FIVE LEVELS OF A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP by RC Blakes

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  • Опубликовано: 13 янв 2025

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  • @RCBlakesJr.
    @RCBlakesJr.  Год назад +95

    HELLO FAMILY! Please share the link for this conversation and LIKE as you come in. It helps the platform.

  • @sunshineon710
    @sunshineon710 Год назад +121

    “Chemistry is what got you tied up with a sociopath. You had chemistry with the narcissist, abuser, and user.”

    • @0Demiyah0
      @0Demiyah0 7 месяцев назад

      That hit me as well. This was my relationships in my twenties, and you always stay too long in situations that aren't healthy. Chemistry is an empty glue for a relationship, but it can hold the broken pieces together for a while.

  • @plante_n_seeds4505
    @plante_n_seeds4505 Год назад +31

    "Conversation is where souls get introduced." I love this so much! Thinking back on past relationships and even people I talk to now, this explains where the relationships dropped off. Being able to talk about everything on your mind and heart--big, little, quirky--openly and honestly matters so much more.

    • @genna2586
      @genna2586 Год назад +1

      So true and on point. Being open with your thoughts and sharing your perspectives, experiences and dreams is very important to invite people in your life that are passionate about you.

  • @LucyLucy296
    @LucyLucy296 Год назад +9

    32:54 "Anybody that does not want to talk, there is something either *broken* in them or there is something *diabolical* in them. In either case you are probably not equipped to deal with that individual. *I will always advise you to move on from people that will not talk.*

  • @patricejames8512
    @patricejames8512 Год назад +7

    Listen to people that have consistent fruit.

  • @actsbiblestudypodcast
    @actsbiblestudypodcast Год назад +34

    Hi big fan. I have watched 50 videos of yours in like 2 weeks. Truly blessed by your ministry and words from God🎉🎉🎉

  • @patricejames8512
    @patricejames8512 Год назад +30

    Chemistry, conversation, connection, capability and ultimately commitment.

  • @cherylladd3282
    @cherylladd3282 Год назад +13

    Okay..... I'm officially proclaiming you as the GOAT to those of us who missed (earthly) fatherly guidance. 🙏

  • @candacemoore3310
    @candacemoore3310 Год назад +19

    You are truly a Father figure. I really appreciate you taking the time out to sow into us !

  • @terra_t
    @terra_t Год назад +9

    I'm cautious of being really physically attracted to someone now. It got me in big trouble in past relationships with "Chad" covert narcs. At this point, I don't see the point unless we're called to minister together. God Bless You, Bishop Blakes!

  • @TaloyaC
    @TaloyaC Год назад +5

    Move on from people that will not TALK (and I’ll add) or Listen….
    This is so helpful.
    And I’ll add more, you can have a long conversation about Nothing.

  • @relisshacollins8602
    @relisshacollins8602 Год назад +3

    I love the song at the beginning it sets the atmosphere

  • @kingshipt
    @kingshipt Год назад +9

    I know this is going to be a good one

  • @tamikalockley3686
    @tamikalockley3686 Год назад +5

    Pastor Blakes you could have not explained this clear enough. The main thing people fall for is Physical Attraction and no more than that. I’m so glad I have listened to you because I have found the man of my dreams and man I tell you God has blessed me. May God continue to bless you!

  • @euniceboateng
    @euniceboateng Год назад +17

    Thank you Bishop .... The teachings you've been doing has helped me greatly to be the woman I should be. God bless you, see you at the top

  • @carterthegamernoob6128
    @carterthegamernoob6128 Год назад +5

    I’m single I appreciate you sharing these principles. Your platform has been a blessing in my life. I learn from you. Leaders solve problems and they help people. You deserve the best R.C.Blake Jr. Thank you 🙏🏼

  • @zellrobinson5682
    @zellrobinson5682 Год назад +15

    I just started following within the last 90 days... I'm learning & gaining the wisdom of God! I appreciate how everything you say is backed by the word of God... Thank you Pastor 🤜🏽🤛🏽

  • @rc4092
    @rc4092 Год назад +3

    This is a piece of gem!! Young ladies! Take heed before you keep making the same mistakes.

  • @catrinaslade9450
    @catrinaslade9450 Год назад +6

    I can't wait to tune in for this message.

  • @TaloyaC
    @TaloyaC Год назад +5

    Thank you for this. I wish I had this before any relationship I’ve ever had.

  • @cokethearussell8630
    @cokethearussell8630 Год назад +4

    Hello you all . From Atlanta Georgia 🍑 ☮️❤. Stay prayed up 🙏🏽. Pray for my family and I daily thanks.😊

  • @brendaharden5585
    @brendaharden5585 2 месяца назад

    I am so grateful for the wisdom and understanding I have gained from this podcast. Thank you for caring and sharing about God's way to engage in relationships.

  • @nyashakurasha7699
    @nyashakurasha7699 Год назад +4

    Good evening family 😍.
    God bless you all.
    Looking forward to learning together tonight.

  • @MsChrissyr
    @MsChrissyr Год назад +1

    This was good. This is the blueprint. This is what I needed. Just saying get a good man and a man of quality is not enough. He can be all that and not the person for you

  • @Blessingz007
    @Blessingz007 Год назад +2

    Om-Gosh... This is so true 👍🏿No communication, smh 🤦🏾‍♀️ no depth from the individual. Zero emotional intelligence 🤷🏾‍♀️You hit the nail on its head. When you actually see their state of mind while analyzing yourself, it's an interesting 🤔 observation. It's time to do your inner work on another level, leaving them to hopefully do their inner work. Bravo 👏🏿 very good video

  • @victoriaodili-akpom4019
    @victoriaodili-akpom4019 Год назад +2

    Ooh my God listening to this 💯 % means that at least 80% of people in this world don’t understand what love is . I cannot believe listening to all the evidence on the table.
    I wish I heard all these 55:36 during my time. I will forward it to my daughters. You are truly a great man, may our lord almighty lord bless you amen 🙏🏾

  • @chrisparker6249
    @chrisparker6249 Год назад +15

    Living in a "Microwave Age", it's so hard to find and build a committed relationship. A lot of the time we want what we want and fast. The concept is damaging and heart breaking when we choose to skip steps and shut God out of our relationship(s).
    Thank you pastor for shedding more light on how committed relationships are to be governed and developed❤🙏☝️🤔💪🔥

  • @elobyslade17
    @elobyslade17 Год назад +5

    Wow Bishop Blakes, This was truly an eye opening lesson that you gave to us. I begin to cry in some more f the levels that you spoke on. I saw myself not giving my all because of the fear I brought from a previous relationship. Thanks for the prayer, I needed that.
    God bless you guys,
    Dr. Val

  • @tempiedemps5179
    @tempiedemps5179 Год назад +2

    You uplift my Spirit with your teaching and the song " She's a Queen" is also a great medicine. Thank you, and may God Almighty continue to Bless you and your family. Amen

  • @deborahhall6445
    @deborahhall6445 Год назад +3

    Good morning Bishop R.C and First Lady, Lisa. Praise God Almighty, Sir. I love your unique style of discernment. These Empowering discussions are very exquisite, easily receptive to comprehend. Working on me, as I practice Matthew 6:33. I don't mind waiting, because I believe God will provide my ordained compatible mate. I agree with the values respect and emotional support. Bishop, I believe I'm where I need to be at the pace inwhich I'm moving. Truly grateful for receiving this Privilege of knowledge. In Jesus name, Many blessings unto you and The New Home Family Ministry. AMEN

  • @carolreid3049
    @carolreid3049 Год назад +7

    Blessings Be Multiplied to You Bishop and First Lady Blakes.🙌🏾 Thank you for your wholesome Teachings. 🙏🏽

  • @nyeducate1
    @nyeducate1 Год назад +5

    Good evening to all🤗

  • @marciepearl9671
    @marciepearl9671 Год назад +3

    Hello Everyone, greetings from FL

  • @patriciabarclay8521
    @patriciabarclay8521 Год назад +3

    Blessings Bishop Blakes always ready to hear your wisdom on relationships.

  • @shavonnetemple1071
    @shavonnetemple1071 Год назад +2

    I’m excited to be here tonight!!!

  • @brendadavis9365
    @brendadavis9365 Год назад

    THESE VIDEOS OF RC BLAKE'S TEACHINGS ARE SO UNIQUE AND PERSONAL TOO. AS I SIT AND LISTEN I FEEL LIKE HES TALKING TO ME. I THANK GOD FOR PASTORS TEACHINGS, IM LEARNING SO MUCH.

  • @dianacarreras3461
    @dianacarreras3461 Год назад +2

    This is one of the best fatherly talks ever🙏I need this to help me see things clearer thank Pastor RC Blakes God bless you always!! I wish I knew this sooner but better late then never Praise God!!!!

  • @JudyF261
    @JudyF261 Год назад +4

    Thanks pastor RCBlakes and lady Blake's , you all are indeed a blessing to me.❤

  • @yokithabridges9768
    @yokithabridges9768 Год назад +19

    Good evening Pastor Blakes and First Lady Lisa. I can't wait to hear this message.

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  Год назад +5

      GREAT EVENING TO YOU ❤🙏🏽😊 We appreciate you

  • @iamjessie.b
    @iamjessie.b 7 месяцев назад

    This was a beautiful teaching moment today. I’ve been searching my soul and this teaching spoke directly to me. The processes you taught are spot on. Everything you said I’m working on right now. It’s beautiful. ❤

  • @rosalynarrington6818
    @rosalynarrington6818 Год назад +3

    Good evening pastor and first lady, and all of my sister's and my brother's

    • @Janney3791
      @Janney3791 Год назад +1

      Hi sister in Christ, ..
      God bless you 🙏 💖 😊

  • @nyeshiawilliams
    @nyeshiawilliams Год назад +2

    Thanks for this wonderful information! I appreciate you guys so much sir!

  • @rhondaedwards664
    @rhondaedwards664 Год назад +5

    Good evening Pastor RC and First Lady Blakes
    I'm excited to listen to this message and share it with all the beautiful single ladies I know!!!

  • @ladybird8422
    @ladybird8422 Год назад +1

    Thank you Pastor RC Blakes Jr. for sharing this knowledge and truly opening not only the eyes but ears to those of us watching & listening to your video. I think it's safe to say that this type of conversation wasn't taught in the home or church, so as we were born into this world we had to find out what life, the birds and the bees were really about the hard way. Lessons that didn't have to happened because we would of had knowledge, awareness and choices to make sound decisions and not to get into trouble with a lot of bad relationships because we jumped from #1 to #5 so fast.

  • @delz20again
    @delz20again Год назад +1

    Pastor Blakes, you have done it again!! This is an excellent teaching for relationships!

  • @CynthiaRegini
    @CynthiaRegini Год назад +2

    Good Evening Pastor Blakes - I recently started listening to you & your topics have been very helpful in my healing & spiritual journey. Your Conversation tonight was Excellent & the Timing was exactly what I needed to hear. God Bless You & Lisa. Thank You

  • @racilleashley9506
    @racilleashley9506 Год назад +1

    GOOD TEACHING, TONIGHT, Pastor
    R.C. BLAKE'S

  • @thehealingmynd
    @thehealingmynd Год назад +4

    Thank you for these messages they have truly enhanced my life 🙏🏾❤️

  • @gavan1988
    @gavan1988 Год назад +2

    Thank you Pastor.

  • @sylviahilton6061
    @sylviahilton6061 Год назад +1

    Hi Mr&Mrs Blakes.. just to say that I'm so thankful for u both!!❤ Hi everyone..let's enjoy!!

  • @sacredartscommunications5522
    @sacredartscommunications5522 Год назад

    One of your BEST teaching sessions. Thank you and God bless!

  • @keepingthefaithalive
    @keepingthefaithalive Год назад +1

    Good Evening Pastor and First Lady another great topic today as A Minster myself you have blessed me!

  • @wandalynmjulian5608
    @wandalynmjulian5608 Год назад

    Thank God for you man of God! You teaching in needed at this time. You are helping many, to God be the glory 🙏🏾

  • @Stormyweather551
    @Stormyweather551 Год назад

    Proof of Concept!!! Preach

  • @lolachlih3136
    @lolachlih3136 Год назад

    Wow i wish i know all of these elements before any relationships i had great teaching pastor Blakes 🙏thank you for bringing your wisdom for many of us woman who needed to hear this.

  • @nyashakurasha7699
    @nyashakurasha7699 Год назад +2

    Thank you Paps and mama Li.
    Great lesson for preparation.
    🙏🏾

  • @Chattingwithsam
    @Chattingwithsam Год назад

    That Maya analogy was on point. I wish I would have written that down.

  • @evapreston924
    @evapreston924 Год назад +2

    RC Blake’s you give me the strength to keep fighting for what I’m worth 💕 I love you both from the bottom of my heart! Thank acknowledging us woman! I would love to take notes how would I be able to access that! Thank you

  • @xtina3592
    @xtina3592 Год назад

    Video starts at 5:43 Great message

  • @nataliep6873
    @nataliep6873 Год назад +3

    Greetings from NC!

  • @TP-zr3rt
    @TP-zr3rt Год назад +1

    Thank you for all that you do!!

  • @Janney3791
    @Janney3791 Год назад +13

    Good day, Sir Pastor Blakes & to your lovely wife, Lisa! - I recently purchased your book, "Queenology" and look forward to reading it soon. I have been watching your RUclips videos for maybe 1 year now. I'm age 50, been divorced for 14 years, and just now am being healed from my past. Father God brought me to discover your teachings. I can't thank you enough. God bless ❤😊🙏

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  Год назад +4

      I am so honored. 50 is a great time to emerge as a whole and healthy woman. I’m glad to be a part of your journey. 🙏🏽

    • @Janney3791
      @Janney3791 Год назад +2

      @@RCBlakesJr. - You're like a spiritual dad to me and I pray for Father God's ministry He has entrusted you w/ to continually flourish and give Him glory as you're already doing. God is soo good and faithful, and He surely does heal the broken hearted. Big hugs to you and yours 🥲💕🙏

  • @antoinettedaye1113
    @antoinettedaye1113 Год назад +1

    Good evening! Thanks for the invitation! Antoinette in Durham NC

  • @RealTalk-mq2ug
    @RealTalk-mq2ug Год назад +6

    I cannot breathe through the grief.
    Today is day 54.
    54 days without hearing from him.
    Nothing. Not a word.
    He betrayed and abandoned me
    and replaced me with another.
    Discarded me like last week's garbage.
    He was my "best friend". We spoke every day.
    My heart is in so much pain, it physically hurts.
    My soul is raped. I cannot breathe. I am drowning.
    Being buried alive.
    How could he do this to me? And why?

    • @lisamaiden1892
      @lisamaiden1892 Год назад +2

      It will get easier the closer you get to god. Keep your faith in him.

  • @lisabrazell8246
    @lisabrazell8246 Год назад

    Another great teaching that I will use to guide me on my journey towards commitment w my new guy. You are such a blessing to all the women who listen!

  • @Chattingwithsam
    @Chattingwithsam Год назад

    This was a good sobering message. Thanks so much!

  • @feliciadr
    @feliciadr Год назад

    GOT ON THE MAILING LIST RIGHT NOW!!

  • @joanie2311able
    @joanie2311able Год назад

    We Love You Too Brother Pastor Blake!!!!😇

  • @francesreed9151
    @francesreed9151 Год назад +1

    Good afternoon Pastor Blakes and First Lady thank you for this message 🙏 ❤️ May God Continue to bless you and yours

  • @ladylynnspeaks_
    @ladylynnspeaks_ Год назад +3

    Love ❤️ you Bishop Blakes.

  • @jbwtsfinest
    @jbwtsfinest Год назад

    Simply THANK YOU!

  • @sapphireone103
    @sapphireone103 Год назад +2

    Good Evening from Florida

  • @ariehayes6618
    @ariehayes6618 Год назад

    This was another great conversation cuz you are awesome and a true man of god may he continue to use and bless you and the family

  • @healthylifestyleandhealthy2023

    I appreciate the teachings, I have learned so much growth and I learned to love myself.

  • @jasha5847
    @jasha5847 Год назад

    Thank you Teacher

  • @sojourner3163
    @sojourner3163 Год назад

    Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us Pastor Blakes. 💗

  • @patriciamitchell1924
    @patriciamitchell1924 Год назад

    Thank you Pastor Blake that is so true..Because I decided to be Sulvant it hs been difficult for a man to accept me for who I am now..(And they choose to walk away..)Please keep me close in prayer that I continue to stand by my biblical standards

  • @eileensmith9836
    @eileensmith9836 Год назад +2

    Good morning Pastor, may Yahweh continue to bless you and your family 🙏🏾

  • @sherrypeace664
    @sherrypeace664 Год назад

    I Love you Bishop and Lady Blakes❤ UNCLE Bishop you have blessed us

  • @candacemoore3310
    @candacemoore3310 Год назад +1

    Always so many jewels. Thank you 🙏

  • @aprilsookra6834
    @aprilsookra6834 Год назад +3

    I’m here 🙏🏾💜🌼

  • @billybotts9521
    @billybotts9521 Год назад

    Thank you pastor Blakes the Lord and your program has helped right now, I really been going through it bless you and your family.

  • @Mssweet25
    @Mssweet25 Год назад

    Thank you for all your wisdom, and knowledge. Its truely appreciated.

  • @VictoriasDAbomb
    @VictoriasDAbomb Год назад

    Beautiful minds lasts a lifetime!

  • @immaculapierre-y3s
    @immaculapierre-y3s 10 месяцев назад

    I absolutely loved this teaching ❤

  • @Bri_Plus3
    @Bri_Plus3 Год назад

    This really blessed me. It was right on time

  • @roselinkeil7217
    @roselinkeil7217 10 месяцев назад

    Amen 🙏 Thank you Bishop ❤❤❤ God bless you and your family ❤❤❤

  • @mannasmission
    @mannasmission Год назад

    Teachings every daughter needs!! You are an amazing Bonus Father to us girls!! ❤️❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @quicknotesmedia9540
    @quicknotesmedia9540 Год назад

    I love this segment so much, I have watched it 4x now.

  • @relisshacollins8602
    @relisshacollins8602 Год назад

    Thank you for sharing

  • @racilleashley9506
    @racilleashley9506 Год назад +2

    very Interesting. . Pastor RC BLAKE'S.

  • @nyeducate1
    @nyeducate1 Год назад +1

    Good evening Bishop and Lady Lisa

  • @carolinek1370
    @carolinek1370 Год назад

    Thank you for this enlightening video. I needed this clarity

  • @cheftrevayoung4450
    @cheftrevayoung4450 Год назад

    Thank you Pastor Blakes for a awesome teaching. I’ve been made free…

  • @Cloudss9
    @Cloudss9 Год назад +1

    I was looking for the repay 😊 glad I get to see this recorded live Great intro entertainment!

  • @RobertaOnDeck
    @RobertaOnDeck Год назад

    Yes, common financial philosophy is huge for me.

  • @MysticButterfly22
    @MysticButterfly22 Год назад +1

    Gotta catch the replay. Thanks Bishop R.C.😊❤

  • @anastasiasbridgewater243
    @anastasiasbridgewater243 Год назад

    That is so true Pastor Blake

  • @marciepearl9671
    @marciepearl9671 Год назад +4

    Hello Everyone,

  • @lindasmith6668
    @lindasmith6668 Год назад

    All these things take TIME WOW!