When A Man DEEPLY LOVES You, He’ll Start Saying THESE 7 THINGS!

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  • When A Man DEEPLY LOVES You, He’ll Start Saying THESE 7 THINGS!... In this dating advice video, I will be talking about when a man deeply loves you and share with you the things he will start saying. You may hear a man say these things on first dates, online dating, or somewhere in the dating process. Take heed to these dating tips and be sure to watch the entire video.
    I don’t want you to think that a man does not deeply love you if he doesn’t say all these seven things I mention in this relationship advice. I want you to be able to understand men so that you can tell when a man deeply loves you and when he’s going to play around with your feelings and waste your time.
    I want you to enjoy your love life, understand men better, and be able to know when he loves you. By watching this relationship advice for women you will be able to know the signs that he loves you. Be sure to embrace the love advice that I share in this video so that you can tell when a man deeply loves you.
    As a certified life coach, relationship coach, and dating coach, I want to make dating and relationships easier for you. I pray that you find this video helpful, and you will be able to enjoy dating and have a fulfilling, healthy relationship.
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Комментарии • 6 тыс.

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks
    @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 года назад +740

    ❤️ Join my SPECIAL coaching program here 👉 www.receivingmyblessings.com - so many women are experiencing AMAZING results!

    • @jessicamorales2555
      @jessicamorales2555 2 года назад +26

      You are such an influencer, 25k views just 8 hours after loading the video!!! What a punch. And the video.... just pure wisdom. When I have been deeply loved, all that happened.

    • @idoracruzinofre2882
      @idoracruzinofre2882 2 года назад +11

      Stephan Speaks's I hope you can read my message because like I said there's someone using your link and keep on telling me to call someone in Wathsapp but I don't understand why

    • @idoracruzinofre2882
      @idoracruzinofre2882 2 года назад +6

      The red flags really going to happen if those people keep trying to be fake using other people

    • @bernetajohnson3296
      @bernetajohnson3296 2 года назад +16

      @Stephan Speaks
      A lot of people use the word "Love" very loosely.

    • @Victorious_Camilla
      @Victorious_Camilla 2 года назад +8

      My husband is stubborn as HELL. 28 years of marriage and still chooses his way. No amount of counseling, tears, begging, even prayers for years have caught his willingness to hear me. Wait, he's heard me, he is stubborn! Does not want to fix what is safe for him, i.e., zero intimacy, zero affection.

  • @latashat4639
    @latashat4639 2 года назад +12723

    My husband told me that he loved me on our first date. I was scared 😱 😨 😳, so I didn't know how to respond. He introduced me to his parents the following month and he told his mother that I was going to be his wife. He was a soldier and he left for Iraq two months after we met. He asked me to wait on him to return, so I did. He proposed to me 5 months later and we tied the knot 3 months later. We just celebrated 15 years of marriage.

    • @adriennerobinson1180
      @adriennerobinson1180 Год назад +274

      Oh,How Wonderful. God Bless Your Marriage 💑 and Thank Your Husband for his service.

    • @lucemluna8850
      @lucemluna8850 Год назад +457

      He wasn’t going to miss on his opportunity. Now that’s a man of action!

    • @walkwithkey
      @walkwithkey Год назад +180

      God bless your marriage!!! That is so sweet!💛

    • @Unfriendlyfire8
      @Unfriendlyfire8 Год назад +102

      That’s beautiful

    • @ahenzeaccessories
      @ahenzeaccessories Год назад +110

      You’re the price. Never underestimate that honey .

  • @MrBlacklightning93
    @MrBlacklightning93 2 года назад +6464

    "A wise man never falls in love with a million girls, he falls in love with one girl A million ways" that's a powerful quote!

    • @leneag1521
      @leneag1521 Год назад +19

      Right! I've adopted it now

    • @walkwithkey
      @walkwithkey Год назад

      Wowwwww that’s so good!🤍

    • @razana9016
      @razana9016 Год назад +44

      In other words one good girl is worth a thousand bitches

    • @shannonbeeman8722
      @shannonbeeman8722 Год назад +11

      Perfect!!

    • @normacolon9618
      @normacolon9618 Год назад +13

      Men fall in love for sex, food and friend. The others maybe x.

  • @normajones2582
    @normajones2582 Год назад +1601

    SOMETIME MEN SAY THEY LOVE YOU AND THEY DON'T. I THINK LOVE IS AN ACTION WORD. If a man doesn't show you, he loves, you then he doesn't.

    • @SoulezzThoughtz
      @SoulezzThoughtz Год назад +19

      Everyone shows it differently. If he is thinking he is showing it and you think otherwise then what?

    • @MsDavis-qp7cc
      @MsDavis-qp7cc Год назад +6

      I feel I'm going through this now.

    • @dominiquehaynes7208
      @dominiquehaynes7208 Год назад +7

      i agree with this

    • @mcormick41
      @mcormick41 Год назад +4

      @normajones2582 TRUTH! PERIODT!!!!

    • @idkjess2677
      @idkjess2677 Год назад +4

      Facts

  • @shauntaray454
    @shauntaray454 Год назад +355

    I'm so happy for all the people on here who have found love. I just hope God will bless me with someone who wants to marry me also. 🙂

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Год назад +44

      I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏

    • @spaul3291
      @spaul3291 Год назад +18

      It will happen! Always work on yourself and making ready for when the time comes. Allow God to do the rest. Blessings!

    • @tam9315
      @tam9315 Год назад +7

      Trust it, believe it, expect it, and receive it… 🙏🏽🙌

    • @madinasainthilaire4233
      @madinasainthilaire4233 Год назад +5

      Keep praying keep seeking God,heal,love on yourself and be patient for that man to come it will be worth it…get ready to be love on taken care of and provide for…everything will happen fast that man will play no games when it comes to you love ❤️✝️🙏🏾

    • @Yaneth64
      @Yaneth64 6 месяцев назад +6

      You will. He is out there, don't lose hope.

  • @m.henderson8431
    @m.henderson8431 2 года назад +7834

    No one falls in love faster than a man that needs somewhere to stay💯💯😁

    • @supastar2044
      @supastar2044 2 года назад +571

      And a man that wants a convenient lover, housekeeper, certificate/degree holder equaling more money and "social status". It's all about what makes "them" look good--never about anything else. The biggest most foolish mistake is when a woman trusts a man. A man's love is fickle and shallow.

    • @user370Z
      @user370Z 2 года назад +116

      Isn't that the truth lol M!

    • @cruisecontrol7911
      @cruisecontrol7911 2 года назад +64

      😂😂😂😂

    • @ortaegahenry6493
      @ortaegahenry6493 2 года назад +46

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @barbararomeo9817
      @barbararomeo9817 2 года назад +168

      Very true, it happened to me last year. He was a red flag & I kicked him out from my place.

  • @candistaylorandcamden1622
    @candistaylorandcamden1622 Год назад +2846

    I met my husband at a party. He told me he love me after 30 minutes of talking to me. He then asked me to marry him 3 weeks later… fast forward 22 years later of being together and 19 years married, he’s a fantastic husband and father to our 3 beautiful children! This was a time that I trusted no one and just asked God to send me who he wants me to be with…my husband said he did the same. This changed my entire life!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Год назад +75

      Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

    • @uzoamakandubuisi2081
      @uzoamakandubuisi2081 Год назад +4

      I tap from ur blessing

    • @gaylehopkins440
      @gaylehopkins440 Год назад +13

      that’s beautiful

    • @crazy3si
      @crazy3si Год назад +8

      Wow!!

    • @ammcd2012
      @ammcd2012 Год назад +33

      I love hearing stories like this. My husband and I has a very brief engagement and have been together 10 years. Hoping you enjoy many more years together!

  • @TupacEquals
    @TupacEquals Год назад +359

    I actually met my husband, when I was 8 months pregnant! I was on the train in San Francisco back in 1981. The father of my unborn and I had already parted ways and he was stationed in Germany. To make a long story short, after having my daughter ( Kevin' man I met on train) his grandma by coincidence became my child care provider when I was attending UCSF. By then my daughter was 3 and I had never seen Kevin again, only random phone calls checking on me and my baby. One day, while I was picking up my daughter from child care at Miss Saunders house, and all of a sudden, I caught a glimpse of someone coming through her front door. Then I asked Miss Saunders, who is that, I think someone is in your house and she said, " oh that's probably my grandson" and I said I didn't know you had a grandson that lived here and she said "yes his name is Kevin" and I said Kevin? she instantly gave me the last name of the same Kevin that I met on the BART train almost 3 years prior, so her and I begin to talk and I said Ms Sanders that's the guy that I've been telling you about, but to be honest I could not remember his last name, until you said it.
    She said "oh my goodness, you must be the person that he's been telling me about for almost 3 years and saying that he met this really pretty pregnant and nice lady on the train and I'm going to marry her one day" Over the year's we had formed an amazing friendship and he became the father of 4 daughters, by two different women. Although neither of his relationships worked, he and I were always friends. So fast forward to 1999 he and I eloped when my daughter was 19. He and I have been married for 23 years and he always tells me how much he loves me and how much he needed me through life.. I was 39 and he was 35 the day we eloped, now I'm 62 and he's 58.... My daughter is 41 and my Stepdaughters are, 24 26, 30 and 33...what an awesome life, when stranger's cross paths

    • @TheEvolutionofL.
      @TheEvolutionofL. Год назад +33

      This is one of the most beautiful love stories I’ve ever read on here. Thank you for sharing 🤍

    • @vam9785
      @vam9785 Год назад +13

      OMG what a beautiful story ❤

    • @TupacEquals
      @TupacEquals Год назад +14

      @@vam9785 Thank you, it's funny when people see us together, the assume that we are girlfriend and boyfriend, because we don't act like a married couple, but we appear to be dating or just good friends. 💕

    • @jocelynthompson3493
      @jocelynthompson3493 Год назад +16

      Ain't it funny how God puts things in front of us.

    • @TupacEquals
      @TupacEquals Год назад +7

      @@jocelynthompson3493 Amen! Most definitely 😁

  • @Blondemominpa
    @Blondemominpa Год назад +215

    I met my husband as a teenager ( we both were) and he said he loved me within a week he asked me to marry him a few years later and now we’re celebrating 32 years together!!🎉 and still tells me he loves me everyday , and shows me!!❤

    • @karenadams4213
      @karenadams4213 Год назад

      Hey @Blondemominpa after how long did you get engaged?

    • @peekaboots01
      @peekaboots01 7 месяцев назад +2

      It's unfair that didn't happen for me. I started praying for a good husband when I was 14 years old. Never happened. Now I'm old and alone.

    • @Blondemominpa
      @Blondemominpa 6 месяцев назад

      @@karenadams4213 1 year

    • @jcymngo
      @jcymngo 5 месяцев назад

      That was back then. Now that men can get 🐈 on tap they don't love women anymore.

  • @Irishcolleen110253
    @Irishcolleen110253 2 года назад +4045

    It took me 64 years to have a man who truly appreciates and loves me and is completely committed to me. It was well worth the wait. My husband is the best husband in the world!

    • @mofimTV
      @mofimTV 2 года назад +58

      wooow congrats so sweet💝

    • @angelabaldwin9889
      @angelabaldwin9889 2 года назад +56

      Hey, I can’t believe it I thought u typed 54 for ur age as I’m thinking I’m 64 and just found love feeling like she’s 10 tears younger finding love. But I looked again like I didn’t type in 64 yet, I’m like she’s 64 the same as I, lol, finding love. It is remarkable.

    • @a.m.thomas9366
      @a.m.thomas9366 2 года назад

      Were you a virgin ? If you weren't a virgin then you didn't wait.

    • @mrsmaealtema5562
      @mrsmaealtema5562 2 года назад +25

      My husband is the best husband in the whole wide world 😊🤗❤

    • @mrsmaealtema5562
      @mrsmaealtema5562 2 года назад +6

      @@a.m.thomas9366 😒 and your point is?

  • @mariankeller5852
    @mariankeller5852 Год назад +584

    My husband took care of me through 2 bouts of cancer and two sepsis infections that almost killed me..that was 14 years ago.....yup...He's a keeper 🥰

    • @m.k2632
      @m.k2632 Год назад +9

      You’re blessed!!

    • @TheOmniMic
      @TheOmniMic Год назад +3

      Damn

    • @bev3229
      @bev3229 Год назад +1

      Praise the Lord! I thank God that you survived the storm. I'm a lung cancer patient and have a history of breast cancer🙏🏿❤️

  • @shelleybrowne5959
    @shelleybrowne5959 Год назад +20

    I was once about an hour from home in a terrible rainstorm. Flash floods everywhere. I crossed a flooded intersection and my car stalled. I coasted into a parking lot and called a friend who lived nearby. He answered, but he was out of town. But he took my location and arranged for his brother to come and help me. That's what real men do.

  • @vivianbass
    @vivianbass Год назад +321

    I've been married to my baby for 25+ years... im soooo lucky cause he has ALWAYS been the man that has shown me TRUE love! Even being a young man, he has known how to handle me from the beginning....never had an issue with checking in (I'm on my way)

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Год назад +7

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

  • @stasidasilva
    @stasidasilva 2 года назад +5362

    1. I'm on the way (to be there for you). 0:25
    2. I love you. 4:29
    3. You are official. 12:00
    4. How are you feeling? 16:13
    5. I want to make you happy. 22:48
    6. He will say: We, Us & Our 24:42
    7. Let's talk 26:36

    • @chall5353
      @chall5353 2 года назад +540

      Thanks so much for the cliff notes, I can never get thru his long winded videos.

    • @Skyview4me
      @Skyview4me 2 года назад +39

      Thank You

    • @saicapierre-louis5156
      @saicapierre-louis5156 2 года назад +246

      I just love people like you honestly! Thanks for the break down Marie :)

    • @missr7449
      @missr7449 2 года назад +151

      @@chall5353 😂😂😂He’s worth listening to but I get your point

    • @aga1217
      @aga1217 2 года назад +92

      Thanks!! I did not feel like listening.

  • @sandragreen5146
    @sandragreen5146 2 года назад +2804

    If he loves you, you'll know, if he doesn't you'll doubt.💯

  • @timothysturgess5985
    @timothysturgess5985 9 месяцев назад +28

    words mean nothing. he can say love you and be sitting next to his side chick somewhere else. be careful ladies, men will do whatever they want, no matter who it wrecks.

  • @kaceydodd613
    @kaceydodd613 Год назад +26

    My husband found me on a dating website 12 yrs after we initially met in 6th grade. He told me he had a crush on me in 6th grade but never said anything. When we met, he didn't want children or marriage. 1 month later, we PLANNED our 1st child and the following yr (6 months later we were married). We have been married for 8 yrs and now have 4 children and are HAPPILY married and in love. MANY people questioned him if he "really wanted all this with me" and he has chosen ME over and over again! When God sends you the Love of your Life, NO ONE can understand or come between you and NO explanation is needed or due to ANYONE! ❤️🥰❤️🥰❤️ Love is a blessing and I pray everyone experiences TRUE love in their lifetime ❤️

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Год назад

      Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

  • @themilkandcookiesshow
    @themilkandcookiesshow 2 года назад +2414

    “Believe what a man shows you not what he tells you” best advice a man ever gave me; great content #milkandcookiesposcast

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 года назад +29

      Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

    • @lisalee1878
      @lisalee1878 2 года назад +3

      💯💯💯

    • @faliciagreen5893
      @faliciagreen5893 2 года назад +57

      Right. Mine said all 7 things. But overall his actions didn’t align with any of it.

    • @themilkandcookiesshow
      @themilkandcookiesshow 2 года назад +15

      @@faliciagreen5893 something tells me that’s a major loss for him! 💙

    • @ladybugradio1988
      @ladybugradio1988 2 года назад +8

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks Everything in this video you said in this video opens my eyes but at the same time I have these walls built up against my heart because I've been let down a lot so as a loyal viewer I thank you for this video and I hope we can collaborate one day.

  • @scrubstravel2729
    @scrubstravel2729 2 года назад +3663

    A man that wants or sees you as a potential partner will always reassure you and tell you where this relationship is going !!! I learned this the hard way !!! Very true 👐🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 года назад +124

      Thank you for sharing and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

    • @carlosverde-datingtips7001
      @carlosverde-datingtips7001 2 года назад +119

      When a man deeply loves you - it’s only natural for him to say: “I’m on my way.” Actually, that’s how you would expect him to react or behave.
      It makes perfect sense, because obviously he would not want anything bad to happen to you - he’s going to want to protect you - or rescue you, if is that what you need.
      He’s not going to take a chance at potentially losing the person that he loves - because that to him would be unbearable if that were to happen!
      Anyway, that’s my two cents.
      -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips

    • @jayc5756
      @jayc5756 2 года назад +14

      Facts!

    • @macsc5497
      @macsc5497 2 года назад +12

      TBH I don’t press for a monogamous relationship. I wait until a woman brings up wanting it a couple of times..

    • @bodunrinogunlola
      @bodunrinogunlola 2 года назад +11

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks Nice Video Stephan❤️🙏🏻

  • @carmaela2689
    @carmaela2689 Год назад +32

    Actions speak louder than words. Someone can say they love you but not really love you. Watch what he does, not what he says. He will SHOW you how he feels about you.

  • @carolynbest870
    @carolynbest870 Год назад +145

    Yes, I agree he will want to show you off and present you to his family and friends as his lady or his wife. He wants the world to be aware of you as that person in his life.🎬

    • @brigettemccoy
      @brigettemccoy Год назад +3

      I realized this was the one area that was lacking with my last relationship. At first, it didn't seem like a big deal because the world was on lockdown from covid. Seriously, though, his family should have known I existed... I didn't realize till almost a year later, only my family knew about him.

  • @MM-wz8td
    @MM-wz8td 2 года назад +790

    My husband been telling me these words for 16 years, i love him so much. I feel protected by him. I feel loved and appreciated. Glory to God.🙏

    • @MM-wz8td
      @MM-wz8td 2 года назад +2

      Contact who,?

    • @Jesusistherealdeal
      @Jesusistherealdeal Год назад +5

      I was with my son's father for 15 years. He said all these to me, wrote me letters before he goes to work. Give me flowers and always thanking God for me and our son. Sadly, it didn't turn out for us. The thing in saw was..he was out looking for other females and lived with them while we were living as a famiky🤷‍♀️

    • @MM-wz8td
      @MM-wz8td Год назад +5

      @@Jesusistherealdeal wow sorry :(

    • @Emily_Paris
      @Emily_Paris Год назад +6

      I’m so sorry it didn’t work out. I went through the same thing with my children’s father. My heart would pitter patter when he came home from work. We would hold hands in church but after 15 years of marriage and his falling in love with his first cousin which he didn’t deny, I filed for divorce.

    • @MM-wz8td
      @MM-wz8td 11 месяцев назад

      @@SantiagoEmily1008 so sorry to hear that. Hope u find ur true love 1 day

  • @queenbee0129
    @queenbee0129 Год назад +640

    I am blessed my fiance checks all the boxes you mentioned. I waited my whole life to feel the love he has for me. Wedding in February 2023.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Год назад +6

      Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

    • @tinawong6330
      @tinawong6330 Год назад +6

      Congratulations

    • @queenbee0129
      @queenbee0129 Год назад +4

      @@tinawong6330 Thank you, I didn't rush and wouldn't go along with anything I couldn't live with for the rest of my life.

    • @SharonHopeMusic
      @SharonHopeMusic Год назад +3

      That's so awesome! Congrats!

    • @danadavis820
      @danadavis820 Год назад +6

      HalleluYAHUAH
      I’m getting married in a few weeks.
      All checks 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @ConnieWolfe-fm5ux
    @ConnieWolfe-fm5ux Год назад +102

    My husband told me he loved me on our 2nd date. We got married 6 months later it's been a year and still sooo in love, he's a great moral man ❤❤❤

    • @emilyc5625
      @emilyc5625 8 месяцев назад +2

      Whoa when you know you know !

    • @tieashalewis9069
      @tieashalewis9069 5 месяцев назад +2

      May you have 40 50 more years

  • @gordanamajor9109
    @gordanamajor9109 Год назад +198

    Narcisists can tell you I love you just like said good morning 🥴

  • @ChristianMotivationMedia
    @ChristianMotivationMedia 2 года назад +1388

    “Husbands, love your wives and do not be bitter toward them.”Colossians 3:19

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 года назад +25

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!

    • @carlosverde-datingtips7001
      @carlosverde-datingtips7001 2 года назад +25

      When a man deeply loves you - it’s only natural for him to say: “I’m on my way.” Actually, that’s how you would expect him to react or behave.
      It makes perfect sense, because obviously he would not want anything bad to happen to you - he’s going to want to protect you - or rescue you, if is that what you need.
      He’s not going to take a chance at potentially losing the person that he loves - because that to him would be unbearable if that were to happen!
      Anyway, that’s my two cents.
      -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips

    • @sadeanthony2760
      @sadeanthony2760 2 года назад +5

      Yep !

    • @darlenelane392
      @darlenelane392 2 года назад +2

      AMEN 🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @sarahbethjones7829
      @sarahbethjones7829 2 года назад +5

      This!! I am truly understanding the wife's role in submission to her husband. Both these things are essential to a true loving relationship. Most of all these 2 items in the word are a gift to bestow unto a partner whom you deeply love and that love is reciprocated!💯/💯🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @ericbush6124
    @ericbush6124 2 года назад +285

    A Wise Man doesn't love a million women he loves one Women a Million ways. Yes

  • @teabrks9301
    @teabrks9301 Год назад +147

    This is true!! I’ve been with my guy 4 months and I’m having this exact experience. All 7!! We talked about our future in the 1st month. Something special happens when you connect with someone who has similar values.💚

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Год назад +2

      Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

  • @divacute9369
    @divacute9369 Год назад +174

    I met my SP 2 months ago and fell for each other the 1st time laid eyes on each other. He checks all the boxes you mentioned.
    I am grateful that God put us in each other's path. Always.. and allow us to communicate with each other all the time. .. we ensure that we always communicate to ensure that we are on the same page.
    Waited 53 years and numerous relationship for him. He is 56.
    We feel blessed.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Год назад +7

      Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

    • @blessedtg9702
      @blessedtg9702 Год назад +2

      What an inspirational story. Thanks for sharing. May God continue to bless your union 100 Fold! 🙏🏻

    • @carolinechase614
      @carolinechase614 Год назад +1

      I met my love online. I found out he is 14 yrs my junior. I am dumbfounded but he told me I said and did things he had never heard from any woman or had done for him before. He said that was how he fell in love with me. I have to admit I had been listening to Stephen Speaks and used what I learned to see what would happen. It didn’t take long, 3 days to be exact. I used the words he needed to hear and we are in a very deep love relationship. My adult daughters don’t get it. It’s fine, they don’t need to.
      Thank you Stephen Speaks. Your words are gold.

    • @abopoupon
      @abopoupon Год назад

      What a blessing! Good for you because that means there is still hope for me. I’m 54 and still waiting….

    • @summerbrooks9922
      @summerbrooks9922 2 месяца назад

      Listen, that golden hued thing called love only happens once in a thousand years. That's why it is so valued but not often obtained.

  • @luciadominguez5116
    @luciadominguez5116 Год назад +751

    "Communication is intimate" this is everything if you have this with someone and you can talk to them for hours and they want to be there for you hold on to them!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Год назад +20

      Thank you for sharing, communication is definitely key 🙏

    • @dawnmclaughlin2451
      @dawnmclaughlin2451 Год назад +6

      AMEN!

    • @parveengordon9524
      @parveengordon9524 Год назад +4

      I have come to realize that since everyone is unique; relationships are similarly different for most individuals and even though following guidelines can be beneficial there is never going to be a one fit for all therefore one has to just try to find compatibility.

    • @wshelby83
      @wshelby83 11 месяцев назад +3

      So very true! Communication is so important

    • @motowngirl5891
      @motowngirl5891 10 месяцев назад +1

      I never knew men fall in love

  • @janeerbe5468
    @janeerbe5468 Год назад +157

    Just remember that even if he says these things, he can still be toxic. DONT FORGET TO LOVE YOURSELF MORE.

    • @Ashley-oi2uw
      @Ashley-oi2uw 10 месяцев назад +9

      Right, a man can do all of these things and is not being truthful! He probably watch this and did what you said 😂

    • @shastataylor2297
      @shastataylor2297 10 месяцев назад +10

      Or has a hidden, manipulative, one sided agenda. Saying everything right, for selfish reasons, with no intent to commit.

    • @aprilli5332
      @aprilli5332 9 месяцев назад +9

      A man can be toxic and in love at the same time

    • @latoyaeverett5307
      @latoyaeverett5307 7 месяцев назад

      That's what she said.

    • @jeanhawkins8642
      @jeanhawkins8642 7 месяцев назад +2

      Exactly

  • @ashrichman9956
    @ashrichman9956 Год назад +139

    After 11 yrs of being single I’m starting a new relationship and all these tips have brought me more awareness, made me better communicator, person and woman. Thank you 🥰

    • @ambrosialvs
      @ambrosialvs Год назад

      I totally agree...

    • @reginapolo3357
      @reginapolo3357 3 месяца назад

      Awsome. I am also becoming wiser and empiwered. Best to you

  • @valeriehester1559
    @valeriehester1559 Год назад +82

    I don’t want no man to tell me he loves me I prefer actions

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Год назад +6

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

    • @valeriehester1559
      @valeriehester1559 Год назад +1

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks you’re welcomed

    • @yudelkasalcedo1796
      @yudelkasalcedo1796 Год назад +21

      That part!! This guy I was dating said it religiously but his actions said otherwise

    • @valeriehester1559
      @valeriehester1559 Год назад +5

      @@yudelkasalcedo1796 Lmaooooo that was fake love lol he was trying to use you while insulting your intelligence

    • @Bombshellgaming_
      @Bombshellgaming_ 4 месяца назад +2

      Yeah I rather him show me first then say it…. So by that time I can say I already knew that lol and say it back hopefully

  • @sandragreen5146
    @sandragreen5146 2 года назад +928

    Words mean nothing...it's all about action...provide & protect!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 года назад +15

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

    • @sandragreen5146
      @sandragreen5146 2 года назад +2

      You welcome❤

    • @dreamceline2093
      @dreamceline2093 2 года назад +5

      Facts! 🎯

    • @lanitamaxey2044
      @lanitamaxey2044 2 года назад +15

      FACTS!!!!!!!! Actions , words are words that anybody can say or pretend

    • @jamela6020
      @jamela6020 2 года назад +6

      Yep...and that one about "let's talk"..🤔 I'd be thinking something is wrong...😂. How about not saying those words and just talk....

  • @outlawtendancies8581
    @outlawtendancies8581 Год назад +823

    I am a woman...and listening to him talk about these things openly is very encouraging. I was raised by my father and six brothers in our home ..no mother, grandmother or aunts in our home. So I got to see all this that he is talking about from the male perspective and he is correct. Good job in encouraging communication!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Год назад +28

      Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

    • @laurasainz4836
      @laurasainz4836 Год назад +19

      Oh wow!!! I would love to sit and pick your brain! What an outstanding advantage to be raised in that environment and listening to these beautiful creatures express themselves.

    • @adriennerobinson1180
      @adriennerobinson1180 Год назад

      IOH WOW

    • @maryhudakbaylis
      @maryhudakbaylis 10 месяцев назад

      thanks for ur message. encouraging

    • @ceecee8924
      @ceecee8924 8 месяцев назад +1

      Luckyyyy you had so many men who could teach you the ropes

  • @daralee3186
    @daralee3186 Год назад +39

    My husband also can read strait through me. He knows when I'm over stressed, down and depressed, sad, or joyful and happy. Sometimes he misses my signals but most of the time he can tell. He is my soul mate I would never trade him.❤

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Год назад

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

  • @tiffanyskelton1014
    @tiffanyskelton1014 Год назад +84

    That is so beautiful😢 I just met my boyfriend after both of us being single and married to others earlier in our life. On our first date he told me he loved me and it scared me to death, but when he explained that he was about what he saw inside of me and he felt at peace saying it to me, I was floored. He follows those words with many actions. I am a military veteran who deals with physical pain a lot of the time and he’ll do the sweetest things like rub my legs, cook for me, protects me and is very chivalrous. He shows me I don’t have to be so tough anymore but he appreciates my strength. We have agreed to let the relationship grow and learn how to get out of our independent ways to learn to consider each other. Seeing your post just gives me goosebumps because it reminds me of him and what we are learning in our relationship. I subscribed with the quickness!

  • @karengreen5473
    @karengreen5473 2 года назад +653

    Proverbs 18:22; "HE" who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtain favor. Love yourself so you can love. He "willnot" be perfect, but as he trust and follow God he will lead you to the alter 💍

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 года назад +6

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

    • @sherricayson8672
      @sherricayson8672 2 года назад +6

      AMEN...SOO TRUE🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @jamdum2290
      @jamdum2290 2 года назад +1

      Amen

    • @a.m.thomas9366
      @a.m.thomas9366 2 года назад

      It depends on WHO you find as a wife, most women have had multiple abortions and sleep with every men in the country ; should a man find such woman he find a WH*RE !

    • @xteyraxful
      @xteyraxful 2 года назад

      @@a.m.thomas9366 Most people '(NOT ALL)"came across a person who has been through something, or has had hoe-ish waysin there past,but judging is for God to do not us.

  • @t.l1357
    @t.l1357 Год назад +103

    This was triggering. I had a long marriage with a lot of narcissistic manipulation. One thing I've learned. Is someone who truly loves you, is dedicated to understanding you. It's also extremely difficult to say the wrong thing to the right person. If you are making every attempt to communicate clearly with compassion and he's being oblivious....it's a huge red flag. Don't keep trying...he's not. I pray everyone finds real, true love in life. 🌷❤

    • @parallelwells
      @parallelwells 7 месяцев назад +1

      Wow. Great words of wisdom. "It's also extremely difficult to say the wrong thing to the right person." I am realizing I am in the wrong relationship. I cannot talk to my guy about the difficult things without either anger or him changing the topic completely. I stepped back for a while but met up with him for a few days to just visit. The longer I was around him, the more I realized why I had stepped back. "Believe what a man shows you, not what he tells you," goes along with what you have written here. Narcissistic manipulation has blinded me for way too long and I am realizing that my intuition was right! I wasn't overthinking many of the things that set off alarms for me. I wasn't being nitpicky. It was really the wrong things all along for a guy who truly loves me to do/say/express. And now coming back to visit him, I find out he is talking 2-3 times a week with his ex-wife. I think I know my answer to should I stay or should I go. RUN!

  • @aqua4668
    @aqua4668 Год назад +50

    My man told me during our first conversation that he could see himself with me long term. A week into our courtship, he told me that he loved me. Three weeks into it, he began discussing marriage...told me that he wanted to make me his wife. We're only a month into dating, and he includes me in his future plans. He's attentive, supportive in every way and he is a protector and provider. He always checks in on me, is gentle in his communication yet firm, and he feeds into me spiritually, it's way more than just sex. I've been very apprehensive about this but this video confirmed what my intuition has been screaming to me..he is the one! There's so much more I could share but there's no point...he is the one. He is so patient with me and I can truly say that I love this man. His actions and words align...I thank God for him entering my life.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Год назад +2

      Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

    • @claudidadi6633
      @claudidadi6633 Год назад

      Nice!!! ❤❤❤❤

    • @user-zx5xw4yw2e
      @user-zx5xw4yw2e 8 месяцев назад +2

      How r yall doing??

    • @helenlittlejohn2243
      @helenlittlejohn2243 7 месяцев назад +2

      Please update on how that worked out

    • @Mia15239
      @Mia15239 3 месяца назад

      nah don't sleep unless u have a ring on ur finger. otherwise its just words.

  • @lynnmcmillian5137
    @lynnmcmillian5137 2 года назад +712

    A man or woman that truly loves you
    They will have no problem letting everyone know!❤

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 года назад +18

      You're absolutely right!

    • @angieponce6574
      @angieponce6574 2 года назад +4

      Exactly!

    • @charlettebutler6465
      @charlettebutler6465 2 года назад

      No receipt after 30+ years!!! Dreadful

    • @sarahpotter3567
      @sarahpotter3567 2 года назад +7

      Which he never really said we were dating basically all like that basically hid it saying it was no ones business our relationship ship should not be hidden from certain people it should be known if you have to hide your love you don't love me simple

    • @lynnserafin6294
      @lynnserafin6294 Год назад

      What if they have a baby mama or their married but separated .i mean I think a man may not let everyone know in order to avoid drama/issues .what is the thoughts on this ?

  • @tonileolion9702
    @tonileolion9702 2 года назад +316

    If something come up that’s stressful or I’m worried about … one thing my man says is “ don’t stress, whatever it is ,We’ll get through it together “ I love it 😍

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 года назад +1

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

    • @tonileolion9702
      @tonileolion9702 2 года назад +1

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks thank u Sir for always providing topics that matter!

    • @lismolina2801
      @lismolina2801 2 года назад +3

      My ex has all of this….however when I brought up something that bothered me, he blew up and threw me out of our apartment. Now he still does all of this, but we’re not together 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @tonileolion9702
      @tonileolion9702 2 года назад +2

      @@lismolina2801 ohh sorry to hear . Sounds like he is just trying to be ur friend and just not in a relationship

    • @datzsojahna8925
      @datzsojahna8925 Год назад +1

      Real shit! The first person I call or want when I’m crying or some shit happen is my fiancé. He just calms me and reassure me that we will fix it and get through it. we’re planning our wedding and I’m scared , not if commitment but just idk the unknown. Marriage is a lot of work and I just want to make sure we are always working on it to keep the spark. 😩

  • @dannidannibee6012
    @dannidannibee6012 Год назад +9

    I knew my husband was the one. Even now, we are still sending each other lovely text when we are at work. Been married 15 years this year. I have seen his vulnerable side a million times and him me. He's my best friend, my soul mate and lover. I literally would be lost without him. It hasn't always been plain sailing, but we can't be without each other. I thank god that we crossed paths 22 years ago. ❤

  • @yanis80
    @yanis80 Год назад +78

    Thank you Stephan. I was shocked when my new boyfriend told me he loved me (only 4 weeks after we met) but after listening to you I know is genuine. He checks all the boxes and we talk every day. He is always there for me, cares about me, we are official, we met each other's significant people. I'm ready to let him know how I feel today after hearing you.

  • @frankieroberson6995
    @frankieroberson6995 2 года назад +789

    I have been in a one sided marriage for 35 years. Never understood why I'm so unhappy for many years and finding ways to self medicate myself.......Now, after hearing your volg I see what went wrong. I married somebody I chased and I've been regretting all my life.

    • @Dascorpion_Belleza
      @Dascorpion_Belleza 2 года назад +19

      Talk to him

    • @norarobinson2830
      @norarobinson2830 2 года назад +82

      End that marriage for ultimate happiness.

    • @really..5773
      @really..5773 2 года назад +40

      Love you as you. Do not settle but he might not know how to love you if you do not tell him.

    • @tyrenewebb8674
      @tyrenewebb8674 2 года назад +96

      Awwww this broke my heart ❤️.. I’m sorry and praying for your healing ❤️‍🩹 heart

    • @successwithtmi
      @successwithtmi 2 года назад +76

      I'm in the same boat. You are not alone

  • @hallejudy
    @hallejudy 2 года назад +431

    I'm literally listening for future use. I'm wholly single. Praying for a husband but tired of dating and thinking okay this must be the one. I'm actually fatigued and now doing my own. I now enjoy watching such relationship videos without getting emotional but actually listening. I failed in relationships so I'm retaking the course and working on me. I'm eating better. I'm not excited by attention from men.Im no longer rushing to pray for a husband. My soul is getting home. A quality man God has made for me will FIND ME! I'll be FOUND.Great video

    • @lovelustbaby8232
      @lovelustbaby8232 Год назад +5

      Smart lady! God bless you.

    • @lala5061
      @lala5061 Год назад +5

      Yes and please keep taking your time...it's better to not have a husband than to find yourself in a very scary situation not all things are easy to get out of...always remember that and keep on going girl....I know your husband will find u and u will know it....keep up the good work sista 😉

    • @minarosered6699
      @minarosered6699 Год назад +7

      I'm not trying to dissuade you from finding a man but we have been programmed for thousands of years to need a man for survival. That means everything, love, family, societal expectations, Etc. We don't need men for survival in this day and age. We don't need men for love because we need to learn to love ourselves first and value ourselves first. So you are on the right track to just be you and enjoy life. And the right guy will come along. But you don't NEED him!!

    • @KingJesus41
      @KingJesus41 Год назад +10

      I was on 5 dating sites... praying for a husband after the loss of one I had 32yrs. Hundreds of dates, ugh.. trying to find 1... last day, saying goodbye to friends in varying states... I was asked to go for coffee by a handsome godly man. I have prayed for my husband to know I'm looking for him, and to b find me. This man is wonderful. Trust in God. He will make things fall and arrange in a way like a puzzle piece.. perfect fit. Always ask the Lord , he has what's best for you and never makes mistakes. Good luck and God Bless you.

    • @jasminegreene1570
      @jasminegreene1570 Год назад +1

      PERIODDDD MY WOMAN PERIOD.

  • @cymbelinebritain6799
    @cymbelinebritain6799 Год назад +16

    Also, if a man or woman consistently says "love you" or "love ya" instead of adding that "I"....it makes a difference. I completely understand that mindset he talks about. Semantics matter in that instance. By adding the "I"...it takes ownership of the emotion and embodies it completely. I've had my boyfriend tell me both and if he never used the "I"...I'd be a bit wary, but what really makes my knees buckle is when he says I love you and adds my name at the end. He's not only owning it in that instance, but directing that focus on me even more. That gives it that extra dose of heart-melty goodness.
    I'm grateful that I have that again in my life after having it with my partner (and step-father to my 6 children) of 14 years who died suddenly 2 years ago to an extremely insidious and aggressive form of liver cancer. I've been blessed to have that sort of love again in my life. 💘

  • @shelia3711
    @shelia3711 Месяц назад +4

    I am older but the men that I go out with are still saying they love me way before they should. I think men just over use those words. Women b careful don’t believe everything you hear

  • @dionnesimpson6183
    @dionnesimpson6183 2 года назад +208

    My Bae is American and he wasn't permitted to cross the border into Canada. But I had told him that I missed him and he found a way 🥰

  • @walloswallo
    @walloswallo 2 года назад +34

    The Narcissist will say I love you to many women/men. They seek supply and give lots of unfulfilled promises.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 года назад +2

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

  • @kathykobos8980
    @kathykobos8980 Год назад +8

    My guy is always showing me he wants to be my hero. He amazes me and volunteers for all kinds of ways he can help me and do for me, whether it's fixing my car, trimming my trees, buying me a surprise necklace, and tells me every day he loves me. I am absolutely blown away at his efforts.
    He does all this with absolute joy and enthusiasm. I have to pinch myself, I am so lucky and so over the moon in love with him.

  • @mclala2421
    @mclala2421 Год назад +10

    O Wow! "I'm on the way" ... My boyfriend said this to me last week. I stayed at his house the night before as I do often. He works 3rd shift therefore going to the gym after work some mornings is his routine. This particular week we had contractors working on the house therefore he didn't go for 4 days because he knew I was uncomfortable with strange men in the house without him (something I mentioned in conversation when we first met). As Friday came along he went to the gym thinking they were done however they came by at 7am. I called my boyfriend immediately and his response was "I'm on the way" . I felt calm instantly and assured. I apologize the next day for interrupting his workout the day before. He told me he knew I felt uncomfortable with strange men in the house. I fell in love with him all over again. I just want to thank you for sharing this with me because I do wonder at times if he really loves me.

  • @clovawolfe6830
    @clovawolfe6830 2 года назад +1457

    Wow! Stephan! As a woman in my early seventies, I am very grateful to be in a relationship with a man who is in love with me. He says all the things you mentioned and more, he values me and respects me, our communion is open and honest. It feels like the universe has brought us together in the autumn of our lives. I am in love again. His love has broken down all the walls that I had built to protect myself. I'm so pleased to have listened to you, Stephan...! 🙏🏽

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 года назад +35

      Glad to hear that, I appreciate your feedback ❤

    • @bernadettedantley9650
      @bernadettedantley9650 2 года назад +37

      This is so encouraging.

    • @riasonny1979
      @riasonny1979 2 года назад +21

      GOALS 💎

    • @arturorsanchez6484
      @arturorsanchez6484 2 года назад +24

      Clova Wolfe…
      You are indeed blessed. Keep those fires 🔥 kindling!

    • @debbieoaldon8332
      @debbieoaldon8332 2 года назад +21

      I love everything about this!! I am so happy for you!! God Bless y’all’s Union!! 🙏🏼❤️✝️❤️❤️❤️

  • @deborahlester7387
    @deborahlester7387 2 года назад +22

    I knew my husband 3 weeks before we married. We were together 40 years until he passed. It ain't easy!!! But is worth it.

  • @aya2990
    @aya2990 Год назад +8

    After we had a first conflict, he said he loved me, which made me over the moon. I knew he hesitated to say the phrase. So I was so happy that he initiated the phrase.
    After we had a conflict, we increased the amount of communication, we’ve made comfort and security. He told me that he loved to talk to me.
    The conflict made us realize what we wanted from this relationship and I’m so glad that we have been working on to build a good relationship together.

  • @mikiminach6275
    @mikiminach6275 Год назад +4

    Well I am 47 and I have never had a man to truly love me yet. However I still patiently await.

  • @betha.6279
    @betha.6279 2 года назад +587

    I totally agree with this! I've had some draining abusive relationships in the past. Everything is different with my husband of 5 years ,Chris. He lifts me up, reassures me ,supports my goals and career, and protects me from harm whenever possible. I also support and love him in the same way. Ladies don't settle for less than the best ! (FYI we say " I love you" many times a day. We show love all day too. Those words have deep meaning to us .)

    • @rashellebasore5898
      @rashellebasore5898 2 года назад +13

      well where tf did u find him?

    • @akiyatiffany
      @akiyatiffany 2 года назад +12

      This is so beautiful 😍 God bless your marriage ❤️

    • @GG-808
      @GG-808 2 года назад +19

      @Beth A SAME HERE! When you finally experience a love so sacrificial, caring and real, you're relieved that you no longer are having to suffer through the abusive, draining, frustrating give em one more chance relationship! Good for you (and me!)!

    • @briggsethan
      @briggsethan 2 года назад +3

      Hello Beth how are you doing?

    • @Red-Iceberg
      @Red-Iceberg 2 года назад

      Yep

  • @joy6742
    @joy6742 2 года назад +474

    Stephan, you’re glowing! That’s a good thing! Men can glow too, especially when greatness surrounds them. Only a real man like yourself would understand that. There’s no gender in the glow!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 года назад +44

      Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

    • @deanj8870
      @deanj8870 2 года назад +10

      Amen👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾👑📖

    • @QuitaRadio
      @QuitaRadio 2 года назад +11

      He seriously is. I said “Look at Stephan!” as soon as the video popped up. I was tryna figure out what was different lol. I was asking and answering my own questions: “Is his hair different? Well he always has it shaped up nice. New shirt? No he wore that one before.” Lol

    • @karimahlloydbey5156
      @karimahlloydbey5156 2 года назад +8

      I said the same thing !

    • @elianeposho9515
      @elianeposho9515 2 года назад +7

      What about men that live with the woman only for the children and he doesn’t love her anymore, but the man still tell the woman he love her. What is that mean? Please reply me

  • @dimpledimple5545
    @dimpledimple5545 11 месяцев назад +4

    I never really believed these things at first. But when you are truly connected and in love with someone, you just have that PEACE.

  • @tonyasmith182
    @tonyasmith182 Год назад +59

    I have been dating this guy for 3 months and he tells me he love me we stay on the phone some times almost all night we both are in our late 50's so from what you say I know he's in love with me.
    Thank you for the information.

  • @lifeofestelle5141
    @lifeofestelle5141 Год назад +96

    8years single, prayed and finally i found my puzzle piece. Two months in and he does this with so much passion. 🙏🏻

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Год назад +1

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

    • @sunshinesunshine2714
      @sunshinesunshine2714 Год назад +4

      That’s absolutely beautiful ,God bless your union for many more years to come♥️💜

    • @etcwhatever
      @etcwhatever 9 месяцев назад +1

      How is it now?

  • @kourtney101
    @kourtney101 2 года назад +327

    I hope every man finds bravery and spiritual discernment that'll give him a green light at pursuing love boldly w/ the right woman. Do well, Champions 🏆

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 года назад +4

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤

    • @patriciamoore987
      @patriciamoore987 2 года назад

      What do you do if, you know a man is attracted to you (but he’s scared and younger)? He has all the qualities I prayed for!!!

    • @kourtney101
      @kourtney101 2 года назад +3

      @@patriciamoore987 sounds like he may not be ready for what you are ready for. It happens. Stay supportive and work on yourself

    • @tinal.814
      @tinal.814 2 года назад +1

      Love this!! Encouragement is powerful!

  • @moriahjones8117
    @moriahjones8117 Год назад +5

    Ladies this is true!!! Listen to Stephan!!! If your dealing with a man who’s not doing this don’t take it seriously. Use him how you want but don’t fall in love with him.

  • @kattleyaygat
    @kattleyaygat Год назад +12

    My partner said I love you first on our first date and for the first time in my life, I believe the true meaning of these words. He said he has no problem saying it because this is what he truly feels and he believes that there's no point in hiding his emotions. Our first date was at a coffee shop and while talking he clearly said that he's found the one and he is not going anywhere.
    I'm glad that my man is doing everything that was mentioned here and it made me more secure that I've found the one for me.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Год назад

      Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

  • @toady1up
    @toady1up 2 года назад +881

    As a single mom and a woman who is serious about offering and receiving love, I truly appreciate your insights, King Stephan. May God continue to increase and bless your ministry and the lives of all listeners.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 года назад +21

      Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌 and may God bless you as well!

    • @susiedagruma9660
      @susiedagruma9660 2 года назад +22

      Take care of your kids and yourself fully first is the most important thing ..a man can wait, if your kids hate or jelous of the man, that means you didn't put your kids first ..very common mistake

    • @darlenelane392
      @darlenelane392 2 года назад +2

      AMEN 🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @darlenelane392
      @darlenelane392 2 года назад +1

      SAME TOO YOU AS WELL🙏🙏🙏

    • @pinkishdiamondz
      @pinkishdiamondz 2 года назад +36

      @@susiedagruma9660 I'm sure you're just trying to help, but I'm also sure she knows that. I get the sense that she may be a healed and well balanced woman who's just waiting to meet the man who can help bring balance to her family's lives. A real man doesn't need a woman to put so much focus on him that she's not tending to her responsibilities. Every child deserves an environment lead by both masculine and feminine counterparts. She'll be fine.

  • @maryhoward2660
    @maryhoward2660 2 года назад +267

    I think deep down every woman know when a man is truly into her. Relationships are very complex and sometimes it just doesn't work out. Wish things were much more simpler. I do enjoy watching your words. You sound like you know good how a woman should be thinking and it's good advice. My philosophy is if you ever have to question where you stand with someone, that's your red flag.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 года назад +2

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

    • @mureelane78
      @mureelane78 2 года назад +4

      I Think that Staphan Lbo. Was raised by an Ole School Good Woman...☝️🙌🙌🙌❤🌹🙏

    • @DeniseDegray
      @DeniseDegray 2 года назад +1

      Yes this is true

    • @DH-zi5ob
      @DH-zi5ob 2 года назад +1

      Well said 👏👏👏

    • @mureelane78
      @mureelane78 2 года назад

      AMEN SISTA ☝️🙌🙌🙌🙏🌹💯

  • @jehan_7550
    @jehan_7550 Год назад +25

    Action speaks louder than words. Love and light 🙏

  • @altagraciamarte3539
    @altagraciamarte3539 Год назад +19

    To love some else. It starts with one self.

  • @dafnenoel9825
    @dafnenoel9825 2 года назад +136

    A man that Love God more than he loves you ❤ that's important and a Blessing.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 года назад +2

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

    • @kaceyr3226
      @kaceyr3226 2 года назад +3

      My husband does! Praise God!!

    • @dafnenoel9825
      @dafnenoel9825 2 года назад +2

      @@kaceyr3226 You are Blessed. 🤝🏾

    • @michellemann6362
      @michellemann6362 2 года назад +3

      Amen. My mom was just talking to me saying that yesterday 😊

  • @giftedgift3095
    @giftedgift3095 Год назад +159

    I prayed about husband this year and God did it
    He introduced me to his family and friends
    Our Intro done already and by his grace wedding is December
    He’s really God sent to me cos it really worth my wait..!🥰
    We communicate almost every minute

    • @jennansubuga3348
      @jennansubuga3348 Год назад +4

      Do happy for you my dear.
      I tap into that anointing as well. I receive it in Jesus name.

    • @savcanzon1281
      @savcanzon1281 Год назад +1

      Aww that’s sweet. ❤

    • @basseygabriella5013
      @basseygabriella5013 9 месяцев назад

      Wow congratulations I prayed mine locate me soonest

  • @shelley6746
    @shelley6746 Год назад +6

    I met my fiancé online and he told me he loved me the first night…We are getting married at Christmas 2023 ❤ He lives overseas and we video chat every single day and talk on the phone too! He writes me love letters daily and he’s been so supportive of some issues in my life…It was love at first sight for both of us❤❤❤ We’ve been together 6 months 😊

    • @lavernejackson2146
      @lavernejackson2146 10 месяцев назад +8

      Be careful and ask God to reveal to you any deception in the relationship. There are so many romance scams online, and women are losing thousands of dollars to these men who claim to love them and promises marriage. If he is not asking you for money, then all is well. God bless you sis.

  • @danio2332
    @danio2332 Год назад +8

    I’m a woman who’s almost 40 y/o & pregnant. I’ve been going through the lowest yet exciting part of my life. It’s a weird position due to lack of support from my daughter’s father.
    I’ve met a man who’s amazing, single, child free & totally accepting of my current space. What’s refreshing is w/out “love” being involved, he’s already shown so much consistency, patience, compassion, respect..etc
    I feel blessed to have experienced even 1/2 of this list b/c he takes me seriously. There’s a cultural element as he’s Ghanian-American, fam centered, spiritual, strategic, proud…etc
    He approaches all of life & women in a differ manner than any Black American man I’ve met. We don’t even have titles! I’ll update some other time if we end up in love.

    • @patriciawhite9509
      @patriciawhite9509 Год назад +1

      Do not say 'if', say 'when"

    • @amaragrace75
      @amaragrace75 3 месяца назад

      Any updates? As a Nigerian-Canadian, it sounds to me he's after something (papers) but I could be wrong

  • @barbaracanterbury8533
    @barbaracanterbury8533 2 года назад +349

    No human is without flaw, or flaws. The foundation of any relationship, should be truth. Growing together is/ each one, must do their self work. I am attracted to a man with healthy character. We all need to keep improving ourselves.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 года назад +5

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

    • @alveniawg
      @alveniawg 2 года назад +11

      Being genuine with each other should be the basis so you can understand each other better and put the games aside

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 года назад +3

      @Alvenia W Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that!

    • @casperinsight3524
      @casperinsight3524 2 года назад

      💥🎯

    • @micheleprice9771
      @micheleprice9771 2 года назад +2

      AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GREAT INSPIRING AMAZING STRONG POWERFUL POSITIVE WORDS OF WISDOM! YES INDEED! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! SMILE ALWAYS!( EVEN IN STORMS THAT U GO THRU! ) HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY ! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! AND FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS! AND FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS!

  • @abigalestoll
    @abigalestoll 2 года назад +183

    I believe everything you said in this video 💯. When 2 people are in love with each other it's a blessing from God ❤️.

  • @daralee3186
    @daralee3186 Год назад +6

    I definitely know all this. My husband told me he loved me the night we met. I was shocked.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Год назад +1

      Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

  • @jacksoncandice79
    @jacksoncandice79 2 года назад +525

    I quit work to be a stay at home mom. We both agreed to this. He took care of the bills but one day he came home and the house wasn’t as clean as he wanted it. He recommended polygamy as a resolution to my problem of not cleaning the house. He said that he expects too much from me and being that the house wasn’t cleaned, he wanted to “help” me by adding someone into our relationship. Every since that moment, I can’t look at him the same. What did I do so wrong to make him want to add someone to our relationship. So I got a job and it required me to get the covid vaccine. He’s unvaccinated and he plans to not get it. He won’t touch me. He won’t eat after me, etc. he says that he doesn’t want to deal with a vaccinated woman. I’m planning my exit

    • @NS-mq6px
      @NS-mq6px 2 года назад +207

      Yes please leave and find your happiness

    • @mercybanda4142
      @mercybanda4142 2 года назад +166

      My dear NO MONEY CAN BUY YOU PEACE, HAPPINESS. Your man is selfish and am sorry to say that he doesn't care about your feelings. How could someone even think of bringing a 3rd party just becoz the house was not clean?? He wanted to have another woman, it's not because of unclean house of just a day. There is life after break up. I wish you happiness. God be with you. RUN QUICK BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE. REMEMBER STRESS/ DEPRESSION KILLS

    • @funsize9922
      @funsize9922 2 года назад +178

      He been wanted another women he made that shit out of a reason so it don’t make him look bad I hope you get a side piece or move on

    • @mimij4341
      @mimij4341 2 года назад +286

      That man has already stepped outside the relationship...

    • @elizabethdelavega8304
      @elizabethdelavega8304 2 года назад +130

      Sounds to me like the discard phase of a narcissistic individual. At first, he’ll do what is required, but, now sadly, he’s got others to provide his supply so he changed his tune. You will find your way and wonder what attracted you to him in the first place. Find your way! Best to you!

  • @karessawhiteside6499
    @karessawhiteside6499 Год назад +440

    A man can’t truly love you until he loves GOD above all other things! Same goes for the woman! ❤️✝️❤️

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Год назад +24

      Absolutely!

    • @8sheesh
      @8sheesh Год назад +14

      sksk not every loving person is religious..

    • @OliverWendellBones
      @OliverWendellBones Год назад

      @@8sheesh truth

    • @karessawhiteside6499
      @karessawhiteside6499 Год назад +16

      @@8sheesh It’s not about being religious! Its only ever been about a personal relationship with the one who made us! 🩸✝️🕊
      John 3:16
      King James Version
      16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.

    • @mbrook9228
      @mbrook9228 Год назад +5

      I'm not a Christian as I have a different belief but my boyfriend is. We respect eachothers views but stay on the path of righteousness ❤️

  • @JenMUA
    @JenMUA Год назад +11

    Honestly, this is not confusing at all. This is literally how I feel and how I interpret things. It’s good to hear this validated. What’s confusing is everyone else putting in their feedback. Sometimes it’s semantics but when it comes to these matters it’s very clear how unclear things are unless they are clear lol!
    No, you shouldn’t listen to everything everyone says but it can be a very confusing time and this comes up in friend groups.

  • @Jaded4me_
    @Jaded4me_ Год назад +3

    I can never trust a guy when he says he loves me, because I feel like they only say that to get you attach to them. Every time they say it they do some weird stuff behind my back. So I have trust issues when it comes to that word.

  • @faybrantley7496
    @faybrantley7496 2 года назад +81

    Do not look for a Love from a human being to validate you True Love is from God ... I Cor 13.. And only thru God revealing true love. Man"s definition of Love is Flawed by his/ her experiences❤✌🏾

  • @daniig62
    @daniig62 Год назад +23

    One day my bf and I were discussing moving in together, he wants to get a house that’s closer to where I live (he’s about two hours away) and I can’t remember everything about the convo but something he said was something I’d never had anyone say to me and the impact it made, just wow. I legit teared up. He said “you gotta know that I’ll do anything for us.” I’ve been feeling for a while that he’s the one, but that absolutely sealed my faith and love in him. For the first time in my life, I’m being properly loved. Beyond anything I’ve ever had or expected.

    • @tam9315
      @tam9315 Год назад +1

      Amen

    • @andreatorluemke4982
      @andreatorluemke4982 Год назад +1

      ❤❤❤love hearing this for you sister! Hugs and love!

    • @dianalang3844
      @dianalang3844 10 месяцев назад +1

      Do not move in together and live in sin…wait …if it is right get married first

    • @TorieMartin-qp9bq
      @TorieMartin-qp9bq 8 месяцев назад +1

      My bf (who was a friend for MANY years, we are in our 40s😊) always says "anything for you" , "if you don't know by now- anything for you". He is always running to help me. He is so wonderful. But contrary to what Stephan said, it's been 7 months (in a relationship )- and we are very committed to each other-and I just told him I loved him for the first time. I said it first because I wanted him to know how important he is to me. His whispered I love you too was so amazing.

  • @maggiecos2892
    @maggiecos2892 2 года назад +82

    Caring for you DOES NOT mean he's into you or love you. It means he DOES CARE for you but it can also mean that AS A FRIEND. I have guy friends that REALLY CARE for me.

  • @EyezofMoe
    @EyezofMoe Год назад +8

    Been dealing with the same dude for 6 years, neither of us have said but it’s by far the BEST RELATIONSHIP as far as communication, fun times, supportive ways, ….that the both of us have experienced! I’m the one with the emotional damage and he’s been the most patient man, EVER with me! He’s definitely more of actions than empty words.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Год назад +1

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

    • @CamaniArshante
      @CamaniArshante Год назад

      Say it! I love it when I hear this from my man.

  • @meccaslife8383
    @meccaslife8383 Год назад +6

    Omg! You hit number 7 on point! The whole being in love with someone or you just love them.. it's two different kind of loves. I totally agree

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Год назад +1

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

  • @mandyann74ac
    @mandyann74ac 2 года назад +349

    I prayed for my future husband and met him the year after I started praying about it. 🙏🏽 All the points you speak, he says and he's so honest in love which allowed me to open up and also speak honestly to him.
    He's my soul mate for sure, the love of my life 💕
    I was always giving and never receiving from past short relationships.
    I am just so thankful to my heavenly father FOR our LOVE

  • @BAM4_
    @BAM4_ 2 года назад +143

    They can say that they love you and their actions doesn't match their words.

  • @themrs0827
    @themrs0827 Год назад +7

    I gave up years ago. The stress you endure emotionally, mentally and physically is terrible. Relationships and marriage have become a total joke!!

  • @lauriemyles2010
    @lauriemyles2010 Год назад +33

    What about men who do say ALL of these things, but truly do not have good intentions & don’t truly love you? I’ve seen that MANY times before.

    • @deed8915
      @deed8915 Год назад +15

      They can't just SAY these things. They have to SHOW these things as well.

    • @snowmirrorb.b.b6734
      @snowmirrorb.b.b6734 Год назад

      thats what we call a play boy, and there is a difference between a lover boy and a play boy.

  • @monicadinca2821
    @monicadinca2821 2 года назад +20

    It took me 45 years to have a wonderful man who truly appreciate me, loves me,
    committed to me, makes me feel like a queen, makes me feel wonderful and feminine woman, he gives me Peace and Love, all my life I was looking for these blessed feelings.
    It was well worth the wait.
    I am very happy and grateful.
    I LOVE YOU MY WONDERFUL PAUL! 💗💗💗🇮🇪🌟💎

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 года назад +1

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

  • @splash7469
    @splash7469 2 года назад +83

    Just while I was watching the I love you part, I got a dm from my boyfriend saying “I love you”. I can’t stop smiling 🥴, I love him too.

  • @JasmineMartinez-ef3iu
    @JasmineMartinez-ef3iu Год назад +1

    I really love listening to him talk. How mature he is and how much wisdom he has is so attractive!

  • @brendawilliams6741
    @brendawilliams6741 Год назад +4

    I agree with you 100%, for when it comes to having deep love. I have experienced both kinds and I don't ever want to stay in a relationship ever again just to know I'm living in a house with someone, nothing is better than the deep love you speak of. Thank you for sharing and hopefully others won't settle in a relationship for any other reason than deep love...

  • @tracijennings1965
    @tracijennings1965 2 года назад +44

    Amen,I dated a broken guy for 5 years .He treated me well.But in end the relationship was just as broken 💔

  • @creativekatt
    @creativekatt 2 года назад +212

    Last one is GOLD! ☀️ The “love has to exist within you first”!

  • @abigailbailey7421
    @abigailbailey7421 9 месяцев назад +4

    This is so true! My boyfriend has been displaying signs and I suspected that he was going to say those three words to me soon. Then last weekend he said it for the first time. Now I'm watching this video and he has displayed all seven signs at various points during our relationship.

  • @lashawnharrison8171
    @lashawnharrison8171 Год назад +10

    Not owning an emotion is an excellent point. Thank you, thank you for bringing that up. We need to pay better attention to that in all conversations.

  • @barbcookejames6570
    @barbcookejames6570 Год назад +49

    Love is a Verb. “I love you” is Active. “You are loved” is Passive.

  • @GlobalFreeLiving
    @GlobalFreeLiving 2 года назад +53

    Love is kind all the time. Love is an action... you'll know if someone loves you--you can see and feel it. Obvious.

  • @natalial.5577
    @natalial.5577 Год назад +5

    I feel like now a days people say I love you to fast and they say it in a way that doesn't really mean "I really love u" they say it like (I love u- take care, be safe)

  • @AffectionateBear-ty1yv
    @AffectionateBear-ty1yv 5 месяцев назад +2

    Am glad my man never misses a second to tell me he loves me he says that more than 100 Times in a day ❤😊 I just love him so much. And he doesn't miss a second to praise me