Instead of “I am pretty” try “Alhamdulillah, Allah has blessed me with so much beauty.” It places spirituality (gratitude, humility, etc.) into the affirmation… Allah loves beauty. ❤
I was off RUclips for a while and I randomly saw Bahjas channel and since that day I promised myself I would change and do it the right way. Her content has been a huge inspiration and seeing her overcome the challenges I’m facing has motivated me.
I don't know how to express the emotions I'm feeling right now, but this comment brings both joy and a deep sense of gratitude. I hope I can be the support for others that I wished I had when facing uncertainty and challenges. Seeing this comment today... I could cry! I love you all so much and I'm rooting for you 🤍
Your complexion is gorgeous!! Black and brown skin tones have always been beautiful and anyone who says otherwise is simply intimidated by anyone else being considered attractive (and racist).
This is so important to me right now because I feel like not feeling ugly anymore is a huge step to acknowledging my worth and build stronger self esteem ! I'm so glad I found your channel! Literally! May Allah bless you!!
Love this video, could you share with us your gut health journey. I related when you mentioned the skin transformation by just fixing your gut health. Would love to know more about it in a separate video ❤️❤️🥰
literally a big sis. i feel so connected to you as a somali girl myself! i watched the full video but i’m going to go to a cafe now (mon 1st jan) and plan my year and who i want to be. i’m excited and i am so thankful for you ! :)
You guys make sure to watch her video! I cant not explain in words how much detail and how much motivation her videos and channel give me :> This are just notes for after, since I couldn’t find any physical notes this time NUMBER ONE SET YOUR STANDARDS Move your body everyday - 10 000 steps - training Eat with a diet that will last you for years - get some blood work done - gut health - probiotic food, fermented food, cinnamon, tea - good nutrient dense foods (green food) - set intentions for food in the week and the month - the ultra mind solution book - having your vegetables before any meal and having protein - gloves Vitamins - go to the doctor and make sure to check -(lions mane?) - supplements Hygiene - have a hygiene routine - nails, your ears, your legs, your - Oral hygiene, brush and floss everyday, tongue scraping - wet wipes, bidet - change your pad and tampons - CLEAN YOUR HOME, you smell like your home - a hygiene bag - have higher standard AND expectations for yourself - exfoliating sponge - bar soap, then body wash, hit em with and oil, lush body butter, body mist, perfume - pajama set Its not about looking pretty its a about feeling like yourself and feminine Your environment - make sure your home feels like home Lifestyle - routines are everything, routines are life Your swag - have what makes you, you have your own personal style and stay true to yourself and what makes sense to you
im not gonna lie, i watch many videos like this one. with people offering advice and all that. what i love about your video though, is how you go into detail about the solutions we can take to make a difference. thank you a lot girl !
Notes I took to stay focused during this gem of a video: Being Pretty is a Choice ! Embody the idea that you are beautiful Fully believe it to your core This will build proof that you are pretty :-) Chose differently, forgiving yourself for your past bad choices Set Standards What can I accept about myself? What can I change about myself? What does the best version of you look like? Make a detailed list about what you want to change Be real and raw with yourself here ! Body and Health: Go to the doctor and get testing done Move your body every. single. day. (10k steps a day!) Resistance training or pilates a couple times a week SLEEP! This is such an important foundation. Diet and Gut Health: Priorities the right foods: yogurts, fermented foods, cinnamon, tea + matcha Less processed foods and more complete, whole foods Balance is okay, but keep treats to evenings out and enjoyment with others. Educate yourself on how foods affect your body ! Is your plan sustainable? Eat your fruits and veggies before anything else Supplements: Probiotics, Omega 3 fish oil, vitamin D3 & K2, B12, B6, Magnesium, Lion’s Mane Cycle Syncing: Work WITH your body instead of AGAINST it bestie ! Understand the different phases, use it to plan your meals and workouts Take it easy when you’re on your period Hygiene: Shower properly every single day Clean under your nails, between your toes, behind your ears, etc. Floss and scrape your tongue! Change your diet to grow strong nails Keep your space clean and hygienic; clean a little bit every day not just once a week Skin & Body Care: Take care of your diet and your body will thank you Keep your routine very simple and clean Double cleanse when taking off makeup Remember taking care of your external appearance will increase self love & confidence Exfoliate your body and invest in a nice body butter (I personally LOVE Josie Maran Argan Oil body butter) Get a cute matching pajama set
أبهجتيني يا بهجة ❤️ شكرا لحديثك المحفّز، كان عنوان مثير للإهتمام و كان يستحق الإستماع، شكرا لمشاركتنا حديثك الشيّق، استمتعت كثيراً به، لقد أصبت بمرض مؤخراً و أشعر بأن أولوياتي مكتوبة بدون فعل لا سيما الصحة، هذه السنة أنوي بأن ألتزم بالذهاب للنادي أكثر بإذن الله .
Thank you! Speaking of the every month focus on something different, I wanted to share how I've started structuring my years in case that helps others and if anyone has anything they do, I'd love to hear! I break down the year into quarters and then have individual monthly focuses within each quarter. I have a notion database to track and review and set goals based on this. Very much a work in-progress I fine-tune a bit more each year. Q1: Health January | Physical February | Nutrition March | Mental Q2: Wealth April | Finances May | Career June | Creativity & Spontaneity Q3: Heart July | Spirituality August | Cleansing September | Grounding Q4: Hearth October | Relationships November | Gratitude & Abundance December | Home
Good morning Bahja, I have been watching your videos for a couple of weeks now. You are very empowering and inspiring. I was assaulted last Monday in broad daylight. I got out, free. He didn’t hurt me that much but left a bunch of bruises on my arms. My life is changed forever now. With that being said, as I continue to watch your videos, I am going to start a channel to empower other women. Your videos have helped me tremendously, especially, during this time. I love you. Hayley
Girl you nailed it ! I’m so pround of you ! It’s the perfect realist guide to how to be THAT woman ! It ´s gonna help me so much tjank u to motivates women to always be the kinf of girl WHO TAKE THE TIME to take care of all of them self. That’s what makes the difference
Love this video, at the end of the day, everything you do is a choice. You choose if you want to work out, you choose if you want to eat intentionally, you choose to take care of yourself. Great reminder!!
Girlyy Thank u SO much for what you do for us, I love all of your videos 💞 Could u make a video about how to put together outfits, choosing items etc? I love your style and I like how you still stay modest and follow the islamic guidelines regarding how to dress 💗
Bahja wlhi waxa maleysa ilahay in uu aniga ii ka so diray i was feeling down today and then i saw your video its all i needed to hear Allahuma bariik abayo❤ jazakaAllahu kheir
I rlly wanna see a vision board tut if u can btw luv ur vids u motivated me to get closer to Allah ever since I started watching u couldn’t stop love ur work ❤
Discovered your channels a few days ago and I find your videos so helpful to motivate myself to be better. After watching this I feel inspired to do more about myself and change my mentality! Thank you so much
Thank you so much Bahja for all your videos ❤ I learnt alot and i never leave without gaining anything i am thankful to Allah SWT for making me find your podcast now your channel. Just continue to be YOU Because you're the real DEAL!!
This was such a great and informative video. Also my first time watching one of her videos . Thoroughly enjoyed it and plan to implement some changes to my routine ❤, thank you for this. I’ll have to watch again!
I also found out I had hpylori in 2023, I am still battling with it in 2024 it’s been 6 months. I also ended up catching c.diff another bacteria while battling hpylori, inshallah I get my antibiotics for h pylori soon. I am ready to elevate.
Bahja omg, I went to bed last night manifesting guidance on this exact topic and look what I came across today. This was just what I needed so thank you
@@BahjaAbdi i love you moreee, im finishing up watching this vid from earlier and your gonna make me cry ahhhh , you r such an insipiration bahja and you speak on the topics most 'influencers' don't touch on.
Hey Wueen! Yesss all of this gold you’re giving Thank you. Trying to join the Geneva group but just takes me to app. Any direct link or group name to search?
Bahja! JazakAllah for awesome advice!! Share some awesome healthy related recipes :) I will for sure try them more. Matcha girl how do you make it because I tried it 1x with regular milk - it was something ;D, ( I know some take it with coconut milk to make it more delicious) I totally get it now. Also Skinfix!! I Love Skinfix I have use their under eye cream to get more hydration in under eyes before applying makeup game changer! Those are superb supplements I have them too totally worth it! For maintaining a good cycle I highly recommend Seed Cycling- Game Changer!!!!
Instead of “I am pretty” try “Alhamdulillah, Allah has blessed me with so much beauty.” It places spirituality (gratitude, humility, etc.) into the affirmation… Allah loves beauty. ❤
I LOVE this!!!
I was off RUclips for a while and I randomly saw Bahjas channel and since that day I promised myself I would change and do it the right way. Her content has been a huge inspiration and seeing her overcome the challenges I’m facing has motivated me.
I don't know how to express the emotions I'm feeling right now, but this comment brings both joy and a deep sense of gratitude. I hope I can be the support for others that I wished I had when facing uncertainty and challenges. Seeing this comment today... I could cry! I love you all so much and I'm rooting for you 🤍
Honestly !!!! I second this
I’m collecting feel good RUclipsrs like infinity stones so I always have some uplifting content to watch in the new year as I transform my life.
Can you tell me any names you’ve found? I’m also looking for some inspo content
@@user-cz2tr9ge5hI watch Hailey Gamba,she’s a good one~
INFINITY STONES HAS ME DEAD 😭 ily girl 🫶🏾
Lmaoo relatable 😭😭 sometimes I’d look at myself in pictures and even at the mirror and think “ I’m not even ugly ,what’s wrong with me??”💀💀
Your complexion is gorgeous!! Black and brown skin tones have always been beautiful and anyone who says otherwise is simply intimidated by anyone else being considered attractive (and racist).
This is so important to me right now because I feel like not feeling ugly anymore is a huge step to acknowledging my worth and build stronger self esteem ! I'm so glad I found your channel! Literally! May Allah bless you!!
Thank you for this video🫶🏻 May Allah keep you blessed and steadfast in your life journey🤍
Love this video, could you share with us your gut health journey. I related when you mentioned the skin transformation by just fixing your gut health. Would love to know more about it in a separate video ❤️❤️🥰
literally a big sis. i feel so connected to you as a somali girl myself! i watched the full video but i’m going to go to a cafe now (mon 1st jan) and plan my year and who i want to be. i’m excited and i am so thankful for you ! :)
You guys make sure to watch her video! I cant not explain in words how much detail and how much motivation her videos and channel give me :>
This are just notes for after, since I couldn’t find any physical notes this time
NUMBER ONE SET YOUR STANDARDS
Move your body everyday
- 10 000 steps
- training
Eat with a diet that will last you for years
- get some blood work done
- gut health
- probiotic food, fermented food, cinnamon, tea
- good nutrient dense foods (green food)
- set intentions for food in the week and the month
- the ultra mind solution book
- having your vegetables before any meal and having protein
- gloves
Vitamins
- go to the doctor and make sure to check
-(lions mane?)
- supplements
Hygiene
- have a hygiene routine
- nails, your ears, your legs, your
- Oral hygiene, brush and floss everyday, tongue scraping
- wet wipes, bidet
- change your pad and tampons
- CLEAN YOUR HOME, you smell like your home
- a hygiene bag
- have higher standard AND expectations for yourself
- exfoliating sponge
- bar soap, then body wash, hit em with and oil, lush body butter, body mist, perfume
- pajama set
Its not about looking pretty its a about feeling like yourself and feminine
Your environment
- make sure your home feels like home
Lifestyle
- routines are everything, routines are life
Your swag
- have what makes you, you have your own personal style and stay true to yourself and what makes sense to you
Thank you..❤
❤❤❤❤
Oh Thank you! Always a great reminder in case we cannot watch the video sometimes !
Thanks!❤
This girl is a blessing in our lives girlllsssss
im not gonna lie, i watch many videos like this one. with people offering advice and all that. what i love about your video though, is how you go into detail about the solutions we can take to make a difference. thank you a lot girl !
Notes I took to stay focused during this gem of a video:
Being Pretty is a Choice !
Embody the idea that you are beautiful
Fully believe it to your core
This will build proof that you are pretty :-)
Chose differently, forgiving yourself for your past bad choices
Set Standards
What can I accept about myself?
What can I change about myself?
What does the best version of you look like?
Make a detailed list about what you want to change
Be real and raw with yourself here !
Body and Health:
Go to the doctor and get testing done
Move your body every. single. day. (10k steps a day!)
Resistance training or pilates a couple times a week
SLEEP! This is such an important foundation.
Diet and Gut Health:
Priorities the right foods: yogurts, fermented foods, cinnamon, tea + matcha
Less processed foods and more complete, whole foods
Balance is okay, but keep treats to evenings out and enjoyment with others.
Educate yourself on how foods affect your body !
Is your plan sustainable?
Eat your fruits and veggies before anything else
Supplements:
Probiotics, Omega 3 fish oil, vitamin D3 & K2, B12, B6, Magnesium, Lion’s Mane
Cycle Syncing:
Work WITH your body instead of AGAINST it bestie !
Understand the different phases, use it to plan your meals and workouts
Take it easy when you’re on your period
Hygiene:
Shower properly every single day
Clean under your nails, between your toes, behind your ears, etc.
Floss and scrape your tongue!
Change your diet to grow strong nails
Keep your space clean and hygienic; clean a little bit every day not just once a week
Skin & Body Care:
Take care of your diet and your body will thank you
Keep your routine very simple and clean
Double cleanse when taking off makeup
Remember taking care of your external appearance will increase self love & confidence
Exfoliate your body and invest in a nice body butter (I personally LOVE Josie Maran Argan Oil body butter)
Get a cute matching pajama set
Bless u!
How I’m only finding you now 😭😭 girl your videos are amazing thank you so much !!!
Queen bahja knows what we need
I hope your day goes well beautiful thank you sm for your content It’s sooo helpful!!
I love you so much!! It makes me so happy 🥹
The bebst glow up video I've ever seen. Thank you, I needed that.
What I love most about you is YOU PRACTICE WHAT YOU PREACH! thank you for being so real with us, it makes me feel safe in my own journey 🥹🩷🩷
أبهجتيني يا بهجة ❤️ شكرا لحديثك المحفّز، كان عنوان مثير للإهتمام و كان يستحق الإستماع، شكرا لمشاركتنا حديثك الشيّق، استمتعت كثيراً به، لقد أصبت بمرض مؤخراً و أشعر بأن أولوياتي مكتوبة بدون فعل لا سيما الصحة، هذه السنة أنوي بأن ألتزم بالذهاب للنادي أكثر بإذن الله .
may Allah reward ; when i say you are littearly my inspiration i am not joking . Your content is litteraly changing my life💗💗💗
Ameen 🥹 this makes me the happiest person in the world, thank you 🫶🏾🫶🏾
Thank you! Speaking of the every month focus on something different, I wanted to share how I've started structuring my years in case that helps others and if anyone has anything they do, I'd love to hear!
I break down the year into quarters and then have individual monthly focuses within each quarter. I have a notion database to track and review and set goals based on this. Very much a work in-progress I fine-tune a bit more each year.
Q1: Health
January | Physical
February | Nutrition
March | Mental
Q2: Wealth
April | Finances
May | Career
June | Creativity & Spontaneity
Q3: Heart
July | Spirituality
August | Cleansing
September | Grounding
Q4: Hearth
October | Relationships
November | Gratitude & Abundance
December | Home
thank you so much for this!
Good morning Bahja,
I have been watching your videos for a couple of weeks now. You are very empowering and inspiring.
I was assaulted last Monday in broad daylight. I got out, free. He didn’t hurt me that much but left a bunch of bruises on my arms. My life is changed forever now. With that being said, as I continue to watch your videos, I am going to start a channel to empower other women. Your videos have helped me tremendously, especially, during this time. I love you.
Hayley
I feel so blessed to have found this video.. Alhamdulillah🎉❤
I'm in love with all your videos Allahuma Barik. This video was much need to start off the year. Great tips Bahja thank you....❤
Girl you nailed it ! I’m so pround of you ! It’s the perfect realist guide to how to be THAT woman ! It ´s gonna help me so much tjank u to motivates women to always be the kinf of girl WHO TAKE THE TIME to take care of all of them self. That’s what makes the difference
Okayyyyy notion template I’m here for it. She’s a working girlll!!!
Sisstaaa I love the advice about choosing 1 month to make 1 change. May Allah make it easy
You think EXACTLY LIKE ME but you are doing it and I am doing nothing, I feel like I have slowly been improving but I need to get it together more ❤
I’m sososo glad I’ve found your page, I loved this video!, Looking forward to 2024 now 🎉 May Allah SWT grant you so much success xxx
The video of the year ❤❤❤ machallah allahuma barik ✨✨✨ would’ve needed that in January 2023🙈🙈🙈
You go girl!!! She knows her stuff, that’s for sure! 😉
😭🤍
This video was so helpful, i was taking notes throughout. I promise to push myself. Thank youuu bahjaa may Allah bless you💗
Thank u sooo much, you are like an older sister 🥹🤍🫶🏻
form the river to the sea PALESTINE will be free 🇵🇸❤️🩹
From the rivers to the sea Palestine will be freeeeee inshallah!!!!
I love you so much 🥹💕
Love this video, at the end of the day, everything you do is a choice. You choose if you want to work out, you choose if you want to eat intentionally, you choose to take care of yourself. Great reminder!!
Yess 🥹
omg, you helped me alot, thanks to youre videos, i love the way you style the hijab and youre style.
I become addicted to your podcasts. Keep it up❤🎉
Girlyy Thank u SO much for what you do for us, I love all of your videos 💞 Could u make a video about how to put together outfits, choosing items etc? I love your style and I like how you still stay modest and follow the islamic guidelines regarding how to dress 💗
Bahja wlhi waxa maleysa ilahay in uu aniga ii ka so diray i was feeling down today and then i saw your video its all i needed to hear Allahuma bariik abayo❤ jazakaAllahu kheir
MashAllah this is so powerful❣️
this is so helpful and beautiful
Whatever it is you're dealing with, may God help you through it. You'll be fine dear.. you're stronger than you think. Keep going! 🥰
@@surayaalidu5252 ameen , may you come out stonger and more content
I’ve been here since day one and ilysm this has been the most dense and informative vid ily 🫶🏽
ugh I love you so mucchhhh! thank you for the endless support you've shown me, it means the world! 🤍 s/o to my day onessss
What a classy qrxleey masha,alaaah ❤️
I rlly wanna see a vision board tut if u can btw luv ur vids u motivated me to get closer to Allah ever since I started watching u couldn’t stop love ur work ❤
I appreciate you taking the time to share this information. ❤
Discovered your channels a few days ago and I find your videos so helpful to motivate myself to be better. After watching this I feel inspired to do more about myself and change my mentality! Thank you so much
Thank you Bahja 💕
Allahuma Bariik walalo! Such a refreshing channel! Just subscribed ❤. Alhamdulilah.
so glad i found these vids! ur so wise mashallah
your background is so beautiful 💝💖
Thank you so much Bahja for all your videos ❤ I learnt alot and i never leave without gaining anything i am thankful to Allah SWT for making me find your podcast now your channel.
Just continue to be YOU
Because you're the real DEAL!!
Phenomenal video from a phenomenal lady once again. Thank you for your precious work, love from Finland walaalo macaanto💕💕
a very beautiful video Bahja thanks for it and keep going 76k subscribes congrats 😘😘😍🥰
This was such a great and informative video. Also my first time watching one of her videos . Thoroughly enjoyed it and plan to implement some changes to my routine ❤, thank you for this. I’ll have to watch again!
You look beautiful! Awesome outfit too. 😚
This is the video I needed 😍😍😍😍 definitely the best motivational person I ever came across ❤
Love your content, thank you girlie and happy holidays 💕
I love how detailed this video is.. thanks for the tips👍😍😍
I love your videos so much, they are so inspirational 🥰🥰❤️
You are so pretty and i love your videos they give me so much motivaton
I am hooked to your channel. Thank you!
So happy I found your channel :) This was great
happy to have you here 🤍🤍
I love your honesty ❤
So happy I have run into your channel and thank you. ❤️new sub!
Me the entire time 📝📝📝📝📝! Love ya bahja🫶🏾🫶🏾
Djazakallahu hayran❤
Great video! Can you do a video on H pylori, how you coped with treatment and how things have improved since
Amazing big sister advice. thank you for sharing 🧡
Jesus died and rose again for your sins. Believe in him and you will be saved and go to heaven!
Can you do a makeup tutorial? Your makeup looks amazing 🙌🏾
Masha allah uhtil azeeez❤
Wake up the queen posted 🗣️🗣️
GETT UPPPP 😭😭 I love you
Loved loved loved this video ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
I just found your content and I love it! Thanks for sharing ❤
All my problems with their solutions which i really really know will solve all in one video thank you sis ❤
Love this video! Perfect timing 😍
I LOVE THAT
Happy New Year Bahja:)
bahja ur the best i love u!
I love you moreee
I love your videos so much. You're stunning! Allahumma barik.
Love your content ❤, the beautiful blue scarf that was on the click bait where did you get it from?
35:44 “If you’re a Muslim girlie do not compromise your prayers” 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Bahjaaa!!! Can you please link ALL your lights and equipment!! 🥰🥰
needed this video tbh
Can you please do a video on how to properly change your diet and the importance of gut health?
best vidéo I ever seen
I also found out I had hpylori in 2023, I am still battling with it in 2024 it’s been 6 months. I also ended up catching c.diff another bacteria while battling hpylori, inshallah I get my antibiotics for h pylori soon. I am ready to elevate.
Were you in Turkey ,I am Turkish always welcomed in here dear 💖
I’m new here on your RUclips channel ❤i really want to learn from you 🎉
Bahja omg, I went to bed last night manifesting guidance on this exact topic and look what I came across today. This was just what I needed so thank you
Literally prettiest girl I’ve seen in my life: genuinely 🫡
cant wait to watch this !!
I love YOUUUU
@@BahjaAbdi i love you moreee, im finishing up watching this vid from earlier and your gonna make me cry ahhhh , you r such an insipiration bahja and you speak on the topics most 'influencers' don't touch on.
Also have you SEEEEEEN us black women??? We are beautiful and abundant and so wonderful regardless of our skin
Yess!! What a blessing, I love us so much 😩🫶🏾
Everyone is beautiful in their own way that is why everyone is different
Thanks for sharing ❤
I hope this video would change me Incholah
love you baee
Love you MORE 🥹🫶🏾🫶🏾
Thank u sis jazakallah 🥰❤️
Thank you ❤
Hey Wueen! Yesss all of this gold you’re giving Thank you. Trying to join the Geneva group but just takes me to app. Any direct link or group name to search?
@bahjaAbdi
Tysm my siz❤
I love this!!! What’s your camera setup?
Bahja! JazakAllah for awesome advice!! Share some awesome healthy related recipes :) I will for sure try them more. Matcha girl how do you make it because I tried it 1x with regular milk - it was something ;D, ( I know some take it with coconut milk to make it more delicious) I totally get it now. Also Skinfix!! I Love Skinfix I have use their under eye cream to get more hydration in under eyes before applying makeup game changer! Those are superb supplements I have them too totally worth it! For maintaining a good cycle I highly recommend Seed Cycling- Game Changer!!!!
ily