1. Don’t let it be about looks. Character matters more 2. Be the right person to find the right person (focus on self) know yourself … 3. Don’t chase perfection. Prioritise what’s important. Don’t try to be perfect just be your best self 😊 4. Communication is key. Ask how each other feels don’t second guess 5. Love someone flaws and all 6. Don’t try fixing others. It’s not a project. 7. Are they good for you ? Don’t idealise just because they like you 8. Sacrifices should be mutual 9. Support each other in your aspirations. Nurture each others growth 10. Best friends caring, fun, respectful and kind. Quality time together Thank you guys 😊
I absolutely love the letter to your daughter. I didn't get much emotion/anything from my dad 😅had to learn the hard way a lot so I really appreciate that gesture 🧚♀️
When I first saw my father cry, i believe I was a teenager. Perceiving him so strong, so well put together, so talented, I couldn't believe a man really can cry! It really broke my heart as his daughter. But over time I learned to have so much respect for a man that can show his vulnerable side. Because we all have a heart, etc, but time, hystory, social expectations destroyed our soul. I see this time like real time for healing. In the end Earth has space for everyone, just some believe there we are too many. There is so much abundance for all of us. But without contrasts, and polarity we can't evolve our souls. We can't go against the 7th low of Univers. No matter how smart we think we are. Heart is heart, and started with love first of all. Love you guys. You really nice and I just discovered you. ❤❤❤
Excellent list of what women/ girls really need to hear to accept healthy love into their lives . I wish I had a father like these men . I had it go through the mill and I am now in a dating fast to work on my self worth and have an accountability partner who keeps me in line and questions my decisions so they remain in line with my values and integrity.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
I believe you expressed yourself here, because you need your brothers and sisters support, that now a stronger then you, because they know how you might feel! There is no shame to cry, be upset. Is hard to say something to someone on healing path, because a wrong advice can do more damage, even if is with the best intention. All I can say is to move your focus. First, self introspection, keep busy with your hands and analyse your thoughts. They are not all true. Lots are impressions and energy we keep collecting. People that practice fasting, house clean, incense burning, mind silence they know a lot. But you can do it to. Wait until you will be able to learn and heal. There are so many women out there crying to find a ma to cherish them, move your focus. You 1st,you 2nd,you 3rd...Then the rest. ❤❤❤❤
Write down a list of qualities that drew you to her:- Funny Kind Intelligent Sensual Supportive And so on, you will see other things. But as an example, after mourning for a while, there will be someone out there when you are ready. It's ok to miss someone. Understand why you have parted and where you both created the endings. You will grow from this. It's hard, keep the memory.
Ironic this should pop up as a topic after a 40 year high school reunion.....many of us in attendance have known of each other since 1st grade! This gave us the opportunity to look back...laugh..reminisce about classmates and teachers😂..plus look at where we are now. I suspect my college homecoming will be similar...#beingyourauthenticself
The thought isn’t “ I can change him”. It’s more that “he could be so much more.” it’s not always a I can fix him as much as recognizing a persons potential.
Wow, this list is awesome. Imagine if all father's spoke to their daughters like this. There would be less heartache and abuse, and more respect and appreciation for both sexes
Btw, there's no such a thing of mother instinct. Smthg that I've heard from a great psychologist that mother instinct doesn't exist so much so that there are women who has no desire to have kids and they do because of family pressure, society, "fit in" or culture. And they treat their kids horribly because they didn't want them in the first place. And it's so nice to see a guy who cries and has no shame. Crying is a natural response. 💜❤ How sweet!!
The 5 minutes of explanation BEFORE the presentation almost stopped me from listening. Save all the explanations and inspirations until AFTER you present the material. Or at lease shortern it to a minute or 2 so you don’t lose your audience before you even get started. IMHO
1. Don’t let it be about looks. Character matters more
2. Be the right person to find the right person (focus on self) know yourself …
3. Don’t chase perfection. Prioritise what’s important. Don’t try to be perfect just be your best self 😊
4. Communication is key. Ask how each other feels don’t second guess
5. Love someone flaws and all
6. Don’t try fixing others. It’s not a project.
7. Are they good for you ?
Don’t idealise just because they like you
8. Sacrifices should be mutual
9. Support each other in your aspirations. Nurture each others growth
10. Best friends caring, fun, respectful and kind. Quality time together
Thank you guys 😊
Good
Goid for any one...
Best friends is important. point.
At any age, this is insightful information thar we all need to share. Thank you for such a thoughtful list.
Thank you for the video I needed this 😊
I absolutely love the letter to your daughter. I didn't get much emotion/anything from my dad 😅had to learn the hard way a lot so I really appreciate that gesture 🧚♀️
When I first saw my father cry, i believe I was a teenager. Perceiving him so strong, so well put together, so talented, I couldn't believe a man really can cry! It really broke my heart as his daughter. But over time I learned to have so much respect for a man that can show his vulnerable side. Because we all have a heart, etc, but time, hystory, social expectations destroyed our soul. I see this time like real time for healing. In the end Earth has space for everyone, just some believe there we are too many. There is so much abundance for all of us. But without contrasts, and polarity we can't evolve our souls. We can't go against the 7th low of Univers. No matter how smart we think we are. Heart is heart, and started with love first of all. Love you guys. You really nice and I just discovered you. ❤❤❤
Excellent list of what women/ girls really need to hear to accept healthy love into their lives . I wish I had a father like these men . I had it go through the mill and I am now in a dating fast to work on my self worth and have an accountability partner who keeps me in line and questions my decisions so they remain in line with my values and integrity.
I love Adam and Gary together. This is great information. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I love this ..wish I knew all this sooner ❤
Does anyone know the link to his article that was published?
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counsellor, and how do i reach her?
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.
I believe you expressed yourself here, because you need your brothers and sisters support, that now a stronger then you, because they know how you might feel! There is no shame to cry, be upset. Is hard to say something to someone on healing path, because a wrong advice can do more damage, even if is with the best intention. All I can say is to move your focus. First, self introspection, keep busy with your hands and analyse your thoughts. They are not all true. Lots are impressions and energy we keep collecting. People that practice fasting, house clean, incense burning, mind silence they know a lot. But you can do it to. Wait until you will be able to learn and heal. There are so many women out there crying to find a ma to cherish them, move your focus. You 1st,you 2nd,you 3rd...Then the rest. ❤❤❤❤
Write down a list of qualities that drew you to her:-
Funny
Kind
Intelligent
Sensual
Supportive
And so on, you will see other things.
But as an example, after mourning for a while, there will be someone out there when you are ready. It's ok to miss someone. Understand why you have parted and where you both created the endings. You will grow from this. It's hard, keep the memory.
how are doing by now brother?
Thank you so much ☺️
Thank you so much for this meaningful sharing . I learned so much for it 😊🙏🏼
Ironic this should pop up as a topic after a 40 year high school reunion.....many of us in attendance have known of each other since 1st grade! This gave us the opportunity to look back...laugh..reminisce about classmates and teachers😂..plus look at where we are now. I suspect my college homecoming will be similar...#beingyourauthenticself
The thought isn’t “ I can change him”. It’s more that “he could be so much more.” it’s not always a I can fix him as much as recognizing a persons potential.
Wow, this list is awesome. Imagine if all father's spoke to their daughters like this. There would be less heartache and abuse, and more respect and appreciation for both sexes
Yeay!! 1st somewhere 😊
Btw, there's no such a thing of mother instinct. Smthg that I've heard from a great psychologist that mother instinct doesn't exist so much so that there are women who has no desire to have kids and they do because of family pressure, society, "fit in" or culture. And they treat their kids horribly because they didn't want them in the first place.
And it's so nice to see a guy who cries and has no shame. Crying is a natural response. 💜❤ How sweet!!
We dont have to sacrifice everything because Jesus Christ did
The 5 minutes of explanation BEFORE the presentation almost stopped me from listening. Save all the explanations and inspirations until AFTER you present the material. Or at lease shortern it to a minute or 2 so you don’t lose your audience before you even get started. IMHO