Not that hard to do if you have "the connection" . It has happened to me twice. The best feeling ever. And I remember those conversations so vividly ❤️
@@lauralunaazul Same :) Because it has to be someone you don't know or at least you don't know well. And because you are yourself the most when you travel, I think :)
"The little space in between"...my favorite line in the whole movie. She means that love is not something we possess or acquire or consume--it is what connects us all and binds the universe together. And so it always in the space between us; not clutched in our hands or hearts or brains. We can never own love. We can only choose to be a part of it by allowing ourselves to be connected to others--through that little space that lies between us.
The torture of losing someone you can talk to like this is walking through life wondering if you're going to ever meet someone like them again. God, this film broke me.
I just lost someone like that, I watched this movie because I wanted to feel identified with the characters. I feel as if Id never ever met someone to speak like this ever again.
I found someone like this. We could talk for 6hrs straight till our lungs gave out. He didn’t want me back... I don’t regret the experience. I’m so grateful.
so dreamy, but so realistic... because the 'harsh reality of things' that society and our parents teach us is usually a load of crappy preconceptions and useless cookie-cutter routines ..
“He had never really given anything of himself” i feel like the whole movie is made to show how beautiful it really is when you actually do give a piece of yourself to someone
I never thought of it that wat, that giving someone a piece of yourself like love can be beautiful.. All my life I've lived thinking that giving a piece of me was something against my best interests and better judgement, that it was something scary, but indeed it can be beautiful too.. Thank you for this.. ❤️
It’s like a metaphorical representation of a friendship necklace. You being able to be vulnerable, to give a part of yourself to someone while they do the same..it’s beautiful and such a profound thought on what love is to us
This movie always makes me think about the guy i met in China. We were both from Europe, we spent together only one night, just walking around and talking about everything and we felt like we were meant for each other. It was the first time in my life that i fell for someone for real. But i had a plane back to Europe next day and i left him there. We've been in touch but it wasn't the same. Yet none of us could move on and we still thought of each other often. The year passed and he said he have to see me again. I've never felt so nervous in my life but when i saw him on a train platform it was like magic, like nothing's has changed and we simply fell into each other's arms. We spent 3 days together. Now he was the one leaving me. But the story's not over yet and i can't wait for the next chapter:)
I agree... Despite "being in touched" thru our tech, the connection isn't as special and meaningful as you two facing and feeling each other presence...
@@sumeetKumar91 She means that understanding someone is impossible/difficult but the attempt to understand someone is love. In the same way that the pursuit of perfection is unattainable because perfection is subjective and therefore not real. It's the pursuit of that perfection that's meaningful. It's about getting as close to perfection as possible. The attempt is meaningful.
@@hlomlamakwetu4119 This doesnt make sense, in the end its the end goal that matters right, say i am working hard to be a lawyer , i spend 20 years in pursuit of being one but in the end i give up , now tell me how can you find meaning in this pursuit? your pursuit is pointless unless it is backed by an acheivement
The answer to what? I think they don't know what they are saying. They just are trying to sound deep and poetic. Too much free time in their hands, no responsibilities, traveling on their parents dime, and talking pretentious crap. Oh, the luxuries of upper middle class!
This movie hit me deep because there interactions actually seemed genuine and real, like it could happen. It shows not only there fun, intimate, loving moments but also the awkward and realistic conversations and scenes. I love every bit of dialogue, such a heartfelt movie.
You can see yourself in both characters. Jesse nailed it. I know I'm capable of love. I don't fear any intimacy or romantic commitment. It's just that, I don't want my whole identity just to be based on the babies that pass through my birth canal or my identity be based on the different beef stews I can cook in a crock pot for a husband who would rather eat Hooters' wings.
Jumel Grace Ola id have to disagree with that. I mean like not to sound like a typical girl which i might sound like after saying this BUT you can still do the things you love and are passionate about while being in a committed relationship. Maybe not have kids too soon but having a spouse to guide you through the way is beautiful
I relate. Everything I do has always been in the pursuit of finding someone I can share my deepest self with, and I honestly question whether or not that’s a good thing.
Well, I for one agree with you. We’re conditioned and told we have to settle down, we have to have children and continue on. We “have” to leave our legacy to someone. But isn’t that just living for somebody else and forgetting yourself? If you try to experience life with everything all planned out you’re sure to be disappointed. If that’s the life somebody wants, of course, but don’t let your children or partner define who you are. You define who you are.
Julie Delpy is such a babe in this, such a babe. I loved this movie. Some quotes were really spot on. "everything we do is for a bit more love". I think we all want a moment like what was in this movie. That is honestly life-defining, think of the two movies that sprouted after. I think when I reach these feelings in my own life with people, I never forget it, even from childhood, its always stays there and I want to go back.
@@Big-guy1981 i think in order to succeed in hollywood u really have to he willing to sacrifice a lot. privacy, moral standards, honesty etc. she stayed her true self
I love when she says that if there's a god it is in the space between 2 people. it's so profound. beautiful movie, i always discover something new to appreciate on that.
I had forgotten how much I love this movie. It was the first movie I had ever watched with so much talking and not a second of it was boring. This movie gets me daydreaming and thinking deep. I love it so much. Honestly I think before sunrise and before sunset are unsurpassed but before midnight did not live much up to my expectations.
@@VanezArt I agree completely. When I was younger I didn't like it at all but now that I'm much older I think I will understand it and like it someday.
You know, I still get butterflies when I think about the girl I met at the beach when I was 16. I fell in love over a week and it has never left me.. Summer love and youth, is there anything better?
A few years ago, not long after I first watched this movie, I went on a 5-week trip across Europe with my friends. We were following the downhill longboarding eurotour. We met another van full of European girls doing the same thing (we're American), one of which I instantly had a connection with. It was eerily similar to this in some ways, kicked off with a long night in Prague when we snuck away from all of our friends and wandered around the city together. In retrospect I don't remember a lot of what we talked about, somehow. It wasn't necessarily profound like this. I just remember the feeling. Throughout the remaining month I was still hesitant and gave her space, but our fling continued. By the end it was something I hadn't experienced before. Saying goodbye toward the end of the trip was absolutely brutal but we ended up crossing paths two more times after we thought we'd gone separate ways. At the end we were able to spend the entire last two days together before a Hollywood-level romantic goodbye at a bus stop. I don't think I'll ever experience anything like that again. This was about 2 years ago and we don't talk now. We had said we'd try to stay in touch unless it just didn't work. It didn't work. It's weird because I've faded out of that community and I'll likely never see her again. Who knows. I'm grateful for the experience at least. I was a bit of a mess in the wake of it and immediately rewatched this film when I returned. The last scene with the empty streets of Vienna absolutely killed me. I miss her and I miss whatever that was. It was a magical thing during a magical journey that I think will remain untouchable throughout the remainder of my life. The memories are so potent it's sometimes awful to dwell too heavily on them. Anyway, just wanted to say things like this really do happen and this movie depicts it with such pinpoint emotional accuracy it's unbelievable that it even exists. Linklater Hawke Delpie and everyone involved have created something timeless, transcendent and indescribable and through it I'm able to understand a bit more of what already feels like a dream that perhaps never actually happened to me..
"if there is any kind of magic in this world, it must be in the attempt of understanding someone sharing something." nasil en sevdigim ask filmi bu olmasin? :')
'The answer must be in the attempt" is the best life advice I've ever received from a movie or by anyone. Today, I really appreciate those little attempts people make irrespective of their results. And I hope they just continue doing what they love.
Cèline😍😍u totally said my heart in your dialogue we women might try to be appear strong to prove we dont need anybody we are independent etc but deep down being loved mean so much for us .
when i was 20 I was a lot like jesse. I wanted to be loved widely for something I was good at and to leave a mark on the world. at 25, I realized that mark I wanted to leave is just on the hearts of the people I care the most about. Nothing is more important that the time, dedication and love you give to your friends.
Watched this movie on Netflix on a bus going home and wishing that the bus would be the train and I'll find my own Jesse. Someone to have meaningful conversations with such as this.
Agree, I love it when that happens. You know, just talking about little things in life and slowly getting into deep conversations. It just makes you think about life in a different perspective and it feels so rejuvenating.
People are not people anymore. They are just like relentless mutant scoffers to the point that even a scene like this evokes uproarious mocking. The entire world has gone in this direction. We could have a world like this very scene. And instead because people are lawless and listening to the devil it’s clown land where everything is a wicked joke to the point they need oxygen and their face turns a shade of beetroot…. I want this world back replete with natural eyes. The warlocks mocked me for liking this movie… Like because I’m a Christian anything therefore associated with me or that I like is anathema and just totally lame. And I wish people just stopped trying to fit in with sheer unadulterated stupidity…
What?! I got the opposite impression! Jesse is cynical about almost everything! He doesn't think healthy happy relationships are possible. He thinks love is almost a selfish pursuit--just finding someone who will make YOU happy. Celine on the other hand has such a true heart and intelligent mind. She has a far better understanding of love and its true potential! It is all about the space in between us--the connection! Not our individual desires and needs and egos...
I have been coming to this scene for almost 8 years now.. Though there are many beautiful scenes in before trilogy this one is my absolute favourite. It's sweet yet painful, comfortable yet gloomy, hopeful yet vulnerable.
I had my Before Sunrise moment a few years back. Actually, a lot of it in a short amount of time. And it's the best feeling ever. On some days, usually at 3 AM when I'm smoking alone, I still find myself recoiling from the feeling of it ending--remembering those moments and just hankering for one more. Just one more night of vulnerability with someone who understands.
This reflects to what they become in the 3rd movie Before Midnight. They became what they're talking about themselves in this scene. Jesse felt like he was missing out on his son, Celine became that strong independent woman she is talking about.
I think and feel it is more important to find your life than to find love...once you're clear about yourself, you automatically become more attractive to the right person. Without knowing your life's work, you are not really alive.
When you were young, you connected with someone right away. But only to realized later in life how rare it is to meet someone like that in this life. You tell yourself Cest la vie. When you were older, you met someone who you connect with right away. But only to find yourself in a picture frame with partner and kids. You tell yourself cest la vie. Hope you are able to keep that iridescent person in your life :)
I believe love is one of those things that you only get out of it what you put in, and true love is being with someone who knows and acts on that same truth. It's far too easy to be in a relationship where you do all the work. Real love takes hard work and sacrifice on the parts of both people, and if their hearts and minds are in the right place, the results are beautiful. If more people were like that, divorce wouldn't be so rampant and marriage would never be seen as a negative thing.
'I believe if there's any kind of God it wouldn't be in any of us... not you or me... but just this little space in between.' For some reason I always remembered that line. Really love this movie!
You have to watch the scene in the bar/cafe immediately after this scene to understand more of what she means by "the space between us" and "in the attempt."
My before sunrise was at the beginning of the february. I think of him every time I see this movie. We spent two days but he has returned to his home country and I don't know if I will ever see him again but the two days were truly a dream. We danced and talked all the time. We talked about our dreams, our goals, the things we've lost and the things we love. He even bought me a goodbye present so I wouldn't forget him. Leaving was very difficult for us. Two days is such a short time, but you know what I felt like I knew him before. Nothing happened between us, we didn't even kiss each other. We hugged and parted. But thanks to social media, we still keep in touch. Our conversation is still very deep and it makes me happy to stay in touch with him. But I'm also very sad. I hope I will be able to see him again because I can't get him out of my head... I hope this bond between us doesn't end without a closure. You may be asking me why do you think it will have an end? Because I have 4 months left in europe and I know that I will not be able to come here again. So even if I see him again, it will most likely be the last time I see him. So I give you an advice. it's very difficult to understand and be understood by someone. And it's also very difficult that find a connection between two souls. When you find it, please don't lose it. The last words he said to me when he said goodbye, "I hope you can get your book published and your dreams come true." Now I'm writing a book about him :')
This is my fave movie ever! First time I watched this fully was way back in college tho I was by born in the early 90's. Out of the trilogy I have only watched before sunrise and before sunset, I am trying so hard to refrain myself to watch the final of out of the trilogy before midnight, since I promised to myself that I will only watch it with the person in which I think and sure that will be the one and I will spend the rest of my life with... Currently, I am dating this guy for 7 months now. Planning to watch to rewatch the 2 movies and the final one with him .. He knows I'm obsessed with this film, I invited and asked him to watch the 3rd one with me tho he has no idea the reason behind it. (He haven't seen any of the trilogy yet). He said yes and he would watch it with me.. I'll keep you guys updated if we have already watched it together. 😊
Never did I expect that I would have such an encounter in my life!! I was a cynic. Until I met him. It felt like Divine Timing. The SPARK lit my life for a moment and vanished. That's when I realised how I have been in darkness all my life! I panicked and searched for the light but in vain. And now I am learning to create that LIGHT instead of searching for it!
Celine is always the cynic one of the two relationship while Jesse is the romantic. They are opposite each other and yet they are perfect for each other.
What she said about the man being 52 and it struck him that he hadn’t given himself to anything other than his career is something I think about all the time. It’s crazy to me that some people will step on others and do people dirty to get to the top of their career or get their ideal job. What’s all that matter in the end? I had a similar epiphany during Covid. I have a more reserved personality but on the extreme side I think of never sharing myself and I suddenly thought what’s the purpose of living that way. If you’re private till your death did you really live? That sounds very lonely and I don’t want to live like that. All that matters in life is people and the relationships and connections we make. So be good to people and don’t let “ambitions” make you forget about what really matters
One of the best love scenes. I remember watching this film in Cinema, I go out so alive and happy ! I feel so much like them, and I had almost the same age at that time, omg... happens so much time till now! I remember all those feelings in me. Jessie here now I realize was very similar to his rol in "X Generation" ( also called " Reallity Bites")
I love this series. Funny part is, I usually hate Romance films. Something about this just resonated with me. One of my all time favorites. Simple Genius
I watched this movie when i was a teenager and now i’m in my 20s, it’s a different feelings i understand what they are saying now as i experience life and pondering life more
So prescient, when you think about the other 2 movies and how they were 18 years later. She still wants love, and everything she does, even the neurotic, pushing away stuff is to reassure herself that yes, she is still loved. Jesse still wants to be a good dad, but didn't want to be in a so so relationship just going through the motions. He said "I really want to be good at one thing" but in the end he chose to be good at loving Celine, being a writer and a dad came after. That's romantic!
No, no wait a minute. Talking seriously here. I mean, I always feel this pressure of being a strong independent icon of women hood and not making look like my whole life is revolving around some guy. But loving someone and being loved means so much to me. I always make fun of it and stuff but it is not everything we do in life a way to be loved a little More. Yeah I don’t know Sometimes I dream about being a good father and a good husband and sometimes it feels really close but than other times it seems silly like it would ruin my whole life. And it is not just a fear of commitment or that I am incapable of caring or loving because I can. It just that if I am totally honest with myself I think I had rather die knowing that I was really good at something that I had excelled in some way than that I had just been I nice caring relationship. I had worked for this older man and once he told me That he had spent all of his life thinking about his career and his work. He was 52 and it suddenly struck him that he had never really given anything of himself. His life was for no one and nothing. He was almost crying saying that. I believe if there’s any kind of God it would not be in any of us not in you or me. But just little space in between. If there’s any kind of magic in this world it must be in the attempt of understanding someone sharing something. I know it is almost impossible to succeed but who has cares? The answer must be in the attempt.
Life is complicated. So we must be complicated. I see intelligence there. There is no sense, just happenings. Episodes. I believe in doing things the best as we can. Just that. No plans. No long term things, peace, keep annoying people away, take distance from people you do not care, or the ones who have hurt you. Intuition and no reason.
In my teens and early twenties I thought their conversations were very deep and meaningful. Now that I’m in my mid thirties I realize that these are just two people with no care in the world other than romanticising everything around them. My husband and I fell in love during our study trip to Paris and it was magical. 15 years and two kids later our love and bond is still very strong, but we haven’t had those kind of conversations for years😂 The reality is that when you first meet someone that you’re very attracted to, you always try to portray the best version of yourself, but after a few months or a few years when the fierce excitement of being around that person fades away, those deep conversations turn into conversations about daily struggles of life, which often leads to arguments and deep dissatisfaction from both sides. That’s why Before Midnight is the most realistic movie out of these three. It might not be as romantic or satisfying to watch as the first two, but it portrays the reality of long term relationships very accurately.
after watching Gerwig's Little Women, I recall Celine's lines from Before Sunrise. Celine's character has a paralleling image that aligns with Jo from Little Women; they both want to make achievements and fulfill their dreams, to earn affirmation from others and to prove that they are capable of accomplishing their goals, but they also want to be loved. Compared to Jo, Celine is more self-aware of herself, with the inner yearning to love and be loved, while Jo, on the other hand, perhaps due to the societal pressure at the time, she prioritizes career & ambision over love & intimate relationship. Jo grows up thinking she doesn't need love or companionship, and that choosing those means sacrificing her dream to becoming a successful writer; yet at some point Jo realizes the loneliness she has been trying to run away from, which derives from her escapism of love. What distinguishes these two characters (Celine & Jo), is that Celine doesn't let her ego devour her desire for love (and that may has something to do with the story's time setting), so she's able to experience the feeling of loving people and being loved.
sometimes I wonder if some people we met in our lives, not just only love acquaintances but brief friendships as well think about us from time to time.
Oh I don't think I can watch this movie anymore. This movie stirs up a lot of my past. Back in 1995, I was 22 and being madly in love with a girl as well; and she was madly in love with me. And then, I let her go. Why? Because I simply didn't want to commit to any relationship at 22. There is a lot of parallels about my life in comparison to this movie. There is a sense of pain and forlorn whenever I see this movie.
being vulnerably honest with a stranger is one of the best feeling ever
And yet so difficult to do, in reality!,
Yes
Not that hard to do if you have "the connection" . It has happened to me twice. The best feeling ever. And I remember those conversations so vividly ❤️
@@strayedspirit happened to me too, many times. Most when I was travel. It s so beautiful.
@@lauralunaazul Same :) Because it has to be someone you don't know or at least you don't know well. And because you are yourself the most when you travel, I think :)
I know it's a movie..... I know she's just a character.... But I think we all live our lives just for a chance at a night like this..
+Aaron Smith it truly happened. Check out the story behind the film.
+Aaron Smith Ain't that the truth...
Absolutely it is the truth
Isn't everything we do in life a way to be loved a little more?
Check out this read:
www.slate.com/blogs/browbeat/2013/05/30/before_sunrise_inspiration_before_midnight_is_dedicated_to_amy_lehrhaupt.html
"The little space in between"...my favorite line in the whole movie. She means that love is not something we possess or acquire or consume--it is what connects us all and binds the universe together. And so it always in the space between us; not clutched in our hands or hearts or brains. We can never own love. We can only choose to be a part of it by allowing ourselves to be connected to others--through that little space that lies between us.
TheSoundscapePoet
Well said...
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I dont quite understand what she said, can u explain?
Sometimes i love it when i come through wise and beautiful words. Thank you so mucj for this ❤
Spp fucking true and also it is my best line
The torture of losing someone you can talk to like this is walking through life wondering if you're going to ever meet someone like them again. God, this film broke me.
somer seth same
I never cry in movie but this movie had literal.tears in my eyes
I just lost someone like that, I watched this movie because I wanted to feel identified with the characters. I feel as if Id never ever met someone to speak like this ever again.
I found someone like this. We could talk for 6hrs straight till our lungs gave out. He didn’t want me back... I don’t regret the experience. I’m so grateful.
Exactly ! i believe I will have the same feeling , coziness, freedom I had that night with the person I will settle kn the future, if I Will settle.
There are no words to describe how melancholic this film has made me feel so beatiful and still so sad
I feel you, bro
María Emperatriz Villegas Marrero thnx i'm alone in the world i guess
me too man. me too..
Same brother. Been in a weird mood lately because of it. Bittersweet feelings.
This movie had changed me. Seriously
It made such a huge impact in how I see life. It’s just so realistic
so dreamy, but so realistic... because the 'harsh reality of things' that society and our parents teach us is usually a load of crappy preconceptions and useless cookie-cutter routines ..
“He had never really given anything of himself” i feel like the whole movie is made to show how beautiful it really is when you actually do give a piece of yourself to someone
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I never thought of it that wat, that giving someone a piece of yourself like love can be beautiful.. All my life I've lived thinking that giving a piece of me was something against my best interests and better judgement, that it was something scary, but indeed it can be beautiful too.. Thank you for this.. ❤️
It’s like a metaphorical representation of a friendship necklace. You being able to be vulnerable, to give a part of yourself to someone while they do the same..it’s beautiful and such a profound thought on what love is to us
Why are their conversions so meaningful to me?
because its very rare people are just this deep somewhere out there
They're just some smartass people with egos and kinda melodramatic........just like us all in real life 😆
@Nct We the Dream Chaser this is also a very infj film! human connection, front and center.
@@k1no_ infp checking in 😎
enfj here ;)
This movie always makes me think about the guy i met in China. We were both from Europe, we spent together only one night, just walking around and talking about everything and we felt like we were meant for each other. It was the first time in my life that i fell for someone for real. But i had a plane back to Europe next day and i left him there. We've been in touch but it wasn't the same. Yet none of us could move on and we still thought of each other often. The year passed and he said he have to see me again. I've never felt so nervous in my life but when i saw him on a train platform it was like magic, like nothing's has changed and we simply fell into each other's arms. We spent 3 days together. Now he was the one leaving me. But the story's not over yet and i can't wait for the next chapter:)
You're like the alternate universe of jesse and celine. I'd love to hear the next chapter :)
You need to update us on this.
It all happened at the end of this January so we were pretty lucky to meet before spread of coronavirus. Hopefully we'll see each other after all this
I agree... Despite "being in touched" thru our tech, the connection isn't as special and meaningful as you two facing and feeling each other presence...
Wow. So lucky...
"The answer must be in the attempt". Holy Jesus fucking Christ, who wrote this dialog? It's beyond beautiful.
I didn't get it, could you explain it ??
I think, what you do must have an answer to something.
Don't answer it. The secret of art lies not in definitions, but in the vague and abstract. That which you can't define.
@@sumeetKumar91 She means that understanding someone is impossible/difficult but the attempt to understand someone is love. In the same way that the pursuit of perfection is unattainable because perfection is subjective and therefore not real. It's the pursuit of that perfection that's meaningful. It's about getting as close to perfection as possible. The attempt is meaningful.
@@hlomlamakwetu4119 This doesnt make sense, in the end its the end goal that matters right, say i am working hard to be a lawyer , i spend 20 years in pursuit of being one but in the end i give up , now tell me how can you find meaning in this pursuit?
your pursuit is pointless unless it is backed by an acheivement
god, i love this freaking movie
me too
HvnlyDaze me toooo
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“The answer must be in the attempt”
Amanda Gonzalez I’ve thought this same thought! It’s so satisfying to hear it here! It’s such a profound line right?
The answer to what? I think they don't know what they are saying. They just are trying to sound deep and poetic. Too much free time in their hands, no responsibilities, traveling on their parents dime, and talking pretentious crap. Oh, the luxuries of upper middle class!
Luke Gibson 😂
can someone explain the meaning of this to me
@@maxisyoon8316 No one can, its pretentious talk word salad. You are supposed to accept it as deep and insightful, and move on.
This movie hit me deep because there interactions actually seemed genuine and real, like it could happen. It shows not only there fun, intimate, loving moments but also the awkward and realistic conversations and scenes. I love every bit of dialogue, such a heartfelt movie.
You can see yourself in both characters. Jesse nailed it. I know I'm capable of love. I don't fear any intimacy or romantic commitment. It's just that, I don't want my whole identity just to be based on the babies that pass through my birth canal or my identity be based on the different beef stews I can cook in a crock pot for a husband who would rather eat Hooters' wings.
Jumel Grace Ola id have to disagree with that. I mean like not to sound like a typical girl which i might sound like after saying this BUT you can still do the things you love and are passionate about while being in a committed relationship. Maybe not have kids too soon but having a spouse to guide you through the way is beautiful
I disagree with that also. What's the point of working towards anything if you have no one to leave it to?
I relate. Everything I do has always been in the pursuit of finding someone I can share my deepest self with, and I honestly question whether or not that’s a good thing.
Well, I for one agree with you. We’re conditioned and told we have to settle down, we have to have children and continue on. We “have” to leave our legacy to someone.
But isn’t that just living for somebody else and forgetting yourself? If you try to experience life with everything all planned out you’re sure to be disappointed. If that’s the life somebody wants, of course, but don’t let your children or partner define who you are. You define who you are.
@@modest8930 respectfully, the journey you took on. Everyone should be a little selfish in their own life.
Julie Delpy is such a babe in this, such a babe. I loved this movie. Some quotes were really spot on. "everything we do is for a bit more love". I think we all want a moment like what was in this movie. That is honestly life-defining, think of the two movies that sprouted after. I think when I reach these feelings in my own life with people, I never forget it, even from childhood, its always stays there and I want to go back.
I still don't understand why she didn't get a career in Hollywood. In that period she was one of the most beautiful actress in the world
@@Big-guy1981 i think in order to succeed in hollywood u really have to he willing to sacrifice a lot. privacy, moral standards, honesty etc. she stayed her true self
I love when she says that if there's a god it is in the space between 2 people. it's so profound. beautiful movie, i always discover something new to appreciate on that.
I had forgotten how much I love this movie. It was the first movie I had ever watched with so much talking and not a second of it was boring. This movie gets me daydreaming and thinking deep. I love it so much. Honestly I think before sunrise and before sunset are unsurpassed but before midnight did not live much up to my expectations.
I completely agree, the first two were amazing. The third one wasn’t bad, but like you said, it doesn’t live up to the first two.
maybe it's not the right time for us yet? remember that the characters are getting old as well.
@@VanezArt I also think after some time you'll get it...
@@VanezArt I agree completely. When I was younger I didn't like it at all but now that I'm much older I think I will understand it and like it someday.
before midnight hit home for me after I broke up but reconciled with my ex
You know, I still get butterflies when I think about the girl I met at the beach when I was 16. I fell in love over a week and it has never left me.. Summer love and youth, is there anything better?
Maybe not. There isn't anything that is better. Makes my stupid life still more pointless.
Noo innovent love nad youth thats one deadly unbeatable combination
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A few years ago, not long after I first watched this movie, I went on a 5-week trip across Europe with my friends. We were following the downhill longboarding eurotour. We met another van full of European girls doing the same thing (we're American), one of which I instantly had a connection with.
It was eerily similar to this in some ways, kicked off with a long night in Prague when we snuck away from all of our friends and wandered around the city together. In retrospect I don't remember a lot of what we talked about, somehow. It wasn't necessarily profound like this. I just remember the feeling. Throughout the remaining month I was still hesitant and gave her space, but our fling continued. By the end it was something I hadn't experienced before. Saying goodbye toward the end of the trip was absolutely brutal but we ended up crossing paths two more times after we thought we'd gone separate ways. At the end we were able to spend the entire last two days together before a Hollywood-level romantic goodbye at a bus stop.
I don't think I'll ever experience anything like that again. This was about 2 years ago and we don't talk now. We had said we'd try to stay in touch unless it just didn't work. It didn't work. It's weird because I've faded out of that community and I'll likely never see her again. Who knows. I'm grateful for the experience at least. I was a bit of a mess in the wake of it and immediately rewatched this film when I returned. The last scene with the empty streets of Vienna absolutely killed me.
I miss her and I miss whatever that was. It was a magical thing during a magical journey that I think will remain untouchable throughout the remainder of my life. The memories are so potent it's sometimes awful to dwell too heavily on them.
Anyway, just wanted to say things like this really do happen and this movie depicts it with such pinpoint emotional accuracy it's unbelievable that it even exists. Linklater Hawke Delpie and everyone involved have created something timeless, transcendent and indescribable and through it I'm able to understand a bit more of what already feels like a dream that perhaps never actually happened to me..
daym bro, where was she from in europe tho?
This movie changed my life. Period.
chill dude its a movie how could it possibly chance your life💀💀💀
mine too.
"if there is any kind of magic in this world, it must be in the attempt of understanding someone sharing something." nasil en sevdigim ask filmi bu olmasin? :')
'The answer must be in the attempt" is the best life advice I've ever received from a movie or by anyone.
Today, I really appreciate those little attempts people make irrespective of their results. And I hope they just continue doing what they love.
His life was for no one and nothing. This line gives me goosebumps
Cèline😍😍u totally said my heart in your dialogue we women might try to be appear strong to prove we dont need anybody we are independent etc but deep down being loved mean so much for us .
In the last seconds the look on his face... He truly fell in love with her in that moment. :')
Thanks for your comment. I thought it was suppressed laughter, it's great to be pleasantly wrong.
@@Umeshukitsune hahahah 😇
One of the best movies I've ever seen!
yes! this movie will always have a special place in my heart
Its heartbreaking. In a way they both very accurately forsaw their lives.
It is perhaps the best movie I have ever seen. I hold this film in such high regard I can't even own it.
same. this movie will always have a special place in my heart
yes. too precious.
love this conversation, the way they talk, the topic that they choose, when walking, in the night. that feeling that we express.
The little space in between...she speaks alot of sense!
when i was 20 I was a lot like jesse. I wanted to be loved widely for something I was good at and to leave a mark on the world. at 25, I realized that mark I wanted to leave is just on the hearts of the people I care the most about. Nothing is more important that the time, dedication and love you give to your friends.
Watched this movie on Netflix on a bus going home and wishing that the bus would be the train and I'll find my own Jesse. Someone to have meaningful conversations with such as this.
Well there was that old guy next to you.😅
It's been 2 years. Have you found your Jesse?? I'm dying to know
this little space between us....that's what its all about.
I will be more than appreciated if I..if I could find a person.. just friends... to talk like this. It is so enjoyable
Agree, I love it when that happens. You know, just talking about little things in life and slowly getting into deep conversations. It just makes you think about life in a different perspective and it feels so rejuvenating.
@@twilightreminiscer5104 The feeling is like, you don't talk anything real, but actually everything you talk is life.
he totally falls for her during this conversation
No he sees through the lies and witchcraft
just how talented can a person be? the script writer did such a good job with this.
One of the best scenes in the history of cinema! So well-written and profound
People are not people anymore. They are just like relentless mutant scoffers to the point that even a scene like this evokes uproarious mocking. The entire world has gone in this direction. We could have a world like this very scene. And instead because people are lawless and listening to the devil it’s clown land where everything is a wicked joke to the point they need oxygen and their face turns a shade of beetroot….
I want this world back replete with natural eyes.
The warlocks mocked me for liking this movie…
Like because I’m a Christian anything therefore associated with me or that I like is anathema and just totally lame. And I wish people just stopped trying to fit in with sheer unadulterated stupidity…
What?! I got the opposite impression! Jesse is cynical about almost everything! He doesn't think healthy happy relationships are possible. He thinks love is almost a selfish pursuit--just finding someone who will make YOU happy. Celine on the other hand has such a true heart and intelligent mind. She has a far better understanding of love and its true potential! It is all about the space in between us--the connection! Not our individual desires and needs and egos...
Agreed
Nope... I think both equally and beautifully define the same thing.. cz both pov are realistic.... It's not negative or unhealthy... It's realistic...
~If there's any kind of magic in this world it must be in the attempt of understanding someone~
The writing is amazing
As an older guy whose been there, done that, lost loves and currently has spent almost 5 years hoping for my wife to come home, I approve this movie.
I have been coming to this scene for almost 8 years now.. Though there are many beautiful scenes in before trilogy this one is my absolute favourite. It's sweet yet painful, comfortable yet gloomy, hopeful yet vulnerable.
I had my Before Sunrise moment a few years back. Actually, a lot of it in a short amount of time. And it's the best feeling ever. On some days, usually at 3 AM when I'm smoking alone, I still find myself recoiling from the feeling of it ending--remembering those moments and just hankering for one more. Just one more night of vulnerability with someone who understands.
After this movie I felt so many new things which made me learn so many other new things,this movie really changed my perspective.
One of my favourite and undoubtedly one of the best movies ever made
This movie is so beautifully written! Every word they say is so meaningful!
This reflects to what they become in the 3rd movie Before Midnight. They became what they're talking about themselves in this scene. Jesse felt like he was missing out on his son, Celine became that strong independent woman she is talking about.
"But isn't everything we do in life a way to be loved even more?"
I think and feel it is more important to find your life than to find love...once you're clear about yourself, you automatically become more attractive to the right person. Without knowing your life's work, you are not really alive.
So pure so vulnerable arent they adorable!!❤️😍😍Its so human ❤️
The wisdom to behold in this scene is immeasurable.
Celine's comment about the space between people and attempting to connect with people is a perfect thesis for the franchise
When you were young, you connected with someone right away. But only to realized later in life how rare it is to meet someone like that in this life. You tell yourself Cest la vie.
When you were older, you met someone who you connect with right away. But only to find yourself in a picture frame with partner and kids. You tell yourself cest la vie.
Hope you are able to keep that iridescent person in your life :)
This scene gives me so much ASMR. ❤️
One of my favorite scenes.
I believe love is one of those things that you only get out of it what you put in, and true love is being with someone who knows and acts on that same truth. It's far too easy to be in a relationship where you do all the work. Real love takes hard work and sacrifice on the parts of both people, and if their hearts and minds are in the right place, the results are beautiful. If more people were like that, divorce wouldn't be so rampant and marriage would never be seen as a negative thing.
This is the best romantic movie I've ever watched
'I believe if there's any kind of God it wouldn't be in any of us... not you or me... but just this little space in between.'
For some reason I always remembered that line. Really love this movie!
You have to watch the scene in the bar/cafe immediately after this scene to understand more of what she means by "the space between us" and "in the attempt."
+Curt Thrapp What do you think she meant?
2013 and still love this scene...
no touch but felt so romantic... just a conversation but feeling deeply than a kiss.... ever,,,i ever felt that :)
giving a reminder to watch it again after 8 years
@@apurbapoudel9012 two beautiful nepalese meeting in unexpected part of the digital world.
@@dataking3784what are you on aboutv
This movie made me cry 3 times in intervals of 8-10 minutes.
My before sunrise was at the beginning of the february. I think of him every time I see this movie. We spent two days but he has returned to his home country and I don't know if I will ever see him again but the two days were truly a dream. We danced and talked all the time. We talked about our dreams, our goals, the things we've lost and the things we love. He even bought me a goodbye present so I wouldn't forget him. Leaving was very difficult for us. Two days is such a short time, but you know what I felt like I knew him before. Nothing happened between us, we didn't even kiss each other. We hugged and parted. But thanks to social media, we still keep in touch. Our conversation is still very deep and it makes me happy to stay in touch with him. But I'm also very sad. I hope I will be able to see him again because I can't get him out of my head... I hope this bond between us doesn't end without a closure. You may be asking me why do you think it will have an end? Because I have 4 months left in europe and I know that I will not be able to come here again. So even if I see him again, it will most likely be the last time I see him. So I give you an advice. it's very difficult to understand and be understood by someone. And it's also very difficult that find a connection between two souls. When you find it, please don't lose it. The last words he said to me when he said goodbye, "I hope you can get your book published and your dreams come true." Now I'm writing a book about him :')
Each and every dialogue are just amazing
They dont know now. This conversation will be their lifestory...I love this
My favourite scene in this film
I forgot how beautiful this was
atleast we'll keep coming back to be reminded of how beautiful it is
Beautiful movie!!!!!!
I love this trilogy. Periodt.
Yes ❤
I want a night like this!
This is my fave movie ever! First time I watched this fully was way back in college tho I was by born in the early 90's. Out of the trilogy I have only watched before sunrise and before sunset, I am trying so hard to refrain myself to watch the final of out of the trilogy before midnight, since I promised to myself that I will only watch it with the person in which I think and sure that will be the one and I will spend the rest of my life with...
Currently, I am dating this guy for 7 months now. Planning to watch to rewatch the 2 movies and the final one with him .. He knows I'm obsessed with this film, I invited and asked him to watch the 3rd one with me tho he has no idea the reason behind it. (He haven't seen any of the trilogy yet). He said yes and he would watch it with me..
I'll keep you guys updated if we have already watched it together. 😊
That’s beautiful - what happened??
Never did I expect that I would have such an encounter in my life!! I was a cynic. Until I met him. It felt like Divine Timing. The SPARK lit my life for a moment and vanished. That's when
I realised how I have been in darkness all my life! I panicked and searched for the light but in vain.
And now I am learning to create that LIGHT instead of searching for it!
Celine is always the cynic one of the two relationship while Jesse is the romantic. They are opposite each other and yet they are perfect for each other.
It's funny underneath all that, it seems she's the idealistic in this scene and he's more career orientated.
This scene resonated with me for so long it's beautiful
Meanwhile irl: So what’s your favorite color?
one of my fav scenes
"the answer must be in the attempt" 🌹
I wanna watch this movie million times.
What she said about the man being 52 and it struck him that he hadn’t given himself to anything other than his career is something I think about all the time. It’s crazy to me that some people will step on others and do people dirty to get to the top of their career or get their ideal job. What’s all that matter in the end? I had a similar epiphany during Covid. I have a more reserved personality but on the extreme side I think of never sharing myself and I suddenly thought what’s the purpose of living that way. If you’re private till your death did you really live? That sounds very lonely and I don’t want to live like that. All that matters in life is people and the relationships and connections we make. So be good to people and don’t let “ambitions” make you forget about what really matters
One of the best love scenes. I remember watching this film in Cinema, I go out so alive and happy ! I feel so much like them, and I had almost the same age at that time, omg... happens so much time till now! I remember all those feelings in me.
Jessie here now I realize was very similar to his rol in "X Generation" ( also called " Reallity Bites")
So, this wasn't nominated for Best Actress? Such a shame.
I like the Idea that the next movie will play out if Celine never got of the train with him, and how their life would look like then.
I love this series. Funny part is, I usually hate Romance films. Something about this just resonated with me. One of my all time favorites. Simple Genius
The best movie, all 3 series
I watched this movie when i was a teenager and now i’m in my 20s, it’s a different feelings i understand what they are saying now as i experience life and pondering life more
The most beautiful scene of all times
So prescient, when you think about the other 2 movies and how they were 18 years later. She still wants love, and everything she does, even the neurotic, pushing away stuff is to reassure herself that yes, she is still loved.
Jesse still wants to be a good dad, but didn't want to be in a so so relationship just going through the motions. He said "I really want to be good at one thing" but in the end he chose to be good at loving Celine, being a writer and a dad came after. That's romantic!
Favourite movie of all time ❤
No, no wait a minute. Talking seriously here.
I mean, I always feel this pressure of being a strong independent icon of women hood and not making look like my whole life is revolving around some guy.
But loving someone and being loved means so much to me. I always make fun of it and stuff but it is not everything we do in life a way to be loved a little More.
Yeah I don’t know
Sometimes I dream about being a good father and a good husband and sometimes it feels really close but than other times it seems silly like it would ruin my whole life.
And it is not just a fear of commitment or that I am incapable of caring or loving because I can.
It just that if I am totally honest with myself I think I had rather die knowing that I was really good at something that I had excelled in some way than that I had just been I nice caring relationship.
I had worked for this older man and once he told me
That he had spent all of his life thinking about his career and his work. He was 52 and it suddenly struck him that he had never really given anything of himself.
His life was for no one and nothing. He was almost crying saying that.
I believe if there’s any kind of God it would not be in any of us not in you or me. But just little space in between.
If there’s any kind of magic in this world it must be in the attempt of understanding someone sharing something.
I know it is almost impossible to succeed but who has cares? The answer must be in the attempt.
one of the best scenes'
Great scene.
We are all Star Dust .....Love this film !
Life is complicated. So we must be complicated. I see intelligence there. There is no sense, just happenings. Episodes. I believe in doing things the best as we can. Just that. No plans. No long term things, peace, keep annoying people away, take distance from people you do not care, or the ones who have hurt you.
Intuition and no reason.
Before sunrise🖤
In my teens and early twenties I thought their conversations were very deep and meaningful. Now that I’m in my mid thirties I realize that these are just two people with no care in the world other than romanticising everything around them. My husband and I fell in love during our study trip to Paris and it was magical. 15 years and two kids later our love and bond is still very strong, but we haven’t had those kind of conversations for years😂 The reality is that when you first meet someone that you’re very attracted to, you always try to portray the best version of yourself, but after a few months or a few years when the fierce excitement of being around that person fades away, those deep conversations turn into conversations about daily struggles of life, which often leads to arguments and deep dissatisfaction from both sides. That’s why Before Midnight is the most realistic movie out of these three. It might not be as romantic or satisfying to watch as the first two, but it portrays the reality of long term relationships very accurately.
2:15 the way he looks at her... always gets me
after watching Gerwig's Little Women, I recall Celine's lines from Before Sunrise. Celine's character has a paralleling image that aligns with Jo from Little Women; they both want to make achievements and fulfill their dreams, to earn affirmation from others and to prove that they are capable of accomplishing their goals, but they also want to be loved. Compared to Jo, Celine is more self-aware of herself, with the inner yearning to love and be loved, while Jo, on the other hand, perhaps due to the societal pressure at the time, she prioritizes career & ambision over love & intimate relationship. Jo grows up thinking she doesn't need love or companionship, and that choosing those means sacrificing her dream to becoming a successful writer; yet at some point Jo realizes the loneliness she has been trying to run away from, which derives from her escapism of love. What distinguishes these two characters (Celine & Jo), is that Celine doesn't let her ego devour her desire for love (and that may has something to do with the story's time setting), so she's able to experience the feeling of loving people and being loved.
sometimes I wonder if some people we met in our lives, not just only love acquaintances but brief friendships as well think about us from time to time.
Oh I don't think I can watch this movie anymore. This movie stirs up a lot of my past. Back in 1995, I was 22 and being madly in love with a girl as well; and she was madly in love with me. And then, I let her go. Why? Because I simply didn't want to commit to any relationship at 22. There is a lot of parallels about my life in comparison to this movie. There is a sense of pain and forlorn whenever I see this movie.
The best movi ever. Masterpice