First Step For Reinventing Yourself In 2024 | Power of Authenticity

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  • @BahjaAbdi
    @BahjaAbdi  10 месяцев назад +391

    Understand that Carl Jung's Theory of Archetypes isn't an Islamic idea and I don't claim it to be. However it's a useful tool for us to learn ourselves deeper. With my understanding of the idea I was able to connect it back to my beliefs and I hope you can do the same.
    Knowledge isn't taking everything one person says and running with it. It's listen to different opinions and ideas and figuring out if it fits into your own beliefs and values.

    • @itsmehh1621
      @itsmehh1621 10 месяцев назад +7

      Of course. We as Muslims have to take any ideas and use it accord to islam and nothing wrong w that

    • @chevellehymans6150
      @chevellehymans6150 9 месяцев назад +2

      Yes queen

  • @NursetalkwithSheka
    @NursetalkwithSheka 10 месяцев назад +402

    I found you in the process of starting my journey to self in reverting to the Muslim culture. I thank God that he lead you to me. I love your spirit your energy and I got my notebook ready you are truly amazing ❤️❤️

    • @BahjaAbdi
      @BahjaAbdi  10 месяцев назад +35

      My heart is sooo full! May gos make your journey easy and keep your heart grounded in faith. I'm sending you all my love, thank you for the kind words 🩷

    • @SamS.432
      @SamS.432 9 месяцев назад +6

      Sammmme ! Just as I got done writing a journal of Grace to myself speaking of forgiving my past self & promising myself to nurture myself to grow into my purpose for which I was created. As soon as I came on RUclips her video was the VERY 1st video & I smiled and tears filled my eyes DEFINITELY was GOD SENT !

    • @farzonauzokova7818
      @farzonauzokova7818 8 месяцев назад +3

      SAME! Two days ago I started praying and it is just as I am a new person right now. I am glad I found her channel, her advices are so useful, I found so many answers to my questions. I believe I am on the path of becoming the person I am meant to be.

    • @rawnaqsalim5412
      @rawnaqsalim5412 8 месяцев назад +2

      Congratulations may Allah guide you so happy for you🩷🩷🩷🩷

    • @jaxj968
      @jaxj968 7 месяцев назад

      fr me too! this year, i decided to reinvent myself and do better with myself, and i found her, and it’s the best thing EVER. I swear, love her videos!

  • @talishagilbert9533
    @talishagilbert9533 8 месяцев назад +81

    I became a first time home owner this past December. I’m really proud of how hard I’ve worked as a single mom and the example I’m setting for my son. ❤

    • @MsNieshaBean
      @MsNieshaBean 7 месяцев назад +1

      Congratulations, and I'm so proud of you!! I'm preparing myself too for that journey soon as a single mom. You're giving me more motivation for my son!!

    • @GoogleNutzer-s4e
      @GoogleNutzer-s4e 6 месяцев назад

      Wow

    • @GoogleNutzer-s4e
      @GoogleNutzer-s4e 6 месяцев назад

      How

  • @aleshasmikrokosmos
    @aleshasmikrokosmos 9 месяцев назад +140

    Girlll usually I skip videos like these because in my experience everyone says the same generic things but something told me click on your video and I’m so happy I did. I made a whole new mini vision board (made a big one yesterday) as I was listening to you. You really felt like a friend giving advice and going so in depth with your journey that you earned a new subscriber. Thank you and I’ll definitely be watching your videos on my self love/reinvention journey.

  • @lill2745
    @lill2745 9 месяцев назад +120

    “what you seek is also seeking you”❤

  • @Thebbles
    @Thebbles 9 месяцев назад +43

    "When you know who you are, you are able to find peace" ... that's beautiful

  • @ati-x1r
    @ati-x1r 10 месяцев назад +56

    Bahja always makes us become more confident!

    • @BahjaAbdi
      @BahjaAbdi  10 месяцев назад +2

      ahhhhh period! I want to see y'all winnn 🤍

  • @Catlover-yi4cw
    @Catlover-yi4cw 10 месяцев назад +226

    00:00 - Intro🏃🏻‍♀️
    01:32 - Why You need to Know Who You Are🫵
    05:12 - Shifting Your Identity🪪
    05:57 - What We Will Talk About👯‍♀️
    08:26 - The 4 Archetypes (Carl Jung Theory of Archetypes)🤔
    08:36 - #1 Your Personas (How Do You Want To Be Seen?)👀🧍‍♀️
    11:46 - #2 Your Shadow (Navigate Your Insecurities, Traumas.. ect)🖤
    17:42 - #3 Anima & Animus (Masuline &
    Feminin Energy)🧍‍♂️🧍‍♀️
    20:14 - #4 The Self (Your Highest Self)👑
    21:07 - The Self & The Soul - My Experience📖
    25:00 - How to Get To Know Yourself💗
    27:58 - Become an Observer👀👀👀
    30:25 - Spend Time Alone & Overcome Your Fear of Your Own Feelings🩷
    33:38 - Why You Need to Journal📓
    35:35 - What You Find When You Explore Yourself🌈
    36:03 - Just Like Magic Your Attractive - Power of Knowing Who You Are🪄
    38:05 - ✨🌟Outro⭐️✨

    • @mapetidye
      @mapetidye 9 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you❤

    • @Catlover-yi4cw
      @Catlover-yi4cw 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@mapetidyeofc!🤍

    • @nileyfan1998
      @nileyfan1998 9 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you ❤❤❤

    • @lvme718
      @lvme718 9 месяцев назад

      Thanks ❤

    • @lvme718
      @lvme718 9 месяцев назад +1

      This video is gold it starts today I am grateful for coming across your video.❤

  • @alexislamberson1901
    @alexislamberson1901 10 месяцев назад +75

    I’ll be honest. This is the first time I actually grab a notebook to take notes. I had to pause the video because I’m on the part of “Spend time alone” … see I believe I’ve mastered that already. I love being alone. What I need to work on now is learning how to come OUT of that. Learning how to connect with people again. Not fearing connections. I hope this makes sense. I would love a video on this or some tips… I’ve just been through a lot of back stabbing so that’s what brought me onto this journey of solitude.
    Also, I’m so thankful I found your channel. New subbie ❤

    • @madzwrld14
      @madzwrld14 10 месяцев назад +5

      omg im going through the same thing as you. except my default to being alone isn't bc of betrayal but more bc of feeling SO self-conscious about myself. whats crazy is that i used to be the far opposite of this and i think it started during and after the pandemic - something changed and now im ike a little hermit that can't/won't come out of her shell.

    • @alexislamberson1901
      @alexislamberson1901 10 месяцев назад +3

      @@madzwrld14 FELT!!!! 🥺 I used to be so outgoing too. Then I had my son in 2019 and then BAM 2020 pandemic! Omg wow. I feel this heavily girl. But that’s why it’s sooo important for us to dig deep and find the root. Practice more self love. Do things you enjoy doing. Journal positive affirmations. Repeat them to yourself. It’s a journey and won’t happen overnight. But it’s worth it 🤍🙏🏼

    • @SelfempowermentComeUNITY
      @SelfempowermentComeUNITY 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@madzwrld14same bro what I did was to create a group for myself to attract natural and authentic people that likes the same things I do . Like learning about self love , fitness , nutrition. I believe if you can attract that within your community you can do it anywhere.

    • @Mippioo222
      @Mippioo222 9 месяцев назад +1

      Ahhh I feel exactly the same way girl... Was done dirty by my oldest friend who secretly hated me, and had to cut off some other friendships due to baggage/trauma bonding.
      I'm too comfortable spending time on my own and Im trying to Work out how tf to put myself back out there when I struggle to trust and truly open up!?! I'm also big on protecting my energy and have no space for anyone not aligned with that. Good luck! I believe viewing videos like this show we are heading in the right direction.. ❤️❤️

    • @alexislamberson1901
      @alexislamberson1901 9 месяцев назад

      @@Mippioo222 agree!! 🤍🤍🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @masanjaykromah4868
    @masanjaykromah4868 10 месяцев назад +58

    Your videos always come at the right time. I literally can’t explain in word how much u have help me, may Allah reward you with the hugest level of Jannah Ameen ya Rab. And I would love to see u make the journal video

    • @BahjaAbdi
      @BahjaAbdi  10 месяцев назад +5

      I'm going to cry 🥹 you have no idea how much this fills my heart with joy. Allahumma ameen, Inshallah we will all me jannah neighbors 🥹🤍

  • @ranyaal3013
    @ranyaal3013 10 месяцев назад +39

    I’m 16 and I just found your channel but I love the way you give advice and how you’re stern with your steps but also so understanding mashallah you’ve really helped me out sister🥰

    • @BahjaAbdi
      @BahjaAbdi  10 месяцев назад +2

      Aweee I'm so glad 🥹🩷

  • @Bandz17
    @Bandz17 10 месяцев назад +22

    I'm so glad I found this video!! I want to get out of my lazy era and reinvent myself and be a better person not only for myself but for my family too💗💗🫶🏾thank you!!

  • @chrizzybrezzy94
    @chrizzybrezzy94 10 месяцев назад +29

    I needed this video so bad rn. Thank you so much for the encouragement to be better, see better, and do better. This self path to discovery and reinventing is feeling even more stable for me. Seriously I'm so grateful from the bottom of my heart❤!

  • @user-xu4lz4np1k
    @user-xu4lz4np1k 10 месяцев назад +13

    GIRL I AM HOOKED !! I never listened to someone for the whole day and didn’t get bored girl you’re so magnetic mashaaAllah 💗Thank you I already feel different just from yesterday

  • @mamediarramadeleinecisse5920
    @mamediarramadeleinecisse5920 10 месяцев назад +31

    I loved this and would love a video on journaling! You go girl!

    • @BahjaAbdi
      @BahjaAbdi  10 месяцев назад +4

      Yayyyy okay say less 🩷

  • @tasreenshaikh
    @tasreenshaikh 9 месяцев назад +15

    Literally been struggling with my self for the past few months, to the point i started feeling shameful and worthless.
    Your video really helped me gain a practical approach towards making a better version of myself. Please continue making these beautiful videos 💓💓 i really love them 💓💓💓

  • @nur.cowsar
    @nur.cowsar 10 месяцев назад +15

    Another day, another video, another slay! I am so proud of all of your success habibti and I can't wait to see your channel flourish. You are shining allahumma barik!

    • @BahjaAbdi
      @BahjaAbdi  10 месяцев назад +1

      My fav girl in the world!!! thank you x100000! your love and support means the world to me 🤍

  • @its.e
    @its.e 10 месяцев назад +15

    Omg I definitely needed this video!! I've been going through this thing where sometimes when I hang out with my friends or family I function from such a low vibration due to negative energies i have to cope with, being a different person (masks) around them as well as some jealousies im not proud of at all (shadow), and when I do i just feel so horrible about myself coz im like "damn did i really just spend the day being the lowest version of myself", what you talked about in this video is really something im trying to currently work on so thanks for talking about it!! Also I definitely agree the relation to heart and truth that you mentioned as well!!

    • @BahjaAbdi
      @BahjaAbdi  10 месяцев назад +5

      I'm soooo happy you find this video helpful. I love comments like these because I always pray it reaches the people who need it so thank you for sharing. Be kind to yourself and be patient because change takes time. I'm glad I could be of service and I'm always rooting for you 🥹🩷

  • @hanaan9102
    @hanaan9102 9 месяцев назад +7

    I'm so happy your video came to me this was absoultely insightful!! Being a 17 year old somali girl with no older sister it really felt like I was getting wise words from one. I started journaling a while ago and you are so right! I can finally understand myself. May allah bless you in this life and the next and that your videos are each a million good deeds for each person you inspire

  • @AbdirahmanIdle
    @AbdirahmanIdle 10 месяцев назад +7

    One of the best videos I’ve watched in a long time. Thanks I needed a reminder of a lot of the things you mentioned here so powerful :)

  • @wenlopezn
    @wenlopezn 9 месяцев назад +6

    1. You are wise 2. You are gorgeous 3. THANK YOU for this amazing video

  • @deborahostmo
    @deborahostmo 10 месяцев назад +3

    your backdrop / living room is so stylish - also how you dress and speak :) So well put together you are

    • @BahjaAbdi
      @BahjaAbdi  10 месяцев назад +2

      Aweeee this is literally the best compliment ever! Thank you so much Angel 💕

  • @babyelephant14
    @babyelephant14 10 месяцев назад +7

    I love the advices and explanations you give ! Thank you for this video, I really needed it ❤

  • @zainabgondal6120
    @zainabgondal6120 10 месяцев назад +6

    salam!! I like how you mentioned when something isn't going right there is a mirrrior held up to you pushing you to change, that's what your challenge is. I am a freshman Muslim at college, and recently I hit my lowest I ever have been. Losing friends listening to shaytaan bad impulsive thoughts, failing classes, never home, always tired, gaining weight and so much more. I really want to change my life and thank you so much for being here to help me.

  • @erickahross2019
    @erickahross2019 10 месяцев назад +6

    Love Love Love this advice and I couldn’t agree more. So beautifully delivered and spot on 👏🏾 You go girl 🥹✨

  • @zarakimani2273
    @zarakimani2273 9 месяцев назад +8

    A lot of ideas and beliefs correlate in religion because in the Bible, there's a verse that also talks about being ware about what you think and put into your heart."Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life." Proverbs 4:23 KJV

  • @lindyvinson1287
    @lindyvinson1287 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you! I think, I thought I knew who I was. I needed to hear this. I needed you to make this video! I am with you! I am sharing you with my friends. Keeping going up my friend! ❤

  • @accrr370
    @accrr370 9 месяцев назад +1

    I just found out ur videos and I don't regret. Tysm for the video and keep it up.
    btw we have the same name.

  • @braidedbylk
    @braidedbylk 9 месяцев назад +6

    So glad I came across your channel and this message. I feel like I’m at a mental reset, and need to start moving and thinking different. This message was so much clarity for me Thank you 🙏🏾❤

  • @weshouldtlk
    @weshouldtlk 9 месяцев назад +4

    You articulated this WELL! I feel so validated and you’ve also given us a paradigm shift abs practical steps. Thank you for your vulnerability. This is truly valuable content. 🎉❤

  • @withusaskiings7190
    @withusaskiings7190 8 месяцев назад +2

    First time coming across your page, and I relate to EVERYTHING you have said in this video. Thank you for sharing and showing us that it's okay not to be okay just don't dwell in it if it means feeling horrible.

  • @Typh211
    @Typh211 10 месяцев назад +4

    Girl, I bought your template and I love it! I’m deff using it to reinvent myself in these next 6 months. Just found your vids and I already love your content 😭✨💕

  • @sillies6969
    @sillies6969 9 месяцев назад +2

    GIRL, I tried to keep my pen down but I had a lot to learn from you! Thank you so much for sharing ur knowledge bc OML, I HAVE SUCH A GOOD FEELING ABOUT THIS YEAR!

  • @evakay8175
    @evakay8175 10 месяцев назад +4

    I feel exactly the same i feel i could be more confident and wear nicer clothes and i wanted to do all that but im stopping myself bz im insecure with my body and ive been training for years and besides my body i wanted to start content related to fashion but i cannot afford it i barely have any clothes and im working everyday to try and achieve that abandance to start that

    • @BahjaAbdi
      @BahjaAbdi  10 месяцев назад

      I think the second part of this video will be really helpful. I'm glad you've been able to acknowledge your insecurities because that's always the first step.
      You will get to where you want to be. Use the tools and the resources that are available to you now and continue moving towards that vision you hold for yourself. Believe you are worthy 🩷

  • @jnsvx
    @jnsvx 9 месяцев назад +2

    You answered all the questions I asked myself and how to actually solve them. This is so useful and changed my mindset so much, thank you ❤❤

  • @taliamohammed2532
    @taliamohammed2532 8 месяцев назад +1

    ''Everything that you desired, will start to chase you"' By BAHJA ABDI.

  • @SiniahsAura
    @SiniahsAura 9 месяцев назад +5

    So relatable, I went through the same thing 3 years ago. The self love journey will never end. I just put out a video talking about my self love journal that I’m pre-dropping on Jan 5th. I’m glad that we’re starting to have these types of conversations and addressing real problems. DROP THEM GEMS GIRL❕

  • @SoMelaninSiMya
    @SoMelaninSiMya 10 месяцев назад +3

    This was a great video and your energy is so beautiful!

  • @user-ni1fq2sp9g
    @user-ni1fq2sp9g 10 месяцев назад +1

    سبحان الله وبحمده سبحان الله العظيم ❤

  • @RodalynFrancisco-z3f
    @RodalynFrancisco-z3f 8 месяцев назад +1

    This is an amazing video. Great ideas and thought. Thank you ❤
    "Authenticity is the highest level of vibration".

  • @Hajrah_f
    @Hajrah_f 9 месяцев назад +1

    Ooh can we have a journalling video???? I love journalling and I've been doing it for almost 4 years now ! It's so calming :))

  • @brittni3669
    @brittni3669 9 месяцев назад +1

    I found this with 111k views and 222 comments. And I’m grateful to have found such a gem.

  • @niecydaniels7591
    @niecydaniels7591 10 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you so much! This video was soooo helpful & made so much sense, like woah. You're literally an angel for this. Also, you're very very beautiful and well put together.😍

  • @nemarquesaid
    @nemarquesaid 10 месяцев назад +2

    ASA 💕 I love your video! Its exactly what I needed to hear. I would love a video about your favorite journaling prompts and also more about feminine traits because I think I've be more extreme with my masculine traits and am trying to find that balance. Thank you for such a great video! 🤍

  • @madihafarouk-o2o
    @madihafarouk-o2o 10 месяцев назад +2

    yes please girl we need a journal video thankss🥰😘😘

  • @mlfitness67
    @mlfitness67 10 месяцев назад +1

    I just started serious reinventing journey of myself

  • @Alkhamis983
    @Alkhamis983 10 месяцев назад +4

    You appeared in my timeline and I am sure that isn’t a coincidence. Loving your vibes!

    • @BahjaAbdi
      @BahjaAbdi  10 месяцев назад +1

      I don't believe in coincidences 🥹🩷

  • @sethmiller6847
    @sethmiller6847 9 месяцев назад +2

    Your wisdom and message was carried out so elequently, it spoke to my soul. Thank you for this :)

  • @whome4851
    @whome4851 4 месяца назад +1

    This is exactly the stage of my life i am.

  • @SheriDiary
    @SheriDiary 8 месяцев назад

    Your videos are super motivating!! I’ve even started my own channel!! Alhamdulilah ❤

  • @menaa22
    @menaa22 10 месяцев назад +3

    Bahja can you make a video on how to get rid of all the built up rage, and negative emotions within someone so they can move on and grow?

    • @BahjaAbdi
      @BahjaAbdi  10 месяцев назад +1

      I'a YESS!

    • @menaa22
      @menaa22 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@BahjaAbdi InshaAllah, can’t wait!!!!

  • @kylienychole7678
    @kylienychole7678 9 месяцев назад +2

    This video is great. You are an amazing coach! I'm a life coach as well but have been off my game. This inspired me to take some steps to get back to it ❤

  • @ghadasaidani6111
    @ghadasaidani6111 10 месяцев назад +1

    Sister I just discovered your channel. Wow jazaki Allah khayran for this video ❤ very much needed 😊

  • @FaisaSheikh
    @FaisaSheikh 10 месяцев назад +1

    Bahja, your description has little mistakes in case you didnt notice!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @candycat73100
    @candycat73100 10 месяцев назад +2

    can you do a hijab tutorial?

  • @Ladi3eUnique
    @Ladi3eUnique 9 месяцев назад +2

    stepping into your truest self, is the finest, the most rarest thing ever. step into your truth!!!!

  • @spacey_ace_kid7504
    @spacey_ace_kid7504 9 месяцев назад

    Hi Bahja, do you by any chance have an order in which we should watch these "December challenge" videos? If you do, it wouldd be helpful to put indicators like "part 1", "part 2" or something I the titles. That's all from me, love your work!

  • @patlah43
    @patlah43 6 месяцев назад

    You are adorned so beautifully!! Would you please be willing to share where the top is from and other recommendations for clothing and jewelry? Thank you so much in advance, I'm absolutely inspired by you !

  • @NayaJeevan007
    @NayaJeevan007 9 месяцев назад +1

    You are a master. You employ so much psychology in your videos. Appealing to the senses to get your message across. Bravo, Bravo 👏

  • @HealthZo
    @HealthZo 9 месяцев назад

    0:10 ❤🎉🌟🌟🌟😁 facts Queen facts on that dude in video. I listen that interview bob deep knowledge 1:08

  • @SaraStrandberg-ko7pr
    @SaraStrandberg-ko7pr 9 месяцев назад

    amazing video ♥♥ Just wanted tap in and say that rumis quote "what you are seeking is also seeking you" is kind of translated incorrectly, as he kind of actually says "you are what you seek". Which could mean that what you are seeking has already found you, what you are seeking is already you!♥ And Everything you are longing to become has already become you🥰♥ Thats my interpretation but I could be wrong, but I find that beautiful anyways

  • @InfoWhores
    @InfoWhores 10 месяцев назад +1

    We gonna need a makeup tutorial from you girl, so stunning!

  • @blueblingnails
    @blueblingnails 9 дней назад

    I love listening to you, I been practicing this all my life and I always thought I was different because not a lot of my friends/family understood this journey but in the last 3 years I focused on myself and I have to say my life has changed for the better ❤ thank you for explaining things out!! It helped guide me this year! I’m glad I found your content

  • @f.a.529
    @f.a.529 5 месяцев назад

    I am in my observation phase. I am still figuring what triggers me and bc I read many psychology books I actually can understand my behaviour and all the trauma behind it. So, long story short I am very angry at my stepmother. So much goes wrong in this family and its mostly bc of her. I find myself diving in thoughts about how much I hate what she does to us and everything. It just distracts me from my own life. I cannot express my anger to her nor talk to anyone about it bc no one understands. And talking did not help me at all I wrote about it, I tried talking to my sis, my friend and to myself most of the time but it does not help (which starts to bother me, bc im giving her so much power over me which I don't want) I actually don't know what to do anymore. Like I'm stuck and I'm not finding a way out..

  • @faiza3089
    @faiza3089 9 месяцев назад

    I am new here and GURLLLLLLL you are one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen . That skin, teeth, eyes, lips, energy, and everything about u is gorgeous

  • @elysiumalien
    @elysiumalien 9 месяцев назад +1

    You are so incredible to speak on these things and so well. Also, you’re beautiful as a whole being!

  • @amani510
    @amani510 9 месяцев назад +1

    Wisdom is a gift. She so wiser and mature than a lot of 30 and 40 year olds.

  • @zinebabdullah1148
    @zinebabdullah1148 9 месяцев назад

    Please do a video about journaling ❤ I’ve always tried to start journaling! But never really stuck with it! I don’t know where to start…

  • @raxmacail
    @raxmacail 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much first when I saw this video it really trigger me
    And for weeks it kept showing up in my feed
    One night I just click Omy god the story about the body image issues really hit hard
    Thank you

  • @ezgiyalcnkaya1667
    @ezgiyalcnkaya1667 4 месяца назад

    You literally change a lot of perspective for me. I am glad that I found your channel. Thank you for your time.

  • @fatimahshd7012
    @fatimahshd7012 9 месяцев назад

    Please make a video on journaling and I enjoyed this video, it really thought me alot about embracing myself and insecurities.

  • @Diaryof.DenDen
    @Diaryof.DenDen 9 месяцев назад +1

    This video is truly amazing and well put together and very helpful such a blessing❤👏🏾🎉

  • @christophermosby5911
    @christophermosby5911 9 месяцев назад

    What religion or spiritual practices do u choose? Im captivated by the beautiful hijab.

  • @Nailedbymiaa
    @Nailedbymiaa 9 месяцев назад +1

    Well, I landed here today obviously because it’s where I needed to be your words are very uplifting and powerful. I immediately became subscriber. I am definitely in need of reinventing myself.

  • @sharigetzfit6042
    @sharigetzfit6042 9 месяцев назад +1

    Great video. Applying this to my new goals in 2024.

  • @mprice11085
    @mprice11085 9 месяцев назад

    It’s funny when you were saying all that I’m like dang this sounds like me I hate taking whole body pictures because I feel like I look fat I started back working g out three weeks ago so hopefully I can change this and be free love your channel so beautiful and just a lady ❤

  • @leonip665
    @leonip665 8 месяцев назад

    such an amazing video. may I ask where you got your hijab and crochet sweater?

  • @sharigetzfit6042
    @sharigetzfit6042 9 месяцев назад

    Now i have to watch more of your videos. Thamls for sharing your knowledge.

  • @ctw2075
    @ctw2075 9 месяцев назад

    hold on, lemme subscribe cuz you’re SPITTIN

  • @novaskyye1679
    @novaskyye1679 9 месяцев назад +1

    You spoke to my soul you got a new subscriber ❤❤❤❤. I have a lot of work to do on myself and you just gave me the blueprint, thank you so much for sharing.

  • @kadriyebuyuk5583
    @kadriyebuyuk5583 9 месяцев назад +1

    First of all you are so beautiful I had to say that and second thank you so much for this video. I really needed to hear this. I just turned 30 and I’m figuring out how to reinvent myself and actually achieving all of my goals. I’m looking forward to doing everything I took notes of off of this video ❤

  • @gulzar9491
    @gulzar9491 9 месяцев назад

    Hi, thanks a lot, a true inspiration❤
    Do you have a podcast on spotify? If not, you should create it🎉

  • @user-zp1qz2gh5v
    @user-zp1qz2gh5v 9 месяцев назад

    Do u have makeup tips videos for your natural look! I love the videos can't wait till the next❤

  • @lizzology_101
    @lizzology_101 5 месяцев назад

    I recently reverted and everything seemed to be going good then emotions that I suppressed came to a head and I lashed out. Really took a hard look at myself and reached out to a therapist. But I think imma incorporate journal too

  • @thiedelle
    @thiedelle 10 месяцев назад +2

    Bahja your videos are always so informative and always leave me with a new perspective mA i love your content, continue to grow and glow

    • @BahjaAbdi
      @BahjaAbdi  10 месяцев назад

      AHHH! I love you so much, thank you for the kind words.

  • @JamilaMagoola
    @JamilaMagoola 4 месяца назад

    Asalam aleykum warahmatullahi my beloved sister this is more than Gold may Allah grant you Janna. ❤

  • @wairimumary7418
    @wairimumary7418 9 месяцев назад +1

    this video is what I have been praying for❤❤❤❤💯

  • @FK-zp2fp
    @FK-zp2fp 10 месяцев назад +2

    How can I be more positive, grateful and loving? I feel like I’m not loving towards people or myself with sincerity. I feel that I am such a tough person (not by choice) that I don’t give myself the space to be positive or loving to myself. Hence I am at a standstill in my life and being able to attract what I want.

    • @aviagrierson
      @aviagrierson 10 месяцев назад +2

      I love that you are so honest with yourself, that’s such a positive start, I would encourage to choose one part of your life to work on example, being a grateful person, ask yourself why that’s important, that does being grateful would look like to you, then write down 10 things you are grateful for daily, and also do an act of gratitude every week. Let me know if you would like some sisterly support from me ❤

    • @FK-zp2fp
      @FK-zp2fp 10 месяцев назад

      @@aviagrierson I guess It’s important for me to be brutally honest with myself so that I can work on my flaws. Thank you for your kind words and encouragement. I really appreciate it. ❣️ I will definitely reflect on your advice and then see where I can implement things that I’m not already. I really like the act of gratitude every week that is something I can see myself benefiting from God Willing. 🫶🏽❤️❤️

    • @BahjaAbdi
      @BahjaAbdi  9 месяцев назад +2

      I love this response 🩷

  • @afro-mentorshipinitiative8892
    @afro-mentorshipinitiative8892 9 месяцев назад +1

    Goodness you’re the first Afro-RUclipsr that I’ve watched who makes so much sense… the theory you use and the evidence to support your research. Thank you for the work you do to prepare for your videos. It’s very clear

  • @vaniellenibourette3441
    @vaniellenibourette3441 2 месяца назад

    Alhamdulillah im planning on writing this whole video in my notebook im here overthinking (in a good way) while listening to what you are saying

  • @mamamia4886
    @mamamia4886 9 месяцев назад +1

    Hi! First video of yours I’m watching and I subsribed! I’m a student psychology and what you’re saying is 100% facts. In terms of psychology we tend to call our beliefs and the way we think ‘networks’. The way you look at the world literally depends on these schemes and networks that you have built throughout your life. With each event, we unconsciously go back to our network of thinking and that’s how we keep opinions about ourselves (that could be very false) alive. It is indeed very important to reflect on yourself and why you think the way you do, why you react the way you do, etc. At some point if you want to work on your insecurities you need to start fighting these negative networks with positive ones. Have grace on yourself, don’t think you stupid cuz you did something wrong, because would you call someone else stupid? Probably not. Lend grace to yourself and watch yourself bloom!!
    I absolutely loved the video and it was very needed. Thank you and may God bless you.

    • @BahjaAbdi
      @BahjaAbdi  9 месяцев назад +1

      I LOVE THIS SO MUCH! Thank you for leaving this comment 🫶🏾

  • @youaresoprettysis
    @youaresoprettysis 9 месяцев назад +1

    I am so grateful that I stumbled on this video. You have opened a whole new world for me. Thank you.

  • @4577K
    @4577K 10 месяцев назад +2

    Allahumma Barik laha🥰
    She is a gem 💎💙

  • @hannahathaliahjames5569
    @hannahathaliahjames5569 9 месяцев назад

    This is very helpful asi begin my self awareness journey this year, any on journaling pls?

  • @angel.l3447
    @angel.l3447 9 месяцев назад +1

    This video is Definitely Gold thank you for sharing your time and your lovely soul with us all.💞

  • @nikitaqongo1075
    @nikitaqongo1075 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you, thank you for creating content that truly represents the struggles that individuals go through including myself. I found the answers I was looking for and for that I'm grateful.

  • @DemiAster21
    @DemiAster21 10 месяцев назад +2

    I wanna make music, it’s genuinely my passion I am afraid of the spotlight but I know deep down in my heart and my soul is that I wanna make music and I’m definitely starting next year

    • @softestsoftmatter
      @softestsoftmatter 9 месяцев назад +1

      I feel you on this ♥︎ I want to sing and make music. I don’t care about fame or money I just want to make art in music form 🙏🏼

    • @DemiAster21
      @DemiAster21 9 месяцев назад

      @@softestsoftmatterexactly how I feel you should do it ! Do what yo heart desire I learned that recently 🥰

  • @etharn1581
    @etharn1581 4 месяца назад

    I always get back to this video whenever i feel lost and each time it sinks in more, gold indeed ✨

  • @dekabarre5653
    @dekabarre5653 10 месяцев назад +1

    You make me want to do better. I’m so glad I came across your RUclips channel… thank you so much!!!❤️

  • @sani215
    @sani215 9 месяцев назад +1

    Wow what an amazing gem, thanks for sharing these jewels with us. It was so needed and refreshing to hear this message today.