8 Things That Make A Woman Lose Interest‼️

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  • Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024
  • In this episode of the Chris GQ Perry TV podcast, Chris GQ Perry breaks down the top eight behaviors that cause a woman to lose interest. From common mistakes to deeper issues, he dives into what truly matters in relationships and how to avoid pushing her away. This episode is part of the “Chris GQ Perry Relationship Talk” playlist. Don’t miss out on these crucial insights!

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  • @chrisgqperry
    @chrisgqperry  9 дней назад +211

    Ladies, did this hit home for you?
    Did I miss anything? 🤔
    Drop an AMEN if these are 8 things that make you lose interest!
    #SHARE #TAG SOMEONE

    • @Drrr222
      @Drrr222 9 дней назад +3

      @@chrisgqperry 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️

    • @janemorrow8802
      @janemorrow8802 9 дней назад +7

      Amen! This is true for both courtship and marriage.

    • @WomanofGod_G4M35
      @WomanofGod_G4M35 9 дней назад +6

      Amen brother 🙌

    • @minnie5301
      @minnie5301 9 дней назад

      Thank you Chris. Yes it has hit home, all eight! I'm in a new relationship as of last year and two months in, one very large lie was brought to the surface and then with all the rest of the issues I don't feel secure at all and always feel like a second option. We were friends beforehand so he used to tell me about a female friend ex Co worker but two months into our proper relationship he suddenly , out of the blue, showed me her photo, showed me their last message trails where he was telling her she was beautiful and flirting with her, then he showed me a very tiny tattoo of her name on his arm. The thing is, we were in bed together at this very time! He was literally bragging about her and then said" don't worry, she was the one that got away!" Yet he was still in contact with her. Speaking as a really emotionally aware person Chris, do you find this behaviour normal? To make things worse he has since done all things on your list and on top, he confides with him mother on everything we talk about and she thinks it fine to keep many female friends with whom he can have dates and flirt with. She is supposed to be Christian! I am often ganged up on

    • @ScalesOfLife
      @ScalesOfLife 9 дней назад +8

      Also - words and actions need to match

  • @I-Am-Prospering-I-Am-Grateful
    @I-Am-Prospering-I-Am-Grateful 8 дней назад +105

    8 Things that make a woman lose interest:
    1. Lying.
    2. Poor communication.
    3. Ignoring her.
    4. Going hours without texting.
    5. Being too busy for her.
    6. Offering no reassurance.
    7. Making her feel like an option.
    8. Showing no effort.

    • @tara100tp
      @tara100tp 7 дней назад +10

      Thanks for the list.

    • @BeThankfulHumble
      @BeThankfulHumble 5 дней назад +7

      Thanks

    • @ChairBear56
      @ChairBear56 4 дня назад +5

      Thanks!😘

    • @LysaChampione
      @LysaChampione 3 дня назад +7

      Facts facts and facts,.! And thinking it's normal to be intimate every 5 6 or seven months!!
      See ya ..!

    • @Iambecoming1111
      @Iambecoming1111 2 дня назад +3

      💯👏🏾💯👏🏾💯👏🏾💯👏🏾‼️‼️‼️

  • @liftedenergy3693
    @liftedenergy3693 9 дней назад +109

    My list:
    Not an active father.
    He does not have a plan.
    He speaks negative of his childs mother.
    Poor communication and deflection.
    He has not learned anything from his past relationship.
    He does not take accountability.
    Lying.
    Love-bombing.
    He hasn't been to therapy or used spiritual practices to address and work on his mother and father wounds.

    • @chrisgqperry
      @chrisgqperry  9 дней назад +16

      Great list!!!

    • @takeysha4
      @takeysha4 9 дней назад +9

      Exactly how I feel 💯

    • @claude394
      @claude394 5 дней назад

      Sound like you been pumped and dumped by too many pokkie ray tyrone and chad .who hurt you?why you been sleeping around with all these men???

    • @CubanSavage856
      @CubanSavage856 16 часов назад +2

      I'm sorry 😢.... He kind of sounds like a NARCISSIST..
      NEVER TAKING ACCOUNTABILITY, LIEING, SAYING I LOVE YU ... WITH AN ALTIERER MOTIVE.... I ACTUALLY FEEL LIKE A MOTHER ... THEY LITERALLY WILL DO SOMETHING THEY NO IS WRONG AS LONG AS THEY FEEL THEY WILL GET AWAY WITH IT .. IF YU CATCH THEM THEY WILL LIE TO YOUR FACE.... 🙋🏼

  • @cynthiagomes2979
    @cynthiagomes2979 9 дней назад +70

    So true. Once I let go, I keep going. I don't backstroke. I'm slow at letting go because I love hard, but once you have killed all the love I have for you, I'm done!! Ex you will stay.

  • @ElaineElward
    @ElaineElward 9 дней назад +93

    Amen to all! Let the men who should hear this, Hear this! Wake up men!!

  • @SHerit-q3v
    @SHerit-q3v 9 дней назад +25

    1.lies 2.greed 3.narcissist 4.putting me last 5.abusive 6.everything else won’t even matter cuz after the lies I am long gone

  • @katrinasavage1300
    @katrinasavage1300 9 дней назад +40

    You nailed it but the man that needs to hear this message won’t

  • @Sweetpea-2023
    @Sweetpea-2023 9 дней назад +62

    #1 Lying!!! If I think you’re telling me lies or I catch you in a lie, I’m out. There won’t be an argument or even a conversation. Just a text that says “I don’t think this is working. Wishing you the very best.” You showed me you lack character, integrity and honor. There’s nothing more to discuss.

    • @xandria_magic777
      @xandria_magic777 9 дней назад +2

      Damn true ⚡

    • @erugoitom3630
      @erugoitom3630 9 дней назад +1

      😂

    • @takeysha4
      @takeysha4 9 дней назад +1

      Exactly

    • @janediajones-caraway7291
      @janediajones-caraway7291 9 дней назад +3

      @@Sweetpea-2023
      🌹😂 🤣 “You are so right to put him on the first thing smoking; not caring which direction it takes him”. 🤣😂🌹

    • @joanofarcxxi
      @joanofarcxxi 7 дней назад +6

      Absolutely. If a guy lies, there is nothing more to discuss. Bad character and no integrity.

  • @Brunettebeach
    @Brunettebeach 9 дней назад +52

    Perfect list. You hit the red flags 🚩!

  • @jackiecampbell8045
    @jackiecampbell8045 9 дней назад +27

    I really like this guy 😮 He "gets" Us!

    • @TessBoze
      @TessBoze 8 дней назад +3

      An adult man. What a delight to find!

  • @krisztinasz4503
    @krisztinasz4503 9 дней назад +49

    My last boyfriend did all eight, so this hit home.

    • @lallasultana1037
      @lallasultana1037 9 дней назад +1

      Dealing with this right now, working on my way out.

    • @krisztinasz4503
      @krisztinasz4503 9 дней назад +2

      @lallasultana1037 you are strong, you can do it, just trust yourself and the universe! 🥰

  • @lavernebanks3666
    @lavernebanks3666 9 дней назад +15

    Please keep preaching… so the ladies in the back can hear 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿amen

  • @JosieProffitt-go1bq
    @JosieProffitt-go1bq 9 дней назад +12

    ❤❤❤ ALL THIS!!! Why don't men listen? Why don't y'all start holding each other accountable instead of talking trash about your women?! If you're not happy, leave! If you don't want to be in a relationship where you have to do your part, don't get in one!!

    • @barbarasaracini1271
      @barbarasaracini1271 2 дня назад

      Laziness and selfishness.

    • @Gotoworkkk
      @Gotoworkkk 6 часов назад

      What about you, women??
      When are you going to start being accountable for the crap you put us through??

  • @anointedhealthcoach
    @anointedhealthcoach 9 дней назад +16

    Amen is so spot on! I rarely feel really attracted to anyone I know but if a man does those things I just don't feel very attached any more.

  • @StormyCareless
    @StormyCareless 9 дней назад +13

    ❤ Thank you for this list. All true! Besides all these 8 reasons he told me that I’m abusing him emotionally by push and pull, and he said that it’s My Fault that he feels so insecure! Man, after those 2 weird blaming, I was so flabbergasted and that had helped me to go no contact with him. And since I cut the Soul-Tie & Heartcord Strings with him, he now keep chasing me to come back together because ‘we have such a good love!’ F-him. Such a lunatic! Well, he can go love-bomb somebody else! Have fun and good luck to him and all of his next lovers/supplies. Glad I made it out safely🎉

  • @janediajones-caraway7291
    @janediajones-caraway7291 9 дней назад +23

    🌹💯 “A Total Grand Slam!!!! On All Eight Things That Make A Woman Lose Interest”. Chris; You Knocked It Out Of The Park !!!!!! Yes Sir; You Definitely Hit Home For The “LADIES”🤔. Hope and Love To You Always!!!!!! 💯🌹

  • @teresitaperez776
    @teresitaperez776 9 дней назад +21

    THANK YOU CHRIS FOR DOES KIND WORDS. God Bless You and Your Family. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @arvisjohnson7061
    @arvisjohnson7061 9 дней назад +11

    My last ex, did all those. All 8. And yes I walked away. Thanks for sharing.

  • @xandria_magic777
    @xandria_magic777 9 дней назад +16

    Thank you! I feel we always just hear why men pull away, this is so needed ❤

  • @graceatumnu4462
    @graceatumnu4462 9 дней назад +23

    Thanks Chris you’re one in a million, these eight points intertwined, these qualities cannot be complete without each other, a man must possess them to be a real man ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @hannahmanynations1190
    @hannahmanynations1190 9 дней назад +9

    Amen! Chris you are Sooo Awesome & On Point!!! Thanks for saying it!!!! 🙏☺️❤ Stay the Amazing Man You are & Keep Speaking TRUTH!!! Much Love!!!❤❤❤😁

  • @MarilynBenjamin-u7t
    @MarilynBenjamin-u7t 9 дней назад +6

    Amen Chris! You spill the truth, and at my age I find it refreshing that a young man can empathize so honestly with women’s experiences. Keep up the good work. You are helping people by bringing these truths to light.

  • @kristineroethle5028
    @kristineroethle5028 9 дней назад +4

    Chris, thank you as a man's opinion, these are all so true, because a lack of her feelings are real in today's society!!!! 🙏

  • @sandybeaches4248
    @sandybeaches4248 9 дней назад +5

    Amen! That's so spot on ...now if all the boys will step up and become Men like we women need them to be !

  • @vanessamcghee2335
    @vanessamcghee2335 9 дней назад +6

    All of this is so true. 🤯 Man are you listening? 😢
    Love this video. Blessings to you Chris and your family.🌹💛✌️

  • @AngelaBarry-dw3ov
    @AngelaBarry-dw3ov 9 дней назад +13

    "You just keep me hanging on"

    • @chrisgqperry
      @chrisgqperry  9 дней назад +4

      🗣️💯

    • @kendradamm1428
      @kendradamm1428 7 дней назад +1

      Get out, get out of my life, and let me sleep at night….
      Great song!! ❤🎤🎧🎵🎼🎶🎸🎹

  • @sylvies5050
    @sylvies5050 8 дней назад

    You have listed every single reason I left the man I had loved so deeply. It started with lies and the rest fell like dominos. Your deep insight into a woman's heart is outstanding. Thank you

  • @jolenepeplau2085
    @jolenepeplau2085 9 дней назад +8

    Every free minute on Facebook 😑 but according to him; everyone lies

  • @venusplummer1096
    @venusplummer1096 9 дней назад +8

    Chris , this is 💯 on. Thank you.

  • @SoutheastDivine
    @SoutheastDivine 9 дней назад +10

    Amen. 💯 You are helping us to live better lives when we see someone else iterate back to us what we feel, and that it is okay and normal. Thank you for doing these messages. ♥ ~ KRH ~

  • @tonid773
    @tonid773 9 дней назад +10

    Amazing list. Spot on.

  • @sonjaanderson5998
    @sonjaanderson5998 9 дней назад +17

    You nailed it!

  • @ktbiwk
    @ktbiwk 9 дней назад +4

    Hope this goes viral 🙏

  • @pamelamoore9341
    @pamelamoore9341 9 дней назад +4

    Man I really appreciate u giving this information it is really real I will definitely discuss this w him bc I don't play when it comes to to my relationship

  • @arliciawalker
    @arliciawalker 5 дней назад +1

    He hit the hammer on the nail! This so true 👍🏾 1 loss my trust! We know when you're lining! Yes sir

  • @EarthDilemma
    @EarthDilemma 9 дней назад

    You summed up EXACTLY why I am getting a divorce in just 5min. I truly wish more men were this emotionally intelligent and aware. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and inspiration ♥️

  • @chukilewis1696
    @chukilewis1696 7 дней назад

    I approve this message!!!
    Sad part is a lot of men think that playing games and not showing interest makes them more desirable 🙄.

  • @teachingbeyond2017
    @teachingbeyond2017 9 дней назад +3

    All facts!!! You just explained so simple why I got a divorce..

  • @aylex1974
    @aylex1974 9 дней назад +2

    Finally more tutorials of how women think and behave. Well explain all of this are true. Don’t accuse her of cheating or she’s with someone else if he’s doing all of this to her.

  • @lindafolks
    @lindafolks 4 дня назад

    Truth!
    Every single man should watch your video!!
    God bless you Mr. Chris GQ Perry!
    🙏❤️🕊🌟🎶🌹🎚️⚖️

  • @kikitaube-hansen
    @kikitaube-hansen 3 дня назад +1

    This is one of the most important Videos, I heard about this subject. True.

  • @virginiabranch8384
    @virginiabranch8384 9 дней назад +9

    This is my first live

    • @chrisgqperry
      @chrisgqperry  9 дней назад +3

      Welcome! Glad to have you join the family! 😊🙏🏼

  • @ChakraKhan666
    @ChakraKhan666 4 дня назад

    He hit the nail on the head. This man is really good at what he does. And I looove his voice 🥰

  • @donnal.roberts2097
    @donnal.roberts2097 3 дня назад

    Chris GQ Perry, I have followed you for a while now. Your insight never ceases to amazing me. 💞 Thank you for your TIME.

  • @tiffany5575
    @tiffany5575 9 дней назад +3

    AMEN👍👍 Always on point with your insight…thank you.

  • @dianaatkinsonpeters6227
    @dianaatkinsonpeters6227 9 дней назад +4

    💯💯💯💯 I can listen to you all day cuz you on... Point😊😊😊😊❤❤❤

  • @slicingitupwithselena2234
    @slicingitupwithselena2234 9 дней назад +4

    You nailed it all 8 👍🏿❤️

  • @smdavis26sd
    @smdavis26sd 9 дней назад +5

    Spot on!

  • @Rita-hz2iu
    @Rita-hz2iu 6 дней назад

    This list justifies why I left my husband. Gave my all. Thank you.

  • @alwaysrighton
    @alwaysrighton 2 дня назад +2

    Every lie chips away at the foundation of trust, and shatters the respectability of the liar. A woman needs to be proud of her man. No woman wants to be with a man who hides behind anything, including lies. A woman in love is a woman who believes in her man's courage to face life. How is any of that possible if he's not respectable?

  • @M.M-t6u
    @M.M-t6u 8 дней назад

    May every woman receive a treasure like him from the universe! 🙏🏻

  • @lindabaca7843
    @lindabaca7843 9 дней назад +3

    Amen Chris. This definitely hit home

  • @chillnergy
    @chillnergy 8 дней назад +1

    I am going through this right now. He makes feel like a second choice. I'm definitely pulling away from him.

  • @lisadiulio100
    @lisadiulio100 2 дня назад

    I Love this man! His wife is the Luckiest Lady Living!! PLEASE Chris take your knowledge to all men!! You are so right on point!❤

  • @rosapierna4395
    @rosapierna4395 4 дня назад +1

    U hit the nail that’s why I left with someone else. And I will never go back to him

  • @sp4490
    @sp4490 7 дней назад +1

    Very relatable, just left this kind of relationship

  • @04Bear
    @04Bear 3 дня назад

    Glad to see you are talking about these things. Thank you and true, if a man does those things, there will be one that does the right things that she’s waiting for.

  • @velmasims1398
    @velmasims1398 4 дня назад

    Amen. You didn't miss anything.
    Thank You.And I appreciate all the things you say. Because you just know the right things that we feel.

  • @jill3330
    @jill3330 3 дня назад

    These are great! Lack of physical affection is another one.

  • @mariainge5477
    @mariainge5477 2 дня назад

    POWERFUL TRUTH, VERY PROUD OF YOU ROL...

  • @SuzeBar
    @SuzeBar 6 дней назад +4

    It's time for you to have a TV show. You should be the next Oprah. I hope 🙏🏻 and pray for your meteoric rise. Your peace and logic and love is beautiful ❤

  • @excellentproductions
    @excellentproductions 5 дней назад +1

    p.s. I agree with the person below who added the following 2 points:
    1. Disrespect - This is a huge reason why I finally left (He used disrespect as a manipulate me.)
    2. Always being on his phone - well I suppose this is a form of disrespect.
    So yes, I would add "Disrespect" as your 9th reason.

  • @Bern-x9l
    @Bern-x9l 2 дня назад

    You are SPOT ON WITH EVERYTHING IPI SAID

  • @rhondadonaldson5061
    @rhondadonaldson5061 22 часа назад

    Aloha and good afternoon from Hawaii. Excellent! I needed to hear this message! God Bless you Brother!!!

  • @lourdesgarcia5601
    @lourdesgarcia5601 4 часа назад

    Chris GQ, I have a lot of respect for you, you really know so much wisdom way behond your years that's exactly why my relationship just ended

  • @capritiousLebea.T
    @capritiousLebea.T 3 дня назад

    It hits home😢. 💯 % truth and we pull away in cool and quite manner and gave me peace of mind because I wasn't heard.

  • @kew824
    @kew824 4 дня назад

    Thank you Chris for understanding. It's not hard.

  • @bnepaul9268
    @bnepaul9268 7 дней назад

    I am a subscriber to this channel, this guy actually make real sense, i think he's really knowledgeable, he definitely nails it , this guy knows exactly what he's talking about. Keep up the good work and keep all those information coming, because we are listening as women thsnks bro.

  • @TS-ns6zm
    @TS-ns6zm 7 дней назад

    So glad to see these videos on RUclips so I can easily save and rewatch❤

  • @DN-wy3ud
    @DN-wy3ud 7 дней назад

    Fr, once the trust was broken the relationship was OVER

  • @red7model7
    @red7model7 8 дней назад

    ❣️🙏🏻 Thank you for expressing these valuable points throughout your voice.
    And glad you’re already getting married, besides of being a masculine speaker that leads sane relationships.

  • @Jessica-yg4st
    @Jessica-yg4st 3 дня назад

    AMEN AMEN AMEN! I'm going thru this right now in my relationship. As you list & talk about each thing, I'm kicking myself for staying even after he continues to do everyone of those things on a regular basis. My self-esteem, confidence & happiness are non-existent cause of this emotionally, physically abusive man. I just wish it was as easy as packing up my shit, leaving & never looking back. Its not even that i love him like i did a year ago, financially i cant leave.

  • @MarySSpeer
    @MarySSpeer 9 дней назад +3

    9. Interrupting when she is speaking to you. 10. Constantly correcting her over piddling things just so he can be 'right'. 11. Making subtly snide remarks about her appearance when she would never say anything like that to him.

  • @arleneramirez5408
    @arleneramirez5408 6 дней назад

    You're Right on Point 💯💯💯💯💯💯 Thanks be to God for this Blessings and The Messager Gbu Always

  • @kidchocolate9253
    @kidchocolate9253 9 дней назад +2

    I approve of this message ❤

  • @clumsymumsy2283
    @clumsymumsy2283 3 дня назад

    I Appreciate you Chris. I Value what you have to Teach. I Know God is using you for His Glory.
    Amen 🙏

  • @margovallen
    @margovallen 8 дней назад

    Wonderful advice and by the same token, it's a two-way street as women need to practice the same things toward their men.❤

  • @FantasticFingers
    @FantasticFingers 9 дней назад +3

    This Truth!👏🏾

  • @msintutive8694
    @msintutive8694 5 дней назад

    This video deserves 1M + views!!!👏🏾💪🏽💯🥂

  • @t.g.4311
    @t.g.4311 2 дня назад

    Amen...you got it!!! School em....I hope they listen to you!!!

  • @lisamariegarcia8799
    @lisamariegarcia8799 День назад

    YES YES YES !! You hit it on the money Chris.

  • @maciejewskaanna7231
    @maciejewskaanna7231 7 дней назад

    Amen! I wasn't second. Wasn't even third. I was after his mom, friends and random strangers on forums.

  • @sparkyfive4340
    @sparkyfive4340 4 дня назад

    CHRIS, 100% RIGHT ON,.... ❤😊
    THIS LADY THANKS YOU, FOR
    SOOTHING, &
    CONFIRMING MY
    SOUL !!!!
    💕💕💕💕💕💕💋

  • @GailSanta
    @GailSanta 9 дней назад +2

    You nailed it ..... Thank-You ❤

  • @NaomiLouellis
    @NaomiLouellis 2 дня назад

    AMEN, MY FRIEND CHRIS, 💯 PERCENT FOR SURE !!!

  • @yahnawilson-talley9089
    @yahnawilson-talley9089 2 дня назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤OMG THIS IS SOOOO ON POINT!!! YESSSSSS!!! ALL OF THIS! I CANT BELIWVE HOW YOU HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD BECAUSE THIS OS EXACTLY HOWNI FEEL. THESE THINGS DEFINITELY TURN ME OFF AND I CHECK RIGHT OUT

  • @kathieswan3830
    @kathieswan3830 8 дней назад

    BROKEN PROMISES KILL.

  • @luluissac3010
    @luluissac3010 5 дней назад

    Thank you Chris 🙏🏽Everything you said was on point.

  • @theresadelgigante4050
    @theresadelgigante4050 9 дней назад

    🤔🤯😢 Amen!..
    What more", can be said?
    Except "God bless them".
    Because "No, one" can be that ignorant!?🥀
    TY, Chris!👏👏👏

  • @makhuvhadakalo
    @makhuvhadakalo 7 дней назад +1

    Thank you perfectly said😮

  • @ingelabounty8886
    @ingelabounty8886 13 часов назад

    LIES ARE A DEAL BREAKER 💯 🌹

  • @Jayemoody38
    @Jayemoody38 3 дня назад

    Thanks for putting this out.

  • @Roxann-qw3nr
    @Roxann-qw3nr 5 дней назад

    Yes Yes Yes all of what you said is exactly right & real❤
    Women love communication & attention

  • @free2bme1975
    @free2bme1975 6 дней назад

    Perfectly said! Thank you so much!! ❤❤

  • @Sage-k9e
    @Sage-k9e 9 дней назад +3

    👍🏽...Evaluate the character types of the women they've dated previously, and/or still find appealing. If they're overflowing in toxicity, cling-ons, or major drama Queens ...🚫 exit Stage left and🏃🏽‍♀️..burning rubber @100 mph❗

  • @suzannekrimmer659
    @suzannekrimmer659 День назад

    Damn straight, this should just come naturally to all humans ❤

  • @jo-annpetrarca8653
    @jo-annpetrarca8653 3 дня назад

    You are a very wise young man!

  • @a.a.3699
    @a.a.3699 2 дня назад

    My God. This is exactly how I feel in my current situation. We haven’t been together long but there’s a lack of physical and emotional intimacy that’s killing me inside, because I am in love and want that connection so much.
    He’s trying to make me feel like it’s no big deal, we’re older now, most of the time a relationship is spent on the friendship side of things anyway.
    What I don’t understand is if you don’t even want me, if you don’t want to be intimate with me, why are you trying to have me around when the actions aren’t even there?
    I swear I feel like I’m going crazy over here. This unspoken idea of I’m being needy somehow for wanting intimacy with my romantic partner? But yet he wants to talk about the future with us? What us?
    I’m so lost.

  • @cocoakekee
    @cocoakekee 2 дня назад

    This entire video is the truth!!

  • @user-ln4qe1sh8i
    @user-ln4qe1sh8i 7 дней назад

    WOW! Experienced all of these signs within the 1st couple of weeks of meeting this guy. I pulled the plug on his BS! Best decision ever 💯 Thanks for reconfirming that I totally made the right decision 👍