How to Embrace Confidence & Not Care What Others Think of You - 4 Non-negotiable Habits

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  • Опубликовано: 24 дек 2024

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  • @israb990
    @israb990 Год назад +74

    I love how you rise above the bs and never dignify these jobless trolls with a response. You're so young yet so mature and wise! May Allah swt continue showering His blessings upon you ameen

    • @BahjaAbdi
      @BahjaAbdi  Год назад +6

      Allahumma ameen. Thank you so much for the kind words 🩷

  • @Itsaniiika
    @Itsaniiika Год назад +54

    Honestly, I judge myself the most for wanting to be confident and better. You have no idea how badly I needed this Bahja. Thank you soooo much for your words ❤

    • @BahjaAbdi
      @BahjaAbdi  Год назад +9

      I feel you heavyyy! It's so easy to be your biggest critic but that comes from a place of protection. Go easy on yourself, I love you!

  • @Aj.8__
    @Aj.8__ 11 месяцев назад +10

    This is the third video I’ve watched after discovering your channel and all I can say is thank you. I’ve been struggling with my own identity after years of depression and self-isolation, I learned a lot about myself and began to love and cherish who I was; until, it came towards family. After learned from that long lesson lol I’m finally able to step out and up towards the people that tried to put me down. I’m fine with being alone even when I know they are forcibly trying to isolate me. It won’t dim my light and even when things are hard I do have to hold myself accountable. I wanna grow and become a better version of myself❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @BahjaAbdi
      @BahjaAbdi  11 месяцев назад +4

      I truley love you for the sake of god. And idk you hit reading this really touched my heart, I'm so proud of you and I'm rooting for you heavy. I wish you the best and I hope I could be of support to you 🥺🤍

  • @Inaa-d2e
    @Inaa-d2e 5 месяцев назад +2

    I’ve always been afraid to be confident most of my life unintentionally I can be the most confident person it’s so weird I hate to stand out I hate to be known I hate to be the most important or smart person in the room it has effected my whole life I always live in bts of every other persons life being their support system it’s sad. now being a grown person it’s my biggest regret I pray everyday for confidence and free of anxiety and depression keep me in your duas. If only I treated myself the way I treat others life would be beautiful. Right now I have to be the greatest version of myself I am on a journey in sha allah thank you for your beautiful words. Bahja you are amazing love watching you thank you for all your advice your a star and your gonna be great inshallah x keep me in your duas if anyone reads this please x

  • @lailabarney
    @lailabarney Год назад +15

    LOVE this video, I felt so comfortable and really felt a connection. It’s so different hearing advice from someone who has been through things or is reaching toward the same things as you, I can see it so much in the video because it’s so honest! What your doing is beautiful thank you sm ❤

    • @Itsaniiika
      @Itsaniiika Год назад +2

      I agree! This video shines so bright and I can tell it came from the heart 🥺

    • @BahjaAbdi
      @BahjaAbdi  Год назад +3

      Awe, this is the sweetest comment ever! I'm sooo happy you were able to gain from this video! I luv you dearly 🩷 I'm rooting for you always!

  • @FA-qy7jd
    @FA-qy7jd Год назад +8

    bahja beauty is baaack, thanks abaayo for those wise words. Keep up the good work and dont let them haters get u.

    • @BahjaAbdi
      @BahjaAbdi  Год назад

      Neva evaaa!! I love you, thank you!

  • @Lisanna23
    @Lisanna23 Год назад +8

    This was kind of hard to hear without getting defensive at certain points but that just means it was exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you for that ❤

  • @blueblingnails
    @blueblingnails 10 месяцев назад +2

    I absolutely love listening to you!!

  • @Numba3nextdoor
    @Numba3nextdoor 4 месяца назад

    I come back and watch your videos over and over. You’re such an inspiration. Thank you for everything that you do💕

  • @reaganalafleur
    @reaganalafleur Год назад +3

    the way you look so good in this video is mind blowing😍😍

  • @NelGoddess
    @NelGoddess Год назад +1

    I just found your channel and I loveeee your videos! Thank you for making and posting these videos to help others. You are helping so many people including myself💓💓

  • @nehabanuGGNNMA25
    @nehabanuGGNNMA25 Год назад +2

    Hey assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakaatu ❤❤❤❤❤❤I lovveeee youuuuuu......am a nurse and I was going through a lot mental stress and lack of confidence, difficulty in learning and so many things,,,,am soo fortunate and happy that I found you lovely girl as my inspiration in my hard days,,u motivates me alot.....may Allah bless u moreeeeee❤❤❤❤

  • @letstalkaboutit878
    @letstalkaboutit878 Год назад

    YOU ARE THE PREATIEST THING I SAW TODAY, HONESTLY AMAZING

  • @LittleLlamaCrochet
    @LittleLlamaCrochet Год назад +1

    This was an incredible video. I appreciate the part about being your own coach and living by your values. Take care 🪷

  • @nadiamartinez06
    @nadiamartinez06 6 месяцев назад

    THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS VIDEO BARAK ALLAH FIK✨✨

  • @anesiaandrews214
    @anesiaandrews214 9 месяцев назад

    The haters are just projecting, if they really love you they'd love to see you grow.

  • @kaylasworld1084
    @kaylasworld1084 Год назад +2

    This video is amazing, so many key points and I love it! Definitely need to focus in on the different ways to change mindset

    • @BahjaAbdi
      @BahjaAbdi  Год назад

      I rooting for you Kayla! I'm so happy you found this video helpful 🩷

  • @JacquelineKrahn
    @JacquelineKrahn Год назад +1

    You are soooo damn beautiful ✨
    I own the same scarf, it’s so pretty 💫
    Confidence is tricky - people tell you that you can only be something when you’re perfect.. nah! We don’t do that 🙌🏼
    We lift each other up and celebrate each other for our growth 🔥

    • @BahjaAbdi
      @BahjaAbdi  Год назад

      Thank you so much Angel!! And yesss 🫶🏾

  • @EllieGirl93
    @EllieGirl93 Год назад

    Bahja, thank you for being my RUclips hype girl. 💕 Your videos have helped me reflect on the days, weeks, and months this year. This was the perfect video to watch in the lead up to 2024. 😊

  • @me_in_dxb
    @me_in_dxb Год назад

    Hey there bahja ❤ i wanna say loved the way you speak and girl ur confidence, thus just helped me know my worth and not give a f..k to what anyone says and thinks about me gonna slay from now InshaAllah

  • @jodecidall
    @jodecidall Год назад +1

    mahadsanid Bahja macaanto may Allah reward you for the work you doing!

  • @Sochima393
    @Sochima393 Год назад +1

    Bahja how do one stop acting like a victim 😢i really want to stop acting like a victim everytime
    Fr it’s driving me crazy 😢and thank you very much this really helped I will practice everything you have said

  • @sarahmuhammad9307
    @sarahmuhammad9307 Год назад

    You made self development sound so appealing. Your videos are so empowering. Thank you.❤

  • @tha1thaonlythatsme
    @tha1thaonlythatsme Год назад +2

    This video was phenomenal! Pls make another video on social media addiction! U have such a way with words!

    • @BahjaAbdi
      @BahjaAbdi  Год назад

      Ahh I'm so glad you enjoyed it! I got you, I'm adding that to my list of topics ✨🩷

  • @shavonnapowell5741
    @shavonnapowell5741 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you Bahja❤❤❤

  • @sarahb6758
    @sarahb6758 Год назад +1

    Haters are gonna hate while they eat popcorn and aging😂. Don't mind them, go do your thing girl! I'm so happy for you sis.👏👏👏👏 May Allah give you even more goodness in this life and the next. May he always protect you Ameen❤❤❤
    I'm so ready for new friends in shaa Allah. People who are happy for each other. Sisters who are happy or at least trying to find happiness and peace. ❤

  • @MyMoAl
    @MyMoAl Год назад +2

    allahuma barik ur GORGEOUS

  • @a.salami74
    @a.salami74 11 месяцев назад

    Amazing video, thanks !!

  • @Julia-9A
    @Julia-9A 3 месяца назад

    Love u girl ❤❤❤

  • @heathernelson1095
    @heathernelson1095 Год назад

    Bahja I love you fam

  • @LaurenKateRox
    @LaurenKateRox Год назад

    The biggest queen yes we love u

  • @feelinglikecinderella4062
    @feelinglikecinderella4062 Год назад +1

    I haven't watched the video but I'm sure I'm gonna love it. Gotta say - love the hijab!!! ❤❤❤

  • @charlynnwilliams3778
    @charlynnwilliams3778 Год назад

    you said it better than I. you go goddess

  • @indiabernicefoster1617
    @indiabernicefoster1617 11 месяцев назад

    Here I go watching this for the umteenth time! lol Love the messages in this video! Powerful and motivating!

  • @maryamaslam3667
    @maryamaslam3667 11 месяцев назад +1

    Where is the shelf behind you from? Xx

  • @thamari8529
    @thamari8529 Год назад +1

    I love your videos!!!!

  • @loubnayousfi8360
    @loubnayousfi8360 Год назад

    Thank you ❤ I really needed to hear that!

    • @BahjaAbdi
      @BahjaAbdi  Год назад +1

      I got you 🤍🤍🤍

  • @christizendejas2730
    @christizendejas2730 Год назад +1

    Where is your hijab from? it looks so pretty on you !

  • @Noble99_coco
    @Noble99_coco 10 месяцев назад

    This helped me a lot ❤

  • @iamjay9410
    @iamjay9410 Год назад

    I needed to hear this!

  • @DiarayeNiang
    @DiarayeNiang Год назад

    Love you Behja. And tank you🫶🏾

  • @husnahassan3782
    @husnahassan3782 Год назад

    i rarely comment but i love love all of your content i needed to hear this reminder so much ,Thank you so much May Allah bless you more abayo ,you keep giving us amazing content🥺❤❤

    • @BahjaAbdi
      @BahjaAbdi  Год назад

      Allahumma ameen 🥹🩷

  • @nura_dagan
    @nura_dagan Год назад

    Much love abyo❤

  • @anonymous-fn2ky
    @anonymous-fn2ky 8 месяцев назад

    love u sis❤❤❤❤❤

  • @diariataaa
    @diariataaa Год назад +12

    Two videos in one week??.?. It’s great to have you back💐🫶🏽!!

    • @Itsaniiika
      @Itsaniiika Год назад +1

      I'm so happyyyyy

    • @BahjaAbdi
      @BahjaAbdi  Год назад +1

      HEYYYYYYYYY!! I told y'all the comeback would be good! I love you so much 🩷

  • @shadankhansary5187
    @shadankhansary5187 Год назад

    Love this channel so much🫶🏻🫶🏻💓💓💓💓

    • @BahjaAbdi
      @BahjaAbdi  Год назад +1

      Ahhh loveee YOU 🩷

    • @shadankhansary5187
      @shadankhansary5187 Год назад

      @@BahjaAbdi love u! I just appreciate having a hijabi motivational speaker to look up to since I’m a hijabi too there’s very few on RUclips!! I appreciate your channel so much💓💓

  • @ed000
    @ed000 Год назад +1

    How does one take their power back from someone who uses care to control them?

  • @Oneinazhillion
    @Oneinazhillion Год назад

    Hi beautiful! Thanks for sharing, did you make the choices overnight to just show up or was it a gradual change?

  • @SpiritSpeaksFromLady
    @SpiritSpeaksFromLady 11 месяцев назад

    It's scary because people attack you for your confidence. But it's all a strategy

  • @angelaanwari5050
    @angelaanwari5050 Год назад

    Love your videos
    I like your hijab 🧕 can you link where did you get it please

  • @fatine-h7h
    @fatine-h7h Год назад

    best girl 😌
    i love ur crazy energy😜🤎

  • @mo__gaciye7014
    @mo__gaciye7014 Год назад

    welcome back my sister bahjar cabdi

  • @aleenasheik3160
    @aleenasheik3160 5 месяцев назад

    omg girlll where is ur hijab from

  • @loveydoveyamy
    @loveydoveyamy Год назад

    UNDERRATED FR

  • @kafiyaabdulkadir4886
    @kafiyaabdulkadir4886 Год назад

    Where’s the pashmina scarf from? Allahumbarik x10😍

  • @DelightfulFlamingo-vt9ds
    @DelightfulFlamingo-vt9ds 11 месяцев назад +1

    May Allah bless you and help you on your Islamic journey

  • @aneesaessa99
    @aneesaessa99 10 месяцев назад

    You look so beautiful mA ❤

  • @dabratnzsbra4275
    @dabratnzsbra4275 Год назад

    MashaAllah sister you are beautiful..

  • @rosequeen3283
    @rosequeen3283 Год назад +1

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @sacdiyosalaad4583
    @sacdiyosalaad4583 10 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @Hajarsvirtue
    @Hajarsvirtue Год назад +1

    Love it, feels so refreshing to hear someone on the same path 🤍 keep posting plz

    • @BahjaAbdi
      @BahjaAbdi  Год назад

      I'm hereeee for a long time 🩷 love you

  • @BenazirGhazal
    @BenazirGhazal Год назад

    Can we get some good hijab tutorials for school and Islamic events/masjid?

  • @aliabdi6530
    @aliabdi6530 11 месяцев назад

  • @m3naro0o
    @m3naro0o Год назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @Zoly174
    @Zoly174 Год назад

    🤍🤍🤍

  • @misbahailia3345
    @misbahailia3345 9 месяцев назад

    16:19
    I strongly disagree. You have to be careful saying things like that on youtube.
    Because they're people in the world, who're already blaming themselves for being graped.
    They might watch your video for comfort, only to hear "what role did i play in this situation?"😭
    The rest of your advice, was fabulous though Masha'Allah. 😍

    • @BahjaAbdi
      @BahjaAbdi  9 месяцев назад

      I agree with you and I wish I hadn't said that. I definitely wasn't thinking on that scale, more just little petty drama.

  • @Alisusu
    @Alisusu Год назад

  • @mariasisse1874
    @mariasisse1874 Год назад

    30 minutes+ 🥴

  • @naushinfarazi
    @naushinfarazi Год назад +2

    just discovered you and your channel and I'm so in awe 🤍, Mashallah

  • @soniadiallo-uj3yn
    @soniadiallo-uj3yn 6 месяцев назад

    ❤❤