My Natural Hair Journey To Tail-Bone Length

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  • Опубликовано: 24 июл 2024
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  • @MiraMira0ntheWall
    @MiraMira0ntheWall 2 года назад +232

    Just ordered. Very excited to try this strawberry moisturizer. Def a first. New subbie also.

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +10

      Hi Mira!
      Thank-you for your support! Has your hair butter reached you yet? x

  • @becca933
    @becca933 Год назад +247

    My hair is almost to my knees and I'm all black. My mom never had long hair. My mom's hair is thick and My sister has thick hair but My hair is thin. Any black woman can grow long hair. You need to have a hair routine and moisturize and deep condition!

    • @sadraolaedo4733
      @sadraolaedo4733 Год назад +29

      Thank you for saying this, this is the same thing I tell all women of African descent. You can if you reduce manipulation, stop TENSION HAIRSTYLES, Simple haircare routine.

    • @Butterfly-yk9bw
      @Butterfly-yk9bw Год назад +1

      That’s beautiful

    • @talhasaleh3221
      @talhasaleh3221 Год назад +3

      How did u guys managed,coz I'm super duper tired already 😭

    • @TheLightShines
      @TheLightShines Год назад +4

      I have fine hair too, the longest I've gotten was mid back😩 I'm trying to reach tailbone length. Idk what to do at this point. I try to moisturize my hair and ends as much as possible, but I'm busy and my hair breaks easily.

    • @sadraolaedo4733
      @sadraolaedo4733 Год назад +3

      @@TheLightShines Put your hair in protective styles.

  • @mirandaokon
    @mirandaokon Год назад +164

    The problem with Black women is that we just don’t know how to look after our own hair. It takes a routine, consistency and patience! Simple as that. Once I realised my hair loves moisture three times weekly, shea butter and to be left alone, well my hair was off and growing.

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  Год назад +10

      Hi Miranda
      Thanks for your comment!
      I agree, simplicity is key

    • @fruitsarelife7073
      @fruitsarelife7073 Год назад +6

      It used to be our very culture to take care of it in many types of braids. That’s still the case in east Africa.

  • @AfriPrincess411
    @AfriPrincess411 2 года назад +469

    I notice many Nigerian and Ghanaian women have not only long hair but high density hair as well

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +25

      Hi Love

    • @koolyokam007
      @koolyokam007 2 года назад +8

      I always hear that my hair is very high density, but it's only grown to medium length (arm pit) until breakage and I have to big chop. According to 23 and me, I have West African heritage

    • @yoyou3848
      @yoyou3848 2 года назад +5

      You have good eyes

    • @yoyou3848
      @yoyou3848 2 года назад +10

      @M that's is due to EuroStyles and New Age Image.

    • @BonBonHassan
      @BonBonHassan 2 года назад +14

      As a Nigerian with fine strands, i wish 😭😭 but it is medium to high density so it looks thick

  • @AminaPhilosophy
    @AminaPhilosophy 2 года назад +477

    You and your hair are absolutely beautiful.

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +15

      Hi Curls n Cupcakes!
      This is such a lovely comment, thank-you!

  • @Eveningbreeze721
    @Eveningbreeze721 2 года назад +137

    Beautiful hair. I love seeing young ladies embracing their natural hair and letting it flourish. As we get older hair grows slower and just... differently. I wish I embraced my hair more when I was younger to really experience its potential.

  • @evaburns7314
    @evaburns7314 2 года назад +151

    I’m on the journey to tail bone length as well thank you for the inspiration

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +5

      Hi Eva
      Thanks for your comment!
      You've got this!

    • @lucillebennet4233
      @lucillebennet4233 2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much Dr. Aloha. Here is a permanent Solution to Eliminate Herpes 1 & 2, lupus, Acne, shingles and HPV and It's 100% money back guarantee. ruclips.net/channel/UC_YFEEZEr1BxGkNg1d4vqww 👈👈👈👈

  • @ttyngordon
    @ttyngordon 2 года назад +324

    I was briefly part of the tailbone length. Then it was cut off without my permission 😤. It took me 7 years from a pixie cut. My hair went from lower back to shoulder. I didn't even realize that the trim had turned into a full big chop. I thought it was just shrinkage. It wasn't until I got home and was braiding my hair for the night, she cut off over 12 inches.

    • @juliecaron7569
      @juliecaron7569 2 года назад +58

      Savage. I lived a similar situation in a salon.

    • @1GoldenBreeze
      @1GoldenBreeze 2 года назад +72

      I'm so sorry that happened. It's fine when you decide you want to cut it for a change, but when someone else just cuts your hair without permission that's absolutely spiteful! Hopefully, you never let that person touch your hair again.

    • @nifapz9596
      @nifapz9596 2 года назад

      Would have went savage on her.

    • @rue2599
      @rue2599 2 года назад

      People with 4b/4c hair need to adress the toxic relationship that they have with their hairstylist(s). Not only will they yank our edges off in one appointment, but they will also chemically treat (esp. relax) our natural hair without our consent. They will charge us extra for having natural hair, verbally harrass us for accepting our hair as it is, refuse to style it unless we fry it, violently and abusively comb it, etc. I believe that having natural hair salons owned and ran by natural hair experts with natural hair themselves, who have overcome their inferiority complexes and learned to genuinely love their hair, is the first solution. The moment I went natural, I told myself to never let anyone with an inferiority complex lay hands on my head. Such people will damage hair, whether consciously or subconsciously.

    • @ChesireWaltz
      @ChesireWaltz 2 года назад +87

      @Peggy Gilespie High key it's why I only go to a hair dresser with nice hair. It feels so damn petty, but I have never gotten better trims than I have from my current hair dresser who usually has some of the nicest most lush hair at any given time in the salon. I used to have to fight people to stop trying to chop me every time, it was insanity.

  • @nm6783
    @nm6783 2 года назад +79

    Although I understand your hair has been through a lot, you have always had really good healthy hair. Even when it was damaged I could see the volume and potential! Beautiful

  • @sharinpitts5333
    @sharinpitts5333 2 года назад +63

    If you're looking for Thigh/Knee Length hair inspiration have a look at Indigenous Strands.

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +11

      Hi Sharin
      Thanks for the recommendation!
      Yes, I have seen her channel very lately! Her hair is beautiful!

    • @kylieking8163
      @kylieking8163 2 года назад +2

      It's krazy I couldn't manage my 4c hair that length. She's Such an inspiration

    • @lacrymosa777
      @lacrymosa777 2 года назад +13

      @@kylieking8163 how would you know if you haven't tried 🤔

    • @JaneDoane
      @JaneDoane 2 года назад

      .

    • @lucillebennet4233
      @lucillebennet4233 2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much Dr. Aloha. Here is a permanent Solution to Eliminate Herpes 1 & 2, lupus, Acne, shingles and HPV and It's 100% money back guarantee. ruclips.net/channel/UC_YFEEZEr1BxGkNg1d4vqww 👈👈👈👈

  • @MsNel1031
    @MsNel1031 2 года назад +73

    I think we all desire long hair .. and i get this! Thanks for sharing your journey

    • @MsNel1031
      @MsNel1031 2 года назад

      And i think braids pull on our hair more

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +2

      Hi Shannel
      Thank-you for your lovely comment

    • @lucillebennet4233
      @lucillebennet4233 2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much Dr. Aloha. Here is a permanent Solution to Eliminate Herpes 1 & 2, lupus, Acne, shingles and HPV and It's 100% money back guarantee. ruclips.net/channel/UC_YFEEZEr1BxGkNg1d4vqww 👈👈👈👈

    • @kozumexee
      @kozumexee 2 года назад +2

      @@MsNel1031 box braids grow my hair a ton

  • @sandianbc8732
    @sandianbc8732 2 года назад +49

    You are stunning, your hair is stunning. I love long hair too Unfortunately 5 months back I had an incident at a salon , that saw me lose 11 inches😭😭😭. My hair was mid back length and after it was now this irregular ear length cut. Its better now it's now shoulder length, I am starting to feel more and more confident. I cant wait for it to be long again

    • @jadesmith7983
      @jadesmith7983 2 года назад +16

      Wow. That is so awful. Sorry to hear some evil women cut off so much of your hair without your permission. I've had similar incidents when going to hair salons which is why I decided to take care of my own hair.

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +9

      Thank-you for your comment!

  • @Mari-hl4kx
    @Mari-hl4kx 2 года назад +7

    Thank you for making time to educate us on hair. I appreciate it!

  • @malindarayallen
    @malindarayallen 2 года назад +51

    Your parents are a gorgeous couple, and you were adorable! 😍

  • @1GoldenBreeze
    @1GoldenBreeze 2 года назад +254

    Moving on to thigh length is a big decision. Best of luck in reaching that goal. You can do it!💜 💜 Indigenous Strandz and 22nd Century Natural Worman here on YT have thigh-length hair if you need a bit of inspiration for your thigh-length journey. I'm sitting at hip length trying to decide when I want to move on to tailbone. Right now I cut it when it gets a couple of inches past hip length. I guess I'm just not ready yet. IDK why but it just seems like a much larger step. LoL

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +19

      Thank-you so much for your comment!
      Yes, I have recently checked out Indigenous Strandz and have been a fan of 22nd Century Natural Woman for a while as well :)
      Lol, keep us updated on whether you decide to take the leap to tailbone

    • @francenegayle3866
      @francenegayle3866 Год назад

      Beautiful inspiration....4 years in and I am at BSL . I came close to relaxing my hair this summer...happy I resisted. I think my goal is anywhere between MBL and Waist length.

    • @1GoldenBreeze
      @1GoldenBreeze Год назад +3

      @@francenegayle3866 You can make it! It really is just as easy as having a simple and consistent routine.

  • @breeeeeee
    @breeeeeee 2 года назад +20

    Beautiful storytelling! Thank you for sharing! Gorgeous hair!

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +3

      Hi Bree'ana
      Thank-you for your lovely comment!

  • @condesabeatriz9303
    @condesabeatriz9303 2 года назад +31

    Great video! My hair has NEVER been that thick. What a blessing!

  • @gracej6492
    @gracej6492 2 года назад +106

    I love your hair! I can't wait to get my hair to that length. Thank you for sharing!

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +5

      Hi Grace!
      Thank-you for your lovely comment

    • @gracej6492
      @gracej6492 2 года назад +1

      @@ifshesopleases You're welcome.

  • @thisismyname3328
    @thisismyname3328 2 года назад +13

    Your hair is beautiful! We may have different hair types, but I can relate to the struggle of not knowing how to look after your hair, or even unconscious neglect. I've come to love protective styles, they keep my hair safe, secure and out of the way, whilst looking pretty and ultimately, serving a function - they've become part of my routine and hair goals. I currently have thin waist length hair, which I'm growing out partially because there is a particular style i wanna try with it.

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +1

      Thanks for your comment!
      So happy that you could relate! Wishing you the best in your journey

  • @yuliaaaaaaaaaaa
    @yuliaaaaaaaaaaa 2 года назад +9

    your hair is literally so amazing

  • @ob194
    @ob194 2 года назад +9

    Showing us some of your hairstyles can be a start, cos I really love them

  • @SydniJ
    @SydniJ 2 года назад +10

    Your hair is absolutely gorgeous. I saw some pics on Pinterest of your hair that someone had pinned and wished that I could find the girl in them. I’m soooo glad RUclips recommended this video. I’ll be buying some of your butters for sure!

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад

      Hi SJ
      Thanks for your comment!
      Oh yay! Glad to hear that you found me on Pinterest :)
      Thank-you for your support!

  • @luke184lisa
    @luke184lisa 2 года назад +4

    This is one of the best hair vids I ever saw. Excellent content.
    🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆

  • @TamarasTreasureTrove
    @TamarasTreasureTrove 2 года назад +8

    Thank you SO much for making the point about veganism thinning hair. I found out the hard way earlier this year. You and your hair are beautiful 🥰✨

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +2

      Hi Tamara
      Thanks for your comment! You're welcome! I know that it's controversial, but I thought it was worth including as it was my experience

  • @omoladekemi4455
    @omoladekemi4455 2 года назад +8

    I love your voice, love love your hair. And the Shea butter is a doer!!! Love you girl ..

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +1

      Thank-you for your lovely comment, Omolade!
      Yes, shea butter definitely is the one for me!

  • @goddesskdb2432
    @goddesskdb2432 2 года назад +59

    Our hair journeys are almost identical. Beautiful!

    • @lucillebennet4233
      @lucillebennet4233 2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much Dr. Aloha. Here is a permanent Solution to Eliminate Herpes 1 & 2, lupus, Acne, shingles and HPV and It's 100% money back guarantee. ruclips.net/channel/UC_YFEEZEr1BxGkNg1d4vqww 👈👈👈👈

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +7

      Ooo hair journey twins! Thank-you for your comment!

  • @shae1005
    @shae1005 2 года назад +4

    Your hair is beautiful! A crown of glory indeed ❤️

  • @sapphirehaircare
    @sapphirehaircare 2 года назад +173

    This was a beautiful story and looking at the pictures your hair came a long way and I'm so sorry what happened to you at the salon when you got your relaxer..
    Some people just don't care and they don't have your best interest in heart our daughter relaxes my hair every 26 weeks..
    I have gained some length as well it comes past my bra strapped in the back and I'm very proud of myself because I too had suffered from unhealthy hai'm unhealthy here. Thank you ever kindly God-bless you🙏🏽🌺💓

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +8

      Hi Sapphire
      Thanks so much for your kind comment!
      I am so glad to hear that you have healthy relaxed hair. I often feel that if I had had a different first experience, I would have been relaxed until this day. It's funny how things work out

    • @lucillebennet4233
      @lucillebennet4233 2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much Dr. Aloha. Here is a permanent Solution to Eliminate Herpes 1 & 2, lupus, Acne, shingles and HPV and It's 100% money back guarantee. ruclips.net/channel/UC_YFEEZEr1BxGkNg1d4vqww 👈👈👈👈

  • @sharpekinks
    @sharpekinks 2 года назад +5

    You’re gorgeous and so is your hair! 😍😍😍 I think tailbone length is next for me!

  • @user-um7tw6kx4r6
    @user-um7tw6kx4r6 Год назад +4

    You wearing the dress and the cute bow ARE EVERYTHING. I'm so inspired to make myself a big crazy bow and wear it. Fortunately my hair is also quite long now! Congrats to you

  • @iloveGod1105
    @iloveGod1105 Год назад

    Thank you SO much for sharing this video and for taking us on this journey with you! I will be purchasing some of your product as SOON as I get my next pay check. Sending my love from the USA. 😘

  • @TheKonnoisseur11
    @TheKonnoisseur11 11 месяцев назад

    Your hair is gorgeous and alluring and I find that natural textured “sculpted” hair works for my soft dramatic style

  • @kiaderham
    @kiaderham Год назад +1

    Omg! This gave me so much life!!! I have a similar hair story, as my hair was about waist length, then went to a salon and got it butchered. It hasn't quite been the same since, but now I'm starting to seed what's the best option for me to grow it to tailbone! Congrats on your product and your beautiful hair 🥰😘❤️🙏🏽

  • @TheWorkFromHomeWifeofAtlanta
    @TheWorkFromHomeWifeofAtlanta 2 года назад +4

    Thank you for the journey!! Very inspiring! You are gorgeous my sister!

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +1

      Thank-you so much for your lovely comment

  • @misswogdaily2344
    @misswogdaily2344 2 года назад +5

    beautiful hair. being able to maintain thickness is definitely key

  • @kurmyshaharris7367
    @kurmyshaharris7367 2 года назад +24

    I had relaxer in for about 6 years and I finally chopped it all off once I started noticing my balding temples. I too still struggle with trying to get the hair to grow back there but it was a bit comforting to know that I'm not alone

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +1

      Hi!
      Thank-you for sharing!
      You are definitely not alone!

    • @dw3675
      @dw3675 2 года назад +1

      (As long as you’re not allergic) try eating fruits and veggies from every vitamin group, or make smoothies out of them combined. That really helped me

    • @reginagordon4246
      @reginagordon4246 Год назад

      Try using peppermint oil mixed with olive oil.

  • @SuperMommav
    @SuperMommav 2 года назад +1

    You are so adorable 🥰. Thanks for the super detailed hair journey!

  • @pinqfriday2490
    @pinqfriday2490 2 года назад +2

    the style with the bow was so cute omg and I love your accent

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +1

      Thank-you so much for your lovely comment!

  • @Ivylaismusic
    @Ivylaismusic 2 года назад +3

    This aligns with my current hair journey. I’ve started locs for the purpose of growing my hair but I’m also careful with my hair care

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад

      Thanks for your comment! Oh wow, can't believe our journeys are so similar

  • @Raetalkss
    @Raetalkss 2 года назад +5

    Instantly subscribed because you are a fellow brit and NIGERIAN! Yesoooooo!

  • @selinaBARMAR2565
    @selinaBARMAR2565 2 года назад +15

    Thanks for sharing your journey! You are beautiful and your hair is amazing. Nice texture and the styles you choose look great. I notice that you do have strong and healthy hair strands even when your hair was much shorter.

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +1

      Hi Selina
      Thank-you for your lovely comment!

  • @MesereteUzondu
    @MesereteUzondu 2 года назад +11

    Beautiful ......... I told my husband that my aim for my hair length is midi length... So I happy to hear you say thigh length.... I am soon shoulder length.... Thanks for the inspiration..... Blessed love ✨✨

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +2

      Hi Meserete (Beautiful name! What does it mean?

    • @MesereteUzondu
      @MesereteUzondu 2 года назад

      @@ifshesopleases hi Queen Goddess, thanks for your reply and the encouraging words 😊😊 ... The meaning of my name Meserete along with my second name is 'Born of Christ"..... Uzondu means "The way of Life"

  • @HelloSeptmember
    @HelloSeptmember 2 года назад +2

    I make my own growth oils and still would love to try your butters! Will be ordering soon. Subscribed and love your hair journey. Thank you!

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +2

      Hi Diana
      Aww thank-you so much!
      Out of curiosity, what do you include in your growth oils?
      Thanks!

  • @alliyahsmith9779
    @alliyahsmith9779 2 года назад +3

    This was such a beautiful story

  • @cassidiehailley4100
    @cassidiehailley4100 2 года назад +3

    Your from the UK yaay I like to hear RUclipsrs from the UK 😊 you've done well with your hair journey.

  • @maggikorexa7
    @maggikorexa7 2 года назад +3

    i don't know why but to be honest to me u are the best💖💘 youtuber teaching us and talking to us how you grew your hair n ur struggles. Like girl you sincere haven't seen 🙅or watched a RUclipsR SOO TRUE. 😍😘

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +2

      Aww thank-you Maggi
      This is such a lovely comment
      Welcome!

    • @maggikorexa7
      @maggikorexa7 2 года назад

      @@ifshesopleases You welcome darling.

  • @Bri-sz7cr
    @Bri-sz7cr 2 года назад +5

    You’re gorgeous! Love the hair 🤩.

  • @diwi5823
    @diwi5823 Год назад +6

    I loved you in the yellow dress with the ribbon 😍 You look like a Disney Princess

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  Год назад +1

      Aww thank-you so much

    • @diwi5823
      @diwi5823 Год назад

      @@ifshesopleases 💖 You are very welcome! (I got the notification from your response so late 🤦🏽‍♀️)

  • @Nekole1
    @Nekole1 Год назад +2

    Your hair is so long and beautiful. Get it! It looks so nice.

  • @FineNaturalHairROCKS
    @FineNaturalHairROCKS 2 года назад +5

    Thank you so much for sharing your journey. It's absolutely incredible and very inspiring too!!! 💛
    P.S. Your butters look so nice too!

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +1

      Thank-you so much for your lovely comment!

  • @ambersucces9867
    @ambersucces9867 2 года назад

    Girl your hair is goals

  • @LydiaAshley
    @LydiaAshley Год назад +6

    Ahh. I remember trying to do my own hair in middle school 🤣 I guess you could say my first accidental big chop 😝 congrats on your journey ! Keep it healthy!

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  Год назад

      lmaoo 😭 The worst part is that we were really trying our best at the time 😭❤️

  • @tambam.m
    @tambam.m 2 года назад +2

    Loved this! It was very inspiring ❤️❤️

  • @AshleeLoveit
    @AshleeLoveit 2 года назад

    Love this simple video!! Thank you for this!!

  • @Precious81191
    @Precious81191 2 года назад

    Nicely done. Keep your peace& continue your journey

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад

      Hi Love :)
      Thanks for your lovely comment!

  • @arigato7228
    @arigato7228 Год назад

    You’re Nigerian!! Im so happy and I wouldn’t have even guessed that and I’m Nigerian too sis🥰

  • @mannieb
    @mannieb 2 года назад +1

    Thanks for sharing. Your hair is lovely 😍.
    We had to cut our hair in school which is such a shame. I wish we were taught to love and appreciate our hair as young kids. I also just shared my hair journey.

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +3

      Hi Mannick
      Thank-you for your comment!
      Oh wow, my mum actually experienced the same thing going to school in Nigeria

  • @badgalyaya2303
    @badgalyaya2303 Год назад

    This was an amazing video and I also want to say you are so gorgeous!!! All your pictures are so cute!

  • @thelionessreigns
    @thelionessreigns 2 года назад +4

    I know this is a video about hair, but you are SO beautiful!

  • @yoyou3848
    @yoyou3848 2 года назад +7

    Your mother is WoW. STUNNING PARENTS

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +1

      Aww thank-you so much! You made her smile with this comment! She says "thank-you"

    • @yoyou3848
      @yoyou3848 2 года назад

      @@ifshesopleases awww🤗

  • @V.ResilientInYAH
    @V.ResilientInYAH Год назад +3

    Yasss girl, Beautiful crown 👑 you have. My best friend is Nigerian she also has beautiful hair.

  • @depiscean16
    @depiscean16 2 года назад +4

    What a beautiful journey.

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +1

      Thank-you so much for your comment

    • @lucillebennet4233
      @lucillebennet4233 2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much Dr. Aloha. Here is a permanent Solution to Eliminate Herpes 1 & 2, lupus, Acne, shingles and HPV and It's 100% money back guarantee. ruclips.net/channel/UC_YFEEZEr1BxGkNg1d4vqww 👈👈👈👈

  • @DaebakSimmer
    @DaebakSimmer Год назад

    this is my first time on your channel. you seem sweet and knowledgeable. I will definitely be purchasing one or more of your butters when I have the opportunity to, i’ll be subscribing as well!!

  • @Brownocean
    @Brownocean 2 года назад

    Your hair grows super quick

  • @Princesshope545
    @Princesshope545 Год назад +1

    Hair goals💗

  • @sheirafred5409
    @sheirafred5409 2 года назад +4

    Woahhhhh
    You're so inspiring 😭😭🙏🏾
    Thank you for sharing this journey with us❤️

    • @sheirafred5409
      @sheirafred5409 2 года назад +1

      Your hair is so beautiful jeeeeez😭

    • @lucillebennet4233
      @lucillebennet4233 2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much Dr. Aloha. Here is a permanent Solution to Eliminate Herpes 1 & 2, lupus, Acne, shingles and HPV and It's 100% money back guarantee. ruclips.net/channel/UC_YFEEZEr1BxGkNg1d4vqww 👈👈👈👈

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад

      Aww thank-you!

  • @setapartaay925
    @setapartaay925 2 года назад

    BEAUTIFUL hair sis!!! Yeasssssss!!!! 😍

  • @NicoleP36
    @NicoleP36 Год назад

    Brown woman magic!! Love it sis

  • @BlackGirlLovesAnime6
    @BlackGirlLovesAnime6 2 года назад +12

    You are just so elegant and sweet 😊. Love the vid, definitely subscribing for more 💙

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад

      Aww thank-you so much for your lovely comment, and for subscribing

  • @arimox3942
    @arimox3942 2 года назад

    Love this! Thank you for the inspiration and motivation. Do you have a video on the products you use? If not can you please pretty please make one?😊😀

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад

      Hi Ari
      Thank-you for your comment! I just uploaded a video in which I explain the comments that I used throughout my hair journey! Please check it out if you think it may help

  • @beautifulbrown_infinity1673
    @beautifulbrown_infinity1673 2 года назад

    I luvvvvvvvvvvvv the pic of ur parents!!!🤗🤗🤗Ur moms smile is too cute and ur Dad is so into y'all, I 🥰🥰🥰Black Love!!!

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +1

      Thank-you for your lovely comment! This is so sweet, I'll tell them

  • @makada5851
    @makada5851 2 года назад +5

    Glad I found you. So beautiful. Keep posting content.

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад

      Thank-you so much for this lovely comment :)
      If you have any specific content you would like to see, please let me know

  • @tmc1373
    @tmc1373 2 года назад

    YOU and your hair are lovely! You are hair is awesome!! You dress very beautiful and elegantly as well!

  • @vastya.3255
    @vastya.3255 2 года назад +46

    Im positive my follicles are damaged from relaxers ever since I was 3-4 😭 my pattern is amazing, 4c but my hair is so fine , I’m trying to find ways to thicken my follicles so that my strands can be less fine and fragile

    • @JanieBee
      @JanieBee 2 года назад +6

      If that's the case you just need to cut the damaged ends. There's no way to restore split/damaged ends. Better cut it now so you can grow your hair more easily. And do a trim every 4-6 months

    • @dlilwon
      @dlilwon 2 года назад +5

      Could also be genetic. If not, try sulphur

    • @vastya.3255
      @vastya.3255 2 года назад +3

      @@dlilwon yes i know I do have finer hair naturally but since I was relaxed from so young and my mom didn’t know better than to overprocess my hair and douse my scalp in the relaxer, I feel like my follicles never got the chance to be in their full potential anyway , ya get me? I have sulfur 8, I haven’t used that in a while but I’m trying onion juice soon

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +4

      Hi Vasty,
      Thanks so much for sharing! Sorry to hear that you think your follicles may be damaged 😖
      I used to take Biotin back in the day and I think it may have helped me with thickness. This may be something that may work for you x

    • @JanieBee
      @JanieBee 2 года назад +1

      @Trinity M you're right, I know what follicles are idk why I started talking about ends. But generally speaking I think if your hair is naturally fine and thin you cant really change that. You can thicken your hair a bit but it's not gonna like change the density of your hair drastically. I could be wrong tho

  • @HealthyNatureRules
    @HealthyNatureRules 2 года назад +2

    Your hair is gorgeous 😍 before I even clicked for the hair I was astounded by your beauty! Sis where have you been? Subscribing now💕

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад

      Aww thank-you so much for this comment! Welcome!

  • @WellBeing999
    @WellBeing999 2 года назад +21

    Beautiful hair 😍. I am growing out my hair with heat and was contemplating on what length to keep it at when it grows out and thought that waist length would be where I would stop but then through watching your video it dawned on me that I could let it grow as long as it wants because in its natural state it would always be shorter and I could then wear natural styles that had length. I love when videos give me epiphanies. Thanks!

    • @lucillebennet4233
      @lucillebennet4233 2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much Dr. Aloha. Here is a permanent Solution to Eliminate Herpes 1 & 2, lupus, Acne, shingles and HPV and It's 100% money back guarantee. ruclips.net/channel/UC_YFEEZEr1BxGkNg1d4vqww 👈👈👈👈

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +2

      Aww thank-you so much for your comment! Glad that the video helped

    • @ravena3253
      @ravena3253 2 года назад

      What does it mean to grow with heat?

    • @nataliewalters2759
      @nataliewalters2759 2 года назад

      Hear is bad for hair growth . It literally breaks off your hair if done too much . Please be careful but it’s your hair at the end of the day. Good luck

  • @koolyokam007
    @koolyokam007 2 года назад +6

    My absolute dream hair!

  • @chessesticksbeesticks6067
    @chessesticksbeesticks6067 2 года назад +4

    You are so beautiful and I love your journey💕

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +1

      Hi love :)
      Thank-you so much for your lovely comment!

  • @naturallycurlymama5344
    @naturallycurlymama5344 2 года назад +2

    You hair looks amazing

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад

      Thank-you so much for your lovely comment!

  • @marcep5458
    @marcep5458 Год назад

    I love this!

  • @skincareforsensitiveskin
    @skincareforsensitiveskin 2 года назад

    Wow! Beautiful! Goals 🌿

  • @marycuffy1079
    @marycuffy1079 2 года назад +2

    Beautiful hair sis keep it going

  • @shellyreynolds8948
    @shellyreynolds8948 2 года назад +2

    Next time you want to play with short hair weave it in. I have a blast with different lengths, colors, and styles of weave here and there. I have hella thick thigh length hair. So I know sometimes you just need a break. Which you can find with weave or braids. This can also be a great way to grow your hair as well.

    • @stephaniegoldman5830
      @stephaniegoldman5830 Год назад

      How long do you leave your weave in and do you use the weave cap and how long do you leave the weave in?

    • @shellyreynolds8948
      @shellyreynolds8948 Год назад +1

      @@stephaniegoldman5830 Yes a basket weave is the best way to protect your real hair. A month is good for me. I've never left mine in longer than that. I have a whole lotta hair, and need to take care of it under there.

  • @allykuit5384
    @allykuit5384 2 года назад +5

    You have fabulous hair. 😍

  • @ChimereTrielle
    @ChimereTrielle 2 года назад +6

    Thank you so much for sharing! Amazing journey! what really caught my attention was you moving to Japan! I have studied Japanese in the past and been to Japan as a foreign exchange student so I have huge affinity for Japanese culture. Are you still there now?

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +2

      Hi Chimere!
      Thanks for your comment!
      Oh, that's nice to hear that we have that in common!
      I am now home in the UK :)

  • @Heleynaaaaaaa
    @Heleynaaaaaaa 2 года назад

    You’re a doll!!!! New subbie! ❤️

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +1

      Hi Heleyna
      Thank-you for your lovely comment

  • @DjanaCaan
    @DjanaCaan 2 года назад +11

    Hi dear ! Your hair are so gorgeous. When gonna you release the full set - Length Retention Hair Butters (Coconut, Strawberry, Vanilla and Mango) again please? Thank you from Belgium.

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +4

      Hi Djana,
      Thanks for your lovely comment! They are actually available now! I just noticed that the quantities were not updated. Feel free to grab them now as there are only a couple of sets left 😍 Thank you so much for your support!

  • @libfuzzy4629
    @libfuzzy4629 2 года назад +5

    Both you and your mom are beautiful

  • @odbrittany
    @odbrittany 4 месяца назад

    Whitney had such a tremendous impact on the natural hair movement. She was my first source of inspiration.

  • @soulsistag66
    @soulsistag66 2 года назад +4

    Thank you for sharing! Interesting, no one in my family has hair similar to thickness and length to my hair. I think your hair looks similar to my hair.

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +1

      Hi Gwendolyn
      Thanks for commenting! Lovely to hear that we are hair twins!

  • @janeca10
    @janeca10 2 года назад

    Uauuuu! You look stunning! Love your hair!

  • @ninsuhnrey
    @ninsuhnrey 2 года назад

    Wonderful video. Thank you for sharing your experience. If I might make a suggestion: consider getting in touch with a Nigerian beauty products chain called Perfect Trust and see whether they'll stock your products (so that we can buy them here in Nigeria!). They have just about everything else and I would love to get my hands on your butters. Think about expanding your buyer base! 👏🏾👍🏿

  • @kadyfadel6638
    @kadyfadel6638 2 года назад +5

    My hair was midback lenght now am at the same lenght of yours i think its past tailbone lenght touching my butt..am aiming to the classic lenght.. cuze am planning to wear it curly most of the time.. so i hope it will beat waist lenght when it's curly.. good luck in growing your hair ❤️💜

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +2

      Hi Kady
      Wow, your hair sounds beautiful!
      Thanks for your lovely comment!

  • @Somelikeitthrift
    @Somelikeitthrift 2 года назад +1

    You never age! Wow

  • @cellsdoni5968
    @cellsdoni5968 2 года назад +1

    Lovely lady, hair and everything!!🤎👠🌹

  • @sidneestocks
    @sidneestocks 2 года назад +2

    I started on KISS with my natural hair care journey!!! 🤗🤗

  • @cherryb5244
    @cherryb5244 Год назад +1

    Oh my goodness that "Hairstylist" sounds exactly like the one who butcherd my hair combing it with the relaxer into my hair constantly. I had to cut it all off and start again it has been two years and I'm at collar bone length. But I see I need to leave the braids alone and just embrace my hair cause the thinning is stressing me out.. Thank you for this I'm going to set a length goal too

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  Год назад

      These 'stylists' are honestly so embarrassing. The one who worked on my hair did the same!
      I wish you the best on your new length goal

  • @justava2349
    @justava2349 2 года назад +21

    Thank you! This is very inspirational. When I was young my mom would relax my hair and leave it alone and my hair would grow down my back. I've been natural since I was around 14 and no heat since I was 17. Now I'm 20 and I just want to make it to mid-back length. I remember telling myself at 18, once I turn 22 I will have that mid-back length. I feel like I am letting myself down :/. I am trying to find out what works for me, but I always feel like I'm stuck at shoulder length. My goal this year is armpit length. I'm going to try this year using fewer braids as I think my braider is just too harsh on my hair (she never braids too tight). I was able to find someone to trim my natural hair but it's $100 every 6 months (trying to see if I can find another person that won't apply heat. I haven't used heat since the 2020 fight before the pandemic and I refuse to). My hair will like something and then hate it. It won't take in heavy products. It'll just sit on my hair. I find a good conditioner, but I'm still looking for a shampoo (I'm going to try an unscented one now I think my scalp hates fragrance especially since my actual face hates it). The trim when I got it in November, my hair loved it and felt so soft after. I have a lot of breakage (especially in the front and top of my hair) because my hair is so thin but I have a lot of it. The back of my hair takes moisture and everything is so much better than the top. I have tried (almost) every brand expensive and inexperienced. I am so sad. This year I plan on just cornrowing and doing crochet and wigs all year. Hopefully, I see progress. Sorry, I know this is a long read, but your video inspired me to not give up. If I am honest your hair is gorgeous (and so are you!) and I want that for myself. Thank you for the video :).

    • @Aniexo_
      @Aniexo_ 2 года назад +5

      If your hair is on your shoulders, try keeping them off your shoulders, definitely take a break from braids, I tried doing braids to “protect” my hair but it broke off a lot right now I’m doing twist with my real hair all 2022 I’m loving the growth!

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +2

      Hi Ava
      Thanks so much for your lovely message!
      I'm sorry to hear that you are having so many troubles with your hair
      I would definitely lay off the braids for a while, as my own experience was very thinning :( Perhaps you can try more simple protective styles such as buns or twists to ease the tension.
      Please let me know what kind of topics you would like to see in my videos going forward and I will try and include as much information as I can
      Thanks again for the comment!

    • @ifshesopleases
      @ifshesopleases  2 года назад +4

      Hi Aniexo

    • @Alana.Mariee
      @Alana.Mariee 2 года назад +1

      YOU GOT THIS!!

    • @marizuikelua4647
      @marizuikelua4647 2 года назад

      Try African black soap for shampooing . It made my 4c hair so soft, I was shocked. Usually, I never look forward to wash days because shampoos usually dry my hair out so bad & it makes it so hard to detangle