I really liked this video… I went out on three dates that I thought went pretty well , last date was two weeks ago and I have not contacted her nor has she contacted me… who ghosted who? Is it always the guy as the ghoster ??
Looks like you both ghosted each other if you end up never seeing one another ever again. although you have been the one cording her, so it’s mostly on you in this relationship. Why did you decide to not ask her out again, Since you mentioned you thought the dates went pretty well?
Carey, if you have a first date on Friday and you both agree to see each other again, exchange a text message about that the same evening and then you don’t hear from them for 5 days, what would you think about that? Am I too anxious? I do keep my weekend open in case they reach out as I am interested in them. Would you reach out to them or let it be? I don’t know what’s appropriate or customary.
I would never leave my weekend open. Make plans. Live your life. I probably would have recommended reaching out on day two or three if you wanted, but on day five I would recognize he isn’t obsessing over me or very excited to talk to me and see me again. If he could wait five days, I would not call either. 🤷🏻♀️
I’m a guy but either gender I think it’s important not to offer a weekend eve day right away , let them know ( or even just think) your plate is full. Offer a Monday or Tuesday. And if it goes well maybe a Fri or Sat for second meeting
I really liked this video… I went out on three dates that I thought went pretty well , last date was two weeks ago and I have not contacted her nor has she contacted me… who ghosted who? Is it always the guy as the ghoster ??
Looks like you both ghosted each other if you end up never seeing one another ever again. although you have been the one cording her, so it’s mostly on you in this relationship.
Why did you decide to not ask her out again, Since you mentioned you thought the dates went pretty well?
@@CoffeewithCareyI’m not going to chase her, if she is interested she can make the next move…
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OK, if that’s how you think it works. 🤷🏻♀️
Carey, if you have a first date on Friday and you both agree to see each other again, exchange a text message about that the same evening and then you don’t hear from them for 5 days, what would you think about that? Am I too anxious? I do keep my weekend open in case they reach out as I am interested in them. Would you reach out to them or let it be? I don’t know what’s appropriate or customary.
I would never leave my weekend open. Make plans. Live your life.
I probably would have recommended reaching out on day two or three if you wanted, but on day five I would recognize he isn’t obsessing over me or very excited to talk to me and see me again. If he could wait five days, I would not call either. 🤷🏻♀️
I’m a guy but either gender I think it’s important not to offer a weekend eve day right away , let them know ( or even just think) your plate is full. Offer a Monday or Tuesday. And if it goes well maybe a Fri or Sat for second meeting
@@billlohan5079 the best evening for a first date is Thursday nights, if you’re looking for dating success… in my decade of experience
@@CoffeewithCarey Why Thursday nights?
@@sofiapavlova9317 over 12 years of planning dates for clients I had the most yes-yes matches when the date was on Thursday evening. 🤷🏻♀️ data!
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