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  • @HarleyQuinn-yh7mx
    @HarleyQuinn-yh7mx 3 года назад +153

    It’s a tactic to keep you hanging on in hopes that they leave the other person and come to you. Funny thing is, once you leave the relationship then you become the fixed object that they triangulate in their new relationship. Best way to respond to this type of behavior is to cut them off with no warning.

    • @lorainegardener559
      @lorainegardener559 3 года назад +27

      I did I discarded him ten months no contact hes gone into hiding with old supply

    • @HarleyQuinn-yh7mx
      @HarleyQuinn-yh7mx 3 года назад +21

      @@lorainegardener559 maybe new. Who cares. As long as you got away from him.

    • @MIRNA_LIZ
      @MIRNA_LIZ 3 года назад +12

      Exactly !

    • @vickyalvarez6886
      @vickyalvarez6886 3 года назад +14

      Yes ma'am. And do not look back!

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад +15

      Omg‼️ Nothing but FACTS here‼️💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @dawnia4291
    @dawnia4291 3 года назад +30

    They triangulate every day with all kinds of things, and yes pictures of women of their past and present and anything that could make you jealous. They want to hurt you all day long, for power, so they do whatever they think will trigger jealously and sadness in you. They are sickening, sorry, demon souls. They don’t want to build you up like a godly person would want to, they want to tear you down.

  • @KC-ns9do
    @KC-ns9do 3 года назад +10

    So glad I got away from that circus.

  • @AnotherShyFlower
    @AnotherShyFlower 3 года назад +90

    Nothing but the truth!!!!!! They will take up for the other person to make you mad and act like they don’t understand why you are mad. The games they play so emotional abusive!! Smh

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад +3

      Facts Sis‼️💯💯💯

    • @melinatedvessel6840
      @melinatedvessel6840 3 года назад +10

      It's to make you feel like the person that they are triangulating you with is a more valuable person than you... to them and really overall...Its a lie from the pits of hell..

    • @INHOUSEMUSICGROUP-PROMOS-vz7lm
      @INHOUSEMUSICGROUP-PROMOS-vz7lm 4 месяца назад

      EXACTLY… a lot of the time they don’t even like that new/old person as much as they like you
      They just know it will make you mad and they feed off making you jealous

  • @DIVERGENTstar
    @DIVERGENTstar 2 года назад +39

    Sis! You put me up on so much game the smear campaign ain't work, hoovers ain't work, triangulation ain't work! I appreciate your work!

  • @stephaniepena5904
    @stephaniepena5904 3 года назад +62

    The narc told me i was childish for getting mad at his baby mom posting piks with him, because he said he wasn't kissing her and he defended her.. she is toxic jus like him she knew he was with me and wanted him to go bk to her.. she was desperate to win him back, so i sent that bird flying.. He always triangulated me with his son and his baby mom all the time

    • @erricacane9566
      @erricacane9566 3 года назад +20

      Same situation- baby mamas be thirsting for a dude for years that played them the first,second, and a millionth time- let them have they asses. Let them lose the rest of that thinning scalpline they got left.

    • @stephaniepena5904
      @stephaniepena5904 3 года назад +20

      @@erricacane9566 right on point sis, they are so lost they lost themselves being with the narcissist i know i did but i didnt fight for him, as much as i felt defeated and stupid i knew deep down i was the prize the whole time, let her think shes winning he will never love and respect her, she took all my damn problems away, im gud

    • @kishahicks36
      @kishahicks36 3 года назад +11

      Mines with the same way he was fixated like that with his 22 year old daughter he actually made me feel like he wanted to have some kind of insects with his own child because he acted like he was so infatuated with them but what was so funny was that they treated him like s*** and acting like he didn't exist

    • @kishahicks36
      @kishahicks36 3 года назад +8

      I'm laughing because I'm not tripping about nothing because I'm not GOIN TO fight over this man with a 63 year old baby mother

    • @erricacane9566
      @erricacane9566 3 года назад +8

      @@kishahicks36 Yep.. the way he defended his sis I promise they been doing something- no man is gonna lose his 🐱 over a family member especially if he know his family members are full of 💩

  • @erricacane9566
    @erricacane9566 3 года назад +58

    My exact problem would be defending the old supply like he’s in a relationship with her. Last straw was his fellow narc ass sister invited us and his ex gf to a party at her house. I refused to go knowing the sis and ex gf hate me. He overheard me say his sis has been bitchy to me on a phone call and defended his sis and the baby mama like it was his life on the line. I was disgarded and at first could not understand why he was so angry and refused to have a convo. Realized that this was my opportunity to take it as a blessing- anyone who defends another aint your man/woman. Stay strong yall🙏

    • @MrDDUDLEY10
      @MrDDUDLEY10 3 года назад +9

      Mines was ALWAYS defending everybody BUT ME. The girl at the party that was in his face.. the friend that would blow his phone up like he was the girlfriend. My brother who I had a fist fight with while he was there. His friend who was cheating on his girlfriend and had a baby. His weak 🤬 self when he made a foul. Just trash. And had the nerve to get mad cause I said no about getting a rental because he lost his car... lol, yea baby boy... gone the other way. ✌🏽

    • @erricacane9566
      @erricacane9566 3 года назад +6

      @@MrDDUDLEY10 and to think we ever let that demon in our lives!!! Girl - glad I will never have to be with a clown ever again. Defend their actions to GOD now since you like defending everybody but the people who stick by you.

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад +3

      💯💖💯💕💯💖💕

    • @user-by4sd2jy2c
      @user-by4sd2jy2c Месяц назад

      @@erricacane9566Facts. Just complete, weak, pathetic, disloyal losers. 😊

  • @aboriginaleveything
    @aboriginaleveything 3 года назад +51

    My God!! These people are sick!!! We need to setup a goon squad for these narcs. Now I know what it means when I hear mental wounds never heal! Me ex had scared me deep in to my soul. I am so thankful I found your channel, because these last 8 months has been hard. And I've had to deal with this alone. Peace and blessings to you sister tea and the tea tribe!!🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

    • @katrinagovan2871
      @katrinagovan2871 3 года назад +7

      You GOT US SIS. the devil n his kids ARE LOSERS. JUST REMEMBER GOD IS THE GREATEST POWER WE WILL NOT BE DEFEATED. Just ALWAYS reach out for help HERE , & watch here videos and above ALL CALL ON JESUS. the SAVIOR. PRAYING FOR YOUR DELIVERANCE IN JESUS.

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад +2

      💯💯💯

  • @RobynP.
    @RobynP. 3 года назад +29

    When I tell you, you read my whole entire situation!!!! It is baffling how accurate this is and it will have you feeling like you’re the one that’s crazy

  • @Dj.SeanMalik
    @Dj.SeanMalik 3 года назад +53

    Spot on! Some clown wishes her “happy birthday baby” on her social media. I replied wtf 🙄, got deleted & blocked. She defends him sayin “oh I’ve known him for years. That’s just how he talks.” 😳😒. Everything you speak of is as you were present as it was taking place & helping my gain understanding of what I experienced. I appreciate you 🙏🏾.

    • @erricacane9566
      @erricacane9566 3 года назад +16

      Wowww… Baby? Naw, she is for the highway. Leave her there in traffic.

    • @aboriginaleveything
      @aboriginaleveything 3 года назад +14

      My ex said the same thing about her back burner supply. My response to was " I've known you for 16 years! How long is a long time "!! She is straight up trash!! Plus she defended him physically when I confronted them... I done with that whole situation....

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад +4

      Facts my Brother‼️💯💯💯

    • @Dj.SeanMalik
      @Dj.SeanMalik 3 года назад

      @@rcblaleajr3234 my sons are grown & no children with her. Severed all ties & went no contact. Indeed, I frequently make charitable contributions in both time & money. 🙏🏾

    • @cmonicoosio8927
      @cmonicoosio8927 2 года назад +1

      ♻♻♻♻♻♻♻🚮🚮🚮🚮🚮

  • @summerdanielleisaacs2266
    @summerdanielleisaacs2266 2 года назад +16

    So true! They do know how to get you to start asking Questions and then accuse you of starting an argument.

  • @constanceragsdale3305
    @constanceragsdale3305 3 года назад +19

    I erased myself from the picture... blocked...Hoover’s n all I did not show or feel anger anymore... she won the prise... I was glad to give up the abuse....smirking because it’s her turn to feel the true narc...um out... it was awful ...rude mean text... which I did not get out of character...and ended it with his last ugly statements...thru Instagram message....I let him and her know she was the last option, because the one he discarded me for, ended up with someone else...(he was her side piece)....he underestimated me, thought I was gonna take him back after the second discard to cheat in peace... which I accepted... why fight over someone who doesn’t want you in the first place....

  • @jenniferjohnson4706
    @jenniferjohnson4706 3 года назад +19

    Saw lots of games but never knew what they represent,but now that I am out they made sense. He triangulate me with the back burner because she was a snake always calling and cursing me but when I told him he defended her claiming this woman had a wrong number, who would have a wrong number for years...she was the door mat and the forever supply that no matter what she would give him money and she does his bidding.she is an inverted narcissist I heard the more pain she gets is the happier she is.well that is their problem now .. Thanks to her they can have each other.they are sixk

    • @Summermoon7.
      @Summermoon7. Год назад +3

      Same situation here. Trash belongs with trash

  • @mikax8208
    @mikax8208 3 года назад +17

    These birds are totally crazy....for sure!!!!Love from Greece!!❤

  • @wendyapfeldorf2120
    @wendyapfeldorf2120 3 года назад +51

    The narcissist wants to make you miserable and emotionally react with their triangulation. They want you to compete for their favor with the object of the triangulation by providing them more of your affection, time, energy and resources. They will not be stepping up their affection and resources, just more misery and triangulation.

  • @kellystarlight7025
    @kellystarlight7025 3 года назад +19

    This IS LIFE changing information. God sent me one of your videos on the day I was evicting my deadbeat, live in, narcissist boyfriend. You reminded me that I was a child of God and no one should treat me the way he treated me. You gave me the information that I needed to make a plan. Then God gave me the courage to get him out and keep him out of my world. Thank you thank you so much Miss T!!!!❤️🙏

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад +2

      Thank you so much Sis and I’m happy you enjoyed the message and content here on the channel. I give God all the Glory. Thank you for being here with us.✨💖💕💕💫💫💖🙏🏽

  • @mariasmith2297
    @mariasmith2297 3 года назад +25

    Yes..turning knives. I used to say that alot just before the FINALE discard. He knew I could see through him.

  • @MaesRemedy
    @MaesRemedy Год назад +3

    Accurate. Tried to defend our relationship and he stuck up for the ex or back burner supply. Kicked him out and she didnt have a place for him. They just triangulate to help the narcissist use whatever he can from you to be more solid in being with them. Thank God Almighty I didn't stay in that ugly hearted persons life.

  • @chantemckeithan372
    @chantemckeithan372 4 месяца назад +2

    Yep!!! He said so much bad stuff about his ex, then once the devaluing came I knew something was off, then it was the discard. It's cool though I finally blocked him and not turning back. They never get rid of their supplies, they keep them ALL.. It's all on who wants to deal with the foolishness!! I'm the Queen of detachment and walking away!! My peace is my POWER!!

  • @becca7038
    @becca7038 3 года назад +22

    The thing is, once you meet whom they are triangulating you with omg. She is correct with the "frogs with lipstick on" omg. They got mental health issues, just these women I got triangulated with were nuts. I remember at final discard or whatever, idk if they ever go away til you go nc, but he said "as you can see I do well for myself you thought I was ugly" and before I could think I replied "I don't care" lol. My mask slipped 😂 but we have to wear masks too once we know we are in a psychological game.

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад

      💯💯💯

    • @pallasathena1369
      @pallasathena1369 2 года назад +2

      Yes! So true.. I like tattoos but this woman looked like a bunch of preschoolers with felt tip pens had tied her down and coloured her in! Unstable as well with her teenage "luv" crap all over Facebook, in her mid fifties 😳

  • @tabithamatthews2337
    @tabithamatthews2337 2 года назад +9

    The ex narc I was involved with always triangle with one of his baby’s mama that stayed in North Carolina, he would always say she made sure he was good and I told him let’s both reap the benefits, if she’s gone that dumb. This fool went up to North Carolina and stayed with her and her man, he thought I didn’t know it but his ppl told on him.I’ve never came in contact with nobody so DEMONIC AND SICK

    • @tdayy31
      @tdayy31 Год назад

      Uhm sounds like the same guy I dated that had baby momma issues. I'm curious if they're the same man. And then again that's the kinda shit they do in the backwoods

  • @Scaldora
    @Scaldora 3 года назад +12

    He had the key to our door, but he wanted me to open it for him, as I did it, he first greeted our dog 🙃

  • @beverlyjackson5053
    @beverlyjackson5053 Год назад +2

    My mouth is WIDE open!!! That 90 day cycle is no joke!!!!

    • @NigerWifeChronicles
      @NigerWifeChronicles 6 месяцев назад +1

      It shortens overtime it was every 2wks issues was coming up

  • @mariasmith2297
    @mariasmith2297 3 года назад +21

    CRAZYMAKING CHAOS...GAME OVER!
    Knowledge is power.
    Love you Telsha Tea ♡🤗

  • @slimskinny
    @slimskinny Год назад +5

    They will also triangulate your name with the next supply. Even if they have to lie on your name. You can have them complete no contact and haven’t said a word to them, and they will lie to the new supply like you’re doing something or trying to do something to them to get they fuel.

  • @maggieb2460
    @maggieb2460 3 года назад +7

    To much drama please leave these creature alone...

  • @lastmanstanding9408
    @lastmanstanding9408 3 года назад +14

    Always dropping convo about mother of his children. Texting updates about her despite saying it was an ex. Used it to bait me and devalue my worth in our relationship. Glad I left them to it as he still was sleeping at 'ex' house saying he wanted to be near his children. 😂 Like I was born yesterday he triangulated from our first proper date. Realised a bit too late but got out once it clicked l. I was great fuel as he knew he was hurting me and he enjoyed seeing my pain.

  • @PatriciaDeBride
    @PatriciaDeBride Год назад +2

    The narc i was with used one of his baby mothers as a triangulation, i told him you can leave and go with her… i was already watching videos on narcissism and knew he was one… so after i told him he can leave and go he says… thats not what i was saying… see he didnt like the reaction i gave he thought i was going to be jealous… i was hoping he leave.. he never did i had to leave my own apartment.. these people are so sick in the head and evil!

  • @annmaddock4569
    @annmaddock4569 3 года назад +13

    Several times he mentioned different exes had contacted him wanting to talk. I gray rocked. He also wanted me to have dinner with him and the cheating ex wife. I refused. Ridiculous.

  • @Michelle....B
    @Michelle....B 3 года назад +14

    OMG! The amount of subliminal messages via social media from the Narc and his new supply was crazy. I admit I got involved with the subliminal messages also. Just tired of being the bigger person.

    • @kimberlydexter5001
      @kimberlydexter5001 Год назад

      OMG this happened to me!!!!

    • @francesoakford241
      @francesoakford241 8 месяцев назад

      ​​@@kimberlydexter5001And me he had when I met him 140 (friends) on Insta by the end he had 4 different accounts and over 2000 women on one insta account. 😂😂 Hes a 55 year old grandfather whos had 6 heart attacks. Hes in Turkey as I speak getting new teeth 😬 he had this ridiculas bucket hat on that teeagers wear. Thats when I knew the backburner looks like a robbers dog 🐶 like him 😂 🙏🆘💯❤️

  • @emptytank7139
    @emptytank7139 3 года назад +20

    Good video, very eye opening. I realized as you were talking that this type of triangulation has definitely happened to me, I just didn’t know what it was. I now remember the blank look on the Narcs face as they were drinking in all of that fuel that they were getting from the confused and/or hurt look on my face. How very sadistic when your pain is their gain.

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад +2

      Yes indeed I want to give you all as much as I can spilling all the tea Family. I’m happy you enjoyed the message.✨💖💕💕💫💫🙏🏽

    • @emptytank7139
      @emptytank7139 3 года назад

      @@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships what a Lovely Lady you are, I can see why you’re so well liked by your tribe! 🥰🥰

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад +1

      @@emptytank7139 💫💖💫💖 Thank you beautiful soul!💫💫

  • @laurajones9971
    @laurajones9971 2 года назад +2

    Like you say baby lol this here needs to be a series on television

  • @michaeltucker6666
    @michaeltucker6666 3 года назад +17

    You got this in detail miss thang. Serious. Lee. Come on everybody ! This applies for girlfriends too. Frenemies. Boys. Girls. Siblings. Parents w other siblings. Gurl. I’m done w all these people. Look at my dang Rolodex now girl. Lol. I’m 50!!! People - dont wait to try and heal these demons. Do your research here ! T knows the story. Listen. Be well. Love you all. Walk proud in the light. We are children of God🙌🏼
    -Michelle
    **don’t argue w them. See their dirty deeds and ignore it all !!
    Smash that dang like button. Free therapy from sweet T

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад

      Thank you so much my Brother. I’m happy you enjoyed the message. I appreciate you!!✨💖💕💯🙏🏽

  • @yvonnelovenlite6427
    @yvonnelovenlite6427 3 года назад +31

    Omg.. did I go through this mess 100% Facts .. what evil Birds 🐦

  • @mariasmith2297
    @mariasmith2297 3 года назад +36

    My ex even kept a LIST of my 'accusations ' that were simply just my questions generated from his DECEPTIONS. Crazymaking nonsense. Until I called..GAME OVER!

    • @netrap9937
      @netrap9937 3 года назад +2

      Have u ever seen HG Tudors channel he is a ultra narcissist and psychopath and he said narcissists love lists smh. My ex Narc did that wit me a few times

    • @lynnemclaughlin8785
      @lynnemclaughlin8785 2 года назад

      Omg .. I had the same scenario! Laundry list . Every question is accusatory!

    • @lynnemclaughlin8785
      @lynnemclaughlin8785 2 года назад

      Could it be a tattoo of a ex wife’s name .

  • @lisablack4290
    @lisablack4290 3 года назад +8

    This happened to me just YESTERDAY. Quietly making my exit.

  • @charlesmatthews6822
    @charlesmatthews6822 2 месяца назад +1

    They defend them by saying their so supportive so positive so incouraging all along treating them like gold and you like crap...

  • @sunnydaysunnyday7101
    @sunnydaysunnyday7101 3 года назад +19

    My dear friend!
    thanm you for posting this and explaining this so well!
    It all happened to me, I was triangulated with his ex, she was also ,,family friend,, and he wanted non stop party with her and their common friends. When I protested against her he would take her side, blame me for being insecure and other shit... My God that ex of his would non stop circulate around us knowing we have little kids, he would ask about her to friends etc... I would cry so much and then he would just shut the door on me and kids and leave for entire night...
    I am sooooo happy I am far away from these clowns, staying no contact feels so good with this piece of nothing... Let her have him... I am moving on happily

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад +1

      💕💖💕💖

    • @peaceofmindofpeace1650
      @peaceofmindofpeace1650 3 года назад +3

      True they will make you feel like the third party outsider less important and then call you insecure. Wow they all use the same techniques.
      The moment you stand up for yourself they shift the blame right back to you.
      To shut you down and keep status quo.
      Bc they also don't want you to leave..
      It's like a dog attached to a line, having some room but not all.. They want to be in control and the one to stay in touch or the one to turn their back on you.
      They pretty much all the same.

    • @sunnydaysunnyday7101
      @sunnydaysunnyday7101 3 года назад

      Peace of mind of peace
      You said it so well! absolutely! I am one year post discard and I am moving on with my little kids and I am so happy I don't have to go through this anymore. What a mind fuckery it was! at that time I didn't know whats going on but my head was spinning each time I tried to talk with that clown and end up in tears absolutely felt as that ex was his woman. Not me. Let them have each other now but there won't be myself and kids in this sick game

  • @vharrison1881
    @vharrison1881 3 года назад +8

    You are so correct! He was going through pictures on his phone with his dad and this picture came up with his so called picture friend or old weekend fling that he was with he was married and she was in a bathing suit on a beach. I asked him why did he have that picture of her in a bathing suit in his phone and told me it's nothing. We had been together over 8 or nine years. Later, he told me that I was jealous and insecure. I told him it was inappropriate. He told me he got it off of FB and it wasn'ta big deal. I checked and it wasn't on her page. He spoke to his daughter and her boyfriend and they told him that he shouldn't have had the picture on his phone. His daughter told me the old supply or whatever had sent it to him. I asked him why did it have to take his daughter to tell him it wasn't appropriate. Then he told me that he daughter said, you know how jealous Val is. He was then triangulating me with the picture and his daughter. I'm so glad I'm divorced since September and no contact since June. I didn't understand what he was doing but he used her again after I filed the divorce in an text message to my family since he couldn't get to me, during the smear campaign. Telling my family that she was his friend and I was always jealous of her and she has a PHD and she can help me with my mental issues. This narc is crazy. Telsha, you were definitely correct that this fool is a cerebrum narc. Thank you so much. We have to talk soon because I can share more examples that may help others. I had forgotten about this since it happened so long ago, but you are dead on it qnd I didn't have a clue when did this to me, but jt went on for a while messing with my head.

  • @user-mj2kk5ul3k
    @user-mj2kk5ul3k 5 месяцев назад +1

    It is hard to understand there is people so sick like this 😳 it makes me sad 😢❤
    Thank you for letting us know 🙏

  • @jupiter_star3740
    @jupiter_star3740 Год назад +2

    Ain't this the truth. This has happened to me with my ex-narc. So glad I left his sorry self.

  • @michaeltucker6666
    @michaeltucker6666 3 года назад +14

    Girlfriend thriangulation :
    Out of the blue they are talking about their “ new friend “.... then , selfie’s on Facebook out in a public place ! Yes ! Then , they say they want to introduce you both ... listen ,!!! If that new friend treats you badly your “ friend “ is actually a frenimy! Yes they are. !! The strategy T mentioned applies to all relationships! Wake up ! Love you all. Hit that like button.
    Tysm sweet T.
    - Michelle
    Indiana, Indianapolis

  • @pallasathena1369
    @pallasathena1369 2 года назад +7

    "you nagged me so I needed somewhere to escape to" that was what he said when he couldn't deny it (and probably an attempt to triangulate). Misjudged me badly, lifelong boundary of mine was/is one on one. Never one on several, that is the largest reason to slam that door shut. Do not fall for the urge to compete, people who love you would never put you through that. Crispy old bat is welcome to him and his misogynistic ass.

  • @SuperReasonabledoubt
    @SuperReasonabledoubt Месяц назад +1

    I don't feed into the narcissist.. ignore them

  • @gailrichardt5135
    @gailrichardt5135 Год назад +3

    Hi there! I love how you expose the darkness in these monsters!😇👍💯

  • @ddiddy5456
    @ddiddy5456 Год назад +1

    Yes this!! This is truth! This is why people would never believe us! They are monsters! Thank you! ❤

  • @kishahicks36
    @kishahicks36 3 года назад +10

    I went through exactly everything she just said and that's what trips me out about it because I could not understand why he was doing that to me when I was his wife

  • @warrior8511
    @warrior8511 3 года назад +4

    Yes yes yes he always defensive . about groomer girl at Fred Meyers he even said don't hate the player hate the game. Game over !!

  • @teeivy9008
    @teeivy9008 3 года назад +15

    She allegedly stabbed him..caught him talking inappropriately to her..asked him why would you be talking to someone that stabbed you? He turned it and she became the hero and I was the one who stabbed him..he flipped it. Like I was the one who stabbed him how he was talking crazy to me. I thought it was a valid question. He never stopped talking to her. I wonder if she know he saying she stabbed him or if it was a lie..💁🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️

  • @shammaravirgem9578
    @shammaravirgem9578 2 года назад +1

    You are Sooo Beautiful!!! Hallelujah to the Most High for You!!!🙏🏾🕊️💗💐 You be BRINGING IT!! So Gracefully while you at it!! Yes Keep Bringing it raw, that Real like You Do!! Yes check them devils!!✅ Love Joy Peace Strength Abundance and Blessings to you from the Most High!!! and me too ❣️🤗🌺

  • @ustylemagazine2475
    @ustylemagazine2475 3 года назад +10

    Yessssss God knows my ex husband/narc did it to me!!!!!

  • @shannon2878
    @shannon2878 2 года назад +3

    OMG! The fool I was with did all of the above. He triangulated me with everything. Facebook post, waitresses, his daughters, his female cousin, coworkers, neighbors in his raggedy apartment building ( male and female) you name it. I knew he was trying to make me jealous because every time he mentioned any woman that wasn’t related to him he would always say “She used to like me” every single time. They are delusional🙄 He triangulated with a tattoo on his chest of his 30 something year old daughter’s Mother. Early into the entanglement remember he took his shirt off, I guess waiting for me to notice the tattoo, (which I didn’t because he’s very dark) then when I didn’t say anything he proceeded to say “I see you looking at my tattoo, I’m going to get it removed so you don’t have to keep looking at it etc..) mind you I wasn’t looking at it or him. I was like I didn’t notice😂 after a few weeks he mentioned it again so I asked when he was going to get it removed like he said and do you know he went off on me and got nasty. He said if he does get it removed it will be for him not for me. I was so confused and taken back like you are the one that mentioned it in the first place😳 What in the world! I agree with you that it’s definitely a evil demonic spirit that takes over them for all of them to say and do the exact same thing. Like I told him, the only thing he’s consistent with was being inconsistent. Inconsistent yet predictable. Such clown!

  • @angelsong2115
    @angelsong2115 3 года назад +5

    I need to know how to co- parent with a narcissist.

  • @islandgirl3100
    @islandgirl3100 9 месяцев назад +1

    Be strong and let them narc play their games alone( make as if you don't know anything about their next move ) prepare your escape plan in silent.

  • @lizp800
    @lizp800 2 года назад +5

    I listen to this post and I couldn’t believe what I heard because everything that you describe I went through for eight years. When he first started having his affair it made me broken and we had just had our son and he manipulated me with the triangulation and I was so scared to lose him because I was so broken. I was not educated about narcissism up until six months ago. I wanted to know your advice when you bring sin and darkness into your life it affects everything that you do. He started doing unacceptable things at work bad judgment and he was getting away with it and then he committed fraud when he didn’t even need to but he just did it just to do it and he was terminated. I was interviewed over it and I had to tell the truth. He was so upset with me because he wanted me to lie for him but I walk with God and I cannot do that. When he lost his job we lost everything but I still supported him financially until he found a job. At that time he asked me not to leave him which I didn’t God gave me grace and mercy. But as soon as he got a job he left me and went back to that affair partner. And then I found your channel and I’ve educated myself on narcissism. He hates me to this day he gaslight me and blames me for him losing his job I don’t care anymore but I wondered if you could talk about how they feel they’re above the law and why they do those things because to this day I’m baffled a lot of people are baffled as to why he did it??? God bless you continue doing what you’re doing you are helping us .

    • @NigerWifeChronicles
      @NigerWifeChronicles 6 месяцев назад

      O yes these vultures will try to corrupt your moral code you know the laws god writes in your heart and mind yea that part. He blamed me for his job loss lol most everything no everything
      Acts 5 is a pretty good reference that you did the correct thing: if u got a crooked narc spouse you don’t have to be too free agency you have . This vulture wanted to file false claims for insurance change dates of occurrence and justify it by saying they get over on us every month taking our money I’m like uhm and I back pedaled on everything concerning that matter after reading Acts 5. Bc it showed me anyway that each had a choice bc each was asked and had opportunity to tell the truth this passage shows us that this vrap happens and also what we can do and how to respond it’s deep

  • @lavitawilliams2207
    @lavitawilliams2207 3 года назад +14

    Hello Tea,I Love you & your MinistryThank You So Much You are a "LIFESAVER"{ And I Don't Mean The Candy}

  • @tru3g3mini44
    @tru3g3mini44 3 года назад +2

    I said it and I mean it!!

  • @sharonanderson6926
    @sharonanderson6926 2 года назад +1

    Oh yes!they will take up for them.

  • @cathy_clarinet
    @cathy_clarinet 3 года назад +6

    Fantastic info! I’ve seen every last word you say!! 👍💕
    They do this to cause pain and worry. They’re mean AF

  • @palemaboone5701
    @palemaboone5701 3 года назад +6

    They narc is crazy thank god not with him anymore

  • @heathermixson1265
    @heathermixson1265 3 года назад +2

    I just finished the video where you talked about them asking questions.....seems to ask question about mundane things they normally wouldn't ....but LAWDAMERCY if YOU ask THEM something they deem "none of your business?"
    They come off the CHAIN!!!!!

  • @dionnejordan3588
    @dionnejordan3588 2 года назад +2

    When you call stuff out you’re labeled paranoid

  • @debraenard2260
    @debraenard2260 2 года назад +2

    Yes they will b moving fast this summer like some 🤪 crazy evil 😈 goats 🐐 🤣they getting ready fam

  • @janineheartandsoul
    @janineheartandsoul 3 года назад +7

    Gurrrrrrl, you’re on 🔥 . You are 💯💯💯💯💯💯on point! #truths 🙏🏼😇🤩💯🙌. thank you Queen!

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад

      Thank you Sis it the truth and I’m telling it‼️💯💯💕💕🔥🔥🙏🏽💫💫

  • @emilielesauvage74
    @emilielesauvage74 3 года назад +4

    This last clown wore a shiny shiny silver ring on his right hand wedding finger..he said his ex that i later caught him sneaking calls and texts to "STOLE it" for him.. (who knows) but that ring went nowhere..finally i got him to not wear it but one day he "forgot" and had it on.. that ring was blindingly shiny.. it screamed at me practically..he was the king of triangulation and deceit.. i fell for all his b.s, i wish i found your channel sooner ma'am.. i had to learn the hard way..i would pray for truth and i my prayers were granted through grace. Boy gone now but i ended up with that stupid ring and plan on selling it and donating the money to the next street person i see..

  • @user-by4sd2jy2c
    @user-by4sd2jy2c Месяц назад

    The backwards walking short legged giraffe 🦒 told me all these horrible things the ex wife did. Then he had the nerve to still have her name saved as a character on the tv. I asked him why would he still have a reminder of her if she did him so dirty? He got upset because i questioned him, i realize now he was a master at triangulation. He defended her to my disbelief. I realize now why she let his insurance lapse, his license got suspended and everything. He claimed she was still paying the bill. What a complete loser. He also claimed he blocked his exes but they still wanted him, that was a lie. He started having conversations with his so called “friends”. This was a source of contention. He admitted to being on his best behavior during the beginning of our situationship. When the mask really fell off, I stopped returning his calls. He belongs to the ages. TGBTG

  • @missa4026
    @missa4026 3 года назад +3

    Yes he always discarded me during summer time, then holidays always crying, begging to be back hm w his fam. Wow this is a thing!

  • @heathermixson1265
    @heathermixson1265 3 года назад +1

    Another time, he was in ICU and I came across a text from my so called friend about "WHAT? NOT TALKING TO ME NOW??" Claiming that they barely ever spoke.......riiiight.

  • @marilynmorales835
    @marilynmorales835 3 года назад +3

    oh yes and they don't like when you go them out. they do a 360 on you and blame you .

  • @annharris1558
    @annharris1558 3 года назад +4

    Leave underwear from the ex in drawers too

  • @cursethedevil2100
    @cursethedevil2100 7 месяцев назад +1

    I love your work and you.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ivorybatiste581
    @ivorybatiste581 Год назад +1

    that's crazy that happen to me.

  • @jasminemccaslin3041
    @jasminemccaslin3041 3 года назад +4

    It happened to me in different ways all the time when I was with my narc

  • @dortheacooper8825
    @dortheacooper8825 2 года назад +1

    I just got my first triangulation today I was accused of being with another man when I'm in my house by myself and I'm sick I don't feel good but he went to the beach with his family members and I was not asked to go none of that I've been listening to your videos and I'm going through that right now

    • @dortheacooper8825
      @dortheacooper8825 2 года назад

      Please help me with this because I need to fully understand what I'm really dealing with because I feel like I'm on a roller coaster ride going up and down up and down and I'm really sick of the roller coaster ride and I need help with this I really do I listen to your videos all the time and it fits everything that this guy is doing to me and we were in a relationship for over 20 years can't wait to hear another video thanks Dorothea

    • @marilynminer677
      @marilynminer677 10 месяцев назад

      @@dortheacooper8825 Hope you're out by now. ✨

  • @gigipeach7179
    @gigipeach7179 3 года назад +4

    The Narc guy would Triangulate me with Narc female coworker. I shared with him all the things she did to me. Boy, did he use it against me. He would take up for her as if he knew her. This was devastating to me because she played same manipulative game as he did.

  • @kenfrancisco6078
    @kenfrancisco6078 2 месяца назад

    I was put through a triangle and a rectangle! My ex Queen had me in all kind of bad shape .

  • @MariaReyes-rd3hg
    @MariaReyes-rd3hg 2 года назад +3

    Brilliant! This explains a part of my involvement with a narc that I couldn’t understand. This video helps me so much. Thank you.

  • @Vanes218
    @Vanes218 3 года назад +3

    May God Bless You Tremendously & Extensively Telsha for being a continual, lifesaving blessing to me.

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад

      You’re so welcome Sis! I’m happy you enjoyed the message. Thank you for being here with us Sis. Gos bless you.✨💖💕💫💕💖🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @josephricherdsonjr1559
    @josephricherdsonjr1559 3 года назад +4

    Thank u Miss T, I love u Queen for this information 💓💗💖💕💛❤

  • @elyabogins5587
    @elyabogins5587 Год назад

    This just happened to me tonight. I’m so grateful for you! Thank you!

  • @melwill9868
    @melwill9868 3 года назад +4

    Hello beautiful. Thankyou for your dedication ❤🙏

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад

      You’re so welcome my Sister!! God bless you and thank you for being here with us.💖💕💕🙏🏽

  • @happydimples39
    @happydimples39 3 года назад +3

    Hello Love!!! Right on Point!

  • @heyonope7682
    @heyonope7682 2 года назад +1

    It helps to hear this is what they do. I feel rejected and less then her .. as I found out hes cheating. I accept ill never satisfy his sick perverted self.

  • @kimcolbourne3314
    @kimcolbourne3314 3 года назад +2

    Tea, IV watched this before ... But today I'm watching it again and it is opening my eyes so much more... This is EXACTLY what is happening to my son for two years now !!! Thanks for the blessing!
    ❤🌷❤🌷❤

  • @theladylaceyshow4333
    @theladylaceyshow4333 3 года назад +1

    Your classy!!! I’m honored your sharing your time with us:)

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад +1

      God bless you Sis and likewise. Thank you for allowing me and this beautiful tribe to be apart of your healing journey.💕💕💕💯

  • @kimberlyd.stewart4657
    @kimberlyd.stewart4657 3 года назад +3

    You are telling the truth to the T!

  • @marilynmorales835
    @marilynmorales835 3 года назад +3

    I call him a lair and he just was fighting back at me

  • @tanyagamble3432
    @tanyagamble3432 3 года назад +2

    Thank you beautiful soul you plays no games , trust and believe your helping me and many others . Thank you for your time because it’s precious.all the info is on point .

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад

      God bless you Sis thank you for your support and encouragement. I’m happy you are enjoying the content. You’re so welcome.✨💖💕💕💫💫

  • @toniacompton1091
    @toniacompton1091 5 месяцев назад

    The sick demonic games with this triangulation.
    This mess happened to me.

  • @frankjones5428
    @frankjones5428 3 года назад

    Thanks ms god bless you and if you are a mother happy blessed Mother’s Day

  • @Rose-dl6xg
    @Rose-dl6xg 3 года назад +1

    Hello, sister Tea! God bless you!

  • @mjathisbestandteachingskil6980
    @mjathisbestandteachingskil6980 10 месяцев назад

    Thanks for the information I really appreciate it.💪🏽💪🏽👍

  • @crystalcooper1055
    @crystalcooper1055 3 года назад +5

    Thank you for this! Please touch on triangulation more. My husband does this to me constantly. I'm about to loose it, but your videos keep me grounded and keep me one step ahead of him. 💕

  • @perryknight8867
    @perryknight8867 3 года назад +1

    What I did was ignored mine when she brought up the backed burner and she had a messed up look on her face !!!

  • @jostafford3367
    @jostafford3367 Год назад

    Triangulation in the narssist represents the devils personality splitting 3 ways . It’s thier favourite tactic .

  • @user-mk6gx3zi3s
    @user-mk6gx3zi3s 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you Mami. SPOT ON > RUN

  • @terri412
    @terri412 3 года назад +3

    Tea you should write a booklet on triangulation that was good information , thanks ! 💕💕💕💕

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад +1

      Thank you My Terri! I give God all the glory!! I’m happy you enjoyed the message. You’re so welcome.✨💖💕🙏🏽💫💫💕💕

  • @JoannA-sweetly
    @JoannA-sweetly Год назад

    These jokers are specifically pathologic!!! Don't do it, never again involved with any of them!!!!!

  • @rosejohnson301
    @rosejohnson301 Год назад

    Y’all better hit that like button, all I know, she ain’t never lied!!

  • @lilemukule7510
    @lilemukule7510 3 года назад +7

    Never never never again!
    So much light you have shown on this subject.
    That was a matter of what the hell was that.?
    Let folks earn our emotions.👍🙏💕🤗