Seriously, he’s an amazing actor. And I’m glad he’s lost so much weight. Much better for his health. He’s an example of acting truly being an ‘art form’.
This scene was so gut wrenching. Had to be a gut punch for Dan to learn more about his Mother and the past. And when Dan starts sobbing and tells Roseanne he can't take this, she puts her arms around him and tells him that's okay, she'll take it with him. A great performance by both Roaseanne and John Goodman in this episode.
I remember watching this when I was 10 when it aired. It really tripped me out as a kid seeing a big, strong guy like Dan break down and cry. It was like seeing my own dad cry, which later that year I did see when my parents got divorced.
I've only seen my Dad cry twice, 2010 when we had the family dog Oliver put down who was the best dog we ever had, 6 years later when his brother my Uncle passed. This last summer Oliver's successor Dugan, who we got 6 months after Oliver's passing, himself passed away and he too was considered the best dog we ever had, I wasn't present but I know my Dad cried for him too. It's very hard to watch because it happens so rarely.
He channeled a pain that only comes from many different hurts hitting you all at once. Shock, from learning the truth. Anger, from having not known it and how it affected his attitude and approach to the situation. Regret, from having come to hate someone who was really trying to have his back and protect him. Confusion, from not understanding why it had to be that way.
This was a sad and powerful scene. Heartbreaking seeing him break down and cry at 3:17 I felt like that when my grandmother died earlier this year. John Goodman gave a Emmy worthy performance.
How Goodman didn't get an Emmy for this episode is beyond me. Maybe one of the most moving moments in a sitcom ever right up there with some of All in the Family and Family Ties.
John Goodman was so damn good as Dan. While he always seemed like a goofy loving dad, his best performances were definitely when Dan was upset. His anger and emotions just seemed so genuine, how a real person might act.
I really relate to Dan on this. My sister and I buried our parents and our one brother, and she’s in very poor health. I don’t know how she’ll be in a few years. Thank the good Lord I have my wife and friends to see me through it all.
My grandmother has Alzheimer's and I am one of her caregivers. Everybody has a breaking point where it just gets too much and either you get angry or you cry because the reality is so heavy that you can't bear the weight on your feet so you fall to your knees. My situation may be different from Dan's, but I also know what it's like to live with mental illness. I have an anxiety disorder and because Alzheimer's also comes with anxiety attacks, and for the entire ride I've had to go through a lot of triggers to help her. Everybody needs to let it all out and in a way that is not destructive. Coming to terms with a grim reality is hard for everyone and John Goodman did a fantastic job conveying that range of emotions in this scene.
I always cry myself when Dan breaks down, seeing the torment and pain he is in,,,,, it just breaks my heart when I see a man breaking down and sob this way. John does a fabulous amazing job here... and seeing The pain he is in,,,,, is just heartbreaking....
I watch this show as a child, Buttrey watching it as a man I have a greater appreciation John Goodman's portrayal of Dan Conner. He truly personifies the American Working Class Hero, faults and all. Without John Goodman no, I do not think that show wood have been a success
Thank for posting this. This scene always touches my heart and I always shed a few tears. So powerful you can feel Dans pain and Roseanne’s heartfelt moment comforting Dan her husband who’s she’s use to always being a rock for the family. I love this show Roseanne and John Goodman are such great actors but John should have won an award for this scene.
The truest version of real life that was in TV. The realness of what they dealt with in the show. Every family could relate to the Connors in some way shape or form.
@Venom's Pain umm if I'd known if this video was like this I would've by pass it with the quickness, but they won't have to worry about me not viewing their shit anymore🤣
I remember watching this episode live as it aired. I was a young teen then. We watched every week. I remember seeing my mom gasp and put her hand over her mouth when she saw Dan cry.
Marriage isn’t about the fancy ring, the wedding dress, and the cake, that’s not what marriage is about, marriage is about sticking it out when it gets extremely hard, it’s about sticking to each other, taking each others pain away, and talking about the things that are extremely hard to talk about, like this for example, and standing by each other when things get tough, yes Dan and rose fight a lot, and have disagreements, but they love each other and they stick it out, and rose is playing as an extreme great wife to Dan, she is his not only his wife, but his best friend, his counselor, when he needs her, to be and Dan is the same, this is an example of a good marriage, marriage is a team, and a partnership.
This whole episode was amazing and is my favorite, it is a shame the the second season of the semi spin off undid this episode and ruined Big Ed's character.
and these days, people would make fun of Dan and call him all kinds of dumb names and claim that Roseanne's reaction was unrealistic and make all these claims about what "really" happens when a guy shows emotion around his spouse. If only.
In the season 2 Thanksgiving episode, Dan's mom was played by Anne Wedgeworth (Lana from Three's Company). She was normal then. She ran her own travel agency even. How come they made her into a mentally unstable person? She was then played by Debbie Reynolds in a season 9 episode where she was just released from a mental hospital. They did the same thing with Roseanne's dad. He first appeared in season 1 played by John Randolph. He was a little goofy, but normal. Then they had John Randolph not play that part anymore and they changed the character into an abuser.
I cannot get behind The Conners because, for me, that was too big of a cast change. After it was revealed that Roseanne Conner was a casualty of the opioid epidemic, I thought, how can the writers bring the comedy back after Roseanne died in the most depressing way possible. Mark did not die as a result of an overdose as his actor Glen Quinn did. Mark died from a motorcycle accident from hitting a deer. Somebody there had to be upset with Barr to make her character die in such a sad way. They could have at least could have had Roseanne die in the funniest way as a way possible. It's a comedy after all!
@@Beefer-e4j That's debatable. Actually, Barr got the last laugh. The original show is still everywhere. Also, she still does stand up to sold out crowds. Dispite the comment from five years ago.
You know why this is such a powerful scene? Because true men never cry, at least in front of someone else. Dan never cries so when it finally happens, we can feel it so much more with him. Damn I love how this show was
@@clairegrim4369 Real men show Strength in Dire of Traumatic situations. When Dads cry in front of their children, it shows everyone around them that all is lost. Be Empathetic to others, but Only cry when you're alone with no one to see you.
Dan's father made a hard decision and never showed any regrets for it. But if anyone has been watching the Conners, why did his father keep Dan away from his brother? I thought things were patched or starting to patch up.
Ed wasn't over the way Dan treated him over the years and he didn't want Dan to influence his brother by telling him horror stories about what a terrible father Ed was.
@@loudboy317 Ed fucking wasn't around hardly at all either after he divorced Dan's mom. That was a lot of it. Dan resented the fact mostly , that after his parents split, he was pretty much left to his own devices as a child to deal with his mother. He didn't even have his father to turn to, because he was always on the road.
Wtf are you doing filming this and then yelling/talking during it? You can’t be quiet for 3 minutes to record something, don’t record it. Or put a PSA in the beginning so ppl know not to waste their time on this video, only to click off midway to find a competent person who can shut up for 3 min
Storylines like this have been seen on TV all of the time. Whether it was Cliff Barnes getting Closure about his Daddy Digger Barnes or on Soaps where Evan Bates find out the Truth about his Mother Janice on Another World where he was lead to believe that Rachel Cory killed his Mother when Janice wanted to do the killing. Another brilliant example was when Emma Nelson got closure about her "Father" Shane on Degrassi. When Ed told Dan "That he couldn't stop living in the past", it really must have hit his jugular and sadly enough the Two drifted apart.
I think there was a truly powerful scene in American sitcom history: Will Smith breaking down when his selfish loser father walks out on him for the last time in "Fresh Prince of Bel-Air". Will Smith gave one of the best performances of his acting career. Will Smith should had got Emmy nomination for that episode and John Goodman should had got a Emmy nomination for this scene.
Me: Roseanne what's wrong with Dan?😊 Roseanne: apparently his father ed said some very bad stuff about his mother.😊 Me: oh man you got to be kidding me Roseanne that can't be good you okay Dan You're alright?😊 Dan: yeah I'm alright bud.😊 Me: anything I can do Roseanne?😊 Roseanne: can you help me with Dan since he's having a emotional breakdown about his mother?😊 Me: sure Roseanne that's what I'm here for yeah just let it out Dan let it out there you go.😊 Dan: thanks bud for helping me out.😊 Me: no problem Dan infact I've talked to your father about badly he treated your mother.😊 Dan: did ya?😊 Me: yeah I've told him that he needs to stop and take a look at him self in the mirror and realize that he needs to stop treating your mother badly Dan.😊 Dan: that's true.😊 Me: you want some ice water with that too Dan?😊 Dan: yeah I do in a cup.😊 Me: gives Dan ice water in a cup:😊 Me: how do you feel?😊 Dan: actually I feel better.😊
and this was apparently forgotten in the conners....the retcon of dans dad drove his mother to mental illness just seems unneccesary, as well as him patching up his relationship with his father.
This is one of the few times when Roseanne was actually very rational and talking sense. By the way, don't record a video with loud talking people in the background. It kills the video.
For years Dan blamed his father for his parents marriage breaking up...yet in reality his father did all he could to protect the mother’s image,always saying she had been visiting relatives and such when Dan was a kid , when in reality she was severely mentally ill , and the truth came out here , and he either admitted it to himself for the first time , or really grasped it for the first time . It was extremely emotional
Do you mean what Dan is going through & processing in this scene is like what you're going through & processing at this time (or at least 2 mos ago when you posted your comment)?
The most touching part of this scene is when Rosanne says "I'm going to take it with you." That is true love right there.
They really loved each other.
John Goodman deserves an Emmy for his performance on this show.
ruclips.net/video/DWOyZUyfIDI/видео.html
I just dialed 911. I wanted to report that someone had robbed John Goodman of the Emmys that he deserved.
Most definitely
The older I get, the more I realize just how good John Goodman really is.
He’s a “Good man”!
Seriously, he’s an amazing actor. And I’m glad he’s lost so much weight. Much better for his health. He’s an example of acting truly being an ‘art form’.
Back then before the weight loss
This scene was so gut wrenching. Had to be a gut punch for Dan to learn more about his Mother and the past. And when Dan starts sobbing and tells Roseanne he can't take this, she puts her arms around him and tells him that's okay, she'll take it with him. A great performance by both Roaseanne and John Goodman in this episode.
I remember watching this when I was 10 when it aired. It really tripped me out as a kid seeing a big, strong guy like Dan break down and cry. It was like seeing my own dad cry, which later that year I did see when my parents got divorced.
I've only seen my Dad cry twice, 2010 when we had the family dog Oliver put down who was the best dog we ever had, 6 years later when his brother my Uncle passed. This last summer Oliver's successor Dugan, who we got 6 months after Oliver's passing, himself passed away and he too was considered the best dog we ever had, I wasn't present but I know my Dad cried for him too. It's very hard to watch because it happens so rarely.
He channeled a pain that only comes from many different hurts hitting you all at once. Shock, from learning the truth. Anger, from having not known it and how it affected his attitude and approach to the situation. Regret, from having come to hate someone who was really trying to have his back and protect him. Confusion, from not understanding why it had to be that way.
This was a sad and powerful scene. Heartbreaking seeing him break down and cry at 3:17 I felt like that when my grandmother died earlier this year. John Goodman gave a Emmy worthy performance.
GOD BLESS
I’d missed that “I know, I’m gonna take it with you” at the end before. That’s so great
"I can't take this "
"I know that's why I'm going to take it with you" SHEEESH
How Goodman didn't get an Emmy for this episode is beyond me. Maybe one of the most moving moments in a sitcom ever right up there with some of All in the Family and Family Ties.
He always lost to Kelsey Grammer from "Frasier"
agreed, incredible acting right here, I teared up watching it
Let’s not forget about Will Smith in the episode about his dad.
You’re serious? His crying face was insane lmao
@@marleyrose6632 ya I’m serious. He was really crying.
John Goodman was so damn good as Dan. While he always seemed like a goofy loving dad, his best performances were definitely when Dan was upset. His anger and emotions just seemed so genuine, how a real person might act.
so sad when he breaks down :(
I remember this so well. It totally broke my heart.
Me too
At least if you are gonna record clips you could tell everyone to shut up in the background 🤣😂
Lmao really
If we could see them - I bet each like to this comment is a laughing emoji
Or speak up so we won't be trying trying figure out what uou said. It's stimulation my curiosity. My Brain itches. Thanks
Oh stop complaining I believe one of her children were sick and needed to go to the hospital I heard in background..
@@wendyhain4853sooo why make a RUclips vid… never mind
Crystal had zero business saying shit.
Because Ed told her
I really relate to Dan on this. My sister and I buried our parents and our one brother, and she’s in very poor health. I don’t know how she’ll be in a few years. Thank the good Lord I have my wife and friends to see me through it all.
A man and his mother is the most sacred bond of all. Don’t mess with a mans mother!
1,000% correct
My grandmother has Alzheimer's and I am one of her caregivers. Everybody has a breaking point where it just gets too much and either you get angry or you cry because the reality is so heavy that you can't bear the weight on your feet so you fall to your knees. My situation may be different from Dan's, but I also know what it's like to live with mental illness. I have an anxiety disorder and because Alzheimer's also comes with anxiety attacks, and for the entire ride I've had to go through a lot of triggers to help her. Everybody needs to let it all out and in a way that is not destructive. Coming to terms with a grim reality is hard for everyone and John Goodman did a fantastic job conveying that range of emotions in this scene.
If you are recording. Stop talking in the back ground.
Roseanne was such a great show!
Couple years later after "How come he don't want me no more?"
Sadly relatable. I'm the one in mental hospitals trying and winning on saving the women in my family from abusive men.
I always cry myself when Dan breaks down, seeing the torment and pain he is in,,,,, it just breaks my heart when I see a man breaking down and sob this way. John does a fabulous amazing job here... and seeing The pain he is in,,,,, is just heartbreaking....
I watch this show as a child, Buttrey watching it as a man I have a greater appreciation John Goodman's portrayal of Dan Conner. He truly personifies the American Working Class Hero, faults and all. Without John Goodman no, I do not think that show wood have been a success
Thank for posting this. This scene always touches my heart and I always shed a few tears. So powerful you can feel Dans pain and Roseanne’s heartfelt moment comforting Dan her husband who’s she’s use to always being a rock for the family. I love this show Roseanne and John Goodman are such great actors but John should have won an award for this scene.
The truest version of real life that was in TV. The realness of what they dealt with in the show. Every family could relate to the Connors in some way shape or form.
Incredible acting on John Goodman's part.
John Goodman's such a good actor.
Not good great
Yes, he is!!!❤❤❤❤
Goodman is such a good actor ♥️
Mr. Goodman is such a great man!
I just adore him 🥰
All her words are true.True facts to relieve pain.
John Goodman was cheated out of SO many Emmys. Fantastic actor.
Lol at the household chatting in the background when I’m trying to tune in 😂
He deserves an award for how he waited to break
2:51 damn that hit deep
"Morning Otis" Lmao!!
I first saw this scene when I was very very young. The first time I ever saw a man cry.
It just hit me that the movie Good Will Hunting movie stoled this scene & made it their own! 😮
Could you have at least been quiet while doing the video. It was distracting. Roseanne is a badass show but not with BS over talking it
Make your own god damn video then
CazzSDMF Seriously. This person didn’t have to make this video but they did. Take it or leave it.
I dont think that was him.
@@Cazz8203 lol dont make any videos like this or else nobody will watch them
@Venom's Pain umm if I'd known if this video was like this I would've by pass it with the quickness, but they won't have to worry about me not viewing their shit anymore🤣
Such a powerful scene. And some top tier acting
I remember watching this episode live as it aired. I was a young teen then. We watched every week. I remember seeing my mom gasp and put her hand over her mouth when she saw Dan cry.
This episode hits home.
It's okay to film from the TV set, but don't talk or do anything in the background. LOL!
Leana Jo Murphy meanwhile I’m listening really hard to get the tea on their family 😂
@@hopejuscenko8925 exactly! Which is why need them not to talk or else it's all I'll pay attention to 😆
For real. Wtf
Dan’s tears represent so many years going back to his childhood being shown in a new light.
This scene breaks my heart
Marriage isn’t about the fancy ring, the wedding dress, and the cake, that’s not what marriage is about, marriage is about sticking it out when it gets extremely hard, it’s about sticking to each other, taking each others pain away, and talking about the things that are extremely hard to talk about, like this for example, and standing by each other when things get tough, yes Dan and rose fight a lot, and have disagreements, but they love each other and they stick it out, and rose is playing as an extreme great wife to Dan, she is his not only his wife, but his best friend, his counselor, when he needs her, to be and Dan is the same, this is an example of a good marriage, marriage is a team, and a partnership.
oh man my heart just got ripped out
This whole episode was amazing and is my favorite, it is a shame the the second season of the semi spin off undid this episode and ruined Big Ed's character.
The background chatter is amazing 😊
Oh wow. Oscar worthy.
This was the moment that made me get a crush on Dan (and John Goodman in general). Always did have a thing about men crying.
and these days, people would make fun of Dan and call him all kinds of dumb names and claim that Roseanne's reaction was unrealistic and make all these claims about what "really" happens when a guy shows emotion around his spouse.
If only.
In the season 2 Thanksgiving episode, Dan's mom was played by Anne Wedgeworth (Lana from Three's Company). She was normal then. She ran her own travel agency even. How come they made her into a mentally unstable person? She was then played by Debbie Reynolds in a season 9 episode where she was just released from a mental hospital. They did the same thing with Roseanne's dad. He first appeared in season 1 played by John Randolph. He was a little goofy, but normal. Then they had John Randolph not play that part anymore and they changed the character into an abuser.
I cannot get behind The Conners because, for me, that was too big of a cast change. After it was revealed that Roseanne Conner was a casualty of the opioid epidemic, I thought, how can the writers bring the comedy back after Roseanne died in the most depressing way possible. Mark did not die as a result of an overdose as his actor Glen Quinn did. Mark died from a motorcycle accident from hitting a deer. Somebody there had to be upset with Barr to make her character die in such a sad way. They could have at least could have had Roseanne die in the funniest way as a way possible. It's a comedy after all!
When you’re an old racist, ya get what ya get
@@Beefer-e4j That's debatable. Actually, Barr got the last laugh. The original show is still everywhere. Also, she still does stand up to sold out crowds. Dispite the comment from five years ago.
It does remind me of me crying about my dad because he's passed away last night
This is all I'll ever know John Goodman as is Dan Conner
Darlene was poking the bear in the beginning.
You know why this is such a powerful scene? Because true men never cry, at least in front of someone else. Dan never cries so when it finally happens, we can feel it so much more with him. Damn I love how this show was
“Real men” are empathetic and process their emotions like an adult, which means allowing vulnerability
@@clairegrim4369 Real men show Strength in Dire of Traumatic situations. When Dads cry in front of their children, it shows everyone around them that all is lost. Be Empathetic to others, but Only cry when you're alone with no one to see you.
John Goodman ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️i crying with Dan 😢
I Love Roseanne
Dan's father made a hard decision and never showed any regrets for it. But if anyone has been watching the Conners, why did his father keep Dan away from his brother? I thought things were patched or starting to patch up.
Ed wasn't over the way Dan treated him over the years and he didn't want Dan to influence his brother by telling him horror stories about what a terrible father Ed was.
@@loudboy317 Ed fucking wasn't around hardly at all either after he divorced Dan's mom. That was a lot of it. Dan resented the fact mostly , that after his parents split, he was pretty much left to his own devices as a child to deal with his mother. He didn't even have his father to turn to, because he was always on the road.
@@heatherphillips5983true.
😊😅 that's was pretty funny at the beginning but it pretty sad at the end..
This is acting!
Wtf are you doing filming this and then yelling/talking during it? You can’t be quiet for 3 minutes to record something, don’t record it. Or put a PSA in the beginning so ppl know not to waste their time on this video, only to click off midway to find a competent person who can shut up for 3 min
It was annoying but dayum lol- chill a smidge
Man we don’t deserve John Goodman
Storylines like this have been seen on TV all of the time. Whether it was Cliff Barnes getting Closure about his Daddy Digger Barnes or on Soaps where Evan Bates find out the Truth about his Mother Janice on Another World where he was lead to believe that Rachel Cory killed his Mother when Janice wanted to do the killing. Another brilliant example was when Emma Nelson got closure about her "Father" Shane on Degrassi. When Ed told Dan "That he couldn't stop living in the past", it really must have hit his jugular and sadly enough the Two drifted apart.
Degrassi was sad cause I remember him in the original series from the eighties when her mom had a mohawk
I think there was a truly powerful scene in American sitcom history: Will Smith breaking down when his selfish loser father walks out on him for the last time in "Fresh Prince of Bel-Air". Will Smith gave one of the best performances of his acting career. Will Smith should had got Emmy nomination for that episode and John Goodman should had got a Emmy nomination for this scene.
good work I love it
That wasn’t acting! Hope your mum’s ok🙏
Me: Roseanne what's wrong with Dan?😊
Roseanne: apparently his father ed said some very bad stuff about his mother.😊
Me: oh man you got to be kidding me Roseanne that can't be good you okay Dan
You're alright?😊
Dan: yeah I'm alright bud.😊
Me: anything I can do Roseanne?😊
Roseanne: can you help me with Dan since he's having a emotional breakdown about his mother?😊
Me: sure Roseanne that's what I'm here for yeah just let it out Dan let it out there you go.😊
Dan: thanks bud for helping me out.😊
Me: no problem Dan infact I've talked to your father about badly he treated your mother.😊
Dan: did ya?😊
Me: yeah I've told him that he needs to stop and take a look at him self in the mirror and realize that he needs to stop treating your mother badly Dan.😊
Dan: that's true.😊
Me: you want some ice water with that too Dan?😊
Dan: yeah I do in a cup.😊
Me: gives Dan ice water in a cup:😊
Me: how do you feel?😊
Dan: actually I feel better.😊
Honestly Dan’s dad was still in the wrong for lying all those years to Dan
That’s right.
Perhaps. He thought it would be too hard for Dan? His dad is gone a lot and his mom having mental issues
He was trying to protect him
Mathew 6:33 but seek ye first the kingdom of God.
To much talking in the background.
and this was apparently forgotten in the conners....the retcon of dans dad drove his mother to mental illness just seems unneccesary, as well as him patching up his relationship with his father.
I'm gonna take it with you ❤
I Love This Show
John Goodman is a damn good actor.
This is one of the few times when Roseanne was actually very rational and talking sense. By the way, don't record a video with loud talking people in the background. It kills the video.
Great 👍 job
Which episode?
"Lies My Father Told Me"
Never really got it a lot of people have spent time in psychiatric institutions what's the big deal?
John Goodman is a good man.
can the person who posted the video please be quiet
Could someone explain this scene to me?
For years Dan blamed his father for his parents marriage breaking up...yet in reality his father did all he could to protect the mother’s image,always saying she had been visiting relatives and such when Dan was a kid , when in reality she was severely mentally ill , and the truth came out here , and he either admitted it to himself for the first time , or really grasped it for the first time . It was extremely emotional
This explains me right now, i know i said in the other video
Do you mean what Dan is going through & processing in this scene is like what you're going through & processing at this time (or at least 2 mos ago when you posted your comment)?
whats the episode name?
Lies My Father Told Me
ZACH JACK
whats name of this episode
Lies my father told me.
Painfully ironic
American family.
Did Dan mom commit suicide?
No, she had to be put in a mental hospital.
@@kenhollis6197 she did try to kill him later on.
@@triciajohansen7124 yeah on the last year of the show was when she tried to kill him