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- Insight on what the narcissist misses most about you. They can never let go of the way you made them feel.
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He too ashamed to Hoover right now and I pray that he stays ashamed so that he won’t hoover
Sadly, he'll be back 🤦🏾♀️ They'll be laying next to the person they cheated with and will hoover you. If you ever find out who they really are; you'd never deal with them again. They're disgusting 🤮🤮🤮
@@CoachCreesh this is true
yup....they know they foul...he hoovered for a yr. but i know he lurking and watching....my FB has been hacked, and im getting "no caller ID" calls at least twice a month lol block, delete
@@peacefaith560 well I don't do Facebook but my family does and a few friends that are on it. But I don't do it. My mom is on Facebook but she is very slient on it. But my friends that are on it, my kids, my sister's just people in my circle
Yessssssss...you are correct!!! I would ask him why do you love me...he would say the way you love me.....pockets touching in the back...backwards walking pigeon with a tutu and a bow😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅
“ PEOPLE Will FORGET WHAT YOU SAID TO THEM BUT THEY WILL NEVER FORGET HOW YOU MADE THEM FEEL “.
Maya Angelou
Never forget how BAD the Narc made me feel- but he’ll ALWAYS remember how GOOD I made him feel.
I sure did snatch the ENTIRE POWER GRID and LEFT!!! I treated the ex narc like a king and he will NEVER EVER FORGET ME but I know I'm worth MORE!!!
It's been almost two years of NO CONTACT and there's almost 300 miles in between us....yet that backwards hoppin bat showed up at my house laat week wearin Baby Gap swim trunks and one Dollar Tree flip flop. Not today or no day Satan😈😈😈😈😈
They NEVER STOP...Folks STAY NO CONTACT and live your BLESSED LIFE ❤❤❤❤❤
lol
They don't realize what they don't have until it's gone!
I know he will miss my cooking 😂😂😂😂
Facts
Soo true!
It's pointless to be with a person who will not Apologize when they do nasty things. Gone NC and it FEELS MUCH BETTER ❤
Forget them it's over. I will never take them back . I don't care what they have to offer. Your makeup is on point, beautiful Tea.
He just wants to drain my energy, waste my time, and steal my identity! Oh and my money too! No thanks!
The narcissist did say that ('I love the way you make me feel.'). It had zero to do with who I am as a person. It was all about what he stood to gain from any interaction.
I was told the same thing and that is not the same as love if u don't mind me saying.
Well whatever was gained is gone now I took that L and I moved on from it. It was based off lies. I know that now and I'm only concentrating on moving in my home and the weekend woman will always win. I decided I didn't want to be the weeker woman I don't have to fight anymore to prove anything but the weeker woman does.
Had same said to me: love how you make me feel and ghosted for a month. Probably got fuel from me to ensnared new supply
@@annaa6259 I had to learn to stop taking people at they word it's their actions that I pay attention to. But I stay busy and focused.
They always blame everyone else!
THEY BLAME YOU FOR WHAT THEY'VE DONE
The 😈 spirits in them don't allow them to love or not abuse their supplies!
Yes, they are grown kids, thats part of being a narcissist.
The narc is not thinking of you,once they have a new supply you don't exist !!! A broken heart heals a lot faster than a bruised ego. Victims like to think they were special from anyone else and its not true. Let go and move on
Please get off this site narc demon!
Agree! If we were special they would not have walked away or let us walk away. I think we give them too much credit.
They are upset after their own choice. So excited about new supply for months smiling and look past you a fool in the works.
I asked him, why did he want to be with me. He said, you're so kind, patient, loving, caring. Well, they do come back, maybe not them but another will come and another but now that we know..we can say HELL NO! I needed this video. I'm taking care of me..healed AND WHOLE!
Ms Tea I got a Hoover today this morning ,I got off work came home and heard a knock on the door I said who is it he said me I didn’t open the door at all I said behind the door don’t use my address at all just kept repeating it over and over until he left he is definitely a backwards walking giraffe with the pockets touching in the back 😂.
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From my experience, they don't miss you as a person but as an emotional trash dumpsite, emotional regulations machine that's it. They can't let go because of the juicy juice you as the machine produced. Nothing more, nothing less
It doesn't matter honey always know a week woman will always win.
Wouldn't really call that winning, rather unfortunate
@@leratomusi4595 well I can't change nobody perspective on anything if I was nothing I accept that but they know who I was but it doesn't really matter cause they showed they hand and I don't respect it
They don’t miss people , they miss the fuel you give them. Listen to HG Tudor- out of sight out of mind. They do move on. If come back and hoover its for them power game.
They do not miss
I used to say that to him all the time. Seems like out of sight out of mind. Very true.
And no i was never loved. I learned that.
My dog passed away and the Narcissist stalked and hoovered twice! This is after 11 years NO CONTACT! His flying monkeys texted him in the stores. The Holy Spirit helped me get out in time. Someone I know also told me that he went inside the store looking for me!
I laughed cuz last week I got a text from the ex narc asking me for $60 cuz his life was gonna b hit and I shook my head and laughed and DID NOT RESPOND! Then the next day after not responding he said that he would never text me again and I said 2 myself YESSSSSSS!
Ms. Tea ur telling the whole truth and nothing bout the truth!!
How crazy is that 😂😂😂
He stole 40 bucks out of my purse smh
That was a two for one sale…try to use you, then have a tantrum after he can’t. Wow! 😲
@ecunningham2062 real crazy..smh
@ecunningham2062 omg r u serious...they r pathetic
God bless you sister.... ITS SNATCH BACK SEASON!!!! Thank you Elohim for giving me strength, energy, motivation and staying power to stand my ground... Hallelujah!!!
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AMEN!!! I love how you said that, I'm in my #SnatchBackSeason 😌
@@adidouglas2571 I listen to her everyday I'm off today I be tuned in.
I think they just want to hit the button to that revolving door and hit the road bc it is #snatchbackseason
I love her way of exposing the narcissist /devil, I must say she's always on point, she's very knowledgeable in the spirit realm ,trust me continue to listen to her, I really love her sense of humor as well she's really on to point when it comes to figuring out the narcissist/devil, she's simply a very gorgeous beautiful earth angel that God has sent down to earth to help us in human form from all the lies and deception of the narcissist/devil, please continue to pray for her ❤
I did give my all for years and now I have grown so high I am loving this new skin I'm in, I love me more than ever. I live on my job, no I don't have a man by choice. I am happy for him. I have to be cause I want someone to be happy for me.
Hello Ms. Telsha. It's a pleasure to see you today! You always look amazing! I'm sure the narcissist is stewing over such a great loss! Good Good Good!
I didn’t even do nothing, they’re just obsessed!
Love you GORGEOUS !!!! ❤❤❤ all facts ! I dumped that backpack 🎒 wearing frog 🐸 with heels !
Hello everyone have a safe Sunday afternoon.
TRUE HEALING is the ANSWER for TRUE HAPPINESS within one SELF!!!❤
Happy Sunday everyone. The narcissist I was dealing with would tell me what he loved about me was my love for God! But 2 second's later would start a argument saying I think I'm holier-than-thou. But wait didn't you just say that's what you love about me? But in reality that's what he really hated about me I mirrored everything that he wasn't.
Mine used to say you think you perfect. He would scream and call me a preacher.
yes TEA..i did ask him what did he love about me..."well i cant explain it" boy bye lol
Congratulations to Telsha of getting more subscribers. Good job ,girl! You emphasize your contents, and you explained well 👌
Good evening Lady Telsha,
You look absolutely gorgeous 🌺
All I remember about the Narc is he hated rejection, he told me that himself…and he didn’t want to be by himself…
I don't walk around holding that If I hold it I can't work, I can't live or breathe, If I hold it I lose who I am. I have seen a lot, I have heard a lot so I just live I just let God give me my blessings. I'm very rarely seen.
They won't change so there's no point in wasting your life!
HAPPY SUNDAY MS T 🎉tomorrow is my 1 year anniversary
NC 🥳🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈thank u for all your knowledge & continued knowledge I love your videos u go straight to the point & tell us the gospel truth 🙌 👏 🙏 ❤️
I don't want to say anything there are to many people involved in their lives they got a new life and I'm happy for them. So it's nothing for me to say. He owes me
Sis, I can tell that you are treating yourself well through your outward Appearance, 👑 and I’m so happy that life is favoring you. Those backward stepping giraffes and cawing crows are probably foaming, spitting and mouth-watering over the fact that they lost babes like us! Oh well! 🤷🏽 Their loss! 💕 love you Sis! Keep on looking and sounding good, praying 🙏🏼 and teaching! You are appreciated!🌸👠👒🌺👸🏼
And when I say owe it means so many things were said during me not even being around. So there is no beef with the I let him go to be happy
This is soooo true. I work with my ex narc. He says that to me alllllll the time. I just look at him with a blank stare.
Lord God Abba Father I need Financial blessing along with wisdom and humbleness in Jesus mighty name amen 🙏
Telsha I resonated with you on this video IN A SPIRITUAL way. You always…….
ALWAYS come in as a confirmation as to what’s going on. And that is GOD SENT.
It is 100 percent obvious JESUS sent you ❤😮😅❤
Girl, you're a whole good mood!!! Thank you for bringing the collective knowledge of narcissism. Even though I've been on my journey for 4 years and healed. I still enjoy watching your videos and a few others. I appreciate you to the utmost. Keep speaking facts!❤
He said he misses my attention & affection & his friends have been asking for me
You are so right they are all about feelings and don’t understand or have the capacity to love. Great teaching You look Beautiful ✨🥰✨
💫Ex narc will never be able to forget about me, I don't care how many pigeons he runs through in so called fake relationships. But I sure as hell have forgotten about that demon 🤡. He's DEAD to me ALWAYS. Nolalower9Ward ⚜️💃🏽
He said that he love the way I smelled, look, my personality 😒
MRS TELSHA ❤️ THIS VIDEO IS PRICELESS.. THESE MEN IN BLACK ALLENS WILL NEVER GET BEYOND YOU... WE SET THE STANDERD FROM THE BEGINNING LOVE YOU QUEEN TELSHA ❤❤ THANK YOU FOR THIS GOLDEN WISDOM I STAY ROCKING WITH YOU ❤❤❤
Another great message praise the lord Jesus don't live by your feelings live by the facts ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
He was only sorry He got Caught but He was too ashamed to Hoover me until 2021 he was so angery that he just couldn't handle my MATURITY in the situation, he went after my self esteem cause I'M a very Confident woman , ofc he tried to play victim , Gaslight me,tried to bully me, falsely accused me of everything he did . He was too jealous that I was very Attractive young woman with a Great personality , able too Attract Very Handsome Actual Muscular Men . ...he was just mad I didn't Fight over him Mad I Destroy his Ego and blocked him plus NEVER WENT BACK.. He was very insecure because my Neighbor I knew since I was a teenager was very handsome tall and sweet, respectful ,I was nothing but Loyal he cheated cause he thought I was goin to .he doesn't Know ME AT ALL ......I WAS RAISED TO BE LOYAL by Jesus Christ.....
Feels like it’s impossible for him to miss me. I’m miserable and because of the abuse I assume he’s happy asf. 2 weeks no contact
I hear you. I'm newly discarded by my husband of 12 years as well. This is so painful
It's a chase game at this point. And then when u let him come back, the abuse gets worse So Don't Do It! I've been narc free for over a year now and Yess it did hurt like hell and I didn't even consider him being my man or partner nothing like that just friends with benefits because I've been knowing him for over 5 years of chasing Me!!! Then gave him a chance 😮 But anyway he's on Facebook now (from a year ago) still trying to make me jealous (well she is because she knew about us and u can tell he talks about me ) of this girl and they both look like Bums, no fun, Broke Birds 😂😂 While I'm glowing growing shining and have gain my weight back looking good enjoying myself, being myself again and it feels Great 🎉🎉 You know why lol because I know they are watching me hard. I can't get enough of fake Facebook friends requests 😂😂🎉🎉❤❤ And if he moved on why keep reaching for attention to make me jealous?? Ain stun him, but it's a thrill knowing him and his new supply can't keep my name outta their mouths
By the Grace of God I May Say🙏🏾🙏🏾 Be blessed ❤❤
With all of that being said, they treat all of their supplies the same rather you are the wife girlfriend friend sidepiece or whatever. There is no love! Evil! But you kill them with your Glow Up!! And trust me they're always miserable just pretend Well!!
@derhondapollard5984 I needed to read this today. My mind keeps playing tricks on me thinking that my husband is gonna be a good man to his next supply. It's a lie,I'm aware but I keep thinking it
Backwards walking giraffes 😂
Girllll you know what to say... BAD. Many are chosen, but I surpass them all, that's Gospel. 😂😂😂
I listen to you all the time
My take on do the narcissist miss you is this….
No, they don’t miss you
They miss what you did for them or what you could be doing for them
If they could find somebody with your exact energy, who does what you do, they would not think about you ever
But since you’re one of a kind cut from a different cloth, they have to miss you
But don’t think you’re special
Don’t think they have him try to replace you😮😂
Oh my word! This is deep and I needed to hear this of confirmation of me leaving a narc. I had my suspicions and what you said in this video is exactly what I told him about himself: that he thinks his feelings are facts and everything has to be centered around that; how boring and insecure! So glad it took me 6 weeks to end that fling
His exact words. I was told to start asking this question in my relationships, what is it you love about me? It’s an important question, very revealing. They don’t have love for you or care about you. Everything comes back to the way they feel
This is GOLD!!
Do they miss the ones that treat them like trash too? Or is that like poor supply for them?
I can't believe the Narc in my life actually liked something about me. Right or wrong in a weird way it makes me feel better. So sad how messed up they are. Ty, great video!
"the way you put your stank on that thang" lol
Gorgeous sister thank you for the message today
Mine admits what they do, but they don’t acknowledge that anything they do is actually wrong. They justify their actions. Yeah I did that, but I did it because of you. Admitting their actions and pretending they are not wrong for doing it, and definitely never apologizing or trying to make it right…. Is worse. But somehow in his mind admitting is all he has to do.
He's obsessed with the love the body.yes 💯❗ thay say that 🙌🙌🙌
What do you love about me I asked him and his answer was always - everything !
Whoaaaa I never thought about it like that when it comes to the family love bombing. Looking back I can see it now. They wanted to get rid of him and put him off on me. Suggested marriage counseling when he would have the outbursts and would become verbally abusive. It makes so much sense looking back. Today I made the decision to have him served finally and now this separation begins in pursuit of an annulment. 7 months of hell.
You always look amazing ❤❤❤
THANK YOU BEAUTIFUL I NEEDED THIS. I AM JOYED I FOUND YOUR CHANNEL. BEEN FIGHTING DEPRESSION FOR A COUPLE OF WEEKS NOW MY NARC HUSBAND OF 6 YEARS JUST DISCARDED ME WE HAVE AN 5 YEAR OLD TOGETHER ITS HARD THAT I HAVE TO COMMUNICATE WITH HIM REGARDING OUR LIL ONE. BUT IM TAKINS IT ONE DAY AT A TIME KEEP ME IN YOUR PRAYERS PLEASE. 🙏🏽❤️
Omg i asked that exact question. What do u love about me? He answered I LOVE THE WAY YOU MAKE ME FEEL i remember thinking at the time that’s your answer??? There were a hundred things i could name that i loved about him tho
Dusty crow's 😂😂😂😂
You are telling the truth 😊
I love your blouse, you look so pretty!! Thank you for another great video!! Blessings Queen!!!🎉❤🙌🫶💐🎈🥰⚘️🙏
I think they Hoover former supply and it doesn’t matter if they were A, B, C or D! They get what they can from each.
Tea my darling I know your ex narcissist guy is going crazy over how stunning and beautiful you are! I'm going crazy and I'm not a narcissist! Stay beautiful darling you are so wise!
He's walked away I hope he stays away with his new supply 🙏🙏🙏
You are so good at this! Xx
You Are Sooo Pretty...Thank You Queen🖤
Thank You Tea I Needed To Hear That Message ♥️
❤❤❤You said that Telsha!! 💯 She dropped gems 💎 💎
They don’t obsess no empathy your said which is it
Looking swell T. ❤
You're so beautiful and shining and glowing like new money, thank you for the message
Thank you for your help, Telsha.
Lady TEA it's been 3 years. I NEVER want to see that BEAST ever again. He NEEDS to forget he EVER knew me, I resent he targeted in the first place because he ain't no good, I started seeing it the first week of addictionship. His sense of entitlement made me want to jump on his neck and strangle him EVERYDAY until I left. I'm all done that part of my life is OVER forever. He knows what he did........let him live with it.
Needed this. Thanks sis!
I just shut down a hoover attempt just yesterday evening. The narc is my neighbor across the street. I was detailing my car as the female narcissist arrived home with her husband. Her husband said hi to me and I did the same to him. I completely ignored the narc as she was trying to say hi to me multiple times and then I got called rude. I talked back and said “what about the racial slurs you hurled at me last year?!” And she screamed at the top of her lungs to me “SHUT UP!!”🔥. Narcissistic injury! And you better believe I kept myself out there so she could see me enjoying my auto detail fun even though I was shaken up. Another Hoover is coming, I can just feel it!
Bless you, You hit right on the head! I just sent one packing!
I have forgiven I had to cause God says the right thing to do.
yesss, God will take care of it..
@@peacefaith560 well all is forgiven. I let it go I got so much positive things going on right now I really don't focus on it. It's behind me
THATS SO TRUE
@@kethaashley9979 I do a lot of forgiving until I'm just pulled into a sticky situation that I shouldn't be in. Other than that I'm cool I have to be cause I have seen aside of me I don't like and I take a chance of loosing everything in a matter of minutes if I'm not careful.
I think I do good to forgive for everything that has been done to me
You are Awesome!!! 🤍🪽💫💕💕💕💕🩵🩵🩵🩵
Thank you sister much appreciation
Thank you. I am glad I found this video. I understand much better
Awesome word of advice thank you so much. You look absolutely gorgeous by the way good laws you fine😮❤
I remember when I asked my ex narcissist what he love about me. It was the MOST generic answer in the world. Definitely inauthentic
Thank You 🙏
I'm still sitting in the parking lot watching this again
Hello there Ms. Telsha, you speak the truth sista and just confirmed my doubt ! 5 days ago, My ex narc returned back after 8 months of NC to tell me about how he missed that i made him feel peace and happiness when i was with him. And, how his life got stressful and how i didn't check up on him after we broke up. With all that said, i didn't give in and demanded the truth as i knew he was playing me still. He disappeared after i reminded him about his old supply as she one-uped on me during his ongoing time of crisis (now she turned into hid A grade supply). He dogged me out again. But im still healing and standing my ground to give him no chance to hurt me again.
This is so true
`hello beautiful lady i owe you my life because you gave me my life back i thank you so much i just got in a place where i can sit down and take out time to leave you this heartfelt message i luv you you are the best thing on youtube you have help me so much it took some time but i have been able to move out because of your messag i have listen to others but nobody can top you in these youtube streeets thank you so muxh i will forever be in your debt you just dont know what you have done and all you do for people no charge you care you try so hard and you are the best teacher i have ever took instruction from as i write to you im in tears of joy and i can say yhis isnt the last you have heard from me beautiful soul you are you take out time please kep up the good work much sucess dont you change a ord you say i luv when you say backwards walking giraffe SHORT LEGS AND A CURLY WIG I LUV IT THANL YOU SO MUCH FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART
I highly doubt the ex narc meet anyone as great as me when I was in his life he only had bum chick's in his life troubled chick's 😢😊
Hey Ms.Tea