Unveiling Mormon Secrets with Dr. John Dehlin - Part 2

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  • Опубликовано: 6 июл 2024
  • In the latest episode of the Cross Examiner podcast, we delve into the fascinating journey of Dr. John Dehlin, host of the Mormon Stories podcast. ( / mormonstories )
    Dr. Dehlin, an ex-Mormon, has dedicated his career to exposing the truths behind Mormon practices and helping others navigate their own faith crises. This episode is a continuation of our in-depth conversation with him, exploring the psychological and social impacts of religious indoctrination, the rise of Christian nationalism, and the role of misinformation.
    Dr. Dehlin's journey is both compelling and relatable. Raised as a sixth-generation Mormon, he was taught to obey and follow the church's teachings without question. However, cracks began to form in his faith as he encountered various inconsistencies and ethical concerns, particularly during his mission in Guatemala. His experiences there, coupled with the rise of the internet and the availability of information, led him to question the very foundations of his beliefs.
    One of the most striking aspects of Dr. Dehlin's story is the concept of the "shelf." In the Mormon and post-Mormon world, individuals are encouraged to put doubts and questions on a metaphorical shelf, trusting that answers will come in time. For Dr. Dehlin, the shelf eventually became too heavy to bear, leading to a profound crisis of faith. This journey of questioning and seeking truth is something many can relate to, regardless of their religious background.
    The episode also delves into the broader implications of religious indoctrination and the rise of secular support systems. Dr. Dehlin discusses the importance of organizations like Recovering from Religion and the Secular Therapy Project, which provide crucial support for individuals leaving high-demand religions. These organizations offer a safe space for people to explore their doubts and find a community that understands their struggles.
    One of the most powerful moments in the episode is when Dr. Dehlin talks about the psychological impact of leaving a high-demand religion. He shares how many individuals experience anxiety, depression, and even suicidal thoughts as they grapple with the loss of their faith and the subsequent social and familial fallout. This highlights the critical need for mental health support and resources for those undergoing such transitions.
    Dr. Dehlin's work with the Mormon Stories podcast has not only helped countless individuals but also shed light on the broader human experience. As he aptly puts it, "The Mormon story is the human story." By sharing personal narratives, his podcast fosters empathy and understanding, encouraging listeners to see the common threads that connect us all.
    For those interested in exploring these themes further, we highly recommend tuning into this episode. Dr. Dehlin's insights and experiences offer a valuable perspective on the intersection of religion, truth, and personal transformation. Whether you're grappling with your own faith or simply curious about the human condition, this episode is sure to resonate.
    Don't miss out on this enlightening conversation. Listen to the full episode now and join us on this journey of discovery and understanding.
    Chapters:
    (00:00) Introduction
    (03:00) Dr. John Dehlin's Background
    (10:00) Questioning Faith and "The Shelf"
    (20:00) Mission Experiences and Ethical Concerns
    (30:00) The Role of the Internet and Information
    (40:00) Psychological Impact and Counseling
    (50:00) The Rise of the Nones and Decline in Membership
    (01:00:00) Exposing Harmful Practices
    (01:10:00) The Importance of Secular Support Systems
    (01:20:00) Collaboration with Other Ex-Religious Communities
    (01:30:00) Closing Thoughts and Future Outlook

Комментарии • 161

  • @thecrossexaminer6665
    @thecrossexaminer6665  26 дней назад +32

    Thank you, again, to Dr. John Dehlin! I hope you all enjoyed our conversation!

    • @heatherbruce1668
      @heatherbruce1668 25 дней назад +1

      Great interview! Thanks!

    • @debbieshrubb1222
      @debbieshrubb1222 17 дней назад

      Absolutely loved the conversation.
      Mormon Stories saved my mental health when I first found out about the hidden history and toxic dogma of mormonism.

  • @jubronaljoan
    @jubronaljoan 26 дней назад +34

    despite my handle which makes it seem like I am female. I am a male and was raised in the Mormon church. I served a full-time mission, was sealed in the temple and have served as the bishop of a metropolitan congregation 20-odd years ago. I left the church about 7 years ago after I uncovered the deceptive history and issues with key Mormon scripture thast I could not reconcile. Mormon Stories has been a key resource in helping me refocus my life. I still believe there is something that is driving existence. like a universal conciousness, but it is fundamentally unknowable and doesn't expect or demand anything of us.

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  26 дней назад +2

      Thank you for listening!

    • @shaunjeff45
      @shaunjeff45 24 дня назад

      Just like crap in a toilet, I take John Dehin's words are worth and accordingly. He was on the Cristian Prince podcast and he claimed himself to be a Muslim, in the Muslim religion. The Quran is the inspired word of Satan! Now; how crazy is that?

    • @leighyorgason6702
      @leighyorgason6702 22 дня назад

      So the God of the Bible can't exist unless Mormonism is true? Yes He can and Yes He does.

    • @esetaMotuga1971
      @esetaMotuga1971 22 дня назад +1

      Yes, as a member now of the church, I didn't know that a lot of people in the church were not questioning the leaders, of the churches, compared to why they became members.
      Because I myself was never ashamed to ask questions in something that I either never heard before or I needed to ask to further my understanding of what I, needed to research or really 🙏/ask God about it since I questioned My grandmother as a 5year old kid, after she forbade me and my brother Sauaso to go swimming on Sunday.
      So that's why I always listened to God, by following Jesus now.
      Since it's an every day teaching since I was a little kid
      But I am very grateful God had me asked questions to my grandma, then. Which is how I learned to be his student since then. After my grandmother asked me to go ask God why He didn't want me to go swimming and playing on Sundays?.
      Until I found out in 03/16/2022 at the Sunrise Hospital in Nevada Las Vegas in the ICU that I wasn't aware that I haven't really understood what #FollowingJesus means.

    • @esetaMotuga1971
      @esetaMotuga1971 21 день назад +1

      Oh and may I add what else my grandma said was, before I went to look for God in my church in Saoluafata Upolu Samoa to ask God my question was because She didn't know why God wrote the 10Commandments. N that would be good for me if I went and asked him for the both of us.
      Because she too came from the old fashion way of obey but DoNotQuestionWhyWeHadToObeyGodsHolyBibleInTheFirstPlace. Meaning his 10Commandments.
      N in this 06/15/2024, I am thankful to God's 10Commandments because I realized now of why his 10Commandments was written because cheating was one of those laws as a married woman whom was feeling like she had no one to trust after her trust was destroyed.
      So now Jesus is the only faithful man/God.
      Whom we can really fully trust instead of men whom are capable fleshly to fall from the godly/spiritual grace of God the Father.
      Like some men in the Utah, Not LDS, but polygamy or men that John in the Podcast is talking about that are calling themselves gods, but lack everything that is really important to be a child of God and a follower of Jesus Christ.

  • @bodytrainer1crane730
    @bodytrainer1crane730 26 дней назад +40

    Dr. John's Mormon Stories has actually changed my life for the better. It just feels so good and makes so much sense to my brain to simply tell the truth and I feel like a lot of people tell the truth on Mormon Stories. ❤️

    • @1blestmomamoe472
      @1blestmomamoe472 26 дней назад +4

      Me Too🙏🏼🥰🙏🏼

    • @reflectandrecover
      @reflectandrecover 25 дней назад

      I thought that once too. Then I lost everything, and hurt everyone and wondered why I didn't just stay Mormon and keep the Word of Wisdom. Maybe then I would still have my precious children in my arms.... God I wish. I once was huge cheerleader for Mormon Stories Podcast, thought it was the answer to everything. Now, I see his vindictive immaturity and the fundamental flaws to his arguments that is easy to overlook in a faith crisis. I have more faith in the fact that John surely is a miserable miserable man than Joseph Smith translated the Book of Mormon. But what do I know, I'm just an excommunicated Mormon drug addict in recovery that lost everything and wishes every night I didn't listen to that first podcast of the Mormon Stories Garbage that sent me down the path I ultimately went down... I've done bad things. I'm making amends with the Church. John Dehlin is no Prophet but he gets a tickle in his fancy ordaining himself the Prophet of anything resembling something against the Church, regardless of accuracy or context, or subjectivity.... that is called a disinformation campaign built on something else..... but what exactly?.. it's so sad. I wish you luck, whoever this bodytrainer1crane730 is in your search for truth. Always remember, history is written by men with opinions and memory is flawed. Ultimately, I could convince you that 9/11 didn't happen with facts, just like I could convince you that the Moon-landing was a hoax, and I could also convince you that the Holocaust wasn't real, and that Clovis was not the first people in the Americas.... history is constantly changing, no source can be "proven" true, everything is essentially a choice of faith.... which is why it becomes important to make honest choices and do good things, so you can stay in-tune with whatever good vibes exist. I can tell you as someone that has been incarcerated and hurt people, that there is definitely an evil out there, and you can become in-tune with that as well. I'm lucky to be alive, and the fact that I have seen the realness of evil makes me know that the realness of good, and I choose good homie.... God, I choose GOOD!

  • @fayeline
    @fayeline 26 дней назад +31

    This 2 part video is amazing! I'm a huge fan of Dr. John. His compassion, empathy, and work to support individuals leaving their high demand religion is amazing. Thank you for interviewing Dr. John. You now have another subscriber for your channel. ❤

  • @dorothymilne1258
    @dorothymilne1258 26 дней назад +11

    I read Nobody Knows My History in 1993 (I had joined the LDS in 1989 after marrying a Mormon). My resignation in November 2015 was a long time coming. Thanks to Mormon Stories for being the only people I could talk to in those first few years.

    • @michellemilne3315
      @michellemilne3315 25 дней назад

      Yes! Mormon Stories has been a huge help in my deconstruction and in keeping me sane. (Also, it appears I married someone with the same last name as you 😉)

  • @RyanHawley76
    @RyanHawley76 26 дней назад +23

    I'm one of those who always viewed John and the others as 'anti'. I interpreted the cognitive dissonance as if it were from Satan himself! (seriously) So I never could allow myself to watch, listen, or read anything that was contrary to my faith 🤦. All things 2020 finally allowed me the time needed for introspection on my own beliefs and values and I broke through with the help of Mormon stories, all the amazing exmo tiktok erst, and community outside of the faith!
    Aside from finding and marrying my wife, leaving Mormonism is the best decision of my life!

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  26 дней назад +2

      Thank you for sharing!

    • @esetaMotuga1971
      @esetaMotuga1971 21 день назад

      John is right to question why God put him in the situation he was in as a member now
      It wasn't anyman whom brought me to the church but it was after two missionaries girls refused to answer my question before we started our lesson.
      To me that was forcing me to change my view of God at the time at 23-24-25 years old.
      So I chose God's word over there.
      Not that I didn't love them as my neighbors. As Jesus teaches but because I knew God personally and I knew better to piss him off.
      Since after the flood of Noah and because he really let me know who God is and was and that's why I never asked or questioned my grandma Faaitiiti Vaivao Motuga Paleaaesina ever again after that day that God came on Monday because God does not work on Sunday where I was waiting for him to come see me in my church in Saoluafata Upolu Samoa.
      N he spoke to me in Samoan.
      So as a little kids in New Zealand not really understanding a lot of things in life.
      I never told anyone about my visit with God then because I was asking him what I needed to know then as a kid. Because God has answers for me that no one else knew.
      Like my science classes I took in Form 6.
      So that's why I put God first before anyone else.
      I just follow Jesus now since God told me too....
      But when doing research it's important we put the dates of each event to know where Jesus fulfilled his #Prophecies, in Isaiah 54-1-17-3Nephi22v1-17....which God showed me before I started dating events of Jesus life in each Bibles including the BookOfMormon. Thanks for sharing.

    • @esetaMotuga1971
      @esetaMotuga1971 21 день назад

      I really thank God for Jesus on his human experience to enable him to be in our shoes.

    • @esetaMotuga1971
      @esetaMotuga1971 21 день назад

      Thank you John.
      For your story and Testimony.
      Thanks for your honesty.
      God loves us if we are cold or hot.
      Not lukewarm like a lot of other people that really don't know truth from wrong. In Jesus Name Amen and Amen

    • @esetaMotuga1971
      @esetaMotuga1971 21 день назад

      Good job interviewer

  • @jaylarsen67
    @jaylarsen67 26 дней назад +11

    I joined a group called Veterans For Peace which has been very therapeutic for my Mormon experience. I realize even the military has cultish dinamics.

    • @mamadspeachyworld5190
      @mamadspeachyworld5190 23 дня назад

      They have a brotherhood/ sisterhood many do not find at home or later in life. They often become distant from family and clingecto veterans groups.

  • @janetmarugg9424
    @janetmarugg9424 26 дней назад +23

    John is genuine and that goes a long way with what he does.

    • @shaunjeff45
      @shaunjeff45 24 дня назад

      Really! He's claimed he was excommunicated by the Church, and he here claiming every Christian religion is in decline, but he claimed to be Muslim, in the Muslim religion. He's out promoting Islam, but the Quran is the inspired word of Satan!

  • @suthatheplee2777
    @suthatheplee2777 26 дней назад +10

    Outstanding discussion and presentation. Please do more interviews like this about people who have left high demand religions…these are important stories

  • @malindagunderson
    @malindagunderson 26 дней назад +11

    Wonderful conversation! Long time MS listener and SO enjoying your content! I appreciate your perspective and mission!

  • @seph4667
    @seph4667 26 дней назад +11

    Fine communication..much appreciated.

  • @nathanbigler
    @nathanbigler 26 дней назад +8

    Mormonism is really fascinating. I revered LDS leaders when I was young. But after my mission for the church I was completely disillusioned and no longer believed any of the garbage

  • @user-nr5py8yo9k
    @user-nr5py8yo9k 26 дней назад +9

    Dr. Dehlin and Margie are amazing people.

  • @LifeAfterBelief
    @LifeAfterBelief 26 дней назад +6

    I’m a huge Mormon Stories fan, as a former believer myself. Your interview of John is fantastic. Great questions and input. I’m following your channel now because I love your approach and topics.

  • @bethkirsch2365
    @bethkirsch2365 26 дней назад +6

    Loved this conversation, agree we need more like these 💜🌈

  • @trembletea
    @trembletea 26 дней назад +3

    That was a perfect summary of why I enjoy Mormon Stories as a never-Mormon. Listening to each human story helps me navigate my own midlife crisis of meaning. I also love all the history deep dives. The Robert Rittner episodes on Egyptology were incredible - I’ve listened to the whole 13 hours more than once!

  • @StephRivera
    @StephRivera 26 дней назад +6

    That was awesome! It's nice to hear him tell his own story.

  • @marcialeecampbell5156
    @marcialeecampbell5156 26 дней назад +11

    Amen Dr. Dehlin. From a never Mormon.

  • @barbaralael5092
    @barbaralael5092 26 дней назад +6

    I love John's story. It meant a lot to me. When I was a member prior to 1989, I noticed a difference between "lifers " and "converts" which isn't very out there. But it came up in private Tupperware parties etc. That I heard about but wasn't invited to. I started noticing my callings were with small children. Converts I noticed were with the children not the youth or adults. We are were not trusted with doctrine.

    • @TS-iv9ml
      @TS-iv9ml 26 дней назад

      I made a special point to make sure all my "inspired callings" were with the innocent children. I wanted to let each of them know they were loved just as they are ❤ and to protect them since I never was, born & raised in that "corporation " selfidentifying as tye "only true religion" albeit manmade. That's the only way i could manage to keep going till i just couldn't fake it anymore... so grateful for the people sharing truths these days 💞

  • @cathyweisner2683
    @cathyweisner2683 26 дней назад +11

    ❓❓❓ As a never-Mormon, am I understanding that just because someone is baptized that’s it you’re Mormon and your “membership” is recorded and your name appears in the records? Is that correct❓❓❓

    • @ladrac198
      @ladrac198 26 дней назад +10

      Absolutely!! Even if you haven't attended in years they keep your name on the records, and they'll keep your name on the book until your 110th birthday, just to inflate the numbers even more. They do everything they can to keep up appearance of growth.

    • @cathyweisner2683
      @cathyweisner2683 26 дней назад +3

      @@ladrac198 Thank you for the clarification.

    • @whatsup3270
      @whatsup3270 26 дней назад

      @@cathyweisner2683 This is common to most religions, additionally in all fairness it is actually hard to know who is still alive, still lives in this town, does or does not consider themselves a member, and who may want to come back. Additionally, every year millions request Church records! Now that should change because of the computer generation however many historically request baptism records, marriage records, and funeral records. Some for religious reasons, some for family search, some for legal cases.

    • @raincadeify
      @raincadeify 13 дней назад

      You can ask to have your name removed though, but I think a lot of people don't and the church doesn't investigate, since they want the numbers.

  • @debraallender7444
    @debraallender7444 25 дней назад +3

    I love Mormon Stories. This was a great 2 Part Interview!

  • @Jane-dy1px
    @Jane-dy1px 25 дней назад +4

    I enjoyed listening to this very much. Mostly because of the respectful, logical, common sense approach that you both bring to the discussion. Human beings need to be open minded and respectful with one another if they are ever going to achieve peace or accomplish anything worthwhile. Thank you both. Very enlightening.

  • @PARebecca
    @PARebecca 26 дней назад +3

    Be a solution to the problem you know is coming..that is how I see this interview. Both of you are the solutions to the problems that are coming from non-believers. Non-believers need the solutions you both are providing. As an ex-Mormon now Atheist, I have found many solutions to my problems of being an ex-Mormon now Atheist listening to podcasts like The Cross Examiner and Mormon Stories. So happy to see my two worlds connect with each other and discover how much we have in common with each other. Deconstructing can take years to accomplish...non-believers do not happen over night.

  • @user-eu8nm2dc1y
    @user-eu8nm2dc1y 25 дней назад +2

    This is definitely one of my favorite interviews to get to know John a bit better. Love this guy. And I'm very glad to discover The Cross Examiner.

  • @grantstanfield6636
    @grantstanfield6636 26 дней назад +4

    John… where do you go? I am in such despair. My whole world is crashing down. I don’t know what to do…

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  26 дней назад +1

      Don't worry! People still exist after the video ends! :-)

    • @dorothybatton9544
      @dorothybatton9544 25 дней назад

      Only thing to do is to get down on your knees and talk to God regularly. You will receive answers 🙏

  • @MrBlasz
    @MrBlasz 26 дней назад +3

    Well that was quick. Thanks for hosting this.

  • @debrac2897
    @debrac2897 25 дней назад +2

    This was an absolutely wonderful podcast. Thank you so much for doing this! I’ve been watching Mormon Stories and John Dehlin for a few years now and he has helped me tremendously in my deconstruction of Mormonism. I have now found the cross examiner and am so excited to watch/listen to his podcasts! So much of what you spoke about with John in these videos has resonated with me and I sincerely appreciate your thoughts and insight. Thank you both for all your hard work!

  • @bodytrainer1crane730
    @bodytrainer1crane730 26 дней назад +4

    That's interesting about Mormons being so eager to leave and talk about it especially in relation to other high-demand religions. I'm sure there are at least several variables that led to this phenomena.

  • @marquitaarmstrong399
    @marquitaarmstrong399 26 дней назад +2

    To get to the other bride?😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Subscribed just on that😂😂😂❤❤❤

    • @marquitaarmstrong399
      @marquitaarmstrong399 25 дней назад

      Thank you. Am African American xlds. ❤ u still chuckling...

  • @teena4rl211
    @teena4rl211 24 дня назад +1

    Dr. Dehlin described it perfectly--we see our own faith crisis/journey in his and the stories of his guest. Excellent interview. Thank you.

  • @katherinebiden4137
    @katherinebiden4137 26 дней назад +2

    I have been listening to Mormon Stories for a couple of years and I love it. This was a great interview

  • @SuWilcox
    @SuWilcox 25 дней назад +2

    This is all fantastic, but it was the bit when you said you're a Broadway fan that sent me scrambling for the "subscribe" button.

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  25 дней назад

      Thanks! May I suggest my ongoing series on Faith healing? In Part 3 of that series, I do a montage of various portrayals of children in culture over time and I play a good number of clips form musicals! Heres' the playlist: ruclips.net/video/c5Om4SlvDMU/видео.html&ab_channel=TheCrossExaminer

  • @barryrichins
    @barryrichins 21 день назад +1

    Thanks, my friend. I am and agnostic leaning toward atheism, and like my friend John Dehlin, I am a Mormon by culture, in other words, a Mormon Boy. I am so glad you are here on line that I hope to learn and share much from and with you and your guests..

  • @kevinmcdonald951
    @kevinmcdonald951 26 дней назад +3

    Really enjoyed it.

  • @LamaniteLando
    @LamaniteLando 25 дней назад +2

    Has anyone watched Margi Dehlin’s Mormon story called “coming home to myself”?
    Poor lady.

  • @tawnyachristensen7310
    @tawnyachristensen7310 26 дней назад +2

    Great interview!

  • @richharkness5942
    @richharkness5942 25 дней назад +2

    We did the same thing on my mission in the Patagonia of Argentina. They wanted to create a stake but couldn't get people to be baptized. So we baptized a lot of kids and also adults that would come play soccer with us. They didn't know what we were doing but we got them on the rolls. And they formed the Neuquen stake

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  25 дней назад

      Thanks for sharing. How do you feel about that, now?

    • @richharkness5942
      @richharkness5942 24 дня назад

      @@thecrossexaminer6665 I feel like shit really because I lied to the people I grew to love in Argentina. We had to teach 40 discussions a week memorize the 1st discussion and stop people in the streets and give it to them. We could not go to the museums or get to know the culture. Like I was there and Israel arrested 2 of Hitlers generals in Bareloche Argentina. England bombed a city I was in during the Falkland war we could not go to the museum. I did not get to know the history or culture of Argentina. Just baptize teach your here to baptize and nothing else. I am getting married to my girlfriend in Lima Peru in August and heading to Cusco but while working in Peru and visiting Peru I have gotten to know the people's history and they are a wonderful culture.

  • @misha_stupidyttookmyname
    @misha_stupidyttookmyname 25 дней назад +2

    Never mormon here. For me a lot of ex-mormon stories (especially the way alyssa grenfell talks about hers) remind me of my experiences as a trans man when i was struggling to figure out what to do. They're stories of selfdiscovery. And i've always liked coming out stories. Real or fiction. And originally i found that in lgbtq stories. Only now i'm realizing that concept isn't exclusive to lgbt.
    Anyway, the idea of figuring out who you are and then presenting that to the world and seeing a reaction to that is just fascinating. And seeing others experiences with that helps put my own into perspective.

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  25 дней назад

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It's always surprisingly rewarding when I hear people draw parallels to their own experience that I never even considered!

  • @tamalthor697
    @tamalthor697 26 дней назад +2

    45:00 if you want to see similar stories with similar church deconstruction but from an evangelical standpoint, check out Rhett and Links spiritual deconstruction series, has yearly updates.

  • @radicalkelly59
    @radicalkelly59 26 дней назад +1

    Great interviewer. Passionate guest. Thank you!

  • @Zena357
    @Zena357 25 дней назад +2

    I'm an ex-mormon atheist. I also think that Jesus is a mythical character and didn't exist. The answer to the mysteries of the universe will forever remain an enigma.

  • @jackgaskill4528
    @jackgaskill4528 26 дней назад +1

    It's true honesty is not a virtue of the church anymore. If you are truly honest you get punished.

  • @xochitlkitty
    @xochitlkitty 25 дней назад +2

    I agree that the Mormon Stories podcast gives hope that we can move back away from authoritarianism. I feel quite scared about white white nationalist Christians are capable of politically and perhaps forcefully. When I hear the people on Mormon Stories talk about their journeys out of authoritarian organizations, it gives me hope that we can go back to being more moderate.

  • @mybachhertzbaud3074
    @mybachhertzbaud3074 25 дней назад +1

    One might think that people would have finally recognized by now that the earth is their heaven and the only religious teachings they need is "Thou shall not turn this heaven into a hell"🤔

  • @gailm3154
    @gailm3154 26 дней назад +1

    Holy s*** I never thought about Tangled like that!

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  26 дней назад +3

      Yes, the fairy tale of Rapunzel is all about the constructed reality in which she is trapped!

    • @texastornado5517
      @texastornado5517 24 дня назад

      Tangled explained that way, blew my mind. Must be why it always did, and still does, resonate with me.

  • @barb9465
    @barb9465 24 дня назад +2

    As an orthodox Mormon for over 40 years, Dr John Dehlin’s podcast has helped heal my broken heart and piece back together my shattered identity. I will forever be grateful for his work.

  • @raincadeify
    @raincadeify 14 дней назад +1

    I see this is a few days old but I hope you see this. According to Aaron from Growing Up In Scientology, YT is no longer monetizing multi-streams. Just letting you know. You have to modify it in some way and post separately or neither channel gets monetized.

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  14 дней назад +1

      Thanks! These are prerecorded and I add my own intro and outro. Also, I don't monetize my channel at this time. Appreciate your feedback!

    • @raincadeify
      @raincadeify 13 дней назад

      ​@@thecrossexaminer6665 I see. That should work as long as it's not streaming the same content. YT is always changing their rules and not that great at communicating. I left the same comment on MS since it's been a recent change. Btw, I'll be checking out your channel, as a fellow skeptic I've also taken in a lot of Mormon Stories (and Scientology exes) because I'm fascinated by how easily persuaded we humans can be by unverifiable assertions, especially when the result is against our own interest. We seem to be seeing more and more of this in our current confabulation of both suspicion and magical thinking. Since Mormons are so much in the news lately, I've been following a few court cases, so that's probably how your vid ended up in my feed. Good luck with your channel.

  • @marjanahjaiyana5272
    @marjanahjaiyana5272 26 дней назад +2

    That’s why we have a rainbow he put it there ,because of Flood supposedly . It seems like it’s a fantasy.

  • @aBrewster29
    @aBrewster29 26 дней назад +3

    I very much enjoyed the insight in this discussion. Thank you!
    One of the aspects of mormonism that has always struck a chord with me is the concept of the Natural Man, that we have innate spiritual qualities and human weakness which we are meant to enhance and overcome, respectively, throughout life.
    In practice, though, I often see this teaching corrupted to promote the status quo. You see a similar pattern with the fruits doctrine-truth and goodness are attributed based on the identity of the actor, not the intrinsic qualities of the action. And then you layer on the power dynamic, that discourages self-correction within the system…it’s absolutely tragic.

  • @xochitlkitty
    @xochitlkitty 25 дней назад +2

    I’m a never Mormon. Like you Cross Examiner, I was exposed to the Episcopalian version of Christianity; although, unlike your parents, my dad was very religious (in a non-fundamentalist way) and forced me to go to church every Sunday. I never really believed any of it. I read the Old Testament when I was 13 just because. I got a pretty bad impression of God from that. He seemed kinda mean, jealous, spiteful, and women got treated like s**t. Anyway- I listen to Mormon Stories and other similar podcasts because I want to try and understand what makes someone like my former stepbrother who seems pretty smart and down to earth, believe that the Earth was created 6000 years ago? Or what makes someone want to live their lives with so many arbitrary rules to follow and the constant fear of being damned for all Eternity? And why is it necessary to them for all the rest of us to go along with them? And where does that sadistic streak come from?

  • @nicolafigini784
    @nicolafigini784 26 дней назад +1

    I don't think "Suffer the little children" means 'Adults, put up with the children' as stated by the host! Wasn't it something like "Suffer the little children, come unto me"? As in, little children who suffer come to me for care and protection.

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  26 дней назад +1

      Good question! The full verse is "And they brought unto him also infants, that he would touch them: but when his disciples saw it, they rebuked them.
      But Jesus called them unto him, and said, Suffer little children to come unto me, and forbid them not: for of such is the kingdom of God."
      Jesus is speaking to his adult disciple about children. The disciples don't think Jesus should bother with kid because, back then, they were just things...property. So, here, Jesus is correcting his disciples by telling them to "suffer," children which means "put up with" or "tolerate." So, here, he is telling adults something like "You should tolerate little children and don't prevent them from coming to me, because being in heaven is much like childhood."
      Hope this helps!

    • @nicolafigini784
      @nicolafigini784 25 дней назад

      @@thecrossexaminer6665 Thank you for that. I didn't know the full verse. I stand corrected. 👍

  • @joell439
    @joell439 25 дней назад +1

    👍😎👍

  • @jaylarsen67
    @jaylarsen67 26 дней назад +1

    However, my exception to Jesus is his arrogance saying he is the way the truth and the light. This became obvious when stumbled on Luke 10:45. I happened to throw in the words my ass when he chastized Simon Peter for not kissing him.

  • @gowanderlustwithme
    @gowanderlustwithme 26 дней назад +1

    I’m confused. Christianity is at an all time low and organized religion is dying in the US. We are quickly becoming a secular society. Can you please describe and qualify what you are referring to as a rise in Christian nationalism?

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  26 дней назад +1

      Are you familiar with the Jan 6 insurrection?

    • @Morstorpod
      @Morstorpod 25 дней назад +2

      Very simply summarized (there is more nuance and detail out there): As Christianity is becoming less common, the remaining group is becoming more insular and creating an echo chamber of dangerous ideas. Some of these individuals are willing to do anything to maintain Christianity as the state religion, because that is god's will (even though there is not supposed to be a state religion).
      For one recent example you can google Justice Alito's secret recording and how his religion is more important than law and order.

    • @marquitaarmstrong399
      @marquitaarmstrong399 25 дней назад

      Sure ask any Trump s upporter

  • @dystoniaawarness3353
    @dystoniaawarness3353 2 дня назад

    It's WRONG to have a Mormon therapist use the gospel in therapy is NOT good. My first therapist after I started running away just before I turned 16 due to a child hurter, getting me at 15, I looked 12, was evil. He had me stand on a chair while reading out of book of Mormon getting loud, I'm sobbing so hard, telling me to obey my parents and just religious crap. Never actually found out the real cause of my running away ect. It ruined and traumatized me SOOO much. A 32-year-old man I didn't really know talked me into running away the first time. Then it happened and of course I had NO idea what was going on. NO sex ed or anything of course. If I had had a decent real therapist like now things could have taken a whole different path in my life.

  • @AlbertJLouie
    @AlbertJLouie День назад

    MORMONS, THERE IS NO BAPTISM FOR THE DEAD.
    Scripture is very clear in stating that this life is the only chance we get. Once we die, our fate is sealed:
    HEBREWS 9:27
    "it is the appointed for men to die once, and after that comes judgement."
    There are no "second chances" after death.

  • @hanako4475
    @hanako4475 11 дней назад +1

    If the main quest is to join the one true church, why did god clearly spend SO MUCH MORE time developing the side quests and content??? 😂😂😂😂

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  10 дней назад

      I know, right? By the time you are done with the side quests, you will be like level 100 and the main quest will be too simple for you!

  • @kohlstrong
    @kohlstrong 25 дней назад

    I wish the Atheist Experience show was what you said it was. In reality there is far too many vicious attacks coming from Dillahunty and others. I still enjoy it, but there is a lot of ad hominem grossness.

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  25 дней назад

      Each host has their own style. Matt hasn't been a host for several years. I struggle to make sure that we have productive conversations without letting people preach. I stive to always avoid getting personal.

  • @AlbertJLouie
    @AlbertJLouie День назад

    When you seek answers from the Book of Mormon instead of the Bible, God can't help you because you have turned your back on Him. Therefore this leaves the door open for Satan (II Corinthians 11:14-15) to step into your life with a false christ or prophet showing you signs and wonders to lead you away from the real Jesus of the Bible who is God the Son 2nd person of the Trinity and the Eternal Creator God. God Himself warns us about this in: MATTHEW 24: 23-24
    "Then if anyone says to you, Look, here is the Christ! or There! do not believe it. For false christs and false prophets will rise and show great signs and wonders to deceive, if possible, even the elect..."
    Mormons teach and believe that their jesus is the brother of Satan, which contradicts what God says in His Bible that Jesus is God the Son 2nd person of the Trinity and the Eternal Creator God.
    So Mormons, which Jesus do you believe in?
    A. Your jesus of the Book of Mormon, who is the brother of Satan.
    OR
    B. The Jesus of the Bible, who is God the Son 2nd person of the Trinity and the Eternal Creator God.

  • @kathleenwharton2139
    @kathleenwharton2139 11 дней назад

    Obey Gods Commandments..NOT Man’s commandments. Religion and churches are man’s commandments! Jesus HimSelf Said..”Stop teaching for Doctrine the commandments of men.” Christians and Mormons don’t even know what Jesus Said! 😊❤

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  10 дней назад

      How do you know that there is a god? Even if we grant that we can know that there is a god, how do you know what it wants you to do?

    • @kathleenwharton2139
      @kathleenwharton2139 10 дней назад

      @@thecrossexaminer6665
      I don’t! Nobody does. It is a Belief. But I Know there is a voice within me who tells me the Right thing to do.

  • @jeantoller
    @jeantoller 23 дня назад

    I’m not falling for your lies. Sorry. Good luck standing before an accounting with the Savior some day If you were Satan which church would you fight against?? Oh, only the true one. Yup

  • @user-ux3vb5zg1p
    @user-ux3vb5zg1p 26 дней назад

    John Dillon is no doctor

    • @user-ks3cu8uq3q
      @user-ks3cu8uq3q 26 дней назад +6

      You might want to start by spelling his name correctly. And Ph.D.'s were doctors before M.D.'s were.

    • @user-mh5qg5jb7d
      @user-mh5qg5jb7d 26 дней назад

      i knOw tHE cHurCh iS trUE, bECAuse thE churcH SayS iT Is TruE.

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  26 дней назад +3

      Care to actually engage in adult discussion or are you just going to make obviously false claims and run away?

  • @musketeerflyer
    @musketeerflyer 26 дней назад +1

    Two atheists talking about the evils of "religion". Yawwwn!

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  26 дней назад +14

      If you had listened, you would know that Dr. Dehlin doesn't identify as an atheist. As for speaking to the "evils of 'religion,'" we do discuss the bad things the LDS and other *churches* have done, but we also discuss the good things *religion* can inspire people to do. Ask yourself why you feel compelled to comment on a video without even watching it and, maybe, listen before instead of putting your fingers in your ears and walking away?
      Perhaps you would like my series entitled, "Why we care." In it, I give example after example of why atheists care about religion. ruclips.net/video/KRntYK8YSIE/видео.html&ab_channel=TheCrossExaminer