645 4 года назад +22

      wow its uplifting to know a young woman like you who's a true believer of christ..keep it up.. our God is a holy God

    • @ginarodermund2274
      @ginarodermund2274 4 года назад +15

      Praise the lord (ephesiens 1:19+20)

    • @jamesrobinson2017
      @jamesrobinson2017 4 года назад +12

      Amen. Same here. Stay strong

    • @alisonsmith77
      @alisonsmith77 4 года назад +15

      Congrats sister girl! I’ve made that decision too. Let’s stay strong together!

    • @seekinghimdaily92
      @seekinghimdaily92 4 года назад +22

      Wow, that happened to me as well years back. I stopped having intercourse back in 2011, then in January 2014 I gave my life to the Lord and understood I needed to now FLEE FORNICATION, masturbation and porn - no longer just “stopped having sex”. 😊 😇

  • @bellairehigh45
    @bellairehigh45 4 года назад +918

    I am a 29 year old virgin... I decided back in high school that I was gonna wait until I am married to my husband to have sex... And this was one of the best decisions I have ever made in my life... I am at peace because I never had to deal with the consequences of fornication (abortions, STDS, heartbreak, etc) and I am very clear minded... The Holy Bible is our life manual... There is a reason why it says to flee fornication and that the body is not for fornication.... But most people want to do what they want to do (which is the way of satan's kingdom) and not what God said to do (obedience is better than sacrifice in God's kingdom)...

    • @bellairehigh45
      @bellairehigh45 4 года назад +31

      @@wicket_gate Yes I was fortunate enough to grow up in a two parent Christian household with my mom and dad who taught my siblings and I that sex was for marriage... So this upbringing combined with me observing the consequences of fornication in high school (girls would be crying their eyes out because they would have sex with their boyfriend and the guy would break up with them afterwards..... I saw this time after time and it reminded me of the fact that sex is for marriage and not for dating/courting).... I manage living a holy pure life by walking and operating in the spirit (Holy Spirit) and not by the flesh.... I do not "try" to be holy, I am holy...Holiness is my nature because when you are in Christ, you truly become new and old things pass away....Pastor Stephen Darby and Pastor Gary Price of Omega ministries have sermons on sexual immorality that I believe every believer in Christ should listen to...

    • @denicaq
      @denicaq 4 года назад +22

      Thats a blessing i wish i had of done that i grew up without my biological father and with a teen mom I suffered a lot of abuse with a clear knowing that my mom did not want me. My grandmother taught me about god but not enough and I didn’t do my due diligence to read the bible and understand so because of always longing for a loving family without turning to god and asking for one and having a relationship with god first , now fast forward i am a single mother of 5 kids god has had so much mercy on me and without any family god has proven he still loves me anyway and he provides for my children. I now have been reading the bible calling on god and i now understand that there are reasons he doesn’t want is to live certain ways because the consequences are the pain & suffering i am now in. But i know gods grace will one day grant me a loving husband that puts god first.

    • @blaise_5011
      @blaise_5011 4 года назад +3

      mach mason praise God

    • @seanbrunson6509
      @seanbrunson6509 4 года назад +2

      Truth!

    • @divinelyblessedkb
      @divinelyblessedkb 4 года назад +2

      Amen!!!

  • @ryankelly5308
    @ryankelly5308 3 года назад +6

    I have watched probably 20 of your videos, and you are spot on with your Biblical interpretation and teaching. I appreciate you brother! Great job as always.

  • @RILLAMAN84
    @RILLAMAN84 3 года назад +119

    I’ve tried to wait until marriage😔. I was 20 when I fail. Thinking that my ex was going to possibly be my wife. I was wrong. If I would have waited just a little bit longer, my wife would have been my first. She was 19, and I was 20. We have the same similar story. We’re 36 years old now. 16 years together, and 10 years of marriage, with two blessings from God. We unfortunately had our daughter before marriage, oops🤷🏽‍♂️. Bottom line is, it’s very, very doable to wait. My wife is my second partner. And I’m praying that she will be my last. If God is in your relationship, you can do it.

    • @lavanniek
      @lavanniek 3 года назад +13

      This is a false interpretation of the scriptures.
      According to biblical times people where virgins until marriage. Marriage was not a ceremony but sexual intercourse.
      The woman at the well was told she had many husbands because she had sexual intercourse with many men.
      Biblical marriage has nothing to do with a ceremony and filling in paperwork.
      People falsely interpret it this way because they are more concerned with ceremonial and legal aspect of today’s society.
      Yet no where in the bible does it define marriage as a legal union but a spiritual union.
      Context matters...
      If you love your bible you will learn it’s history.

    • @hahahahahahahahahahahahaha524
      @hahahahahahahahahahahahaha524 3 года назад +1

      @@lavanniek hey man could you possibly break this down a little bit more ?

    • @davidheart02
      @davidheart02 3 года назад +1

      @@lavanniek does this marriage equals the sex include oral or no? Or is that mainly to do with interpretation? IE whether the person assumes its sex or not

    • @scarlettstott7570
      @scarlettstott7570 3 года назад +4

      @@hahahahahahahahahahahahaha524 basically, having sex is an act of marriage before God rather than the piece of paper that says you are officially married

    • @ashleydison7465
      @ashleydison7465 3 года назад +5

      she IS your last. she is your WIFE.

  • @lastminute3767
    @lastminute3767 4 года назад +313

    As the actor Errol Flynn once said, " Sex is the activity that takes the least amount time and causes the most trouble."

    • @candyluna2929
      @candyluna2929 4 года назад +4

      So true

    • @michaelalbertson7457
      @michaelalbertson7457 4 года назад +12

      @Thomas Garrett Sex is not love. Yes, it makes one feel good, and can be mistaken for love, because of the feelings. But how does one treat the other after? Anyone who has love in their heart knows that love is much better than lust, and actually leads to better sex with the one they love. It's for marriage only, in God's sight. You should be able to see that in life. Oh, sure, most marriages are not what they should be, but that's because people go by feelings, rather than love, because, many times they don't have love in their heart. All I can say is thank God that He can forgive us , when we sincerely ask Him to forgive us.

    • @warriorandchildofgod2425
      @warriorandchildofgod2425 4 года назад +1

      Facts

    • @piesho
      @piesho 4 года назад +1

      If the man was a premature ejaculator I'm not gonna make fun of him, but condoms where available back in his time. That's totally on him.

    • @SavedRickAstley
      @SavedRickAstley 4 года назад +2

      SPREADING TRUTH SPREADING TRUTH God created the universe with the big bang it‘s like a sandbox. Over the billions of years he shaped galaxies and solar systems in ways that can sustain life to „recruit“ his new children. God is an artist trying to pass time (he doesn‘t live in a world where time exists) and to give satisfaction and freedom to beings he created. You should be ashamed of mocking the creator of our universe just because you don‘t understand him. Inform yourself on this topic and use your damn brain to piece the bible together. Because it is written so everyone in every time period can understand. If you do not change your views you will learn to regret everything what you just wrote in a few years because his return to earth is closer than ever. I‘m not trying to recruit you as a Christian I‘m trying to talk your ignorance out of you...

  • @thejconstantine3081
    @thejconstantine3081 4 года назад +339

    Our question should not be "is sex before marriage a sin". It should be "what is biblical marriage, and am I meeting the standards of it."

    • @nocapdanzvlogs3678
      @nocapdanzvlogs3678 4 года назад +5

      That'sOne Hick Chief I agree but you have to learn from the ground up majority of the times

    • @Aur985
      @Aur985 4 года назад

      That'sOne Hick Chief and what is?

    • @FTKsince1999
      @FTKsince1999 4 года назад +1

      Great point! And then we we can have a conversation...

    • @FTKsince1999
      @FTKsince1999 4 года назад +4

      @@nocapdanzvlogs3678 Knowing the biblical definition surely is starting from the ground up🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @FTKsince1999
      @FTKsince1999 4 года назад

      @Outsider 14 Bible is life! Amen. But the mind of man is death! Out of interest where do we find that a marriage is only real in 'a church'?

  • @Thehumansmilyface
    @Thehumansmilyface 3 года назад +2

    Wow am I glad that I found your channel ,the way that you break this down and talk about what’s actually going on in today’s day is truly amazing! Thank you for doing what you do I don’t even have the words to describe how thankful I am for you ❤️

  • @apocalypticlove
    @apocalypticlove 3 года назад +20

    My fiancé and I have previously been married before and we both have children. The idea of not having sex before marriage when you already have can be difficult if you’re not doing it for the right reasons. Bringing God into the center of it and praising him through your success is what it’s all about. Blessing your marriage that is to come. We’ve struggled with this, especially with my fiancé being new to the Christian faith. However our premarital class through church and fellowship with our other class mates has helped him out a lot. Having that connection with others during difficult times can make all the differences to help keep you accountable. It is not your mates job. Plenty of devotionals out there too :)

  • @jamesrobinson2017
    @jamesrobinson2017 4 года назад +663

    This is a core Christian principle. It just shows how the current church skirts around this subject. Great job on this Pastor

    • @MikeBNumba6
      @MikeBNumba6 4 года назад +11

      It's exactly why I stopped going to church and ignoring Christianity.
      Everyone had sex before marriage. Everyone had multiple partners before marriage.
      No one in the church followed the Bible so I just said fuck it

    • @geraldobalan3916
      @geraldobalan3916 4 года назад +39

      @@MikeBNumba6 .....you should go to church for jesus....dont let other people deeds keep you away from jesus

    • @MikeBNumba6
      @MikeBNumba6 4 года назад +8

      @@geraldobalan3916 why? People who are teaching and preaching to me in the church are not following their own message. It's pointless

    • @hils1015
      @hils1015 4 года назад +17

      @@MikeBNumba6 Ask God to lead you by his Holy Spirit to a church that his spirit is in. Also, I understand your displeasure and disappointment with what you experienced, but please don't join the world in the curse words they use. You are definitely better than that.

    • @TheBrokenBeardsman
      @TheBrokenBeardsman 4 года назад +15

      MikeBNumba6 So you left because of the sins of others? That logic is not sound, brother. If the pastor of your church is in sin, call him out and find another church. Don’t let the sins of others separate you from the sinless One who died for you on the cross.

  • @ironmike252__
    @ironmike252__ 4 года назад +151

    Here is the thing about sex. There is no deeper, intimate way to know someone than having sex with them. The connection you feel. The emotions. Passion and all... I say this as someone who wants to have sex prior to marraige... DON'T. Protect your peace and soul. Save that passion for the BIG DAY and the man or lady God gives you.

    • @muhammadzainulabideen3705
      @muhammadzainulabideen3705 3 года назад +4

      THAT'S WHAT IM SAYING SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS WRONG IN MANY WAYS IM A MUSLIM BUT TILL WHERE I KNOW ABOUT BIBLE ITS CLEARLY WRITTEN IN HIDDEN WORDS THAT SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS WRONG EVEN ABOUT ALCOHOL IS WRITTEN

    • @muhammadzainulabideen3705
      @muhammadzainulabideen3705 3 года назад +1

      @@user-ex7bt8uo9u HATING JESUS WILL LEAD U TO HELL THATS RIGHT BUT JUST BY SAYING THAT JESUS LOVES U, U CANT DO EVERYTHING WRONG BIBLE IS FROM GOD AND GOD IS GREATER THAN JESUS. AS PER YOUR BELIEVE JESUS IS THE GOD'S SON BUT GOD IS THE GREATER ONE

    • @sidepot
      @sidepot 3 года назад +2

      I hope god gives your a very nice man.

    • @candace6893
      @candace6893 2 года назад

      @@ashley_brown6106 why?

    • @idkyolox
      @idkyolox 2 года назад +1

      @@muhammadzainulabideen3705 Jesús is God the trinity God Jesus holy spirit

  • @kevinarmes9804
    @kevinarmes9804 3 года назад +1

    This is amazing, what a blessing. Keep tackling topics!

  • @africanempress7174
    @africanempress7174 3 года назад +20

    I really needed this. Sometimes people make you feel as if you are childlike for having this belief

    • @2ndPigeon
      @2ndPigeon 2 года назад +2

      Well it is just superstition. As if marriage has any impact on sex.

    • @user-np1yv2zn9h
      @user-np1yv2zn9h 2 года назад

      Thank you !

    • @t0dd000
      @t0dd000 10 месяцев назад +1

      The Bible does not prohibit premarital sex. It just doesn't. Goodness, folks.

    • @user-jy6yj1uy1v
      @user-jy6yj1uy1v 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@t0dd000yeah as I read more I’m seeing it doesn’t say anything about not having sex before marriage. It mentions homosexuality, orgies, and incest but not sex before marriage. Also doesn’t mention walking down the isle to get married

  • @theronwright1413
    @theronwright1413 4 года назад +513

    Fornication ruin lives.

  • @JavaBott
    @JavaBott 4 года назад +275

    Not gonna lie, but a few days ago I was very sad because I was thinking about how I was a virgin at 24. I stopped being sad about it when God revealed to me that a fornicator cannot be close to God. My greatest desire is to be close to God, therefore I'm going to wait and continue to pray for a wife. Thanks for this video, it was great insight.

    • @yvngcxt5071
      @yvngcxt5071 4 года назад +7

      i had a situation where i slept with someone and i started to condemn myself and said god i committed fornication and God said really... go look the word up.....in the Hebrew and that's when i found that fornication is IDOL worship and has to do with prostitution. i was shocked. don,t take my word for it look it up. Also sexual immorality is talked about in a whole chapter in Leviticus which is not spoken about in this video. Read it and you will see what sexual immorality. If you have sex with your mother or sister or fathers wife or your cat and dog then you have committed sexual immorality.

    • @JavaBott
      @JavaBott 4 года назад +27

      @@yvngcxt5071 It's true that all those things you said are sexual immorality, but actually all sexual acts outside of marriage are sexual immorality. Nobody can enter Heaven if they have premarital sex with their girlfriend or boyfriend. Nobody who hooks up with people will enter Heaven. Anyone who is not sexual pure will not enter Heaven... fortunately the blood of Jesus has removed all of our sins and can make us sexually pure once again. All we have to do is reach out to Him and He makes us virgins once again.

    • @filippaoronto3880
      @filippaoronto3880 4 года назад +19

      My brother I was very sad thinking how could all my friends have had so much sex in their lives ,yet I had only had sex three times. I though I had missed big time in my life and got depressed. Fact is people in our era are misled . And it only the beginning . Have had no sex for 5 years now . I will pray for you to get a beautiful and smart wife and you pray for the same to happen to me . Stay strong!

    • @JavaBott
      @JavaBott 4 года назад +5

      Filippao Ronto Thanks brother I appreciate it! I pray you get a beautiful smart wife as well. God bless!

    • @jerinjacobabraham9820
      @jerinjacobabraham9820 3 года назад +3

      Wow it's inspiring

  • @alanafernandez1082
    @alanafernandez1082 4 года назад +6

    This is a really great video. Love this. I also want to highlight what you said about trying to negotiate with God because you are struggling with sexual desires and find a loop hole around God’s will! When you start doing this it generally means you’re trying to fight your conviction.

  • @thatlawyercancook8095
    @thatlawyercancook8095 4 года назад +6

    My husband I and wanted to get married but were living together. Idk what we were waiting on. Anyways, we are now married and I feel so relieved. ONE LESS SIN I AM DEALING WITH. Thank you Lord for convicting me!

  • @ClarifyingChrist
    @ClarifyingChrist 4 года назад +81

    On a side note...sort of:
    Think of how quickly the world could rid itself of STDs and teenage pregnancy (at least get close) by not having sex outside of marriage.

    • @spot9044
      @spot9044 3 года назад +10

      and even teenage abortions

  • @Rampaigee
    @Rampaigee 4 года назад +127

    Amen. I justified this sin for a long time until I repented and was saved. Then, I couldn't deny the conviction. God is merciful and forgives us but we need to walk in repentance. If u are feeling convicted for sexual sin it is a good thing. God loves u so much He didnt let your heart grow hard. Trust Him.

    • @kyriekayhalford3501
      @kyriekayhalford3501 3 года назад +1

      He loves me so much he would have me stoned to death for sleeping with the man I love and father of my daughter ?? Hmm ... would you do this to your child ? Like ever ???

    • @elliefisher8480
      @elliefisher8480 3 года назад +1

      This is what I needed to hear. Thank you so much. By this comment made me very emotional because it is so true.

    • @sidepot
      @sidepot 3 года назад

      @@kyriekayhalford3501
      It’s a complete crock of shit. These morons are delusional.

    • @sidepot
      @sidepot 3 года назад

      I don’t feel convicted because sex is not a sin.

    • @KuduChomper
      @KuduChomper 2 года назад

      It doesn’t work like that u are going to hell

  • @menaceanarious6202
    @menaceanarious6202 4 года назад +3

    I sinned yesterday and kinda felt dead about it and I woke up and RUclips recommended me this so yeah this been happening lately really need to get better and on the right check

    • @alexj4j
      @alexj4j 3 года назад

      You got this 👍🏾 I’m right along with you

  • @TheeOfficalMeenaM
    @TheeOfficalMeenaM 3 года назад +18

    WAIT ON GOD CAUSE HE ALWAYS HAS THE BEST TIMING FOR YOU !! 💯

  • @adoptada12
    @adoptada12 4 года назад +157

    Praise be to God! He is Sovereign and Holy. 👑

    • @AL-ri6bk
      @AL-ri6bk 4 года назад +1

      Yaaaah, lets keep the faith? 🙃 perseverances 🙂 💛
      Ur beautiful btw

    • @constanceofori5817
      @constanceofori5817 3 года назад

      I'm friends with a pastor who wants to marry me but he's insisting on sleeping with me because he sees nothing to it. But deep within me, I know it's very wrong to allow . Thank you for this video. God bless you

    • @lavanniek
      @lavanniek 3 года назад

      @@constanceofori5817
      This is a false interpretation of the scriptures.
      According to biblical times people where virgins until marriage. Marriage was not a ceremony but sexual intercourse.
      The woman at the well was told she had many husbands because she had sexual intercourse with many men.
      Biblical marriage has nothing to do with a ceremony and filling in paperwork.
      People falsely interpret it this way because they are more concerned with ceremonial and legal aspect of today’s society.
      Yet no where in the bible does it define marriage as a legal union but a spiritual union.
      Context matters...
      If you love your bible you will learn it’s history.

  • @QG_TheRemnant
    @QG_TheRemnant 4 года назад +60

    That friends with benefits is the main reason why women are having baby mama drama.
    I’m 26 waiting until marriage 4 years celibate and the wait is so worth it. The endurance may be the hardest as a man but the result is so good.

    • @GojoSan21
      @GojoSan21 4 года назад +3

      The Living Testimony Channel Keep it up :) I’m moving on my second year it’s hard truly but I must remember my body isn’t my own and I must deny myself daily.. if I don’t drag my flesh to God it’ll drag me away from him :(

    • @QG_TheRemnant
      @QG_TheRemnant 4 года назад +7

      Love Is Everything. It’s hard because you need to separate yourself from people who aren’t aligned with Gods plan. Bad morals corrupts good character. If they talking about fornication, remove yourself. Anything that entertains sinning against your flesh. I’m around people who are also waiting and celibate. It’s better that way.
      There’s a saying: *SHOW ME YOUR FRIENDS AND ILL SHOW YOU YOUR FUTURE.*

    • @GojoSan21
      @GojoSan21 4 года назад +1

      The Living Testimony Channel What if I cut people off to serve God.. and it’s just me. I don’t know about the future but I trust God that he has plans for me and one day he’ll bless me with a husband and if not I’ll serve him until the end but thanks I’ll keep what you said in mind :)

    • @KaneCiticani
      @KaneCiticani 4 года назад +1

      The Living Testimony Channel yikes... must be lucky not having an outrageous sex drive that leaks out of your eyes

    • @devfern2270
      @devfern2270 4 года назад

      Additional ammunition for you.:)
      The hidden danger from a biological perspective & religious.
      Bioligical / Science Perspective:
      Do read the Book "The Health in your Hands" by Dr. Devendra Vora. Just excerpts listed below:
      "1)For Prevention of Hereditary Diseases: if the semen is preserved by the husband till marriage etc.. & protection of the body for a lifetime...
      2) 40 kgs of food=1litre of blood=few drops of semen in 49days, in a series of 7 steps of 1) Liquid 2) Blood 3) Fat 4) Muscles 5) Bones 6) Bone marrow 7) Semen. ....After sperms are created, it takes another 2.5 months to get them redoubled. Due to excessive abuse of sex, the semen goes down.....& a reverse process of damage/ slow down happens right back to the 2nd step of Blood. I.e. leading to insufficient red cells and antibodies,= body is weakened =overworked endocrine glands= disease.
      So do be aware of what masturbation can do to you.
      2.Religious Perspective:
      A Lesser known truth religious preachers never cover, Dangers of a blood Covenant by Dr. Myles Monroe.
      ruclips.net/video/FHvpJ3xHqhQ/видео.html
      Additional read:
      Train your mind by hearing religious videos that help overcome sexual sin (outside of marriage), and understand in which context sex is not a sin. One video
      ruclips.net/video/TAHiPA1fpK4/видео.html
      For those who have fallen due to wrong judgement, your past is your past, but your future and your present you can change. Do not condemn yourself anymore, but be wise, smart in future. For the devil thru thoughts and people comes to steal, kill and destroy your happiness. God loves a repentant sinner & forgiveness is His way of showing love. Do say Repentance prayers . Prayers have a way of making one stronger, feel good and delivered. A new clean slate
      Prevention:
      Do pray this prayer to ask for Intercession along with yours. Say this once and see the difference for at least 1 month. Take the assistance of "Big People" who knew how to keep themselves pure and strong- the Blessed VIRGIN Mary.
      The Prayer to our Lady of Perpetual Succour” for her help. It covers bad books, companions, films. Google for the above prayer, Ive attached the link
      Till point No. 8 is good enough to read: ourladyofperpetualhelp.blogspot.com/2007/05/perpetual-novena-of-our-lady-of.html.
      The above comes with my prayer for anyone of youll, seeking assistance to move speedily up the path of healing and growth. All the best.
      All the best

  • @henrikorpela2818
    @henrikorpela2818 4 года назад

    Thank you for this video. Was a pleasure to listen to this, because it does address rhe issue in a meaning way. God bless!

  • @gongtv3226
    @gongtv3226 4 года назад

    Thank you so much brother. I've been searching this kind of explanation from the Bibble.

  • @blanchebacon268
    @blanchebacon268 4 года назад +290

    Thanks. This is a touchy subject for many people. Everyone is always looking for loopholes to not conform completely to GOD’s word.

    • @lisacox3750
      @lisacox3750 4 года назад +13

      I think that’s true for some people. I also think the Bible is not as clear on this topic as you would think. There are so many variables with this topic and ministers rarely if ever address things.

    • @kkkm4431
      @kkkm4431 4 года назад +6

      Its not always that easy tho. We are humans.

    • @blanchebacon268
      @blanchebacon268 4 года назад +2

      Kayla Parker
      Praying for your situation. I have just now gotten to the realization that who or what GOD has for you will conform to His word.
      We do have free will though.

    • @robwilde6857
      @robwilde6857 4 года назад +2

      @Blanche Bacon
      It must pain you greatly that slavery has been abolished. Then you would not only be able to own slaves but you could beat them with impunity as long as they recovered after a couple of days. Exodus 21: 20-21 "God's word".

    • @stephendewitt1638
      @stephendewitt1638 4 года назад +3

      Thought Crimes the definition of fornication is sexual intercourse of two persons not married to each other, & the Bible speaks against that.

  • @Nolaperu
    @Nolaperu 4 года назад +339

    Man, I made that mistake. My ex from my 20s and I had sex. I broke her virginity thinking I was going to marry her. But later in our relationship, we fought like cats and dogs. We broke up and it was far worst break-up than others
    After that I abstained for 14 years until I met my wife. Although breakups in the past were painful, it was nothing like that one.
    You have to look at it this way sex is the closest physical contact you'll ever have with another person. It is a beautiful thing, especially when you wait when you marry your spouse.

    • @jazminedean7679
      @jazminedean7679 4 года назад +16

      P C mannnn I thought my 8yrs and counting was long 😅

    • @TL-kt2ye
      @TL-kt2ye 4 года назад +6

      Yalllll are the real MVP'S...Ain't no way. But, much respect.

    • @jazminedean7679
      @jazminedean7679 4 года назад +2

      T L 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @TL-kt2ye
      @TL-kt2ye 4 года назад +15

      @@jazminedean7679 I'm serious. I've been abstinent for a year and a half and I'm ready to marry the next man I meet just so I can have sex. This isn't natural or normal. I dont care what the bible says...especially if you've already been married. I'm just being honest. These people with longgggg stents of abstinence are just not THE NORM. I'm just stating the obvious. Although I respect them, it's just not normal or natural. 🤷‍♀️. And I wish that churches would address it. Hell, marriage is even becoming obsolete in this day and age. I want it, but it doesn't seem like a lot of people, especially the younger generation wants or desires it.

    • @jazminedean7679
      @jazminedean7679 4 года назад +11

      T L I totally agree with you. I made this decision at age 22 and I would be lying if I said I didn’t tell myself “what were you thinking making this big of decision at this age” lol I have NO CLUE how to continue this walk outside of remaining single and keeping up boundaries. I have yet to fall in love with someone in this season of abstinence and all I can hope for is that when the time comes I can hold on butttt 😅 yeahhhh I’ll just cross that bridge when we get there. And 100% doesn’t feel natural or normal 8yrs later! I just have to daily DIE to this old flesh 😩😩😩😩😩

  • @lanebailey9465
    @lanebailey9465 2 года назад

    Fantastic!!! informative and biblical, great job 👍🏻

  • @helentekeste6811
    @helentekeste6811 2 года назад

    Thank you for great video very important message brother Allan very good explanation and Beautiful message God bless you with family 👪 ❤🙏

  • @Vanilla_Phil
    @Vanilla_Phil 4 года назад +68

    Me and my wife had sex before we were married. I was the one pushing her. If I could go back and change that I would.

    • @thebeatagp
      @thebeatagp  4 года назад +23

      That's often how it works; we realize after the fact that God's ways really were the right ways even when we didn't think so at the time!

    • @glendagetagripfull
      @glendagetagripfull 4 года назад +4

      I was the one who pushed the virgin at the time man who is now my husband. And I regret it too. Not only had I fornicated before we got together but I made the first move because of where I had came from: a lustful place and sexual addiction. Now I'm in a sexless marriage. He never wants it and for eleven years I would push for it and now I'm getting to the age where I don't care to want it anymore. It didn't help that we both had porn addictions on top of that. So... that's what I get.

    • @aberrant814
      @aberrant814 4 года назад +3

      It already is a good thing that you took responsibility for that. It is inspiring and great. Hope you have a great married life. :)

    • @KaneCiticani
      @KaneCiticani 4 года назад

      ShalomBringer put him on TRT, nowadays guys destroy their hormones before the age of 35.

    • @sweepthedust6936
      @sweepthedust6936 Год назад

      @@glendagetagripfull pray about it

  • @nicoleatheart82
    @nicoleatheart82 4 года назад +109

    I have been abstaining from sex and all forms for the last 3 years and plan to stay that way until marriage. I had to get rid of sexual spiritual ties and that wasn’t fun.

    • @whitneyallman8365
      @whitneyallman8365 4 года назад +7

      Amen

    • @tangohambre1727
      @tangohambre1727 4 года назад +2

      Congrats in your progress and your walk with christ.

    • @divinelyblessedkb
      @divinelyblessedkb 4 года назад +3

      Tell me about it! But I thank God for His son JESUS! Whom the SON set's free, is FREE INDEED!!!

    • @iamsinsimillia
      @iamsinsimillia 4 года назад +1

      Dynasty 80s how did you do it?

    • @devfern2270
      @devfern2270 4 года назад +1

      @@iamsinsimillia
      The hidden danger from a biological perspective & religious.
      Bioligical / Science Perspective:
      Do read the Book "The Health in your Hands" by Dr. Devendra Vora. Just excerpts listed below:
      "1)For Prevention of Hereditary Diseases: if the semen is preserved by the husband till marriage etc.. & protection of the body for a lifetime...
      2) 40 kgs of food=1litre of blood=few drops of semen in 49days, in a series of 7 steps of 1) Liquid 2) Blood 3) Fat 4) Muscles 5) Bones 6) Bone marrow 7) Semen. ....After sperms are created, it takes another 2.5 months to get them redoubled. Due to excessive abuse of sex, the semen goes down.....& a reverse process of damage/ slow down happens right back to the 2nd step of Blood. I.e. leading to insufficient red cells and antibodies,= body is weakened =overworked endocrine glands= disease.
      So do be aware of what masturbation can do to you.
      2.Religious Perspective:
      A Lesser known truth religious preachers never cover, Dangers of a blood Covenant by Dr. Myles Monroe.
      ruclips.net/video/FHvpJ3xHqhQ/видео.html
      Additional read:
      Train your mind by hearing religious videos that help overcome sexual sin (outside of marriage), and understand in which context sex is not a sin. One video
      ruclips.net/video/TAHiPA1fpK4/видео.html
      For those who have fallen due to wrong judgement, your past is your past, but your future and your present you can change. Do not condemn yourself anymore, but be wise, smart in future. For the devil thru thoughts and people comes to steal, kill and destroy your happiness. God loves a repentant sinner & forgiveness is His way of showing love. Do say Repentance prayers . Prayers have a way of making one stronger, feel good and delivered. A new clean slate
      Prevention:
      Do pray this prayer to ask for Intercession along with yours. Say this once and see the difference for at least 1 month. Take the assistance of "Big People" who knew how to keep themselves pure and strong- the Blessed VIRGIN Mary.
      The Prayer to our Lady of Perpetual Succour” for her help. It covers bad books, companions, films. Google for the above prayer, Ive attached the link
      Till point No. 8 is good enough to read: ourladyofperpetualhelp.blogspot.com/2007/05/perpetual-novena-of-our-lady-of.html.
      The above comes with my prayer for anyone of youll, seeking assistance to move speedily up the path of healing and growth. All the best.
      All the best

  • @ChristinaAlau
    @ChristinaAlau 3 года назад +23

    Crying watching this. I regret having sex oh-so-much😪 Sex before marriage ruins lifes.

  • @chrystalstewart5519
    @chrystalstewart5519 3 года назад +1

    This is soo true.... Thank you sooooo much.. Gods word is so helpful when we read it right. He provides..😢😢😢😢😢🌸🌸🌸

  • @silentspeed13
    @silentspeed13 4 года назад +207

    Its pretty straight forward and mentioned enough in the Bible that God does not want people having any kind of sex outside the the marriage bed. If your a bible believing Christian this shouldn’t be a question or even a hard topic for you to understand and follow. If it is then your looking for excuses and loop holes to Sin against God and satisfy your lustful desires.

    • @fishin4bass2002
      @fishin4bass2002 4 года назад +5

      From my understanding you were allowed to have sex with other women and have children with them if the wife agreed, at least in the Old Testament, also scripture of men having sex with prostitutes. Women weren’t able to have children and had allowed the husband to impregnate other women.

    • @teishamisunderstood339
      @teishamisunderstood339 4 года назад +14

      Ryan Wilson um no that’s what man did God Never approved it...Just like a lot of men had more than one wife...How can you serve 2 masters for you either love one or hate the other.You can’t commit to 2-3 ppl barely can commit to one person.The Bible clearly said a man should leave home & cleave to his wife & they shall become 1. It never said wives!

    • @repent4christ541
      @repent4christ541 4 года назад +8

      @@teishamisunderstood339 AMEn any sex outside of marriage is a sin....

    • @paulcosta8297
      @paulcosta8297 4 года назад +8

      Yeah but you totally miss the point: what is "the marriage bed"? What is the definition? A piece of paper from the United States government? What about in Ancient Rome where in order to be legally married, you had to LIVE WITH THE PERSON FOR A YEAR?!?!

    • @AtamMardes
      @AtamMardes 4 года назад

      Humans turning sexually mature at around age 7 is expected from an unplanned, unintentional, unintelligent, unguided, imperfect, unkind, unethical, amoral, and mindless evolutionary process, but it is NOT expected from an omnipotent, omnipresent, omniscient, perfect, kind, ethical, moral, and mindful designer with intentions and an intelligent plan, unless the designer enjoys watching hormone packed teenagers suffer abstinence until they finish schooling and are ready for marriage at around age 25.

  • @LoveYourNeighbour.
    @LoveYourNeighbour. 4 года назад +370

    Sex is meant for 1 man & 1 woman, who are in a committed relationship FOR LIFE. We can clearly infer this, through various scriptures such as Romans 7:2, etc.

    • @Ferrari360Spyder
      @Ferrari360Spyder 4 года назад +51

      Can we replace "commiteted relationship FOR LIFE" for one word.... MARRIAGE.
      There are couples who have been dating for years who are committed to one another FOR LIFE, but still havent gone up to the altar for marriage.

    • @repent4christ541
      @repent4christ541 4 года назад +2

      @@Ferrari360Spyder amen...this so called preacher needs to pray for discernment....he is being led astray....i felt it with the whole kobe video as well !

    • @LoveYourNeighbour.
      @LoveYourNeighbour. 4 года назад +17

      @@Ferrari360Spyder It's important for we Christians to make it clear to the world, what we actually MEAN by the word 'marriage.' For many people, it means an expensive ceremony involving a 'marriage certificate.' And then a relationship based on how much happiness & fulfillment you can GET from the other person! That's NOT what the Bible had in mind.

    • @paulcosta8297
      @paulcosta8297 4 года назад +7

      @@LoveYourNeighbour. Exactly, the problem is what's the definition of marriage in God's eyes. Saying it is secular legal or ceremonial recognition is patently insane. However, saying it's a mere consensual sexual act is also problematic (e.g. the Samaritan woman) (e.g. intentional one night drunken stand). In my belief the only sensible conclusion is "Marriage begins in the first sexual act between two unmarried persons of the opposite gender where they consciously intend lifetime monogamy thereafter". This is a rock-solid definition. And then if they broke up and later had an outward Christian ceremonial and legal marriage to someone else's, they'd be committing fornication in the case of the man and adultery in the case of the woman.

    • @LivingMyBestAlways
      @LivingMyBestAlways 4 года назад +3

      @Paul Costa Truth!

  • @lerryperry
    @lerryperry 3 года назад

    Thanks for this message Allen

  • @kcollier2049
    @kcollier2049 4 года назад +3

    This was very helpful and needs to be talked about more often. Ppl sleep with each other like that’s what you’re suppose to do. Unfortunately women have believed a lie that they can’t get a man unless they sleep with them first. Thanks again for your message!

  • @nowfaithis9799
    @nowfaithis9799 4 года назад +146

    I didn't want to click because the title of this asks "Is Water Wet?"😂 But my interest on how he got 11 whole minutes out answering that question and actually took it seriously got the better of me, lol.

    • @maxandre7986
      @maxandre7986 4 года назад +2

      facts

    • @thebeatagp
      @thebeatagp  4 года назад +11

      Thank you so much for watching! Your comment means a lot, Bougs Slim.

    • @SilverHand-fu1jn
      @SilverHand-fu1jn 4 года назад +4

      Is water wet? Is a real thing. I think the answer is no... search it up on the action lab ,

    • @ashleekhan7658
      @ashleekhan7658 4 года назад +1

      Lol

    • @brandonknox9173
      @brandonknox9173 3 года назад

      Hmm I don’t see that title

  • @samynator0904
    @samynator0904 4 года назад +87

    Short answer: Yes
    Long answer: Y E S

    • @espigbekele8932
      @espigbekele8932 3 года назад

      i dont think so like the bibel is verry old and back then pepole didn´t have as much sex and thinks change

  • @gavinlocke2301
    @gavinlocke2301 3 года назад

    Brother great video thankyou for making this

  • @danyalleking9674
    @danyalleking9674 2 года назад +1

    Amen thank you for this video 🙏🏾

  • @youngpage7753
    @youngpage7753 4 года назад +98

    Pray for me explaining this to millennials is going to be difficult🤷🏾‍♂️🤣🤣

    • @thebeatagp
      @thebeatagp  4 года назад +31

      Yes! We have to lead the younger generations in God's truth!

    • @seekinghimdaily92
      @seekinghimdaily92 4 года назад +20

      There’s hope! I’m a millennial and learned this between 19-21...27 now and still going strong! 😉

    • @laninaclay6276
      @laninaclay6276 4 года назад +6

      Please don't generalize

    • @michaelalbertson7457
      @michaelalbertson7457 4 года назад +1

      Few will be saved. Let God lead you and you'll reach some, although it really is Christ in you that will do it.

    • @lavanniek
      @lavanniek 3 года назад +1

      @@thebeatagp
      This is a false interpretation of the scriptures.
      According to biblical times people where virgins until marriage. Marriage was not a ceremony but sexual intercourse.
      The woman at the well was told she had many husbands because she had sexual intercourse with many men.
      Biblical marriage has nothing to do with a ceremony and filling in paperwork.
      People falsely interpret it this way because they are more concerned with ceremonial and legal aspect of today’s society.
      Yet no where in the bible does it define marriage as a legal union but a spiritual union.
      Context matters...
      If you love your bible you will learn it’s history.

  • @nonickname2372
    @nonickname2372 4 года назад +15

    Brother thank you for clearing that up for me...I always pondered that and prayed on it...and your video popped up...God is good brother. God bless you man...

    • @lavanniek
      @lavanniek 3 года назад

      This is a false interpretation of the scriptures.
      According to biblical times people where virgins until marriage. Marriage was not a ceremony but sexual intercourse.
      The woman at the well was told she had many husbands because she had sexual intercourse with many men.
      Biblical marriage has nothing to do with a ceremony and filling in paperwork.
      People falsely interpret it this way because they are more concerned with ceremonial and legal aspect of today’s society.
      Yet no where in the bible does it define marriage as a legal union but a spiritual union.
      Context matters...
      If you love your bible you will learn it’s history.

  • @edwinmelendez2431
    @edwinmelendez2431 3 года назад

    Thank you for the book!

  • @SweetGuy_za
    @SweetGuy_za 4 года назад

    Brother Allen may the Lord JESUS CHRIST pour out upon your life more grace to be the light and never be ashamed of the truth.
    keep loving the Lord Brother. love you dear Brother.
    Thapelo from South Africa

  • @Lovingmeandmine899
    @Lovingmeandmine899 4 года назад +21

    I love how you took it to the OT and to the NT, leaving no stone unturned 🙋🏾‍♀️❤️🔥

    • @lavanniek
      @lavanniek 3 года назад

      This is a false interpretation of the scriptures.
      According to biblical times people where virgins until marriage. Marriage was not a ceremony but sexual intercourse.
      The woman at the well was told she had many husbands because she had sexual intercourse with many men.
      Biblical marriage has nothing to do with a ceremony and filling in paperwork.
      People falsely interpret it this way because they are more concerned with ceremonial and legal aspect of today’s society.
      Yet no where in the bible does it define marriage as a legal union but a spiritual union.
      Context matters...
      If you love your bible you will learn it’s history.

  • @MikeWinger
    @MikeWinger 4 года назад +270

    Great video! I’ve been thinking of doing one on this topic but mine will probably be an hour long. Haha! This is great and to the point.

    • @stephaniemuraya9454
      @stephaniemuraya9454 4 года назад +5

      Please please do! 1 hour is the standard

    • @LindeNethamba
      @LindeNethamba 3 года назад +2

      @Mike Winger Hey Mike, nice to see your comment here😅 I don't mind an hour or two on this topic, you always do a thorough job✌️😂

    • @lavanniek
      @lavanniek 3 года назад +5

      This is a false interpretation of the scriptures.
      According to biblical times people where virgins until marriage. Marriage was not a ceremony but sexual intercourse.
      The woman at the well was told she had many husbands because she had sexual intercourse with many men.
      Biblical marriage has nothing to do with a ceremony and filling in paperwork.
      People falsely interpret it this way because they are more concerned with ceremonial and legal aspect of today’s society.
      Yet no where in the bible does it define marriage as a legal union but a spiritual union.
      Context matters...
      If you love your bible you will learn it’s history.

    • @ManonVelasco
      @ManonVelasco 3 года назад +3

      @@lavanniek but even if that's true, it's still clear about what marriage means: stayiny together for the rest of your lives! And in that save environment, which you can create by marrying, youre allowed to have sex ..

    • @solascripturaPR1517
      @solascripturaPR1517 3 года назад

      Nailed it,
      @@lavanniek .
      Not a single Western marriage is "biblical" (of those all created and recognized by government).
      Go to ANY Christian (theologian, average Joe, etc),
      and none of them would be able to properly define "fornication".
      (The common assumption is it means: "Sex outside of marriage")
      #SolaScriptura #SolaScripturaYT

  • @FinancialCoachByPhil
    @FinancialCoachByPhil 2 года назад

    Very well done Allen...Great Job in pointing out what scripture says about the topic.

  • @buildingstrongermen7334
    @buildingstrongermen7334 4 года назад

    Bro this is an awesome video. Very needed.

  • @livingunashamed4869
    @livingunashamed4869 4 года назад +124

    Amen there are so many passages that hint on this.

    • @okaymea
      @okaymea 3 года назад

      Please reply with them

    • @lavanniek
      @lavanniek 3 года назад

      This is a false interpretation of the scriptures.
      According to biblical times people where virgins until marriage. Marriage was not a ceremony but sexual intercourse.
      The woman at the well was told she had many husbands because she had sexual intercourse with many men.
      Biblical marriage has nothing to do with a ceremony and filling in paperwork.
      People falsely interpret it this way because they are more concerned with ceremonial and legal aspect of today’s society.
      Yet no where in the bible does it define marriage as a legal union but a spiritual union.
      Context matters...
      If you love your bible you will learn it’s history.

    • @Sandrinarhonda
      @Sandrinarhonda 3 года назад +3

      @@lavanniek you must be stupid , sexual immorality is referenced in the Bible several times and it’s very clear that you don’t have it before marriage. Y’all like making excuses

    • @AUGUSTALLEN28
      @AUGUSTALLEN28 3 года назад

      @@Sandrinarhonda It is not clear if the bible never says it. it's dangerous to try and fill in the blanks.

    • @AUGUSTALLEN28
      @AUGUSTALLEN28 3 года назад

      @@okaymea I would like to see them also,if you have them.

  • @queenahdi
    @queenahdi 4 года назад +29

    I’ve never watched you before but you appeared in my recommendations, I clicked on you because I thought you were a person trying to justify sex outside of marriage, but clearly I was wrong lmfaaaaaooo new subscriber ❤️🤘🏾

    • @devfern2270
      @devfern2270 4 года назад +1

      Fyi
      The hidden danger from a biological perspective & religious.
      Bioligical / Science Perspective:
      Do read the Book "The Health in your Hands" by Dr. Devendra Vora. Just excerpts listed below:
      "1)For Prevention of Hereditary Diseases: if the semen is preserved by the husband till marriage etc.. & protection of the body for a lifetime...
      2) 40 kgs of food=1litre of blood=few drops of semen in 49days, in a series of 7 steps of 1) Liquid 2) Blood 3) Fat 4) Muscles 5) Bones 6) Bone marrow 7) Semen. ....After sperms are created, it takes another 2.5 months to get them redoubled. Due to excessive abuse of sex, the semen goes down.....& a reverse process of damage/ slow down happens right back to the 2nd step of Blood. I.e. leading to insufficient red cells and antibodies,= body is weakened =overworked endocrine glands= disease.
      So do be aware of what masturbation can do to you.
      2.Religious Perspective:
      A Lesser known truth religious preachers never cover, Dangers of a blood Covenant by Dr. Myles Monroe.
      ruclips.net/video/FHvpJ3xHqhQ/видео.html
      Additional read:
      Train your mind by hearing religious videos that help overcome sexual sin (outside of marriage), and understand in which context sex is not a sin. One video
      ruclips.net/video/TAHiPA1fpK4/видео.html
      For those who have fallen due to wrong judgement, your past is your past, but your future and your present you can change. Do not condemn yourself anymore, but be wise, smart in future. For the devil thru thoughts and people comes to steal, kill and destroy your happiness. God loves a repentant sinner & forgiveness is His way of showing love. Do say Repentance prayers . Prayers have a way of making one stronger, feel good and delivered. A new clean slate
      Prevention:
      Do pray this prayer to ask for Intercession along with yours. Say this once and see the difference for at least 1 month. Take the assistance of "Big People" who knew how to keep themselves pure and strong- the Blessed VIRGIN Mary.
      The Prayer to our Lady of Perpetual Succour” for her help. It covers bad books, companions, films. Google for the above prayer, Ive attached the link
      Till point No. 8 is good enough to read: ourladyofperpetualhelp.blogspot.com/2007/05/perpetual-novena-of-our-lady-of.html.
      The above comes with my prayer for anyone of youll, seeking assistance to move speedily up the path of healing and growth. All the best.
      All the best

  • @rijomathew3310
    @rijomathew3310 3 года назад +1

    Sir u are doing a fantastic job in the Name of the Most High. God bless you abundantly.

  • @hildawasike7926
    @hildawasike7926 3 года назад

    So informative. Thank you

  • @jazshas
    @jazshas 4 года назад +129

    When I rededicated my life to the Lord I was still in a relationship with someone I wasn't married to. I asked Jesus why was it wrong for me to sleep with the person I loved? He didn't answer me right away, then one day when I was sitting on the patio reading my bible the Holy Spirit said to me one word... "purchased". I knew exactly what scripture he was talking about - 1 Corinthians 6:18‭-‬20 KJV:
    "Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? For ye are BOUGHT with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's."
    I stopped fornicating and have no regrets. We have been purchased (redeemed) by the precious shed blood of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ!

    • @chevygurl0115
      @chevygurl0115 4 года назад +1

      Thank you! I needed to hear that!

    • @LivingMyBestAlways
      @LivingMyBestAlways 4 года назад +2

      @Jicari Hickory Hill A little over two years no sex as the urges comes on I read the Bible l I ask the FATHER to take those urges away it didn’t happen. But as time moves on the urges get less and less. Now I ack like it’s not there and before I know it the feeling is gone. My salvation is more important than my flesh. And I’m peace

    • @kayleythompson2548
      @kayleythompson2548 4 года назад

      Spiritually Enlightened But are you still in a relationship

    • @jazshas
      @jazshas 4 года назад +1

      @@kayleythompson2548
      No I am not. Let him go and have remained celibate.

    • @autumnonpurpose
      @autumnonpurpose 4 года назад

      AMEN

  • @dstn7303
    @dstn7303 4 года назад +7

    Bless you my brother. I needed to hear this.

    • @lavanniek
      @lavanniek 3 года назад

      This is a false interpretation of the scriptures.
      According to biblical times people where virgins until marriage. Marriage was not a ceremony but sexual intercourse.
      The woman at the well was told she had many husbands because she had sexual intercourse with many men.
      Biblical marriage has nothing to do with a ceremony and filling in paperwork.
      People falsely interpret it this way because they are more concerned with ceremonial and legal aspect of today’s society.
      Yet no where in the bible does it define marriage as a legal union but a spiritual union.
      Context matters...
      If you love your bible you will learn it’s history.

  • @veramatheson4394
    @veramatheson4394 3 года назад

    Thank you. Awesome content !

  • @crystalwhite3179
    @crystalwhite3179 4 месяца назад

    Thank you Allen for clarifying this.

  • @johnsmit5999
    @johnsmit5999 4 года назад +29

    Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.

  • @DJ5780
    @DJ5780 4 года назад +132

    You kinda look like Denzel Washington

  • @dianamendoza4262
    @dianamendoza4262 3 года назад

    Good explaining 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼✨✨!!

  • @sandraanderson8258
    @sandraanderson8258 4 года назад +7

    God have mercy on us for most of us are guilty,lord have mercy on us thanks for teaching us God bless you

  • @connorstauffer9811
    @connorstauffer9811 4 года назад +3

    Much respect for sharing all this teaching. I totally believe what you said with my whole heart. Cuz this is the world's biggest problem

  • @boreto5525
    @boreto5525 4 года назад +31

    Can you make a video explaining what marriage really means according to God? Is it just a signature in a document or something else.
    Please🙏

    • @candyluna2929
      @candyluna2929 4 года назад +2

      Exactly!!!

    • @mightyobserver12
      @mightyobserver12 4 года назад +4

      It is more than paper.
      God is included.
      Law is included.
      People around u is included.

    • @devfern2270
      @devfern2270 4 года назад

      The 2nd point, dangers of a blood covenant will help answer your question
      The hidden danger from a biological perspective & religious.
      Bioligical / Science Perspective:
      Do read the Book "The Health in your Hands" by Dr. Devendra Vora. Just excerpts listed below:
      "1)For Prevention of Hereditary Diseases: if the semen is preserved by the husband till marriage etc.. & protection of the body for a lifetime...
      2) 40 kgs of food=1litre of blood=few drops of semen in 49days, in a series of 7 steps of 1) Liquid 2) Blood 3) Fat 4) Muscles 5) Bones 6) Bone marrow 7) Semen. ....After sperms are created, it takes another 2.5 months to get them redoubled. Due to excessive abuse of sex, the semen goes down.....& a reverse process of damage/ slow down happens right back to the 2nd step of Blood. I.e. leading to insufficient red cells and antibodies,= body is weakened =overworked endocrine glands= disease.
      So do be aware of what masturbation can do to you.
      2.Religious Perspective:
      A Lesser known truth religious preachers never cover, Dangers of a blood Covenant by Dr. Myles Monroe.
      ruclips.net/video/FHvpJ3xHqhQ/видео.html
      Additional read:
      Train your mind by hearing religious videos that help overcome sexual sin (outside of marriage), and understand in which context sex is not a sin. One video
      ruclips.net/video/TAHiPA1fpK4/видео.html
      For those who have fallen due to wrong judgement, your past is your past, but your future and your present you can change. Do not condemn yourself anymore, but be wise, smart in future. For the devil thru thoughts and people comes to steal, kill and destroy your happiness. God loves a repentant sinner & forgiveness is His way of showing love. Do say Repentance prayers . Prayers have a way of making one stronger, feel good and delivered. A new clean slate
      Prevention:
      Do pray this prayer to ask for Intercession along with yours. Say this once and see the difference for at least 1 month. Take the assistance of "Big People" who knew how to keep themselves pure and strong- the Blessed VIRGIN Mary.
      The Prayer to our Lady of Perpetual Succour” for her help. It covers bad books, companions, films. Google for the above prayer, Ive attached the link
      Till point No. 8 is good enough to read: ourladyofperpetualhelp.blogspot.com/2007/05/perpetual-novena-of-our-lady-of.html.
      The above comes with my prayer for anyone of youll, seeking assistance to move speedily up the path of healing and growth. All the best.
      All the best

  • @ehst1005
    @ehst1005 Год назад

    Wow, amazing video Thanks man!

  • @kaylee4ever483
    @kaylee4ever483 2 года назад

    Just wanted to make sure and ty I hope u have an amazing day 🙏🏽❤️❤️

  • @Jamathan.
    @Jamathan. 4 года назад +23

    So happy to see this!

  • @AbstruseDaPoet
    @AbstruseDaPoet 4 года назад +27

    I learned about soul ties and how they can affect you spiritual and thats when I found this video on fornication. Thats why I made a choice to repent and become abstinate.

    • @canuck81
      @canuck81 4 года назад +3

      Soul ties aren't biblical

    • @devfern2270
      @devfern2270 4 года назад

      @@canuck81
      Could you explain more on tnis. Cos many preachers are talking about it

    • @canuck81
      @canuck81 4 года назад +4

      @@devfern2270 I have never read the term soul tie in the Bible nor do I find the concept described anywhere in it.

    • @Vincent-yp1gj
      @Vincent-yp1gj 2 года назад

      The word soul tie isn't in there but the concept is biblical. I can't remember the exact scripture but two friends in the Bible that were so close it said that their souls were knitted.

  • @mainstreetoutdoors4397
    @mainstreetoutdoors4397 4 года назад +2

    Nicely said. Would like to see you do a video on tattoos. I have always heard it was a sin to get one, is it?

  • @dionnejohnson9393
    @dionnejohnson9393 4 года назад

    GREAT TEACHING!!

  • @deborahless5779
    @deborahless5779 4 года назад +8

    Excellent teaching! I do have alot of elderly friends who are living together not because they want to sin but they can not afford to seriously diminish or lose one or the other partners finances. They are opting for a private wedding commitment cerimony at home and in their hearts, rather than an actual civil marriage. ❤❤❤❤
    Do you think God will bless these??

    • @Lemons19902010
      @Lemons19902010 4 года назад +1

      They should trust in God to help them financially and do things God's way. God says in the Bible (paraphrasing) that He will provide for us just as He provides for the birds in the sky.

    • @deborahless5779
      @deborahless5779 4 года назад

      @@Lemons19902010 You know that's what I tend to think too but I see why that isn't easy for some who are barely making it already to be afraid to do that. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @candyluna2929
    @candyluna2929 4 года назад +7

    But what happens when you are in a serious relationship with a person?? Speaking about kids, getting ready to move, sharing finances. We haven't gotten married bc I live abroad but we are moving together in a few days

  • @Caramel272
    @Caramel272 Год назад

    Well done brother!

  • @robinnewton1061
    @robinnewton1061 3 года назад

    Excellent job!!!

  • @cherryleet.5881
    @cherryleet.5881 4 года назад +17

    My first thought: WHY ARE PEOPLE ASKING THIS QUESTION? Aren’t they supposed to know the answer?

  • @goodcommentman1512
    @goodcommentman1512 4 года назад +6

    Great teaching. I’d find it helpful if you could address what some would see as the ‘stumbling block’ of the OT practice of stoning the sexually promiscuous. ‘Some might ask, ‘Why stone just the women?’
    Very fair question. I’d love to hear your take.

  • @phatwithduhph2479
    @phatwithduhph2479 3 года назад

    Thanks for this!

  • @TheBussyBandit
    @TheBussyBandit 3 года назад +4

    He said wam bam thank you ma’am 😂 love when a preacher can keep things light but still serious

  • @bajuenarm1799
    @bajuenarm1799 4 года назад +8

    God bless you. Im a 17 yo virgin, sometime helps to live in a Muslim contry

    • @lavanniek
      @lavanniek 3 года назад +1

      This is a false interpretation of the scriptures.
      According to biblical times people where virgins until marriage. Marriage was not a ceremony but sexual intercourse.
      The woman at the well was told she had many husbands because she had sexual intercourse with many men.
      Biblical marriage has nothing to do with a ceremony and filling in paperwork.
      People falsely interpret it this way because they are more concerned with ceremonial and legal aspect of today’s society.
      Yet no where in the bible does it define marriage as a legal union but a spiritual union.
      Context matters...
      If you love your bible you will learn it’s history.

  • @ATD909
    @ATD909 4 года назад +24

    In Biblical times, ppl got married in their mid teens.
    Age 15ish.
    Think about it.

    • @blackraspberry4051
      @blackraspberry4051 3 года назад +2

      Is that why so many people lose their virginity at young ages?

    • @spot9044
      @spot9044 3 года назад +4

      OF course, considering my religion (catholic) you can get married when you are 14. Accept when that age is illegal depending on your country law.
      but still a sin to fornicate before marriage

    • @sergiodearriba7559
      @sergiodearriba7559 3 года назад +2

      @@spot9044 That’s not what they’re trying to say. The point is that in the times when the Bible was written, marriage was a whole different thing than what it is now idki

    • @anisahs2110
      @anisahs2110 3 года назад

      @@sergiodearriba7559 true. There seems to be miles that needed to be cross just get married. You need to be educated, have a high earning job for several years to be financially stable, save enough for a house, insurance, etc. Not to mention the confusing gender wars going on now
      I suppose back then, you can get marry young because you would still be supported by family members until you are financially stable yourself (certain cultures like mine did anyways). There was more community back then with everyone helping each back then with the best they can, in laws and relatives lived close by. They say it takes a village to raise a child but you the village was your relatives. So you weren’t necessarily alone in the process.
      You can read more in the book called “Marriage, History” it’s pretty interesting.
      FYI, in no way am I justifying young marriage, especially THAT young in today’s age. We just don’t have that capacity anymore

  • @edwardlovera5867
    @edwardlovera5867 Месяц назад

    Well explained
    Good
    Awesome
    Dope
    Nice
    Thanks for sharing
    God bless everyone 😊

  • @ConstantiaVerted
    @ConstantiaVerted Год назад

    Great vid, thanks.

  • @crafterman2345
    @crafterman2345 4 года назад +16

    My parents are liberal Christians who are telling me it's "okay" and "natural" for me to have sex before marriage as long as it's consensual and loving and that I shouldn't judge my classmates for all having premarital sex blah blah blah. This video was very helpful for me to stay on track and not give in to peer pressure.

    • @t0dd000
      @t0dd000 10 месяцев назад

      Your parents were right.

    • @pokoyoda365
      @pokoyoda365 4 месяца назад

      ​@@t0dd000no. It's not okay to do that before marriage. He went in depth in the whole video. Sex before marriage puts u at risk for so much like STDs teen pregnancy etc. God is simply trying to keep us safe.

    • @t0dd000
      @t0dd000 4 месяца назад

      @@pokoyoda365 But God is just fine with concubines. And if you rape a girl, God wants her to forcibly marry her. And heart disease is far more dangerous, being the number one killer and all, and yet God says nothing about sugar ...
      No, the Bible doesn't mention premarital sex. It just doesn't. Nor STDs or heart disease. Jesus though did advocate leaving your family and joining the cult (or was that Paul?), and to not listen to prophets after him (that was for sure Paul). Paul came along, declared himself a prophet and everyone forgot what Jesus (God) said and listened to him anyway. Jesus did have these nifty things to say about family … “If anyone comes to me and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple.” And so, the Bible really isn't your best source of guidance for sex, or relationships, family. Anyway, I digress. It's all rather ridiculous.

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas4988 4 года назад +55

    Fornication: sexual intercourse between people not married to each other.
    " Flee FORNICATION. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth FORNICATION sinneth against his own body. 1 Corinthians 6:18✝️
    Got Truth?
    This scripture is crystal clear 💯!!

    • @andreidibre2289
      @andreidibre2289 4 года назад +6

      bro, you need to search what fornication was 2000 years ago, not what it means now

    • @jessyjonas4988
      @jessyjonas4988 4 года назад +2

      @@andreidibre2289 The
      Mis- education of Jessy Jonas!
      Go ahead, educate me!

    • @andreidibre2289
      @andreidibre2289 4 года назад +4

      @@jessyjonas4988 Word: porneia
      Pronounce: por-ni'-ah
      Strongs Number: G4202
      Orig: from 4203; harlotry (including adultery and incest); figuratively, idolatry:--sexual immorality. G4203
      Use: TDNT-6:579,918 Noun Feminine
      Heb Strong: H2183 H8457
      1) illicit(unlawful) sexual intercourse
      1a) adultery, sexual immorality, homosexuality, intercourse with animals etc.
      1b) sexual intercourse with close relatives; Lev. 18
      1c) sexual intercourse with an unlawfully divorced man or woman; Mr 10:11,12
      2) metaph. the worship of idols
      2a) of the defilement of idolatry, as incurred by eating the sacrifices offered to idols
      2b) any form of idolatry

    • @andreidibre2289
      @andreidibre2289 4 года назад

      so while we are trying so much to not have sex before the marriage, we worship the music, sports, and all other things, basically cheating on God

    • @andreidibre2289
      @andreidibre2289 4 года назад +1

      also, in the bible is no shed of blood when an unmarried man and an unmarried woman have sex, so let's not impose our moral standards on God. It may not be necessary his will for us ho have sex before marriage but in some conditions, as presented in Deuteronomy, is not a sin

  • @akishawashington2136
    @akishawashington2136 3 года назад

    This episode is HILARIOUS!!!

  • @jenniferhaynes8625
    @jenniferhaynes8625 3 года назад

    Thanks for this video.