Answering Questions: Dating A Disabled Lesbian...!
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In support of Scope's #EndTheAwkward campaign here's a video about what it's like dating someone who's disabled- with extra lesbian flavour and some hilarious stories! Mother, please do not watch this video... Thank you to Sammy Drew for asking the questions that sparked this!
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Aubrey Lynne hi it ok to reach out and ask for help you shouldn’t feel ashamed of it it’s ok say safe ❤️😊😊
You look to be a great couple.
"I just carried on drinking my tea and was like "are you ok darling?""
The cutests gayest most british thing ive heard
*lesbians* : *write that down! write that down!*
Yeah, most british thing I've ever heard for sure
I came to educate myself on deafness and I'm staying for the gay
jojo b. Hahaha! this is me
I came out of curiosity for the deafness because i have 45% loss in one ear. found out about the gay, about to binge her videos.
same😂
Dude this is me exactly
Same, same
"When you help me up the stairs you still squeeze my bum"
This, my friends is goals. Get yourself a partner who will squeeze your bum even when things aren't glamorous or sexy.
I read it fast and I thought you were saying theses are “friend goals” lmaoooooo🤣
Salted Milk if a gentle bum squeeze doesn't show affection among friends idek what else would
@@beeparadise9631 OoP I thought your pfp was my friend Bella (Isabella) XD
smol bean my real name is Bella that’s creepy
'do they wait until marrige' claudia asking the right questions hahahahaha
"we were um...expressing our attraction to each other" LOL
You two are so sweet . My husband and I are both disabled , and in wheelchairs .
Our situations were both progressive , so we weren't always in a wheelchair , I actually was first . I had people say that I was lucky he didn't leave me when I became disabled . Can you imagine .
We have in home care as well .
But we are very happy , and supportive to each other .
I wish you two a happy life together .
We just had our 30th anniversary this past October .
Sending greetings from Canada :)
Congratulations on your 30th anniversary, that's amazing! You guys sound like a great couple. And some people really need to know when to shut their mouths... no one should have said that to you, how hideous.
Yes , I agree . Some people have strange ways of thinking .
+Tonya Atkinson
Thank you so much
Congratulations, Shannon! You are lucky to have each other! :)
Shannon Traynor Stright GOALS!! This makes me believe in unconditional love.
Claudia is hilarious....she had me laughing sooo hard. You guys are just too cute together and perfect for each other.
Ohh thank you, I think so too! haha x
“Oh no! Don’t look! I’m so embarrassed. But please wash me :)”
this is really strange it's like me, well similar to me. I have a medical condition which left me blind in one eye, I wear a hearing aid also abd I am part of the lgbtq+ community. thank you for being so open about your disabilities on RUclips. makes me feel I Can still have a happy successful life even with my struggles.
Yes! You definitely can! I'm so glad my videos help you feel that way 💖 xxx
And has other chronic illnesses including chronic fatigue.
@Calvin, i can relate in my way. It is society that create struggle. the almighty gifted us with our own normal self.are you struggling with the other eye or is it working ok..
Like, completely blind?
@@unicorn1655 some people are blind or no usable vision to the point their brain just cancels it out. My dad does. As a kid it was a lazy eye. He didn't use the stickers. My bro probablywould almost already be at 16. If my mom didn't fight with him every day as a small kid to wear an eye patch.
Life is normal with vision in one eye for a lot. You can do everything altho possibly not be a pilot cars are no issue tho
Awh, you guys are cute!
They ARE so cute! I need a second like button and I'm only half way through the video.
"guys" triggered
we agree!😍❤
Omg they are so adorable together. I'd so love to meet them both. The love is real here
Sapphic Underground 💘😢😢😢😢
I'm sorry if it offends you but you two look like disney princesses Ariel and Pocahontas. :D And I love it!
WhatTheHell OMG THEY DO
OMG yes 😂 but why should that offend them, I'd be really happy if someone compared me to a Disney princess
Okay now, Disney...I think you should start taking notes.
They remind me of Belle and Mulan🎎☄.
WhatTheHell YES!!! Didn’t pick up on this until now
Oh my goodness. the story when that woman/carer walked in when you were in bed had me crying of laughter. Hahahaha, so much fun!
haha! x
"She isn't lacking in any way..." "It's what she HAS that makes me attracted to her, I'm focusing on that, and not on her flaws." This is what real love is. Every partner in a love relationship should be like this.
I stumbled across this quite by accident. I am disabled and gay and along with a multitude of other problems have hearing loss. This just really made me laugh and gave me such a burst of positive optimism. You are both stunning and thank you so much for making this xxx
You're so welcome! Glad to have made you smile x
so this is the most adorable video I've ever watched?!! I laughed so so hard at the caretaker story
as weird as this sounds I can totally understand the bum squeeze thing
+Laura Barzoni ha ha, she was an amazing carer... so many funny stories though 😆 Thank you for the good wishes! X
More stories about that carer! Lol team up with other youtubers about the funniest carer stories. No names, of course....
That boobgrab in the end though !! 😅 Hihi, jokes aside, beautiful, beautiful video !
hehe thank you for your comment Kelyrin!
I DIDN'T EVEN CATCH IT LMAO
It was the eyebrow waggle along with it that got me. Lol
I rewatched the end because I missed it and Claudia's cheeky grin while doing it is everything ❤️
You two are adorable and sweet and obviously totally into each other and oh my goodness ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
I missed it then saw this comment and rewound, yay so great
Wow you guys are amazing! This video really made me happy, it was so full of love and perfectness.
Thank you so much xxx
Jessica Kellgren-Fozard you guys are really good to each other. Btw I like the 1920s, 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s, what? I just confused myself. I wish I had a girlfriend. I'll go cry now.
"Expressing our attraction to one another," is such a good euphemism.
Love the bum-squeezing mention. You're completely right about maintaining that feeling, that attention in your relationship regardless of whatever else is going on. It's about still being a human being in a relationship who happens to have a disability, rather than being a disabled person who happens to be in a relationship.
Love you guys and it's awesome to have you both weighing in on this stuff -- it's not often one gets to hear the partners' side of things. But I love even more how happy you both seem together. Hope things are going well for you xoxo
Hi Sal, I am so happy you enjoyed having both of us talking about it x
IM LITERALLY A DEAF (it’s not completely bad yet but it’s getting worse) LESBIAN YAYY IM SO HAPPY I FOUND YOUR CHANNEL
Yay I'm glad you did too.
As a disabled person who is LGBT, I can't stop smiling! I'm 18 and have never been on a proper date. I've tried relationships, but there are just so many setbacks that sometimes I wonder if it's even worth it. I've never even made it to the first date so far, and friendships are hard enough to maintain when you're "different'. Especially when those differences mean there are some days where you have to unexpectedly cancel plans or when you just can't talk to people sometimes. I'm visually impaired, have mental health problems, have carpal tunnel, am allergic to wheat, and have a condition so far undiagnosed which causes me many physical symptoms. It's quite complicated and time consuming to care for myself. And many people don't respond well to entering this new world in many cases. This video gave me hope I haven't had in a long time
I'll let you in on a secret (that is not really a secret)... I didn't start dating until I was 22. It took me time to be comfortable in my rather difficult body and to really crystallise who I am as a person. I think you have to really love yourself before you can share that love with others. Good luck 💕
Hahaha, this video made me laugh so much! The carer story was fantastic. Also, I imagined Claudia standing there, sipping her tea, being like "Are you okay darling?" while you were laying on the stairs. :D You really are a peculiar couple and I mean that in the best way. Thank you for sharing! :D
Ha ha, I'm taking that as a great compliment! x
You are brave and open about your deafness, funny, and gay?
Time to binge watch every video. 😂
I love this video very much, in fact I've watched it a couple of times already! Despite the fact that you were talking about awkwardness surrounding disability, all I can see emanating from this video is the love that the two of you have for each other, it's adorable to watch! When Claudia said "She wasnt lacking in any way to me" I awwwed with you. Our world needs more love like yours. New subscriber and follower.
Thank you so much and glad to have you in the club! The fact Claudia doesn't see my disability is amazing and one of the reasons I married her. She is perfection in my eyes
Same! So glad this video just popped up on my listings...love you guys!
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HAHAHA on "carrying on" when someone disabled has a moment, one of my friends used to pass out multiple times daily, and she coped best when she was just left to herself to wake up, take a breath and carry on. When she collapsed we basically made sure she was breathing then just squat down and carry on talking to each other until she woke up. Other people would FREAK out and ask if we needed any help because we're just ignoring this person on the floor. But when someone has those sorts of things regularly, you just take it in your stride and wait for them to be okay again (while making sure they're not in serious danger of course).
I agree about the desexualizing when you're crashing when you have fatigue, my ex would make me a tea and tuck me in then snuggle and rub my back or quietly share some kisses. I have lupus and it's been getting a lot better with my new doctor.
damn her wife is so natural and beautiful !
This could apply to both of them and I love it
That bit with the old lady and the duvet had me laughing. Cheers, what a beautiful and loving couple.
I am neither disabled nor gay and somehow stumbled upon your videos. You two are super cute and both beautiful people
It's so nice to see two amazing people so happy together. Big hug
Thank you! Big hug back x
I love this video! I can really relate to this, I have Addison's disease (an autoimmune disease), asthma, and I'm 75%blind (one prosthetic eye and 50% loss in my right eye). I love it when people say "oh my you look so healthy". And all of my bones ache and my body is ready to crash! My wife takes wonderful care of me, better than I take care of myself! I hit your channel by accident and I'm glad I did. You are two beautiful women and take care of each other. It's so nice to see when someone doesn't care about disabilities and just accepts them! I wish you a wonderfully beautiful life together! Thanks for sharingJohn
Thank you so much for such a lovely comment John! x
I really appreciate this particular video because as a person with multiple neuro-divergencies AND a few chronic injuries, I so often feel like I'm not allowed to have multiple different sets of needs at the same time. It's almost like, "NO! You only get to pick one!" lol
This video was so important to me. Being lgbt+ and having CFS and fibromyalgia, I have a carer too. It was so nice to know I'm not the only one, and to know that it doesn't have to get in the way (as only one person has ever just been cool with it). You guys are such a lovely couple, this made me so happy :)
I'm so glad this video connected with you! The right person will look past any difficulties you have to who you are inside. Just three years ago I hoped that was true but didn't fully believe... and then I met Claudia! So pleased to have made you happy 😊 x
I feel so happy watching you two. You remind me of the old saying, “Don’t go where you’re tolerated, go where you’re celebrated.” Blessings on both of you. 🙏
it made me so happy to watch a real lesbian couple casually talking about their life :) and also very interesting to know how your life works together with you being disabled
The great thing about deaf channels.. There's always CC!! It makes me so happy to actually be able to catch everything you're saying
Claudia ‘oh sod it’ *throws the duvet off*
🤣🤣 had me creased up
"She wasn't lacking in any way to me. "
AWWW THAT IS SO CUTE!
I'm so in love with you guys! 😍
First question answer, Claudia made me cry. That was so sweet!!!
The story about the carer made me fall off my couch laughing, and the tears continued (due to laughter that time lol).
But you have so win the jackpot with Claudia!!! It's awesome! The world needs a lot more people like you two 😍
Aw, thank you lovely! I have definitely found a truly amazing woman and I'm very blessed to have her as my wife 💗
I'm a CNA and your story about being walked in on by the caregiver warmed my heart and also gave me the best of laughs!!
I can definitely feel I am going to become a regular fan...............
Aw, welcome to the channel! ❤
Aw, welcome to the channel! ❤
She reminds me of Rose off of titanic
Nailed it✝️👍
You both are so cute. Omg
Oh you are a sweetheart x
Giiirl, if I met someone who was like "I'm deaf, half blind and practice quakerism" I'd be googling the 3rd one too.
also, the story about the carer enterig the room while you were having sex was hilarious 😀
I laughed out loud throughout this entire video! Thank you for the humor and being so genuine.
This made me cry. I loved this so much. I've just started dating someone and as a disabled person, I was so nervous to show them the parts of my life where I struggle but I let them in and they've been so caring and amazing about it. I hope it progresses in the same way yours has with the same attitude towards my illnesses.
This is amazing! My girlfriend of four months is deaf. We also met online, and before our first actual meeting I learned some sign language to be able to communicate better with her
You two are delightful beams of light and I’m so grateful you are sharing your story with us. So sweet!
You’ve inspired me to accept my true “posh” British accent and I love it, thank you 👌🏻
How come you had trouble accepting your accent?? I am sure you sound nice. At least to us foreigners. All brits sound sweet to us, some more than others but all you sound somehow nice. The difference is in understanding. Sometimes even though it sounds nice, you just can't get what people are saying :P
@@saralampret9694 in the UK, if you have a posh accent you can end up sounding either condescending and stuck up or juvenile. Obviously this stereotype can be broken, as in the case of Jessica and Ricky Duggan (original commentor).
@@affadoodletigressjointacco932 Oh thanks for explanation :)))
You guys are the sweetest! Lovely video! 💖✨
Thank you! x
This makes me so happy 😊❤️ I’m a disabled lesbian too, though my disabilities are not physical. My wife is such a blessing, she supports me so much and helps me navigate life so much better.
This is so lovely to see! I've only been dealing with my disability for about a year and a half now, and trying to navigate dating has been a bit of a new challenge. So nice to hear other people talking about it!
It's always a bit of a challenge yes!
You two are the cutest, and I love that story about the little Irish lady walking in ahahaha
Aw you two are legit sooo cute together! X
Aw, thank you! x
I absolutely love this video! I suffer from a number of physical conditions myself, and my partner is SO understanding even though this is all new for him. It is so sweet to see the way you two take care of each other.
Wow thank you for sharing your awesome relationship like this! I’m a lesbian with chronic depression (and partial hearing loss, but I get by). I just left a relationship in part because I sensed that my girlfriend didn’t truly accept my depression; she didn’t seem to fundamentally understand that I couldn’t “snap out of it” willingly. Thank you for giving me hope that it’s possible to maintain a healthy romance in spite of our flaws 💕
This is the first video I've seen on Jessica's channel and I'm in love with them both! ❤️ Can't wait to watch more.
Can I please just say how much I completely adore you both
I'm crying this video is so wholesome
Two beautiful spirits! My wife and I send our love from Oregon. Thanks for the laughs and the courage you bring to the world 😀
I love someone who can't walk and can't open her hands due to her disability so it would definitely help to hear how others deal with their partner being able and themselves being disabled.
Tren Gamer there are also some great articles on the Offbeat Bride site🙂
I've just discovered your channel and I have to say this video has totally set me up for the day. You're lovely and rather inspiring :)
Thank you so much! Glad to add some pep to your step x
I hope you see this, Jessica. Thank you so much for choosing to educate people about your personal story. I have been searching for people I can relate to, and you're a blessing. Thank you. Best wishes to Claudia and you!
The way they look at each other!! This vid made me so happy
You are such an inspiration to everyone Jessica ❤️️
Wow, thank you, that's absolutely lovely of you x
You both are adorable!! And i am learning something new so it helps alot.
the way jessica laughes omg i needed that today 💓
Love how open and honest you both are
My mums disabled and our family are Quakers! Love you x
yay for disabled Quakers! 💗
Just stumbled upon this video (from Tessa Kennedy's video) and realised I have been smiling throughout the whole video:) This truly warms my heart and just wanna say thank you for doing this video
Thank you for sharing your life so openly with us! I dont drink, I cant eat sugar, and a family member has had chronic fatigue my whole life, and I know how hard it can be to always be explaining that! Love you two!
i just found your channel and i am nearly crying i'm so happy to see a couple like you two. it gives me hope for myself and my future
My girlfriend and I both have disabilities and it's been really awesome because we're both very understanding of each other, but also they are different so we can help each other. She's visually impaired so I read subtitles for her. I have scoliosis so she helps me lift things. It has been really nice having someone who is so understanding.
Who is that one person that disliked this sweet video of 2 clearly in love humans.
Thank you, that's very sweet of you!
"people who DISLIKES it are ugly fat butthurt virgins"
Yes, of course... there can't be legitimate reasons to not like it.
knrdvmmlbkkn What are their legitimate reasons seeing as you've spoken to all of them.
knrdvmmlbkkn where are those legitimate reason?
Who are those 350 ppl now????
i feel like i don't say this enough but i just love you two and going back and watching your old videos just fills me with such joy while we all wait patiently and with baited breath for your next video! i especially love rewatching this video because it always gives me hope that all my health problems will be figured out and i can work WITH them enough to the point i can focus on other things, like relationships. seeing interrabled lesbian relationships is really important and shows me that i can find my own claudia and not deal with the two camps you mentioned of either "oh i can't deal with this" or the "oh my tiny baby i must take care of for the rest of your life and not treat you as my equal". gosh! i just love you two. best couple 💞 you're so perfect together, even with your ups and downs you just fit so right together.
You're my hero. I've been in the wheelchair for about a year now, and I've binge watched your videos because your spirit shines like the sun. Thank you.
The ending was hilarious!
I absolutely love this video, I'm chronically ill and have given up on the idea of dating because I don't know how people can understand what it's like. Claudia and you are an inspiration showing it's possible to find love even when your health isn't where you'd like it to be. Thank you both so much for sharing your life, it really helps 😊lovely ladies xx
Hi Erin! Always happy to help x
I'm just glad you share your story, it gives me hope! Your love is just beautiful💕💕💕also you are hilarious too!
I've been through a break up recently and disability/illness (though thankfully mine are pretty mild) was a factor. It's been so comforting to see this and to see a relationship working despite the extra difficulties. Thank you
Why does this make me cry... when she said "she wasn't lacking anything to me"...
You guys make me so happy!
Ha, omg I love the squeeze on the bum detail. It's so important to not feel mothered by your SO. It's insufferable... Ha
Love it 😍 so good video that career is story hilarious ! . X. Love and support always Lindsey
hilarious... and deeply embarrassing for poor Claudia! Ha ha ha x
I love this so much. I just stumbled upon this Channel and have been watching your videos. I have a physical disability (mainly in my knees) that makes things a lot harder to do and it causes a lot of fatigue. I really loved seeing this, it reminded me of my girlfriend and I. Whenever I’m taking a little longer to get to my classes at school she follows along with me and never gets frustrated that I take 1000 years to get to one place. 😊such a sweet video
You guys are the cutest
This is so cute. I love this, best video ever *crying
Aw thank you, that's so sweet of you! x
The two of you are so fun to watch!
I love this video! You just popped up in my suggestions, this is the second video I've watched. My daughter has spina bifida, full time wheelchair user, it makes my heart so happy and hopeful seeing how you to get on and just go with the flow. Thank you!
I loved this. My cousin has chronic fatigue syndrome/ehlers-danlos and it's hard to describe it to someone. Seeing your video made me happy to see total acceptance.
Amy Zeppa I have EDS as well! Sending him/her some zebra love ❤️
I'm a 58 yo who loves vintage everything! Which brought me to your channel..I've watched many of your video's this is one of my favorites..you are a wonderful couple! Everyone wants to find that special someone. You two are so funny! Love you two..keep the video's comming😍
Listening to you guys talk gives me life
Jessica, I already adore you for your positivity and cheer, but I really love Claudia for her character too. You are both delightful and funny women, and I am so glad you have each other.
You gained a subscriber! You both seem lovely.
+Millie A. Thank you! ❤❤❤
Gosh you two are so lovely. I really like your videos thank you
Thank YOU! x
I love this video. You explain things in such a natural and funny way! I am partially deaf and have a back / leg disability too. I always make fun of it as it is the best way to deal with it. You have a follower in me!!
Her dancing in the outro is a mood
Jessica you have a beautiful voice and accent!😻😭
I just discovered this channel and im glad it was in my recommendations. You guys are extremely cute!!!
So glad liked it!
You two are simply delightful. Share the love.
You guys have so great chemistry, brought a huge smile on my face without me noticing first