What does a husband offer when he's broke

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  • Опубликовано: 4 дек 2023
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Комментарии • 100

  • @IAmWizdom1000
    @IAmWizdom1000 7 месяцев назад +95

    lol Uzi getting cuddles to listen to Beleaf’s stomach is hilarious!😂😂😂😂

  • @johndomhodge8947
    @johndomhodge8947 7 месяцев назад +47

    “I thought it was Yvette “ 😂❤ Precious

  • @ronjelaberaud7087
    @ronjelaberaud7087 7 месяцев назад +62

    “Marry the mission not the plan “ I love that!!! This statement can be applied to any situation.

  • @Daughter.of.Yahweh.
    @Daughter.of.Yahweh. 7 месяцев назад +82

    Baby girl is soo stinkin cute and very well spoken she’s going to be so emotionally intelligent when she’s older love that❤

  • @Akilahh
    @Akilahh 7 месяцев назад +198

    “You know me, I love love” is my new motto for 2024 😭🥹 loved this episode 🥰

    • @OMGitsTEETEE
      @OMGitsTEETEE 7 месяцев назад +10

      That was so precious!

    • @GodsChildLtd
      @GodsChildLtd 7 месяцев назад +9

      I was now coming to type this 😂

    • @delle3955
      @delle3955 7 месяцев назад +7

      ❤😂 Seriously, I’m taking this with me for life!🥰

    • @JasmineaJoseph
      @JasmineaJoseph 7 месяцев назад +3

      SAME. 😂😂😭🤍

    • @yolz555
      @yolz555 7 месяцев назад +1

      ❤❤❤❤

  • @shawnacieh7156
    @shawnacieh7156 7 месяцев назад +38

    She is so confused about your name 😂 So cute

  • @PatriciaPatricia_
    @PatriciaPatricia_ 7 месяцев назад +33

    “You know me. I love love” was so incredibly profound we NEED shirts. I’ve never felt so seen in my big ole age !❤❤❤

  • @godislove3593
    @godislove3593 7 месяцев назад +6

    Niya is so pretty. Just like her mom.

  • @handmade2718
    @handmade2718 7 месяцев назад +11

    Mrs Melanin's singing voice❤. What?!🎉

    • @danielahartstern3400
      @danielahartstern3400 Месяц назад

      Her voice is so beautiful even just talking! It sounds so comforting and loving! ❤ I'd love if she could record sleep stories for adults, for the Calm app, for example.

  • @Wintersno
    @Wintersno 7 месяцев назад +22

    period, a word! the babies are soooo wise, "I can't stop growing!"

  • @TheHarrisFour
    @TheHarrisFour 7 месяцев назад +10

    Liability was a good word. Children are a blessing but also a liability.

  • @jadenmitchell8367
    @jadenmitchell8367 7 месяцев назад +38

    Thankyou so much for responding to our email and for the advice ! This video really made our day. We love y'all and pray the best for y'all ❤!

  • @recipebandit3563
    @recipebandit3563 7 месяцев назад +23

    😊. Enjoyed having Anaya join the pod. She's the sweetest little girl. Blessings

  • @OMGitsTEETEE
    @OMGitsTEETEE 7 месяцев назад +14

    Ngl I appreciate y’all reminding us to “like” the videos bc I legit forget 😅😮‍💨

    • @JustShannaBE
      @JustShannaBE 7 месяцев назад

      And seem I am not there in the video yet, lol but this comment made me remember to do it 😂

  • @alanakemp7664
    @alanakemp7664 7 месяцев назад +12

    There is no such thing as a broke husband... only a broke married couple. Marriage merges funds. It is refered to as household earnings, heads of household, etc. A broke husband is an ex husband

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 7 месяцев назад +5

      Your finances aren't merged unless you merge them.

  • @whenyouwishuponastar6643
    @whenyouwishuponastar6643 7 месяцев назад +27

    The couple on the email is on great path. Their Hearts are both in the right place. Im in this position, my husband is getting his masters degree in a great field. Now, he still works and pays bills, but right now I am able to make more, I don’t mind contributing more because I know my husband is working hard to provide for us in a better capacity, I’m looking forward to only working part time when we have kids 😊. My advice for this young man is to try and treat his wife even if he can’t spend money. Offer her a back rub, cook her dinner. Make her feel appreciate and remind her that the roles will reverse. And like beleaf said, don’t be afraid to take breaks because you’re working hard as well. You and your wife are a team.

    • @maiamiimaiam4343
      @maiamiimaiam4343 7 месяцев назад +4

      When you have children, his children all the money you're contributing to y'alls house should start being invested in you guys children. Do not let him make you feel like he is doing you a favor by paying bills he'd have either way. Lol unless he changes his mind about children cause girl he will be saving

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 7 месяцев назад

      Be sure to have that post-grad plan in writing or something (record the conversation... something!)

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 7 месяцев назад +1

      Also, it is almost 2024... Why does a man who's married need to be told to cook & serve? 🤨🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @webarmceachnie3382
    @webarmceachnie3382 7 месяцев назад +17

    Blessings from Trinidad and Tobago 🇹🇹

  • @natashacampbell1768
    @natashacampbell1768 7 месяцев назад +4

    I miss Glen doing ‘food for thought’ in season 1 BiF because the meals looked amazing and we could reflect 😅😂. Please keep cooking!

  • @kwbnsika
    @kwbnsika 7 месяцев назад +4

    Why am I ROTF at the thumbnail? 😂

  • @deb5thmitch
    @deb5thmitch 7 месяцев назад +4

    Don’t believe in what he or she can do. Have faith and trust in what God has for you. Seek his wisdom for your life’s journey first.

  • @mstmklry
    @mstmklry 7 месяцев назад +3

    “You know me, I love love”💕☺️

  • @KISSwithNatty
    @KISSwithNatty 7 месяцев назад +9

    19:37 Not me rewinding this part 3x to catch the spelled out words lol 😅🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @cyberbunny-hj9ii
    @cyberbunny-hj9ii 3 месяца назад +1

    I struggle with a lot of these concepts because all of this SOUNDS good but the bills is due now? 😂 I as a fiancée have always been ready to do whatever for mine - I can’t relate to the “Whatever he wants to do. When he desires…at his pace. His wife is probably fine.” Lol

  • @JaieElizabeth
    @JaieElizabeth 7 месяцев назад +3

    😂 “I can’t stop growing.”

  • @dillonhall3344
    @dillonhall3344 7 месяцев назад +4

    God bless daughters nothing like a daughter.

  • @lexxlovelyness
    @lexxlovelyness 7 месяцев назад +5

    15:52 this is a good opportunity for him to push through and show his wife all tht his manhood has to offer . Finance is one aspect but there are endless ways for you to show up for your wife in your own manly way. Again, this is an opportunity for you to curate/show up/BE.. the best, greatest, provider (in other ways). Do ya thing keep ya head up and focused on who you are. Not sure though.. kinda lost it lol

  • @LouLou-ti1yc
    @LouLou-ti1yc 7 месяцев назад +5

    Anaya(spell check lol) is so cute. Thank you for the prayer Yvette. I've been praying for things I want for him or things i THINK he wants, I think a more effective prayer is for what is in his heart, what will make him excited for the day.

  • @marybrown6185
    @marybrown6185 6 месяцев назад +1

    Engineering can be really hard. Tutoring and joining campus clubs e.g. NSBE, IEEE, etc. helped tremendously. Networking with classmates and going to office hours to get a handle on the material goes far.

  • @AlieshiaTV
    @AlieshiaTV 7 месяцев назад +2

    lol she said that’s your name 😂😂😂

  • @AnyasHeart
    @AnyasHeart 7 месяцев назад +4

    One of my favourite couples I have your family up on my vision board ❤❤❤

  • @tracy-annrobinson4559
    @tracy-annrobinson4559 7 месяцев назад +8

    Love listening to your podcast

  • @Anekablooms
    @Anekablooms 7 месяцев назад +1

    This episode is goooold !

  • @tameka3760
    @tameka3760 7 месяцев назад +2

    Very sound advice you guys.

  • @Monique-py5ny
    @Monique-py5ny 7 месяцев назад +3

    Anaya is a beautiful child!

  • @ABCampbell7
    @ABCampbell7 7 месяцев назад +5

    Insightful, entertaining and encouraging conversation and content as always!

  • @teflon1920
    @teflon1920 7 месяцев назад

    Great episode, as always! Happy Holidays!

  • @tamikamorrisonokeleke5328
    @tamikamorrisonokeleke5328 7 месяцев назад

    Great episode! I needed this perspective. Very insightful! 👏🏾 ❤

  • @lashawn369
    @lashawn369 7 месяцев назад +1

    Checking in from the DMV.

  • @hoodhippie7117
    @hoodhippie7117 7 месяцев назад +3

    Awwwwwww we deserved this !!❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Faithy100
    @Faithy100 7 месяцев назад +1

    I thoroughly enjoyed this episode!!❤

  • @joyfullychosen1771
    @joyfullychosen1771 7 месяцев назад

    What an amazing family. My, my, my.

  • @TDBee09
    @TDBee09 7 месяцев назад +4

    Hello from Colorado! 💕

  • @julietcapito8312
    @julietcapito8312 7 месяцев назад +1

    Love it that its the guy asking for advice. That's not common.

  • @julieulreich2156
    @julieulreich2156 7 месяцев назад +1

    You are both so wise! I love your podcast. ❤

  • @nathancarter1082
    @nathancarter1082 7 месяцев назад +1

    Beautiful family.... love drips from your family. May God bless and protect your family forever

  • @KenDEE447
    @KenDEE447 6 месяцев назад

    You have a Beautiful voice Ms. Melanin

  • @eleasebarrow7897
    @eleasebarrow7897 29 дней назад

    When you said, "Subscribe," RUclips kind of highlighted the button.

  • @vee2times628
    @vee2times628 6 месяцев назад

    Awww I love her being in with y’all ❤❤😂😂😂😂 she’s to cute

  • @LiyaZuluM
    @LiyaZuluM 6 месяцев назад +1

    I love Anaya's hair

  • @shaquitaburke8592
    @shaquitaburke8592 5 месяцев назад

    Yvette has a beautiful voice!

  • @Chloe.84collins
    @Chloe.84collins 7 месяцев назад +2

    HI! FROM DETROIT ❤

  • @crystalphillips696
    @crystalphillips696 7 месяцев назад

    Love your glasses Yvette.

  • @duduzilekelem5712
    @duduzilekelem5712 7 месяцев назад +3

    Water is life. Mac n cheese are calories😂

  • @user-ix3qp9gy3c
    @user-ix3qp9gy3c 5 месяцев назад

    Uzi my guy. I just love him 😂

  • @arleneliftschrist6240
    @arleneliftschrist6240 7 месяцев назад +2

    Haahhahaha the beggining 😂

  • @rasta487
    @rasta487 7 месяцев назад

    Wow so talented and cool 😎

  • @monetismymiddlename
    @monetismymiddlename 7 месяцев назад

    I’m kinda grown 😂 IM CRYING

  • @IncorruptibleSeedpodWithE
    @IncorruptibleSeedpodWithE 7 месяцев назад

    Marriage vows say it all,

  • @Trisha81
    @Trisha81 7 месяцев назад +3

    Water can't really compete with mac & cheese though 😂

  • @lexxlovelyness
    @lexxlovelyness 7 месяцев назад +1

    Look at how older and beautiful Anaya looks on that thumbnail

  • @tammieyancey13
    @tammieyancey13 7 месяцев назад +4

    I feel like it depends on the age of the couple.

  • @everlastingjoypodcast
    @everlastingjoypodcast 7 месяцев назад

    Y’all got that baby so confused 😂

  • @justaservant8120
    @justaservant8120 7 месяцев назад +2

    How do you follow God and your ancestors?..

  • @arleneliftschrist6240
    @arleneliftschrist6240 7 месяцев назад +1

    Hahahahaha she needs to be a regular hahaha

  • @msnola915
    @msnola915 7 месяцев назад

    I love your podcast‼️ I listen me there‼️

  • @DR.WISDOM444
    @DR.WISDOM444 7 месяцев назад

    ITS SIMPLY SUCCESS FOR THE INJURED PERSON IS RECOVERING:)…

  • @thejones222
    @thejones222 7 месяцев назад +4

    16:55 the camera is switching angles a little too much 😵‍💫

  • @723BossLady
    @723BossLady 7 месяцев назад

  • @DR.WISDOM444
    @DR.WISDOM444 7 месяцев назад

    SUCCESS FOR THE CHICKEN WAS CROSSING THE ROAD:)

  • @thelaolueffect
    @thelaolueffect 7 месяцев назад +1

    5:54 electric car?

  • @Wintersno
    @Wintersno 7 месяцев назад

    kind grown! lol

  • @marioanalevy
    @marioanalevy 5 месяцев назад

    I miss all the adilibs you used to add on the intro

  • @jmladygodsgrace2788
    @jmladygodsgrace2788 7 месяцев назад

    😂❤😊

  • @mitchellword7837
    @mitchellword7837 7 месяцев назад

    Why are our greatest black symbols two things completely outside our control? Money and institutional education.

    • @doll.ov.poetrii4682
      @doll.ov.poetrii4682 7 месяцев назад

      Very true!

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 7 месяцев назад

      They're in our control enough for us to have more men taking advantage. Otherwise, you should be in the front lines of a socialist organization

  • @victorianameneverner6271
    @victorianameneverner6271 7 месяцев назад

    Hi Anaya

  • @DR.WISDOM444
    @DR.WISDOM444 7 месяцев назад

    & THE KEY 3KEYS TO A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP =GOD1ST =PASSIONATE LOVE & SAME MISSION FOUNDATION/SIMULAR INTEREST:)…BONNY/CLYDE

  • @lindaf6274
    @lindaf6274 7 месяцев назад +1

    I LOVE this couple!!! Reminds me of me and my late husband’s relationship🥹, working things out logistically. Good convo, good stuff! God continue to bless and increase y’all.❤❤❤❤