Woman Accuses Married Pastor of Having Sex With Her as a Teen
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- Опубликовано: 7 июн 2022
- Bobi Gephart stood before her entire church in Warsaw, Indiana, and accused the pastor of having sex with her when she was a teenager. Now 43, she says the secret has haunted her for nearly three decades. Pastor John Lowe made a "confession" during Sunday service, but Bobi says it was not the entire truth. She and her husband stormed the stage to reveal everything. As they left the stage, members of the congregation embraced her and demanded answers.
This does NOT stop with ONE girl. If this man did this to her as a young child, he kept on finding children to groom. It's disgusting, he needs to go to jail.
How was she a "young child"? She wasn't, she was a minor, an adolescent. But what he did was still bad.
@@birdgod5584 young = under 35, child = under 20
@@birdgod5584 she was 14-16 that’s young
right! he probably only stopped because in her early 20s she was too old for his liking. he probably has other victims.
@@firstnamelastname7708 Leonardo Dicaprio stops dating girls when they turn 23 or 24 too, it's crazy. Like, just learn to appreciate older women - they're still attractive
He’s disgusting, I hate when people use their Authority to abuse others
propht mohamd likd them underge girls so nothings wrong
@User4567 💀
Let's ban religion it's a con and a farce
@User4567 Not every woman is amber just like not every male is Johnny
Innocent until proven guilty.
I feel absolutely horrible for this woman. It looks like she got manipulated as a teen and couldn’t do anything about it. This pastor is truly disgusting from abusing and taking advantage of her body.
but if an 18year old had ''manipulated'' her it would have been OK? Probably right, because then you'd say she has been seduced, not manipulated. And what exactly determines if it was a manipulation or seduction in your opinion? A happy ending?
@@Darkest_Soul_187Any manipulation is wrong, but it is particularly heinous in this case as he was much older and her pastor.
Same thing happened to me, age 12. It’s far more prevalent than anyone wants to acknowledge. In my 30’s I went to a counselor and told him I’d had an affair at age 12. I now know i didn’t but I was instead a victim of a predator.
I'm so sorry. 😔 I'm glad you're healing and speaking up. ❤✊
the way the title says “having sex” and not assault or rape is disgusting. she was a minor and was groomed
At best this is considered Statutory Rape. Still bad, but "rape" by legal definition is the girl was overpowered.
Exactly! This was RAPE , PURE AND SIMPLE!! CRIMINAL CHARGES NOW!
So true.
She committed adultery also
In Indiana, the age of consent is 16 years old.
They didn’t “have sex”
This was a rape
Call it what it is
I think they didn’t call it rape because it hasn’t been through the courts yet, so this is all alleged, inside edition is probably trying to cover themselves from a lawsuit
wrong! she willingly had sex with this man sneaking round his wife inside the church until she was 25 YEARS OLD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
They're saying it because she was above the age of consent. Otherwise, they'd specify statutory r word.
Well said so true .
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@@birdgod5584 its still rape ignorant one
Notice how he says “yes WE did it” he’s still not taking full responsibility for his actions and still trying to share the blame with her. SMH
blame the law, it puts her as of legal age
@@AC-mp7cx She Wasn't 18 Though. What's The Age Of Consent There?
@@AC-mp7cxshe wasnt 18 at the time and EVEN if she was old enough it's still r*pe cause she didnt consent
@@AC-mp7cx16 is the age of consent for teens with teens and he basically manipulated this fact it seems like
She has no idea how many people she has helped by coming forward and showing that there's no shame in being a victim of sexual abuse. I truly believe that her story will help so many other people. What was meant for bad will help so many others.
To those saying “she should’ve told someone as soon as it happened”, I’d like for you to put yourself in her shoes. She was only 16 and he was a grown adult man with the trust of entire church behind him. It’s understandable that she would feel discouraged especially when the religion has such a bad reputation with ignoring or even worse attacking the victim.
I understand you can't tell someone right away. But at 16 unfortunately at least in Canada that's not rape. She called it a relationship in which I am assuming she consented. So why wait Thirty Years. Also, was it so terrible that she felt it was necessary to have him officiate her wedding? I have sympathy that she feels she was victimized. But I don't see her as a victim.
He knows what he's doing and knew she'd have no one believe her
@@BenWinder108 What?? Age does not matter when someone is R*PED and groomed. U can r*pe anyone
It’s hard
@@BenWinder108 first of all, your comment is so incredibly gross I can’t believe you think that a 16 year old can consent let alone understand the gravity and trauma that is created when someone you and your community trusts destroys it all in a single blow. Second of all, I’m sure this was a smaller area of town where the pastor was involved in every aspect of the community, so him being the pastor at her wedding makes perfect sense (especially sense she said that she tried her best to block out all of her trauma- which is very common in VICTIMS of sexual assault). Your comment is the type of disgusting rationalization that abusers say to try and make what they did ok. And it’s not ok. EDIT: grammar
I am so glad her husband stood by her side and helped her get through this confrontation!
she is a snitch
@@eller3452 that's awful. I'm sorry that happened to you. Hope he's an ex husband or atleast apologized
@@eller3452 I hate this for you. I commiserate with you, cry with you and pray that someday all sexual abuse victims get their pound of flesh..if not here then on judgment day.
agreed!!
@@eller3452 Oh no...your husband is heartless!
DISGUSTING. DISGUSTING. DISGUSTING. It’s hard to believe that these monsters get away with it for so long.
Am sorry for theese ladies but.dont tell me that you young girls dont know rite from wrong we been face with pastor doings even with man wives for too long now so its a habbit for them.they must be stop some way or the other.
So true they realy love it for some reason or the other.maybe them see the pastor with another young girl an get jelous
So having consensual sex with someone above the age of consent makes someone a monster now?
This went on for 9 yrs and she let him marry her/her husband?! WTF!
i know right? how can u even allow him to bless u? this is so discusting
She most likely felt forced to its hard for victims to blame their abuses and stuff,he did rape her and manipulate + groom her
I think she's NOT the only victim
He needs to go to prison and take full responsibility for what he did
There's Nothing New Under The 🌞 Sun
propht mohamd likd them underge girls so nothings wrong
her and her brother should have said something earlier I feel like she was in a relationship with him and he didn't want to leave his way so this is her way of sticking it to him
@@raymondthomas1574 Lots of victims don't speak out initially due to fear and embarrassment
@@prinbot what does they have to do with her brother
The story brought me to tears. The pastor tried to palm off an illicit affair of adultery when it truly was rape of a minor. He misrepresented what he had done to such a degree that it was unbearable for the couple. I’m so glad that God gave her the strength to come forward and tell her story so that the pastor would fully take responsibility for what he had done. Grooming and rape of a minor is not adultery. Asking for forgiveness is not all that he can do. I hope this woman collects handsomely from him personally and the church.
The way the congregation surrounds the pastor to comfort HIM and not her? Not surprising, but still disgusting.
Pastor needs jail time for what transpired during her teen years but I'm surprised she admitted it continued for *9* years. She was a grown woman and kept going back. And she kept attending his church too with her husband. Way more questions left unanswered.
Same here.
@@Lkparkernyc they embraced him at first because they thought he was being brave owning up to his sin/transgression publicly out of his own will and they specifically thought it was a grown woman he committed adultery with 20 yrs ago but when the couple spoke on stage saying she was 16 and a virgin things took a big turn and they weren’t embracing him anymore. They even hugged her as she was on the way out and told him to admit it, they confronted him. Grooming and rape of a minor is a whole different ball game the congregation knows that. As a Christian it makes me sad that people like him give us a bad name but unfortunately there's good and bad people everywhere.
@@Lkparkernyc exactly! Religion always blame the woman ⚛
It doesn't matter how long she waited to tell her story as long she got the courage to tell it because some of us victims don't tell at all. I understand how she feels I went to therapy for years before I finally told my family what happen to me.
Can we stop saying that they had a relationship? He abused her! She was 16!!!
Who knows? This might not be his first and only abuse! I wouldn’t be surprise if more women come out and share similar stories!
Let's hope that they come out in droves so he can NEVER do it again!!!!
It definitely wasn't the first or the last.
Exactly what I was thinking
She got raped that for sure lol
It's probably not. He's probably done this a lot .
I was groomed from age 12-20. I am just now at 20 telling myself it wasn't right. It's easy to believe what your groomer says. I am mature, I am basically an adult, not a normal child, I've been through a lot. It may be wrong for normal kids, but for us I'm mature and this is normal and special like he says. I can't even imagine how much harder it would be with the religious influence and the man being commonly known as a "good" and "righteous" one. You have no idea what it's like to be groomed if you haven't experienced it. It does not surprise me for a second she was still in his church. This happens way too often.
M B. I'm a father of 5,grandfather of 12. My heart breaks hearing your history. Know I'm sending you prayers and a hug. No one should have EVER harmed you. May your lifelong forward be free of those evil people. Blessings child.
All of the victim blaming going on in the comment section in general makes me lividdd. I’m so sorry that happened to you❤️
@@iwant2haveu Literally everyone in the comment section is blaming the perpetrator.
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U should have spoke up your lost
My question is why was she still at his congregation that many years later. That must be traumatizing.
He was still your pastor while it haunted you to be around him? If he is still in charge why would you continue to go to the same church as an adult that is led by this terrible human being?
She’s so brave for coming forward. Bless her.
Probably groomed more girls as well 🤮🤮
Surah Al Iklas
@@RideRedRacer ?
No
@@delia2431 very true
Bro imagine being a *pastor* and doing this to a child.
Wth
I’m sure that zero f***s were given.
@@CNYTE 💀
why would you imagine that? sick person
Yeah, it happens a lot. It’s not even shocking how common it is
This guy is messed up but for me the thing that makes me sick is the fact that he was the pastor who officiated her wedding.. Knowing what he had done to her..
Why would she and her husband continue to go to his services??? I'm confused!!!
He committed more than adultery, he should be facing charges. This is absolutely sickening, how so many hypocritical people in the churches & elsewhere continuously use their authority to abuse or even excuse abusive behavior. But preach and tout about Jesus and the Bible, along with sin in the second breath.😑😒
@Average User Exactly! If she wanted to claim innocence she should have stopped it when she turned 18. She only came forward because her brother outed her. I don't believe her for a second that she was a victim.
She lost any sympathy or settlement for what she did after the statutory rape. Cheated on her fiance and possibly after they married to top it off. Old bastard took every bit of innocence ig.
@@josephsheranda Do you understand the concept of statutory rape? A pastor, an adult in a position of trust and authority, and she a CHILD OF SIXTEEN?
blame the law, it puts her as of legal age
@@patricias5122 She was above the age of consent, ergo it's not statutory rape. Here in Sweden we have age of consent of 15, in Germany it's 14. Those states that have 18 just like to pretend that people don't have sex before then, puritan states.
What a POS “pastor”and he married the husband the Disrespect. Arrest him he committed a crime
That’s a caliber of evil you don’t see everyday. Absolutely repulsive.
He's still living life as a free man?!?
@@didostempest2966 but happens nearly everyday it’s disgusting
arrest her...
He's a despicable man but remember she was also committed adultery being with the pastor while she was married
A really sad thing is that in many churches, they would have told her she should not have said it was her. Too many churches silence sa victims and downplay the negative effects as simply "sexual sin."
I feel so bad for this woman. It takes a ton of courage to get up and do that. They could have blamed her and she knew it! Love to this brave woman! 🤗🤗🤗
She could have said this long time ago. But she has him in her wedding and his graduation. Come on .
So the only reason he “confessed” was because her brother threaten to tell everyone I’m guessing that’s even scummier since her brother had to almost force him to in a way not because he genially felt guilty about it or anything
Oh, absolutely. I guarantee he would have taken this crime to his grave if her brother hadn’t threatened to expose him. He’s a worthless POS, a coward!!
Good point, he only confessed because he was forced to, not because he sincerely wanted to do the right thing. The flesh is weak.
blame the law, it puts her as of legal age
This isn’t what Christian values or almost any religious values stand for.
At all. Makes God look bad. But human action do NOT define God.
Sin is transgression of God's law and it is wicked to do what this Pastor has done, but although the pastor claims to be a Christian. God doesn't not condone this type of behavior. When men or women sin it is on them not God, for God is not responsible for the sin of people. People make there own choice to sin and disobey God
blame the law, it puts her as of legal age
LOL!
Why would she stay at the church? Why would she have him officiate her wedding?
She most likely felt stuck or forced to or like she caused it
so...the husband just carries his wife's purity ring everyday JIC they confront the pastor of the church they still were active members of?? am I missing something???
not sure
Such a brave woman & looks like she has a wonderful husband to lean on. So sorry that happened to her!! 🥰
She’s very brave and her family should be so proud of her.
ridiculous! she had an adulterous AFFAIR WITH HIM FOR 9 YEARS! enjoying sex with a married man. not a victim after so many years. and sex in church!
Brave for waiting 20 years about having sex with the old Guy?? Lmao ok
How is it brave to say she was raped? 💀💀💀
This woman’s story has just stuck with me since it happened. I hope she knows how many people stand behind her. And NONE of this is her fault. For anyone to suggest she should have said something at any point, stop blaming the victim. She was groomed and a literal child when this started.
I 💯 agree . It's infuriating reading these comments 😔
How does this happen?? Where were the parents?? As a parent to a 17 yr old there’s nooo way in Hell I would’ve let ANY MAN be around my child if I wasn’t in the same room.
Exactly, the young girl has to be watched and protected at all times, some parents just don't understand that I guess. Feel bad for the kid in that situation.
Wow. While watching this, I couldn't help it. I started crying. This woman is so strong. I dont know, the way she spoke just broke my heart.
The craziest part to me is the fact everyone clapped after he gets done telling everyone he cheated on his wife, and being a leader of that church… actual cult vibes.
IKR?!!!!!!!! I can not believe it. Cringe worthy people to throw all their morals out the window in order to support someone because of who he is than take the high road and walk out door!
That's why I don't like churches. Way too much stuff going on.
True.. Very True 🤦🤷
That was before they found out she was 16
Omg it’s so incredibly powerful to see a woman standing up for herself like this and to have so much support from her family and people at the church. You’re a warrior! ♥️♥️♥️
and he officiated at her wedding , see the picture. Chile , i don't know if i could keep that pic
SHE KEPT GOING BACK TO HIM FOR 9 YEARS??!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SHE MUST HAVE LIKED IT
I’m so beyond happy that everyone listened to her and stood up for her. I’ve seen that same scenario play out a whole lot different when it comes to the church….
I know, I was honestly scared they wouldn’t believe her 😔
Saying I’m a Christian or catholic doesn’t mean your a good person. If anything those people make the news more cause they did bad things.
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Exactly
Not every person who claims to be a Christian is bad or have done bad things. People who do stuff like that aren't even Christian's as a true one I most definitely don't claim him. How can you act as if your a pastor and have love for God when you know you sexualized a kid and you were married on top of that. That's downright evil
It's less complicated than that.
The 🐊🐊 gather hidden below at the water's edge because they know the prey will eventually show up in droves to be fed individually.
If the 🐊 waits in the forest, the prey is always on the alert & attentive with eyes & ears in the peripheral.
Get the prey all in one place, let them get comfortable enough to let down their guard, isolate one, strike.
It takes patience but ultimately, they find a victim among the herd & typically it's the young & inexperienced.
if you're a good religious person, then yes it does
Im so glad she was able to speak about her experience and to show the pastor that his actions were sick. For someone to do that to someone else, they must be truly sick
She is 43 now and talking about her 9 year long relationship that ended 20 years ago ? 🙉
That’s is disgusting man should go to jail
True but he won't
What a strong woman and how wonderful is her husband to stand by her like that . I wish I had that support . I had same thing happen to me at 13 .
Still haven’t come to terms with it fully.
were you abused by a pastor as well?
Samantha I am so very sorry for what happened to you. You didn't deserve it. One day God's judgment will appropriately punish these beasts
My most sincere pardons...God shall punish the wicked Mortals!
I’m very sorry this happened to you. I hope you’ll come to peace with it and let god’s judgement punish him for you. You’ve done nothing wrong. I wish you to find a great husband who supports you dear.
Sam, girl i am really sorry this happened to you. i can't even tell you how to heal its something i can't wrap my head around but the criminal you need to be caught , however long it takes.
I don't condone relations with a minor, but I don't get how she let it go on for 9 years.
Politicians, pastors and priests always get standing ovations when they admit to wrongdoings. 🤬😡
I admire this lady's courage for speaking her truth.
Round of applause to this couple who exposed this cult!👏 👏👏👏
That husband should have taken him outside of the church for a couple rounds…
@@abolisher maybe beat the "hell" out of him
it's more to the story then what she is saying
@@raymondthomas1574 You know that how??
@@jojo23008 because she wasn't being in those nine year relationship with this man that's how I know
I would NOT stay in that church, WTH people.
Exactly! How you STILL attending the church once you figured out what he did to you was wrong smh
If that is the family church and the only church that has her religion in the area she probably feel obligated to continue. I’m sure he manipulated her faith just like he tried to manipulate everyone else of faith in the church so he can continue doing his perversions
@@meosimone exactly if it’s so bad why still see him every sunday and then blurt it out in front of everyone knowing they’ll just attack you and then bring your husband into it …
@@PinkSpice19 Christianity; ladies and gentlemen!
It's rough to find a church to trust
When I saw the video, I was relieved how many supported her, even after they had just applauded the pastor after he "confessed" and tried to get ahead of the scandal. It takes a lot to realize you've been dedicating so much of your life to what turned out to be lies. For so many people to have done that in mere moments is amazing. Shout out and much love to her and her husband, and the people that embraced them.
The bravery this woman has to stand up in front of the entire congregation to share this, and the support system she has behind her weeping and fighting at her side is truly unreal. This is an incredible story, heartbreaking as it is. Her husband is an example of what others should be, as is her brother. I wish I had half the nerve of this woman. Abusers wouldn't dare if this was the example we all saw.
I can’t believe she let him marry her and her husband. That’s awful.
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Yeah, gotta be tough to be the husband in this situation too. Probably used to have fond memories of their wedding day and those could be nightmares now. Learning that his wife deceived him about this for decades, the guilty pastor deceived him and then officiated the wedding...if the husband doesn't have trust issues after this I'll be amazed.
Yeah, she's just scorned about something now. Probably looking at other young girls.
True 🤔
and continue at that congregation
The power of grooming a minor- spiritual leader, father figure, lover..
How did he even have access to her like that? Where were her parents? Pastor or not, he is still man and should have NEVER been left alone with her.
I just made the same comment about her parents. I do understand that things like that happen but I can't believe that she stayed in that church and allowed him to officiate her wedding.
WAIT, I AM NOT CONDONING HIS BEHAVIOR ON A 16-YEAR-OLD. BUT HE TOOK ADVANTAGE OF HER AND SHE LET HIM MARRY HER???? AND, AND SHE WAS STILL ATTENDING HIS CHURCH??? I AM CONFUSED!!! I GET THAT HE GROOMED HER "ALLEDGELY" BUT SHE WAS A GROWN WOMAN WHEN SHE MARRIED HER HUSBAND, WHY WOULD SHE LET THIS MAN MARRY HER????
Exactly my thoughts.
@@aawrnnc ITS CRAZY RIGHT!!!
@@aawrnnc I AM CONFUSED!!
Glad u spoke up! Poor child! These disgusting predators r everywhere every1!
It’s the fact that he got a stand ovation and after all of that the congregation rallied around him and hugged him that was sooo gross
right !!!! Smh
Welcome to the Christian cult!
@@officialballisticfox8111 Not a cult
@@Anonymous-xq5cs that's exactly what a cult member would say!
@@officialballisticfox8111 religion is different from a cult
This is what I’m having trouble with. So if this pastor molested her why has she been going to his church for the past 30 years?? And also why is her husband carrying around the same purity ring she had on when she was raped?!?! And now after all these years he says he doesn’t want it in his home?!?! Why did he want it in his home in the first place?!?!?! That’s just disturbing 😳
Also why did she choose to go along with the relationship for 9 years. After the first time, she didn't have to be alone with him or be around him. When she turned 18 why didn't she leave? That's what I'm having trouble with.
@@bxpandorumx5691 we know why. These victims only want to tell when he starts looking for new prey.
@@myamia1772 we don't know that though
@@bxpandorumx5691 EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@@bxpandorumx5691 Cuz she was groomed and willingly went on with the affair. Even in this interview she still saw it as an affair she willingly participated in. She didn't have a problem with it either and the only reason she came out as well was because her brother was going to.
This hits home for me, I don’t know if I’ll ever have the courage to tell my family. Even right now I want to delete my comment, I might later on. This is scary AF
Stay strong! And don’t let those victim shaming comments get to you should one comment.
You should fam
Hard to believe her when she does not even tell her husband.
She deserves justice…I am so thankful that people were supportive of her same with her amazing husband it must’ve been hell for her to hide something like that a literally have that pastor bind you to your husband and have a room applaud him…I am so amazed by their strength to share her story and can tell that she is a strong woman
The entire congregation should sue him. She definitely should sue him , and bring criminal charges against him.
It's disgusting that he would do that to her. He should go to prison.
She could be lying, just like Amber.
@@musiccentral6847 he’s literally admitted they had “consensual” relationships
@@musiccentral6847 and her brother walked into her with no pants in a bed with him.
@@musiccentral6847 He admitted and her brother witnessed it.
9 years in a relationship....
And now he is to blame
She waited 17 years to say something? I can understand her hesitancy as a teen but everyday she stayed silent others could have been experiencing the same thing.
That’s not on her… geez get help!
I was raped at age 17. I never told anyone. Like who is going to believe me and my story!..... I feel her pain!
I'm sorry this happen to you. Were you raped by family, friend, or stranger?
I believe you and I don’t know you. I was molested at 12/13. I get so weak and vulnerable when I talk about it. I kinda go in a frenzie start talking fast, shaking, spacing out etc.
I’m so sorry for both of you. I was sexually assaulted two years ago and though short it has affected me in many ways. Jesus loves you both and can heal the pain you feel inside, as he has for me❤️
At least he was able to resign as a pastor and admitted his sins, here, in the Philippines the pastor who did horrible things to people still hailed as messiah of God and a trusted adviser of a president 😩😩😩🤮🤮🤮
why is she just speaking out now ? I don’t understand if this happened years ago it needs to be address when it happens not decades later.
She is speaking out because her brother caught them and was telling her he was gonna out her. So she pre-empted him.
“You didn’t tell them she was 16.” -I swear to tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but to “extend the truth”, so help me God.
I hate how it’s worded; “having sex”.
It’s not “sex”.
It’s rape and grooming.
Get the title right.
She was only sixteen, and he was in his forties when he preyed on her.
She was still a kid.
Because of legal age of consent so it couldn't legally be called rape. Morally you decide... people have different morality that's why the law can differ from what some people want...
What's concerning here is this story isn't in line with general abuse cases. It was going on for nine years with her going to him voluntary, not the typical forced presence in general abuse cases. It almost seems like they got found out and she might be trying to protect her reputation and new marriage now; that may be why the pastor also decided to talk publicly too. There just seems to be more to this.
I'm not having no understanding on why she let this pastor marry her and then continue to keep the secret from her husband?
Right like why go back
You can tell even in this interview that her only regret is that her brother saw them and he was going to expose it.
That's disgusting and horrible. Why did she stay at that church for so long?
It's crazy everyone didn't walk out of the church after that !!!!!!!!
good for her and her mighty strong loving husband! And boy oh boy he really loves you ! He was right by your side when you stormed that stage to speak your truth! what a strong loving man!
*the truth.
This whole "your truth" thing makes it seem like everybody's lying, like truth is not objective anymore, imo...
it's something she isn't telling us about
Wasn't she cheating on her husband with the Pastor🫠?
The devil live in the church.
@@bryangobonkers The sad part is that you're right 😕
I forgive him because unlike most people he was honest, still, messed up
Fi real 🇯🇲🇯🇲
@@bryangobonkers wrote what book? Christians don't follow the laws written in the Bible.
@@supermananimationsstudios8519 He said he committed adultery. That is wrong. He groomed and raped a girl. And on top of that. Married her off to her husband. He’s lower than scum.
She has so much courage for coming out with it and what’s even more disgusting and disturbing is I highly doubt she’s definitely the only one.
I am obviously on her side but still don't understand why she would continue with it until she was 25 so clearly adult and mature, and have him officiate her wedding when she had so much resentment towards what he did when she was a minor?
She got caught that’s why she’s playing the victim.
I think she fell in love with him and realized he never felt the same....he only said it. She tried to move on but her brother mentioned it and she felt all that shame of time given and her body to a man who used her.
This whole religious group is horrible. After he exposes himself, he doesn’t tell the whole damn truth. He only tells a part of it to make it not seem so bad. Then SHE has to come up and explain what actually happened. But then, the WHOLE AHH CHURCH HUGS THE PASTOR. No god damn person should be forgiven. He was a grown man at the time, he knew exactly what he was doing.
I hate these type of people. WTH is wrong with them. Especially the victim blaming in the comments.
The church was hugging the woman.
Did they hug him?
They didn't hug him, they hugged her & demanded he admit what the whole truth
Some did hug the woman but in the full video there’s a lot more people who circle the pastor to pray for him and lay hands (not necessarily hug), it was kinda sick to watch cuz it made it seem like he was the victim in this whole ordeal
What do you mean the rest of the group stood up for the girl after she told the truth
I was 6 yrs old when a member of the church molested me.and later it seemed the same church kept abusing me maybe not sexually but mentally, but I still Love God.
Unfortunately this happens all too often. I was sexually abused by my pastor also when I was 13. I tried to tell people in the church and they confronted him but of course he lied. I’m 38 now and finally was able to tell my story on my RUclips channel.
God bless those people standing up for her, and comforting her, and being on her side... And God bless her.
his confession was pretty much bragging rights . as in "see i am cute, i could step out and smash"
Take note, folks…this is what actual grooming looks like.
I agree with you Helena. Been there done that. God help all the innocents.
Take notes? So you want is to do it?
@@Nope991 Nope. Guess I should clarify - take note, goofballs out there crying over drag queens & transgender people…this is what actual grooming looks like.
@@ColonizersBlow So a child molester thats transgender/ Drag Queen don't ever groom children just pastors? How about anyone can!
@@ColonizersBlow There's literally no one out there crying over drag queens. Sounds more like you're looking for attention.
Be weary of ANYONE seeking a position of power/authority of any sort.
She continued a sexual relationship with the married pastor for 9 years after she was deflowered at 16 and still attend the pastor's church until 40s. She had been over 20 for 5 long years in that 9 years and didn't stop the illicit encounter until she married at 25 which you would think make her a complicit mistress. I can understand if it was just that one time at 16 but she voluntarily return for more until adulthood. 🤔
the only smart comment in the middle of all this emotional rubbish, she has sex with him for 9 years by consent then suddenly she decides that he is a predator !! we dont know the full details people just judge by emotions
did he really force her or black mail her ??
is 16 not an adult who has reached puberty ?
non of them asks these questions
Good point, plus the age of consent in that state is 16.
This was done to me when I was 16 by a 32 year old man. Not a pastor, but a grown man nonetheless. Until this day I wish I had the courage to tell the world and expose him for the sicko he was. I admire her so much.
blame the law, it puts her as of legal age
@ 3:32 it got me a lil emotional to see the way the person grabbed her and embraced her, the only reason why is because I know some people will be so set in their religion that they won’t even try to believe that what she went through is true…the amount of love she received from others after exposing him of his awful ways is just amazing. She deserves love and I hope she is thriving!
Oh yeah I noticed that too. Just amazing how she grabbed her and just embraced her I know that meant a lot to her in that moment because it’ll mean a lot to me.
It's more like she didn't accuse her and the pastor confess himself. She just simplified pastor's confession of adultery!!!
She knew what she was doing, fooling around for years , now she wants to cash in. And that pastor will now pay the price for his wickedness, using the church office for his abominable actions.
incredibly strong. so proud of her for standing up there at her church and letting them all know!! i hope that felt nice for her in some way. she deserves so much better. i’m so sorry for her. he ruined her life and ruined her wedding day, graduation, so much. he should’ve never been there.
What a good support group she seems to have, and an amazing husband I wish you all the healing in the world!! ❤️
Pastor isn't humble and doesn't have any remorse, he's evasive and doesn't want her to speak up.
You're a very brave woman! Proud of you for speaking up it is never too late.
he officiated her wedding? I can’t wrap my head around that part
This is why they say girls who 16 can give consent because of demons like that, the law will overlooked at things like this
He never had any intention of coming forward. Had he not have been confronted by the brother, he would never have "confessed". The only reason he told the church is because he knew the truth was gonna come out. So he decided to tell some extremely vague version of the truth hoping the church would have his back. God will punish him.
Resigned? He needs to be behind bars.
He should be ashamed!! This poor girl had to live with such a dark secret for so long uf this really hurts to hear. I really hope this man gets what he deserves. Love from Switzerland girl❤️
It's heart breaking to see that this woman had to go through that, as well as the congregation having to hear that their own pastor, someone they looked up to, committed a grave sin. I am praying for the woman affected by this, as well as the church and even the pastor himself. I pray that they all heal from this, and I pray this pastor repents before our holy God and restore his relationship with Him. Prayers for everyone involved. 🙏🙏
Sadly, this kind of sick abuse happens all the time. I hope Pastor gets real accountability for his actions.
The longer you wait to report things like this the harder it becomes to prove she should of reported it right away
It's really sick that their marriage has been tainted by this sicko officiating their wedding. So very sad. He should go to prison.