Sex is not like a handshake. Yet that's exactly how many people treat it. As far as the WORD of GOD is concerned, there is to be NO SEX to be had until you are married. Sexual relations is ONLY to be had with your spouse. Now, many of us didn't grow up knowing that. However, once you know better, you should DO BETTER and teach your kids BETTER. It's no laughing matter as those females on the show make it out to be. In the old times women having sex for fun (not married or adultery) were considered WHORES and worthy of the DEATH PENALTY. Today, they are still considered WHORES by the WORD of GOD, even though society doesn't punish them for their wicked deeds. However, if they do not REPENT and TURN from that WICKED LIFESTYLE to FOLLOW JESUS CHRIST, they will be CONDEMNED to HELL FIRE FOREVER. That is called the SECOND DEATH. (See Revelation 21:7-8) ---------- Greetings dear ones, JESUS CHRIST loves us all and "Salvation" is in HIS NAME "Alone." "Believe and be Saved!" AMEN. The Gospel message we share: GOD Loves us all. JESUS CHRIST came to seek and to save that which was lost. HE came into this world to save sinners. All humans have sinned except JESUS CHRIST. JESUS lived a perfect life yet died a horrible death for our sins. GOD the FATHER raised HIS SON up from the dead and set HIM at HIS own RIGHT HAND in Heaven. JESUS CHRIST shall return again at the appointed time to judge the world in righteousness. Only those who are born of the SPIRIT of GOD shall be saved in the end. Therefore, to see GOD you "Must" be Born Again (Jn 3:3). Call on JESUS CHRIST! Ask HIM to save your soul today. Be baptized with water and "Receive and Obey" HIS WORDS all of your days, seeking GOD'S HOLY FACE in prayer every day and night so that you can be ready when the LORD returns. AMEN. If you have any questions or desire prayer, feel free to contact me. JESUS CHRIST loves you. AMEN. Scripture References: John chapters 3 & 14, Isaiah chapter 53, Acts chapter 3 and "All" of the Holy Bible. Praise CHRIST JESUS! AMEN.
love Grace God doesn't bless everyone with a spouse. I learned that the hard way, wait and wait and wait year after year single. Then watched fornicators get married no problem, no waiting, no struggles, living their best lives. Meanwhile waiting, struggling in singleness, and suffering in loneliness...Some people don't want to be single forever, some people don't have the "gift" of singleness, but still remain single NOT by choice. Not having sex before marriage doesn't guarantee that you'll find someone to marry.
I care about how you got your sexual partners, how you treated them, how serious you were about sexual health, and how loyal and honest you were. Having sex with one person that doesn’t get tested or maintain good hygiene can have serious repercussions. Having sex with someone who has had multiple partners but remains diligent about safety is a far better scenario.
Ppl don't think about this, but just because a person has only slept with one partner in their lifetime, doesn't necessarily mean that it was just one man or one woman-- Demons tranfer with/without protection. Now, you've just slept with multiple ppl. 😒 Oh it's real out here. We got to stop looking at things in the natural and start seeing things from a spiritual standpoint.
@ Mike Carter Why yes I do! Thank you for noticing! If I am looking for casual sex, a doctor’s note stating that they are free of std’s will suffice. If I am looking for a relationship, then yes those details are important.
Mike Carter You don’t have to run, we clearly wouldn’t be in each other’s vicinity. All of what I stated are going to be indicators of how respectful he is.
You can sleep with multiple people & be clean. It's called condoms. Why do we put worth on people based on who they've slept with. You shouldn't care unless they've cheated or haven't been tested.
I don't care. If you had safe sex and you were enjoying it that is what really matters. This is coming from a girl who lost her vcard to her husband. Never judge! Just be safe girls(emotionally, mentally, and physically).
I did the finger thing, too, for personal reasons. I believe in soul ties. I don’t judge other people on their “body count” though. I don’t necessarily need to know the number & I think it’s rude to ask.
Hmm... Lots of sex partners though tends to have other baggage though. Too many people make the mistake of thinking STDs and kids are the only bad things sex brings. It messes with you psychologically and makes it harder to commit the more sex you have.
look at what is does later in life though, no kids, no ideal husband, staying in the old folks home instead of with grandkids. kinda sad when you think about it. Unless you healthy and workout allot and you ok with not having kids, not everybody has to be a parent if they dont want to.
@@adrian3865 but sleeping with a lot of men is not why Loni s not married, she turned down three proposals because she valued building a career more than being a wife and also sleeping with 1 guy doesn't guarantee that you will end up being married
Honestly I don't have to worry about that because I made the vow to myself to save myself til marriage and I PLAN to keep that commitment to myself ! It's not gon be easy but I know I can do it !
Yes there are facts. Women have more estrogen than men. Estrogen works in conjunction with oxytocin which makes women more attached to men through sex, so even when they think its just casual, their hormones are binding themselves to that man. After a woman has released this hormone, it becomes harder for her to pair bond with the next man. The more she casually does this, the more jaded and cynical she becomes and the less likely she will ever be satisfied in a long term relationship. I am sorry but this is nature and science. You can not refute this. It doesn't matter if you like it or not. There is nothing you can do to change this.
This conversation was so biased and the comment section is worse. You set your own standards and they may not always align with what other people or high and mighty Christians are doing but as long as you can live with your decisions, they improve your character and you are being SAFE, save judgement for someone who cares
I bet you she has. Why not? I totally relate to her because I have always been looking for a serious relationship for many years, but it's been hard for me to find one, so you end up actually sleeping with a lot of different people. It's a real thing. I totally relate to Loni.
Is it me or does Adrienne tend say things that the audience would agree with and when they don’t agree she gets in her feelings but using her face and try to flip it around to what the audience does agree with?
They’re sitting there almost judging for how many people. Who cares how many people you sleep with; long as you’re clean, have good practices, and don’t cheat
Unless you're dating someone who's a virgin, It shouldn't matter how many people they slept with before dating you. As long as they used protection and you BOTH get tested BEFORE DATING and their clean....everything is fine. Unless you're trying to learn what their into and expressing what you like, then of course.
TiaCuppe Wrong. Statistically the more partners you have the more likely you are to get an STD. Yes I know all it takes is one time to get one but statistically you have a higher chance. If someone doesn't want to sleep with someone who has slept with a lot of people then they have the right to make that decision. It's not just about std's either. How many people have had a one night stand and don't even know they got someone pregnant? Don't want someone coming around saying that your bf is a father. The more partners also means more potential angry ex bf's/gf's. It's about weighing all the risks of dating someone who has had a lot of partners.
The only man I've ever been with is my husband. My relationship with the Lord has had the greatest affect and impact on my life. I've made bad choices though lol in other ways but the Lord has blessed me to only give myself to my king.
Lol. My baby father asked me the question and I told him the truth because before him sex was not appealing to me.. but NOW!! He rocks my world and I love it
Sexual history really matters to most people because they think that it shows who really the person is and how he/she handle a relationship. For me, it doesn't matter at all as long as you are mature enough to handle the situation, it's your own body, no one should dictate you from doing so.
I need another pair of hands. I was young, single, and had money... my early 20s were awesome, and when you are confident , even better. Still, I will never give up my number to the hubby... not that he cares... goose/gander, ladies...quit frontin’!!!
@@oreocarlton3343 Obviously he didn’t ask her. She’s not keeping secrets. He doesn’t care what her “number” is. How about you let them decide what’s “nasty” and what’s not in THEIR relationship.
It’s wrong to lie because it’s really a form of manipulation where the individual is being duped into a relationship under false pretences. By law, that can be considered as fraud and although people can’t tell others what to do with their sex life but they can’t dictate other people’s dating preferences and opinions.
And ladies, it’s not only numbers racking up but soul ties we’re creating when having intimate relationships with them and transfer of energies whether being good energy or not.
T Y: It's not being a hypocrite if you do something, realize it's damaging and warn others not to do what you did. She's smart for recognizing the damage lots of sex partners can do to you beyond STDs and kids. It's not good for people and for sure, no one should hope their daughter sleeps with tons of guys...
So it’s rude to ask someone (you’re considering marrying) how many sexual partners they’ve been with and not rude to ask their credit score? The reason I compared it to that is because if a bank can look at your credit history to see if you’re responsible enough to be given a loan, I’m definitely gonna ask you how many people you’ve been with to see if you’re responsible enough to have me be apart of your life (long term). Wake up y’all. Sex ain’t as casual as you think.
Yes and no. Just remember as women, you reap what you sow, it might not appear apparent in that moment in time but it will down the road when age catches up with them. And yes their partner has the right to know, especially if they're going to marry them and they're a high value male, as it determines their future as well. If you're proud and have nothing to hide, own it, be honest and forthcoming. No good relationship is build on lies and misinformation. The truth comes out sooner or later. Unless of course you're ashamed of it, and a person is only ashamed if it is something they feel is wrong or not good, hence they feel the need to hide it. And if women refuse to talk about their sexual history, their male partners are just going to assume it's a lot anyways unless proven otherwise. Especially, in today's technological climate with social media, facebook private messages, snapchat deleted messages, IG DM's, online dating websites, dating apps, hook-up culture etc. The attention, the temptations to cheat and increase the number of sexual partners is higher than ever for women. Women are constantly being tested the most for these kind of behaviours. Men are not stupid, they are fully aware of this, especially the highly coveted ones. If a man gets a feeling or an intuition that a women is promiscuous, he is either going to cheat, leave for the next best thing or become single, or wait for the woman to be fed up with him and cheat or break it off herself. But women are either oblivious or tend to feign ignorance. So women have to choose, a "life" of promiscuity (up to a certain age) or a life of marriage with a person they truly desire. You can't have both, it doesn't work that way. So it depends on what women value more.
X 2 Past relationship shouldn’t matter and first of all they shouldn’t be mentioned. The # of sexual partners doesn’t determine a woman or mans integrity.
@@mamiloca30 Past relationships shouldn't matter, but it does. Also we should be careful to not equate past "relationships" with past one-night stands, random hookups, fwb or other sexual forms of agreements. Don't spare any specifics details or definitions. "The # of sexual partners doesn't determine a woman's (or a man's but if we are being genuine and real we're talking mostly about women) integrity." Yes, in an ideal world that would be the case, but we don't live in an ideal world. And human behaviours don't operate by the those guiding principles, it operates by different physical laws of nature. This biological hardwiring is created in both sexes through eons of evolution and civilization. A women has to choose, weigh what is more valuable to her. You can't have your cake and eat it too. Men have to adhere to impossible standards and measures as much as women do. There are double standards for both sexes, it's unfortunate but it is what it is and I wish it weren't so. Life is unfair, society is unfair, that is the way of the world. Besides what does a person have to hide, exaggerate, and lie about if past relationships or if the # of sexual partners doesn't matter (rhetorical)? If this high quality/value man is the one, he may stay, or he may leave, and a woman should let him go if he does decide to break it off and leave, even it pains her to. But whatever he chooses, that is his right. And I will say this now as a caveat, a high quality and self-respecting man will most likely leave. But if you don't care for a high value man and a low quality man suffice, or you're okay with being single or whatever indefinitely, then you have nothing to worry about and you do you. I'm not advocating you or other women out there to do this or that. They are fully grown individuals with freedom to do what they want sexually in the sexual market. This serves only as an advice, take it or not, it's fine. I can confidently speak for a large consensus of men on these kinds of subjects, who feel the same way. And who may or may not voice this to women about these things for one reason or another. These are just suggestions, but you're free to do what you please at the end of the day. Just be aware of the repercussions for the choices and actions that a young woman makes today, yesterday, or tomorrow for moments of fleeting pleasures.
@@mamiloca30 I should also note that women who say "# of sexual partners shouldn't matter" tend to be the ones who already have a high body count of sexual partners or looking to excuse that behaviour due to poor impulse control. Sometimes, they are the same women who deep down may regret it as it now affects their dating and marriage prospects. Their words speaks differently than their actions. And sometimes are also trying to convince or sabotage other women who haven't had the opportunity to rack up a high body count yet. In essence, misery loves company. It is a bit disingenuous. Women can be their own worst enemies and the curator of their own miseries. Sexual liberation is great and like all great things it comes at a price. So you decide what kind of woman you want to be and what kind of man you want to attract.
X 2 past relationships only matter to people who are insecure 😟 a confident person wouldn’t ask such question because it doesn’t matter or make a difference.
Your sexual history matters A LOT especially if the man asking you is looking for a serious relationship and looking to start a family with you, there are scientific studies on how women are permanently emotionally damaged from going having multiple sexual partners. As someone else here mentioned they carry the DNA of every man they have slept with + the oxytocine (a.k.a the love hormone) high they get from being with a partner is permanently reduced which destroys their ability to pair bond and create long lasting relationships. It is like a tape, being virgin is like fresh tape if you stick in on something it is strong, the more you pull the tape away and put it back on to something the weaker the tape gets. Women work the same way. If you spend your youth riding the cock carousel you have completely ruined your body, you are emotionally damaged and unable to start families. The vast majority of divorces are made by couples who had premarital sex. Once you hop on the cock carousel, you can't get off the ride. You will be stuck
I want to know how many people my man has slept with, I don’t don’t want to be sharing my body with the whole world through one person, and it sickens me that people couldn’t give a thought about this and whether the person has diseases.
You can test for STI's without revealing numbers. That just an excuse for people wanting the number. Be real. It isn't all about the sti's it's about insecurity.
i don’t know why it even matters. having fingers left over like are you serious? if you’re in a relationship and having sex every day you’re having more sex that someone sleeping with 2 partners a year. if you’re having safe sex, why is this something to judge??
I'm a virgin and I'm always so tempted to lie and say I've had sex already to save myself from the embarrassment of having to tell the men I date that I've never been with a guy before. They always seem shocked and then tell me "but you're so pretty..." as if the only reason why someone would not have sex at my age is because they're hideous and can't find a partner to have sex with lol.
I’m almost 23 and a virgin. But for me very spiritual about it, and I’m also very afraid of getting an STD. So when I get married, my husband will more than likely be the only man I’ve been with.
You did the right thing and trust me most high value men would choose you over the others. And if any "feminist" tells you otherwise then know this they are trying to bring you down to their level so that you don't have an upper hand
Why Loni look like Samantha on the episode of Sex and the City when she went to the clinic for an AIDS test and the doc asked her how many sexual partners she's had??? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I’m with Adrienne on this. I have a lot of fingers left because you have to be careful who you entwine your soul with when you have sex with someone. Every time you laid down with someone and have sex your soul is entwine with theirs and whoever they have had sex with. Soul ties! And people may not understand the emotional feelings etc that they are experiencing and it’s because of those soul ties!
I really just think it depends on the woman or man. If you don’t care about the number then do whatever, if you do care, then be more selective. It’s as simple as that.
For women, the more men they had in them, the less likely she can pair-bonded with a man long-term. There's a reason why we used to tell women to keep their legs closed until marriage.
Your sexual history matters A LOT especially if the man asking you is looking for a serious relationship and looking to start a family with you, there are scientific studies on how women are permanently emotionally damaged from going having multiple sexual partners. As someone else here mentioned they carry the DNA of every man they have slept with + the oxytocine (a.k.a the love hormone) high they get from being with a partner is permanently reduced which destroys their ability to pair bond and create long lasting relationships. It is like a tape, being virgin is like fresh tape if you stick in on something it is strong, the more you pull the tape away and put it back on to something the weaker the tape gets. Women work the same way. If you spend your youth riding the cock carousel you have completely ruined your body, you are emotionally damaged and unable to start families. The vast majority of divorces are made by couples who had premarital sex. Once you hop on the cock carousel, you can't get off the ride. You will be stuck
It's funny that women say it's none of men's business, but if you're trying to get into a relationship with someone then they have a right to interview you and you're EXPECTED to answer truthfully, just like when you ask him a question he should answer it honestly. You don't get to decide for other people what's tolerable or acceptable for them. You put your cards on the table and they're either with it or they're not. Simple as that.
I thought that I was the only one to go by the hand method, but I use to say (to myself) never go over one hand.🖐 I stuck with it and got married with fingers left over.
I've never lied about my history at all. Some people find that the number of guys I dated and the number of guys I've kissed (different numbers cause I've kissed people I haven't dated) is a lot and some people don't. And then when you look at how many people I've slept with (not how many times I've done it with them), it's very low because not everybody is worth going to bed with.
Hey everybody. :] I'm a 26 years old, woman & virgin. No boyfriend, husband, nothing. I feel happy, secure & if I ever get married, I will love my husband. Just saying hehe pero if not, happy being single. ^^ It doesn't define you ladies & men.
Even in the Bible it states your accountable for everything you have done. Yes! You're forgiven but still accountable. So grow up! And........stop being delusional.
When its a lot u can forget the number that's why u keep a list like my ex. He slept with 100+ when I started questioning. It was freaking crazy! I can count the amount of dudes I slept with on my hand and I'm proud of that. As for other stuff...that's a secret.
It matters to me because I think sex is an intimate act you do with someone you truly care about. So either you’ve cared deeply about a lot of people or you don’t put the same value on it. Either way, that’s a cause for pause for me.
Honestly a lot of y’all saying don’t judge by the number IM JUDGING. The amount of men you sleep with does show a lot about your character. Your values, Your Standards etc..
Mineral It shows what your standards are an in. Do you value intimacy? How do you view sex? How do you value yourself as a person. What are important to you in a relationship? What are important to you in a relationship? Knowing the amount of people you sleep with and /or you allow yourself to have intercourse with shows what your values are as a person.
Sam I yes and i enjoy that about him. As a women and raising both my children female and male I will always teach them to be careful with who they choose to sleep with and not everyone that they like or attracted to needs loving from them.
But what about that ties into those things? It's hard to explain what I mean. For example; how does your number determine what you find important? What values does it reveal about you as a person? it Seems like a lot of assumptions are being made here. We're all different so, for some , they can sleep with a lot of people but still value a relationship while others feel like they need to stay a virgin. I don't think we can judge someone's reality (especially since we aren't living it) based on who they slept with. Also, what would be the cut off for too many? At what point does someone become of bad character because of their partners? This whole idea is culturally transmitted. There are societies in the world where a woman is more valuable if she is more sexually experienced and vice versa. As long as someone is healthy- it means nothing in an over all sense. Yes, an individual can be affected by their actions but we can't blanket everyone.
@@lacerav5818 Because if a girl goes up to a guy and is a kind person the guy and people see her as innocent, if a guy goes up to a girl, they think they're gonna get robbed. lol
People be so quick to say their disgusted by a number but you could sleep with one person and still catch something.....so. Anyway I do think woman should think twice about who they sleep with. I wish i couple take some back ....i went through a phase of feeling completely insecure and worthless after a bad break up and use to want any attention I could get ...ultimately I lost respect for myself and a lot of other things...within the last few months I have found my self confidence and completely rebuilt the respect I have for myself. I dont judge anyone else anymore becuase things happen people change. It's all about how you feel with yourself. My advice is just before you have sex to think about how you will feel after about yourself. Stop shaming others when you know nothing about them.
the issue is never about the sexual history of a woman but of the present lie they give when they say they want to marry the nice guy and here the nice guy gets no love, no sex, no respect this is where history comes again to the fore, that past cannot be eliminated if the present is indirectly hooked in its details
23 and still a virgin. But I guess not for long because I am getting married in 2 months!!! 🙌🏾
Congrats!!$
Congratulations 🎉🎊 22 going strong 💪🏾
Oh yeah get ready! Lol
Go you
Congrats
Why does Adrienne look like a flight attendant 😂
😭😂😂
But not Virgin.
Cos she been riding them D's!!!!
Fab stop😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
she's part of the mile high club
Loni’s expressions had me dyiiiing
😳😂
Sex is not like a handshake. Yet that's exactly how many people treat it. As far as the WORD of GOD is concerned, there is to be NO SEX to be had until you are married. Sexual relations is ONLY to be had with your spouse. Now, many of us didn't grow up knowing that. However, once you know better, you should DO BETTER and teach your kids BETTER.
It's no laughing matter as those females on the show make it out to be. In the old times women having sex for fun (not married or adultery) were considered WHORES and worthy of the DEATH PENALTY. Today, they are still considered WHORES by the WORD of GOD, even though society doesn't punish them for their wicked deeds. However, if they do not REPENT and TURN from that WICKED LIFESTYLE to FOLLOW JESUS CHRIST, they will be CONDEMNED to HELL FIRE FOREVER. That is called the SECOND DEATH. (See Revelation 21:7-8)
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JESUS CHRIST loves us all and "Salvation" is in HIS NAME "Alone." "Believe and be Saved!" AMEN.
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JESUS CHRIST came to seek and to save that which was lost. HE came into this world to save sinners. All humans have sinned except JESUS CHRIST. JESUS lived a perfect life yet died a horrible death for our sins. GOD the FATHER raised HIS SON up from the dead and set HIM at HIS own RIGHT HAND in Heaven. JESUS CHRIST shall return again at the appointed time to judge the world in righteousness. Only those who are born of the SPIRIT of GOD shall be saved in the end. Therefore, to see GOD you "Must" be Born Again (Jn 3:3). Call on JESUS CHRIST! Ask HIM to save your soul today. Be baptized with water and "Receive and Obey" HIS WORDS all of your days, seeking GOD'S HOLY FACE in prayer every day and night so that you can be ready when the LORD returns. AMEN.
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love Grace God doesn't bless everyone with a spouse. I learned that the hard way, wait and wait and wait year after year single. Then watched fornicators get married no problem, no waiting, no struggles, living their best lives. Meanwhile waiting, struggling in singleness, and suffering in loneliness...Some people don't want to be single forever, some people don't have the "gift" of singleness, but still remain single NOT by choice. Not having sex before marriage doesn't guarantee that you'll find someone to marry.
LMAOOO
🤣🤣loni a the best dwl
I care about how you got your sexual partners, how you treated them, how serious you were about sexual health, and how loyal and honest you were. Having sex with one person that doesn’t get tested or maintain good hygiene can have serious repercussions. Having sex with someone who has had multiple partners but remains diligent about safety is a far better scenario.
Good point!
Ppl don't think about this, but just because a person has only slept with one partner in their lifetime, doesn't necessarily mean that it was just one man or one woman-- Demons tranfer with/without protection. Now, you've just slept with multiple ppl. 😒
Oh it's real out here. We got to stop looking at things in the natural and start seeing things from a spiritual standpoint.
@ Mike Carter Why yes I do! Thank you for noticing!
If I am looking for casual sex, a doctor’s note stating that they are free of std’s will suffice. If I am looking for a relationship, then yes those details are important.
Mike Carter You don’t have to run, we clearly wouldn’t be in each other’s vicinity. All of what I stated are going to be indicators of how respectful he is.
You can sleep with multiple people & be clean. It's called condoms. Why do we put worth on people based on who they've slept with. You shouldn't care unless they've cheated or haven't been tested.
Im a virgin so this conversation is not for me!! 😭😭🙏
Same
I’m a 21 male and still a virgin holding on strong!
Me I'm 18
Same
Septua Gottii dude I applaude you for not being ashamed to say that!
VIRGIN SQUAD WHERE YOU AT!!! 🙋🏾♂️
*Virgins go to hell too when they don't accept Christ. I'm proud to be a born again Christian with sexual experiences*
Here!!!
Over here! Still got the “V” card! 🙌🏾
Who the hell said virgins automatically go to Heaven??? Get off my comment@@crystalmorrison1616
@@crystalmorrison1616 stfu
the girl should not judge another woman per her number
I agree. I would never judge a woman for having a higher number than me even if it was way higher.
I don't care. If you had safe sex and you were enjoying it that is what really matters. This is coming from a girl who lost her vcard to her husband. Never judge! Just be safe girls(emotionally, mentally, and physically).
We can judge her elasticity lol..
Exactly, there are people out here who had sexual with one person and caught life long diseases. Numbers truly don’t matter.
Well, not unless it's over 50 or even 100! Same goes for men, though!
Only 1 for me. I am still married to him. 41 years and counting.😍😍😍
😍🥰❤️😘
I got fingers left over too. 9 of them.
I got ten fingers left lol
@@bellamuable Well I'm 30 and married so it was bound to happen lol 😉
@@blameitonablackstar Waiting for marriage too 😊
@@bellamuable Awesome :)
Same! But I’m 21 and married so who knows! Lol
I did the finger thing, too, for personal reasons. I believe in soul ties. I don’t judge other people on their “body count” though. I don’t necessarily need to know the number & I think it’s rude to ask.
If i am considering you as a potential partner, nothing is rude of me to ask. Imma ask everything.
Nicole. I made the same pact. Helped me be more careful about who I chose to sleep with.
@known Tarsier Speak for yourself dumbass because I certainly don't care
its rude to ask the father of your children about his intimate family issues then too huh, and other stuff, so can that be called a relationship?
I've decided a long time ago that I would do the finger thing. I ain't comin' over 10 sex partners.
I don’t think you should have a ‘number’. The only thing a new SO should be concerned with are STDs tbh.
Yes
Hmm... Lots of sex partners though tends to have other baggage though. Too many people make the mistake of thinking STDs and kids are the only bad things sex brings. It messes with you psychologically and makes it harder to commit the more sex you have.
Chloe Bingo 💯💯
Thank you same thing I said !
@@vlo4829 not true
I didnt have sex til 21 .... And now im 28 and have only had one partner 🙆🏿🙆🏿
👍👍👍
Me too not 28 yet but only one partner since then too 😊
lifeisgolden41 good job 👏🏽💖
mine is 0 . like if yours is too lmao
MM E exactly some of us are good asf
Same I'm a virgin
Same zero. Waiting for marriage with the one who cares for me and has my best interest at heart.
Iqra Axmed yes girl, Iam a 27 year old virgin.....I feel u on that.
Iqra Axmed kudos to you😊👏I am 40 and this is nice to hear from your generation.
Loni been living her best life she could care less
look at what is does later in life though, no kids, no ideal husband, staying in the old folks home instead of with grandkids. kinda sad when you think about it. Unless you healthy and workout allot and you ok with not having kids, not everybody has to be a parent if they dont want to.
Adrian Oh please. All the fine ass “hoes” end up married.
@@adrian3865 but sleeping with a lot of men is not why Loni s not married, she turned down three proposals because she valued building a career more than being a wife and also sleeping with 1 guy doesn't guarantee that you will end up being married
COULD NOT Care less.
She has a boyfriend
Honestly I don't have to worry about that because I made the vow to myself to save myself til marriage and I PLAN to keep that commitment to myself ! It's not gon be easy but I know I can do it !
We can do it!!! 🙌
💥💣👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿❤
Good luck
You got this! ❤️ I waited until I married my husband at 25 and so did he. Our number is 1! 🙌🏼
That sucks!
Only 1 man for the rest of my life... my hubby
Are you his only?
Cute!
Amen! Same here, no roast beef vag
@@santanagonsalves6461 who cares
Hope Martinez
I wish more women were like you!
A lady doesn’t tell I Always say 3 😂
Juna Antenor that’s right hunni
Same lmao
Lmaooo I say who cares, own it no matter the number
Shame lol
Why not just be truthful. You'd get mad if the guy lied.
I’m confused about what people want to know??? What will you do with the information???
Shaterica Jenkins Judge you unfortunately
Ariel H Lol,oh I see...
the more sex partners you have the harder it is for you to pair bond
@@etf42 Stop spreading your opinions around. There are no facts to back up that statement
Yes there are facts. Women have more estrogen than men. Estrogen works in conjunction with oxytocin which makes women more attached to men through sex, so even when they think its just casual, their hormones are binding themselves to that man. After a woman has released this hormone, it becomes harder for her to pair bond with the next man. The more she casually does this, the more jaded and cynical she becomes and the less likely she will ever be satisfied in a long term relationship.
I am sorry but this is nature and science. You can not refute this. It doesn't matter if you like it or not. There is nothing you can do to change this.
This conversation was so biased and the comment section is worse. You set your own standards and they may not always align with what other people or high and mighty Christians are doing but as long as you can live with your decisions, they improve your character and you are being SAFE, save judgement for someone who cares
Simply Thandi yessss thank you for this comment , this comment section it’s extremely sexist and full with religious standard
I mostly just see people talking about their “numbers”
Take everything you hear w a grain of salt. If a guy tells you 5, automatically double it. I’m joking before someone gets mad lol
They just said that men are more likely to exaggerate.
Can’t get mad at facts 😂
women are not attracted to men who cant attract other women
facts
etf42 Women are not a monolith the same way that men aren’t. Attracting other people is not equal to sleeping with other people.
I got 10 fingers left 🤷🏻♀️
@Round Robin what????
Round Robin wow.
I really don't think Loni has had a lot of sexual partners like she claims.Adrienne stop it we all know it's been more than ten. 😆😆
I bet you she has. Why not? I totally relate to her because I have always been looking for a serious relationship for many years, but it's been hard for me to find one, so you end up actually sleeping with a lot of different people. It's a real thing. I totally relate to Loni.
You are judgemental!
why loni always b actin like shes active lol
Right 😂😩
Bacause she is a commedian
Maybe because she is...??
She....is.....
Maybe she is
I don’t want to marry someone whose slept around a lot. I have the right to that decision
You go bob :)
Is it me or does Adrienne tend say things that the audience would agree with and when they don’t agree she gets in her feelings but using her face and try to flip it around to what the audience does agree with?
all the time. looks for validation sometimes
Smart observation, , passed around, wierd and annoying
Girl you are speaking FACTS
It's you.
They’re sitting there almost judging for how many people. Who cares how many people you sleep with; long as you’re clean, have good practices, and don’t cheat
Repent and follow JESUS CHRIST!
a woman sexual experiences defines the type of man she's attracted to..if its too many then how can she settle with just one man
adrienne i love that u always advocate this - good for u girl .. you should def be proud of that
Unless you're dating someone who's a virgin, It shouldn't matter how many people they slept with before dating you. As long as they used protection and you BOTH get tested BEFORE DATING and their clean....everything is fine. Unless you're trying to learn what their into and expressing what you like, then of course.
TiaCuppe Wrong. Statistically the more partners you have the more likely you are to get an STD. Yes I know all it takes is one time to get one but statistically you have a higher chance. If someone doesn't want to sleep with someone who has slept with a lot of people then they have the right to make that decision. It's not just about std's either. How many people have had a one night stand and don't even know they got someone pregnant? Don't want someone coming around saying that your bf is a father. The more partners also means more potential angry ex bf's/gf's. It's about weighing all the risks of dating someone who has had a lot of partners.
@@dirkoneal3899 I never said they got tested. I said they SHOULD get tested and show you the results
@MM E Yes because liking sex really does define a person huh.
You are all shallow and want to know just to judge. Plain and simple.
@@tiacuppe6681
People should be able to judge the potential relationship partner, no?
The only man I've ever been with is my husband. My relationship with the Lord has had the greatest affect and impact on my life. I've made bad choices though lol in other ways but the Lord has blessed me to only give myself to my king.
Mine is 1 and he’s my husband now.
Not your business and None of your business!
Anti hahahahhahahha
Lol. My baby father asked me the question and I told him the truth because before him sex was not appealing to me.. but NOW!! He rocks my world and I love it
oh daddy yes daddy, yell it baby. lol im just playin'.
Sexual history really matters to most people because they think that it shows who really the person is and how he/she handle a relationship. For me, it doesn't matter at all as long as you are mature enough to handle the situation, it's your own body, no one should dictate you from doing so.
“I’m so old I forgot” 🤣 I have been with my boyfriend 6 years and I have 9 fingers left 🤙🏼
You're a saint
I need another pair of hands. I was young, single, and had money... my early 20s were awesome, and when you are confident , even better. Still, I will never give up my number to the hubby... not that he cares... goose/gander, ladies...quit frontin’!!!
Repent and follow JESUS CHRIST!
Keep a secret to your husband? Nasty.
@@oreocarlton3343 Obviously he didn’t ask her. She’s not keeping secrets. He doesn’t care what her “number” is. How about you let them decide what’s “nasty” and what’s not in THEIR relationship.
@@lalaalaaalaaaa she said herself shell never say the number, if he asks her shell probably lie
@@lalaalaaalaaaa pressed
My thing is , if you have to lie... you're disappointment. period. No one can tell me otherwise.
I agree with you baby girl
It’s wrong to lie because it’s really a form of manipulation where the individual is being duped into a relationship under false pretences. By law, that can be considered as fraud and although people can’t tell others what to do with their sex life but they can’t dictate other people’s dating preferences and opinions.
And ladies, it’s not only numbers racking up but soul ties we’re creating when having intimate relationships with them and transfer of energies whether being good energy or not.
Loni looks GREAT. Also Tam is giving me some boss lady vibes with this hair and fit!
It's "corny" for men to inflate but not for women to deflate?? Lying in general is corny, but asking is worse
“i used to be a communal come dumpster and now no one wants me, my children, or my stds”
I'm experienced but would teach my daughter the Adrienne rule. I do think it's good to think twice.
T Y: It's not being a hypocrite if you do something, realize it's damaging and warn others not to do what you did. She's smart for recognizing the damage lots of sex partners can do to you beyond STDs and kids. It's not good for people and for sure, no one should hope their daughter sleeps with tons of guys...
૨σყαℓ ƭεε waiting till marriage is a sham wait till your ready and legal
So it’s rude to ask someone (you’re considering marrying) how many sexual partners they’ve been with and not rude to ask their credit score?
The reason I compared it to that is because if a bank can look at your credit history to see if you’re responsible enough to be given a loan, I’m definitely gonna ask you how many people you’ve been with to see if you’re responsible enough to have me be apart of your life (long term).
Wake up y’all. Sex ain’t as casual as you think.
A guy I dated said he slept with 20 women. I was disgusted but if we’re seriously dating all I wanna know is if you’re clean.
100Stratusfiedx 🙄🙄🙄😂😂😂
20? That's guy-speak for 2½
@@simonpeters5977 For some guys it's that easy. I know people who have over 70 easily under their belt.
Really? Disgusted? Why?
I’ve only been with one which is my current boyfriend of 8 years ❤️😍
Repent and follow JESUS CHRIST! Sexual relations is for your spouse only.
wow your bf is lucky
@@lovegrace3719 stfu
8 years...? what are yall waiting on.. get married already
@@omgitsdev4568 girl, can’t believe this popped up. That relationship was never meant to be. Thank God 🙏🏼 im happily married to my soulmate ❤️
I use to lie when I was younger about my count. I use to say 1 when in fact I was a virgin loooool cause that V word use to scare off ninjas
I'm with adrienne i have one finger left tho 😂
Queen Bey loooooool
Log off 😭😭😭😭😭
IM ON DECK MY NIGGAS
Who cares
@@shaedavis53 lmfaooo 😂
I tried counting mine but then i lost track😂😂😂
Repent and follow JESUS CHRIST!
Melody Smith 😭😭I call the dudes by numbers but I still remember their names sadly
If being sexually liberated is such a good thing why lie?🤔
exactly lmao!! everyone know deep down in their heart it is not a good thing
Because it doesn’t matter
@Elora 17 Yeah not buying that
Why is it so hard to believe we'd forget our body count? lol. And yes JEANIE, I'm 31 and still lie about my number cuz I don't want ppl to know! tf 🤣
It doesn’t matter as long as u use protection
christine xtine you can still catch an STD
Repent and follow JESUS CHRIST!
Always keep your # to yourself. It’s no ones business, but your own!
Yes and no. Just remember as women, you reap what you sow, it might not appear apparent in that moment in time but it will down the road when age catches up with them. And yes their partner has the right to know, especially if they're going to marry them and they're a high value male, as it determines their future as well. If you're proud and have nothing to hide, own it, be honest and forthcoming. No good relationship is build on lies and misinformation. The truth comes out sooner or later. Unless of course you're ashamed of it, and a person is only ashamed if it is something they feel is wrong or not good, hence they feel the need to hide it.
And if women refuse to talk about their sexual history, their male partners are just going to assume it's a lot anyways unless proven otherwise. Especially, in today's technological climate with social media, facebook private messages, snapchat deleted messages, IG DM's, online dating websites, dating apps, hook-up culture etc. The attention, the temptations to cheat and increase the number of sexual partners is higher than ever for women. Women are constantly being tested the most for these kind of behaviours. Men are not stupid, they are fully aware of this, especially the highly coveted ones. If a man gets a feeling or an intuition that a women is promiscuous, he is either going to cheat, leave for the next best thing or become single, or wait for the woman to be fed up with him and cheat or break it off herself. But women are either oblivious or tend to feign ignorance. So women have to choose, a "life" of promiscuity (up to a certain age) or a life of marriage with a person they truly desire. You can't have both, it doesn't work that way. So it depends on what women value more.
X 2 Past relationship shouldn’t matter and first of all they shouldn’t be mentioned. The # of sexual partners doesn’t determine a woman or mans integrity.
@@mamiloca30 Past relationships shouldn't matter, but it does. Also we should be careful to not equate past "relationships" with past one-night stands, random hookups, fwb or other sexual forms of agreements. Don't spare any specifics details or definitions. "The # of sexual partners doesn't determine a woman's (or a man's but if we are being genuine and real we're talking mostly about women) integrity." Yes, in an ideal world that would be the case, but we don't live in an ideal world. And human behaviours don't operate by the those guiding principles, it operates by different physical laws of nature. This biological hardwiring is created in both sexes through eons of evolution and civilization. A women has to choose, weigh what is more valuable to her. You can't have your cake and eat it too. Men have to adhere to impossible standards and measures as much as women do. There are double standards for both sexes, it's unfortunate but it is what it is and I wish it weren't so. Life is unfair, society is unfair, that is the way of the world.
Besides what does a person have to hide, exaggerate, and lie about if past relationships or if the # of sexual partners doesn't matter (rhetorical)? If this high quality/value man is the one, he may stay, or he may leave, and a woman should let him go if he does decide to break it off and leave, even it pains her to. But whatever he chooses, that is his right. And I will say this now as a caveat, a high quality and self-respecting man will most likely leave. But if you don't care for a high value man and a low quality man suffice, or you're okay with being single or whatever indefinitely, then you have nothing to worry about and you do you.
I'm not advocating you or other women out there to do this or that. They are fully grown individuals with freedom to do what they want sexually in the sexual market. This serves only as an advice, take it or not, it's fine. I can confidently speak for a large consensus of men on these kinds of subjects, who feel the same way. And who may or may not voice this to women about these things for one reason or another. These are just suggestions, but you're free to do what you please at the end of the day. Just be aware of the repercussions for the choices and actions that a young woman makes today, yesterday, or tomorrow for moments of fleeting pleasures.
@@mamiloca30 I should also note that women who say "# of sexual partners shouldn't matter" tend to be the ones who already have a high body count of sexual partners or looking to excuse that behaviour due to poor impulse control. Sometimes, they are the same women who deep down may regret it as it now affects their dating and marriage prospects. Their words speaks differently than their actions. And sometimes are also trying to convince or sabotage other women who haven't had the opportunity to rack up a high body count yet. In essence, misery loves company. It is a bit disingenuous. Women can be their own worst enemies and the curator of their own miseries. Sexual liberation is great and like all great things it comes at a price. So you decide what kind of woman you want to be and what kind of man you want to attract.
X 2 past relationships only matter to people who are insecure 😟 a confident person wouldn’t ask such question because it doesn’t matter or make a difference.
I know someone who slept with over 130 people all my life I thiguht that was normal until somebody told me it wasn’t 😂
😂😂😂omg wtf
Male or female?
I feel if people lie about their sexual history, they’re ashamed. And then try and use the “it’s none of their business” bs. I mean, why else lie ?
A person's sexual history is only the business of that person. No one else.
Not true, if you want to marry you should know
Your sexual history matters A LOT especially if the man asking you is looking for a serious relationship and looking to start a family with you, there are scientific studies on how women are permanently emotionally damaged from going having multiple sexual partners. As someone else here mentioned they carry the DNA of every man they have slept with + the oxytocine (a.k.a the love hormone) high they get from being with a partner is permanently reduced which destroys their ability to pair bond and create long lasting relationships. It is like a tape, being virgin is like fresh tape if you stick in on something it is strong, the more you pull the tape away and put it back on to something the weaker the tape gets. Women work the same way.
If you spend your youth riding the cock carousel you have completely ruined your body, you are emotionally damaged and unable to start families. The vast majority of divorces are made by couples who had premarital sex. Once you hop on the cock carousel, you can't get off the ride. You will be stuck
@@oreocarlton3343 No
@@elora179 do you know what a credit score is?
Loni is a whole mood I swear. Lol
Loni, you be lying yo whole life ! 😂
Loni be lying...but she hilarious!!LOL
this is really sad this is very sad so now we're trying to validate some wrongful and completely disgraceful Behavior
What is wrong here
I want to know how many people my man has slept with, I don’t don’t want to be sharing my body with the whole world through one person, and it sickens me that people couldn’t give a thought about this and whether the person has diseases.
You can test for STI's without revealing numbers. That just an excuse for people wanting the number. Be real. It isn't all about the sti's it's about insecurity.
Dayna McCarthy well I’ll be real by saying it’s more about character.
30 men in 15 years??? 30 soul ties in 15 years??? What’s wrong with society?!?!😳
Am I the only one who always gives an exaggerated number whenever i'm asked that question just cause it annoys me?
No, anyone with half a brain knows the truth will never come out
Omphile Moerane I be saying much less for myself 🙊🙈
i don’t know why it even matters. having fingers left over like are you serious? if you’re in a relationship and having sex every day you’re having more sex that someone sleeping with 2 partners a year. if you’re having safe sex, why is this something to judge??
I'm a virgin and I'm always so tempted to lie and say I've had sex already to save myself from the embarrassment of having to tell the men I date that I've never been with a guy before. They always seem shocked and then tell me "but you're so pretty..." as if the only reason why someone would not have sex at my age is because they're hideous and can't find a partner to have sex with lol.
I’m almost 23 and a virgin. But for me very spiritual about it, and I’m also very afraid of getting an STD. So when I get married, my husband will more than likely be the only man I’ve been with.
You did the right thing and trust me most high value men would choose you over the others. And if any "feminist" tells you otherwise then know this they are trying to bring you down to their level so that you don't have an upper hand
I won’t say my number. When asked I always ask “are we 15? Why does it matter?” The big concern for me is if they won’t get tested
if it doesnt matter just be honest
@@etf42 exactly they always says shi like that 😅what happened to being open minded
@@etf42 Why? Mind your business
@@elora179 it _is_ my business
Why Loni look like Samantha on the episode of Sex and the City when she went to the clinic for an AIDS test and the doc asked her how many sexual partners she's had??? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It's August 31, 2019 and I'm still laughing at Loni😂😂😂😂😂
I’m with Adrienne on this. I have a lot of fingers left because you have to be careful who you entwine your soul with when you have sex with someone. Every time you laid down with someone and have sex your soul is entwine with theirs and whoever they have had sex with. Soul ties! And people may not understand the emotional feelings etc that they are experiencing and it’s because of those soul ties!
Not always. Sex is just sex
I swear Loni be extra as hell sometimes. Ain’t no way 😂
Marissa Flores ISSA way honey🤣 believe it
I really just think it depends on the woman or man. If you don’t care about the number then do whatever, if you do care, then be more selective. It’s as simple as that.
Adrienne being a pick me again
Gio Aarons I promise, she tries so hard to make ppl think she’s not a hoe. I’m like, ‘okay girl, we get it! Nobody cares, but we get it.’
That's not a pick me
Girl she can miss me with that "I have hands left over" bs. Girl bye
Gio Aarons for not wanting to have sex with more then 10 people?? Lol what?
meme how is she trying to impress men with that lol??? She’s just saying her preference not everything is for men lol
For women, the more men they had in them, the less likely she can pair-bonded with a man long-term.
There's a reason why we used to tell women to keep their legs closed until marriage.
If women have over 30 or 30 who cares. Same if women only have 1 or none. Who are we to shame each other?
Repent and follow JESUS CHRIST! Sexual relations is for your spouse only.
Your sexual history matters A LOT especially if the man asking you is looking for a serious relationship and looking to start a family with you, there are scientific studies on how women are permanently emotionally damaged from going having multiple sexual partners. As someone else here mentioned they carry the DNA of every man they have slept with + the oxytocine (a.k.a the love hormone) high they get from being with a partner is permanently reduced which destroys their ability to pair bond and create long lasting relationships. It is like a tape, being virgin is like fresh tape if you stick in on something it is strong, the more you pull the tape away and put it back on to something the weaker the tape gets. Women work the same way.
If you spend your youth riding the cock carousel you have completely ruined your body, you are emotionally damaged and unable to start families. The vast majority of divorces are made by couples who had premarital sex. Once you hop on the cock carousel, you can't get off the ride. You will be stuck
It's funny that women say it's none of men's business, but if you're trying to get into a relationship with someone then they have a right to interview you and you're EXPECTED to answer truthfully, just like when you ask him a question he should answer it honestly. You don't get to decide for other people what's tolerable or acceptable for them. You put your cards on the table and they're either with it or they're not. Simple as that.
Loni stays lying 🙄
I thought that I was the only one to go by the hand method, but I use to say (to myself) never go over one hand.🖐 I stuck with it and got married with fingers left over.
GOD SAID TO US INTIMACY IS ONLY FOR THE HOLY SACRAMENT OF MARRIAGE
I don't thing sleeping with more than 30 ppl is a problem just be safe abt it and consent needs to be present that's it 🤷🏻♀️
People please Loni is very attractive, so stop doubting her just because of your insecurities.
said no one ever
I used to say the truth, but then they don't trust me so I just avoid the question!
Adrienne looks beautiful here.. She looked like she slept well hahah 💖
i don’t ask & i don’t want to know. my husband & i never felt that need to indulge this deep.
I started at 17. I’ll be 28 in May. 3 partners thus far.
Congratulations
I've never lied about my history at all. Some people find that the number of guys I dated and the number of guys I've kissed (different numbers cause I've kissed people I haven't dated) is a lot and some people don't. And then when you look at how many people I've slept with (not how many times I've done it with them), it's very low because not everybody is worth going to bed with.
When people take pride in “doing it” with a lot of people. Smh that’s so dirty ew stay away
ALEEYAH ABDUL
You are a good woman
Adrienne irritates me when she acts like it’s bad if your body count is high like having a low body count makes you better
I just don't believe Loni have been with a lot of men.
fat/overweight women have HIGH sexual mileage.. you don't know the half of it
Hey everybody. :] I'm a 26 years old, woman & virgin. No boyfriend, husband, nothing. I feel happy, secure & if I ever get married, I will love my husband. Just saying hehe pero if not, happy being single. ^^ It doesn't define you ladies & men.
wow!! I hasn't started sex yet and am 21
Me to 20 stay that way
Stay in school..
26 almost 27
Next to knowing JESUS CHRIST and having a Pure heart, your virginity is the best thing you can give to your husband.
I feel like these questions always need to be asked. Like how many sexual partners and if you’ve ever been tested, that’s important.
I don’t count anything I did Before Christ or BC old things are past away so I will say 1
True Christians don't lie!
Even in the Bible it states your accountable for everything you have done. Yes! You're forgiven but still accountable. So grow up! And........stop being delusional.
The phrase Born Again Virgin is not mentioned in the Bible, it’s a term made up by Christian people (mostly women).
Don't ask about it, they weren't there and weren't a thought. idc. not their business.
When its a lot u can forget the number that's why u keep a list like my ex. He slept with 100+ when I started questioning. It was freaking crazy! I can count the amount of dudes I slept with on my hand and I'm proud of that. As for other stuff...that's a secret.
It matters to me because I think sex is an intimate act you do with someone you truly care about. So either you’ve cared deeply about a lot of people or you don’t put the same value on it. Either way, that’s a cause for pause for me.
Honestly a lot of y’all saying don’t judge by the number IM JUDGING. The amount of men you sleep with does show a lot about your character. Your values, Your Standards etc..
👏For men as well. There's a point where you go from just being sexually active to sloppy.
How exactly
Mineral It shows what your standards are an in. Do you value intimacy? How do you view sex? How do you value yourself as a person. What are important to you in a relationship? What are important to you in a relationship? Knowing the amount of people you sleep with and /or you allow yourself to have intercourse with shows what your values are as a person.
Sam I yes and i enjoy that about him. As a women and raising both my children female and male I will always teach them to be careful with who they choose to sleep with and not everyone that they like or attracted to needs loving from them.
But what about that ties into those things? It's hard to explain what I mean. For example; how does your number determine what you find important? What values does it reveal about you as a person? it Seems like a lot of assumptions are being made here. We're all different so, for some , they can sleep with a lot of people but still value a relationship while others feel like they need to stay a virgin. I don't think we can judge someone's reality (especially since we aren't living it) based on who they slept with. Also, what would be the cut off for too many? At what point does someone become of bad character because of their partners?
This whole idea is culturally transmitted. There are societies in the world where a woman is more valuable if she is more sexually experienced and vice versa. As long as someone is healthy- it means nothing in an over all sense. Yes, an individual can be affected by their actions but we can't blanket everyone.
I'm always like... "oh baby, you won't believe me. You're my second" 😂😂😂
If you're a girl, its so easy for you to get sex, so bragging about sex is like bragging that you aced an easy test. Didnt even put effort or nothing.
Adrian why do you think it’s easier for women
@@lacerav5818 Because if a girl goes up to a guy and is a kind person the guy and people see her as innocent, if a guy goes up to a girl, they think they're gonna get robbed. lol
People be so quick to say their disgusted by a number but you could sleep with one person and still catch something.....so.
Anyway I do think woman should think twice about who they sleep with. I wish i couple take some back ....i went through a phase of feeling completely insecure and worthless after a bad break up and use to want any attention I could get ...ultimately I lost respect for myself and a lot of other things...within the last few months I have found my self confidence and completely rebuilt the respect I have for myself. I dont judge anyone else anymore becuase things happen people change. It's all about how you feel with yourself. My advice is just before you have sex to think about how you will feel after about yourself.
Stop shaming others when you know nothing about them.
Paradyse Trezvant I was the same way still am
Save yourself for marriage and your future spouse will do the same. Less heartbreak and no stds or unwanted pregnancies 🙏❤💕
If I were a man I wouldn't want a Thot!😤
the issue is never about the sexual history of a woman but of the present lie they give when they say they want to marry the nice guy and here the nice guy gets no love, no sex, no respect this is where history comes again to the fore, that past cannot be eliminated if the present is indirectly hooked in its details