Dating | Red Flags vs Deal Breakers!

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  • Опубликовано: 18 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 29

  • @vicvancouver3123
    @vicvancouver3123 7 месяцев назад +2

    Great examples 😅 So maybe using a coupon to help pay for that first dinner date, maybe not such a spiffy idea? I make certain to let her know it's my very first dog, that I still have lots and lots to learn about dogs. No, I didn't realize my Jack Russell would shed profusely and without ceasing. Yes, we always sleep together 🤣🤣🐕

    • @CoffeewithCarey
      @CoffeewithCarey  7 месяцев назад

      Plenty have tried to use the coupon or Groupon to pay for the date, but it doesn’t usually go well. Lol

  • @hump1953
    @hump1953 8 месяцев назад +5

    I really liked this video! I am an ex-smoker having last cigarette 40 years ago- I don’t have a lot of deal breakers but smoking is definitely a deal breaker for me…

  • @ivanvarykino8202
    @ivanvarykino8202 8 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks Carey, I was cringing and laughing at all of these. Even the ones I'm guilty of 😄 As you were reading them off, I was imagining the reaction of the person on the receiving end of each statement. Priceless!

  • @sandieneitzel254
    @sandieneitzel254 8 месяцев назад +3

    That was fun to watch. I met a guy tonight and found out that his 27 year-old recovering alcoholic daughter lives with him. She’s been in and out of rehabs. Sorry, but that’s a deal breaker for me.

    • @CoffeewithCarey
      @CoffeewithCarey  8 месяцев назад +1

      fair enough. I am going to go out on a limb and guess that you were not really attracted to this man, didn’t really enjoy his company or personality, and didn’t see a future with this man despite this dealbreaker.

    • @sandieneitzel254
      @sandieneitzel254 8 месяцев назад

      @@CoffeewithCarey Yes to all of those.

    • @cyn5962
      @cyn5962 6 месяцев назад

      The situation with the actively alcoholic daughter would be more than I want to deal with. Definitely a deal breaker.

  • @lilyvega7450
    @lilyvega7450 8 месяцев назад +3

    This was so funny. Your facial expressions 🤣

  • @bobmoore6248
    @bobmoore6248 8 месяцев назад +6

    Being 65 I have seen heard and experienced a lot. I am not rich but my things are all paid for. My grown children are all good working adults. I am leery of people that have problem family members are perpetually broke and don’t take responsibility for their decisions. I will continue to engage with women at random. God has the right woman out there for me. Smile say hello try to look as good as I can for the situation.

    • @lilyvega7450
      @lilyvega7450 8 месяцев назад +2

      I agree!

    • @CoffeewithCarey
      @CoffeewithCarey  8 месяцев назад +2

      Yup. Everybody has their red fags and dealbreakers…and their pet peeves!

  • @TheKrispyfort
    @TheKrispyfort 7 месяцев назад +1

    🚩 my ex is just so crazy
    🚩 Monogamy us a scam
    🚫 Complains about paying child support
    🚫 Trash talks the parent of their children

    • @CoffeewithCarey
      @CoffeewithCarey  7 месяцев назад

      The monogamy one would also be a dealbreaker for most people

  • @Smileylook
    @Smileylook 8 месяцев назад +1

    I saw your DB & RF on the list, but what does the ? Mean?

    • @CoffeewithCarey
      @CoffeewithCarey  8 месяцев назад

      Depends on the person/situation. Could be either… or great news!

  • @jessicaroll9878
    @jessicaroll9878 8 месяцев назад

    Yikes! I haven't dated anyone new in 6 years (recently divorced). This scares me lol.

    • @CoffeewithCarey
      @CoffeewithCarey  8 месяцев назад +3

      It wasn’t meant to be scary. It was supposed to be funny. 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @faepage5157
    @faepage5157 8 месяцев назад +2

    Those dealbreakers had me laughing out loud! Friends invited me to a gathering at their home and I know they did so because they wanted me to meet a particular guy. Nice guy and I could tell he liked me although I never heard from him afterwards I believe if I would’ve shown interest he would’ve. I chose not to ask after him because of his view on a particular political situation in a foreign country. That was a red flag for me but looking back I should have reached out. He was super nice and he is a pilot! 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @KeithWinnick
      @KeithWinnick 8 месяцев назад +2

      Politics sometimes show a person's values. Trust your instincts. This may have been a good decision.

    • @hump1953
      @hump1953 8 месяцев назад +2

      Sounds like you had some reservations about your “ red flags” … those could have become overcome.. come on, it’s a political issue in a foreign country!! But having said that I understand the situation..

    • @CoffeewithCarey
      @CoffeewithCarey  8 месяцев назад

      💯

    • @CoffeewithCarey
      @CoffeewithCarey  8 месяцев назад +2

      Typically there have to be numerous red flags for someone to not go on a second date. (Often up to 3 dealbreakers, studies say)
      Did you treat your red flag like a dealbreaker or 4? ;)

    • @faepage5157
      @faepage5157 8 месяцев назад

      @@CoffeewithCarey I only spent a couple of hours with him in mixed company ie not just the two of us. I would say it was the third red flag of the night but was a dealbreaker lol. Dare I say one of the red flags was that when we stood up to leave he was quite a bit shorter than me and I’m 5’7”. 😅