Modesty and the Christian Woman

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  • Опубликовано: 31 окт 2008
  • Elizabeth Inrig gives this passionate exhortation for women to dress as would be fitting a Christ follower. Trinity Church Redlands, CA www.trinityonline.org

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  • @brosue4
    @brosue4 15 лет назад +39

    "They are yours. Keep them to yourself!"
    Amen

  • @stephaniebaldwin39
    @stephaniebaldwin39 Год назад +19

    This lady is what we need in EVERY CHURCH! God bless her ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Levy122
    @Levy122 7 лет назад +125

    God's Truth is offensive to those living in sin.

    • @clinthuff9868
      @clinthuff9868 6 лет назад +5

      Best be careful with that statement! The statement is 100% true but some get offended by how it spoken and backbone behind it. We should never be offensive by our talk and by out walk but we should never water down anything their way to speak truth with out degrading or watering it down. I hear that statement and the Christian at the same time if being very offensive by their demeanor and their speech saying word and coming off the wrong way. Their are religious and inappropriate and wrong and not how Jesus would speak

    • @jamalrepose7409
      @jamalrepose7409 5 лет назад +5

      @@clinthuff9868 The world will always find the word of God offensive. The sheep of the Lord love his words.
      Those of Satan will always, always take offense to the word of God no matter how gentle you say it.
      For only one will rule their lives. Either the god of this world of the God in heaven. They are dead in sin, you have to shock them to life. You assume they can live while living in sin; this thinking is false. So to correct, not some but all of Satan's followers will be offended, but hopefully some as I was can be saved from his clutches. But only the true word of God is going to save them. If they shall be saved at all. Offend and you might gain a brother or sister, be polite and gain neither. No need to be rude for the sake of being rude, but the word of God spoken honestly, in love, and directly is not being offensive. But by the nature of the spirit that their sin invited in, the inhabitant will be offended by the word of God. For those spirits so hate the word of God and torture the flesh in which they reside if they should be subjected to it. They've made and home and you're trying to move them out. They are not going to go peacefully.
      Ephesians 6:12 King James Version (KJV)
      12 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.

    • @kristiarnold9093
      @kristiarnold9093 5 лет назад +1

      YES

    • @ElenoaVaipulu
      @ElenoaVaipulu 5 лет назад +2

      True, My husband is a pastor and he often say this, sooo true.

    • @lilianthuo8446
      @lilianthuo8446 3 года назад

      Oh yeah

  • @PeaceLoveAndJoy
    @PeaceLoveAndJoy 15 лет назад +65

    This message is so needed in the church today. We as ladies need to know that our dresswear tells a lot about who we are. I truly appreciate this message. It's now one of my favs.

    • @starhunter9085
      @starhunter9085 3 года назад +2

      *The idea of "modesty" is an absolute joke. God created us to be fully naked with NO SHAME and it was only when we started playing our own game that we started viewing our bodies as disgraceful. 99% of clothing has nothing to do with trying to be provocative, it's just the person wearing what makes them comfortable. Clothing doesn't influence bad actions, corrupt character does.*

    • @AWretchedMan
      @AWretchedMan Год назад

      @@starhunter9085 You have no clue about gods word. He said a man should not have long hair it's a shame. A man should not dress like a woman and a woman shouldn't wear men's clothes, pants etc... anyone who doesn't dress modestly is a whore. GODS WORD

    • @soldiersofchristug
      @soldiersofchristug Год назад +4

      @@starhunter9085 please read your bible

    • @lee-annebarrett366
      @lee-annebarrett366 Год назад +1

      @@starhunter9085 your words not mine. PLAYING OUR GAME. Dont you mean rebelling against the creator God, which is Sin. In Colossians 1:21.once you were alienated from God and were enemies in your mind because of your evil behaviour. Playing your own game, is evil behaviour.
      Please read your bible. God wants your obedience from those he called to be his chosen people.

    • @margaretharypkema9290
      @margaretharypkema9290 Год назад +1

      @@starhunter9085You clearly are not converted otherwise you could... not talk like this .
      Read also the early chapters of Genesis and various New Testament scriptures and then you'll hopefully ... learn your ignorance and total worldliness.
      May God open your eyes, understanding, and heart! ❤️

  • @Shannon920
    @Shannon920 12 лет назад +30

    Praise The Lord and AMEN!!!!!! This was a well-needed video for ALL congregations!

  • @Von917
    @Von917 10 лет назад +33

    Understand that this message are for followers and true believers in Christ. Please do not open mail that wasnt delivered to you. Trust me, if you're a true believer you'll receive this. Even if you don't agree or understand 100%, you still will receive and wrestle with this message. Hence, why we all feel a need to comment on it :)

  • @TM-wv1nt
    @TM-wv1nt 7 лет назад +57

    Good job rebuking immodesty. I feel great when we have women of understanding like her around.

  • @MorganJServices
    @MorganJServices 15 лет назад +16

    I really appreciate how this woman speaks and teaches. Very well done.

  • @80americarlos
    @80americarlos 2 года назад +10

    Wow, I wish we had more women like this in our churches. Sad that not many women dress modestly anymore. Some still do though, which I'm thankful for. - a man

  • @vintagegirl68
    @vintagegirl68 12 лет назад +12

    This Lady is right on!! I believe what she is saying. Praise the Lord for her words!

  • @forrafrench9292
    @forrafrench9292 8 лет назад +34

    This is excellent and much needed word for this time. It is gently spoken and covers some but not all of the motivation for modesty.
    Women can be completely "modest" and still be seeking to draw out illicit feelings from men. The women themselves are not in a healthy, and secure state. If they felt secure in Christ's love, they would not be seeking this kind of affirmation from men.
    Something can be very wrong in the heart of a person and people around them may have an idea that something is wrong, but they cannot believe that their good Christian friend would really be purposely doing something such as secretly cultivating and enjoying the attention of men (or women).
    This thing can even be hidden to the one who is doing it, because it is self-deception.
    CHRISTIAN LADIES, DOES HOW YOU DRESS CAUSE MEN TO LUST?
    -AND ARE YOU SECRETLY GLAD, BECAUSE IT VALIDATES YOU?
    Turn and go the other way now, because you will be held accountable for your actions.
    Ask God to give you a new perspective on beauty and be secure in your heavenly Father's
    affection. Get to know the lover of your soul. Because He is the only one who can give you what you need deep in your heart of hearts.

    • @starhunter9085
      @starhunter9085 3 года назад +1

      *Read your Bible and you'll see it says that God created us nude with no shame. This was because in God's ideal world, we embrace our bodies as a physical reflection of God's spirit. God is an artist and we're His art 🎨 therefore, when you embrace yourself, you embrace Him. The reason Adam and Eve immediately hated themselves after they sinned and covered themselves is because they, in sinning, turned away from God and therefore turned away from themselves since their bodies reflected God. God didn't give them clothes because He chose to and He was "covering us in His glory"; that entire context was telling us about how we fell out of His glory. Clothing only came into play when shame, brokenness, evil, and sin did meaning that it's a symbol of these things and the broken bond between God and man. Being ashamed of your image is being ashamed of God's and He didn't create us to be ashamed of His masterpiece and bury it down to where nobody can see it, He created us to display our art in a museum and be happy when someone gazes upon our beauty. That's why people like David, Esther and Isaiah all got elevated when they did this but Vashti, Micah and Isaiah's critics, who bashed them for it, got kicked to the curve. That's also why people today, who flaunt their bodies, make it big while those who bash them fade into nothing.*

    • @joeljames2950
      @joeljames2950 2 года назад

      @@starhunter9085 good reply for someone who believes that the current world is the end. Listen moron David was punished for his sins did you intentionally wipe that part out? Even Christ suffered in this world by your idealogy he's a loser right? Go join some New Age cult if you can't handle the Word.

  • @texasbelle333
    @texasbelle333 5 лет назад +50

    Wonderfully said! Modesty should not offend you my sisters, it’s a form of worship! When you become new in Christ, he strips the world off and clothes you in righteousness and holiness. Jesus is not coming back to save those comfortably living in their sin, so no, you cannot continue to be/act/look like a harlot. And also, modest doesn’t mean boring, have fun with colors, patterns, styles, just cover up! I love you all!

    • @Pedro-of4tn
      @Pedro-of4tn Год назад +1

      Blessed be the Lord!
      Titus 2:3-5
      English Standard Version
      3 Older women likewise are to be reverent in behavior, not slanderers or slaves to much wine. They are to teach what is good, 4 and so train the young women to love their husbands and children, 5 to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled.

    • @auntiegrandma09
      @auntiegrandma09 Год назад +1

      Let women dress how they want.

  • @apostolichollinesgal
    @apostolichollinesgal 11 лет назад +10

    The bottom line is that if you are serious about serving and living for God when the inside of you is cleaned up it will also clean up the outside. When you have the inside purified and the ouside cleaned up someone can see you on the street and Know that you could help them with any concerns or questions they may have about serving God or finding out who he really is. We must shine a light to this lost world and let others see us as a follower of our Savior Jesus Christ.♥♥♥♥

  • @CountessMommy
    @CountessMommy 12 лет назад +33

    I wish more women understood this

    • @khappy1286
      @khappy1286 3 года назад +5

      They do. But they choose sin.

    • @starhunter9085
      @starhunter9085 3 года назад +1

      *The idea of "modesty" is an absolute joke. God created us to be fully naked with NO SHAME and it was only when we started playing our own game that we started viewing our bodies as disgraceful. 99% of clothing has nothing to do with trying to be provocative, it's just the person wearing what makes them comfortable. Clothing doesn't influence bad actions, corrupt character does.*

    • @lee-annebarrett366
      @lee-annebarrett366 Год назад +1

      @@starhunter9085 please read your bible. As Christians God told us not to conform to worldly standards.

  • @empresstmc
    @empresstmc 13 лет назад +10

    i love this Video. I;m a young Christian woman and have recently been led to write a piece on modesty... It a hard one. But a very important message. esp today where alot of woman in the world and church think less is more.

  • @DougEaton
    @DougEaton 15 лет назад +5

    I once had a meeting with Ingrid at Trinity Church on behalf of the school for which I work, and I was amazed at her integrity and love for the Lord. Great video! God Bless.

  • @Nat-cn3bx
    @Nat-cn3bx Год назад +5

    So good and much needed in the church. This needs to be taught more (with specifics like this video!)

  • @iel2006
    @iel2006 11 лет назад +9

    Thank you for posting this. I use to attend a very well known Church in Southern California area, where this was a big problem and for me, it was certainly a problem. However, no one seem to care or take the initiative to tell it like it is. By the same token, there are many other christian women, from different churches, that i wish they would here this message. Once again, thank you.

  • @jadedbutterfly27
    @jadedbutterfly27 13 лет назад +7

    The Bible calls for a virtuous woman to dress in beautiful flowing garments and be covered in modesty. It also calls for a woman to cover her hair while praying and prophesying to honor her head. Her head being either her father or husband if she is married, and also to honor Messiah and God.

  • @sharonm-a7580
    @sharonm-a7580 4 года назад +7

    Thank you madam, thank God for the message and the manner of it.

  • @josephclarkclassicalandfaith
    @josephclarkclassicalandfaith Год назад +1

    Please people share this with kids parents and wifes this is soo important.

  • @chitalusiame7161
    @chitalusiame7161 Год назад +1

    I love the way she puts it,

  • @hedgemist691
    @hedgemist691 2 года назад +6

    I dress the way I do for my own self respect. I don't want to be leered at by men, but on the other hand I think men should be responsible for their own behaviour. Just how far can a man go in telling a woman what to wear? Some men will be turned on by the sight of a shoulder or even the form of a woman under her clothes.

  • @Sweet92Sue
    @Sweet92Sue 14 лет назад +18

    I'm a Christian woman who loves clothes! :) I find it easy to find stylish, modest clothing. I don't value clothing above Jesus or my family...but put in its proper place, I don't think my appreciation for feminine things contradicts God's law. My husband. like most men, is a visual person. He deserves a wife who looks appealing (though I'm not a fashion model!), and I try to look nice out of love for him. God bless all my Christian sisters!

  • @ritahenderson5560
    @ritahenderson5560 3 года назад +4

    Well said and honorable to those that think we are fighting beauty cause we not just want it to be modest and respectful to our fathers,sons and husbands that love holy living not wanting to cause one to fall

  • @liveweyerd
    @liveweyerd 9 лет назад +55

    My experience shows that if you wish to be treated like a lady, dress and act like one.

    • @globalstudy01
      @globalstudy01 7 лет назад +7

      Tena Weyer so, disrespect people otherwise? bc you're an awful person?

    • @Deuteronomy-uw8ls
      @Deuteronomy-uw8ls 7 лет назад +7

      Tena Weyer my experience shows that women will be treated as property, sex objects, and less then man no matter her dress.
      women wearing burkas are raped daily, and then murdered for being raped because they somehow were responsible for the "honor" of the family being tarnished by the actions of a man.
      It isn't hard to treat another human with the respect owed a human no matter their dress. it is actually Christ like to treat other humans lovingly and with Grace no matter their dress or sin struggles.

    • @filledeyhwh
      @filledeyhwh 5 лет назад +2

      Tena Weyer Amen, amen!!

    • @jamalrepose7409
      @jamalrepose7409 5 лет назад +6

      @@Deuteronomy-uw8ls You dress for the Lord. Ask yourself who tells you to wear a short skirt showing off your butt and front? Who tells you to wear the low cut shirt showing off your breasts? Is it the Lord telling you to dress as such? If it is not the Lord telling you to do it, whom do you think is speaking to you? Those of God don't dress as such. Those of the father of this world, find need to display things that are vanity. For all things age and get old, is that what you value? For in time it fades with age. Ask yourself whom is asking you to dress in that way? Whose word are you following? And who are you giving service too?

    • @Deuteronomy-uw8ls
      @Deuteronomy-uw8ls 5 лет назад +3

      @@jamalrepose7409 you are making a lot of unfounded assumptions about me and what I wear.
      Ungracious attitudes towards those who dress in ways you disagree with is one of the many reasons so many have been traumatized by church and by Christians. Causing them to leave the church.
      I know many people who love Jesus deeply who can't enter a church parking lot without a severe panic attack.
      Modesty is not black and white. It is as living, breathing and different as every person in the body of Christ.
      I'd be very careful about judging a person's relationship with the Lord on their dress. the Lord has different priorities with all of his children and there may be some amazing Christians out there that have struggles that the Lord has put as a higher priority than modesty and taking them one step at a time on their journey to Christ-likeness.

  • @cspann33
    @cspann33 4 года назад +3

    Wow!! Simple yet so powerful!

  • @sirhood2
    @sirhood2 12 лет назад +6

    Yes. Men ARE responsible for our thoughts and behavior. However, if a man sees a woman half naked, it's his duty as a Christian to turn and go the other way. If he continues looking at her lustfully, he is sinning. The woman, on the other hand, is also sinning because she is tempting him. She is also sinning.

  • @myroom1913
    @myroom1913 4 года назад +5

    Yes: as born again Christians we should dress modestly: BUT: we also need to remember: that GOD meets us where we are at!!!! Being sanctified is a process and as no ones perfect: it’s best if we don’t judge others too harshly. I am learning to be less judgmental also.

  • @guru6831
    @guru6831 Год назад +1

    All, not just females, should exercise modesty.

  • @buelahland_africa4119
    @buelahland_africa4119 5 лет назад +1

    Ho la la laaaaa. That brings a lot of calm in the confused atmosphere on the topic of Modesty. Simple and TO-THE-POINT.

  • @200991602
    @200991602 9 лет назад +13

    Women have a problem with lust too. Churches have to start recognizing this, and stop shaming the women, and help them like they help the men, with conversation and understanding, not that " you defiled yourself" nonsense. No more harsh words from churches.

  • @mosriteminioncause7741
    @mosriteminioncause7741 Год назад +1

    i belonged to a "modern" SB Church and was raising my little daughter after my wife (she was 37) passed. It was the early 2000's and the fashion was low V-cut tops and short skirts....for a man trying to worship, it was really distracting... and most were married women whose husbands I knew in the church. I have tried to raise my daughter to be modest and humble to Jesus and she is! It truly is a miracle.

  • @jonnapagador1556
    @jonnapagador1556 12 лет назад +5

    AGREE...be a good model..

  • @rosea2350
    @rosea2350 2 года назад +2

    Us women should dress like the virgin Mary and not be swayed by the current trends or fashions. God doesn’t change, neither shall we.

  • @preachingjesusministry7201
    @preachingjesusministry7201 4 года назад +2

    Amen sister great teaching

  • @justice4all977
    @justice4all977 Год назад +1

    All men are tempted but Woe to the one who does the tempting. Ladies, God knows your heart when you wear those grave clothes

  • @MsJoy4ever
    @MsJoy4ever 14 лет назад +4

    Wonderful Video, God bless !!!!!

  • @abby0campbell
    @abby0campbell 15 лет назад +2

    Great message, thankyou

  • @malicia680
    @malicia680 11 лет назад +4

    AMEN!! Well Said! Thnk God!

  • @SicMundus7
    @SicMundus7 Год назад

    God bless you Lady!

  • @pinkychick141
    @pinkychick141 13 лет назад +4

    This is from my church :)

  • @mniego0
    @mniego0 3 года назад +1

    Christian women should wear modesty not just in church but on daily basis, for that unbelievers will not be discourage.

  • @visualreaction9738
    @visualreaction9738 3 года назад +1

    There’s hope🙏🏼

  • @nerisaureta1096
    @nerisaureta1096 Год назад

    Thank you🥰❤️🙏🏻

  • @keeps4970
    @keeps4970 4 года назад +4

    woman who use to dress modest are beautiful

    • @jachuwah
      @jachuwah 2 года назад

      just like the ones who dress immodestly. No difference.

  • @RockyBalboa211
    @RockyBalboa211 15 лет назад +14

    Everyone needs to practice modesty! lol

  • @Pedro-of4tn
    @Pedro-of4tn Год назад +1

    Blessed be the Lord!
    Titus 2:3-5
    English Standard Version
    3 Older women likewise are to be reverent in behavior, not slanderers or slaves to much wine. They are to teach what is good, 4 and so train the young women to love their husbands and children, 5 to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled.

  • @oldtimerlee8820
    @oldtimerlee8820 Год назад +2

    More true today than what it was 14 years ago, when this video was uploaded. With each generation, in our church, women seem to have yielded more to the lure Satan dangles before them. A few years ago I would not have thought that any woman in our church would have worn ballet tights as outerwear, covered by a crop top, crowned by a headful of purple hair and eyeshadow glitter. Nor to see them sing in the choir wearing bluejeans full of holes.
    I'm glad that the "fashion trend" of ladies wearing matching hats, gloves, shoes and handbags has passed. The same age that required all men to wear suits, felt hats, white shirts and ties to church. Far to much emphasis on "Sunday best" to impress others in the pew instead of humbly honoring God with clean overalls and a grateful heart.
    It seems that we've gone from one extreme to another. Gone from dress to impress in the 1960's to dress to solicit in 2023. (sigh) Another example of history repeating itself, as illustrated in the Scriptures. Use of fringes and embroidery are two examples of using to honor God or using to elevate oneself.

  • @alexanderd702
    @alexanderd702 13 лет назад +3

    AMEN!!!!!!!

  • @spyx5
    @spyx5 14 лет назад

    @BradSSFL where does it say in your christian belifs that your women cant marry non-christian men?

  • @Lore788
    @Lore788 13 лет назад +3

    Amen !

  • @JesusLightsYourPath
    @JesusLightsYourPath Год назад +1

    Is it immodest to put lotion on my arms to make them look smooth?

  • @TheVintage1950
    @TheVintage1950 12 лет назад +9

    @AnastasiaAlison Modesty is about not wanting to show off or attract attention to yourself. Its to do with your heart attitude.

  • @lee-annebarrett366
    @lee-annebarrett366 Год назад +1

    With great appreciation.
    It takes courage to say what she has said. A ccorrection and warning to all Christian women.
    Unfortunately we have no one at our church that are addressing this problem. Women on welcoming with very short skirts and their breasts showing, very long splits in their dresses and that horrible lycra gym wear, very short shorts. I dont know where to look and my husband is very uncomfortable and embarrassed. I dont tell anyone where l go to church, because lm ashamed of the way we look to the unconverted. We look worldly as a church, and thats just wrong as Christians.

    • @theirmom4723
      @theirmom4723 Год назад

      Have you addressed the Pastor and his wife about this topic? If not, then why not? Have you considered looking for another church? There are church bodies out there that still adhere to modest dress.

    • @lee-annebarrett366
      @lee-annebarrett366 Год назад

      People have, and it hasnt been continuing.
      Yes, we have found a small expository preaching church, wonderful hymns, respectful God honouring worship service, modest respecful dress code. We are going to start going there when my husband comes out of hospital.
      Just one point the hypocrisy, the ministers and mourners will go to a funeral dressed in a suit, appropriately dressed to show respect, but when it comes to Worship our Holy God people dress down in shorts t shirts, ripped jeans, greasy uncombed hair, tight revealing clothes. People will dress up for a human funeral but not toward their Holy God who died for their sins and saved them from eternal Hell.

  • @Lillibit._
    @Lillibit._ 7 лет назад +7

    I'm a very masculine Christian teen girl who loves her Savior. I do CrossFit, boxing, and swimming. I'm into guns, knives, and all things tactical. I almost never wear makeup and despise wearing dresses, my hair is buzzed off. I love being a woman, just not feminine (I'm not a lesbian or desire to be transgender). I'm going to join the Marine Corps next July and hopefully work in the newly open combat jobs. I wear masculine clothes: basketball shorts, hoodies, loose jeans, etc. I basically meet all the modesty standards in that my boobs are covered, my stomach is covered, and my figure is hidden. But I fail to meet the "feminine" standard. I struggle to balance being myself and trying not to give people the impression I'm trying to be a man. I wish Christian women (or Christians in general) reached out more to effeminate men and masculine women, instead of pretending we don't exist and leaving us in limbo. Many oddball, out of the box Christian teens think they are gay or trans for not being "normal" or like other Christian teens.

    • @soglossytv9794
      @soglossytv9794 5 лет назад

      I am a Christian,but will say this to you.you are not a lesbian,good you are not feminine good.Do you love the lord? If you do,then all I can say is be yourself right now.I am not an expert on this.but if you love God, then let him lead you

    • @jamalrepose7409
      @jamalrepose7409 5 лет назад +3

      That was bad advice so let me give some better advice. One I want to say you're a 100% right. We are silent and we should not be. We are cowards whom do not want to hurt your feelings. My best advice for you is to find, if you can a bible reading, God fearing Christian. One who can speak truth and be unafraid. Also, read your bible daily. You will read of women in the bible whom do have feminine dress. Get to the point where you have a private time daily to pray to the Lord your God. Take sin seriously and remove it from your life. I guarantee your around some Christian in name only telling you we all sin and you will always sin.
      And to the bad advice you got a few months ago, you love God by Obeying God. And once you start dealing with God honestly and with a sincere heart He will hear you. And make that sin abhorrent to you. This coming from a former porn addict slash fornicator.
      But even still even the Apostles battled with the flesh, so do not take it as you will not face temptation but you will face it with the fire of the Lord in your belly and a hate for sin. Yes to wear things that pertain to a man, yeap that is gonna be sin. But we all need to be washed in the blood of the lamb to remove the sin from our lives.
      Deuteronomy 22:5 King James Version (KJV)
      5 The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the Lord thy God.

    • @Lauren-vd4qe
      @Lauren-vd4qe Год назад +2

      your hair is buzzed off? do u know what the bible says about shorn women? women with their hair cut off? it tells us to have long hair! so dont b so in love with the world that u mimic any trendy cut thats popular; your FIRST edict is to obey Gods word, not the world. ask the Lord to make u more comfy with your feminine side, as if he made you a woman, He wants u to look, act, and feel like one. Blessings, sister.

  • @samanthakawesa8293
    @samanthakawesa8293 Год назад

    This was yes!!!

  • @jedidiahstouch1216
    @jedidiahstouch1216 2 года назад

    Wow! So good.

  • @filledeyhwh
    @filledeyhwh 5 лет назад +2

    Amen!!!🙏

  • @yashaouchan
    @yashaouchan 12 лет назад

    @flowahs I don't worry about other people nor myself. I'm just stating my opinion.

  • @manawke
    @manawke 11 лет назад +2

    Amen!!!!

  • @mjknosp2993
    @mjknosp2993 12 лет назад +1

    Help me out here. What did she mean by "costly" and what economy does she live in? Where I'm from, if you want quality you will have to Pay Up, even going to a second hand store is costly these days. So.....

  • @TM-wv1nt
    @TM-wv1nt 7 лет назад +2

    nice teaching

  • @calistamolly812
    @calistamolly812 3 года назад +2

    ABSOLUTELY TRUE

  • @kennsiedomersan40
    @kennsiedomersan40 11 лет назад

    I was using an example. I'm not talking about anyone specific. But I forgot that calling someone a name is judging. I thought I'd be describing but I realize it now. :/
    Would the same be for calling someone Emo, Goth, skater, prep, etc? If so, I either forgot and realized or never thought of it.
    I am Christian. But I do admit that at times I fall short of the glory of God. Especially by accident. I am called to love all which is why I try to treat even gays nicely. Not because I have to.

  • @rg1whiteywins598
    @rg1whiteywins598 2 года назад +1

    I am modest but I don't have air conditioning and when I mow my yard I wear shorts and t shirt that I cut the sleeves off of. I would die of sweating if I didn't. But this is my yard in a quiet neighborhood. Maybe one or two cars driving on the street in three hours. Nothing hangs out, and I'm built like a popsicle stick. Don't think I entice anyone.

  • @cuchulain55
    @cuchulain55 15 лет назад +3

    Astrid Lindgren was a very modest and beautiful lady.:)

  • @TheVintage1950
    @TheVintage1950 12 лет назад +5

    @AnastasiaAlison okay, lets see what GOD says on modest women:
    Proverbs 11:22 - Like a gold ring in a pig's snout is a beautiful woman without discretion.
    1 Timothy 2:9 - Likewise also that women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire.
    and as brothers and sisters in christ, you should help one another. You wouldn't put a recovering alcoholic in a pub and tell him to suck it up, would you?

    • @MinisterRoy205
      @MinisterRoy205 3 года назад

      Amen, truly, truly.
      Being one who suffers with sexual immortality of the eye.
      I've grown strong enough to look away.
      But what is seen cannot be unseen, even in the peripheral.
      So I can look away, but the subconscious will bring it to the conscious, usely when most comfortable.
      Like, I work at Virginia Tech.
      University students dress, well, no explanation required really.
      So, I'm always either closing my eyes or looking away every few minutes.
      And sadly, sometimes i don't.
      But I respect their free will.
      However, when I'm at church, all women where long skirts, which has begun to change.
      I still never want to leave when I'm in the sanctuary, there's almost no other place I'd rather be.

    • @victoriaramsay6311
      @victoriaramsay6311 Год назад

      The ones who are looking at your puppies arent the ones you have worry about in church. Paedos are more of an issue.

  • @VernManson
    @VernManson 12 лет назад +1

    The Bible, in context, supports this ladies message. It is true from the Christian perspective that we are the temple of God. There are two extremes mentioned in the Bible that have to do with the way we clothe ouselves in Public. Complete nakedness or being appropriately clothed relative to the situation. Robes are mentioned and represented as being a portrayal of righteousnes, but that can be done with the wrong motive. Some places of employment and in bars safety demands people be clothed.

  • @Bindi_Marc
    @Bindi_Marc 2 года назад

    no lies.

  • @MarijeK
    @MarijeK 13 лет назад +1

    @fornsten I guess you're right, and I didn't mean to say that you offended me. I just wanted to say the argumentation of christianity bugs me. Time will tell if something will be cleared up (to me or to everyone).

  • @MsFrevrysPoetry
    @MsFrevrysPoetry 4 года назад +1

    She explained it well. Biblical scriptures was missing. Next time use scriptures, we need the word to back it up!

    • @jeanpaulgartier3404
      @jeanpaulgartier3404 4 года назад

      But women hate scripture, woman preaching is non biblical.

    • @theirmom4723
      @theirmom4723 Год назад

      @@jeanpaulgartier3404 We do NOT hate the Scripture.

  • @haris1254
    @haris1254 14 лет назад

    @BradSSFLi dont know what to say i was just saying that I do not follow a religion that says for woman to be modest but I like the idea of womans modesty. i meant im not muslim,christian,hindu,buddhist etc and many religions that have rules for men and woman. yur assuming im a liberal, i dont really side with a party n i think both sides of politicians have liars but the common people are not.i dont know what u mean but isnt seperation of church n state a good thing, it is in the constitution af

  • @veronica7777
    @veronica7777 Год назад

    Read Colleen Hammond too❤

  • @khappy1286
    @khappy1286 3 года назад +1

    And men today in 2021, wear tight, skinny jeans, and form fitting shirts in the pulpit. We can see the outline of their entire body, every nook amd cranny.
    If not in your church, it's in all the trendy megachurches and even in small churches now. .

  • @triumphantsoul9075
    @triumphantsoul9075 Год назад

    John G. Paton was a missionary who evangelised a violent island where everyone, both men and woman, wear little to no clothing. In his book, The Story of John G. Paton or Thirty Years Among South Sea Cannibals, John G. Paton records this incident about a native man and woman who became Christians and then wanted to marry but feared they would be killed because there were a few men who wanted to marry the woman:

    "In a few seconds, Yakin entered and if Nelwang’s bearing and appearance were rather inconsistent with the feeling of worship (he was wearing a shirt, kilt and tommahawk, John G. Paton felt it inappropriate to wear an emblem of violence to church)- and what on earth was I to do when the figure and costume of Yakin began to reveal itself marching in?
    The first visible difference betwixt a Heathen and a Christian is that the Christian wears some clothing, the Heathen wears none. Yakin had determined to show the extent of her Christianity by the amount of clothing she could carry upon her person. Being a Chief’s widow before she became Nelwang’s bride, she had some idea of state occasions and appeared dressed in every article of European apparel, mostly portions of male attire, that she could beg or borrow from about the premises!
    Her bridal gown was a man’s drab-coloured great-coat, put on above her native grass skirts and sweeping down to her heels, buttoned tight. Over this she had hung on a vest and above that, again, most amazing of all, she had superinduced a pair of men's trousers, planting the body of them on her neck and shoulders and leaving her head and face looking out from between the legs - a leg from either side streaming over her bosom, arid, dangling down absurdly in front! Fastened to the one shoulder also there was a red shirt and to the other a striped shirt waving about her like wings as she sailed along. Around her head, a red shirt had been twisted like a turban, and her notions of art demanded that a sleeve thereof should have a loft over each of her ears! She seemed to be a moving monster-loaded with a mass of rags.
    The day was excessively hot, and the perspiration poured over her face in streams. She, too, sat as near to me as she could get on the woman’s side of the church. Nelwang looked at me and then at her smiling quietly, as if to say, “You never saw in all your white world, a bride so grandly dressed!”
    I little thought what I was bringing on myself when I urged them to come to church. The sight of that poor creature sweltering before me constrained me for once to make the service very short - perhaps the shortest I ever conducted in all my life! The day ended in peace. The two souls were extremely happy, and I praised God that what might have been a scene of bloodshed had closed thus, even though it were in a kind of wild grotesquerie!"

  • @christinachioma443
    @christinachioma443 Год назад

    Thank you so much for this message xtian women need to change the way they dress

  • @nicoleflowers7
    @nicoleflowers7 Год назад +1

    I do agree with the message. Modesty is a heart posture that will display outwardly in ways as well as inwardly. However, I have to say that I'm not sure I agree that it is necessary to offer the option for the name of the man who confessed a weakness and previous struggle with pornography, and requested at the elder level that a discussion be had with women regarding attire. I don't feel that is proper to expose him by name. I'm not sure how that would be fruitful. Passing along the concerns and request should suffice.

  • @kennsiedomersan40
    @kennsiedomersan40 11 лет назад

    She said hoe not whore. But whatever. I don't know the difference. (If there is any). Is harlot more appropriate or just as bad?

  • @jenniferdavid9585
    @jenniferdavid9585 Год назад

    Well said Sister sone women of the Christian community needs to take this advised very seriously , for too long they have been carless and mindless of the way they dressed outside and in Church . Which as you say they need to repent of what they have done to the Brothers of the church........🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @21bluefins
    @21bluefins 2 года назад

    It's really not that hard to figure out.

  • @tal9973
    @tal9973 Год назад

    Amen

  • @SummerBlue2011
    @SummerBlue2011 3 года назад

    True. As a woman, I think women think of modesty in relation to the very immodest apparel put there. So, they end up dressing mildly or moderately immodest. Some girls just don't know. I didn't as a teen. Wish someone would've been an example.

  • @fionacaleb
    @fionacaleb 3 года назад

    Who's this lady, people?

  • @A.Delizia
    @A.Delizia Год назад

    Amennnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

  • @ddrewh
    @ddrewh 12 лет назад

    grafiene, read my message to you.

  • @ddrewh
    @ddrewh 12 лет назад +1

    You have a foul attitude and spirit. Does staying true to your beliefs permit swearing? What beliefs are you talking about? Certainly, not Christianity. This is a well needed video! Three Cheers for her! Keep preaching modesty!

  • @MySensualWorld
    @MySensualWorld 12 лет назад +2

    Girl, you better pray before you go shopping!

  • @vintagegirl68
    @vintagegirl68 12 лет назад

    Is life about us??? We want our own way, who cares about others? Does the word not say, "I die daily to the flesh", how can we be fleshly and godly? Why all the rebellion about clothing? Bottom line what would Jesus want me to do here? You are either a follower of him or a fan of Him? Choose.

  • @VernManson
    @VernManson 12 лет назад +1

    I have heard many times of Godly men going into bars and witnessing. Christ went into sinners houses and ate with them, he ministered to prostitutes.
    The point I was making was not concerning doing that, but that even bars have set standards for the way people dress. Some will not allow anyone in without a shirt nor allow women in who have on short shorts or very short skirts. Some Christians would be stopped from entering.
    That kind of clothing promotes problems among their patrons.

  • @standardbearer7
    @standardbearer7 2 месяца назад

    "In Isaiah 4:1, the “seven women” symbolizes the seven churches of Revelation (second and third chapters). And the “one man” in Isaiah symbolizes the Lord Jesus Christ.
    We are now in the Last Days of the New Testament times and the Laodecian (people ruled) church is telling this “one man” Jesus “we will eat our own bread” or we will believe
    or develop our own doctrine (beliefs); and we will “wear our own apparel” (our own clothes),
    or we will wear whenever, whatever, we want or desire: only let us (the so-called saints or
    church) be called by thy name (Jesus) to take our reproach (shame) or in other words “...
    Let me, Oh Jesus, be in your church so I can be validated, legal, recognized and respected,
    etc.; just give me your ‘saint’ your name (Jesus) and I will negotiate and decide the rest on
    my own.”
    "Today (now) men and women in the modem church world are saying, pushing (pressuring!) their pastors (male and female) to 1) Compromise the Word (doctrine) and 2)
    Drop God’s standards. Many pastors have, but not all. And we all know that there is “one
    man” who never will, for He (Jesus) is the same yesterday, today and forever." -Quotes from "Understanding New Testament Standards of Living for The Church" by Dr. James Daughtry Th.D. - www.amazon.com/Without-Standards-Christians-Saints-Drowning/dp/1483578801

  • @thrufaithalone
    @thrufaithalone 15 лет назад

    I would also urge Christians to call those "family" stores (like Wal-mart, etc) that carry immodest clothing and let them know you don't appreciate them carrying such items. (Can you imagine them selling the kind of shorts in the men's department that they have in the women's? No, they would never dare - they target girls and young ladies)
    (Note: do not call the local store, they do not get any say about what is sent/sold; call the main office)

  • @TheVintage1950
    @TheVintage1950 12 лет назад +1

    @AnastasiaAlison They are related to your heart attitude. A modest woman wouldn't want to be wearing a skirt that may cause men to stumble. I know guys in my church who have struggles with lust issues, and are trying to overcome that. If a girl in church is wearing a short skirt and a low top, that may trip her brother in christ up. Not only is that immodest, but inconsiderate. Men KNOW we are women, they know we have curves and boobs, they don't need to see them.

  • @Atypical82
    @Atypical82 7 месяцев назад

    We brothers don’t have to wait for a woman to say this. God used a man to write it, so surely men can speak to this, and it doesn’t even necessarily mean that a woman is best suited for this topic. God used a man to write it and to preach it. Paul told Titus to teach the older women to teach the younger women in Titus 2. So we brothers have authority on this area, actually even more authority than the sisters.

  • @darlenegarza527
    @darlenegarza527 11 лет назад +1

    And as for as women wearing pants,and it pertaining to a man.the men in the bible wore skirts, and even carried a purse. Read Ruth3:9,Jeremiah13:22,Zep.1:7-9 ,and Matthew 10:10.Why did men change this,and can women now say that they are sinning! Where there is confusion there's ever evil work,God's no in confusion!

  • @vincent15641
    @vincent15641 12 лет назад

    If a woman is a Christian, she should know it is possible for a woman to be dressed to kill some man's obedience to God. See the video called "What Women Want is Worship".

  • @globalchaos1984
    @globalchaos1984 12 лет назад

    @MySensualWorld Are you joking?

  • @AnastasiaAlison
    @AnastasiaAlison 12 лет назад

    @TheVintage1950 I rather think you find that women are far more empowered nowadays, perhaps take a women's studies course, you may find it interesting, in particular the barrier's that women have had to overcome to achieve their freedoms that they have today ;) I'm also not slagging off women who dress modestly, merely those who preach they ought to dress modestly so as to please men who can't control themselves and blame women for it.

  • @dudenotsoperfect9366
    @dudenotsoperfect9366 Год назад

    The only reason we are wearing clothes is because of sin. So there are no secret parts to a body. There are only parts that can cause someone to sin. Thats it.

  • @zakbauman9319
    @zakbauman9319 2 года назад

    Bathing suits are hardly there