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What a shame. You are only 51 years old. Not everyone is out to scam and there will be women for you. Yes, maybe you have had bad luck in the past, but please change your perception of life and you will see, things will definitely get better, you can do it.
@Anthony 50 You're so wrong about the age problem Anthony. There are an incredible number of available women 50+ (actually 40+). They are largely free of young children, many times their children are grown and gone. They are past menopause (major, major bonus). Mostly divorcees, some widowed, all experienced in the bedroom. They usually have financial independence (they can support themselves). Many times not necessarily even perusing a marriage relationship (so you don't have to). They are mature and appreciative. And best of all, many of them feel like you, that after 50, it's over and greatly appreciate the sudden attention of a gentleman caller. THEY ARE FREAKING EVERYWHERE. Just start going where they are. Churches, Junior Colleges, Adult night classes, art and craft fairs, community outdoor concerts, in grocery stores (yes I said that), more. If you don't remember how to meet, approach them, you're in the right place, practice and learn, it's not rocket science (sorry Anna). They are usually easier to approach than young women. Don't waste another day pouting, get after it. You'll find I'm right. Just do it.
X-Man well said, it’s sad we have to see and hear other men in these situations, but it’s just so true. there are always women out there. just clean up a little, and just go talk talk talk to them, it will happen.
My ex girlfriend litteraly had all 20 of those things and I still managed to stay with her for 2 years until I finally opened my eyes. It's crazy how love can make you blind.
Lol I broke up with my ex one month ago and she had all of them haha I can’t believe how blind i was and she also acted like sex was a gift for me only and we have sex after fights so she can ran away from the fight like so . Many times i agreed because i was trying to believe she is trying
@@robertm.-certifieddaytrade4939 Perhaps an analogy is of a wild rodeo that has a thrill and a pain phase... lol... and to hold on and enjoy the ride for as long as you can before you fall off and roll to avoid getting kicked. Accepting what is and like the stock market, benefit which ever way the market goes. Oh, was that subliminal I just saw it in your name... hehehe... like don't mention the hump... cheers...
#21- She trashes all of her exes when talking to you. She tells you how awful all of them were. Chances are, if she trashes all of her exes, she is going to trash you too when she is with her next man. And she'll trash that next man when she is with the next one after that. The cycle never stops.
And then you realize when she speaks ill of every dude she dates, you see she then throws you under the bus for stuff she overexaggerated or you did not do. This shows wait maybe the guys in the past weren't the problem neither. Eventually, she's the common denominator.
What if her exes were actually all that she says? Not asking you to defend them and say it must be her, surely there's a circumstance where it was them and not her. You can't just assume she's lying and leave her or you really are another bad one. What if your exes eventually hurt you and you confided in her and told her everything? Should she say it must all be you and leave you because of that? Surely not.
I wish I had seen this before I got married. She used to lie so unnecessarily, even about small things. Now I'm 18 years without her, divorced and single and much happier. You don't have to be afraid to be alone. Hugs to all, mike
Get his x back? Are you trying to give him hell? Michael dont lesson to this person trying to set you up. You are better off with out her, She aint worthy of you.
Thanks Mike. Mine I stayed married to for 11 years. She lied about all sorts of things which I brushed off over the years. She ended having an affair after our two children were born, I took her back and now we are separated. The fucked up thing is I still miss her. 4 months separated, I have women who are more than interested in me but I’m still in love with my ex. What an idiot I am. 🤷🏽♂️
What worries me is that the label 'Narcissist' gets thrown around a little too liberally. What is also worrisome is when someone isn't aware that their behavior can be interpreted as Narcissistic - depending on the context. And Finally what worries me the most. If someone concludes and is acknowledging that they are indeed a Narcissist? There is therapies to assist how to behave but like an addict/alcoholic etc. There is no cure for it. You make progress as best you can but eventually they always snap back like a rubber band. I think this is a little divisive. Not just for the narcissist in question but the person walking away for their own health is more than likely actually can be misconstrued as the same. Hypothetically that is. The first person POV is by definition. Myopic.
@@Kenzofeis So a spectrum. Just like autism! 😃 I know what it is you are saying. But my point is how the term is casually used in social media. I am sure there is a percentage who view it as a gradient/spectrum like you said. I just think there are a lot more who don't. And will use that to manipulate.
Recently ended a long relationship that didn’t deserve the longevity, all the signs my ex girlfriend exhumes. Terrible experience in love for me but I definitely appreciate a woman giving us men a deeper insight to women. Bravo Wingmam!!!
Exactly. The smartphone broke all women. It grew the narcissistic flaw in an exponential way in which evolution didn't make us yet capable of handling it and hypergamy went completely wild.
Jealousy is the most important sign. 3:15 / If she's jealous, she doesn't trust you. If she doesn't trust you, she doesn't love you. Take care guys. It hurts.
Thank you for this video!! I can confirm that I'm in a healthy relationship with little to no red flags, and this video made me value my partner much more. Stay strong guys, you'll find someone
laughing out loud you're asking a man to find a needle in a huge haystack amongst the weeds snakes and traps set out here. The number qualified to marry and stay married is getting slimmer
This list is spot on 100%. Unfortunately, these things come out slowly and usually a few months into the "relationship". I think the most important thing guys need to watch for is "how does she consistently treat you"? Tells the whole story.
Like you said, these things come out slowly, by then your invested. Plus , you don't want to be the " bad guy " that leaves when things get bad. But we shouldn't worry, always another beta male orbiter waiting
@@michaelsinaloense6449 our ex's must be sisters! Exactly how mine acts to this day, still will not admit to any wrongs always has a justification as to why she acted so horribly in the relationship.
"She never talks about you in her future". Well the last girl I 've dated I wasn't completely trusting her intensions until she fooled me doing exactly the opposite. Future faking is a really dangerous form of manipulation, so guys be careful even if she is doing the opposite.
This particular red flag, of your gf talking about her future as though you are not going to be in it is a red flag if the relationship has been going for a while. But it is definitely a red flag if she does this at the very beginning of the relationship.
once she told me that she want kids with me, once she told me Im the only right one to look at. other times she told me shes super exited about the future but never mentioned me again. was a long distance thing but yea, im done
I fell completely in love and have been intoxicated by a woman like this. Although it's been two years since we broke up I can't stop thinking about, and longing for, her. The truth is that even if we see the red flags it doesn't stop our feelings.
@@sethheron-vanta1383 One that wants to own me 4 that wanna stone me, one says she's a friend of mine. Or is that 4 that wanna own me 2 that wanna stone me and one says she is going blind?
Went out with a gal a few years ago, after the date she told me that I was too much like her ex-husband for her to see me again. I said "he must have been a hell of a man, why did you let him get-a-way?" AAAAahahaha, she didn't see the humor
When a narcissistic woman first calls her man, a wimp, a wuss is the moment a man walks away, turns his back on her, and never looks back again. She lost respect for you (you lost your cheerleader), and from that moment on she will begin to lie to her man. And I guarantee you, in that moment you walked away from her forever (without saying one word to her), she is going to say to you... "I was only kidding, can't you take a joke?" (that's a solid clue she's a perpetual gaslighter), and you are doing the right thing, self-preservation.
whenever i had a date, i always gave her a few flowers. If she snickered or acted like wtf, i would excuse myself saying i forgot something in the car. I would drive off and not look back
Get this: during an argument about finances, my ex once said “I’m tired of working, I wish I could meet a guy that will marry me with enough money so I wouldn’t have to work.” Now, I have enough money, but right then, I realized why she was with me. I just let her slowly realize my money is never going towards her and her fantasies of meeting a guy with money so she can be lazy. I let her fly away like a little bird looking for that man she dreams of.
My ex had a lot of these negative trates. Very covert in here actions. Men beware and take notes. I needed to keep to my standards and wouldn't have suffered so many years. Keep bringing the lesson Anna
@@YourWingmam i'm 40 and have my own small business, i don't have time for relationships, i've had plenty of women but never friends with benefits, i'm against pumping and dumping also, it doesn't sit well with me because i was a rascal in my late teens early twenties , had my fun and going back to that way of behaving is'nt for me, what should i do?
when you meet some one that's been damaged in there past life it will course problems with you don't take on people with baggage it will finish you off they will take that pain out on you
That was my x wife. She told her all about her nightmare past but I was too stupid to run. It's a very heady thing to for a young man to rescue a damsel in distress but it's a huge trap, or was in my case.
This girl was spot-on with literally every single point I'm going to come back here at a later date to give actual examples from my actual real relationship that I had
You’re gonna see those signs very often. As Nispey Hustle said, a man’s worth isn’t determined by the situations he is in but by how he decides to respond to whatever happens to him. This is the time you make or break your worth
@@jacksonlitchfield8211 it's not love, it's trauma bond... work on your trauma bond and you will be fine... Been there done that, but am good now... or much better at least
@@stephanieh5478 I disagree. Sure there are men who pride themselves in spending a girls money but I can guarantee that all the data collecting and remembering what works on the con,etc is too much work. Besides a ma n does not view a female as a resource but rather a funded liability that hopefully becomes a compatible and enjoyable asset ( partner). Also a man's goal is never going to be taking the self esteem and spiritual yearning of their partner just so they "can feel better about themselves. I know exactly what I am saying as I witness and experience without my ego expecting to pity myself but I do point out when a sentence or phrase is being used to paint the male in a lazy, abusive,and insensitive light. Men are indeed waking up in only the past two years but I still see women ignoring that and continue to talk down and gaslight the hard working blue collar men.
"She likes to argue and is never wrong and never apologizes." I'd say that the "likes to argue" bit is just as bad as someone that "hates to argue." In my experience, it seems like women usually fall into one extreme or the other. They either love arguing and will dive into people, or they loathe arguing and conflict so much that they'll avoid it at any cost and end up bottling up their anger and frustration until they let it out all at once, which is just as bad. However, the "is never wrong and never apologizes", I have yet to meet a woman who that doesn't apply to. At least, she may admit she's wrong and may apologize to friends or something, but never to a husband.
was with a gf for just over 3 yrs back in the early 2000s...her own mother said shes never accepted responsibility for anything shes ever done..nor apologized.her mom was right on the money.
Wait a sec. An argument is where both sides are presenting points. Mine would just be yelling with occasional inputs from me that were cut off. I would shut up because when I would talk it would just prolong the agony. She would give up and I would go and spend some Zen time on the motorcycle.
Man this is so true,especially with my last relationship.It’s been over three years now,so I’ve decided to stay on my own and I’m really happy with that.
Having recently broke up from a 6 year relationship. I have been looking at these videos from different bloggers for clarity to make sure I do actually want to be apart from her & why because after time apart with no contact when the dust settles & the fog clears you start having second thoughts & latch on to all the good times or positives or qualities about the other person that you buried during the break up. Your video definitely touches on aspects or points to note that other videos don't point out & in more depth. So much so that after much thought & consideration looking at the notes I made from your run down, I now know that I am better off being single & without her in my life & I can finally move on. So thank you
After my divorce close to two years ago, my ex wife just about possesed all these traits. I'm glad we went our separarte ways and once again, I feel alive and happier then ever.
10. Women can be really sneaky about this one. Example being: Come back from family event and there is a fight about something (not related to family - nothing negative said). Go to family for the weekend and they force you to book Motel as it is less intrusive to your family (Meaning sleeping at family member's house) - This sounds like they are being nice and respectful. How you test it is to say that you really want to stay there and see if she starts to get angry and eventually fight dirty about something (not the family - just something). The key is you are being trained to associate uncomfortable feelings with your family (operant conditioning). After a while she does not have to do a thing as the very thought of being around family feel awkward. When you have this going on. Plan your exit as this shit gets nasty.
The most important point that comes from these observations listed here in this video is that if you listen to your instincts you’ll know if the situation is good or bad and being wise enough to follow your inner guide is a great move.
Once upon a time, I asked a girl to marry me. She said no ! And he lived happily ever after. He rode Harley's, bought a house ,went fishing and hunting. Went overseas on holidays , and he even had money in the bank !
@@elijah7525 I taught a girl how to drive stick she was 38 years old She learned she drove good, then she said you did really teach me how to drive stick that good I said to her nobody taught you in 38 years what are you talkin about ..,your driving fine but total criticism ,,plus would SNAP out on you if you planted a flower in her yard oh, she would literally dig it back up and scream like a nut very good-looking well-built nutcase never works out , looks like a fat hog today
Hell yeah man.... you teach em everything they know to succeed and then they act like u had zero to do with her growth and development....sad stuff man... just be alone and keep your energy pure 💯 👌
you should hire a P.I. to investigate about her motives cause she just wants your money to spend on on herself instead of feeding the kids so once you have evidence against her she may threaten you with court matters & hope that her actions would backfire on her
If you can’t even have contact with your own kids, just take all your money and leave the US. Take loans, screw yourself here financially not willing to look back (of course), and leave her to mingle and struggle. When your kids are grown they’ll eventually come to you naturally.
the way this video got a tonne of attitudes my ex has was eye opening..... i was feeling and wanting her to come back but oh wow.....now im like nah... WTF 😨......new subscriber here for sure, thank you
What I like the most about your channel is that you give straight to the point short answers... no need to spend 5 minutes on each point like many channels do..... 🙋👍
I remember I read on a FB comment that someone I was seeing let her friends talk her into decisions. No backbone, I bet she was talking about me too, ha.
@@lionelhutz5137 So true. A woman's friends aren't going to praise me. For what? My cool GI Joe collection? I'm basically the man who is expendable when someone of a higher position is available, despite what "I" have to offer.
Wow I wish I had this information 4 months ago. She fit the description on almost every single red flag. Throughout the relationship it didn't feel right at times, I would usually discard what my gut was telling me. I felt like I was overthinking the situation at times.
I have never come across a woman who has not had at least 90% of these traits. Get a dog it's cheaper. It will always be pleased to see you and a loyal companion 😁👍
Thank you so much for this video. I broke up last year with a woman who, in some ways, was my perfect match. But there were a lot of things I wasn't seeing and my gut was constantly telling me this is all wrong. Watching your video, I see now how many (almost 95%) of this stuff was happening. The romantic part of my brain has been screaming at me for a year that I did the wrong thing but now my logical mind is telling me I dodged a HUGE bullet. I didn't see how broken our relationship really was and how poor things were between us. Thank you.
Just feel like this made me feel better and not to settle for someone that is just always depressed and never cares about how a guy feels. Thanks for the video
I went through this video twice and realised I had 30, yes, 30 red flags in my relationship. I’ve been unhappily married for over 20 years - mainly because I stood by her when she became pregnant with our disabled son, and I’m not that big of an asshole to leave. It’s not been fun.
George Butler Well, I was brought up the old-fashioned way to stand up to my responsibilities. On the plus side, I’ve 2 phenomenal kids in their 20s and herself has mellowed over the years.
Great channel Anna, you have really improved over time and are a pro now. Actually talk sense compared to most. Well done. You have also beautified over time too :) Unfortunately (yes, for us both sweetie) I’m in the UK, otherwise I would have been pursuing you. Maybe Canada may be my destiny...
Wow, some really great compliments in there plus some cheeky monkey "assumptive close" material in there ... you've learned well, grasshopper! (Not saying you learned from me, but you learned it somewhere!)
WingmamTV Everything I said was real and natural but with the odd ‘reminder’ from you Anna, but thank you for your compliments too ;) Yes, I know I made you smile and also I’m smiling while I type. Isn’t that what life is really for? I don’t think I will ever need to be a personal client of yours, but with your talent, skills, charisma and beautiful smile, you won’t have any problems in that department. Keep having fun with it. Best and will keep looking out for you, Don x
Tap Fraudis agreed. It is fun flirting with her though, she has a fantastic personality and is incredibly playful, I see her channel going from strength to strength.
Wowww...yeah I was with a girl that actually exhibited every one of those traits. Found my self stuck at home not allowed band practice or even playing guitar in her presence or ANYTHING that wasnt directly about her. Found myself in a state of extreme anxiety when we were physically together. Tried changing everything from my spiritual beliefs to the way I dress even the color socks I wear. Most emotionally damaging relationship I've ever been in by far. She always talked about her exes and even sexual stuff she did with guys and she did it repeatedly and graphically to the point it deeply disturbed me. It's good to hear these things though for future reference. I could never handle that again.
#5 is MASSIVE one that a lot of men never see coming. Fell in love with a girl who was a people pleaser, a "pick me" girl, I guess it kinda falls in line with the one of her only wanting me because she sees other girls with me and was in fear she would be left out instead of genuinely wanting me for compatibility, shared values, meaningful things... she was very beautiful though so I fell for her & wasted 2 entire whole years of my life in that. .-. god, before you all kick me I was an ignorant young man, okay maybe I still am but not as much anymore, if I had this video at the start of college would've been game over lol I would definitely already be married by now
Haha, one of my mates years ago, shagged an overweight 30 something lass after a drunken night out. When he woke up, he went downstairs, and she was humming away, cooking him breakfast. He noticed a book sitting on the coffee table in her living room, which was called something like "How to attract and keep a man". He could have bolted at that point, but he did the right thing, he accepted his payment (breakfast) and left afterwards. And he didn't call her back.
No matter how Much u give and do.. give the Moon a New place on the sky, move the stars around. She Will allways ask for more.. no matter how god you do.
Mark Kenny You can’t generalize. I was dating a Greek woman, known for their beauty and sensuality. I got sucked in because I let my, uh, thing between my legs think for me instead of my brain.
Sorry. I married a woman from the Philippines. She had most of these traits too. Not just Western women. Now we are divorcing. It time to give her half.
@@thomaspeterson5693 She must have been a bad one from either Manilla or Angeles City? I had a friend who married a Filipina from there and it was a disaster! He didn't even file for a divorce because luckily he didn't bring her back to the U.S. Instead he just got on a plane and left her there and didn't even look back!
@Mark Kenny I like Brazilian girls but Romanian village girls from the countryside are my favorites. They have that mysterious, ancient beauty and its such a mind trip! Plus the divorce rate in Romania is only 28% when they marry their own. The divorce rate between American men who marry Romanian girls is super low at only 4% compared to 60% when American men marry American women!
You are on point like a sniper with this one. My X had almost every one of these symptoms. Especially when you said "you know your settling" ouuu, I felt that one in my soul!! Thanks for sharing this.
How are you feeling AJ? Nice video. It always surprises me when men put up with those negative behaviors in their gf/wife. F that. Learn to value yourself more. Life is too short to invest time into toxic people. Be well, Tig
The first thing to know about sticking to your standards is knowing what they are. Too many people forget to filter for character and instead just go for chemistry. p.s. I'm ok (best I've got for now), thanks for asking! :)
You are fantastic! I like your delivery & noted humor. A thorough pointed analysis yet easily understood. I seen your posts abt year ago & as usual I hit 78.5% of your warning signs (no she did)..we were together 16yrs her goal from yr 1 ws marriage, but being 20yrs her senior, & a divorcee & had been in 3 long term relationships (43 when we met), her dream was delayed b/c I noted the 78.5% of signs, & the one as to why so long was..sex & us being socialites (her crew was her circles, in the service industry) we had a ball (3 main bars that were akin to Cheers), again, U being right again..plenty of drama..eventually we parted (or she did)...to marry her new love a colleague & much younger woman 23 my x/35.. I stood pat to my awareness of who she is, but maintained a reconnection (I felt bad, but knew it wouldn't work, & didn't believe after 20yrs that we cud work it out (oh marriage lasted 2yrs & she called & I or we, helped each other on our separate transiions & she appeased her many transgressions ( I gave her time b/c she was so young)...now from the begining,... she had been living w/her best friend as they met @ a trade school out of high school & had been on their own since 18, so she ws no spring chicken. & I was in a major transition, but we hit it off, it was a new experience (she white, me black another interesting dynamic) I ws just over a 7yr relationship w/a married black female (with a consenting husband 🙄) but since I wudt demand a divorce we remained friends to this day. Currently, I'm good wit all three, as I had been totally transparent with all three, also they know their hierarchy,..lastly re the 20yr affair she was the best home keeper, a dedicated worker(independent never went back home), good cook (she learned how to cook greens, & sweet potatoe pie), also I knew at 43 it was my last opportunity to get BJ (I hd 3 older brothers & they all had ther juniors, DJ, LJ & AJ 😔 no BJ..& the married one had two girls & mine, gave me we that family feeling I wanted (my marriage was betrayed on our wedding nite, laying in bed after the wedding & my daughter in her crib, my new wife told me if I wanted to hv sex I had to get some contraceptives b/c she didnt get her tubes tied & she didnt want any kids! Thats another unbelievable story...note: Good doctor...my full story included two instances whereby I almost my life by xwife, & young one.....no joke we wud have a best seller...wow! I may need a session I regressed...way back talk abt TMI..😁😁✌🤗😀ness, to all.
Easier to do it before getting married, cohabitating, and especially before getting her pregnant. Clean breaks are the best. You BOTH get to wipe the slate.
So glad to have stumbled across this channel! Such insightful and useful information - really helps to have existing thoughts/worries/feelings confirmed and reaffirmed, by someone so clearly intelligent and unbiased... thanks Wingmam, I'm you're newest biggest fan! :) x
Don't settle when there are red flags but so many do. I did but never stayed long term with any of those women. We have to often check ourselves to make sure we are making better choices and setting ourselves up for big problems. Good advise.
Wow these outline my relationship. She went from perfect to destroying everything. I guess I am not feeling the affects of the breakup as much since I been with no contact with her for such a long time. Tomorrow got to cancel her cellphone plan. Well it was fun while it lasted.
I enjoy your videos a lot. I appreciate the work you do, but the interesting thing that enters my mind after hearing your advice is............. All those red flags you mentioned are valid great information but I don't ever date anyone. I haven't been on a date with a woman in New York City in over 12 years, so I have nobody to ever run away from, and nobody to ever run to.
My worst mistake was letting my friends go when I was with my wife. She manipulated the heck out of our marriage that I ended not talking to my friends, but she could holla like hell to her friends. Anyway, we went out separate ways and I love every bit of it
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What a shame. You are only 51 years old. Not everyone is out to scam and there will be women for you. Yes, maybe you have had bad luck in the past, but please change your perception of life and you will see, things will definitely get better, you can do it.
@Anthony 50 You're so wrong about the age problem Anthony. There are an incredible number of available women 50+ (actually 40+). They are largely free of young children, many times their children are grown and gone. They are past menopause (major, major bonus). Mostly divorcees, some widowed, all experienced in the bedroom. They usually have financial independence (they can support themselves). Many times not necessarily even perusing a marriage relationship (so you don't have to). They are mature and appreciative. And best of all, many of them feel like you, that after 50, it's over and greatly appreciate the sudden attention of a gentleman caller. THEY ARE FREAKING EVERYWHERE.
Just start going where they are. Churches, Junior Colleges, Adult night classes, art and craft fairs, community outdoor concerts, in grocery stores (yes I said that), more. If you don't remember how to meet, approach them, you're in the right place, practice and learn, it's not rocket science (sorry Anna). They are usually easier to approach than young women. Don't waste another day pouting, get after it. You'll find I'm right. Just do it.
X-Man well said, it’s sad we have to see and hear other men in these situations, but it’s just so true. there are always women out there. just clean up a little, and just go talk talk talk to them, it will happen.
hay i love you 25 year
i am single black
Dated a single mom once. I got more attached to the kid. Rough not seeing him any more.
Thats rough buddy...
I feel you
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damn man
Ouch, that's rough
Why did my ex have 98% of these qualities but I was convinced she was the love of my life?
Your brain goes gaga when you like someone!
Because vagina
oneitis...read the book Rational male from Rollo Tomassi
@@moisesbeyond Every man should read this book.
@@majurbludd true story
My ex girlfriend litteraly had all 20 of those things and I still managed to stay with her for 2 years until I finally opened my eyes. It's crazy how love can make you blind.
Lol I broke up with my ex one month ago and she had all of them haha I can’t believe how blind i was and she also acted like sex was a gift for me only and we have sex after fights so she can ran away from the fight like so . Many times i agreed because i was trying to believe she is trying
For men often times LUST is confused with LOVE, especially when they LOVE-BOMB you!
BOTH can blind a man!!
Love 100% makes you blind. It simplifies how you see them and you ignore obvious redflags
@@robertm.-certifieddaytrade4939 Perhaps an analogy is of a wild rodeo that has a thrill and a pain phase... lol... and to hold on and enjoy the ride for as long as you can before you fall off and roll to avoid getting kicked. Accepting what is and like the stock market, benefit which ever way the market goes. Oh, was that subliminal I just saw it in your name... hehehe... like don't mention the hump... cheers...
Love or poon-tang?
#21- She trashes all of her exes when talking to you. She tells you how awful all of them were. Chances are, if she trashes all of her exes, she is going to trash you too when she is with her next man. And she'll trash that next man when she is with the next one after that. The cycle never stops.
She,s a victim player & a red flag raiser.
And then you realize when she speaks ill of every dude she dates, you see she then throws you under the bus for stuff she overexaggerated or you did not do. This shows wait maybe the guys in the past weren't the problem neither. Eventually, she's the common denominator.
All 4 of her ex's husbands were
" cheaters and crazy " according to her.
What if her exes were actually all that she says? Not asking you to defend them and say it must be her, surely there's a circumstance where it was them and not her. You can't just assume she's lying and leave her or you really are another bad one.
What if your exes eventually hurt you and you confided in her and told her everything? Should she say it must all be you and leave you because of that? Surely not.
@@danstylus1 either she haven't moved on yet or just have a poor decision making when choosing a man.
I wish I had seen this before I got married. She used to lie so unnecessarily, even about small things. Now I'm 18 years without her, divorced and single and much happier. You don't have to be afraid to be alone. Hugs to all, mike
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Get his x back? Are you trying to give him hell? Michael dont lesson to this person trying to set you up. You are better off with out her, She aint worthy of you.
Thanks Mike. Mine I stayed married to for 11 years. She lied about all sorts of things which I brushed off over the years.
She ended having an affair after our two children were born, I took her back and now we are separated.
The fucked up thing is I still miss her. 4 months separated, I have women who are more than interested in me but I’m still in love with my ex. What an idiot I am. 🤷🏽♂️
So glad we live in a time where information like this is widely available. The validation to know that “it’s not just me” feels incredible.
oh my God, totally agree
Hint. Narcissists will do all of these things
Yep. Narc playlist: ruclips.net/p/PLQ8Q-8-X18dkSudIvtlVD37IgqIWXnaMQ
Yup. My experience with a narc has made me a stronger, better version of myself so I am grateful for it. Good work on this video!
What worries me is that the label 'Narcissist' gets thrown around a little too liberally. What is also worrisome is when someone isn't aware that their behavior can be interpreted as Narcissistic - depending on the context. And Finally what worries me the most. If someone concludes and is acknowledging that they are indeed a Narcissist? There is therapies to assist how to behave but like an addict/alcoholic etc. There is no cure for it. You make progress as best you can but eventually they always snap back like a rubber band.
I think this is a little divisive. Not just for the narcissist in question but the person walking away for their own health is more than likely actually can be misconstrued as the same. Hypothetically that is. The first person POV is by definition. Myopic.
@@KingGl00m
It is more obvious to think of this as a gradient from 0-100% and not on/off and thus a misleading percentage...
@@Kenzofeis So a spectrum. Just like autism! 😃
I know what it is you are saying. But my point is how the term is casually used in social media. I am sure there is a percentage who view it as a gradient/spectrum like you said. I just think there are a lot more who don't. And will use that to manipulate.
And you just described mostly why I am still single.
I wish I had seen this 25 years ago. It would have saved so much heartbreak and wasted time. Guys, this advice is pure gold.
People didn't really even know this back then pal.
A man gets the best woman he can afford, and in most cases it’s just not worth it. Because nothing depreciates faster than lust.
Betrayed by lust
Then just say fuck it and let a fatty pay the bills.
"Nothing depreciates faster than lust". Well, hopefully not. Ideally (yeah, the elusive dream) lust will last and be mutual.
Yup
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Too creepy how accurate this all is. Definitely buying you a cup of coffee for this one. Thanks, WingMaam!!!
It’s creepily accurate, because it’s basic common sense stuff...
Nice move david
Freudian slip. These little innuendo give men away for thirst...
So accurate
I am fuck on this😩😱
Recently ended a long relationship that didn’t deserve the longevity, all the signs my ex girlfriend exhumes. Terrible experience in love for me but I definitely appreciate a woman giving us men a deeper insight to women. Bravo Wingmam!!!
The title of this should be “How to spot a narcissist”
Spot on mate!
hahahaha Yea. Kinda this modern Instagram Culture is making women become much more Narcissistic.
Exactly. The smartphone broke all women. It grew the narcissistic flaw in an exponential way in which evolution didn't make us yet capable of handling it and hypergamy went completely wild.
Narcissism is a social accessory to women now.
@P3jtryk Memel0rd Oh IDK, because none of those words are in the title
no backbone: If you stand for nothing, you'll fall for anything.
No you are Paralyzed from the Torso down the legs
@Dick Gozinya don't call someone simp here , its not even fitting to the context and my comment
Sad part I knew most of these before watching but when you “think” your in “love” it all flys over your head .
Word
Yes bro
Limerence is killer!!
She's for the streets bro. I feel ya..
Love is blind
Jealousy is the most important sign. 3:15 /
If she's jealous, she doesn't trust you. If she doesn't trust you, she doesn't love you.
Take care guys. It hurts.
Not true
Thank you for this video!! I can confirm that I'm in a healthy relationship with little to no red flags, and this video made me value my partner much more.
Stay strong guys, you'll find someone
laughing out loud you're asking a man to find a needle in a huge haystack amongst the weeds snakes and traps set out here. The number qualified to marry and stay married is getting slimmer
You are definitely a 2%er
'knock on wood'
Thanks man.
@@timothyallen4975 Well, when you're over 40, yeah.
This list is spot on 100%. Unfortunately, these things come out slowly and usually a few months into the "relationship". I think the most important thing guys need to watch for is "how does she consistently treat you"? Tells the whole story.
And don't rush into anything! Why y'all in such a hurry when you get one you wanna have sex with? Stop that. #standards :))
@@YourWingmam (But I like the cookie!)
AJ..thanks for your work..you are like the cool co-worker that gives great advice
@@YourWingmam Unfortunately I have High Standards, and Low Morals
Like you said, these things come out slowly, by then your invested. Plus , you don't want to be the " bad guy " that leaves when things get bad. But we shouldn't worry, always another beta male orbiter waiting
My ex wasn't argumentative and didn't like conflict, but she never could see the things she was wrong about and she never apologized SINCERELY.
Same here. Clueless to what she did wrong. Completly clueless. And acts like a bull in a China shop thru all relationships
@@michaelsinaloense6449 our ex's must be sisters! Exactly how mine acts to this day, still will not admit to any wrongs always has a justification as to why she acted so horribly in the relationship.
Yep.... I'ma die single. But i think im actually ok with that now 😄👍
You'll be fine either way.
Just enjoy breathing in and out. The rest is purely window dressing.
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PROFOUND WISDOM!
Rest assured, it will be a happy death.
"She never talks about you in her future". Well the last girl I 've dated I wasn't completely trusting her intensions until she fooled me doing exactly the opposite. Future faking is a really dangerous form of manipulation, so guys be careful even if she is doing the opposite.
Future faking and gaslighting FTW! *narc voice
This particular red flag, of your gf talking about her future as though you are not going to be in it is a red flag if the relationship has been going for a while. But it is definitely a red flag if she does this at the very beginning of the relationship.
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once she told me that she want kids with me, once she told me Im the only right one to look at. other times she told me shes super exited about the future but never mentioned me again. was a long distance thing but yea, im done
Narcissist type beat
Listen to these signs. I’ve wasted tons of time trying to win women over when I was swimming against a tsunami all along. Good advice here. Thanks.
make a women an accompaniment to your life not the focus
Same sir. Same
Same 💔
I fell completely in love and have been intoxicated by a woman like this. Although it's been two years since we broke up I can't stop thinking about, and longing for, her.
The truth is that even if we see the red flags it doesn't stop our feelings.
You miss all that nut bustin
So true i can relate but i learned how 2 snap out of it
You're worth more than she can give you. Train in self-love, your brain chemistry will change, as will your desires.
Colossal Hutch - Thanks. I'm getting there. Changed diet, to a Microbiota supporting one, which also helped.
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This described my ex to a T. Now I know that my gut feeling about her was right. Thank you for putting this together. I have so much clarity now.
The Kenny Rogers theory. Know when to Holdem know when to foldem know when to walk away and know when to run.
Very prophetic!!
@@sethheron-vanta1383 One that wants to own me 4 that wanna stone me, one says she's a friend of mine. Or is that 4 that wanna own me 2 that wanna stone me and one says she is going blind?
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Thanks Ill use these tips when im playing poker
I sure miss Kenny Rodgers
Went out with a gal a few years ago, after the date she told me that I was too much like her ex-husband for her to see me again. I said "he must have been a hell of a man, why did you let him get-a-way?" AAAAahahaha, she didn't see the humor
Well said Sir !
When a narcissistic woman first calls her man, a wimp, a wuss is the moment a man walks away, turns his back on her, and never looks back again. She lost respect for you (you lost your cheerleader), and from that moment on she will begin to lie to her man. And I guarantee you, in that moment you walked away from her forever (without saying one word to her), she is going to say to you... "I was only kidding, can't you take a joke?" (that's a solid clue she's a perpetual gaslighter), and you are doing the right thing, self-preservation.
Too bad I didn't meet you and hear this 25 years ago.
Self-preservation and your own needs and wants are key my man! Thank you!
A long time ago , my dad. (When lived) use to tell me " If your woman has a bad relationship with her dad. cut her loose.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
Why didn't I see this years ago. I cant believe how accurate this describes my ex fiance. Spot on!
whenever i had a date, i always gave her a few flowers. If she snickered or acted like wtf, i would excuse myself saying i forgot something in the car. I would drive off and not look back
That's a good idea. Gonna use that. Thanks!
Alpha move
Fine job. Run fast. So few good ones good luck bro.
Hell Yeah, great advice! fellas 2 points!
Like A Boss
Get this: during an argument about finances, my ex once said “I’m tired of working, I wish I could meet a guy that will marry me with enough money so I wouldn’t have to work.” Now, I have enough money, but right then, I realized why she was with me. I just let her slowly realize my money is never going towards her and her fantasies of meeting a guy with money so she can be lazy. I let her fly away like a little bird looking for that man she dreams of.
Yeah, my wife started bugging me to put her on the title for my house. Then I realized, as soon as I did, I was out.
@@timjohnson1199 No ,don't do that .
@ferkemall I already owned the house when she moved in.
you run away
Oops. That accidental moment of honesty was a big mistake on her part.
Well most of all my relationships has been like that!!!..... Trust me I was married 3 times, but now I'm lonely and single and I love it 😻
Saving this and watching every damn week! Wish I would've seen this before my last marriage.
My ex had a lot of these negative trates. Very covert in here actions. Men beware and take notes. I needed to keep to my standards and wouldn't have suffered so many years. Keep bringing the lesson Anna
Live and learn. Have standards and stick to 'em. Don't let a great lay, pretty face or hot body cloud reasonable judgement! :)
Now someone tells me , why my father couldn't have told me. Oh, yes no one told him. You validate your profession Mam : )
Soooo true!
@@YourWingmam i'm 40 and have my own small business, i don't have time for relationships, i've had plenty of women but never friends with benefits, i'm against pumping and dumping also, it doesn't sit well with me because i was a rascal in my late teens early twenties , had my fun and going back to that way of behaving is'nt for me, what should i do?
when you meet some one that's been damaged in there past life it will course problems with you don't take on people with baggage it will finish you off they will take that pain out on you
Agreed 100%
True story! Also true: lots of people who have unresolved childhood or adult trauma are attracted to the damaged ones.
Doh! #cantfixthem
Many men fit that profile too. Check yourself. Everyone gets dinged and dented getting through life.
That was my x wife. She told her all about her nightmare past but I was too stupid to run.
It's a very heady thing to for a young man to rescue a damsel in distress but it's a huge trap, or was in my case.
I'm seeing one who is has quite a few problems and i fear she is becoming too much to handle. She bites.
This girl was spot-on with literally every single point I'm going to come back here at a later date to give actual examples from my actual real relationship that I had
Wow... I'm speechless U seriously named everything about my current relationship WOOOW BIG THANKS IM RUNNING FROM THIS BIH🏃🏽♂️💨👫🏽🏠
You needed a video to make you realize this?
She got a perfect 20/20 on the first test. Guess I'm outta here.
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Literally. Every. Single. Sign. Yep, that is her... No wonder, i'm a total wreck
You’re gonna see those signs very often. As Nispey Hustle said, a man’s worth isn’t determined by the situations he is in but by how he decides to respond to whatever happens to him. This is the time you make or break your worth
Yes I did it for 40 yrs. I have pain and sympathy for my fellow man
Same here man every single sign. I honestly feel foolish. But I was in love.
@@jacksonlitchfield8211 have you recovered since?
@@jacksonlitchfield8211 it's not love, it's trauma bond... work on your trauma bond and you will be fine... Been there done that, but am good now... or much better at least
This is every American female I've ever dated. I wish the internet was invented before I got married. Never get married....ever guys.
If only she is cultured.
@@seanwfindley Amen.
Why say that?
My parents have suprisingly long-lasting good marriage.
I got married and got out easy. Counting my blessings.
So many dating coaches for men. I've learned that woman are the ones that need to fix thier games.
Men are easier to figure out, I don’t see many dating coaches for women.
Thank you
All she says actually goes for men too!
I enjoy watching her videos even though I am a female. .
True that
@@stephanieh5478 I disagree. Sure there are men who pride themselves in spending a girls money but I can guarantee that all the data collecting and remembering what works on the con,etc is too much work. Besides a ma n does not view a female as a resource but rather a funded liability that hopefully becomes a compatible and enjoyable asset ( partner). Also a man's goal is never going to be taking the self esteem and spiritual yearning of their partner just so they "can feel better about themselves. I know exactly what I am saying as I witness and experience without my ego expecting to pity myself but I do point out when a sentence or phrase is being used to paint the male in a lazy, abusive,and insensitive light. Men are indeed waking up in only the past two years but I still see women ignoring that and continue to talk down and gaslight the hard working blue collar men.
"She likes to argue and is never wrong and never apologizes."
I'd say that the "likes to argue" bit is just as bad as someone that "hates to argue." In my experience, it seems like women usually fall into one extreme or the other. They either love arguing and will dive into people, or they loathe arguing and conflict so much that they'll avoid it at any cost and end up bottling up their anger and frustration until they let it out all at once, which is just as bad.
However, the "is never wrong and never apologizes", I have yet to meet a woman who that doesn't apply to. At least, she may admit she's wrong and may apologize to friends or something, but never to a husband.
latt.qcd92 facts
was with a gf for just over 3 yrs back in the early 2000s...her own mother said shes never accepted responsibility for anything shes ever done..nor apologized.her mom was right on the money.
Absolutely right, both are just as bad.. 🎯🎯🎯
Wait a sec. An argument is where both sides are presenting points. Mine would just be yelling with occasional inputs from me that were cut off. I would shut up because when I would talk it would just prolong the agony. She would give up and I would go and spend some Zen time on the motorcycle.
Never apologized to me.
It’s scary how on point this is.
Man this is so true,especially with my last relationship.It’s been over three years now,so I’ve decided to stay on my own and I’m really happy with that.
Having recently broke up from a 6 year relationship. I have been looking at these videos from different bloggers for clarity to make sure I do actually want to be apart from her & why because after time apart with no contact when the dust settles & the fog clears you start having second thoughts & latch on to all the good times or positives or qualities about the other person that you buried during the break up.
Your video definitely touches on aspects or points to note that other videos don't point out & in more depth. So much so that after much thought & consideration looking at the notes I made from your run down, I now know that I am better off being single & without her in my life & I can finally move on. So thank you
I never thought such an empowering video could make me so depressed cause I see all the problems my ex have 🤕😪
After my divorce close to two years ago, my ex wife just about possesed all these traits. I'm glad we went our separarte ways and once again, I feel alive and happier then ever.
This just told me everything about my X. Now I know what was going on. But I refuse to look back on those memories with her. Full speed ahead💙🌀
10. Women can be really sneaky about this one. Example being: Come back from family event and there is a fight about something (not related to family - nothing negative said). Go to family for the weekend and they force you to book Motel as it is less intrusive to your family (Meaning sleeping at family member's house) - This sounds like they are being nice and respectful. How you test it is to say that you really want to stay there and see if she starts to get angry and eventually fight dirty about something (not the family - just something). The key is you are being trained to associate uncomfortable feelings with your family (operant conditioning). After a while she does not have to do a thing as the very thought of being around family feel awkward.
When you have this going on. Plan your exit as this shit gets nasty.
Yeah, always thought my folks were ok until I was "educated" on how awful they are.
The most important point that comes from these observations listed here in this video is that if you listen to your instincts you’ll know if the situation is good or bad and being wise enough to follow your inner guide is a great move.
Once upon a time, I asked a girl to marry me. She said no ! And he lived happily ever after. He rode Harley's, bought a house ,went fishing and hunting. Went overseas on holidays , and he even had money in the bank !
Don't leave out she's tries competing against you when you taught her everything she knows.
Sounds familiar
Dude... real talk!
Numerous women resemble that remark in my life.
@@elijah7525 I taught a girl how to drive stick she was 38 years old She learned she drove good, then she said you did really teach me how to drive stick that good I said to her nobody taught you in 38 years what are you talkin about ..,your driving fine but total criticism ,,plus would SNAP out on you if you planted a flower in her yard oh, she would literally dig it back up and scream like a nut very good-looking well-built nutcase never works out , looks like a fat hog today
Hell yeah man.... you teach em everything they know to succeed and then they act like u had zero to do with her growth and development....sad stuff man... just be alone and keep your energy pure 💯 👌
Yes!!!
my ex-wife fits all the signs you mentioned. And now she's using the kids to milk me and doesn't even want to find a job.
Let this be a lesson to men: get a prine up
@@TC-kq3co you mean a pre-nup? (prenuptial agreement) Yeah unfortunately those don't necessarily hold up in divorce court and oftenly are overturned.
Proof it in the court if you can.
you should hire a P.I. to investigate about her motives cause she just wants your money to spend on on herself instead of feeding the kids so once you have evidence against her she may threaten you with court matters & hope that her actions would backfire on her
If you can’t even have contact with your own kids, just take all your money and leave the US. Take loans, screw yourself here financially not willing to look back (of course), and leave her to mingle and struggle. When your kids are grown they’ll eventually come to you naturally.
the way this video got a tonne of attitudes my ex has was eye opening..... i was feeling and wanting her to come back but oh wow.....now im like nah... WTF 😨......new subscriber here for sure, thank you
What I like the most about your channel is that you give straight to the point short answers... no need to spend 5 minutes on each point like many channels do..... 🙋👍
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Trust me , every girl has atleast one of this .
At least two to three.
Well that why she said one is ok 5 is a problem unless one is your deal breaker
Every girl has all of them.
Funny you call them qualities.
@@RobertoStinkyPants 😂 what you call em
70% checked. Now I feel like a normal person after 6 years of talking to myself most of the time being with her.
#21 - She's unable to form own opinions and totally depends on others to adapt theirs.
*DING DING!!!* Hive mind... "I want what my friends are gonna praise me for"
I remember I read on a FB comment that someone I was seeing let her friends talk her into decisions. No backbone, I bet she was talking about me too, ha.
@@lionelhutz5137 So true. A woman's friends aren't going to praise me. For what? My cool GI Joe collection? I'm basically the man who is expendable when someone of a higher position is available, despite what "I" have to offer.
Wow I wish I had this information 4 months ago. She fit the description on almost every single red flag. Throughout the relationship it didn't feel right at times, I would usually discard what my gut was telling me. I felt like I was overthinking the situation at times.
You described a narc psychopat, I fell for one.. Too much hassle, if even one sign is a check, run.
It's impossible in America.
I could’ve done with this advice years ago, reminded of someone I used to be with.
At least they're in your past! Thanks for watching! :)
My EX wife in a nutshell. During this video I was checking off a checklist in my mind.
She is an ex for a reason.
I have never come across a woman who has not had at least 90% of these traits. Get a dog it's cheaper.
It will always be pleased to see you and a loyal companion 😁👍
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Amen To That Dude. I Could Not Have Put It Better Myself 😁👍
I knew my ex was lying when her lips moved !
@@stevengonyaw1617 Howling. So True 😁😁👍👍👍
Your authenticity is so refreshing.
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Thank you so much for this video.
I broke up last year with a woman who, in some ways, was my perfect match. But there were a lot of things I wasn't seeing and my gut was constantly telling me this is all wrong.
Watching your video, I see now how many (almost 95%) of this stuff was happening. The romantic part of my brain has been screaming at me for a year that I did the wrong thing but now my logical mind is telling me I dodged a HUGE bullet. I didn't see how broken our relationship really was and how poor things were between us.
Thank you.
Just feel like this made me feel better and not to settle for someone that is just always depressed and never cares about how a guy feels. Thanks for the video
I went through this video twice and realised I had 30, yes, 30 red flags in my relationship. I’ve been unhappily married for over 20 years - mainly because I stood by her when she became pregnant with our disabled son, and I’m not that big of an asshole to leave. It’s not been fun.
I salute you!
George Butler Well, I was brought up the old-fashioned way to stand up to my responsibilities. On the plus side, I’ve 2 phenomenal kids in their 20s and herself has mellowed over the years.
Sorry mate. That's rough
I couldn't take it no more, love my kids but I was dodging bullets consistently
@@guacaquio One does what one has to do, and the best they can with that.
This video could also be called 20 signs of a female covert narcissist.
Also, 20 truths about my ex.
Narcissist with borderline are th worst.
@@Maulinator69 🤣🤣🤣
Great video. Wish I saw this sooner, would have left my ex years ago.
Thank you for watching and at least you got out! :)
Great channel Anna, you have really improved over time and are a pro now. Actually talk sense compared to most. Well done. You have also beautified over time too :) Unfortunately (yes, for us both sweetie) I’m in the UK, otherwise I would have been pursuing you. Maybe Canada may be my destiny...
Wow, some really great compliments in there plus some cheeky monkey "assumptive close" material in there ... you've learned well, grasshopper!
(Not saying you learned from me, but you learned it somewhere!)
WingmamTV Everything I said was real and natural but with the odd ‘reminder’ from you Anna, but thank you for your compliments too ;) Yes, I know I made you smile and also I’m smiling while I type. Isn’t that what life is really for? I don’t think I will ever need to be a personal client of yours, but with your talent, skills, charisma and beautiful smile, you won’t have any problems in that department. Keep having fun with it. Best and will keep looking out for you, Don x
Anna was always top notch from the beginning! It's just got slicker.
Tap Fraudis agreed. It is fun flirting with her though, she has a fantastic personality and is incredibly playful, I see her channel going from strength to strength.
Wowww...yeah I was with a girl that actually exhibited every one of those traits. Found my self stuck at home not allowed band practice or even playing guitar in her presence or ANYTHING that wasnt directly about her. Found myself in a state of extreme anxiety when we were physically together. Tried changing everything from my spiritual beliefs to the way I dress even the color socks I wear. Most emotionally damaging relationship I've ever been in by far. She always talked about her exes and even sexual stuff she did with guys and she did it repeatedly and graphically to the point it deeply disturbed me. It's good to hear these things though for future reference. I could never handle that again.
I know the feeling, god bless you and I hope the right one will come along and make up for the BS you've been through. Cheers
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
This is on point , it's the raw ass truth
#5 is MASSIVE one that a lot of men never see coming. Fell in love with a girl who was a people pleaser, a "pick me" girl, I guess it kinda falls in line with the one of her only wanting me because she sees other girls with me and was in fear she would be left out instead of genuinely wanting me for compatibility, shared values, meaningful things... she was very beautiful though so I fell for her & wasted 2 entire whole years of my life in that. .-. god, before you all kick me I was an ignorant young man, okay maybe I still am but not as much anymore, if I had this video at the start of college would've been game over lol I would definitely already be married by now
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
If she goes through romance novels like they were tissues, run run run.
almost every show on tv now is female-centred and is romance novel-esque
Haha, one of my mates years ago, shagged an overweight 30 something lass after a drunken night out. When he woke up, he went downstairs, and she was humming away, cooking him breakfast. He noticed a book sitting on the coffee table in her living room, which was called something like "How to attract and keep a man". He could have bolted at that point, but he did the right thing, he accepted his payment (breakfast) and left afterwards. And he didn't call her back.
She’s a keeper if she uses romance novels as tissues
Definitely like my ex haha XD
@@zalamael
lol
I've watched a lots of your videos and find them really good, but this one already reached 20+ plays and still watching all over again. Thank you
My pleasure ❤️
No matter how Much u give and do.. give the Moon a New place on the sky, move the stars around. She Will allways ask for more.. no matter how god you do.
I feel like the best for me right now is learning a bit of being alone, thanks for the vid.
Foul personality, gold-diggers, narcissist behavior, party girl, drama queen, non-social, and disrespectful in my mind are deal-breakers.
My ex was all of those combined. I could add pathological liar too
This is awesome, where were you when I was getting in the toxic relation.
no shit, right?
If she's a Western woman then 99% chance she has most, if not all of these negative traits. Sad but true!
Big Rocky Dennis Speak on it! Speak on it! If marriage rate has to go to ZERO, speak on it!
Mark Kenny You can’t generalize. I was dating a Greek woman, known for their beauty and sensuality. I got sucked in because I let my, uh, thing between my legs think for me instead of my brain.
Sorry. I married a woman from the Philippines. She had most of these traits too. Not just Western women. Now we are divorcing. It time to give her half.
@@thomaspeterson5693 She must have been a bad one from either Manilla or Angeles City? I had a friend who married a Filipina from there and it was a disaster! He didn't even file for a divorce because luckily he didn't bring her back to the U.S. Instead he just got on a plane and left her there and didn't even look back!
@Mark Kenny I like Brazilian girls but Romanian village girls from the countryside are my favorites. They have that mysterious, ancient beauty and its such a mind trip! Plus the divorce rate in Romania is only 28% when they marry their own. The divorce rate between American men who marry Romanian girls is super low at only 4% compared to 60% when American men marry American women!
My coffee cup just melted over this one 🙏
Lmfao, you just described almost every female.......
I agree.
I agree.
Westernized dingbats,still a lot of good women elsewhere.
@@NoName-tz5ji yep, in Asia.
Not almost. All of them.
You are on point like a sniper with this one. My X had almost every one of these symptoms. Especially when you said "you know your settling" ouuu, I felt that one in my soul!! Thanks for sharing this.
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
You already slapped my ex-lover so hard in the first sign. I immediately clicked like and subscribed after that.
All these things sound just like my ex, she is a Narcissistic Pathological liar, best thing I ever did, walk away fast and go "no contact for ever"
wow you're a genius at this. these are the best facts I've heard
I wish I had seen such a clear and concise list like this back in the Spring/Summer of 2018
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Wow. This is one of the best videos on relationships that I've ever watched. Thanks so much for the insight
My pleasure ❤️
How are you feeling AJ? Nice video. It always surprises me when men put up with those negative behaviors in their gf/wife. F that. Learn to value yourself more. Life is too short to invest time into toxic people. Be well, Tig
The first thing to know about sticking to your standards is knowing what they are. Too many people forget to filter for character and instead just go for chemistry.
p.s. I'm ok (best I've got for now), thanks for asking! :)
Wow, this was amazingly helpful. Thank you!
You are fantastic! I like your delivery & noted humor. A thorough pointed analysis yet easily understood. I seen your posts abt year ago & as usual I hit 78.5% of your warning signs (no she did)..we were together 16yrs her goal from yr 1 ws marriage, but being 20yrs her senior, & a divorcee & had been in 3 long term relationships (43 when we met), her dream was delayed b/c I noted the 78.5% of signs, & the one as to why so long was..sex & us being socialites (her crew was her circles, in the service industry) we had a ball (3 main bars that were akin to Cheers), again, U being right again..plenty of drama..eventually we parted (or she did)...to marry her new love a colleague & much younger woman 23 my x/35.. I stood pat to my awareness of who she is, but maintained a reconnection (I felt bad, but knew it wouldn't work, & didn't believe after 20yrs that we cud work it out (oh marriage lasted 2yrs & she called & I or we, helped each other on our separate transiions & she appeased her many transgressions ( I gave her time b/c she was so young)...now from the begining,... she had been living w/her best friend as they met @ a trade school out of high school & had been on their own since 18, so she ws no spring
chicken. & I was in a major transition, but we hit it off, it was a new experience (she white, me black another interesting dynamic) I ws just over a 7yr relationship w/a married black female (with a consenting husband 🙄) but since I wudt demand a divorce we remained friends to this day. Currently, I'm good wit all three, as I had been totally transparent with all three, also they know their hierarchy,..lastly re the 20yr affair she was the best home keeper, a dedicated worker(independent never went back home), good cook (she learned how to cook greens, & sweet potatoe pie), also I knew at 43 it was my last opportunity to get BJ (I hd 3 older brothers & they all had ther juniors, DJ, LJ & AJ 😔 no BJ..& the married one had two girls & mine, gave me we that family feeling I wanted (my marriage was betrayed on our wedding nite, laying in bed after the wedding & my daughter in her crib, my new wife told me if I wanted to hv sex I had to get some contraceptives b/c she didnt get her tubes tied & she didnt want any kids! Thats another unbelievable story...note: Good doctor...my full story included two instances whereby I almost my life by xwife, & young one.....no joke we wud have a best seller...wow! I may need a session I regressed...way back talk abt TMI..😁😁✌🤗😀ness, to all.
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
You just got a new subscriber !! Good stuff WOW the no backbone one hit me hard
I'm going to break with my girl now thanks
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Easier to do it before getting married, cohabitating, and especially before getting her pregnant. Clean breaks are the best. You BOTH get to wipe the slate.
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So glad to have stumbled across this channel! Such insightful and useful information - really helps to have existing thoughts/worries/feelings confirmed and reaffirmed, by someone so clearly intelligent and unbiased... thanks Wingmam, I'm you're newest biggest fan! :) x
Don't settle when there are red flags but so many do. I did but never stayed long term with any of those women. We have to often check ourselves to make sure we are making better choices and setting ourselves up for big problems. Good advise.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
Wow these outline my relationship. She went from perfect to destroying everything. I guess I am not feeling the affects of the breakup as much since I been with no contact with her for such a long time. Tomorrow got to cancel her cellphone plan. Well it was fun while it lasted.
This just summed up my ex. And I am so glad I walked away when I did.
Spot on and delivered with a pinch of humor!
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I enjoy your videos a lot. I appreciate the work you do, but the interesting thing that enters my mind after hearing your advice is.............
All those red flags you mentioned are valid great information but I don't ever date anyone. I haven't been on a date with a woman in New York City in over 12 years, so I have nobody to ever run away from, and nobody to ever run to.
Glad you enjoyed watching ❤
My worst mistake was letting my friends go when I was with my wife. She manipulated the heck out of our marriage that I ended not talking to my friends, but she could holla like hell to her friends. Anyway, we went out separate ways and I love every bit of it
Dude, same shit here bro.
Same here bro